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(#2) Magnetism, Intuition & Receiving: The Feminine Secrets That Change Everything · Alignment With Jenn

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Hello and good morning, beautiful.
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I'm so excited to share Episode 2 with you.
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I have been thinking about it for the last hour or so and kind
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of planning out what I want to share with you.
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And what we're going to talk about today is the core gifts of
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feminine energy. Because I really believe that
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feminine energy is undervalued in society.
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And the more that we value it, the more that we tap into it,
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the more that we access these gifts that are innate.
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You naturally possess these gifts, these superpowers.
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The more that you connect to them, the more effortlessly and
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easily you will create the life that you want.
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It is directly connected with your ability to manifest the
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things that you want. Because as a feminine energy
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being, the more you are in alignment with your true nature,
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the more everything lines up. Your energy is able to be more
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directed and more powerfully utilized.
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So connecting to these gifts is going to amplify every single
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thing that you want in this life.
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So let's get into it. So there's 10 gifts I'm going to
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share with you today. So the first gift of the
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feminine is receptivity and openness.
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And the way I think of this is like a woman with her arms open
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and her child running into her arms or her lover running into
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her arms or her best friend. But this openness, this
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receptivity. And an example of this that
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always strikes me is say you're out to dinner or you're at a
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club or something on a Friday night and you're, they're all
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glammed up. You're looking super cute.
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And you go into the bathroom and there's another girl in there
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and she's fixing her makeup and something.
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And she 9 times out of 10, she'll turn to you and she'll be
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like, Oh my gosh, girl, you look beautiful.
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Or I love your dress or I love your necklace, or you might do
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that to her, right? There's such an openness and
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such a receptivity among women. And that openness, that
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receptivity flows and it creates connection.
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And women are natural connectors.
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And a large part of that is because of this gift of openness
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and receptivity. We are receptive to what is
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going on around us. We are receptive to connection
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and to being in flow with other people.
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And what can happen though, is when we have been hurt, when
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we've experienced trauma, when we fear or we have self doubt or
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we lack confidence in our connection to our wholeness, we
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can close, right? And literally that closing, that
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closing of your energy, that lack of receptivity, that lack
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of openness is instantly felt by everyone around you, by your
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partner. You know, when you close and
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you're like, well, he hasn't asked me why I'm mad or
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whatever, He feels it. I guarantee he feels it even on
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an unconscious level, right? We all feel it when or your best
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friend, you're at lunch with your best friend and she
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suddenly closes. You know, you're like, oh,
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what's going through her head? You feel it immediately.
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Because we are naturally open and receptive.
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And it is our job to work through our own stuff, to do the
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work. So that way we can really remain
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open and receptive to life because the ability to be
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receptive, to receive love, support, opportunities and
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abundance effortlessly is because of this openness.
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And true feminine power comes from magnetism, from being
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receptive and receiving versus through force.
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Force is a more masculine energy.
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The feminine. Think of the of a feminine queen
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on her throne and she's sitting there, she looks magnificent and
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she's not forcing anything. She's receiving, right.
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People are bringing jewels and food to her feet.
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She's just receiving, right? So receptivity, the ability to
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be receptive and open. And the more that you are
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receptive and open, the more that you create that energy in
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your environment and in the people around you.
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You say hello to the cashier, you compliment the waitress,
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right? All of these little ways that we
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effortlessly as women create connection, our, our ability to
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be receptive and open. And the more that you cultivate
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this, the more that you will attract in the things that you
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want, right? A lot of times we struggle in
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dating or we struggle in creating friendships because we
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close because we're not receptive and open to other
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people. So the more that we can remain
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in this state and it's not easy, right?
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I'm not saying it's this super easy thing to do, but the more
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that we can remain in that state, the more that we will.
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Receptivity and openness is a pathway and a portal to
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receiving, receiving the things that you want.
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So our next gift is emotional intelligence and depth.
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So feminine energy is naturally deep.
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It is naturally emotionally aware and sensitive to others
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and to the self as well. We're very in touch typically,
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unless, you know, we've had issues, right?
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Trauma, challenges, things like that, that have caused us to
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kind of close off from our emotions naturally.
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Our natural essence is this depth of emotion, and that's
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beautiful because we feel experiences, right?
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Brené Brown talks about how you can't feel joy and the positive
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emotions if you're not willing to feel vulnerability and the
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more uncomfortable emotions. So the feminine is typically
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comfortable with her emotions. She's comfortable connecting to
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them because she views them as guidance.
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They give her information about how she's feeling, about her
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environment, about what is beneficial to her, right?
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I know that emotions can sometimes be shamed, right?
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Oh, hide your emotions. Don't show weakness.
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Don't be so emotional, right? But women are too emotional to
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lead or whatever it might be. But emotions are beautiful.
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And without emotions, our world would be so boring and so flat.
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So connecting and allowing yourself to feel your emotions
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is is power. It truly is power.
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It's fuel. Our emotions are fuel for the
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things that we want. If I'm not feeling inspired and
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passionate, I'm probably not going to go after the things
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that I want. You want to connect your
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emotions if you want to allow the negative emotions to flow
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through you, right. We are waves in the ocean.
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So the third gift is intuition and inner knowing.
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Oh my gosh, I will do a full episode on this because the
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heightened ability to trust your inner voice, to trust
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synchronicities that you see to trust the unseen forces and the
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unseen energies is your intuition rather than leaning
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into logic, right leaning into a pro and con list, leaning into
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well, you know the data shows this right?
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The data can show a lot and still be wrong and your
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intuition can be right and intuition is really it grows the
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more that you trust it, the more that you lean into it.
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If you feel like you don't have good intuition, it's because you
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just don't trust it. You your intuition is always on.
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It is always speaking to you, but it is your ability to listen
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to. It is your ability to say, you
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know what? I don't know why, but I want to
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go on this trip to Tulum. I don't know why.
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There's not a logical reason. I actually have a lot going on
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at home, but I know I need to be there, right?
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I know I need to be there. So you book the trip and then
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you end up meeting the love of your life, right?
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That is intuition. Intuition is allowing yourself
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to trust, allowing yourself to be guided by a force greater
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than yourself that you don't logically understand.
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Because logic is a very small part of our brain, actually our
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intuition and our subconscious processing is actually able to
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process significantly more information, vastly more
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information than our conscious mind, our more logical mind.
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So in the book Deep Work, the author talks about how it's
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actually better to make more complex decisions based off of
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your subconscious processing, which is where our intuition
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comes from, then on more logic and reason.
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Because your logical mind, your conscious mind is not able to
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process vast amounts of information like that.
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Not to mention your intuition is connected to your creator, it's
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connected to your source energy. So the more that you connect to
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that intuition, the more that you are going to be able to
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collapse time. Quantum leaps do not come from
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logic, they come from intuition. They come from that deep trust
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of yourself. And that really is why people
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struggle with intuition, is because they struggle trusting
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themselves. So feminine wisdom can often
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bypass the mind and connect directly to higher intelligence.
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So you might meet someone and be like, you know what?
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I don't know why, but that person doesn't mean I feel
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uncomfortable, right? Or have an intuition.
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We hear this all the time of moms being like, I don't know
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why, but I need to go pick up my child from school or I don't
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know why, but I know something is wrong, right?
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We just because we can't see it, we are connected to this
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infinite field and we can receive insights and downloads
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from that. And your ability to trust your
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intuition is directly related to your ability to manifest things
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into your life quickly. So yeah, if you're struggling to
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trust your intuition, you need to get inside of my group
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program, the Manifestation accelerator, because literally
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the whole program is designed to help you connect and trust your
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intuition because that's how you illogically quantum leap.
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That's how you collapse time and you can press decades into days.
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So magnetism and attraction that is #4 instead of chasing the
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feminine is drawing in what she desires through being in
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alignment with her energy, through her presence, through
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her embodiment. And this, this hustle culture
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has moved us so far away from our magnetism and our attraction
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because it's put us in this energy of do, do, do, right?
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Create to ignore yourself, care, burn yourself out, right?
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Do all these things when in order to be your most magnetic,
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to be your most attractive, you actually have to be taking care
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of yourself. You actually have to be
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connecting to your own inner energy, your own inner presence
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and embodying that. So it requires rest.
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It requires not overdoing it, not stuffing your calendar and
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until it pops right, it requires you to allow yourself to trust.
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Trust is a big theme in feminine energy, especially in society
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today because we're not taught, we're not taught these things.
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We're not brought up. Most people, some people very
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lucky people are, but most people are not brought up to
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trust their inner, their intuition to trust, their
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ability to attract things to them.
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Think about it. Oftentimes people that are
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attracted to you, whether it's men or women that you're
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interested in, usually they're kind of just attracted to you,
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right? Usually it just kind of happens.
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It's not typically something that we want to be chasing down.
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We want to attract it in. So magnetism and attraction is a
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feminine gift. And you think of like the
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magazine ads where the woman's kind of just like leaning back,
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right? Then there is flow and
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surrender. So you notice all of these
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feminine gifts, they all require trust.
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They all require you to get out of your logical mind to get out
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of your head and into your body and into your heart, flow and
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trust. So the feminine is naturally in
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tune with cycles, right? We literally have a monthly
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cycle. If you look at a graphic of the
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female hormonal cycle, it's like mountains and valleys.
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And you look at the male hormonal cycle and it's like
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these tiny, tiny little holes and it's symmetrical the whole
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way across. It's literally their, their
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hormonal cycle is the same all month long.
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Ours is like, and I want to do a whole episode on that because
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there's gifts in every aspect of our cycle.
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We are literally magical magician miracle beings.
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And when we align with our cycle, we amplify our magical
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magician Ness, right? So staying in tune with cycles,
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with flow, with seasons, with rhythm, trusting, you know what?
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I feel like I need to rest because what that means is
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you're creating. I want you to start associating
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rest with actually creation with I'm receiving an idea, I'm
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receiving an insight. I'm receiving how to get from A
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to B way faster. So the feminine surrenders to
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the flow of the cycles and the rhythm and the seasons, right?
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She recognizes that she's not going to be the same woman every
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single day of the month. She's not a man.
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She's not going to be the same woman every season either.
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And recognizing that and recognizing that there's gifts
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and there's beauty in that dynamic nature of her flow, of
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her surrender, of her ability to say, you know what?
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I am on my period and I don't feel great.
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So I'm going to allow myself to flow and rest.
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I'm going to give myself a little extra time.
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I'm going to because I know that I'm being provided for it.
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I know that what I need is going to come through for me.
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So number six, creativity and expression.
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The feminine literally gives physical birth.
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You are a vessel for creating. You are a creator.
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Literally you're, you create human beings.
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You have that capacity, and you also are a creator of ideas, of
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art, of experiences for other people.
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Have you noticed that when a beautiful magnetic woman walks
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into a room, probably you people notice because she's creating.
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She's creating in that environment for visions, for the
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feminine is a vision caster. She's creative.
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She casts those visions, she receives those insights, those
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intuitions from the unseen and brings them into form.
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It's the energy of inspiration, of storytelling, of innovation,
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that is the gift that you innately have.
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Have that gift to really be creative and expressive, right?
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To be an artist with your life, to craft your life no matter
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what you do. You can be an artist accountant,
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you can be an artist housekeeper, right?
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There can be art in every profession.
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There can be art in every day. You can be an artist at making
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your coffee in the morning. You can be an artist at how you
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move in yoga class, right? It's, it's allowing yourself to
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feel the full expression of your emotions, to connect into your
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body, right? And we'll get into that one so
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#7 soft power and influence. So I will also do a whole
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episode on this. The feminine does not lead
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through force, right? The feminine, that is the
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masculine. And we can tap into the
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masculine. Hell yeah.
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We can tap into the masculine, right?
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We have that capacity. We're dynamic beings, and the
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masculine can tap into all of these gifts.
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There are some very intuitive masculine men, right?
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Not really as common as intuitive women, but it's we all
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we all share, right? It's no, there's no one has a
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monopoly on these spiritual energetic gifts.
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So soft power and influence. So the feminine leads through
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energetic influence, through presence, through embodiment
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rather than force and dominance. Have you noticed?
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Oh gosh, when I was younger, my mom, if she was mad, I could
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feel it, right? You could feel that change in
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her energy. You just knew it, right?
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Because the feminine's energy is incredibly powerful and it
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influences the space that she's in.
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So you having that grounded presence creates that ripple
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effect in your environment. You leading through soft power,
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right? That ability to influence
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through your energy, through you can say nothing.
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You can have 0 words. You can be completely still and
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you can speak volumes through your energy and your presence.
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That is it's soft power, it's velvety power, but it's power
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then nurturing and healing. Women are natural healers.
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We have this ability to create spaces to hold spaces to
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nourish, to heal, whether that's in relationship, business or
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even self transformation. We have going back to our
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intuition. We can tap in and connect and
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sit in and read the room and assess, right.
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Not only are we connected to our own emotions, but we understand
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others emotions. That's a massive gift, a massive
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gift, right? That emotional depth, all of
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these play together. They're like a beautiful
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tapestry of the feminine. So creating that nourishment for
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others, that nurturing, that healing that is powerful,
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powerful, powerful, powerful because your ability, you can
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nurture people, you can nurture your children, you can nurture
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your partner and you allow them to expand into their greatest
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expression. But you can also nurture an idea
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and help that idea grow into its greatest expression.
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You can nurture yourself, right? Nurturing is what you do with a
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beautiful plant that's in the ground.
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You nurture it to help it grow. And healing is kind of the flip
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side of that. When something bad has happened
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or some difficulty has happened, right?
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We heal from that. So the feminine's ability to
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help others heal is unmatched. And #9 sensuality and presence.
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And this really goes into our connection with our body, of
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trusting our body, not only our emotions, but feeling the
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pleasure that it comes from touching our body.
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If you have not read the book Pussy the Reclamation, I highly
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recommend it because it goes so in depth into really connecting
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to your body, learning to love and honor and appreciate your
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body. Because a lot of women are
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disconnected from your body, especially if you've had sexual
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trauma, right? We learn there this unconscious
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thing can happen where we decide that our body is not safe,
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right? For me, for many years I felt my
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body was not safe. It felt like it was not safe to
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be sexy. It's something I still am
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working on to this day. But when you connect into your
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body and you learn to honor your body, you give yourself self
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massage, you touch your body, you feel your body, the sensual
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essence of your body. That's powerful.
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That is an energetic power. Alison Armstrong, I can't
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remember what book this was from, but she talked about how a
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woman can change the entire dynamic of a space by simply
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walking down. Let's say you're in the airport
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and you're walking through the airport on a line of men.
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You start to just pay attention to the feeling of your thighs
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rubbing together like that subtle feeling of just the
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movement of your skin, right? The fabric of your skin,
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whatever it might be, just too into your body like that, that's
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incredibly magnetic because the masculine typically is not as
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connected to the body, is not as connected to emotions.
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And so it's highly magnetic. It alivens the masculine.
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It is a nutrient for the masculine.
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This connection to the body, this connection to our feminine
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presence in essence. So the feminine is deeply
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embodied, meaning she's deeply in her body, she's deeply
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connected to her body. She deeply trusts the wisdom of
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her body. She's connected to pleasure, to
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beauty, to full sensory experiences in the present
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moment, right? She doesn't shame her body.
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She doesn't look in the mirror and be like, I need to lose 5
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lbs. She looks in the body and she's
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like, that's incredible. I, I can grow things, human
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beings out of this body, right? I appreciate and I love this
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body for all that it is in this moment and all that it's going
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to be in the next moment. So she feels into her body.
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She sits in her body rather than in her head.
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So #10 mysticism and spiritual depth, so yummy.
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The feminine taps into the unseen realms, ancient wisdom,
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and deep spiritual truths effortlessly.
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You have this innate gift. And before I go into this
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further, I want you to also recognize that all of these
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gifts you're going to have to different depths.
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And so if you feel like I don't really connect to that, practice
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it. Practice cultivating it, right?
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Practice connecting to it. And maybe I'll do a whole
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episode on how to cultivate each of these.
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God, we have so much to talk about.
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All right, so the feminine taps into the unseen realms.
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She is spiritually connected. She understands spiritual truths
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innately. And Kabbalah talks about how the
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feminine is actually more spiritually evolved than the
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masculine. Not always, right?
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Not every woman is more evolved than every man, but in general,
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the feminine essence is more spiritually evolved.
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That means that we have access to more spiritual wisdom
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innately. The masculine has to do more to
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earn it. So that's why see more women
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gravitating toward the spiritual space, right?
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Because to her, it innately makes sense.
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And that is a powerful gift. And all of these gifts are gifts
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for yourself. They're gifts to help you
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cultivate your purpose. But they're gifts to give to
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your children. They're gifts to give to other
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people, to gifts to give to your partner.
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They're gifts to utilize to grow your business, right?
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Intuition in business is a game changer.
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Even Steve Jobs said, I don't remember the exact quote, he
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said that he trusted his intuition more than his logical
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mind. That's how he made more
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decisions, right? Are these?
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Gifts are not to be undervalued because they are transformative.
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They will change your life the more that you lean into them.
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And so I encourage you this week to just play.
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Play with these gifts. Play into them, right?
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How can you express your flow and your surrender more?
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How can you surrender more to the present moment?
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What can you do to trust your intuition a little bit more?
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What can you do to experience the depths of your emotions?
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How can you connect to your sensuality?
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Maybe it's a nice warm bath with a can candlelit with bubbles.
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Maybe it's dry brushing. Maybe it's getting a massage and
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getting out of your head during the massage and away from your
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To Do List and into the touch on your body.
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Maybe it's making love to your partner.
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Connecting to these gifts will create 8 shifts in your life in
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ways that you cannot imagine. They are unseen forces that are
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activated by these gifts. They create illogical success,
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illogical wealth, illogical results, illogically beautiful
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relationships. So I hope that you have loved
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this. I have loved sharing it with you
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and stay tuned for my next episode that will be dropping
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and reach out to me on Instagram at alignment with Jen.
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I'd love to hear your aha moments from this.
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I'd love to hear your takeaways. And if you would love to work
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with me further, I would love to work with you further.
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I'd love to have you inside my group program, the Manifestation
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Accelerator, where we dive deep into manifestation.
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We do so much powerful healing and rewiring work to connect you
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to these true gifts. Because these gifts are innate.
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These gifts you have naturally, you don't have to do anything to
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cultivate them. You have to clear out what's in
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the way. So I adore you and I cannot wait
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to chat with you in our next episode.
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Bye for now.