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The Breakfast Club BEST OF - Jess & Rome, Ari Lennox Interview, Work Wife or Husband Topic, & The People’s Donkey · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Woke up, Wake you up, wake wake that ass up.
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  Speaker 2: Program your alarm the power one oh five point one
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  Speaker 2: on iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 3: I'm telling, I'm telling what.
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  Speaker 2: Calling you if this is your time to get it
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  Speaker 2: off your chest, whether you're mad or blessed. Eight hundred
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  Speaker 2: and five eight five one oh five one. We want
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  Speaker 2: to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 4: Hello, Hello, Hey, good morning, get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 5: Just my birthday today, so I just wanted to fall
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  Speaker 5: in good morning as happy born day, happy born day,
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  Speaker 5: where you call them from.
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  Speaker 6: I love you, guys.
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  Speaker 7: I love you guys, even though I before to happiness,
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  Speaker 7: but I love you.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Do you do you just you?
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  Speaker 9: Just?
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  Speaker 10: Do you deserve happiness?
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  Speaker 7: Now?
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  Speaker 10: I'm me here.
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  Speaker 3: What's going on in your life?
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  Speaker 6: Who?
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  Speaker 10: It's a birthday?
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  Speaker 8: I still hey.
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  Speaker 7: I'm going to say I was there for thirteen years,
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  Speaker 7: and I love what he's doing for everybody. They really
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  Speaker 7: don't appreciate it.
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  Speaker 6: My father is still there, my boy friend is there.
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  Speaker 7: So shout out.
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  Speaker 4: They will all be Oh is your your TIS worker?
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  Speaker 11: Yeah?
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  Speaker 7: I used to be thirteen years, but I work for
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  Speaker 7: a different.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that's dope.
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  Speaker 12: Let's love to all the TSA workers and hopefully they
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  Speaker 12: can enjoy that that week that American dream is doing
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  Speaker 12: for the TSA agent to give them a little stressfuliever
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  Speaker 12: for with their family and stuff.
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  Speaker 4: I just think it's dope just to give back.
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  Speaker 3: What you got planning for your b day.
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  Speaker 7: I have a lot of things. I have a lady's
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  Speaker 7: night playing my wife. They told me today, just come
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  Speaker 7: home from work, gets dressed. I'm going to work because
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  Speaker 7: I look my job.
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  Speaker 11: But you said come home from work, gets dressed to
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  Speaker 11: be going out. That's all.
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  Speaker 3: You're going to work because you got your little work husband.
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  Speaker 3: You won't see what you're gonna get you for your birthday.
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  Speaker 3: That's why you're going to work.
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  Speaker 13: I love that she left her.
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  Speaker 3: You hate us a little, laugh little That's why I
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  Speaker 3: say you don't deserve happiness. You see what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 7: That you don't say.
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  Speaker 10: Sorry, I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Happy born day? Happy?
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  Speaker 10: I want you the best today.
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  Speaker 4: Enjoy your day.
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  Speaker 13: Absolutely, birthday.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna go and move back. Hello, who's this Ohio's dog? Long?
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  Speaker 14: All right? So this is what I wanted to get
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  Speaker 14: off my chest today. So it's public law now that
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  Speaker 14: if you had a child that's born in this country
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  Speaker 14: last year, and if you have one that's born all
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  Speaker 14: the way up to the year a date of December
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  Speaker 14: thirty first, twenty twenty eight, there's one thousand dollars available
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  Speaker 14: to that child through that parents filing of their income
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  Speaker 14: tax or if you're an adoption foster care system, the
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  Speaker 14: government takes care of before you and it goes into
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  Speaker 14: an index fund that that child can claim at eighteen
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  Speaker 14: years old to do with what they want. And the
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  Speaker 14: reason why I'm bringing it up today is not just
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  Speaker 14: because it's public law, but because this is our route
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  Speaker 14: as African American to make the strongest case that we
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  Speaker 14: can now to get government money for children that are
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  Speaker 14: African American descent and are direct descendants of parents from
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  Speaker 14: the slave trade. And I think we this out here
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  Speaker 14: right now for people to really jump on it. Inside
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  Speaker 14: the population of about three point five million babies that
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  Speaker 14: were born in this country last year, it's about five
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  Speaker 14: hundred thousand African American babies that were born last year
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  Speaker 14: in this country. And inside that population is an unknown
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  Speaker 14: population to me, but I know it's large of babies
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  Speaker 14: that have parents who are parents of parents parents parents
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  Speaker 14: that were slaves in this country. And it seems reasonable
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  Speaker 14: to me that we can make this push to say, hey, yeah,
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  Speaker 14: give them a thousand, but give our people an additional
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  Speaker 14: four as a start for paying us back for this
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  Speaker 14: slave trade. So they five thousand.
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  Speaker 13: You gave them the best name, tie dog Law.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, all right, I'm gonna be completely honest with you.
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  Speaker 4: Don't do it.
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  Speaker 3: Don't do it. It's Friday, Friday, and I will go
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  Speaker 3: this morning and I'm meditated for ten minutes and y'all
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  Speaker 3: don whound me back up.
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  Speaker 10: It's too much going on this morning. It's just too much.
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  Speaker 3: This is I get, but god, damn it too man,
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  Speaker 3: I know this, get it off your chest, but Lord
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  Speaker 3: have mercy.
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  Speaker 1: Hello, who's this?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 15: This is one in short. Uh yeah, I really don't
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  Speaker 15: have no comments or nothing. I'll just slight it on.
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  Speaker 15: Fucking get a picture up off three of y'all together.
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  Speaker 15: How you gonna do that? I mean, I'm just saying,
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  Speaker 15: y'all send me one. You know, some fucking putting on.
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  Speaker 3: My man, tell you you sounds like you gotta do it.
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  Speaker 10: Go online.
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  Speaker 4: There's pictures with all the Google line. Just google it.
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  Speaker 9: You sound like biggie though, Okay, just google alright, that's
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  Speaker 9: what's up.
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  Speaker 12: Think we appreciate you wanting us in your man cave though,
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  Speaker 12: but you know you just google it a picture?
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  Speaker 16: Come up?
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  Speaker 15: Yeah, oh yes, sir, thank you appreciate it?
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  Speaker 13: Yes for last yes, yes, yes it is it is gooding?
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  Speaker 17: Thank you?
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  Speaker 3: Confused? All right, then let me see make sure. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: pictures of a shoot.
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  Speaker 12: Get it off your chest eight hundred five eighty five
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  Speaker 12: one O five one.
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  Speaker 4: If you need to ben, hit us up now. It's
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  Speaker 4: the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 3: Good morning, it's away.
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  Speaker 2: Is your time to get it off your chest? Wait up,
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  Speaker 2: whether you're man or blessed.
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  Speaker 4: Time to get up and get something call up now
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  Speaker 4: eight hundred one O five one.
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  Speaker 1: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 17: Hello.
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  Speaker 9: Who is this DJ Envy? Just a Larry and Charlottevina God,
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  Speaker 9: good morning. Now listen, I've been all righty listen listen.
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  Speaker 9: They changed they changed my schedule, man, so it's off
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  Speaker 9: for me to call y'all. Man, say, y'all know I
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  Speaker 9: still got to get that paper your hurt? Yes, sir, listen, Congratulations, God,
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  Speaker 9: bless y'all all, y'all interbut success, individual success and collectively. Man,
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  Speaker 9: I've seen a lot of blessings been going on since
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  Speaker 9: we last four and just make God continue to bless
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  Speaker 9: y'all moving forward.
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  Speaker 13: Man, absolutely, thank you.
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  Speaker 17: I received that.
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  Speaker 9: Yes, yes, listen, y'all know how we do on the
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  Speaker 9: Friday day. Just bard tized, Let's get it, I said, listen.
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  Speaker 9: I told them, ain't no such thing as a quick
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  Speaker 9: flip short cut to snatching that thing could get your
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  Speaker 9: wick split, fashing out, not checking them side angles, get
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  Speaker 9: your cornered off and stretching that rectangle. We chase paper
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  Speaker 9: flow us later custlers leave for that, I'm repping the style.
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  Speaker 9: Do it down. They should come next to bat fifties
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  Speaker 9: and honey clubs. We double let in the bundles, quick
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  Speaker 9: show them how to move in their pressures, except when
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  Speaker 9: the rithmetic. We out in Vegas, walk in the strip,
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  Speaker 9: go through the politics, wrap around, sweets and the cosmo.
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  Speaker 9: What we're dealing with came a long way from me
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  Speaker 9: packing bags and red hook to the ice that I
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  Speaker 9: placed on my wife without a show book, simply the
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  Speaker 9: greatest on far structure with patients. Tell them lames, they
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  Speaker 9: mic is off and them paragraphs can use the maintenance.
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  Speaker 9: I'm in the spaceship and the herd is sister statement,
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  Speaker 9: pull up the mics, wrap me a slice, respect the basics.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I got some balls.
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  Speaker 12: Let's do it, baby, alright, let's go now, you wrapped
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  Speaker 12: the stock.
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  Speaker 4: The Knicks said bye bye New York.
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  Speaker 3: All day.
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  Speaker 4: We all stay and fly. Nicks won last night, and
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  Speaker 4: Shawl is sick.
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  Speaker 12: The only thing that's gonna make him better is mine.
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  Speaker 3: All right, all right, Well, since you want to do
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  Speaker 3: it like that, when you do it like this, all right,
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  Speaker 3: all right? Envy used to be scared of the Knicks.
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  Speaker 3: Now he now he throws lips to the Knicks. Handle
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  Speaker 3: it like a real.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, y'all.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a good weekend y'all too.
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  Speaker 9: I appreciate y'all. Man, blessing to y'all and the family.
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  Speaker 9: Y'all take care, all right, get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 12: Eight hundred five eighty five one O five one. If
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  Speaker 12: you need to ben hit us up now. It's the
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  Speaker 12: Breakfast Club. Good morning, Everybody's dj n V.
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  Speaker 4: Just hilarious, Charlamagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 12: Now if you're just joining us, we're talking about a
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  Speaker 12: call that called in yesterday. Don't get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 12: She was a big stud and she was mad that
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  Speaker 12: her girlfriend.
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  Speaker 10: How you said, don't disrespect?
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  Speaker 3: Like that's about He was a big stud. I know you,
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  Speaker 3: a big stud like big stud energy, like big like
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  Speaker 3: big stud energy, big energy, big energy.
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  Speaker 10: Okay, she was like a big d energy.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I give you sai. Yeah, big energy is
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  Speaker 3: what you're saying. It was a big deal doo energy.
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  Speaker 11: Damn.
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  Speaker 3: I like that. I'm like, I like that, like big
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  Speaker 3: vibrate the energy like that sound.
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  Speaker 10: Like somebody getting electric.
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  Speaker 1: Might as well say damn.
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  Speaker 3: If you want to see what you want to see?
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, you all gotta go.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, play too much?
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  Speaker 4: All right, listen to the call.
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  Speaker 11: So I have a girlfriend I've been with for a
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  Speaker 11: year and a half. We lived together. We got a cat,
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  Speaker 11: you know, real.
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  Speaker 10: Life free cats in the house talk to us.
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  Speaker 11: So she's a nurse. She's telling me. A few months
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  Speaker 11: ago she started getting close to some girl at work.
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  Speaker 11: The girl is her work wife. I tell her to
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  Speaker 11: knit it in the bus. She don't do it. Then
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  Speaker 11: I go through her phone on Christmas Day, I see
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  Speaker 11: her texting with the girl, and the girl's talking like
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  Speaker 11: what you wearing? I can't wait to see you type today.
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  Speaker 11: We had a big fight. She turned her location off
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  Speaker 11: and she left the CRIS. I got her through her
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  Speaker 11: ear pods. Wow, she has the shorty house.
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  Speaker 4: Yo, damn crazy.
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  Speaker 11: I pulled up to the bread. I checked him outside.
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  Speaker 11: She said, you in the wrong place. I'm not here.
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  Speaker 11: I knocked on the front door.
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  Speaker 6: I'm not and I'm like, no, y'll you know all right?
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  Speaker 12: So we're asking eight hundred five eight five one oh
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  Speaker 12: five one? Do you mind if your significant other has
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  Speaker 12: a house?
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  Speaker 4: Said the house work husband, and I want.
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  Speaker 3: The record to show. But a normal show would have
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  Speaker 3: just said, do you mind if your significant other has
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  Speaker 3: a work wife or work husband? Actually the stud lesbian
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  Speaker 3: aspect of it has.
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  Speaker 10: Nothing to do with any but that's what the conversations.
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  Speaker 10: Nothing to do with it.
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  Speaker 1: But you really like that interesting story?
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  Speaker 10: What's an interesting story?
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  Speaker 12: But that's where the call came from. She said she
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  Speaker 12: doesn't want her wife to have her girlfriend has that.
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  Speaker 1: Let's talk with you.
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  Speaker 4: Would you mind if Chris.
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  Speaker 18: Had a work wife at absolutely with would mind? Like,
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  Speaker 18: I don't think the label is going too far when
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  Speaker 18: you say wife and husband. Why you just can't have
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  Speaker 18: a work friend, you know what I'm saying, or a
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  Speaker 18: coworker that you're really cool with Like why does it
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  Speaker 18: have to be why does the term have to be
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  Speaker 18: work wife's work husband?
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  Speaker 4: I don't think it's appropriate.
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  Speaker 18: I don't like it sometimes now now, a lot of
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  Speaker 18: times it is platonic, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 4: But a lot of times it's not right.
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  Speaker 1: So and you never know, I want you either.
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  Speaker 4: We all friends, Yeah, yeah, like nah, yeah, I don't
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  Speaker 4: like it.
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  Speaker 10: I don't like the term.
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  Speaker 3: Like like I said, like, you shouldn't be calling nobody
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  Speaker 3: else your husband. You shouldn't be calling nobody else your wife.
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  Speaker 3: You know, those are like sacred titles, you know what
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  Speaker 3: I mean, those the titles that you earn, and you
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  Speaker 3: know you can to be calling nobody your work husband
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  Speaker 3: work wife.
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  Speaker 10: And to me, like it applies other connotations.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, you know what I'm saying, Like why does that
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  Speaker 3: got to be your work husband a work wife?
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  Speaker 17: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: I don't like that.
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  Speaker 10: I don't like the term. That was funny me and
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  Speaker 10: m me do it, Yeah, like that's my work husband.
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  Speaker 10: But that's a joke exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Wives know each other, you know, y'all know too much.
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  Speaker 4: He played with me outside we outside of where he's
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  Speaker 4: still playing. I don't want to play.
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  Speaker 3: Because the screechs know the streets. Not the streets.
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  Speaker 10: The screechs know you my work bottom. You're actually my
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  Speaker 10: work bottom, bitch. That's the way I look at what.
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  Speaker 9: You go to.
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  Speaker 16: Hello, this from Brooklyn.
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  Speaker 4: From Brooklyn. Talk to us, Jah, what's your.
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  Speaker 15: Thoughts going on?
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  Speaker 8: My thoughts ain't no work wives, ain't no work husbands.
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  Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 8: Because you know, soon he should get.
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  Speaker 10: A little attitude with me.
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  Speaker 19: He should go to work, talk about you know, oh
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  Speaker 19: he not doing me right next to.
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  Speaker 1: The river one day.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I clicked on one video and then I just
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  Speaker 3: went down the whole thing of videos whereas these girls
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  Speaker 3: talking about this is how you take care of your friend,
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  Speaker 3: and it's like girls giving guys. Hell no, that's what
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  Speaker 3: I'm saying.
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  Speaker 16: It's like we just got to work from home.
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  Speaker 8: Matter of fact, Emma, don't gotta leave the package on
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  Speaker 8: the steps.
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  Speaker 9: Don't even ring the bell?
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  Speaker 3: Damn you? Hello, what's this?
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  Speaker 6: Hey?
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  Speaker 4: No?
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  Speaker 9: No at off storer man?
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  Speaker 4: No, No, what's up?
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  Speaker 1: Talk to us?
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  Speaker 4: What's your doing?
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  Speaker 3: Hey man?
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  Speaker 20: Good morning to y'all.
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  Speaker 11: Man.
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  Speaker 20: I listened to y'all live this morning. I want to
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  Speaker 20: start that out. Yeah, yeah, sir, but yeah, I think
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  Speaker 20: these days now, being in a relationship, when you with
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  Speaker 20: a person and they're at at a job site and
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  Speaker 20: they went they see this work for nine, ten, twelve
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  Speaker 20: hours out of the day, you know they tend to
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  Speaker 20: go on lunch date and you know that's that's gonna happen.
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  Speaker 20: And I think you know you just gotta either accept
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  Speaker 20: it or leave it, because really that's what goes on.
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  Speaker 1: You have a work white bro, No, I.
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  Speaker 15: Tried trug brother.
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  Speaker 20: I just started my own business cooler wool leg spress man.
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  Speaker 10: You gotta you gotta work a lot, lizard.
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  Speaker 15: No, no, no, hey, most definitely don't.
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  Speaker 10: Is that is that one restop on the route you
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  Speaker 10: going and you gotta lead that man?
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  Speaker 4: Hell dion, what's up brother?
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  Speaker 3: Talk to us?
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  Speaker 4: What you're doing?
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  Speaker 19: A good morning? First of all, I love all of y'all.
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  Speaker 19: Everything y'all do. I think y'all are.
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  Speaker 10: Amazing than we appreciate you man, Thank you.
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  Speaker 19: Another thing, I think the girl was insane for telling
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  Speaker 19: her girlfriend she got a work wife. I think that
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  Speaker 19: you gotta keep that to yourself. I've had plenty of
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  Speaker 19: work wives that didn't lead to nothing at all. But
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  Speaker 19: it ain't like I told my girl that, Like I
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  Speaker 19: just kept.
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  Speaker 15: It to me.
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  Speaker 19: It's were just getting coffee and and doing stuff like that.
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  Speaker 7: We ain't doing crazy.
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  Speaker 3: Now.
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  Speaker 18: That's the thing that the reason why I told her
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  Speaker 18: it wasn't crazy that she told her girlfriend that she
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  Speaker 18: had a work wife. What made it crazy is that
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  Speaker 18: you really effing with your work wife. Like y'all getting intimate, y'all,
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  Speaker 18: y'all flirting and dealing with each other. She went in
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  Speaker 18: the phone, saw messages, and she cheats. She was cheating
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  Speaker 18: on her girlfriend with her work wife. That's where it
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  Speaker 18: went wrong.
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  Speaker 4: You got crazy.
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  Speaker 16: That's a whole other conversation.
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  Speaker 19: Statistically, Hey, you know you're all saying that you came
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  Speaker 19: to yourself. You always off for that.
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  Speaker 12: I can't ever about for that now, Dion answer answer,
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  Speaker 12: answer the railway right.
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  Speaker 4: Have you ever flirted with your work wife?
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  Speaker 19: A little course, That's why I was my work wife.
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  Speaker 9: But it ain't to happen.
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  Speaker 11: No.
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  Speaker 3: But see, you shouldn't be flirting. See you know your
• 14:19
  Speaker 3: wife would not allow you to be flirting. Would you
• 14:21
  Speaker 3: tell your wife you was flirting with.
• 14:22
  Speaker 10: Your work wife?
• 14:27
  Speaker 3: You don't say that, you don't listen, My My rule
• 14:29
  Speaker 3: is you don't do nothing. You can't tell your wife. Right,
• 14:32
  Speaker 3: If you can't tell your wife about it, you know
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: you ain't got no business doing.
• 14:35
  Speaker 12: It now if you're just joining us. This conversation actually
• 14:38
  Speaker 12: came from a woman who called yesterday. Durn and get
• 14:40
  Speaker 12: it off your chest. Let's listen to the call.
• 14:43
  Speaker 15: So.
• 14:43
  Speaker 11: I have a girlfriend I've been with for a year
• 14:45
  Speaker 11: and a half.
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: We lived together.
• 14:47
  Speaker 8: We got a cat.
• 14:48
  Speaker 13: You don't real life yet.
• 14:49
  Speaker 4: Cats in the house talk to us.
• 14:53
  Speaker 11: So she's a nurse. She's telling me. A few months
• 14:57
  Speaker 11: ago she started getting close with some girl. That word
• 14:59
  Speaker 11: the girl is her work wife.
• 15:01
  Speaker 6: I tell her to.
• 15:02
  Speaker 11: Nip it in the bus. She don't do it. Then
• 15:05
  Speaker 11: I go through her phone on Christmas Day, I see
• 15:09
  Speaker 11: her texting with the girl, and the girl's talking like
• 15:12
  Speaker 11: what you wearing? I can't wait to see you type Today.
• 15:16
  Speaker 11: We had a big fight. She turned her location off
• 15:19
  Speaker 11: and she left the cris. I drove her through her
• 15:23
  Speaker 11: ear pods. My dude, wow, she has the Shorty's house, yo,
• 15:28
  Speaker 11: Damn crazy. Pulled up to the press.
• 15:30
  Speaker 7: I said, come outside.
• 15:32
  Speaker 11: She said, you in the wrong place.
• 15:34
  Speaker 6: I'm not here. I knock on the front door.
• 15:37
  Speaker 11: I'm not tell me they're gonna call the top and
• 15:39
  Speaker 11: I'm like, no, y'all you know.
• 15:41
  Speaker 12: So we're asking eight hundred and five eighty five one
• 15:44
  Speaker 12: oh five one? Do you mind if your significant other
• 15:46
  Speaker 12: has a work husband or work wife?
• 15:47
  Speaker 9: Hello?
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: Who's this?
• 15:48
  Speaker 11: Hey?
• 15:49
  Speaker 14: This juicy?
• 15:50
  Speaker 10: Hey juicy?
• 15:51
  Speaker 13: Definitely is my wife?
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: You fat?
• 15:54
  Speaker 6: I'm I'm yeah. I got caught plenty of fat bases before,
• 15:58
  Speaker 6: so I guess you're.
• 16:01
  Speaker 10: How tall are you?
• 16:02
  Speaker 15: Oh?
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: My goodness, I'm five to three.
• 16:07
  Speaker 6: Two hundred times? So this point, okay, ask me the question.
• 16:16
  Speaker 4: Answer the question.
• 16:16
  Speaker 10: Mom, I'm sorry you Are you somebody's work wife?
• 16:18
  Speaker 6: She is, Oh, I'm the I'm somebody who caught my
• 16:22
  Speaker 6: uh work wife. Half y'all want to say. Yeah, So
• 16:27
  Speaker 6: my husband worked somewhere, right, We used to work together.
• 16:31
  Speaker 6: I quit so I found like some placement that didn't
• 16:36
  Speaker 6: work out. So, you know, because I know, like I
• 16:38
  Speaker 6: know how the work wife and stuff is my husband
• 16:41
  Speaker 6: on drive, I was taking him to work and at
• 16:44
  Speaker 6: the same time I was taking him the word uh
• 16:47
  Speaker 6: the work wife. She got a husband too, but I
• 16:50
  Speaker 6: didn't know this at the time because she just started.
• 16:53
  Speaker 6: So when I was leaving, I see her, I see
• 16:57
  Speaker 6: her husband like me, ain't uking a mess out of
• 17:01
  Speaker 6: my mind. So I wanted to be like, what's up?
• 17:05
  Speaker 6: Why are you looking at him like that? Like, because
• 17:08
  Speaker 6: like it was a popthing that didn't sit.
• 17:10
  Speaker 7: Right with me.
• 17:11
  Speaker 6: So I'm not a middle note of this. So the
• 17:13
  Speaker 6: next time I went, it was she went with her husband,
• 17:17
  Speaker 6: was by herself, so she was looking at me rock
• 17:21
  Speaker 6: car and manstue, I got real stark, so you can't
• 17:24
  Speaker 6: see in there. I can see her, she can't see me.
• 17:27
  Speaker 6: So she's just looking ugly at tail.
• 17:29
  Speaker 11: That I'm like, damn stup, Oh no, what kind of
• 17:31
  Speaker 11: car do you have?
• 17:32
  Speaker 10: First of all, what kind of call you a truck?
• 17:35
  Speaker 6: I'm not good. It's a b m W was uh
• 17:38
  Speaker 6: pretending winders, but it is small.
• 17:44
  Speaker 4: She got, it's a truck.
• 17:47
  Speaker 10: It's a big truck.
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: It's considered.
• 17:50
  Speaker 4: Okay, okay, God, she wanted to make sure it wasn't
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: the one series dad.
• 17:53
  Speaker 6: Go so uh okay. So long story short for the
• 17:57
  Speaker 6: way she looked at me. I said, oh, I said,
• 18:00
  Speaker 6: I said, let me go through this phone, because I
• 18:03
  Speaker 6: go through the phone like maybe every six or seven months,
• 18:05
  Speaker 6: depending on how I feel like.
• 18:07
  Speaker 9: I just go through the phone.
• 18:08
  Speaker 6: I normally don't be finding nothing, but so I go
• 18:11
  Speaker 6: right to her is just the same. I call it
• 18:14
  Speaker 6: the same day. Only think I'm mad because I want
• 18:16
  Speaker 6: to see how farthers go go because I feel like
• 18:19
  Speaker 6: I stopped it because I crashed out right way. Because
• 18:24
  Speaker 6: when I went through the phone and went to.
• 18:25
  Speaker 19: Their message, this person was like regular little work stuff.
• 18:28
  Speaker 6: So then I started seeing the more. He kind of corny,
• 18:31
  Speaker 6: so I know that's this way. I flurish so right,
• 18:35
  Speaker 6: but he talked a lot, so uh so she goes
• 18:38
  Speaker 6: send a picture. She said, three pictures and they and
• 18:41
  Speaker 6: they was like sexy pictures. But she weak. She she
• 18:45
  Speaker 6: she they would say, some sexy pictures coming about some
• 18:47
  Speaker 6: eyes contact.
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: Ma'am, ma'am, ma'am m man, I need to tell you
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: something that they don't tell you at dinner. Stop when
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: you're going too long. Could you get to the point please.
• 19:00
  Speaker 6: Make them And you said, okay, okay, I try to.
• 19:07
  Speaker 6: She an't worked there no more. I beat him on
• 19:09
  Speaker 6: his fleet because ill him to do this. I told
• 19:13
  Speaker 6: him to do this. The things he tried to be sneaky.
• 19:17
  Speaker 6: Ain't tell me like, oh, he ain't tell me you
• 19:20
  Speaker 6: know what I caught. If he would have been like
• 19:21
  Speaker 6: oh man, now she's biting back on what you told
• 19:24
  Speaker 6: me to do. The only reason I told him to
• 19:26
  Speaker 6: flirt with her so she can work for him and he.
• 19:29
  Speaker 7: So he can still be I don't know.
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: I don't like any of this. You opened up the door,
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: you know what I mean? And I don't know why
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: you opened up Pandora's box like that.
• 19:37
  Speaker 10: I do not know why you did that. That's happen.
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: She said something, but you gonna beat him up for
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: telling him to do something that you told him.
• 19:46
  Speaker 4: Fall and then you beat him up. What size was
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: the girl?
• 19:48
  Speaker 6: She man, I'm old enough to be her mam man
• 19:52
  Speaker 6: and I and that's her thing?
• 19:53
  Speaker 11: She like, ain't you stiffy bitch?
• 19:55
  Speaker 6: But if we put next to each other, you will
• 19:58
  Speaker 6: be trying to figure out who's fifty she you know
• 20:00
  Speaker 6: she started. My thing is that he didn't tell me
• 20:04
  Speaker 6: what she did. Like, I accept everything that she did
• 20:08
  Speaker 6: that she was going to do, but I had to
• 20:11
  Speaker 6: I had to go through the phone and side and
• 20:13
  Speaker 6: he said he was lying about it. Said he's like, no, like,
• 20:16
  Speaker 6: what where did you lying for?
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't because you just as messy
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: to you called you caused a lot of this mess.
• 20:22
  Speaker 10: You told that man to flirt with that woman and
• 20:25
  Speaker 10: there's no limit to flirting. Did you say, did you?
• 20:27
  Speaker 10: Did you give him a limit?
• 20:29
  Speaker 6: Right? But he was supposed to tell Yeah, the limit
• 20:31
  Speaker 6: was like if she biting back, you let me know, like,
• 20:36
  Speaker 6: and then when he didn't, and then when I asked
• 20:39
  Speaker 6: him like, I tried to wake him up, but he
• 20:41
  Speaker 6: I tried to wake him up, but he trying to
• 20:43
  Speaker 6: fake sleep when I had that phone in his face.
• 20:51
  Speaker 7: That was a lot.
• 20:53
  Speaker 10: You are so messy, so messy, I mean juicy, you
• 20:56
  Speaker 10: are so messy.
• 20:57
  Speaker 6: I'm glad I ain't tell you all my real man.
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: But yeah, okay, so you picked you picked the song
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: by Biggie Smalls on perfect Wow, Wow, idiot.
• 21:16
  Speaker 7: Ball.
• 21:19
  Speaker 8: Did you know?
• 21:21
  Speaker 10: We have the breakfast Club?
• 21:23
  Speaker 12: Good morning morning, Everybody's dj NV just hilarious, Charlamain the guy.
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: We are the breakfast Club. We got a special guest
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: in the building.
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: First of all, make sure the door is locked. And
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: I'm glad that her phone is in here because she
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: can't use her phone to get in the room. So
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: make sure the door is locked. Correct, just hilarious, can't
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: get in.
• 21:40
  Speaker 10: We got our guy Rome Rome here who was Justice
• 21:42
  Speaker 10: Daby's father.
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: That's rights dad.
• 21:46
  Speaker 10: And you know, just put out her new book this week,
• 21:48
  Speaker 10: Tell Death Do We Parent?
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: It's available everywhere you buy books now, and it talks
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: about how they got to a healthy place of co
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: parenting with each other. That's right. And I haven't even
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: talked to m I ain't reached out to room. I
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: wanted to talk the wrong, face to face.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: Wrong.
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: What did you think of the book?
• 22:03
  Speaker 4: Your first fel, firstnest, honest.
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: First fiel. You read the book first chapter.
• 22:09
  Speaker 4: I feel like some things wasn't explained.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: The correct way.
• 22:14
  Speaker 10: We're not supposed to let her in.
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: You're supposed to let her in.
• 22:17
  Speaker 10: You're supposed to keep her out for a little bit.
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: Okay, let Rome has the floor, the floor down.
• 22:23
  Speaker 10: You can sit down, jests, unless you want.
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: To leave, you can also leave.
• 22:26
  Speaker 10: Okay, yes, kay, we just asked the first question I read.
• 22:33
  Speaker 4: It's too late.
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: You got nothing. It's too late. Now.
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: You thinking the book Death Parents, you said first chapter,
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: he would saying it was cap honestly, not even cap.
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: I just think after women read it, it's gonna hate me.
• 22:48
  Speaker 4: And why because of course, you know men can't go
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: through that. But when women are going through like postpartum,
• 22:53
  Speaker 4: those stages and stuff like that. If you read this
• 22:55
  Speaker 4: the first chapter, it's going to be like I was
• 22:57
  Speaker 4: a dog, like I did everything going those times when.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: I didn't the dog.
• 23:03
  Speaker 4: No, I feel like she fabricated it far as putting
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: it too early, it was late. It was later than that.
• 23:10
  Speaker 4: I didn't do any of that doing postpartum. But it
• 23:14
  Speaker 4: was a dope book. Interesting, very transparent, Uh, to see
• 23:18
  Speaker 4: that we've grown so much and to share other to
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: share with other people on you know that coke parns.
• 23:25
  Speaker 8: Is not a bad thing.
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: I think that that's that's the biggest part in the
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: goal that we always talked about, and that was for years,
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: even when we started coke parentry therapy back in it
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: was COVID. So I want to say the twenty twenty
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: one when with the shut Down book.
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: But see, that's what I got from the book. That's
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: why I said, I don't think people don't hate you
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: if they read past the first chapter. You know what
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: I mean, because you do get to the growth and
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: the evolutionary of both of y'all. You know what I mean,
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: not just not just you, both of y'all.
• 23:53
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and but you got some people who ain't going
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: to all right right, They're gonna they're gonna pinpoint and
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: take out parts and they run with a certain narratives
• 24:01
  Speaker 4: or see the captures in highlight the same way they
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: do clips on Instagram or TikTok, whatever the case may be.
• 24:06
  Speaker 4: It hate you off a clip and didn't even let
• 24:08
  Speaker 4: you elaborate or.
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: Explain yourself your feelings the most, and don't lie because
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: I know you read it more than one time. The
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: chap was it?
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: None of really hurt me because I'm I'm I own't
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: know what I do. I ain't never been ashamed of anything,
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: and tell you why, because I always had a choice.
• 24:22
  Speaker 4: I decided to make those choices. But what was hot
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: woman to me was that she's able to talk about
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: it now because a lot of times she would never
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: open up about it, and just to share that light
• 24:34
  Speaker 4: on how much I've grown as a man and as
• 24:37
  Speaker 4: a father. I just was, you know, Paul, I was,
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: I was really yeah, I was. I was just excited, man,
• 24:43
  Speaker 4: I really was excited. You could tell she has a
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: lot of love for you, regardless, lot always Yah. I'm
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: just excited because if anybody who really know me truly
• 24:51
  Speaker 4: and ginguely know me. That's my dog.
• 24:54
  Speaker 12: How did you feel when you know she recently exerts
• 24:58
  Speaker 12: came out of the book and she talked about not
• 25:00
  Speaker 12: necessarily wanting your first child, but wanted to keep you
• 25:04
  Speaker 12: more than anything, so to make you happy, she was
• 25:06
  Speaker 12: willing to do anything for you.
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: How did that make you feel? As a father of five? Now,
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: I understand and I say that because even when I
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: go back to her and I'd be like, if you're
• 25:17
  Speaker 4: gonna leave me alone, don't go get another me. It's
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: one of those things where okay, well, if you having
• 25:21
  Speaker 4: a child, make sure that you know that this is
• 25:23
  Speaker 4: going to be a family. And I never wanted a
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: lot of kids. I always wanted a family, but you know,
• 25:28
  Speaker 4: I was emotional, I would say, dumb, not thinking, vulnerable
• 25:32
  Speaker 4: in those moments even as a kid. But I think,
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: I don't know, I think it just shaped her to
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: be the wife that she is.
• 25:38
  Speaker 12: Now you look back at it and say, I messed
• 25:40
  Speaker 12: this family up because she talks about she thought that
• 25:43
  Speaker 12: y'all had a perfect family. Y'all were taking pictures and
• 25:47
  Speaker 12: y'all were doing things as a family and a couple.
• 25:49
  Speaker 12: You know, all of a sudden she got a comment
• 25:51
  Speaker 12: that says, room go here with you. But he played
• 25:54
  Speaker 12: a house in this other house, and matter of fact,
• 25:55
  Speaker 12: he got a baby coming. Did you ever look back
• 25:57
  Speaker 12: at and.
• 25:57
  Speaker 4: Be like, damn, I f that up, look back sometimes
• 26:01
  Speaker 4: and say I wish I did things different. I ain't
• 26:04
  Speaker 4: never gonna say I wish I because who knows. If
• 26:08
  Speaker 4: I wouldn't have deal what I did, then we still
• 26:10
  Speaker 4: would have been together, because it goes both ways, and
• 26:13
  Speaker 4: a lot of things that I've done it was out
• 26:15
  Speaker 4: of reaction.
• 26:17
  Speaker 15: You know.
• 26:17
  Speaker 4: It's three sides of every story, that side your side,
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: and the truth me, I just wasn't that heartless to
• 26:24
  Speaker 4: just go out and do these things I didn't even
• 26:25
  Speaker 4: have access to. So that's why we're gonna dive. We're
• 26:28
  Speaker 4: gonna dive deeper into those things. But I wouldn't say
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: I would say I just wish how did things different?
• 26:36
  Speaker 4: Just to give myself, just to give us a chance,
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: because I never even gave us a chance. That's a
• 26:40
  Speaker 4: great question and just a great framing of it.
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: Like if there were no kid in bold right, if
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: there was no action, would y'all still choose each other?
• 26:49
  Speaker 4: You think at that moment no, because action was the glue.
• 26:56
  Speaker 4: Ash was the one that kept it around and me,
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: I'm low tolerance. And Jessica speaks on that, she'll speak
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: again on it. We spoke on that on the podcast.
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: When women don't do and it might sound controlling, it
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: might sound like I'm a narcissism, you know, at that moment,
• 27:08
  Speaker 4: not now, because I'm a change man. You know, at
• 27:12
  Speaker 4: that moment, it may sound like I'm being controlling. But
• 27:18
  Speaker 4: I felt like at the time, younger days, if women
• 27:21
  Speaker 4: wasn't in my if they want in compliance, it wasn't
• 27:24
  Speaker 4: no benefit to me.
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: So just just walk back in the room. I want
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: to want to expound on the question. I just asked you,
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: what was it about just that would make you not
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: want to be with her if there was no asking,
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: because he said he wouldn't.
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: Do what you if there wasn't ask that at that
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: moment at that, like I said, I'm gonna repeat it,
• 27:40
  Speaker 4: at that moment, we were children, so it wasn't really
• 27:42
  Speaker 4: it wasn't really nothing to be with our own, especially
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: after all the things I did. And I say that
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: to say at that at that time, of course, you
• 27:49
  Speaker 4: know a lot of men live with women conveniencing and
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: stuff like that.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: I didn't need any of that.
• 27:54
  Speaker 4: I'm living at home my stepmam. So if it's no child,
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: we'd have went out separate ways because it was easy
• 28:00
  Speaker 4: to go separate ways with no time. It's easy to
• 28:03
  Speaker 4: go separate ways when you're not married, right, marriage and
• 28:08
  Speaker 4: children is the tie on. Okay, let's see, because you
• 28:11
  Speaker 4: don't really want to start over. It's hard starting over,
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: not even hard, just too much time. You gotta relying
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: a person and then you don't even know if that
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: person won't be the person for you, so it takes time. Now,
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: you said it was reactional, the fact that you know
• 28:25
  Speaker 4: you cheated.
• 28:26
  Speaker 12: Was it reactional because you didn't want to be in
• 28:28
  Speaker 12: a family at the time, or you didn't want.
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: To be tied down? Or what's hard?
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: This was?
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: You know what was reactional? No?
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: Just yeah, okay, now let's get to it.
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: Just just just just did things, and it's something. It's
• 28:42
  Speaker 4: some things I said I would never speak on. I'm
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: taking that to the grade with me because yeah.
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: That's why you believe that it might not be yours
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: at one point.
• 28:50
  Speaker 4: No, I never I never believe that I've seen him.
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: He was mind through the son ground at the moment,
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: at the moment, never really even believed that it was.
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: More so I was upset because of the heat of
• 29:03
  Speaker 4: the moment.
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: But oh, you just said that off.
• 29:06
  Speaker 10: Okay, okay, she said emotional.
• 29:12
  Speaker 4: But she and she, but she and I read that
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: four or five times again on the train to day.
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: That particular party. How did you feel when she said that?
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: Of course you know it, man, you're hurting the moment
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: in mind. You you shan't in my face, so I
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: think it'll be different. She was in my face, but
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: I did. I never thought ashing was wasn't mine. I
• 29:33
  Speaker 4: just think she, of all people at that moment, even now,
• 29:36
  Speaker 4: know how to get under my skin. There's only two
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: things that really bother me my children.
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: In my mind.
• 29:42
  Speaker 4: It ain't really nothing else you can really say to
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: me that were really moving.
• 29:45
  Speaker 12: We're still kicking it with Rome. Rome is just's baby daddy.
• 29:48
  Speaker 12: You know, just just did the new book Till Death.
• 29:50
  Speaker 4: Do we pair it? And we're talking to Rome.
• 29:53
  Speaker 12: Why didn't you fight for the relationship after you know,
• 29:55
  Speaker 12: Jess was like it's over. You know, you had another
• 29:58
  Speaker 12: baby on the way.
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: Let's clear that up.
• 30:01
  Speaker 4: Okay, it was over before I had a baby on
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: the way, Jessica that I know.
• 30:05
  Speaker 9: Ron.
• 30:06
  Speaker 18: I just was trying to like be with you and
• 30:09
  Speaker 18: give my family like because that's what I wanted ultimately.
• 30:12
  Speaker 18: I wanted that family dynamic. I wanted to grow up.
• 30:15
  Speaker 18: I want to ask to grow up in the house
• 30:17
  Speaker 18: with me and you together, you know.
• 30:19
  Speaker 13: And yeah it was over. I had mentally checked out.
• 30:22
  Speaker 18: You was like moved like you had moved on and everything,
• 30:26
  Speaker 18: but like you were still selfish because I couldn't be
• 30:29
  Speaker 18: with nobody.
• 30:29
  Speaker 13: You didn't want me, but I couldn't be with nobody else.
• 30:32
  Speaker 4: No, we cleaned it up because in the book it
• 30:34
  Speaker 4: makes it seem.
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: Like I had a baby on you.
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: Well you were dealing with it's three number two, it's fourteen,
• 30:41
  Speaker 4: okay is eleven?
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 30:45
  Speaker 4: When did we split?
• 30:47
  Speaker 13: When he was like about three?
• 30:48
  Speaker 11: Yeah?
• 30:49
  Speaker 17: We split?
• 30:49
  Speaker 13: We split once and yeah yeah yeah, but I took
• 30:52
  Speaker 13: you back. I got back with you.
• 30:54
  Speaker 18: Remember when I met Yo correct, you know I can't
• 30:57
  Speaker 18: say his real name, but when I met you, mad you.
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: Why wouldn't you say, you know what, I'm cut the
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: BS out and I'm a fight for music.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah that's yeah.
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: One thing he said.
• 31:12
  Speaker 17: And you can you can curse and say it.
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: One thing he said was, uh can do a thousand
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: and one things once the girl that one person, we
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: can't take it. So at that moment, and then even
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: at that time, like you know, still it's pair of
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: pressure people around you. Oh and then at that time
• 31:29
  Speaker 4: I really cared about what my friends start. So it
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: was bac and then it was like a manhood and
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: you know, like my father ain't really say too much negative,
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: but you know, he said the things he said. But
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: you know, I think I was more so heartbroken because
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: of you know, certain things that she did do.
• 31:47
  Speaker 18: Rome overthinks, like he creates these scenarios in his mind,
• 31:51
  Speaker 18: and he overthinks and he thinks himself out of the relationships.
• 31:55
  Speaker 10: He's not wrong for that, even though we should.
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: He's not right.
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: But when I'm right, I'm right. When I I'm wrong,
• 32:00
  Speaker 4: I could have been right, but when I'm right, I
• 32:02
  Speaker 4: was wrong, But I wasn't wrong.
• 32:03
  Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, yeah, no, no, you know you you did
• 32:11
  Speaker 5: some things to me too, Yeah I believe, Okay, all right,
• 32:14
  Speaker 5: that's fine.
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: And you did a lot of things in me.
• 32:18
  Speaker 4: I done pulled up on dress skill a couple of
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: times in her neighborhood. And then that's one thing too.
• 32:25
  Speaker 4: I don't like you ignore my phone calls. Control don't
• 32:28
  Speaker 4: ignore my phone calls, and then don't hang up on
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: me when I'm trying to explain because you're not like me.
• 32:34
  Speaker 4: Get my point across, because then that means you don't
• 32:36
  Speaker 4: care about how I feel. And that's one thing about
• 32:39
  Speaker 4: the society. Nobody cares about how men actually feel. And
• 32:42
  Speaker 4: then when men try to open up, and I looked
• 32:45
  Speaker 4: at and it's on the same track that Michael Beasley
• 32:48
  Speaker 4: and Shannon shop I felt a lot of things Michael
• 32:51
  Speaker 4: Beezy said when a man tried to open up, your
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: laugh at until it's too late. I'm just glad he
• 33:00
  Speaker 4: was able to get the help he needed to be
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: able to tell his story. But it's a lot of
• 33:05
  Speaker 4: other men who are shamed to do it. But this book,
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: and that ties everything to this book. This book is
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: a great book because his father is out there. It's
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: hopeless because you got a lot of types of did beats.
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: You got did beats who they don't do something to
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: baby mother say it did be You got diabies who
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: just actually don't give um. You got diadbies who said
• 33:27
  Speaker 4: up a wild women don't want to allow that.
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: They didn't stay there for a second because I asked
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: m I said, Room, if you had a title for
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: your book, what would be called? You had a very
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: interesting title. The second one.
• 33:40
  Speaker 4: I got to tell you something with the second one.
• 33:42
  Speaker 4: Let her father be a father, Not when it's convenient.
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: For you, that's that. Not when it's convenient for you
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: is what got me. Do you feel like she only
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: wanted you to be a father when it was convenient
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: for her?
• 33:52
  Speaker 11: No?
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: Okay, not no.
• 33:54
  Speaker 4: Not with her, I got a lot of of course,
• 33:56
  Speaker 4: you know, I got a line. But no, with men
• 34:00
  Speaker 4: and Jessica, it was never about you, understand me, And
• 34:02
  Speaker 4: this would be for the just to be. That's why
• 34:04
  Speaker 4: it's most genuine, because she didn't keep a child because
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: of a status or some some money or whatever the
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: case be. We just was honestly thought we was in love.
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: And then when I grew up, I didn't grow up
• 34:13
  Speaker 4: on spending blocks and like that type of music. I
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: grew up on Bow Wow and Little Rome Yo and Sammy,
• 34:21
  Speaker 4: so like it was, it was love music and you
• 34:24
  Speaker 4: just I always just wanted those fairy tales. Like my
• 34:27
  Speaker 4: favorite show growing up was sweet life and Zach and
• 34:29
  Speaker 4: Cody because of the family dynamic. So it's like for
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: a young man or want that and then you see
• 34:36
  Speaker 4: my life didn't get that. That's one of the things
• 34:39
  Speaker 4: I'd be like, damn, I don't see. But I'd be like, well, wow,
• 34:43
  Speaker 4: why I couldn't get what you want? Those cards? And
• 34:47
  Speaker 4: I show always a lot of my friends. I used
• 34:49
  Speaker 4: to be jealous of my friends growing up. They had
• 34:51
  Speaker 4: their mom and dad and I didn't. And I told him, bro, like,
• 34:55
  Speaker 4: I don't like you, love you, but I don't like
• 34:57
  Speaker 4: you my friends because they they had what I wanted.
• 35:02
  Speaker 4: And then I just used to see how they just
• 35:03
  Speaker 4: never appreciated they mom.
• 35:05
  Speaker 12: It was a co parent the way that your co
• 35:07
  Speaker 12: parent now was that always there or that had to
• 35:09
  Speaker 12: get there? Like at first was just not letting you
• 35:12
  Speaker 12: see your son or you didn't want to see your son,
• 35:14
  Speaker 12: because how did it originally start?
• 35:16
  Speaker 4: So it was always co parenting. It's just I was
• 35:18
  Speaker 4: col parting with my mother with my mother, yeah, with
• 35:21
  Speaker 4: Mama ribbing just didn't want to see you because Jess
• 35:24
  Speaker 4: was just I didn't want to see you. Why did
• 35:27
  Speaker 4: she had to see me? Because she was living at
• 35:29
  Speaker 4: the daycare, so she was going to see me. But
• 35:33
  Speaker 4: it's never been a point where I couldn't see my
• 35:35
  Speaker 4: son or he's keeping away from me because she she
• 35:38
  Speaker 4: has that family dynamic. Who this ain't that?
• 35:41
  Speaker 12: And why just why didn't you? Because most people would
• 35:43
  Speaker 12: have been like, he did me dirty, he cheated on me,
• 35:46
  Speaker 12: he did all these things. I'm gonna use my son
• 35:49
  Speaker 12: to hurt him. A lot of people do that. We
• 35:50
  Speaker 12: see that a lot of relationships. Why wasn't your mind
• 35:52
  Speaker 12: for maps her that as you are?
• 35:55
  Speaker 13: Couldn't I just yeah, I just couldn't do it.
• 35:57
  Speaker 18: I gave Rome a lot of grace because you know
• 36:01
  Speaker 18: I was doing my issue too, But you know it's
• 36:04
  Speaker 18: not about who, well, actually it was, it was about
• 36:06
  Speaker 18: who started it.
• 36:07
  Speaker 10: But whatever.
• 36:08
  Speaker 18: But once we started going back and forth trying to
• 36:10
  Speaker 18: hurt each other and trying to make each other feel
• 36:12
  Speaker 18: the pain that each one of us felt, I got
• 36:15
  Speaker 18: I got tired of that, and once I wanted to
• 36:20
  Speaker 18: sit down with Rome and just put everything on the table, like, yo,
• 36:22
  Speaker 18: are you you that's admit everything things that I did
• 36:25
  Speaker 18: that I was lying to him about.
• 36:26
  Speaker 13: He admitted things to me. Well, he explained things to me.
• 36:29
  Speaker 18: Because that's the thing Rome never really told me. Every
• 36:33
  Speaker 18: day I will find out and I'm going I'm coming
• 36:36
  Speaker 18: to him like, yo, this is what happened.
• 36:37
  Speaker 15: You know.
• 36:38
  Speaker 18: Ai Ai was not we It wasn't even that our
• 36:40
  Speaker 18: favorite TI this bag then so no, but I was
• 36:44
  Speaker 18: able to give him a lot of grace. And then
• 36:45
  Speaker 18: also like Kitch trauma, he went through a lot when
• 36:47
  Speaker 18: he was younger, and I realized, I'm like, yo, I'm
• 36:51
  Speaker 18: a lot more mature to see that. And my mother
• 36:55
  Speaker 18: always instilled that in me. Give a person grace. Everybody
• 36:58
  Speaker 18: comes from different walks of life. You don't know what
• 37:01
  Speaker 18: he's gone through, and it's hard to operate in this
• 37:03
  Speaker 18: world without a mother, you know, and then with an
• 37:07
  Speaker 18: absent father, you know, father who you see, but he
• 37:09
  Speaker 18: not really there is no really is no real bond.
• 37:12
  Speaker 18: So I felt the need to be more of a
• 37:15
  Speaker 18: friend and a confidante, you know, because I think I
• 37:18
  Speaker 18: was like the only one that you can open up
• 37:20
  Speaker 18: to about a lot of things that happened in your childhood,
• 37:23
  Speaker 18: a lot of things that you know, you didn't that
• 37:26
  Speaker 18: you that you didn't get as a kid after your
• 37:28
  Speaker 18: mom's passing.
• 37:30
  Speaker 4: So I think that's what it was, she said, because
• 37:32
  Speaker 4: you talk about being vulnerable. Did she ever use it? Oh,
• 37:34
  Speaker 4: that's what I was going to say next. But the
• 37:36
  Speaker 4: big umbrella of everything she's saying my mother, because she
• 37:41
  Speaker 4: wouldn't allow it. You have women, you have men, You
• 37:46
  Speaker 4: have human beings self who when don't go their way,
• 37:50
  Speaker 4: they got enablers around them telling them that that's right,
• 37:54
  Speaker 4: that's right. When my mother, I loved her.
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: Mother so much.
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: In mind me, her mom used to go through allen
• 37:59
  Speaker 4: hot water because I was always rebellious. And then as
• 38:01
  Speaker 4: I got a certain age, I'm already defensive because of
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: what my dad did. So you can't tell me, but
• 38:06
  Speaker 4: I had to take myself step back. She's not trying
• 38:10
  Speaker 4: to hurt you wrong, and yeah she she just you wrong, wrong,
• 38:16
  Speaker 4: You're wrong. So it wasn't no, oh that's my daughter.
• 38:19
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna take her side because it was. It was honestly,
• 38:22
  Speaker 4: like I think because the copyting itself it got it was.
• 38:27
  Speaker 4: It wasn't bad, but it got great after a while.
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: It didn't just happened overnight. It really started happening when
• 38:33
  Speaker 4: I took my feelings out like I stayed in the past,
• 38:37
  Speaker 4: like when that when that that narrative, Oh, I don't
• 38:41
  Speaker 4: want this around my kid. I don't want this. I
• 38:43
  Speaker 4: don't want that. I allowed it to happen, though, because
• 38:46
  Speaker 4: when I decided to hurt that woman or not want
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: to be with that woman, that opens up the door
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: so she can have whoever she want to have around
• 38:52
  Speaker 4: that child. So the logical part that I went with
• 38:56
  Speaker 4: was okay, Just long as they ain't trying to hurt
• 38:58
  Speaker 4: my kid, I'm okay, And I respect my child mom
• 39:01
  Speaker 4: enough and I trust them enough and even now all
• 39:04
  Speaker 4: of them to not allow that to happen.
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: I want, I want to ask you something wrong because
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: you said what you wanted growing up with the two
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: parent household. Yeah, And a lot of people would say,
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: how can somebody with that mindset end up with five
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: baby mothers? Because it's impossible to give those kids what
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: you wanted, So why would you create the same type of.
• 39:24
  Speaker 4: So let me, let me elaborate and piggyback. So I
• 39:27
  Speaker 4: never really that two point household now is near. I
• 39:31
  Speaker 4: never really cared for a two point household. I just
• 39:33
  Speaker 4: wanted my mother, so mindra. I was fine with going
• 39:39
  Speaker 4: with my dad on the weekends, going back to my
• 39:41
  Speaker 4: mother until that last weekend and get to go back
• 39:44
  Speaker 4: to my mom. So the two primet household dynamic come from,
• 39:48
  Speaker 4: like I said, shows and stuff like that, and reality
• 39:51
  Speaker 4: and the stigma that society put on you. Oh it's
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: supposed to be like this when two point household produced
• 39:57
  Speaker 4: some of the most stuffiest people in the world.
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: Would you are not a person with high emotional intelligence.
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: So clearly I know you wanted to be better than you. Yeah.
• 40:06
  Speaker 4: Correct, And like I said, I may, I mean, I may.
• 40:08
  Speaker 4: I made decisions. A lot of decisions I made was
• 40:11
  Speaker 4: out of vulnerability. A lot of decisions I made was
• 40:14
  Speaker 4: out of hurt, you know, And I'm not ashamed to
• 40:17
  Speaker 4: stay that people that, Oh.
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: Well that's me.
• 40:20
  Speaker 18: Can I ask you and you just tell me if
• 40:24
  Speaker 18: you agreed that. I feel like you were looking for
• 40:28
  Speaker 18: maybe your mom and these women. And that's why, you know,
• 40:31
  Speaker 18: because you had lost at a very young age, and
• 40:33
  Speaker 18: that nurturing and that you know, all that nurturing and
• 40:36
  Speaker 18: affection stopped at a very early age. And you went
• 40:40
  Speaker 18: from that household that's all you knew, love and positivity
• 40:44
  Speaker 18: and just you know, all of that, to a very
• 40:46
  Speaker 18: different type of household. You know, it wasn't much affection.
• 40:49
  Speaker 18: It wasn't nurturing. And I feel like that actually shaped
• 40:53
  Speaker 18: how you look women in my relationships.
• 40:56
  Speaker 13: Yeah, like it affected your love life in a way.
• 40:58
  Speaker 10: Do you agree with that?
• 41:00
  Speaker 4: Be very transparent. I never looked in my I never
• 41:04
  Speaker 4: looked for women, and I never looked for my mother
• 41:06
  Speaker 4: and women. I did look for the love and affection, right,
• 41:11
  Speaker 4: Why I never looked in I never looked for my
• 41:14
  Speaker 4: mother and women. Because I'm put it on tape. My
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: mother wasn't a saint. My mother did like you know,
• 41:21
  Speaker 4: like but who she was to you, but who she
• 41:23
  Speaker 4: was to me was she was great. But it was
• 41:26
  Speaker 4: like once she left, it was just that that the
• 41:27
  Speaker 4: affection that loved, that holding a person. Because I used
• 41:31
  Speaker 4: to hold my mother every night. Shit put me up
• 41:32
  Speaker 4: every night. I used to hold her. It really didn't
• 41:35
  Speaker 4: affect me until I got older and started dealing with women.
• 41:38
  Speaker 4: Because why I'm going through school, I'm I'm always busy.
• 41:42
  Speaker 4: Maybe that's why it didn't affect me. I'm grades baseball, basketball.
• 41:47
  Speaker 4: I really had no downtown to really think about it.
• 41:49
  Speaker 4: I know my mom and at the like probably like thirteen,
• 41:51
  Speaker 4: I'm you know, I'm washing cars. That's that's my mother.
• 41:55
  Speaker 4: Love Cause So that's where I get that from. So
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: it's like I don't think that it. I never really say,
• 41:58
  Speaker 4: oh I want you my mother and this woman because
• 42:01
  Speaker 4: my mother ain't know how to cook, cleaned up.
• 42:05
  Speaker 12: But you know you have five baby moms, right, and
• 42:08
  Speaker 12: of course just had relationships before she recently recently got married.
• 42:13
  Speaker 4: How did you co parent in that situation?
• 42:15
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 42:15
  Speaker 12: Because asking to be at his house, he has women there,
• 42:19
  Speaker 12: you know, or you know, just have a guy. Like
• 42:22
  Speaker 12: how did y'all crazy?
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: You just cut that man off talking about his mom.
• 42:25
  Speaker 12: No, it's going it's gonna come back now, I see
• 42:29
  Speaker 12: where you're going at, go ahead forget. So I'm asking,
• 42:31
  Speaker 12: so how did you deal with that? Because that's what
• 42:33
  Speaker 12: you've seen with your life?
• 42:35
  Speaker 4: So how did I see with my my son there
• 42:38
  Speaker 4: with her and her man?
• 42:39
  Speaker 13: Like, how did we co parent?
• 42:40
  Speaker 15: Like?
• 42:41
  Speaker 4: How did you you know, like speaking speaking on the
• 42:44
  Speaker 4: husband now before the husband has totally different my relationships
• 42:49
  Speaker 4: and Ash will be home with me, but then he
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: come yeah, Like how was the co parents and relationship
• 42:55
  Speaker 4: between you and I when that was going on schedule?
• 42:58
  Speaker 4: You had girlfriends and I ain't gonna hold you. That
• 43:00
  Speaker 4: took my feelings out of it a couple of men
• 43:02
  Speaker 4: that won two one and a half. You literally only
• 43:06
  Speaker 4: liked one and a half. I ain't like the other one,
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: but you didn't like him first I didn't, but we're going, yeah, yeah,
• 43:13
  Speaker 4: one and a half because the half, because the half
• 43:18
  Speaker 4: I ain't really cared for him, but he loved her,
• 43:22
  Speaker 4: So he loved my he loved my son. So, like
• 43:24
  Speaker 4: I said, it's times where Rome just taking taken to
• 43:27
  Speaker 4: the house when them two is, you know, in one household,
• 43:30
  Speaker 4: and I would drop them off, no problems or none
• 43:32
  Speaker 4: of that.
• 43:33
  Speaker 3: So that that was it.
• 43:33
  Speaker 4: That was the only transaction for us that really wasn't
• 43:36
  Speaker 4: us how by what nohing, I ain't really care for
• 43:39
  Speaker 4: him because of what he was saying to the other
• 43:41
  Speaker 4: women who was coming to me.
• 43:43
  Speaker 12: If that makes sense, I'm still I'm confused. Gona break
• 43:46
  Speaker 12: it down a little bit, Okay.
• 43:47
  Speaker 4: So he wasn't a sane in this that in that
• 43:49
  Speaker 4: relationship neither. And we then came across a couple of
• 43:52
  Speaker 4: the same women. I ain't disclosing anything, but did you
• 43:56
  Speaker 4: ever tell just that it's not my business, was not
• 44:01
  Speaker 4: your business, It's not what your son did that's my
• 44:04
  Speaker 4: But they wasn't in the household. He was doing what
• 44:06
  Speaker 4: he did on his free time. When he was doing
• 44:09
  Speaker 4: How I know that because my son was with me
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: majority of the time when he's throwing it on his
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: free time.
• 44:14
  Speaker 13: Well, cheater was supported cheater anyway.
• 44:16
  Speaker 4: I'm not supporting the cheater. You chose him, and that's
• 44:19
  Speaker 4: on you.
• 44:20
  Speaker 17: I didn't know he was cheating.
• 44:21
  Speaker 4: Well I didn't either. I didn't either, but it was
• 44:27
  Speaker 4: no problem. But how did it affect you when she
• 44:30
  Speaker 4: got married?
• 44:30
  Speaker 15: Right?
• 44:30
  Speaker 4: Because they said there was boundaries. And the reason I
• 44:32
  Speaker 4: asked is if I'm marrying somebody, I know y'all might.
• 44:36
  Speaker 12: Have a relationship, and I know y'all might be tight,
• 44:38
  Speaker 12: but you kind of got to find your own personally
• 44:40
  Speaker 12: on because that's mine.
• 44:41
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean that that's my wife, now,
• 44:42
  Speaker 4: you know what I mean. But y'all was so tight
• 44:44
  Speaker 4: for so long. How did those new boundaries affect co
• 44:49
  Speaker 4: parenting in your relationship? Yeah, because somebody had to build
• 44:52
  Speaker 4: the wall afect nothing shut the guess what it wasn't
• 44:59
  Speaker 4: It wasn't a wall a man. So when she leap
• 45:05
  Speaker 4: and in mind, I need to step by step, but
• 45:08
  Speaker 4: and it wasn't even Overroham. I want you to meet Chris.
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: It's just a genuine and it wasn't no wall, my man.
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: I always have respect. How did I deal with uh
• 45:19
  Speaker 4: not being around them more or talking to it? It
• 45:21
  Speaker 4: was like your best friend. But I never thought about
• 45:24
  Speaker 4: that because you're selfish if you don't want your best
• 45:27
  Speaker 4: friend or you get the person that you love to
• 45:30
  Speaker 4: be happy. So if this is what makes her happy, Okay,
• 45:33
  Speaker 4: I got one child. Mom is happy.
• 45:35
  Speaker 10: Mm hmmm one Russell Wilson.
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: Thank you. This is what you used to say, get
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: video future. I'm like, yo, you wanted somebody. You wanted
• 45:46
  Speaker 3: her to get somebody better.
• 45:47
  Speaker 4: I want her to get a Russell Wilson. I look
• 45:49
  Speaker 4: so forward to death. Do we parent to one that
• 45:52
  Speaker 4: you write in and and honestly that's what it is.
• 45:56
  Speaker 19: Uh.
• 45:57
  Speaker 4: I ain't gonna say I don't want nobody Patney yet,
• 46:01
  Speaker 4: but you have to be parent.
• 46:03
  Speaker 3: What is it? You know it's too.
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: You have to be parent. Brought to you, be your father.
• 46:13
  Speaker 13: Yeah, I love it and I love you to you,
• 46:17
  Speaker 13: I really did.
• 46:18
  Speaker 4: The book is out right now.
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: Make sure you get my guy room, sending room, healing
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: energy all the time. Man, eight fellaws, protect your piece
• 46:26
  Speaker 3: all right.
• 46:27
  Speaker 4: It's the breakfast club, It's Big Road. It's your time
• 46:34
  Speaker 4: to nominate a donkey of your own.
• 46:36
  Speaker 3: Remember now, that's it's how they choose.
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: Call in now eight hundred five eighty five, one oh
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: five one.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: I do want to give a donkey of today. Update though,
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: because earlier this week I gave donkey to a guy
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: named Dalton ether Lee aka Chug the build it.
• 46:54
  Speaker 19: Uh.
• 46:54
  Speaker 3: He's the racist who runs up on black people in
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: the street and provokes them by calling him racial slurs
• 46:59
  Speaker 3: and then three then with mace.
• 47:01
  Speaker 10: When they attempt to put hands on them. Well, you
• 47:03
  Speaker 10: all will be happy to know.
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: He is currently in jail okay, with no bond because
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: of a shooting that happened during a confrontation outside of
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: a Montgomery County courthouse in Clarksville, Tennessee.
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: UH.
• 47:15
  Speaker 3: Both men were shot in this situation. They are both
• 47:18
  Speaker 3: in stable conditioned. The other man was black. We don't
• 47:21
  Speaker 3: know how the shooting unfolded or what led up to it,
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: but chucked the building have been charged with employing a
• 47:26
  Speaker 3: firearm during dangerous felony, aggravated assault, reckless danger man with
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: a deadly weapon, and he has not received a bond.
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: Let for me.
• 47:34
  Speaker 10: Mam, give Chuck the building the biggest heahull again.
• 47:36
  Speaker 4: Please hee ha hee ha, you stupid mother?
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: Are you dumb?
• 47:41
  Speaker 11: Now?
• 47:41
  Speaker 3: Good morning?
• 47:43
  Speaker 6: Good morning Janelle?
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: Hey Janell, who you want to get the biggest he.
• 47:45
  Speaker 10: Hot to Janelle Donkey?
• 47:47
  Speaker 11: Other day goes to these two girls.
• 47:48
  Speaker 6: I was walking my own business and then last name
• 47:50
  Speaker 6: talking to each other, carrying on, and then one and
• 47:54
  Speaker 6: I looked like side brandom like and then the other
• 47:58
  Speaker 6: one like a second I'm like After that, I was like,
• 48:01
  Speaker 6: you know what not today?
• 48:03
  Speaker 7: I left.
• 48:05
  Speaker 6: I said, walk away because I'm not about to get
• 48:07
  Speaker 6: that Hanna virus.
• 48:08
  Speaker 11: Or less.
• 48:10
  Speaker 14: Right.
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: So you just walking down the street and you heard
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: a girl cough little lot and you thought that was
• 48:17
  Speaker 3: the Hannah first because I.
• 48:19
  Speaker 11: Left, you have me left? Yeah, okay?
• 48:23
  Speaker 19: And I started walking into my music, my business.
• 48:25
  Speaker 6: I'm going to my car, and then she get next
• 48:28
  Speaker 6: to me like we see It's like.
• 48:30
  Speaker 11: I was like, it's say for real.
• 48:31
  Speaker 19: I was looked at her.
• 48:32
  Speaker 11: I was like and then she was the other.
• 48:35
  Speaker 6: One she's talking to was like and I was like, okay,
• 48:37
  Speaker 6: I'm walking.
• 48:38
  Speaker 11: I just started walking and went and I.
• 48:40
  Speaker 10: Was like, I'm not mad at you. Listen we at
• 48:43
  Speaker 10: that point.
• 48:44
  Speaker 3: We at that point were you judging were judging you
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: for sneezing more than twice? We judging you for a
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: little coughing fits.
• 48:50
  Speaker 10: We just don't know. We gotta we gotta take for cautions.
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: I understand.
• 48:55
  Speaker 10: Thank you for calling. You know, good morning? Who Haley,
• 48:59
  Speaker 10: Hey Haley, who want to get biggest Hey haull to Haley.
• 49:01
  Speaker 6: I want to give the.
• 49:02
  Speaker 11: Knkey of the day to Kendrick lamar.
• 49:07
  Speaker 16: Iceman.
• 49:08
  Speaker 10: I don't I don't think that's the case.
• 49:10
  Speaker 20: Man.
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: I listen and you see, this is the narrative that
• 49:12
  Speaker 3: we're not gonna spend. Drake already took his l. It's
• 49:15
  Speaker 3: okay to take his l. Now he just you know,
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: screaming about the l he took. You know who Drake is.
• 49:20
  Speaker 3: You ever seen Minutes of Society when Chauncey got his
• 49:23
  Speaker 3: ass kicked and Chauncey got the videotape of uh, you
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: know Caine an old dog and he ready to go
• 49:29
  Speaker 3: scream and tell it to the police. That's where That's
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: where Drake is at right now. So don't say he
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: ate kendridough know he did.
• 49:36
  Speaker 11: How you gotta listen to Ice.
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: Man, I've listened to it. Nothing.
• 49:40
  Speaker 10: I don't care what's on.
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: Nothing on Iceman that's gonna change the outcome of what
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: happened two years ago. It's not funny this morning, I know,
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: good morning? Who's this?
• 49:50
  Speaker 15: Hey?
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: Good morning.
• 49:52
  Speaker 10: Terrell?
• 49:52
  Speaker 3: How are you, sir?
• 49:53
  Speaker 10: Who you want to get the biggest?
• 49:54
  Speaker 3: Hee Hall too well, I.
• 49:55
  Speaker 8: Wanted to get the biggest. I hate the state is
• 49:57
  Speaker 8: I gotta give it to you, sho man, Okay, why
• 50:00
  Speaker 8: you should go see a mental health advocate.
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: Every time listen to this.
• 50:03
  Speaker 8: You show you always trying to pull my man Drake,
• 50:06
  Speaker 8: and luckily for him strong enough to take it.
• 50:09
  Speaker 3: But he's with it.
• 50:10
  Speaker 8: He's going to a mental health crisis.
• 50:11
  Speaker 10: Like hell. First of all, get this thing for him, Drake.
• 50:14
  Speaker 8: I don't be away from the fact that it's the
• 50:15
  Speaker 8: biggest and most historical thing that has happened in the
• 50:17
  Speaker 8: last twenty years of music.
• 50:18
  Speaker 10: Oh my god, this this is why.
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: It's a bunch of grown men covered in seamen, covered
• 50:23
  Speaker 3: in frozen seamen, posting them on Instagram talking about Iceman
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: on the way. I don't have a disdain for Drake.
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: Drake is an artist. Drake puts out music and the
• 50:32
  Speaker 3: music can be critiqued on once is our for public consumption.
• 50:35
  Speaker 3: We the consumers, can critique it. That's what I do, sir.
• 50:38
  Speaker 8: But what I will say someone that has to work
• 50:41
  Speaker 8: in an hour, I think three hours listen to that
• 50:43
  Speaker 8: last night. I'm probably gonna regret it in a few
• 50:46
  Speaker 8: Try and tell why.
• 50:47
  Speaker 3: Would you do this?
• 50:49
  Speaker 18: I was just saying it was so I was trying.
• 50:51
  Speaker 18: I was falling asleep, waking back up, restarting songs that
• 50:54
  Speaker 18: we are getting old.
• 50:55
  Speaker 3: But what's the point of that though? Like the music
• 50:57
  Speaker 3: is gonna be here when you wake up, Like, why
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: do you have to listen to it? Why did you
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: have to binge listen to it?
• 51:01
  Speaker 21: It just feels good because it's like everybody, I got caught.
• 51:05
  Speaker 3: Up in it.
• 51:06
  Speaker 16: Well, I host too much music for you to be
• 51:08
  Speaker 16: critiquing it this early.
• 51:10
  Speaker 17: I haven't.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: I haven't heard it.
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: I've listened to Summer Iceman, I haven't critiqued it at
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: all here.
• 51:16
  Speaker 8: Well, well give it, give it a listen over the weekend.
• 51:19
  Speaker 8: I know you probably got a lot of other things
• 51:20
  Speaker 8: that you considered better to do. Well, it's music for
• 51:23
  Speaker 8: the ears, it's music for the soul.
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna be honest with your dad. I highly doubt
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna listen to all three Drake albums. Bro Like
• 51:29
  Speaker 3: I'm just I'm just not. I got a life, you
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: know what I mean? I understand for those of you
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: who like to be covered in frozen semen and post
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: and say Iceman coming, Iceman, camee? What is it? Now
• 51:39
  Speaker 3: you're gonna say Iceman Kane? Oh my god, y'all don't
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: even gotta say iceman coming the morning. Now when y'all post,
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: y'allselves covered in the frozen seemen, put iceman.
• 51:48
  Speaker 10: Good morning?
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: Who's this you know what? From?
• 51:51
  Speaker 10: Weisan Brandon from Louisiana. Who you want to get the
• 51:54
  Speaker 10: biggest y'all too?
• 51:55
  Speaker 15: Man?
• 51:55
  Speaker 16: I want to give it to all the people who'll
• 51:57
  Speaker 16: give it. Taca Brian just the smoke. And my reason
• 51:59
  Speaker 16: being like when people don't get their hair done or
• 52:03
  Speaker 16: go get their hair cut, are y'all asking them barber
• 52:06
  Speaker 16: and them hairstyle that, Hey, let me see your your certificate,
• 52:09
  Speaker 16: Like did you go to school? Like, are y'all just
• 52:12
  Speaker 16: going in there? Because Kiki you know how to do
• 52:13
  Speaker 16: like a little quick weed. So we're like, oh, let
• 52:15
  Speaker 16: me just go see Kiki. People who I'm gonna tell
• 52:18
  Speaker 16: you what. Let me tell you what your argument falls apart.
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: When you walk into these barber shops and you walk
• 52:22
  Speaker 3: into these hair salons, one thing that you will see
• 52:24
  Speaker 3: most of the time is these people have their certification
• 52:27
  Speaker 3: plastered on the wall somewhere, like literally right behind they
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: booed for their station.
• 52:31
  Speaker 10: Their certification is right there for the world to see.
• 52:34
  Speaker 3: If you're a licensed barber, licensed hairstylars, uh, it's usually
• 52:38
  Speaker 3: showcased in your facility.
• 52:40
  Speaker 16: Charlotte, I'm telling you you will be something. You will
• 52:42
  Speaker 16: be shocked. You go in there like y'all foods don't
• 52:45
  Speaker 16: really have y'all stuff up, Like, you will be surprised.
• 52:48
  Speaker 16: And same thing like people who do all this catering
• 52:50
  Speaker 16: and stuff. Did they go to school for us for this? Like, hey,
• 52:53
  Speaker 16: let me see your degree? Are your certificate from cut
• 52:56
  Speaker 16: to school? Cool air school? Like I think, if we're
• 52:58
  Speaker 16: gonna give her the smoke, we gotta give everybody the
• 53:01
  Speaker 16: smoke who do not have their certificate their license all,
• 53:05
  Speaker 16: let's keep their energy across the board.
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: I'm not saying you're wrong, but if you are in
• 53:11
  Speaker 3: a barber shop, a professional shop, you have to be
• 53:14
  Speaker 3: a licensed barber to legally cut Aaron Beard for money
• 53:17
  Speaker 3: you have.
• 53:17
  Speaker 10: You're supposed to be so I'm not saying that you're wrong.
• 53:20
  Speaker 3: I'm just And I'm also telling you that most of
• 53:22
  Speaker 3: these people, when you walk into their shops, they have
• 53:24
  Speaker 3: their certification up for everybody to see.
• 53:28
  Speaker 16: You will be shot. But a lot of people don't
• 53:31
  Speaker 16: do the like you feel. It's a boofy. Let you
• 53:34
  Speaker 16: just try to get to get this money out the
• 53:36
  Speaker 16: boofy like you would be shot when you go. But
• 53:39
  Speaker 16: that's all I'm saying.
• 53:40
  Speaker 3: I'm with you, But I don't think that makes it right.
• 53:43
  Speaker 3: Just because people are doing it don't make it right.
• 53:45
  Speaker 10: But have a great day, you don't, All right?
• 53:48
  Speaker 3: That was the people's donkey. We do that every Friday.
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: Every Friday, I allow you, the people to call in
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: and give somebody the credit they deserve for being stupid.
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: So make sure you take advantage of that next Friday.
• 53:57
  Speaker 3: All you can go to the iHeartRadio app, go to
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: our talk go to the Rekforce club page, go to
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: the talk back feature, and you can leave us some
• 54:03
  Speaker 3: message right.
• 54:04
  Speaker 12: Warning everybody, it's the j n V. Just hilarious, Charlamagne
• 54:08
  Speaker 12: the God. We are the Breakfast Club law La Roses
• 54:10
  Speaker 12: here as well, and we got a special guest in
• 54:12
  Speaker 12: the building. Ladies and gentlemen, Ari Lenox, welcome back already
• 54:17
  Speaker 12: failing feeling good energy this morning?
• 54:20
  Speaker 17: You good amazing? Yeah, what are you?
• 54:23
  Speaker 3: And favored?
• 54:24
  Speaker 15: Yes?
• 54:24
  Speaker 17: Yes, yes, me too.
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 54:26
  Speaker 10: Vacancy is out right now, that's right.
• 54:28
  Speaker 3: Yes. Vacancy can mean a lot of things.
• 54:31
  Speaker 10: Okay, you can mean emptiness, yep, it can mean opportunity.
• 54:34
  Speaker 3: What exactly became vacant in your life that allowed this
• 54:39
  Speaker 3: version of Ari Lenux exists and create this project.
• 54:42
  Speaker 22: I think it's just the repetitiveness of my dating life.
• 54:46
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 54:47
  Speaker 22: The album encompasses avoid that needs to be filled. And
• 54:51
  Speaker 22: that can be romantic, it can be platonic. It can mean,
• 54:55
  Speaker 22: you know, in a business way, it's just a metaphor
• 54:58
  Speaker 22: or whatever that means to you.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: You know, is it platonic?
• 55:02
  Speaker 10: We gotta let's forget it.
• 55:06
  Speaker 18: Platonic, biopic, biopics, I think depending on how.
• 55:15
  Speaker 3: I can be having us the wrong word?
• 55:18
  Speaker 17: Is it supposed to be?
• 55:21
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 55:22
  Speaker 17: And you're the second person that all right, camera a lot,
• 55:30
  Speaker 17: a lot that's lovely.
• 55:33
  Speaker 18: So on this project, you go in and out of
• 55:35
  Speaker 18: your space, whether it's your heart your physical space and
• 55:38
  Speaker 18: maya energy being vacant, then being occupied then not.
• 55:42
  Speaker 21: It's all over the place. But it's a good journey
• 55:44
  Speaker 21: than you so, but so, where are you in real
• 55:46
  Speaker 21: life after this album in the dating world?
• 55:50
  Speaker 15: Like what like?
• 55:52
  Speaker 22: I mean, I'm just alone, but it is thirty four
• 55:59
  Speaker 22: years of like romantic loneliness.
• 56:02
  Speaker 17: But it's cool. No, it's all right. I'm doing great.
• 56:05
  Speaker 22: I'd rather be by myself than in anything toxic or unhealthy.
• 56:09
  Speaker 17: So it is what it is, you know. I'm okay,
• 56:13
  Speaker 17: though I do turn up, which is.
• 56:18
  Speaker 21: How sketch you said you be wanting to and right
• 56:21
  Speaker 21: here I have this hot water.
• 56:23
  Speaker 4: It's I don't know if you have no in the
• 56:24
  Speaker 4: club that night.
• 56:25
  Speaker 17: But years ago, years ago, I was like, what ago?
• 56:32
  Speaker 17: Last year? Last year? Oh, yeah, I have had my hookah.
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah I stopped.
• 56:36
  Speaker 17: I had to stop though. Yeah, I made a pack
• 56:39
  Speaker 17: with the man. It's okay.
• 56:42
  Speaker 22: I mean last year I wasn't singing, but this year
• 56:44
  Speaker 22: I am. So we got a tour coming up, you know,
• 56:47
  Speaker 22: the Vacancy tour starts April twelfth, So yeah, I want
• 56:51
  Speaker 22: to be vocally prepared for it. So no more hookah
• 56:54
  Speaker 22: for me.
• 56:55
  Speaker 18: But so, but you're still on your sobriety journey right
• 56:57
  Speaker 18: drinking wise. But you said you made a pack with
• 56:59
  Speaker 18: the man. That's what made you stop the hook?
• 57:01
  Speaker 21: Yes, what happened to that made you said.
• 57:02
  Speaker 22: He was horrible, he was trifling, he had a secret girlfriend,
• 57:06
  Speaker 22: or he had a girlfriend.
• 57:07
  Speaker 13: I guess I was the secret and I had no idea.
• 57:10
  Speaker 17: And I haven't spoke to him since once he told me,
• 57:13
  Speaker 17: So you don't like her.
• 57:15
  Speaker 3: You never liked the escape song You're my little secret.
• 57:17
  Speaker 22: You couldn't be a I do love that song. I
• 57:19
  Speaker 22: love escape, So yeah, I could not be a secret.
• 57:23
  Speaker 17: No, but I do love that song.
• 57:24
  Speaker 3: They was singing, somebody want to Keep You a Secret.
• 57:29
  Speaker 13: I think it just.
• 57:30
  Speaker 22: Speaks to the state of dating out here. It's just
• 57:33
  Speaker 22: incredibly depressing. I feel like for everybody you know, So.
• 57:38
  Speaker 18: Are there songs on this project about him? I know
• 57:40
  Speaker 18: that you've been working on this for some time from him?
• 57:44
  Speaker 18: Hell no, okay, because Under the Moon talks about somebody
• 57:46
  Speaker 18: that's a big could be a big toxic. Yeah that
• 57:48
  Speaker 18: was someone else. Oh that was one of my exes.
• 57:51
  Speaker 18: And I don't even know if he counts as an ex.
• 57:53
  Speaker 18: It was like a month long relationship counts, so it
• 57:56
  Speaker 18: counts really well.
• 57:58
  Speaker 13: Well, it depends all right, Now, do you feel that
• 58:04
  Speaker 13: you had a connection?
• 58:06
  Speaker 17: Oh my God Jesus, like, thank you, beautiful in your hair.
• 58:12
  Speaker 18: Don't look confusedsed, thank you so much. You know that
• 58:20
  Speaker 18: that depends, right, Did you have a strong connection with him?
• 58:22
  Speaker 18: Do you feel like you loved him? Because the month
• 58:24
  Speaker 18: can you A month could be short to some people,
• 58:27
  Speaker 18: but that can mean a long time. It's not about
• 58:29
  Speaker 18: the time, it's about how you connected with him, how
• 58:32
  Speaker 18: he made you feel.
• 58:33
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 58:33
  Speaker 17: No, I don't feel like I loved him.
• 58:35
  Speaker 22: I don't think it was because I think in order
• 58:38
  Speaker 22: to love someone, you have to accept them for all
• 58:40
  Speaker 22: that they are, and I feel like we did not
• 58:43
  Speaker 22: accept each other for our truest selves, And for that reason,
• 58:47
  Speaker 22: I don't believe it was love at all. Probably just infatuation,
• 58:51
  Speaker 22: which I said, it's just that repetitive theme. I think
• 58:54
  Speaker 22: there were a lot of secure energies that entered my
• 58:57
  Speaker 22: life that I wasn't ready for. And now they're getting married,
• 59:00
  Speaker 22: all these secure people that I like, I didn't under
• 59:03
  Speaker 22: I didn't recognize that safety like in them. Then, I
• 59:07
  Speaker 22: think because there's so much chaos inside of me, but
• 59:10
  Speaker 22: I'm working through it. I have my therapist and I'm
• 59:13
  Speaker 22: a lot more aware of it now, those red flags
• 59:18
  Speaker 22: and things of that nature.
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: Do you love fast?
• 59:21
  Speaker 4: Do you love fast? Do you like trust fast? When
• 59:23
  Speaker 4: it comes to dating?
• 59:24
  Speaker 17: I do, I do, But I don't think it's love.
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  Speaker 22: I think it's like trauma or something I think, or
• 59:31
  Speaker 22: a kink, some type of like love kink.
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  Speaker 17: I think I have that because I'll.
• 59:35
  Speaker 22: Be quick to be like, oh, yeah, I love you,
• 59:38
  Speaker 22: but it's like we're so it's like, like, of course
• 59:41
  Speaker 22: I do right now.
• 59:42
  Speaker 17: It's nice.
• 59:43
  Speaker 22: The sex is really nice, And sometimes that can be
• 59:46
  Speaker 22: just a little misleading, a little confusing. The emotions are high,
• 59:49
  Speaker 22: and I think just in general, my emotions run extremely high,
• 59:52
  Speaker 22: so I tend to romanticize and exaggerate things.
• 59:56
  Speaker 10: Why can't you just love sex? To like, if somebody
• 59:58
  Speaker 10: flips you and fold you and put you in that pressure.
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 17: A song, I love it.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 10: Why can't you just love the physical act?
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 3: Like why did it have to be anything else?
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 17: Yeah, you're right, I can love it.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 22: But I think a part of sex for me is
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 22: a very passionate thing, and it's just ironic because a
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 22: lot of the times it isn't or it hasn't been
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 22: in my past, very passionate and like, yeah, I think.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 17: Yeah, all my relationships were kind of just surfaced for real.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 10: Do you want to be in love?
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 3: Clearly? Right? We do.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 10: I do.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 3: Do you think you've ever been?
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 18: No?
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 22: No, I thought so, but no, I don't think I
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 22: have now that I know what it means to be
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 22: because it's a choice every day. I don't think I
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 22: ever made that choice every day in those relationships.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 3: You're in therapy, right, and yeah, I go to therapy
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 3: a lot as well, and your therapist will all often
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 3: tell you that your first, last, and best love is
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 3: self love, like you can't love anybody else. Yeah, until
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 3: you truly love yourself. Do you think that has been
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 3: part of the reading?
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 17: Absolutely? My therapist is amazing.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 22: She has me doing these exercises every morning where I
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 22: have to look at myself in the mirror and that's
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 22: like so hard, like I'm speaking to myself and I
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 22: like who am I? And so it's been helpful, but
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 22: it's definitely been an exercise.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 17: That I avoid.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 22: I think it's just it's hard, honestly to face myself.
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 22: But I'm getting closer and it's amazing how long therapy
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 22: has happened.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 17: She's been telling me that I need to read this book.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 22: Called The Courage to Trust, and I've been avoiding it,
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 22: and it's just I know I could be so much
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 22: farther in my journey. It's funny that I'm just prolonging
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 22: healing in that way. But yeah, one day I'll read it.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 22: One day I'll be able to breeze through that mirror exercise.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 22: But yeah, so those are ways that.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 18: I'm like practicing self love, slowly facing myself and learning
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 18: who I am. You feel like an artist personality is
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 18: just as important as their talent. I do, and I
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 18: feel like it can be damaging if you're too honest,
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 18: too open, too opinionated. Yeah, there are things I wish
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 18: I never opened up about online, but you know, you
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 18: get one life, and I hate to regret anything at
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 18: eighty Like I should have said.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 13: This, should have did this?
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 10: Should this person?
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 13: Should have.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 10: Because they can see it's sexy as hell.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 21: Yeah, it's good sex.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 22: You're a manifesting because I ain't even having sex.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 17: It's been three years, so you're selling.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 21: Yeah, so you're celeb.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 22: Yeah, well, actually I did have a I shouldn't have said,
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 22: I didn't want to lie.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 17: Well it was almost three years.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 21: Okay, well no it was three years.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 13: It was it could have been longer, but yeah, no,
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 13: I'm not a liar, that's.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 11: You.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 6: I don't want my.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 17: Mom to know how it was just a little moment.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 21: So I want to ask you no more questions about it.
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 17: Actually it was all right, she said, she want to.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 13: Ask you no more questions.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 21: Okay, great.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 18: So what because when people will say that they've been
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 18: celibate for like three years, five years, I'm like, how
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 18: do you not run into like instances of just like
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 18: the feeling of like wanting to mastery at all?
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 17: Oh no, I do that every night.
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 18: But because there are certain levels of celibacy, like I know,
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 18: people can sell it to the point where they're not
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 18: even trying to know.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 22: I could never go that long without doing that, And
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 22: I feel like my whole down there would completely change,
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 22: Like you would completely collapsed if I didn't make sure.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 17: She was good.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 21: So what was the running you had that almost like
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 21: messed it all up or kind of set you back?
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 17: You said, Oh, I don't.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 22: Think it set me back. I feel like I needed
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 22: to get that energy off me. I feel like I
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 22: was really becoming decrepit a bit, and like.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 17: And just I just was too.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 22: I just felt in my energy, my energy was exuding
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 22: prudeness and honestly, there's nothing wrong with that, and I
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 22: feel like celibacy is a beautiful thing. But me personally,
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 22: I just needed a nice restart of And so yeah,
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 22: now we're back.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 3: So yeah, what's the clock at now?
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 10: What do you mean in general, mamas watching yours watching?
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 17: I don't know.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 3: Now, listen, every time we've had conversations, you know, on
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 3: this air, I'm like, yo, she's such a nice person, Like,
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 3: she got such a personality, right, but if you just
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 3: see what you do online, you think all she does
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 3: is complain, Like we can't even watch Martin without her complaining.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 17: Please watch Martin, watch Mark, Yes.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 3: I can. I know.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 22: And it meant the world to me because he was
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 22: so gentle in his response, and oh, I I didn't
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 22: expect that.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 17: I actually, when I.
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 21: Responded to she did.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 17: I did cry.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 22: Yeah, yeah, because you know, he didn't have to respond
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 22: so beautifully the way that he did, and I didn't
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 22: feel it was invalidating, you know what I'm saying. But
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 22: he was also you know, true to himself and I
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 22: respect that completely as a big fan of him. It
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 22: meant the world to me because he's a legendary comedian.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 22: He could have dragged me to hell, so along with
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 22: the world exactly. It was heartbreaking. It was a heavy
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 22: time for me because I felt like I isolated myself
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 22: from every black person in the world.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 17: So like I was ruminating heavy.
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 22: But luckily the album like pulled me out of the
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 22: dumps and therapy and things of that nature.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 17: Yeah at it.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 10: Oh yeah, she coachually confident enough to understand Martin.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 17: Oh yeah, I'm sure she she loves it.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Do you have a therapist?
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 22: Yeah, therapist. She's lovely, beautiful, beautiful natural hair.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 17: She's great.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 22: Yeah.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 3: The most interesting thing that we're gonna witness about you
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 3: is how you get better with time. Like I can
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 3: see it, like your music is gonna get better with time.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 3: Plus just you as a person, like your levels of
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 3: I don't give up going to get better as you
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 3: get older, and you're gonna be that rich auntie, you
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 3: know what I mean, who may decide to get married,
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 3: may not just got to get married, may get married
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 3: once or twice, get the boy, but you're going to
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 3: God sixteen.
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 22: Freaky husband is going to have a beautiful freaky wife
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 22: and we are going to be together a fars and
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 22: lamas and camels and kangaroo.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 17: Really, yes, the whole farm life with the.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 13: Black at the same time.
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 17: Mexican man, thank you love today six three? It's amazing.
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 17: Are you being trifling?
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 5: Both of them?
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 4: I'm happy about it.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 10: I can't wait to see forty four. You old are
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 10: thank you with a Mexican man?
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 3: You black?
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 22: I would love a Mexican man or Mexican and bla
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 22: black man. I mean, but I'm down for it all.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 22: I think Bad Bunny is very handsome. I know he's
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 22: Puerto Rican. He's Puerto Rican, but you know, no, not
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 22: a butt. But I love Puerto Ricans. Well, I just
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 22: Latino people.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 3: You enjoyed the Super Bowls? What you're trying to do?
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 10: I did enjoy Okay, have you met him?
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 17: Honestly, I didn't watch it.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 3: I'm like.
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  Speaker 9: The d n B.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 3: They loved it, no reason.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 11: I loved it.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly.
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  Speaker 17: You know she wait for get it.
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  Speaker 4: It's the breakfast Club. Good morning. Everybody's d j n
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  Speaker 4: V just hilarious, charlamage the guy.
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  Speaker 12: We are the Breakfast Club law La ROAs is here
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  Speaker 12: as well, and it's time for Pastor Oaks.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, DJ comes.
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  Speaker 3: Comes Big Nyla n y l A Young nineteen ninety
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  Speaker 3: now live from l A because she got a party.
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  Speaker 17: Yes, how are you?
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 10: You're there for BT weekend right?
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 23: Yeah, I'm there for b E T. Also I'm doing
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 23: a single release party. My first is released in today Friday,
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 23: so I'm really excited.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 3: You're saying first single. You don't even tell folks you
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 3: got an album coming. I'm what you're doing? Playing like.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 6: Like you know how you like albums?
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 3: DJ Drama do albums like how cool we used to
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 3: do albums?
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 4: I hate he hated about it.
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 12: I don't remember the NVY album, that whole one album,
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 12: you know, do this particular song, but go ahead, y.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 10: Yes, this is like my.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 23: First album that I curated in partnership with Generation Now
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 23: and I wonder work with jin Now hence their name
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 23: because they're supposed to represent Jim Now. So they let
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 23: me curate just all the top m c's out right now,
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 23: and I wanted to start with a posse cut to
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 23: just kind of show what the vibes are going to be,
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 23: you know.
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 3: Knowledge That's how you know got a old so she said,
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 3: poss cut.
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 10: Postic that no, we did back in that day.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 3: What's the modern version of post cut?
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 10: Gang Game a song with a bunch of features.
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  Speaker 13: I got this that I got both for you.
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  Speaker 4: Let's get into it.
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 13: It's R two D two Hey.
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  Speaker 10: Who that that's a guy I write for. His name
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 10: is suave You know I do that right for Save?
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  Speaker 15: No I do.
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  Speaker 3: He does his own production. He did that beat too,
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 3: but I write for him. When you see ass line
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 3: I do right for Save?
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  Speaker 9: That was that was?
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 4: That's the video you showed me right?
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 10: Yes, that's hard. Who's all on that record?
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 3: Though? Niland?
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 23: So it starts off with Suavee on the hook and
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 23: he did the beat. It got three beat changes. Then
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 23: it goes into Wins. She's from Portland, okig artist Portland
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 23: right now Vincent out of Charlotte, North Carolina.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 13: Obviously we got Jordan.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 23: Bell Cash, Nico Brim, Chris Patrick who was on the
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 23: XXL freshman class this year, and then we got Ben
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 23: Riley and Marco Plus to close it out. I really
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 23: got to watch the video because the video shows personality.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 23: You get to see what everybody look like. Yes, it's
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 23: a whole new regime. You know, like all right, Big
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 23: three is dead, but it's a whole new class. You
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 23: should be paying attention, y'all.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 3: Shot the video in Atlanta right at Generation Now studio,
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 3: in the studio in street not really telling this story
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 3: the right way.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 17: Now.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 3: That got all of these young artists that come down
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 3: to Atlanta for a weekend, like all of them, like
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 3: the Marco plus is the cash is the you know,
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 3: Ruben Vincent, the Ben Riley, the Nico Brims.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 10: When she got all of the I'm missing a bunch
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 10: of them.
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 3: She got all of these artists to come down for
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 3: a weekend to record this project.
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: You know how tough that is, a bunch of artists.
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 21: ChRI Patrick booming right now, humble, Well, I'm appreciate you.
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 3: I don't think should play nobody else music today. Think
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 3: should play that? I think you played on that's on
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 3: streaming services today.
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  Speaker 17: You know what I agree?
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 11: Let's do it.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 4: Is it a streaming services today?
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 10: Go download? Ready it's called ready to Die again, right yeah?
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 10: R two D two R two D two watch such
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 10: a dark title, ready to die get Well.
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  Speaker 23: It was like a joke in the studio, like we
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 23: were just talking about all the struggles that it took
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 23: for us to get to this point, and it's like
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 23: every time we died, but we're back. It's more like
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 23: a rebird all right.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 3: Now, got every dope young artist to get on this project.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 4: That's dope.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 3: She got Who else you got on this project?
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 23: I got Louis.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 17: Tough from New Orleans.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 18: We got the song from Detroit, Trapp Diggy, got the
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 18: whole double XL Freshman class.
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  Speaker 21: Yeah, we only got you got you got the Yeah,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 21: you got the ones.
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  Speaker 17: Yeah.
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 10: What's the name of our honor roll?
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 13: Right, well, that's just the collective name.
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  Speaker 3: I like that you haven't put out the title yet.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 10: Yeah, okay, Well the single is out right now, go down.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 3: You just heard this big nihl of nihilis simone.
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  Speaker 10: Coming out with an album.
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  Speaker 4: Congratulations some of the clean Versionloge.
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  Speaker 23: I got you that's your right now?
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 3: Well then you have.
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  Speaker 21: Thank you guys.
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  Speaker 13: Download the single.
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  Speaker 6: Yay.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 21: Check out the videos on YouTube.
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 13: Now, harol you there, so you're tired, Let's get to
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 13: the mix.
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 4: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, good morning, everybody's dj.
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  Speaker 12: NV just hilarious. Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 12: Charlemagne you got a positive note.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 10: Now the positive note is this, relinquish the need to
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 10: change of this.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Real love is accepting other people the way they
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 3: are without trying to change them. If we try to
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 3: change them, this means that we don't really like them.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 3: It is easier to find someone who is already the
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 3: way you want him or her to beat instead of
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 3: trying to change that person.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 13: Have a great day, but with a breakfast club you
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 13: don't finish for y'all dumb.
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