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Get clear on what you want in life · Beauty In Positivity

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  SPEAKER_00: Hello, gorgeous souls.
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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome back to the Beauty and Positivity Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: My name is Alyssa Skinner.
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  SPEAKER_00: Today is a short and sweet episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's for those of you who don't know what you want to manifest yet.
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  SPEAKER_00: Just a quick little hack to get you clear on what it is that you are bringing in.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you're unsure of what you want to bring in, maybe you don't know what characters and qualities, characteristics and qualities your dream partner has.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you don't know how much money you're comfortable manifesting right now and holding.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you don't know what you want to do for work or what your career is going to be, or if you want to work.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you don't know where you want to live, what city you want to be in.
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  SPEAKER_00: The simple hack is looking at what it is that you don't want.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hear me out.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's say you don't want a partner who is controlling.
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  SPEAKER_00: That means you want a partner who trusts you, who sees your heart and knows who you are and sees your character.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's say you don't want the amount of money you're making right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's definitely not enough.
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  SPEAKER_00: I need at least double, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Start there.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's say you want to live in a beach house and you're like, okay, let me look at these homes on the beach.
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  SPEAKER_00: What do they cost?
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the amount of money I'm bringing in.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the amount of money I would like to have the things that I would like.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's say you don't know what you want to do for work or what your career will be.
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  SPEAKER_00: You definitely don't want to be in the receptionist job you're in now.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you, or you work at a bar and you're like, I'm a bartender, I love it, but I don't want to do it forever.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't want to be around drunk people every single day.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's kind of exhausting.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or I don't want to go to nursing school like I thought I did.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that's off the list because I don't want to work under someone.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to be my own boss.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, so now you're manifesting being your own boss.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now you know you don't know what the business is, but you definitely want to feel freedom or feel rich.
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  SPEAKER_00: There is tons of journals that I wrote over and over again.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to work for myself.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to work for myself.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to make this much per month.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I did not know how I was going to do that.
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  SPEAKER_00: I didn't know what I wanted to do for work.
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  SPEAKER_00: So speaking from experience, I just said I want to work from home.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to have slow mornings at home.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't want to rush.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's all I wrote.
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  SPEAKER_00: I only knew what I wanted to feel.
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  SPEAKER_00: I definitely want freedom.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to work for myself, or I don't want to have a boss.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't want to leave my house early and rush to work every single day.
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  SPEAKER_00: So what I'm manifesting is no longer rushing to work and not having to leave my house if I don't want to.
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  SPEAKER_00: So this is how you can narrow down what you want by looking at what you absolutely don't want.
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  SPEAKER_00: I absolutely don't want a partner who doesn't have a job and asks to borrow my car.
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  SPEAKER_00: Meaning, I want a partner who has a career, has their own hobbies, has a good head on their shoulders, has goals, and can meet me where I am.
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  SPEAKER_00: I do have a job, I do have a car, I do have goals, I do have friends, I do have desires I'm going after.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want a partner who has the exact same.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to chase our goals and success together.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you don't know where you want to live.
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  SPEAKER_00: Give yourself options.
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  SPEAKER_00: This helps remove the chaos, the indecisiveness.
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  SPEAKER_00: Give yourself two options.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do I want to live in Florida or California?
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, Florida's really humid, California's really expensive.
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  SPEAKER_00: Give yourself the options to narrow it down.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do I want to live in the mountains?
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  SPEAKER_00: No, it definitely has to be coastal.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now you know.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now you're narrowing it down and looking at coastal cities.
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  SPEAKER_00: So look at what you don't want and look, what is the exact polar opposite of that?
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  SPEAKER_00: That is what you want to bring in.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's your answer.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's what you're manifesting.
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  SPEAKER_00: Use this trick to help slow down your thoughts, gain clarity, one area of your life at a time.
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  SPEAKER_00: You don't have to manifest everything all at once.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the beautiful thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: You have your whole life ahead of you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And always remember you don't have to know the specifics.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not everyone is a specific manifester.
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  SPEAKER_00: I teach this in my Line Babe Academy.
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  SPEAKER_00: You do not manifest the same way I manifest.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in my academy, I show you exactly what type of manifestor you are and how you should be going about your dreams and desires.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe the practices I do don't work for you because we manifest differently.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I do show you your uniqueness and how you take the path based on that.
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  SPEAKER_00: I go through every single one.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's about five different types of manifestors, and I help you learn which one you are.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when I try to think of the specifics, I am not a specific manifester.
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  SPEAKER_00: That stresses me out.
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  SPEAKER_00: It makes me feel lost, it makes me feel pressured.
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  SPEAKER_00: So don't focus on that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Don't focus on the things that stress you out.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what do you want to feel about your career?
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to feel stable.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to feel important.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to feel like successful.
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  SPEAKER_00: Manifest those feelings.
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  SPEAKER_00: The house, or I'm sorry, the rest is already done for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: I um had a typo.
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  SPEAKER_00: The vehicle and how it comes is done for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: The universe will choose the rest of that.
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  SPEAKER_00: You only have to know what it is, and what it is counts by what it feels like.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or what it feels like counts as what it is.
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  SPEAKER_00: You only have to know what the rest is done.
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  SPEAKER_00: I did not know what I wanted my career to be, but I knew what it would feel like.
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  SPEAKER_00: I knew I would know I was in it, if that makes sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: I knew that I would feel like I was in it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was there, I was at the destination.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is my career.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's all I knew.
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  SPEAKER_00: I knew I'd have confidence when I arrived.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not a specific manifestor.
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  SPEAKER_00: My dad is.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, for example, he loves to pick the color of the house, how many square feet it's gonna be, the exact location it is.
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  SPEAKER_00: He could drive in a neighborhood and be like, that house, I'm manifesting that house right there.
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  SPEAKER_00: Me?
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  SPEAKER_00: No, thank you.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's so much pressure, that stresses me out.
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  SPEAKER_00: But we don't manifest the same.
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  SPEAKER_00: We don't achieve our desires the same.
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  SPEAKER_00: You are not meant to receive the way I receive.
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  SPEAKER_00: You receive in your own unique way.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you can go find my light babe academy in my bio.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love you so much.
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  SPEAKER_00: I hope this tip works for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let me know if you found some clarity.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm sending you so much love and success.
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  SPEAKER_00: Bye.