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INTERVIEW: NeNe Leakes & Sierra Gates Talk 'Me & My Homegirl' Podcast, Love & Hip Hop, Real Housewives + More · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning.
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  Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 3: Morning everybody, It's d j en Vy, Jesse, Hilarry Charlamagne,
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  Speaker 3: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got some
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  Speaker 3: special guests in the building.
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  Speaker 2: You're talking crazy.
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  Speaker 4: They got a new podcast, Me and My Homegirl.
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  Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen.
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  Speaker 4: We have needy leaks in Sierra Gates. Welcome. They just
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  Speaker 4: said they want to go home.
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  Speaker 1: All I you said was three inches ain't nothing. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: what those three inches? But three inches you were trying
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  Speaker 1: to how you gotta you know, she was talking about
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  Speaker 1: the snow.
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  Speaker 2: We don't want That's what it was.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want either. Three inches.
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  Speaker 5: Snow shuts the city of Atlanta down.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, one of last time snowed in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 4: You remember it was years ago, a couple of years ago.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, and a couple of years ago.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. The man got a long time and.
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  Speaker 4: We haven't so your flight to cancel going back home.
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  Speaker 1: They haven't castled yet, but they said the kind of
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  Speaker 1: like they guessed the night. I'm hoping that they let
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  Speaker 1: mins go.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, she want to go home.
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  Speaker 1: I want to go home, but okay, I'll stay here
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  Speaker 1: and go to that restaurant. You know that restaurant.
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  Speaker 2: Restaurant you don't want to get free.
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  Speaker 1: The Laddy said, they're not paying me.
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  Speaker 6: I'm not gonna put them out there.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, it's a good restaurant. Those guys from you know,
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  Speaker 1: out of the country, that restaurant.
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  Speaker 6: You got a podcast, this bunch of out of the country, right.
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  Speaker 2: Well, good morning for both of you.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning.
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  Speaker 4: So we got to talk this podcast. How you get
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  Speaker 4: together to do this podcast?
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  Speaker 1: Oh? I found this girl somewhere. I'm just we really
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  Speaker 1: kind of found each other. We really did. People don't
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  Speaker 1: know that Sierra and I have been friends for a
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  Speaker 1: very long time. I don't think you've ever supposed to
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  Speaker 1: know together. I don't think we've ever real.
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  Speaker 3: Friends and housewive friends because.
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  Speaker 1: Even watch Housewise, I know she's like I have never
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  Speaker 1: episode of Housewives.
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  Speaker 6: TV.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't believe that you see the episode of.
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  Speaker 6: Real Housewives and seeing clips on Instagram. Okay, but I
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  Speaker 6: have never watched it. But I always just love Meini,
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  Speaker 6: like she's our honey. Like I just love her.
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  Speaker 2: So what did you see that you love?
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  Speaker 6: She just I don't know, she just was always.
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  Speaker 2: I'm trying to get her to she watched Loving Hip
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  Speaker 2: Real Housewives.
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  Speaker 6: You see what you watch, I said, I said, I
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  Speaker 6: like Leani because she was loud and just like and
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  Speaker 6: glam you.
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  Speaker 2: She said, I'm not somebody got in this room right now.
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  Speaker 2: Somebody got it on them right now.
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  Speaker 1: Please don't try that like I'm loud. I am not loud.
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  Speaker 6: It's like a ghetto loud. But yeah, because you guys know, like.
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  Speaker 2: A ghetto loud.
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  Speaker 6: No wait, we're just get a ghetto.
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  Speaker 1: We're a little ratchet that you're.
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  Speaker 6: Allowed hip hop at that's your personality.
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  Speaker 1: If anybody was gonna be on my side, I thought
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  Speaker 1: it would have been.
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  Speaker 7: You know, you just love them.
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  Speaker 6: They all they are low voice people.
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  Speaker 1: You have voice person.
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  Speaker 8: And you've got a big personality. This morning, Yes, you
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  Speaker 8: made all these coins, all these.
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  Speaker 7: I don't ever I made coins that thing.
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  Speaker 6: Where's the money?
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  Speaker 2: Crazy?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 1: But Sierra. I always love Sierra. I will watch her
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  Speaker 1: promote her businesses online all the time. I said, this
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  Speaker 1: girl is really somebody.
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  Speaker 4: I did want and I.
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  Speaker 1: Loved her way back in the day when you were
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  Speaker 1: married to the other guy, because you know, she loves
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  Speaker 1: to get married Jesus the guy, and and I was married.
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  Speaker 6: I was married to my first husband who I was
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  Speaker 6: with for two years, and I was just watching that
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  Speaker 6: I liked.
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  Speaker 1: And I love that she was a single mom. I
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  Speaker 1: was a single mom also by myself, so I love
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  Speaker 1: that about her. And you a hustler.
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  Speaker 6: And then when we actually got well how we met
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  Speaker 6: is we kept bumping into each other and we were
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  Speaker 6: by ourselves. Every time we see each other at the bar,
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  Speaker 6: we see each other at the Nelson. We just kept
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  Speaker 6: seeing each other and we was always by by ourselves,
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  Speaker 6: and we was like, damn we really, I said, I
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  Speaker 6: be by myself. She was like me too, and we
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  Speaker 6: were just like, let's be friends. And when we actually
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  Speaker 6: became and honestly us growing to be friends, it was
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  Speaker 6: kind of just like it was a little by little
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  Speaker 6: because we both the same. We don't like to do
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  Speaker 6: too much.
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  Speaker 1: I think people don't realize that. They like they said,
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  Speaker 1: you have I have a big person. They don't understand
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  Speaker 1: what I'm kind of by myself, by yourself. I really
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  Speaker 1: like a loner.
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  Speaker 6: I do a lot of travel.
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  Speaker 1: I traveled by myself.
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  Speaker 6: I couldn't.
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  Speaker 1: I go to restaurant. People. Do I have support help?
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  Speaker 1: But I mean I'm really by myself and I have
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  Speaker 1: a security meet me on one end or something, but
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  Speaker 1: I'll get on the plane and then they don't meet me.
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  Speaker 1: But I travel by myself. I shop by myself. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like me shopping by myself. When somebody's with me,
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  Speaker 1: they hold me down, like I feel like I could
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  Speaker 1: do it quicker. I get in my car. I just
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  Speaker 1: do things by myself, and I'm my own best friend.
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  Speaker 1: I really like being by myself. Yeah, and it's just
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  Speaker 1: too confrontational sometimes.
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  Speaker 7: So how you so how you end up doing the
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  Speaker 7: podcast with you on your home? Girl like being by
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  Speaker 7: yourself so much.
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  Speaker 1: Because we were running into each other being by ourselves.
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  Speaker 1: She would be by herself. I'll be by myself. We
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  Speaker 1: both are kind of love of girls. We kind of
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  Speaker 1: love to be like, you know, more with our guide
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  Speaker 1: than I love my girls. I'm a girls girl, but
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  Speaker 1: I like being with my guy. I like being by myself.
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  Speaker 1: I'm okay with all of those.
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  Speaker 6: A lot of people don't know how much we have,
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  Speaker 6: Like we have so much in coming it's almost crazy.
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  Speaker 6: Sometimes when I'm talking to her, I feel like I'm
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  Speaker 6: talking to myself, like down to the family, down to
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  Speaker 6: how like we're real picky about our gland like we
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  Speaker 6: look we glam girls. We shave every day like we
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  Speaker 6: love we still a snowble we like.
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  Speaker 9: We just like that.
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  Speaker 6: Much every other day. Whatever we like to grooming, we like.
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  Speaker 6: We like to every day about we talk about it.
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  Speaker 6: We love love, we love relationships, we love perfume. We
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  Speaker 6: like doing the same ship we love. We'll dress up
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  Speaker 6: and just go to the bar and go eat and
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  Speaker 6: go home.
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  Speaker 1: Like my favorite thing to do is get your restaurant.
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  Speaker 1: I don't see you being with people. I see you
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  Speaker 1: being a loaner kind of like are you sort of
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  Speaker 1: kind of a loaner?
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  Speaker 2: I'm a cancer at home, like being at home with
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  Speaker 2: my wife, my kids. I don't Yeah, I don't like
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  Speaker 2: going out like I shave. I don't shave every day.
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  Speaker 1: You know we do. We're gonna get you.
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  Speaker 6: Married, Yeah, I always know. I'm saying. I don't. I
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  Speaker 6: be by myself, like I don't hang with a lot
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  Speaker 6: of women. That makes but I be with my men, like.
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  Speaker 1: My men, especially this one.
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  Speaker 6: But you know what I wasn't. I wasn't as clingy
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  Speaker 6: with my in my other relationship.
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  Speaker 1: You wasn't.
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  Speaker 6: No, I was not.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: I didn't hang with them like that. Like I was
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  Speaker 6: almost never with them, but with was they it's bad.
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  Speaker 6: Like I'd be like, please come with me, come with me,
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  Speaker 6: come with me.
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  Speaker 1: So how long y'all back together?
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  Speaker 6: Because they had been fast, He's, well, he's my old
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  Speaker 6: best friend. It's close friends brother, so we grew up together.
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  Speaker 6: We've been on each other since we was kids, and
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  Speaker 6: actually throughout all my relationships.
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  Speaker 4: He was on you for a long time.
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  Speaker 2: He was just waiting. He was just waiting for that slip.
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  Speaker 6: Me and Shooter had a conversation. Yeah, a couple, Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: come on, and so he mentioned he was like, do
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  Speaker 6: you remember that you you you talked about Day like
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  Speaker 6: you you told me about him and I was like seventeen.
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  Speaker 6: Then he was like, you remember Day was bothering you
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  Speaker 6: when you was in a relationship with me? And I
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  Speaker 6: was like, yeah, so a relationship I was in.
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  Speaker 4: He was, how does he slide back in?
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  Speaker 1: Was it? Hey?
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  Speaker 4: Big head on?
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  Speaker 2: DM?
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  Speaker 9: I did.
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  Speaker 6: I was cussing my ex out and he kind of
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  Speaker 6: hate be kidding me, and then I'm like, boy, but
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  Speaker 6: it's ours. This is my friend's brother. So it's like, okay,
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  Speaker 6: base all you like I know? Yeah, yeah, No, I
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  Speaker 6: was not.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a cheater.
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  Speaker 7: And you also had a health scare after a tattoo. Yeah,
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  Speaker 7: I did everything okay with that.
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  Speaker 6: I think I wish I could have seen it because
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  Speaker 6: it's from the bottom of my from the bottom of
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  Speaker 6: my legs to all the way to the top, and
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  Speaker 6: something that should have took me a year, I did
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  Speaker 6: it in a day and my body just after the
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  Speaker 6: numb and cream wore off. Shout out to my sonumb
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  Speaker 6: because it works really good. It allowed me to get
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  Speaker 6: twenty hours worth of tattooing and I didn't feel nothing,
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  Speaker 6: but when my when my hours, yep, but when my
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  Speaker 6: girl loved it. But when but when my body like
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  Speaker 6: woke up, it was just like, no, this is not right.
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  Speaker 6: What are you doing? And then that's you know, when
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  Speaker 6: it shot back at me. But you're okay for sure?
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  Speaker 6: Now I'm okay, Yeah got it. Now, I am kind
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  Speaker 6: of scared to get some tattoos.
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  Speaker 4: You just don't do a twenty hour session.
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  Speaker 6: That's was I mean, we stopped a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, Nina, you got to show about love
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  Speaker 1: coming right, I show about love? Yeah, No, I did,
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  Speaker 1: It's over. We've already shot it and everything when's it
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  Speaker 1: come up? I don't know today.
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  Speaker 2: So is it like you're trying to find a man
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  Speaker 2: like for the love of Nini?
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, not trying to find the love
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  Speaker 1: of nik Now I'm actually hooking other people up. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: but yeah, I would like to get hooked up.
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  Speaker 2: What's you know? I thought you had a booth. I
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  Speaker 2: thought you had some African man.
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  Speaker 4: Why is it always some African man?
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  Speaker 1: I don't don't.
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  Speaker 6: Stop. Mini loved her African, she loved her food.
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  Speaker 4: I love my goals. That's the restaurant.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, right, well, I want nobody.
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  Speaker 4: African food to just put to.
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  Speaker 6: I love African ipet married like that's gonna be.
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  Speaker 1: She was Fuddy.
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  Speaker 2: Was up here with what was the brother name?
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  Speaker 4: That was all.
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  Speaker 2: He was about to send the suits suits a bunch
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  Speaker 2: of hours. Now, everybody, let me ask you.
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  Speaker 1: So I'll close.
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  Speaker 6: Are you with Amy from Loving Hip Hoopulanta? We're not
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  Speaker 6: close it?
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  Speaker 2: Okay?
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  Speaker 6: So who is that some one who just got u engaged.
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  Speaker 1: To Dwight Howard? Oh yeah, she worked on hip hop? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she on there, she on there?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, just watch the doing the podcast. So when y'all
• 11:01
  Speaker 4: think about that mass this this podcast.
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  Speaker 9: With Homegirl and Homegirl. I mean me is here.
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  Speaker 1: Or are you talking about the other people? I'm talking
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  Speaker 1: about about the you.
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  Speaker 6: Know you said about him her relationship?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Are they in Atlanta? Yes, they are there.
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  Speaker 1: They're there and they're engaged.
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  Speaker 9: Love is love, you know love.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, maybe she's going to be the start to something. Okay,
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  Speaker 6: o the world?
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  Speaker 7: You know, so, what can we expecting me and my homegirl,
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  Speaker 7: because it seemed like y'all talk about a lot in private,
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  Speaker 7: ya ain't somebody.
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  Speaker 1: What can we expect? You know? So from our podcast.
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  Speaker 1: One of the things that Sierr and I kind of
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  Speaker 1: pride ourselves on is being just really really very bong
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  Speaker 1: and and talking about any and everything. So we don't
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: want to be one of those podcasts where you're just
• 11:54
  Speaker 1: interviewing people all the time. We want to talk about
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  Speaker 1: everything from pop culture to love, relationship, politics, nothing's off limits.
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  Speaker 1: We'd love to do some interviews, but we don't want
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  Speaker 1: that to just be our focus just trying to get
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  Speaker 1: people to interview. We want to do everything and talk
• 12:09
  Speaker 1: about any and everything. And I think one of the
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  Speaker 1: things one of the reasons why people will really love
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  Speaker 1: our podcast is because we just keep it real. We
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  Speaker 1: just be ourselves and just talk about whatever. I'm an
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  Speaker 1: open book. You guys literally can ask me anything.
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  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 1: Whether I ask it or not, that's another story. But
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  Speaker 1: I am truly an open book. I can talk about anything.
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  Speaker 1: We talk about plastic surgery because so many people accuse
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  Speaker 1: us of having plastic surgery. We talk about any and everything.
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  Speaker 1: Love sex.
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  Speaker 2: With you, about that a lot lately.
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  Speaker 1: Even talk to me a lot about plastic surgery. And filter. Yeah, filter,
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  Speaker 1: I've had so I get this all the time. I
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  Speaker 1: am a walking filter, and I really understand one and two.
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  Speaker 1: I believe everybody that talks about plastic surgery.
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  Speaker 6: They could have one they wanted.
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  Speaker 1: I've never had a fucking facelift. I've never had a
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  Speaker 1: knife to you sitting here looking at me, aren't you okay?
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  Speaker 1: When you have a face like you killed? You know
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  Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. I've had my boobs done, I've
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  Speaker 1: had life osuction. I do think feelers and tux feelers
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  Speaker 1: talk like why not? Yeah, I mean I have the
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  Speaker 1: money to do it. I'm in the public eye. I
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  Speaker 1: want to look great, so why not do it? My
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  Speaker 1: man or the man I've dated, haven't had a problem said,
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  Speaker 1: you're not with this on African man. First of all,
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  Speaker 1: I am not a woman that I was with an
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  Speaker 1: American man for twenty five years. Okay, so I happen
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  Speaker 1: to have dated an African guy. He's the first African
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  Speaker 1: guy I ever dated before. I do like Africans, they do.
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  Speaker 4: I do myself so crazy.
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  Speaker 1: African man. But he's the first African guy I've ever dated,
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  Speaker 1: ever been in a relationship with. I love their culture.
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  Speaker 1: I do like them. They tend to day women a
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  Speaker 1: lot larger than I am. You know, with all of
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  Speaker 1: these stings. You know you said they don't like women
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  Speaker 1: with surgery, Well they date women with huge butts and
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  Speaker 1: stuff like that. And I don't have a huge azz
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  Speaker 1: and all of that. But it's far Oh yeah, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: I got a nice ass. Now we're gonna make sure
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  Speaker 1: that now. Okay, But as far as surgery is concerned, yes,
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  Speaker 1: if I need anything, I will one hundred percent go
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  Speaker 1: and get it. Have you always felt like I've always
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: we just talked about groomy. I really believe in groomy
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  Speaker 1: looking nice. I'm not one of those girls who's gonna
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  Speaker 1: sit around my house and look crazy like I just
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  Speaker 1: don't think whether my guy said's okay. I just don't
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  Speaker 1: think that he really believes that. In the back, I
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  Speaker 1: always thought, yeah, I'm gonna be flying now all the time.
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  Speaker 1: You could count on that. I don't believe that guys
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  Speaker 1: love for you to sit at home and look like
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  Speaker 1: a maid. I don't think that it may be okay
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  Speaker 1: for a day or two, but after that, go and
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  Speaker 1: clean up your eye luge, go get a facial. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta look good for these guys. And I'm not doing
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: it for them, honestly, I'm doing it for myself. But
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  Speaker 1: I do like for my guy to see me looking nice,
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  Speaker 1: and I like my guy to look nice too. I
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: like them to be well groomed. I like them to
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  Speaker 1: smell really good. Like all those things are important to me.
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  Speaker 2: Is it hard to find a man being Meani Leaks?
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  Speaker 1: It's hard to find Like a lot of guys, I'm
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  Speaker 1: friends with them, like I'm like, I like, I'm like like,
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  Speaker 1: I like guys even to be my friend. Even though
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: I like girls, I really like dude and so a
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: lot of guys I'm cool with, so I'm not attracted
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  Speaker 1: to them sexually. So it does take a special guy,
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  Speaker 1: and that guy has to have a lot of things.
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  Speaker 2: Is it hard to find somebody who's emotionally available?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, men are not emotionally available, and that's another problem.
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  Speaker 1: Something happened to Yeah, but I like a guy who
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  Speaker 1: has his own I like a guy who is very
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  Speaker 1: well groomed. I like a guy with personality, like a
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  Speaker 1: guy who likes to laugh and travel and all of
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  Speaker 1: those things. But I also want somebody that can lift
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  Speaker 1: me up and that can pour into me and I
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: can pour into them. I love a guy that wants
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: to communicate and talk and all of those things. So
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: I have my own stuff. So you have to coming
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: with a lot. Yeah, you can find a man in
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: every five seconds.
• 16:19
  Speaker 6: Like I can't do this, but no, let's and let's
• 16:23
  Speaker 6: stop because she's been wait but no, but but listen,
• 16:32
  Speaker 6: but listen to this. Listen to this. First of all,
• 16:34
  Speaker 6: the second one only lasts like six months. And I was,
• 16:37
  Speaker 6: I was, and you can't.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to discount we weren't together. That wasn't real.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: Yes I do.
• 16:47
  Speaker 6: I mean, I'm a love girl.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: I love love.
• 16:50
  Speaker 6: But I will say, just because I've openly had these relationships, I.
• 16:54
  Speaker 9: Can count on one and one more hand how many guys,
• 16:58
  Speaker 9: I ever, how many? How many?
• 17:07
  Speaker 6: How many girls could actually say that they did that,
• 17:11
  Speaker 6: like for real, just being honestly.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: Our our.
• 17:17
  Speaker 6: Yeah, because and it's like because, oh, because I lived
• 17:20
  Speaker 6: my life out loud. I'm on teeth on television. Oh
• 17:23
  Speaker 6: you you go to man, No, I don't. I've had
• 17:26
  Speaker 6: sex with less than I know a billion girls that
• 17:29
  Speaker 6: elf way more than me.
• 17:31
  Speaker 9: Guys.
• 17:31
  Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, judging me. I'm a lover
• 17:35
  Speaker 6: of girls.
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: I am a girl.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: You have six guys and three of them married you.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: That's actually fantastic.
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: That's why I said.
• 17:43
  Speaker 6: And honestly and I and I am an open book.
• 17:45
  Speaker 6: I talk about everything. Just you know that I don't
• 17:48
  Speaker 6: have nothing. I talk about my lips, I talk about
• 17:51
  Speaker 6: my butt shots. I talk about I'm an open book
• 17:54
  Speaker 6: because I always say that my testimony could save somebody. Yeah,
• 17:58
  Speaker 6: so it's okay, I did, but I want people.
• 18:00
  Speaker 9: And I'm saying, no, I'm not.
• 18:03
  Speaker 6: I'm not offended about that because that's my life and
• 18:06
  Speaker 6: that's my truth. I'm never offended. But what I am
• 18:08
  Speaker 6: offended by because it's just like the narrative I go
• 18:11
  Speaker 6: from I'm with men at the man at the man.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: That's not true.
• 18:15
  Speaker 6: But I don't do the world though they'll do that
• 18:18
  Speaker 6: to me.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: I don't feel that way. You can. You really are
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: like guys like.
• 18:23
  Speaker 6: You you get a man.
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, the guys me ask you a question, if your
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: husband loves you the way you are, would you still
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: want to do whatever?
• 18:30
  Speaker 4: But more butt shot to because he loves you how
• 18:33
  Speaker 4: you are. So he's like, don't do nothing more.
• 18:35
  Speaker 6: I did that, I did well. I love my lips.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: I do that.
• 18:38
  Speaker 6: I did that for me. Everything I did, I did
• 18:40
  Speaker 6: for me. I don't care what my husbands said.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: I did that for me.
• 18:45
  Speaker 6: Yeah, because I was married three times, but I did
• 18:48
  Speaker 6: that for me. But now I would. When I got
• 18:51
  Speaker 6: my butt shots, I was like seventeen, eighteen years old,
• 18:53
  Speaker 6: I would love to get them taken out. I talk
• 18:55
  Speaker 6: about it. I am advocate telling younger I'm off home.
• 19:00
  Speaker 6: When I was sixteen, I ain't seen my mom house
• 19:02
  Speaker 6: and I was sixteen years old.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: I'm just curious.
• 19:04
  Speaker 6: Ye last she wasn't at my last wedding. Me and
• 19:08
  Speaker 6: my mom has that's my girl. My mom is an
• 19:11
  Speaker 6: amazing woman. She's always been a hustler. I watch her
• 19:15
  Speaker 6: in and out of jail. My whole life, trying to
• 19:17
  Speaker 6: take care of me, stealing whatever she got to do
• 19:19
  Speaker 6: to take care of her girls. She love her girls.
• 19:21
  Speaker 6: But it's just you know, family sometimes because the last
• 19:25
  Speaker 6: we just got into it. Remember the whole shit that
• 19:27
  Speaker 6: happened with the sisters.
• 19:28
  Speaker 9: On the Instagram.
• 19:29
  Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I just decided to fix my relationship with
• 19:35
  Speaker 6: my mom because that's my mom. You only get one.
• 19:37
  Speaker 6: But my sisters, they they're not dead to me. I'm
• 19:41
  Speaker 6: just you know, you're just taking a step taking a
• 19:44
  Speaker 6: step back like a big ass step bag.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: Wh they always got the hand out.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: No not.
• 19:49
  Speaker 6: I mean, well, I have done a lot for my family,
• 19:51
  Speaker 6: but I just feel like it's some type of jealousy
• 19:55
  Speaker 6: in it. That's just how I genuinely feel. I can't
• 19:58
  Speaker 6: help that this is the life that God shall for me.
• 20:00
  Speaker 6: And honestly, like I fought my I fought hard to
• 20:03
  Speaker 6: get here, Like I went through a lot, you get
• 20:05
  Speaker 6: what I'm saying. So everything that I'm doing in life,
• 20:09
  Speaker 6: it's all Guy's grace. I came a long way. So
• 20:12
  Speaker 6: it's like people be jealous that what they see, but
• 20:15
  Speaker 6: they don't even know what you went through and what
• 20:17
  Speaker 6: it took for you to get to this point.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Oh, I know when you're in the public eye, and
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: that's not for me.
• 20:23
  Speaker 6: Nini have been coming because she helped me with that.
• 20:25
  Speaker 6: We've been about our family stuff all the time.
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: Together, Nina, You and the public gye crazy. Everybody asked
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: the same question all the time.
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: A million and one bring her back please? And Real Housewives?
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: Would you come back? Did you make up? When Andy co?
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: When is that a possibility of y'all in meetings, conversations
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: starts anything.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: Well, we're not in meetings. We did settle our dispute
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: with each other. I don't know if I go back
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: to Housewives, I don't know what that looks like for me,
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: but I won't say never. If they got to check,
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: that's got zeros. They roast, they wrote zeros, they wrote
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: on the end. You know I might be back. I
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: When you say set of their dispute was a financial settlement.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: I can't say. But we did settle everything.
• 21:09
  Speaker 4: You Andy cool? Now y'all speaking?
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: No, No, I haven't spoken to him. No, but I'm
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: not again speaking to him. But I haven't spoken to him.
• 21:16
  Speaker 5: It'd be a no brainer. I mean, I know, you
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: get this all the time, but it's kind of ridiculous
• 21:20
  Speaker 5: that they haven't.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, I do miss the trips,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: I do miss the check I don't miss the arguments.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: And I felt like if I was there, they would
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: have to put a certain girls around, like all of
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: those girls that are there, and now I don't even
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: know who they are. Yeah, we don't even did so
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: Keny and I have been texting anyway, Like when she
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: went through this whole thing, whatever happened with her exiting
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: the show, we text a few times. I was in
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: London celebrating my birthday. She was there. We text, we
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: were gonna try to have tea, but we couldn't, and
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: just so happened. We bumped into each other in the
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: airport and so we're cool. I'm cool with all of
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: those girls. I don't have an issue. You know, when
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: you're on the show, the show kind of pitch you
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: up against each other. But I don't have an issue
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: with any of the girls. No one, not anybody.
• 22:16
  Speaker 5: Did you say anything because I know she was praising
• 22:18
  Speaker 5: your looks, but this she also said you need to
• 22:19
  Speaker 5: lay off the field.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: No, we talked in the airport. First of all, I
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: told her that. They said, I think her and Candy
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: were saying, let's give Ninny you know, her props or
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: or something like you don't give people their props and
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: then throw shade trees, honey. And then she said what
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: I was talking about the filter, But honey, you use
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: filters too. I don't know anybody that's posting their pictures
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: without a filter. Most women are posting their pictures with
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: a filter, and they're cleaning up their picture. Now, if
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: you look absolutely different in person, they your picture on Instagram.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: Now that's another story when you say, that's a different story,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: but that's not what's happening over here. I use a filter,
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: and I am the filter.
• 23:03
  Speaker 6: Okay, exactly, Okay, okay, Kenya.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: Okay, because these girls need to use filters too. Yeah,
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: I see them in the airport. I see girls on Instagram.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: They look great on Instagram. You see them in person,
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: you be like, this is.
• 23:19
  Speaker 9: The same person.
• 23:20
  Speaker 6: How did ken you look at the.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: Well?
• 23:26
  Speaker 6: You know, you know, I don't.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: I just keep it really telling, like, you know, I'm
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: never afraid of any of those girls. She looked okay.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: She wasn't looking her best, yeah, but she looked okay.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: She could have used the hairdo and a filter.
• 23:38
  Speaker 5: But you know what I like about at least I
• 23:41
  Speaker 5: haven't seen you publicly clap back at anybody.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: I've seen people say thinking about you, and I haven't
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: heard you.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: I didn't say anything. You know why, because I'm grown now.
• 23:49
  Speaker 9: You know.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: I may have been a little bit more immature then,
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: but now this stuff just really don't bother me. It
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: really doesn't for somebody to talk about plastic sirts like
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: cut it out. All these girls got fake asses and
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: fake t This don't come over here with that bas
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: All these girls got fakes. So so you're gonna talk
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: to me about fake like that's crazy. Everybody's wearing wigs
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: and weaves and extensions like cut it out. Like I'm
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: not doing anything that no one else is in doing.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: I'm not walking around with a big ass that look
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: absolutely bananas. I don't even have that much ass.
• 24:19
  Speaker 4: Have you spoke to Peter Thomas with all the stuff
• 24:22
  Speaker 4: that's going on.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: I haven't spoken to Peter, but I see Peter often.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: We don't live that far from each other, but I
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: haven't spoken to him. I will speak to him. I
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: will speak to Peter because me and Peter go way back.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: And I don't have a problem with Peter, and I
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: really do hate that this is happening to him. So, yeah,
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: Peter is my brother. I love Peter.
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: Do you reach out to people like when you see
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: like porschea going through a divorce or anything.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: Yes. So when Porsche was going through her divorce, you know,
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: she was married to Simon. Simon I was dating Yannie.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: They're both African guys. They hung out together, we hung out,
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: we double dated and all those things. And I was
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: talking to her during that time and I was doing
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: this show called The Upshaws, and she kind of was
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: like she didn't want to do the Upshaws with me.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: She didn't tell me that. He told the production crew,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: and the production told us that, you know that. I
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: don't believe it's the truth. It's the truth. She did that.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Nothing happened. She did that. She said that, that's the truth.
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: I did it. They brought in Cynthia Bailey the next
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: day and Cynthia shot the scene with me. It was
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: supposed to be portion and I I did not know that,
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: and I don't think Porsche knew that until we arrived
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: to set that we were both going to be shooting
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: the scene together and set. Yeah, she was on set
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: the day before. She had gone in to do her
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: fittings and things, and I going in the next day
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: to do my fitting. And the following day we were
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: going to shoot the scene and Porscha didn't show up
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: and they went scrambling and they ended up flying Cynthia
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: Bailey in and she did it. But Portia did do that.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: That's honest, true. It doesn't really matter to me. I
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: haven't spoken to her since I don't have I don't know,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: it's been months. The show just aired like yesterday or
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: the day before.
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: Yes, a personal issue and I don't have a book
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: with her in her life.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: Like no, I don't think so. But listen, I don't care.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: Why would they even tell you that.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: To tell you that, Yeah, because they were in a
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: frenzy and we weren't shooting, and my manager did some
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: digging and asked somebody that was on set and they
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: told us what happened. But listen, I'm still not mad.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I really don't care. Uh, it's not that serious to me.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: You can text her right now, so can I. In fact,
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: I have the text messages because I did text her
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: when it happened, and I told her, and so I
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: did text her.
• 26:45
  Speaker 5: Wow.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: But it doesn't matter. Listen, if you don't want to
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: work with somebody, that's fine with me. You don't have
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: to work with me. I think that's bad business on
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: your behalf to show up somewhere and be like, you
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: know what, I don't want to work with Charlemagne today.
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: Happens all the time, every day.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: I'm not even mad about that stuff. It just is
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: not that serious to me. Some stuff is so petty.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: These girls really do think that they're bigger stars than
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: they really are. So it's really okay with me.
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: There you go.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: I'm not honestly, I'm not. I promise you that I'm
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: so an adult now. I really that's why you haven't
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: heard me clap back at somebody, because so many people
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: are like, I know, need me gonna come back and
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: say something.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: No, I'm not sitting waiting.
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: Just when I'm being asked a question. Do not get
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: mad at my response. Okay, I'm not gonna clap back
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: at you. I just don't have the time for it. Really,
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: I don't, and I don't want any confrontation. I really don't.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: I don't want any confrontation.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: Do people coming to you doing your own reality.
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: All the time? People talk to me about doing for
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: so long, people ask me to do a podcast, and
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: I never did anything. So I think it's all our timing.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: See her and I clicked, Uh, this is a great
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: time for the both of us to do it. So
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: here we are doing it. Grandma, now right, I was
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: a glandma already. And and my youngest son, Brent just
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: had a baby girl. He had a lot of health
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: challenges over the last couple of years and he had
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: a heart transplant and out of all of this, he
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: has a little daughter we love, and she will be
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: two months old. She's not even too much so yet
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: two months old. Was on the sixteen well there was.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: She just turned to this pretty little girl. So we
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: have a little girl.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: How long do you think it's gonna last.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: Between Sierra, Well, we hope it lasts for a long time.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: Like we've been very We communicate really well together. You know,
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: I don't want to be in a business relationship where
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: I can't speak my opinion and just say how I feel.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: So I see her and I just had a conversation
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: where I'm telling her how I feel and when she
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: clapped back at me she thought we were on Love
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: and Hip Hop it was but okay god, but yeah,
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: But anyway, I hope it lasts forever. I don't want
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: to get into business and get right out of business.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: But you know, there are so many podcasts out here,
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: so we want to try to bring something different. Yeah.
• 29:22
  Speaker 6: I honestly see it growing bigger than just a podcast.
• 29:25
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 29:26
  Speaker 6: I think it's gonna be like a movement.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: Well, you definitely can't teach us about entrepreneurship.
• 29:30
  Speaker 6: That's I'm like, podcast, it's just the beginning. Yeah, this
• 29:33
  Speaker 6: thing's gonna go bigger than that.
• 29:35
  Speaker 7: And reality show Yeah right, so many in my own
• 29:39
  Speaker 7: girls so relatable, and I feel like the we're gonna be.
• 29:43
  Speaker 6: Because Love and Hip Hoop the housewise, it's like they
• 29:46
  Speaker 6: keep us apart.
• 29:47
  Speaker 9: You know what I'm saying.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: She thinks that Housewives of Bougie and Oh Honey and
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: Love and Hip Hop, I think the same.
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: That's how I look at it.
• 29:55
  Speaker 5: You know, look, I mean just keeping it really want
• 29:59
  Speaker 5: I want to have both you all, because you know,
• 30:00
  Speaker 5: I saw Marlowe and she made some comments on Tiffany
• 30:03
  Speaker 5: Cross's podcast when she said how people judge you for
• 30:06
  Speaker 5: life after you do reality TV.
• 30:10
  Speaker 6: Oh that's true, that's true.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: True, it's bad.
• 30:13
  Speaker 6: Yeah, they won't even they they won't buy, they treat
• 30:18
  Speaker 6: you away that they won't even do other businesses just
• 30:21
  Speaker 6: because of reality TV.
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, people have a perception of you, you know, like
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: you guys were in here when I first walked in here.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: You guys were treating me real fucked up, trying to
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: say that I'm loud. I'm not loud. My voice is
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: very ten We've been watching you.
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: For over ten years. You guys are judging you right now.
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: Cut it out.
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: You guys are judging me. You guys have this you
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: know this thought about me because you saw me on Housewives. Actually,
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: I am soft, I am a girls, I am a
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: love girl.
• 30:54
  Speaker 9: You are.
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: I'm way more laid back and cool and chill than
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: you will ever know. I don't want no confrontation, don't start,
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: don want to be none.
• 31:03
  Speaker 7: I've done shows with you now, comedy shows, TV shows.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: I don't crush on women, but I had a crush
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: on her.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: You want to.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: Really yeah, yeah, she said if she was you know
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: from the community.
• 31:19
  Speaker 6: I don't date women, yeah, but I mean you can't
• 31:22
  Speaker 6: sleep with them.
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: Every now and then.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: No, I don't want to know we talked about that,
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: about that.
• 31:37
  Speaker 6: Yeah, we don't.
• 31:38
  Speaker 9: We don't don't.
• 31:40
  Speaker 6: We don't date girls.
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't like the smell of the coaches.
• 31:43
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean like not. I don't want nothing. I
• 31:52
  Speaker 6: know my couchie get with. I don't want nothing else
• 31:54
  Speaker 6: around me like that.
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm good he said that about ass because I like,
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: you got to clear that up. Sounds crazy. Why would
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: I want to be in another man?
• 32:11
  Speaker 4: Start like that next time?
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: Start like that? We do?
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: I mean about that in general?
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: Yes, that's crazy.
• 32:19
  Speaker 7: Yeah, did y'all did y'all plan? No, both of y'all
• 32:24
  Speaker 7: wigs are sitting. It's different bloods, But I'm yeah.
• 32:35
  Speaker 5: You think people hold grudges against you needy unnecessarily meaning
• 32:38
  Speaker 5: like they look at you.
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: It's probably like a big sister type.
• 32:41
  Speaker 5: So when they're going through things like divorces and so
• 32:44
  Speaker 5: you don't reach out to them so they feel offended.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, I reach out. Okay, no, no, no,
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: I reach out And I do take on the role
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: as a big sister. One of the things I say
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: about myself is I'm here for everybody, but nobody's here
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: for me. Yes, I always feel like that. I always
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: feel like I'm the one that's helping everybody, supporting everyone,
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: But if I'm going through something, nobody is really like
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: supporting me and helping me. I'm always considered the strong
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: one and I'm just as weak as everybody else, you know,
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: But everybody look at me as well, you know what
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: I mean. Like, I have my moments when you know,
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: when I'm like, damn, I you know, I have to
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: be there financially for everybody. I got to be there
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: mentally for everybody. And if I'm going through something, I'm like, well, damn,
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: is anybody here for me?
• 33:27
  Speaker 6: But you know, I feel like that's what made us
• 33:30
  Speaker 6: homegirls for because I'm the same way. So I pour
• 33:32
  Speaker 6: into her, like I buy her gifts and stuff and
• 33:34
  Speaker 6: she's not used to it and I'm not used to it.
• 33:36
  Speaker 6: We do it for each other, so I feel like
• 33:37
  Speaker 6: we're the same people in our families.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, people don't buy me gifts. I'm the one that's
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: mind gifts all the time.
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: That's real.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: Good people think that I have everything. I'm like, no,
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of stuff I want that's real.
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: Because I saw a video you posted a Greg rest
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: in peace.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: Did people reach out to you after that?
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: A couple of people who I do not know, strangers, not.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: Your friends, are people you consider friends.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: No, I didn't to you what you said.
• 34:04
  Speaker 6: I brought you that long ass message.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: Oh you did you the next morning I woke up
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: and saw the next morning. No, no, no, no, she
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: told me that she prayed for me and all those things.
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: But honestly, when I I did get send people DM
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: and me saying Nini, I hope you're okay. But that
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: is not why I posted the video. I actually was
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: going through my phone looking for something else and I
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: came across those videos and I just said, oh my gosh,
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: somebody post these videos because they made me smile. So
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: I just post them. But so some people did think
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: that maybe I was having an emotional day, but I wasn't. Actually,
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: it was actually a great day, and I loved those videos.
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: There's one thing Greg and I would do with Dan,
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: so I loved that video.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: Were people there for you during your grieving process the way.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: I don't particularly, No, I don't feel like that, not
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: my castmates. But they did send flowers and things like that,
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: but not there for me emotionally. You know, like grieving
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: is a very tough thing. People don't understand. It's very
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: difficult to explain to somebody losing somebody that close to you.
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: So that was a tough time. But but yeah, I'm
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: good now, I'm doing really good.
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: I'm glad. Do you even look at these people as
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: real friends though? The no? I doubt, Okay, I do not.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 35:20
  Speaker 5: No.
• 35:21
  Speaker 6: What about therapy?
• 35:21
  Speaker 9: Do you have a therapist?
• 35:23
  Speaker 5: You know why?
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: I'm just starting therapy and I have a makeup artist
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: in Houston, Texas, Elena. I thank you, Elena. And so
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: she's been with this therapist that she referred to me.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: And I'm seeing the therapist not for the grieving process.
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: I'm seeing her for something totally different. I feel like
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: the grief, I feel like I've done really well with that. Uh,
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: these are just other things that I want to talk
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: to the therapist about, my son being sick, my husband
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: passing away. You know, it's just a lot of different things.
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: I just would love to have a great outlet you
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: want to speak to. But I do feel like I'm
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: very strong minded because I have to be, you know,
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: I don't have the time to break down and cry
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: and fall out I gotta know that's not.
• 36:04
  Speaker 5: You knowing busy as a response to trauma, and.
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: You'll learn that in therapy.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: I say busy a lot.
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: It's a response to trauma. You have to try to
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: forget about everything.
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: I get down now, I'll get on the airplane and
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: be like I'm going going to Africa, like they said,
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: some money and you know, not Africa.
• 36:26
  Speaker 4: Yes, but like you said, people.
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: You check up on people all the time. Are you
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: talk about Peter? You check up on you talk about
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: all these people? The people check up on you.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: I don't feel like they really do, not that much.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: She is right that she would reach out to me
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: and a couple of people, But no, no, no, I
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: don't feel like they really do. I don't feel like
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: I have that kind of support. Do you feel like
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: I'm very like alone in this world? Yeah? I do
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: right now with my husband being gone. I really my
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: husband was a real force, you know. Yeah, he was
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: really there. Yeah, my best friend and really all about
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: his family and not having him there. Yeah, I kind
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: of feel like I'm alone in a lot of situations,
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: really really alone in a lot of situations, which is unfortunate. Right,
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm at home, like I don't have anybody. I
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: wonder who I would call kind.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: Of like, yeah, it sucks when you go through person
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: and you don't got nobody to go.
• 37:19
  Speaker 4: Nobody can reach out to you and the.
• 37:20
  Speaker 6: Only person that you had is gone, you know, to
• 37:23
  Speaker 6: avoid that.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, even my kids don't get it because they're so young,
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: Like they don't get it. I mean Rise twenty five,
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: like you know, yeah, he doesn't get it. He's still
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: very young. They don't understand like, oh my mom need me.
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: They'd be like, Mom, where are you gonna put some
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: more money in my account? Like they don't really get
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: it anyway, they don't get it yet. But yeah, thank
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: you so much. And I'm I'm sure that special so one.
• 37:45
  Speaker 4: Is it's out there.
• 37:47
  Speaker 6: He's you know, do you still speak to Kim?
• 37:50
  Speaker 4: Kim's only you don't speak to her.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: I did speak to Kim because Kim has been going
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: through her situation, her divorce. I ran into her, I
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: ran into her daughter. I've talked to Kim. I text her.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: She d MS me, like, you know, if I'm hosting something,
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: she DM me. So she seemed to be doing okay.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: She seems to be doing okay. But I don't know,
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: it's probably a tough time for her as.
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: Well me AND's still gonna get these free suits, says you?
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: And at that two years ago you eat soup?
• 38:17
  Speaker 4: No custom suits?
• 38:22
  Speaker 7: Who are almost some African guy that you dating to
• 38:26
  Speaker 7: be making suits?
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: We're gonna stick to Nini and Nini's yeah, I remember
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: his name to his name was cut it out?
• 38:35
  Speaker 5: Yo?
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: What are y'all doing?
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: Did you see Cynthia her name reveal?
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: That was so nice? Yeah? I did see that. That
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: was very nice and and thank you so much. Yeah,
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: a lot of that. Yeah, well, I we'll just have
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: to see what Bravo feels, you know. I don't know.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Imagine me being on housewived what what
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: you guys say? I feel like.
• 39:11
  Speaker 6: Regularly, really, I feel like I.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: Would be so big and sitting there and I feel
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: like the rest of the girls are going to fight
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: me and girl, I don't want to fight.
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: Stepping off the plane in Africa, welcome home?
• 39:37
  Speaker 4: What do you think about the House Wild franchise?
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: Now?
• 39:39
  Speaker 4: All I see them canceling left and right? What's canceling?
• 39:42
  Speaker 6: I did hear that?
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: Do I canceled? Oh my god? I love Dubai. What
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: do I think about it. I don't think they've been canceling.
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: I think they'll stick around. I think it's one of
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: those shows that's gonna be a reund like forever years,
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: like a soap proper. Yeah, I do. I think they
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: have lots of.
• 39:59
  Speaker 6: Legs, no matter how boring one franchise, no matter how boring.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I know they're still be around. They got
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: money over there. They got money to keep those shows
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: going and going and going.
• 40:14
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 40:14
  Speaker 6: You know you think it's about the views though, the viewership.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but they control that too. They can keep
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: that going if they want to, that part charge.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: So yes, listening Atlanta the one that's all Yeah, Atlanta,
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: Atlanta the one that probably keep Jersey.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: But well, I think Atlanta was kind of like the first.
• 40:46
  Speaker 6: So yeah, because for us, Atlanta Atlanta, we're the top show. Yeah,
• 40:50
  Speaker 6: Atlanta Atlanta just make good reality TV.
• 40:52
  Speaker 7: And speaking of loving hip hop, Atlanta, did you ever
• 40:57
  Speaker 7: feel like there was a time that you did and
• 41:00
  Speaker 7: want to do the show?
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: No more, Siera you.
• 41:02
  Speaker 7: I've watched you from the beginning on that like you've
• 41:03
  Speaker 7: been betrayed by not only like husband's relationships and all
• 41:07
  Speaker 7: of that, but like friendships too, Yeah, and then family,
• 41:11
  Speaker 7: like you put a lot of yourself out there and
• 41:13
  Speaker 7: to like learn your story a little bit, you know
• 41:15
  Speaker 7: what I mean, well a lot on the show.
• 41:17
  Speaker 6: It's been plenty of times I want to safe.
• 41:20
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 41:20
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I didn't want to do it, but I still
• 41:22
  Speaker 6: did it because again, like I feel like my life
• 41:25
  Speaker 6: is a testimony I get every time I go through something,
• 41:28
  Speaker 6: and every time I think it's like the worst that
• 41:30
  Speaker 6: I went through, especially on television, somebody come to me
• 41:33
  Speaker 6: and be like, you know how much you helped me?
• 41:34
  Speaker 6: I was liodle or whatever. So it keeps me going.
• 41:37
  Speaker 6: The family stuff, especially so many girls and that scene
• 41:41
  Speaker 6: that I deal with my mom and I you know,
• 41:43
  Speaker 6: and I told her, I said, you created this monster,
• 41:46
  Speaker 6: Like you created this monster. You get what I'm saying.
• 41:48
  Speaker 6: So it's just like those moments make me realize why,
• 41:52
  Speaker 6: you know, I should not stop and keep going. I
• 41:54
  Speaker 6: should keep going with I.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: Think Atlanta is the best weaf for love to hear
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: because New York went away.
• 41:59
  Speaker 6: And I've grown don't a lie and I can't lie.
• 42:02
  Speaker 6: Like TV helped businesses and like it really does. I
• 42:05
  Speaker 6: feel like I took the opportunity and I ran. It
• 42:07
  Speaker 6: really does, like really, I don't know what nobody.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: Else did, but like it launches you into all of
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: the real.
• 42:13
  Speaker 6: I became a serial entrepreneur, but I felt like I
• 42:16
  Speaker 6: knew that as soon as I when they found me
• 42:18
  Speaker 6: in my little shop in the hood. Baby, I was like, oh,
• 42:21
  Speaker 6: I'm about to take this ship and run like I'm
• 42:23
  Speaker 6: never coming back here. And I didn't.
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: Business business booming.
• 42:26
  Speaker 6: Ever since, it's been different. Thank God, Thank God, that's
• 42:30
  Speaker 6: good here. God is God?
• 42:32
  Speaker 9: You a hustler.
• 42:35
  Speaker 4: Check out the podcast January sixteenth. Yeah and my home girl. Yes,
• 42:40
  Speaker 4: let me appreciate you guys for joining us.
• 42:42
  Speaker 6: Thank you for having.
• 42:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, say Srogates. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Wake
• 42:50
  Speaker 4: that ass up in the morning.
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club.