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- 0:01What happens when your worst fear becomes your reality?
- 0:04Hi, I'm Brent Cassidy. Welcome to the Nightmare Success
- 0:07In and Out podcast, where we explore how to overcome your
- 0:10fears and nightmares that set yourself free.
- 0:13We're going to be exploring this topic with guys that was in
- 0:15Leavenworth with and others who survived their own nightmare.
- 0:20These stories can be inspiring, sometimes.
- 0:22Sad. There's some humor, but
- 0:25hopefully you can come away with a nugget of something that'll
- 0:27help you knock down some of the prisons you built up in your own
- 0:30mind. All right, Welcome back,
- 0:36nightmare success, Internet listeners.
- 0:37This is where you come for what happens when your worst fear
- 0:39becomes your reality. How do you adapt, survive,
- 0:42overcome, set yourself free? Well, I have a I've got a great
- 0:47guest here today and I want to, I want to give a shout out to
- 0:49Drew Chapin because he connected Sam and Sam Mangle and myself
- 0:54and if anybody's playing the board game at home.
- 0:57Drew was a guest tech entrepreneur San Francisco and
- 1:05actually he's got one of the top ten listen podcast so you have
- 1:08to check that one out. So Drew checked He he he
- 1:13connected Sam and I and I was just telling Sam before we got
- 1:17on he's doing such great work. If you haven't been watching the
- 1:20news, if you any or if you have been watching news, you might
- 1:24have seen Sam on quite a few news stations.
- 1:26He he got. He got out not too long ago and
- 1:32he has started a business where he is, he's giving he's a
- 1:37federal prison consultant who's who's doing things that help
- 1:40mitigate the process of the the federal criminal justice
- 1:46journey. And he's doing such a good job
- 1:48with him. He's helping CE OS and doctors
- 1:51and politicians and and he's foreign nationals people facing
- 1:57their nightmare. And he he's doing an incredible
- 1:59job with it. And I'll tell you, it's his
- 2:04story, is one of those that everybody's fears. 7:00 in the
- 2:09morning, you get a knock on the door and it's a bunch of FBI
- 2:13agents with windbreakers on, and they come into your house and
- 2:17Sam had no idea what was going on.
- 2:19They shout out to his wife that they're arresting him and away
- 2:23he goes in the back of the car. He later finds out it had issues
- 2:27to do with the insurance company that he had sold years prior.
- 2:30And the nightmare began. And Sam ended up supposed to be
- 2:36getting sentencing guidelines of about 18 months.
- 2:38He got 16 months. And that's why he's become such
- 2:40an expert on how in the world does this happen?
- 2:43How do you get into this? How do you get out of it?
- 2:46And and who can help you with it?
- 2:48It's Sam. I can't wait to jump into all
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- 3:29Success sent you. Sam Mangle, welcome.
- 3:33Thank you for being here. Thank you.
- 3:35Thank you for having me. Sam your your story is one that
- 3:40like I said would at the top. I I think that's every citizen's
- 3:46nightmare, isn't it? That you are at home and all of
- 3:51a sudden your world spins into something that's feels so out of
- 3:55control and. It was.
- 3:58There's certain things in life that people remember.
- 4:00They they say that those who are not just and impacted remember
- 4:04their first born. They remember certain monumental
- 4:08days or important days in life. Well, one of the days I remember
- 4:12is that I think it was April 18th of 2016.
- 4:18I have been retired for four years and getting a knock on the
- 4:22door of my my house 7:00 in the morning.
- 4:24I look outside the window and there were, I don't know, 1517
- 4:27men and women in the blue flak jackets, yellow FBI stencil
- 4:32carrying shotguns. Man.
- 4:35Living in South Florida, I opened up the door.
- 4:37I figured, you know, it must be some drug dealer.
- 4:39They were looking. For wrong address.
- 4:43And I I was, you know, didn't say anything.
- 4:46And they said Sam Mangle, yes. Within, I don't know, 2 seconds.
- 4:50They grabbed me by the shirt collar, put me up against the
- 4:53wall, had me handcuffed anyone else in the house, any firearms.
- 4:56I think my wife was in the shower.
- 4:58They got her out, put me in the back of the car, drove me to
- 5:02West Palm Beach, didn't tell me anything, couldn't tell me
- 5:05anything, wouldn't tell me anything.
- 5:08I didn't have an attorney. I finally, you know, remember
- 5:10the last words to my wife were call an attorney, find someone.
- 5:15That was the 1st $2500 that I spent to have an attorney at
- 5:18arraignment. And that started at that point
- 5:22A2 year nightmare of working my way through the justice system.
- 5:27You know, plopping down that half $1,000,000 for the attorney
- 5:31who guaranteed Promise me. Don't worry.
- 5:34I'll take care of you. This before you're in the bed.
- 5:38And I remember him saying to me, don't worry, I'm always
- 5:42available. And he handed me a piece of
- 5:43paper that had a 5 or 7 numbers on it and then one was, you
- 5:47know, his boat, the other was his, you know, his daughter's
- 5:49college dorm number. That was on a Friday.
- 5:52On a Monday I went to call him and his assistant said that he's
- 5:56not in today. Will he call me later?
- 5:59Sure, I'll give him the message. Took until Thursday for him to
- 6:02call me back. And now I realized that the the
- 6:05nightmare, yes, that I was in for it.
- 6:08You were in for it. So Sam, let's go back a little
- 6:11bit. You know, what did you did you
- 6:16grow up in, in that area in Florida.
- 6:18Like what was your life like growing up as a kid?
- 6:21Mom, Dad, Siblings. Yeah, I mean, I Mom and dad.
- 6:25Very, very close. My brother's 15 months younger
- 6:29than me. He's a a physician in Atlanta, a
- 6:32perfectly adjusted public school education in in Cherry Hill, NJ.
- 6:37Graduated, went to my freshman year and part of my sophomore
- 6:40year From Where you're from, Wash U in Saint Louis.
- 6:44Then I transferred back east to Penn, finished in 85.
- 6:47Moved to Hong Kong for about four years to work for a family
- 6:51company. Came back.
- 6:53What was that like, Hong Kong and what time period was that?
- 6:57It was before the turnover. It was a British colony and it
- 7:00was one of the best experiences of my life.
- 7:03I was there before China opened. I remember going into China for
- 7:08the first time, dirt roads, you know, people had the little Mal
- 7:12red book that they were giving out.
- 7:14So living in the Orient from 85 to 89 full, you will experience
- 7:20what I learned, the culture, and I'd done a lot of traveling
- 7:24growing up with my parents, but living there on my own, I think
- 7:28was probably one of the best experiences of my life.
- 7:34And so many things have changed with China.
- 7:36I mean I we had a business and it was like 2004 five, six and I
- 7:42was I'd go over to Shanghai and and you know we were treated
- 7:46like rock stars when we when we arrived you know and and at that
- 7:50time there was such a different type of vibe of America, China
- 7:56everybody's growing together and and how things have changed in
- 7:58the last 15 years that the adversarial approach to where we
- 8:03are now to where we were then. Well, when I was there, I
- 8:06remember the Chinese and the workers in the factories viewed
- 8:10America as as a country paved with gold.
- 8:13The roads were paved with gold and everybody was friendly and
- 8:17and there wasn't a suspicion. There was a sense of we're going
- 8:22to get there at some point. Very hard working
- 8:26entrepreneurial spirit and the last time I was there was 1992
- 8:32with my son, when my son was six months old.
- 8:34We took him there and that's where he learned how to walk.
- 8:37But I was. I was have not been there since
- 8:39the handover back to the Chinese can.
- 8:43You imagine and I've personally I've got a a great grandmother
- 8:48who before commies a she she left with a missionary came over
- 8:53here to the United States. She thought she was going to
- 8:57Manhattan winning New York and she ended up a little further
- 9:01from Manhattan, KS and Chetopo. So she she had quite an eye
- 9:05opening to the United States. She was an incredible woman, but
- 9:10she never saw her family again. So I thought, always thought
- 9:12that was interesting. How many people were affected
- 9:14by, you know, that whole change over with with China and and how
- 9:20many families didn't, you know, see, I'd love to go back and see
- 9:24relatives that, you know, what are they doing over there now?
- 9:26But that had to be a heck of an experience for you.
- 9:29What? How old were you, as in that
- 9:30time period? I was probably 23 until I was
- 9:3527. OK, what a great time to go.
- 9:39Unbelievable. I was single.
- 9:40It it was. I was living in the expat
- 9:42community. I remember the first time I went
- 9:44to China and as I crossed the border at Lo Wu there was a
- 9:47McDonald's. The first McDonald's was Chen
- 9:49Chen China. And the people had to save weeks
- 9:52and weeks to get a hamburger and there were lines around the
- 9:57building around the block to get into it and and that's that was
- 10:01the the spirit you know of the the the the locals and and in
- 10:07the early 80s it it was a completely different non
- 10:11confrontational vibe and again as a single guy I loved it.
- 10:18Yeah, it had to be a great. So you come back from Hong Kong.
- 10:21What what's your next step in in your life journey there?
- 10:25Worked for my father's company for a few years and in 2000,
- 10:30actually 1998, I was approached by at that point CNA Life
- 10:34Insurance. I just got my life license and
- 10:39they were getting into what was called viatical settlements.
- 10:42Yes, very aware of that. I got a fraternity brother that
- 10:44got into that and he was in San Francisco, did really well.
- 10:47Right. So terminally ill people, and
- 10:50that's not something that really appealed to me.
- 10:52I I felt that it was praying on the terminally ill and to me
- 10:56that was more like Vulture Capital.
- 10:58So I approach the actuaries at CNA and say guys if you can
- 11:02underwrite mortality for a a certain period of time, in that
- 11:06time I think it was four years or less.
- 11:09You can do an extension by, you know, extension risk and go out
- 11:12to 8 years, in 10 years and still the same underwriting,
- 11:16same discounting procedure, but why not buy policies?
- 11:20It's an asset, a fungible asset on individuals that were in
- 11:23their 60s and 70s with still somewhat defined mortality.
- 11:27Maybe they had heart, cardiac issues, diabetes, things that
- 11:31were known to reduce life expense and present value.
- 11:35That asset for them and CNA, lovely idea and they said wrong
- 11:39with it. So from about 2000 until 2010,
- 11:45eleven, I became the largest broker of at that point it's
- 11:49called life settlements. We weren't really dealing with
- 11:51terminally ill anymore and we were transacting billions of
- 11:56dollars for this a year. I was.
- 11:59I sold the company in 2011 said to my wife why don't we move
- 12:04down to South Florida, why don't we become snowbirds, take a
- 12:07couple months off and came down here six months and loved it.
- 12:12My children were in college at that point.
- 12:14They they were in GW. So I said this is a great
- 12:18opportunity. Came down after in month 7 is
- 12:22when oh gosh no. It was a couple years later that
- 12:27I remember we just moved to a house and getting that knock on
- 12:31the door and that's that's when all the fun started.
- 12:36Well, so you were you, you would really thought that you had
- 12:40accomplished what you were wanting to accomplish in life,
- 12:42that you were going into the slow lane.
- 12:44I was going to bicycle. I I'm an avid cyclist and I was
- 12:48going to cycle the rest of my life every morning right along
- 12:51the beach. That was my thing.
- 12:54Unbeknownst to me, the only cycling I was going to be doing
- 12:56for 21 months was on one of the spin bikes at the camp in Miami,
- 13:01which probably was also my job. That's.
- 13:03That's probably, but you know that that's having a good prison
- 13:07job doesn't help you eat time, Sam.
- 13:12So you get the knock on the door.
- 13:17The the world spins out of control.
- 13:19You get an attorney, what with your family and your friends
- 13:27around what? What's going through your mind
- 13:29as you're walking through this? So I always tell people it's
- 13:33like the five stages of grief, the 1st is denial.
- 13:36Absolutely. This the government's crazy.
- 13:39They don't know what they're doing.
- 13:40I'm going to fight this. This is this is just absolute
- 13:43lunacy First attorney I met who was at my arraignment said to
- 13:49me, OK, if you want to retain me, it's $100,000.
- 13:53But by the way I'm not licensed in in the Eastern District of
- 13:56Pennsylvania. So we have to get another
- 13:59attorney up there for me to appear and I said why not just
- 14:02get an attorney up there. That was my first interaction
- 14:06with criminal defense attorneys after the deny.
- 14:10And I remember on my first meeting with the attorney, I
- 14:13said to him this is this is crazy.
- 14:14This is this is you know we're going to fight this.
- 14:18And that's when he said to me, OK, half $1,000,000, one fee,
- 14:23I'll get you through through sentencing and then don't worry,
- 14:26I'm always here. That's perfect.
- 14:28You know, I'm going to do this. It's worth it.
- 14:31That was on a Friday check cleared on Saturday.
- 14:33I didn't speak to him for six more days, but my natural
- 14:37reaction was the first stage of grief.
- 14:40This couldn't have happened. It's not possible.
- 14:43Not me. And the attorney in my first
- 14:46meeting said something used the term Mens Rea.
- 14:50Why did I know or have knowledge of what I was doing now?
- 14:55My situation was, I'm going to say, might have been different
- 14:59from others in that it had happened.
- 15:02The statute of limitations was running out two weeks before I
- 15:05was arraigned or charged or. That's interesting.
- 15:09But I didn't know that they had a sealed indictment for almost
- 15:12six months prior to. That OK.
- 15:16During when I met the attorney and he showed me the rings and
- 15:20and and the amount of information, I said, well
- 15:23explain to me where this came from and he said, well did you
- 15:26have an appoint a employee and at the time I had 150 employees.
- 15:31Did you have an employee named Joe?
- 15:33I said sure he was my senior manager of one of the the
- 15:36divisions. Well Joe was arrested in 2011
- 15:40for a state drug charge in New Jersey.
- 15:42Joe made a deal with the the, the prosecutors in New Jersey
- 15:47that he could bring a bigger fish to the table, which was me,
- 15:52no matter how you look at it, right, wrong or indifferent, it
- 15:55was my company, the benefits inured to me and my wife owned
- 15:59one of the companies. And when my attorney said, you
- 16:02know, if we don't do something quickly or you don't settle
- 16:05this, they're going to bring your wife into it.
- 16:07Yeah. And that's chapter and verse.
- 16:09I mean, that's something that's in the playbook.
- 16:12And I said, well she had nothing to do with it.
- 16:14She, she, she just owned it in name only.
- 16:16She was not an active. But this doesn't matter.
- 16:19That's what they're going to do and that's when denial turned to
- 16:22anger and frustration. How could they do this?
- 16:26And I remember the attorney said you're dealing with the 800 LB
- 16:30gorilla, they win 98% of their cases.
- 16:36Let me negotiate. This was after my check here and
- 16:38we're not at that point. We said let me negotiate the
- 16:41best possible plea for you. Don't worry, you're never going
- 16:44to serve a day. I promise you words to to live
- 16:48by. And he said give me a couple
- 16:53months. That was, say, June of 2016.
- 16:58It took about a year and a half for the plea to be negotiated.
- 17:02Finally, negotiate the plea. Don't worry, great plea.
- 17:06You have roughly 12 points on this point chart, which I knew
- 17:09nothing about. You're never going to serve a
- 17:12day? Did my pre sentence report
- 17:15didn't explain anything to me about my pre sentence interview?
- 17:18Don't worry, we'll have dinner afterwards.
- 17:21And let's talk about that a little bit, Sam, because there's
- 17:24a lot of people that listen to this that you know, some people
- 17:29know about that pre sentence report and some people don't.
- 17:33That's maybe one of the most important things that you have
- 17:36in your world, going from that moment when you do that to
- 17:41sentencing to your case manager to the probation offices office
- 17:45when you get out. What is that?
- 17:48That's the Bible. That is your Bible from the day
- 17:52of the interview into the day UN supervisor release.
- 17:55That document is not only the chances are the only document
- 18:00that your judge will ever read about you, but I tell clients
- 18:04all the time the judge typically sees you two times.
- 18:08First day is your change of plea because usually your arraignment
- 18:11is a magistrate, your change of plea and the day of sentencing.
- 18:15And the day of sentencing, the judge has five other people
- 18:17being sentenced. You're just a number.
- 18:19So he reads this this document this. 3 ring binder.
- 18:23Right about you. And that tells your life story,
- 18:27tells your education, how you grew up, your criminal history,
- 18:29criminal you know, your charges. But that document is a direct
- 18:35reflection of how the judge sees you, how your case manager in
- 18:39prison sees you, how your counselor if you go to a halfway
- 18:42house, how supervise your lease that tells you if you're at
- 18:46risk. Are you, you know?
- 18:48Do you have substance abuse issues?
- 18:50What's your family life like? Everything.
- 18:53And if you don't help to create the narrative of that document,
- 18:57unlike what I did, the fallout can be so vicious and
- 19:05problematic not only in terms of sentence length, it could cause
- 19:09the judge to see you in such a negative way like myself that
- 19:13increases your sentence length it it could potentially decrease
- 19:17the amount of non custodial halfway house home confinement
- 19:20time you have and how much freedom and liberty you get from
- 19:23supervisor lease. And if I can share how mine
- 19:27went. Yes, please do.
- 19:29Exactly what your guests and viewers should not do.
- 19:33So I went into my meeting and my attorney said don't worry, it'll
- 19:36be over in 1/2 hour. We'll have dinner and drinks
- 19:39afterwards. And during the interview, the
- 19:42young lady, who I'm sure was a very nice person, asked me a
- 19:45question. One of the questions was about a
- 19:48trust that I had and I felt that it wasn't her business to know
- 19:51about an irrevoable trust that I technically didn't know.
- 19:55So I said it's none of your business.
- 19:57And she looked at me and said, what do you need?
- 19:58Some of my business. I'm entitled to everything.
- 20:01And my attorney didn't say anything and I took the
- 20:03position. It's none of her business, she
- 20:06said. We'll call the judge.
- 20:07The judge sat on a speaker, whatever her name was, really,
- 20:12it is none of our business at this point.
- 20:14And I felt a victory, man, I got.
- 20:17Got it. I won and I beat the government
- 20:21and we started talking about things like was I drinking or if
- 20:24I'd done drugs? And I said, ma'am, I hadn't done
- 20:26drugs since the late 70s, early 80s, since since college,
- 20:30drinking. Yeah, you're kidding me.
- 20:31I drink like wish. Who wouldn't give him the stress
- 20:34and strain I'm under? And she said to me, well, is it
- 20:36a problem? And I said, well, not so much
- 20:38for me, but it is for my wife. And the only thing I'm thinking
- 20:41of is I got to get out of here and have a drink.
- 20:43And. And I didn't know why she was
- 20:46asking me about this. My attorney who promised me
- 20:48probation never told me about the RDAP drug and alcohol
- 20:52program and why he's asking me that.
- 20:54But fortunately I answered that question honestly, but without
- 20:59knowing the significance of it. Day of sentencing I turn up and
- 21:03that interviewer was sitting there and unbeknownst to me she
- 21:07was the judge's favorite employee, smiled at me and she
- 21:11had the last laugh. And I remember and we kind of
- 21:14skip ahead to the day of of sentencing and my attorney got
- 21:18up and said their piece. Prosecutor got up and
- 21:21recommended 12 months non custodial followed by three
- 21:25years or two years of probation. And it was my turn and I was
- 21:28still mad as hell at the judge and said what I did to the to
- 21:33the judge in the court and the judge, and this is one of those
- 21:36things you'll remember. Judge looked down on me and this
- 21:38is a particularly difficult judge, well known for this,
- 21:41looked down and said Mr. Mangle, you are no different than any
- 21:44vagrant on the street. You're actually worse.
- 21:47Clearly you came from a better background than many people who
- 21:51stand in front of me. Yet you do not understand the
- 21:53gravity of your situation. You clearly accept no
- 21:56responsibility, should know, show no remorse for for what you
- 21:59did or your victims. That diatribe went on for 20
- 22:03minutes, and afterwards he said I'm going to do something I
- 22:07rarely do. I'm deviating from guidelines or
- 22:09recommendation, and I'm giving you a sentence of 60 months.
- 22:13And I I looked down. I thought he said six.
- 22:17I looked down at my attorney, who wrote 60 last time I ever
- 22:19saw my attorney, 60 on his legal pad.
- 22:22And then I remember the first thing I thought of, wow, I'm
- 22:26going to be in prison for four years and two months, 85%.
- 22:30And he remanded me to custody. Oh man.
- 22:33Which is not done often. No.
- 22:35And I went into the bowels of the Philadelphia Detention
- 22:37Center and and I can share that story now if you want.
- 22:41I remember going down into a holding pen with 20 other inner
- 22:45city inmates, defendants from Philadelphia.
- 22:49And I was the only, you know, 54 year old white Jewish guy, bald
- 22:55with glasses that walked in and they quickly got me up to my
- 22:59floor and they gave me a bed roll and they said you're in
- 23:02cell 31B or something or upper. And I remember going to my cell
- 23:08and it was a young man, 30 years old with two teardrops and he's
- 23:14looking at me and nothing was said.
- 23:16And we're talking. And 30 minutes later, another
- 23:19inmate came to the door and just shook his head like this and
- 23:22left. And that's when I realized,
- 23:24wait, these guys have phones. They know that I'm not a sex
- 23:27offender because that, you know when when a young or an older
- 23:31white guy comes in and and it's remanded the custody, usually
- 23:35it's a sex offense or some form of violence, it's not a white
- 23:37collar crime. That's when that 30 year old who
- 23:40was there for 30 years to life, fentanyl said to me, You know, I
- 23:45never met a Jew before and the only thing I can think of saying
- 23:49was, wow, I never met a gang member before and I figured, you
- 23:53know, if he didn't stab me, then I was going to make it.
- 23:58You're going to survive and. That started my six weeks at the
- 24:00detention center before, you know, I took the bus.
- 24:03Oh man. And and and you know I talked
- 24:05about this same when we were talking on the phone is that
- 24:08that is the worst of of detention is is that jail piece.
- 24:15You know when you you know it's so transitory.
- 24:19Somebody could be there for a DWI or somebody that could have
- 24:21killed somebody. Everybody's thrown into the same
- 24:23thing. Most people don't ever go
- 24:24outside. They're stuck in this pod.
- 24:27And I mean it's it's like shock treatment and you went directly
- 24:32into that totally unplanned. I can't imagine, because I'm
- 24:35sure the conversation you had with your wife going into that
- 24:37courtroom, you were not thinking that was the last conversation
- 24:39you were gonna have before you were remanded to custody.
- 24:42I took my daughter to work that day and I said to her, Kelly,
- 24:46where do you want to go for dinner tonight, 'cause after
- 24:48this is over, any restaurant you want to go will go for dinner.
- 24:51Unbeknownst, my dinner was going to be a Bologna sandwich in the
- 24:54Holding Center or the Philadelphia Detention Center.
- 24:58So. So let's talk about that six
- 25:01weeks because are you, what kind of communication do you having
- 25:06with your attorney or anyone in that world of what happens next?
- 25:11Because that that's an that's you've entered into the unknown
- 25:14world immediately. And you when you get into that,
- 25:19the worst thing you want is to travel as a prisoner which
- 25:23you're you're automatically, you know, signed up for when they do
- 25:27that to you. Otherwise you have a voluntary,
- 25:30you know, surrender to that prison at the they give you a
- 25:33date and time and you show up at the gate and say I'm here.
- 25:36That's not your world of what you went through, Sam.
- 25:39So I learned quickly what to say, what not to say and to kind
- 25:45of hide behind my cellie, my roommate.
- 25:48He was the king of the pod. Clearly it was a a more senior
- 25:52gang member. And I I tried to be as low key
- 25:56as possible. I never talked to my attorney
- 26:00again, had no communication. But on the first night I called
- 26:03my wife and I said appeal. The first thing that people
- 26:07think about after they get to prison or they're sentenced is
- 26:11an appeal. Somebody got it wrong, my
- 26:13attorney got it wrong, or the judge got it wrong.
- 26:16Appeal, because that's the last vestige of of hope is an appeal.
- 26:22And people don't realize what goes into it in the likelihood
- 26:25or or not of success. And money.
- 26:28So it was another $50,000 on an appeal attorney and same
- 26:33treatment where I had to deal with him in Philadelphia.
- 26:38I didn't know that I wasn't going to stay at the detention
- 26:41Center for the length of my sentence, or I thought maybe
- 26:43they were going to transfer me to a local prison while I was
- 26:47there. It was they.
- 26:52They had violence, there's no question about it.
- 26:54There was quite a bit of tension on the floor.
- 26:57So it may get stabbed and you learn very quickly how to stay
- 27:04out of things. But I also remember one thing
- 27:05about being in a in a in a cell is the Jingle of the keys.
- 27:10That's how you know the door is being locked at night.
- 27:13And that's how you know when you're being let out for either
- 27:16after count or in the morning. And you pay attention because
- 27:19there are no clocks or no alarms.
- 27:21It's the Jingle of the keys. And I can't imagine being in a
- 27:25higher level institution for a long sentence because that's
- 27:29that is the only thing that is with regularity is the Jingle of
- 27:34the keys. And it was a great feeling when
- 27:38I finally got down to the camp in Miami.
- 27:40Not to hear that anymore, but. So how did you get transported
- 27:45down there? One afternoon they called me and
- 27:48said pack up. Well, in the detention center, I
- 27:50don't have much to pack up. And I said, where am I going?
- 27:53We can't tell you. I said we mean I have to tell my
- 27:56wife. We mean, I'm like, you can't
- 27:57tell me. So a counselor said to me,
- 28:00pulled me aside. I said I think you're going to
- 28:02Miami. I said Miami.
- 28:03Well, I had been a resident of Florida and I didn't understand
- 28:06how the BOP functioned and how designation worked.
- 28:09So I said no, I can't go to Miami.
- 28:11My appeal is being heard up here.
- 28:12I need to go to a place closer. There was no discussing it.
- 28:16And my cellmate said to me, you're going to camp, right?
- 28:19And I said, I hope ask to be a bus orderly.
- 28:24And I said, what is it? He said, trust me, ask to be a
- 28:27bus orderly because you're minimum security.
- 28:30So I went downstairs the following morning at 4:00 or
- 28:33you're in a long line of inmates going on a on a bus that has
- 28:37rails and and bars on the outside.
- 28:40And they stand everybody in line, put you in a in like a
- 28:43polyester jumpsuit and they start shackling you and they
- 28:46shackle your feet and they shackle your hands, but they
- 28:49also put you in a black box in front of you so you have no way
- 28:53of moving your hands. And I said to the Marshall, I'm
- 28:57going to a camp, I'd like to be an orderly.
- 29:00He said, well, how do you know about that?
- 29:01And I said, you know, I don't. But I was asked.
- 29:04He said, OK, you're the orderly. I think this is great.
- 29:07We're getting on the bus now is a Thursday.
- 29:09It was a whatever. Thursday morning, I'll be in
- 29:11Miami by Friday night. Perfect.
- 29:13And I'll be in orderly. So the only thing in the orderly
- 29:16is your hands weren't shackled, but your legs were.
- 29:17And when they marched you on the bus, they assigned the seating
- 29:21and I was the person to give out water and food to the people on
- 29:26the bus. What a great thing to get his
- 29:29advice from your cell mate. This is perfect.
- 29:32It's 19 hours to Miami. I'll deal with it till I
- 29:35realized that's not how the BOP transports people.
- 29:38It's called diesel therapy. So the first stop we had was
- 29:41Washington, DC to pick up and drop off people.
- 29:45Then we stopped at Petersburg, VA where they said get off.
- 29:48I said I'm not getting off. I'm going to Miami, get off the
- 29:50bus. That'd be a mistake.
- 29:53Maybe they want to clean the bus.
- 29:55It shows you how deluded my my got off the bus and they marched
- 30:00us in the Petersburg where they restripped us, gave us a a bag
- 30:04of baloney and put us in a cell and they put me in a cell with
- 30:08somebody I don't remember who it was for five days and that cell,
- 30:12thank God, had a shower. But I couldn't get my wife.
- 30:14I, you know, my my wife didn't know where I was.
- 30:16She just knew I wasn't in the system anymore. 2 weeks later
- 30:21after going to Petersburg Atlanta, which is the worst
- 30:26facility I could ever imagine. It's a United States penetrator.
- 30:29You've heard about it Where? I was housed with a individual
- 30:34illegal immigrant medium security that couldn't sleep and
- 30:38he would walk the cell at night and that was scary.
- 30:41Five days later we went to Tallahassee.
- 30:44We were for one night. Finally 2 weeks later on a
- 30:47Friday got to the camp in Miami and and I.
- 30:50Have you ever talked to your wife through this whole process?
- 30:53One time in Atlanta, I was allowed to use the phone.
- 30:56It cut off after about a minute. So that was it.
- 31:00It got to my Wow, this is perfect.
- 31:02I'm in Miami. I can see the camp next door.
- 31:05No wires. Guys are outside.
- 31:07They're running. The track guard said to me, come
- 31:09inside. I went inside to R&D the
- 31:12reception and he said, mangle, you're in the shoe.
- 31:16I said shoe. Is that a?
- 31:18Is that a unit? He said.
- 31:19No, we don't have your paperwork.
- 31:22I've been on the bus for two weeks.
- 31:23How could you not have my paperwork?
- 31:25Sorry. They put me in the in the shoe
- 31:27for the weekend, which was pure hell.
- 31:31It was two nights of banging and yelling.
- 31:34Finally got out of the shoe on a Monday morning, went across the
- 31:38street and I was in the camp where I spent 21 months roughly
- 31:42of my 16 months sentence. Wow.
- 31:46Sam won an entry into the world of prison.
- 31:49I mean, from the I I didn't know that story.
- 31:52I I that you're talking about hardcore entry therapy.
- 32:00I mean when you when you got to that camp, I'm sure you felt
- 32:03like I'm in prison. But OK, well.
- 32:06So the first night a gentleman, an older gentleman said to me,
- 32:09am I there for Ardap? So what's Ardap?
- 32:11I didn't know what Ardap was. Remember I was getting
- 32:13probation, He explained to what Ardap was.
- 32:16And I remembered saying in my pre sentence interview that
- 32:19yeah, I drink a lot. Back then Miami was actively
- 32:23seeking participants to the program.
- 32:24There was. They needed people in the
- 32:26program. Yeah, so I went the next day and
- 32:28I applied. That was May of 2018.
- 32:31They put me in the August class and I I completed the class
- 32:35there. What was interesting is I
- 32:37remember about two weeks into my stay in Miami, another old,
- 32:40older gentleman came running down the hallway.
- 32:43President Trump is closing all the camps.
- 32:45Big budget change. That's where I got exposed to
- 32:47inmate.com. And I ran to the phone and I
- 32:51called my wife and I said, candy, you're going to have to
- 32:54come pick me up in a couple days.
- 32:55Trump is closing all the camps. Really.
- 32:58Yeah, really. This guy just said it.
- 33:00I didn't know that inmate.com existed, and all the wishful
- 33:04thinking goes along with it. So in many ways it was diesel
- 33:09therapy, it was shock therapy, all in a very short period of
- 33:12time. Wow.
- 33:15So what? So you get into this unknown
- 33:17world where you're going to be spending however long that
- 33:19you've, you know, you start mitigating your situation.
- 33:22But how? Did you have any strategies at
- 33:26all? Go and say I'm into that crazy
- 33:29unknown world? Or did you just walk in after
- 33:32spending the time that you spent getting there?
- 33:35Were you in shock? Worn out Or you were thinking,
- 33:40OK, this is a recharge. Let me figure out how I'm going
- 33:43to live here. The latter I I think that I was
- 33:46exhausted from the eight week experience and at that point
- 33:50keep in mind there was no first step act that didn't until the
- 33:54end of 18 and I didn't know about R DAP.
- 33:57So when I got into R DAP, I realized, OK, well that's one
- 34:01year that's going to come off of my, you know, four year and
- 34:03two-month sentence, but. Which is a huge thing.
- 34:08I mean when like even when you go in and you have to they do
- 34:12your interview or whatever they're at the prison.
- 34:15You don't know for sure until it shows up that yes, you've got
- 34:18accepted and it shows up in your your release date that they've
- 34:22knocked a year off. Which is huge when you're
- 34:25looking at a you and I both had sixty months and and you know
- 34:28you can count that any way you want to, but it's it's not you
- 34:31know, it's sixty months. I I I remember when that year
- 34:35came off and I called my wife and I said it's now down to
- 34:39about 37 months roughly again still and it came off before the
- 34:43first step back still. But it wasn't until COVID hit
- 34:50that things started to change. And and I'm a big fan of telling
- 34:56people when they enter prison A you want to be a little fish in
- 35:01a big pond because especially in camps guys are all still living
- 35:06what they perceive to be a dream.
- 35:10A lot of guys were very successful and lost it all.
- 35:14For instance, the only person I was considered somewhat friendly
- 35:16with in the camp in Miami was Peter Madoff, Bernie's brother,
- 35:20great guy who used to walk the track at night.
- 35:23And a lot of the the white collar inmates there wound up
- 35:29losing everything. And we still live the life of,
- 35:32well, when this is over, a helicopter is going to pick me
- 35:34up and take me to my Gulf Stream.
- 35:36And there there's in many ways almost psychosis.
- 35:40You can't really call people out on it.
- 35:42You just shake your head and OK. But what I wanted to do was not
- 35:48only be quiet and and kind of a wallflower, but also I always
- 35:54have people know your audience, know the counselor, know the
- 35:57case manager and in my case know the warden.
- 36:01And I, if I can tell a story maybe a couple months into it, I
- 36:06was out back. I was always the first one up in
- 36:08the morning 5:00 and in Miami the the spin bikes which were
- 36:13old Schwinn bikes that they weren't in the new bikes you see
- 36:15now we're underneath the pavilion and there was some TV's
- 36:18outside. So I was Outback one day, 6:00
- 36:22in the morning. The warden walked up to me with
- 36:25his administrative assistant and he said, you know, I always see
- 36:28you out here by yourself in the morning.
- 36:30Have you been riding for? For a while?
- 36:31And I said, yes. This is my passion.
- 36:33I really enjoy riding. It was right around the Tour de
- 36:35France of 2018 and he said, well, let me tell you, I'm a new
- 36:41rider and I got this bike and it's just not fitting me well.
- 36:45And I don't know what it is. Maybe you'd be willing to give
- 36:48me some suggestions, I said. Sure, he said.
- 36:50Well, I'll bring the bike in tomorrow and I'll put your name
- 36:53on on a call out and you'll hear your name page because my office
- 36:57is in the low next door. His office is in the camp.
- 36:59Can you come over and help me with the bike?
- 37:03Sure I didn't. No.
- 37:04No reason not to. To.
- 37:07One of the older inmates that had been through the system for
- 37:09many years said to him. Were you talking to the warden?
- 37:12I said, yeah, it came up. You can't talk to the warden, so
- 37:15why? The guy just came up to me about
- 37:17cycling. If anybody sees you talking to
- 37:19the warden, they're going. To take me to.
- 37:21Your stitch and it's a problem, I said.
- 37:24It's not my problem. I I don't care what you guys do.
- 37:27And I'm going to talk to the warden.
- 37:31When in the next day, my name was called out and escorted me
- 37:34because you have to go through security into the his office.
- 37:36And there's a big box of Dunkin' Donuts and Dunkin Coffee.
- 37:39And the TV was turned on to the Tour de France.
- 37:43And then at that point I figured, all right, I can make
- 37:45it through this. So I helped the warden for this
- 37:47bike. He said if you want to come back
- 37:49next couple days to watch the tour, you can.
- 37:51I appreciate your help. OK.
- 37:54When I went back that night, the same inmate who threatened me
- 37:58said to me, hey, and I must have mentioned I was going back.
- 38:01Any chance you can find something out for me, whatever
- 38:04it was? He asked.
- 38:05I said, So you want me to ask the warden a favor for you?
- 38:08That would be really cool. Sure, I'll ask for you.
- 38:11Well, all of a sudden now guys are coming up and saying, hey,
- 38:14can you find something out from the warden?
- 38:16But the warden said to me towards the end of that two
- 38:19weeks. Listen, if there's anything I
- 38:21can do for you that's appropriate, you know, not
- 38:23illegal or anything you know, I'd be more than happy to try.
- 38:28I remember they in October of 2019, the case manager called me
- 38:33in and gave my release paperwork and said I was getting 6 to 9
- 38:37months halfway house. I was being released July of
- 38:402020 and I remember I could get 12 months.
- 38:44That's that's what you're allowed on a 16 month sentence
- 38:46with home confinement. And I remember the warden said,
- 38:49well if there's anything I could do for you, emailed the warden.
- 38:52Do you remember you said that to me?
- 38:54Can I can I meet with you? Yes.
- 38:56At 4:00 that afternoon I get paged into the case manager's
- 38:59office. This was a really angry case
- 39:02manager. She did not like me.
- 39:04I don't think she liked any white collar guys.
- 39:07She said mangle, you went over my head and I said yeah I did
- 39:10because I was entitled to 12 months.
- 39:13You got your 12 months and she lot of expletives between you
- 39:16went you got your 12 months handed it to me.
- 39:19I never want to see you here again.
- 39:21OK, that's it. I walked back out, never had to
- 39:24see her again. But I got my 12 months.
- 39:26So reading your crowd and knowing you're in jail, you're
- 39:31in, you're you know you're with 85% of the people have nothing,
- 39:36have no money and and everybody has a hustle understanding your
- 39:41environment. And and what really got me into
- 39:44this was I saw guys with charges greater than mine, guidelines
- 39:49greater than mine that had sentences well under mine that
- 39:51knew about our debt. Remember saying to a couple of
- 39:54them, how did you know this? Did your attorney, attorneys
- 39:57knew nothing. We hired A consultant and they
- 40:00gave me the name of a couple of different consultants and I
- 40:02remember saying to my wife and daughter when they came to
- 40:04visit. Because they kept saying what
- 40:06are you going to do when you get out?
- 40:08I'm going to help people. I'm going to be a consultant.
- 40:10And my daughter was livid. You know, she thought you have
- 40:13to stay away from this business, this industry.
- 40:15Why would you want to get, you know stay immersed in something
- 40:18this horrible? And I said because I think I can
- 40:21help people and I understand the system.
- 40:23And I got out and you know I interviewed four or five
- 40:25companies, wound up going with one, one of the larger companies
- 40:29in the in the country left them after about two years because of
- 40:32a difference of opinion and started my own I guess in
- 40:36December 22 and never looked back.
- 40:40It's it's a great story, Sam. And you know I talked a little
- 40:44bit about this because it's re entry is hard, you know.
- 40:49But you one of the things I think is is so great about your
- 40:54story is, is that you've you are who you are now you you you were
- 40:57a successful entrepreneur successful business.
- 41:00You got taken down a track that you never thought you'd be down,
- 41:05but they didn't take your brain. And you're using that for the
- 41:09experience that you've had from the time that you went to Hong
- 41:12Kong to the time that you got out of prison and what you've
- 41:15experienced and that can help so many people in so many ways.
- 41:21And I think that's the thing that, you know, I find, you
- 41:25know, I think I've been out seven years is, you know, when
- 41:29you first get out, it's it's kind of like you have to find
- 41:31your sea legs. You know it's like Oh my God I'm
- 41:32out and you know you you come out with this gusto I'm gonna
- 41:35conquer the world but you do find and can find your passion
- 41:39you know and and I think that's why you are so have done so well
- 41:44in a short amount of time is that is passion you get filled
- 41:48up with that you you get and one of the things you told me is is
- 41:51you know it's not about money to you it's a lot of the things you
- 41:54do. I mean you you make money doing
- 41:56this but you also just help people and and it's a it.
- 42:00You balance that out and that's it's a needed thing.
- 42:06People are scared to death in this environment of the criminal
- 42:10justice system. And somebody who truly has good
- 42:14intentions to help someone can be a lifesaver, can actually
- 42:18save someone's life because a lot of people can get indicted
- 42:23and they think I'm ending it. And and if they have somebody
- 42:27that's holding their hand and says no, you can survive this
- 42:30and this is how you survive that's that's what you're
- 42:34offering people is to walk beside them and and give them
- 42:37what they need. As I told you when we first
- 42:40spoke, 85% of my practice is therapy.
- 42:43It's about telling a client their their spouse, their
- 42:47children, their parents. Hey, I'm available seven days a
- 42:51week, and I don't tell you that because I expect you to call me
- 42:54seven days a week. But you're going to get scared
- 42:57on a Saturday night because you watched Orange is the New Black
- 42:59or Oz and and the the fear of the unknown and the opaqueness
- 43:05of prison is what really causes a lot of of turmoil and strife
- 43:10within families. And if, if I could bring down
- 43:14the temperature so much to where the family is ready for it and
- 43:20understands it and they don't have to be happy about it, but
- 43:24they're emotionally, physically, psychologically ready for it and
- 43:30understands what they're getting into.
- 43:32I remember when I first got out and the company I worked for
- 43:35said, you know, you can't do this.
- 43:37You have to be behind the scenes.
- 43:38You need permission from your supervisor, lease officer.
- 43:42And I went to him and I told him what I wanted to do.
- 43:44And he said, Yep, you got it, No problem.
- 43:47And what's interesting now is this coming Saturday, I'm going
- 43:52back to the camp in Miami to visit my client.
- 43:55Who's there? And I got permission.
- 43:59So when I filled out the visitor form and I emailed it to the
- 44:02counselor you have to indicate you know are you a felon and and
- 44:06who was your supervisor release and I had it indicated all and
- 44:09he got back and said Yep you can come.
- 44:10So my my family saying why would you want to go back.
- 44:14It's because I I know what it's like sitting on that bench in a
- 44:18green outfit and waiting for the vending machine line.
- 44:23And when I tell people this is going to be a blipping time and
- 44:28it's going to be over. And what really upsets me is
- 44:32when people say to me, what am I going to do when I'm out or I
- 44:35have no future and and they have a family to support.
- 44:39And I say, I just want to smack them on the head and say stop
- 44:42it. You were successful before
- 44:44whatever you did, you were successful.
- 44:47You might not be able to practice medicine or law again,
- 44:50but the knowledge that you had that made you successful will
- 44:53make you successful again. And something else.
- 44:57And. And I've helped people get jobs
- 44:58in car dealers, and they're now the manager of the dealership.
- 45:02Oh, right. It's not.
- 45:03Oh, woe is me. What?
- 45:04Am I going to No guess what? You have mouths to feed.
- 45:08You have a responsibility. You have victims you have to
- 45:10repay. So stop with a pity party.
- 45:13Let's figure out a plan. And my mentality is as a
- 45:19consultant, 15% of what I do is projects, you know, helping
- 45:23people with with the interviews and and you know different
- 45:27specific projects. 85% of my my time is talking to them and
- 45:33helping them get through from step to step to step.
- 45:37I get 50 emails a day from clients in custody with
- 45:39different things. The funniest is I heard that,
- 45:42you know, new criminal justice and 50% that's OK.
- 45:48You know, I I went through that. So being a consultant is is not
- 45:54about writing a narrative for somebody or or a fancy release
- 45:59plan. It's about helping somebody
- 46:02understand the situation they're in and get through it because it
- 46:06will end. No.
- 46:08And you're and that what you've just said there is is so
- 46:10powerful because it's a mindset and and you're you're taking
- 46:14them from if they have a victim mentality you're bringing them
- 46:17over to the side of a survivor mentality and that's how they
- 46:20will get through it. Before we I want to talk to you
- 46:23about too one of your your takeaways through this but I
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- 46:51Go to prisoners.org. That's prisoners.org.
- 46:54Start here. So, Sam, you know when you first
- 46:57started because I I what I the other thing I love about what
- 47:00you're doing. I just happened to see you and I
- 47:03think it was on CNNI. When I'm at home I'll put up all
- 47:07four screens of with my YouTube TV so I can see all the the
- 47:11different networks and and you popped up I think on the CNN
- 47:13square and I thought that's interesting and what I love also
- 47:19about what you do is you're a great voice for the justice
- 47:23impacted community. You do a great job being you
- 47:26know a consultant for someone individually.
- 47:29What I also love is is that you get on and you're a great voice
- 47:34for US. And by you being one of us and
- 47:39being seen and talking and communicating, it's it's
- 47:47breaking a narrative in a sense that whatever that narrative
- 47:51thing is that is brought on by an ex felon, the way you present
- 47:57yourself, the way you talk and the way that you present the
- 47:59community is also creating its own path.
- 48:03And and I I know that there's and I know you're probably aware
- 48:08of that but that's that is a big part of the re entry community
- 48:12is we all have to break the narrative because we all carry
- 48:16that extra scarlet letter on our forehead that we're going to be
- 48:20an ex felon for the rest of our lives.
- 48:23But that's how we handle it, by overcoming and carrying that
- 48:27weight and finding a new path and getting your passion, doing
- 48:31whatever and helping break the narrative that all of us go back
- 48:34to prison. Everybody's you know, a lost
- 48:37cause and and I think that's one of the great things about what
- 48:40you're doing, love the consulting, love the mitigation,
- 48:43but the fact that you're on TV and you're doing the things that
- 48:45you're doing helps the overall community.
- 48:47So it's that's also a big deal. I don't let and I tell
- 48:51everybody, don't let the Scarlet Letter define who you are.
- 48:57If you do, you're doomed to you're doomed to fail.
- 49:00If you say to yourself, yes, I I had an issue.
- 49:03I've overcome the issue. That's not who I am now and move
- 49:07on. As a a father, a husband and a
- 49:13member of my community, I have a responsibility to a lot more
- 49:17than just myself. If I was, if I was selfish and
- 49:19worried about myself, only then I could sit and well in my own
- 49:23pity. But that's not how life goes and
- 49:25that's not how responsible people should live their lives
- 49:28and tell anyone that's going through this or their family
- 49:33that to hiccup, you know? That's that's another point I
- 49:37don't want to just brush over. You and your family survived
- 49:42your your your family stayed intact and it was a nightmare.
- 49:46And it's something that the whole family goes through.
- 49:48It's not just you. The whole family experiences
- 49:51this nightmare and they figure out how to get through it.
- 49:53I also see that as something you help people with of because you
- 49:58know, the saddest thing that I ever saw in prison was is seeing
- 50:02people lose everything in their family.
- 50:05Those are really, really dark days and if we can do anything
- 50:09in our world of helping families try to stay together, that's
- 50:12that's a huge thing for for people to navigate through.
- 50:15But if it can be done, I think it's a game changer.
- 50:19In the end we. Just married 35 years and my
- 50:21wife is a frequent speaker of spouses that are going through
- 50:26this. And I always tell the spouse,
- 50:29you can talk to clergy, you can talk to support groups, you can
- 50:32talk to friends or family. But there's nothing like talking
- 50:35to someone who's going through it and come out the other end
- 50:38successfully. And my wife often tells people
- 50:41the worst experience of this is when I came home and she lost
- 50:44ATV pusher at night. Hey, hindsight, if that's the
- 50:48worst thing, we can deal with it.
- 50:50Well, I and and I I still identify with that I had.
- 50:53I had a wife that I always say that she should have worn a Cape
- 50:56for the superhero status that she she had with.
- 50:58I had three daughters and I think the way they got through
- 51:01it was looking at her as a role model of how she got through it.
- 51:05And you know, she was one of the wives that showed up every every
- 51:09week and that's how we stayed plugged in and it was a four and
- 51:12a half hour drive one way. And those things that spouses do
- 51:19when we're in is remarkable. It really is.
- 51:23She held down. Really is.
- 51:25Like she tells me before this happened, she never opened the
- 51:28checkbook. Ever.
- 51:29Never paid the bill. My wife didn't either last.
- 51:32She only does the checkbooks and the pills and I said that's
- 51:35great, I never liked that. You learn very quickly and and
- 51:38it's an unfortunate way to learn, but we learn.
- 51:43Yeah, I I always ask people this question, Sam and I'm curious
- 51:49what your answer is on what do you think is your greatest take
- 51:53away through all of this that you've experienced a?
- 51:58Certain probably sense of humility and a loss of arrogance
- 52:06because that experience is humbling.
- 52:09So humbling. When you're told lights go on at
- 52:126:00 in the morning, everyone wears the same colour, eats the
- 52:14same meal, has the same amount of money every month to spend, I
- 52:18think it's not only humbling, but it it it gives me a new way
- 52:23to. I'm a lot less judgmental of
- 52:26people and much more forgiving to family and and to anybody,
- 52:32because people are not perfect inherently.
- 52:37We make mistakes, some worse than others, and mistakes have
- 52:41consequences. And I don't feel that you can
- 52:44judge someone necessarily by the mistakes that they made,
- 52:50especially if they take the action to either correct it, own
- 52:54it and move forward. Absolutely.
- 52:58That's great. That's a great take away.
- 53:01And it's so true. It opens up your eyes to so many
- 53:04things. Sam.
- 53:06If people wanna get a hold of you, where where do they go?
- 53:09Is it? Is it Sam.
- 53:10Mingle dot. Wow, actually interesting story.
- 53:12Might the former firm that I worked with bought my name for a
- 53:16domain name, so you can't use mangle dot?
- 53:19I actually take that as as a as a an my.
- 53:22Name back headed Compliment? Sure.
- 53:24So it's sam-mangle.com. You can Google Sam mangle or
- 53:30they can, you know, just look me up, call me.
- 53:33The best place is just to Google.
- 53:35You have a YouTube channel too. YouTube channel, but just now
- 53:39you can Google Sam Mangle and it doesn't go to my former firm's
- 53:41website. I love it.
- 53:45I love it. And you know, for any of you out
- 53:48there, I know that you had to have gotten something from this
- 53:50today because Sam's got one heck of a story with a lot of Nuggets
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- 54:20It's with aty not a DY Sam. Thanks so much for being on.
- 54:26I love your story. I'm a big fan of yours and and I
- 54:29wish you the the best of everything that you're doing.
- 54:32The. Opportunity.
- 54:34Neimer's success in and out. Oh, and as I always used to say
- 54:38when I was writing my emails back and forth, stay strong.
- 54:40I'll do the same. See y'all later.
- 54:42Bye.