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Women Can Be Bums Too | Accountability, Relationships & Personal Growth · Off The Wall Podcast | Motivation & Personal Growth

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  All right, so we have all heard, you know, growing up that men,
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  you know, are bombs, right? But what about women?
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  Can women be bombs? We all heard people how say men
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  are bombs because they don't work.
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  And of course, I believe that, you know, the Bible say for man
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  don't work, you don't eat. Then you got men who are bombs
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  because they can't provide, you know, they always lose their
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  job. They always, you know, leeching
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  off of someone or they just don't have money at all.
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  And that's a bomb. But the question that nobody
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  asked is, can women be bombs too?
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  And is the standards and does the standard supposed to be
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  equal? I believe yes on both of those
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  women can be bombs. And no, the standards are not
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  equal. The reason why I say the
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  standards are not equal is because women save other women.
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  Men don't save other men. So if you that girl home girl,
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  she's going to make sure that your name is not in a light like
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  that dude. Now, if you got a partner and if
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  he's honest with you, he not going to allow you to just, you
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  know, Leech off of him. You know he going to tell you to
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  work just like he is, especially if you going to stay at somebody
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  crib. But what makes someone a bomb,
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  in my opinion, will make someone a bomb is someone who is not
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  working, someone who don't have any goals, but you're out every
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  weekend partying. You know you're wanting to be in
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  the spotlight, but you don't want to work.
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  That's a bomb. Another thing is there are
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  different standards when it comes to men and women.
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  A woman could stay with her mom and may not have a lot of bills
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  to pay, but she's out every weekend.
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  But she wanting the the, the lavish lifestyle, but she's not
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  paying rent. So she's living rent free, but
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  she's not doing much for herself.
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  And I believe that's a bomb. If you're not doing nothing for
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  yourself while staying with your mom or your friend, that's a
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  bomb. If you can go out and throw
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  your, you know, your body around or throw your ass, you don't
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  understand, but you're afraid to punch in or you can't afford to
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  punch in because you afraid of what other people may think of
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  you, then you're a bomb. And it's not fair to other
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  people who are trying because you do get a lot of men who have
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  what you do get a lot of backlash.
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  Men get a lot of backlash because they are labeled as
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  bombs. But there is probably as equal
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  bombs when it comes to women. Then I'm not going to say that,
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  man, but it could be pretty equal.
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  It could be pretty equal. And the standards are not.
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  The standards are not the best because a woman, like I said, a
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  woman is always going to take up for a woman.
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  It's it's going to be hard for a man to take up for another man
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  depending on if that person rock with you.
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  Now if they rock with you, they going to give you some leniency.
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  They going to say, hey bro, I ain't going to lie, rock with
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  you bro. I want to see you do great.
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  I ain't going to put your business out there.
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  That real man won't put nobody business out there.
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  You just going to let them know, hey bro, I ain't going to lie.
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  You can do a little bit more. I know, I know times are hard,
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  bro, but hey, you can work this job until you get on your feet.
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  You know, that's how I feel like a real man is, you know, like
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  he'll help you out instead of putting your business out there.
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  Now, if you friend on the Internet and you acting like
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  you're really going to work, but you're not you you're gambling
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  or you sleeping at someone house, you going over people
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  cribs and eating a snacks, you a bomb.
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  You know what I'm saying? You're a bomb.
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  You know you want to be in the AC all day, but you don't want
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  to be out in the sun, put in that work or just be at a a
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  warehouse put in that work. You on the game, you know,
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  playing for five or eight hours and you ain't made no money.
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  You know what I'm saying? That's a bomb.
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  There are double standards and I think men and women need to shed
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  light about the double standards when it comes to men and women
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  being bombs. We already know men can be
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  bombs, but most of us are not aware that women can be bombs as
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  well. Like what makes a woman a bomb?
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  You using you're you using people for their hard earned
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  money and you going to spend it at a club, You're going to go
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  spend it for some bottles, you're going to go spend it for
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  a dude that don't like you and you're not getting anything in
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  return. But you know, publicity leaching
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  off of someone. There's people, there's women
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  out here who are leeching off of other people, you know, who
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  can't seem to have a stable job, but they're going from house to
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  house. They're borrowing money from
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  people. They owe money.
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  Knowing that they owe money to people.
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  They are blocking them and never seeing them again.
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  You know what I'm saying? You blocking your blessings?
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  That's a bomb. A woman who have children but
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  don't take care of those children and expect the husband
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  or the baby dad or the child's father to do most of the work.
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  But you get to have fun and go with your friends.
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  Go out of town and expect the child's father to do all the
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  hard and The Dirty work. And he's supposed to do all the
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  work. But it's supposed to be a team.
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  It's supposed to be a team. There's many ways a woman could
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  be a bomb. I'm just naming and just saying
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  a few, you know? But we do have to shed light on
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  women who are bombs because there are women who are bombs.
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  For real. Like if you go out on a date and
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  you expect a man and you take your friends out on a date with
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  you and you expect a man to pay for all of y'all and he only
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  wanted to take you out and you dip out on him you a bomb.
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  That means you don't have any money.
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  If you don't have any money don't go out.
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  If you see a young lady, she grinding and she is trying to
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  get somewhere in life and you know she got a popping name, but
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  you spreading dirt on her name, telling people that she got a
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  disease and you telling your sisters or your brothers, this
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  girl done something to you. So now you're trying to get her
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  killed. You're a bum.
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  You don't have a job, you don't have nothing to do because
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  people that have something to do, they're not worried about
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  the next person. You know, people who have a job
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  are not worried about what's going on on social media.
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  You know, you like they're actually put in the work so they
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  can enjoy the fruits of their labor.
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  Like I said, there's many labels on what is a bomb, but I'm just
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  naming a few or going off of the things that I've seen on
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  Instagram or things that I've seen personally.
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  But we do have to shed light on women who are bombs.
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  Women who don't want to work but want to look pretty all the
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  time, want to use men for that money instead of punching in the
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  clock. You know, women who this is my
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  pet peeve that I heard, you know, someone say like, it's a
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  man's job to take care of the child.
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  A man should not have to. A woman should not have to do
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  all the things if she carried that child, you know what I'm
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  saying? Through birth.
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  Like no, that's not how that works.
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  It is a partnership. Even if y'all don't date each
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  other anymore or y'all never dated, but things go when it
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  comes to that child or the children.
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  Y'all got to be working together, not working against
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  each other. Y'all decided to have that
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  child, so y'all have to work against each other.
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  But if you expect the woman or the man to just do all the job
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  or just to do all the work, then you're, you know, I'm saying
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  you're a bomb. In my opinion, like I said this,
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  this is opinionated. Everybody has opinions on what
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  is a bomb. But that is just my opinion on,
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  you know, women being bombs. And we have to shed light on it
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  because I keep saying it because it's a thing.
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  We just don't know it. It's just not common.
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  It is very common. If you go on TikTok you will
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  find that there are women out here who are bombs.
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  If you setting a man up for some money, you a bomb.
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  If you scamming someone for some money, you a bomb.
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  If you can go out every weekend and not put the work in at a
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  job, you a bomb. You know what I'm saying?
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  It it don't take much just to go to Dollar General and get an
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  application. You got to put your pride to the
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  side. If you can't put your pride to
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  the side, then you're going to still be stuck in the same spot,
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  in the same place. Who want to be stuck?
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  Not me. But that is just my, you know,
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  take on. We call men bums, but what about
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  women? Y'all let me know what y'all
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  think. Yeah, And if you think and if
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  controversial topics, just make sure you like and you subscribe
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  or you follow. And I'll be dropping from
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  Tuesday to Thursday at 5. AMI dropped pretty late
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