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It’s Supposed to Be Hard – That’s How You Grow. · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: It's supposed to be hard. If it wasn't hard, everyone
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  Speaker 1: would do.
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  Speaker 2: It the hard that's what makes it great.
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  Speaker 3: You need to just keep living. Listen to the pain.
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  Speaker 3: It's suppose history teaching and watune telling. Pain teaches us
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  Speaker 3: who we are. Wig Sometimes it's so bad we feel
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  Speaker 3: like we're dying, but we can't really live till we
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  Speaker 3: diet a little county.
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  Speaker 4: You don't get it.
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  Speaker 5: There's great joy in the grind, great joy to suffer.
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  Speaker 5: It totally cleanses your body out. Man, if any kind
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  Speaker 5: of hate makes you grow up, what I.
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  Speaker 4: Want to invite you to do.
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  Speaker 6: What I want you to consider is that every single
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  Speaker 6: time you go and do something hard, that's the story
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  Speaker 6: you've told yourself that it's easier said than done. You
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  Speaker 6: know it's kind of hard to do that. Well, it's
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  Speaker 6: supposed to be hard. Look if growing stronger, if growing
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  Speaker 6: stronger and building muscle were easy, you'd have no re
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  Speaker 6: to go to the gym. You'd have no there would
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  Speaker 6: be no growth if there was no challenge.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm answering your questions.
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  Speaker 7: Every question I'm answering it.
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  Speaker 5: I'm with you, But in the back of my mind,
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  Speaker 5: all I'm thinking about is all the times I could
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  Speaker 5: have won those matches that I lost by not bringing
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  Speaker 5: my best mindset. You're haunted by all the opportunities that
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  Speaker 5: you missed by not bringing your best at that time
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  Speaker 5: when you could have won, but you didn't win because
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  Speaker 5: you allowed life to interfere with that one shot.
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  Speaker 8: When you're sitting there getting ready to.
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  Speaker 5: Serve for the match, and your mind is not thinking
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  Speaker 5: about where that ball.
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  Speaker 4: Place needs to be, but thinking about.
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  Speaker 5: Your family, this or this at work or that at work.
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  Speaker 5: That's greatness. Greatness is your recall on every single shot
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  Speaker 5: that you missed throughout a twenty something year career, every
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  Speaker 5: shot you can go back and say, I was here,
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  Speaker 5: this person was in the reredch sure there.
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  Speaker 4: Greatness is being so aware of the time.
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  Speaker 5: Of life in the second that went by, and you
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  Speaker 5: can recall.
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  Speaker 4: Like it was yesterday.
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  Speaker 5: Greatness is being able to go back there, not making
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  Speaker 5: that same mistake again and being haunted by it.
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  Speaker 9: There really are only two macro level motivators that we
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  Speaker 9: have in life, and that's pleasure and pain. I want
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  Speaker 9: people to understand, is okay, so if nature only gave
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  Speaker 9: you two things to motivate you, pleasure and pain, why
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  Speaker 9: would you eliminate half of them? And so most people
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  Speaker 9: think that life is about avoiding the pain. I am
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  Speaker 9: here to tell you right now in a very controlled fashion,
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  Speaker 9: it is about really experiencing the pain learning from it.
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  Speaker 9: Pain plus reflection equals progress.
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  Speaker 4: Failure has been achieved, thank god.
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  Speaker 10: Now the only place to go from failure is to win.
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  Speaker 10: You have to achieve failure. You have to take it
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  Speaker 10: that far. Nobody wants to go that far art it's
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  Speaker 10: too scary. You know something, I got news for you.
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  Speaker 10: That's where winning is.
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  Speaker 4: It always has been.
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  Speaker 11: The one thing I would tell them is and I
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  Speaker 11: would tell them to get a tattooed on your arm
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  Speaker 11: like and.
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  Speaker 1: It would say, it's supposed to being hurt.
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  Speaker 12: I think finding uncomfortable moments and embracing uncomfortable moments are
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  Speaker 12: one of the most important things a person can do
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  Speaker 12: in terms of understanding themselves and understanding how they think.
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  Speaker 4: And if you don't do it, if you just didn't
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  Speaker 4: avoid it, you.
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  Speaker 13: Have that uncomfortable moment you just start boozing, or you know,
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  Speaker 13: he takes the pills or something, and you just avoid it,
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  Speaker 13: You're you're never going to figure out what was going
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  Speaker 13: on in the first place that led you down that
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  Speaker 13: weird road where now you find yourself crying in the
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  Speaker 13: fetal position on your bathroom floor, Like what how did
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  Speaker 13: you get there?
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  Speaker 7: Like?
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  Speaker 1: Are you looking at it?
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  Speaker 14: Or are you just going to take a scream to
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  Speaker 14: me the other night, hey will, I want to be
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  Speaker 14: an actor, man, I want to be an actor just
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  Speaker 14: like you.
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  Speaker 4: You know, Usually people say stuff to me like that.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, man, you know you're doing this.
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  Speaker 14: Give them an encouraging word. But I was just sitting
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  Speaker 14: here thinking and it dawned on men. Ninety percent of
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  Speaker 14: people that say stuff like that are not willing to
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  Speaker 14: do what it takes to make their dreams come true.
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  Speaker 4: The Marines have a saying everybody wants to go to heaven, but.
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  Speaker 14: Nobody wants to die.
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  Speaker 1: And that's just real.
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  Speaker 14: At the center of bringing any dream into fruition is
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  Speaker 14: self discipline.
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  Speaker 4: You know, something as simple.
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  Speaker 1: As food and eating.
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  Speaker 14: It's not about your body as much as it is
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  Speaker 14: about your mind. It's getting command of your mind to
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  Speaker 14: be able to choose actions that are in your own
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  Speaker 14: best interests.
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  Speaker 4: Every day we are choosing that's not in.
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  Speaker 14: Our own best interest, right, So if the world is
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  Speaker 14: attacking you in the world wants to fight you, and
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  Speaker 14: the world's trying to.
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  Speaker 15: Pull you down.
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  Speaker 4: So you're gonna kick yourself in the balls.
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  Speaker 14: So you're gonna stop yourself from getting what you dream self.
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  Speaker 14: Discipline is the center of all material success. You cannot
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  Speaker 14: win the war against the world if you can't win
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  Speaker 14: the war against your own mind.
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  Speaker 16: Do you think discipline in and of itself is the
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  Speaker 16: route or do you think discipline within.
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  Speaker 4: The framework of a direction.
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  Speaker 16: Because you had the business, you had the vision for
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  Speaker 16: who you wanted to be, you were pointed towards that
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  Speaker 16: and disciplined got you there. If somebody's not pointed anywhere,
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  Speaker 16: would you give them different advice?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I would.
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  Speaker 17: I think that if someone has a zero plan, zero
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  Speaker 17: future land out ahead of them, they don't need to
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  Speaker 17: just implement discipline into their life. They don't need to
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  Speaker 17: go out and run ten k a day for seventy days,
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  Speaker 17: or train twice and drink this water and do this.
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  Speaker 17: I think they need to take the first little step,
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  Speaker 17: whether that's trying to figure out what it is that
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  Speaker 17: you wanted, what are you wanttually good at everyone's good
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  Speaker 17: at something right If you can leverage that one thing,
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  Speaker 17: then make it become your life. Eventually it will need
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  Speaker 17: to success, and I'm sure like you can. I'm sure
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  Speaker 17: everyone can be successful in a field of what they do.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what the timelines are on that.
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  Speaker 17: It could be fifty years, it could be ten years,
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  Speaker 17: it could be one year. You see like singers blow
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  Speaker 17: up after six months of singing, but you'll see a
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  Speaker 17: business person like me blow up after twelve years, or
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  Speaker 17: you'll see a businessman that sells cars and it'll take
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  Speaker 17: in thirty five years. If there's no timeline for it,
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  Speaker 17: it's just about taking that first step.
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  Speaker 1: Whether that first step is leading the.
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  Speaker 17: Book, mental health, going for a run, like whatever that
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  Speaker 17: thing is, just just give it a go, Just try it,
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  Speaker 17: see if you can stack it up, and if you
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  Speaker 17: enjoy it, keep going on.
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  Speaker 18: It needs motivation. For breakfast, you don't need motivation. It's
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  Speaker 18: great if it rids. It's some extra fuel on the fire.
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  Speaker 18: But discipline is the thing that you need. What would
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  Speaker 18: you tomorrow want you today to do? You tomorrow would
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  Speaker 18: want you to keep that promise?
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  Speaker 4: There has to be something.
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  Speaker 5: This is this is what I'm talking about now, because
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  Speaker 5: this isn't a hack.
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  Speaker 4: This has to be in you.
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  Speaker 5: Something in you has to wake up, and usually the
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  Speaker 5: only person that can wake it up is you. Sometimes
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  Speaker 5: you can read a David Gaggin's book because I was
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  Speaker 5: all this and then a lot more up. But if
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  Speaker 5: you don't have a little flame, you know, just that,
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  Speaker 5: just barely, if you're done, I.
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  Speaker 4: Can't I can't light it for you.
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  Speaker 5: And that's the harsh reality of this life that I
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  Speaker 5: want to get across so freaking bad. You can watch me,
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  Speaker 5: you can watch you, You can watch Carogan and Cameron Haynes,
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  Speaker 5: all these motherfuckers. You can go to Tony Robbinson's bulls.
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  Speaker 4: Do all this ship, Do all this ship?
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  Speaker 5: If you you could keep going back and keep spending
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  Speaker 5: and spending money and spending with no results, you can wonder, Wow,
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  Speaker 5: maybe then they go child David Goggins, he ain't gonna
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  Speaker 5: help you. You have to explore, examine the inside of
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  Speaker 5: yourself and what do you.
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  Speaker 4: Really want out of life?
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  Speaker 5: Your friend, A lot of people out here just don't
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  Speaker 5: want it, So guess what.
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  Speaker 1: Have fun with your life.
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  Speaker 19: It's a lot easier to sit around and make a
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  Speaker 19: list of what you're going to do in the future.
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  Speaker 1: What's easier.
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  Speaker 4: It's easier to take out a pen and a piece of.
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  Speaker 19: Paper and write things down, and so people will substitute
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  Speaker 19: that action for the action that will actually change them
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  Speaker 19: and make them better and move them closer to that
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  Speaker 19: version of who they know they can become.
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  Speaker 1: So let's just be careful. Just be careful, Be careful.
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  Speaker 20: Of getting caught in that planning phase of who you
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  Speaker 20: can become. Be careful of that planning phase, because planning
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  Speaker 20: phase should be about three seconds long, and there's time
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  Speaker 20: to go get after it.
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  Speaker 1: Make your move before you're ready. Okay, you where big
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  Speaker 1: dreams go to die. They go to the planning place preparing.
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  Speaker 21: Myself and it's the biggest con job we work on ourselves.
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  Speaker 1: There are so many bones of big dreams in that crack.
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  Speaker 22: Yard where people there's always going.
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  Speaker 1: To be a set of reasons to wait.
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  Speaker 5: Will you want to achieve the highest goal of all time,
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  Speaker 5: you are going to have to learn how to get your.
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  Speaker 23: Ass kicked all the way up that damn mountain.
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  Speaker 4: If I want to be way up here, it's going to.
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  Speaker 5: Take a bunch of small micro failures along the way.
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  Speaker 5: But you have to understand that that is part of
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  Speaker 5: the process.
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  Speaker 11: The reality is when you do things that are easy
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  Speaker 11: in life, you don't value them as much. When you
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  Speaker 11: do things that are difficult and that require you to
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  Speaker 11: dig really deep, then you value them more. It's easy
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  Speaker 11: to quit, it's easier to try something that's already been
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  Speaker 11: done before. It's harder when you don't know what the
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  Speaker 11: end result would be. It's harder when you face the
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  Speaker 11: uphill challenge and you deal with it. You face it
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  Speaker 11: head on. It's where you build confidence in yourself. That's
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  Speaker 11: where you build your own self esteem. You know, if
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  Speaker 11: things are given to you, you never have a sense
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  Speaker 11: of how difficult it is to actually earn it.
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  Speaker 24: Regret hurts more than discipline, because when you're disciplined and
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  Speaker 24: you act on the things that you're supposed to do,
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  Speaker 24: you won't.
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  Speaker 25: Ever have to look back and say, dang, what it
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  Speaker 25: could have should have?
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  Speaker 1: So do it now so you don't have to do
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  Speaker 1: it later.
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  Speaker 26: The most powerful voice you'll ever hear is the one
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  Speaker 26: inside your own head, because that voice is often fueled
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  Speaker 26: by fear and insecurity. Your mind can remind you of
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  Speaker 26: the past, it can criticize you and make you question
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  Speaker 26: your self worth, but you can change that. Don't be
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  Speaker 26: afraid to question the stories you create in your head.
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  Speaker 1: Focus on what you want, and you'll.
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  Speaker 26: Start to see opportunities where obstacles once were.
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  Speaker 27: You get up in the morning, what are you gonna
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  Speaker 27: do to I'm gonna win to day? Well, just by
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  Speaker 27: saying that you're gonna win today, you ain't gonna win
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  Speaker 27: to day. It's a jungle out there. See, most of us,
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  Speaker 27: we come out to compete every single day. The jungle
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  Speaker 27: comes to win because the jungle is always prepared.
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  Speaker 28: You know the things that you think about all the
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  Speaker 28: time that you don't tell anybody, right, you can do
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  Speaker 28: that thing. You actually can achieve it, and you should
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  Speaker 28: believe in yourself.
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  Speaker 26: You should believe in those things because they're there for
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  Speaker 26: a reason.
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  Speaker 1: They're not in your mind, they're not in your heart,
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  Speaker 1: just to be there.
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  Speaker 25: Ever you feel negative or unhappy about anything, you say,
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  Speaker 25: wait a minute, I'm responsible.
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  Speaker 1: I'm responsible for my life.
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  Speaker 29: I'm responsible for what happens.
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  Speaker 5: I can't change the past, so I'm not going to
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  Speaker 5: spend a second world about the past.
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  Speaker 30: Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone
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  Speaker 30: else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma, which is living
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  Speaker 30: with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the
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  Speaker 30: noise of other's opinions dround out your own inner voice.
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  Speaker 30: And most important, have the courage to follow your heart
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  Speaker 30: and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want
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  Speaker 30: to become. Everything else is secondary.
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  Speaker 1: Your biggest enemy is you.
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  Speaker 4: People don't understand you against you.
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  Speaker 23: The only person that gets in you wagh is you,
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  Speaker 23: nobody else.
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  Speaker 31: I think stuck is a signal that you've stopped growing.
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  Speaker 31: And when most people feel stuck, they don't understand that
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  Speaker 31: it's tied to a fundamental need for growth. We believe
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  Speaker 31: it's an existential crisis, and we blow up our lives.
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  Speaker 31: For most human beings, what actually will get you feeling
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  Speaker 31: like you're not stuck is having something in the future
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  Speaker 31: that you looking forward to. Learning anything gets you back
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  Speaker 31: in touch with a fundamental need. It makes you start
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  Speaker 31: to feel like things are moving, and from that place
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  Speaker 31: a feeling a little bit more empowered. You'll be able
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  Speaker 31: to make better decisions about what big things need to
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  Speaker 31: change in your life.
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  Speaker 24: Your current situation is not your final destination. There's more
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  Speaker 24: to your life, and I know right now it's hard
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  Speaker 24: for you to believe that, but I need you to
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  Speaker 24: believe it, like everything you're currently facing is building you
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  Speaker 24: for something greater. You're more than your struggles, You're more
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  Speaker 24: than your pain. I know you feel like nobody understands you,
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  Speaker 24: nobody gets you. I know you feel alone and isolated.
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  Speaker 24: So I want to tell you I'm proud of you
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  Speaker 24: for not giving up when it's so easy to.
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  Speaker 4: I know what darkness looks like. I know what it
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  Speaker 4: feels like to be alone with no motivation, no drive,
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  Speaker 4: no passion, and what has to come out of.
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  Speaker 32: Your fucking soul in the darkest of times.
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  Speaker 4: But if you are able to get up every morning,
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  Speaker 4: have no passion, no drive, no.
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  Speaker 5: Motivation, is still get up with that kind of fire,
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  Speaker 5: you will be.
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  Speaker 4: Successful in life. I guarantee see you.
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  Speaker 33: That the darkest place someone can be is standing still.
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  Speaker 33: The darkest place someone can be is when they are
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  Speaker 33: alive but they are not living. The darkest place someone
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  Speaker 33: can be is when they are no longer making progress.
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  Speaker 26: Everyone talks about the destination, but very few people talk
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  Speaker 26: about the journey.
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  Speaker 1: That's where the iron is forged.
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  Speaker 26: In the monotony of doing the right thing day in
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  Speaker 26: and day out, you're part of the deal is to
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  Speaker 26: keep showing up for yourself, to stick around and see
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  Speaker 26: what happens when you really go all in.
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  Speaker 1: Don't just settle for mediocrity.
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  Speaker 26: Just hold up your end of the bargain and watch
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  Speaker 26: how life will turn to your favor.
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  Speaker 4: You can't avoid the peaks and valleys in life, they say.
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  Speaker 4: You can't avoid the peaks and values in life. Life
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  Speaker 4: will always have the ups and downs.
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  Speaker 1: To make peace with it.
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  Speaker 4: How hard are you really working?
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  Speaker 34: I don't know about you, but I don't encounter many
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  Speaker 34: people who are completely committed to their craft in our society,
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  Speaker 34: where it is very unpopular to have a sickening, completely committed,
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  Speaker 34: dedicated work ethic.
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  Speaker 4: It's not the norm.
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  Speaker 34: I believe people who think this way don't know what
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  Speaker 34: it's like to push yourself to the limits. Don't know
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  Speaker 34: what it's like to work your absolute best, give everything
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  Speaker 34: you have, sacrifice, commit work hard, and that feeling of growth,
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  Speaker 34: of progress, of even reaching a milestone in your journey,
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  Speaker 34: how amazing that feels.
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  Speaker 18: Ansistency is even rarer than talent or enthusiasm. Every January
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  Speaker 18: first in the gym rock up, and everyone's keen to
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  Speaker 18: do something.
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  Speaker 1: They've got these New Year's resolutions.
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  Speaker 18: Y're all enthusiastic, and some of those people will be talented,
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  Speaker 18: but how many of those people end up being consistent?
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  Speaker 15: Long term death is not waiting behind that door right now.
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  Speaker 15: Every second you are between life and death. One day
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  Speaker 15: it just stays with this, then this is going to happen.
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  Speaker 35: So in the moment where you.
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  Speaker 36: Realize it could be my last action right now that
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  Speaker 36: I do having this type of thought on the mind,
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  Speaker 36: it could be your last hopefully makes you wake up
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  Speaker 36: to really focus on the things that are important for you,
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  Speaker 36: because many things are starting to fall away.
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  Speaker 15: When somebody tell you look only one more week to live.
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  Speaker 35: Many problems that at the moment people are caring about
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  Speaker 35: they will just disappear. Then they wake up and realize
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  Speaker 35: this shortness of life, how precious it actually is that
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  Speaker 35: we are able to be here.
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  Speaker 29: Live your life the way that you want to leave
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  Speaker 29: your life. Ladies and gentlemen, as I speak to you
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  Speaker 29: right now, if you had ninety days to live, how
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  Speaker 29: many of you will make some radical changes in your life.
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  Speaker 21: If you look at Nelson Mandel, if you look at
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  Speaker 21: Mother Tercey, if you look at Mahatma Gandhi who died
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  Speaker 21: with under ten possessions. These people were world changers. These
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  Speaker 21: people were radical optimists. These people suffered because the root
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  Speaker 21: of the word passion means to suffer. They suffered for
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  Speaker 21: their dream, they suffered for their values, they suffered for
• 17:50
  Speaker 21: their cause, they suffered for their followers, they suffered for
• 17:55
  Speaker 21: their greatness.
• 17:57
  Speaker 37: Game of life or people are going to hit you,
• 17:59
  Speaker 37: they to you, they're going to scratch you, they're going.
• 18:01
  Speaker 15: To bite you.
• 18:02
  Speaker 37: It's just the part of life. And instead of taking
• 18:05
  Speaker 37: everything personally, you have to see that it's like a
• 18:08
  Speaker 37: gladiator battle and that some people are bad, some people
• 18:11
  Speaker 37: are good, some people are not, are in between, and
• 18:13
  Speaker 37: stop taking everything personally and try to learn from it.
• 18:17
  Speaker 37: So if you make a mistake, what you want to do,
• 18:19
  Speaker 37: If you have failure in life, something didn't go right,
• 18:21
  Speaker 37: you want to have the ability to look at it
• 18:23
  Speaker 37: inward and say, what did I do wrong? And a
• 18:26
  Speaker 37: lot of people don't have that inner strain. But if
• 18:29
  Speaker 37: you want to be successful, if you want to get
• 18:31
  Speaker 37: ahead in this world, you have to develop the skill.
• 18:34
  Speaker 37: You have to be able to look at yourself as
• 18:36
  Speaker 37: if you were somebody else, as from the outside and
• 18:38
  Speaker 37: say here's how I could improve. Here's what I did
• 18:41
  Speaker 37: wrong the last time I did it.
• 18:45
  Speaker 4: Great. Life is in front of you, it's not behind you.
• 18:51
  Speaker 38: What you did back then was learned and lessons to
• 18:54
  Speaker 38: get you the where you are at this particular moment
• 18:56
  Speaker 38: right here. Do you know man, that you can actually
• 18:58
  Speaker 38: mess your life completely? Oh, you can jacket all the
• 19:02
  Speaker 38: way up and you can turn around and get it right.
• 19:08
  Speaker 28: What type of reality are you even living? What type
• 19:12
  Speaker 28: of reality are you living? Are you living a proactive
• 19:16
  Speaker 28: reality where you're continually problem solving and looking at all
• 19:20
  Speaker 28: the different ways that you could manipulate, guide, or push
• 19:24
  Speaker 28: your reality that you want.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: In your favor.
• 19:28
  Speaker 28: Or are you living a reactive reality where you just
• 19:32
  Speaker 28: continually allow what is going to happen happen. Well, I
• 19:37
  Speaker 28: can tell you right now if you live in a
• 19:40
  Speaker 28: reactive reality, you need to stop because if you really
• 19:44
  Speaker 28: want to live the life of your dreams, you have
• 19:47
  Speaker 28: got to start living a proactive reality.
• 19:54
  Speaker 25: So, if you're in the woods and you don't know
• 19:56
  Speaker 25: where to go, start walking. You've got to start walking
• 20:01
  Speaker 25: because the perspective is not going to change. You have
• 20:04
  Speaker 25: to start moving forward. You have to start taking steps
• 20:08
  Speaker 25: in order to improve your vision, improve your perspective, change
• 20:11
  Speaker 25: your perspective, make some kind of progress, and worst case scenario,
• 20:15
  Speaker 25: you figure out that.
• 20:16
  Speaker 4: You walk the wrong direction.
• 20:17
  Speaker 25: Okay, now you can go walk in the other direction
• 20:19
  Speaker 25: and that's going to be fine. But standing there lost
• 20:23
  Speaker 25: and not doing anything is just waiting to die, waiting
• 20:26
  Speaker 25: to starve to death.
• 20:28
  Speaker 4: Don't let that happen.
• 20:32
  Speaker 7: Everything that you are, everything that you're becoming, is a
• 20:36
  Speaker 7: resilient pad of growth. On that pad is a launch.
• 20:41
  Speaker 7: That's where you take off. That's where you find out
• 20:43
  Speaker 7: what you're really made of. It's not about waiting until
• 20:46
  Speaker 7: the end and one day you'll go after it.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: Make today day one.
• 20:50
  Speaker 7: Today is the day that I decided I wanted to
• 20:52
  Speaker 7: be great, so I'm going to do it. I decided
• 20:56
  Speaker 7: I want to go after my goals, after my dreams.
• 20:59
  Speaker 4: That's the mindset then you have to.
• 21:00
  Speaker 7: Have, because today is the day you were given breath.
• 21:07
  Speaker 7: I'm here with a purpose and live on purpose, not
• 21:10
  Speaker 7: often of your resume of where you've been, but on
• 21:13
  Speaker 7: the die direction and understanding of where you're going. There's
• 21:17
  Speaker 7: a call on you.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: It's time for you to answer it.
• 21:23
  Speaker 26: Taking responsibility doesn't mean you blame yourself. It means you
• 21:27
  Speaker 26: become accountable for everything that happened, because it's the only
• 21:30
  Speaker 26: way to improve, it's the only way.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: To see real progress.
• 21:35
  Speaker 26: If you're constantly blaming something else for your circumstances, it
• 21:38
  Speaker 26: means you're giving up the opportunity to be in control.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: It might not be your fault.
• 21:43
  Speaker 26: But it's your job to make the most of every
• 21:45
  Speaker 26: situation and do the best with what you have.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: So do it.
• 21:50
  Speaker 26: Take responsibility for all of it, because that's when things
• 21:54
  Speaker 26: start to get good.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, comes a day, man, everyone's going to have this day.
• 22:02
  Speaker 39: There comes a day where being average, being mediocre, it's
• 22:07
  Speaker 39: just sickening to you.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: And it's just sickening.
• 22:10
  Speaker 39: It makes you want to throw up because you've seen
• 22:13
  Speaker 39: people with far less talent than you as you're growing
• 22:16
  Speaker 39: up with them.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: There are childhood buddies, whatever else. They didn't have what
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: you had.
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: Yet now there becomes something that you haven't.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: There comes that day.
• 22:25
  Speaker 39: It's either when you're young, you know, and it strikes
• 22:28
  Speaker 39: you on the baseball field because you're sick of striking out.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Or it's it's when you get fired from your fifth job.
• 22:33
  Speaker 39: You know, when your wife and kids are on your
• 22:34
  Speaker 39: ass because they don't have support anymore. There comes up
• 22:37
  Speaker 39: day where push comes a shelf. We're being mediocre, being
• 22:41
  Speaker 39: like average.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: And just burns.
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: It sucks so much you can't deal with it one more.
• 22:47
  Speaker 39: Day, and you get off your mass and you create something.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: It's always been there, it's always been.
• 22:54
  Speaker 39: Inside of you trying to come out, but you've never
• 22:57
  Speaker 39: wanted to unwrap it because there's too much pain and commitment.
• 23:01
  Speaker 39: You were scared you're gonna fail. You're scared if you started,
• 23:04
  Speaker 39: you never finish it.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: You didn't want to tell anyonbody.
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: You knew it was there, but you never wanted to
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: embark on it.
• 23:09
  Speaker 39: Until something hits you get fired, orf somebody else gets success.
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: Remind you of what you could have been. And then
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: the kainst Bark is born.
• 23:19
  Speaker 39: And no matter what happens, I'm never gonna be in
• 23:22
  Speaker 39: this boat again.
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: And you get up and you go even against knocked down,
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: you just.
• 23:25
  Speaker 39: Get going, get going. You're wild man, and life has
• 23:28
  Speaker 39: never been so sweet. It's time to unwrap the potential
• 23:31
  Speaker 39: you can be. It's within you, It's within every single
• 23:36
  Speaker 39: one of us, and the people that have risen to
• 23:38
  Speaker 39: that level were no different.
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: Than any one of us.
• 23:41
  Speaker 39: It says they believed it and they're willing to work
• 23:44
  Speaker 39: there in ass off to get it.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: It wasn't about the potential, it wasn't about the genetics.
• 23:49
  Speaker 39: It was about the perseverance, and it was at about
• 23:52
  Speaker 39: being the hardest worker in the room.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: That's what got him there. And it didn't happen overnight.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: I'm not telling it was life and death. Either live
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: or you die. Which one do you want?
• 24:03
  Speaker 31: Tom?
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: That was the decision in the corporate life and in
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: the gym. But if you want something bad enough, if
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: you want something bad enough, you can't let anybody tell
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: you you can't do something. I'll repeat that, if you
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: want something bad enough, you can't let anybody tell you
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: can't do something, not even in yourself. A lot of
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: days I'm like, oh, you can't do.
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: This, Tom, bullshit, Let me show you.
• 24:27
  Speaker 7: Ilean.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: I would have arguments with myself I could do it.
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: People doubted me.
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: I doubt it myself sometimes too.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: You know what, I watched Arnold fall down. Nobody remembers
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: when he fell down. Arnold wasn't the glorified winner as
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: he was in the first seventy through seventy five he
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: got up, and I'll become a famous film star. He
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: became governor, he kept getting up and getting up. I
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: saw Trump do the same thing. I saw a lot
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: of these guys I admired in business do it. And
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: that's what it takes to do anything successfully in life.
• 25:06
  Speaker 4: You've got to want.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: It as bad as you want to breathe. And if
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: you want it that bad, if you're willing to give
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: it that much, you get a big piece of what
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: you want. And life and dreams do come true. Anything
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: you want can happen become a reality. I believe that sincerely,
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: and I'll die on that thought.
• 25:27
  Speaker 39: You know, you must hope and believe in yourself if
• 25:30
  Speaker 39: you ever want to see what that hope can turn into,
• 25:33
  Speaker 39: that that belief can turn into.
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: By doing this.
• 25:36
  Speaker 39: Every day repetitively, those are the measures that lead to
• 25:41
  Speaker 39: the big moment's success that every season life. No one
• 25:44
  Speaker 39: sees the struggling here, No one sees the hardship. The
• 25:47
  Speaker 39: early mornings you get up, no one sees any dads.
• 25:50
  Speaker 39: They just see if your hands raised or not. And
• 25:52
  Speaker 39: if it is, Oh, what.
• 25:53
  Speaker 4: A great guy.
• 25:54
  Speaker 39: I wish I could be that guy?
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: Whish I gonna be that guy.
• 25:56
  Speaker 4: But they're not clapping.
• 25:57
  Speaker 39: WI should They could be you at five morning when
• 25:59
  Speaker 39: you get a bed, when pitts and rain outside to
• 26:02
  Speaker 39: come and train for the hand to the rids. They
• 26:05
  Speaker 39: don't want to be that guy that is with the glory,
• 26:07
  Speaker 39: And that's differential.
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: I'm a champion, you know.
• 26:12
  Speaker 39: In adversity, guys, that's where you find characters.
• 26:23
  Speaker 32: You will lose yourself and you will never find your
• 26:26
  Speaker 32: way back.
• 26:27
  Speaker 23: The trager came up too soon. You will lose yourself
• 26:30
  Speaker 23: because you didn't think you had it anymore. Battles I'm
• 26:36
  Speaker 23: meant to fight, and you will fight each battle of
• 26:41
  Speaker 23: your life, and some you will win and some you
• 26:45
  Speaker 23: will lose. But if your heart is beating and your
• 26:48
  Speaker 23: brain is functioning and your eyes are open, ladies and
• 26:51
  Speaker 23: telem me, get out there and fight for your life.
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: It's hard. Deal with it. It's challenging. Deal with it.
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: You don't think you got it. I say you do
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: got it. I say you must have it. I say
• 27:12
  Speaker 4: you will have it.
• 27:14
  Speaker 23: I'm telling you right now, ladies, and telling me, if
• 27:16
  Speaker 23: you are not focused, you are never going to see
• 27:19
  Speaker 23: the goodness and the greatness that you have within yourself.
• 27:23
  Speaker 40: But Greatness does not come overnight.
• 27:27
  Speaker 23: Greatness requires work, and hard work is how you get it.
• 27:34
  Speaker 4: There's no time for being lazy. There's no time to
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: say I'm sorry, You have no time to say I
• 27:42
  Speaker 4: can't go any further when you truly want.
• 27:46
  Speaker 32: To adapt and adapt, every situation requires some kind of
• 27:53
  Speaker 32: attitude that you can endure it. Attitude adjustments are necessary,
• 28:01
  Speaker 32: so when these things happen, and when certain circumstances come
• 28:05
  Speaker 32: in your life, you must continue to believe that, hey,
• 28:12
  Speaker 32: you can.
• 28:12
  Speaker 41: Only last for so long, and this too shall pass.
• 28:20
  Speaker 41: Let the hard work begin.
• 28:23
  Speaker 23: Let the testimony be the testimony when you are tested.
• 28:29
  Speaker 23: Be the testimony when you have been pushed back, pushed
• 28:34
  Speaker 23: back even.
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: Harder, when you feel that you can't.
• 28:37
  Speaker 23: Carry on, feel the thing yourself that you are alive
• 28:41
  Speaker 23: and you've got their job to do.
• 28:44
  Speaker 42: In is all business, never personal. Be productive, be strong,
• 28:50
  Speaker 42: be powerful. Hard work never quick, And from the part
• 28:55
  Speaker 42: of my hard ladies and gentlemen, conductor.
• 29:06
  Speaker 23: You're not gonna always have a supporting cast with you.
• 29:12
  Speaker 4: Not everyone is gonna stand with you.
• 29:14
  Speaker 23: Not everyone is gonna support your ideas or your dreams.
• 29:19
  Speaker 4: Sometimes, ladies and gentlemen, you.
• 29:21
  Speaker 23: Just gotta stand alone. You got to go after it
• 29:26
  Speaker 23: with your own mindset. You have to be truthful to
• 29:31
  Speaker 23: who you are inside. Sometimes you just gotta do it alone.
• 29:39
  Speaker 23: When you're standing on your own two feet and the
• 29:43
  Speaker 23: storm is coming in, you still gotta stand.
• 29:50
  Speaker 4: When it starts to get too tough for.
• 29:52
  Speaker 23: You and you don't seem to have the mental capacity
• 29:57
  Speaker 23: to fight through the pain and the agony, you still
• 30:01
  Speaker 23: gotta stand.
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: And sometimes you just got to stand alone.
• 30:07
  Speaker 23: But being alone doesn't mean that you are all by yourself.
• 30:11
  Speaker 23: It means that there's still something connected to you. You
• 30:16
  Speaker 23: have some unique qualities that are attached to you, but
• 30:21
  Speaker 23: do you have the ability to wake them up.
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: We all have unique.
• 30:27
  Speaker 23: Gifts, we all have special talents. We are going to
• 30:34
  Speaker 23: do great things. Not everybody is gonna stand with you,
• 30:39
  Speaker 23: Not everybody's gonna support you. Not everybody is gonna be
• 30:42
  Speaker 23: by your side. So when you're standing alone, make sure
• 30:49
  Speaker 23: you standing with a pure heart, with a great mindset,
• 30:57
  Speaker 23: with faith, with understanding.
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: That you do have something that you must do. Being
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: alone gives you power from time to time.
• 31:13
  Speaker 23: That does not mean that you are in it by
• 31:16
  Speaker 23: yourself for a long time, but just enough for you
• 31:19
  Speaker 23: to be able to rectify something within you, and when
• 31:24
  Speaker 23: the time comes for you to get out and show out,
• 31:28
  Speaker 23: there's nothing that can stop you because you have developed
• 31:33
  Speaker 23: something within you that no one has ever seen, maybe
• 31:38
  Speaker 23: no one would ever understand. But as long as you
• 31:42
  Speaker 23: understand it, then you keep going, You keep trusting, you
• 31:48
  Speaker 23: keep believing. When it comes to the work ethic, that's
• 31:53
  Speaker 23: when you have to dig deeper. That's when you have
• 31:57
  Speaker 23: to work harder. That's when you have to shut out
• 32:00
  Speaker 23: all the noise and all the nay says. Sometime, ladies
• 32:07
  Speaker 23: and tell the me you just have to be quiet
• 32:10
  Speaker 23: and listen to your passion, listen to your heart, listen
• 32:19
  Speaker 23: to your truth, because when it's all said and done,
• 32:25
  Speaker 23: when this is all over, you are still the only
• 32:30
  Speaker 23: one that is left standing. Ladies and gentlemen, When you
• 32:36
  Speaker 23: get to a point in your life and you feel
• 32:40
  Speaker 23: that you have hit the end of the road, when
• 32:44
  Speaker 23: you feel that you don't have the strength to carry on,
• 32:49
  Speaker 23: then you have to find another source of power and strength.
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: Wherever your mind is right now.
• 32:58
  Speaker 23: If it's not building you up, if it's not making
• 33:01
  Speaker 23: you better, if it's not making you stronger, you have
• 33:05
  Speaker 23: to disconnect it, learn to walk along sometimes.
• 33:12
  Speaker 4: Learn to be strong when you need to be strong.
• 33:17
  Speaker 23: Learn to understand that not everybody will be with you.
• 33:22
  Speaker 23: Stop looking for other people to lift you up when
• 33:26
  Speaker 23: you are down. Remember many people in the world got
• 33:32
  Speaker 23: just as many problems as you do, if not more.
• 33:36
  Speaker 23: Not everybody cares about your problems. Not everybody wants to
• 33:41
  Speaker 23: hear your problems. Sometimes you just got to say you
• 33:46
  Speaker 23: know what.
• 33:47
  Speaker 4: It's up to me. Now.
• 33:50
  Speaker 23: I have to be the one to take the steps.
• 33:54
  Speaker 23: I have to be the one that make the mistakes.
• 33:57
  Speaker 23: I have to be the one that may fail time
• 34:00
  Speaker 23: at the time. But I mustn't never give up when
• 34:07
  Speaker 23: everyone else wants to quit. I will stand when everyone
• 34:12
  Speaker 23: looks down on me. I will stand when everyone thinks
• 34:18
  Speaker 23: that I don't have what it takes. I will stand.
• 34:23
  Speaker 23: I will stand as long as I can. But I
• 34:26
  Speaker 23: will not bow down. I will not give up. I
• 34:31
  Speaker 23: will do my work. I will make everything count each
• 34:37
  Speaker 23: and every day of my life. From my life is
• 34:41
  Speaker 23: in my hands, and I must be willing to do
• 34:45
  Speaker 23: what I must do to get where I need to
• 34:47
  Speaker 23: be in my life. I refuse to say that I
• 34:52
  Speaker 23: don't have it. I refuse to say that I can't
• 34:54
  Speaker 23: do it. I refuse to say that can't matter to me,
• 35:00
  Speaker 23: is it?
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: Gentlemen? What does can't have to do with you? Have
• 35:05
  Speaker 4: you ever got to a point in.
• 35:07
  Speaker 23: Your life where you looked at something you just said,
• 35:09
  Speaker 23: I can't do it.
• 35:12
  Speaker 4: Well, guess what, ladies and gentlemen.
• 35:13
  Speaker 23: You will never do it because you believe in not
• 35:16
  Speaker 23: getting it done. You believe that can't matter more to
• 35:21
  Speaker 23: you than you mattered to yourself. Just because you felt
• 35:29
  Speaker 23: it couldn't be done, you surrounded yourself with things that
• 35:34
  Speaker 23: did not matter. You let other people and other obstacles
• 35:40
  Speaker 23: stand in your way, and you refused to challenge yourself.
• 35:47
  Speaker 23: You refuse to say, this is my day where I
• 35:51
  Speaker 23: must do what I gotta do for me for my
• 35:55
  Speaker 23: peace of mind. I gotta do something. Then I can't
• 36:01
  Speaker 23: wait for it to happen by itself. If I'm looking
• 36:06
  Speaker 23: over here to the left side, if I'm looking to
• 36:08
  Speaker 23: the right side hoping for someone to rescue me, You're
• 36:14
  Speaker 23: gonna be waiting a long time because other people got
• 36:18
  Speaker 23: other things they gotta do for themselves. So when you're
• 36:23
  Speaker 23: standing alone, make sure you have the right mindset within
• 36:28
  Speaker 23: you to know that, hey, at the end of the.
• 36:30
  Speaker 40: Day, I must stand, I must work, I must believe.
• 36:39
  Speaker 40: I will fight, I will work, I will push.
• 36:48
  Speaker 4: And that will never quit on me. This is the time.
• 36:54
  Speaker 23: Where you must be able to get to a point
• 36:59
  Speaker 23: that you've never been. To be able to get to
• 37:02
  Speaker 23: a place that's never been seen before, to be able
• 37:07
  Speaker 23: to believe that no one could touch you. Get inside
• 37:14
  Speaker 23: of yourself, get in tune with who you are, trust
• 37:21
  Speaker 23: and who you are.
• 37:23
  Speaker 4: Stop doubting yourself.
• 37:27
  Speaker 23: If you really want to be the best of yourself,
• 37:30
  Speaker 23: then know that you are the best at what you
• 37:33
  Speaker 23: do because there's no one like you.
• 37:36
  Speaker 4: No one can do the things that you do. No
• 37:40
  Speaker 4: one can stand like you do.
• 37:45
  Speaker 23: No one can take away your power because your power
• 37:49
  Speaker 23: belongs to you, So don't.
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: Give it up.
• 37:54
  Speaker 23: Don't give it to someone else. Don't let anything or
• 37:58
  Speaker 23: anyone take away your power. Don't let anyone steal your
• 38:05
  Speaker 23: peace of mind. Don't let anyone say that you are
• 38:11
  Speaker 23: not worthy because you are. As I said before, standing
• 38:19
  Speaker 23: alone doesn't mean that you are by yourself.
• 38:25
  Speaker 4: Know that there is a higher power.
• 38:29
  Speaker 23: Let's be real, ladies, said gentlemen, there is a higher power.
• 38:33
  Speaker 23: There is something out there that got you here right now.
• 38:40
  Speaker 23: I'm not talking about people, I'm talking about something that
• 38:44
  Speaker 23: is beyond this universe. I'm talking about something that is good.
• 38:51
  Speaker 4: I'm talking about something that is great.
• 38:55
  Speaker 23: That is why you exist, because none of us exists
• 39:00
  Speaker 23: by ourselves. But we have to have the ability to
• 39:06
  Speaker 23: know that we don't need everybody to be somebody.
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  Speaker 4: We don't need everybody's approval to be approved.
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  Speaker 23: You just got to know that your work and your
• 39:24
  Speaker 23: mindset and your faith.
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  Speaker 4: And what you do right now matters.
• 39:32
  Speaker 23: How you pursue your life, how you go further in
• 39:36
  Speaker 23: your life is what you put inside of your mindset
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  Speaker 23: and say, I am ready, I must go forward, and
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  Speaker 23: if I look back, I'm too distracted to see what's
• 39:47
  Speaker 23: in front of me.
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  Speaker 4: So the challenges, let them come. Be tested from time
• 39:57
  Speaker 4: to time. You may not always pass the test. Ladies
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  Speaker 4: and gentlemen.
• 40:03
  Speaker 23: For as long as you are breathing, you will be challenged,
• 40:09
  Speaker 23: You will.
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  Speaker 4: Be tested, and sometimes you gotta just do it alone.
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  Speaker 23: So go on about your business, be the best of yourself.
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  Speaker 4: Let not anyone.
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  Speaker 23: Holds you back, because this is the day right now
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  Speaker 23: that you are above the nonsense. You are above the
• 40:34
  Speaker 23: they sayers, you are above the negativity.
• 40:38
  Speaker 4: Let it just be you. If it's just suit, then
• 40:42
  Speaker 4: let it be you.
• 40:44
  Speaker 23: But don't you bow down to nothing, because if it
• 40:47
  Speaker 23: didn't build it up, don't allow it to tear you down.
• 40:52
  Speaker 4: Carry on a good fight, be strong each.
• 40:56
  Speaker 23: And every day of your life, and from the bottom
• 40:59
  Speaker 23: of my heart, conduct your business.
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: Hard times create hard men. Hard men create soft times.
• 41:10
  Speaker 13: Soft times create soft men. Soft men create hard times.
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  Speaker 43: If you don't fail, you're not even trying. My wife
• 41:19
  Speaker 43: told me this great expression. To get something you never had,
• 41:23
  Speaker 43: you have to do something you never did.
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  Speaker 4: Failure has been achie, Thank god.
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  Speaker 10: Now the only place to go from failure is to win.
• 41:37
  Speaker 10: You have to achieve failure.
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  Speaker 4: You have to take it that far. Nobody wants to
• 41:42
  Speaker 4: go that far. It's so scary. You know something, I
• 41:45
  Speaker 4: got news for you. That's where winning is. It always
• 41:48
  Speaker 4: has been. Nothing's changed. Damn, run to money. What's the
• 41:53
  Speaker 4: matter with you?
• 41:57
  Speaker 43: There is no tomorrow tomorrow less. Brown's a motivational speaker.
• 42:04
  Speaker 43: You made an analogy about this, he says, Imagine you're
• 42:07
  Speaker 43: on your deathbed, and standing around your deathbed are the
• 42:10
  Speaker 43: ghosts representing your unfulfilled potential, the.
• 42:14
  Speaker 4: Ghost of the ideas you never acted on.
• 42:16
  Speaker 43: The ghost of the talents you didn't use, and they're
• 42:19
  Speaker 43: standing around your bed, angry, disappointed, and upset. They say,
• 42:25
  Speaker 43: we came to you because you could have brought us
• 42:28
  Speaker 43: to life, they say, and now we have to go
• 42:31
  Speaker 43: to the graves together. So I ask you today, how
• 42:36
  Speaker 43: many ghosts are going to be around your bed when
• 42:38
  Speaker 43: your time comes.
• 42:40
  Speaker 44: I'm the best ever. I'm the most brutal physician and
• 42:43
  Speaker 44: most ruthless champion.
• 42:44
  Speaker 4: Has ever been.
• 42:44
  Speaker 44: If no one could stop me next to the Conqueror, No,
• 42:47
  Speaker 44: I'm Alexander, He's no Alexander. I'm the best ever. There's
• 42:50
  Speaker 44: never been anybody's. I'm sunny. Listen, I'm Jack Diffy. There's
• 42:54
  Speaker 44: no one like but I'm from there. For there's no
• 42:56
  Speaker 44: one that can match me. My stylars in pet you
• 42:58
  Speaker 44: with my defensit and press, and I'm just ferroching.
• 43:01
  Speaker 4: I want your heart, I want to eat your children.
• 43:03
  Speaker 4: Pray be to our law.
• 43:04
  Speaker 5: You have to learn how to fail. A lot of
• 43:06
  Speaker 5: us have big dreams, big goals, and when you have
• 43:09
  Speaker 5: goals that are maybe outside your reach, you have to
• 43:12
  Speaker 5: know that getting to that goal, you can have a
• 43:15
  Speaker 5: lot of bad days. So I had to teach myself
• 43:18
  Speaker 5: how to fail right, and what that means is when
• 43:21
  Speaker 5: I fail, I can't spend much time in that fail zone.
• 43:25
  Speaker 5: I have to be able to get up and get
• 43:27
  Speaker 5: after the next day just as fast. I don't have
• 43:29
  Speaker 5: time to stay here and feel be after myself for
• 43:32
  Speaker 5: weeks and months and years, because I'll lose that time.
• 43:35
  Speaker 45: The mud consumed each man till there was nothing visible
• 43:39
  Speaker 45: but our heads.
• 43:40
  Speaker 4: The instructors told us we.
• 43:42
  Speaker 45: Could leave the mud if only five men would quit.
• 43:45
  Speaker 45: Only five men, just five men, and we could get
• 43:48
  Speaker 45: out of the oppressive cold. Looking around the mud flat,
• 43:51
  Speaker 45: it was apparent that some students were about to give up.
• 43:55
  Speaker 45: It was still over eight hours till the sun came up.
• 43:57
  Speaker 45: Eight more hours of bone chilling cold, a chattering teeth,
• 44:02
  Speaker 45: and the shivering moans of the trainees were so loud
• 44:05
  Speaker 45: it was hard to hear anything. And then one voice
• 44:09
  Speaker 45: began to echo through the night, one voice raised in song.
• 44:15
  Speaker 45: One voice became two, and two became three, and before
• 44:18
  Speaker 45: long everyone in the class was singing. The instructors threatened
• 44:21
  Speaker 45: us with more time in the mud if we kept
• 44:23
  Speaker 45: up the singing. But the singing persisted, and somehow the
• 44:27
  Speaker 45: mud seemed a little warmer, and the wind a little tamer,
• 44:31
  Speaker 45: and the dawn not so far away. If I have
• 44:34
  Speaker 45: learned anything in my time traveling the world, it is
• 44:38
  Speaker 45: the power of hope, the power of one person.
• 44:42
  Speaker 4: Work work, work, work, work, no results.
• 44:44
  Speaker 46: But I'm a little bit better work work, work, work, work, work, work, work, work.
• 44:49
  Speaker 4: No results.
• 44:50
  Speaker 46: But I'm a little bit better work work, work, work, work,
• 44:54
  Speaker 46: no results.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: I'm a little bit better work.
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: Boom just got paid.
• 44:58
  Speaker 4: It just got paid. And it looks like overnight success.
• 45:00
  Speaker 4: It's like, oh, it happened in a year.
• 45:02
  Speaker 15: No, bro, it doesn't.
• 45:04
  Speaker 5: The truth in front of you is it sucks, it's painful,
• 45:09
  Speaker 5: it's fucking my numby because this is what it takes,
• 45:13
  Speaker 5: creating another voice and sometimes going at it alone, all
• 45:17
  Speaker 5: the time, going at alone because no one's gonna believe
• 45:19
  Speaker 5: in you.
• 45:20
  Speaker 40: And that's that.
• 45:21
  Speaker 4: I love this game. I live this game.
• 45:26
  Speaker 25: And there's a thousand other guys waiting in the wings
• 45:28
  Speaker 25: who are obsessed with this game.
• 45:33
  Speaker 4: Obsession is going to be talent. Every time. You got
• 45:36
  Speaker 4: all the talent in the world, But are you obsessed?
• 45:39
  Speaker 5: When you walk on that court, you have to think
• 45:42
  Speaker 5: I am the best guy out there.
• 45:44
  Speaker 46: The hardest thing in life is figuring out who you
• 45:47
  Speaker 46: are and what you want to do for the rest
• 45:49
  Speaker 46: of your life. And once you figure that out, you
• 45:51
  Speaker 46: wake up every day and you work toward it. It's
• 45:55
  Speaker 46: impossible for you to fail if you know who you are,
• 45:59
  Speaker 46: what you want to do, and you wake up every
• 46:01
  Speaker 46: day and work toward it.
• 46:03
  Speaker 47: When I seen that Bentley at the boxing gym, and
• 46:05
  Speaker 47: I've seen that diamond Roe Lax, I said, I want that,
• 46:09
  Speaker 47: and I knew what it took, so I know when
• 46:12
  Speaker 47: my opponent is sleep, I'm out there four or five
• 46:15
  Speaker 47: in the morning chopping trees, working to this day because
• 46:22
  Speaker 47: I can retire today. I'm well off, very comfortable, but
• 46:27
  Speaker 47: I got the will to win.
• 46:29
  Speaker 38: Take yourself out your comfort zone. Do not live in
• 46:32
  Speaker 38: your bubble. Put some more air in your bubble. If
• 46:35
  Speaker 38: you stay in your comfort zone, that's why you will fail.
• 46:40
  Speaker 38: You will fail in your comfort zone. Success is not
• 46:43
  Speaker 38: a comfortable procedure.
• 46:45
  Speaker 23: What if we have that kind of attitude the cause repossessed.
• 46:48
  Speaker 4: Nobody believes in you.
• 46:50
  Speaker 23: You've lost again and again and again. The lights are
• 46:52
  Speaker 23: cut off, but you're still.
• 46:54
  Speaker 4: Looking at your dream, reviewing it every day and say
• 46:57
  Speaker 4: to yourself, it's not over. I win.
• 47:02
  Speaker 18: The heaviest things in life aren't iron and gold, but
• 47:05
  Speaker 18: unmade decisions. The reason you are stressed is that you
• 47:08
  Speaker 18: have decisions to make and you're not making them.
• 47:11
  Speaker 48: Embrace the process, and then by the time you get
• 47:15
  Speaker 48: up in years, you can be a man that you're
• 47:18
  Speaker 48: proud of. Okay, so this is just an encouragement to just.
• 47:26
  Speaker 7: Chill out. Just chill out.
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: Embrace the process.
• 47:30
  Speaker 48: You say, Dwayne want process life.
• 47:35
  Speaker 49: Be the guy who embraces the ugly, the miserable. Be
• 47:43
  Speaker 49: the guy who embraces hard work, the grind. Don't be
• 47:47
  Speaker 49: afraid of being heard. Don't be afraid of a sacrifice
• 47:50
  Speaker 49: of some blood.
• 47:51
  Speaker 22: You cannot change your life unless you change something. If
• 47:57
  Speaker 22: you always do what you always did, you'll always get
• 48:00
  Speaker 22: what you always got.
• 48:03
  Speaker 8: He believed in yourself and you can't do You can
• 48:08
  Speaker 8: do anything that you want. You can get seen lessons,
• 48:13
  Speaker 8: get a better job, make your money.
• 48:18
  Speaker 50: You could be even like rich. You could live in
• 48:21
  Speaker 50: a whitehouse. Someday, you could be president. Do what you
• 48:27
  Speaker 50: want to do. It's not up to other people, it's
• 48:31
  Speaker 50: up to you.
• 48:33
  Speaker 35: You're always afraid to take the first step because all
• 48:35
  Speaker 35: you see is every negative thing.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: Ten miles down the road. But you can do anything
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: you want. You are bound by nothing.
• 48:42
  Speaker 13: What are you passionate about.
• 48:44
  Speaker 7: Some of y'all don't want it, that's why you ain't
• 48:46
  Speaker 7: got it.
• 48:48
  Speaker 51: Excuses sound best to the person that's making them up.
• 48:52
  Speaker 51: There's pretty much nothing that you could say that you've
• 48:56
  Speaker 51: went through that I haven't went through, and I'm still here.
• 49:01
  Speaker 51: Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Get off the pitty potty,
• 49:05
  Speaker 51: Wake your ass up, Awaken the beast inside, get in shape,
• 49:12
  Speaker 51: Get off the pity potty.