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- 0:00You don't have to be lifestyle over there. You
- 0:02know, military is an advantage and chocolate
- 0:06is an advantage. And, you know, if you get the
- 0:08mix of the two, you become fantasy to somebody.
- 0:13And, you know, they're telling you the nastiest
- 0:15things that they want you to do. And or they're
- 0:19just open to, hey, what do you want? What do
- 0:22you want? What do you want? What do you want
- 0:24to do to me, Danny? So at that time. You just
- 0:28you just communicate, you talk. And like I said,
- 0:31the realm of fantasy exists. And I absolutely
- 0:34love it that I don't have to be scared or or
- 0:37or wait, if I say this, what is she going to
- 0:40think? This podcast contains explicit adult content,
- 0:45mature themes and candid conversations about
- 0:48sex, dominance, power exchange and ethical non
- 0:53-monogamy. It is intended for audiences 18 and
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- 1:30Always practice consent, respect the boundaries
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- 1:36comfortable with frank talk about sex, kink,
- 1:39dominance, or emotional power, this probably
- 1:42isn't the show for you. But if you're ready to
- 1:45step into your masculine edge and embrace a lifestyle
- 1:49that demands mastery, welcome to the Brotherhood.
- 1:54Welcome to the Bull Brotherhood Podcast, where
- 1:57we talk power, pleasure, and the art of dominance
- 2:01in ethical non -monogamy. This is not your average
- 2:04lifestyle podcast. This is for men who lead,
- 2:07men who master, and men who leave a lasting impression.
- 2:11If you're here, you're not just curious. You're
- 2:15ready to elevate. So to all the bulls, hot wives,
- 2:18stags, and open -minded explorers, we see you.
- 2:22Let's go. Ladies and gentlemen, good evening
- 2:40and welcome to another episode of the Bull Brotherhood
- 2:42podcast. I'm one third of your podcast founder,
- 2:45the host with the most Brian Morgan, aka the
- 2:48Sigma male, the lone wolf coming at you with
- 2:51my brother from another mother, the nephew himself,
- 2:54Socrates. What's up, baby boy? What's good? What's
- 2:57good? I'm excited about this episode man Exactly
- 3:02exactly ladies and gentlemen. I am giving a special
- 3:05shout out to the lady of the house siren she
- 3:10is taking a a leave of absence for the night
- 3:13but she sends all of her love okay and ladies
- 3:16and gentlemen we got a real real real special
- 3:18guest tonight um you heard me talk about my exploits
- 3:22uh as far as being a soldier united states army
- 3:24and living overseas in europe and i always tell
- 3:28you i can always talk about it but i wish i had
- 3:30somebody on the podcast went over there and kind
- 3:33of lived it himself also and tonight we have
- 3:36that uh ladies and gentlemen i give to you from
- 3:39the united states military he has recently retired
- 3:41i've been retired for about seven months i give
- 3:44to you james what's going on my brother i'm doing
- 3:48all right i'm doing it right i appreciate you
- 3:50inviting me on this evening it's a pleasure to
- 3:53have you man it really is really a pleasure to
- 3:56have you and once again uh congratulations on
- 3:58your retirement from the service and welcome
- 4:00to another brotherhood yes um ladies and gentlemen
- 4:08again as i said before james has uh he's been
- 4:12overseas and he has experienced what i've experienced
- 4:15for like 14 years over there and we're going
- 4:17to talk about tonight how um servicemen who get
- 4:22into the lifestyle uh living overseas while living
- 4:26overseas the benefits the the differences between
- 4:31how we maneuver here and how we maneuver overseas,
- 4:36how different the couples are, how different
- 4:39just the single women are compared to what we
- 4:42have over here. So I'm going to turn it over
- 4:45to, of course, Nephew. Nephew always starts things
- 4:47off with the greatest questions. That's why he's
- 4:49known as Socrates. So I'm going to turn it over
- 4:52to you, Nephew. Yeah, no, I appreciate it. And
- 4:54I just want to put my little... Being in the
- 4:57hat, too, I served in the Navy. It was a shorter
- 5:01stint than these two gentlemen. I went in as
- 5:03a reservist. I was called active duty for Iraq,
- 5:06and I was able to serve my country. And I did
- 5:09not experience any of the lifestyle stuff being
- 5:11in the Navy. I moved around a lot. I was never
- 5:14really stationed anywhere for too long being
- 5:16in a construction battalion. But, you know, my
- 5:20family's service goes back to the Civil War.
- 5:24We love this country. We're all happy to serve.
- 5:28And I just want to say thank both of you guys
- 5:31for a lifelong dedication to this country and
- 5:34to the safety and freedom of this country. I
- 5:39take it seriously. My father who served, uncles,
- 5:41cousins. I have family members now that served.
- 5:44I just want to say thank you to gentlemen because,
- 5:46you know, I have I got my political views on
- 5:50the certain wars that we serve or what we're
- 5:52doing over there. But when it comes to the man
- 5:54next to you, Um, at the end of the day, it doesn't
- 5:58matter. It's about making sure you get home safe.
- 6:00The man next to you gets home safe and we're
- 6:02able to carry out the orders that we're given.
- 6:04So thank you too, gentlemen. Appreciate you.
- 6:09Appreciate you. And again, brother, thank you
- 6:11for your service. All right. It doesn't matter
- 6:13if you were a reservist or a national guard or
- 6:16what, you know what I mean? If you serve, you
- 6:18serve. All right. And we're all part of that
- 6:20brotherhood. So thank you for your service. Truly,
- 6:24truly. So yeah, so as Unk accurately says, I
- 6:33always have a thousand questions. So I would
- 6:35say the biggest question, we'll start big and
- 6:37then we'll go down to some more granular things.
- 6:40For both of you, Mr. Morgan first, what was the
- 6:44number one thing that you learned in the military
- 6:48that was not specifically for? the lifestyle
- 6:52or how you treat women or interactions between
- 6:55any of that. What were the things that you learned
- 6:58or the biggest things you learned serving in
- 7:00the military that carried over to this lifestyle
- 7:03and gives you an advantage as a bull, as a high
- 7:07-level operator in this game? The discipline
- 7:12and the patience needed to accomplish a mission.
- 7:16When you're a bull in the lifestyle, And here
- 7:20again, I've said it before, you have to be able
- 7:24to adapt to whatever situation that is with that
- 7:28couple, whether they are a new couple coming
- 7:31into the lifestyle and you are there to guide
- 7:34them, or if they are a seasoned couple and you
- 7:38have to come in there and they're ready to just,
- 7:41pardon the pun, go to war. Right? So you have
- 7:45to adapt and overcome. You have to adapt and
- 7:48overcome, man. I mean, you know, you might be
- 7:50a damn sniper one night and then you just pow,
- 7:54pow, pow, pow, pow, fucking all night long. Or
- 7:57you might be a long range, damn, what is that
- 8:03called? I can't think of any more words right
- 8:06now. But it's like a scout. You're out there,
- 8:08you know, you're scouting the situation. And
- 8:11you're just filling out the couple and talking
- 8:13to them and communicating, making sure they're
- 8:16good, making sure they're good with you, and
- 8:19just, you know, filling them out. So, like I
- 8:22said, it's discipline, patience, and then, you
- 8:25know, learning how to attack accordingly. Word,
- 8:30word. I love it. James? I agree completely with
- 8:35what he said, but my answer would simply be really
- 8:38communication. In the military, you have to communicate
- 8:42across all age ranges, all demographics, races,
- 8:47all the rest of that fun stuff, and you have
- 8:50to be able to communicate clearly, especially
- 8:52in this lifestyle. Sometimes, as he said, you
- 8:56have a seasoned couple, and other times you have
- 8:59a couple that's a bit new. And as you're moving
- 9:03and building this lifestyle, everyone's a little
- 9:06bit different. Everyone's relationship is a little
- 9:08bit different. Everyone's dynamic is a little
- 9:10bit different. So being able to clearly communicate,
- 9:13of course, your boundaries as well and receive
- 9:17theirs, being able just to have a conversation.
- 9:20You put me in any room, in any place, and I can
- 9:23talk. So that has served me well in this lifestyle.
- 9:27It's allowed people to be comfortable. um you
- 9:31know uh both approaching me and me in um injecting
- 9:35in um a place where i'm not known you know whether
- 9:40it be a lifestyle event a club bar anything of
- 9:42that nature i can walk up and i'm a clear communicator
- 9:46comfortable doing that so that has served me
- 9:48well and i thank the military for that spoken
- 9:51like a true non -commissioned officer a true
- 9:55nco i love it love it Yeah, it's beautiful. So,
- 10:02yeah, let's back up a little bit, James. Great
- 10:05to have you on the show. Why don't you you you
- 10:08we one of the things we we we liked is that both
- 10:11you guys really entered into the lifestyle because
- 10:13and while serving. So tell us your origin story,
- 10:17brother. How did you get into this lifestyle?
- 10:21Well, my origin story was. probably i would think
- 10:27like uh many people um you know many gentlemen
- 10:30you don't have those dreams of you know fantasies
- 10:34things of that nature whether that be a threesome
- 10:36um and i originally thought that it only existed
- 10:40potentially like in that world of porn or some
- 10:43variation like that um so i'm jumping on these
- 10:46websites um i was on one of the websites uh many
- 10:50years ago and met a young lady And she said she's
- 10:55having a party one night. At first, we went to
- 10:57the movies the night prior. It was a vanilla
- 10:59date. And I still didn't think that any of this
- 11:04really happened in her life. But when she said
- 11:07she's having a party, she said she wasn't sure
- 11:09if I would enjoy the party. And I, you know,
- 11:12of course, being military, I'm pompous. I'm in
- 11:14my 20s at the time. i'm like hey how can you
- 11:19not invite me to a party and so she gives me
- 11:21the guidelines the rules of the party she didn't
- 11:23implicitly say it was lifestyle i didn't even
- 11:25know that there was a lifestyle at that time
- 11:27um so he gives me the rules of this party hey
- 11:31get down to your pajamas or your boxers some
- 11:34variation like that and bring a bottle and i
- 11:36said well i can do no less of course if i'm gonna
- 11:39bring a bottle um to the host of the party if
- 11:42i if i'm gonna be invited so when i finally get
- 11:45to the door beautiful young lady in lingerie
- 11:48um picks up and i'm in my 20s i'm naive at that
- 11:52time at that time so everyone's kind of talking
- 11:56and i'm socializing and it only hit me as the
- 12:00evening went on and people start to disappear
- 12:02i distinctly remember there was a little bit
- 12:06of a um people standing outside this one room
- 12:09and i'm a bit nosy so i'd walk over and that's
- 12:13when i finally see the first instance of people
- 12:15actually playing And, you know, at that time,
- 12:18my mind exploded. You know, everyone there was
- 12:21so cool and amazing and things of that nature.
- 12:24I said, everyone was just socializing. And there
- 12:27was this other realm that existed where, oh,
- 12:31shoot, you could actually say what you want.
- 12:34And ever since I've been to that party and I
- 12:36knew that that space exists where I can connect
- 12:39with individuals that not only think about their
- 12:42fantasies, but there's actually a place. where
- 12:46you can explore them. That's been my place ever
- 12:51since. It's been absolutely amazing. I've met
- 12:54some great people, and I've made a memory or
- 12:57two. Nice. Sounds like you had a good time. Sounds
- 13:04like you had a very good origin encounter for
- 13:10that first time. Did you did you continue to
- 13:14interact with this particular female or were
- 13:18you like just anxious to like dive into the world
- 13:21after that? And you just kind of just started,
- 13:24you know, floating around different parties or
- 13:26did you just you know, how did you how did you
- 13:29maneuver after that one night? After that one
- 13:33night, I was for those of you that are aware
- 13:36of military, I was TDY at that time, so I was
- 13:38only in Germany for a couple of months. So that's
- 13:42just for those that are not familiar with the
- 13:44military, you're just somewhere just for a bit
- 13:47of time. So we did. We did actually kick it for
- 13:51the three months that I was there, you know,
- 13:53sometimes in a vanilla setting and sometimes
- 13:54she would throw an event. And since then, as
- 14:00I said, I was, you know, I knew that was me.
- 14:06Before we were speaking to Socrates, you know,
- 14:08I had this idea of fantasy and things of that
- 14:11nature, didn't have a word for it. And once I
- 14:13knew there was this place where, oh, shoot, I
- 14:17can I could actually say what I want sexually.
- 14:21I'm not judged for it or anything of that nature.
- 14:25That was that was amazing. So since then, I was
- 14:28I was I was totally in primarily. it's at events
- 14:33or you know on on websites or things of that
- 14:35nature just because it's not uh fully what's
- 14:41the what's the right word it's not fully advertised
- 14:43you never know who's lifestyle and who's not
- 14:45so i've been i've been lucky enough to you know
- 14:48go to events and you actually you know you start
- 14:50meeting people and things of that nature then
- 14:53from there hey we exchange digits and um and
- 14:56you um you build your you know you build this
- 14:58beautiful community that we have now And how
- 15:03did the how did the couples take you like when
- 15:05they see you at events? Were they were they like,
- 15:08oh, my God, you know, this is here's another
- 15:11beautiful black man. And did they approach you
- 15:14like aggressively or were they laid back and,
- 15:18you know, kind of like watch you move, how you
- 15:20move and then approach you or what? I'm thinking
- 15:25in my experience, you've got a mix. You've got
- 15:27those that are, you know, that, hey, they know
- 15:29what they want. They're looking for a black man
- 15:32and they're, you know, they go right for it.
- 15:35But in my experience, at least from what people
- 15:38have told from me, from bird's eye view is people
- 15:41see how I move. People see how I carry myself,
- 15:45how I move. And based on that, I've had more
- 15:48people reach out to me, you know, either, hey,
- 15:51hey. you know we've seen you at an event you
- 15:54carry yourself well you speak well you know um
- 15:57you know if i would say so myself halfway decent
- 16:00looking gentleman um so you know um and when
- 16:04the time comes that just allows couples um to
- 16:07um to um um to approach uh they don't approach
- 16:11aggressively we have our initial my usual is
- 16:14we have an initial conversation you know we vibe
- 16:17uh a little bit that's that that that's that
- 16:20that's my that's my main even though you know
- 16:22i'm happy to jump on the field um you know there's
- 16:25moments where hey it's instant it's not you know
- 16:28it's not time to talk or anything of that nature
- 16:30time and place but my main my main dynamic is
- 16:34getting to know them a little bit i enjoy the
- 16:36lady some we're enjoying banter um and and things
- 16:41progress from there that was uh that was one
- 16:46of the things um Lindsay, my baby girl, said,
- 16:49ladies and gentlemen, James has played with my
- 16:53baby girl for the last year at Splash Mocha.
- 16:58Yes, yes. And one of the things that she, one
- 17:01of the first things that she said, she was like,
- 17:04Daddy, he knows how to really talk to somebody.
- 17:06He's not just trying to, you know, let's fuck
- 17:10and fuck this, fuck that, da, da, da. But he
- 17:12was actually, you know, you actually. really
- 17:15really had a great conversation with her and
- 17:17she vibed with you and then you know when she
- 17:19saw you in it uh in Atlanta and I didn't have
- 17:22to say anything here when I saw you I was like
- 17:24okay I know he's good I mean the vibe was there
- 17:27with me you know when she said military man I
- 17:30was like okay this this is pretty much a no -brainer
- 17:33I just need to look at him and uh I was like,
- 17:35okay, good, baby, go ahead and go and have a
- 17:37good time. So, you know, for the couples out
- 17:40there who may be headed to Atlanta, Georgia next
- 17:43month for the Splash Milk event, I am telling
- 17:48you right now, you need to reach out and meet
- 17:50this young man. He's very, very nice, very, very
- 17:54charming. And he represents what we want as far
- 17:59as like that bull in the bull brotherhood. So
- 18:02reach out to James. I appreciate that. Truly,
- 18:06I appreciate that, my friend. And I appreciate
- 18:08that y 'all trust me enough to trust me with
- 18:10your lady. Oh, yeah, absolutely. Absolutely.
- 18:14Anytime, brother. Anytime. James, let me ask
- 18:19you, while you were overseas and you're in the
- 18:21lifestyle community, was being in the military
- 18:24a benefit? Or let me ask it a different way.
- 18:28If you're. If you're over in Europe somewhere
- 18:33and you were serving and a woman could pick a
- 18:37civilian, let's say another good looking black
- 18:40man as yourself, and he's there on business,
- 18:43but they got you there who's there serving the
- 18:47military. And let's say they don't have any issues
- 18:49with, you know, any kind of political or personal
- 18:52issues against it. You know, it's whatever. Would
- 18:57that benefit you? You know, were they looking
- 18:59for guys in the military or just as long as you
- 19:02were black and ready to go? That's funny that
- 19:07you would even say that. You know, as I meet
- 19:10people, you know, as you start conversation,
- 19:15hey, you know, hey, what are you doing here?
- 19:17Hey, what do you do for work? But as that conversation
- 19:19would float towards the military. um there's
- 19:23definitely a a subset of of of women that do
- 19:26enjoy you know the police officers the firemen
- 19:29military things of that nature men in uniform
- 19:31that definitely did exactly men in uniform men
- 19:35in uniform so uh that did um uh served me well
- 19:39and it seemed sort of activated a piece of them
- 19:41so you know i was you know they they may have
- 19:44been looking for a black gentleman but that military
- 19:47was definitely at least in my opinion you know
- 19:50a plus you know um you know us when we're in
- 19:54laid back side of me but at the same time i'm
- 19:57assertive and um you know ladies that i have
- 19:59met enjoy that control that that that that assertiveness
- 20:04that dominance you know even though i'm sure
- 20:07you hear i speak most laid -back gentlemen in
- 20:08the world but at the same time confident and
- 20:12assertive when i need to be you know you've got
- 20:15that certain presence brother there's something
- 20:18about a black man I don't care if he's light
- 20:21skin, caramel, brown skin, dark skin, or just
- 20:25black as tar. When he puts on that damn military
- 20:29uniform with the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines,
- 20:32Coast Guard, the way we transform when we put
- 20:37that uniform on, the broad shoulders, you know,
- 20:41the arms, the body speaks for itself when we're
- 20:44in that uniform, the aura, the charisma, the
- 20:48dominance. everything that a woman is wanting
- 20:53and desiring it comes across when we put a uniform
- 20:56on i've had the pleasure of wearing two different
- 20:59uniforms um one is a law enforcement officer
- 21:03and then one as a military man and let me tell
- 21:06you i have had some of the greatest encounters
- 21:08ever by just getting out of a squad car or just
- 21:13uh you know walking around in uh bd slash acus
- 21:18and and i mean it's just the aura it's it's just
- 21:23this is how we put together and and it just comes
- 21:26across you really don't have to say anything
- 21:28you know you just walk into a room and here again
- 21:33that word that aura that charisma you know that
- 21:36swag comes it just comes out and the ladies are
- 21:40are immediately drawn to you And they will come
- 21:43to you, and you don't have to say a whole lot.
- 21:45You really don't before you're in there. So,
- 21:50yeah, I can totally understand where you're coming
- 21:53from, James. And I know, Socrates, you do too,
- 21:57you know. Oh, yeah. Those Navy uniforms are damn
- 22:00fly. Oh, yeah. Navy uniforms are fly as hell.
- 22:03And when brothers put their shit on, I mean,
- 22:06I'm telling you, you know, it won't be long.
- 22:09It will not be long. You know, whether you're
- 22:12on leave, furlough, as the Navy calls it, I think,
- 22:15or whatever. You know, it won't be long, man,
- 22:18before the ladies are on your jock. And, you
- 22:22know, so, yeah, there's a difference. There's
- 22:24a difference between the civilian man and the
- 22:29military man. And people can pick up on that
- 22:33instantly. Instantly. Even when you're retired,
- 22:39I get asked all the time, hell, I can have on
- 22:43my damn workout gear. And somebody would ask
- 22:46me, they were like, I see you tuck your shirt
- 22:48in, even when you have on sweatpants to work
- 22:51out. I was like, yes. And they were like, what
- 22:54branch? That's what they'll say. They'll say,
- 22:58what branch? And I was like, Army. I was like,
- 23:01is it that? Is it that? One lady was like, honey,
- 23:06it's written all over your face. It's written
- 23:08all over your face. When you walk, the way you
- 23:11walk around the gym, you know, after you do a
- 23:14set, you go get some water, you walk straight
- 23:16as a damn arrow. You know, she was like, it's
- 23:19written all over your damn face. So here again,
- 23:23it's that aura. It's that aura. And ladies, we're
- 23:26going to let that aura down show. come out in
- 23:31about another month or a few weeks or whatever
- 23:34a few weeks so be ready um so both you guys were
- 23:42introduced to lifestyle in germany right yeah
- 23:46uh -huh well i will agree with me yes yeah yeah
- 23:49so so james um you know we've talked you know
- 23:54uncas talk about this a lot but i definitely
- 23:56want to hear from you talk to me about the You
- 23:59know, what's different or special or what you
- 24:02like about the German lifestyle community out
- 24:05there? I absolutely love Europe. If I even had
- 24:11the opportunity, I would move back. It's so much
- 24:13more open over there as far as sexually. When
- 24:19the time comes, whether that you be in a lifestyle
- 24:22club or you be in a vanilla club in the U .S.
- 24:28You know, sometimes there's a bit of cat and
- 24:31mouse, there's a bit of games, things of that
- 24:32nature. Some of you remember back in the day
- 24:35when you would get, you know, a lady's number
- 24:38in the club, hey, I'll call you tomorrow, I'll
- 24:40call you in a couple days, variation like that.
- 24:43Over there, if there's that instant attraction,
- 24:46you know, sex isn't as taboo over there. If there's
- 24:50that attraction, I remember I was in K -Town,
- 24:53Kaiserslautern, to those of you who haven't been
- 24:56over there. um big military community over there
- 24:59i'm in a nightclub meet a beautiful um beautiful
- 25:03life i think she was brazilian i flashed back
- 25:05to my sixth grade spanish because i don't speak
- 25:07a lick of spanish all i could remember was two
- 25:11bonita or some variation like that and excuse
- 25:14me if i'm getting the words wrong i just was
- 25:16trying to communicate you're pretty and we're
- 25:18smiling and we're communicating close enough
- 25:20close enough um yep yep and At the end, you know,
- 25:26I get another friend to kind of translate, hey,
- 25:29I'll call you tomorrow. Hey, it was good seeing
- 25:32you, you know. And, you know, instantly was like,
- 25:34no, I'm going with you tonight. You know, I'm
- 25:36like, hey, what are you doing later on? You got
- 25:38a good breakfast? And she's like, I'm going with
- 25:40you. It's so much more open there. It's desire
- 25:45and saying what you want. At least in my opinion,
- 25:50it's not as much of a hurdle there. where in
- 25:54the Americas, it seems like it's taboo, you know,
- 25:59in some circles. You know, oh, shoot, how am
- 26:02I thinking this? I shouldn't have this thought,
- 26:04things of that nature. Oh, you've been flirting
- 26:07all night, feeling each other all night. You
- 26:09could see that, you know, that chemistry is there,
- 26:11but no, I'm not going to do that. We got to have
- 26:1512 dates and six engagements before I actually
- 26:19let you do these things, per se. So it doesn't
- 26:26exist as much there. And I love the openness.
- 26:31It's actually great, even though, of course,
- 26:33I love being in the U .S., love the conversations,
- 26:36but it's just different over there where there's
- 26:42absolutely nothing. I think even now, like the
- 26:44sex stores, you know, here you potentially have
- 26:47to go to a seedy neighborhood or a variation
- 26:50or they've got them all over. People are window
- 26:53shopping like, oh, there's the Vibratasaur 3000.
- 26:56And it's in the middle of the day. And they're
- 26:58just looking at a window. And I was just like,
- 27:02OK, it's the same thing in the realm of drinking.
- 27:08Drinking is a part of their culture. Sex is a
- 27:10part of their culture where, you know, Americans,
- 27:13you know, overindulge on drinking, where Europeans
- 27:17don't just because they have. been um exposed
- 27:20um to it so it's not as not as tab but when you
- 27:24don't over indulge as much over there most most
- 27:29uh most occupations overseas in germany socrates
- 27:34the the you are allowed like two breaks where
- 27:39you can have a like a beer break Who the fuck
- 27:42does that? You know what I mean? Where you can
- 27:45stop and drink a damn fucking Heffy Weissen,
- 27:50which is a real popular damn beer. They get that
- 27:56twice a day over there. And as far as going to
- 28:02the club, to reiterate on what James was saying,
- 28:05to go to the club there. and leave with just
- 28:10a number or numbers is a wasted night. In my
- 28:14opinion, it is a wasted night. You are, you are,
- 28:18when, when you go to the club there, 75 % of
- 28:22the time, 75 % of men are going to meet and fuck
- 28:26that night. You're going to meet and fuck that
- 28:30night. All right. It might be in the parking
- 28:31lot. It might be in the parking lot. Hell, it
- 28:34might be in the bathroom. You know what I mean?
- 28:36Depending on what type of damn club it is or
- 28:37how big the club is. Or you might go back to
- 28:40the bags or to your apartment or whatever. Or
- 28:42her apartment. But you are going to have sex
- 28:45that night. They want you. They want you. And
- 28:50they have to have you. You know? And here again,
- 28:55I talk about them being so damn uninhibited.
- 28:57In the bedroom, brother. Pandora's box is open.
- 29:04All right? If you're not used to getting your
- 29:07asshole licked, I sure hate it. You're going
- 29:11to learn today. You know what I mean? And you
- 29:15can open up your box of tricks with her. I mean,
- 29:21they are so, those women, they want you. And
- 29:25they want all of you in every way. In every fucking
- 29:28way possible. And here again, if you form, you
- 29:33know, let's say you have a relationship with
- 29:36one, you know, it won't be long. If it becomes
- 29:41long -term, it won't be long before you got to
- 29:43start having those conversations where, you know,
- 29:46you may not have known that, like, she's bi or
- 29:50something like that. And you come home one day
- 29:52and, you know, there's a girl sitting there with,
- 29:55you know, a mama. And you're looking like, what's
- 29:58going on? and next thing you know bam you guys
- 30:02are going at it or i mean i mean it's just it's
- 30:06different man it is different there we don't
- 30:09deal with the hang -ups that we have with a lot
- 30:12of american women it just doesn't happen you
- 30:16know even just a regular life uh to come home
- 30:19and and and you know the the house is damn immaculate
- 30:23and you know the food is is great and you guys
- 30:26can sit there you can either have a great conversation
- 30:29or she can realize that, hey, he's had a real
- 30:31hard fucking day. You know, I'm just going to
- 30:34give him a shower. You know, he can just stay
- 30:38in the shower. Or, you know, I give him a bath
- 30:41and tuck him in and put him to bed. I mean, that's
- 30:44why so many black guys go over there and they
- 30:48end up staying for the rest of their life. I've
- 30:51told you guys before, had it not been for my
- 30:55parents having uh health scares at the same time
- 30:59you guys will not know me and i mean that's the
- 31:02guy's honest truth you would not know me i would
- 31:04still be in wiesbaden germany living uh retired
- 31:09um my two best friends we were going like i said
- 31:12we're gonna open up either a a a a little small
- 31:17sex you know sex house um or we'll go up uh some
- 31:22form of a little nightclub one or two And I was
- 31:25going to speak German for the rest of my fucking
- 31:27life. I wouldn't come back across the water.
- 31:29I was not, man. I was not. If I did, hell, yeah,
- 31:32I'd go to Vegas, maybe or something like that.
- 31:34But other than that, shit. There's no reason
- 31:37to come back home once you are over there and
- 31:40you get acclimated and you become Blerman, as
- 31:43they say, black and German. There's no reason.
- 31:46There's no reason, man. Everything is there.
- 31:48Every nationality of woman is there and they
- 31:52are drop dead beautiful. I mean, you're Syrians,
- 31:56you're Germans, you're Russians. I mean, just
- 31:59everything is there. Everything is there. And
- 32:04when you get off the plane over there, you are
- 32:07a high dollar value item. Black man is a high
- 32:12dollar value item. And you really are a high
- 32:14dollar. Exactly. And you really are a high dollar
- 32:17value item now because of the, you know, a lot
- 32:22of the bases have closed. A lot of the bases
- 32:24have closed and the guys have come back to the
- 32:26States or they've retired and come back to the
- 32:28States. So, you know, you've got a lot of places
- 32:30now. Wiesbaden is now United States Army Europe
- 32:33headquarters. So that was where I lived. So I'm
- 32:37like right there in the midst of everything with
- 32:39Frankfurt, Germany. right there beside it he's
- 32:42like two big two big cities right there within
- 32:45of six kilometers less than 10 miles away from
- 32:49each other i mean it's beautiful man beautiful
- 32:53and there's parties different type of down sex
- 32:57parties every weekend every night nice you know
- 33:02you got something to go to you got something
- 33:04to go to it seems to me gentlemen absolutely
- 33:09It seems to me, the gentleman, that the lifestyle
- 33:11really just makes things more organized, easier,
- 33:16communication open. But it seems to me that you
- 33:20don't have to be lifestyle to kind of really
- 33:22enjoy the stuff in the military when you're overseas
- 33:25because they just like military men. They like
- 33:27military men in general of all races. But from
- 33:30what I'm hearing and my experience in the Navy,
- 33:33they like black men. And no matter what country
- 33:37you're in, they love their black men. This is
- 33:40something that's available to anybody, right?
- 33:41You don't have to be in the lifestyle to enjoy
- 33:43this kind of stuff, right? True. You don't have
- 33:47to be in the lifestyle. You don't. And there
- 33:50are a lot of military guys who are not in the
- 33:54lifestyle. But for the ones who have ventured
- 33:56into the world, along with the regular, you know,
- 34:01European world, you are living your best life,
- 34:05brother. I'm telling you, you're living your
- 34:07best life. And like I said, that's why a whole
- 34:10lot of guys do not come back across the Atlantic
- 34:14Ocean. They stay there. They stay there. I mean,
- 34:20hell, am I missing something, James? I was there
- 34:24for you. You're not missing something. No, you're
- 34:27not missing the thing. My time in Europe and
- 34:30a lot of my time was spent in Hawaii. It's the
- 34:33same with Asians, Pacific Islanders, things of
- 34:36that nature. They may come off a bit reserved,
- 34:43but those were some of the most amazing experiences
- 34:48where they know what they want in the bedroom.
- 34:51Those inhibitions drop when it comes down to
- 34:54a Black man. my story would have been instead
- 34:57of germany i would have been i would have been
- 34:59on oahu i would have been in hawaii to uh to
- 35:02this day if if i didn't if i didn't if i didn't
- 35:05have to move this last time um what's that um
- 35:08but yeah yeah um that that that that you don't
- 35:13have to be lifestyle over there you know military
- 35:17is an advantage and chocolate is an advantage
- 35:20and you know if you get the mix of the two you
- 35:23become fantasy to somebody. And, you know, they're
- 35:27telling you the nastiest things that they want
- 35:29you to do. Or they're just open to, hey, what
- 35:34do you want? What do you want to do to me, daddy?
- 35:38So at that time. you just you just communicate
- 35:42you talk and like i said the realm of fantasy
- 35:45exists and i i absolutely love it that i don't
- 35:48have to be scared or or or or wait if i say this
- 35:52what is she going to think you know i got a young
- 35:55lady or a couple or whoever that i can say what
- 35:57i want and yeah yeah and and socrates when when
- 36:04that couple or that or that single female when
- 36:07she commits to you our term of claim, train,
- 36:11and own, that last own, you own her. They're
- 36:17yours. I mean, they are yours, all right? And,
- 36:22you know, like I said, you can just open up Pandora's
- 36:25box, man. You can open up Pandora's box sexually,
- 36:27and, I mean, you can bring in other people, and,
- 36:31you know, there's no hang -up whatsoever. there's
- 36:35no hang -up whatsoever when she says she wants
- 36:38to please daddy she wants to please daddy in
- 36:41every way possible every way possible and the
- 36:46husband is is you guys become cooler than cool
- 36:49you know um you know me i love to work out so
- 36:54to find another fit type of husband ran we was
- 36:58working out then go back home here there's food
- 37:03and you know He sits over there and watches me
- 37:07and just have a ball with the wife. And we just
- 37:10sit there and we, yes, you fuck around, you go
- 37:13on vacations. And, and I mean, you know, to go
- 37:16on a cruise there and to go to different places,
- 37:18Italy, Greece, Spain, uh, as that couple, you
- 37:23know, together and then go there and meet other
- 37:25couples in the, in the world. You boy, this is
- 37:30your balls will be down. unloaded very very quickly
- 37:34you'll become you'll become you'll be coming
- 37:38and nothing coming out your damn dick you know
- 37:40but i mean just just just the whole community
- 37:44meeting different people and here again is meeting
- 37:47you know greeks and and italians and french and
- 37:51god especially when you go to france french people
- 37:54are just they're just i don't know time you get
- 37:58dead cap dodge the which is like one of the world's
- 38:02largest new beach new beaches it's something
- 38:06man it's something i mean you can sit at home
- 38:09in the u .s and like see something on television
- 38:11that's one thing but when you actually get to
- 38:14go over there and be and become a part of it
- 38:17man what what memories to take to the grave i
- 38:23love it true story i love what you said as far
- 38:25as like with the couples i mean i i i've had
- 38:28the opportunity uh to uh be brought into you
- 38:32know a couple couples where you could actually
- 38:33you know like you said vacations enjoy them you
- 38:36know most recently um uh a couple that i met
- 38:40at splash we've been talking talking talking
- 38:43and the husband reached out and said hey will
- 38:45you be my lady's valentine's surprise i'll fly
- 38:48you out and i'll pay for the hotel we'll have
- 38:50an amazing weekend and and we did we we had i
- 38:53got picked up from the airport we not even we
- 38:56we not even finished driving from uh you know
- 38:59to the hotel and we're in the backseat fucking
- 39:01the husband's driving thank god for tesla um
- 39:04yeah but you know had an an amazing weekend where
- 39:12hey you know the husband trusted you with the
- 39:15you know with the lady and y 'all are vibing
- 39:17literally text uh every day had a blast went
- 39:20to haunted houses dinners things of that nature
- 39:23and on top of that bam you know you got you know
- 39:26hey you could fuck you know you got some you
- 39:28you you got amazing sex um you know there's you
- 39:32know a couple you know another couple that i'm
- 39:34in um here in the local area i'm in austin texas
- 39:37and in the local area where hey we go to dinners
- 39:40we hit movies they're the horror they're the
- 39:42horror movie people you know we can go hit a
- 39:44horror movie i think we saw a 28 uh i don't know
- 39:47if you could say uh uh uh trademark movies on
- 39:50the podcast sorry we saw a movie a few ago okay
- 39:55okay yeah not trying to get nobody uh intro so
- 39:58we saw uh 28 years later uh that that second
- 40:01part after that back to the hotel you know back
- 40:04to their apartment uh so you know when you when
- 40:08you get someone and you get invited to uh they
- 40:11invite you into their life in that aspect where
- 40:13hey i trust you with my lady it's it's it's great
- 40:17it's great and you could share like i said you
- 40:19could share what you want hey this is what i
- 40:21want to try and make it happen for you You know,
- 40:24or they introduce you to someone else and, you
- 40:27know, hashtag Aladdin, whole new world. Gentlemen,
- 40:33this question for both of you. Do you guys have
- 40:37like a you don't shit where you eat philosophy
- 40:39or have you guys like done some lifestyle when
- 40:42you've met people who are also in the service?
- 40:50I'll jump on that one first. I love the professionalism
- 40:57of the military. I have bumped into people that
- 41:00as you get into conversation, oh, I'm in the
- 41:02army too. You've got two schools of boss of people.
- 41:05Some people say that, hey, you know what? Nope,
- 41:07I do not play just in case. But I don't have
- 41:11that issue just because if we played before,
- 41:14you know, I retired as a non -commissioned officer
- 41:16and I've had. you know i i've had some interludes
- 41:20with you know commission officers you know lieutenant
- 41:23colonels general things of that nature i'm i'm
- 41:26i'm going to just be uh sergeant so -and -so
- 41:30when i see you or i'm going to walk past as though
- 41:33i don't know you you know depends on that dynamic
- 41:35that's not something that we're going to that
- 41:37that i'm going to put you out um being that both
- 41:40of us have careers and things of that nature
- 41:42you know i probably met you and you're married
- 41:45so of course i'm not gonna you know have someone
- 41:48wait how do you know him where do you know him
- 41:50from that's where you get started tap dancing
- 41:53so um yeah um i i've bumped into plenty of military
- 41:57people that that that are that are a part of
- 42:00this matter of fact i got a text a few ago um
- 42:02where um you know uh two of the old service members
- 42:06are getting married and they're in the lifestyle
- 42:07um where they invited me to come out to jersey
- 42:10and come kick it with them before you know before
- 42:13they make that great loop Yeah, I couldn't say
- 42:18it any better. We kind of, without coming out
- 42:22saying it, you know, and then I came in the military
- 42:25a long, you know, long, long time ago. So it
- 42:28was kind of known that, you know, if you were
- 42:31in that particular, you know, realm, lifestyle
- 42:35realm, whether it be hot wifing, like I said,
- 42:37we didn't have the term then or just regular,
- 42:40you know. swinging that you just kind of, if
- 42:43you saw somebody that you knew at a party or,
- 42:46you know, anywhere, you just kind of like nodded
- 42:49your head and just kept keeping pushing, you
- 42:52know, because, um, that was one of the things
- 42:55that at least back long then in my day, they
- 42:59would, um, kind of shun upon, um, as far as,
- 43:03you know, the military is concerned. especially
- 43:06when you are late on in your career if you make
- 43:08it a career and you become a senior you know
- 43:12non -com um and you're in the lifestyle so that
- 43:15was one of the things that i kept i kept pretty
- 43:18much um under wraps you know i had that life
- 43:22and then i had my what i what i call my just
- 43:26um you know, regular, you know, regular life
- 43:29where you knew the, uh, you knew the sergeant,
- 43:32you knew the fitness, uh, you know, guy and,
- 43:36uh, nothing else. You know what I'm saying? But
- 43:39that part of my life, I, I kept it, I kept it,
- 43:42I kept it, uh, under wraps. Yeah. And I, I love
- 43:47that. It's that even that fun secret, you know,
- 43:49if it's that, if you know, you know, you know,
- 43:51for those that you would pass by, whether that
- 43:53be in the military or the civilian life, you'd
- 43:55see them. And you can kind of, you know, hey,
- 43:57that nod or that smile. Exactly. Exactly. You
- 44:00two did something or weren't something. And then
- 44:04you need to pass by or let the meeting continue.
- 44:07And text later. That's it. That's it. I love
- 44:12it. I love it. Yeah. I really definitely tried
- 44:19to keep those two things separate. I was single
- 44:21and I just, I didn't. But in the Navy. You know,
- 44:26you're on a ship. Everybody knows what's going
- 44:27on. You know, like, we're on this ship for nine
- 44:30months. It's like, come on. So, you know, that's
- 44:33just what it was for the Navy. How has, we've
- 44:36talked a lot about, and we're kind of coming
- 44:39up on time, so I won't keep y 'all too long.
- 44:41But we've talked about, you know, the benefits
- 44:46of overseas. Have you guys benefited from or
- 44:50enjoyed anything in the States besides, you know,
- 44:53we know Hawaii's, you know. In the States. But
- 44:55in the lower 48, you know, have you guys enjoyed
- 44:58the benefits of being in the military here? Or
- 45:02I know it's different. You know, I would even
- 45:04dare say better in overseas. But what have you
- 45:07enjoyed here being in the service? Ooh, Texas,
- 45:13Texas. The great state of Texas. Oh, my goodness.
- 45:22Hook them horns. 6th Street, Bryan College Station,
- 45:28Lord have mercy, Austin, Waco, San Antonio, the
- 45:33Riverwalk, God damn, Houston. Brother, I've had
- 45:39some times in the great state of Texas. To all
- 45:42the ladies there that I've played with, love
- 45:46y 'all to death. I really do. To the couples
- 45:49I've met, love y 'all to death too. The great
- 45:53state of Texas, I had a ball there, as well as
- 45:56Colorado. Colorado, in my opinion, is the interracial
- 45:59capital of the United States. It really is. I
- 46:04had a freaking ball in Colorado also. My story?
- 46:12Of course, Europe's one thing, but I've had a
- 46:16great time in the... continental united states
- 46:19as well i am in the i am in the state of texas
- 46:22so i know exactly what you're talking about i'm
- 46:24in i'm in austin so hey often over there in the
- 46:28domain area i need to come out there and hang
- 46:31out with you because i love austin and i'm also
- 46:34latino i speak spanish i love all my mexican
- 46:37ladies and salvadorian ladies out there man and
- 46:40all the other nationalities I definitely need
- 46:42to come. I didn't mean to interrupt you. But
- 46:44I need to go out there. And get to San Antonio.
- 46:47Oh, yeah, for sure. And be like, oh, yeah, mami.
- 46:51And that is my kryptonite to any ladies on the
- 46:58line that may be at Splash or whatever. That
- 47:00is my kryptonite. So what's that? The Hispanic
- 47:04or the Latino. But, hey, I've had a great time.
- 47:07You know, when I get adopted into a community,
- 47:09wherever I end up landing PCS into. you know
- 47:12texas has been amazing to me hawaii north carolina
- 47:15with my time at brag uh anywhere i go where i
- 47:18land i must i'm social but you know and like
- 47:21i said earlier i don't communicate them so i'm
- 47:23gonna i'm gonna be the life of the party wherever
- 47:25wherever i land then once people find out about
- 47:28that uh you know we could just you know call
- 47:30that ultra ego side um just because you know
- 47:33wasn't out so much when i was in the military
- 47:35but if people knew they knew but when people
- 47:38find out about that other side boom well you
- 47:41know hey i had i had an amazing time and word
- 47:45would come out about me anyway i remember i think
- 47:47i was at uh eustis where you know i had soldiers
- 47:51come back around and i heard this about you it
- 47:54wasn't lifestyle it was just how i thought and
- 47:56i was just like okay i don't know how they found
- 47:57that out but still well the word you know the
- 48:00word don't spread enough and i hey i appreciate
- 48:02that i appreciate the yelp review um so you know
- 48:06um Even with the military, I've been treated
- 48:08amazing no matter where I go because people are
- 48:12drawn to it. Like I said, policemen, firefighters,
- 48:14military. Instantly, women are going to be drawn
- 48:18to that. Something about us is on radar. Your
- 48:21exploits will get around in a military community,
- 48:24okay? Here I am. I'm like 45 minutes from Fayetteville.
- 48:30And when I do go to the Ville, trust and believe,
- 48:35they know the signal mail is there, right? They've
- 48:38already put out an APB well ahead. So, you know,
- 48:43they know I'm coming. So, I mean, that's just
- 48:46your housewife, hot wife community. that lives,
- 48:53you know, on post or, like, in the surrounding
- 48:55areas, you know. Bragg is huge. So you have,
- 48:59like, your subdivisions of Fayetteville, which
- 49:03is Rayford, North Carolina, and a couple other
- 49:05places like that. And those communities, those
- 49:09communities, they represent in the hot wife lifestyle.
- 49:14They really do. There was a huge... Club in Fayetteville.
- 49:19The couple that owned it, they're gone now. I
- 49:22think they live in South Carolina now. But the
- 49:24club was called YKW. Oh, I heard about YKW. I
- 49:29heard about YKW. You know where. You know where.
- 49:33That's it. And that motherfucker was off the
- 49:36chain, brother. That bitch was off the chain.
- 49:38They had every month, they had a Friday night
- 49:41where they let the brothers in. And it was basically
- 49:45like a small splash for that night. And, you
- 49:50know, you had to have your damn tracksuit on
- 49:53when you went in there. Because you were the
- 49:55main course, hors d 'oeuvres and every damn thing
- 49:59else. And those military wives and civilian wives,
- 50:04they were in there, brother. they win that so
- 50:07you know and if you did your job the word got
- 50:09around the community very very quickly so you
- 50:12know when you came back again that they were
- 50:14expecting you to come in like every month on
- 50:17that friday night they were expecting you to
- 50:19come so you know that's that's the beauty of
- 50:21a military community compared to just regular
- 50:24civilian life you know family is really family
- 50:26we we might live in different spots you know
- 50:30in different uh uh areas around you know around
- 50:33bragging you know, down in Austin, et cetera.
- 50:36But we still, the word will get around in the
- 50:39community. And, you know, like I said, they represent
- 50:43and they expect you there too. If there's an
- 50:46event and they invite you, they expect you to
- 50:50be there. They expect you to be there. And if
- 50:52you've got friends, bring them. Because trust
- 50:55me, they'll be locked and loaded and ready for
- 50:57them. You guys have a great time. One of the
- 51:02things that James talked, you guys talked about
- 51:04yesterday that I did not hear when I was in the
- 51:06Navy, and I don't know if the Navy has its own
- 51:09version or a different name for it, but what
- 51:11is it? Is it Jody? Is that what it is? Jody.
- 51:15Y 'all talk to me about Jody. Yeah. Yeah. Well,
- 51:21go ahead, James. You know. you get that you know
- 51:25that you know that dear jody letter you know
- 51:27you uh when you leave you when you deploy go
- 51:29to basic training wherever you go uh the the
- 51:33jody's waiting to uh you know either uh conversate
- 51:38or slide in your lake you know so everyone has
- 51:40that story hey when i was deployed this happened
- 51:43um and uh we were talking yesterday where the
- 51:47advantage of the lifestyle is um when the time
- 51:50comes hey if couples would just have that that
- 51:53initial hard conversation you know those difficult
- 51:56conversations that's what i preach about the
- 51:58lifestyle the one thing i hear out of lifestyle
- 51:59couples is our communication is immaculate because
- 52:04you have to talk about everything you know because
- 52:07the relationship's more important than a misunderstanding
- 52:10so uh many times for military uh members hey
- 52:15one would go somewhere And then they would cheat
- 52:18or some variation like that. And that would break
- 52:22the relationship. And everyone has needs. Hey,
- 52:26you know, your husband or your wife is gone for
- 52:29six months or a year at a time. You know, hey,
- 52:32you know, God bless you for it. But if, you know,
- 52:35when the time comes, if you're able to have that
- 52:36conversation of, hey, you know, I've got some
- 52:39needs and I'm always going to, you know, lady,
- 52:41it's you and me, ride or die till the wheels
- 52:44fall off while you're gone. I don't have an issue.
- 52:49Just be communicative with me. You know, hey,
- 52:52let me vet a gentleman. Hey, if I'm going to
- 52:54allow a gentleman in my life, I want a certain
- 52:56caliber. Well, in my lady's life, I'm going to,
- 53:01you know, I want a certain caliber of gentleman.
- 53:03I want to make sure my lady's safe. If they would
- 53:05have those conversations that, hey, look, I've
- 53:07got needs while I'm gone, but I'm coming back
- 53:10to you, you know. some of these divorces and
- 53:13some of these stories and uh for the senior non
- 53:16-coms you know first started getting a phone
- 53:18call about my you know my wife or my husband
- 53:20you know that would um that would and at least
- 53:23in my personal opinion that would that would
- 53:26cut it down um because you know you would say
- 53:29hey i was gone but i'm coming back to you at
- 53:32the end of the night i'm coming back i'm coming
- 53:34back to you and And it's open enough for you
- 53:39to share and have these conversations on wants
- 53:41and desires. Sex gets better. Communication gets
- 53:44better. And now you got your daggone, you know,
- 53:47truly that Batman and Robin. You know, you got
- 53:52an ultimate team that keep nothing away from
- 53:56each other. Finance and physical destroys relationships.
- 54:00You can talk about both freely. Y 'all are bulletproof.
- 54:07Yeah, it's it's it's very, very hard to keep
- 54:11a marriage or a relationship going or keep it
- 54:17keep it steady in a military community. You know,
- 54:21the deployments, depending on what your military
- 54:24occupational specialty is, your job, you may
- 54:27be going a lot. He may be going a lot or she
- 54:30may be going a lot. You know, so you need to
- 54:33if you if I lined up. five or six military couples
- 54:39and they have been married 20 or more years and
- 54:42he's being in the army for those 20 or more years
- 54:47trust and believe probably 75 of that five or
- 54:52six are in the lifestyle in some way shape or
- 54:56form they are they've had that talk and they're
- 55:00like look we are each other's ride or die we
- 55:03love each other It's, you know, it's me and you.
- 55:06But I know damn well when you're in Afghanistan
- 55:09or Iraq or Bosnia or wherever, your dick is not
- 55:12going to stretch back here to Fort Hood or Fort,
- 55:15you know, Bragg or any other damn installation.
- 55:20So this is what needs to take place when you
- 55:23deploy. And you lay out, you be honest about
- 55:26it. You know, you lay out the damn ground rules.
- 55:28You lay out the do's and don'ts just like anything
- 55:30else. And the two of you all follow them. That's
- 55:34it. You know, nobody's lying to each other. Nobody's
- 55:38lying to each other. And your marriage will survive.
- 55:41You know? I love it. I love it. A lot of people
- 55:44don't know, and we'll try to put a link to this
- 55:47book in the show notes. The lifestyle in America
- 55:50started at the Air Force. So what people don't
- 55:54know is that the, I don't know how to say this,
- 55:57the most endangered or the highest death rates.
- 56:03in world war ii was not the army or marine guy
- 56:07in the front lines it was or you know it was
- 56:12the airline it was the pilot it was the the the
- 56:17and so they got together and said look you know
- 56:22i'm probably not gonna be i'm not i might not
- 56:24make it and can you take care of my wife and
- 56:28oh by the way you can probably sleep with her
- 56:29as well because you you know if you're gonna
- 56:31take care of her There probably should be a bond.
- 56:34And that thing started happening for our pilots
- 56:41in the Air Force, our, what do you call it? Our
- 56:44combat pilots. And so the lifestyle in America
- 56:49has a, and the book is called The Lifestyle.
- 56:53And it talks about the history of the lifestyle
- 56:56starting in America in the Air Force. So, you
- 56:59know. It has a deep military foundation and background,
- 57:06you know? And so this has been something that's
- 57:09been going on in the military for a long time.
- 57:11And, and so, yeah, I love all of this. It's something
- 57:17that I, you know, I get the same thing when I'm
- 57:21out in public. It's usually because I'm, I'm
- 57:22yes, ma 'am. And yes, sir. Half of that's just,
- 57:26I have my, my family's. I'm originally from Tennessee,
- 57:30Chattanooga. So I grew up in L .A., but I'm a
- 57:33southern boy at heart. And between the military
- 57:36and that, I just say, yes, ma 'am, yes, sir,
- 57:39all the time. And I just carry myself that way.
- 57:42And a lot of people say, OK, what branch? But
- 57:44I love this. And I have noticed not that anybody's
- 57:50better, but the kinds of people that we. believe
- 57:54in in the brotherhood like there's people that
- 57:57are in my squad that are not military and um
- 58:00but he he presents as either law enforcement
- 58:03or military and he has the same kind of disciplines
- 58:06and so the people that in the lifestyle that
- 58:08i really look up to a lot of them not all a lot
- 58:12of them are military bulls and the servicemen
- 58:16and even some of the stags and cucks um are in
- 58:20the military and shout out to our ladies that
- 58:22are are in the start one of my favorite playmates
- 58:24is she was um she was uh in the air force and
- 58:29a good friend of mine that's vanilla she was
- 58:31in the marines a sniper in the marines and she's
- 58:33a badass so you know i want to say go navy i
- 58:37want to say thank you uh you two army men for
- 58:40your service and uh did you guys want to have
- 58:43anything else uh did you want before we get off
- 58:48James, go ahead. If anybody, as I said, hey,
- 58:55I'll be at Splash next month. Looking forward
- 58:57to connecting. If any of you want to reach out
- 59:00previously, you can know when this episode comes
- 59:02out. I'm available on Telegram. Just looking
- 59:05without the G at the end for the number four.
- 59:09Now, 80. So feel free to reach out. I'm all about
- 59:15conversation and building connection. uh prior
- 59:18if you'd like to talk or any military people
- 59:21that um that if we if we hit a subject and you
- 59:24want to talk more on it okay reach out to me
- 59:26happy to have a conversation you know whether
- 59:28that you know whether that just be an idea um
- 59:32or you know or or if you're trying to build drop
- 59:36me a line good deal good deal so i continue i
- 59:41don't have anything to say my brother i think
- 59:43we have said it all we can go ahead and close
- 59:45this thing out Ladies and gentlemen, I would
- 59:49love to thank James. James, it has indeed been
- 59:54a pleasure. Thank you, my brother, for being
- 59:56on the podcast. You will be back again in the
- 59:59very near future, I hope. All right. And ladies
- 1:00:03and gentlemen, for myself, the Sigma male, and
- 1:00:07of course, my nephew, Socrates, we bid you good
- 1:00:11night. And we will be back next week with another
- 1:00:14informative podcast. Again, to all the brothers
- 1:00:19of the brotherhood, all right? We wish you a
- 1:00:22good night. And to all those lovely ladies and
- 1:00:24hot wives out there, I wish you good morning.
- 1:00:28Auf Wiedersehen. Cheers. Bye -bye. See you later,
- 1:00:32y 'all.