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- 0:00Speaker 1: My personal favorite is whimsy maxing.
- 0:02Speaker 2: Tell us about whimsy maxing.
- 0:04Speaker 3: So, whimsy maxing is just like stacking your life with
- 0:07Speaker 3: all things whimsical. I think that this is sort of
- 0:11Speaker 3: a version of the idea of romanticizing your life. For me,
- 0:15Speaker 3: I love whimsy maxing. This is the first time I've
- 0:17Speaker 3: used this term, Okay, but I identify with this term
- 0:20Speaker 3: because I think I do this naturally in my life.
- 0:22Speaker 4: You are a hippie whimsical person I am.
- 0:25Speaker 3: I'm very flowy, and I love the summer because I
- 0:29Speaker 3: think LA has its most whimsical potential in the summertime. So,
- 0:34Speaker 3: for example, like a classic summer for me, I had
- 0:38Speaker 3: this day recently with my friend where we went to
- 0:41Speaker 3: a skate meetup in Long Beach, suns out, buns out,
- 0:44Speaker 3: We wore like really cute outfits. We roller skated all
- 0:47Speaker 3: day long with a bunch of other whimsical roller skaters.
- 0:51Speaker 1: We were gardening at.
- 0:53Speaker 3: The beach, we hung out on the sand, we got
- 0:55Speaker 3: poke bowls, and then we watched heated rivalry. It's a
- 0:59Speaker 3: perfect LA day and that's how I like to spend
- 1:02Speaker 3: my LA summers.
- 1:05Speaker 2: O La La. I'm fiosa and I'm Mala and you're
- 1:08Speaker 2: listening to another capito of Lokata Radio.
- 1:12Speaker 1: Today we're talking about maxing.
- 1:15Speaker 2: What the fuck is maxing?
- 1:16Speaker 3: Maxing is everything and nothing at the same time. It's
- 1:20Speaker 3: a lot of different things. You might have heard this
- 1:22Speaker 3: term on TikTok all over the internet, maybe with regards
- 1:27Speaker 3: to beauty maxing or money maxing, even fibermaxing, and you
- 1:31Speaker 3: would be surprised at the origins and where this trend
- 1:36Speaker 3: is coming from. But not only that, maybe like where
- 1:39Speaker 3: in history we've seen maxing before, we just weren't calling
- 1:43Speaker 3: it that.
- 1:43Speaker 4: Yes, this trend circulated in the mainstream digital space in
- 1:47Speaker 4: the last several years, and like most trends, take a
- 1:49Speaker 4: life of its own, and today we're talking about what
- 1:52Speaker 4: it is, where it comes from, and what it reveals
- 1:55Speaker 4: about the cultural zeitgeist.
- 1:58Speaker 3: I think it's this is one of those like, uh,
- 2:01Speaker 3: those moments where we say this isn't new, Yes, this
- 2:03Speaker 3: has happened before, and here's why.
- 2:05Speaker 1: Yes, here's why. Is human beings we.
- 2:10Speaker 3: Turn to max maximalism, We turn to maxing, especially in
- 2:14Speaker 3: times of turmoil of economic stress. As human beings, we
- 2:20Speaker 3: have this tendency towards wanting to indulge, and I think
- 2:23Speaker 3: that's the moment we're in right now.
- 2:25Speaker 4: All right, let's talk about it because there's some I
- 2:28Speaker 4: think in its evolution, because we're going to talk about
- 2:31Speaker 4: the origins and kind of how dark the origins are.
- 2:34Speaker 2: But we're going to.
- 2:34Speaker 4: Start like we always do, or like we tried to,
- 2:38Speaker 4: not always, but we're going to start with like the fun,
- 2:40Speaker 4: the fun, the evolution that we're like popets of the internet,
- 2:44Speaker 4: like make it its own.
- 2:45Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 2:45Speaker 4: And so one of the ones that we're talking about
- 2:48Speaker 4: or that we've seen online is like Latina Maxing.
- 2:51Speaker 1: Yes, I love this one.
- 2:52Speaker 4: So Latina Maxing, I mean to find out how you want, right, Latini,
- 2:57Speaker 4: that is a spectrum. So the way I'm Latinoxing today
- 3:00Speaker 4: is I'm wearing, of course, hoops, red lip the and
- 3:05Speaker 4: I'm wearing my little liked Bad Bunny merch that I
- 3:09Speaker 4: got in Mexico. So it's the little goncho wearing the
- 3:12Speaker 4: Mexican jersey. And that's how I'm Latina Maxing today because
- 3:17Speaker 4: I did not want to get in trouble because I
- 3:19Speaker 4: wore my Bidou shirt last episode and I'm wearing so
- 3:23Speaker 4: I'm wearing Mexico today.
- 3:24Speaker 2: So that's how I'm latina maxing.
- 3:26Speaker 1: You're you're also you're serving the people.
- 3:28Speaker 3: Yes with your lug, correct, with your your Latina max lugs.
- 3:32Speaker 2: I am for the people. I am tri cultural.
- 3:34Speaker 1: Yes you are. And it must get exhausting.
- 3:36Speaker 2: It is exhausting. Yes, I need a third term.
- 3:40Speaker 4: Like everyone is like nia, yeah, and I'm like, I
- 3:42Speaker 4: need a third one to add to it.
- 3:44Speaker 1: Oh my god.
- 3:44Speaker 4: We need to work on that, right for the tricultural baddies,
- 3:49Speaker 4: the tri cultural mommies, the tri cultural Latinas.
- 3:52Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, we're going to work on that. We're going
- 3:54Speaker 3: to workshop that. We'll come back next episode. Yes with
- 3:58Speaker 3: a with a tri cold term.
- 4:00Speaker 2: All right, let's do it.
- 4:02Speaker 1: And in a way that is like culture maxing. I
- 4:05Speaker 1: can stand that's culture maxing.
- 4:09Speaker 4: There's also Mamacita maxing. And so there's this creator on
- 4:13Speaker 4: TikTok At Luis Done, and I saw him talking about
- 4:17Speaker 4: Mamasita maxing in this way, Latinas need to weaponize their
- 4:21Speaker 4: beauty to get richer by Mamacita maxing.
- 4:24Speaker 2: And he's calling us in and he's like, stop getting
- 4:27Speaker 2: stop getting the two dollars drinks bought for you. Aim higher.
- 4:31Speaker 4: He's like, use your beauty and weaponize it to get more,
- 4:34Speaker 4: not the free drinks cool, I'm higher and I was like, dang, okay.
- 4:38Speaker 2: Yeah, and that is mamacita maxing.
- 4:41Speaker 3: I love this notion of mamasita maxing, which I think
- 4:44Speaker 3: is different than latina maxing because I believe that latina
- 4:49Speaker 3: maxing is maybe like really wearing all the different items
- 4:56Speaker 3: that signify culture, all the cultural markers.
- 4:59Speaker 1: You're like, put that shit on.
- 5:01Speaker 3: But I think mamita maxing is really like harnessing your
- 5:06Speaker 3: mamita power, your mamita energy. Yes, because I think all
- 5:11Speaker 3: mamitas are Latinas, but not all Latinas are like going
- 5:15Speaker 3: full mamita all the.
- 5:17Speaker 4: Time, mamasita mommy, like the whole, the whole thing.
- 5:21Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 5:22Speaker 3: Like, if I'm gonna go out and I'm gonna be
- 5:24Speaker 3: mamita maxing, I'm gonna wear like tight capris, wedges, I'm
- 5:29Speaker 3: gonna wear a crop top. I'm going to like straighten
- 5:32Speaker 3: my hair probably or wear like big.
- 5:34Speaker 4: Hair you're giving hildosaurs exactly, iconically from Ugly Betty.
- 5:40Speaker 1: From Ugly Betty exactly.
- 5:42Speaker 3: I might not wear like things that are specifically culturally Mexican,
- 5:47Speaker 3: but I'm I'm gonna be Mamita to the max.
- 5:50Speaker 4: That's the distinction, and that's how what we're wearing today.
- 5:53Speaker 4: I am Latino maxing and you are Mamacita maxing or
- 5:56Speaker 4: mammy maxing.
- 5:57Speaker 1: To a degree, to a degree, I could go harder,
- 5:59Speaker 1: It could go harder. We could always go harder.
- 6:01Speaker 2: This is still a workplace.
- 6:03Speaker 3: We're at work. We are professionals. We're professionals, so that
- 6:08Speaker 3: this is not the only type of maxing that people
- 6:10Speaker 3: are engaging in. It goes from what we're wearing, to
- 6:15Speaker 3: how we're spending our time, even to what we're eating.
- 6:17Speaker 3: People are even talking about fibermaxing, yes, which is really
- 6:22Speaker 3: prioritizing fiber and getting as much fiber into your meals
- 6:25Speaker 3: and your diet as possible.
- 6:26Speaker 4: And honestly, like bowel movements very important, and I think
- 6:30Speaker 4: like we're going to get deep into it. But I
- 6:33Speaker 4: think part of the fibermaxing is like our shitty healthcare
- 6:38Speaker 4: system people are actually yes, I know, no put intended
- 6:44Speaker 4: is actually like you know, for our age demographic, colon
- 6:49Speaker 4: cancer is actually on the rise, and health insurance wise,
- 6:54Speaker 4: we're not allowed to get colonoscopies until later in life. Yeah, right,
- 6:58Speaker 4: And so I think that this is one of the
- 7:01Speaker 4: reasons that fibers is a part of the wellness and
- 7:04Speaker 4: the maxine that people are doing.
- 7:06Speaker 1: Absolutely.
- 7:06Speaker 3: I also think that there is such a big like
- 7:11Speaker 3: gym talk and like skinny talk and every like iteration
- 7:16Speaker 3: of this. They're not each of these are different, but
- 7:19Speaker 3: I think that fiber also plays a role. Yes, in
- 7:22Speaker 3: like all the fitness influencers are always talking about fiber,
- 7:27Speaker 3: Like the skinny girls are talking about fiber. Everybody's talking
- 7:30Speaker 3: about fiber for different reasons, but it's it's just central.
- 7:34Speaker 4: And I think it started it was like the protein craze, right,
- 7:37Speaker 4: people are putting protein in everything, and now it's like
- 7:40Speaker 4: the fiber craze.
- 7:41Speaker 3: You cannot have protein without fiber, right, too much protein
- 7:45Speaker 3: and then like you're in trouble.
- 7:47Speaker 1: You need the fiber to.
- 7:48Speaker 3: Balance it out, yes, or you're going to be very
- 7:50Speaker 3: backed up, right right right, and very sad.
- 7:52Speaker 2: I don't like where this conversation is going. Can can
- 7:54Speaker 2: we move on to.
- 7:55Speaker 1: Going down the drains? Is going down the drains, down
- 7:58Speaker 1: the tubes.
- 7:58Speaker 3: So we talked about fiber maxine, protein maxine, looks maxing,
- 8:03Speaker 3: beauty maxing, which this is I think a more generalized
- 8:08Speaker 3: way of talking about the Mamita maxing, the Latino maxing,
- 8:12Speaker 3: but just for the general public, right right, maximizing your beauty.
- 8:16Speaker 2: It is a general public.
- 8:17Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know them. I've never met them,
- 8:20Speaker 1: but I imagine I don't know her.
- 8:22Speaker 3: I imagine they exist. My personal favorite is whimsy maxing.
- 8:26Speaker 2: Tell us about whimsy maxing.
- 8:28Speaker 3: So whimsy maxing is just like stacking your life with
- 8:31Speaker 3: all things whimsical. I think that this is sort of
- 8:34Speaker 3: a version of the idea of romanticizing your life. For me,
- 8:39Speaker 3: I love whimsy maxing. This is the first time I've
- 8:42Speaker 3: used this term. Okay, but I identify with this term because
- 8:44Speaker 3: I think I do this naturally in my life.
- 8:46Speaker 4: You are a hippie whimsical person I am.
- 8:49Speaker 3: I'm very flowy, and I love the summer because I
- 8:54Speaker 3: think LA has its most whimsical potential in the summertime.
- 8:58Speaker 1: So, for example, like a class summer for me.
- 9:01Speaker 3: I had this day recently with my friend where we
- 9:05Speaker 3: went to a skate meetup in Long Beach.
- 9:07Speaker 1: Suns out, buns out.
- 9:08Speaker 3: We wore like really cute outfits. We roller skated all
- 9:11Speaker 3: day long with a bunch of other whimsical roller skaters.
- 9:15Speaker 1: We were gardening at the beach.
- 9:18Speaker 3: We hung out on the sand, we got poke bowls,
- 9:21Speaker 3: and then we watched heated rivalry and just like like
- 9:25Speaker 3: it's it's our Like this is girlhood.
- 9:27Speaker 2: What a perfect day.
- 9:28Speaker 3: It's a perfect LA day. And that's how I like
- 9:31Speaker 3: to spend my LA summers, you know. And so for me,
- 9:35Speaker 3: like I want to fly kites this summer, Like I
- 9:39Speaker 3: want to get all of our little friends together and
- 9:41Speaker 3: go to the park and fly kites, you know.
- 9:44Speaker 1: To me, that is whimsy maxing.
- 9:45Speaker 3: Yes, I want us to like bring our adult coloring
- 9:48Speaker 3: books and blow bubbles, a little crafting day, a little
- 9:52Speaker 3: crafting day, and fly kites and have like our cute
- 9:55Speaker 3: little dogs surrounding us.
- 9:57Speaker 1: Like, to me, that is whimsy maxing.
- 9:59Speaker 2: I love that. Thank you, that's adorable.
- 10:01Speaker 1: Thank you.
- 10:02Speaker 2: I support this whimsy maxing.
- 10:03Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you? And what else?
- 10:05Speaker 3: Okay, Another way that I'm whimsy maxing is I think
- 10:08Speaker 3: this is very whimsical.
- 10:09Speaker 1: I'm directing a.
- 10:10Speaker 3: Play, wow, like a live play like theater, which is
- 10:13Speaker 3: very fun.
- 10:14Speaker 2: Right, very fucking whimsical.
- 10:15Speaker 3: It's very fucking whimsical. So the play is called Let's
- 10:18Speaker 3: be pop stars. It was accepted to spaghetti Fest at
- 10:22Speaker 3: the Allegian Theater. Everything I'm saying is whimsical right now,
- 10:27Speaker 3: premiering at spaghetti Fest at the Allegian Theater one night only,
- 10:30Speaker 3: July seventeenth, And it's about two roommates who become pop
- 10:34Speaker 3: stars to solve the Los Angeles housing crisis.
- 10:37Speaker 4: Intead, I mean, come on, that's what pop stars should
- 10:39Speaker 4: be doing, Yes.
- 10:41Speaker 3: Using their millions to solve the housing crisis and like
- 10:44Speaker 3: en world hunger and like establish world peace.
- 10:47Speaker 1: That's hard, It's not that hard.
- 10:49Speaker 3: So to me live theater and pop stardom combined, it
- 10:52Speaker 3: screams whimsy.
- 10:53Speaker 2: That is very whimsical.
- 10:54Speaker 1: The play is.
- 10:55Speaker 3: Written by Scarlet Red and Annie Valdez.
- 10:58Speaker 1: Comesius July seventeenth. It's to be so cute.
- 11:00Speaker 2: That is so cute. I love that.
- 11:01Speaker 1: Thank you join the.
- 11:02Speaker 3: Whimsie sol Theosa. You're Latino maxing ye currently as we speak,
- 11:07Speaker 3: but I know you are also maxing in other parts
- 11:09Speaker 3: of your life.
- 11:10Speaker 2: Okay, right now I'm podmaxing. Okay, yeah, only am I.
- 11:14Speaker 4: Working on Lokata Radio, but I well, we are also
- 11:19Speaker 4: working on another podcast. Just we're just producing an episode.
- 11:22Speaker 4: But it's going to be a fabulous episode. By the
- 11:25Speaker 4: time this episode is out, the series will be out.
- 11:28Speaker 4: And it's called American Colony. It's produced by the Latino
- 11:33Speaker 4: Newsletter and we are producing an episode with Raquel Richard,
- 11:38Speaker 4: past guest of Lokat Longtime home Girl, and the episode
- 11:42Speaker 4: is about Edie's check On, And the entire series is
- 11:46Speaker 4: about Puerto Rico as a colony and its history and
- 11:50Speaker 4: how it currently resists and how it's current like political struggles,
- 11:56Speaker 4: and so it's gonna be fan fabulous, it's gonna be great,
- 11:59Speaker 4: it's gonna be power. It's an incredible team that we're
- 12:01Speaker 4: working with. But our episode is about beauty standards, it's
- 12:05Speaker 4: about the show girls, it's about the Vedets and the
- 12:08Speaker 4: iconic East check On. Yeah, so that is one way
- 12:12Speaker 4: that I'm podmaxing. But I'm also working on an additional podcast.
- 12:17Speaker 4: It's a memoir podcast. I'm working on it with an
- 12:20Speaker 4: incredible editor, producer, and I can't really say more about it,
- 12:26Speaker 4: but it's memoristic. It'll hopefully come out next year twenty
- 12:30Speaker 4: twenty seven. But when I tell you, I'm in the
- 12:33Speaker 4: weeds with writing and going into the deepest core of
- 12:36Speaker 4: my memories of things I've tried to forget.
- 12:39Speaker 2: I'm like giddy ess podcast. You said you wanted to
- 12:45Speaker 2: make this and this, you pitched it.
- 12:47Speaker 3: You started working on this years ago while you were
- 12:51Speaker 3: a grad student at US.
- 12:52Speaker 1: Yes, and now it is. It's in production.
- 12:55Speaker 2: It's in production. It's in production.
- 12:57Speaker 4: It's one of those things where it's it's like painful
- 13:01Speaker 4: to make, but the art and the result will be good,
- 13:06Speaker 4: will be great, will be powerful for me as a release,
- 13:10Speaker 4: and I hope people like it. But that's like one
- 13:12Speaker 4: thing that I'm doing is I'm podmaxing.
- 13:14Speaker 3: And there is even another podcast that we are very
- 13:19Speaker 3: much in the early stages of development on. It's a
- 13:21Speaker 3: season two. We can't say too much right now, but
- 13:25Speaker 3: we're always working on a new show. Yes, trying to
- 13:28Speaker 3: get a new show made.
- 13:29Speaker 2: Podcasting is my life.
- 13:32Speaker 4: It is my life. So I am podmaxing and I'm
- 13:34Speaker 4: also new. Have not talked about this, I don't think
- 13:37Speaker 4: on the podcast or I'm not even really talking about
- 13:40Speaker 4: it on social media, just like with my friends. But
- 13:43Speaker 4: I'm med maxing. Okay, I'm on two meds right now.
- 13:48Speaker 4: I'm on an antidepressant and I'm on a stimulant. Because
- 13:52Speaker 4: last summer I was diagnosed with ADHD late in my life,
- 13:55Speaker 4: late at thirty one years old.
- 13:57Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 13:58Speaker 4: Yeah, and so haven't shared much about because I'm still
- 14:01Speaker 4: learning about it. I didn't have like the quote stereotypical
- 14:05Speaker 4: symptoms that when we think of ADHD, and typically we
- 14:09Speaker 4: think about boys and like hyperactivity. But for me, it's
- 14:14Speaker 4: presented very differently, which is why it was missed for
- 14:17Speaker 4: most of my life. And so this is my first
- 14:20Speaker 4: time ever, like actually on medication. I have famously, fabulously
- 14:26Speaker 4: been on birth control for like a decade, famously famously,
- 14:30Speaker 4: but you know, have not been on any type of
- 14:33Speaker 4: like antidepressants, SSRIs, like any of that before. So I'm
- 14:39Speaker 4: medmaxing because it is quite the journey to find the
- 14:43Speaker 4: right cocktail, to find like the right combination of like
- 14:46Speaker 4: what works for you, what treats your symptoms, what makes
- 14:50Speaker 4: you feel like actually better.
- 14:52Speaker 2: Yeah, And so that is how I'm medmaxing.
- 14:55Speaker 3: I want medmaxing to take off. I don't think i've
- 14:58Speaker 3: seen it yet here first, Yeah, I think you're hearing
- 15:02Speaker 3: it here first, medmaxing.
- 15:03Speaker 2: There we go, medmxing.
- 15:05Speaker 4: Also in this current day and age, where we have
- 15:09Speaker 4: set the secretary of health RFK Junior trying to reduce
- 15:14Speaker 4: how many people or who gets to prescribed and who
- 15:18Speaker 4: gets to receive Andy de presance and SSRIs and.
- 15:22Speaker 2: Like ADHD meds.
- 15:23Speaker 4: So I'm like, actually, medmaxing might be like a radical
- 15:26Speaker 4: thing that we're doing.
- 15:28Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, as healthcare is constantly under attack and coverage
- 15:34Speaker 3: and protections are more and more expensive and less and
- 15:37Speaker 3: less comprehensive. Yeah, getting what you need to take care
- 15:41Speaker 3: of yourself in under a regime that actively is fighting
- 15:46Speaker 3: against our health and wellness is definitely very radical.
- 15:50Speaker 4: Yeah, so that is what I'm doing. I've also learned,
- 15:54Speaker 4: like if you're on SSRIs, which is what I'm on,
- 15:59Speaker 4: you can very heat sensitive, like you're sensitive to the
- 16:03Speaker 4: sun to heat. And you know that that's never been
- 16:05Speaker 4: a problem for me. I run very cold. Yes, So
- 16:09Speaker 4: I'm like newly experiencing like what it's like to like
- 16:14Speaker 4: feel really hot and like I need a fan, Like,
- 16:17Speaker 4: oh my god, let me go inside.
- 16:18Speaker 1: So that's new.
- 16:21Speaker 2: Don't go anywhere, locomotives. We'll be right back. Oh my god,
- 16:26Speaker 2: I I don't about you.
- 16:29Speaker 1: I run so hot.
- 16:30Speaker 2: I thought about it was like this is why mom
- 16:31Speaker 2: always has a fan always.
- 16:32Speaker 3: Yeah, it can be very uncomfortable when your body starts
- 16:36Speaker 3: to overheat. Yes, and you're like really not even doing
- 16:39Speaker 3: anything strenuous.
- 16:40Speaker 1: I know, I know, so sorry.
- 16:42Speaker 3: Okay, wait, this reminds me remember when we did that
- 16:44Speaker 3: photo shoot for Spotify, Yes, for Times Square, and they
- 16:48Speaker 3: had to like, I was getting so hot in for
- 16:50Speaker 3: the lights. I was getting so hot in front of
- 16:53Speaker 3: the lights. And this is, by the way, a photo
- 16:55Speaker 3: for a Times Square billboard, a big one.
- 16:59Speaker 1: Yes, and we're there.
- 17:01Speaker 3: Full hair, full makeup, looking cute, but I'm getting so hot.
- 17:04Speaker 1: I'm overheating.
- 17:05Speaker 3: So many lights on us, so many lights, And they
- 17:07Speaker 3: had to pull out like a swamp fan to and
- 17:11Speaker 3: pointed at me, and like the photographers and the pas
- 17:15Speaker 3: they're like, oh my god, she's getting so hot.
- 17:16Speaker 1: Oh my god. We got to get a fan on her.
- 17:18Speaker 1: It was like a thing.
- 17:19Speaker 2: It was get the makeup artists, we got it.
- 17:21Speaker 1: We got to blot it was. It was too much.
- 17:25Speaker 1: But yeah, I hope that your system regulates.
- 17:28Speaker 2: Yes, me too, Me too.
- 17:30Speaker 4: Let's talk about maxing its history origins, its origins as
- 17:36Speaker 4: a term, and then broadly, like how it's where we
- 17:41Speaker 4: can situate in history as like a phenomenon that's not new.
- 17:44Speaker 3: Because I think right now the type of maxing we've
- 17:47Speaker 3: been talking about is like very femme coded maxing.
- 17:50Speaker 1: It's to the benefit of the girls and the gays
- 17:53Speaker 1: in the days.
- 17:54Speaker 3: And I've seen a lot of the maxing terminology being
- 17:58Speaker 3: being like made popular by fems, by women, by latinas,
- 18:04Speaker 3: by Latine people, by queer people. But the Internet origins
- 18:08Speaker 3: are actually quite the opposite of them.
- 18:10Speaker 4: Yeah, So the origins of maxing can be traced to
- 18:14Speaker 4: two verified sources according to New York Times magazine, And
- 18:17Speaker 4: originally it comes from game theory, so language games like
- 18:22Speaker 4: you're maxing your strategy okay, oh oh yeah, and that
- 18:26Speaker 4: that can be found like dated back into the nineteen forties.
- 18:29Speaker 4: But the way we're thinking about maxing now and present
- 18:33Speaker 4: day can actually be traced back to like the twenty tenths,
- 18:37Speaker 4: and it became popularized among in cells. And these are,
- 18:42Speaker 4: if you don't remember, are the self proclaimed involuntarily celibate
- 18:47Speaker 4: right now in cell culture, I think has transformed into
- 18:51Speaker 4: what we know is the manosphere. But at one point,
- 18:54Speaker 4: quote in cells were like fringe, you know, they were
- 18:58Speaker 4: on the dark Web, they were four Chan, they were
- 19:02Speaker 4: not in the mainstream. But now we see it in
- 19:05Speaker 4: the mainstream on these like manusphere podcasts.
- 19:08Speaker 2: And there is this.
- 19:12Speaker 4: Streamer I don't really want to talk about him, but
- 19:15Speaker 4: he has popularized this term looks maxing, and it's this
- 19:20Speaker 4: trend in which young men strive to become the most
- 19:24Speaker 4: attractive in the extreme form by essentially self harming. So
- 19:28Speaker 4: they're hammering their own faces to obtain a chisel jaw.
- 19:32Speaker 4: They're using steroids, they're buying peptides off the black market,
- 19:36Speaker 4: so meaning it can be unaltered, it can be produced
- 19:41Speaker 4: in not a sterile place. And that is how we
- 19:45Speaker 4: got this idea of like maxing.
- 19:47Speaker 2: It actually comes from in cells. It comes from the
- 19:50Speaker 2: dark web.
- 19:51Speaker 4: And it's interesting in the way that we've now adopted it, right,
- 19:55Speaker 4: Like we don't even know that it comes from there,
- 19:58Speaker 4: but we've adopted it in this way where it's like
- 20:00Speaker 4: a fun Internet term, right, And that's fine, that's that's like,
- 20:03Speaker 4: that's the part of trends, and that's the part of
- 20:06Speaker 4: how like language moves. But the origins are are from
- 20:11Speaker 4: like dark web. Four chune in cells that is so.
- 20:14Speaker 3: Bleak, right, oh my god, But I feel like where
- 20:18Speaker 3: it's gone now is much more positive, Like it's kind
- 20:24Speaker 3: of been taken and transformed and reframed in a good direction.
- 20:31Speaker 3: It's not like I don't think that the maxing that
- 20:34Speaker 3: I'm seeing and that people are talking about is in
- 20:37Speaker 3: a harmful way.
- 20:38Speaker 1: Correct? Correct?
- 20:39Speaker 4: That is like not what I had seen or that
- 20:41Speaker 4: is not how I understood it. I have heard about
- 20:44Speaker 4: this streamer. I don't know if he's like on twitch,
- 20:46Speaker 4: but this streamer, and i'd heard of him talk about
- 20:49Speaker 4: looks maxing and I had talked. I've heard him like
- 20:52Speaker 4: say like really misogynistic, like racist things, and so I
- 20:56Speaker 4: was aware of this person, and so I understood, like, Okay,
- 20:59Speaker 4: this is what this is. This is the negative side
- 21:00Speaker 4: of it. But I had also seen like this positive side,
- 21:03Speaker 4: which I think, like it's just the way I think
- 21:07Speaker 4: we commodify language right now in like this late stage
- 21:10Speaker 4: capitalist time where everything has like a term, right, we
- 21:15Speaker 4: had like what were some of the popular ones, like
- 21:18Speaker 4: even just a couple of years ago, It's like girly pop.
- 21:21Speaker 2: It's like, I'm just a girl.
- 21:22Speaker 4: These are all you know, because I'm a woman, Like
- 21:25Speaker 4: I'm thinking about the things that girls and women do online, right,
- 21:28Speaker 4: But it's not exclusive to women to be clear. But
- 21:32Speaker 4: there's like the way we've the plates princess, right, the
- 21:35Speaker 4: way we like name things and commodify them and make
- 21:38Speaker 4: it an identity, right, And I think that that's what's
- 21:40Speaker 4: happening here with like this quote maxing. It's not necessarily
- 21:43Speaker 4: a bad thing, but I think it's the way that
- 21:45Speaker 4: Internet allows for this type of the digital space allows
- 21:49Speaker 4: for this type of like naming of things, right, Like yeah,
- 21:54Speaker 4: ten fifteen years ago would be like the hashtag, right,
- 21:56Speaker 4: but now it's like it's like subculture within subculture.
- 22:00Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 22:00Speaker 3: And it's interesting because a term is well will be
- 22:05Speaker 3: like invented or popularized to describe behaviors that people already
- 22:11Speaker 3: engage in or have always engaged in, and then it
- 22:14Speaker 3: becomes like hyper viral and it's everywhere, and then in
- 22:18Speaker 3: a year we forget. I forget because there's been a
- 22:20Speaker 3: lot of terms, and we've talked about them on the show. Yes,
- 22:23Speaker 3: we've like produced and hosted episodes about different viral moments,
- 22:27Speaker 3: viral terminology, behaviors, like the exact thing we're doing today.
- 22:31Speaker 3: It's like insert other word Hereah, but like I'm having
- 22:34Speaker 3: a hard time remembering.
- 22:35Speaker 4: Yeah, well, because I think like I don't know, fibermaxing,
- 22:38Speaker 4: protein maxing, Like it's just wellness.
- 22:41Speaker 1: It's just wellness.
- 22:41Speaker 2: It's just wellness at.
- 22:42Speaker 4: Its extreme, like repackaged and commodified. But like it's it's
- 22:47Speaker 4: not anything new. But I think just the term or
- 22:49Speaker 4: the way we're talking about it is like the new thing.
- 22:52Speaker 4: But actually, like striving to be like your optimal self
- 22:56Speaker 4: is something that is very much encouraged and celebrated in
- 23:01Speaker 4: this country, and like capitalist systems, right, is like you're
- 23:03Speaker 4: always optimizing to be the best person and best version
- 23:06Speaker 4: of yourself.
- 23:07Speaker 2: And so that's that's nothing new.
- 23:09Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's it's just it's having a balanced diet. Yes,
- 23:13Speaker 3: you know, it's like following the food pyramid, right, But
- 23:16Speaker 3: that's not that's not doesn't have viral potential. No, But
- 23:21Speaker 3: if we come up with a new term that has
- 23:24Speaker 3: viral potential, because now it's associated with the sound, and
- 23:28Speaker 3: it can be reused on like a new clip, and
- 23:32Speaker 3: it can become something whereas like something that already exists,
- 23:37Speaker 3: like well, it already exists, there's no viral potential behind
- 23:40Speaker 3: it unless you remix it somehow and kind of give
- 23:44Speaker 3: it some new life and sort of rebrand it. It's
- 23:47Speaker 3: a rebranding of things that we already like are doing, right.
- 23:52Speaker 4: Yeah, that reminds me of like the superfood craze. Yeah,
- 23:56Speaker 4: like we've gone through these like ebbs and flows of
- 24:00Speaker 4: popularity and like virality pre Internet, like the super food
- 24:05Speaker 4: I remember when it was kale and then it was
- 24:06Speaker 4: spiralina you know qa quinoa, right, No one had heard
- 24:10Speaker 4: of quinoa.
- 24:11Speaker 1: Before I had, but of course you had.
- 24:13Speaker 2: I had, but the other people hadn't, you.
- 24:15Speaker 3: Know, Yeah, exactly exactly, So I think, Yeah, and even
- 24:20Speaker 3: the things that we talked about today like whimsy maxing,
- 24:23Speaker 3: Mamita maxing. You know, it's just like people's personalities and
- 24:26Speaker 3: their styles and how how we like to be, how
- 24:29Speaker 3: we like to exist. So this is like the Internet origins,
- 24:33Speaker 3: the in cell origins of the term of the maxing term.
- 24:37Speaker 3: But again this concept of doing something to an extreme
- 24:42Speaker 3: or to a max maybe as a response to the
- 24:47Speaker 3: society around us. Like I think right now maxing is
- 24:50Speaker 3: popular because gas prices are really high. Again, we're you know,
- 24:55Speaker 3: we're at war. You know, things are very expensive. We
- 25:00Speaker 3: live under a very oppressive political regime. So I think
- 25:05Speaker 3: that the messaging to us is to cut back and
- 25:08Speaker 3: be more minimal and to save and be more conservative.
- 25:13Speaker 3: But of course, as human beings, we're in a society
- 25:15Speaker 3: that takes so much from us, so the natural inclination
- 25:20Speaker 3: is to indulge in the things that make us happy
- 25:23Speaker 3: and that are good for us and that we love
- 25:24Speaker 3: and that we enjoy. So instead of being super minimalist
- 25:28Speaker 3: about things because of the state of the world, we're
- 25:30Speaker 3: maxing and we are indulging and we're having fun with it.
- 25:35Speaker 3: And to me, when I was like thinking about this
- 25:38Speaker 3: episode and this concept of maxing, I immediately thought about
- 25:42Speaker 3: zoot suits and zoot suitors and the Zootsuit riots, because
- 25:46Speaker 3: I think that zoot Suitors were some of the original
- 25:50Speaker 3: like style maxers. You know, like think about back in
- 25:54Speaker 3: the day. It's the nineteen thirties, it's the nineteen forties,
- 25:58Speaker 3: and like we're at war, were in the Great Depression,
- 26:02Speaker 3: and we're talking about rations at the time, and we're
- 26:05Speaker 3: like rationing textiles and there's like limits being placed on
- 26:10Speaker 3: imports on things like wool.
- 26:12Speaker 1: And then you have.
- 26:13Speaker 3: Black youth in Harlem and Latin American Mexican American youth
- 26:18Speaker 3: in La wearing these really extravagant zoot suits with tons
- 26:24Speaker 3: of fabric, very maggy pants, tapered at the ankle, big
- 26:28Speaker 3: oversized coats, big long like chains on their watches, and
- 26:35Speaker 3: just like the opposite of what you would think when
- 26:38Speaker 3: you're thinking of like depression and rationing, and so zoot
- 26:42Speaker 3: suitters were really like stylish and not dressing in accordance
- 26:48Speaker 3: with like the Great Depression era and expectations at the time.
- 26:52Speaker 3: And that was met with violence, right, And we can
- 26:56Speaker 3: talk about the zootsuit riots and how servicemen in the
- 26:59Speaker 3: LA area literally came in droves to downtown LA and
- 27:05Speaker 3: for several days there was like a full blown riot
- 27:09Speaker 3: and navymen servicemen were like literally roaming the streets of
- 27:13Speaker 3: downtown and attacking zoot suitors or anybody perceived to be
- 27:18Speaker 3: wearing a zoot suit who were predominantly in LA at
- 27:22Speaker 3: the time, Mexican and Filipino and stripping them naked and
- 27:25Speaker 3: beating them, and then the police were arresting the victims.
- 27:29Speaker 3: And it was definitely racially motivated, and it was this
- 27:33Speaker 3: like these military guys directly violently like responding and attacking
- 27:40Speaker 3: to these guys who were stylemaxing, and women were also
- 27:43Speaker 3: zoot suitors. But when we think of the suit, I
- 27:45Speaker 3: think we think of the men first and foremost. So yeah,
- 27:48Speaker 3: I thought immediately I was like, well, yeah, yeah, zoot suitters,
- 27:52Speaker 3: like that's exactly what they were doing.
- 27:53Speaker 2: I love that.
- 27:54Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a really good breakdown of like the cultural
- 27:57Speaker 4: and historical context of the zoot suits and like style
- 28:02Speaker 4: and how style has always been like embedded in like
- 28:05Speaker 4: political resistance, whether like you want to see it or not.
- 28:09Speaker 4: But I definitely think I think that's a great example.
- 28:12Speaker 3: Yeah, it's definitely there. I think also like Dolly Parton
- 28:16Speaker 3: is I mean, hello, a fab an icon. And I
- 28:20Speaker 3: think that she has been like glamour maaxing and style
- 28:24Speaker 3: maxing her whole career, and she's been beauty maxing and
- 28:28Speaker 3: whimsy maxing. I think everything that she does is to
- 28:31Speaker 3: the max, especially with her look and her aesthetic, like
- 28:35Speaker 3: the big wigs, the colorful, loud makeup, the embellishments, the nails,
- 28:40Speaker 3: the tight silhouettes, and some people refer to her style
- 28:44Speaker 3: as yeehaw glam. And she also when she was starting
- 28:49Speaker 3: in her career and even after being very established in
- 28:52Speaker 3: her career, was constantly receiving criticism, being made fun of
- 28:58Speaker 3: told that she needed to tone it down, that she
- 29:01Speaker 3: looked trashy, that nobody would take her seriously, And she
- 29:05Speaker 3: always was so funny about it, and when she got
- 29:09Speaker 3: interviewed about her looks, she would always make a joke
- 29:13Speaker 3: out of it.
- 29:13Speaker 1: She was always just lighthearted.
- 29:15Speaker 3: She was never defensive, and she would say that her
- 29:19Speaker 3: style inspiration was like the town hooker from the little
- 29:23Speaker 3: town that she grew up in.
- 29:25Speaker 1: And she would talk about.
- 29:26Speaker 3: Being a little girl and seeing like this working girl,
- 29:30Speaker 3: and a young Dolly would see her and think to herself, like,
- 29:34Speaker 3: what a glamorous, beautiful woman.
- 29:36Speaker 1: I want to look just like that, right.
- 29:37Speaker 2: You know?
- 29:38Speaker 3: And Dolly Parton actually has a book called Behind the Seams,
- 29:44Speaker 3: My Life in Rhinestones, and they did a little excerpt
- 29:48Speaker 3: in time how I developed my glitzy personal style. And
- 29:52Speaker 3: I love this little quote from her. When I started
- 29:55Speaker 3: wearing that big hair and my flamboyant clothes and my
- 29:58Speaker 3: boob sticking up.
- 29:59Speaker 1: A lot of people said, Dolly, you need to dress down.
- 30:01Speaker 3: Nobody's ever going to take you serious as a songwriter
- 30:04Speaker 3: or a singer if you look like that, because you
- 30:07Speaker 3: look more like a hooker than you do a singer.
- 30:09Speaker 3: And Dolly said, well, tough, this is who I am.
- 30:12Speaker 3: They'll get used to it. And she never toned down.
- 30:14Speaker 4: She never changed, never did never even now at her age,
- 30:18Speaker 4: you know she's still performing when she does perform, like
- 30:20Speaker 4: in leotards.
- 30:21Speaker 1: Yes, you know, she looks.
- 30:23Speaker 2: Fabulous, she's glammed up. She has not changed.
- 30:25Speaker 4: And she is someone that's definitely clearly has like committed
- 30:30Speaker 4: to the style or the style maxing her entire career
- 30:33Speaker 4: for decades.
- 30:34Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not a phase, it's not a trend. It's
- 30:38Speaker 3: truly who she is.
- 30:41Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 30:41Speaker 4: Definitely, Who are some of the other artist or people
- 30:44Speaker 4: that you think are like maxing a higher level, not
- 30:48Speaker 4: a higher level, more public level.
- 30:50Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 30:50Speaker 3: I also think, of course our fave, the icon, the legend,
- 30:53Speaker 3: the queen Selena, Yes, Selena Keithania, I think was the
- 30:57Speaker 3: Hannah maxing. Yes, with all of her print looks and
- 31:01Speaker 3: the leather, they had a maxing. I think that she
- 31:04Speaker 3: was also Latina maxing and Mamita maxing for sure. Yeah,
- 31:08Speaker 3: and I think that she veered more on the Mamita
- 31:12Speaker 3: maxing side because I don't.
- 31:13Speaker 2: Think don't go anywhere, lookamotives will be right back.
- 31:21Speaker 1: Other than the cowprint.
- 31:22Speaker 3: I don't think she was necessarily wearing items that screamed
- 31:26Speaker 3: like Mexican. I don't think she was necessarily wearing things
- 31:29Speaker 3: that were like very specifically culturally Mexican. But it was
- 31:33Speaker 3: the way that she put it together. Yeah, that was
- 31:36Speaker 3: very Mamita Maxing of her she as we know, her nails,
- 31:40Speaker 3: her red lip, her earrings, her gold jewelry, like the
- 31:44Speaker 3: way she did her hair.
- 31:46Speaker 1: I think the way she.
- 31:47Speaker 3: Wore her clothes, it was all very much accentuating her
- 31:51Speaker 3: natural beauty in a way that to me, I think
- 31:55Speaker 3: we would now look at that and say, like, she
- 31:57Speaker 3: was Mamita Maxing, Yeah, someone.
- 32:00Speaker 4: That we now regard as a style icon. Yes, And
- 32:03Speaker 4: that's because she was creating her own looks in the
- 32:05Speaker 4: same way Dolly Pardon does and has done, is having
- 32:09Speaker 4: her unique own persona, her own style, her own look,
- 32:14Speaker 4: and like sticking to it. And in spite of being
- 32:18Speaker 4: in a male dominated genre like the Hano music, Selena
- 32:22Speaker 4: like committed to the glam. She committed to her looks,
- 32:26Speaker 4: and I think that's one of the reasons we can
- 32:28Speaker 4: look at her and like, well, of course, no, she
- 32:30Speaker 4: was doing things very differently, paving her own way, but
- 32:34Speaker 4: was doing it in her own way. And that's why
- 32:37Speaker 4: we can call her an icon, you know, because it
- 32:40Speaker 4: was uniquely her. She wasn't imitating someone else. She may
- 32:43Speaker 4: have been.
- 32:43Speaker 2: Inspired right by other artists.
- 32:46Speaker 4: Dolly Pardon, may have been inspired by the local town
- 32:50Speaker 4: sex worker, but they make it their own. And I
- 32:53Speaker 4: think that's part of like making it specific to you, right,
- 32:58Speaker 4: is how you're doing it, not necessarily the trend of
- 33:01Speaker 4: it all.
- 33:02Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, And I think Selena also famously in Selena
- 33:07Speaker 3: the movie, there's that scene where she debuts her boostier
- 33:12Speaker 3: for the first time when she's performing at a carnival
- 33:16Speaker 3: and her dad gets so mad at her about it
- 33:18Speaker 3: because he's like, she's wearing a bra. There's men out here, yes,
- 33:24Speaker 3: And then Marcella Selena's mom is like, it's a boostia.
- 33:29Speaker 3: She looks cute, you know, And I think in that way,
- 33:33Speaker 3: Selena was also projecting a femininity and a sexiness that.
- 33:39Speaker 1: Was pretty bold.
- 33:40Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
- 33:41Speaker 3: For again, a woman in the Hano music to go
- 33:44Speaker 3: out and wear very tight fitting clothes and wearing a
- 33:47Speaker 3: boostier and totally owning it and not allowing anybody to
- 33:51Speaker 3: make her feel.
- 33:52Speaker 1: Bad or to scare her away.
- 33:56Speaker 3: So I think that in that way too, she was
- 33:57Speaker 3: very much Mamita maxing with the pieces that she was
- 34:00Speaker 3: wearing and the way she was putting it all together.
- 34:03Speaker 3: And I also think, you know, Prince, I think was
- 34:05Speaker 3: glamour maxing. Yes, very much so, in every way, from
- 34:09Speaker 3: his like platform shoes, to his hair, his makeup, his
- 34:12Speaker 3: assless chaps at times.
- 34:14Speaker 4: Yeah, the gender bending like glam of it all, you know.
- 34:20Speaker 2: Was so good.
- 34:21Speaker 3: Yeah, just like the definition of a rock star, very
- 34:25Speaker 3: much so. And then and then also you know, like
- 34:27Speaker 3: Lady Gaga, I think is also somebody who has done
- 34:30Speaker 3: a lot of like style maxing, glamour maxing, whimsy maxing.
- 34:33Speaker 3: I think that she uh set the stage for someone
- 34:37Speaker 3: like a Chapel Roone to do the same in her
- 34:39Speaker 3: own regard. So yeah, I think with every generation you
- 34:42Speaker 3: have somebody who's like taking the baton and running with
- 34:45Speaker 3: it and taking that glamour to the next level, which
- 34:48Speaker 3: I always love and appreciate. I need my pop stars
- 34:51Speaker 3: to have some glamour and some whimsy. That's very important
- 34:54Speaker 3: to me.
- 34:54Speaker 2: Yes, it is very important. And like a dance routine.
- 34:59Speaker 1: Please some core choreo, please some Choreosgrpy.
- 35:01Speaker 4: If you're a pop star, you have to do choreo.
- 35:04Speaker 4: It's part of being a pop star.
- 35:05Speaker 3: Yes, which is why I appreciate this group Catsie. Yes,
- 35:09Speaker 3: I love them. I think they're so cute. I think
- 35:11Speaker 3: that they're also glamourmaxing, and I love that they dance.
- 35:16Speaker 2: Yes, they're great. The dancing is important. The choreo is important,
- 35:20Speaker 2: Yes it is, Yes it is.
- 35:21Speaker 4: And do you remember how the internet bullied do A
- 35:23Speaker 4: Lipa into really becoming.
- 35:25Speaker 2: A global pop star. Yeah, I like and doing choreo.
- 35:29Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, because there was a famously like a video
- 35:32Speaker 4: and there comment was like, yes, girl give us nothing
- 35:36Speaker 4: because when she was like moving, like the choreo was
- 35:38Speaker 4: just like very soft, and now she like brinks it.
- 35:42Speaker 2: You know, she's a global pop star.
- 35:43Speaker 4: I love Dua Lipa and I think, yeah, she's someone
- 35:47Speaker 4: that took a critique and like ran with it.
- 35:50Speaker 3: Yes, improved, she's now giving us like kickball, change a count.
- 35:54Speaker 2: I love it.
- 35:54Speaker 1: I appreciate it.
- 35:55Speaker 2: I love that.
- 35:56Speaker 3: Yeah, people are very It's funny though, because people don't
- 36:01Speaker 3: expect choreography from everyone like Ray. People do not expect
- 36:06Speaker 3: choreography from someone like Ray or like a Billie Eilish.
- 36:10Speaker 2: Or Mariah Carey or I'm Mariah Carey. Carry will never
- 36:14Speaker 2: a pop star.
- 36:15Speaker 1: She used to do a little choreo, a little choreo.
- 36:17Speaker 4: But I think like pop stars for me, I expect
- 36:21Speaker 4: because my representation or image of a pop star is
- 36:27Speaker 4: the beloved Britney Spears, of course, and she was giving
- 36:30Speaker 4: us choreo. And so when I think of a pop star,
- 36:32Speaker 4: I think of choreo. I like Billy Eilish. I wouldn't
- 36:35Speaker 4: call her a pop star.
- 36:37Speaker 2: I don't think. I don't think she's I.
- 36:39Speaker 4: Don't think she's a pop star. I'm not saying she's
- 36:41Speaker 4: not famous. I'm not saying she's not global, but like
- 36:43Speaker 4: pop star, I don't think that's the kind of music
- 36:46Speaker 4: she makes.
- 36:47Speaker 2: Maybe I'm wrong.
- 36:48Speaker 3: Yeah, she makes very kind of like wow, very dour,
- 36:52Speaker 3: very sad, very sad star.
- 36:54Speaker 2: Yeah, like Sabrina Carpenter's pop star.
- 36:57Speaker 1: I think she's a pop star.
- 36:58Speaker 2: She gives us choreo. She was doing her positions like
- 37:01Speaker 2: all through her through her tour.
- 37:03Speaker 1: Like yeah, you know, yeah, I don't know. I guess.
- 37:07Speaker 3: Once we start talking about artists who are moving into
- 37:11Speaker 3: this zone where they're like so mainstream, that they're like
- 37:15Speaker 3: making songs for the Barbie movie, like Billy.
- 37:19Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 37:20Speaker 3: I think pop star is it's become so many different things.
- 37:24Speaker 1: I think it's a.
- 37:25Speaker 3: Pretty broad category because when I think of pop music,
- 37:29Speaker 3: it just means popular music, you know. And I think
- 37:34Speaker 3: that we kind of like pick and choose who we
- 37:39Speaker 3: expect to dance. Okay, yeah, yeah, But somebody that I
- 37:43Speaker 3: do appreciate is Tate McCray. We saw Tate McCray, yeah,
- 37:46Speaker 3: at the iHeart Fest Music Festival.
- 37:49Speaker 1: Girl Can Dance, which I love, Yes, yeah.
- 37:52Speaker 2: Yes, I love a choreo.
- 37:53Speaker 4: And I think of just bringing it back to the
- 37:56Speaker 4: maxing and the self improvement of it all. And something
- 38:03Speaker 4: that you touched on in the at the top of
- 38:05Speaker 4: the episode, mala is like control of self right during
- 38:10Speaker 4: political turmoil or economic distress, is like I can control
- 38:14Speaker 4: what I do. So here's how I'm going to self
- 38:18Speaker 4: improve or like optimize my life.
- 38:22Speaker 3: Absolutely, I think it's about feeling like your life is
- 38:27Speaker 3: in your own hands, Like your life is within your
- 38:29Speaker 3: own control. Like you can decide how beautiful you are,
- 38:33Speaker 3: you can decide how much fiber you take in, you
- 38:37Speaker 3: can decide how you express your culture, you can decide,
- 38:42Speaker 3: like to what extent you're really maximizing your mame thanis
- 38:46Speaker 3: you know that these are not things that are imposed
- 38:49Speaker 3: on you, but things that you have ultimate saying power
- 38:53Speaker 3: and control over. And I think it's a way for
- 38:55Speaker 3: us to all feel like we are the masters of
- 38:58Speaker 3: our own destiny.
- 39:00Speaker 1: M Yeah.
- 39:01Speaker 4: I also think that there's like always this fine line
- 39:05Speaker 4: between like the extreme right. And I think when I
- 39:08Speaker 4: hear the word maxing, it's it is like feels very intense,
- 39:14Speaker 4: like we're talking about it, like the whimsical of it
- 39:17Speaker 4: of and that like really feel good part of it.
- 39:20Speaker 4: But I also when I think of maxing and this
- 39:23Speaker 4: idea and when it comes to like beauty and wellness,
- 39:27Speaker 4: is like how extreme we can like push ourselves and
- 39:32Speaker 4: how like in the eternal quest to like be better?
- 39:36Speaker 4: Like does the goalpost always move? So do we ever
- 39:39Speaker 4: actually feel good? Do we ever actually feel better? And
- 39:43Speaker 4: that's I think my concern with like how we view
- 39:46Speaker 4: wellness and how we view this type of like on
- 39:49Speaker 4: the surface, like yeah, it's good to have a balance
- 39:53Speaker 4: to me a like yeah, it's good to feel good
- 39:55Speaker 4: on the inside and out, But is the goalpost continuously moving?
- 40:00Speaker 4: And then in the end, does it actually make us
- 40:01Speaker 4: feel not that good? And I think from the cultural lens,
- 40:06Speaker 4: that's where I'm like looking at these type of trends like, yeah,
- 40:09Speaker 4: it's not new.
- 40:10Speaker 2: But does it ever.
- 40:12Speaker 4: Push us to like the point of harm? And I
- 40:16Speaker 4: think That's where I'm thinking of it right now.
- 40:18Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like on past episodes we've talked about
- 40:21Speaker 3: this with regards to different trends. But you know, so
- 40:25Speaker 3: much of this is like a vehicle through which we
- 40:29Speaker 3: push like buying, and we push like purchasing things, buying products.
- 40:36Speaker 3: If we're talking about beauty maxing, does that lead to
- 40:39Speaker 3: like link in bio, you know?
- 40:42Speaker 1: And is there like a sale? Is there a product?
- 40:46Speaker 3: If we're talking about like protein maxing, are we now
- 40:49Speaker 3: like all getting Chloye Kardashian's cloud popcorn right? You know
- 40:53Speaker 3: it's like sprinkled with protein powder. I mean behind every
- 40:56Speaker 3: trend there is like a sales team. Yes, there's a
- 41:00Speaker 3: marketing component to it. And when we are like looking
- 41:05Speaker 3: to make ourselves feel better because we might never be
- 41:08Speaker 3: able to get out of debt or buy a house,
- 41:11Speaker 3: do we placate ourselves and do we put a band
- 41:14Speaker 3: aid on the big problem? By like, oh, well, I'm
- 41:17Speaker 3: you know, I'm whimsy maxings.
- 41:19Speaker 4: I mean whimsy maxing sounds like the least harmful and
- 41:22Speaker 4: actually most enjoyable and like well, like wellness part of
- 41:27Speaker 4: it all.
- 41:27Speaker 1: Which is why I do it, which is why you
- 41:29Speaker 1: do it.
- 41:29Speaker 4: Yeah, because I'm like, you just brought up the and
- 41:32Speaker 4: we've talked about this before, like the capitalism behind it,
- 41:34Speaker 4: the machine behind it that wants you to buy things.
- 41:37Speaker 4: Everything you described is free. You're like, yeah, I'm gonna
- 41:40Speaker 4: go fly a kite in the park. Yes, I'm going
- 41:42Speaker 4: to go roller skate at the beach. Yes, I'm going
- 41:44Speaker 4: to watch a series with my friend. Right, sounds lovely.
- 41:48Speaker 4: Also sounds inexpensive, thank you, you know, And so I think, yeah,
- 41:53Speaker 4: I can see why you're for your approach. You're like,
- 41:56Speaker 4: this is wholesome, this is lovely, this is whimsy, And
- 41:59Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, this in cell culture, like this is
- 42:02Speaker 4: the origin. And I'm not saying that one is wrong,
- 42:04Speaker 4: and like there's one is wrong and one is right.
- 42:07Speaker 4: But I think the way our introduction to the to
- 42:10Speaker 4: this idea of maxing was so stark, you know, like
- 42:14Speaker 4: yours was like fun and whimsical and mine was like
- 42:16Speaker 4: this horrible like Manisphere bro who like parties with Andrew Tate.
- 42:21Speaker 2: So I'm like, what the fuck is going on?
- 42:23Speaker 1: It's very odd, you know.
- 42:24Speaker 4: Yeah, And so yeah, as with all things that we
- 42:28Speaker 4: look at on the podcast, like we look at the
- 42:30Speaker 4: micro and the macro, like how we are involved in something,
- 42:34Speaker 4: if we're involved in something, and then at the macro level,
- 42:37Speaker 4: like what it signifies about, like the culturals, like guys,
- 42:40Speaker 4: the cultural moment and like how that how we're all
- 42:43Speaker 4: reading it or involved in it or what we're making
- 42:45Speaker 4: of it.
- 42:46Speaker 3: Absolutely, So, listeners, how are you maxing today?
- 42:50Speaker 2: Are you maxing?
- 42:50Speaker 1: Are you maxing? How are you maxing?
- 42:53Speaker 3: Let us know, leave a comment, leave a review, because
- 42:56Speaker 3: we're maxing all summer and not the credit card, not
- 43:00Speaker 3: maxing the credit card, everything but the credit card, please lord.
- 43:03Speaker 3: We're maxing our happiness. Yes, we're joy maxing, we're health maxing,
- 43:08Speaker 3: we're wellness maxing.
- 43:09Speaker 2: I'm mad maxing, all right, Yeah, as.
- 43:11Speaker 1: A means as a means, as a means to an end, Yes,
- 43:14Speaker 1: it means.
- 43:14Speaker 2: To an end.
- 43:15Speaker 4: All right, y'all, thank you for listening to another capital
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