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Getting Into The State Where You Expand Like Wildfire · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to Beyond Limits, the podcast designed to unlock your highest potential with powerful strategies, energetic frequencies, and mindset shifts to create a limitless life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Getting into the state where things expand like wildfire.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is what we are going to be diving into today.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna be diving into three main shifts that you need to make to have this week be the biggest, the wildest, the boldest it's ever been.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you're tuning in, say hello.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hi Tashi, hi Yoga Smiles, not sure your name.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sherry, oh Sherry, welcome.
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  SPEAKER_00: I haven't seen you in so long.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so, Christina, hi, keep saying hi, and I'm gonna dive in, but the number one thing when we're getting into the state where things expand like wildfire, number one is you cannot be in fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: Fear is not the state that actually creates expansion.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're either in fear or you are in expansion.
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  SPEAKER_00: Two opposite ends of the same stick.
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  SPEAKER_00: Cannot be both at the same time.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so what happens is when you are in fear, you might get a little bit of a result, but that result isn't sustainable.
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  SPEAKER_00: That result doesn't end up lasting.
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  SPEAKER_00: It almost feels like there's a roller coaster, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So you might get more money, more clients coming in, more something, but then it feels like it goes down, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So you're riding this roller coaster because you are in a fear response, and we cannot expand from fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: Adding on to that, fear is also not the state where expansion feels delicious.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because let's face it, you came here to enjoy a very rich life and rich in all the ways, in love, in aliveness, in magnetism, in money, in bliss, in joy, in ecstasy, all the things.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I highly even doubt that fear is the state that you want to be expanding from anyway.
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  SPEAKER_00: So not only is fear going to make it a lot harder to expand, but B, it's not gonna be as easeful, effortless, joyful as it can be.
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  SPEAKER_00: So what ends up happening is when you are in fear, you start entering what I call fear-based action.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So then you try to expand from a place of fear, not a place of being internally solid.
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  SPEAKER_00: What happens is when you try to take fear-based action to expand, you end up blocking the expansion.
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  SPEAKER_00: So anything done from fear blocks the expansion.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, the thing is, is that when you operate from fear, it gives you this illusion that you're being productive.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if I'm feeling fear around money or business or things, and I take some sort of action, that will soothe the feeling to make me feel like I'm doing something, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It tricks the mind, it gives you that illusion.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, I'm being productive, you know, I'm making content, I'm sending emails, I'm doing this, I'm doing that, I am doing to get a result.
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  SPEAKER_00: But the issue is that any fear-based action won't actually lead to expansion.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is how so many people get burnt out, frustrated, bitter, resentful, needing to burn it all down, just not completely in love and alive with their life and their business.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I really want you to be aware of where you're in this illusion of productivity, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Where you're in this state where fear is tricking you into thinking that you are doing things.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the funny thing is that a lot of time these things are good things for your business, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's making content, emails, reaching out, whatever, you're doing things.
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  SPEAKER_00: But the intention behind the frequency behind which you do action matters so much.
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  SPEAKER_00: Matters infinitely more than the action you take.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so when I talk about, you know, scaling with ease, having things feel effortless, the reason the ease and the effortless is there is that you're not pushing, you're not forcing, you're not over-efforting trying to get a result, and you're not coming from fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: So of course it feels light as a feather.
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  SPEAKER_00: Of course, things flow in, and that momentum starts to build, and you start to expand like wildfire because you've dissolved any fear that is in your system, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: I want you to remember over-efforting from a dysregulated place, over-efforting from a place of trying to get a result will not allow you to expand.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so many women, if I were to name probably one of the top things, and a big top thing I'm seeing a lot lately is the over-efforting to try to get a result out of fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: So what happens, right, when you're operating from fear?
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  SPEAKER_00: You end up clinging to reality, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because when you are in fear, you are trying to control reality around you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then what happens is the reason you feel fear in the first place, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if we're going to be getting into the state where expansion happens like wildfire, you actually need to get out of fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, how do we do that?
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  SPEAKER_00: The reason you're in fear in the first place is because you are actually reacting to reality around you and you are letting that dictate your state.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you get absolutely nothing else from this live, from this training that will allow you to expand like wildfire, apart from the other things we're talking about, let it be this, let it be the fact that right now the fear is coming from the fact that you are reacting to your current reality, and that is which how you move.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because fear is coming.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, I looked at sales for this month, I looked at what my bank account is doing, I looked at what you know Sally's doing, or what Karen as for the month, or Karen just did this, or right?
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  SPEAKER_00: All of these reactions are what's building up that fear and collapsing any expansion that is possible for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: The fastest way, the fastest way to stay capped is to respond to your reality like it is truth.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you take nothing else, take this.
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  SPEAKER_00: The fastest way to stay capped in money, in opportunities, in wealth, in clients, in business, in overflow, and bliss and joy, and in all the things is to respond to your current reality like it is truth, like it is fact.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because everything that you are experiencing right now, everything that you are seeing in front of you, cannot be the thing with which you move, cannot be the thing that dictates how you operate and how you feel.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you're gonna be like, but live, this is my reality.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'll be like, no, it is your reality because it is how you feel.
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  SPEAKER_00: And once you can break this loop, your expansion will take off like wildfire.
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  SPEAKER_00: Once you stop letting your reality dictate how you feel in your mood and the moves you make in your business, and how you feel when you show up, my God, all the all the amazing things you're doing, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: All the incredible content and emails and whatever you're doing in your business will work exponentially better.
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  SPEAKER_00: And not only that, you will need far less action to create much more results.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so this is what I mean when I say who you be creates bigger and better results.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because that outside reality has no effect on you.
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  SPEAKER_00: You don't go into fear, you don't go into lack, you don't doubt, because you have certainty.
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  SPEAKER_00: But in order to have certainty, in order to have trust, that requires knowing in here.
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  SPEAKER_00: Notice when I talk about knowing, when I talk about trust, when I talk about certainty, I'm pointing here, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not pointing here.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because here is very logic-based, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's what you can see with your eyes.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is why in my world, we play in a realm where it's not based on what you can see, it's beyond logic.
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  SPEAKER_00: But in order to get out of that mind, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: In order to get out of the head space where we're operating in logic, you actually can't operate based on what you see.
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  SPEAKER_00: You have to get out ahead of it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when you get out of ahead of it in your frequency and you stop responding to your reality, like that is what you know, you start operating here, the fear dissolves.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because what would you have to fear if you knew?
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  SPEAKER_00: If you were certain and you knew that the millions were in your account now, that people are coming in now, that things were flooding in now, you wouldn't go into fear, you would know.
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  SPEAKER_00: I guarantee you would move a hell of a lot differently.
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  SPEAKER_00: I guarantee you would speak a lot differently.
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  SPEAKER_00: I guarantee you would show up a lot differently.
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  SPEAKER_00: You would stop pushing, forcing, over-efforting.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the danger here, right, when you're living in this fear instead of living in the trust and the certainty and the knowing, is that fear creates insistence.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: When you are in fear, you have insistence on the outcome because you need the outcome to look a certain way, because you're operating in fear, you're gripping, controlling.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, I need to do all this because I need the result, and I need this money, and I need this, and I need this.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're very insistent.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you saw my reel I posted, I think maybe a week ago now, I would highly recommend going ahead and watching it.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I talk about insistence creates resistance.
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  SPEAKER_00: So remember this fear creates insistence.
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  SPEAKER_00: Insistence creates resistance.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you are in resistance, you cannot expand like wildfire.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is literally impossible.
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  SPEAKER_00: Two different states.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And you can feel when you're in resistance because you feel like you have to push, you feel like you have to force, you feel like you have to effort, prove.
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  SPEAKER_00: You feel that fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe it's the fear in your chest or in your stomach, maybe it's that pit in your stomach, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a very somatic feeling.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can feel it in your body.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is why the trust and the certainty are so important.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because otherwise, you will create this insistence on the outcome.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when you have insistence on the outcome, you are very attached, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You are attached to the money, the validation, the clients, this coming in.
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  SPEAKER_00: You are attached.
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  SPEAKER_00: And attached is a needy energy, it's a clingy energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Won't work.
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  SPEAKER_00: We do not create expansion from neediness and clinginess.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right, I want you to think about when you're pushing, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a very forward action.
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  SPEAKER_00: Versus when you drop the resistance, it's like a relief.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like a sigh.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so what happens is, right, when you get out of this fear and you go into knowing uncertainty, you drop the insistence, it creates a vacuum.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, we're gonna get a little, oh, nose is tingling, it's always important.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're gonna get a little quantum physicsy here with you.
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  SPEAKER_00: But when you drop the insistence, it creates a vacuum in your energy, a vacuum in your field where things cannot help but flood in like wildfire.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right, I want you to think about if you've ever watched a movie, it has to do with space, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And they always have like the vacuum where they have the seal and they need to seal it off because space is a vacuum, and if they open it up, it'll just same thing happens with us.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when you drop that insistence, you let it go completely, your whole field becomes a vacuum, and you know what rushes in?
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  SPEAKER_00: All the money, the clients, the opportunities, the wealth, the love, the bliss, the ecstasy, everything just rushes in like wildfire, and that's how you expand.
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  SPEAKER_00: But you need to drop the insistence first.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in order to drop the insistence, we need to get out of fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in order to get out of fear, we need to anchor into certainty, trust, and knowing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Where you know here, you don't know here.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not even a believing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Believing is like, ooh, I believe.
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  SPEAKER_00: Knowing is certain.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've always said, you cannot be 95% certain.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're either certain or you're not.
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  SPEAKER_00: Certainty collapses time.
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  SPEAKER_00: Certainty makes your ceiling, you're a new floor.
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  SPEAKER_00: I really want you to think about where you are operating in this.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because when you drop this, when you get out of that fear state, you get into trust, certainty, and knowing, you drop any insistence on the outcome, all the resistance drops away, your reality becomes like a vacuum, and things start flooding in like wildfire.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that is getting into the state where things expand like wildfire.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is why I am so profoundly excited for the expansion code starting on Thursday.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because it's all about expanding with ease, trust, and power.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not through over-efforting, proving, convincing, or anything like that.
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  SPEAKER_00: We have four weeks immersed together where we are doing this and we are pulling back all of that so that you can unlock your own unique blueprint for quantum leaps for expansion like wildfire.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you have not joined yet, please send me the word expand, DM me the word expand so I can send you the link and you can get inside because these are gonna be like the wildest four weeks of your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Where you can start operating beyond logic.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I guarantee there's a little soul nudge in you right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's a little part of you that's like listening to me, and you're like, yeah, yeah, like I kind of like I know this, I remember this.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, this feels good in my body, this feels like expansion, this feels like limitlessness.
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  SPEAKER_00: So give this gift to yourself of letting yourself expand beyond limits and join us inside the expansion code.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let this land.
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  SPEAKER_00: Listen twice if you need to, and I will see you soon.