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170 | My Husband Wants to Try New Sexual Things: Am I Allowed to Say No? A Framework for Deciding What's Okay
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“I hurt him. So am I allowed to say no to anything now?”
That belief runs quietly underneath a lot of marriages after an affair, and it shows up in hard conversations, in sexual intimacy, and sometimes in requests you'd never have considered before.
Today I answer the question directly, and give you a framework for evaluating any request, including the ones that are hard to say out loud.
We cover:
Why I said yes to everything because I believed I owed him
Guilt…
The skinny
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