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Matt Walsh's Lazy, Hateful Children's Book · Rachel Oates

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Hey everyone, and welcome back to a new video.
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If you don't know me, my name is Rachel and it's really great to
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have you here. We talk about everything on this
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channel, from feminist issues to kind of liberal social
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commentary to book reviews and occasionally a little bit of
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poetry analysis. And it's really nice to have
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you. So a couple of weeks ago now, I
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made a video about some creepy comments that Matt Walsh made
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about kids and consent and how he just doesn't understand what
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consent is and doesn't understand the importance of it.
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And since then, people in the comments were telling me that I
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need to read his attempt at a children's book called Johnny
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the Walrus. In this book, Matt is attempting
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to satirise in a way other children's books about
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acceptance and letting kids discover who they really are.
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And he's critiquing those concepts.
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He doesn't want kids to be who they are.
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He doesn't want kids to have self acceptance.
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He is, of course, and surprisingly, also transcend an
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incredibly transphobic message. Matt Walsh hates trans people,
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and he continually tells the world that trans people are
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mutilating children, turning the kids trans, and so on.
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And he perpetuates all these harmful myths and more in this
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horrific book. Of course, we know none of these
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things are true. And so of course, we're going to
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be addressing them in this video and correcting some of the
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misconceptions. But first, let's take a look at
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the book. And I think it's important to
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remember that, like, Matt has written this as a children's
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book to satirise other children's books.
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But you might say, oh, well, you know, at least he's got an idle
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audience for, like, no, he has gone out of his way to read this
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book to children. It's just teaching them really
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damn harmful messages. OK, hello boys and girls.
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My name is Matt Walsh. I am a children's author and
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I've written a book called Johnny the Walrus.
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This book is all about identity and imagination.
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What is identity? Does anyone know what identity
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means? You know, you know what identity
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is. No.
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OK. That's what this book is about.
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It's all about a boy who pretends to be a walrus.
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He identifies as a walrus, and his mom's a little silly.
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She takes it seriously and thinks he really is a walrus.
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That's silly, isn't it? So what's is this thing doing on
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the? Whole that's we don't have to
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worry about that. We're going to read the book
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now, OK? Johnny's a boy with a big
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imagination. One day he's a dog, the next day
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a crustacean. It's like a crab or or a
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lobster. His growth was just stunted.
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But she really thinks this kid is a walrus.
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He. Was.
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Not no, the end. Thank you.
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No, I just sat down and wrote it.
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There's another one there. We got a bunch of them.
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We're going to be all over the place soon enough.
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You can ask your parents to buy it for you.
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Is there is there a particular ending we're looking for here,
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or just? Just before we get started,
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because I always forget to ask if you're new here, it would be
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wonderful if you want to subscribe to see more videos
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from me. And if you've been around a
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while, just check you're still subscribed because, you know,
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that's always really good. But yeah, let's jump into the
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video. Matt Walsh talks a lot about the
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left indoctrinating kids and propaganda for kids.
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But that's exactly what he's doing.
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This is exactly what he's doing with this book.
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He is a hypocrite. So the book, this book is so
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poorly made and illustrated that I genuinely thought I'd
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downloaded the wrong version. At first I thought I'd
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downloaded the wrong book. I'd downloaded an earlier draft
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of it, something had gone wrong. But no, this is just genuinely
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how the book is. Now the book is only available
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as like a board book, and I couldn't get that.
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So I downloaded a copy of it online that was like a scan of
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the book, and now the quality of the scan isn't great.
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So let's put that aside. The problem I have is with the
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quality of the illustrations. They are so poor, not just
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technically, but they're lazily made.
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It is appalling. I can't believe a man with as
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much money and resources and Matt as Matt Walsh has, could
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hire someone to make this quality of work.
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He's clearly like Matt is just lazy and cheap and he has no
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pride in anything he does. If this book was really
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illustrated by a six year old, as it looks to be, then I
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apologise. You know, this is great work for
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a six year old. However, I'm pretty sure it was
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done by an adult. And for that I have to be a
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little critical. And mostly I'm critiquing Matt
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for choosing to publish this as it is because it's because it's
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so damn unprofessional and he has the resources to make it
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better. He chose to hire someone.
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He just chose to hire someone who created poor illustrations
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of a poor quality that are just lazily done.
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So let's have a look at the story together.
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This is Johnny the walrus. Johnny's a boy with a big
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imagination. One day he's a dog, the next day
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a crustacean. I know he's going for rhyming
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couplets here, which are common amongst children's books, and
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they're actually fantastic. Kids hearing rhymes and stuff
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can really help with their understanding of language and
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development. That's great.
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However, customers have said this book is for kids aged 4 to
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8, and I feel like crustacean is maybe a little bit too much of a
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big word for them. The thing is, this is a board
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book, which is normally given to babies, and again, crustacean
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isn't normally a word you would see in those kinds of books.
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So this is just a pet peeve. I have people who think writing
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a children's book is so easy because it's kids, you can do
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whatever, you just need to make it simple.
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But it's not. The people who write the best
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children's books have a genuine understanding of child
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development and how their understanding of language grows
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and develops and how to appeal to them and how to write a book
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which is going to be educational and enjoyable.
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Matt doesn't know any of this, so if you want to look at the
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quality of this book as a children's book, it's just
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incredibly poor. One morning he came downstairs
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barking and clapping with wood spoons for tusks and sock fins
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are flapping. I'm Johnny the Walrus, he said
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with a roar. The wood floors, my ocean, the
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carpet's my shore. Johnny's mum loves her son's
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make believe time. You're Johnny the Walrus till
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you change your mind. And we see in the illustrations
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for those of you just listening, that she takes a photo of her
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son on my phone and post it on social media, which again, can
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we just take a moment for that because like, let's not share
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kids on social media without their consent, please.
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You know, Matt is like, yeah, that's the most normal and
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ordinary thing to do in this. It's like, Nah, that's something
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we should be critiquing and not normalising in kids books.
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But anyway. So then a bunch of negative
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reactions and angry faces and thumbs down start appearing on
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the mum's phone and Matt writes. But Johnny's mum's phone said
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it's not. Just pretend.
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Only a bigot would say that. How dare you offend?
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OK, so let's take a proper break here to address what's happening
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so far. So in this, Matt is conveying a
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story in which a kid dresses up for fun for a game.
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He pretends to be an animal, a walrus.
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The mother thinks it's cute. And then those damn liberals, as
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Matt wants to say, tries to force her and her son to make
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his costume a permanent identity.
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Of course, in this, dressing up as a walrus is meant to be an
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analogy for being trans, which is just offensive in so many
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ways. Can we not compare trans people
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to animals please? It's just I, I think that's the
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bare minimum we can do, right? But other than just that, for
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one, being transgender is not just dressing up as something or
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someone. And most trans people are not
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trans because other people have told them they're trans or
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forced them into it. And this includes kids.
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You cannot tell another person they are trans or not.
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You cannot force a person to be trans or not.
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Other people cannot decide for an individual what gender they
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are. And that includes children.
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And that seems certain that kids are all indoctrinated and forced
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into thinking they're a different gender.
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But all the studies we've ever done prove that this just isn't
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true. You cannot force a kid to feel
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like a gender they aren't, whether that's the gender they
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were assigned at birth or not. So Al and Fox Fisher wrote a
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great little book for teens who are questioning their gender
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identity titled The Trans Teen Survival Guide, which is not not
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a book about forcing anyone to be trans as Matt would probably
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try and claim it is. But instead, it's a great little
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book for teenagers who feel like they might be questioning their
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own gender identity. It tells them that this is the
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deal with gender. This is what it is.
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This is what it can mean to some people.
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This is what it can mean to other people.
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This is how some people feel about their gender identity.
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This is how other people feel about it.
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Everyone has a different experience.
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If you think you might be feeling a certain way, if you
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think you might be trans, if you think you know you're feeling
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this, this, and this, then here's how you can find help and
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support. And if you do conclude that
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you're trans, here's what options are available to you.
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This is what some people choose to go through.
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This is what life is like for these people.
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Lots of options. It's, it's a really good
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educational little book for anyone who might be questioning.
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It's not forcing anyone to do anything or be anything that
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they're not. It's not telling people you have
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to do this, this, this and this. It's just saying, hey, here's
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some options. This is what other people have
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been through. Here's how we can help you
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figure it out for yourself. In the book, they know that most
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kids have an idea of gender and a sense of their own gender by
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the age of about 3 or 4 years old.
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And so in a lot of kids who are trans, this is when they might
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start displaying signs of discomfort or gender dysphoria
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at having to present as or be labelled as a gender that
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they're not. So they write kids who are trans
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will usually vocalise the fact they are trans, saying that they
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are in fact a different gender than the one they were assigned.
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For example, Mummy, I'm a boy or when will I turn into a girl?
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And it isn't just one flippant comment.
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So it's not like in Matt Walsh's book way, like they just dress
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up as something one time. It's like, oh, it must be the
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it's it's a consistent thing. Yeah.
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It isn't just one flippant comment.
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They usually insist on this quite often and might even say
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that they want to cut their genitals off or wish they could
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grow certain things. It appears as a deep rooted
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stress about themselves and their body that is quite
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persistent. This is way beyond a girl simply
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being a tomboy or a boy being a bit effeminate.
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It's about a deep inner sense of self that kids can feel very
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strongly. And I'll say it again, this
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isn't about a kid playing dress up once or twice and then a
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mother saying, oh, this must mean XY and Z.
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I'm going to force you to do this, this and this.
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These kids usually display a level of discomfort or
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questionnaire identity consistently over a prolonged
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period of time. These kids don't necessarily
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know how to vocalise this. They don't know words like
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transgender. They just know this feels wrong.
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They know that they're not a boy or a girl and they, they
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question this. They, they look for support in
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this. They feel discomfort about this.
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The Fish has gone on to suggest that letting your child explore
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and experiment with expression is the best thing you can do.
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And forcing them to wear or do something they don't want is
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quite distressing for them and can cause harm.
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And this is something that Matt Walsh does not understand at
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all. He literally portrays it as
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like, if you're a liberal parent, then you'll force your
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kid to present as the opposite gender no matter what they say.
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And as we'll see in the next part of this book, and I think
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it's funny because not funny. Ha ha, funny.
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Like, oh God, Can you believe he's doing this?
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But it's funny because Matt is critiquing liberal parents in
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this book because he thinks liberal parents force their kids
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to be trans against their will, basically.
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He doesn't realise that what him and other right wingers are
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doing is forcing trans kids to present as CIS, and that causes
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harm. So when he's critiquing a mother
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in this book for forcing her kid to be something they're not, he
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doesn't realise that that's exactly what he's doing and
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that's what causes the harm. Forcing a kid to be someone
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they're not. It's not nothing to do with
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whether they're actually trans or CIS or not, it's to do with
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the forcing the kid. That's where the issue lies.
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And I would say that most non transphobic parents who have a
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kid who is questioning their gender identity isn't going to
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be forcing them to present in a certain way or do certain
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things. Just allowing their kid time to
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explore and figure things out for themselves is the healthiest
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thing you can do. You know, that really pushes in
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this book and seems to really believe this idea that kids will
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never be trans if they never hear the word transgender, you
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know, But we all know that ignorance doesn't replace
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reality. Kenny Ethan Jones is a trans man
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who wrote of his own experience as a child.
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I didn't know what transness was, but even without the
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language to put to it, I knew it felt true.
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I wasn't delusional. I understood the difference
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between boys and girls. I just felt like somehow society
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got it wrong when categorising me.
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He was a kid who didn't know he was transgender in those words,
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but he did. He didn't know what being
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transgender was. He just knew there was something
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wrong inside him and he didn't have the words to describe it
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and get help. And This is why education is so
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important for kids. Pretending something doesn't
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exist doesn't make it go away. Just because I don't know the
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species of the name of flower, for example, that doesn't stop
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it existing. Just because you don't know you
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have cancer, that doesn't mean it can't hurt you.
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Education is essential for getting people who need it help
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and support. When we can put labels to
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things, when we have the language to express what we're
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feeling and thinking and who we are, that's how we get help and
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support and can be healthy and happy.
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Ignorance only hurts more people.
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To go back to Matt's book, we see a bunch of protesters and I
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think these meant to be liberal protesters.
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They have posters saying things like stop anti walrus ISM let
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Johnny transition. Human walruses are real
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walruses. Johnny is a real walrus.
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And Matt writes Mummy was told to take John for a checkup.
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You'll need to eat worms and to put on grey makeup, says the
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doctor with pink hair. Because of course, the Doctor
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goes on to say the worms give you whiskers, the grey blends
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you in and a simple procedure cuts feet into fins and the
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Doctor is holding a giant massive bone saw.
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And again, if you if you're only listening to the audio of this,
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like they've made the doctor big scary.
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They've like used horror film lighting to light their face and
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make them look creepy. And this is obviously a
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completely harmful representation of what hormone
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blockers, hormone replacement therapy, and even physical
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surgeries are. It's, it's not like this at all.
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Um, the greys, it seems it's meant to be like grey makeup to
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make him more walrusy. I think that's meant to
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represent like clothes and makeup and so on.
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The eating worms, I think is obviously meant to be like a
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hormone replacement therapy analogy.
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And this is all just such a misrepresentation of what it's
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actually like for trans kids. So I'll reiterate in this story,
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Johnny, the kid who has been forced to become a walrus, has
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never said he is a walrus. He has never expressed I feel
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like a walrus. I want to be a walrus.
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He was just playing a game of dress up.
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So this is not at all actually comparable to kids who are trans
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and say I think I'm the wrong gender.
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I think I'm a boy, a girl, I have no gender.
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You know what I mean? It's not.
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It's not even comparable. But let's say for the sake of
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argument that this was a book about a kid who said they were a
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walrus or transgender. Again, this is not what actual
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treatment for kids is like. Not not even a little bit.
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This is not what care for trans kids is like, and I think it's
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dangerous to represent it in this way for a couple of
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reasons. Firstly, let's think about the
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innocent kids reading this book or listening to Matt read it to
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them, and they won't understand what this is an analogy for.
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They won't understand that this is meant to be satirising trans
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issues. All this section is teaching
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them is that doctors are scary and you can't trust them.
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And that's really damn dangerous because if these kids do have
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health problems and do need to see a doctor, they're just going
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to be petrified and not maybe be able to express what's happening
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to them. They're not going to be able to
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get the help that they need and that's really dangerous.
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Secondly, it's perpetuating harmful myths about what
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Healthcare is actually like for trans people.
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And this is just going to make it harder for trans people in
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the future to get the access to the care that they need.
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So what are these harmful myths that I keep mentioning?
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Well, for starters, in this book, I'd say Johnny looks to be
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about 5 or 6 years old maybe. I'm not sure I'm bad at judging
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kids ages, but I think it's around that if a kid of five or
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six years old ever expressed that they thought they might be
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transgender and they would never be given hormone blockers,
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hormone replacement treatments, and they definitely wouldn't be
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given any gender assignment surgeries.
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Just absolutely. To even claim that they would do
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this for a 5 or 6 year old kid is fear mongering and false.
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The kid might speak to some doctors, they might see
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therapists, they might start getting help, they might start
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changing the way they dress, they might ask to have different
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pronouns used for them, but they would never get medical
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treatment at 5 or 6 years old. The very first treatment that
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any young person can have expressed as they might be
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transgender is generally hormone blockers, and these are never
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given to children until they've actually started puberty.
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This will be a different time for every individual, but
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usually it won't be until somewhere between the ages of 12
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and 17. And even then it's not as simple
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as just showing up and being handed a bunch of medication.
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There's, there's hoops people have to jump through.
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There's different treatments, seeing different doctors, going
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to therapies and all sorts. So Kenny, Ethan Jones, who we
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mentioned a little bit ago, he wrote a great book called Dear
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Cisgender People, a guide to trans allyship and empathy.
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And in it he wrote, there's a misconception in the media that
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the NHS is handing out meds to preteens all Willy nilly, but
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that's not the case. Even being prescribed puberty
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blockers, which happened the year before my diagnosis, was
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only granted to me because I become suicidal.
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Don't get me wrong, and please, there are thorough cheques in
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place, but I believe there is a safer way to assess someone's
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eligibility than the one I went through.
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It was emotionally torturous having to relive traumatic
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events in order to prove myself eligible for gender affirming
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treatment. I was made to spew out my
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deepest pain over and over again.
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Owl and Fox Fisher write more about this and more about the
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actual process for teens in detail.
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So they write that puberty blockers, also known as hormone
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blockers or or hormone stoppers, are medicines that have been
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used for quite some time now. They have been used for all
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sorts of different things. But in the case of trans people,
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they are taken to slow down the effects of puberty so that trans
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teens don't have to go through puberty that could absolutely
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devastate them. And I'll also say puberty
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blockers and puberty stoppers are often given to CIS gender
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kids as well who start puberty too early in a way that could be
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detrimental to their health or social development or other
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things. Puberty blockers are gender
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affirming care. They are not just care for trans
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people. Yes, they're gender affirming
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for trans people as well, but that could be gender affirming
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for CIS people as well. People don't really understand
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what the term gender affirming means and that's an issue Alan
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Fox Fisher gong to write. It's about alleviating some of
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the distress they might feel. IE puberty blockers are used to
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increase the well-being of trans key teen, are used to increase
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the well-being of trans teens and prevent dysphoria,
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depression and poor mental health.
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Puberty blockers can therefore be a lifesaver for trans teens.
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Puberty blockers can be prescribed at the start of
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puberty and are prescribed for a few years at a time or until
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people are between 16 and 18 years old.
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Around that age, you can make a decision on whether you want to
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start cross hormones that will start shaping your body and sex
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characteristics in a way that you want.
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Later on, when you're 18, you can make decisions on whether
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you want to undergo any surgeries.
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Just remember that you're under no obligation to do so and that
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all trans people and their journeys are different.
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And that's such an important thing to remember that people
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like Matt Walsh just seem to ignore and forget.
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They're going to write that a rather persistent and false myth
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states that trans children and trans teenagers are being given
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access to cross hormones and surgeries in droves.
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This couldn't be farther from the truth, as in most countries
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trans children and teenagers and trans people in general don't
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even have access to such healthcare.
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It's only a handful of countries that actually offer services to
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trans children and teens, and in the UK there are no medical
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interventions provided until after a teenager hits puberty,
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and even then. They are certainly not given
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access to cross hormones that will alter their body, nor are
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they given any type of surgeries.
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Instead, those who are able to access the services are given
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what are called puberty hormone blockers or hormone stoppers as
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we've been saying. I feel like I'm saying hormone
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weird. Sorry, I don't know why.
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And the thing to remember is that hormone blockers, hormone
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stoppers are reversible. If you stop taking them, puberty
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will start again. Your hormones will start
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producing again as normal. This is not irreversible and
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irreparable. And if these teens who need them
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don't get puberty blockers when they need them, then the results
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can be devastating when talking depression, self harm, suicide,
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all incredibly common amongst trans kids and teens who are
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forced to go through puberty against their will and see their
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body change into someone they're not.
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And like I say, if a teen is on puberty blockers for a while and
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realises you know what, actually I'm not sure.
20:59
Maybe I'm not trans, maybe I am, but I'm not ready to take this
21:03
further. Maybe I just want to give myself
21:04
a little more time or anything else like that.
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That is absolutely fine. They don't need to go and start
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any hormone replacement therapies.
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They can stop taking puberty blockers and puberty will
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proceed as biologically normal in their body.
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It's not cruel, it's not mutilating, it's not being
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forced on kids. It's simply allowing kids it's a
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chance to be who they really are and explore their gender
21:28
identity for themselves. If you force a kid to go through
21:31
puberty that they don't want, that can result in permanent
21:34
changes to the body that can cause lifelong dysphoria.
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Allowing a team to have puberty blockers is saying, hey, we're
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going to put a pause on this until you're ready to decide
21:43
what you want. Do you want these
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characteristics or these characteristics?
21:46
How do you want your body to look and feel and be?
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We're going to give you time to mature, to grow up, to think
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about this, and then you can decide when you're older.
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But we're not going to allow permanent changes to happen that
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will be irreversible. That's what puberty blockers do.
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They stop irreversible body changes happening.
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And most teens who take puberty blockers actually find it so
22:10
helpful. So this is just one example from
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the Fisher's book of a 15 year old boy called Michael who
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writes. I started hormone blockers when
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I was 14, just over a year after my first appointment with the
22:21
doctors he saw. I was already five years into
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puberty at that point, and so most of the changes had already
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occurred, but it relieved my constant stress about the
22:29
situation worsening. The cessation of my periods was
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the best part, as they'd always been excruciatingly painful for
22:34
me, both mentally because of dysphoria and physically.
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The fact that I no longer experience something that the
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vast majority of girls in my year, but not the boys do is
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often greatly comforting to me. And I just wish Matt would
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listen to these stories of actual trans kids and like,
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because that's the thing. I can sit here as a sys woman,
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be like, you know, like my opinion doesn't really matter,
22:55
does it? What I'm here to do is lift up
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these voices of actual trans people who are speaking about
23:00
this and talking about it and be like, listen to them.
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That's that's my job here. But again, Matt won't listen to
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these people and he doesn't portray this in his book to
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carry on. And Johnny says it's gross
23:12
eating worms, mum. They're also damn twitchy.
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Oh Dang Dang twitchy. Sorry with AG because he's a
23:18
kid. Wood spoons kind of hurt and the
23:21
makeup is itchy. So again, I'm going to say
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clearly this is not the kids choice.
23:26
This is not what he wants. It's been forced upon him.
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So this is not a good analogy for trans kids at all.
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If anything, this is more of an an analogy for trans kids being
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forced to present as CIS. You know what I mean?
23:39
The book goes on and Matt writes, deep down Johnny's mum
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knew something was wrong, but she felt so much pressure she
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just went along the Internet. People knew just what to do and
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Mummy was told to take John to the zoo.
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When Johnny arrived, the walrus is grunted.
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My boy's a real walrus. His growth was just stunted.
23:59
The zookeeper thought, what's she talking about?
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And then the zookeeper says, mum, that's just a boy with wood
24:06
spoons in his mouth. The mum says, but if I believe
24:10
that, they'll say I'm phobic. And the zookeeper says,
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protecting your son, ma'am, that's what's most heroic.
24:17
And I did have to laugh at Matt Walsh Basing the zookeeper
24:22
character's look of himself. He's like, this is just a self
24:25
insert for him. Like, oh, I'm going to be the
24:27
hero of this story. It's it's very silly.
24:29
That said, this is the one good page.
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If you RIP it out of the book and leave it alone and, you
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know, just stand alone, this is the one page in the book that's
24:37
actually good. Protecting your child is what's
24:39
most heroic. That's a great sentiment and I
24:42
completely agree with it. You just shouldn't listen to
24:44
anything Matt Walsh says in order to do this because this
24:47
book is not about protecting kids.
24:49
He's not about protecting kids. He doesn't even care about kids
24:53
consent. And Matt is not protecting
24:56
children. Matt is forcing children to be
24:58
something that he wants them to be against their will often, and
25:02
that's not heroic. That's not protecting them.
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Protecting your child does not mean forcing a gender identity
25:08
upon them, whether this is the one they're assigned at birth or
25:11
not. Protecting them means allowing
25:13
them the freedom to figure out for themselves who they are
25:16
while you offer your love and support and don't allow other
25:20
people to bully and oppress them.
25:22
That's what protecting your kid is.
25:23
That's what being heroic is. That's what being a decent
25:27
parent is. As the Trans Teen Survival Guide
25:31
says, not being able to express yourself and be your authentic
25:34
self can be extremely traumatising for trans kids and
25:37
they really need support. Trans kids who don't get support
25:40
end up feeling very distressed and depressed and might develop
25:43
other mental health issues or even try to take their own
25:46
lives. Without wanting to sound too
25:47
serious or dramatic, it really is a matter of life and death
25:50
for trans people. It's really a matter of wanting
25:53
to have a child who is allowed to be themselves and feel happy,
25:56
as opposed to suppressing them and forcing them to internalise
26:00
this, causing serious negative effects on their mental health.
26:03
And in a turmoil, as Kenny reminds us in his book,
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transphobic hate crimes in the UK quadrupled between 2015 and
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2020. In 2022, Medical News Today
26:13
reported that transgender adolescents was 7.6 times as
26:16
likely to attempt suicide assesses peers.
26:19
The situation is even more concerning for those in the
26:21
black trans community who experience homelessness at five
26:25
times the rate of the general population.
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And I bring this up to point out that if people listen to Matt
26:31
Walsh and force their kids to be people that they're not, then
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they may be literally driving their children to suicide,
26:39
driving their children to homelessness, driving their
26:41
children to pain and suffering and oppression at the hands of
26:45
other people as well as themselves.
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It is that serious and I don't see how any decent parent would
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want that for their child. The book ends with a picture of
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the mother taking the spoons out of the kids mouth and says at
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last Johnny's mummy was able to see that Johnny's not what he's
27:03
pretending to be. Now mummy ignores the mean
27:06
things on her phone while Johnny pretends he's a bird flying
27:10
home. And this is where the book ends
27:12
with Matt's insinuation that trans people are just pretending
27:15
to be whatever gender they are, which we obviously know is not
27:17
true. The underlying problem in all
27:20
this, though, is that Matt Walsh has lived such a privileged life
27:25
and he fundamentally lacks empathy for other people, so he
27:29
can't imagine anyone in this world having a different
27:31
experience to him or different values to him.
27:35
And so when anyone says, well, I have a different experience to
27:37
you, he just mocks them and belittles them and puts them
27:40
down and bullies them to the point where he is oppressing and
27:44
hurting these people. He looks at a trans woman and
27:47
thinks, well, we both started off being assigned male, but I
27:50
don't want to be a woman, so they must be pretending.
27:52
And that's just the most insane logic because he just doesn't
27:56
have empathy, empathy for other people.
27:58
He can't put himself in other people's shoes.
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He can't see that other people don't have the same experiences
28:03
as him. I think instead he needs to
28:06
reframe the way he's thinking and instead think about like him
28:09
himself as he is now, and how he feels about his gender identity
28:12
and who he is as a man, and start thinking, well, what if
28:15
you were actually assigned female at birth?
28:17
What if you were born with a vagina, for example?
28:21
What if you were born and assigned a woman and had to go
28:24
through female puberty and have periods and grow breasts, for
28:27
example, but in your mind you were still Matt Walsh and you
28:30
were still a man and you still wanted your beard and your
28:33
muscles and your penis, Assuming he has one.
28:35
I'm not sure at this point, but I joke.
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But I think he needs to reframe it in that way and understand
28:44
that if he was suddenly in a woman's body and going through
28:47
everything a woman does, but he knew he was a man, he'd feel
28:51
wrong, wouldn't he? He'd feel messed up.
28:53
And that's what it's like for trans people.
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It's not about pretending. That's not how bodies and
28:58
biology work. And I always find it really
29:01
interesting when people start talking about like biological
29:03
males and females and this and this.
29:05
And I'm like, do you not realise that the stuff that's going on
29:07
in your brain is part of your biology?
29:10
So when a person is transgender, they are, they may, how do I put
29:17
this? They may be in some ways
29:20
sexually male or female. They may have certain genitals,
29:23
they may have certain chromosomes, they may have
29:25
certain hormones that their body is producing.
29:28
But their brain is saying I'm X gender, I'm a man, I'm a woman,
29:32
I'm whatever. And with your brain telling you
29:35
that and every part of your consciousness screaming, this is
29:39
who I am. That is a part of your biology.
29:42
You know what I mean? So OK, I think you can be, for
29:47
example, biologically male and biologically a woman at the same
29:51
time, or biologically female and biologically a man.
29:55
Do you know what I mean? What's happening in your head is
29:57
still a part of your biology. It's still real.
30:00
And I just feel like this is something that so many people
30:03
forget. They seem to think that, you
30:05
know, if your head's telling you something, if you're having
30:07
these feelings or whatever, like you can't be real.
30:09
I'm like, yes, but it is. It is real, and I've spoken
30:12
right before, but there's whole studies that show that like the
30:15
entire brain structure and brain chemistry of trans people is
30:20
more aligned with the gender they feel they are than the
30:22
gender they were assigned at birth.
30:24
So trans men have more typically male, if you want to put it that
30:28
way, brains. And then obviously like a
30:30
cisgender woman does, so their brains are male, you know, it's
30:34
anyway. So it could be argued that their
30:37
brains are in fact male because they're men.
30:40
Do you know what I mean? Anyway, my point is now Walsh is
30:45
dumb and lacks empathy and he is indoctrinating children and he
30:49
should be kept away from all kids forever because he is
30:51
creepy as hell and we don't like him.
30:54
But that's where I'm going to end this video today, so thank
30:57
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30:58
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31:01
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31:05
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