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What If It Doesn’t Work? Building Momentum, How To Expand Daily When You’re Feeling Stuck · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_01: Welcome to the Live Well Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm your host, Liv, a naturopathic doctor, mentor, energy healer, a catchup reader, intuitive, energetic business mentor, and honestly, so much more.
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  SPEAKER_01: I help you heal on a physical and emotional level so that you can feel delicious in your health, body, relationships, career, and bank account.
• 0:20
  SPEAKER_01: This show is for those of you who are looking to go beyond the basic wellness stuff, cut out the BS and really create a life you love.
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  SPEAKER_01: We talk about health, trauma healing, energetics, feminine energy, wealth, and magnetism so that you can live a life that feels delicious.
• 0:35
  SPEAKER_01: In these episodes, we will have an honest conversation without the fluffy bullshit.
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  SPEAKER_01: You walk away with all of the insights, tools, and tips to truly live your best life, mind, body, and soul.
• 0:46
  SPEAKER_01: If you are looking to live well, you are in the right place.
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  SPEAKER_01: For ways to work with me, visit keepupwithlive.com and follow me on Instagram at keep up with live for more.
• 0:54
  SPEAKER_01: And with that, let's get into the show.
• 0:57
  SPEAKER_01: Hello everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the Live Well Podcast.
• 1:02
  SPEAKER_01: I am so excited for today's episode, episode, episode.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's essentially going to be the perfect, kind of like kicking your butt episode when you need the vibes, when you need the inspo, when you need activating, when you need to like jump into it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I'm recording this on a Monday, so it's perfect.
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  SPEAKER_01: You'll hear it on a Tuesday.
• 1:20
  SPEAKER_01: That's fine.
• 1:21
  SPEAKER_01: Save this episode.
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  SPEAKER_01: Go, I think it's like the top right corner on Apples, click the dots, save this episode because this is going to get your button gear.
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  SPEAKER_01: And essentially, this is everything I do, or kind of like the premise for how I live my life, so that I continue to expand daily and really to get over self-doubt, lack of trust, and that whole what if it doesn't work kind of feeling.
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  SPEAKER_01: So let's go ahead and jump in.
• 1:47
  SPEAKER_01: I am drinking my new favorite elixir.
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  SPEAKER_01: I started drinking this back when I visited my friend Christina in San Diego.
• 1:55
  SPEAKER_01: San Diego?
• 1:56
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, San Diego.
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  SPEAKER_01: And it's so good.
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  SPEAKER_01: It is like there's element in it, there's mushrooms, we got canned coconut milk.
• 2:03
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, it's just, it's magical.
• 2:05
  SPEAKER_01: And the chocolate element is so good in it.
• 2:07
  SPEAKER_01: So that is what I'm drinking.
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  SPEAKER_01: But let's go ahead and jump in because it's gonna be a good episode.
• 2:13
  SPEAKER_01: All right.
• 2:14
  SPEAKER_01: There has to be action for momentum and growth.
• 2:18
  SPEAKER_01: If you keep waiting and wondering if you're doing it right all the time, that is going to keep you stuck.
• 2:24
  SPEAKER_01: So everything I'm gonna talk about today really comes from a base of stuff I went over in my glow level two group last week, which was our last week.
• 2:32
  SPEAKER_01: It was so fun, so activating.
• 2:34
  SPEAKER_01: It's definitely the highest level program that I have ever run.
• 2:38
  SPEAKER_01: The stuff in there like blows, I was blowing my own mind.
• 2:42
  SPEAKER_01: I was activating myself as I was sharing and teaching it, but it's so good.
• 2:44
  SPEAKER_01: So get on the wait list for that.
• 2:46
  SPEAKER_01: That's essentially after you've done like all the initial trauma work with me, you've done glow level one, well-nourished glass activation.
• 2:53
  SPEAKER_01: This is the next step to receiving all of the wealth, abundance, amazingness, and allowing your life to get even better.
• 2:59
  SPEAKER_01: So the wait last weight last wait list for that will be down below.
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  SPEAKER_01: But we spend so much time wondering is it working?
• 3:07
  SPEAKER_01: Wondering if we've integrated it, landed it, like, did it work?
• 3:12
  SPEAKER_01: Like, am I doing it right?
• 3:13
  SPEAKER_01: And then as you're doing it, but then you stop.
• 3:16
  SPEAKER_01: We look around and you're like, did I do it right?
• 3:18
  SPEAKER_01: Am I doing it?
• 3:20
  SPEAKER_01: And then you stop, and then you just start the momentum again, and then you get stuck because it's start, stop, start, stop.
• 3:26
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, imagine being in a car that was like, mm-hmm, mm mm, put on the brakes, mm, put on the brakes.
• 3:32
  SPEAKER_01: You're gonna make yourself sick.
• 3:33
  SPEAKER_01: No wonder it feels shitty to be there.
• 3:35
  SPEAKER_01: If you were in a car that was going, like stop, start, put on the brakes.
• 3:39
  SPEAKER_01: We've all been in an Uber like that, or with a bad driver who drives like that.
• 3:44
  SPEAKER_01: It's it's not fun.
• 3:45
  SPEAKER_01: You feel sick, and you'll feel sick doing that in your life, right?
• 3:49
  SPEAKER_01: Think about it like climbing a mountain, right?
• 3:52
  SPEAKER_01: You have one foot here, another foot.
• 3:56
  SPEAKER_01: You have to keep moving because if you don't keep moving, you're gonna stay stuck on the side of the mountain, and you're just gonna be chilling there, wondering if it's working.
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  SPEAKER_01: You need to keep moving to your edge, not just staying there, because eventually your muscles will tire out from, or you'll get sick from being in the car and stop, start, stop, start.
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  SPEAKER_01: You are ready to move, but we get scared, and the mountain is tall, and then we get stuck, and then we look up and we're like, Mountain so far.
• 4:24
  SPEAKER_01: How do I get to the top of the mountain?
• 4:27
  SPEAKER_01: You have to move to get to the top of the mountain, but you spend so much time wondering how to get there, looking up, and like, how do I get there?
• 4:34
  SPEAKER_01: You would get there a lot faster if you just kept moving, but you don't keep moving.
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  SPEAKER_01: You do a little bit and then you stop, you do a little bit and then you stop.
• 4:42
  SPEAKER_01: And so your momentum slows down, your growth slows down, your expansion slows down.
• 4:47
  SPEAKER_01: And so, what I ask myself, like literally every day, like just keep moving.
• 4:52
  SPEAKER_01: How can I keep living today?
• 4:53
  SPEAKER_01: How can I keep moving to my edge?
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  SPEAKER_01: What is the absolute farthest, and not like in a hustle grind way, in a personal developed growth kind of way.
• 5:01
  SPEAKER_01: How can I move to my edge today?
• 5:03
  SPEAKER_01: How can I keep going to my edge and move closer to the top of that mountain, right?
• 5:10
  SPEAKER_01: The compound effect is so, so important because the most important thing for going forward in expansion is to keep moving.
• 5:19
  SPEAKER_01: You know, it's like when you're building up a habit, the most important thing is that you keep doing it, you make it a habit.
• 5:24
  SPEAKER_01: When you make it a habit of moving, suddenly you're moving here every single day, you're moving and that compounds, right?
• 5:30
  SPEAKER_01: That keeps compounding and compounding.
• 5:33
  SPEAKER_01: And when that compounds, that's when momentum comes, right?
• 5:37
  SPEAKER_01: If we think about a ball, a ball that's moving stays moving, a ball at rest stays at rest until an outside force comes onto it.
• 5:44
  SPEAKER_01: So you have to keep that ball moving.
• 5:49
  SPEAKER_01: And if you plant a seed and then keep digging up to see if it's growing, you're not allowing me to blossom.
• 5:55
  SPEAKER_01: Instead, you have to plant it, water it, give it some sun.
• 6:00
  SPEAKER_01: Keep doing that day after day after day until it sprouts out.
• 6:04
  SPEAKER_01: But so many times I see people they plant a seed, they're like, is it done yet?
• 6:08
  SPEAKER_01: They dig it up.
• 6:08
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, is it working?
• 6:09
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, has the money come in?
• 6:10
  SPEAKER_01: Has clients come in?
• 6:11
  SPEAKER_01: Has the health changed?
• 6:12
  SPEAKER_01: Like, you just planted the seed, you gotta water it, you gotta give it sun, you gotta keep going.
• 6:18
  SPEAKER_01: Like, congratulations, you did a thing.
• 6:20
  SPEAKER_01: Keep doing it over and over and over again.
• 6:24
  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, I can't tell you how many times I see this and I have to tell people this.
• 6:28
  SPEAKER_01: Keep going, beautiful, keep going because it compounds and it adds up.
• 6:32
  SPEAKER_01: And all those days of like watering the plant and giving it sunshine, all of a sudden the little spurt comes out, right?
• 6:39
  SPEAKER_01: And then starts to grow even bigger and bigger and bigger.
• 6:41
  SPEAKER_01: And then before you realize it, it's this big, beautiful giant tree.
• 6:45
  SPEAKER_01: But you can't do that if you keep digging up the seed.
• 6:48
  SPEAKER_01: Like star, underline, rewind 15 seconds, re-listen to this.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is like a little juicy nugget, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Because if we were to stop watering it, stop giving it sun, it would stop growing.
• 7:03
  SPEAKER_01: So maybe you're digging it up to see if it's grown yet and it's not, or maybe you watered it, but then you forgot to water it for a week.
• 7:09
  SPEAKER_01: Well, then it died.
• 7:10
  SPEAKER_01: And then you're wondering, well, why didn't it grow?
• 7:13
  SPEAKER_01: And then it's so much effort to get the seed growing again, versus if you just kept it going, you'd probably have a plant by now.
• 7:19
  SPEAKER_01: So this is the other thing.
• 7:21
  SPEAKER_01: It's like you do it for maybe a couple days and then you stop.
• 7:26
  SPEAKER_01: Well, then you start all over again, right?
• 7:27
  SPEAKER_01: You have to replant it, you have to plant a new seed because you let that seed die.
• 7:31
  SPEAKER_01: It's that compound effect of keep going.
• 7:33
  SPEAKER_01: Let's also start this for you.
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  SPEAKER_01: So the thing is that we question, right?
• 7:38
  SPEAKER_01: We question the movement and look around, say, is it working?
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  SPEAKER_01: Is the seed growing?
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  SPEAKER_01: Or we dig up the seed, is it growing?
• 7:45
  SPEAKER_01: And you stop and you get delays and you get stuck.
• 7:50
  SPEAKER_01: You know that you believe in yourself deep down.
• 7:52
  SPEAKER_01: The problem is that doubt creeps in of what if it doesn't work?
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  SPEAKER_01: The thing is that you ask for it.
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  SPEAKER_01: So remember, when you ask for it, whatever it is you desire, you ask for the challenges, lessons, and powers to hold it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so you're on the mountain wondering what if it doesn't work.
• 8:11
  SPEAKER_01: And the thing is that there's someone climbing up the mountain, they're going to the top and they're like, hey, you coming?
• 8:16
  SPEAKER_01: You're like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 8:18
  SPEAKER_01: I'm just gonna wait here and see if I can get to the top of the mountain.
• 8:21
  SPEAKER_01: And they're looking at you like you're you're not moving.
• 8:26
  SPEAKER_01: How do you, how you're gonna you're not, you're not moving.
• 8:32
  SPEAKER_01: But you spend so much time wondering, well, let me plan the perfect path up the mountain.
• 8:38
  SPEAKER_01: If I can just see, maybe like if I go this way and then this way, oh, and then I'll go this way and then this way, and you plan this perfect plan to the top of the mountain that you design.
• 8:47
  SPEAKER_01: All that time you spent sitting there wondering if it was the perfect plan, making sure you got it all right, wondering if it was gonna work, you could have been moving, you could have been celebrating, you'd be at the top of the mountain by now if you didn't spend so much time being like all right, so like double star this as well.
• 9:03
  SPEAKER_01: So it's probably gonna be a lot of double stars.
• 9:05
  SPEAKER_01: So you might want to relist and say this episode and take notes.
• 9:10
  SPEAKER_01: We get stuck in the paralysis of fear after we tell the universe I'm ready.
• 9:14
  SPEAKER_01: See this all the time.
• 9:15
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I'm ready.
• 9:16
  SPEAKER_00: I want, you know, I want this kind of health, I want this relationship, I want this man, I want this client's business.
• 9:21
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I'm ready, I'm ready.
• 9:22
  SPEAKER_00: Bring it to me.
• 9:23
  SPEAKER_00: I want it all.
• 9:25
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, here you go.
• 9:27
  SPEAKER_01: This is the challenge, the power, and the lessons needed in order to hold it.
• 9:32
  SPEAKER_01: And then you waver, and then you get stuck.
• 9:34
  SPEAKER_01: Well, is it working?
• 9:35
  SPEAKER_01: You know, this just happened.
• 9:36
  SPEAKER_01: Yes, it's working, but you need those things in order to hold it.
• 9:40
  SPEAKER_01: You need to be able to have the power, learn the lessons from the challenges because you can't get to the top of the mountain without that.
• 9:46
  SPEAKER_01: But then those little things happen, and it's like, oh you know, the universe says you were ready.
• 9:52
  SPEAKER_01: So it's like, okay.
• 9:53
  SPEAKER_01: And it was like, are you ready?
• 9:54
  SPEAKER_01: Like, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm ready.
• 9:56
  SPEAKER_03: Okay, here you go.
• 9:58
  SPEAKER_03: Oh no, no, I can't do that.
• 10:00
  SPEAKER_03: Wait, you said you wanted it.
• 10:02
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, yeah, I do.
• 10:04
  SPEAKER_03: Okay, and there you go.
• 10:08
  SPEAKER_01: Like this year for me has been the perfect example.
• 10:11
  SPEAKER_01: I asked for growth and expansion, I got growth and expansion.
• 10:15
  SPEAKER_01: I could have been stuck in paralysis, but instead I move every day.
• 10:20
  SPEAKER_01: I did move and I continue to move every single day through it all.
• 10:25
  SPEAKER_01: I don't get stuck, I don't let paralysis stop me.
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_01: I don't get stuck in fear and doubt.
• 10:29
  SPEAKER_01: I just keep moving.
• 10:31
  SPEAKER_01: And yet, so often I see people make the excuses of I don't have the time, I don't have this, I don't have whatever kind of reason, excuse, victimhood of why they can't achieve something, get something they're actually presented with.
• 10:45
  SPEAKER_01: And if you don't want it, that's fine.
• 10:47
  SPEAKER_01: We're not talking if you don't want it.
• 10:48
  SPEAKER_01: I know everyone can want different desires, they can want different things, perfectly fine.
• 10:52
  SPEAKER_01: And then get off the mountain.
• 10:54
  SPEAKER_01: There's no shame in getting off the mountain.
• 10:57
  SPEAKER_01: Never mind.
• 10:58
  SPEAKER_01: Like you don't have to have the map, but you don't have to talk, like it is no big deal.
• 11:00
  SPEAKER_03: There's no shame, there's no bad, there's no wrong.
• 11:03
  SPEAKER_03: Beautiful.
• 11:06
  SPEAKER_03: No, no, no, okay, I want it.
• 11:08
  SPEAKER_03: Okay, then move.
• 11:11
  SPEAKER_01: Because you can't sit there and ask for something and then not move and be confused as to why it's not working.
• 11:18
  SPEAKER_01: Either you ask for it and you move, or you don't ask for it and you're okay not moving.
• 11:25
  SPEAKER_03: You know, I see this so often.
• 11:29
  SPEAKER_01: For example, there are a bunch of you who know you to use the emotional work, you do the trauma release.
• 11:35
  SPEAKER_01: You know, you've tried everything, you've tried the supplements, you've tried the W vitamins, you've tried the I don't know, 5Ts, whatever it is.
• 11:42
  SPEAKER_01: I'm seeing a level one.
• 11:45
  SPEAKER_01: Oh no, no, no.
• 11:46
  SPEAKER_01: Now's not the best time.
• 11:47
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, I don't know, my kids, my this, my that.
• 11:49
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, great.
• 11:50
  SPEAKER_01: But you ask for this.
• 11:51
  SPEAKER_01: You ask for a re you ask for a way that you could heal your body, you ask for a way for more, you ask, you ask for a way.
• 11:58
  SPEAKER_01: And you've pleaded even for a solution for something that's gonna help you.
• 12:01
  SPEAKER_01: And then you get handed it.
• 12:03
  SPEAKER_01: Oh no, no, no, no.
• 12:04
  SPEAKER_01: Or maybe you know you need to set boundaries.
• 12:07
  SPEAKER_01: The universe is giving you away, but you're just stuck and not moving, not setting the boundaries.
• 12:13
  SPEAKER_01: But the boundaries is what actually is gonna get you there.
• 12:16
  SPEAKER_01: So you know you need to set the boundaries.
• 12:18
  SPEAKER_01: Maybe it's like work boundaries.
• 12:19
  SPEAKER_01: Maybe you're like you cannot stand up to your boss and set work boundaries.
• 12:22
  SPEAKER_01: So you're getting really drained at work.
• 12:24
  SPEAKER_01: Your adrenals are in the toilet, your libidos in the toilet, your gut health is in the toilet, your stress going to work, you hate Mondays.
• 12:30
  SPEAKER_01: You know you need better work boundaries, but you can't stand up to, I don't know, Joey, your boss.
• 12:36
  SPEAKER_01: So you ask for all these things, all this expansion.
• 12:38
  SPEAKER_01: You want better energy, better sex, better this, better that, but you're not setting work boundaries.
• 12:44
  SPEAKER_01: The universe gave you that.
• 12:47
  SPEAKER_01: You also free will.
• 12:48
  SPEAKER_01: So you need to do the free will things.
• 12:50
  SPEAKER_01: The universe cannot make you move, it can only put you on your path that is required to get there.
• 12:55
  SPEAKER_01: I will say that again.
• 12:56
  SPEAKER_01: The universe cannot make you move, it can only put you on a path towards what you desire and what is required to get there.
• 13:04
  SPEAKER_01: It can lay out the path, it can do everything you want, but you decide the walked path.
• 13:10
  SPEAKER_03: You know, so you take a step and then you stop again, and we have a loss of momentum because you took one step.
• 13:17
  SPEAKER_01: Now, not every step has to be a big lead, not every step has to be like a long jump as long as you keep moving, as long as you keep stepping, and then we're gonna get into this in a bit, stepping as far as you can in that moment.
• 13:34
  SPEAKER_01: Right is the next step.
• 13:35
  SPEAKER_01: You know, maybe you okay, you join, you join the calls.
• 13:39
  SPEAKER_03: Beautiful, you join the calls.
• 13:42
  SPEAKER_01: Then you don't do the accumulation exercises, and you don't watch the recordings because you can't make it live, but you don't end up watching the recordings, and you don't participate in the telegram group and you don't ask me the questions where you need help with, and then you're stuck again and you lose the momentum.
• 13:57
  SPEAKER_01: You have to keep moving, right?
• 13:59
  SPEAKER_01: Instead, if you waste time standing in the same spot when you could be moving to the next level.
• 14:05
  SPEAKER_01: And so you do all that, okay.
• 14:07
  SPEAKER_01: Then what's the next level?
• 14:08
  SPEAKER_01: You know, maybe then you join global level two or you join 101 or whatever it is.
• 14:12
  SPEAKER_01: Maybe after the work boundaries, you change jobs, who knows?
• 14:16
  SPEAKER_01: But you stay stagnant instead of jumping, okay, what's the next thing?
• 14:20
  SPEAKER_01: And you wait and you spend time waiting.
• 14:23
  SPEAKER_01: And you overthink what is the next move I'm gonna make.
• 14:25
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, I don't know, I don't know what to do.
• 14:26
  SPEAKER_01: Months passed, weeks passed.
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, I don't know, I don't know what the next step is.
• 14:30
  SPEAKER_01: You know, time is your greatest currency.
• 14:34
  SPEAKER_01: Yes, you can bend it, manipulate it, but that only happens as a compounding result of who the hell you are and by choosing to move up that goddamn mountain.
• 14:42
  SPEAKER_01: Star underlinedness, okay?
• 14:45
  SPEAKER_01: Or as another example, you're gonna try this other diet or this other supplement for the gut health.
• 14:52
  SPEAKER_01: And they've done that a hundred times.
• 14:54
  SPEAKER_01: No supplement has helped.
• 14:55
  SPEAKER_01: They've done all the paleo, keto, I don't know, whatever it is.
• 14:58
  SPEAKER_01: Your diet's clean, that's not the issue.
• 15:00
  SPEAKER_01: But you stay that level instead of moving.
• 15:02
  SPEAKER_01: You're at the level of like, okay, your diet's clean.
• 15:04
  SPEAKER_01: It's not a diet issue, it's not a supplement issue, but you stay here, but you stay here because you keep doing things that are at that level.
• 15:10
  SPEAKER_01: What's the next level?
• 15:12
  SPEAKER_01: Right?
• 15:12
  SPEAKER_01: If you want to get to the next level, you have to do something next level.
• 15:15
  SPEAKER_01: Only you can take yourself there, right?
• 15:17
  SPEAKER_01: Only you can decide, yes, this is what I'd like, please.
• 15:20
  SPEAKER_01: Yes, universe, this is what I'd like, right?
• 15:23
  SPEAKER_01: That's not how, you know, that's not how it works.
• 15:27
  SPEAKER_01: So you say things like, okay, well, when I manifest the money to jump in, you know, I will just sit.
• 15:33
  SPEAKER_01: I will sit with my crystal, I will journal, and then if it's meant to be, it'll happen.
• 15:38
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• 15:47
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• 15:55
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• 16:00
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• 16:09
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• 16:12
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• 16:14
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• 16:20
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• 16:27
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• 16:41
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• 16:44
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• 16:46
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• 16:53
  SPEAKER_01: Plus, I've added a section on the last call for wealth and money so that you can let go of the old money beliefs and patterns and code in a new financial group.
• 17:02
  SPEAKER_01: Honestly, this truly covers it all.
• 17:04
  SPEAKER_01: I'm so excited to see you inside.
• 17:06
  SPEAKER_01: Definitely hop into the extended payment plan.
• 17:09
  SPEAKER_01: Mine as well.
• 17:10
  SPEAKER_01: You pop in, you can start to watch the content before the live calls.
• 17:14
  SPEAKER_01: It's going to be so yummy and so healing.
• 17:16
  SPEAKER_01: So the link is down below.
• 17:18
  SPEAKER_01: DM me any questions you have on Instagram, and I cannot wait to see you inside.
• 17:23
  SPEAKER_01: That's not how manifesting works.
• 17:26
  SPEAKER_01: This is where people get troubled with manifesting.
• 17:29
  SPEAKER_01: You get yourself into the vibe and the feelings of what you want, you let go of the how, of how it's gonna happen, how it's gonna come in, let go of the logic, and you take action in alignment with those desires.
• 17:38
  SPEAKER_03: If you are not taking action, how are you gonna put yourself in alignment with those desires?
• 17:46
  SPEAKER_03: And really you're not taking action because you're thinking, well, what if it doesn't work?
• 17:50
  SPEAKER_01: And so your dominant thought is, well, what if it doesn't work?
• 17:53
  SPEAKER_01: And so how is being in the energy of what if it doesn't work in the energy and the frequency for what you want, for what you desire?
• 18:03
  SPEAKER_01: It's not and so then you get stuck in the cycle of I'm gonna visualize the label, right?
• 18:07
  SPEAKER_01: Is what I want.
• 18:09
  SPEAKER_01: What if it doesn't work?
• 18:10
  SPEAKER_01: Well, it's not working because you're not taking action.
• 18:12
  SPEAKER_01: Well, your action is not the biggest action you could be taking.
• 18:16
  SPEAKER_01: You're taking a little small action.
• 18:18
  SPEAKER_01: And actually, I was saying this to one of the girls in the Glow Level 2 last week because there's one thing she knows she needs to do, one big thing that's going to move the needle for her.
• 18:26
  SPEAKER_01: I've been telling her this for quite a while.
• 18:28
  SPEAKER_01: It's like if you do this, everything else is gonna shift.
• 18:30
  SPEAKER_01: But she's looking for the other solutions.
• 18:32
  SPEAKER_01: Well, what if I do this?
• 18:33
  SPEAKER_01: What if I do this?
• 18:34
  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, yeah, those little things are good.
• 18:36
  SPEAKER_01: Do those.
• 18:37
  SPEAKER_01: It's not the big thing, it's not the biggest move you need to make.
• 18:40
  SPEAKER_03: You know what the biggest move is you need to make.
• 18:43
  SPEAKER_03: And I get it, it's scary.
• 18:47
  SPEAKER_03: But isn't it a a lot scarier to stay where you are now?
• 18:52
  SPEAKER_01: And you're thinking, well, what if it doesn't work?
• 18:55
  SPEAKER_01: Well, is it working right now?
• 18:58
  SPEAKER_01: Turns out you're stressed out right now.
• 19:00
  SPEAKER_01: The boundaries you're not setting right now, stressing you out.
• 19:03
  SPEAKER_01: So yes, setting boundaries is stressful.
• 19:05
  SPEAKER_01: Maybe for like a second while you're setting them, then you'll feel really, then you'll feel better.
• 19:10
  SPEAKER_01: So the whole answer is like, well, what if it doesn't work?
• 19:12
  SPEAKER_01: Well, is it working right now?
• 19:14
  SPEAKER_01: Chances are no.
• 19:15
  SPEAKER_01: So you might as well do the damn thing.
• 19:17
  SPEAKER_01: Star underline, like let that sink in and integrate into your body.
• 19:23
  SPEAKER_01: Take all the momentum and keep building.
• 19:26
  SPEAKER_01: Keep stepping forward.
• 19:29
  SPEAKER_01: Because when you move to that edge and let go of the how and you allow yourself to do the damn thing, next thing you know, you've climbed the mountain.
• 19:35
  SPEAKER_01: But it's the paralysis of waiting to think, of trying to apply the logic of slowing down, being unsure, if you would just keep moving, you wouldn't even have time to be unsure in doubt because you're just focused on the next step and the next step and the next step.
• 19:49
  SPEAKER_01: You're not looking around wondering if I did it right, because you are so moving forward, you don't have time.
• 19:54
  SPEAKER_01: You don't have time.
• 19:56
  SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna use a Formula One analogy because my fiance watches a lot of Formula One.
• 20:00
  SPEAKER_01: You think like Max Verstappen is looking behind to see, you know, if Sergio Perez is like following him?
• 20:07
  SPEAKER_01: No, he's focusing on the end goal.
• 20:08
  SPEAKER_01: I can just imagine if my fiance is hearing this right now being recording, probably laughing.
• 20:13
  SPEAKER_01: No, he's not looking back to say, Oh, are they chasing me?
• 20:15
  SPEAKER_01: Am I am I doing well?
• 20:16
  SPEAKER_01: Are they behind me?
• 20:17
  SPEAKER_01: No, he is focused forward.
• 20:20
  SPEAKER_01: He's focusing on moving forward and go as fast as he can.
• 20:23
  SPEAKER_01: So, what are you doing?
• 20:25
  SPEAKER_01: Are you looking forward, focusing on whether you can move to your edge and taking that step forward up that mountain?
• 20:30
  SPEAKER_01: Or are you looking around being like, I wonder what other people are doing?
• 20:34
  SPEAKER_01: No, right?
• 20:36
  SPEAKER_01: So I say this because I've been there.
• 20:39
  SPEAKER_01: I was stuck.
• 20:40
  SPEAKER_01: Years ago, I was stuck.
• 20:42
  SPEAKER_01: If you go back, I think I did an episode on this on the keys to up leveling from early.
• 20:47
  SPEAKER_01: I think it's actually from this point last year.
• 20:50
  SPEAKER_01: This is like an October energy.
• 20:51
  SPEAKER_01: Because it was this time last year we were um packing things up to go to Florida.
• 20:57
  SPEAKER_03: I say this because I've been there.
• 20:58
  SPEAKER_03: I've been stuck in analysis paralysis.
• 21:02
  SPEAKER_01: But if I can do it, you can do it.
• 21:04
  SPEAKER_01: If I can move, there is nothing special to me that makes me move.
• 21:07
  SPEAKER_01: It is just free will.
• 21:08
  SPEAKER_01: If I can move, you can move.
• 21:10
  SPEAKER_01: So it's not that you can't move.
• 21:13
  SPEAKER_01: It's that you don't think it's going to pay off.
• 21:16
  SPEAKER_01: Because if you thought it would pay off, you would do it.
• 21:19
  SPEAKER_01: So it's not true that you can't.
• 21:21
  SPEAKER_01: It's that you are afraid you're going to lose it.
• 21:24
  SPEAKER_01: Are you afraid you will lose something?
• 21:27
  SPEAKER_01: So if you think that it's a gamble, then the issue is within you, right?
• 21:30
  SPEAKER_01: It's an inner issue.
• 21:32
  SPEAKER_01: If you don't believe you are meant for something you desire, if you don't believe that the money comes back tenfold, if you don't believe you can have it all, then that's how it's going to work.
• 21:39
  SPEAKER_01: The reason I'm here is because I believe in me.
• 21:42
  SPEAKER_01: I am unwavering in me.
• 21:45
  SPEAKER_01: It wouldn't matter how much of you know the people around me believe in me, whether they do or not.
• 21:50
  SPEAKER_01: You can have everyone around to believe in you, but do you believe in you?
• 21:55
  SPEAKER_03: Are you unwavering in you?
• 21:57
  SPEAKER_03: Are you moving even if it doesn't make sense to other people?
• 22:02
  SPEAKER_01: You know, whether a job change doesn't make sense to other people, whether leaving your relationship doesn't make sense to other people.
• 22:08
  SPEAKER_01: There's a lot of people right now in my world who are contemplating leaving their relationships.
• 22:12
  SPEAKER_01: They're worried about what their friends will think, what so and so will think.
• 22:16
  SPEAKER_01: It doesn't matter if it makes sense to them.
• 22:17
  SPEAKER_01: Does it make sense to you?
• 22:19
  SPEAKER_01: You want to pack your bags and I don't know, leave your relationship and go backpacking in Bali, or I don't know, just leave it at whatever it is.
• 22:28
  SPEAKER_03: Does it make sense to you?
• 22:31
  SPEAKER_03: Do you believe in you?
• 22:34
  SPEAKER_03: And that's all that matters.
• 22:38
  SPEAKER_01: But there are people who have limiting beliefs around you.
• 22:41
  SPEAKER_01: And they will try to say things like it's not possible, and you know, the world doesn't work that way, or I don't know, money doesn't grow on trees, or who are you to?
• 22:48
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
• 22:49
  SPEAKER_01: They're gonna say all the things, right?
• 22:50
  SPEAKER_01: There are people who said things to me about what was possible.
• 22:56
  SPEAKER_01: My mom said things, you know, that you shouldn't believe it was possible, what I was doing.
• 22:59
  SPEAKER_01: My ex said things, you know, that wasn't possible about my business.
• 23:03
  SPEAKER_01: Well, you shouldn't do that, you shouldn't do it that way, and this is the way you have to do it.
• 23:06
  SPEAKER_01: I was like, no.
• 23:08
  SPEAKER_01: Doesn't feel good to me.
• 23:09
  SPEAKER_01: I don't want to do it that way.
• 23:11
  SPEAKER_03: I'm gonna do it my way, and it's gonna work cute, it's gonna work.
• 23:14
  SPEAKER_03: And it did.
• 23:16
  SPEAKER_01: But if I believed them, instead of believing in me, I wouldn't be here and I wouldn't have gotten where I am today, but I keep moving.
• 23:24
  SPEAKER_01: And then when I move, it's okay.
• 23:25
  SPEAKER_01: What's the next thing I can do?
• 23:27
  SPEAKER_01: Now what can I do?
• 23:29
  SPEAKER_01: All right, now what can I do?
• 23:31
  SPEAKER_01: And it is consistent action over and over and over again.
• 23:34
  SPEAKER_01: People really underestimate consistency, especially when it comes to if you want to call it manifesting or moving towards what you desire, expansion, whatever you want to call it, personal growth, whatever.
• 23:50
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, but the rest of your thoughts were very consistent to negative beliefs and limiting beliefs and all that.
• 23:57
  SPEAKER_01: So, what was more consistent?
• 24:00
  SPEAKER_01: The stuff you're doing that's actually gonna serve you, or the limiting beliefs, negative self-talk, programming, etc.
• 24:05
  SPEAKER_01: Which one, which one took up more space, right?
• 24:11
  SPEAKER_03: And so, what I kind of want to finish talking about is moving your best, doing your best.
• 24:20
  SPEAKER_01: We're gonna I'm gonna give like a money logic example because it's always easy to wrap your head around like tangible numbers.
• 24:26
  SPEAKER_01: So let's say you only have$200, or you I don't know,$200 like$500.
• 24:33
  SPEAKER_01: This happens a lot.
• 24:34
  SPEAKER_01: Maybe I should wait until I do one-on-one with you.
• 24:37
  SPEAKER_01: No, you do your best now.
• 24:40
  SPEAKER_01: So if you only have 200, you I don't know, you join Psycho Codes, or you join the bundle, or if you have 500, maybe you going goddess activation because that's going to heal your worth and get you into your feminine energy, which is gonna allow you to manifest more money.
• 24:53
  SPEAKER_01: You do your best now, and then your best will change, and then you will move to a different part of the mountain with a totally different view because you are still moving, and then that totally different view does something for you and does something for your heart, and then from that different view, you'll see a beautiful new path that you wouldn't have seen if you were waiting down at the bottom to be able to go up to the top in one shot.
• 25:22
  SPEAKER_01: So instead of waiting into maybe, you know, jumping into my one-on-one, what can you do now?
• 25:28
  SPEAKER_01: Can you get into Sacred Codes?
• 25:29
  SPEAKER_01: Can you get into glow level one?
• 25:30
  SPEAKER_01: There's an extended hearing plan right now.
• 25:32
  SPEAKER_01: Can you get into God's inclination?
• 25:35
  SPEAKER_01: Can you I don't know?
• 25:36
  SPEAKER_01: Sometimes I have other little things going on.
• 25:37
  SPEAKER_03: Can you get into bother only, whatever it is?
• 25:42
  SPEAKER_03: You might think those little steps will make a difference, but they do.
• 25:44
  SPEAKER_01: Remember, we talked about compounding, we talked about momentum, those little things compound because every time you move, you shift closer.
• 25:51
  SPEAKER_01: So don't get trapped in thinking because you can't go top the map in one shot, you shouldn't move.
• 25:57
  SPEAKER_01: It's like exercising, right?
• 25:59
  SPEAKER_01: If you couldn't go to the gym, it's like, oh, I can't go to the gym seven days a week for two hours, so I'm not gonna go at all.
• 26:06
  SPEAKER_01: Can you imagine?
• 26:08
  SPEAKER_01: Like if you were waiting until you go to the gym two hours a day, seven days a week, I'm just not gonna go at all.
• 26:12
  SPEAKER_01: No, no, I'm just gonna wait.
• 26:15
  SPEAKER_01: Well, right now you couldn't go maybe three times a week for 30 minutes, and then you'll get more strength, and then I'll be able to go to be able to do those things.
• 26:24
  SPEAKER_01: Or you know, I can't run 30 kilometers straight right now, so I'm not gonna run at all.
• 26:28
  SPEAKER_01: You start with one kilometer and then five, and then a 10k, and then I think well, I don't know what a marathon is, I don't I'm clearly not a runner, but whatever it is, you get the point.
• 26:42
  SPEAKER_01: Every time you move, you shift towards the outcome, and new paths and new things and new views become available to you that will move you, that will shift you, that will compound you.
• 26:56
  SPEAKER_03: It doesn't matter what you can't do.
• 26:58
  SPEAKER_01: What matters is what you can do, and you can probably do more than you think.
• 27:03
  SPEAKER_01: So don't stay stuck where you are because you're focused on the fact that you're not at the top of the mountain.
• 27:07
  SPEAKER_01: If you moved, you could be celebrating.
• 27:10
  SPEAKER_01: And if your mind goes through the what ifs, you already know.
• 27:13
  SPEAKER_01: What if it doesn't work?
• 27:14
  SPEAKER_01: Well, it's not working now.
• 27:16
  SPEAKER_03: And what if it does work?
• 27:20
  SPEAKER_03: At least you're moving.
• 27:22
  SPEAKER_03: There's no way it's gonna work if you're not moving.
• 27:25
  SPEAKER_03: Anyone who's ever done anything has stood where you are right now.
• 27:32
  SPEAKER_03: Have felt feelings of fear, but they move anyway.
• 27:37
  SPEAKER_03: But it's cozy where you are right now.
• 27:39
  SPEAKER_03: You don't want to disrupt the cozy because it's comfortable.
• 27:43
  SPEAKER_03: So greatness is on the other side of comfortable.
• 27:50
  SPEAKER_01: You do the uncomfortable things in order to expand.
• 27:53
  SPEAKER_01: It's uncomfortable, I don't know, to lift up heavier than weights.
• 27:57
  SPEAKER_01: It's not as easy.
• 27:58
  SPEAKER_01: If I went and tried to do five pounds for bicep curls, it'd be comfortable, it'd be easier.
• 28:03
  SPEAKER_01: You probably won't really feel it.
• 28:05
  SPEAKER_01: But you feel that 20 pounds.
• 28:08
  SPEAKER_01: So you're gonna feel it when you're expanding.
• 28:10
  SPEAKER_03: It's not gonna be easy.
• 28:12
  SPEAKER_03: You're gonna feel it.
• 28:14
  SPEAKER_03: But that means that you're moving.
• 28:20
  SPEAKER_03: I'm so excited for you for whatever you decide to do.
• 28:22
  SPEAKER_01: If you decide to set those boundaries, if you decide to join a container, if you want to join sacred codes, glow level one, dots, if you want to move across the country, if you want to do whatever it is.
• 28:33
  SPEAKER_01: And I trust you that that's your best.
• 28:38
  SPEAKER_03: I trust that you are going to make the moves, the biggest moves you can, and those are going to be the best thing that you can do.
• 28:48
  SPEAKER_01: But like if you go into like sacred codes when you know you could go into flow level one or one-on-one, then check with yourself.
• 28:55
  SPEAKER_01: And where are you afraid to believe in you?
• 28:59
  SPEAKER_01: Where are you afraid that you are not capable?
• 29:02
  SPEAKER_01: Because if you're afraid that you're not capable, then who else is gonna believe in you?
• 29:07
  SPEAKER_01: I could believe in you.
• 29:08
  SPEAKER_01: I believe in every honestly, every single human out there has a potential, but you have to believe in you.
• 29:20
  SPEAKER_03: So I'm gonna ask you, what is your biggest possible move right now?
• 29:27
  SPEAKER_03: What's the one that's gonna make you grow?
• 29:34
  SPEAKER_01: You ask the universe for something, your desires, and delivers you the path of those desires.
• 29:39
  SPEAKER_01: And then you take the smallest possible action so that you don't fail.
• 29:42
  SPEAKER_03: That's not alignment.
• 29:47
  SPEAKER_03: So, what's the biggest possible move you can make?
• 29:50
  SPEAKER_01: Because your your frequency is based on the things, not only that you think, but the things that you do, your moves.
• 29:56
  SPEAKER_01: That's why embodiment is so key.
• 29:58
  SPEAKER_01: That's why I talk about embodiment so much.
• 29:59
  SPEAKER_01: Because you can think all the things, visualize all the things, you can write in your journal.
• 30:03
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know, I am wealthy to the cows come home.
• 30:06
  SPEAKER_01: You don't take the actions that a wealthy birthman would.
• 30:11
  SPEAKER_03: That's not gonna change.
• 30:14
  SPEAKER_03: And the thing is, the shadow is really powerful.
• 30:16
  SPEAKER_03: The doubt, the fear, all that shadow is powerful, and no matter how big the sun is, there's always gonna be shadow.
• 30:27
  SPEAKER_03: So you can choose to stand in the shadow, or you can choose to stand in the sun.
• 30:34
  SPEAKER_03: So I really want to empower you to be brave, to feel the uncertainty and to take the action anyway.
• 30:43
  SPEAKER_01: Because your actions bring the certainty.
• 30:46
  SPEAKER_01: So if you're asking me, how will I get up that mountain?
• 30:48
  SPEAKER_01: As long as you're taking steps and you're moving towards the top, you're bound to get there.
• 30:53
  SPEAKER_01: Your action of taking those steps towards the top is the certainty.
• 30:58
  SPEAKER_01: So, do you take action on your life or do you let life take action on you?
• 31:02
  SPEAKER_03: Because you are the creator.
• 31:06
  SPEAKER_01: So, with that, say this episode.
• 31:10
  SPEAKER_01: I'd love to know what your big move, big bold move of the day is going to be.
• 31:14
  SPEAKER_01: Remember when I made my first big bold move, it was leaving my ex-fiance.
• 31:18
  SPEAKER_01: Definitely one of the toughest things I've ever done in my life.
• 31:20
  SPEAKER_01: Knew it needed to be done.
• 31:22
  SPEAKER_01: But the compounding about the momentum that happened when I made big bold moves, done.
• 31:27
  SPEAKER_01: I remember the first mentor I invested in.
• 31:31
  SPEAKER_01: I was like, oh, I've never spent this much, but I felt like I was stuck.
• 31:35
  SPEAKER_01: I was stuck doing the same things, but I didn't know what to do differently.
• 31:38
  SPEAKER_01: Things weren't working in my business.
• 31:39
  SPEAKER_01: This was like a few years ago.
• 31:42
  SPEAKER_01: I made more in that the week I signed up with her, I made more in that week.
• 31:47
  SPEAKER_01: It was like uh an almost five-figure week, and I made$236 the previous month.
• 31:54
  SPEAKER_01: I remember when I vested the next mentor after that.
• 31:57
  SPEAKER_01: I was debating between two different programs of hers.
• 31:59
  SPEAKER_01: I was like, oh, should I do this one or this one?
• 32:01
  SPEAKER_01: She said, Why don't you do both?
• 32:02
  SPEAKER_01: I was like, oh.
• 32:04
  SPEAKER_03: And I did both because that was the biggest boldest move I could make.
• 32:12
  SPEAKER_03: So I continue to do that.
• 32:14
  SPEAKER_03: So what is your biggest boldest move?
• 32:19
  SPEAKER_03: And do not take the small action because you're afraid of failure, because that's on alignment.
• 32:25
  SPEAKER_03: What is your biggest boldest move?