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- 0:00Speaker 1: Find rest as you listen to this peaceful bedtime story.
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- 0:13Speaker 2: Does your heart feel troubled today? Are circumstances weighing you down?
- 0:19Speaker 2: In this life? You will experience trials, Yet Jesus said,
- 0:24Speaker 2: let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God. Believe
- 0:28Speaker 2: also in me in hardships and difficulties. When your heart
- 0:33Speaker 2: is so troubled. This sounds too simple, doesn't it. Just
- 0:36Speaker 2: believe in God and believe in Jesus. It is simple,
- 0:40Speaker 2: but that doesn't make it easy. Jesus understands that he
- 0:45Speaker 2: experienced troubles beyond anything you and I will ever go through.
- 0:50Speaker 2: Yet his heart was continually at peace because he trusted
- 0:54Speaker 2: in his Father. He believed in him. Jesus willingly took
- 0:59Speaker 2: your place on that cross, and he gave you the
- 1:01Speaker 2: gift of salvation and a relationship with God. By doing this,
- 1:06Speaker 2: he removed all the lasting reasons for a troubled heart.
- 1:10Speaker 2: So now you have eternal life and a savior who's
- 1:14Speaker 2: always with you. Perhaps a troubled heart doesn't come from
- 1:18Speaker 2: experiencing trouble as much as it does from looking at
- 1:21Speaker 2: the wrong things. If you look at trouble, you'll have
- 1:24Speaker 2: a troubled heart. But when you look at Jesus, you
- 1:27Speaker 2: see he is greater than any trouble you could ever face.
- 1:32Speaker 2: If your difficult circumstances feel overwhelming today, just know you're
- 1:36Speaker 2: not alone. Through the ages. Jesus has given strength to
- 1:40Speaker 2: the weary. So focus on Jesus now and remember he
- 1:45Speaker 2: is eternal, yet he's present with you in this specific
- 1:49Speaker 2: moment of time. Let him speak to you as we
- 1:53Speaker 2: pray together. Dear Jesus, thank you that you know my circumstances.
- 1:59Speaker 2: You know all the reasons why my heart's been troubled.
- 2:02Speaker 2: I ask that you helped take my eyes off of
- 2:04Speaker 2: my troubles and fix them on you. I know that
- 2:08Speaker 2: you're greater than every trial, So please use this time
- 2:12Speaker 2: to strengthen my faith and to restore peace in my heart.
- 2:16Speaker 2: It's in your name, I pray, Amen. When you feel
- 2:20Speaker 2: weighed down by troubles, the natural tendency is for your
- 2:23Speaker 2: eyes to look down all the time. If you can,
- 2:27Speaker 2: why don't you lift your chin and look up as
- 2:30Speaker 2: high as you can. Picture Jesus seated at the right
- 2:34Speaker 2: hand of God, the Father in heaven. Now see yourself
- 2:38Speaker 2: seated right there with him. Close your eyes if you can,
- 2:42Speaker 2: and take a deep cleansing breath. Imagine yourself looking down
- 2:48Speaker 2: from heaven on your earthly troubles. Continue breathing slowly and intentionally.
- 3:09Speaker 2: From a heavenly viewpoint. Your life looks very different. You
- 3:13Speaker 2: have every spiritual blessing in Christ. It's easy to forget
- 3:17Speaker 2: that sometimes when we focus on the wrong things. Are
- 3:21Speaker 2: there any negative thoughts or feelings that you've been struggling with.
- 3:25Speaker 2: Why don't you release those to Christ right now and
- 3:28Speaker 2: receive his grace, his forgiveness, and his love. You're seated
- 3:48Speaker 2: in heavenly places with Jesus Christ. Keep that picture in
- 3:52Speaker 2: the back of your mind. Earth is where you're a missionary,
- 3:56Speaker 2: and Heaven is your home. All missionary face hardships, but
- 4:01Speaker 2: they have the support of Home behind them. You have
- 4:05Speaker 2: all of Heaven behind you on your side. Let your
- 4:09Speaker 2: heart take courage, take some deep and cleansing breaths, and
- 4:14Speaker 2: inhale courage as you exhale any fears that might be looming.
- 4:21Speaker 2: Listen carefully to John fourteen to one from the English
- 4:25Speaker 2: Standard version. Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God,
- 4:30Speaker 2: Believe also in Me. Do anything stand out to you
- 4:34Speaker 2: as I read it? Here, I'll read it one more time.
- 4:37Speaker 2: Listen again John fourteen to one. Let not your hearts
- 4:41Speaker 2: be troubled. Believe in God, Believe also in Me. The
- 4:47Speaker 2: word troubled can mean anxious, bothered, distressed, or even uneasy.
- 4:53Speaker 2: Do any of these words describe the condition of your
- 4:55Speaker 2: heart lately? Take a quick inventory of your heart. What
- 5:00Speaker 2: things have come in that you don't want to stay
- 5:02Speaker 2: there in the midst of trouble. You probably want others
- 5:35Speaker 2: to sympathize with you and understand how difficult it is.
- 5:39Speaker 2: When that doesn't happen, it can make the trial feel
- 5:42Speaker 2: even harder. Is there anyone you need to extend grace
- 5:46Speaker 2: to in your troubles? Why don't you talk to the
- 5:49Speaker 2: Lord about it for a few moments and receive his
- 5:52Speaker 2: strength to forgive. Listen carefully again as I read John
- 6:25Speaker 2: fourteen one, Do not let your heart be troubled. Believe
- 6:30Speaker 2: in God, Believe also in Me. What did you hear
- 6:33Speaker 2: different this time? Think about that idea for a few moments.
- 7:07Speaker 2: Jesus said, do not let your heart be troubled. This
- 7:11Speaker 2: means you have a choice. So you can choose to
- 7:14Speaker 2: let your heart be troubled, or you can choose not to.
- 7:19Speaker 2: Do you ever feel helpless in the midst of your troubles?
- 7:22Speaker 2: If so, just pause and consider what a gift it
- 7:25Speaker 2: is that you have the ability to choose the state
- 7:28Speaker 2: of your heart. Removes circumstances from the picture for a moment,
- 8:02Speaker 2: and then decide what kind of heart do you want
- 8:05Speaker 2: to have. Share your thoughts with Jesus. Listen once more
- 8:39Speaker 2: to John fourteen one, Let not your hearts be troubled.
- 8:45Speaker 2: Believe in God, Believe also in Me. Right before Jesus
- 8:50Speaker 2: spoke those words to his disciples, he'd announced to them
- 8:54Speaker 2: that one of them would betray him and that Peter
- 8:56Speaker 2: would deny him. Imagine how that news must to have
- 9:00Speaker 2: upset them. What do you think they were thinking when
- 9:03Speaker 2: Jesus said, let not your hearts be troubled? Jesus told
- 9:36Speaker 2: the disciples believe in God, believe also in Me. Sounds
- 9:41Speaker 2: pretty simple, but it's very powerful. Your beliefs drive your actions.
- 9:47Speaker 2: Sometimes your actions reveal that your beliefs are different than
- 9:50Speaker 2: what you might think. Why don't you reflect on some
- 9:54Speaker 2: of the actual beliefs that you've been living by. Are
- 10:27Speaker 2: there any beliefs about Jesus that you need to reaffirm
- 10:30Speaker 2: in your heart today? What about beliefs about God. Jesus
- 11:04Speaker 2: had a heart at peace because he trusted perfectly in
- 11:07Speaker 2: his Father, and Jesus lives in you. You don't have
- 11:12Speaker 2: to try to overcome your troubles by your own effort.
- 11:15Speaker 2: God's power at work in you enables you to believe,
- 11:19Speaker 2: trust and even be at peace. Take a moment and
- 11:22Speaker 2: really let that sink into your mind and let Jesus
- 11:26Speaker 2: know what you're thinking. In Luke chapter eight, we read
- 11:57Speaker 2: about a storm that came upon the boat of Jesus
- 12:00Speaker 2: and his disciples, a really big storm that really scared
- 12:04Speaker 2: the disciples, and they actually seemed kind of upset when
- 12:08Speaker 2: they looked over and saw Jesus fast asleep in the
- 12:11Speaker 2: middle of the storm. Of course, all he had to
- 12:14Speaker 2: do was wake up and say be still, and the
- 12:17Speaker 2: storm went away. But at that moment, doesn't it make
- 12:22Speaker 2: you wonder if the disciples were curious where Jesus found
- 12:26Speaker 2: that peace to be able to sleep in the midst
- 12:28Speaker 2: of a storm. Does this story tell you anything about
- 12:32Speaker 2: your own life. When storms are raging around you, do
- 12:37Speaker 2: you feel peace? Do you think it's possible, as a
- 12:40Speaker 2: child of God to experience that peace? No troubles of
- 13:13Speaker 2: this life can change who Jesus is or the blessings
- 13:16Speaker 2: you've been given in Him. Doesn't that give you comfort?
- 13:21Speaker 2: Would you join me in a closing prayer. Dear Jesus,
- 13:25Speaker 2: thank you that you're with me in all of my troubles.
- 13:28Speaker 2: Please strengthen me to keep looking at you no matter
- 13:32Speaker 2: how difficult my circumstances are. Would you please increase my
- 13:36Speaker 2: faith so I can believe who you are and what
- 13:39Speaker 2: you say. Please continue to heal my heart, and would
- 13:43Speaker 2: you guard me with your peace in the midst of
- 13:45Speaker 2: my troubles. Thank you for your faithfulness to me. God,
- 13:49Speaker 2: help me to be faithful to you in Jesus' name. Amen,
- 13:54Speaker 2: if you can try to be still right here for
- 13:57Speaker 2: a little longer with the Lord, just let his peace
- 14:00Speaker 2: fill your heart and listen for the truth He's speaking
- 14:03Speaker 2: over your situation. When you face troubles, pay attention to
- 14:07Speaker 2: your heart. If it starts to feel troubled, just pause
- 14:11Speaker 2: and consider what are you looking at? Your troubles or
- 14:15Speaker 2: Jesus just turn your focus back to him and remember
- 14:20Speaker 2: He's greater, and picture yourself seated with Him in heavenly places.
- 14:25Speaker 2: Look up at Him so that you can look down
- 14:27Speaker 2: on your troubles from a heavenly viewpoint. Thank God that
- 14:31Speaker 2: your heart can be strong and at peace as you
- 14:34Speaker 2: abide in Christ. Broken hearted, That's probably a word you
- 14:45Speaker 2: never wanted to speak, especially when referring to yourself. Yet
- 14:50Speaker 2: have you been there? Have you experienced the unwanted circumstance
- 14:54Speaker 2: of a broken heart? If so, God has a special
- 14:59Speaker 2: message for you. He heals the broken hearted, and he binds
- 15:02Speaker 2: up their wounds. Perhaps it feels like your heart has
- 15:07Speaker 2: been shattered beyond healing. Well, even then, God's word gives hope.
- 15:12Speaker 2: There is no circumstance too painful, no heart too broken
- 15:16Speaker 2: to go beyond God's healing ability. His grace is always
- 15:21Speaker 2: greater than the pain. God's healing is genuine and powerful.
- 15:26Speaker 2: He doesn't just put a band aid on it and
- 15:28Speaker 2: give you a pair of crutches to use for the
- 15:30Speaker 2: rest of your life. He actually heals every broken heart,
- 15:34Speaker 2: making each one whole again. But how and when well,
- 15:41Speaker 2: In his own, wise, loving, faithful way, God works out
- 15:44Speaker 2: his healing process uniquely for each person. Sometimes it's in
- 15:49Speaker 2: a moment, other times it's one moment at a time.
- 15:53Speaker 2: Either way, God keeps his promise to heal every broken
- 15:57Speaker 2: heart that comes to him. Sometimes you have to take
- 16:01Speaker 2: the bandage off a wound in order for it to heal.
- 16:04Speaker 2: Why don't you give yourself permission right now to expose
- 16:07Speaker 2: any wounds to yourself and to God. Speak tenderly to
- 16:12Speaker 2: your heart and remind yourself that you are safe in
- 16:15Speaker 2: God's loving presence. Allow him access so he can begin
- 16:20Speaker 2: the healing process. Let's begin our time together with a
- 16:24Speaker 2: word of prayer. Heavenly Father, in spite of how I feel,
- 16:29Speaker 2: I do believe that your promise to heal broken hearts
- 16:32Speaker 2: is true. Please give me courage to listen to your
- 16:35Speaker 2: voice and to let you touch those painful places. Help
- 16:40Speaker 2: me to embrace your truth over my feelings. And God,
- 16:43Speaker 2: would you guide me each step of the process with
- 16:47Speaker 2: faith that my heart can be made whole again. And
- 16:50Speaker 2: it's in Jesus name I pray. Amen. Sometimes the pain
- 16:55Speaker 2: of a broken heart can cause all of life to
- 16:58Speaker 2: seem negative. So right now, if you can lift your
- 17:02Speaker 2: eyes and lift your hands, just allow God's gift of
- 17:06Speaker 2: hope to wash over you. Believe that God has good
- 17:11Speaker 2: gifts for you, and take several deep breaths focusing on
- 17:16Speaker 2: the love that God has poured into your heart through
- 17:19Speaker 2: the Holy Spirit. Try to smile even through tears if
- 17:23Speaker 2: they come, and thank God for the safe place of
- 17:26Speaker 2: His presence. As you come to this place of quietness,
- 17:45Speaker 2: listen for God's still small voice. Ask him if there's
- 17:50Speaker 2: anything he wants you to let go of right now.
- 17:53Speaker 2: Maybe negative thoughts or emotions that are hindering you give
- 17:58Speaker 2: them to Jesus and receive his forgiveness and his cleansing.
- 18:17Speaker 2: The truth of God's word brings healing. So present your
- 18:22Speaker 2: mind and your heart to God in this time. Remember
- 18:25Speaker 2: his truth is greater than your thoughts and your feelings.
- 18:29Speaker 2: Jesus said, the truth will set you free. So welcome
- 18:33Speaker 2: the truth that He's going to show you. As you
- 18:35Speaker 2: listen to Psalm one forty seven to three, he heals
- 18:39Speaker 2: the broken hearted and binds up their wounds. What'd you
- 18:44Speaker 2: notice in that verse as I read it? Listen as
- 18:47Speaker 2: I read it again, he heals the broken hearted and
- 18:50Speaker 2: binds up their wounds. Some people say that time heals
- 18:55Speaker 2: all wounds. The truth is only God can heal. Sometimes
- 19:00Speaker 2: he brings healing over a period of time, but he
- 19:03Speaker 2: can also heal quickly because he rules over time. Have
- 19:09Speaker 2: you thought time alone could heal your wounds? Or have
- 19:12Speaker 2: you thought you'd never heal no matter how much time passes.
- 19:17Speaker 2: Think about the expectations you may have had regarding healing
- 19:20Speaker 2: and time. Jesus demonstrated again and again that he is
- 19:54Speaker 2: the healer. His grace is greater than any pain. Take
- 19:59Speaker 2: a moment and see if anything is keeping you from
- 20:01Speaker 2: believing that Jesus can heal your heart. Listen again as
- 20:35Speaker 2: I read from the Amplified Bible Psalm one three. It
- 20:39Speaker 2: says He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds,
- 20:43Speaker 2: healing their pain and comforting their sorrow. What did you
- 20:48Speaker 2: hear differently this time? Think about that for a few
- 20:51Speaker 2: quiet moments. When you have a broken heart, there's always
- 21:24Speaker 2: another person or people involved, So a key part of
- 21:28Speaker 2: healing could be practicing forgiveness. Whether you've been wounded or
- 21:33Speaker 2: you've experienced loss, think about who may need your forgiveness today,
- 21:38Speaker 2: and then take a moment with Jesus to forgive them
- 21:40Speaker 2: right now. Or if you find that a little too hard, yet,
- 21:44Speaker 2: just ask him to help you to begin the process
- 21:46Speaker 2: of forgiveness. When you experience the pain of a broken heart,
- 22:20Speaker 2: you may say or do things that you normally wouldn't do.
- 22:24Speaker 2: Ask the Lord if there's anyone you need to apologize
- 22:27Speaker 2: to and ask forgiveness from. Then receive his grace that
- 22:31Speaker 2: is always there for you. Listen once more to Psalm
- 23:04Speaker 2: one forty seven, verse three. He heals the broken hearted
- 23:08Speaker 2: and binds up their wounds. Think about how God the
- 23:13Speaker 2: Father must have felt as he watched Jesus suffer on
- 23:16Speaker 2: the cross. God understands the pain of a broken heart.
- 23:22Speaker 2: How does that comfort you right now? John wrote about
- 23:54Speaker 2: Jesus that from his fullness we have all received grace
- 23:58Speaker 2: upon grace. Grace isn't easily explained, because it's far greater
- 24:04Speaker 2: than any human understanding. Yet grace is present with you
- 24:08Speaker 2: every day. How have you seen God's grace express to
- 24:12Speaker 2: you in the past few days. Pain can sometimes blur
- 24:46Speaker 2: your perspective and cause everything to look negative. One way
- 24:50Speaker 2: God brings healing is through revealing his goodness to you.
- 24:54Speaker 2: Meditate on the goodness of God for a few moments.
- 25:27Speaker 2: God never wastes anything, not even your pain. A broken
- 25:32Speaker 2: heart is not the end of your story. It's the
- 25:35Speaker 2: unlikely tool that God will use to move you forward
- 25:38Speaker 2: in his plans for your life. What ways can you
- 25:42Speaker 2: see that God is already bringing good from the pain
- 25:45Speaker 2: that you may have experienced. Please pray with me as
- 26:18Speaker 2: we close together. Heavenly Father, thank you for your promise
- 26:22Speaker 2: to heal the broken hearted. I bring the pain and
- 26:26Speaker 2: brokenness I've experienced to you, and I thank you for
- 26:30Speaker 2: your grace that is always greater than the pain. Would
- 26:34Speaker 2: you please give me patience and the healing process and
- 26:37Speaker 2: hope for my future. And would you draw me closer
- 26:40Speaker 2: to your heart as you heal my heart in Jesus' name. Amen,
- 26:47Speaker 2: if you can take a few more minutes just to
- 26:49Speaker 2: sit here with the Lord and let the truth that
- 26:51Speaker 2: He's shown you in this time so deeply into your
- 26:54Speaker 2: mind and your heart. Breathe, listen, receive, leave his healing touch.
- 27:03Speaker 2: Every day. Thank God for the healing that He's doing
- 27:05Speaker 2: in your heart. And when that pain resurfaces, just pause
- 27:10Speaker 2: and take a deep breath. Know that Jesus is there
- 27:13Speaker 2: holding your hand, and ask him to lead you forward
- 27:17Speaker 2: another step in the healing process as you abide in Christ.
- 27:27Speaker 2: Have you ever been rejected by someone? Rejection can come
- 27:31Speaker 2: from strangers or friends. Feeling ostracized by others can be
- 27:36Speaker 2: so devastating, can it? Well? Unfortunately, rejection is a part
- 27:41Speaker 2: of living in this fallen world where sinful people hurt others.
- 27:46Speaker 2: We've all experienced it at some point in our lives.
- 27:50Speaker 2: Jesus himself faced rejection many times, and he warned his
- 27:53Speaker 2: disciples they would experience rejection as well. When he said,
- 27:57Speaker 2: if the world hates you, no, oh, that it has
- 28:00Speaker 2: hated me before it hated you. Jesus knew the disciples
- 28:05Speaker 2: would be rejected and hated, and he explained only one
- 28:08Speaker 2: reason why. It wasn't because of their jobs, their ethnicity,
- 28:12Speaker 2: or even their behavior. It was simply because they followed Jesus.
- 28:18Speaker 2: I heard it said once that man's rejection is God's protection.
- 28:23Speaker 2: When the world rejected Jesus and put him on that cross,
- 28:27Speaker 2: God was protecting his redemptive plan. Man's rejection was God's protection.
- 28:33Speaker 2: Think back times that you were rejected. How did it
- 28:38Speaker 2: end up turning out? Don't you see? And retrospect how
- 28:42Speaker 2: God's hand was always on you, protecting you, perhaps even
- 28:47Speaker 2: bringing something new or better. God has never rejected you
- 28:52Speaker 2: and he never will, and man's rejection can actually pave
- 28:56Speaker 2: the way for God's perfect plan to unfold in your life.
- 29:00Speaker 2: Remembering this truth can change your perspective and help bring
- 29:03Speaker 2: healing to your heart in the next few moments. Why
- 29:07Speaker 2: don't you embrace an attitude of hope and expectancy. God
- 29:12Speaker 2: has blessings in store for you as you meditate on
- 29:14Speaker 2: his word. He loves spending time with you and pouring
- 29:18Speaker 2: truth into your heart and your soul. If you need
- 29:22Speaker 2: to try to bring down any walls that may have
- 29:24Speaker 2: been built up around your heart because of the pain
- 29:27Speaker 2: of rejection, allow the Holy Spirit to give you an
- 29:31Speaker 2: open mind and heart ready for whatever God wants to
- 29:34Speaker 2: do in you. Right now, would you join me as
- 29:37Speaker 2: we pray. Dear Jesus, I am amazed that even you,
- 29:42Speaker 2: the perfect God, have felt the sting of rejection. The
- 29:46Speaker 2: prophet Isaiah said you were despised and rejected of men.
- 29:51Speaker 2: I'm so thankful I serve a God who knows my
- 29:53Speaker 2: pain so intimately. Thank you for the truth of your
- 29:57Speaker 2: word that shows me that man's rejection could be your
- 30:01Speaker 2: protection in my life. Would you help me reject the
- 30:04Speaker 2: enemy's lives and help me understand your perspective on rejection
- 30:08Speaker 2: so my heart can receive your healing. In your name,
- 30:12Speaker 2: I pray Amen. Rejection is a painful topic for a
- 30:17Speaker 2: lot of people, but healing begins with bringing the pain
- 30:21Speaker 2: to Jesus. So right now, place one hand over your
- 30:26Speaker 2: heart and hold the other hand out to him. See
- 30:30Speaker 2: him taking your hand, and receive from him the courage
- 30:33Speaker 2: that you need to walk through this healing process. Tell
- 30:37Speaker 2: Jesus that you're ready to give him access to these
- 30:40Speaker 2: painful places. Take some slow and deep breaths right now
- 30:45Speaker 2: as you inhale, receive the peace of God. Rest in
- 30:50Speaker 2: his unconditional love for you. When you've experienced rejection, the
- 31:09Speaker 2: natural human response is usually not a godly one. Why
- 31:13Speaker 2: don't you consider any sinful responses you've had in the
- 31:17Speaker 2: past to rejection, things that may be even weighing your
- 31:20Speaker 2: heart down. Confess those to Jesus right now and thank
- 31:25Speaker 2: him for his complete forgiveness and receive his cleansing that
- 31:29Speaker 2: renews your heart. God accepts you perfectly and forever because
- 31:48Speaker 2: of Jesus. Allow that truth to just sink into your
- 31:52Speaker 2: mind and your heart. Right now, you're secure in Christ.
- 31:58Speaker 2: His words of truth bring healing and freedom. Listen carefully
- 32:04Speaker 2: to hear what Jesus wants to speak to you. As
- 32:06Speaker 2: I read John fifteen eighteen, If the world hates you,
- 32:11Speaker 2: know that it has hated me before it hated you.
- 32:15Speaker 2: What stood out to you in this verse? Listen as
- 32:18Speaker 2: I read it again. If the world hates you, know
- 32:22Speaker 2: that it has hated me before it hated you. Have
- 32:27Speaker 2: you ever felt like someone hated or even rejected you
- 32:30Speaker 2: for no reason? Consider that situation for a moment. How
- 32:35Speaker 2: was the person's rejection actually about Jesus and not you?
- 33:09Speaker 2: The world hated Jesus, but Jesus loved the world so
- 33:12Speaker 2: much that he died for all people. As he hung
- 33:16Speaker 2: on that cross, he said, Father, forgive them, for they
- 33:20Speaker 2: know not what they do. Forgiveness doesn't say that sin
- 33:24Speaker 2: is okay. Forgiveness is trusting God to deal with the
- 33:28Speaker 2: person and their sin. Is there anyone you need to
- 33:32Speaker 2: forgive who may have heard or rejected you. Talk to
- 33:36Speaker 2: Jesus about that right now. Ask him to give you
- 33:39Speaker 2: his power to forgive and take as long as you need.
- 34:13Speaker 2: Listen again as I read from the New international version,
- 34:16Speaker 2: John fifteen eighteen. If the world hates you, keep in
- 34:21Speaker 2: mind it hated me first. What did you hear in
- 34:25Speaker 2: the verse this time? Why don't you just consider that
- 34:28Speaker 2: for a few moments. Can you imagine anyone hating Jesus?
- 35:02Speaker 2: He was perfect, yet being perfect didn't guarantee that everyone
- 35:06Speaker 2: would love him. Have you ever thought if you were
- 35:10Speaker 2: perfect you wouldn't be rejected? Consider that idea for a moment.
- 35:14Speaker 2: In light of Jesus's experience, The enemy uses rejection to
- 35:48Speaker 2: try to whisper lies to you. For example, you're not enough,
- 35:54Speaker 2: you're not lovable, you're not valuable, all of which is
- 35:58Speaker 2: far from the truth. Take a moment and identify one
- 36:02Speaker 2: of the lies the enemy has tried to tell you,
- 36:05Speaker 2: and exchange that in your mind with the truth that
- 36:08Speaker 2: God has spoken about you. Listen once more to John
- 36:41Speaker 2: fifteen eighteen. If the world hates you, know that it
- 36:45Speaker 2: has hated me before it hated you. God created you
- 36:51Speaker 2: for loving relationships, not pain and heartache. No one would
- 36:55Speaker 2: purposefully choose to experience rejection except Jesus. He chose to
- 37:01Speaker 2: come into this sinful world and experience everything you go through,
- 37:06Speaker 2: including rejection. How does that encourage your heart. Right now,
- 37:40Speaker 2: after you've forgiven those who hurt you and you've replaced
- 37:43Speaker 2: the enemy's lies with God's truth, your heart may still
- 37:47Speaker 2: feel some pain from the experience of rejection. It can
- 37:51Speaker 2: be hard when people reject us, but remember healing is
- 37:55Speaker 2: a process. Talk to God about where you are in
- 37:59Speaker 2: that process. Jesus wasn't just disliked. He was hated. His
- 38:34Speaker 2: own people wanted to kill him. Yet that extreme hatred
- 38:39Speaker 2: it didn't derail him because he was so secure in
- 38:42Speaker 2: his Father's love for him and he trusted God's plan.
- 38:47Speaker 2: Imagine being loved by someone in such a complete and
- 38:50Speaker 2: powerful way that no one else's rejection could upset you. Well,
- 38:56Speaker 2: you already have that. You have that kind of love
- 38:59Speaker 2: in God. Why don't you reflect on that for a
- 39:02Speaker 2: few moments. Jesus always kept his focus on the Father,
- 39:36Speaker 2: not on people. What can you do to keep your
- 39:40Speaker 2: focus on Jesus in the midst of painful circumstances? Would
- 40:14Speaker 2: you join me in a closing prayer? Jesus, thank you
- 40:18Speaker 2: for the security of knowing that you will never reject
- 40:21Speaker 2: me in the painful moments. Would you help me to
- 40:24Speaker 2: look at You, not at myself? Or others. Would you
- 40:28Speaker 2: fill me with grace to forgive and faith to trust
- 40:31Speaker 2: that you have a plan and you will heal my heart.
- 40:35Speaker 2: Help me to see this from your perspective, Help me
- 40:39Speaker 2: to see opportunities to tell others about your perfect love
- 40:42Speaker 2: and faithfulness. And it's in your name, I pray, Amen.
- 40:48Speaker 2: Linger here for a few moments, if you can just
- 40:51Speaker 2: allow Jesus to continue to bring healing to your heart.
- 40:55Speaker 2: Rest in these sacred moments with him and feel completely
- 40:59Speaker 2: accepted and loved by him. And the next time you
- 41:03Speaker 2: face rejection, just remember that ultimately it's not about you.
- 41:08Speaker 2: In those painful moments, Jesus invites you to look at him,
- 41:11Speaker 2: to trust him, to receive his peace, and to find
- 41:15Speaker 2: healing in his perfect love for you as you meditate
- 41:19Speaker 2: and abide in Christ. When was the last time you
- 41:27Speaker 2: felt alone? You know, everyone feels alone at some point.
- 41:32Speaker 2: Even Jesus experienced loneliness. Jesus told his disciples, Behold, the
- 41:37Speaker 2: hour is coming. Indeed it has come when you'll be
- 41:41Speaker 2: scattered each to his own home and will leave me alone.
- 41:45Speaker 2: Yet I am not alone, for the Father is with me.
- 41:49Speaker 2: Jesus knew one of the disciples would betray him, and
- 41:52Speaker 2: he also knew the rest would desert him and that
- 41:54Speaker 2: his own people would condemn him to death. In the
- 41:58Speaker 2: face of total abandon Jesus still declared, I'm not alone,
- 42:03Speaker 2: for the Father is with me. Imagine what it would
- 42:07Speaker 2: be like to have a perfect, constant friendship with someone.
- 42:12Speaker 2: That's what Jesus had for all of eternity, with God
- 42:14Speaker 2: the Father and the Holy Spirit. There was only one
- 42:18Speaker 2: moment when that relationship was interrupted, when Jesus hung on
- 42:22Speaker 2: the cross. When Jesus hung on the cross and God
- 42:25Speaker 2: the Father judged him for our sins, Jesus endured ultimate
- 42:31Speaker 2: loneliness in order to give us the gift of God's
- 42:33Speaker 2: constant presence. Jesus both understands loneliness and provides the cure
- 42:39Speaker 2: for it. On that note of hope, let's pause, Prepare
- 42:45Speaker 2: your mind and heart for the next few moments of reflection.
- 42:49Speaker 2: Encourage yourself to explore this topic of loneliness in a
- 42:52Speaker 2: positive way. Be expectant because you know as you listen
- 42:57Speaker 2: to God, he will bless you through his word. Let's
- 43:01Speaker 2: pray together, Dear Jesus, thank you that even in your
- 43:05Speaker 2: extreme loneliness, you didn't despair Please help me bring all
- 43:09Speaker 2: the lonely circumstances and feelings I experience to you. I
- 43:14Speaker 2: ask you to fill me with hope in you that
- 43:16Speaker 2: you can bring healing. Help me to hear your voice
- 43:20Speaker 2: speaking the truth you want to encourage me with today.
- 43:23Speaker 2: It's in your name that I pray. Amen. At times,
- 43:28Speaker 2: loneliness can feel very heavy, like it's weighing you down.
- 43:32Speaker 2: But Jesus is right there with you and he wants
- 43:35Speaker 2: to lift every burden. Let's begin today by taking a
- 43:39Speaker 2: few deep, cleansing breaths. Hold your hands out if you can,
- 43:45Speaker 2: and picture the burdens on your open hands. Now see
- 43:50Speaker 2: Jesus taking those burdens from you. But keep your hands
- 43:55Speaker 2: out because you want to be ready to receive the
- 43:57Speaker 2: love and peace he wants to give to you. As
- 44:16Speaker 2: you calm your mind and heart, ask God to show
- 44:19Speaker 2: you any fears you may have about loneliness. Ask the
- 44:23Speaker 2: Holy Spirit to help you release those fears. And thank
- 44:26Speaker 2: God for his perfect love that drives out all fear
- 44:30Speaker 2: except his grace today that continually washes over you. Relax
- 44:50Speaker 2: now as you embrace the truth that Jesus is right
- 44:53Speaker 2: there with you, think about how amazing it is that
- 44:56Speaker 2: the God of the universe is present with you every
- 44:59Speaker 2: single moment. Offer Jesus your focused attention and a heart
- 45:04Speaker 2: that's ready to receive from him. As you listen, I'm
- 45:08Speaker 2: going to read John sixteen thirty two from the English
- 45:11Speaker 2: Standard version. Behold, the hour is coming. Indeed it has
- 45:16Speaker 2: come when you will be scattered each to his own home,
- 45:19Speaker 2: and you'll leave me alone. Yet I'm not alone, for
- 45:23Speaker 2: the Father is with me. What words caught your attention
- 45:27Speaker 2: in that verse? Listen as I read it again. Behold
- 45:32Speaker 2: the hour is coming. Indeed it has come when you
- 45:36Speaker 2: will be scattered each to his own home and will
- 45:39Speaker 2: leave me alone. Yet I'm not alone, for the Father
- 45:44Speaker 2: is with me. Jesus said he would not be left
- 45:48Speaker 2: all alone, Yet he was not alone. Every human being
- 45:53Speaker 2: left Jesus. Not a single person remained with him, but
- 45:57Speaker 2: Jesus knew he had something even greater. Think about a
- 46:01Speaker 2: time when there wasn't a single person with you and
- 46:04Speaker 2: you felt all alone. Reflect on that time. What ways
- 46:09Speaker 2: can you now see that God was present all along.
- 46:41Speaker 2: As a believer in Jesus, you have a relationship with
- 46:44Speaker 2: God the Father, with Jesus, and with the Holy Spirit.
- 46:49Speaker 2: When you feel alone, remember that in God, you actually
- 46:52Speaker 2: have a family present with you, father, son, and spirit.
- 46:59Speaker 2: Really con or this truth for a moment. How can
- 47:02Speaker 2: this help you the next time you feel lonely? Listen
- 47:35Speaker 2: again as I read John sixteen thirty two. A time
- 47:39Speaker 2: is coming, and in fact has come, when you'll be
- 47:42Speaker 2: scattered each to your own home. You'll leave me all alone.
- 47:47Speaker 2: Yet I'm not alone, for my Father is with me.
- 47:51Speaker 2: Did you hear anything different this time? Why don't you
- 47:55Speaker 2: think about those thoughts for a few moments of quiet meditation.
- 48:27Speaker 2: When the crisis came, even Jesus' close friends left him.
- 48:32Speaker 2: It wasn't that they stopped loving him, but they ran
- 48:34Speaker 2: away because of fear. Think about some of the people
- 48:39Speaker 2: who have left you alone. Consider if they may have
- 48:43Speaker 2: acted out of fear. Take a moment and ask God
- 48:46Speaker 2: how he sees those people. Jesus knew ahead of time
- 49:19Speaker 2: that his disciples would desert him, yet he didn't hold
- 49:22Speaker 2: it against them. Jesus forgave them even before they did it.
- 49:27Speaker 2: Healing from loneliness involves forgiving anyone who's left you alone.
- 49:32Speaker 2: Ask the Holy Spirit to help you right now to
- 49:35Speaker 2: forgive anyone you may need to forgive. Listen once more
- 50:08Speaker 2: as I read from the New Living Translation John sixteen
- 50:11Speaker 2: thirty two. But the time is coming. Indeed, it's here
- 50:16Speaker 2: now when you will be scattered, each one going his
- 50:20Speaker 2: own way, leaving me alone. Yet I'm not alone because
- 50:24Speaker 2: the Father is with me. Jesus told his disciples that
- 50:28Speaker 2: he was not alone because the Father was with him.
- 50:33Speaker 2: Yet a short time later, Jesus was hanging on the cross,
- 50:36Speaker 2: and he cried out, My God, My God, why have
- 50:40Speaker 2: you forsaken me? Jesus took our sin on the cross
- 50:44Speaker 2: and received God's righteous judgment. In those moments, Jesus was
- 50:51Speaker 2: truly alone. Imagine what that might have been like for him.
- 51:25Speaker 2: Hebrews twelve two says that Jesus endured the cross for
- 51:28Speaker 2: the joy set before him. Jesus endured the pain and
- 51:33Speaker 2: the loneliness of the cross in order to give you
- 51:36Speaker 2: a relationship with God. It delights Jesus to have a
- 51:40Speaker 2: relationship with you so much. Picture him not only present
- 51:45Speaker 2: with you, but actually really happy to be with you.
- 51:49Speaker 2: How does that make you feel. God knows you need
- 52:22Speaker 2: human relationships and godly friends, and He's faithful to provide
- 52:26Speaker 2: for all of your needs. But in the lonely times.
- 52:30Speaker 2: Perhaps God wants to change your focus from people to Him.
- 52:35Speaker 2: Reflect on how God can use loneliness to draw you
- 52:38Speaker 2: closer to Him. When you feel lonely, you're not alone.
- 53:12Speaker 2: Many people around you also feel alone. In what ways
- 53:16Speaker 2: can God use you to reach out to others who
- 53:19Speaker 2: feel lonely. Yes, loneliness is real, but it's not the
- 53:53Speaker 2: end of your story. You can experience healing from loneliness
- 53:58Speaker 2: through your relationship with Jesus, the Father and the Holy Spirit.
- 54:04Speaker 2: Would you please join me in a closing prayer. Jesus,
- 54:09Speaker 2: thank you so much for experiencing the worst possible loneliness
- 54:12Speaker 2: at that cross so that I could experience your constant
- 54:16Speaker 2: presence in the lonely times. Would you remind me and
- 54:21Speaker 2: draw me closer to you and bring healing to my heart.
- 54:25Speaker 2: Please provide the godly friendships I need, and would you
- 54:29Speaker 2: help me to share your love with others? Thank you
- 54:32Speaker 2: for always being with me. It's in your name, I
- 54:35Speaker 2: pray Amen. If possible, why don't you spend a few
- 54:40Speaker 2: more moments with Jesus before going back to your day.
- 54:44Speaker 2: Just sit here, soak in his presence and watch him
- 54:48Speaker 2: delighting in you. Let your heart be satisfied in his
- 54:51Speaker 2: love for you. Ask him to fill you until his
- 54:55Speaker 2: love overflows out of you to others, and when shall
- 55:00Speaker 2: and just come throughout your day, remind yourself, I'm not alone.
- 55:04Speaker 2: My God is with me. How many times in life
- 55:12Speaker 2: have you said that's not fair? Well? Life isn't fair,
- 55:16Speaker 2: is it? At times? It's even unjust. Sinful people sometimes
- 55:21Speaker 2: do really horrible things. If you've been deeply wounded or
- 55:26Speaker 2: suffered injustice, it might be tempting to contemplate revenge. To
- 55:31Speaker 2: the Christians in Rome who faced cruel persecution, the Apostle
- 55:35Speaker 2: Paul wrote, beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to
- 55:40Speaker 2: the wrath of God, For it is written, vengeance is mine.
- 55:44Speaker 2: I will repay, says the Lord. First, Paul addressed them
- 55:48Speaker 2: as beloved. Healing from injustice starts with remembering whose you are.
- 55:54Speaker 2: You're a beloved child of God, your heavenly Father. He's
- 55:58Speaker 2: not forgotten or abandoned you. You're dearly loved, and you're
- 56:03Speaker 2: safe in his divine care, no matter what the circumstances
- 56:07Speaker 2: look like here on earth. Second, Paul didn't deny the
- 56:11Speaker 2: reality of terrible experiences, but he did declare the authority
- 56:16Speaker 2: of God. Vengeance is God's job. When humans take revenge,
- 56:22Speaker 2: it leads to more destruction. Because God is sinless, only
- 56:26Speaker 2: he can execute justice perfectly. Healing from injustice is possible
- 56:32Speaker 2: through receiving God's love and trusting his authority. In the
- 56:37Speaker 2: face of difficult circumstances. The normal response is usually to
- 56:42Speaker 2: run away or even to fight back. Right now, try
- 56:46Speaker 2: to lay down those responses. Prepare yourself to come to
- 56:49Speaker 2: God humbly with an open heart, and believe He has
- 56:54Speaker 2: good gifts for you in this time of meditating on
- 56:56Speaker 2: his word, because he does be ready and expectant to
- 57:01Speaker 2: receive from him. We're going to meditate on Romans twelve nineteen,
- 57:05Speaker 2: But first, would you join me in an opening word
- 57:07Speaker 2: of prayer. Father, God, thank you for giving your son
- 57:12Speaker 2: to die for me so that I could become your child.
- 57:15Speaker 2: Would you help me understand and receive more of your
- 57:18Speaker 2: love for me. I really want to trust you God,
- 57:21Speaker 2: especially with my circumstances, even the unjust ones, and I
- 57:26Speaker 2: want a pure heart that sees you. Would you please
- 57:29Speaker 2: bring me through the pain to a place of peace
- 57:33Speaker 2: In Jesus name, I pray, Amen. Remember emotions affect you
- 57:39Speaker 2: big time, especially in your body. Whenever anger is present,
- 57:45Speaker 2: so is stress. So try to exhale any stress that
- 57:50Speaker 2: you might be holding on too, and inhale slowly and
- 57:54Speaker 2: place your hands in a position of openness. Relax your shoulders,
- 58:01Speaker 2: try to allow your breath to fill your lungs as
- 58:03Speaker 2: you inhale deeply and slowly. Let your body just relax
- 58:09Speaker 2: right where you are. Close your eyes if you can,
- 58:12Speaker 2: and picture Jesus right there with you as you relax
- 58:16Speaker 2: in his presence. Know that you're safe in God's love.
- 58:35Speaker 2: Now listen for his voice. Is there anything you want
- 58:38Speaker 2: you to let go of right now? Are there any
- 58:42Speaker 2: wrong thoughts or actions that you need to confess to him?
- 58:47Speaker 2: He already knows and you're already forgiven. But it's important
- 58:51Speaker 2: to take a moment and share with him how you feel.
- 58:55Speaker 2: Thank Him for his love and his grace. They are
- 58:58Speaker 2: never ending. Enjoy this moment of being still with Jesus
- 59:17Speaker 2: and breathe in his fragrance. You can open your eyes
- 59:21Speaker 2: if you want, but look around you with a new perspective.
- 59:25Speaker 2: See with eyes of faith that God is at work
- 59:28Speaker 2: in your life. With an open heart, listen carefully to
- 59:32Speaker 2: Romans twelve nineteen. Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it
- 59:38Speaker 2: to the wrath of God, For it is written vengeance
- 59:42Speaker 2: is mine. I will repay, says the Lord. Did anything
- 59:46Speaker 2: jump out at you as I read that passage? Listen
- 59:49Speaker 2: carefully again as I read Romans twelve nineteen, Beloved, never
- 59:54Speaker 2: avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God.
- 59:58Speaker 2: For it is written, is mine I will repay, says
- 1:00:02Speaker 2: the Lord. Can you remember a time when someone addressed
- 1:00:07Speaker 2: you as beloved? It's not a commonly used word, is it.
- 1:00:11Speaker 2: It's a reserve for those who are very special and dear.
- 1:00:15Speaker 2: Sometimes it's easy to forget in the busyness and craziness
- 1:00:19Speaker 2: of life that you're very special and you're dear to God.
- 1:00:23Speaker 2: Why don't you take a few moments and reflect on
- 1:00:25Speaker 2: that truth. Paul addressed the people as beloved because he
- 1:00:59Speaker 2: will and just giving them rules to follow. He wanted
- 1:01:03Speaker 2: them to know that he genuinely cared about their welfare.
- 1:01:07Speaker 2: When you know that truth is being spoken in love,
- 1:01:09Speaker 2: it makes you more open to what's being said. If
- 1:01:13Speaker 2: you felt resistance to God's word, perhaps you've forgotten how
- 1:01:17Speaker 2: much he loves you. Why don't you talk to him
- 1:01:20Speaker 2: right now about that. Listen carefully as I read from
- 1:01:52Speaker 2: the New Living Translation Romans twelve nineteen. Dear friends, never
- 1:01:57Speaker 2: take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God.
- 1:02:02Speaker 2: For the scriptures say I will take revenge, I will
- 1:02:05Speaker 2: pay them back, says the Lord. Did you hear something
- 1:02:08Speaker 2: new in that passage this time? Why don't you consider
- 1:02:12Speaker 2: that and just spend some time talking with the Lord
- 1:02:15Speaker 2: about it? Paul said, never take revenge. That means there's
- 1:02:50Speaker 2: no situation where revenge is okay. That truth goes contrary
- 1:02:54Speaker 2: to our culture, though, doesn't it. Have you ever thought
- 1:02:57Speaker 2: revenge was okay, even if it was just in a movie?
- 1:03:01Speaker 2: Why don't you reflect any ways that the culture may
- 1:03:04Speaker 2: have influenced your thinking more than you realize and more
- 1:03:08Speaker 2: than the truth of God's word. Leave revenge to God
- 1:03:42Speaker 2: so much easier said than done? Right? What is it
- 1:03:46Speaker 2: that makes it so hard for us to leave revenge
- 1:03:48Speaker 2: to God? Why don't you ask the Holy Spirit to
- 1:03:51Speaker 2: show you whatever you may need to see? Right now,
- 1:04:24Speaker 2: listen once more to this passage from the New American
- 1:04:27Speaker 2: Standard Bible, Romans twelfth nineteen. Never take your own revenge, beloved,
- 1:04:33Speaker 2: but leave room for the wrath of God, for it
- 1:04:36Speaker 2: is written, vengeance is mine. I will repay, says the Lord.
- 1:04:41Speaker 2: God has righteous anger. That may sound like a contradiction,
- 1:04:46Speaker 2: but it actually means he hates sin and he always
- 1:04:49Speaker 2: does what is right. Vengeance belongs to God because only
- 1:04:53Speaker 2: he can do it righteously. Think about the damage that's
- 1:04:57Speaker 2: been done by people trying to take revenge.