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Do You Promise Not to Tell? — Par 3: Rey's Story of Betrayal & Grace · Couples’ Journey Podcast Channel

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  Hey everyone, welcome back to the Couples Journey blog series podcast.
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  We're on part three of the series, Do You Promise Not to Tell?
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  Today, Rey will share his personal journey, a story of brokenness,
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  betrayal, and ultimately, God's relentless grace.
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  Rey's reflection is about confronting betrayal, embracing vulnerability,
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  and trusting God's sovereignty even in the hardest seasons.
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  May this encourage you, wherever you may be on your journey and in your marriage. Here's Rey.
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  In the years I spent away from God and through the tough season of witnessing
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  family relationship break apart, I believe God allowed me to deeply harbor hate,
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  especially toward lies and betrayal.
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  Those painful experiences caused me to build tough walls around my heart to
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  protect myself from similar hurt in the future.
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  At first, those walls seemed to shield me from the pain and further destruction,
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  but my separation from God led me down the path that weren't pleasing to Him.
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  When I finally surrendered my life to Jesus Christ and learned about the great
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  betrayal mankind committed against Him, I realized there was no other choice
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  but to submit everything to Him.
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  I thought my struggles with lies and betrayal had ended.
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  Then came a season when Annie, my wife, and I found ourselves in the midst of
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  those same wounds coming from a different people we least expected.
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  Despite God revealing warnings to me through dreams, the situation still took its toll.
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  It pushed me to a point of vulnerability, and I saw Annie hurt more deeply than
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  I had ever seen her before.
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  As the sequence of lies and betrayals unfolded one after another,
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  from the day Annie and I committed ourselves to our marriage to God,
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  we knew He would do a lot of work in us.
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  We had been shaped by years of wrong perception and survival mode mentality,
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  but with Christ, it's always about total surrender.
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  Whenever our shortcomings are brought to light, Even in the toughest circumstances,
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  we choose to sit down and have a conversation.
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  It's not natural for us. It's only by God's grace that we find the courage.
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  We're accountable to Him, and we don't want to fall into Satan's trap of hypocrisy.
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  This kind of situation is something we never thought would happen among believers of Christ.
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  Sadly, it's not just us experiencing betrayal.
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  Many ministers and teachers are facing it today.
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  Betrayals and lies bring a different layer of pain when they happen in the community
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  of people who claim to be believers and followers of Christ.
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  Well, even Jesus himself endured betrayal.
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  Who are we to complain? This took me back to Jesus' message to his disciple at the start of Luke 12.
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  He was surrounded by a huge crowd, and his main warning was about hypocrisy,
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  pretending to be something we're not on the outside.
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  Jesus made it clear that what is hidden, words spoken in private,
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  secret kept in a quiet place, won't stay hidden forever.
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  One day, everything will be revealed in the light.
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  Under these circumstances, after so many thousands of people had gathered together,
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  that they were stepping on one another,
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  He began saying to His disciples, First of all, beware of the leaven of the
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  Pharisees, which is hypocrisy.
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  But there is nothing covered up that will not be revealed, and hidden that will not be known.
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  Accordingly, whatever you have said in the dark will be heard in the light,
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  and what you have whispered in the inner room will be proclaimed upon the housetops.
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  Luke 12, 1-3 God sees and knows everything, even what's done in secret.
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  So, Jesus is reminding us to live with integrity and sincerity,
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  because nothing is truly hidden from Him.
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  It's a gentle call to be real, because at the end of the day,
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  the truth will come out and we'll be held accountable.
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  These seasons of betrayal and brokenness are some of the hardest to endure,
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  especially when targeted by other schemes and secrets.
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  So, what can we do? My wife and I turned to God, seeking His wisdom through prayers.
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  This particular trial brought us a new level of pain, so profound that it shattered
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  us and pushed us to trust Him even more.
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  It's my word against someone else's. But we cling to Paul's word in 2 Corinthians 12, verse 10.
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  Therefore, I am well content with weakness, with insults, with distress,
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  with persecution, with difficulties, for Christ's sake.
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  For when I am weak, then I am strong.
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  When we are restored by God, He always has a purpose.
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  Whatever that may be, above all, we are called to live honestly.
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  And wholeheartedly before Him. In those moments when the world's brokenness,
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  Satan's scheme, and our fleshly weaknesses threaten to distract us,
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  I hold fast to Isaiah 55, verse 8.
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  For my thoughts are not your thoughts, nor your ways my ways, declares the Lord.
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  Your support encourages more couples to seek God's guidance and grow stronger together.
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  Thank you for being part of this journey. Together, we can make a difference.
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  Here's the final part of today's episode.
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  Such an honest reflection. Betrayal and brokenness are painful,
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  but believers are called to live with integrity and sincerity before God,
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  knowing that nothing is hidden from Him.
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  When we face trials like these, our response must be to turn to Him in prayer,
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  trusting that His purpose extends even through our weakest moments.
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  Remember, God's grace is sufficient. His strength shines brightest when we are most vulnerable.
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  As we close, I pray that you will find comfort in His truth and courage to remain
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  honest in every situation.
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  May his peace guard your heart and mind and may you walk forward with the confidence
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  that in him, all things are working together for good.
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  Join us tomorrow. It will be Annie's turn in sharing her personal reflections on this series.
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  Thanks for tuning in and may God bless you and your marriage.