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Season 2 - Episode 146 - When to fight and when not to fight · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the Very windy, Chicken Coop, not quite
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  sure. What's going on out here, but we
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  have got all kinds of wind happening.
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  So, very famous quote from sons who that says he, who knows when
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  he can fight. And when he cannot will be
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  victorious, I think this is such an interesting, Focus to put
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  your attention on because you have to know when to just say,
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  listen, I'm out not just with other people, but with yourself
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  sometimes arguing with yourself About things when it's not a
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  good idea. Meaning when you've already
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  gotten to the point where you're just like, uh, I'm driving
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  myself insane. With all of this is a very
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  important distinction to learn for yourself paying attention to
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  the feedback that you're getting as, you know, from listening to
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  this podcast, is always important when to argue with
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  others, when not to argue with others.
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  When to argue with yourself and when not to argue with yourself
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  again, a very, very important thing to learn because cuz
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  there's no way there is absolutely no way that you can
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  win when you're not in the right frame of mind, when you are not
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  in the right State, you have got to pull yourself back.
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  So sometimes arguing with yourself can be something simple
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  like if you're trying to force something out of yourself, when
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  you're arguing with yourself about something and you think
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  you know everything and you're just like you keep running into
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  roadblocks, running into roadblocks and you're trying to
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  fix something but inherently I'm getting fixed because you don't
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  know what you don't know and you've been arguing with
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  yourself trying to force something, it's not going to get
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  you where you want to go, rarely does just using Force work with
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  things. You have to, you have to think
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  like the magician and you have to realize when you want to go
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  in and cast the spell. And when you want to just say,
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  you know what, in this time in this frame, in this place, I'm
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  not going to get the answers in this state.
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  So I've got to move to a different state of mind.
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  And and then maybe I will have different Clarity and Clarity
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  always gives you power and it Loops you back down so you can
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  put yourself into a better State and then come back to it.
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  Now these these things can show up particularly really show up
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  with family especially if you have a house and you have people
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  in your house which most of us do that you will find that you
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  will loop back to the same arguments and you're like why
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  are we always fighting about this?
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  And if that's the case and you recognize that you're in, Family
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  situation, where you always seem to be habitually fighting about
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  the same things. This is such an important thing
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  to remember when to fight, when to not fight because you don't
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  need to fight every single battle that's thrown at you.
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  You don't have to attend the fight.
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  You can just walk away. You can say, nope, that's not
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  going to go anywhere. The energy is not there for me.
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  I'm just going to walk away from it and there is a glorious
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  freedom and being able to do that especially when it's in
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  your own home. Because my My belief is that
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  your home is your sanctuary and if you don't think of your home
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  like your Sanctuary, then you need to create your home to be
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  your Sanctuary. It's the place you go to refill.
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  If there's one thing I can tell you about this Farm, it was
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  purposefully created to be a place like that for my family.
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  And I, my husband and I work really hard at making that the
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  case and just like being able to have very peaceful chickens, I
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  did not go pick. Versions of chickens or types of
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  chickens that would be tough to handle when I chose them.
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  I read everything about their personalities.
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  I picked up, I want docile chickens.
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  I want chickens that are good-tempered, I want chickens
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  that are friendly inquisitive and believe me, they all have
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  personalities and so knowing that super, super powerful what
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  I think is so incredibly important for all of us to
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  remember is in, not attending the fights, even with ourselves
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  even within our house, that Builds the quality of the
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  energy, in our home, in the quality of the energy of our
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  life and then we start to transform organically.
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  So everything is connected, my friends at all weaves down.
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  If you don't think that your belief on one subject and the
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  world isn't affecting something else.
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  You'd be sadly mistaken because it's all connected.
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  Right? Wrong or indifferent.
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  It's there. And it's part of it.
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  So you have to tweak it and realize where your energy is
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  going, what it's telling you, what, it's giving you and what
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  you want to. Put it to and don't attend every
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  single fight that you're offered, go to the ones that
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  matter to you. Go to the ones that you think
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  are absolutely necessary, but you don't have to attend every
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  single one and try to be victorious when you are forcing
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  it. And it's not right.
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  Especially when you're arguing with yourself really, really
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  look at that. So I hope you guys have a very
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  blessed peaceful day without any of the arguments that may ensue.
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  And I look forward to seeing you tomorrow.
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  Bye-bye.