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BECOME WHAT YOU ARE – Unleash Your True Potential and Destiny · Motivational Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Each one of us is always in danger of not
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  Speaker 1: being the unique and untransferable self which he is. Stimulating utopia,
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  Speaker 1: a secret legend with each of us guards in the
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  Speaker 1: depths of his heart, become what you are. A man
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  Speaker 1: can stand a lot as long as he can stand himself.
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  Speaker 1: He can live without hope, without books, without friends, without music,
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  Speaker 1: as long as he can listen to his own thoughts.
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  Speaker 1: As long as he can listen to his own thoughts.
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  Speaker 1: It means not sitting and wallowing in our old beliefs,
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  Speaker 1: but moving out of them into new, fresh territory. It
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  Speaker 1: means asking the question, am I living by my standards
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  Speaker 1: or by the standards of those about me? You know
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  Speaker 1: they living by their own standards or the standards of
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  Speaker 1: those about them. The greatest danger, that of losing one's
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  Speaker 1: own self, may pass off quietly as if it were nothing.
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  Speaker 1: Every other loss, that of an arm, a leg, five dollars,
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  Speaker 1: or so forth, is sure to be noticed. Happiness is
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  Speaker 1: to life what a pain job is to a product.
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  Speaker 1: It's the glistening veneer and nothing more. What counts as
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  Speaker 1: the product itself, It's quality, the depth, the truth of
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  Speaker 1: its design and purpose. The whole idea is to become
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  Speaker 1: a winner as opposed to becoming a loser. But just
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  Speaker 1: who is a winner and what do we mean by losing?
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  Speaker 1: Each human being is born as something new, something that
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  Speaker 1: never existed before. He's born with what he needs to
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  Speaker 1: win at life. Each has his own unique potentials, his capabilities,
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  Speaker 1: and limitations. Each can be a significant, thinking, aware, and
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  Speaker 1: creatively protective person in his own right a winner. When
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  Speaker 1: we refer to a person as a winner, we do
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  Speaker 1: not mean one who beats the other guy by winning
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  Speaker 1: over him and making him loose. To us, a winner
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  Speaker 1: is one who responds authentically by being credible, trustworthy, responsive,
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  Speaker 1: and genuine. A loser is one who fails to respond authentically.
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  Speaker 1: Achievement is not the most important thing. Authenticity is. The
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  Speaker 1: authentic person experiences the reality of himself. By knowing himself,
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  Speaker 1: being himself, and becoming a credible, responsive person, he actualizes
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  Speaker 1: his own unprecedented uniqueness and appreciates the uniqueness of others.
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  Speaker 1: He does not dedicate his life to a concept of
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  Speaker 1: what he imagines he should be. Rather, he is himself,
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  Speaker 1: and as such he does not use his energy putting
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  Speaker 1: on a performance, maintaining pretense and manipulating others into his games.
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  Speaker 1: A winner can reveal himself instead of projecting images that please, provoke,
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  Speaker 1: or entice others. He's aware that there's a difference between
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  Speaker 1: being loving and acting loving, between being stupid and acting stupid,
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  Speaker 1: between being knowledgeable and acting knowledgeable. He does not need
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  Speaker 1: to hide behind a mask. He throws off unrealistic self
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  Speaker 1: images of inferiority or superiority. Autonomy does not fighten the winner.
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  Speaker 1: Autonomy does not frighten a winner. A winner maintains a
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  Speaker 1: basic faith in himself. A winner is not afraid to
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  Speaker 1: do his own thinking and to use his own knowledge.
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  Speaker 1: He can separate facts from opinion and doesn't pretend to
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  Speaker 1: have all the answers. He listens to others, evaluates what
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  Speaker 1: they say, but comes to his own conclusions. And while
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  Speaker 1: he can admire and respect other people, he's not totally defined, demolished, bound,
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  Speaker 1: or odd by them.
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  Speaker 2: It's going to be hard work climbing up the lad
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  Speaker 2: of it. We can handle it, don't you agree.
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  Speaker 1: He winner does not play helpless now does he play
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  Speaker 1: the blaming game. Instead, he assumes responsibility for his own life.
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  Speaker 1: He does not give others a false authority over him.
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  Speaker 1: He's his own boss and knows it. He knows that
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  Speaker 1: for everything there is a season, and for every activity
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  Speaker 1: a time and a time to be aggressive, and a
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  Speaker 1: time to be passive, a time to be together, and
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  Speaker 1: a time to be alone.
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  Speaker 2: This is why I used to be.
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  Speaker 1: A time to fight, and a time to love, and
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  Speaker 1: a time to cry, and a time to laugh, a
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  Speaker 1: time to confront and a time to withdraw, a time
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  Speaker 1: to speak and a time to be silent. We've blinded
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  Speaker 1: that ours is the only species on earth whose natural
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  Speaker 1: state is one of disorientation, and therefore each of us
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  Speaker 1: must create his own world. And even if the creation
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  Speaker 1: of our world consists of nothing more than playing copycat,
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  Speaker 1: closing our eyes and ears, and just blindly following the
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  Speaker 1: person in front of us, hoping that somehow he or
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  Speaker 1: the person he's following knows where he's going, and that
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  Speaker 1: when we get there we'll both like it, we simply
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  Speaker 1: let the tide take us. As this hasn't the past,
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  Speaker 1: and this is simply another form of avoiding the agony
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  Speaker 1: of making meaningful, faithful decision. When a person lacks identity
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  Speaker 1: within himself, he will often strive to find it in
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  Speaker 1: an organization of some sort, which will take over the
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  Speaker 1: decision making row.
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  Speaker 2: Become what you are, humans and creatures of comparison, constantly
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  Speaker 2: deciding whether things are good or bad, or better or
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  Speaker 2: worse than other things. Eventually they would make so many
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  Speaker 2: comparisons that our overloaded brains will accept anything.
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  Speaker 3: No one fighting. There's no other choices there.
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  Speaker 2: We have to keep fighting to survive. Yes, you're right,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm going to do everything I can do to
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  Speaker 2: help you.
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  Speaker 3: I want to be free, free from pain, free from fear,
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  Speaker 3: free to take as much as I want to give,
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  Speaker 3: as much as I want. Someday, somehow that's the way
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  Speaker 3: it's gonna be.
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  Speaker 2: Why is remembering so hard? Free because he died once?
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  Speaker 1: Will will up like a man can stand a lot
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  Speaker 1: as long as he can stand himself, and he has
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  Speaker 1: the courage to admit that he may be wrong, even
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  Speaker 1: about matters of the greatest importance, making one faithful decision
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  Speaker 1: after another against seemingly insuperblods. His life is autonomy and action.
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  Speaker 1: He goes by his gut feelings. He listens to the
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  Speaker 1: voice within. If one advances confidently in the direction of
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  Speaker 1: his dreams and endeavors to live the life which he
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  Speaker 1: has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in
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  Speaker 1: common hours. And although people are born to win but
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  Speaker 1: also born helpless and totally dependent on their environment. Two
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  Speaker 1: winners successfully make the transition from total helplessness to independence
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  Speaker 1: and then to interdependence. Losers do not. A liser may
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  Speaker 1: not recognize that for the most part he's been building
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  Speaker 1: his own cage and taking his own grave, and is
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  Speaker 1: a bore to himself. He loses, seldom lives in the present.
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  Speaker 1: He destroys the present by occupying his mind with past
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  Speaker 1: memories or future expectations. The key word in our thinking
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  Speaker 1: and our conduct, in our goals and in our lives
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  Speaker 1: is authenticity. We need to become what we are