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Season 2 - Episode 105 - When you think you have something conquered…HA! · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the Chicken Coop.
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  So, today I want to talk to you about.
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  How do you know, if you are a specific type of personality?
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  You know, we all talk about these personality test and
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  everybody's like, well, I'm where I am, I on the intagram or
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  what's my disc and blah, blah blah.
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  Well, I want to tell you what's a really quick accurate.
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  Way to know parts of yourself is to think about those emotions of
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  when we talk about who's driving your bus because your primary
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  emotional drivers are really, what's?
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  You most of all. And so I happen to use the bus
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  metaphor because it's the easiest quickest way for me.
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  But I thought this would be a very funny thing to tell you
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  because I always question, you know, have outgrown my certainty
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  girl. Well yesterday I went to Costco
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  and I was not feeling well obviously I have this head thing
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  going on went to Costco and normally it's like one of my
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  most fun trips and I love going in and seeing what they have.
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  And And I always feel great being in there.
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  I don't know why. I know it's silly.
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  But again, my certainty girl loves to be supplied up.
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  So yesterday I go into Costco and they are in our particular
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  Costco, they are changing around a lot of the refrigeration and
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  big cooler. The walk-in coolers now, this
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  has been going on for months and they have been moving the orange
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  juice around, but orange juice is very important to me.
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  So again, my certainty girl, I've had it since I was very
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  little Costco happens to sell a really great organic orange
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  juice. I love it and I go to the place
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  where it has been for the last couple weeks and it's not there
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  and I immediately get like, no. Now I've got to figure out where
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  it is and I realized and I start laughing at myself I'm like what
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  do you care? You're going to walk every
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  single aisle. Anyway you're going to I'm going
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  to walk every Engel Island there because I don't want to miss.
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  If they got a new product, I might do it quickly, but I'm
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  definitely going to walk all the aisles.
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  So here, I am contemplating myself watching myself yet.
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  I can't stop myself from feeling overwhelmed by the fact that I
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  have to seek this out. As I'm going down the around the
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  corner. There's a woman giving out
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  samples because Costco loves to sample and it's For this nuke
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  and kombucha. So I'm like, okay, let me take a
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  sample and try it and I taste it and then immediately My head
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  goes to. Well, how are they keeping this
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  like, okay without being refrigerated?
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  Computed kombucha has to be refrigerated and I start
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  thinking about all of this and I'm like, okay here's my
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  certainty girl, freaking out again.
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  And this takes place the whole time I'm in Costco is about 30
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  minutes and I can tell you That I was in that state, in my
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  certainty, girl freaked out phase for the Whole 30 minutes
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  because I, at one point, I couldn't figure out where my
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  husband had taken off too, and I'm like, okay, that I need to
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  figure out where he is, because I have to figure out if there's
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  anything else that he needs. I'm trying to call him he's not
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  answering his phone of course. So I am in this place where I
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  paused and I say to myself, you know, as much As you do as much
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  as you think, you do as much as you want to shift yourself, and
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  you do shift yourself. When you are not paying
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  attention, the emotions that you are, primarily driven by will
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  show up. And my certainty girl, is
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  someone that I have to challenge and figure out consistently.
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  I love that. I mean, she is one of my best
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  buds. She takes care of everything.
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  She makes sure we have. Everything we need.
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  She's on point when she makes commitment, she keeps them.
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  She is awesome. But she's also a major pain in
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  the butt and I don't want to walk through Costco and get
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  aggravated. I don't want to be frustrated
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  that they moved the orange juice.
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  I want to be like, oh okay, I want to be curious.
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  Okay, where they move it to? Maybe they've got something new
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  and just go and do it. And the reason I'm bringing this
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  up to you guys today is I want you to realize as much as you
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  think you. Do as much as me, who does this
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  for a living all the time, every single day.
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  And as much as I work on myself and study and take classes and
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  write books and record things for you.
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  I still have to do it consistently often and you have
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  to do the same thing. So there's no discouragement
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  with yourself. There's just curiosity.
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  So when I was laughing at myself, finding myself slipping
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  in and out of it, I realized. Well, part of the reason I'm
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  having such a fit with it is because I didn't feel well and I
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  needed to just go home and rest and I gave myself Grace and I
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  stopped and I was like, okay, you know what, I just got to cut
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  myself some slack right now and laugh about it and I started
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  laughing at myself and I could shift out of it and it was no
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  big deal. So don't beat yourself up.
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  Ask better questions. Find a way to be curious about
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  it and recognize your drivers are going to be there and
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  they're going to keep coming at you.
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  So just be patient and handle them and get the information
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  from them that you need and then move forward.
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  All right, my friends. I hope you have a very blessed
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  day and I will see you tomorrow. Bye.