Latest / Chef's PSA Podcast / Chef Ashish Alfred Reveals Restaurant Reality Ep. 161
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- 0:00Hello chefs, this is Chef's PSA. I'm your host Andre Natera.
- 0:03Today my guest is Chef Ashish Alfred.
- 0:05He's an award-winning chef and restaurateur.
- 0:07He's been the Co host of Bar Rescue as well as been on
- 0:10countless other TV programs. Today we're going to get into
- 0:13the challenges of running restaurants, working in France
- 0:16and a little bit of behind the scenes of being on TV.
- 0:19You'll enjoy this one. Stay tuned.
- 0:34I have I have a question. So Bar Rescue, how real is that?
- 0:38Oh, it's, it's real. It's, it's very real.
- 0:40Almost, you know, John sat me down and told me a story when I
- 0:44first met him, and almost to his detriment.
- 0:47Is that show real? You know, he told me that when
- 0:49he, when the show first started, there was an executive or
- 0:53producer that wanted him to plant like a dirty tampon
- 0:56somewhere and get that on film. And John told the guy to get
- 0:59fucked basically. And they had to fly an executive
- 1:02out from the network. And the network was like,
- 1:04listen, we get it. You want it to be real, but you
- 1:06can't tell the producer to get fucked.
- 1:09He, he, he, he actually prides himself on, on, on the fact that
- 1:14it's real. It is real.
- 1:15They don't stage it. They, I mean, yeah, I mean,
- 1:18obviously you got to sell TV shows.
- 1:19You know, sure, surely there's an entertainment aspect about.
- 1:22If it's, if it's bad, are they going to draw attention to
- 1:24something that's bad? Yeah, of course.
- 1:25You know, 'cause people, you know, are watching for the blood
- 1:28and the guts and the gore and the fungus and the and the mold
- 1:30and the whatever. But it's, it's real.
- 1:32I mean, there's no plants there. It's it, it's, it's real.
- 1:38How? How does it work for the person
- 1:39that's at the bar? Like is, is there immediate
- 1:41friction between between you guys and them when you go in or
- 1:45is it like they're they're welcoming and they're excited to
- 1:47have you, but. I mean, I, I think that they're
- 1:52excited to get their bar made over.
- 1:54Yeah, they're excited to. For the PR for the.
- 1:57PR, the publicity to get that influx of people coming in the
- 1:59door, they're excited for that. When they realize the cost at
- 2:03which it comes, yeah, I think they become a little bit less
- 2:07excited. They, the, the real, the magic
- 2:12of that show and the magic of, of, of Jon Taffer, the reason
- 2:16that he's been able to carry it for as long as he has is it is
- 2:21almost like being a chef. You got to know when to kiss
- 2:23him. You got to know when to shove
- 2:24him and, and to overcut to make it even more difficult.
- 2:29You got to be able to do it when the camera's watching, because
- 2:31if you can't build tension, you got to be able to walk in and
- 2:34identify who your players are. You know, like when you walk
- 2:37into your kitchen, you know, all right, this guy a boss on prep.
- 2:41This guy sucks on prep, but he's going to get me through service
- 2:44when I was 27 tickets deep. This guy's going to pull me
- 2:47through. You know, going in as the host
- 2:51of that show, you've got to be able to figure out who your
- 2:53players are really quick, who's going to give you the most and
- 2:55who's going to give you a Dick. Yeah.
- 2:57How did how did you get hooked up with that show?
- 2:59What's the story? You know, like a lot of things
- 3:02in my life there, there's no, there's no great story.
- 3:07I got a phone call. They asked me if I had any
- 3:11interest. I mean, let's face it, there's
- 3:13probably some CRM sheet, right? Yeah, But I got a phone call.
- 3:17They asked me if I had some interest.
- 3:19They did some interviews, they did some background checks and.
- 3:22And six months later, I was in some armpit of Florida.
- 3:28Yeah, yeah, yeah. Meeting Mr. Taffer and getting
- 3:33involved with this bar, it was a great experience.
- 3:37I learned a. Lot would you do it again?
- 3:42I'm really excited about that kind of concept.
- 3:46I'm really excited about taking my perspective as a chef and as
- 3:52a minority and as a business owner and as somebody who has
- 3:57failed in business as well. And and is, you know, where's
- 4:01that badge pretty proudly take that and apply it.
- 4:05I don't know that I could apply all that going back to if I went
- 4:10back to Bar Rescue. I think that for me, I'd be more
- 4:15interested in like a a chef driven.
- 4:17Yeah, What would that look like? Because I think about like some
- 4:19of the the Top Chef shows, you got Next Level Kitchen, which is
- 4:22entertaining as well. I like that show.
- 4:24I normally don't watch a lot of food TV, but Next Level Chef
- 4:28kind of hooked me in because it's like, what the fuck am I
- 4:29watching? This is pretty great.
- 4:31Top Chef, obviously, I think, I think they've kind of done a
- 4:34great job. Obviously they're still on the
- 4:35air for all these years. Iron Chef, I wish they'd bring
- 4:38it back correctly, you know, just just bring it back
- 4:42correctly. But I also look at what what's
- 4:45on YouTube now and I feel like, you know, we're talking Josh
- 4:48Wiseman earlier. I really like what he's doing.
- 4:50I and I see like the Mr. Beast of Culinary.
- 4:54I see it. Maybe it's going that way, but I
- 4:58don't know. I mean, if you had a magic wand
- 4:59and you were going to say, OK, like, what would be the ideal
- 5:01show that would excite you to to jump in?
- 5:04I'd love to go back into a show that, you know, was a lot like
- 5:08Bar Rescue. It was a little bit more of a
- 5:10culinary focus. I think that'd be really
- 5:12exciting. It it, there is something really
- 5:15satisfying about about getting the hug.
- 5:21You know, the end of the at the end of the episode, the hug.
- 5:23It's real. It's real because for these
- 5:26people that, that go out, that you go out to help.
- 5:28And it's not just you, you know, I, I should say this, the there
- 5:32is a team of people I can just speak for Bar Rescue.
- 5:35I don't know any other show that work morning to night that are
- 5:39on the road the majority of the year away from their families,
- 5:43their friends, their homes. They work so hard on that show.
- 5:47It blows my mind. That being said, I, I would to
- 5:52answer your question, I would love to go back into a show like
- 5:54that because it's super satisfying to connect with
- 5:56people on that level to I mean, as as you're an extra restaurant
- 6:01owner, if somebody came in and threw you a lifeline, right?
- 6:04How grateful would you be if you didn't know any better?
- 6:07You know, to make that connection with people is is
- 6:10really special. And the other show that I'd
- 6:11really like to do is I have, I know a lot about French food.
- 6:17I've been cooking French food and, and you know, you could say
- 6:19European Food for for all of my career, I've never really
- 6:23connected with my roots in India.
- 6:27And I think that there are a lot of amazing things happening with
- 6:30Indian food across this country. And I think that if I could
- 6:33apply what I know about Western cuisine to some of my Indian
- 6:37roots, and if I could, if I could build a show and in a
- 6:41dream world, I'd be on a motorcycle riding around India
- 6:43learning about Indian food and finding a way to pair that with
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- 7:27first order. Do you go to India often?
- 7:29I've been once or twice every couple years.
- 7:32I speak the language fluently. It's a beautiful country.
- 7:36I think highly misunderstood. I think even at a very, very
- 7:44high level, you know, you have like Gymkhana in London, you
- 7:48have Damaca, you have amazing Indian restaurants that really
- 7:52get it right. But I don't know that they have
- 7:57a they have the right voice behind them to really kind of
- 7:59change people's perception and the conversation around Indian
- 8:02food. What do you mean?
- 8:04So like, you know, they're, I mean, how many times have you
- 8:09asked somebody you like Indian food and the first thing it
- 8:11says, no, I hate Curry. That's actually never happened.
- 8:14Everyone loves Curry. Well I'm just getting happy.
- 8:19I get your point. It's happened to me a lot.
- 8:20You know, people, people mistake it from being very, it is a very
- 8:25strong flavor profile, people explain.
- 8:27Expect it to be overly spicy, overly greasy brown food on
- 8:31brown sauce. And, and that's just not the
- 8:34case. It's a, it's a, it's a country
- 8:35of vibrant color and it's a cuisine of vibrant color and,
- 8:38and different tastes, you know, pickling of mangoes, pickling of
- 8:41lemons. And I, and I think that if, if,
- 8:45if all that nuance was brought together with a maybe a lighter
- 8:48touch and, and, and somebody that sounds like me, yeah, I, I
- 8:53think it could help break down some barriers.
- 8:54So you you bring up an interesting point because I
- 8:58don't, I don't think anyone's told the story.
- 9:00Well, at least now that that comes to mind immediately of
- 9:02Indian food in the United States, no one's told the story.
- 9:04Not that no one's made great Indian food, but no one's told
- 9:06the story. Yeah, I'm trying to think.
- 9:09I mean, Floyd Cardos maybe. I don't know.
- 9:12Did he did he tell the story? Well then, he's a legend.
- 9:15I mean, he was before definitely Legend, but he was before I
- 9:19think really social media had really taken off.
- 9:21Yeah. So I think that did he have the
- 9:24ability to tell the story 100%? Did he have the opportunity?
- 9:27Maybe not. Right.
- 9:28He didn't have the platform. Yeah, yeah, yeah, No, that's a
- 9:30fairpoint. Again, talking about social
- 9:35media and talking about the platform and talking about TV
- 9:38and you've been on TV and obviously you're successful on
- 9:41social media as well. How important is it?
- 9:44So like a lot of what we do on chefs is like we're giving
- 9:47advice to younger cooks and chefs.
- 9:48So it's people that are listening, like what advice are
- 9:50you giving them? Like if they want to go to the
- 9:52TV route or if they want to go to the social media route?
- 9:54Or is there like, hey, no, you need to ignore both those.
- 9:56This is what you need to do. And, and I understand that
- 9:59cooking is probably like learn how to cook first.
- 10:01Let's assume they got that. I mean, assuming you know how to
- 10:04cook, right? What's your angle?
- 10:08Why should you be on TV and not the other million guys that are
- 10:12trying to get on TV every time they take their phone and prop
- 10:15it up while they're chopping onions?
- 10:17What's your perspective? What's your, what's your story?
- 10:20What's your voice? What do you what do you have to
- 10:21say that somebody else isn't already saying?
- 10:24There is so much competition to be on that screen, whether it's
- 10:30a screen on your phone, whether it's a screen on your couch, you
- 10:32know, in front of your couch. You, you're competing with the
- 10:35streamers, YouTube, TikTok, it is massive.
- 10:40And they are all fighting for the same ad dollars.
- 10:44You know, everybody, every, you know, you hear when you're in
- 10:50kind of the circles, the television circles, right?
- 10:52You say, well, this place will only uses the same talent all
- 10:55the time. This place only uses the same
- 10:56talent all the time. A lot of people are just scared
- 10:58to change what's working. So my advice would be work out
- 11:06what your angle is. What do you bring to the table?
- 11:08I mean, if you're, if you're, if you're making, you know,
- 11:10spaghetti carbonara, cool type spaghetti carbonara on Instagram
- 11:13right now, there's going to be 50 fucking videos and then 50
- 11:17videos off of those videos. So I mean, figure out what your,
- 11:20what your perspective and what your voice is.
- 11:22And you don't have to have one. There's nothing wrong with
- 11:26having a great restaurant. There's nothing wrong with, even
- 11:29if it's not your restaurant, running a great kitchen and
- 11:31cooking great food and being a great chef and not making it to
- 11:35the. There's nothing wrong with that,
- 11:36but. But don't you think like in
- 11:37today's restaurant world, you have to have some social media
- 11:40presence as a restaurant just to people know you exist?
- 11:43Social media, ghosts. Social media, yes, I agree.
- 11:45Social media, yes, you have to play the game.
- 11:47Yeah, It's just what we do. And and my advice to restaurant
- 11:51owners, you know, I do a little consulting when they say, well,
- 11:54you know, our chef doesn't like to do this, and our chef doesn't
- 11:56like to do that. Hire a new chef.
- 11:57Yeah, he's a fucking ghost. Sorry, hire a new chef even if
- 12:01he doesn't want to be on camera. Cool man, don't be on camera but
- 12:04but play, you know, you got to play ball.
- 12:07It's just part of the game. I tell people I've used this
- 12:10example before. It's like, let's say you have
- 12:12$5,000,000 and you're you're going to build a restaurant and
- 12:16you need to hire a chef and one chef, great resume, no social
- 12:20media presence. The other chef may be OK, 10
- 12:22million followers who you're going to hireright, You're going
- 12:25to hire the one with 10 million followers.
- 12:26Even though he might not be the most talented chef, it's because
- 12:30we're in that attention economy. He's going to post something.
- 12:32He's going to have a line out the door.
- 12:33I got to be careful about saying what I'm going to say next
- 12:36because I don't want to get anyone in trouble that told me
- 12:38this. So I might change up the details
- 12:40a little bit. But I have a friend that helps
- 12:45book dinners and he's talking a list chefs and a list content
- 12:52creators. He says sometimes they have to
- 12:54give away tickets to the A list chefs events, but they sell out
- 12:58within minutes for the content creators.
- 13:00And it, it's kind of mind blowing because, well, one, for
- 13:04me, it says something that the content creator, one, they
- 13:08understand the market like people kind of not content
- 13:10creators sometimes. And I think like, be careful
- 13:12because they're fucking winning. Fancy chef is beating everybody,
- 13:15right? But what they're doing is
- 13:17they're usually cooking to what people want to eat because
- 13:20they're not thinking like a chef.
- 13:20They're thinking like, I need to make a great fucking hamburger
- 13:23100%. And that's why people are
- 13:25showing up. And then chefs are thinking, not
- 13:27all chefs, but a lot of chefs are thinking, well, I want to
- 13:29blow you away with this fucking broken white sauce of green oil
- 13:32and this fermented this, that and the other.
- 13:33And I want to impress my chefs. You're great.
- 13:36You impressed a bunch of chefs that don't go to your
- 13:38restaurant. Yep.
- 13:39And I think that's why, you know, back to my friend's point,
- 13:42I think that's why a lot of the content creators are selling out
- 13:44their dinners 100% and their cookbooks are selling out and
- 13:47and these award-winning chefs are struggling. 150% you could
- 13:51not be more right. There's guys that I know today
- 13:54and I'm not going to name any names.
- 13:56These guys are good friends of mine and they'll look me in the
- 13:58face and they'll be they they know the you'll cook me on the
- 14:01table any day of the week. But I'm cooking fried chicken
- 14:03with like whiskey BBQ sauce and like drizzling it all over from
- 14:075 feet high. Yeah.
- 14:08People want what they want. Yeah.
- 14:10And and that's not by any means me saying you got to sell out,
- 14:13but you got to find a little balance.
- 14:15Yeah, you got to read the room a little bit.
- 14:16You know I I for a long time I ran a aligo in my restaurant.
- 14:23Inconvenient pain in the ass middle of the summer.
- 14:28But is mashed potatoes a fucking cheese?
- 14:30We're going to get to the cheese, though.
- 14:31Hold on before you tell the whole story.
- 14:33What was the method for the cheese?
- 14:34Would you freeze it? Would you grate it?
- 14:36How did you get the cheese in there?
- 14:37It it we, we just threw it in Almanu.
- 14:40Yeah, yeah. We added little cheese, little
- 14:41almond. We did it right.
- 14:42Copper pan on the flat top. Yeah, Yeah, we did it right.
- 14:45Just Oh yeah. Stretch it, yeah.
- 14:48That's nice. Yeah.
- 14:49And then, of course, yelling from the line, yelling from I'll
- 14:51go in the window because as soon as it goes cold, you know, it's
- 14:54not stretching. But it's one of those things
- 14:55that, you know, was it my favorite thing in the world to
- 14:59do? Did the cooks like it?
- 15:00No, nobody liked it. Yeah.
- 15:01But it, you know, it brought people in the door.
- 15:03The the burger that I that was like best burger, whatever,
- 15:07whatever. I I could not stomach the idea
- 15:11of putting a burger on my menu. I was like, I don't think that
- 15:13we need a burger. I don't think that we need a
- 15:14burger now everywhere I go yeah, that I consult for you guys need
- 15:18a burger on the menu, right. You need a burger or fries.
- 15:20Fucking chefs. The chefs there, they're like,
- 15:21why? Why chef?
- 15:22Why? I thought you were one of us.
- 15:23Yeah. How dare you tell us to put a
- 15:24fucking burger on the menu, right?
- 15:25Because it sells, motherfucker, right?
- 15:27Right, exactly because it's going to be your number one
- 15:29fucking seller. 100% right, Right 100.
- 15:31Percent yeah, it's funny. Back to the alley go.
- 15:33We used to freeze our our curds and then and then blitz them and
- 15:36throw them in. That was that was our trick that
- 15:38that seemed to work. We used to do great, agree year,
- 15:42yeah, which is not typical, but it's really hard to get.
- 15:46What's the actual cheese that's supposed to go there?
- 15:48I don't know, I used great agree.
- 15:50We used great agree year and then we would to give it a
- 15:53little acidity we just add in a tablespoon of cream fresh on the
- 15:55end. Yeah, there you go.
- 15:57And it was great. Yeah, yeah, in fact and then?
- 15:59Of course I made it on TikTok. Yeah, I made it on TikTok.
- 16:03I like used the whole potato for my boy Danny Grubbs.
- 16:05I made it on TikTok. And then of course, all the
- 16:07Frenchies were in there. That's not real.
- 16:09You know how they go. You used.
- 16:10You didn't use the right to get fucked.
- 16:11Yeah, yeah, it's OK. Then they'll call it aligo.
- 16:13Yeah, yeah. These are just cheese potatoes.
- 16:15Then how about that Fuck you. Fuck.
- 16:17People get so particular about about the the right way to make
- 16:20everything. It's like, you know what the
- 16:21right way is? The way I'm fucking like, are
- 16:23they happy? Like who cares?
- 16:24You said something and it sang to me.
- 16:26You were like, I don't respond to the negative Nancy's like I
- 16:30don't respond. Like if you've got something
- 16:31shitty to say, you've got something stupid to say.
- 16:32I don't respond. I couldn't agree with you more.
- 16:34I I don't reward bad behavior with my attention, and I don't
- 16:37argue with idiots. Yeah, I.
- 16:38Couldn't. Agree with you more.
- 16:39Yeah, like if you're an idiot, I'm.
- 16:40I'm not gonna fucking respond. My mother, who you'll probably
- 16:43hear me quote more than once, but she, she gives good advice
- 16:46and, and most of the time she gives good advice and she always
- 16:49says, you know, if you're walking past somebody's yard,
- 16:51their dogs bark and are you gonna bark back?
- 16:52Yeah, that's a great. That's a great one.
- 16:57Don't bore back. Don't bore back.
- 16:59Yeah. Fuck that dog.
- 17:02How dare you disrespect me. You don't.
- 17:05You know, I'm going to get off on a food tangent, but I'll tell
- 17:08you, you know what I really like about you.
- 17:10Like I I, we have a lot more in common than I think, as we're
- 17:14discovering, right. But one of the things that we
- 17:17really have in common is I cook just like you.
- 17:21Like I, I watch, I watch the way you cook and I'm like, that's
- 17:24that's how I cook, but that's also how I eat.
- 17:26That's what I wanted. Like if you give me a blank
- 17:28slate and just open up a restaurant, like I'm just going
- 17:29to cook like that, it's going to be fucking aligo.
- 17:32It's going to be a proper roasted chicken.
- 17:34It's not going to be two crates and be some Arju Baragol.
- 17:36It's going to be like make it taste good first.
- 17:39I can't tell you how good that is to hear because as a chef, I
- 17:42think we get, we feel like we're on an island.
- 17:44Yeah. You know, And I think that a lot
- 17:46of us struggle with that imposter syndrome.
- 17:47The ones of us that are good, I think we always wonder if we
- 17:50could have done it differently, could have done it better, if
- 17:51anybody really likes it. So to hear that come from you,
- 17:53somebody who else would respect very much, that means a lot to
- 17:56us. So thank you.
- 17:56Thank you. You know, it's like I had my, my
- 17:59mark up here white moment where it's like, am I?
- 18:02Who am I cooking for? Yeah.
- 18:04Right. Who am I cooking for like I I
- 18:05like making pretty food, don't get me wrong, but it feels like
- 18:10it's lip filler and it's BBL and it's pretty food is implants.
- 18:14You know what I mean? It's it's it's cosmetic surgery.
- 18:17But a beautiful roasted chicken is like fact.
- 18:20Like, I want to marry that. Yeah.
- 18:21You know, that's what I want to marry.
- 18:23I want to marry the roasted chicken.
- 18:25I want to eat something good. And I want to say I want to eat
- 18:27it again forever. Yes.
- 18:29Right. I don't want to say I tried it.
- 18:30Great. It was weird.
- 18:31It was cool. I got to see this.
- 18:33I could mark that off the list. Yeah.
- 18:35One and done. I think the best restaurants
- 18:37marry the two. That's my opinion.
- 18:39Yeah. Yeah, I ate at Likukuf in New
- 18:43York City last week. I was there.
- 18:46I saw your your story, it looked crazy good.
- 18:50It was so good and so you would think walking in there was going
- 18:55to be really stiff and whatever man, it was just the right
- 19:00amount of judge on the plate. So bone warmingly satisfying.
- 19:08I mean, they just got it right. There's nothing.
- 19:11This is a little bit off topic, but I tell people all the time,
- 19:13if you want a really great meal, go somewhere that does not have
- 19:17a Michelin star, but they're about to get one or go somewhere
- 19:21that's got 2 because they got 2. They're fucking trying for
- 19:24three. Or go somewhere it's got one
- 19:26because they got one. They're probably moving to two.
- 19:29And and I think like Cuckoo does not have one yet, but they're
- 19:32they're trying to get there. And that experience was a
- 19:35singular one that will stand out in my mind.
- 19:37Did you have a sweet bread dish? I did not.
- 19:40You did not. I do like sweetbreads, yeah, but
- 19:42I did not. No, I thought.
- 19:43I thought maybe I solved one on your story.
- 19:45No, I saw a sweetbread dish recently.
- 19:46It was a Pike mousse. Was it?
- 19:48Yeah. It was like a Canel de Brochet.
- 19:50Yeah, yeah, it was super good. That's great, Yeah.
- 19:53And again to the point, Canel de Brochet and then the Pablo Cus 1
- 19:58writes like white on white on white with some caviar and.
- 20:02I did that Danny Grubbs video, the first one that I ever did.
- 20:05He brings me, he brings me McDonald's says make my
- 20:08McDonald's gourmet. So I took filet of fish, added
- 20:11some scalps, made a mousse past it.
- 20:14But that I mean, that's like rooted in so much tradition, you
- 20:19know, it's so much skill and technique, you know, and I and I
- 20:23caught myself going back to the guys that I had worked for and
- 20:25going back to school where I'm like putting the robocool in the
- 20:27freezer. I'm putting ice in the Robocool
- 20:29before I make the mousse. And.
- 20:32And when you do stuff like that, you got to wonder, Man does who
- 20:35does when does this die? Yeah, because I can never put
- 20:37that on my menu. It's close.
- 20:39Someone messaged me today. They sent me a clip from a
- 20:43podcast where they were talking. I don't, unfortunately, I don't
- 20:45remember who the chef was that was talking, but he was talking
- 20:49about how a lot of times like cooks are so focused on tasting
- 20:53many. They're like, they're really
- 20:54good at the three or four things that they do.
- 20:56They don't know how to cook. They, they don't know how to
- 20:58have multiple pans on and, and I, I think about that.
- 21:02And so the person that messaged me, she said, you know, why do
- 21:04you think that is and how do you solve it?
- 21:05I said, well, I, I'll tell you what I think.
- 21:07I think it's because of the incentive structure, the
- 21:10incentive structure for a restaurant and the incentive
- 21:12structure for attention. So the incentive structure for
- 21:15attention is I make pretty food with flowers and a sturtiums and
- 21:18broken oils. I'm going to get a lot of likes
- 21:21vanity metrics. So I will make more of that
- 21:23because it grabs attention visually.
- 21:25On the other side, the restaurant says, well, I want
- 21:27awards, I want a best new, I want a Michelin or James,
- 21:31whatever. So what do those restaurants
- 21:34have in common? This kind of food plus maybe
- 21:37tasting menu. I'll do more of that.
- 21:39And so we start working towards the incentive structure, whether
- 21:42that's social media metrics or, you know, vanity metrics or if
- 21:46that's, you know, awards or whatever.
- 21:49And somewhere along the lines, we forgot how to cook.
- 21:52We forgot that it needs to taste good.
- 21:53And I get it, by the way. I get it.
- 21:56You'd want to grow your Instagram account.
- 21:57You want to have awards because it fills up your restaurant.
- 22:00But at the end of the day, like, how do you how do you not make
- 22:05it just about that and still bring it back to the food?
- 22:07I don't have the answer. It's just something I think of.
- 22:08Sure. Yeah.
- 22:10I mean, I don't think, not that you asked me a question, but I,
- 22:13I, I, there's nothing wrong with either, right?
- 22:16If that's what you want to do, then that's what you want to do.
- 22:18I think where, where my ass gets chapped is when I walk into a
- 22:22place that clearly doesn't have the personnel, the space, the
- 22:26equipment, the, the setup, we'll say to do the nasturtium and
- 22:33the, you know, the, the, the broken white sauce, the what?
- 22:37They don't have it, but they want to do it, right.
- 22:40And, and that's a big piece of advice that I give to young
- 22:42chefs. Go work in different places.
- 22:46Shut up, make the money you need to make to just pay your bills,
- 22:51whatever. Go work in a bunch of different
- 22:54places. You can get those experiences so
- 22:55that when you end up in the driver's seat, you have a very
- 22:58clear understanding of what not only you are capable of, but
- 23:01what you as a team are capable of.
- 23:04My rise and fall happened mainly because I thought I just
- 23:09expected everybody to be on the same page.
- 23:13And while my business was small enough for me to pull everybody
- 23:18onto the same page. Not saying anybody's worse than
- 23:19me or they didn't work hard or they didn't care.
- 23:21But at some point, if, if your vision's kool-aid right, at some
- 23:28point that kool-aid starts to get diluted a little bit when
- 23:30there's not as much of you to go around.
- 23:33And I truly undervalued, which I will never do again because I
- 23:37lost a lot of confidence. I undervalued the value of my
- 23:41presence in my buildings. What?
- 23:45Do you mean? You'd mentioned Marco Pierre
- 23:49White earlier. Yeah, He speaks on it pretty
- 23:53candidly. He told Michelin to take their
- 23:56stars back because he said I think that if, if, if I have the
- 24:00stars or if the restaurant's going to bear my name or
- 24:02whatever, I have an obligation to my clients to be in that
- 24:06restaurant. I can tell you unequivocally
- 24:10when I had just one or two or maybe even up to three places,
- 24:14my stores ran beautifully because I could be there a lot
- 24:18more. Once it got past two, if I'm
- 24:19being even more honest, once it got past two, it started to get
- 24:23away from me, right. I'm not saying that there's
- 24:27anything wrong with if you don't need to be in your business
- 24:31everyday and it runs fine, great.
- 24:33But what I wanted from my restaurants was I wanted the
- 24:37Pike mousse, I wanted the perfectly seared scallop.
- 24:41I wanted the, you know, French onion soup with the coffee, you
- 24:47know, And I assumed that everybody cared as much as I
- 24:57cared. And it's not wrong that they
- 24:59didn't. They didn't stand to benefit in
- 25:01the same way that I did. They weren't ending up on the
- 25:04front of a magazine. They weren't getting that kind
- 25:06of money. They weren't being offered TV
- 25:08deals. They cared because we had a
- 25:13relationship. As there was less and less of me
- 25:16being seen, that relationship is now starting to dilute.
- 25:25And I think there's people, they say people don't leave jobs,
- 25:32they leave bad supervisors. I think that as I started to
- 25:36dilute myself, I had started to lose a lot of confidence because
- 25:40I wasn't in control. And as chefs, what do we die
- 25:42for? We die to be in control.
- 25:44And as I started to spread myself, I think that maybe I
- 25:47didn't my, my dreams are bigger than my bandwidth.
- 25:52I think I said this to you before and everybody just wasn't
- 25:55on the same page. And that doesn't make them bad
- 25:56people. That doesn't mean that they did
- 25:58anything wrong. I was so stressed and so
- 26:00insecure because I knew I was barely holding it together.
- 26:03I was a different person than the person these guys set out to
- 26:06work for. Did you have anyone at that time
- 26:09with you like you know your ride or die while you're going
- 26:12through all of this? I did, but I, I, I think I made
- 26:22the mistake of pushing them away because when there's that much
- 26:28attention on you and you know the real story, you know that
- 26:33like, man, I'm, I'm working, I'm working 16 hours a day just to
- 26:37hold this together. I'm not cooking because I'm
- 26:40running from the bank to the lawyer's office to make sure
- 26:43that I can pay the insurance company to, to making sure that
- 26:46I got enough cash in the bank for payroll.
- 26:50I know on the inside, I'm not the person that this person set
- 26:54out to work with or work for. Now, I had people who cared
- 26:58about me desperately who hated to see what was happening, but
- 27:01what could they do? So for me, you know, you get to
- 27:06a place where I'll just talk by myself.
- 27:10I got to a place where it was like it was me versus everybody.
- 27:15Instead of letting my foot off the gas a little bit and being
- 27:18like, OK, let me embrace what these people are here to do.
- 27:22Let them let free them to make mistakes.
- 27:25Let them do the best that they know how to do.
- 27:30But I mean, you learn a lot. You learn a lot more through
- 27:32failure than you through through through success.
- 27:35Completely agree. I think back to a moment when I
- 27:39was partner in this restaurant and I had one of my sous chefs
- 27:44and she came up to me one day and she's like, Oh my God, my
- 27:47mom saw you in the paper. I was like, oh, yeah, cool.
- 27:49I was like, I didn't even realize that.
- 27:51And she put it up. She put it up like on our
- 27:53bulletin board, right? And and she's like, why didn't
- 27:56you tell us? I was like, I don't know, like
- 27:58I'm in the fucking paper every other day.
- 28:00Like, I don't care. It's just, it's another
- 28:02interview. It's another TV show that I got
- 28:04to go cook. And I'll never forget how she
- 28:07made me feel with what she said next.
- 28:10She said, but that's the problem.
- 28:11She says, we care because we work for you.
- 28:14We're proud of it. And the fact that you don't
- 28:16care, how does that, how do you think that makes us feel?
- 28:19And I remember at like a like, it fucking hit me.
- 28:21I was like, damn, she's right. And I think the, the, the lesson
- 28:24there is if you're going to be the guy, yeah, you got to be the
- 28:27fucking guy. Yeah.
- 28:29And, and for me, I had stopped being the guy because I felt so
- 28:34defeated. I stopped being the guy.
- 28:37And, and I shouldn't say yeah, I stopped being the guy.
- 28:40I, I was, I wasn't this vibrant, energetic, dependable, even
- 28:46person that that that these people could really rely on
- 28:50because I had done too much. I let my ego get too big.
- 28:52And I just assumed that I could handle this and handle this and
- 28:54handle this and handle that. And then the reality of, hey,
- 28:57the walk in went down here and you have payroll this week and
- 29:01you have this other brand new restaurant that's talking about
- 29:0430% less business than it should be doing.
- 29:06And you know, you have a labor case at this other one that you
- 29:10got to get handled. I mean, I, I think when all of
- 29:13that came down on me, the reality of all that coming down
- 29:17on me, it just, it, it really affected how I showed up to that
- 29:21staff, to those people. When do you decide it's time to
- 29:25make a change? Like when, when you come to that
- 29:27decision that it's time to make a change and how difficult is it
- 29:30when, how difficult is it to then act upon that decision?
- 29:38I realized that if I was going to keep going that I would.
- 29:44I would be running that business as a shadow of how I intended
- 29:48it. I always prided myself on paying
- 29:51people the best salary that I could pay them, treating people
- 29:55that as well as I could possibly treat them.
- 29:58I ran. I ran that business because I
- 30:01wanted to be a phenomenal employer.
- 30:06When I felt those things going by the wayside, the the
- 30:10principles on which I had started, whether it was the
- 30:13food, the service, when I felt all that going away and I
- 30:17started feeling like the restaurants were becoming less
- 30:20and less and less and less of a place that I was really proud to
- 30:24be inside of, then I was like, all right, right.
- 30:27Now I've got a reputation. I've I've I've I've people know
- 30:31I can cook. The restaurants are generally
- 30:34full. Now is a good time to, like, do
- 30:37it. Seinfeld did.
- 30:37Drop the mic. Fuck off, find my next thing.
- 30:40Yeah, how how difficult is it is first of all, what people don't
- 30:44realize because everyone wants to open up a restaurant.
- 30:47You talk to any I want to open up a restaurant.
- 30:49Like do you, you say you do, Do you really?
- 30:51But anyway, no one ever talks about about closing a
- 30:54restaurant, how difficult that is.
- 30:57I know when we closed, I mean, I, and so I've closed
- 31:01restaurants, but I've also closed a hotel during COVID and
- 31:04that was also extremely difficult.
- 31:07And I'm not just talking about like the, the emotions that go
- 31:09into closing something down, but like all the food is still
- 31:14there. People are starting to steal
- 31:15shit. The TV's are, you know, the,
- 31:18the, the disgruntled busboy is like trying to take the TV off
- 31:21the wall because you're not going to pay me, right.
- 31:23So there's a, it does get kind of ugly.
- 31:26And so there is a certain, there needs to be certain measures in
- 31:33place when you're closing down a restaurant because there's a,
- 31:35there's AI, hate to say there's a right way and a wrong way to
- 31:37do it, but where am I going with this?
- 31:45Do you tell people or do you not tell people?
- 31:46Is that what you mean? I mean, yeah, I mean that
- 31:49that's, that's a very, that's a very, that's a very
- 31:52controversial thing to talk about is do you tell people or
- 31:54do you don't? And you don't have to answer
- 31:55that. No, you tell people.
- 31:56You do tell them. When do you tell them though?
- 31:57You tell people. What do you tell them when you
- 32:00when you make the decision? Or do you tell them when it's
- 32:03already in motion? I did what I thought was best.
- 32:05I let people know, if I'm not mistaken, I think for the most
- 32:09part, we let everybody know about a week out, wherever it
- 32:11was possible, wherever. I really had control over the
- 32:13situation. But the truth of the matter was,
- 32:15I think people saw the writing on the wall.
- 32:16I mean, we were bouncing checks. I mean, I was towards the end, I
- 32:20was running to Restaurant Depot twice a week because I couldn't
- 32:22order from purveyors, you know, people.
- 32:27And this is the first time I have spoken about this since it
- 32:29happened. So I'm, I'm going to be really
- 32:31painfully honest and I think there anybody who's been in the
- 32:34restaurant business in this country or in any country know
- 32:36what that looks like when you close a restaurant, chances are
- 32:43you're on 30 day terms with your vendors.
- 32:47You might have the money, you're on a lease that's got some
- 32:52personal guarantees on it, whether it's limited personal
- 32:55guarantee or a long term personal guarantee.
- 32:57You've got some guarantees there that you need to sort out.
- 33:00You've got taxes that you got to pay.
- 33:03You've got everybody's final payroll.
- 33:05Now mind you, if you're closing a restaurant, it's not because
- 33:07it was full to the rafters. Right.
- 33:10So you were struggling to make payroll before?
- 33:12And realistically, you probably should close it two months
- 33:14before you're actually closing a. 150% yeah.
- 33:18And it, it bothers me so much. I wear my stories on my sleeve.
- 33:27I don't care what you're going to say to me that's not on the
- 33:29paper. I mean, at least, you know, I do
- 33:31have the decency of asking me and I'll tell you the truth, but
- 33:36I, it bothers me so much when I see people get needlessly
- 33:40dragged by the media. Maybe there are some really
- 33:44shitty bosses out there. Maybe there are, you know, maybe
- 33:46there are some really, really shitty owners out there that do
- 33:48really, really terrible things. But I, I can only speak for
- 33:51myself. I went to culinary school, I
- 33:55didn't go to Business School. I did the best I knew how to do
- 34:00with the resources that I had, which in my opinion is pretty
- 34:03fucking good. You know, we open 6 restaurants
- 34:05over the course of 15 years. We open 6 restaurants very well
- 34:10reviewed. They all did pretty good.
- 34:13It just got bigger than I could manage at some point.
- 34:16But when somebody closes a restaurant and then they get
- 34:19dragged by the media and then people jump in the comments.
- 34:23Oh, they this, oh, they that. Oh, they, whatever.
- 34:26You have no idea what you're talking about.
- 34:29It doesn't bother me so much because I have made myself
- 34:32available for public consumption through my Instagram, through
- 34:35TV, through whatever else. So you're allowed to have an
- 34:37opinion about me. I don't care.
- 34:39I'm the strain's gonna keep on rolling.
- 34:42But it bothers me when I see other independently owned
- 34:46businesses, you know, that, that really operate with a lot of
- 34:50love and a lot of integrity for their team, for their staff.
- 34:52And then, you know, people jump out there and they have the most
- 34:54awful things to say. And then you have the, the
- 34:56reporters that are looking for the gotcha moment, right?
- 34:59They're combing through the, the, the, the, the court cases
- 35:03or the whatever, try to find a way to like, get the last bit of
- 35:06marrow out of this thing that you've given your entire
- 35:09existence to. That's my.
- 35:15Yeah, it's, it's tough. It's not for the faint of heart.
- 35:17I think a lot of people that want to open restaurants, yeah,
- 35:24work in a restaurant 1st. Like.
- 35:26Like like, like run someone else's restaurant.
- 35:28Make sure make sure you learn as much as you can because the the
- 35:33cooking needs to be on autopilot.
- 35:34You have to, you have to be comfortable making decisions in
- 35:38someone else's business. You're hired as let's say you're
- 35:41hired as the executive chef. You have to be comfortable
- 35:43putting the burger on the menu because if you're not
- 35:46comfortable putting the burger on the menu in someone else's
- 35:48restaurant, like are you going to be able to do it when it's
- 35:50your? Restaurant 100%.
- 35:51Yeah, but when you want to, I just want to make broken green
- 35:54and white oil with crudo. Yeah, if if I could pick your
- 35:59brain a little bit because a lot of people listen to this who
- 36:01want to open restaurants. The fact that you opened many.
- 36:07The first question I have is, I want to open up a restaurant.
- 36:11Where do I get the capital? Where do you, where did you
- 36:14start because you said you did it all alone.
- 36:16How did you first start getting all the capital to open these
- 36:19restaurants? So my first one, I, I got the
- 36:22money from family and that kind of set the stage for everything
- 36:26else. I did take a loan for the Duck
- 36:29Duck Goose in Baltimore. But aside from those two, right
- 36:35where I I took some initial seed money, the restaurants made the
- 36:39money for the restaurants, which was a huge mistake, by the way.
- 36:42Don't do that. Explain why.
- 36:44Because the issue with doing that is when you have a bad day
- 36:48in one restaurant, you're taking from another restaurant to pay
- 36:52for the bad day that that restaurant just had.
- 36:54Well, guess what? The thing about restaurants is,
- 36:55they all fucking have bad days. So now when you're when you're
- 36:59taking, when you're borrowing from Peter to pay Paul,
- 37:01eventually Peter's going to run out of money and now Paul owes
- 37:05money to Peter and Peter is going to go borrow money from
- 37:08John. And, and, and I think that chef
- 37:11mentality of just get through it, just get through it.
- 37:14Put out the fire deal with this refire that, that, OK, I'll get,
- 37:18I can get through this. I'm strong enough, I'm smart
- 37:20enough, I can get through this. I just got to make it through
- 37:22this day to the next day. And, and, and that was a huge, I
- 37:26mean, that was a big part of the reason things kind of felt felt
- 37:28the way that they did. And what advice would you give
- 37:31to people? So you see we talked a little
- 37:34bit about raising capital and raised.
- 37:36Twice as much as you think you need.
- 37:37Raised twice as much and then raised.
- 37:38Twice as much more. OK.
- 37:40And what else would you say? Like what are some important
- 37:41things? Like before you even think about
- 37:43doing this, make sure you have these ducks in a row.
- 37:48If you're thinking about opening a restaurant, first ask yourself
- 37:52why. What is it that if it's money?
- 37:56Chef, I want to make my food. I'm just kidding.
- 37:59That's that's the that's what I but Chef, I just want to do my
- 38:01food. OK, Yeah.
- 38:04How? Write me down your food.
- 38:07Write. Make me a list of 50 things that
- 38:09are your food and then tell me how much they cost.
- 38:11And then tell me how many people you need to make them.
- 38:14If you can't do it, wait, wait. You can get your laurels with
- 38:20somebody else's money. If you are good enough and you
- 38:24know enough about the business, you can earn your stripes, you
- 38:27can get your publicity. You can accomplish all those
- 38:29things with somebody else's money.
- 38:32Yeah. And I don't mean that to say
- 38:34take advantage of somebody else, but if you work hard in whatever
- 38:38organization that you were in, you will find a higher pedestal
- 38:41and then you will find a higher pedestal and then you will find
- 38:43a higher pedestal. But if that is your if that is
- 38:45your answer, if I want to cook my food, OK, do 20 pop ups, do
- 38:5020 pop ups, they sell out every pop up, right?
- 38:53And use that money to put towards your own PR.
- 38:56And if you're really getting juice, the world is going to
- 38:58tell you if you're good or not good.
- 39:00Right. If you suck, I'm sorry to say
- 39:04this. If you're this is going to piss
- 39:06some people off, No, go ahead. But I'm going to say it.
- 39:09You know, I've sat with chefs and restaurant tours that have
- 39:12told me, you know, yeah, you know, we never get a review or
- 39:15this. We never get this or we never
- 39:17get that yet because it fucking sucks.
- 39:19Or it's just not even if it doesn't suck, it's just not that
- 39:22good. I get so angry with people
- 39:25whether and it could be in any field.
- 39:26It could be athletics, it could be music, it could be food.
- 39:31People that have this whole this like, OK, well, it should just
- 39:34come to me now because I'm good. You know how many people are
- 39:37good? Yeah, think about.
- 39:40Just ask them. Just 100%, yeah.
- 39:43And I mean, think about how many people that you see.
- 39:45Well, we can scroll on TikTok or Instagram right now.
- 39:46How many good singers are we going to see?
- 39:48How many good chefs are we going to see?
- 39:50We're going to see some really talented people that you will
- 39:53never hear about. Someone messaged me and they
- 39:57said I'm thinking about, I think they wanted to open up a food
- 40:00truck and like, you know, what advice would you give me?
- 40:02For what is your advice on food trucks?
- 40:04By the way, I'll I'll tell you this is exactly what I told the
- 40:06guy. I said before you go buy a food
- 40:09truck for 60K, buy a $300 Yeti, fill it up with whatever you're
- 40:14trying to sell. And if you can't sell out the
- 40:16$300 Yeti, you're welcome for saving you 60 K.
- 40:21That's what's my advice. And you can't sell out the
- 40:23fucking Yeti. You're not going to sell out the
- 40:25food truck. And to your point, if you can't
- 40:26sell out your pop up, you shouldn't be opening up a
- 40:28restaurant. 100%. Yeah, sell out the pop up
- 40:32consistently. Have a fucking line out the
- 40:34door. The demand has to be there.
- 40:35Yeah, yeah, be smart. You're don't go raise $1,000,000
- 40:39if you can't sell fucking 10 tickets to your pop up.
- 40:41Yeah. And you know, I'll talk about my
- 40:43just a little bit of that. My people expect to get things
- 40:47so quickly. Yeah, bro, it was 567 years
- 40:56maybe before I really started getting juice from a media
- 41:00standpoint. And when I say 567 years, I mean
- 41:03I'm opening, I'm closing, I'm working at night, I'm running a
- 41:07restaurant depot, I'm running the parties.
- 41:12I I mean, you name it. I had great people around me.
- 41:15Don't get me wrong. I, I have in my life been
- 41:18privileged to work with some of the most doting, capable, kind
- 41:26human beings that any man could. That I mean that, that has been
- 41:30my blessing. That being said, you know I, I,
- 41:34I busted my ass, lost it more than once before anybody give a
- 41:44shit to write anything about me? Everyone, everyone loves you
- 41:49when you're on Top Chef. I mean, yeah, no one loved when
- 41:52you're on Bottom. Oh, yeah, She got the Dick
- 41:53right. Yeah.
- 41:54She was never that good. Oh, yeah, for sure.
- 41:56Yeah. Yeah.
- 41:57So you're in France right now. Well, not right now, but you you
- 41:59just came back from France. You're here.
- 42:01You're here for a brief stint. I'm I'm here right now.
- 42:03I'm going back. Yeah, how's that?
- 42:06Take everything you know about restaurants and turn it on it's
- 42:08head. Yeah, what?
- 42:09What did you see over there that that we're doing wrong here?
- 42:12I'm not gonna say we're doing it wrong.
- 42:14I'll say we're doing differently.
- 42:16Yeah, I see chefs to cook. Yeah, I see chefs whose pictures
- 42:23on the website and their faces on the pass.
- 42:25Yeah. Cooking and that was a huge aha
- 42:29moment for me. I see, how do I say this?
- 42:41I see the same passion for hospitality and service that I
- 42:46think guys like you and I got into this for.
- 42:51I see less gimmick, more grit. Define that a little bit.
- 42:59You ever walked into a restaurant and knew what you're
- 43:00going to get before you even sat down?
- 43:02Sure, that happened to you a lot here.
- 43:07Not a lot. Well, it doesn't happen very
- 43:09much over there either. So the good restaurants deliver
- 43:15as promised. They're not trying to bowl you
- 43:20over with the smoke and mirrors. It's less Instagram food curse
- 43:27traps, correct? Yeah.
- 43:29Correct. And you may never hear about
- 43:31them and they're OK with it. You may never walk through their
- 43:34doors and they're OK with it. I see cooking and they call it
- 43:43restoration there, but it's restaurant thing being treated
- 43:48as the way you would treat like a, a Craftsman and treated with
- 43:55the same reverence and respect at a, at a higher level.
- 43:59I mean, of course you have your, there's a brasserie every two
- 44:01steps and the chicken cordon Bleu is probably frozen, sort of
- 44:04the fries. And those are the tourist traps
- 44:06that you fall into. It's also been nice to
- 44:10experience a different kind of client, a client that that is
- 44:17very appreciative. Not saying that the clients here
- 44:20aren't appreciative, but are, are very vocal about their
- 44:24appreciation there. I, I, I found that small efforts
- 44:30are very, are, are really rewarded by the clients there
- 44:33and even by restaurant ownership.
- 44:36They, they realize that culinary talent is not easy to come by.
- 44:41There's a lot of people out there that say, oh, I'm a chef.
- 44:43Oh, I can go and then they accept that.
- 44:46But but if you're good, they really they go out of their way
- 44:50to recognize the fact that you have an ability And also one
- 44:53thing there that's been very different than here assuming I
- 44:59was working over there. Apparently you have to have a
- 45:04visa to be able. To work over.
- 45:05You weren't working over there. You're.
- 45:06Just no touristing. I was just touristing.
- 45:09But I've noticed in restaurants that when things get put on the
- 45:15menu, I'm sure it's not this way at a very high level, but it's
- 45:18it's a consensus. Everybody comes together,
- 45:22something gets put together, chef put something together and
- 45:26they all talk about it. They talk about the highs of it,
- 45:29the lows of it, the to service, how it shows up on the table.
- 45:32And it could be something as simple as a tuna tataki.
- 45:38And that's been really nice to experience that feeling of OK,
- 45:46it's it's us, not, not US versus them.
- 45:49That's in front of the house versus the back of the house,
- 45:50right? It's it.
- 45:51This is, this is how we all represent ourselves.
- 45:54How what were you, Paris? Yeah, yeah.
- 45:57How were the ingredients? How was the quality of
- 45:59ingredients? I mean, listen, I can tell you
- 46:01there is this is a totally different conversation, but I
- 46:06mean, there's something seriously broken with our food
- 46:08here. Why do you say that?
- 46:10I'll just talk about my own personal experience.
- 46:12Sure, you know me. I'm pretty careful about what I
- 46:15eat and well, I am and I'm not. But man, I've been living over
- 46:20there for the past 3-4 months. Never once have I felt bloated.
- 46:24Never once have I felt any form of indigestion.
- 46:26Never once have I felt like that weird kind of like uncomfortable
- 46:29gassy feeling you get after you eat.
- 46:30And I eat homie, like I eat. I got here within 24 hours.
- 46:35I was on Pepcid again. I was on gas tax or whatever.
- 46:39Like just to make myself feel a little bit better.
- 46:43I strangely enough, I lost weight.
- 46:45I ate more when I was there, but I lost weight, my body got
- 46:48leaner. I don't know what the answer is
- 46:51and I'm not going to pretend to, but it's it's a really I felt it
- 46:59like emotionally I felt better, just my headspace was better.
- 47:02I mean, a lot of your dopamine, serotonin, it comes from your
- 47:04gut. Sure.
- 47:09The quality of ingredients that you get there.
- 47:11I mean are it's exceptional. I mean, we got, we got whatever.
- 47:18They got. They got black pasta with A and
- 47:22it was as good as anything that you would find anywhere, you
- 47:24know, here, I shouldn't say here, but it was it was really,
- 47:27really good, you know, or I I, you know, I remember they did a
- 47:32gazpacho one day and tomatoes came in and I didn't have one
- 47:36mealy shitty tomato. I mean, granted, I ordered it in
- 47:40season, but it's really nice. And, and it's also been nice to,
- 47:49like, retrain my palate a little bit because as chefs, you know,
- 47:54how often does somebody have you taste something and you do this
- 47:58because it doesn't have enough salt?
- 47:59Yeah, Yeah. You know, the from what I've
- 48:03observed over there, the French have very delicate palates and
- 48:06they don't salt the shit out of everything.
- 48:08And if something is going to, if you're going to do like a white
- 48:10asparagus dish, it better taste like white asparagus, right?
- 48:16I There's somebody who works at a place that I spent a little
- 48:21time in, and if you could give Michelin stars to pallets, this
- 48:27human being would have 3. Really.
- 48:31And that's been really nice to experience as a chef.
- 48:35Is it? I went over there to to kind of
- 48:37bookend it. I said, OK, what am I going to
- 48:41do here? Right.
- 48:42What what's what's next for me here?
- 48:43I can keep consulting at people's restaurants and, and,
- 48:48and waiting for the next thing to come through.
- 48:50And then thought about it and I was like, you know, I just want
- 48:55to be a better chef. As long as you're good at what
- 48:58you do, the money stuff figures itself out.
- 49:02So how do I go get better? Not saying that there wasn't
- 49:05somewhere I could have gone here, but I I needed to remove
- 49:07myself from the situation for a little while, get back to
- 49:09feeling good. And for me, I figured, you know,
- 49:13if I was, you know, if I was going to be Steph Curry, who do
- 49:16I want to play for? Right.
- 49:18So I I went over and it's been great.
- 49:20I mean to who says it? The Jiro dreams of is it Jiro?
- 49:26No, no, no. Who's the chef that said it?
- 49:30It's either Jiro or Nope. You can edit this however you
- 49:37want but there is a shot. I want to say it might have even
- 49:38been Roshan. To make delicious food, you have
- 49:40to eat delicious food. Yeah, if.
- 49:44You want to make the best radish dish that you can make.
- 49:47Go eat some really good radishes.
- 49:51And for me, that that was the goal.
- 49:53Yeah, yeah, we're losing that a little bit here in the in, in
- 49:57the States. How do we get it back?
- 49:59You know, that's part of what that's why I rant about it so
- 50:01much on the podcast. It's like, how do we, how do we
- 50:03get back to cooking delicious food?
- 50:07If you had no incentive structure and you were just
- 50:10cooking for someone, would it be different?
- 50:15You know what I mean? Like it would be completely
- 50:17different if I invited you over to my house.
- 50:19I wouldn't cook for you the way I'd cook in the restaurant
- 50:21because I feel like that is playing the game.
- 50:23You're playing the game a little bit in the restaurant.
- 50:25If you came over, I'd have Palmelli go and a roasted
- 50:27chicken and maybe a whole fish, some braised artichokes, maybe a
- 50:30confibiality. That's what we'd eat.
- 50:32Yeah, and I'd never leave. Yeah, right.
- 50:34We'd have a good meal and, you know, for dessert we might just
- 50:37have some, you know, a fresh fruit tart.
- 50:39Yeah, that's it. And you know what we would
- 50:43probably be happier than if we got this geeked out food, right?
- 50:49I could. I could stay on that subject for
- 50:50a long time and rant. So I won't because I I probably
- 50:53rant about it too much. The other thing that's been cool
- 50:55over there is to see the cream come out of my food, see the
- 50:57butter come out of my food, and to just watch everything get
- 51:00lighter. What do you mean?
- 51:04So they're not cooking that much with with with cream and butter?
- 51:08Very little. Very little.
- 51:10One butter is expensive. Yeah, OK.
- 51:12And I was so used to the kitchens here where it's like.
- 51:16Mountain with Butter. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 51:18Fucking grilled broccolini. Throw it in a pan real quick.
- 51:21Butter, you know. Yeah, yeah.
- 51:24And that's not the case there. And it's, it's, it's been great.
- 51:29It's light in my palate. It's, it's, it's also from a
- 51:32business standpoint, from a business owner standpoint,
- 51:34because that's somebody who I am and who I will always be.
- 51:36It has made it ringingly clear why I could not Why?
- 51:42Why I did not see all the success that I wanted to see.
- 51:45I did at a small level, but as soon as I grew, I couldn't still
- 51:50be successful the way that I was running my businesses.
- 51:55I think I wanted to be a chef that owned businesses.
- 51:58I think that what I should have done is owned businesses and
- 52:02found a really good chef. Yeah, yeah, it's, it's tough to
- 52:06realize that, though. Yeah.
- 52:09I want to ask you because you're, you're a big inspiration
- 52:13for me as well, your health and Wellness journey.
- 52:17Yeah. Because it's something that you
- 52:19that you show. I think nowadays as a chef,
- 52:22it's, it's very important. You know, I think when, when we
- 52:24were coming up in kitchens, it was like, it was, it was
- 52:27different. Like we didn't respect our
- 52:28bodies the way we should have, right.
- 52:30And, and in retrospect, I should have taken care of my back and
- 52:32my feet and my knees and everything else a little bit
- 52:34more if I had, if I had paid more attention.
- 52:38But I think what you're doing, and I just did a podcast with
- 52:41the guys from Humans of the Kitchen and they're doing this
- 52:44whole 86 Wellness challenge. And I think that's so important.
- 52:48Like what you're doing is incredible.
- 52:51But what are some of the things that I guess what pushed you
- 52:54into that? Like, because I mean, you're
- 52:56taking it serious. Like like you're taking it
- 52:58serious. I'm inspired, but I'm like, I'll
- 53:01do it like I'll do like half the intensity that you're doing I.
- 53:06Mean it helps. I have a lot of time with my
- 53:07hands right now too, so that helps too.
- 53:08I mean, it's, it's not, it's not always feasible, man.
- 53:12I I think that cooking is an athletic event.
- 53:18I agree. It's a, it's a, it's a athletic
- 53:21sport. At, at at any level, you know, I
- 53:23think that cooking is hard, back breaking work.
- 53:30And for me, my goal has always been and, but I, I, I think I've
- 53:37been successful. I always wanted to be the best
- 53:38cook in my kitchen. And for me, that that meant
- 53:42being faster, stronger, cleaner, nimbler.
- 53:49They're the guys to my left and right.
- 53:54You know how it is. You see a cook on the line,
- 53:56you're like, that guy's got moves.
- 53:57Yeah. Tony says it in his book.
- 53:58Yeah, yeah. He kicks the.
- 54:00You know what I mean? Yeah.
- 54:01Bumps the yeah, yeah, yeah. They, they it's like it's, it's,
- 54:05I like to call it kitchen karate.
- 54:06Yeah, they have that fucking they, they just everything.
- 54:09Yeah. Kitchen karate.
- 54:11And and we, we it's so easy to live an unhealthy lifestyle.
- 54:17Yeah. You know, how many times have
- 54:20you gotten off of work? It's 11:30 at night.
- 54:21There's nothing to eat except pizza.
- 54:24Yeah, or a quick drive through. Let me get that burger. 100%
- 54:27yeah. I wasn't going to stop eating
- 54:29that. So I was like, the solution is I
- 54:32got to, I got to get healthy. And also for me, for my mental,
- 54:36you know, my mind struggles with mental health have been no
- 54:38secret to anybody. I struggle with anxiety,
- 54:40depression, thoughts of suicide. I've I've dealt with all of it.
- 54:44And I have found that if I do something for my body every day,
- 54:52I have a better day. And as chefs, we make chefs
- 54:59business owners, we make so many commitments to other people, our
- 55:03vendors, our staff, our our employees, our landlords, our
- 55:09our clients that come in everyday expecting to have a
- 55:12certain experience. We need to be able to make one
- 55:15commitment to ourself. And why not that commitment be
- 55:18our bodies? Yeah, I mean, my knees kill me.
- 55:24My hands ache just randomly. I'll be sitting there and I feel
- 55:27like I like, I almost can't catch my breath.
- 55:29My hands hurt so bad, My elbow, my neck.
- 55:33I mean, I'm not telling you anything you don't know.
- 55:36No, I feel it, Yeah. And, and, and let's face it, as
- 55:42a chef, there's not a lot of money in this.
- 55:45So if I'm not going to make a lot of money and I'm going to
- 55:49beat up my body, why not be my own insurance policy and take
- 55:52care of that body and try to get longer shelf lifeout of this
- 55:55career so I can make a little bit more money.
- 55:58And also, you know, I think that, you know, chef means boss
- 56:03in France and French chef. It does has nothing to do with
- 56:06guy that can cook. Chef de cuisine is a guy that
- 56:09can cook. Chef by itself means boss.
- 56:16I you know how you here, if you get into attacks, you will say,
- 56:18Hey, what's up boss? Right.
- 56:20And there you can do a taxi. It'll be like Sebastia, what's
- 56:23up boss? If you're going to be the boss,
- 56:28look like the fucking boss. I'm not, I'm not saying that,
- 56:31you know, everybody needs to have fucking 6 pack abs and you
- 56:34know, be be, you know, ripped and whatever else.
- 56:37But but there is a level of confidence that people get when
- 56:40they can ascertain that you take care of yourself, right?
- 56:44Showing up into a room, being physically fit, you will get a
- 56:48different response from people than when you don't.
- 56:51It's like, like I said, when someone comes up, chances have
- 56:54you been working out? Yeah.
- 56:55Like they fucking noticed. Yeah, they noticed.
- 56:58They noticed. And it's like, OK, why?
- 57:00Why you? Yeah, I have.
- 57:01Thank you. Listen man, let's face it, look
- 57:03at all the other benefits. You eat better, You sleep
- 57:05better. You bone better.
- 57:09Yeah, I have AI put this in one of my books.
- 57:13Right. All right, so there's three
- 57:14things you cannot lie about. There's only three things.
- 57:17Yeah, food, fighting and fucking right.
- 57:21You can't lie. Like you could say you could.
- 57:22You could cook. But when they try your food,
- 57:24they know. Right.
- 57:25You could say you could fight until you get into a real fight.
- 57:27Yeah, sure. Then people will know.
- 57:29And then, you know, obviously in the bedroom people know.
- 57:31Yeah, sure. And online, you know, let's face
- 57:32it, you said fight. Let's face it, you know, the
- 57:34kitchen is at a lot of levels. The kitchen is a very hormonally
- 57:42driven environment, you know, And it it, it can if it's busy.
- 57:47I'm not saying it's violent like people are punching each other
- 57:49in the face, but it can be a physically violent on your body,
- 57:53on your brain. Being of sound body really,
- 57:56really helps. Also, I'm a sure dude, if I'm
- 58:00coming down the line, I want you to feel me coming before I'm
- 58:02coming, right? Yeah, no, and and you're, you're
- 58:07100% right. Like you, I tell people like
- 58:09when I come into the kitchen, do a pop up with me, I'm like, I'm
- 58:12not in kitchen shape like and and I know that doesn't sound
- 58:16because everyone, most of our audience is in kitchen shape.
- 58:19Take a month off, you'll get you get out of kitchen shape real
- 58:22quick. Oh yeah, for sure.
- 58:23When I went to Paris, yeah. Oh, bro, I was, I was real comfy
- 58:26being the owner for a while. Luckily I worked out, you know,
- 58:29as I was in OK shape, but I had nothing to do with kitchen
- 58:31shape. Yeah, had nothing to do with
- 58:33kitchen shape. As soon as I had to pull that
- 58:35big lexan off the top shelf, I was like, OK, there she goes.
- 58:38Yeah, you know, and, and yeah, I mean it's.
- 58:40Stand on your feet for 12. Yep.
- 58:42Yeah. When was the last time you did
- 58:43that? I haven't done that in a while.
- 58:45But Chef, when we start wrapping up a podcast, I like to pick
- 58:48your brain a little bit and get some, you know, let's let's
- 58:50talk, let's talk your workstation.
- 58:52OK, you're setting up your workstation.
- 58:54What's your What is your finishing salt on your
- 58:58workstation? Meldon Meldon, I like the
- 59:01texture. Yeah.
- 59:02What about kosher salt? What's your all-purpose work
- 59:04salt? Is it kosher or Azure?
- 59:06Yeah. Is it Diamond Crystal or is it
- 59:08Morton Diamond? Crystal OK.
- 59:10Just making sure, yeah, you. But I will say, since I've been
- 59:13overseas, Diamond crystal's not a thing.
- 59:16So what are these? Sea salt.
- 59:17The real fine salt. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 59:18So I was salting the shit out of things for the first couple
- 59:20weeks and they have this little salty, yeah, but I mean, take a
- 59:24little bit, get used. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 59:26It's funny, most people that come from Danielle use the the
- 59:29really fine, right? Because that's what that's what
- 59:31they use. What about tape?
- 59:34Are you a tape? Cut it straight or no?
- 59:36I'm tape cut it with a knife or cut it with scissors.
- 59:39No tape cutters. No tape cutter.
- 59:41No, cuz it just takes up space. Yeah, what about green or green
- 59:44tape? Blue tape.
- 59:45I prefer green tape. You prefer green?
- 59:46I prefer green. Tape Team Green, OK.
- 59:48Unless I'm working in a place that has where the walk in's
- 59:50downstairs, Yeah, and the kitchen's upstairs.
- 59:53If it's kitchen prep, yeah. And it lives in the kitchen.
- 59:57Blue tape. If it's walk in prep like Lexan,
- 1:00:00things like that, then it's green tape.
- 1:00:01But that's if I'm being like real psycho.
- 1:00:02Why is that? Cuz green ground, blue sky.
- 1:00:06Hey. I take the way I take.
- 1:00:09Hey, no, that's good. I've never heard that, so that's
- 1:00:10good to know. What about your finishing acid
- 1:00:14if you had a general like and of course maybe it's it's dish.
- 1:00:17Yeah, but is it lemon? Is it lemon squeezers?
- 1:00:20Is it vinegars? Is it?
- 1:00:22Yes, I keep a few lemon cheeks. Yeah, I I think it brightens
- 1:00:25things up. Really, really if it's.
- 1:00:26Lemon. Or do you use all types of
- 1:00:27citrus? Lemon specifically.
- 1:00:29Yeah. If you had like, one thing that
- 1:00:32you do in the kitchen, it's like more people should do this.
- 1:00:35Like this enhances flavor. This is a really good technique
- 1:00:37that a lot of people don't, don't do.
- 1:00:39What is that one thing? Taste your food.
- 1:00:44I mean, that sounds really obvious.
- 1:00:45Wouldn't taste your food. But the other thing that I, I do
- 1:00:48a lot is I will maybe a lot of people do this, but I feel like
- 1:00:52I, I'm constantly teaching people to do it.
- 1:00:54Yeah, I keep water on my station.
- 1:00:58Like to dilute stuff? Either to dilute it or just to
- 1:01:00bring it back a little bit, or just to round it out a touch.
- 1:01:04I I keep water. On my like a little squeeze
- 1:01:05bottle, just a little squeeze. I do the same thing.
- 1:01:07You know what I call it? I call it my swanee water.
- 1:01:09Yeah, that really. Yeah, because I mean, the
- 1:01:11difference between having to throw something away, Yeah, or
- 1:01:14start over or like a even a risotto, right?
- 1:01:16Like just just a few drops of water, you bring it right back.
- 1:01:21You don't have to rework that whole thing, right?
- 1:01:22You know, you can take it all the way there, set it to the
- 1:01:25side, keep it warm for a second, few drops of water, give it a
- 1:01:27shake. We're good to go.
- 1:01:28Yeah, yeah, Your sauce went down too far.
- 1:01:30A little drop of water, a little drop of water, right, Right.
- 1:01:32You need to emulsify a little bit more butter into those
- 1:01:34potatoes. A.
- 1:01:34Little drop of water 100. Percent right, Right.
- 1:01:36Yeah, I'm with you on the water. I definitely do that.
- 1:01:39What's your plate wipe? My plate wipe.
- 1:01:42Good question. I use vodka and I use chick
- 1:01:46towel or torque towel right cut them and then I roll them.
- 1:01:49Well, first I I soak them and then I roll them because they're
- 1:01:52easier to roll after they're. Soaked now do you do it or just
- 1:01:53front of house? Do it.
- 1:01:55I like doing it myself. I do like doing asking.
- 1:01:58I, I do, I do like doing it. If I'm, if I'm working the past,
- 1:02:02I just, it's like one of those Zen moments.
- 1:02:04Like I love slicing onions. I love cutting mushrooms.
- 1:02:06Yep. I love skimming stock.
- 1:02:08Yep. And I love making plate wipes.
- 1:02:09Yeah. I don't know why it's like.
- 1:02:11It's just a super like it's, it's like such muscle memory,
- 1:02:14you know what I mean? Like you go to a place.
- 1:02:16Yeah. And also don't talk to me while
- 1:02:18I'm doing. This Yeah, right, right, right,
- 1:02:19right, right. What is?
- 1:02:21What is your plate wipe? Same chicks owl.
- 1:02:24Use a little bit of vinegar and water.
- 1:02:25Yeah. Not vodka, because we all know
- 1:02:28history. Yeah, I was, I was.
- 1:02:30I had, I had a guy on the other day, Barclay Dodge, he's got
- 1:02:32Bosque restaurant in Aspen. He worked at Al Bully and he
- 1:02:35told me that the way that there's one bottle in the
- 1:02:38kitchen that's always red tape and that's all the liquor for
- 1:02:40the plate wipes, That was an elbulli thing.
- 1:02:41I was like, oh, that's kind of cool.
- 1:02:42Like I've never, I've never seen the red tape thing.
- 1:02:44But I was like, yeah, I was like, OK, so maybe that picks up
- 1:02:47in other kitchens. Chef, if you had a chef's PSA
- 1:02:49out there for people, what would it be?
- 1:02:53A chef's public service announcement.
- 1:02:58Probably the one piece of advice that has served me better than
- 1:03:00any other. Just be a good cook.
- 1:03:10I know that's difficult to digest for people in today's day
- 1:03:13of money and bills and whatever else, but be a good cook.
- 1:03:18If you don't have the time to invest in yourself to be a good
- 1:03:22cook, you will never be a good chef.
- 1:03:27Be a good cook. Being a good cook means a lot of
- 1:03:30things, But. But also that you're open to
- 1:03:32learn and that you're open to criticism.
- 1:03:34You don't know what you don't know.
- 1:03:36I don't know what I don't know. I've never had your food.
- 1:03:39And I know that you don't know what you don't know.
- 1:03:41Yeah. If you are the kind of person
- 1:03:46that can't be told, that always thinks you know better, this is
- 1:03:49not the right job for you. Yeah.
- 1:03:52If you had a Mount Rushmore of chefs out there, you're you're 4
- 1:03:55chefs that deserve to be on Mount Rushmore.
- 1:03:57Who are they? Mark up here White.
- 1:04:00Yep. Mario Batali.
- 1:04:11He's an amazing chef. Danielle will dude.
- 1:04:23Paulo Keys. Chef, where can people find you?
- 1:04:29Instagram chef Ashish Albert. This has been fun, thank you.
- 1:04:32We have to do it again for sure. Awesome brother.
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