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- 0:00Competence, credibility, clarity and connectivity are the 4C's
- 0:05based on which we as humans decide to work with someone or
- 0:08not. These are the 4C's which lead us
- 0:11to enhanced or inspired performance.
- 0:14Now in the world of AI, do these 4C's hold true?
- 0:18Because if you are not competent, you're not credible,
- 0:21you're not clear, and you don't connect, can you be effective in
- 0:24the AI world? This is an interesting question
- 0:27and we are going to have this conversation with the person who
- 0:31helps people with inspired results.
- 0:33And I'm talking about Doctor Audi Abu Chakra, who is a coach,
- 0:38who's a speaker and he helps people achieve peak performance.
- 0:42So we're going to have a discussion with him on the four
- 0:44CS, which are his four books and also on if these four CS are
- 0:50applicable in the AI world. So let's go and talk to him and
- 0:54as we do that, do visit Grow Skills dot store and take
- 0:57advantage of the ISO courses and improve your credibility.
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- 1:42Now it's time to dive in today's episode.
- 1:48So here we are with Audi. Audi, welcome to the Fit for
- 1:51Privacy podcast. Thanks for being here.
- 1:53Thank you for having me. So it's a fascinating world that
- 1:57we are in. I was talking about AI and then
- 2:01I heard about you and you talk about these four CS.
- 2:05And let's start with the the concept that we were discussing
- 2:09a few weeks back when we met around the four CS because you
- 2:13believe and I agree with your belief that these are the basic
- 2:19fundamentals of living or living a high performance life.
- 2:23Let's talk about what are these four CS And also you release
- 2:27your book recently. So let's talk about those.
- 2:30Yes, the four books are behind me here and the four CS this the
- 2:35started just to give you a little background with my father
- 2:38walking into my brand new clinic.
- 2:40I was a chiropractor, 27 years old, few months in and he's, and
- 2:43he, he walked in the centre and he said, son, I really like what
- 2:46you've done with the place, but it's missing one thing.
- 2:50And I was like, what's that dad? And he said, patience, this
- 2:54place is empty. You know, customers, there's no
- 2:57customers here. And I said, well, dad, you got
- 3:01to wait for people to find out about me.
- 3:02You know, I'm the new kid in town, a new, the new
- 3:05chiropractor on the, on the block.
- 3:06And he said, well, son, that's your first mistake.
- 3:09You don't actually wait for people to find you.
- 3:12You get out there and you network.
- 3:14And so at that time, I was not only a terrible public speaker
- 3:19and a terrible networker, but I was terrified.
- 3:22And so the idea of going, getting out there and networking
- 3:25and meeting people was daunting to say the least.
- 3:29But these 4 qualities are so important.
- 3:34Regardless of what industry you're in, whether you're a
- 3:38corporate professional or whether you're an entrepreneur,
- 3:40these are the essential fundamental qualities that you
- 3:44need to signal in order to perform at a high level.
- 3:48So whether you're in sales or marketing or it doesn't matter
- 3:50the the field that you're in, it's important that people
- 3:54understand that you possess the four CS because when they do,
- 3:58they're more likely going to want to rub shoulders with you,
- 4:02refer business to you, and maybe even do business with you
- 4:05themselves, right? So the four CS in a nutshell are
- 4:09this are the following. Number one, this the first C
- 4:12that will I'll share with you is competence.
- 4:15Now you would agree that people aren't going to choose you as a
- 4:18professional if they don't perceive you to be competent or
- 4:21to perceive you to cross a certain threshold of competence.
- 4:25There's a saying that says competence gets your foot in the
- 4:27door because it truly is. If I say, hey, go see Punit, you
- 4:31know, he's an expert in privacy, etcetera there, that speaks
- 4:36highly of what you're capable of delivering for people.
- 4:41But it's not enough because credibility is important too,
- 4:44right? If confidence is trusting you on
- 4:48a professional level, credibility is trusting you on a
- 4:51personal or human level, right? So there's this.
- 4:54As I said, confidence may get your foot in the door, but
- 4:58credibility keeps you in the room, keeps you in the
- 5:00conversation. So those are the first two CS,
- 5:03but put it, you probably met people who possessed the 1st
- 5:062C's right? Many.
- 5:08Right. But you may have found that some
- 5:10of them have a deficiency, if you will, in the third, which is
- 5:16clarity, clarity of communication.
- 5:19You know, like you know that they're competent at their job.
- 5:22You trust them on a human level. You trust them with your wallet,
- 5:24with your passwords, with your to babysit your kids, all that
- 5:28human stuff. But if they lack clarity of
- 5:30communication, it's really hard for you to connect and help help
- 5:37them connect with other people, understand what they do, that
- 5:41kind of thing. So that's the first, yeah.
- 5:43So the 4th C and then it'll open it up to, to you, the 4th CS
- 5:47connectivity. And that refers to the quality
- 5:50and quantity of your connections.
- 5:52So when someone's in sales or when someone's going about
- 5:55networking and they perceive that individual to be well
- 5:59connected either in the room or in the community, right, they're
- 6:04more likely going to want to rub elbows with this person.
- 6:08So these four CS, when they combine right, they not only
- 6:13help you and bring confidence to you as the deliverer of them and
- 6:18as the as the signaler of them, but it helps other people
- 6:23understand the level at which you're playing.
- 6:26Makes sense. Makes sense.
- 6:27So what you're saying is if someone has competence,
- 6:31credibility, clarity and connectivity, that is the
- 6:34network, then they are likely to be more a magnet to whom people
- 6:40want to talk, want to work with, and then they can have a
- 6:44lifestyle that they're looking for.
- 6:46Yes, because they will become in the eyes of others, in the minds
- 6:51of others, the go to expert in that area.
- 6:55OK, that's it. That's that's that's quite true.
- 6:58I think I fully agree with you. Competence, credibility, clarity
- 7:02and of course connectivity. Sometimes clarity we also
- 7:06associate with communication, the ability to communicate, but
- 7:09it's one of the same things saying, being able to
- 7:11articulate, being able to be eloquent in saying what you want
- 7:15to say and in the way that the other person doesn't feel hurt
- 7:19is not the right word. But the other person can
- 7:21connect, other person can associate.
- 7:24That's that's very important. But these are the competences or
- 7:28capabilities or qualities we are looking at in people, human
- 7:34aspect when we talk about human being intelligent.
- 7:37But these days we are also in the world of what we call
- 7:41artificial intelligence, where this intelligence is being
- 7:43replicated through computers and machines.
- 7:46And what is your thought? Can these 4C's be applied to the
- 7:52world of artificial intelligence?
- 7:54I will also share my view later, but first I'm keen on sharing
- 7:58understanding your view. Yeah, absolutely.
- 8:01I, I don't profess at all to be an AI expert, just so you know,
- 8:05but my limited understanding of AI and and my interactions with
- 8:08AI. So for example, my four books
- 8:10that that are now up on Amazon, we also have audio book versions
- 8:14and the audio books are five to six hours each of, you know, not
- 8:19my voice, but my AI clone voice, right.
- 8:22So the question now is how, when you're, when you're looking from
- 8:28the outside in at a human being, you're assessing these four CS,
- 8:32right? And you're also doing the same
- 8:34thing with your chat box, your chat bot, your your chat GP TS
- 8:40and equivalents. So you, you want to make sure
- 8:43that again, they signal those, these machines signal these CS,
- 8:48right? I mean, think about it is, is
- 8:51the AI bot that you're interacting with competent?
- 8:56Well, after a few interactions, you understand that, Hey, edit
- 9:00this for me, do this for me. What are your thoughts on this?
- 9:03Give me some information and they, and they give it to you
- 9:06enough times and it's accurate when you validate it, right?
- 9:10Then you tick that box, there's there's a level of competency
- 9:13here, right? When you stick, you know, some
- 9:17numbers into a large language model, maybe it it doesn't
- 9:20really compute because it's more of a language, you know, expert.
- 9:25So clearly it will signal to you that I don't have competence in
- 9:29this area, right? So that's the competence box.
- 9:33Let me go over to the clarity. Clarity of communication is
- 9:38exactly what I'm talking about, by the way.
- 9:39I'm not talking about clarity of thought, clarity of vision.
- 9:42When I speak about the four CS, I'm actually talking to
- 9:45someone's ability, as you said, to articulate, articulate
- 9:48eloquently, being concise, precise, but most importantly,
- 9:51speaking in a way that people understand, right?
- 9:53That's what it's all about. Communication is about making
- 9:56sure the other person gets you, making sure your message lands
- 10:00right. So clarity with again, a chat
- 10:04bot using ChatGPT, when I communicate, it comes back very
- 10:09clear. In fact, sometimes I actually
- 10:11put in a message and I say, please edit for clarity because
- 10:17I want to make sure that I'm communicating as clearly as
- 10:20possible. And sometimes, more often than
- 10:22not, it communicates in a way that's more clear than the way I
- 10:26would have put it. I may have used 57 words to
- 10:30communicate and it's probably used sometimes half right,
- 10:34Sometimes it goes longer than needed as well.
- 10:36So, so, but there is, there is the ability and quality of
- 10:41clarity communication, the ability to communicate clearly.
- 10:43It has OK, now let's go to connectivity.
- 10:46Well, connectivity is a no brainer because you know that
- 10:49when you are asking for information that it, it is
- 10:53connected to the web, It's connected to all the great
- 10:56minds, it's connected to incredible vast resources.
- 11:00So it comes back with the answer you're looking for because of
- 11:04its level of connectivity. When you ask a friend, hey, what
- 11:08are the, you know, tax regulations in, in, I don't
- 11:12know, Vietnam, he's going to be like, I don't know because his
- 11:17connectivity doesn't reach that far.
- 11:20But now that brings us to the final sea of credibility, right?
- 11:24Because credibility is being able to trust somebody on a
- 11:26human level, to trust that they have your best interests at
- 11:32heart, your best, you know they care about you and they're
- 11:37playing fair. Now, what's interesting about my
- 11:39interactions with AI is it sometimes has customer service
- 11:45and this ability to care and serve you built in.
- 11:50Because when you say, you know, you ask a question or what are
- 11:53the, the tax implications for Vietnam, it gives you an answer.
- 11:56It'll say, would you like me to help you with any other areas in
- 12:01that region or perhaps around the world?
- 12:04So that's going like the extra mile, right?
- 12:07Whereas if you asked a friend what are the tax implications of
- 12:09Vietnam, they either give you an answer or say, I don't know, or
- 12:12say, let me find out for you. And they come back with that
- 12:14answer only. And they're very, it's very
- 12:16unlikely they're going to say, is there anything else I could
- 12:18help you with? Of course, they're not your, you
- 12:21know, they're they're, they're not there to serve you in whole
- 12:24just in part because that's what you asked for.
- 12:26So, but I think it does speak to the human beings ability to be
- 12:32stretched in that regard, right, where we can, you know, serve
- 12:36our customers to the NTH degree instead of just giving them the
- 12:39bare minimum that they ask for. The only thing though that
- 12:43there's a question mark about is does AII should say, does future
- 12:49AI have our best interests at heart?
- 12:53Right. Yeah, but I think from your
- 12:57response a shift my understanding.
- 13:00Normally I would have said the four CS do apply to AI but they
- 13:05apply in 2 dimensions. 1 is they can be my AI can be my
- 13:12assistant. As you mentioned.
- 13:13You ask your GPT to bring more clarity, you ask a church GPT to
- 13:17bring more nuances, references to my pitch, and then I can
- 13:23bring more credibility. So I can use ChatGPT or AI to
- 13:28make my make me more, bring me more of the four CS in my pitch,
- 13:33in my conversation, in my writing, in my interactions to
- 13:37others. So that's being an assistant.
- 13:39But the second one which I had before this explanation that you
- 13:45gave me is end of the day, artificial intelligence is also
- 13:51intelligence. So when we apply these two human
- 13:54intelligence, artificial intelligence also needs to be
- 13:56credible for me to use it. Artificial intelligence also
- 13:59needs to be competent for me to use it.
- 14:02Artificial intelligence also needs to be clear and be
- 14:05communicative to me if I want to use it.
- 14:08And connectivity, of course, if it has to have the credibility,
- 14:10if it has to have the connectivity clarity and it has
- 14:13to have the common, what is it, the competence?
- 14:17It needs to go through a network on the web to extract that
- 14:20information. Because intelligence is all
- 14:22about synthesising and aggregating different parts of
- 14:25information. Because once I was talking to
- 14:27Brian Tracy, who's also your mentor.
- 14:31I believe he. Actually wrote the foreword for
- 14:36the Clarity book. Nice.
- 14:38So and he was talking about see, there's a lot of information and
- 14:42knowledge in the world. What I do is I go out, I read
- 14:46those books, I put, put them, package them in a way and make
- 14:49it clear for people. So essentially ability to
- 14:52connect, collect, synthesise and simplify that information.
- 14:56If AI can do that, then AI would be credible.
- 14:59So AI, the four CS apply both ways in terms of what AI does
- 15:04and also in terms of how it can assist us and when it assist us
- 15:08as human beings. And we use AI, which is applying
- 15:11the four CS, we together become stronger because you mentioned
- 15:16you use Jack GPT to enhance the clarity, to increase the
- 15:20clarity. And then the collective
- 15:22intelligence of you and me or any other human being combined
- 15:26with the artificial intelligence, we are able to
- 15:28serve better. And of course, we have the fear
- 15:30factor around what will happen to the privacy?
- 15:34What will happen to AI? Would it override humans?
- 15:37Would it be singular with humans?
- 15:39But that's the fear factor. And but closing on AI in itself
- 15:44will apply these four CS and these four CS do integrate.
- 15:47So I think we are in synchronicity on that one.
- 15:51But I do want to mention though that there is there's a
- 15:53difference as well between human interaction and artificial
- 15:57interaction with AI in that, in that, you know, there's times
- 16:01when I ask Chachi PT something and it just gives me an answer,
- 16:08but it's nowhere near a real answer.
- 16:10Example, I was travelling to the US to actually visit Brian
- 16:14Tracy, Doctor Ivan and Doctor John Di Martini who wrote the
- 16:18forwards for my books, three out of the four books and are also
- 16:22in an upcoming film that I'm of documentary that I'm working on.
- 16:25And I wanted to see is there US clearance in Abu Dhabi airport?
- 16:30Because someone that said to me, there is someone someone said no
- 16:34there isn't. I remember that it was the case
- 16:36the last time I travelled the USI was wondering if it was
- 16:38changed. So I went in and asked and it
- 16:40said no, there are no clear US clearance from from it, from Abu
- 16:45Dhabi airport, which means you got to you do your US clearance
- 16:48when you enter the United States.
- 16:50And all I said was Are you sure? And it said, my mistake,
- 16:55actually you can't do pre clearance in the US, in Abu
- 16:58Dhabi for the US. See what I mean?
- 17:00So there's times when it will just give you an answer, but
- 17:02it's just, it's not the right answer.
- 17:04There's times when it won't, it won't admit that it doesn't know
- 17:09something and it keeps trying. It says, I'll provide you the
- 17:12Excel sheet in, you know, 20 minutes.
- 17:14And I'm like, it's been a day. And you know, you seem to keep
- 17:20suggesting you're going to deliver this and you don't, you
- 17:24know, I'm actually not sure if you have the level of competence
- 17:28here that you say you do. You've broken your word several
- 17:32times. There's a whole interaction with
- 17:33with me and AI on this and I have this, you know, documented
- 17:36and it was just completely breaking it's word over and over
- 17:39and over again because it didn't, it wasn't able to to
- 17:42actually. And this was a paid version, it
- 17:44wasn't actually able to deliver. Yeah, I think the way the AI
- 17:52works is just like humans. You hire an assistant, a
- 17:55colleague, a staff member. Sometimes the person is good and
- 17:58sometimes it's not good. So between the Chachi PT, the
- 18:01cloud cloud and the Gemini and everybody, some are good, some
- 18:06are basic and some are good for even one purpose and not for the
- 18:09other purpose. That's one.
- 18:10And 2nd is like if you hire a staff member, over time they
- 18:14learn and understand your behaviour, your pattern and
- 18:16everything and then they become accustomed to what you ask.
- 18:19And even when you worked with somebody for 10 years, sometimes
- 18:22you have to ask a clarification question to get the right
- 18:24answer. So that does not be placed since
- 18:27you asked artificial intelligence first time, right
- 18:29option. You need to follow up, you need
- 18:31to probe, you need to nudge, and you need to get to the direction
- 18:34and you need to also validate, just not because that GPT or
- 18:38perplexity says it. You believe it.
- 18:40So the human element or the intelligence element doesn't go
- 18:43away. It's about having an assistant,
- 18:45which is, yeah, OK, Having artificial intelligence, but
- 18:48using it in the right way, that's my.
- 18:50Opinion. And you're right because I could
- 18:52have asked two friends, hey is there a clearance?
- 18:55One friend says yes. One friend says 100% sure, but
- 18:58they're wrong. And if I ask Are you sure, they
- 19:01might say yes, but they're in fact not true.
- 19:03They're not. Exactly they.
- 19:04Don't know, and that that is exactly true, but what I was
- 19:07alluding to and I maybe wouldn't express it in the clearest
- 19:11possible ways. I'm just saying that human
- 19:15beings have the potential to signal credibility to a greater
- 19:19degree than AI at the moment. Because I can care for you more
- 19:23than an AI can at the moment, because I can, I can understand
- 19:28what you value most in life. I can figure out a way to create
- 19:31a win win with you right now. AI still trying to understand
- 19:34you, figure you out still in its infancy really.
- 19:39But it, it does have incredible potential.
- 19:41But like you said, it can it, it, it's going to replicate
- 19:45human intelligence. After all, we're the ones
- 19:46programming it. Yeah.
- 19:48Normally we talk about, I mean in technical terms about 7
- 19:52stages of AI and we are at end of in the stage 3, which is
- 19:58about doing some simple easy tasks or being able to be bit
- 20:02more intelligent, learning by itself, but then having the
- 20:05emotional intelligence or the salience of human beings.
- 20:09Because if you're you would have heard the word salience in the
- 20:12psychology or psychiatry terms. And that salience aspect is
- 20:18still missing. It will, it is, there is an
- 20:20expectation that it will come, but nobody knows it will come or
- 20:24not. And of course then when the
- 20:27salience come, then the they will become more intelligent or
- 20:30probably as intelligent as us and then eventually more
- 20:33intelligent because then they have the processing power and
- 20:37ability to grasp. Because I sitting here don't
- 20:40search Google and everywhere all the web, that machine would have
- 20:44that capability and probably it will be smarter than us.
- 20:47And then eventually it becomes singular, meaning we are not
- 20:50able to identify that human is it AI and then even surpassing
- 20:54him. So those stages are in my
- 20:56opinion more of predicted or fascinated or saying this will
- 21:03happen. So stage 4567 has not happened
- 21:06it we are in stage 3 and we are in Nacency, as you said and in
- 21:09the beginning of the world. But this is so powerful already
- 21:15to assist us in doing our work better.
- 21:17And if we use the collective intelligence of human but human
- 21:20remaining intelligent and asking questions, prodding, clarifying
- 21:24and confirming more important, yeah, then the artificial
- 21:28intelligence is of real use and it helps us do things better.
- 21:31Now, we were talking a bit about the unknown and the fear factor.
- 21:36There's a bit of concern when we talk about AI because we as
- 21:42humans want to be competent, performance and all that.
- 21:44And then we heard about AI. And then we also hear, well, the
- 21:49privacy would be dead. We would not have any privacy.
- 21:54And what is your view? Because you're not a privacy
- 21:56expert, you are more human performance, human behaviour
- 22:00psychology expert or helping people have better do better in
- 22:04life. And how do you see this privacy
- 22:07outside as an outsider concern of privacy, I mean to say
- 22:12especially in AI world? Yeah.
- 22:15So really when we talk about privacy, when we talk about
- 22:18potential AI, AI threating threats and threatening humanity
- 22:22and all that kind of stuff, it, it's really rooted in, in the
- 22:27fear that most people carry with them in life.
- 22:29And that's the, what's called the fear of the unknown, right?
- 22:33So, for example, you talked about AI, you know, being at, at
- 22:37stage 3, etcetera. I, I don't know if AI can ever
- 22:40get to the, to the stage that we are at as human beings because
- 22:44there's one particular thing they're missing and that's the
- 22:48body, because we have a, we have Physiology, right?
- 22:54And so when I'm speaking with you and I'm making a decision, I
- 22:58can base, I can get a gut feeling about whether there's
- 23:02danger or not. I can get an intuition about
- 23:06things. I can feel something in my
- 23:08heart, in my head and in my gut in other parts of my body.
- 23:11I can pick up how you communicate and how you signal
- 23:16physiologically to tell if you're up to something, to tell
- 23:19if I can, if you can be trusted on a human or personal level.
- 23:24And and that is what drives a lot of human interactions.
- 23:28We have feelings that we get intuitions that we get,
- 23:31instincts that we feel that help us navigate life.
- 23:36So I'm sceptical as to whether it will ever be able to, you
- 23:40know, be salient, tap into emotional intelligence, tap into
- 23:45its intuition, if it can, even if it's even capable of
- 23:48generating it, if it's able to experience emotions, if it's
- 23:52able to feel something in its gut guiding it.
- 23:57And I think this speaks to the fact that we as human beings
- 24:02have the ability and potential to connect with one another at a
- 24:05deep, a really deep level. You're not at an artificial
- 24:10level, at a superficial level. And I'm not knocking AI.
- 24:13I'm saying you're right. It it can serve as an assistant,
- 24:16it can serve us in many ways. It can fill many gaps.
- 24:20Yeah. And yes, it will take many it
- 24:22could potentially threaten people's jobs because, you know,
- 24:25I just came back from Los Angeles.
- 24:26There was many car, you know, what do they call them self
- 24:30driving vehicles? That was first time I've ever
- 24:33seen one in my life. I'm in a traffic light.
- 24:35I turn left and I'm like, what an interesting vehicle.
- 24:37And I I move a little closer and I look and I'm like there's
- 24:39nobody in the front seat, nobody in the back seat.
- 24:42It's a taxi, this Waymo thing, I think it's called.
- 24:44But so, yeah, it's, it's definitely going to shift and,
- 24:50and disrupt industry. There's no doubt about that.
- 24:53Sectors, no, no doubt about that.
- 24:56Every possible job. I'm not sure about that.
- 24:59So fear, so the, the fundamental human fear, according to most
- 25:04psychologists, is called fear of the unknown, right?
- 25:08Which doesn't exist. You believe it or not, you can't
- 25:12fear something you don't know. See, there are two parts for
- 25:16those of us who are more self aware, who are more
- 25:20understanding psychology, there is No Fear of unknown.
- 25:24We understand that. But for a average human being on
- 25:28this planet, there is a fear of unknown.
- 25:33And that's where there needs to be guidance.
- 25:35There needs to be help to manage this fear.
- 25:39And even now I don't want to get into the business of religion,
- 25:43but religion also feeds on the fear.
- 25:46Fear, fear of unknown. It says OK, leave your fear of
- 25:50unknown to a specific entity. But anyways, I think I agree
- 25:55with you on the fact that we don't know.
- 25:58It's speculative and it's expected that AI will have
- 26:02stallions, AI will have emotions, AI will have feel,
- 26:05touch and everything. But we don't know and till we
- 26:08have seen it, people like you and me will say let's wait.
- 26:11But those are who are scientists and who are making predictions.
- 26:15They are saying it will be there in X number of years.
- 26:17Let's see when it's there, we will experience it, we will have
- 26:21fun with it and we will enjoy it also.
- 26:23Like we are enjoying the current AI and we are taking advantage
- 26:26of it to make our world or make our work better.
- 26:29But tell me more about what do you do on regular basis and how
- 26:34can people? Well, what?
- 26:36What do you How do you serve people?
- 26:38Oh, well, hold on a second. There's no way we're going there
- 26:40yet. Put it.
- 26:43Hold on a second. You, you said something about,
- 26:46you know, there's a percentage of people who are not afraid of
- 26:50the unknown because they have some certain level of
- 26:52understanding. No, all I'm saying to you is
- 26:55anyone who thinks they have a fear of the unknown actually is
- 26:58just living in some illusion because they're not actually
- 27:00afraid of the unknown. Because here's the deal, right?
- 27:03I have my my favourite phrase in this area, this is based on my
- 27:07book that I wrote called Fear Forward, is that we don't fear
- 27:10the mystery of tomorrow. We fear the history of
- 27:14yesterday. Do.
- 27:16You understand that a bit? Yeah, we fear running into
- 27:19yesterday tomorrow. OK.
- 27:22So with AI, we're not if I say to someone, Oh my God,
- 27:26artificial intelligence is going to do 123, I say, OK, what is
- 27:30one? Well, one, is this going to
- 27:33replace my job or, or I'm going to get fired?
- 27:36Right. OK, great.
- 27:37So if you have that fear of being fired or laid off from
- 27:40your job, that can't come from some unknown place.
- 27:44It comes from one very known place and that is here.
- 27:50That known place is you had a job yesterday.
- 27:53You were fired or you know, that your father was dedicated to
- 27:56some company for many years and they laid him off, you know,
- 28:01unjustifiably or something. You understand that's where it
- 28:03comes from. They're afraid of repeating
- 28:05their history. Yeah.
- 28:06So it's kind of like the tail is wagging the dog, if you will.
- 28:09You know, like it's the past, our past events that are
- 28:13actually active in our mind now that projects into the future
- 28:19what we're afraid of. I would if you allow me rephrase
- 28:24that a bit, saying it's either the fear stemming from your past
- 28:30or the stories you have heard because sometimes you're not
- 28:34experienced it but you're fearful that it will happen to
- 28:36you because it happened to somebody else or you've heard it
- 28:40happens. Yes, yes, that's what I
- 28:42mentioned is that it was either you were laid off or your father
- 28:45was laid off or you read about it, you watched the video, heard
- 28:48about it somehow, but that's still an experience, right?
- 28:51We call them. Your past does not mean your
- 28:54experience. Past means a known story, known
- 28:57experience of somebody else or you which you have.
- 29:00I call them. I make a distinction between
- 29:04direct experiences you had personally and indirect
- 29:08experience that you are experiencing through a story,
- 29:12through a video, or through someone else.
- 29:14Yeah, these are called direct and indirect fears.
- 29:17That makes it more clear. So we are on the same page.
- 29:21So, so that's, that's very an interesting way in which you
- 29:26articulate. I like it and I'm in full
- 29:28agreement with you. But talking about you, then what
- 29:32do you do and how do you serve people?
- 29:35Yes. So I'm basically a performance
- 29:38coach and speaker. What I, if I was to tell you
- 29:42what I'm doing right now, I actually have this new way of
- 29:44phrasing and I call myself a spriter like the drink Sprite,
- 29:49but it has nothing to do with it.
- 29:50It's a spriter is a speaker writer.
- 29:53So that's basically all I do these days is I write books and
- 29:56I speak. So I travel the world, sharing
- 29:59my paradigms and, you know, different ways of looking at
- 30:02things so that people can get the most out of life, the most
- 30:06out of their, their job, the most out of their network.
- 30:11And yeah, my latest books are the four CS, but I've written
- 30:14that these are this, it'd be a total of now 7 books.
- 30:17And so I coach individuals and I also work with corporations and
- 30:22companies to help and organisations to help them Max
- 30:26their ROI by signalling the four CS, by overcoming their fears,
- 30:30etcetera. That's good because they're
- 30:32doing wonderful job. How can people get in touch with
- 30:35you then? Yeah, I think the easiest way
- 30:38would be my website and that's Doctor OD, just like my first
- 30:42name. So DROU di.com.
- 30:46OK, that's good to know. So I mean, I'm fascinated at the
- 30:50conversation we had at the time just fly by.
- 30:53And it was a very wonderful conversation and grateful to you
- 30:58for sharing your wisdom and thank you for your time as well.
- 31:01And yours it was. It was awesome being here.
- 31:03Appreciate it. Thank you.
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