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- 0:29I Hate Talking: Welcome to episode 59 of I Hate Talking.
- 0:33I Hate Talking: Hi everyone.
- 0:33I Hate Talking: Now we've used these two phrases in a couple of previous episodes de minimis and ad volorum, and we will just give a brief definition for those that may have missed those episodes or you can go back and listen to them.
- 0:48I Hate Talking: But we did not spend any time getting into the etymology of those phrases since they were not the official word or phrase of the episode.
- 0:57I Hate Talking: So that will be our plan for this episode.
- 1:00I Hate Talking: OK, cool.
- 1:01I Hate Talking: So de minimis is a type of rule as it relates to tariff for a certain threshold dollar amount.
- 1:10I Hate Talking: So when we were talking about it, it was $800 of goods that were being imported into the US from China and then add Velorum as a type of tariff as well, where that is a percentage of the goods that is charged as a tax upon the import of those goods.
- 1:32I Hate Talking: OK, wait, say the first one again?
- 1:34I Hate Talking: De minimis.
- 1:36I Hate Talking: Yeah, what's that mean again?
- 1:37I Hate Talking: So it's basically the threshold value.
- 1:40I Hate Talking: So in the real world example, if there was goods that were more than $800 they were subject to tariffs, and if it was less than $800 they were not -- subject to -- tariffs because their value wasn't high enough.
- 1:56I Hate Talking: Correct.
- 1:57I Hate Talking: All right.
- 1:57I Hate Talking: And then the second one, say it again.
- 2:01I Hate Talking: Adorum.
- 2:02I Hate Talking: OK, and what's that?
- 2:03I Hate Talking: And that's instead of a flat tariff, it's basically a percentage fee charged based on the price of the goods.
- 2:13I Hate Talking: And can an item be both tariffs based on its value and its percentage?
- 2:19I Hate Talking: Yes, you could have some import that would be subject to the de minimis rule or the suspension thereof as well as a advorum tariff.
- 2:30I Hate Talking: OK.
- 2:31I Hate Talking: And the adorum tariff, that's kind of like a sliding scale idea.
- 2:35I Hate Talking: Correct.
- 2:36I Hate Talking: So similar to a sales tax where you might pay 10% or something as sales tax, basically advum.
- 2:44I Hate Talking: Similarly, if there is a tariff of 30%, then that percentage would be applied to the price of the goods being imported.
- 2:53I Hate Talking: OK.
- 2:54I Hate Talking: So, starting out with de minimis, it does come from the Latin and it comes from actually a longer phrase, de minimis non lex, which is the law does not concern itself with trifles or the law does not take note of trivial matters.
- 3:15I Hate Talking: So basically, I think we can see in the deminimis rule that if there's a certain Threshold and goods are below that threshold, they are considered trivial.
- 3:27I Hate Talking: OK.
- 3:29I Hate Talking: So literally minimus means smallest or least.
- 3:35I Hate Talking: So again, sort of that aspect of being so small or nonconsequential that it would not even need to be subject to a tariff.
- 3:45I Hate Talking: Right.
- 3:46I Hate Talking: Yeah, when I think I thought something similar when you use the word initially because it sounds like like deminimizing.
- 3:52I Hate Talking: Like if someone deminimizes something, they're saying it's not as important or kind of shrinking it and Importance.
- 4:01I Hate Talking: Yep, so I think that's the right thought there, the concept in terms of there being an import that is so small and it is unimportant that this rule would apply.
- 4:16I Hate Talking: So as I'm thinking about it, in my, even in my example was like, I feel like you're minimizing me in a conversation.
- 4:25I Hate Talking: Right, but initially I thought, I think you're deminimizing me in a conversation, but it's not, right?
- 4:32I Hate Talking: And I'd be saying minimize me.
- 4:34I Hate Talking: Or is it minimize?
- 4:37I Hate Talking: Well, there's probably the same root words in minimize or minimization as the Latin minimus, where it is saying basically you're making something of regular importance or regular size and you're minimizing it and making it smaller and less important.
- 5:00I Hate Talking: But when we're talking about de minimis as it applies to tax law, it's actually probably more of the aspect of just being trivial because it is so small.
- 5:12I Hate Talking: So it's more of the literal Latin phrase, it's small, it's trivial, and therefore is so small that it does not need to be concerned with tariffs.
- 5:24I Hate Talking: Yeah, that makes sense.
- 5:25I Hate Talking: And then add valorum, probably not a surprise that that is also a Latin term and it literally means according to the value, and then that basically is a Latin phrase that we use within a variety of tax law, especially tariffs and things of that nature, but it, as we said, it basically means A percentage of whatever goods are being imported, but it can also mean really anything in terms of any goods or sales that have an imposed tax at a certain rate or percent of value.
- 6:03I Hate Talking: OK.
- 6:04I Hate Talking: So those are our two phrases of the episode and like we said, I already talked a little bit about the definition in some previous episodes, but Either you didn't remember or you haven't listened to the episodes, or you simply forgot because.
- 6:22I Hate Talking: I think we went into a bit of the definition again in this episode, but hopefully it's helpful to our listeners.
- 6:29I Hate Talking: Are you saying that I didn't listen or I forgot?
- 6:33I Hate Talking: Are you speaking to a listener?
- 6:35I Hate Talking: I'm pretty sure both.
- 6:38I Hate Talking: Yeah, I had forgotten.
- 6:42I Hate Talking: Well, did you forget that we were also trying to find out about if the Europeans or really the British specifically.
- 6:53I Hate Talking: would use the word app.
- 6:55I Hate Talking: No, I didn't forget.
- 6:58I Hate Talking: Well I guess I sort of forgot, but I remembered when you told me.
- 7:02I Hate Talking: I remembered it after you said it.
- 7:04I Hate Talking: So yeah, I guess I forgot.
- 7:06I Hate Talking: Yep, so that was in our app, app, app, and reporter episode.
- 7:12I Hate Talking: And I did have the opportunity to question a gentleman that currently resides in France, but he is originally from the UK on this very question, if the word app would be used in a more European English speaking lexicon, or if they would always use the full word application.
- 7:33I Hate Talking: When referring to a phone program or a computer program and.
- 7:39I Hate Talking: Would you care to guess on what his response was?
- 7:42I Hate Talking: I think they're gonna call it an app.
- 7:44I Hate Talking: So he says that in formal conversation, they would always call it an application.
- 7:51I Hate Talking: However, there is in the more modern discussion and modern usage of the word that perhaps the younger generation would be inclined to use the word app as a shortened form of application and that even Quote unquote mothers would know what they meant if they were to use that word app and that they were referring to application.
- 8:20I Hate Talking: So they'd view it as slain, cause I don't think we view it that as like a slain word here, but that would be more trendy word for them.
- 8:30I Hate Talking: Precisely, so.
- 8:32I Hate Talking: Yep, I think that if they wanted to ensure people understood what they were talking about, need to use the word application, but I guess the younger generation app would be.
- 8:44I Hate Talking: Perfectly fine, but yes, as you said, perhaps more of a slang term in the more European English speaking nations.
- 8:52I Hate Talking: That's cool that you got to talk to him about that.
- 8:56I Hate Talking: There's a lot of slain, there probably has always been, right?
- 8:59I Hate Talking: But nowadays, it cracks me up and I get the biggest eye rolls from our children if I use the phrase, and I never use it intentionally.
- 9:09I Hate Talking: I always use it to be goofy, but like, calling them like a sigma and riz and stuff like that.
- 9:17I Hate Talking: And it's so funny cause they're just like pop.
- 9:19I Hate Talking: You're, can't say that word, you're a mom.
- 9:22I Hate Talking: That's what made me think of your friend who was like, even mothers would know that word.
- 9:27I Hate Talking: Yeah, precisely.
- 9:29I Hate Talking: So, I don't think I use some of those, I don't even know what generation, what generation is that Alpha?
- 9:35I Hate Talking: Yeah, I think the teenagers and then I think Alpha is like the younger, so they're kind of tagging along.
- 9:42I Hate Talking: -- Is it X Generation -- X?
- 9:44I Hate Talking: No, Generation X is much older.
- 9:46I Hate Talking: Yes, I don't think I even could hazard a guess on some of those particular words that the alpha generation and perhaps whatever generation is directly adjacent to the alpha generation.
- 10:00I Hate Talking: Would even begin to mean?
- 10:03I Hate Talking: Well then, the question isn't, does a mother know that word, it should be, does the father know the word.
- 10:09I Hate Talking: That is a good question.
- 10:11I Hate Talking: OK, so, As a topic to talk about, I want to hear what your opinions are about.
- 10:20I Hate Talking: When to join something.
- 10:22I Hate Talking: We've talked a lot in the past about when is the time to step back or when it's time to quit something.
- 10:28I Hate Talking: So, when do you think is an appropriate time, if there's a rubric or anything like that, for knowing when to jump into an activity or club or commitment.
- 10:41I Hate Talking: So I don't think I have a predefined rubric per se, but some of the things that we touched on in the last few episodes that you were alluding to in terms of when to quit something or when to step back from something, or perhaps in our discussion on volunteering.
- 11:03I Hate Talking: The derived sense of value or even the real value that you might be able to impart to a particular organization as a volunteer, that at least those two things immediately come to mind.
- 11:18I Hate Talking: Now, maybe that's just because we've been talking about them in the past couple episodes or maybe those are the top things to keep in mind when you are considering.
- 11:28I Hate Talking: Adding to or joining to some additional organization or adding responsibility.
- 11:36I Hate Talking: So one would be just your.
- 11:38I Hate Talking: Or mine, current availability and workload and what is already existing as roles and responsibilities.
- 11:48I Hate Talking: So those things must certainly be considered before you add additional roles and responsibilities through a commitment to some additional work or organization or whatever the case may be.
- 12:01I Hate Talking: And then also the value piece of it, so what you are engaging your time in.
- 12:07I Hate Talking: To some degree must be valuable or impart value to whatever you're doing.
- 12:13I Hate Talking: So those are the two things that come to my mind again, maybe just because we've been talking about it or because those are truly the top two things that one must consider when you are deciding whether you commit to something new or let it pass on by.
- 12:30I Hate Talking: How much social pressure do you think plays a role?
- 12:34I Hate Talking: Yeah, I'd say there's definitely some aspect of social pressure.
- 12:40I Hate Talking: Some of that could be just in general, the cultural norms that we were talking about in our last episode in terms of what is expected of you as just part of society, or that could actually be much more specific in terms of the social influence that maybe your friends and relatives have upon you in terms of what your expected behavior is and things like that, so.
- 13:06I Hate Talking: I do think there is an aspect of that as well, but I think if there is something that is worthwhile, and you have the time and ability to do something that that could be decided upon without any social pressure at all, if it is, like I said, the right thing to do and you have the time and capacity to do such things.
- 13:28I Hate Talking: Do you think it's the type of person or personality that'd be more inclined to join something or commit to something versus another individual?
- 13:40I Hate Talking: Yeah, I certainly think so that perhaps those that have more of an affinity towards people and derive some of their value as a person from helping others will be more inclined to commit to something.
- 13:56I Hate Talking: There's also, you know, again, I think we're talking about this in more of the volunteer sense where you're doing something that perhaps you're not going to get paid for or is going to be something that is above and beyond sort of your normal career, but you can even have the same aspect in a job where maybe you're asked to take on additional responsibilities and perhaps would do that with the intended outcome that you would Be promoted or get additional wages.
- 14:30I Hate Talking: So there can also be that aspect of it as well that maybe would not depend as much on the personality type, that that may be more universally a motivator for certain people to do certain things and commit to them.
- 14:47I Hate Talking: Like it could be situational, you're thinking.
- 14:50I Hate Talking: Yeah, situational or again, sort of what it is that you're committing to?
- 14:57I Hate Talking: Is it a volunteer organization, something within a current job in which you receive wages.
- 15:06I Hate Talking: So, some of those things to be considered, not just the situation itself with the people that are involved or the specifics of the situation, but even just those general categories as well.
- 15:17I Hate Talking: So what about yourself?
- 15:20I Hate Talking: How do you personally consider how you engage in commitments or starting something new?
- 15:25I Hate Talking: So I will start something new very readily.
- 15:30I Hate Talking: I get very excited.
- 15:32I Hate Talking: And we'll commit to something.
- 15:35I Hate Talking: And then halfway through the project, I tend to be like, oh, my, um, energy and my commitment level, uh, start to wane and I start to get frustrated.
- 15:47I Hate Talking: So then that's when I have to look at what kind of commitment it is.
- 15:52I Hate Talking: Is it just like, I wanted to learn to crochet and now it's not as fun as I thought, OK, give that up, or is that I committed to this group to do this activity?
- 16:02I Hate Talking: It's not.
- 16:04I Hate Talking: Fun anymore or it's a lot more work.
- 16:07I Hate Talking: But I gotta follow through.
- 16:09I Hate Talking: Yes, and that's probably even touching on some of the things that we discussed in our starter, sustainer and finisher episode with how we might do things differently when it comes to starting things or perhaps something's already started and you take it over.
- 16:26I Hate Talking: So probably also something to consider as well if you are making a new commitment.
- 16:32I Hate Talking: Yeah, you know, I was talking to someone recently and I shared our relationship story of how we met and All that, and how we decided to get married in less than 2 months of knowing each other.
- 16:47I Hate Talking: And like knowing each other existed, period.
- 16:50I Hate Talking: And they were like, how could you know and be ready to commit?
- 16:55I Hate Talking: I was like, I don't know.
- 16:56I Hate Talking: I just didn't ask that question.
- 16:57I Hate Talking: It was just yes.
- 16:58I Hate Talking: It was like the easiest yes ever.
- 17:00I Hate Talking: So, I feel like that's very easy for me cause I tend to be just a jump in, yes, kind of person, but you're not.
- 17:10I Hate Talking: So how would that kind of situation, like getting engaged in two months or anything like that play a different role?
- 17:19I Hate Talking: Yeah, so I think I will have some of the similar things as you.
- 17:26I Hate Talking: And some of the same outcomes where if I do make the decision to commit to something, it is a relatively easy yes when I come to that conclusion, or it may be a relatively easy no, if that's what I come to the conclusion on, but I will probably do that.
- 17:49I Hate Talking: Decision making over the course of time.
- 17:53I Hate Talking: Where I will reflect and consider and analyze all the different aspects of a particular commitment, but then once I do reach that decision that I'm relatively committed to it and will Continue on that path with a lot of commitment or energy or whatever better word could be used there to describe that.
- 18:23I Hate Talking: Well, good thing we're worried about etymology.
- 18:28I Hate Talking: So then you think that it wouldn't be hard for you to say yes to getting married in 2 months.
- 18:33I Hate Talking: Yes, I don't think it was hard, but I think there's a lot of activity and conversation and personal thought during those two months.
- 18:46I Hate Talking: So it wasn't like day one arrived and then day 60 arrived and nothing happened in between, but there was quite a bit of things in between with considerations being made and thinking of different decisions and outcomes and Things of that that happened in order to perhaps arrive at the decision and to an outsider would look like a fast decision, but.
- 19:13I Hate Talking: Like I said, there was a lot of considerations over that two months that drove that decision.
- 19:19I Hate Talking: OK.
- 19:19I Hate Talking: Because I compare it to, you have a big birthday coming up, not immediately, but in the future.
- 19:26I Hate Talking: And a life goal you've always had is going to Germany.
- 19:30I Hate Talking: And for this big birthday, I said, we need to go.
- 19:35I Hate Talking: Like, I really want to prioritize that.
- 19:37I Hate Talking: And I feel like you're having a hard time committing cause I'm like, we have to put money aside, we have to prioritize this.
- 19:45I Hate Talking: We need to take you there to celebrate your birthday.
- 19:48I Hate Talking: If this is something you've always wanted to do in your life, and you've also always wanted to get married and have kids.
- 19:55I Hate Talking: How is it harder for you to say, yes, I'll put this money aside, and we're going to go on this trip to Germany.
- 20:02I Hate Talking: Versus saying, yes, I will marry this person.
- 20:05I Hate Talking: Well, perhaps it goes back to what we were discussing at the start of the episode is the impact on others and how decisions have an outcome not only for yourself but also for others and that that decision for this particular trip feels a little bit personal and selfish, but as you said, it's something that I have wanted to do for a long time and I guess I still have not reached the conclusion that it will happen.
- 20:39I Hate Talking: So, because you feel guilty that this is something that you've wanted to do, and we're doing it for you, or because you're afraid there's gonna be like another pandemic and we won't get to go to Europe.
- 20:51I Hate Talking: No, more that it would detract from something else where the funds could be used for the kids or just general life costs and things like that.
- 21:03I Hate Talking: So, on this podcast with all our listeners, can you commit to saving the money so we can go?
- 21:10I Hate Talking: No, I cannot because I don't make decisions on the spot.
- 21:14I Hate Talking: So maybe that would be something that you would be able to do, but I'm not comfortable.
- 21:19I Hate Talking: -- So -- in, in 2 months you're ready to commit to that?
- 21:23I Hate Talking: Perhaps or just commit to not doing it because that will be one of the other potential outcomes.
- 21:29I Hate Talking: I can understand saying like, I can't commit 100% because you just don't know what's gonna happen.
- 21:35I Hate Talking: Right?
- 21:37I Hate Talking: Like, we have the real IDs, but that's the whole thing right now, right?
- 21:40I Hate Talking: People can't fly in the states.
- 21:42I Hate Talking: I've been hearing a ton of people talk about it.
- 21:44I Hate Talking: We got them a couple of years ago, but a lot of people didn't get them.
- 21:49I Hate Talking: So I understand things like that come up.
- 21:51I Hate Talking: I don't have a passport anymore.
- 21:52I Hate Talking: It expired.
- 21:53I Hate Talking: We found that out like a month after it expired, and that's frustrating.
- 21:57I Hate Talking: So I understand those sort of things, I have to do that.
- 22:00I Hate Talking: And there could be a pandemic, another one, there could be a war or anything like that, knock on wood.
- 22:07I Hate Talking: But that knock on wood, that doesn't happen.
- 22:10I Hate Talking: But I think that this is a valuable thing that you've always wanted to do, and that we should make it a priority and commit to the best of our ability doing it.
- 22:20I Hate Talking: Yup, so something that I personally can consider and I don't know if I would really worry or add much thought to some of the actual things that would need to happen.
- 22:35I Hate Talking: So if we need to renew passports or get additional IDs or things like that, that, that would be more of a outcome of the decision itself, not necessarily.
- 22:50I Hate Talking: Impacting the decision itself, I guess maybe those are dependent on the category that they are in, if they are trivial or minimus and would not really impact the outcome.
- 23:06I Hate Talking: They would just be things that need to get done versus things that would be non-trivial, where the cost of the trip and things of that nature would drive.
- 23:18I Hate Talking: Parts of the decision making process.
- 23:21I Hate Talking: So, if we have any Germany listening friends out there, and y'all wanna help us out and give us some tips or anything like that, we would love it.
- 23:32I Hate Talking: Well, there you go.
- 23:34I Hate Talking: So, perhaps a little bit of some rehashing of some previous concepts that we've talked about and referred back to in a number of episodes.
- 23:45I Hate Talking: So if you haven't had a chance to listen to any of those episodes, uh, a lot of insight perhaps that could be related to this episode.
- 23:53I Hate Talking: As we've discussed some of the tariff related terminology used in some previous episodes as well as some of the things that one must consider when either quitting something or starting something or diving into a little bit more detail this episode in terms of when to commit to something.
- 24:12I Hate Talking: Mhm.
- 24:13I Hate Talking: Like committing to a big vacation for your big birthday.
- 24:18I Hate Talking: I'm not gonna say what birthday it is, but it's a big one, y'all.
- 24:23I Hate Talking: So from your friends at I hate talking until next time, remember, it is only through talking that we begin the journey to understanding.