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Couch Hair, Crime Shows, and Questionable Life Decisions · You Know What I Mean?

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My oh hi. Beth and you wishes being the
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sweetest complimenting my hair. Hey, make sure you're close to
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your mic. Yeah, hello.
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You were quiet. OK, can you hear me?
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Yes, that's better. Like a hair girl one time told
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me when I get my hair done, that's not what'd she say, it's
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couch hair or no no what was it? Where like you have a quickie on
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the couch or something. Sex Hair.
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Oh, bed hair. No, no, I don't know.
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Okay, this is not going. Like let's just go with couch
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hair. I like couch hair.
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Sounds good. Like you get home and your
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husband is like, Oh my God, Oh my God.
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Anyway, whatever, I. Don't.
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It's okay. You know what?
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I mean. I don't know exactly where
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you're going with that. Are you telling me I have couch
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hair? Yes, it's like blah blah, boom.
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Like hair? Commercial hair?
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Thank you. Yeah, so we are.
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We usually have for all of our millions of listeners.
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You guys usually catch us in the morning when we're catching up,
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but we've had almost a full day of being bright eyed and bushy
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tailed and we're coming to you in the afternoon recording
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because Bethany is like bears with me with all my dumb like,
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can we do it here? Can we do it then?
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Like oh. My God.
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Yeah. And I'm like, please, my
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schedule is so busy, right? You're being so annoying.
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Well I had a hair appointment before this so like that was
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like by choice. Literally I'm just standing by
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whenever. You're like whenever I'm
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available basically. And then I was thinking I'm
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like, OK, no, like her afternoons she gets more into
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like I want to chill mode. So I was, but you'll always talk
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to me. Oh yeah, no, this is like this
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wakes me up for sure. I wish it.
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Says I don't know if this would be creepy, but I was gonna say
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that green really makes your eyes pop.
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Isn't it a? OK, I'm gonna agree.
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With you colour on you. I know I almost, we went to
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Lululemon this weekend and I almost got another one of these
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which I'm not gonna wear. I barely wear this as it is in
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this colour. And I was like, I went up to
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Bobby and I was like, wow, this colour looks great on me.
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I love that you, you like put those sunglasses on.
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You're like, I look amazing. I don't say that that often, but
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that's I think. You should.
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I love it. I think when I feel it, I'm
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like, yeah, yeah. So I feel that when it's so
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funny because eyebrows has always been my thing.
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Like I like a big brow when I was younger, like I had
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naturally big brows and I was definitely the generation of
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like you make them as thin as possible.
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So I literally hated looking back at pictures.
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I'm like, I had these little arches that were just tiny,
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skinny little things. Yeah.
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And I'm like, Oh my gosh. Kate had beautiful natural brows
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as a young kid, so they've grown in really nicely.
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But I still get like, I just got a touch up this week of my
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microblading and it's at like, day, call it 5, which is the day
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that it's like they start to, like, fade Day 2 and day three,
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they're like, boom, like, intense.
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And most people are like, oh, my gosh.
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I'm like, I wish they would stay intense.
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Like, I'm totally fine if it almost looks like I have
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caterpillars on my face. So how you feel about yourself
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in green? Yeah, I feel when I have like,
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bold brows, I'm like, I could take on the world.
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Really. Yeah, I'm like, if anyone looks
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at me, they're like, she means business with those brows.
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Like that's how I feel. That's so funny you'd say that
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about the caterpillars because I got my hair done on Friday and
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she tints my eyebrows because I haven't done anything.
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Like I'm scared to do micro. No, not micro needling.
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What is microblading? Microblading.
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But when she does them, they're like really prominent.
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And I came home and I was like, Oh my God, yeah, I totally get
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that. I need to do something because I
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do love big eyebrows. Yeah.
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And I get your like reservation of just because like it's kind
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of like when people start doing like the lash extensions now
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everyone's a lash artist. Like you're doing microblading.
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I mean, you, I've seen some hack jobs, you should get them done
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in August with my girl when you're here because it lasts 2
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years. OK, done.
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She's amazing. OK, Literally she's like gone to
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Italy for training, training and stuff like that.
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And of course I want to send you to her because I love her and I
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trained her dog so that helps too.
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But she, she does an amazing job.
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So we should totally set you up with her.
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What do the kids say? Or you say, say less, say.
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Less don't tempt me with a good time.
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Did you come up with that on your own?
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I don't, no, I definitely didn't come up with that.
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But I don't know, like no one says that to me.
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I'm sure I've heard it. I definitely didn't come up with
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the phrase, but like, I don't know where I would have heard.
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I probably heard one person say it and I was like, that's mine
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now. Oh, by the way, when you asked
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about the reality TV show Who We Are and you said I'm Prue, I
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think you're Allison. Oh, OK.
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Yes. Because she loves a joke.
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I mean her. Does her no love a prank?
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OK, so we should just say which cast member from Great British
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Baking Show? Are we?
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Yeah. I'm totally Alison and you're
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totally pro. Yeah, which I and then I feel
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like we both can lean into our Knoll from time to time.
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For sure. Yes.
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Yeah, I wish that was my job. What?
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You would be so good at that. I'd love it, yeah.
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Birdie, she's licking herself right next to.
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Me that's. That's a no for me, dog.
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Yeah, we can't do that. But I don't know if you saw
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this, but you inspired me. So you know how you were saying
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like you'll just be in the house and stuff like that because
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that's like, where you mostly work or if you're like in the
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kitchen or whatever, doing your Top Chef things or, you know,
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baking and just, you know, basically being a great British
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baking star, you'll just have great British playing in the
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background. Well, I decided I needed that in
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my life. And most of my day I spend down
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in the kennel room. So Casey ordered me a mount and
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then my TV that I have in the guest bedroom downstairs.
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It's like literally my TV from college that has a DVD player on
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the side. I'm like, no one ever really
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uses this when they stay in the bedroom.
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So I'm like, I'm moving it down to the kennel room.
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I've got my Fire stick and I'm playing on repeat Great British
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Baking Show while I'm down in the kennel room.
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That makes me so happy for. You and I just have the volume
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high because I'm not really watching it, but just hearing
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their voices. It's.
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Keeping me in the right state of mind.
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Yes, it's very calming. Yes, and then of course I'm
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watching all the ones that have like, sorry, I totally what's
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the bald guy's name? Oh, Matt.
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Matt, if Matt's in it, I'm like, I need to change it to either
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the earlier ones or to the Allison ones because he could
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put me in the wrong state of mind.
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No, I just went through this and it's when we're watching it at
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night and we finished. Like I don't really love like
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the last season. The one girl just dominates and
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I don't love that. Jasmine I know.
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I don't. Literally said we don't need
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like I don't want a Jasmine to win because it's like you're
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watching 1 episode one or two. You know who's winning?
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Yes. Like it's just, you totally
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know. So we went back to because I
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didn't want to watch Matt seasons.
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So when I went back, when it's a little short lady and she's all
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right, what's her? Name I can't remember.
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I couldn't tell you someone that's a Great British Baking
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Show person's listening and yelling at to us.
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Oh my gosh, sorry I just got so distracted.
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There's 2 little lovebirds like little doves sitting on top of
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the pergola right now. Like cuddling?
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That's so sweet. So just pure.
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Did I tell you how it was like a few.
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It was before I got the chickens and I was trying to decide on
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well, I was really looking for signs of why I should get
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chickens. So I was like pretty much
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getting chickens but. You you'll find a sign.
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You'll be like a bird. I must need chickens.
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I must need birds every now but. Can I tell you today, this is
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where my brain works? I'm walk.
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I'm on a walk with Johnny. We're walking past the sidewalk
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and there's a little pink, cute beaded, like a little girl's
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bracelet. And I was like, oh, my God, I
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wish I could write a novel about a little girl's bracelet and how
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she lost it. Like, this is where my brain
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goes. Yeah.
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I think it's incredible. I don't know.
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Yeah. I I'm.
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So glad I have such a unique friend in like the best way.
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I feel like that's like my brain would never go there.
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No. I my brain would go Oh no.
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So she lost her bracelet. Oh yeah, yeah.
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She's going to be so sad I need to either leave it here so she
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comes back to look for it or like hang it on my mailbox and
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write. Anyone lost a bracelet?
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That's where my brain goes to a sad situation.
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Well, on someone else who watches crime shows, which I do,
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by the way, and I've just gotten sucked into a new one.
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OK, there's. One on me because Casey won't
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watch those with me so I just need to like watch those on my
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own. Oh, Bobby won't watch them
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either. Well, he watched some with me,
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actually. That's that's a lie, but it's a.
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Lie. I mean, Casey will watch some,
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but if it's like too gruesome or like too dark, he's like, I
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can't, I can't. Let's put on Clarke's.
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About this I love dark stuff. Not like horror, I don't want to
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be grossed out, but it's more like true crime.
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Totally. All day long.
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OK, I'll have to tell you, I forget.
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OK, this is the best thing about our podcast.
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It is totally dependent on both of our like our moods and I, I
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like that. Like some of them are going to
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be more like not weren't, weren't ever like that.
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But some might be more low key. Others are going to be like, put
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your seatbelts on you don't know where this is going.
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I don't even know what topics. It's 9 minutes in and we've
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covered our bases. I know Casey's hopping in.
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Hi, Casey. Hey, what's up?
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How are you doing? Well.
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You, are you looking at the audio?
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Are you making sure the audio's OK?
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I can see your eyes moving. Are we doing OK, Casey?
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You guys are doing fine. Here's here's Bird.
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OK, Heidi, she hates that so much right now.
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Oh, she's so cute. She is.
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Look at her, Bethany. What?
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She's so obsessed with Casey, what it is like almost kind of
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creepy. Why?
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How? You remember that one time when
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at your house, not this time, but the last time, she was like,
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really licking, Bobby. Like licking, licking, licking.
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The last time, yeah. Yeah, yeah, not this past time,
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but the time before that. Yeah.
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Like if I go to like hug Casey or something of recent, she like
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really wants to get in there and like start licking his skin.
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Like she's going to hump him. No, yes, she's air humped next
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to him. No.
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Yes, and I'm like BB, I'm like, I don't know what your hormones
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doing her honey, but that's your dad.
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I didn't see any of that. When they wish you, you were
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here. No, she didn't do it.
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I think she likes to like, do it in the comfort of her own home.
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But I'm like, Oh my gosh. And I was like, literally Casey
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was just in the other room doing therapy.
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And I was thinking, because Birdie was laying here right
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next to me and I'm like, he's fucking, he's only been in there
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for an hour. He's probably going to come out.
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She's like, and I'm going to be like, don't worry, guys, this is
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Birdie. She hasn't seen her dad for an
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hour. God forbid.
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OK, your crime show. Sorry, back to that.
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Well. I forget what it's called, but
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there's three seasons so far and it's like it's written, I think,
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by the same people who did Law and Order especially.
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What is this on? Netflix OK it's #2 show right
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now, which I'm always drawn to. I go to the.
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List I've seen. What is that called?
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Yeah, I've seen people posting about this.
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It's so good. The New York ones are the best.
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OK, there's two new. York seasons, there's the first
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one is LA so you I mean I. Gotta look just cuz I'm
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interested. Yeah, you gotta watch all of
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them, I guess, but New York is my favorite.
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I started with Season 3. It was so good.
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Now I have a few more episodes of two.
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Is it something very bad is gonna happen?
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No. No homicide New York.
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Yes. OK.
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All right, Cool. I'll watch it.
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It's good. Have you watched Jury Duty?
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Yes. OK, so we there's a second.
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One right? Yeah, but it's something
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different. We watched Jury Duty a while
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back, like when it was really popular, but I think we realized
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we we must have like, I don't know, stopped watching.
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I don't know why 'cause it's hilarious at like the last two
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episodes. So we're we're re watching it
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and it's giving kind of like how they record, you know, like
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Clarkson's Farm or stuff like that.
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Like it's just that kind of vibe.
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It is just so good. So we we're like, we need to,
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yeah, we're like, we need to rewatch this before we start the
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new one, which it's not even like the new one, but it's like
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the next type of thing or whatever.
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Yeah. Where it's like they're all
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actors except for one person. But Oh my gosh, watching.
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And I was like, I wish we would have watched Jury Duty with
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Bethany and Bobby because I'm like, this is so funny.
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Laughing with other people who actually think the same things
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you're you're talking or you're watching are funny, you know?
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Yeah, you and Casey are very similar to when you were
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watching shows. Like I'm not usually like an LOL
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person that's actually laughing out loud.
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Like I'll giggle a little bit. Like while I'm watching.
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He is full blown, like I'm trying not to like scream and
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blow people's ears out, but he's sitting next to me and I'm so
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glad he finds something so funny.
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But like there will be something that he just keeps laughing and
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I'm like, OK, that was 1010 minutes ago why?
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Why are we still laughing? But.
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I love, I think that's so healthy for you to like laugh
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where you're like almost crying. Oh my gosh, I feel like that's
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every. That's like why we also love
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hanging out with each other is we're constantly laughing.
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That's like the one time when we went to this is one of your best
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laughs. I've I've heard where we're
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going to get ice cream and you have me start singing can.
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You sing that. Can you can you please start
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singing it right now? Staring at the blank poo before
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you, that's how it goes. OK, yeah, but when we were in
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the car, so that song staring the blank page before you, it
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was like this trainer news like song I feel like.
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And then the last one was. Pony.
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Pony Pony Club. So each one has kind of had it's
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like own song, which is really fun.
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So we just kept singing it over and over again.
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And we're on our way to get ice cream and Bethany and I are in
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the backseat and she was just like, she's like, you're
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actually like a pretty good singer, but you came out with it
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so flat. You were like staring at the
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blank page and all of us started geeking out.
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Even Bobby, like Bobby always giggles and laughs with us, but
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even he was like oh boy. And I just cackled the the other
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time. I think that we both got both of
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our laughs out that were like, I've never heard that laugh
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before. It was our reverse singing.
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Oh my God those are so hilarious.
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I've never laughed like that my whole life that much.
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Like we literally needed to like, catch our breath in
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between songs because we. Were packing up something I've
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never laughed that much. That was like such a core
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exercise. It was unbelievable it.
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Was so funny because we tried to do it.
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We did a couple, so when you're first initially doing it, it's
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so funny, but then we tried to obsessed and then I tried doing
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it with Casey it. Wasn't funny.
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Doing it with Casey? Not the same, because no, it was
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not. The.
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Same. Because he took it too
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seriously. He's like the music guy.
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So he's thinking like, you know, rhythm.
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And I'm like, no, this is like, let's just go back to the ones
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that we did and just keep rewatching those.
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That's so funny. Man.
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Why do you start watching that? Because I saw the newer season
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or whatever setup they're doing. Yeah, I was like.
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I don't know, I can't really get into it with the trailer but I
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was remembering I just saw the. Trailer of the new one.
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Oh yeah. I haven't even seen anything
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about the new one. The only reason it got brought
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up is Steph had asked us at our workout yesterday if we watched
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it because we had talked about jury duty a while back.
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I'm like, I didn't even know there was like a second season.
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So now I'm. Excited.
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I need to go watch the second, the first one again because it
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was so funny. I love stuff like that.
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Yeah. Me too.
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How was your day? What?
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Tell me something you loved about your day.
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Oh, you know, it's weird. I feel like I started thinking
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about laughing so hard that like my nose gets runny.
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It just started getting runny. OK thing I loved about today
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we're. Recording a podcast, you guys.
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This man has the audacity to be behind me on his computer with
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it on loud and it's dinging left and right and I'm so distracted.
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He just asked me if you can grab a treat, grab whatever you need
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and get out of here. Just kidding, but OK.
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So tell me something you loved about your day because normally
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when we eat in the morning and I've actually wanted to ask you
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that, like tell me something that made you happy today.
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Oh, I like that. Well, my lemons on my lemon
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tree, Lorna, my new one. Lorna, Yeah.
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Do you? Did you watch?
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Oh, my gosh. This makes this sound like all
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we talk about is shows. Thank you so much.
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The Lincoln Lawyer, the show Lorna.
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Lorna, I love her and she gives like lemon tree vibes.
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Is that how you got it? Well, no.
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So I thought of Lorne because I was thinking of.
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Outright. Probably.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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And then I started rewatch or finishing watching the first one
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or no, no, whatever season is. On yeah, it's season 3 just came
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out like of recent OK. I'm trying to finish Season 2.
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I was like, Oh my God. Her name's Lorna.
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Yeah, it is because I've been trying to really notice things
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throughout my day. This is something.
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Oh, like notice little gems. I think I'm going to say like
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notice stuff like if you were apparently he wants to be a part
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of the podcast. And you have to remember most
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people don't watch it video wise.
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So you just coming up silent with your glass of chocolate
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milk? Casey, you want to be a part of
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our podcast? Hey, what's up?
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He's. Having he's having FOMO.
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What's going on? Look at the size difference of
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our heads. I have a gigantic.
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I do too, though, yeah. I mean they're.
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Yeah, they're, we've got some. Big heads around here, I'm just.
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I'm just getting ready to record my podcast soon.
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Wait wait wait. Is it the one where you just
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talk about the most random bangs?
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Yeah, I think, I think I'm going to do the first one when she's
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gone because I I just don't know how that's going to go.
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Yeah, wait, can I just tell you again?
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I know, I texted. This all about her?
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She's laughing. Oh my God, I'm crying.
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That reel you shared, I swear to God that's the funniest thing
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I've ever seen in my whole. Life.
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OK. That is the I think the best
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thing about that is you would know the suit that was truly
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Casey. Yes, that's so.
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Weird. Which is the like the point, the
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fact that you pointed out the shoulders in our group text.
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I was like, it was so true. He's like.
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Relaxing. I can't believe that I
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screenshot it when I just wanted to say Shank.
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I didn't really. Shank, Shank.
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I didn't even catch that I. Didn't either I just I was
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trying to figure out when to screenshot it it.
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Just because I literally go and he goes and we do Shank and I'm
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like, I'm like, what is Shane? I'd like to know more about this
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service. We were going to lunch and I'm
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standing at the door watching it again and I'm just laughing
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hysterically and Poppy's looking at me like Oh my God, what is
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going on? Well.
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Also the funny part about it is I didn't even see it before he
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posted it. I had no idea what was on that.
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The only thing I did know is when I so the beginning part how
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it's me? I didn't know.
20:18
He was recording. I had no idea he was recording.
20:22
The other thing I didn't point on is social media.
20:24
He just had it rolling. And so he's like, can you come
20:26
down here and help me? Which I was actually shocked
20:28
because normally it's like if he's doing a video thing, he
20:31
kind of wants me like out of the way, which I totally get.
20:33
I totally get. So when he calls me down to help
20:35
him like he must be struggling because he does not normally
20:40
want me down there. I was so good there when you
20:42
were like, so easy. So easy.
20:45
So I had no idea he was filming and I don't even care.
20:47
Like what I looked like, but I was not wearing a bra.
20:50
So I'm like, Oh my gosh, I'm like, I'm like, good thing I
20:53
don't have much going for me there because I'm like, like
20:56
things are just all over the place.
20:58
I had to cut out so many swear words that I was just.
21:03
That you were saying? Yeah, because every, every time
21:06
I lose my train of thought, which was every 2 1/2 seconds.
21:10
You didn't. You never had a thought
21:11
straight. That's yeah.
21:12
You never had a handle on them. F left and right.
21:15
What am I doing? Yeah, I think the best part is
21:19
at the end, if you're watching him and he finally gets like,
21:23
you know, something like he says something clear of like, you
21:27
know, but his face looks like he might vomit.
21:30
Like if you rewatch, just rewatch the end.
21:33
He's like, you know, thank you and whatever.
21:35
And in my mind, I'm like, I know him so well.
21:38
I'm like, he looks like he's about to have a panic attack or
21:40
throw up one of the two. I thought I was like, Oh my God,
21:44
I wish I was in that room and they were doing it.
21:47
Yeah, oh, it was so fun. Hilarious.
21:50
And then the I love the editing where the last part is like, all
21:54
right, call us when you want help with your project.
21:57
Can't wait to work with you and. Then he goes, and then at the
22:00
end he goes. Nailed it.
22:01
Yeah. I was like, yeah, that was.
22:03
Good. That was good.
22:07
Oh man, it's actually funny. My hairdresser today, she's
22:10
like, I barely go on Instagram anymore and she's like, and I
22:13
wouldn't like normally see your husband's stuff, but Casey's
22:16
video popped up and she's like, I thought it was so funny.
22:18
So please tell him. I was like, I will.
22:21
You got to do more stuff like that.
22:22
It's so pure, and that is what literally.
22:24
Means. Yeah, I think people like the
22:26
authenticity of because they were.
22:28
It's real. They've.
22:29
All been there. Yeah, I also love where you said
22:33
this is my smoker. Laugh is coming out.
22:35
I love it. I don't smoke, but whatever.
22:37
But where you do your story, which I love, and then you're
22:41
and then you stare. Share the screenshot of like,
22:44
how would you think you're taking a video, but you just
22:46
take a picture. It's just your face looking.
22:51
And I just responded to that story when he posted that.
22:54
I just go Nope. OK, in the kennel room.
23:00
OK, bye. I don't remember what we were
23:03
talking about again. Oh my God.
23:06
Oh man. Yeah, made.
23:07
Me. Laugh, laugh.
23:09
Oh good, OK, your your lemon tree.
23:13
Oh yeah, maybe sometimes they're like getting a little bigger.
23:15
I can see them growing. Like there's a little cluster of
23:18
them and I'm like, Oh my God, I can't believe it's actually
23:20
becoming lemons. Does a tree like that, like stay
23:23
the height that it is or does it a little bigger?
23:26
OK, all right. And like how many lemons will
23:29
like get on it? I know I don't know like I
23:32
because it can't hold so many so there are a lot of little like
23:34
the flowers turn into the little lemons so but some of them will
23:39
drop off but I guess the tree knows and it like thins itself.
23:44
Sweet. I just, I've really been trying
23:46
to like pay attention to stuff like that, hence why I saw the
23:49
little, I noticed the little pink bracelet where when I see
23:52
stuff like that, I'm like, why? Why am I?
23:55
Why is this in my path today? This is where my head goes,
23:58
yeah. No, I get that.
23:59
I can, I can, I can relate something that we're doing.
24:04
This isn't about the day, but your lemon tree made me think
24:07
about it is, you know, like the middle section of like where
24:10
some trees are right on like our main hill area, but it's like
24:14
you wouldn't go walking through there.
24:15
It's just like brush and it's like right behind our our house.
24:19
So it's the grassy area. And then like right below it is
24:22
like, yes, woods basically, but you wouldn't go into it.
24:25
So we want to make it into like a wildflower Meadow.
24:31
So Casey did they, I don't know if you guys do this thing in
24:33
Florida, probably not. But this time of year they do
24:36
like prescribed burns around here where they like burn the
24:41
fields and like grass down for like the endangered species that
24:45
aren't supposed to be here. And I guess it helps, I don't
24:47
know, something with the grass growing into the next season.
24:50
So Casey did a burn in our backyard area so that the
24:56
wildflowers will have like a habitat that they can like
24:58
actually grow and stuff. So he ordered specific
25:01
wildflowers and this Meadow grass he wants to put in there
25:05
so. That's so great.
25:07
Yeah. It's so much fun seeing like,
25:10
when sprouts come up. Like I remember my friend who
25:12
got me into gardening and chickens, and she was like, Oh
25:15
my God, just wait. You're going to want to go out
25:16
in the morning with your coffee and like see what sprouting.
25:19
Basket. My what?
25:22
Chicken eggs. Yep, Yep.
25:24
It just makes it's a whole vibe. Our tulips are starting to pop
25:26
up. Not the colored yet, but they're
25:28
starting to gross. So we're getting into that
25:30
season. We had 78° day yesterday.
25:34
Yeah, it's 46 today. It's so weird.
25:36
Today's 46 and it was raining, but now the sun's coming out.
25:39
I spring around here is like, talk about someone having
25:46
multiple personalities or having mood swings.
25:49
Mother Nature in Wisconsin in the spring.
25:52
She cannot decide what she wants to do.
25:54
But you know what? Also fair because she just had
25:57
to deal with like cold for so long that she's probably just
26:02
trying to re regulate. Yeah, that makes sense.
26:04
I just, when I word it that way, it makes me less, what's the
26:10
word sour? And like, what's the word where
26:14
you like, chip on your shoulder just like, yeah, about the
26:18
weather. Cuz then I make it sound like
26:20
Mother Nature's trying to like get her shit together.
26:23
So then I, I, I want her to, I want her to do well.
26:26
You wish Mother Nature well. Yes.
26:30
Another thing, when I was at my hair appointment, she's like, I
26:33
saw that you and your friend was doing a podcast.
26:35
She's like, I don't have a dog. She's like, is it all about dog
26:37
training? I'm like honestly, we barely
26:40
touch on dog training here and there.
26:42
I'm like, we'll talk about like owner and dog topics, but I'm
26:46
like, so we might be disappointing some people that
26:48
were like coming here like 2 dog trainers doing a podcast, but
26:52
I'm like, it's really just like 2 friends that met through dog
26:55
training that are doing a podcast.
26:58
She's like perfect. Then I'm definitely gonna
27:00
listen. Yeah, cuz I wanted to tell you
27:02
about an owner thing and then part of me was like I don't know
27:04
cuz I don't think she listens to this podcast and I never want to
27:07
make an owner feel bad. I.
27:08
Know yeah. So it's even some topics that we
27:11
talk about like I know certain owners will think we're talking
27:15
about them. Yeah.
27:16
And so I was just like, that's I think a reminder for we're going
27:20
to talk about topics, just like topics I hear about on podcasts.
27:23
And I will always connect it to me because even if like we're
27:28
always thinking about ourselves, like not in a weird, creepy way,
27:31
but like if I'm listening to a podcast and I hear there's this
27:34
one I listen to that people literally call in and they do
27:37
live questions with the host and the person gives them, you know,
27:41
feedback. I always think about like, Oh
27:43
yeah, I had a situation like that once and literally make it
27:46
about me. So I hope if there's any
27:48
specific specifically if we talk about like tougher topics or
27:52
like, you know, dogs that are like, you know, giving their
27:56
owners a hard time or owners that aren't like maybe showing
27:59
up the way that they should be. If you are feeling like that's
28:04
about you, that's OK it, but it probably is not like just a
28:08
preface that like the couple of owners that I've told you about,
28:11
I've been like, hey, you listening cuz like I'm talking
28:14
about your dog because he's a screwball or whatever.
28:16
Yeah, but. I know what you mean about the
28:19
owners and like, but that's also something I was thinking about
28:22
this morning. I was talking to Bobby about
28:24
something with his business and I was like, you know, this makes
28:26
me think about this really great thing Kate said when she was
28:30
like, I know when she said, you know, whenever you say something
28:36
to someone or set a boundary or whatever, they're an adult like
28:40
you, they'll take it how they're going to take it.
28:42
And that's not like your responsibility.
28:44
So I think with this, it just touches on because I also think
28:48
if a trainer's listening and I also want to be super authentic
28:51
and not share too much all the time.
28:53
But I I got a text from the same owner who her dog bit someone
29:01
and. You guys met in person, correct?
29:03
No, she cancelled OK, OK. And she's like 3 1/2 four hours
29:07
away. So I, I had it, it's a Trek, but
29:11
cancelled two days before and I was like, oh, that's, I mean, my
29:13
schedule's not super busy right now, so, but.
29:16
Whatever. That also doesn't matter.
29:17
I know. I totally get that.
29:19
Yeah, I know that I'm making excuses for her.
29:23
Yeah, that's OK. I mean, people have to cancel
29:26
things too. Yes, of course, but my time is
29:28
important no matter if I have a schedule or not.
29:31
So yesterday's sheets is about a week later she texts me a long
29:35
thing about a terrible walk that happened and she's telling me
29:39
about the level she used or whatever.
29:41
And now am I like and this is the thing about communication
29:44
and also with I think the lines of I love becoming friends with
29:48
owners I work with. But then, and this is the first
29:50
time this has happened. So over 9 years, I think that's
29:54
not too bad. But where the lines of like
30:01
being a dog trainer and that person that she hired and then
30:05
also a friend who she's also been very supportive of things I
30:08
do and all of that, they're blurred where when she sends me
30:11
this long text message, I'm just the type of person where I
30:14
can't, I communicate through my text, which has always been
30:17
fine. I don't have a separate thing
30:19
for owners. But I immediately get like a a
30:23
bad feeling when I read her text.
30:25
So then it throws my whole day off.
30:26
So then I'm thinking, OK, so because she's being impulsive in
30:30
the moment and right after the walk she's texting me.
30:32
And I'm impulsive to a certain extent, but I don't know of
30:35
anyone that I like just unload everything on someone.
30:38
And just just for my selfish purposes to Bobby, I do.
30:42
But that's his job to a certain extent.
30:44
He chose that life. Yeah.
30:47
Like, like I, I very much agree with that.
30:50
Like I, you know, I even have like for you, if there's
30:54
something I wanted to talk to you about that, like I needed to
30:57
kind of unload, I would check in.
30:59
I know you'd be there for me, but that's so different.
31:02
But there's even like I'll even check in like with my sister who
31:05
I'm literally so close to that if it's like, you know, I don't
31:11
want to just ever like I don't know what that that person's day
31:13
is starting like, you know, yeah, I would rather it be like,
31:17
hey, I have something that I need to kind of like unload.
31:20
Do you have the space for it right now?
31:22
Like or in? Most people will say yes.
31:26
Yeah. But like those novel messages,
31:30
they they are triggering, I feel like, and so I know exactly what
31:34
you're saying. Yeah, so I think I am going to
31:36
because I'm on my laptop and I am also slightly impulsive and
31:39
also my instinct, I hate when I have an unanswered text
31:43
messages. This is why I have to put my
31:45
phone on do not disturb. So I don't even see it pop up
31:47
because I my instinct is to answer it.
31:49
Yeah, so I'm on my laptop working on something and I'm a
31:52
little worked up and I should not have responded and it was
31:55
totally fine. It was more like.
31:57
Can I ask a question? Yes, please.
31:58
Did it feel like the unloading was like, and maybe this is not
32:05
the person's intention, but I've been in that position.
32:08
Did it feel almost kind of like almost blaming on you of kind of
32:12
like, how could like, how could a walk be so bad?
32:14
Like This is why we did training.
32:16
This is like any of that. Or was it?
32:18
None of that. It's more I think he needs a
32:21
board and train reset because I mentioned like a.
32:25
Refresh. Like, yeah, like a refresh.
32:28
The thing about this dog in the situation is he, he's the one of
32:31
two dogs I've ever worked with who never reacted around me.
32:34
And so we went through all of that of like, Oh my God, he's
32:37
not reacting with you. You must think I'm crazy.
32:40
And it's like, no, no, no, it's just some dogs are.
32:42
They're so that type of situation is so hard.
32:45
So hard. Because you cannot fix.
32:48
I could not get him to react even around the owner so.
32:54
So my thing now is I don't just want to charge for a refresh.
32:58
Could I do that? Sure, but it's not going to get
33:00
the. The problem is not the dog, The
33:01
problem is her feeling confident using the E caller, how I've
33:06
taught her to So then she so in this whole long novel of a text,
33:12
which I get you're upset, whatever, but talks about that.
33:16
I also know it's me, but I'm I would like to drive up.
33:20
I know I cancelled last time. I won't this time.
33:22
Let me know before may when you have some time and I'll come
33:25
down like fine. So I actually send her a text
33:27
because it's really easy to type on a text when you're on your
33:29
laptop and tell her things I've told her before.
33:33
And then and then I started thinking, Oh, I shouldn't even
33:36
like I shouldn't have responded. I shouldn't have sent those
33:39
texts. I should have thought about it.
33:41
I need to set a clear boundary of not reciprocating with a
33:45
novel of an answer and also setting a boundary or even being
33:50
short. And I sometimes I worry that
33:52
it's going to come across as me being me.
33:55
I don't know. It's so stupid.
33:56
But it's like this is where the lines have been blurred because
33:58
I set really good boundaries. But then when it gets blurry,
34:00
it's like it's hard to set that boundary.
34:03
And then I'm aggravated cuz now I have to set that boundary.
34:07
Why didn't we think about this before?
34:08
So anyway, so I've just not been responding as much to the text
34:15
that she sent me. I'll say something really clear.
34:17
Great, let me know if that date works or then she sent something
34:21
where it was like I might be able to come.
34:23
I'll let you know about the 20th dot dot dot.
34:25
Which is upsetting to me too because it's like, no, this
34:28
shouldn't be an afterthought. If you're really struggling, I
34:30
want you to commit to it. All the other owners I've ever
34:32
worked with, if they're going to set up a follow up session, it's
34:35
not like a maybe you know, we'll do this.
34:38
It's more when can I set this up with?
34:40
You and then don't come to me when something's so heightened
34:43
and feels so intense and feels so like, Oh my gosh, like this
34:47
is like such an emergency right now.
34:50
And then be like, well, I'll see if it can work like that is like
34:53
I I and again, I think it's because we care so much about
34:56
the dogs and people that we work with.
34:58
It's that's why it feels like, you know, sometimes like
35:02
blatantly like not thought through of like the fact that
35:06
you're sending this to a human who you have no idea where
35:10
you're meeting them at at that point of their day.
35:13
Like, and how something that feels negative for you, the
35:16
owner is also going to feel negative for us.
35:18
So that's being put into our space without us having that
35:22
option and that choice. So it's like, that's OK.
35:27
And you need to also step up just as much.
35:31
And it's like, if those are the dates, you know, not even just
35:33
the dates, but it's like, no wishy washy Then because you
35:36
were saying you were asking, you spoke what you needed.
35:39
And that's, I think I need to refresh.
35:41
We need to get together in person.
35:43
You gave the feedback of here's what we can do.
35:46
And then we go to wishy washy. I've, I totally feel that like
35:50
that almost feels more draining than like perfect.
35:55
I'm putting it on the schedule like thank you so much.
35:57
I almost can like immediately erase that that reactionary text
36:01
came through If it's just like, yes, thank you so much for like
36:05
talking off the ledge. We're yes, we'll figure this out
36:07
together. I appreciate your time.
36:09
I'm going to come for that refresh over this time that
36:11
would have probably made you been like, OK, cool.
36:14
But now you're like, now it has an inky feeling.
36:19
Yes, because then in my text I sent to her, which I've said to
36:22
her before. So then this also this comes
36:24
down to me. This is really meets talking us
36:25
through and I know I need to communicate clearly because I
36:28
just haven't been. So I sent her the text of the
36:32
things and it's like dialing up instead of nagging the dog, this
36:35
kind of thing. Sure enough, she goes out on
36:36
another walk, uses a level I told her to the dog walks great
36:40
on the walk. So this is the thing that like
36:43
it's been happening a few times where it's like, you know what
36:46
you should do? Do you want to drive up here 4
36:48
hours and go over this in person?
36:50
Fine, I will do that with you. But it's this back and forth of
36:53
sending me this long message that gets me emotionally
36:56
involved. And also I really like this dog
36:58
and this owner, but I'm also frustrated and this is the human
37:01
part of being a dog trainer and trying to like figure out, OK, I
37:04
don't want to hurt her feelings. But I also, if you're, if you
37:08
have any people pleaser in you when a line has been blurred and
37:11
it's been great for the most part, it's like in any
37:13
relationship. And then you get to a point
37:15
where it's like, fuck, I don't want to draw this line in the
37:18
sand. I don't want to create this
37:19
boundary. But everything comes back to
37:21
communication. You're also like I'm.
37:23
Feeling forced to like I know I have to yes yeah, which I feel
37:28
I'm. Aware of this but then it's I
37:30
did it to myself. It's so relatable, and I think
37:31
that that's the thing. That's like the fact that you
37:33
said this is the first time it's happened in nine years.
37:36
Yeah, I like. We're doing OK.
37:39
I feel the same, like I feel the same way.
37:41
It's once in a while. I think I've gotten it a little
37:43
bit more than that in different ways.
37:46
Like just, you know, I, I feel like, you know, I also feel
37:54
like, I think we talked about this once that sometimes I'm not
37:56
as we're so different in the way of like, I feel like I come
38:00
across a little bit more of the tough love one, but I think I
38:04
let more blurred lines than you do.
38:06
And that's one thing I yes, because I remember telling you
38:09
I'm like you even the thing about like people wouldn't
38:12
necessarily know this from you is you're so good with
38:14
boundaries and you're so good with like drawing the line in
38:16
the sand, even like with certain things of like that woman.
38:19
We talked about the boomers that you guys had dinner with.
38:22
Oh. Yeah.
38:23
I would have immediately if she texted me that of being like,
38:26
you know, I'm I would have, I've been like, no, no, no, no, like
38:30
it's just totally me. Like that's where I I don't
38:33
think that's people pleasing. I think it's almost like, I
38:36
don't know what that is, but I would feel like I don't want to
38:39
make someone feel bad, but I don't think how you would.
38:41
Play like I don't, I don't have a relationship with them, so I'm
38:45
like, when am I going to see the?
38:46
Boomers and but even how you said it like it wasn't, it
38:49
wasn't mean, it wasn't rude, but it was.
38:52
Straightforward. To a certain extent.
38:54
I wish I was not like that. I was just talking with Bobby
38:56
about this with it's. So funny, like I think it's like
38:58
I like idolize that about you or like not idolize, but you know
39:01
what I mean? Like I what's I can't come up
39:04
with words today. Look up to that.
39:06
Yeah, I. Characteristic or something?
39:09
I admire that about you. I admire yes, yes, well, cuz we
39:12
were we went to so my mom wanted me.
39:15
She wanted us to come over for Easter dinner and I'm like like
39:19
I not because it's Easter, but just holidays to me suck.
39:22
I just don't like them. I don't I hope that goes away at
39:24
some point, but my instinct is I don't want any holidays to feel
39:27
like they used to. So I don't want, it just makes
39:30
me I. Don't want to try to keep doing
39:31
the traditions. I don't like.
39:33
It's like they're not traditions anymore.
39:35
No, because he's not saying my dad's not there.
39:37
And it just makes me think of that so.
39:40
But this is me thinking about myself.
39:42
And so I texted my mom, Oh, sure, we'll come over.
39:46
Could you make, could you make chicken?
39:48
What did I say? Could you make fried chicken?
39:50
And I said, Bobby's craving it. He wasn't.
39:52
I mean, he always is. I was like.
39:54
I like fried chicken. And yours is so great and I can
39:58
bring some brown butter cookies or something.
40:00
And I, I know my mom so well that I'm like, I know she's not
40:04
going to do that. And do you want me to make like,
40:06
did she want to make her? Yes.
40:09
The ham, the casserole she used to make, the green beans,
40:13
whatever. Well, we always did.
40:16
She always did. And so I knew she was going to
40:19
say no and I was already upset. She said no.
40:22
She said no and in a nice way but like it's always like and
40:27
this doesn't mean anything but like if she sends a text and it
40:29
says edit it and I'm like oh Jesus.
40:30
She was like thinking about this for a while, She's going to
40:33
upset me, but. She knows how to edit a text.
40:36
Oh yeah. That's, I mean, you're almost in
40:38
her 70s, right? Yeah.
40:40
Go off Mom 50. Yeah, but I know when it says
40:43
edited because she just overthinks things and it's fine.
40:45
She's trying to be nice. But then I started thinking I
40:49
was talking with Bobby, and this is when, like, I unload
40:51
everything on him. It's just part of what he, you
40:53
know, it's to sign up for it, basically.
40:57
So we're talking on the back porch and I'm like, Oh my God,
41:00
I'm doing exactly like her. What she's doing, she's trying
41:04
to hold on to what makes her feel good.
41:06
With my dad being gone, I'm trying to do things that make me
41:09
feel good. So I'm like.
41:11
So then I started thinking like, that's a good.
41:13
Realization though, I'm talking to be a mad.
41:17
I know and I was for a bit. It woke me up at 3:00 AM.
41:19
This is where I can't. Anytime I get upset it just gets
41:22
me up at 3:00 AM and I start thinking about.
41:25
I also had a a dream where Bobby broke up with me.
41:29
Again, OK, Yeah, you need to get it together.
41:33
By the way, I think that's like a finances thing.
41:36
It's like me nervous about because always in those dreams I
41:39
end up on my mom's couch and my mom is thrilled.
41:42
But like I'm like, how am I going to make money?
41:45
Who's going to help me? I'm I need to train more dogs?
41:47
Like how am I going to make money house?
41:52
Like it's just it goes into this in my dream.
41:54
So anyway, so but then I started thinking, Oh my God, I'm going
41:59
to have to talk with my mom and be honest with her about if I
42:02
don't, I can't just say I can't ever go to a holiday.
42:05
And I also because this time I was like, well, my new this is
42:11
terrible. Don't no one follow this advice.
42:13
But I'm like, I'm going to have to be a little tipsy.
42:16
Here's the thing a little Well, First off, I don't know if
42:19
you're asking for advice. No.
42:21
Well, go ahead. So my thought is, is just like
42:25
you and your mom had like your kind of come to Jesus talk.
42:27
I think you just need to tell her how they make you feel and
42:30
then and then let her say like you could just be like mom, I
42:36
have to tell you like I'm struggling with holidays
42:39
probably in the exact same reason you are.
42:41
But trying to keep like the normalcy of it is almost making
42:44
it worse. And I just want to be open with
42:46
you about that and then let her respond.
42:48
OK, that's great, because you can't.
42:50
How can someone fault you for how you feel?
42:52
Yeah, because then you're not asking her in that point to
42:56
change anything. You're just telling her how it
42:57
makes you feel. OK, yes.
42:59
And then if she's like, OK, like I totally get that, but like for
43:02
me, I need to have like the traditions that we do.
43:05
However, she's going to respond, yeah, it's like, OK, and I also
43:08
respect that. And maybe you could even say
43:10
like for some holidays, like can we maybe do like every other
43:15
where like maybe you guys host it for something and like do
43:17
something completely different or like, let's go out to dinner
43:20
for this holiday or let's you know, yeah, yeah.
43:23
Try to do something where it's like kind of meeting in the in
43:25
the middle for both of you because you're both grieving and
43:28
it's not like 2 it you guys are on the same team here.
43:31
This is not and this is so similar to like the dog training
43:35
stuff is where when dogs are struggling with their owners,
43:37
we're all on the same team. We all want to be, but some
43:41
things not connecting. So for you and your mom, it's
43:44
probably just both trying to like protect each other and then
43:47
protect yourselves. I know, totally.
43:49
I know. It's so it's so like a that's
43:51
why I like communication. Everything comes down to
43:53
communication. Yeah.
43:54
And so I. Have a harder time and like, do
43:56
you have a harder time communicating that thing with
43:58
like your mom versus like if you needed to say something to like
44:01
me? I yes, yes, because I know with
44:05
you, you're more open. Well, I think my mom is a little
44:08
bit more guarded. And I so I'm always thinking
44:11
like I talked really big on the porch and I'm like, like, why
44:14
does it have to be like this? And then I get to her house and
44:16
I'm a total softie and I'm like, I don't know, totally.
44:20
I yeah, I feel that way too. Like with your parents, I feel
44:23
like it's a different thing too, because you're like, yeah,
44:25
you're, you're an adult now, but like you were there, you're
44:27
still their child. And so like, I don't know, it's
44:29
just a weird thing to have to have like uncomfortable tough
44:33
conversations with your parents. Like yes, especially with.
44:37
The curb set. Yeah, yeah.
44:39
So I totally get that. We had some bees knees, I made
44:42
them. Gosh, you did good.
44:45
You need to send me the recipe that you made because I feel
44:47
like anytime I've had like, like if I'm like, I think we talked
44:50
about this, if I'm going to drink, it's got to be like a
44:52
really delicious craft cocktail. I'm not drinking.
44:56
No, I'm not drinking to drink. I'm drinking because I want to
44:59
enjoy it and I don't mind if I got a little tipsy.
45:02
But then it's like, that's it. So like those bee's knees at
45:05
that restaurant near your house. Best I've ever had.
45:08
Best Such a fun drink. You feel like you've gotten them
45:12
matched. For the most part.
45:14
So I was getting nervous because then my mom who does not drink
45:18
like liquor cuz there's some gin in it and she's like, Oh yeah,
45:22
you can make me one. And I'm like, Oh my God, no, I
45:24
don't know if you can handle this.
45:25
It's like, cuz each one called for like 2 ounces of gin, which
45:30
I wasn't. I felt like I know the ones that
45:32
Damu was like, they were, they were proper.
45:35
Yeah. So I was like, no.
45:37
So I kind of cut the recipe down a little cuz I'm like I.
45:40
Threw your mom. Or hobbling around.
45:42
I don't know what would happen when you're older and so but it
45:46
was still good and Bobby, Bobby so funny because it's just the
45:50
three of us and so also we walk in.
45:52
I need to start going in and turning on music because I need
45:54
some kind of sound. Silence.
45:56
It's. Silent.
45:58
Just like the boomers over here. I don't understand.
46:00
No, I will say I grew up very different and than that my
46:04
parents always had music going. Oh.
46:06
My dad always had music. On, yes, yeah.
46:09
So like if there's not music going the TV's on, which I don't
46:11
really love the TV on because I will say like, especially my
46:14
dad, they're kind of like TV. Like they'll sit way too long in
46:19
front of the TV. So like, especially if like
46:21
we're there and Eloise is there, like I'll be like, turn off the
46:23
TV, like we're gonna put the music on.
46:26
But yeah, silent houses, I mean, my house is silent right now,
46:30
but just because we're recording a podcast.
46:31
Of course, no. But like so Bobby, he was like
46:35
kind of being chatty or whatever.
46:36
We were sitting on the couch and he.
46:38
Was Bee's knees will do it to you.
46:40
I know he was like, can I have another?
46:43
I wish we were there. I know.
46:46
You have to make bee's knees when you guys come here in
46:47
August. I know.
46:48
I mean, it was really good. So and then because my mom, I
46:51
don't know what happened. She had no ice.
46:53
She had ice for the first round and then no ice the 2nd.
46:56
And I'm like, oh, my God, we can't have a warm bee's knees.
46:58
But she had cold, like, sparkling water.
47:02
Put some of that in there. That was nice, too.
47:04
Very flushing. Yeah.
47:06
So it was nice. But yeah, I mean, not like this
47:10
for a while. I was like, like, last
47:12
Thanksgiving. I wasn't drinking.
47:13
And it was awful. Like, yeah, it's nice to feel
47:16
things, but also I don't want to feel all those terrible things
47:18
all the time. Like, no.
47:20
So anyway, so that really helped.
47:21
But good, yeah. Yeah, So are you guys going to
47:26
Easter dinner? So we went this past weekend.
47:29
Oh, this past. OK, that's the bee's knees
47:31
night. Yes.
47:32
So then that was something new. Yeah, so it was nice.
47:35
Good, good. Yeah, it just made us feel a
47:37
little lighter. Yeah, whatever, bunsies.
47:41
And you brought something new over to like share.
47:43
Love that. Yes.
47:44
Yeah, I liked that. She was kind of excited about
47:46
that, so that was fun. It was top one.
47:48
Yeah. Good.
47:49
Yeah. OK, good.
47:50
I love that. I'll send baby the recipe.
47:54
Yes, please do. Case and I were talking about
47:56
the other day too. How long do you think you guys
47:58
are going to come in August? I would I mean because you all
48:03
were here 3 like 2 1/2 two. OK.
48:07
Are you guys also just kind of like, how's Charlie doing?
48:10
He's OK. I was thinking about this
48:12
yesterday actually. Well, because we have him on
48:14
medication now, so. You think you would still bring
48:18
him? Or do you think you would have
48:20
someone come watch him? Or what do you?
48:22
I don't know, honestly. Yeah, to be determined if we've
48:25
got time. Yeah, yeah.
48:26
To be determined, yeah. Awesome.
48:29
Yeah. And then you'll have so you have
48:31
your beach trip before then. So cool.
48:35
And that'll give you guys probably a better idea on, you
48:38
know, how he does with having someone watch him and stuff like
48:41
that because the three dogs are staying back.
48:43
Yes. And then you're going tomorrow.
48:47
Are you leaving to go? Yeah, I leave tomorrow to go for
48:50
a night to visit my sister Eloise.
48:53
My parents will be there too. We're going to do a belated
48:56
lunch for my birthday and then I leave bright and early on
49:01
Thursday. We're there for 2 1/2 days.
49:03
We get there on Thursday, leave Sunday morning, and then I'll
49:07
get back. I'll drive back home on Easter.
49:11
Oh, you're driving there OK. Yeah, driving to where my sister
49:16
lives and then flying out of that area.
49:18
And then I'll have like a 2 1/2 hour drive once I get once we
49:21
land on Sunday. Yeah.
49:24
Excited to be doing like, yeah. I'm super excited.
49:28
Yeah, all the training dogs went home.
49:29
This what's today, Tuesday, yesterday.
49:32
So we just have some boarding dogs, and that's just, as, you
49:35
know, easy. You know, we have quite a few
49:38
right now, but they all know the drill.
49:40
It's been nice, just so nice getting steps in, walking them,
49:43
having them play outside. So Casey's down there right now.
49:46
So him and Kate or him and Mandy will cover that while I'm gone.
49:51
And he'll do all the pickups on Saturday when they get picked
49:53
up. And yeah, so it'll be good.
49:57
What did you have today? I mean, your hair appointment is
49:59
was that thing that was like really exciting today for you.
50:02
Yeah, I I love getting my hair done.
50:05
I don't love sitting for that. I don't love time.
50:08
But I do really like my hairdresser, so I like chit
50:09
chatting with her and stuff like that.
50:12
But yeah, I went, I had a workout over at Steph's this
50:16
morning and with our friend Lauren, she was there as well.
50:19
She just got back from Florida, actually with her family for a
50:22
spring break trip. So caught up with her, came
50:24
back, had a breakfast and walked some dogs and then headed to my
50:27
hair appointment. Oh.
50:28
That's nice. Yeah, See, I got my toes down
50:31
the other day. Did you?
50:33
Oh my gosh, that was that the first time since I was there.
50:37
Yeah. So how was Do your toenails grow
50:41
fast? Yes.
50:43
Oh my gosh. So I don't realize it until.
50:46
So I had my, that same toenail Polish on from when we were in
50:48
Florida when you and I went and I was in the bath the other day
50:52
and like the big toe was starting to kind of like peel up
50:55
a little bit. So then of course, if one starts
50:57
peeling up, I go to town and like take them all off.
51:00
I was like, my little toes were so long and I, I didn't even
51:06
realize it. I was like, Casey, Casey, come
51:09
look at my toes after I got out of the bathroom and I didn't
51:12
have any Polish on him. And he's like, oh, oh, honey, do
51:15
you want me to set up an appointment for you?
51:16
I'm like, excuse me. So I did my own yesterday.
51:20
Nice. Or Sunday?
51:21
Yeah, on Sunday. Oh, OK, so we need to, I was
51:24
going to say put in the chat if anyone wants, if you've listened
51:28
this far, if you're still here, let us know what you think about
51:31
white nail Polish for toes because Kate thinks it's really
51:37
old. No, I don't say it's old.
51:40
It's like, no, I just said like it was, I mean, it's like the
51:45
2000 Tens plus. But like I feel like when I was
51:49
like 23 to 26, everyone was doing white nail Polish and
51:56
white toes. OK.
51:57
And now I just feel like it's kind of out.
52:02
But it doesn't mean you can't do it.
52:04
Well, I was just like, let's not do like white out on our toes,
52:10
you know? Which I didn't say you couldn't
52:13
do it, but. But don't do it.
52:15
White out on your toes, which by the way, I was getting like the
52:19
past three times and I felt super cute because I saw a
52:22
younger girl get it and I was like, Oh my God, she's so cute.
52:24
I could. Also be 100% wrong and this is
52:26
my personal opinion. Whatever.
52:28
I am very easily influenced. So I was like, oh, OK.
52:30
And then I tried to pick out neon pink that would have lit up
52:33
the whole room at night. Thank goodness I was there for
52:35
you. But also like, mine that I did
52:40
was like a really, really light orange.
52:41
Mine was borderline white, if we're being honest.
52:45
Like my toenails, OK, I don't know if it faded, but all I
52:49
could see, like when I got home was white on my toes.
52:52
And I'm like, well joke's on me because I told Bethany not to do
52:55
white and mine look white. Yeah, jokes on you.
52:58
Yep. So came back to you.
52:59
Amateur. Because I have no idea.
53:01
This is where like I think you're very decisive.
53:04
Like when we went into Target and you're like, let's get this
53:06
and this and. This I'm like try this on, try
53:08
this on, Yeah. And I'm like, Oh my God, this is
53:10
way too overwhelming. We're like with nail Polish.
53:13
I'm like, OK, I got white. I liked it.
53:15
Let's just stick with that. So I the times when I've been
53:18
like, like you want to see all the colors, I'm like, no, just
53:21
go with white. Yeah, what'd you get this last
53:23
time? Like a pink.
53:24
I think it was the same as the last time because I really liked
53:27
it. Really, Yes.
53:28
I mean, it was a really good pink, the one that you ended up
53:30
going. With this one seems a little
53:31
brighter but I literally she looked at my toes and she was
53:36
like let me go get that brought over 2 and then one was
53:41
brighter. I think the neon 1 so.
53:42
You went with the neon. No, no, okay, the one the last
53:46
one that it's a little bright though, but anyway.
53:48
Okay, well, that's okay. I totally forgot everything we
53:51
talked about. Me too.
53:52
So the doves I was going to say. Oh my gosh, we're back to the
53:56
doves. Well, I don't know why.
53:58
Okay, full circle. Yeah, let's.
53:59
Say something out loud and then you're like what?
54:01
You just don't? This isn't even why are you
54:04
talking about this anyway? When I was about to get chickens
54:07
and then there were two doves that just fluttered into our
54:10
backyard next to the garden boxes and I was like, Oh my God,
54:13
this is a sign. This is what it's going to look
54:14
like with the chickens. 100% I'm so glad you followed that sign.
54:19
Yeah, me. Too good.
54:21
Awesome. Well, I enjoyed this episode AKA
54:24
catching up with you and talking about random things.
54:26
Hey, we had some good conversations about dog stuff
54:29
too. We're basically a dog training
54:32
podcast. Who knew?
54:34
Who knew? Oh.
54:36
My gosh all. Right.
54:37
Well, I will have obviously more to update you guys on when I
54:39
come back next week. So that'll be fun to do
54:43
something. You know what I thought about
54:45
doing that would be wild is doing something way on my
54:49
comfort zone, like going up to people, asking to take a video
54:53
of them while I asked them about their worst fears.
54:56
OK. But be careful where you're
54:57
asking those types of questions. Like on Park Ave. maybe?
55:00
Like, yeah, totally. That's where you should go.
55:03
Or like regrets. Oh no.
55:06
Yeah, like what do you regret in your life?
55:09
Oh my. God, I'm sure some people will
55:10
be like, EW, I don't want to talk to you.
55:12
I. Definitely for sure.
55:13
I would probably, I would freeze if someone asked me that.
55:16
I don't know, if Someone Like You came up to me, I would
55:18
probably be fine with it. But like, honestly, if a random
55:21
man came up to me and asked me to be in a video and I would say
55:24
absolutely not, I'd be like, don't let the door hit you on
55:28
the way out. Get out of here well.
55:30
Because I used to do this when I wanted to be like the dog, have
55:32
the dog whisperer, the doggist, you know, on Instagram.
55:35
Yeah, he goes and takes pictures.
55:36
So I would do that, take pictures of people's dogs.
55:38
I had an account that lasted for about a month and then and then
55:43
but one time I feel like I'd do OK if I was ever homeless.
55:45
Have you ever thought about this?
55:47
I would not do OK. Well, I think I would.
55:51
You would not. Are you insane?
55:53
Well, I don't mean like the taking care of myself part, I
55:55
mean like finding someone to take care of me kind of a thing
55:59
and not like a. Sugar, yes, you you'd have
56:02
plenty of options, but like, if you didn't have a night of a
56:06
cozy blanket, you would, you would be like, I'm going to go
56:10
check myself in somewhere. Well, one time and I'm doing
56:13
this like as if I have no people in my life that I could be like,
56:15
hey, can I come hang out at your house?
56:17
I'm homeless, literally. I'd be like pitch bike up to
56:19
Wisconsin. I know.
56:21
So I'm sitting outside of Publix to the left and like sitting
56:26
down on the ground with one of our dogs.
56:28
This is a while ago, but I'm just sitting there like I look
56:30
pretty normal, like I'm in workout clothes.
56:33
I think you told me this. Oh, yeah, Like someone asked if
56:35
you were like, OK, right. Meanwhile, I just had a cup that
56:44
I was just like, just holding, like this.
56:45
Drinking, but just holding. It drops.
56:48
Do it like you're just like holding it kind of awkwardly
56:50
out. Yeah, like I'm about to take a
56:52
sit. Yeah, you're not asking anyone
56:54
for anything, but you're just kind of like.
56:56
Just see, what would people do if it's just awkwardly?
56:58
I know. Oh.
56:59
My gosh, bring Johnny because he can have kind of like a sad
57:03
face. You know, people are like but
57:05
don't have him on like a bougie bio thing leash.
57:07
You need to have him on like. A chain A.
57:09
Chain, Oh my gosh, can you please test?
57:14
And Bobby is going to be like, no, Bethany, please do this and
57:18
don't ride your bike over or something because it's like you
57:20
have a nice bike. Take Bobby's old bike down,
57:24
throwing at the skinny wheels. Bring his.
57:31
Surfboard with you. And just like, sit outside with
57:33
the surfboard. Oh my God, Oh my.
57:37
God put on some self Tanner that looks like I'm slightly burnt
57:40
disheveled. Yes, just like still wearing
57:44
Lululemon. Like something happened to me.
57:46
All the people who have been watching these murdery shows are
57:48
going to be like, like, shit, how can I help you?
57:51
Yeah. Especially with the change dog.
57:54
It's. So bad.
57:59
OK, so I'm going to Savannah and you're going to be setting up
58:03
your chained dog. Didn't see if anyone will help
58:05
you. Yeah.
58:06
It's just perfect. It's fun put like a secret
58:09
camera. Oh, I love it.
58:11
Oh my gosh. So it's just like a it's just an
58:13
experiment, a social experiment. Well I like them when I'm asking
58:16
people questions cuz that would really Get Me Out of my.
58:19
Comfort. Bring your little.
58:20
Mics bring your little. Mics, I can't be like, can you,
58:24
can I put this mic on your shirt?
58:26
Hold it or just hold it? Yep.
58:28
I'm telling you, I think great thing I, I have this theory.
58:32
OK, so I have this quick theory where people who do really well
58:35
in life or like really go after their dreams or whatever.
58:38
This is probably not very true, but I think so.
58:40
So it's people who are doing things other people will not do.
58:45
And I think one of the number one things most people do not
58:48
want to do is go up to someone with a kid.
58:50
Talk to strangers. Yeah, talk to strangers.
58:53
Talk to strangers 100%. I know so, but if you think.
58:57
About it, we end up talking to strangers all the time, like
59:02
people that come and drop their dogs off to us even though we
59:04
don't feel like strangers to them because they've been
59:06
watching us and, you know, getting used to seeing our
59:09
stuff. And even though we talked to
59:10
them through like emails, there's strangers showing up.
59:13
We have, for the most part, usually have no idea who's
59:16
showing up, what they look like, what their dog looks like,
59:18
unless they like, have an Instagram or they're posting
59:20
stuff that's not private. Could I do some creeping?
59:23
Of course. Whenever people apply, yeah,
59:26
Most of the time strangers are coming to our home.
59:28
But they really like you. Can you imagine going up to
59:30
someone outside of the CVS and being like just walking up next?
59:34
To I am like to I couldn't. Like, I think that's you're
59:40
gonna be more successful than me.
59:41
I couldn't do it. I mean, I could, but I really
59:44
don't want to. Well, I wish I could have Casey
59:47
coming along with like the camera.
59:48
Oh my God. You too.
59:50
Yeah. OK, next time we come to visit
59:53
Park Ave. Bethany and Casey, like he
59:55
already gets a whole vibe going down in Park Ave.
59:58
He. Has such a vibe so.
59:59
Between the two of you, you guys won't be nervous.
1:00:01
No, we just feed off of each other's.
1:00:03
I would. I want to watch.
1:00:04
Bobby and I will grab a coffee and we'll sit at a park bench
1:00:07
and watch from the far like that's, that's where I'll be.
1:00:11
My God, Can you imagine? We'd have so many stories.
1:00:14
Oh my gosh, you would just do it for the pod just to bring a good
1:00:18
story here. All right, so I might do it.
1:00:20
Once you're going to have to do it with Bobby, just get him on
1:00:23
board, no. No, no, he wouldn't do it.
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It's just like when I went to go take pictures of dogs.
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He would come to Park Ave. with me, but he's like, he wasn't
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right there with me. But what I'm saying is, who's
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going to hold the camera to record you while you're
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interviewing this person? Are you?
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Doing I was going to do it where it's like me just recording the
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person. Oh, so it's not?
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Just make sure he's. In the vicinity, just in case
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someone decides to like clock you in the face or something.
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I feel like I'm prepared. You're.
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Gonna be like, I'm not crazy, my husband's over there.
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I'm just I'm extroverted. Even though you're pretty
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introverted. I am slightly it depends on the
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the room I'm in, but I am mentally prepared for how to
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defend myself if I'm ever attacked.
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Anyways, this perfect. Feeling my.
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Guess could just go on forever. Okay, so much fun.
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I know I had a blast. Have so much fun with your
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family and friends. Yes, I will.
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I can't wait to talk next week. I mean, we'll obviously talk
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before then, but I'll be excited to update Alia on my little trip
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to Savannah. I've never been so I'm excited
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have. So much fun.
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Well, okay, I'll talk to you later all.
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Right, bye.