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The Adventure No One Thought Abby Would Take... · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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Speaker 1: All right, Unfiltered, let's go.
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Speaker 2: Let's take this.
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Speaker 3: Either you do what Tampa Bay's best music is nine.
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Speaker 2: There is so much to catch up on this past weekend.
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Speaker 2: I feel like you were an entirely different part of
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Speaker 2: the state.
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Speaker 1: I went on a date.
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Speaker 2: There was a lot to do, and so I want
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Speaker 2: to catch up right now with Unfiltered. So first off,
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Speaker 2: if you're first joining us, it's Scotty and Abbey.
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Speaker 1: This is the Unfiltered podcast.
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Speaker 2: So if you've only listened to the show, or you've
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Speaker 2: only listened to me, or we've already begun, I knew
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Speaker 2: this is gonna happen.
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Speaker 3: I was waiting and then you wouldn't give me a pause.
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Speaker 2: So Abby's been eating in the studio for probably thirty minutes,
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Speaker 2: different things to crunch.
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Speaker 3: He's like, oh, she's eating, So she went to the
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Speaker 3: break room. She got her popcorners.
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Speaker 2: First off, I literally have already eaten like a pound
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Speaker 2: of brown beef. And so first off, I want to
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Speaker 2: make a note of the last time we hopped on.
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Speaker 2: It was right before a radio thought and then it
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Speaker 2: was straight forty eight hours of all radio, all fundraising,
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Speaker 2: all efforts in as we're at Johns Hopkins All Children's Hospital.
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Speaker 2: I want to share my thoughts on it because I
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Speaker 2: feel like this.
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Speaker 1: Is a cool space to do it.
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Speaker 2: And we're actually live on Abby's Instagram and my Instagram,
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Speaker 2: so you've never followed us there before.
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Speaker 1: Check it out.
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Speaker 2: But Abby, what were your thoughts about the radiothon Because
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Speaker 2: I've never done anything like this and I know you have,
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Speaker 2: So what were the things that you liked?
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Speaker 1: Would you want to do it again?
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Speaker 2: What were the things that came out that you're like,
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Speaker 2: wait a second, I did or I didn't enjoy.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a big charity week for me because
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Speaker 3: Thursday was Radiothon, So we were going commercial free on
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Speaker 3: our station for twenty four hours and basically just like
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Speaker 3: begging people to donate to Johns Hopkins All Children's Hospital.
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Speaker 3: And we did that for a long time. We were
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Speaker 3: there at the station. We were there at the hospital
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Speaker 3: for like what sixteen hours, and then we went to
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Speaker 3: the hotel and then we broadcasted more, and.
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Speaker 1: Then we came back and then we did some more radio.
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Speaker 3: And then I immediately went home and then the next
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Speaker 3: day drove to Bert's big venture in Orlando, where I
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Speaker 3: was helping them out for a day and then hung
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Speaker 3: out with them all on Sunday. So, I mean, I'm
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Speaker 3: used to having a little bit of stamino when it
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Speaker 3: comes to charity, but I always forget, like it never
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Speaker 3: gets easier, Like it's always it's always tough. You're given
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Speaker 3: as much of yourself as you can, and it's always
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Speaker 3: worth it, but it's pretty exhausting, I will.
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Speaker 1: Say, yeah.
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Speaker 2: I mean for me, I've never done anything like this
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Speaker 2: where it's all day we're trying to raise money.
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Speaker 1: But honestly I loved it.
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Speaker 3: You, I know, cause you you love to be out
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Speaker 3: in the world. Scotty.
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Speaker 2: I do well.
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Speaker 1: I love one. I love a cause I do love
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Speaker 1: like that cause I do.
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Speaker 2: I love being able to use this platform for something good.
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Speaker 2: And I think that sounds very cliche. It's like, oh
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Speaker 2: big woo. No, I really do, though, And I thought
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Speaker 2: it was really fun because Abby and I just started
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Speaker 2: really working together and so we're getting to like see
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Speaker 2: new chapters of each other the more things that pop up.
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Speaker 2: And there's a couple things that I noted. One, our
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Speaker 2: energy levels are very different.
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Speaker 3: It took Radiothon for you to realize how different are
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Speaker 3: energy levels.
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Speaker 2: In a arre a thing about bonding and when there's
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Speaker 2: a certain thing of like being tired together, you see
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Speaker 2: different sides of somebody. We got real.
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Speaker 3: Loopy at one point, like I started making jokes about
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Speaker 3: screwing your dad, and that's when I knew I had
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Speaker 3: You might listen to the Hey Steve, Steve knows like
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Speaker 3: Steve and I were together last week. Oh my god,
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Speaker 3: Steve and I were texting right before we got on
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Speaker 3: the call.
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Speaker 1: I'm literally sweating.
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Speaker 2: He might be watching this live as we talk.
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Speaker 3: I know Steve and I are really close. My name.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, we're in the middle of the radio thon
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Speaker 2: and it's like literally like let's raise money, let's help
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Speaker 2: these kids get like new chemo infusion chairs. And then
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Speaker 2: as soon as we go off the air, like Abby's
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Speaker 2: just super loopy, she's super tired, and she starts saying
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Speaker 2: things like that like, oh, that's what your dad said
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Speaker 2: last week.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, where did this come from?
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Speaker 2: And it just became so funny to see, like where
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Speaker 2: your mind goes when you get delusionally tired.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's definitely my sense of humor. But I think
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Speaker 3: it's also something it's a coping mechanism. I think I
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Speaker 3: picked up from Bird's Big Adventure, because we're all kind
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Speaker 3: of like that. Because Bird's Big Adventure, for those who
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Speaker 3: don't know what Birt's Big Adventure is, it's like a
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Speaker 3: five day trip where we take kids with chronic and
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Speaker 3: terminal illnesses to Disney and it's such a special trip.
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Speaker 3: And every year it becomes more special to me because
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Speaker 3: I love the people that I get to do it with.
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Speaker 3: But you start to really fully understand the impact it
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Speaker 3: has on these kids and these families, and so it
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Speaker 3: becomes more meaningful, which is why I was so hell
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Speaker 3: bent on going this year. But it is really physically
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Speaker 3: and emotionally taxing as well, and I kind of think
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Speaker 3: the only way to get through that is to have
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Speaker 3: like a dry, dark sense of humor, just to get
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Speaker 3: through how sad some of the moments can be. And
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Speaker 3: I was really comforted by the fact that we were
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Speaker 3: talking doctor beach Gim, who is that surgeon influencer who
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Speaker 3: works at Johns Hopkins also in this hospital, and I
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Speaker 3: was cracking some jokes with her on Thursday night after radiothon,
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Speaker 3: where again we're peak loopy. We've been up since four am,
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Speaker 3: and I made a joke and I was like, oh god,
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Speaker 3: I don't know if I should have made that joke
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Speaker 3: in front of a surgeon, and she goes, I'm really
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Speaker 3: glad the dark humor translates out of the surgery room
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Speaker 3: because I guess like, when you go through all this
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Speaker 3: kind of stuff constantly, you need to have some kind
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Speaker 3: of way to get through it in a way that
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Speaker 3: makes you laugh.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we.
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Speaker 2: All have it. But also I think you said a
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Speaker 2: good thing during radiothon. You're like, we need to lighten
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Speaker 2: it up a little bit, Like you even had moments
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Speaker 2: where you're like, not so serious, And I need that
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Speaker 2: reminder too, because there is a balance. It should be serious,
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Speaker 2: it should be something that's driven for a cause, but
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Speaker 2: also if it's just so sad all the time, it
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Speaker 2: actually loses the effect. Because what I had to realize
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Speaker 2: as we're doing again it was my first time doing radiothon,
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Speaker 2: it's also a celebration. You're celebrating every time someone donates
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Speaker 2: because that's a difference in somebody else's life.
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Speaker 1: That's a difference for one of these kids.
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Speaker 2: So it's like, yes, the stories are very serious, but
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Speaker 2: the reason you're there is the celebration that's having an impact,
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Speaker 2: and so I honestly was super appreciative because you know,
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Speaker 2: you're lighthearted, dark humored jokes that are so like just
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Speaker 2: I never say those things out loud, you know.
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Speaker 3: I know, and I think I don't know. Radio. I
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Speaker 3: got into this industry because I liked that it was
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Speaker 3: accepting of maybe saying the thing that you're not supposed
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Speaker 3: to say, or to make a joke that might be
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Speaker 3: a little bit over the edge, but knowing that it's
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Speaker 3: all in good fun, if that makes sense. And I
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Speaker 3: was telling the folks at Burt's Big Adventure this weekend
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Speaker 3: because I was like, I missed you guys so much,
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Speaker 3: like our sense of humor and how we kind of
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Speaker 3: get through the week. I missed that so much because
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Speaker 3: I made a joke in front of Scotty and I
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Speaker 3: don't think you took it well. So we're on the
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Speaker 3: broadcast and radio thon again. It's raising money for Johns
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Speaker 3: Hopkins All Children's Hospital. I remember at some point on
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Speaker 3: here I go, yeah, we're raising money for Johns Hopkins
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Speaker 3: Old Children's Hospital. But like Scotty, I'm just here for
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Speaker 3: some of the kids, and Scott's like, I don't know
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Speaker 3: how to respond to this?
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Speaker 2: I like, you know what I mean.
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Speaker 3: I'm like, we're just oh, you know what I mean.
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Speaker 3: Like I'm here for some of them, you're here for
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Speaker 3: some of them, but together, it's all together.
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Speaker 2: I don't mean that literally, No, I don't think there
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Speaker 2: will be anything that you say that would truly like
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Speaker 2: upset me or like catch me so far off guard
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Speaker 2: that I don't know how to bounce back.
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Speaker 3: Do you want me to recap weekend with your dad?
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Speaker 3: Then no, that's how far we can go.
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Speaker 1: Tell me where did he take you? In beautiful verro Beach?
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Speaker 3: Oh? Where didn't he take me?
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Speaker 2: I love it because it's an element that I have
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Speaker 2: missed for so long, because like everybody in my life
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Speaker 2: has that sense of humor. So it's almost like because
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Speaker 2: I've done a show for a loon so long, but
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Speaker 2: I forget those elements of it that are so needed
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Speaker 2: because they bring you back to life, they kind of
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Speaker 2: juice you back up, and I think everyone has it,
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Speaker 2: Like my brother has a very dark sense of humor,
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Speaker 2: my dad has a very dark sense of humor on occasion.
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Speaker 2: And then the old show that was on like again,
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Speaker 2: it was the same thing. It was as soon as
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Speaker 2: the mics are off, I think a lot of I
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Speaker 2: was talking to him, who is it somebody in does
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Speaker 2: film for one of the big news stations here, and
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Speaker 2: he was saying the same thing. He's like, the biggest
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Speaker 2: news personalities as soon as they get off of a
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Speaker 2: very like serious newscast, like the jokes and the things
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Speaker 2: that they say are so dark.
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Speaker 1: If you're not used to it, you're a first.
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Speaker 2: Like, oh my god, like that is that's but I
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Speaker 2: think it's our way of balancing.
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Speaker 3: That's exactly what it is. It's like having a chaser
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Speaker 3: where god, I don't mean to compare charity to vodka,
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Speaker 3: but if you're constantly taking shots of vodka, it's just
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Speaker 3: it's it's hard. It's a hard pill to swallow, literally,
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Speaker 3: And so I think when you have those dry, dark
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Speaker 3: sense of humor moments, it's sort of like taking a
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Speaker 3: sip of water to kind of balance you out from
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Speaker 3: this serious news headlining person.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I will say also like and transparency on the
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Speaker 2: emotions with it, Like, I feel like there's a lot
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Speaker 2: of pressure.
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Speaker 1: I felt that going into it.
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Speaker 2: You know, as we're setting it up and we're about
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Speaker 2: to go live and we've been talking about it for
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Speaker 2: a month.
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Speaker 1: You want to do the best that you possibly can.
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Speaker 2: And I felt that pressure internally, and I didn't want
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Speaker 2: to show it because I'm like, well, obviously we don't
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Speaker 2: know the outcome. We don't know what's gonna happen, we
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Speaker 2: don't know if anybody cares, and we don't know if
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Speaker 2: the things that we're saying are actually cutting through for
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Speaker 2: people to want to jump up and help. And so
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Speaker 2: anything that happens you take. I try not to, but
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Speaker 2: you take it personally. So like you know, in this case,
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Speaker 2: they brought you on to raise money for kids, and
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Speaker 2: if you're not hitting certain numbers, all of a sudden, internally,
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Speaker 2: it's I think the analogy of like taking a shot
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Speaker 2: of vodka. It's kind of like the amount of pressure
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Speaker 2: that you feel inside. You're like, it's on me. If
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Speaker 2: it hits the number, awesome, we did our job. If
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Speaker 2: it doesn't hit the number, ow is it me? Did
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Speaker 2: I not do a good job of making sure that
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Speaker 2: people understore the mission that we had at hand. I
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Speaker 2: don't know if everybody else in the room felt that,
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Speaker 2: but I knew going into that. I was like, I
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Speaker 2: was just taking it very personally. I'm glad it was
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Speaker 2: a success. I'm glad it was an amazing success. I
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Speaker 2: think we did an amazing job. We raised over two
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Speaker 2: hundred thousand dollars, which every single dollar literally sounds like
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Speaker 2: we're doing it again.
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Speaker 1: But it all makes a difference. But you do have.
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Speaker 2: Goals, you do have a vision of what it wants
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Speaker 2: to look like, and so as the days going on,
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Speaker 2: some moments are good and some moments are like, dang it,
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Speaker 2: we're not hitting the number that we thought we would.
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Speaker 1: Is it me?
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Speaker 2: Am I the problem? That's the hard way to make.
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Speaker 3: This entire charity event about kids who are battling diseases
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Speaker 3: about you, scotty way to make it about you. I
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Speaker 3: was kidding, Well, if you did feel a lot of
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Speaker 3: pressure it it didn't show. I mean, there was even
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Speaker 3: a moment when we first started the broadcast I knew
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Speaker 3: to expect some kind of shit storm at some point.
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Speaker 3: Like I knew at some point something was gonna go wrong.
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Speaker 3: So when we cracked the mics and literally we're talking
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Speaker 3: over songs, not to any It wasn't our fault, it
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Speaker 3: was a production issue. I literally sat there and I
10:29
Speaker 3: was like, I knew this was gonna happen. I was like,
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Speaker 3: I knew this was gonna happen. I expected this to happen.
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Speaker 3: They're gonna work through it at some point. And there
10:36
Speaker 3: was a moment where I saw Scotty get a little
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Speaker 3: angry and I was like, I know he had that
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Speaker 3: gear because you're always You're always running on such a
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Speaker 3: high that I feel like sometimes I kind of have
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Speaker 3: to like drag you to like come, come.
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Speaker 1: Be the dark side.
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Speaker 3: Not the dark side, but you're you're so giddy and
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Speaker 3: happy that when I saw you get mad, I was like,
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Speaker 3: oh my god, he's human. He's human. Yeah, well, I know.
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Speaker 2: Our boss said the same thing. I am very human.
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Speaker 2: I have very angry moments. I also have very happy moments.
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Speaker 2: I also have very chill moments. But when you catch
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Speaker 2: me especially, I always try to say this, and I
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Speaker 2: don't know if it ever cuts through people, but when
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Speaker 2: I'm in a good environment, you're gonna see me at
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Speaker 2: my peak because I feel my peak. So if we're
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Speaker 2: doing something like interviewing people and we're talking and it's
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Speaker 2: like I'm going to field all the euphoria. But in
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Speaker 2: that moment and now we could pull the curtain back,
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Speaker 2: like as we kicked off the radiothon and we had
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Speaker 2: a bunch of issues behind the scenes that weren't letting
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Speaker 2: us get on the air. It's kind of like I
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Speaker 2: would compare it to an athlete. You're getting ready to play,
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Speaker 2: like the super Bowl, and you're so excited, you're so amped.
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Speaker 1: All I've been doing is thinking.
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Speaker 2: About what am I gonna say? Are the stories that
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Speaker 2: we're gonna bring that make sure it's and then it's
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Speaker 2: like a rain delay, and You're like all that.
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Speaker 1: Pent up emotion.
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Speaker 2: It's like it had nowhere to go, and so I'm
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Speaker 2: like trying to keep it cool because even at this
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Speaker 2: person here's the podcast, Like I knew it wasn't them.
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Speaker 2: I knew it was not the person on the other end.
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Speaker 2: I think it was a bigger issue of like not
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Speaker 2: being prepared, and then I just felt controllless. I was like,
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Speaker 2: there's nothing I could do. I can't go there and
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Speaker 2: show you how to do it. I can't make sure
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Speaker 2: we're connected. I just have to sit here and pray
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Speaker 2: and hope that whatever happens happens very quick. Because now
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Speaker 2: I have all this built up emotion and I have
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Speaker 2: nowhere to put it. So I felt like a bottle
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Speaker 2: that just got shook and I couldn't pop.
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Speaker 3: You did handle it very well. Thank you. I try
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Speaker 3: because I knew to expect something going wrong. I just
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Speaker 3: kind of had no emotions about it. I was like, well,
12:22
Speaker 3: the food here is really good. I'm gonna get another cookie.
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Speaker 3: I'm like another cup of coffee. Here we go and
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Speaker 3: Scotty's trying to hold it together. But I thought you,
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Speaker 3: I mean, you could have been so much more mad
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Speaker 3: than you weren't.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think it's because I've been in that
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Speaker 2: position too. Like as much as we're on this side
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Speaker 2: and talking on the mics, like, I've also been on
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Speaker 2: the other side where it's I'm the one making sure
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Speaker 2: people are connected and actually being on the air, And
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Speaker 2: I've been there where things are going wrong and you
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Speaker 2: have no idea and you're not really caught up and
12:47
Speaker 2: learned how to do everything. And it is the worst
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Speaker 2: feeling to be the person that's like, I'm sorry, but
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Speaker 2: I don't know what's happening and I don't know how
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Speaker 2: to fix it, and you're talking to a radio personality
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Speaker 2: that's you know, a lot of people and radio are
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Speaker 2: very ego driven. I'm not ego driven. I'm just like
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Speaker 2: driven to be as good as I can in this industry.
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Speaker 1: So when I'm not able to do that, I'm like,
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Speaker 1: so I do.
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Speaker 2: My heart goes out to the person that was here
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Speaker 2: behind the scenes trying to fix it, because you could
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Speaker 2: hear like they were stressed, they were trying to put
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Speaker 2: it together, and I didn't want to show them that.
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Speaker 2: Like again, I wasn't them, I wasn't mad at them,
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Speaker 2: Like they're gonna learn that's a moment that they'll never
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Speaker 2: forget because I have moments just like that that I've
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Speaker 2: never forgotten.
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Speaker 1: How I've messed up. I've screwed up.
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Speaker 2: The entire radio station. Now everything is shut down before
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Speaker 2: and it's on me to turn it back on.
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Speaker 1: Those moments suck.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, And to give some credit to the guy who
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Speaker 3: was working the board, I felt like he stayed pretty calm,
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Speaker 3: cool and collected too, because we don't even know whose fault,
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Speaker 3: Like did somebody was somebody supposed to train him? Was
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Speaker 3: the board not set up? And I know how it
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Speaker 3: feels when you get blamed for something that's not your fault,
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Speaker 3: especially when you're in a position. We're on the tone pole,
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Speaker 3: you're at the bottom or whatever, try to learn. I
13:53
Speaker 3: will never forget a diva moment I had with somebody
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Speaker 3: I was working with. And this is not at the
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Speaker 3: Bird Show. So if anyone's like, this was at the bart, No,
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Speaker 3: this is somewhere else. And it was my job to
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Speaker 3: get coffee, which I was like, this wasn't really my job,
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Speaker 3: but whatever. So I had to go to Starbucks and
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Speaker 3: I had to get coffee, and Starbucks screwed up this
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Speaker 3: personalities order and they thought they blamed it on me,
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Speaker 3: and they were so upset by it that they decided
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Speaker 3: to leave the coffee cup out as if it was
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Speaker 3: supposed to be mine, like waiting for me to come
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Speaker 3: get it. And they're like, oh, let your coffee. I said,
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Speaker 3: oh no, it's not mine. They must have just like
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Speaker 3: screwed it up, but like, I'm sorry, this is the
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Speaker 3: coffee they gave me. So literally, that coffee cup sat
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Speaker 3: on the production studio desk for months and they didn't
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Speaker 3: get rid of it, and this is this is really
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Speaker 3: great karma. That person then got fired. Oh and so
14:42
Speaker 3: finally when we went to go throw it out, there
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Speaker 3: was all this mold and bacteria. It was disgusting. I
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Speaker 3: cannot believe it was sitting there for months, but I
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Speaker 3: thought I was like, I'm not, I'm not. It's not
14:53
Speaker 3: my coffee, like you're the one that ordered it. I
14:55
Speaker 3: did my job, job que, it's a cup of coffee.
14:57
Speaker 3: It's a cup a cup of hop like you'll be fine.
14:59
Speaker 3: Like there's literally a break room down the hall, like
15:01
Speaker 3: go get your coffee.
15:02
Speaker 2: Literally, Like that's why I think when you have those experiences,
15:05
Speaker 2: you never want to treat someone like that. It's those
15:08
Speaker 2: people like there's two lanes. I feel like people go down.
15:11
Speaker 2: Either you got treated like crap and you're like, well,
15:13
Speaker 2: then I get to treat someone like crap because you
15:15
Speaker 2: got to go through what I went through. And then
15:17
Speaker 2: there's people like this is how I look at it.
15:18
Speaker 2: It's like when I have been in trouble or I
15:20
Speaker 2: have done something dumb and I felt belittle the ooh
15:23
Speaker 2: you want to make me mad, try to belittle me,
15:26
Speaker 2: make me feel smaller than I am, Like it's happened
15:29
Speaker 2: before in this building where someone tries to say something
15:31
Speaker 2: to me and like I'll just cut your ass off.
15:34
Speaker 2: Like I literally will be like all right, well that's
15:35
Speaker 2: the last.
15:35
Speaker 1: Time we talked. Because I'm not gonna be talked to
15:37
Speaker 1: you like that.
15:37
Speaker 3: I don't believe that for a second.
15:39
Speaker 2: I'm telling you right now, I don't.
15:40
Speaker 3: Know a single person in this building you have a
15:42
Speaker 3: beef with that you refuse to talk to them or
15:44
Speaker 3: are you not there yet? Because I felt like we
15:47
Speaker 3: were mingling with everybody this weekend.
15:48
Speaker 2: I could mingle with everybody, but there's also it takes.
15:52
Speaker 2: Let's say there's there's somebody that I've worked with and
15:56
Speaker 2: there's been conversations where they've tried to cut me down,
15:58
Speaker 2: make me feel do and it's just the communication style.
16:00
Speaker 3: How do they cut you down? Like, give me an example.
16:03
Speaker 3: Let's see, and that's what's the person that I'm thinking about. Probably, mmm,
16:08
Speaker 3: I'm giving you like telepathy?
16:10
Speaker 2: Yes, I would say so, no, no, no, yeah, no
16:16
Speaker 2: no not not not them, not them.
16:20
Speaker 1: Let's see, let's see Disney Channel.
16:24
Speaker 3: Okay, now I can't. You need to do this, I'll
16:26
Speaker 3: tell you.
16:27
Speaker 2: Because what really mattered was how they would like try
16:29
Speaker 2: to explain if I mess something up, they'd be like,
16:31
Speaker 2: how do you not know? Oh?
16:33
Speaker 1: Do this?
16:34
Speaker 3: I know exactly what you're talking about now.
16:36
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I get it. But I'm also an adult.
16:39
Speaker 2: Just talk to me as in how you would want
16:42
Speaker 2: to be talked to. And so luckily, I've done a
16:44
Speaker 2: lot of work on trying to like it's so crazy
16:47
Speaker 2: to say, but I can be a hothead.
16:49
Speaker 1: I used to be a hot head.
16:50
Speaker 2: I've never seen be That's because I've done a lot
16:52
Speaker 2: of work on making sure that side of me doesn't
16:54
Speaker 2: come out. Because now I could process things quicker, I
16:57
Speaker 2: can allow them to go through the whole process, and
17:00
Speaker 2: then I could come out better.
17:01
Speaker 1: So I don't hold grudges anymore.
17:03
Speaker 2: But I clearly, well.
17:05
Speaker 3: You don't seem the least bit mad about whoever was.
17:08
Speaker 2: I let that moment sit, I let myself process, and
17:12
Speaker 2: then I allowed myself to grow, and I can now
17:14
Speaker 2: approach that person again. But there was a time period
17:16
Speaker 2: I was like, I'll go to anybody else beside you.
17:18
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be treated like that. Don't talk to me.
17:20
Speaker 2: I'm a grown man. If I was thirteen, that's different.
17:23
Speaker 2: But even though I'd be even angry at thirteen, but
17:26
Speaker 2: that's the quickest way, like, don't make me feel dumb.
17:28
Speaker 2: And because of that experience, that's why anybody that goes
17:32
Speaker 2: and tries to do something I mess up. I always
17:33
Speaker 2: try to give them the most grace because I'm like,
17:35
Speaker 2: I get it. You're taking it out on yourself more
17:39
Speaker 2: than I could ever take it out on you.
17:42
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna let.
17:43
Speaker 2: You just have that moment and I know you'll never
17:44
Speaker 2: forget it. And whoever it was that was here, I
17:47
Speaker 2: love you, and I know that you're gonna learn, and
17:49
Speaker 2: I know that you're okay. And I also want to
17:51
Speaker 2: remind everybody in radio that we weren't doing brain surgery.
17:53
Speaker 2: That was for the doctors there. We were just trying
17:55
Speaker 2: to make sure there was awareness for it.
17:57
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's why I didn't feel too much
17:59
Speaker 3: pressure because I'm sitting here. I'm like, our job is
18:01
Speaker 3: just a chit chat and ask for money. That's our job.
18:03
Speaker 3: And if there's some kind of production issue that's not
18:05
Speaker 3: our job, they'll figure it out and then we can
18:07
Speaker 3: do our job. But we were interviewing what a cardiothoracic
18:11
Speaker 3: surgeon somebody who literally operates on hearts with catheters. I
18:15
Speaker 3: don't even know how that sorcery works. But I'm sitting
18:18
Speaker 3: there and I'm thinking, Yeah, your job's a big deal.
18:21
Speaker 3: If something goes wrong, with your job. Yeah, that's a
18:24
Speaker 3: big deal. If we don't yip yap to our yappiest capacity,
18:28
Speaker 3: someone might just be a little sad and annoyed that day.
18:30
Speaker 3: I think our job matters. That's why I do it.
18:33
Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, you can only
18:35
Speaker 3: control so much.
18:35
Speaker 2: I wonder if it's just because I have this voice
18:37
Speaker 2: in my head that's constantly telling me I'm not enough.
18:39
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not Scotty and it's me. I'm the voice,
18:43
Speaker 3: And you're like, why is that voice constantly? It's because
18:45
Speaker 3: I'm here. Do you follow me? Everybody?
18:47
Speaker 1: You're not enough today?
18:49
Speaker 3: It's just me.
18:50
Speaker 2: It's like me trying to justify I guess I've done
18:53
Speaker 2: work on that voice. But like, even in that room,
18:55
Speaker 2: I'm like, we're around radio legends, and I'm like, I
18:57
Speaker 2: want to make sure that I'm doing justice by the
18:58
Speaker 2: people that have put belief in us. And so that's
19:01
Speaker 2: the thought that I'm going into. I'm like, all right,
19:02
Speaker 2: I hope. I don't know, like I want to be
19:04
Speaker 2: the best, Like I want to be the best in
19:06
Speaker 2: that room, even though there's people that have done it
19:07
Speaker 2: longer than I've been. I live, So it's actually kind
19:10
Speaker 2: of unfair to put that voice on me. That's a
19:11
Speaker 2: therapy moment.
19:12
Speaker 3: You know, I'll stop, I'll stop tearing you down. No,
19:15
Speaker 3: I love it.
19:15
Speaker 2: You could tear me down. I need to be torn down.
19:17
Speaker 3: You're telling you you're not enough constantly. Well, you're terrible, Scotty.
19:21
Speaker 2: The voice in my head is a lot meaner than
19:23
Speaker 2: anything that anybody else could say.
19:24
Speaker 3: So I like, you don't eat enough ground beef, Scotty.
19:26
Speaker 2: I'll go eat another pound. I'll go put it in.
19:29
Speaker 2: But there's also a difference between how you and I
19:31
Speaker 2: handle criticism because you say online that's the thing that
19:35
Speaker 2: you hate the most where it's like for me, I'm like,
19:37
Speaker 2: you all can put the comments in the dms all
19:39
Speaker 2: day because the voice in my head is way meaner.
19:41
Speaker 1: So you can try.
19:43
Speaker 3: Well, you like the engagement I do.
19:46
Speaker 1: You're don't hate on my comments, go ahead because it
19:47
Speaker 1: don't boost the post.
19:48
Speaker 3: Well for me, I think I don't get a lot
19:53
Speaker 3: of hate or criticism. But I did tell you, and
19:56
Speaker 3: I knew this was going to happen. I said, I
19:57
Speaker 3: knew the when the Burt Show ended, I knew I
20:00
Speaker 3: was going to see an uptick in cattiness or meanness
20:04
Speaker 3: or pettiness just because comments, you lose that relationship with people.
20:09
Speaker 3: And I think when you lose a relationship with somebody,
20:13
Speaker 3: they stop giving you the benefit of the doubt or
20:15
Speaker 3: they start picking you apart more. And I think that's
20:19
Speaker 3: been one of the tougher parts of the transition, is like,
20:21
Speaker 3: not only did you lose a job, but you're also
20:22
Speaker 3: sort of losing the relationships that you've built and you're
20:26
Speaker 3: gonna get like a different side of me on different
20:28
Speaker 3: podcasts and stuff, and like maybe I don't know, maybe
20:30
Speaker 3: the magic side of me isn't as likable as I
20:32
Speaker 3: was on the Bird Show, And so I think there's
20:34
Speaker 3: a toughness there where when I get a DM where
20:37
Speaker 3: it's like, uh, I can't believe you said that. Unfollow.
20:40
Speaker 3: It's not that it bothers me, but it is kind
20:43
Speaker 3: of a reminder that my life has changed a lot
20:46
Speaker 3: in the last six months. And that's what I don't necessarily.
20:48
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, no, I've seen that.
20:49
Speaker 2: I mean because I was on another big show too,
20:51
Speaker 2: and when that show left, it was very interesting to see,
20:54
Speaker 2: like there's a moment where I saw people like pick
20:57
Speaker 2: a side. I was like, y'all, don't have to pick
20:58
Speaker 2: a side side to take. There was no side to take.
21:01
Speaker 2: You could literally like everybody here. But it felt like
21:04
Speaker 2: because people are upset, they have to lash out in
21:08
Speaker 2: order to justify their feelings.
21:09
Speaker 1: It's kind of like a this is you know, I
21:11
Speaker 1: don't want to.
21:13
Speaker 2: When a kid gets upset and they don't know how
21:16
Speaker 2: to process their feelings, so they're just gonna say something
21:18
Speaker 2: or do something out of just pure emotion, even though
21:22
Speaker 2: it might hurt somebody else. And I've seen that, like
21:24
Speaker 2: when I first took over at the time it was
21:25
Speaker 2: hot one one five, and I was like looking at
21:27
Speaker 2: the comments and I'm like trying to do my own show.
21:29
Speaker 2: Like what people didn't realize is I was like, for
21:31
Speaker 2: the first time ever, trying to do a show on
21:33
Speaker 2: the biggest time ever in Tampa Bay, the biggest market,
21:36
Speaker 2: like and then there's comments that are like, oh, you're
21:38
Speaker 2: just not as good as the others.
21:40
Speaker 1: You just never be as good as them. M M.
21:42
Speaker 2: Can't listen to this. It is not what it used
21:43
Speaker 2: to be. And I'm like, damn, y'all are ruthless. You
21:48
Speaker 2: supported me for years and now like I finally get
21:50
Speaker 2: my shot, and it's almost like people took it out
21:53
Speaker 2: on me because I was the reason like the show split,
21:56
Speaker 2: which was like, I don't even know how that makes
21:58
Speaker 2: sense in general, but you weren't the reason in the show, correct,
22:01
Speaker 2: But I was the only one left in this area.
22:04
Speaker 2: And so there was a lot of that where it's
22:05
Speaker 2: like people were upset and they didn't know how to
22:07
Speaker 2: process it. So instead they're like, well, I'll just make
22:10
Speaker 2: a comment that I don't know how to process my
22:12
Speaker 2: feelings and I'm just going to put it here because
22:14
Speaker 2: I'm mad, And I'm like, wow, that hurts. I'm already
22:17
Speaker 2: doubting myself and now you're making me doubt myself even more.
22:21
Speaker 3: It's the biggest it's the biggest like or the biggest
22:23
Speaker 3: lesson you have to learn in this kind of industry,
22:26
Speaker 3: or I think just as a person in general, is
22:28
Speaker 3: a lot of times you're just the lightning rod for that. Like, yeah,
22:30
Speaker 3: whatever emotion someone's feeling or it really has nothing to
22:33
Speaker 3: do with you. You just kind of represent whatever emotion they're feeling.
22:37
Speaker 2: Correct. Well, that's what we see a lot with, you know.
22:39
Speaker 2: And I don't compare myself to like big celebrities, but
22:41
Speaker 2: like when you see like somebody justin Bieber online. And
22:45
Speaker 2: so if you go through their comments, oh my god,
22:48
Speaker 2: it's a bloodbath because people are just upset about anything
22:51
Speaker 2: and they're like, well, this is a good person to
22:52
Speaker 2: take it out because I don't see them as human.
22:55
Speaker 2: But it's not fair to still the person, and especially
22:57
Speaker 2: not like somebody like you or I that's like, y'all,
22:59
Speaker 2: we literally looked all or comments. We can see what
23:02
Speaker 2: you're trying to say, and sometimes those cutting words are
23:05
Speaker 2: pretty cutting and they hurt. But we are that lightning
23:08
Speaker 2: rod for someone else to just get it off their chest.
23:11
Speaker 2: So I know that kind of sucks because I feel like,
23:13
Speaker 2: right now, that is that transition that you're going to
23:15
Speaker 2: see more and more of. And I don't know if
23:16
Speaker 2: that's something that like if you have to put a
23:18
Speaker 2: boundary up of looking at your comments or looking at
23:20
Speaker 2: your DMS or having somebody else do it.
23:22
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, it's not frequent enough for me to be
23:24
Speaker 3: upset by it, but it will catch me off guard
23:26
Speaker 3: because it's not something I'm particularly used to. We had
23:29
Speaker 3: a Facebook page where people would kind of that's where
23:32
Speaker 3: the vitriol would go, and I just had a boundary
23:34
Speaker 3: with myself to never go to the Facebook page, which
23:37
Speaker 3: I'm actually really impressed with myself. I'm like, in two
23:38
Speaker 3: and a half years, I really never went to that
23:40
Speaker 3: Facebook page. But I think the other thing I had
23:44
Speaker 3: a hard time with in terms of just getting more
23:47
Speaker 3: of a following as well, is the dehumanization that people
23:51
Speaker 3: think they can project onto you when you reach a
23:54
Speaker 3: certain level. And I'm always wondering what that threshold is
23:57
Speaker 3: where I feel like, in the beginning, I expect it
24:00
Speaker 3: when I joined the show that I was on to
24:02
Speaker 3: receive a lot of hate or a lot of criticism,
24:04
Speaker 3: like she's not the right person, blah blah blah, and
24:06
Speaker 3: I feel like that wasn't really the case. But the
24:09
Speaker 3: more people see you as a quote unquote public figure,
24:12
Speaker 3: a public facing figure or whatever, they're more comfortable removing
24:18
Speaker 3: your humanness to where they'll just start talking with about
24:21
Speaker 3: you in your comment section with other people. I'm like,
24:25
Speaker 3: this is my Instagram, I see it. I'm watching you
24:28
Speaker 3: guys talk about I'm like, you would never comment on
24:31
Speaker 3: a friend's post being like, oh that outfit that she's wearing,
24:34
Speaker 3: and then all these other people having this discussion. I'm like,
24:36
Speaker 3: so at what point It's fascinating to me, I'm like,
24:39
Speaker 3: when do you reach that level of where you get
24:42
Speaker 3: to be dehumanized by people? Like when does that flip
24:46
Speaker 3: switch for people?
24:47
Speaker 2: I feel like when it's you're now somebody that people
24:49
Speaker 2: follow just because people follow you.
24:51
Speaker 3: Maybe yeah, But I just don't know when that happens,
24:54
Speaker 3: because I think I was pretty safe from it for
24:56
Speaker 3: a while because they follow you because they like the show.
24:59
Speaker 3: Otherwise they're not following you. Yeah, but then maybe it's
25:02
Speaker 3: like a snowball effect to where then people just see
25:04
Speaker 3: you on the internet after you go viral a couple
25:06
Speaker 3: of times, and they're like, oh, well, she has thirty
25:07
Speaker 3: thousand followers.
25:08
Speaker 2: That's why I like to reply back to comments because
25:10
Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, by the way, just so you know, one,
25:13
Speaker 2: I want to comment back because I want to acknowledge you.
25:14
Speaker 2: But two, just in case you ever thought that I
25:16
Speaker 2: don't actually see it, this is me.
25:18
Speaker 1: It's me and my dms, it's me and my comments.
25:20
Speaker 1: It is all me.
25:21
Speaker 3: But then people get mad at you for acknowledging it.
25:23
Speaker 3: They're like, well, this is just a part of the job.
25:24
Speaker 3: If you can't handle it stuff doing the job, yeah,
25:26
Speaker 3: And I'm like, well, there's boundaries in every career, and
25:29
Speaker 3: for me, this is a boundary. If you're going to
25:31
Speaker 3: say mean things, you don't have to be here, like
25:34
Speaker 3: my my personal instagram is not a billboard for your
25:38
Speaker 3: hatred for me. If you I think I didn't care
25:41
Speaker 3: so much about the Facebook page that we had when
25:43
Speaker 3: people would talk about us on the Facebook page, because
25:45
Speaker 3: I'm like, that is an area for you to have
25:48
Speaker 3: discussion or opinions about us, and that's not a place
25:50
Speaker 3: for me to then police how you feel about my opinion. Yeah, yeah,
25:53
Speaker 3: that's because that's not my place. But on my Instagram,
25:57
Speaker 3: you're not going to come into my house literally and
26:00
Speaker 3: be like you look ugly here or whatever, like you're
26:02
Speaker 3: in my house, you get to get then you I
26:05
Speaker 3: don't need you here. There's twenty six point nine thousand
26:08
Speaker 3: other people here. You're welcome to leave.
26:11
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think that's where I look at it.
26:12
Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, it's very far and few between. It's like, man,
26:15
Speaker 2: you gotta be It's like you're going through potatoes. There's
26:17
Speaker 2: always gonna be a rotten potato. I've never been a farmer,
26:20
Speaker 2: but I'm sure that's what it's like picking up all
26:22
Speaker 2: these spuds out the ground. You're like, dang it, this
26:24
Speaker 2: one's rotten and you're not gonna keep it. And that's
26:27
Speaker 2: why people get unfollowed or blocked because it's like, well,
26:29
Speaker 2: you're a rotten potato. You're gonna mess up this whole
26:32
Speaker 2: batch toss.
26:34
Speaker 3: That's kind of how of all the produce you wanted
26:36
Speaker 3: to compare us to white potatoes, gotti.
26:38
Speaker 2: Because potatoes are really healthy and I feel like we're healthy.
26:41
Speaker 2: We're a healthy dose for people big.
26:42
Speaker 3: Blood sugar spikes.
26:43
Speaker 2: Except well, now, like a sweet potato, vitamins, a nutrient
26:46
Speaker 2: rich and something that's a good carb to keep it
26:47
Speaker 2: going all day.
26:48
Speaker 3: If you were a prepared potato, fried, baked, or whatever,
26:52
Speaker 3: what kind of potato would you be?
26:54
Speaker 2: Oh that's a good one. I'm gonna say if I was,
26:56
Speaker 2: I would be a m My mind's going to a
27:00
Speaker 2: hash brown No no, no, Like you go to let's say,
27:05
Speaker 2: Cracker Barrel and they give you a whole plate of
27:07
Speaker 2: hash browns and so I'll cut up and all because
27:09
Speaker 2: I wanted to feel like you just can't get enough.
27:12
Speaker 2: As soon as you take a bite, you're like, I
27:13
Speaker 2: can't wait for another, And you know it's not really
27:16
Speaker 2: the best for you all the time, but when you
27:18
Speaker 2: get that dose, it just hits. Like as much as
27:20
Speaker 2: I want to compare myself to the way I cooked potatoes,
27:22
Speaker 2: which is a boring sweet potato and an oven, that's it,
27:25
Speaker 2: I just eat it like an apple. I'd rather be
27:28
Speaker 2: the hash brown, the one that literally everyone likes, the
27:30
Speaker 2: one that you put a little dose of ketchup or
27:32
Speaker 2: mustard on, and oh, it takes you to times that
27:36
Speaker 2: you never want to escape.
27:37
Speaker 3: I know how that feels. It's me and your dad
27:39
Speaker 3: every week. All right.
27:41
Speaker 2: Let me talk about Disney though, because you went to
27:42
Speaker 2: Disney this past weekend.
27:44
Speaker 1: How was it?
27:45
Speaker 2: Oh? So, what parks did you hit?
27:46
Speaker 1: What rides did you hit? Well?
27:48
Speaker 3: For me, going was less about enjoyment and more about
27:51
Speaker 3: being a part of Birt's big adventure again. So I
27:54
Speaker 3: was gonna try and go for the whole trip, but
27:56
Speaker 3: I work here now, so I can't.
27:58
Speaker 1: Thanks for being my coworker, I know.
28:00
Speaker 3: I'm about saying like people keep dming me. They're like,
28:02
Speaker 3: why aren't you at BBA. I'm like you, guys, I'm
28:04
Speaker 3: at Radiothon for the job that pays me.
28:07
Speaker 1: He's got a job, y'all.
28:08
Speaker 3: I'm raising money for the children's hospital here in Saint
28:12
Speaker 3: Petersburg for the job that I have now. Anyway, God Love,
28:16
Speaker 3: I'm very sweet. Thank you for carrying it that I'm
28:18
Speaker 3: at BBA. Yes, but I literally bought two park tickets
28:22
Speaker 3: so that I could just be at BBA because I'm like,
28:25
Speaker 3: I know, I'm not really doing anything for them anymore,
28:27
Speaker 3: so I'm like, I'll buy the ticket, you know, I'll
28:30
Speaker 3: go down and I'll see them. So I went down
28:32
Speaker 3: to Hollywood Studios on Saturday around noon. Oh my god,
28:35
Speaker 3: it was the hottest I've ever been at Disney, by
28:37
Speaker 3: the way, which was a shock. I was like, why
28:39
Speaker 3: is it ninety eight degrees?
28:40
Speaker 1: And welcome back to it?
28:41
Speaker 3: And I just followed around some of the photographers, met
28:43
Speaker 3: some of the families, got to hear about some of
28:46
Speaker 3: the adventures I missed out on, and you know, just
28:49
Speaker 3: some of the kids' stories and stuff, and I just
28:51
Speaker 3: I really love that crew, Like they're just really good,
28:53
Speaker 3: kind hearted people.
28:54
Speaker 2: That was all there. I don't know all the show casts,
28:57
Speaker 2: but I know Bert.
28:58
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I mean Bert's Big Adventure. The staff and
29:00
Speaker 3: the volunteers is huge, really, and I didn't it's funny
29:03
Speaker 3: because it is a little culty like. I didn't get
29:05
Speaker 3: it because I remember when I first joined the show,
29:08
Speaker 3: I would go to these reunions and I always felt
29:11
Speaker 3: so out of place, and I was just like, I
29:15
Speaker 3: don't know anybody here other than the staff or the
29:18
Speaker 3: people that are on air with me. I don't know
29:20
Speaker 3: any of these kids, And just kind of slowly you
29:22
Speaker 3: start to get to know the families and the kids,
29:24
Speaker 3: and then you go on the trip and it's I
29:28
Speaker 3: hate to compare it to summer camp, but it's a
29:29
Speaker 3: very summer camp bonding experience.
29:31
Speaker 1: Yeah.
29:32
Speaker 3: I think it's that way for the kids, and I
29:34
Speaker 3: think it's that way for the staff as well. And
29:37
Speaker 3: I think a lot of people can hear what we
29:40
Speaker 3: did for Radiothon, which is raising money directly for a hospital,
29:43
Speaker 3: and then see something like Birt's Big Adventure and be like, oh,
29:45
Speaker 3: why don't we just give money straight to the hospital
29:47
Speaker 3: like with Radiothon, Like what's the whole deal with taking
29:49
Speaker 3: these kids to Disney like that? It seems like such
29:52
Speaker 3: a waste of money, like just to take them to.
29:53
Speaker 2: Disney for a week.
29:54
Speaker 3: But I think, ultimately, and I feel very strongly about
29:58
Speaker 3: this now that I've been three years is it's not
30:02
Speaker 3: really about the trip, like taking them to Disney, It's
30:06
Speaker 3: about the relationships that get formed while you're on the trip,
30:09
Speaker 3: and that was a really big thing for this year
30:13
Speaker 3: in particular. There were a lot of boys, and a
30:15
Speaker 3: lot of very emotionally intelligent boys, like they were asking
30:18
Speaker 3: each other about their disabilities and bonding over going through
30:22
Speaker 3: similar things. And ultimately, what you're gifting these people is community.
30:29
Speaker 3: And sometimes it takes a summer camp seemingly frivolous experience
30:33
Speaker 3: to be able to take those relationships outside of it.
30:36
Speaker 3: And obviously what we did with Radiothon is so so
30:39
Speaker 3: important and razing actually things that will actually help them
30:42
Speaker 3: get treated and stuff. But the community is important as well,
30:46
Speaker 3: and I think anybody can relate to feeling isolated or
30:48
Speaker 3: feeling like nobody gets what you're going through and how
30:51
Speaker 3: detrimental that can be for your health, your mental health.
30:54
Speaker 3: And really Bird's big adventure is the gift of community
30:57
Speaker 3: and helping them bond with their family in a way
31:00
Speaker 3: that they wouldn't normally get to because when you have
31:04
Speaker 3: a disability or you're battling something, life is never normal.
31:08
Speaker 3: And we try to make it as normal as possible.
31:09
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think it's the sense, like you said, communities, everything,
31:12
Speaker 2: and sometimes it's nice just to be taken out of
31:14
Speaker 2: that environment that you're used to. And especially like we
31:16
Speaker 2: could compare the two. It's we were at the hospital
31:19
Speaker 2: bringing funds directly into the hospital, but there's also a
31:22
Speaker 2: bond that happens when we actually get to talk to
31:24
Speaker 2: the patients. It's not just raising money, but even you know,
31:28
Speaker 2: we would talk to Marina who's like, all of a sudden,
31:31
Speaker 2: like a friend, like she's posting about us on the show.
31:33
Speaker 2: Like those things, those connections have a bigger impact than
31:37
Speaker 2: just saying, hey, we're raising money. That's why, like whenever
31:39
Speaker 2: I do a fundraiser, I love to just be able
31:41
Speaker 2: to actually interact with the people that i'm fundraising four
31:44
Speaker 2: Because it's not just hey give me money. It's no, hey,
31:47
Speaker 2: here's a personal relationship and that we actually get to
31:50
Speaker 2: help and get to cultivate. And I think those impact,
31:54
Speaker 2: you know, if not fifty to fifty even more than
31:56
Speaker 2: just monetary because money goes a long way. It's awesome,
31:58
Speaker 2: it's what we gets to the treatment, gets the things done.
32:01
Speaker 2: But a connection, a bond is something that somebody holds
32:04
Speaker 2: in their heart forever, and those are the things that
32:07
Speaker 2: you can't let go of. Those are things that we
32:09
Speaker 2: had a family day here where a lot of the families,
32:11
Speaker 2: a lot of the patients that we were going to
32:13
Speaker 2: go fundraise for for the radiothon here at the radio station.
32:16
Speaker 2: We were meeting the families, we were talking to the kids,
32:18
Speaker 2: we were bringing them into the show to actually put
32:20
Speaker 2: them on the air those bonds, to see them light up.
32:25
Speaker 2: You know, that's a lifetime experience that will just never forget.
32:27
Speaker 2: Those go even further than if I was just to
32:31
Speaker 2: tell them, yeah, we rais two hundred thousand dollars for
32:33
Speaker 2: the hospital. They're like, yeah, that's incredible, thank you for helping.
32:36
Speaker 2: But the difference is then we bring them into the
32:38
Speaker 2: radio station. They're on the air, talking on the radio,
32:40
Speaker 2: and they're like, that's something I'll never forget. That's a
32:43
Speaker 2: cool experience. And I like the fact that you said
32:45
Speaker 2: talking to other people that have been in their shoes
32:48
Speaker 2: that know what it's like that they could bond over,
32:51
Speaker 2: because don't we all do that when there's something happening
32:53
Speaker 2: in our lives. It gives us a sense of one community,
32:56
Speaker 2: but also understanding when someone else says, you know, yeah,
32:59
Speaker 2: I've been there too, or I know what it's like.
33:02
Speaker 2: Do you ever go through this, and they're like, oh
33:04
Speaker 2: my gosh, Finally someone gets the feeling, you know, because
33:08
Speaker 2: sometimes I bet it's you know, and everyone has this
33:10
Speaker 2: in different elements of their life where they're going through
33:13
Speaker 2: something and it just feels like they're just on this
33:15
Speaker 2: isolated island that even when they bring it up, people
33:18
Speaker 2: say they understand, but they don't understand. I'm sure it
33:21
Speaker 2: has to be so great for these kids and these
33:22
Speaker 2: families to say no, no, no, no.
33:24
Speaker 3: We understand.
33:25
Speaker 2: You know. It's like there's the heartfelt moments, but there's
33:27
Speaker 2: also probably a moment where they all could laugh together
33:29
Speaker 2: and they're like, gosh, it is so nice to see
33:32
Speaker 2: we are just not alone, because that part sucks.
33:34
Speaker 3: Yeah, I sense it belongings really important, and you know,
33:36
Speaker 3: all roads lead back to Punch the Monkey. But I
33:39
Speaker 3: was crying this morning because you were showing me that
33:42
Speaker 3: video Punch the Monkey who got rescued by that zoo?
33:45
Speaker 3: In what country is it?
33:46
Speaker 2: It's somewhere in Asia. I don't know exactly where it's at.
33:50
Speaker 3: Yeah, so anyway, there's this video going around, well there's
33:52
Speaker 3: multiple videos going around, but it's this monkey that was
33:54
Speaker 3: abandoned by its mom. It's been rejected by the rest
33:57
Speaker 3: of the monkey pack. And there's even this video this
34:03
Speaker 3: of Punch getting thrown down by the other monkeys because
34:06
Speaker 3: for whatever reason, they don't like this one monkey. They
34:08
Speaker 3: don't like Punch, and he's there's another video where he's
34:13
Speaker 3: clinging on to this little orange stuffed animal. And I
34:16
Speaker 3: think it's resonating with people so much because we all
34:19
Speaker 3: know what it feels like at some point or another
34:22
Speaker 3: to feel rejected or isolated or that we don't belong.
34:26
Speaker 3: My god, I'm like tearing up thinking about it. And
34:29
Speaker 3: it's I think that's why people are like, we need
34:31
Speaker 3: to find Punch some little monkey friends, some real, real
34:36
Speaker 3: life animals that will be friends with him. And yeah,
34:39
Speaker 3: I don't really know why I was going with this,
34:40
Speaker 3: but he's reminded me of Punch the monkey.
34:42
Speaker 2: No, it is true though, because it's you know, I
34:44
Speaker 2: think we could all we all have that fear of
34:46
Speaker 2: being rejected and then to see it play out, we
34:49
Speaker 2: all go back to a memory of what it's like.
34:51
Speaker 2: I think it's very human of us to have that
34:53
Speaker 2: moment of I mean I remember literally being in fourth
34:56
Speaker 2: grade where it's like a group of friends are like
34:58
Speaker 2: and Scott doesn't exist, and I'm like, ah, that's funny,
35:02
Speaker 2: and they would go days or I'm like, guys, the
35:06
Speaker 2: joke's fucking over, like ha ha, you know, it would
35:10
Speaker 2: be nice to be seen again, and then it would
35:12
Speaker 2: just carry on and it was all like this one
35:14
Speaker 2: dude who was like my quote unquote best friend at
35:16
Speaker 2: the time, who would just lead the pack into don't
35:19
Speaker 2: talk to him, don't even interact with him, make him
35:22
Speaker 2: feel invisible. And then you see this monkey and you're like, man,
35:26
Speaker 2: why do we all connect with that? Because we all
35:28
Speaker 2: know what it's like to either have a friendship end
35:31
Speaker 2: or a relationship end, or a moment where you feel
35:33
Speaker 2: like you're not enough, where you're kicked out of your group,
35:35
Speaker 2: where you're changing parts of your life or different chapters.
35:39
Speaker 2: And it feels very similar where it's like I'm just
35:42
Speaker 2: not enough. I'm getting thrown out by the people that
35:46
Speaker 2: could actually be there for me. There's either the ones
35:49
Speaker 2: that accept me or the ones that reject me. And
35:50
Speaker 2: you're seeing literally in real time what it played out
35:54
Speaker 2: for that little monkey name Punch that it's way more
35:57
Speaker 2: than just that monkey. I think it's all of us
36:00
Speaker 2: have had that moment.
36:01
Speaker 3: Well, you're all punched the monkey.
36:03
Speaker 1: We have all been punched the monkey.
36:05
Speaker 3: We've all been punched the monkey. So I don't know
36:06
Speaker 3: how we can find some little monkey friends for Punch.
36:09
Speaker 1: But well, I saw an updates.
36:10
Speaker 3: I'm starting to go fund me. I'm I know we're
36:13
Speaker 3: all raising money for James Vanderbeek and Eric Dane's families
36:15
Speaker 3: right now, but you know what.
36:17
Speaker 2: Punch the monkeys. He deserves the dollar.
36:20
Speaker 3: We need to raise money for Punch.
36:21
Speaker 2: Well, we know those stuffed animals like sold out immediately,
36:23
Speaker 2: people were selling them. I think they're out a Kia
36:25
Speaker 2: and because everyone I should have invested in freaking Ikea.
36:28
Speaker 2: But people saw this monkey with the stuffed animal, and
36:30
Speaker 2: so they literally sold out like that. I wish those
36:33
Speaker 2: proceeds went to Punch the monkey I went to. I
36:36
Speaker 2: wish they went to his gofund me. I wish they
36:37
Speaker 2: had a different effect. But I did see something that
36:40
Speaker 2: apparently he's got like more connections happening now, like he's
36:43
Speaker 2: making new friends.
36:44
Speaker 3: Good, He's like the new I almost compared him to Harambe.
36:47
Speaker 3: But no, that's not right, that's not right. Oh, Moodang
36:51
Speaker 3: Fu Dang the pig, the pigmy hippo, except Moodang became
36:55
Speaker 3: like Beyonce and I feel like Punch is like, oh
36:57
Speaker 3: we go back room.
36:58
Speaker 2: Yeah.
36:58
Speaker 1: No, Moodang was just a cute little hip.
37:00
Speaker 3: And then the penguin, what do you think they're up to?
37:03
Speaker 3: Where are they now? Where are moo Dang? And Pesta
37:07
Speaker 3: the penguin? Who the heck is Pesto? You didn't know?
37:09
Speaker 3: My god, let me tell you about the lore.
37:11
Speaker 1: Is that the one that went to the mountains.
37:12
Speaker 3: It was like this big ass penguin, this big penguin.
37:17
Speaker 3: It was so big and so furry that they're like,
37:19
Speaker 3: oh my god, Pesto is gargantuan. We love Pesto. It's like,
37:23
Speaker 3: Moodang is this typical? Such such misogyny, Moodang the cute
37:27
Speaker 3: little pygmy hippo, the girl. They're like, oh, let's praise
37:30
Speaker 3: or being so small and baby like, and the pest
37:32
Speaker 3: show so bid, Let's praise for reds o. Big big
37:36
Speaker 3: gender roles playing out in the wild.
37:37
Speaker 2: We really bought into a lot of animals like we
37:40
Speaker 2: really associate with them, because I associated with the penguin
37:43
Speaker 2: that wanted to go to the mountains.
37:43
Speaker 1: Did you see that one?
37:44
Speaker 3: Oh, we're all animals. We can all relate to being
37:48
Speaker 3: out in the wild objected by our mothers.
37:51
Speaker 2: Not talking rejection anymore. Going back to when you went
37:54
Speaker 2: around Epcot the first case, So Sunday was more of
37:57
Speaker 2: like a fun day at Disney, correct.
37:58
Speaker 3: Yeah, Sunday is the day that we can specifically for families.
38:01
Speaker 3: Because I will say that was one of the harder
38:03
Speaker 3: parts I had with Birt's Big Adventure is I think
38:06
Speaker 3: it is maybe possible to have a little bit too
38:08
Speaker 3: much self defference where a lot of being a part
38:11
Speaker 3: of Bird's Big Adventure as an on air staff members,
38:14
Speaker 3: they really want to get like content with you and
38:16
Speaker 3: the kids and stuff. And I always felt very I
38:18
Speaker 3: always felt like I was crashing a family's vacation. Oh yeah,
38:22
Speaker 3: I specifically felt that more in the second year. And
38:24
Speaker 3: I think it does change year to year based off
38:26
Speaker 3: like the families and just like the personalities and the dynamics.
38:30
Speaker 3: And I always had a little bit of a hard
38:32
Speaker 3: time inserting myself because I never wanted it to be
38:34
Speaker 3: like me, me, me, me, get a picture with me.
38:36
Speaker 3: And I know you need that to an extent for
38:39
Speaker 3: photos and stuff, and there's there's definitely a role that
38:41
Speaker 3: you have to play. But I always felt very weird
38:43
Speaker 3: doing that, or I wasn't. I felt uncomfortable in the
38:46
Speaker 3: sense that I should have just been like, oh no,
38:48
Speaker 3: like I'm on this adventure too, like you know, self
38:51
Speaker 3: insert yourself a little bit more. But the second day
38:55
Speaker 3: is where we really give families the time to just
38:57
Speaker 3: be without the volunteers enjoy it. Like you don't have
39:00
Speaker 3: to worry about, you know, making small talk with a
39:03
Speaker 3: stranger or volunteer, Like you guys can just kind of
39:05
Speaker 3: do whatever, and we're gonna go to Epcot.
39:07
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna go drink around the world.
39:09
Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's what I mean. You know, we all
39:11
Speaker 3: just kind of bop around and get brunch and and
39:13
Speaker 3: tell stories about the week with with staff and stuff.
39:16
Speaker 3: So it's fun.
39:17
Speaker 1: How many drinks did you have at Epcot?
39:20
Speaker 3: Not that many, because I I didn't want to go
39:22
Speaker 3: crazy because I was like, I know, I need to
39:23
Speaker 3: be back into far.
39:24
Speaker 2: On a Sunday Funday at Ecot, I know, But.
39:27
Speaker 3: I told myself I was like you can enjoy yourself
39:29
Speaker 3: and then at a certain time you have to stop
39:31
Speaker 3: and you can only have so many because you know what.
39:33
Speaker 1: Route did you start?
39:34
Speaker 2: Did you start by going Canada or do you start
39:36
Speaker 2: left by going Mexico.
39:37
Speaker 3: Oh here, let me say, let you rack my brain
39:39
Speaker 3: where we did start? Okay? So I had an aperol
39:40
Speaker 3: sprits at brunch and then I had one of the
39:43
Speaker 3: Disney sized glasses of wine at in England. I went
39:49
Speaker 3: to England. We love starting in England because you can
39:52
Speaker 3: just go to the past. Well, no, Canada is at
39:54
Speaker 3: the front.
39:55
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know you had to pass.
39:56
Speaker 3: No, no, no. We started from the boardwalk entrance h
40:01
Speaker 3: by France.
40:02
Speaker 1: That's why I know Mecot.
40:03
Speaker 3: That's where I love to start. I love to start
40:05
Speaker 3: at France. So typically we go and celebrate with vouv
40:07
Speaker 3: but whatever, we went straight, just like the Rose and
40:10
Speaker 3: Crown pub. I had a glass of wine there and
40:12
Speaker 3: then I think I had one more glass in Italy
40:14
Speaker 3: and that was really it. That's it. But it's like
40:16
Speaker 3: the Italian er. It's the Epcot glasses of wine. It's
40:19
Speaker 3: like three ounces. So I really didn't go that crazy
40:22
Speaker 3: for me. It's it reads about community, Scott Emes, I
40:24
Speaker 3: mean love being around the people.
40:25
Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you're gonna get there, I'm gonna at
40:27
Speaker 2: least have indulge. Like I think the first time I went,
40:29
Speaker 2: I made the mistake and nobody warned me. But you
40:31
Speaker 2: don't have to drink it every single stop. No, And
40:34
Speaker 2: so the first time I went, I was like my birthday.
40:36
Speaker 2: I think I was twenty one, that would make sense.
40:40
Speaker 2: And I started in Canada and I made it all
40:43
Speaker 2: the way to Japan and I pretty much threw up
40:47
Speaker 2: in the bushes there.
40:47
Speaker 3: So that's like two countries and no, no.
40:50
Speaker 2: It's that's halfway. I made it halfway. Yeah, yeah, I
40:52
Speaker 2: remember like standing over the bushes, like Scott, you're literally
40:56
Speaker 2: at a family park.
40:58
Speaker 1: Do not hurl in the bush.
41:00
Speaker 2: And I learned from that moment the best way to
41:03
Speaker 2: do it is to get a drink, and then the
41:04
Speaker 2: next stop get food, and then the next stop get
41:06
Speaker 2: a drink, and then the next stop get food, and
41:07
Speaker 2: you go every other and you save money and you
41:10
Speaker 2: get a nice tasty treat because they got a lot
41:11
Speaker 2: of good. The food is just as good as the drinks.
41:14
Speaker 3: Yeah, the food is great and the drinks are so
41:16
Speaker 3: freaking expensive. See. I was like, yeah, sure, I could
41:19
Speaker 3: drink as much as I wanted to. But a glass
41:20
Speaker 3: of wine is eighteen dollars for four ounces. But if
41:24
Speaker 3: it's a good wine, but it's notice it's good, but
41:26
Speaker 3: it's not that good. It's like Kim Crawford.
41:28
Speaker 2: Well, I mean you pick and choose, Like now I
41:30
Speaker 2: have it mapped out, like I always start and I
41:32
Speaker 2: go Mexico.
41:33
Speaker 1: You gotta get a nice margarita from Mexico.
41:35
Speaker 3: Love the margarita is there?
41:36
Speaker 1: I love that.
41:36
Speaker 2: Then I usually always make my way to.
41:40
Speaker 1: At least we do the saki when we get.
41:44
Speaker 3: To Japan, the piolet saki.
41:46
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we'll do absolutely wine when we go to Italy,
41:50
Speaker 2: like I always want to make sure France will absolutely
41:52
Speaker 2: get like a bubbles. I don't usually get anything in America,
41:56
Speaker 2: if anything, a turkey.
41:57
Speaker 3: Like America has the best cocktails, though what do they have?
42:00
Speaker 3: The blueberry moonshine was the one that the people rave about,
42:03
Speaker 3: the blueberry mule.
42:04
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know if I could. I don't remember
42:05
Speaker 2: the moonshine.
42:06
Speaker 3: It's something with blueberry.
42:07
Speaker 1: I'm a lightweight because I don't do that. I can't
42:09
Speaker 1: do it. That mny.
42:10
Speaker 3: I know you threw up in Japan.
42:11
Speaker 2: Oh okay, I also did. No, I just drank too.
42:14
Speaker 3: Much, hence lightweight and don't.
42:20
Speaker 1: Say I stopped.
42:22
Speaker 2: Well, I made it to France and then that's what
42:24
Speaker 2: I cut it off because everything else, I'm like, Okay,
42:27
Speaker 2: I tried to do this nasty drink over in England.
42:30
Speaker 1: I think it was a It's a.
42:31
Speaker 3: Pims cup, that's it. No, Pims cup is so good.
42:35
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know. Maybe it's just because I was,
42:37
Speaker 2: you know, too lit up the last time. But I
42:39
Speaker 2: sat there and I thought this is disgusting.
42:41
Speaker 3: I know. I So I did get a Pims cup,
42:43
Speaker 3: but I didn't finish it because we had to make
42:44
Speaker 3: our brunch reservation. Well, but it was good. I remember
42:47
Speaker 3: thinking I was delicious and they had that good pebble ice.
42:49
Speaker 2: That's because you've gone and you've actually have you ever
42:51
Speaker 2: had one actual London?
42:53
Speaker 3: No, that was my first Pims cup.
42:55
Speaker 2: Maybe it's only an American thing to actually make one
42:56
Speaker 2: in London.
42:57
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's like the whole thing. Pim's cup is a
42:59
Speaker 3: British thing.
43:00
Speaker 2: Okay, well, then maybe it would be better. I actually
43:02
Speaker 2: drink different things when I go to other countries, I'll
43:04
Speaker 2: drink what they actually have.
43:05
Speaker 3: Well, I'll drink a guinness in London. That's the only
43:08
Speaker 3: place I like to drink a guinness is over in
43:10
Speaker 3: the UK.
43:10
Speaker 1: It makes more sense, it.
43:11
Speaker 3: Makes more sense vibe because I'm a mood drinker. You
43:14
Speaker 3: know this about me. I'm a mood drinker when it's
43:16
Speaker 3: like sad and bloomy and cold out whiskey or red
43:19
Speaker 3: wine if it's nice and summary out, any variety of
43:23
Speaker 3: white wine. When I'm in like a chaotic mood.
43:26
Speaker 2: Tequila, okay, vodka. That's like when I go on a cruise,
43:31
Speaker 2: it's usually tequila.
43:32
Speaker 3: Yeah, Tequila's is just easy to drink.
43:33
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, not a lot of people say that, And
43:35
Speaker 2: a lot of people say they have horrible tequila stories.
43:36
Speaker 3: I don't understand that because I have horrible vodka stories.
43:40
Speaker 3: Vodka turns me into a different human. I become Medusa,
43:44
Speaker 3: Queen of chaos.
43:46
Speaker 2: How so it was the last chaotic thing you did
43:48
Speaker 2: on vodka college?
43:49
Speaker 1: Oh boy, it's been.
43:50
Speaker 3: That's how long I don't drink. I mean, I'm sure
43:52
Speaker 3: I've had like a vodka here and there, but the
43:55
Speaker 3: last time I had like copious amounts of vodka was
43:58
Speaker 3: sophomore year of college. And I've told the story many times,
44:01
Speaker 3: so if you've heard this, I'm sorry for retelling it.
44:03
Speaker 3: But I had so much vodkill one night in college
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Speaker 3: that I confessed my love for one of my brother's friends.
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Speaker 3: And I was so embarrassed by it when I woke
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Speaker 3: up that I lied and told him. I went to
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Speaker 3: the hospital.
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Speaker 1: Oh my god.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I don't know. I was so humiliated and
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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, this will, this will make it better?
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Speaker 3: Did it? No?
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Speaker 1: Is he still a friend of your brothers?
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Speaker 3: Yeah?
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Speaker 1: You still see him?
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Speaker 3: Yeah? So my brother's engagement party. That was fun.
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Speaker 1: Is is he?
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Speaker 2: Are you married with kids?
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Speaker 3: Yes?
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Speaker 1: Oh good?
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Speaker 3: Okay, No one prepares you for that. When you see
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Speaker 3: somebody used to have like a crush on or used
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Speaker 3: to date, like married with kids. That's a weird experience.
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Speaker 2: Uh yeah, I've had now relationships people I was in
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Speaker 2: love with, like getting married.
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Speaker 1: It's a punch in the gut.
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Speaker 3: I know, well, wasn't. I wasn't like, oh no, what
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Speaker 3: could have been? But it was just weird. I was like,
44:53
Speaker 3: that's your kid.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think it's a me saying, man, I
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Speaker 2: wish that was me, but it's for me right now.
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Speaker 3: Now.
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Speaker 2: It's kind of like a bam to the gut of Wow,
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Speaker 2: they found somebody and you haven't.
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Speaker 3: Or that should have been me, or I'm sure at
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Speaker 3: some point you pictured your life with them and you're like, oh,
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Speaker 3: this isn't that is never gonna happen you because this
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Speaker 3: is your life now.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well I never say never, just like Justin Bieber said,
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Speaker 2: anything could happen. But I hope they have a happy
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Speaker 2: life and I hope they, you know, enjoy it together.
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Speaker 1: And I will find my person.
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Speaker 3: You want follow you around from six to ten? Not
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Speaker 3: enough and you're never gonna find your person, Scotty.
45:29
Speaker 2: Let's go ahead and wrap it here, because there are
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Speaker 2: some things I want to just one I do want
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Speaker 2: to dive into.
45:34
Speaker 1: We might need to bring on a psychic for this.
45:38
Speaker 2: The chip I have a thing with chewing, and Abby
45:42
Speaker 2: likes to chew right on the microphone, which is awesome.
45:45
Speaker 2: But I had a dream last night that has me
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Speaker 2: extremely nervous about one who I'm living with mm hmm,
45:51
Speaker 2: and two the danger that might be lurking outside of
45:54
Speaker 2: my doors. So I want to bring on a psychic
45:56
Speaker 2: because I know dream talk isn't the best, but I
45:59
Speaker 2: think it is when there's a psychic involved.
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Speaker 3: We got to talk about this tomorrow. Recurring dreams because
46:03
Speaker 3: I have three reoccurring dreams.
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Speaker 2: Well, okay, I'm gonna reach out. Soul Worker Stacey is
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Speaker 2: somebody that we've talked to many of times. I have
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Speaker 2: talked too many of times, and I would like to
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Speaker 2: hear her perspective because in the past when I've talked
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Speaker 2: to her, she has been spot on, like I've given
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Speaker 2: dreams and she's like, oh yeah, that means this show
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Speaker 2: is about the end. And I'm like, oh my god,
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Speaker 2: and we're like the only ones that knew. And then
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Speaker 2: the show ended and then we moved on to another transition.
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Speaker 3: Stacey to come re muscle.
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Speaker 2: I'm going to reach out to see if we get
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Speaker 2: around tomorrow. I'm sure she would love it. And I
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Speaker 2: also need answers because I have Do you have a
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Speaker 2: note of all your dreams? No, okay, you should. You
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Speaker 2: should keep a note and you can see the reoccurrence
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Speaker 2: so like when they happen, and then you can actually
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Speaker 2: dissect them. Now I just throw them in the chat
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Speaker 2: GBT and Chat's like, well you might die and I'm like, okay,
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Speaker 2: thanks Chad, I'd rather have a psychic on, so we'll
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Speaker 2: do that. We'll get that on for all the piece
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Speaker 2: on Instagram.
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Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you popping on.
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Speaker 2: We're gonna actually upload this and make sure that you
46:52
Speaker 2: haven't listened to the podcast in the past.
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Speaker 1: There are a bunch of other episodes.
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Speaker 2: How many are there?
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Speaker 1: Nine?
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Speaker 3: Eight? This will be number nine. I think that's pretty good.
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Speaker 3: That's nueve in Spanish Scotti.
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Speaker 2: Brain No, you just no bad bunny songs. So if
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Speaker 2: you haven't listened to the other episodes, catch up check
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Speaker 2: them out. Let us know your favorite parts because there's
47:13
Speaker 2: been some doozies things that I haven't talked about that.
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Speaker 2: I'm glad we have an area to talk about them.
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Speaker 2: You're about to chew. Yep, there it is all right, Abby.
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Speaker 1: What is your social media.
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Speaker 3: At the Abby Murphy.
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Speaker 1: And mine is.
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Speaker 2: At Scott Tavlin s C O T T T A
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Speaker 2: V L I N. And make sure if you haven't already,
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Speaker 2: hop over there on the Magic ninety four nine Instagram
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Speaker 2: as well. We'll keep it updated with all the show stuff.