Latest / Stuff Mom Never Told You / Monday Mini: Gender Differences in Gambling
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and Samantha. I wont for stuff.
- 0:07Speaker 1: I never told you a prodiction if I heard you,
- 0:18Speaker 1: And welcome to another edition of Monday Mini. Today we
- 0:22Speaker 1: are talking about gambling addiction and gambling disorder, so content
- 0:27Speaker 1: warning for that. This has also been something we need
- 0:31Speaker 1: to come back to as a bigger episode. We've been
- 0:32Speaker 1: meaning to talk about.
- 0:33Speaker 2: This for a while. This is on our list.
- 0:35Speaker 1: This has been on our list. So this is just
- 0:39Speaker 1: a brief overview because I was thinking about it because
- 0:43Speaker 1: we had this huge power ball jackpot here in the US,
- 0:47Speaker 1: which is just about the only time I gamble.
- 0:50Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not gonna lie any can I tell you?
- 0:53Speaker 2: So in this last month, I've spent probably about thirty
- 0:56Speaker 2: dollars in different lottery things and I've won ninety five.
- 1:01Speaker 1: Oh good for you.
- 1:03Speaker 2: So I'm like, do I keep playing? I'm having This
- 1:08Speaker 2: is how people get cooked, isn't it? Isn't it?
- 1:10Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, but that's pretty good. I feel like the
- 1:14Speaker 1: most I mean I did I also played the slots
- 1:17Speaker 1: Like by that, I mean like I'll bet twenty bucks
- 1:20Speaker 1: at most over several days in Vegas.
- 1:22Speaker 2: I'll never spend more than twenty at a time. If
- 1:24Speaker 2: that usually is ten, I cap at ten.
- 1:26Speaker 1: Yeah, that's I I have a cat. That's it's one
- 1:29Speaker 1: time I did win a thousand bucks. It's pretty sweet.
- 1:35Speaker 2: I made a sixty dollars five dollars profit. My partner
- 1:38Speaker 2: keeps laughing at maybe that rhetoric.
- 1:39Speaker 1: I'm like, that's fair, it's fair. And also I pretty
- 1:43Speaker 1: pretty much just paid off my trip with the one
- 1:46Speaker 1: thousand dollars, so it's not I didn't feel like I
- 1:49Speaker 1: actually won that much, even though I did. It was
- 1:51Speaker 1: very useful, but it kind of just went back into
- 1:55Speaker 1: the trip. But anyway, I have recently seen a huge
- 2:00Speaker 1: uptick in ads for things like DraftKings, and I have
- 2:04Speaker 1: to say, we get a lot of ad request for
- 2:06Speaker 1: these types of things.
- 2:07Speaker 2: True.
- 2:08Speaker 1: Also, my mom reminded me that we were moving into
- 2:10Speaker 1: football season. I totally forgot so football, fantasy football, big
- 2:16Speaker 1: vetting time. So yeah, we thought we would do a
- 2:20Speaker 1: quick rundown on gender differences in gambling. Though, yeah, we're
- 2:23Speaker 1: going to have to come back and do a full
- 2:24Speaker 1: episode because it involves a lot more than we're going
- 2:28Speaker 1: to get into today. Oh my goodness. All right, So
- 2:32Speaker 1: the APA defines gambling disorder like this gambling disorder is
- 2:37Speaker 1: categorized as a behavioral addiction characterized by recurrent and persistent
- 2:41Speaker 1: gambling behavior, which produces emotional distress and leads to economic, social,
- 2:45Speaker 1: and legal problems. Problem gambling or compulsive gambling can have
- 2:50Speaker 1: devastating ramifications, from homelessness to financial ruin, to domestic violence
- 2:56Speaker 1: to suicide, and yet for a long time, research has
- 2:59Speaker 1: ignored how this type of gambling might impact women. Public
- 3:03Speaker 1: perceptions have long painted men as the gamblers, and that
- 3:07Speaker 1: is slowly starting to change, and not always for the better,
- 3:11Speaker 1: as in, we're seeing we're getting the full, fuller picture,
- 3:14Speaker 1: and it's not pretty. A twenty thirteen study found that
- 3:19Speaker 1: problem gambling rates had doubled amongst those eighteen to twenty
- 3:23Speaker 1: five in the US, so about seven to eleven percent
- 3:26Speaker 1: of that age range. That same study found that men
- 3:29Speaker 1: were more likely to take risk and get themselves in
- 3:31Speaker 1: hot water when it came to gambling. They also found
- 3:34Speaker 1: it was related to things like substance abuse, masculinity, and machismo.
- 3:38Speaker 1: So it was sort of like, I'm hanging out with
- 3:40Speaker 1: my friends, I want to show that I'm not afraid
- 3:43Speaker 1: of this, and I'm going to bet of note we've
- 3:46Speaker 1: I mean, we've talked about this before. Things like slot
- 3:49Speaker 1: machines are designed to be addictive, like they have done
- 3:54Speaker 1: their science about how it sets off these areas in
- 3:57Speaker 1: your brain. So that's a thing. However, recently the numbers
- 4:03Speaker 1: have shifted are been more studied, probably especially when it
- 4:07Speaker 1: comes to older women and gambling. A recent small study
- 4:11Speaker 1: highlighted childhood abuse, maladaptive coping strategies, family members, So family
- 4:16Speaker 1: members introducing you to gambling, and accessibility to discrete apps
- 4:21Speaker 1: or methods of gambling for the perceived drives or at
- 4:26Speaker 1: least what we're now seeing, because again it wasn't well studied.
- 4:30Speaker 1: Of women and gambling, studies from twenty eighteen indicate that
- 4:34Speaker 1: the starting aged gambling between genders is about the same
- 4:37Speaker 1: and that women are catching up to men when it
- 4:39Speaker 1: comes to gambling percentages. This study recounted a few other
- 4:44Speaker 1: gender differences. Women prefer things like bingo. The bingo is
- 4:47Speaker 1: the only thing that they outpace men in.
- 4:50Speaker 2: Huh, I've never thought of bingo as gambling, but I
- 4:52Speaker 2: guess it is.
- 4:53Speaker 1: Yeah, slot machines. They prefer slot machines, while men prefer
- 4:57Speaker 1: things usually in person. Things like card games are sports betting,
- 5:02Speaker 1: while men see it as a way to win money
- 5:05Speaker 1: or socialize prove their manhood. Generally speaking, all this is
- 5:09Speaker 1: generally speaking, Women use it more often as maladaptive coping
- 5:13Speaker 1: or as a way to distract themselves or make themselves
- 5:15Speaker 1: feel better. Since gambling is stigmatized for women more so
- 5:20Speaker 1: than men at least, it also may keep them from
- 5:23Speaker 1: seeking treatment or even recognizing that they have a problem
- 5:25Speaker 1: at all. When women do seek help, they are less
- 5:29Speaker 1: likely to receive family support than men other than women
- 5:32Speaker 1: in their lives, and some of the quotes from this
- 5:36Speaker 1: study were damning, Like I was flown away by what
- 5:41Speaker 1: some of the participants said, Like some of them were saying,
- 5:45Speaker 1: it's just the truth that women are more responsible for
- 5:48Speaker 1: the home for children and more likely to be blamed,
- 5:51Speaker 1: more shamed than men, and less likely to be supported
- 5:54Speaker 1: by their male partner. So they like one woman was like,
- 5:58Speaker 1: I'm expected to support him in everything if he has
- 6:00Speaker 1: a gambling problem. I had to support him when I
- 6:03Speaker 1: had something, he was not there for me and instead
- 6:06Speaker 1: was angry and ashamed of me. It was really bad.
- 6:12Speaker 1: And it's almost like by when I was reading this study,
- 6:15Speaker 1: it was almost like gambling was so male coded and
- 6:19Speaker 1: caregiving was so female coded that a woman with a
- 6:23Speaker 1: gambling problem is perceived as far worse on multiple scales
- 6:27Speaker 1: because she's letting down her family. Swedish numbers found that
- 6:42Speaker 1: women with compulsive gambling have increased and that they are
- 6:46Speaker 1: less likely to seek help than men. Recent numbers out
- 6:49Speaker 1: of Victoria, Australia indicate that about fifty one percent of
- 6:52Speaker 1: women gamble, compared to fifty six percent of men. A
- 6:56Speaker 1: separate Australian study found that women were also gambling regular early.
- 7:00Speaker 1: About twenty three percent reported gambling once a week. The
- 7:05Speaker 1: UK recently reported about a million women were at risk
- 7:09Speaker 1: for gambling disorder and clearly all of this is underreported
- 7:12Speaker 1: by the way. It's clear that this is stigmatized and
- 7:16Speaker 1: there are a few complications in reporting on this because
- 7:18Speaker 1: a UK another UK study found that when they removed
- 7:22Speaker 1: lotteries like the powerball for instance, No, that's not what
- 7:26Speaker 1: they have, but the percentage of women gamblers have Okay, yeah,
- 7:31Speaker 1: So it's like hard to get down to the nitty
- 7:35Speaker 1: gritty of it of what's going on, but whatever it is,
- 7:39Speaker 1: companies have taken notice. They realized that they were neglecting
- 7:43Speaker 1: this demographic and they have stepped in. They have stepped in.
- 7:49Speaker 1: And one of the ways we're seeing a lack of
- 7:51Speaker 1: regulation does involve the ads, and several of the ads
- 7:54Speaker 1: these days do target women. DraftKings is no joke running
- 7:59Speaker 1: a tailor's themed ad with two women. FanDuel has one
- 8:04Speaker 1: that is outright, like, women are tired of never being
- 8:07Speaker 1: invited to play fantasy football, so if we should play.
- 8:11Speaker 1: Some companies back women's sports and International Women's Day. I
- 8:14Speaker 1: was reading today about how some of them like help
- 8:17Speaker 1: pay for public transit air in here stadiums, like they're
- 8:22Speaker 1: making moves. They're making moves, and several women reported the
- 8:27Speaker 1: ease of social gambling and technology, so they were saying
- 8:30Speaker 1: that now that it's easier and I can kind of
- 8:32Speaker 1: do it in private, that's one of the reasons that
- 8:35Speaker 1: they do it more often. And that they also said
- 8:38Speaker 1: the ads that they consumed as introducing them to gambling
- 8:41Speaker 1: was one of the reasons they got into it. Women
- 8:44Speaker 1: influencers on TikTok or Instagram have also been cited as
- 8:47Speaker 1: promoting gambling easy payment methods, a variety of games, so
- 8:52Speaker 1: there's a huge variety that you can play. A few
- 8:56Speaker 1: Other studies also cited the rise in visibility in women's sports,
- 9:00Speaker 1: which I'm like, yeah, that's We're gonna have to unpack
- 9:05Speaker 1: a lot of that later. Yeah. There's also been recent
- 9:10Speaker 1: reporting on how women in sports are facing increasing abuse
- 9:14Speaker 1: online because of gambling and lost bets. Like several women
- 9:19Speaker 1: in sports have come out and said I'm getting harassed
- 9:23Speaker 1: online and a lot of it is about how someone
- 9:25Speaker 1: lost a bet. Here's a quote from the BBC. Flutter,
- 9:29Speaker 1: the gambling operator which runs Patty Power, said that twenty
- 9:32Speaker 1: four percent of all bets placed through its FANDUL brand
- 9:35Speaker 1: during the twenty twenty four Olympic Games in Paris we're
- 9:38Speaker 1: on women's events, with sixty percent of football bets placed
- 9:41Speaker 1: on women's matches and seventy nine percent of gymnastics bets
- 9:45Speaker 1: on women's events. And people bet on everything, They bet
- 9:49Speaker 1: on everything, and this industry just makes a ton of money.
- 9:54Speaker 1: We're talking billions of dollars. And this is a whole
- 9:59Speaker 1: thing were I said, We're going to have to come
- 10:02Speaker 1: back to it. More research is needed. There were so
- 10:05Speaker 1: many different rabbit holes and thoughts about why this is
- 10:09Speaker 1: happening that just deserve more space than a Monday many
- 10:13Speaker 1: so we shall come back, but in the meantime that's
- 10:18Speaker 1: an overview of what is going on here. Listeners. If
- 10:24Speaker 1: you have any thoughts or any of these rabbit holes
- 10:27Speaker 1: you really want us to cover, please let us know.
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