Latest / The Twenty One Clear Podcast / Four Stages of Leadership - Part 2: Stage 4 and the Stages' Importance
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- 0:06Adam Hatcher: Hey there.
- 0:07Welcome to the 21 Clear Podcast.
- 0:09I'm your host, Adam Hatcher, the founder of 21 Clear, a
- 0:12family business consulting firm.
- 0:14And with this and all of our other podcasts, we wanna provide resources
- 0:19to you that help you think about your inner family business, the
- 0:23unique way your family works in and owns your company together.
- 0:27This episode is part two of my interview with Norm Smallwood.
- 0:32Norm is the co-founder of the RBL Group, or Results Based Leadership,
- 0:37and he has a concept that I wish I had known earlier in my career at
- 0:43my family's company, a way to answer that question, am I performing well?
- 0:51Am I a high performer?
- 0:53Are my family members high performers compared to what this organization
- 0:57and what our customers need, and the people around us, too?
- 1:01And Norm has a model, the four stages of leadership, that once I saw it,
- 1:06was as simple as it was challenging.
- 1:10In episode one, we went through stages one, two, and three.
- 1:15If you haven't had a chance to listen to that yet, I encourage
- 1:18you to look in the show notes and you'll see a link for episode one.
- 1:23Go click there, start with that, and then pick up with this episode.
- 1:27In part two, Norm and I are gonna move to stage four in his leadership stages,
- 1:34and then we're gonna talk about some of the consequences, both the positive and
- 1:39the difficult or negative consequences for understanding these stages and
- 1:44applying them or for ignoring them.
- 1:47And it's a fun conversation that draws on Norm's, Norm's career experience.
- 1:52I mentioned in the first episode, over decades of leadership work,
- 1:56he has worked with publicly and privately held companies.
- 1:59He's worked with companies that were privately held and family
- 2:02controlled or publicly owned and still controlled by a family.
- 2:06So when Norm talks, he's talking about his experience and his study
- 2:10of companies that understand the full range of that conditional nature
- 2:15of business, that marketplace that doesn't care if you're family-owned.
- 2:19It generally just wants to know what are you doing for your customers and what's
- 2:24happening to your financial performance, your value, and your valuation.
- 2:28That's the perspective he brings.
- 2:30I hope episode one, when, when you listened to it, was helpful, and I really
- 2:34hope you enjoy this time we take in episode two to flesh out the fourth stage,
- 2:42but then really get into the impact of what it means for you and your company.
- 2:47With that, here is part two of the conversation with Norm Smallwood
- 2:53So what is stage four?
- 2:55So stage three was you're able to contribute through others.
- 2:59That's somebody who's gonna be a student of the organization, of their functional
- 3:03area, of functional areas around them.
- 3:06Differentiate that from stage four
- 3:09Norm Smallwood: So the term we use, one was dependence, two was independence,
- 3:15three is influence, four is power.
- 3:18So the, the, the shift from I need to influence others in the organization,
- 3:25others more senior people than me to make the-- to, to, to bring information
- 3:33together to make important choices is the shift from three to four.
- 3:40So, so in s-some of the other characteristics of, of, of stage four.
- 3:46So I'm-- the buck stops with me, right?
- 3:50I get to make these decisions.
- 3:52The, the next one is setting strategic direction, right?
- 3:57I'm not setting it for the team, but the entire organâ¦
- 4:02Even when you have a small organization, it can be very difficult to, to,
- 4:07to say, you know, holistically, "Here's, here's where we're going."
- 4:12Maybe small now, but it's that, uh, vision of the, of the future.
- 4:17In stage three, you're a mentor, so you're working with
- 4:21somebody like coach or mentor.
- 4:23Mentor meaning that you're helping somebody develop their skills
- 4:29and spending the time to do.
- 4:30In stage four, you don't see that as much, and the term sponsor becomes more.
- 4:35I'm gonna test the stage three people to see which of these are able to cut
- 4:43it and to, uh, move to the next level.
- 4:47So and then representing the business or the organization
- 4:52to the outside world would be another element of, of stage four.
- 4:57So I've shifted from dependence to independence to influence, influence
- 5:03meaning the, the team and others, and then stage four is the entire organization,
- 5:10assuming that it's, you know, of some size, and then setting direction,
- 5:16um, sponsoring versus mentoring.
- 5:20Um, anyway, so that's the, so that's the, uh, that's the final, uh, layer.
- 5:26And, and again, it's even in a very large organization, there tend not to be
- 5:33like less than five percent, uh, would, would typically be in, in stage four.
- 5:40You'd see maybe up to twenty percent in stage three, especially if you
- 5:46don't make it-- You, you don't have to have some kind of formal nomination.
- 5:51The more stage threes you can have, the better.
- 5:54Stage four, if there's too many of them, they'll probably
- 5:56fight with each other, right?
- 5:58So, uh, you, you don't need them, or they'll go off and
- 6:01start their own thing, right?
- 6:03So, uh-
- 6:05Adam Hatcher: I heard you say stage four, the thing they s- the thing
- 6:08a stage four CEO would say is, "My job is to ensure that the company is
- 6:13utterly realistic about the difference between where we are, where we want
- 6:17to go, and the path to get there."
- 6:19And you got three or four of those together, you're
- 6:22gonna have a lot of fights.
- 6:23Norm Smallwood: Yeah.
- 6:24Yeah.
- 6:24Well, the thing, like I was at, uh, Esso Resources for several years,
- 6:30you know, early in my career, and they, and s- they had stage four
- 6:34technical people in, in jobs.
- 6:36They had a chief geologist and a chief geophysicist, and these
- 6:41were folks who had huge influence and really power, not influence.
- 6:47They had power over the, the careers of the geologists and geophysicists,
- 6:53of which in exploration and production, there's a lot of those
- 6:57in, in these big oil companies.
- 7:00And, uh, so isâ¦
- 7:02it's, uh, in Livermore, there's 7,000 physicists.
- 7:08Oneâ¦
- 7:08These are the guys that were doing Star Wars in the Reagan administration.
- 7:13But, but, but I remember the guy that had the idea for Star
- 7:18Wars was a g- guy in his 20s.
- 7:22So this would be somebody very early moved to stage four, had a
- 7:27vision for Livermore to have aâ¦
- 7:31th- that, that's still important today, the idea of a defensive shield for
- 7:37the military of weapons that could shoot down from space or from wherever
- 7:43missiles coming in from other places.
- 7:45So it, it sounds kind of science fictiony, but, but itâ¦
- 7:49And it was completely bogus at the time.
- 7:51It wasn'tâ¦
- 7:52We couldn't really do it, but Reagan convinced Gorbachev to stand down
- 7:57because, you know, the, the belief that Livermore was creating this, this Star
- 8:03Wars invincible shield around America, that was the really cool idea of a
- 8:11young stage four guy, PhD physicist.
- 8:15So, uh,
- 8:17Adam Hatcher: So
- 8:18Norm Smallwood: anyway
- 8:18Adam Hatcher: is, somebody listening is gonna think, all right, so if st- stage
- 8:22two, three, and four can e- like, if stage one, two, or three could accidentally
- 8:28get in a stage four position, or maybe we have, like you just described, stage fours
- 8:32not in a CEO role, but because of our company, stage fours in different places.
- 8:38Norm Smallwood: Yep
- 8:38Adam Hatcher: someone has right now is, what's a way I can
- 8:41figure out what I am right now?
- 8:44Or if I'm managing my daughter, my nephew, what's a way I
- 8:48can help them see themselves?
- 8:50'Cause they probably have career aspirations.
- 8:53Norm Smallwood: You know, the simplest way to do it that's, uh, is that we're
- 8:58self-deceived ourselves about this one.
- 9:01This is, uh, the only person who will be self-deceived about
- 9:05what stage you're in is you.
- 9:07Um, and so if you just had a, if you gave somebody the descriptions of the four
- 9:14stages and that works with you, I mean, it could be a peer, it could be a boss, it
- 9:20could, it could be your spouse, and, uh, and just say, "Which of these do you think
- 9:26is more the way I can like to contribute?"
- 9:30Uh, there's a, I think, a ninety-nine percent correlation in which those
- 9:34around you would perceive you.
- 9:37And, uh, time and again, you know, I've seen people be three-- I mean, I'veâ¦
- 9:43Remember, uh, the, the program where people could defer working because
- 9:50the company was downsizing, so they would, uh, offer them degrees.
- 9:55I remember this person who was in, uh, this was again in an-
- 9:59in another oil company where they were, uh, called a landman.
- 10:04You can see Billy Bob Thornton in Paramount Plus's Landman
- 10:08to find out what they do.
- 10:09But, uh, this person was the landman, went off, got an MBA, and came back a
- 10:14couple years later, and when they were a landman, they were perceived in stage one.
- 10:19Came back a couple years later, everybody in the organization saw
- 10:23them still as stage one, and they were sure that they were stage four, right?
- 10:28So they wanted to start setting direction and sort of arguing with the, with
- 10:34the, um, with the other senior leaders.
- 10:36And what you can do to be really helpful with that is the, when you're coaching
- 10:41somebody like that, it's, you know, the, the conversation is better run something
- 10:46like, "Well, you know, you perceive you're in stage, um, four, but I've, you know,
- 10:54I've talked to others, and there's sort of a general agreement that you're in one.
- 10:58So regardless of where you are, how do you, how do we begin to show the
- 11:03path that, uh, create the perception that, that you're not there?
- 11:07And the first one would be, you know, show that you're in
- 11:10two and then three and four.
- 11:11We'll work you through this."
- 11:13'Cause people can't go from one to four in terms of the same
- 11:17person, um, that quickly, right?
- 11:21It's a, it's a tough, tough, tough road
- 11:25Adam Hatcher: It's tough.
- 11:26Well, and that's what I like about the, you've and taught the stages is
- 11:31'cause it gets to that question, in a family company, you want to be seen
- 11:35as a strong performer, not just by your brother, not just by your father,
- 11:40not by your uncle, but you wanna be seen that way by customers, by the
- 11:44business, at least in family companies that want to build a great company,
- 11:48uh, and stay together as family.
- 11:51And this helps you see, okay, I am stage two.
- 11:55let me show people how to get to three.
- 11:58So we haveâ¦
- 12:00I wanna t- we've focused a lot individually.
- 12:03I wanna close this, uh, I, I wanna g- ask you one more question and pull it out to
- 12:10organizationally.
- 12:11So it's important f- for any of us to answer stage one, two, three, four for
- 12:15our own careers, for the careers of the family members around us, and the cost of
- 12:20that is you can end up a job that's over your qualifications or ov- you don't even
- 12:26know the expectation and can be miserable.
- 12:29And I saw a number that you wrote that actually, in your studies, 50% of leaders
- 12:33in most organizations are operating below the stage required for their role.
- 12:40Now, I know that when that's y- the case, it makes people miserable, but I am
- 12:44curious, when we think of answering that, like, what's the cost to the organization?
- 12:50If you've got family members who don't know their stage or are operating below
- 12:56the level of their role, and maybe you got leaders that have been with
- 12:59you for 15 years and they were your friends when you started the business
- 13:02and they're operating below, itâ¦
- 13:04In companies you've worked with, Norm, what does that cost them if they
- 13:08don't recognize it and address it?
- 13:12Norm Smallwood: Yeah, usually, you and I have had this conversation
- 13:15before, so it's, uh, you know, a little bit of a repeat of, of
- 13:19that, but our listeners haven't.
- 13:21So,
- 13:21Adam Hatcher: Right.
- 13:22Norm Smallwood: so, so,
- 13:24Adam Hatcher: stage rated me.
- 13:25For anyone listening who's like, "Oh, no, no.
- 13:28No, I went through this."
- 13:29It's a pretty penetrating
- 13:30Norm Smallwood: Yeah.
- 13:31Adam Hatcher: uh, it'll wake you up in a hurry.
- 13:34Norm Smallwood: Well, what, what, I mean, what happens, and it's, it, it's
- 13:37in family businesses, it's, it's inâ¦
- 13:41It's so, it's such an easy mistake to make, and I think it's a mistake,
- 13:46is to assume that the, that the person that we're most concerned
- 13:51about is the leader, right?
- 13:53It's, it's, it's Bob, right?
- 13:56And so Bob's been around.
- 13:57We know Bob's not very good and, and Bob has, you know, created the conditions
- 14:04where the, the business isn't profitable.
- 14:07We've got disgruntled employees.
- 14:09So you s- th- customers that aren't getting the experience that they want,
- 14:14and so it is, it's affecting the business.
- 14:17So I mean, the first place I go is the impact on employees.
- 14:21So it's not about Bob, it's about the 10 people that work for Bob that don't get
- 14:27any development, that, uh, if, if the, if your company does employee engagement
- 14:33surveys and you're in Bob's group and Bob's an expert and Bob's competing
- 14:38with you, um, it's, it sucks, right?
- 14:41It sucks to work for Bob because then you're probably looking for another job.
- 14:46If you're, uh, if you have external customers, you've got disgruntled
- 14:51employees working for Bob, and now you've got the employees
- 14:56that are, um, excuse me here
- 15:00Adam Hatcher: I, uh, you have employees that are working
- 15:04for him that are disgruntled.
- 15:05They're probably customer-facing, or some of them, and customers have
- 15:10a sixth s- sixth have a sixth sense for what's going on in the business.
- 15:15I mean, what I hear you setting up
- 15:17Norm Smallwood: Yeah
- 15:18Adam Hatcher: y- tuh, this is the hardâ¦
- 15:20In family companies, you mix the unconditional nature of family with
- 15:23the conditional reality of business.
- 15:27And if cust- and if you have unhappy employees, you're gonna lose value in the
- 15:31Norm Smallwood: You're gonna have unhappy customers.
- 15:32Yeah yeah
- 15:33Adam Hatcher: you have unhap- happy customers, you will absolutely lose value.
- 15:37And so withoutâ¦
- 15:39What I like about the stages is it, it does two things.
- 15:42It answers that question of, what do I need to be do- what kind of performer
- 15:46am I, and what do I need to be d- to do to be seen as a strong performer?
- 15:51But it also sets the stakes.
- 15:54member or not, if I can get people in the right stage and match
- 15:59the right stages to roles, can build a great company probably a
- 16:04Norm Smallwood: Yeah
- 16:05Adam Hatcher: av- avoid a lot of f- family fights and family meetings about, "Well,
- 16:09that person shouldn't be this and that."
- 16:10Like, we can do that and keep the family together
- 16:15Norm Smallwood: So yeah, let me, let me just rephrase it slightly differently.
- 16:19So at, at least my version of this.
- 16:22You can be successful in any stage except stage one.
- 16:26And so the question is the, the individual question, the question for
- 16:30me is, what do I want in my career?
- 16:33Do Iâ¦
- 16:34And I can't, and, and we're gonna take one off the board.
- 16:37I can't be a, uh, an employee who can't become an expert in the area
- 16:43that I'm working in because over time I become unsettled about it.
- 16:48I feel like a failure.
- 16:50People, other people look at me and they, they think if I'm in a family-owned
- 16:54business and I'm in stage one and I'm leading something, then I'm clearly
- 17:00a, uh, that was nepotism, right?
- 17:03Because you should have cleared me out of there.
- 17:06So,
- 17:07Adam Hatcher: as
- 17:07Norm Smallwood: so I-
- 17:08Adam Hatcher: have seen where families are uniquely able to do this, and I know this
- 17:11isn't the circumstance you're thinking of.
- 17:13I have seen family companies that in stage one will let people stay there,
- 17:16particularly in the case of special needs.
- 17:18Like, sometimes
- 17:20Norm Smallwood: Oh,
- 17:20Adam Hatcher: or
- 17:21Norm Smallwood: okay
- 17:21Adam Hatcher: yeah, stage one, that can be long-term.
- 17:24But absent that,
- 17:26Norm Smallwood: Yeah.
- 17:27Absent dad
- 17:28Adam Hatcher: see people progress in their career
- 17:32Norm Smallwood: Yeah.
- 17:32Well, and so you can-- The issue in stage two, if I wanna be an
- 17:36expert my whole career, is just staying up to date technically.
- 17:39If it's three, it's, it's really being great.
- 17:44Like, I've seen people in stage three that are legendary for
- 17:49developing the next generation.
- 17:51Like, if, if you had your first job opportunity, let's, let's go from
- 17:56Bob to Bill or Sue, and Sue is known for, like, working with people and
- 18:03setting them up for success later.
- 18:06And, and, and sh-she gets to be known as a, a talent builder and a s-- and a, and
- 18:14a, and somebody who this is where talent is built in the, in the organization.
- 18:21If you, if you get a chance to work for Sue, it'll be great for you
- 18:25later in your career 'cause she's just so good at, at doing that.
- 18:29And then in four, it's the success of the business, right?
- 18:32It's like Sue is great in three because she's the generator and the, and the
- 18:39supplier of talent for the future.
- 18:43And then, uh, and then the stage four one is the success of that if, if I
- 18:49wanna be that guy, it's the, the person who really grows the business and, and
- 18:55has, you know, really happy customers and employees who are attracted to come
- 19:01and work with us because of the type of leader and the opportunity, the type
- 19:07of leaders we already have there, and the, what I can learn by going there.
- 19:10And that's, that's the kind of the-- That's what you wanna see versus, you
- 19:17know, this is, you know, just a place where it churns and there's no real future
- 19:23there and, you know, it's, it's kind of a, not the place to, to, not the place to be.
- 19:29So but, but yeah.
- 19:32Adam Hatcher: oh, sorry, go ahead
- 19:33Norm Smallwood: No, no, go ahead.
- 19:35Adam Hatcher: Oh, tha- so from a, and from an ownership perspective, one
- 19:39of the values of understanding these stages, if you are considering your
- 19:46family company, selling your family company, stepping in, stepping into the,
- 19:53a top leadership role in the company.
- 19:55Let's say you've hit the right stage, stepping into the top leadership c-
- 19:59leadership role, in an outside investment, trying to get some sort of liquidity out
- 20:04of the business by bringing in outside investment, be it a private equity stake.
- 20:10It has got to be helpful for understanding stages.
- 20:16If you're about to
- 20:17Norm Smallwood: Yes.
- 20:18Yeah
- 20:18Adam Hatcher: and you don't know how many stage one, two, three, fours you
- 20:21have, or if you're gonna try to liquidate the business, and you've got a bunch
- 20:26of stage twos and stage three and four roles, somebody's gonna figure that out.
- 20:30Like, you need to know that ahead of time.
- 20:32I assume when you've worked with companies, this has been valuable for
- 20:36them to either understand the value of the organization they're running
- 20:41Norm Smallwood: Yeah
- 20:42Adam Hatcher: "What hill am I about to have to climb here?
- 20:45What'd mom
- 20:45Norm Smallwood: No, if you think, well, if you think about when
- 20:47you say, you know, if, if the company's gonna sell or IPO thenâ¦
- 20:54And, and you think about value, I mean, the value thirty years ago was, you
- 21:02know, what's the EBITDA of this business?
- 21:05And then you've got some kind of a multiplier in your industry
- 21:09for the value of the company.
- 21:11That's shifted s- to a place where, you know, about twenty percent of value today
- 21:20is the financial value of the company.
- 21:22And it's easy to see this when we think about investment.
- 21:25When you make an investment, like if you're gonna IPO or somebody else is gonna
- 21:30buy you or you're gonna buy somebody else, it doesn't matter, it's the same thing.
- 21:34What you're valuing is the potential, the future potential of this business.
- 21:39What can we do?
- 21:41So if the, if the company you're looking at has a track record, a financial
- 21:46track record, that's important, but how much does it count for?
- 21:49What you're hoping for is we've got-- we can trust that the leaders in this company
- 21:57will be able to continue to deliver the right results the right way over time.
- 22:02And the only way you can do that is if you have leaders who can do that.
- 22:06And the stages is a way to, you know, do a proxy of, you know, how strong are the
- 22:14leaders that we have to create, you know, investor, customer, community, employee
- 22:21confidence that, uh, because of the track record and because of the perspective that
- 22:29they have about the, about the future.
- 22:31So absolutely.
- 22:33And, uh, if you were to want me to quantify it, we've
- 22:36actually can quantify it.
- 22:38We've, uh, um, in, in our work that we published in CFA Chartered Financial
- 22:44Account Magazine and others, we see, uh, quality of leadership being about
- 22:49twenty-five percent of the market cap of, of a publicly traded company, right?
- 22:55So, um, so if you have a, uh, you know, a billion-dollar company market
- 23:04valuation, about two hundred and fifty million of it would be attributable to
- 23:11the, to the quality of leadership because they're the ones making the choices
- 23:15about the future and what you're gonna invest in, what your strategy is, what
- 23:21your brand is, what your pipeline is.
- 23:24Leaders have all the-- get to make those choices
- 23:28Adam Hatcher: I remember seeing one of the, one of the highest multiples val-
- 23:35really one of the highest valuations to revenue I had seen in my industry.
- 23:41Uh, the industry my family company came out of was a company whose,
- 23:45though they were smaller than the acquirer, their talent was so strong,
- 23:50their top leaders were made the top leaders of the acquiring company.
- 23:55abs- to your point, that, I mean, that's circumstantial,
- 23:57but it complements your study
- 24:00Norm Smallwood: Yeah, absolutely
- 24:01Adam Hatcher: value.
- 24:02And if people are thinking it's not all about the money, that company, the one
- 24:05being acquired, was also known as one of the best places to work in the industry.
- 24:10And so it not only creates value, but for families that care about employee
- 24:15experience and customer experience, having the right leaders, their stages and in the
- 24:20right roles inevitably creates a company that's just better to work in and to own.
- 24:25Right?
- 24:29Norm Smallwood: right?
- 24:31Yeah.
- 24:31I like working for leaders who, you know, create a vision, treat me well,
- 24:37are interested in my future, who care about our customers, yeah, versus, you
- 24:43know, talking about, uh, um, you knowâ¦
- 24:47But, it, it-- and like in some places it's all financial or
- 24:51it's all technical, right?
- 24:52So, uh, interesting
- 24:55Adam Hatcher: Well, and, uh, and I'll close this with a, a
- 24:57story here that you've told me.
- 24:59Seeing the stages is okay.
- 25:02Seeing the stages is great, then being comfortable where you are and reaching
- 25:07as high as you can reach is fine.
- 25:09And some of my favorite stories are when a family member or a family owner
- 25:16could have probably grabbed the top, the top job, but knew it wasn't for them.
- 25:22Now,
- 25:22Norm Smallwood: Yeah.
- 25:23Adam Hatcher: know this person, uh, but this is a story I, I enjoy.
- 25:26So they're, uh, Willie G.
- 25:28Davidson is of the Harley-Davidson family, he was the chief style officer.
- 25:35As I understand, Willie G.
- 25:37was responsible for designing a couple of the new, the new Harleys, uh, was
- 25:42a cultural icon and ambas- and brand ambassador for a company that very
- 25:48much relied on its brand for its value.
- 25:51And then my favorite thing I ever heard about Willie G.
- 25:54was that his job was to make sure that each new model, quote,
- 25:57"sounded like a Harley," which is
- 25:59Norm Smallwood: Yeah
- 26:00Adam Hatcher: just one of the greatest job descriptions I've heard.
- 26:04It reminded me of Julian Van Winkle when he took over as
- 26:07the third generation of Pappy.
- 26:09He was the next generation that was responsible for making sure
- 26:12this tastes like Pappy Van Winkle.
- 26:16But in Willie G.
- 26:17and in Willie G.'s
- 26:19perspective, and Julian Van Winkle ends up selling to Buffalo Trace, to the Sazerac
- 26:23company, so neither of them operated the CEO job of the ultim- of the ultimate
- 26:30company, either Julian or Willie G.
- 26:33Smart businesspeople, but cultural ambassadors with uh, with that
- 26:38idea-shaping kind of ability.
- 26:41And to me, those struck me as two guys, as best I've studied them, were
- 26:45clearly in stage three were deeply comfortable being there and having
- 26:51stage fours to guide the organization.
- 26:54So you don'tâ¦
- 26:55To be successful in a family company, don't have to become the CEO.
- 26:59You don't have to be stage four.
- 27:01Norm Smallwood: No.
- 27:01Adam Hatcher: to become a
- 27:02Norm Smallwood: Mmhmm
- 27:03Adam Hatcher: It's what can you be, and being really great at it, and
- 27:06being willing to go if you're able.
- 27:11Norm Smallwood: Yeah.
- 27:12No, I, I love the, the story of Willie G.
- 27:14I, I, I mean, I've, I've, uh, my fond recollection of, of working with
- 27:21Willie G, and I've got today the Ride Free Willie G, um, uh, autograph that
- 27:29I asked him for at the, at the end.
- 27:31But, uh, yeah, he was, uh, he, heâ¦
- 27:36I was supposed to coach him for an afternoon and, and on some 360
- 27:42feedback that he had, and he said, "Do you mind if we don't do this?
- 27:47Because I really hate this kind of stuff."
- 27:49And, and I, and I said, "You know, it's fine with me."
- 27:53So we went to his house, and he showed me his, uh, collection of motorcycles, and it
- 27:59was one of the most memorable days for me.
- 28:03Willie G didn't move a, an inch on his, uh, people leadership
- 28:08skills, and, uh, I became a raving fan of, of Harley-Davidson.
- 28:15So, um, I think it was a great trade-off for me
- 28:19Adam Hatcher: And if you hear that story and he's the, the CEO,
- 28:23it would make your hair curl.
- 28:25But what I love is for the chief style officer
- 28:30Norm Smallwood: it was great.
- 28:31Adam Hatcher: that is right on.
- 28:33Norm Smallwood: Yeah.
- 28:34Yeah
- 28:35Adam Hatcher: I want them to hear it's not that Adam and Norm are saying to be
- 28:38successful you need to become stage four.
- 28:40If you wanna be the CEO, you need to become
- 28:43You need to work to stage four.
- 28:45But know where you are.
- 28:46You did this with me.
- 28:48to be the best you can in that stage, and be willing, if
- 28:51you're capable, being pushed.
- 28:54And if you're evaluating family members, don't be afraid to give
- 28:59them a stage one, two, three, four look, 'cause ultimately it's gonna
- 29:02help them and help the organization.
- 29:05Norm, this is such a huge
- 29:07Norm Smallwood: Good
- 29:07Adam Hatcher: family companies and talent and evaluating, and I am deeply thankful
- 29:11to you for both this model and for taking the time to walk through it with us,
- 29:16because I think for all the complicated leadership ideas and models out there,
- 29:21this is one of the best, simplest, but most challenging ways of looking at it.
- 29:26Thank you so much for walking this through.
- 29:29Norm Smallwood: Great to talk to you all the time, Adam, and, uh, enjoyed it a lot.
- 29:33And this is such a-- it's, it's a very helpful perspective to have and, you know,
- 29:40a good framework is, uh, is really useful
- 29:45Adam Hatcher: When Norm and I finished this conversation, I just want you to
- 29:48know I walked away from the microphone with a huge smile on my face.
- 29:54He is so fun to talk to, wise, insightful, honest, kind, but challenging.
- 30:02The podcast reminded me of the roughly two years we spent doing some deep looking at
- 30:10and restructuring of my family's company.
- 30:13I hope you got to experience just a bit of that in episode one and episode two.
- 30:19Two things I want to provide to you in the show notes.
- 30:23There is a link to RBL's website.
- 30:26There you can get in touch with Norm or the other consultants
- 30:29that Norm works with.
- 30:31That's how I got introduced to them, and I encourage you to do the same.
- 30:35Even in the first conversation, you will learn things about
- 30:38yourself and the company.
- 30:40And then since we concluded the podcast and the recording of it, Norm and
- 30:45I talked, and he wanted to make his four stages assessment available to
- 30:51family companies regardless of size.
- 30:55So you don't have to be one of these large international publicly
- 30:59traded companies to get access to what I think is a critical aid in
- 31:04helping you and your family company.
- 31:06My email address is in the show notes for this episode.
- 31:10If you send an email to me and ask for that, I'll connect you with the
- 31:15assessment, and Norm and I want to provide that to you just to give
- 31:20you a little bit more of an insight.
- 31:21So the show notes has a link to Norm and also to my email address
- 31:25to ask for the four stages.
- 31:28I hope episodes one and two combined help you get an additional insight
- 31:34into yourself, your company, the people who work there, both your
- 31:39family and non-family members, and I hope you've got a couple of things
- 31:42that you can do to help you on your way to building a great company while
- 31:49you keep your family together with a chaos proof in our family business.
- 31:54Until next time, as my grandfather would have said, thank you so
- 31:59very, very much for listening