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Season 2 - Episode 5 - The language you use about your goals. · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim. Every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the chicken coop.
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  If you hear a really strange screeching chicken in the
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  background, that would be my neighbor's new rooster who is
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  trying to Crow and sounds like someone's killing, but he's just
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  trying to grow. Anyway, today we are talking
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  about the language of success. So what does that look like?
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  What does that sound like when you're starting off and you're
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  doing your goals? What's interesting is to listen
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  to how you're talking about them, because everything that we
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  do leaves clues in In our language, who we are as a person
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  clues in our language, how we show up in life clues in our
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  language. If you really want to master
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  very quickly being great at whatever you do, it doesn't
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  matter what you do, pay attention to the language in
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  which you are speaking in your head out loud, pay attention to
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  the language. So oftentimes what I noticed
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  when someone comes and you know obviously we're a couple days
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  into the week now. I've been talking Going to
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  people about their goals, and one of the interesting things
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  that shows up is how they're speaking about them.
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  What they're saying about them, what they believe about, them
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  always comes out in how they present it.
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  So, I'll hear somebody say. Okay, so here's my list.
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  I made my list of my goals for the year.
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  Intentions, whatever. They're calling them.
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  They've made their list. Okay, great.
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  So we sit down start going through everything and they'll
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  say yeah. You know, I'm I this is
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  something that I really I really thought about this.
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  I really want this, you know, I'm hopeful that I can make this
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  happen now that may seem like it's simple and it's not that
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  big of a deal, but we cannot hope our way to success.
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  We simply cannot hope our way to success.
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  It doesn't work that way because hope comes from viewing it as if
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  it's not, there hope comes from viewing that you may not be able
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  to make it happen. So there's always doubt so I
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  want to give you a great metaphor to think about these
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  little language blurbs that show up for you when you recognize
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  them and how important this is. If I have a 50 gallon rain
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  barrel at my house and I invite you over to sit on the porch and
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  visit the farm and I say to you, would you like some fresh
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  rainwater? It's amazing, you know, we
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  filter it, it's unbelievable and I pour it for you.
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  And I say, oh, by the way, with every 50 gallon, Rain barrel.
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  I just put one drop of arsenic in it because it's no big deal.
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  The government says that the body can handle that and it
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  won't have anything happen. You would look at me, like, I
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  was absolutely freaking insane and you would say, no, thank
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  you. You wouldn't take it under any
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  circumstances. You would.
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  You wouldn't take it. You'd be like, no, I'm good.
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  I'm all set. Thank you, thank you.
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  Anyway, I'm not thirsty. You'd come up with some kind of
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  an excuse and later you'd say to yourself.
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  What is this chick trying to do? Why is she trying to give me
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  arsenic? Water.
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  Well, it's only one drop, it doesn't make a difference, but
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  that's what language does without fail.
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  The language goes in there and puts those little drops of
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  Doubt, throughout your, you're being throughout your thought,
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  process throughout everything. And before you know it you don't
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  want to proceed on and you don't know why.
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  Because you're sitting there and you're saying no, this is
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  something I really really wanted, but you're not realizing
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  that every day. You're poisoning.
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  The rain barrel with those little tiny, Drops of thoughts
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  just like that one drop of arsenic.
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  Remember the arsenic in the water.
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  You wouldn't drink the water so you've got to control the
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  language. Nothing is more important than
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  the language. And what you see do you want to
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  be, you know, from one of my favorite lines from Seinfeld is
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  when Elaine says she's talking about a book that she was
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  reviewing and she let Kramer do the review.
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  And he says in his review of it, he says, he was a cockeyed.
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  Optimist and I always crack up laughing because I feel like
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  that is such a great line. You want to be a cockeyed
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  Optimist, you want to not take in anything from the outside
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  world. I mean, do you want to be part
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  of the mass mind because the mass mind is sick, the mass mind
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  is all about fear and doubt and it's set up to manipulate us.
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  It's set up to make us stay compliant with what everyone
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  needs us to do. Don't break the mold.
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  Do what we tell you to do. Take on more debt, go out there
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  and work, sell yourself to a company for the golden
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  handcuffs. Do all of those things and that
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  doesn't always feel right to the soul for some of us.
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  Yeah, we will be willing to do those things.
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  I have done them in the past myself, but for some of us, hmm
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  that doesn't feel right and you can't buy into that mass mind
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  mentality, which comes with mass mind language if you really We
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  want to break out and you really want to be different, you can do
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  it, but you have to control the language, you have to control
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  the beliefs, you have to control the emotions and nobody can do
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  this for you. But you, I promise there is no
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  way anybody can do it for you, but you, but it all starts with
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  this one, little tiny drop, and the little tiny drops come in
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  Clues from the language and that always Loops us back to what's
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  really going on in our head, what we're really feeling.
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  What we're really And and boom, you can nail it.
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  So think about the language, you are speaking into with these
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  goals. Think about the language you are
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  using. When you talk about them, we
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  don't hope our way to success. We know we're there we see us
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  ourselves as they are. We still do the work, but we see
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  it and we feel it and we envision it and that's what gets
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  us there. But that first piece is, how are
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  you speaking about it? So go figure it out and I will
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  see you guys tomorrow. I hope you have a very Very
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  blessed day. Very blessed day.