Latest / Hurdle with Emily Abbate / #HURDLEMOMENT: 4 Must-Try Morning Habits For a Better Start to Your Day
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- 0:00Speaker 1: If you to start to make some of these small changes,
- 0:04Speaker 1: incorporate these simple habits into your regular morning routine, I
- 0:09Speaker 1: bet you will never look back. Hey, Hurdler's Emily Abody
- 0:27Speaker 1: here bringing you another installment of Hurdle Moment from Hurdle Now.
- 0:32Speaker 1: This week, I am chatting to you about some hacks
- 0:36Speaker 1: that I have implemented into my morning routine. It is
- 0:40Speaker 1: no secret that I am a morning person. If you
- 0:44Speaker 1: follow me on social media, you see me typically up
- 0:47Speaker 1: with the sun and that has shifted just a little
- 0:50Speaker 1: bit during quarantine.
- 0:53Speaker 2: My morning routine.
- 0:54Speaker 1: Since we've started this whole stay at home thing, it's changed,
- 0:59Speaker 1: and honestly, it has changed for the better. This experimentation
- 1:04Speaker 1: of sorts has actually done me a world of good.
- 1:07Speaker 1: And today I am talking you through the four things
- 1:10Speaker 1: I am doing differently right now that have actually made
- 1:14Speaker 1: me better. They've made me more productive as the day
- 1:18Speaker 1: goes on, and they make me just feel good.
- 1:21Speaker 2: As always.
- 1:21Speaker 1: I'd love to hear from you about what your mornings
- 1:24Speaker 1: are looking like or what's working for you as we
- 1:27Speaker 1: are spending more time at home, So please hit me
- 1:30Speaker 1: up over on social at Hurdle podcast and at Emily
- 1:34Speaker 1: Body of course, if you have a hurdle moment of
- 1:36Speaker 1: your own to share, or you just want to say hi,
- 1:39Speaker 1: you can also always reach me over email.
- 1:41Speaker 2: It's Emily at hurdle dot us.
- 1:44Speaker 1: And with that, oh, let's get to hurdling.
- 1:56Speaker 2: Mornings.
- 1:57Speaker 1: They are pretty polarizing either or for the most part,
- 2:01Speaker 1: you love them or they're just not your thing and
- 2:04Speaker 1: you're the kind of person that needs to have like
- 2:07Speaker 1: a gallon of coffee before you can even remotely function. Listen,
- 2:12Speaker 1: It's totally okay to be in either camp. But for me,
- 2:16Speaker 1: mornings have always been a really special time. It's my
- 2:20Speaker 1: time to get my feet under me and get my
- 2:23Speaker 1: act together, give back to me before I can show up,
- 2:27Speaker 1: not just in my work, but really before I can
- 2:30Speaker 1: show up for anybody else, whether that's my friends, my family,
- 2:34Speaker 1: or what have you. And like I said, my morning
- 2:37Speaker 1: routine has shifted a little bit in Quarantine, and these
- 2:40Speaker 1: habits that I have picked up, they have dramatically made
- 2:44Speaker 1: my day better. So let's jump right into them.
- 2:48Speaker 2: First.
- 2:49Speaker 1: Habit not setting an alarm. Okay, so everyone again is different.
- 2:55Speaker 1: For some people, not setting an alarm may mean that
- 2:57Speaker 1: you're not rolling out of bed until ten or and
- 3:00Speaker 1: depending on what your employment situation might be, that could
- 3:04Speaker 1: be a bad thing. So for me, though, as someone
- 3:07Speaker 1: who used to set a five thirty or five forty
- 3:11Speaker 1: ish alarm five forty two to be specific, me not
- 3:14Speaker 1: setting an alarm means me at the latest most days,
- 3:19Speaker 1: opening my.
- 3:20Speaker 2: Eyes around seven am.
- 3:21Speaker 1: Now, lately, I've been in this like rollover in my
- 3:25Speaker 1: bed at five thirty, think about getting up, don't want
- 3:29Speaker 1: to do it, kind attempted to do it, and commit
- 3:33Speaker 1: for at least another ten to twelve fifteen minutes to
- 3:37Speaker 1: trying to go back to sleep for an hour. So
- 3:38Speaker 1: most days I'm actually getting up out of my bed
- 3:42Speaker 1: around seven am. With that said, I am a firm
- 3:45Speaker 1: believer in room darkening shades. For me, they make a
- 3:49Speaker 1: world of difference because without them, I swear that five
- 3:52Speaker 1: thirty rollover would happen and I would be up and
- 3:55Speaker 1: out know question about it. Without this alarm, I'm naturally
- 3:59Speaker 1: waking up. It's nowhere near as jarring. It feels like
- 4:03Speaker 1: such a pleasant way to kick things off, and it's
- 4:07Speaker 1: really special to really listen to your body and do
- 4:11Speaker 1: what you need to get things going. First thing, the
- 4:15Speaker 1: second habit that I have picked up that has made
- 4:18Speaker 1: a huge difference for me is not sleeping with my
- 4:22Speaker 1: phone on my nightstand. Listen, I get it. You want
- 4:27Speaker 1: to be connected, just like everybody else all the time.
- 4:30Speaker 1: There's so much going on. Here's the thing. I mentioned
- 4:33Speaker 1: this in an episode the other day. This has been
- 4:35Speaker 1: something that I have wanted to do for e Burr,
- 4:40Speaker 1: and it's probably one of the biggest changes that I've
- 4:42Speaker 1: made in Quarantine. After years of just hearing how important
- 4:47Speaker 1: it is not to sleep next to my phone, I
- 4:50Speaker 1: think for so long I was just so worried about
- 4:52Speaker 1: that something was going to happen and someone was going
- 4:55Speaker 1: to call, or I was going to miss a really
- 4:56Speaker 1: important text. But finally I just was It's like, what
- 5:01Speaker 1: could be that important? Now without my phone right next
- 5:06Speaker 1: to my head, I'm not compelled to check it all
- 5:08Speaker 1: the time, and I'm not getting exposed to that blue
- 5:12Speaker 1: light that we hear so much about. I mean that
- 5:16Speaker 1: blue light. It can inhibit melotonin production, which can reduce
- 5:19Speaker 1: both the quantity and the quality of your sleep. And
- 5:23Speaker 1: so I just figured now is as good of a
- 5:26Speaker 1: time as any to commit to putting it a little
- 5:29Speaker 1: bit farther away.
- 5:30Speaker 2: So the phone it stays on my desk.
- 5:32Speaker 1: It never comes to my bed, and so this really
- 5:35Speaker 1: facilitates that whole winding down situation, and it.
- 5:40Speaker 2: Feels really great.
- 5:41Speaker 1: Now not only am i not sleeping next to my phone,
- 5:44Speaker 1: but I'm also waiting until a little bit later in
- 5:46Speaker 1: the morning to check it at all. And I'll get
- 5:48Speaker 1: to that in just a little bit. The next big
- 5:51Speaker 1: habit I have picked up in Quarantine is that, without fail,
- 5:56Speaker 1: every single day, the first thing I do is journaling.
- 6:01Speaker 1: As you know, I'm a journalist, so I have these
- 6:04Speaker 1: things with words, and I've always wanted to be a
- 6:07Speaker 1: regular journaler. And I've had like stints of this typically
- 6:11Speaker 1: throughout the year. It happens in different ways as well.
- 6:14Speaker 1: I was on this one line a day journal kick
- 6:17Speaker 1: for a while, which I highly recommend to people who
- 6:19Speaker 1: really struggle with keeping a regular journaling practice. But now
- 6:24Speaker 1: for the last three months, I guess I'm lost count
- 6:28Speaker 1: of how long we've been doing this. I fill out
- 6:31Speaker 1: at least one page a day in my journal before
- 6:34Speaker 1: I even touch my phone. So I'll wake up, i'll
- 6:37Speaker 1: use the bathroom, and I'll immediately come back to my
- 6:40Speaker 1: bed before I make it to journal. And some days
- 6:43Speaker 1: I do want to go beyond that one page and
- 6:45Speaker 1: others the page feels like a total struggle. But taking
- 6:48Speaker 1: the time to reflect and always ending the exercise by
- 6:50Speaker 1: writing down one thing I'm grateful for or highlight for
- 6:53Speaker 1: the past twenty four hours, it just feels great.
- 6:57Speaker 2: And also something that.
- 6:58Speaker 1: I've discovered is I don't have the most excellent memory,
- 7:02Speaker 1: Like I just black out on so many things from
- 7:06Speaker 1: when I was younger, and I think about getting older
- 7:09Speaker 1: and maybe having children and wanting to talk to them
- 7:12Speaker 1: about my life and remember more, and so I just
- 7:15Speaker 1: feel so passionately about the importance of taking the time
- 7:19Speaker 1: to write things down right now. A common question that
- 7:22Speaker 1: I get about journaling is what are you writing about?
- 7:26Speaker 1: And honestly, that really depends on the day. I think
- 7:28Speaker 1: that there's a great benefit from doing writing prompts, especially
- 7:32Speaker 1: on those days where I feel as though I can't
- 7:33Speaker 1: fill up a single page. And I have a few
- 7:36Speaker 1: different books and journals that offer those to me. The
- 7:40Speaker 1: Self Reliant Entrepreneur, which I posted a handful of times
- 7:43Speaker 1: in my story. It's a book by John Jansh and
- 7:46Speaker 1: then also an old journal from Lulah Lemon. I think
- 7:49Speaker 1: it's called one hundred and eight days of Mind philosophy.
- 7:52Speaker 1: Both of those have tons of prompts that I can
- 7:54Speaker 1: lean into when I just feel a little bit blink.
- 7:58Speaker 2: First thing, the worth.
- 8:00Speaker 1: And final thing that I've started doing in quarantine every
- 8:03Speaker 1: morning that dramatically makes my day better is stretching and
- 8:09Speaker 1: PT exercises. Okay, so you don't need to be going
- 8:12Speaker 1: through specifically a bad injury to implement this kind of
- 8:16Speaker 1: morning movement into your regular routine. Just moving my body
- 8:21Speaker 1: in these gentle ways, waking up in a gentle way,
- 8:25Speaker 1: it just feels great.
- 8:27Speaker 2: And it's funny. Again, this is one of those simple
- 8:30Speaker 2: things for me. I do it for twenty to thirty
- 8:33Speaker 2: minutes every single day. But I think before I was
- 8:36Speaker 2: in just such a rush to get onto the next thing,
- 8:39Speaker 2: to get out of the apartment, to get things done
- 8:43Speaker 2: so that I could be at my office and start
- 8:45Speaker 2: checking off the to do list. And now I'm just
- 8:47Speaker 2: taking this time to be more mindful and more present
- 8:50Speaker 2: and just intentional. Again.
- 8:53Speaker 1: It's just such a nice slow way to ease into things.
- 8:56Speaker 1: So I'll journal, I'll make my bed, then I'll come
- 8:59Speaker 1: in to the living room. And when I come into
- 9:02Speaker 1: the living room, now that is the first time I
- 9:04Speaker 1: touch my cell phone. So I get the phone, I'll
- 9:07Speaker 1: check it, and I'll then open my podcast app and
- 9:11Speaker 1: listen to one of my three.
- 9:13Speaker 2: Regular news podcasts.
- 9:14Speaker 1: So that's up first the daily or group chat, and
- 9:18Speaker 1: I'll put one of those on and I'll start pham
- 9:20Speaker 1: rolling and then getting into some stretching and then getting
- 9:23Speaker 1: into some strengthening exercises. Not only is it a great
- 9:26Speaker 1: way for me to ease into the day, but it's
- 9:29Speaker 1: also making my body better for me to go throughout
- 9:32Speaker 1: my day and feel better, to feel looser. I'm not
- 9:37Speaker 1: going to sit here and ramble off all of the
- 9:39Speaker 1: benefits of soft tissue work and strengthening and stretching, but
- 9:43Speaker 1: you guys know that there are many. So what better
- 9:47Speaker 1: way to start things off than by giving back to
- 9:50Speaker 1: yourself physically and mentally. And that's it, those four things,
- 9:55Speaker 1: And I just want to reiterate all four of those things.
- 9:59Speaker 1: Take less than forty five minutes in the morning, and
- 10:04Speaker 1: think to yourself, how much time are you usually or
- 10:07Speaker 1: possibly wasting right now when you wake up. I'm not
- 10:10Speaker 1: saying that every single part of your day needs to
- 10:12Speaker 1: be super efficient, but instead of spending thirty minutes laying
- 10:16Speaker 1: in your bed scrolling on Instagram. In those thirty minutes,
- 10:19Speaker 1: you could do something for your mind, start something for
- 10:23Speaker 1: your body, and get a leg up on the day.
- 10:27Speaker 1: Trust me, if you to start to make some of
- 10:30Speaker 1: these small changes, incorporate these simple habits into your regular
- 10:35Speaker 1: morning routine, I bet you will never look back. I
- 10:40Speaker 1: want to hear about what you're doing in the morning,
- 10:41Speaker 1: so again, hit me up over on social media. It's
- 10:44Speaker 1: at Hurdle Podcasts and of course at Emily a Body
- 10:49Speaker 1: Another hurdle conquered.
- 10:51Speaker 2: Catch you guys, next time
- 11:01Speaker 1: You