Latest / The Inner Wealth Podcast / Ep113. The Path to Prosperity: Transforming your Existence Towards Abundance.
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- 0:03Speaker 1: This is Mike Kitco and I'm a small business owner just like you.
- 0:06Speaker 1: I'll never be a hustle, horror, grind guru, but I do believe in having it all health, wealth and a life full of love.
- 0:12Speaker 1: Struggle is not the goal and sacrifice is not glamorous.
- 0:15Speaker 1: I like the path of least resistance.
- 0:18Speaker 1: It just takes a shift in mindset and the beliefs you hold.
- 0:21Speaker 1: You believe that you need to sacrifice now to have what you want later, or do you believe that you can have it all all the time?
- 0:27Speaker 1: Does your beliefs create your outcomes?
- 0:29Speaker 1: I choose to feel wealthy, successful and happy every day and you get to choose for yourself.
- 0:35Speaker 1: Welcome to lead love, profit play, where small business owners learn and choose to have it all and choose to create success without distress.
- 0:48Speaker 2: We just got back from our mastermind retreat in Sedona, arizona.
- 0:53Speaker 2: So when I say we, I'm telling about me and my life, and twice a year we get together our entire mastermind and invite everybody into the retreat destination.
- 1:07Speaker 2: So we've been to San Antonio together, we've been to Denver together, we've been now to Sedona together.
- 1:14Speaker 2: We're going to Miami Beach in April and then after that we're going to Pigeon Forge Pigeon Forge, tennessee, in September, october, timeframe of 2024.
- 1:29Speaker 2: So then maybe back to Sedona in the year after that, but during this week we really we spend some valuable time together.
- 1:40Speaker 2: I've got an inner circle, a small inner circle of really wealthy and successful people that have hit the gas on their life and they feel a sense of peace and relaxation.
- 1:51Speaker 2: And we, we have an inner circle day.
- 1:54Speaker 2: So we what that means is the inner circle gathers for one day, kind of like us a warm up, and then the mastermind gets together for the two, the two days after the inner circle.
- 2:05Speaker 2: And it's really cool.
- 2:06Speaker 2: It's because the but the inner circle are the leaders of our mastermind, like I'm the teacher and I'm the facilitator, but our inner circle, the inner circle people, the members, they really are the leaders and they call the shots in the mastermind and they'll, they'll.
- 2:22Speaker 2: You know, one of them requested hey, what if we have a business call?
- 2:26Speaker 2: So we put a business call on a calendar.
- 2:28Speaker 2: During during the event, one of them came up, one of the inner circle members came up and said hey, so and so this one person really needs a hot seat, really needs to some time to to express themselves so they can start to get some more clarity.
- 2:41Speaker 2: And you know, we had a, we had a panel of inner circle members during the the mastermind, so that the mastermind students could literally ask, talk to and ask the inner circle folks like kind of what it, what the path looked like to, getting to, getting where they are.
- 2:58Speaker 2: And there was this one magic moment, actually two, because two people said the same exact thing.
- 3:05Speaker 2: So I'm going to paint a picture in your mind If you were to, if you were inside of this mastermind ring, and it's, it's.
- 3:13Speaker 2: There are 30 of us altogether, there's 46 total in our mastermind, but only 30 of us could, could get together and go to Sedona.
- 3:22Speaker 2: But I'm going to paint a picture there's a panel of of inner circles to members, right?
- 3:28Speaker 2: So there's probably nine people in a row, row of chairs and then the general mastermind is is like sitting audience style, okay, so so looking looking at, at the inner circle.
- 3:41Speaker 2: And when you looked at the inner circle, when you looked at the members in the inner circle, there was a sense of calm, of peace, of ease, of relaxation in, in these inner circle members.
- 3:56Speaker 2: That was obvious.
- 3:58Speaker 2: And two of the mastermind students said how do we do that?
- 4:02Speaker 2: And one of the mastermind students said we're like, we're like ravaged dogs and full of anxiety and you know and and and and turn oil.
- 4:13Speaker 2: And you guys are sitting there, inner circle members, are sitting there with a state of relaxation and peace.
- 4:20Speaker 2: And how do we do that?
- 4:22Speaker 2: That's what, that's what we want.
- 4:25Speaker 2: And listen, I'll tell you, these guys are some of the wealthiest people and most successful people that I've ever worked with.
- 4:31Speaker 2: And it's not, it's not the, the money and it's not the success that's created peace.
- 4:38Speaker 2: Because I'm sure you know people that are wealthy and successful that don't have a sense of relaxation and don't have a sense of peace, that the reason the people in the inner circle have a a sense of peace and relaxedness and calm about them is because they have, they've built a healthier relationship with life.
- 5:03Speaker 2: They've literally built a healthier relationship with the universe.
- 5:09Speaker 2: God, life, whatever you want to call, like this thing that we're doing right, or or whatever's guiding this magnificent ship.
- 5:21Speaker 2: And this magnificent experience, like building a healthier relationship with life, is going to help you create that sense of ease and calm and peace.
- 5:33Speaker 2: And and listen when you do that.
- 5:39Speaker 2: Money and wealth and success come a whole lot easier and a whole lot more abundantly when you, when you face life and when you approach life from a place of trust and faith and belief in yourself and you expect magic and you anticipate magic and you look for magic and you allow magic into your life and you allow wealth into your life and you allow success into your life.
- 6:07Speaker 2: You wouldn't, you'd be surprised at how many people that I've worked with that won't allow themselves to be wealthy and they won't allow themselves to be successful.
- 6:17Speaker 2: It's like when, when success starts knocking, they shut the door and they run.
- 6:23Speaker 2: Or when, you know, even thinking about, you know, in some folks, even thinking about living a financially free life gives them like, gives them like, creates a sense of anxiety in them and fear, like, makes them shrivel up, and it's, it's, it's amusing almost, and I remember being there thinking that you know, what would my life look like if, if I were free, like, if I had time freedom, if I had financial freedom, what would my life look like and be like and how would it feel?
- 6:56Speaker 2: And it was like I couldn't even bring myself to to allow myself to experience or feel, work or pretend or fantasize about being there, because it was like the prospect of having everything like and having complete control over my time and having complete control over my finances and being able to do what I want and being able to go where I want and being able to have what I want.
- 7:19Speaker 2: It was almost like, yeah, like my mind, it was all like a sense of betrayal.
- 7:24Speaker 2: If I were to feel that, maybe it's the sense of shame that I had inside of me that you know, I just wouldn't allow myself to to, to experience or to dream about what I really wanted, and I really wanted control of my time, control of my calendar, the ability to travel and do cool things with cool people.
- 7:46Speaker 2: Now, when you look at, when you looked at the inner circle, you saw that sense of calm and peace and relax at this, and and there's one, there's one thing, there's a couple of concepts that I teach, but there's one that I want to really amplify and there's a three step process to having anything you want in your life, but getting clear on what that is.
- 8:14Speaker 2: Most people are really clear about what they don't want.
- 8:17Speaker 2: Most people are are super, super clear about what they don't want and they chase, basically because they're clear about what they don't want and they're living a life of avoidance instead of creation.
- 8:30Speaker 2: They're living a life of like out, of survival mode instead of creation mode.
- 8:35Speaker 2: Because they're really clear about what they don't want.
- 8:38Speaker 2: They're, they're artificially putting themselves in survival mode and that increases the anxiety and the fear and the worry and the doubt in your life.
- 8:47Speaker 2: When you're clear, very few people are clear about the, the life that they want to live.
- 8:53Speaker 2: They're settling for whatever shows up, but they're very, very clear about what they're trying to avoid.
- 8:59Speaker 2: Maybe they're trying to avoid bankruptcy, maybe they're trying to avoid loneliness, maybe they're trying to avoid being a failure.
- 9:06Speaker 2: They're really clear about what they're trying to avoid, but they're not clear about what they're looking to create, and that's why they're not creating anything in their life or if they do create it, they're not enjoying it because their life is spent trying to avoid circumstances, trying to avoid consequence.
- 9:24Speaker 2: So step one is to get really clear about what you would, you want in your life, when you want your perfect life to look like, what time you want to wake up in the morning, what time?
- 9:33Speaker 2: But how do you, how do you want your calendar?
- 9:35Speaker 2: What?
- 9:36Speaker 2: What are your ideal clients?
- 9:38Speaker 2: What?
- 9:38Speaker 2: What are your ideal outcomes with?
- 9:40Speaker 2: With people, what?
- 9:41Speaker 2: Well, how do you relate with people in a healthier way?
- 9:44Speaker 2: What do you want your physical, mental and emotional like wealth, well-being to, in health, to look like and feel like it?
- 9:51Speaker 2: Really clear about what you want.
- 9:53Speaker 2: Number two is to resolve any doubt.
- 9:57Speaker 2: Resolve any doubt that shows up in your mind.
- 10:00Speaker 2: There's, there's always stories in our mind that we don't see life as it is.
- 10:06Speaker 2: We see our life through our stories, we, we both, and you can, you can use the word stories and belief Intertingibly, but we see our life or we see life not how it is, but we see it like through our stories.
- 10:18Speaker 2: We.
- 10:19Speaker 2: We make things real that aren't real, and and and we things that are true, like making money is easy.
- 10:28Speaker 2: We make that.
- 10:29Speaker 2: We make it untrue because we believe is something different, and you live through your beliefs and you live through your stories.
- 10:36Speaker 2: So it's resolving any doubt that you have in your mind right and creating a sense of certainty In in certainly is in your mind and in your body.
- 10:47Speaker 2: You feel a sense of certainty.
- 10:49Speaker 2: You feel a sense of certainty like I.
- 10:55Speaker 2: I can have anything I want and and it will.
- 10:58Speaker 2: It will happen, it will show up in my experience.
- 11:01Speaker 2: Think, create such a sense of certainty and that that's simply by letting go of stories of doubt, letting go of worry, letting go of fear, letting go of beliefs that you can't have what you want or or that it's not, or that it's not available to you.
- 11:20Speaker 2: Let go of these things and create a sense of certainty inside of you that's so powerful that it's not an if, it's just a win.
- 11:31Speaker 2: The last step in the creation process is commitment.
- 11:33Speaker 2: Listen, this isn't the first time I'm teaching you guys this.
- 11:36Speaker 2: I teach this over and over.
- 11:37Speaker 2: The last step in the creation process is commitment.
- 11:39Speaker 2: It's staying true to, to your desire and until it shows up in your experience, but not giving up on on that thing that you want creating it, being allowed, allowing yourself to feel, to be in the receptive mode.
- 11:58Speaker 2: If you've ever listened to Abraham Hicks.
- 12:00Speaker 2: Abraham Hicks talks a lot about about being in the receptive mode and and the art of allowing.
- 12:06Speaker 2: And so many people are pinched off and they don't allow themselves to receive.
- 12:11Speaker 2: Or when something shows up, just when it shows up, they get scared, they close the door in a romp.
- 12:16Speaker 2: Commitment is about staying true to the process and staying true to yourself, staying true to your vision and allowing life the time to to germinate your vision.
- 12:29Speaker 2: And One of one of our inner circle folks he he has a landscaping business and he also has a ponds business where he builds like ha six and seven figure ponds for wealthy people.
- 12:44Speaker 2: And what.
- 12:46Speaker 2: What he shared with me is when you plant a seed, when you plant a seed in the ground, the very first thing that happens is the seed breaks open and roots from the bottom of the Seed start to dig into the earth to create a root system, so that when the seed does sprout, like it's locked into place and it already starts to build a healthy root system to create that powerful bond with the earth.
- 13:16Speaker 2: You can't see anything from the top of the seed, but the bottom of the seed is.
- 13:23Speaker 2: Roots are shooting out in the bottom of the seed and then the top of the seed sprouts, after the roots are already developed.
- 13:31Speaker 2: Some roots are developed, the plant whatever starts to come out of the top of the seed.
- 13:37Speaker 2: But just because you can't see the sprout coming out of the top of the seed doesn't mean that life is not working to make that seed become into the vegetation or whatever it was meant to become.
- 13:52Speaker 2: And this is commitment.
- 13:55Speaker 2: It's staying true and allowing life to develop roots and to set up things and to create things and move things around for you, in your benefit, like for you.
- 14:09Speaker 2: Life is conspiring for you.
- 14:11Speaker 2: It just takes some time for those roots to draw into the earth, to solidify so that seed has a foundation in the sprout throne.
- 14:21Speaker 2: And commitment is staying true to that process.
- 14:25Speaker 2: Now, if you follow this process, if you literally follow this simple process, get clear about what you want, get certain that you can have it by letting go of doubt and remaining true to the process and committing and going all in, knowing that you can have anything you want and just relaxing during the process, you'll see that you've always created from whatever you were clear about.
- 14:50Speaker 2: You don't attract into your life what you want.
- 14:53Speaker 2: You attract into your life what you believe is possible.
- 14:58Speaker 2: Now, there's one element of this and it really disrupts everything and it's shown up so often in my life and every time I haven't gotten what I wanted, it was because of this one thing, and it's impatience.
- 15:11Speaker 2: Impatience will absolutely destroy you.
- 15:16Speaker 2: When I was in the Marine Corps and when I was in corporate you know, I did and I saw so many people where impatience is a badge of honor and impatience is destructive.
- 15:31Speaker 2: Impatience will make you bounce from what you.
- 15:36Speaker 2: I'm saying this, I'll explain a little bit.
- 15:38Speaker 2: It'll make you bounce from commitment to commitment, to commitment to commitment, because you don't trust wife to deliver on any of that commitment, and that's lack of commitment.
- 15:49Speaker 2: If you bounce from commitment to commitment, to commitment to commitment, you're committed to not having what you want because you keep bouncing and when you commit, you patiently wait while that thing, while the root system develops and life moves things around in the world so that what you want can show up Patently.
- 16:15Speaker 2: And impatience will absolutely eat you alive and make sure that you stay in a state of survival mode and that's all.
- 16:26Speaker 2: Impatience is it's survival mode.
- 16:29Speaker 2: It's unnecessary survival mode.
- 16:33Speaker 2: Have you ever noticed that there are people, maybe you, maybe somebody that you'll observe.
- 16:39Speaker 2: But they have everything that they need, but they keep putting themselves in mental and emotional survival For no reason.
- 16:46Speaker 2: They just allow their mind and their emotions to be in a state of survival mode for no reason whatsoever.
- 16:53Speaker 2: It's premature.
- 16:55Speaker 2: It's almost like they're living in premature survival mode, like they're living like the next breath could be their last, always, constantly, and impatience will keep you in a state of survival mode.
- 17:11Speaker 2: The fastest way to get anywhere you want and the fastest way to have anything you want and the fastest way to become anything you want is slowly, and I know that I did another podcast episode.
- 17:30Speaker 2: I know that creates a little bit of confusion, but the fastest way to get what you want is slowly.
- 17:36Speaker 2: The fastest way to build an awesome business is slowly.
- 17:40Speaker 2: The fastest way to build an awesome relationship with someone is slowly.
- 17:45Speaker 2: The fastest way to create extraordinary health in yourself is slowly.
- 17:50Speaker 2: If you feel like you don't have time, you're in unnecessary premature survival.
- 17:59Speaker 2: In my retreat, in our retreat in the Interwealth Mastermind, those mastermind students looked at that inner circle and what they saw.
- 18:08Speaker 2: They saw the peace and ease.
- 18:11Speaker 2: But what they didn't understand is those people weren't putting themselves in survival mode unnecessarily and they want things and they create intentions to create new businesses, to create new teams, to create new collaborations, to create new experiences in our life.
- 18:37Speaker 2: But they also understand that the what is 100% their responsibility, totally up to them.
- 18:46Speaker 2: What you want and what you want to experience is 100% your responsibility.
- 18:53Speaker 2: But the how and the when are none of your business.
- 18:57Speaker 2: And what you'll notice is if you get really clear about what you want and you start taking inspired action towards that thing that you want, in that direction, life will conspire to bring you what you want, but it often, most often, will not look and appear and show up the way you thought it was going to.
- 19:21Speaker 2: The what is 100% your responsibility, but the how and the when are none of your business.
- 19:29Speaker 2: It's life's business, god's business, it's the universe's business.
- 19:36Speaker 2: And if you develop a healthy relationship with the creation process clarity, certainty, commitment and you let go of the need to have it done your way and to have it delivered when you want it, you give up.
- 19:49Speaker 2: If you give up the need for those things, you'll recognize a sense of peace and ease and relaxiveness about your entire body because you'll learn to trust yourself and you'll learn the trust that life has always wanted for you what you want for yourself.
- 20:06Speaker 2: You can have anything you want, but the question is to you trust that you can have everything you want, anything you want, and right now, as you're listening to this episode, if the answer in your mind is no, you've got some work to do on your beliefs and that's where the certainty comes in.
- 20:27Speaker 2: You're uncertain that you can have what you want, so you won't, because you're holding a seed of doubt, and the seed of doubt is growing, just like that seed of creation.
- 20:36Speaker 2: Whatever you focus on grows and you see the world and you experience the world through your stories and beliefs, not through reality.
- 20:44Speaker 2: The reality is you can have, you can do, you can be anything you want in this world.
- 20:51Speaker 2: And when you trust and when you patiently Assume the creation process and utilize the creation process Clarity, certainty, commitment and you slow down your pace and slow down your momentum and slow down the worry, doubt and fear that is inside of you, and you increase the level of trust, your trust, your ability to trust yourself and your ability to trust life, your ability to believe in yourself, your ability to believe in life, your ability to create higher level stories and higher level beliefs that support the direction that you want to go.
- 21:35Speaker 2: When you do these things, when you slow down and downshift your pace and how fast you're moving through life and you increase your trust in your beliefs and your stories, you're going to see everything change in your life, not just materially, but mentally and emotionally too.
- 21:56Speaker 2: And that's what those mastermind students saw in my inner circle is they saw a healthy relationship with life.
- 22:04Speaker 2: So I ask you you're listening to this podcast because you want something in your life.
- 22:11Speaker 2: You're listening to this episode because you want something in your life, but do you trust that you can have it?
- 22:17Speaker 2: And are you moving so fast and disrupting the process so aggressively that life can't deliver what you want?
- 22:24Speaker 2: Because you're not giving it a chance, you're not opening up space, you're not creating space in your life or in life in general, in order for life to deliver what you want.
- 22:33Speaker 2: I've been there before, so I know what that feels like.
- 22:37Speaker 2: I know why we do that because of fear.
- 22:41Speaker 2: Because of fear, because of doubt, because of worry.
- 22:45Speaker 2: Develop a healthier relationship with life and listen.
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- 23:11Speaker 2: It's through downshifting the stories that we're living, through downshifting on the beliefs, upgrading the beliefs that we're holding, upgrading the stories that we're telling ourselves and upgrading our quality of life.
- 23:26Speaker 2: If you've gotten any value out of this, I'd also love to connect with you.
- 23:31Speaker 2: I invite you into my Interwalf Mastermind.
- 23:35Speaker 2: You can be part of it from anywhere around, but what one thing I'll commit to you is that not only will you create anything you desire, you'll feel that sense of peace and relaxiveness, because that's where the magic really is, and that's really why you want all that stuff.
- 23:56Speaker 2: Not having it is a choice.
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