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- 0:00Is your afterpay habit hurting your financial future, stopping you from hitting those big life goals?
- 0:05It might be.
- 0:06Especially in these times where you are tracked constantly.
- 0:10Every financial decision you make is tracked, and the banks and lenders use that info to make decisions about you, both now and years into the future.
- 0:20Unfortunately, sometimes it's building up a picture of you that you might not want out there.
- 0:27But the problem is there's also a lot of scaremongering and myths in this.
- 0:32So we need someone who knows the system from the inside, who can tell us what's fact and what's fiction.
- 0:38Well, enter Jessica o', Hare, head of lending at Revolut.
- 0:42What lenders are really looking for is, can you afford to make the repayments and are you credit worthy?
- 0:48Because when life is noisy enough, we need some easy wins to help us be better with our money, take the.
- 0:54Willpower out of it and get more control.
- 0:55So as soon as your income hits your account, it can automatically send out to your pocket.
- 1:00Welcome to Ask the Experts the part of Making Sense where people from inside the money world answer your questions so you can get the inside word on what actually makes a difference.
- 1:10I'm Frances Cook, financial journalist and fellow financial freedom seeker who makes money simple for you.
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- 1:57Hi, Jess.
- 1:58Welcome.
- 1:59Are you ready for the letter?
- 2:00Yes.
- 2:01All right, here we go.
- 2:02Hi, Frances.
- 2:03I'm 24, about 18 months into my first real job, and I think I might be bad with money.
- 2:09Nothing dramatic.
- 2:10Nobody has called debt collectors on me.
- 2:13I just feel like I'm not making the progress I thought I would.
- 2:16And every now and then I'm missing payments that I know I shouldn't.
- 2:19Money comes in and within about a week it's gone on stuff I don't even remember buying.
- 2:24Uber eats a candle.
- 2:25I didn't need concert tickets.
- 2:27I said yes to before checking the price.
- 2:29When did one concert become $400?
- 2:33I keep telling myself I'll sort it out properly once I'm earning more or once life feels less chaotic.
- 2:40But I also worry that I'm getting behind.
- 2:42I'd like to buy a house one day.
- 2:44And I keep hearing that what you do in your 20s follows you around for years.
- 2:49So is the occasional late credit card or after pay payment really that bad?
- 2:54How much does this stuff stick to you?
- 2:56And how can I make some better choices?
- 2:59Thanks.
- 2:59She says she feels bad with money.
- 3:01That breaks my heart immediately.
- 3:02I'm sort of like, we're all bad with money at 24.
- 3:06Really?
- 3:07And this stuff can be confusing.
- 3:08I mean, what sticks out to you about this letter?
- 3:11What sticks out is that she's just been too hard on herself.
- 3:13Right.
- 3:14This is really common.
- 3:15If I think back to when I first had my first real income, I was the same.
- 3:18I think I spent the whole first year in my student overdraft that I still had.
- 3:23So yeah, totally normal that she feels like that.
- 3:25And the good thing is that she's thinking about this now and she can start to put things in place to make her in a better situation.
- 3:32And I don't want her feeling like she's bad with money.
- 3:34Like life in your 20s is expensive.
- 3:36It's a cost of living crisis.
- 3:38Right.
- 3:38Like it's no wonder she feels like her salary's disappearing before her eyes.
- 3:42The trap she needs to avoid is thinking that she'll solve it when she starts doing more money.
- 3:46She needs to put the things in place now so she gets more money.
- 3:49She'll just have more Uber eats orders or more fancy candles.
- 3:52Exactly.
- 3:52You can spend any amount of money.
- 3:54That's why private jets exist.
- 3:56Or as a below deck fiend.
- 3:59I mean yachts.
- 4:00I don't think I'll ever earn the amount of money where I could go on one of those yachts.
- 4:03But I'd love to.
- 4:03I'd love to try, but yeah, exactly.
- 4:07I think when you're starting out, it is hard.
- 4:09Hard.
- 4:10You're still sort of figuring out the adult world when you've got that first job and you're just figuring out running your own household, running your own bills.
- 4:17And I think there is a benefit, like you say there, of first taking off the pressure.
- 4:23Right.
- 4:23And being able to look at things clear eyed without judgment.
- 4:26You might still make changes, but to take the judgment out of it, I feel like that makes you.
- 4:32You can make some decisions from a more empowered place and that helps, right?
- 4:37Yeah.
- 4:37Definitely.
- 4:37I think not beating herself up about the current situation she is, and just taking some simple steps to kind of get herself to feel more in control.
- 4:45And that will make her feel better 100%.
- 4:47Okay, so she's mentioned some bad habits here.
- 4:51So missing some credit cards, missing some afterpay payments, she's not feeling fully in control of her spending.
- 4:57Then there.
- 4:58How common is this?
- 4:59Really common.
- 5:00And I don't want her to like freak out and panic that she's doing this, but I also want her to take it seriously.
- 5:06In New Zealand, repayment information from your buy now, pay later from your credit cards, but also your phone bills and your utility bills is sent to our credit reference agencies and your payment history is stays on your file
- 5:18for two years.
- 5:19And if you've got a more serious default, that stays on your account for up to five years.
- 5:24So while I don't want her to freak out and think that she's ruined her financial future, she hasn't.
- 5:29But it's really important for her, as you say, to get control of those finances.
- 5:32So she is not missing payments.
- 5:34Yeah, because that is a big red flag.
- 5:36Right.
- 5:36You know, she mentioned she'd like to buy a house some, some point in the future.
- 5:39Like you say, that'll stay on your record for a period of years.
- 5:43So if you're really making any sort of long term financial decisions, a missing payment is a fairly big red flag.
- 5:50Right?
- 5:51I guess it depends, like very much depends on how often she's missing payments and how, how many days late she is.
- 5:57So if she's missing occasionally a payment by one day, like that's not an issue.
- 6:01What's an issue is she's repeatedly, consistently missing payments and missing them and not paying them back for an extended period of time because that kind of just signals that you can't manage the commitments you've got now.
- 6:12So lenders won't look to, I guess, lend you more in the future.
- 6:16What lenders are really looking for is quite simply can you afford to make the repayments and are you credit worthy?
- 6:24Right.
- 6:25Is it likely you're going to make the repayments?
- 6:27So from an affordability perspective, they're looking at your income, is it stability, stable, what are you spending your money on?
- 6:32But gone are the days where they're looking at like every single latte purchase.
- 6:35Right.
- 6:35They're just looking to make sure that you've got kind of free cash flow to cover the additional amount that you want to borrow.
- 6:41And then I guess from a credit worthiness perspective, they're just Looking at things like your account conduct, are you missing payments, can you repay things on time, do you have good, I guess, account standing?
- 6:52And those are the kind of things that lenders look for.
- 6:55Yeah.
- 6:55And it's really tough, right, because I do think people get into this panic mindset and I, I think that's a bit of a theme in our conversation so far, is trying not to get into the panic mindset.
- 7:05But I see how people get into that because I do think there's this whole level of sort of distrust between customers and then especially the big banks.
- 7:16I mean, I was quite surprised when Consumer NZ had its People's Choice Awards recently.
- 7:21And the.
- 7:22They have a whole category for the big banks in New Zealand and they made the incredibly unusual step this year of saying nobody wins because you're all so bad, none of you get it.
- 7:34And I was like, whoa, that is a huge shot across the bow from Consumer, like, go for it, guys.
- 7:42Make your statement.
- 7:42And they sure did.
- 7:43But I think that really speaks to this level of distrust and how broken that relationship is getting with the traditional financial institutions.
- 7:52So when lenders are looking at a customer and deciding whether or not to lend for something really important, like your first home, what are some of those red flags, green flags?
- 8:03Because they don't just weigh up bad behavior, they also weigh up good behavior too, right?
- 8:08Yeah, definitely.
- 8:09As I mentioned before around your payment history.
- 8:12So if you've got a history of repaying your phone bill on time every month, that actually counts and that that's showing good account behavior and then looking like you've got a sense of control that you can meet the
- 8:21repayments that you've got.
- 8:22You've kind of signed up for today and then, yeah, the red flags are constantly missing payments, unpaid bills, when we get your credit report, things that show on there are not only your repayment history, but if you've asked
- 8:34for a lot of credit.
- 8:35So if you've got lots and lots of credit applications, a bit of a red flag.
- 8:38Also if you've got defaults or unpaid court fines, et cetera, those are the things that flag is read.
- 8:44It's quite an interesting comparison between sort of New Zealand and overseas sometimes, right?
- 8:48Because I mean, it's.
- 8:50I think a lot of New Zealanders do get confused when trying to compare some of the advice you get that's maybe coming out of the US where they're like, oh, you know, have a credit balance all the time
- 8:59and yada, yada, yada.
- 9:01And I think it was Dave Ramsey that called a credit Score in the US and I love debt score.
- 9:06And it's not really the same in New Zealand here.
- 9:08Right.
- 9:08I mean, I think a rule of thumb that makes sense for people is they're just trying to figure out is this person in control of their money.
- 9:15Right.
- 9:15And that's where all of the wonderful red and green flags that you've brought out, those, those tangible things, they slot quite neatly into those categories.
- 9:23Once you understand they're basically just trying to figure out is this person okay at handling their money and are they likely to pay me back.
- 9:31Yeah, it is quite different overseas.
- 9:33Like I've worked for a long time in the UK and a lot they have a lot of products called like credit builders where you're demonstrating that you're credit.
- 9:40But the great news about New Zealand is you can build, I guess, repayment history through things like utility bills, which is.
- 9:46Is.
- 9:47So we have a lot of positive data that's shared with our bureaus, which is really great.
- 9:51So you don't need to have big debt balances to have a good credit score.
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- 10:42What about in terms of.
- 10:43We're all looking for easy ways to do these sorts of things, ways that maybe have a little bit less mental admin.
- 10:50Are there sort of shortcuts or any little bits of tech help that can help us do better with our money in general?
- 10:59Yeah.
- 10:59And I think back to your earlier question around the lots of trust.
- 11:03I'm not surprised.
- 11:04I think that banks haven't really innovated in this space here in New Zealand for quite some time.
- 11:09So basically everything's just in one account.
- 11:11Like this reader, I really feel for her, right?
- 11:13Like she feels so out of control, but the current setup is kind of the reason why she feels so out of control.
- 11:19Right?
- 11:19Everything's going into her same pot.
- 11:21You know she's spending on those concert tickets before she's paid her, like, must have bills, and that's why she's missing payments.
- 11:26What she really needs to do is, I guess, take the willpower out of it and get more control.
- 11:30So at Revolut, we've got this great thing called Income Sorter.
- 11:33So as soon as your income hits your account, it can automatically set it, like, be sent out to your pockets that you've set up.
- 11:39And you can set up up to a hundred pockets.
- 11:40Not saying to set up that many, but having different pockets for, okay, my fund spending.
- 11:45This is for these bills.
- 11:45This is for these bills.
- 11:46This is how much I'm going to spend on this.
- 11:48And just means that she can feel a bit more in control about where her money's going and knowing that those missed payments aren't going to be missed.
- 11:56Right.
- 11:56And I think that's the key thing that I think that she could really help her is just to ensure she's got money aside for those payments that she's committed to so those aren't missed.
- 12:06And I think that will make the biggest difference.
- 12:08Also, the tool on Revolut that I use, you can set, like, custom budgets for certain pockets.
- 12:13And so I'm like, my fun money.
- 12:15I can see how I'm tracking throughout the month and knowing, okay, well, I'm already in the red in month two in terms of, like, gone over my, like, like, threshold for where I should be in the month.
- 12:25Does that make sense?
- 12:25Because I think it's like, you get paid.
- 12:27Well, I guess lots of people in New Zealand get paid fortnightly, but if it's still kind of the first day.
- 12:32Right.
- 12:32I remember when I first started getting paid, you feel really rich, right?
- 12:34And you're like, I can buy that, oh, yeah, who wants a drink?
- 12:37Kind of situation.
- 12:38And then there's a lot.
- 12:38The early you get and you're like, no, I'll be not going out today.
- 12:41And it's kind of getting to the end of the month and then not having money for those kind of important payments that.
- 12:46That really matter.
- 12:47And so it's about kind of one, separating that money out, but also understanding where you are within the month and have you spent it all.
- 12:54So you're not spending it all on the first week and buying everyone around the drinks.
- 12:57Yeah, I remember my first job as well.
- 13:00I was paid monthly.
- 13:01And of course, that was my first job, so it was the least I've ever been paid.
- 13:04And that first week I would live like an absolute queen.
- 13:07And then Yeah, a little bit tighter for week two and three and then week four was brutal.
- 13:13That was beans and rice style and it was just really rough.
- 13:17I could have done with some sort of tracker there.
- 13:20And I do think as well when you're saying about, you know, you can have these pockets and different places where you're putting your money.
- 13:27I am such a believer in budget for everything, including budget for your fun.
- 13:32A good budget doesn't mean every dollar is assigned to something sensible and you're living like a monk and everything has to go into savings or investments or whatever.
- 13:41Budget for fun too, because otherwise you will lose your mind.
- 13:45But just have a certain amount put aside.
- 13:47Like, yeah, this is my guilt free fun money and it is part of my plan.
- 13:51And then it stops it being, you know, the money equivalent of a crash diet.
- 13:55Right.
- 13:55100%.
- 13:56And I feel like if you then go into the situation where you feel like you have to live like a monk and the bank manager is saying that you need to like be perfect, you don't have to be
- 14:04perfect.
- 14:05And I think you're more likely to kind of give up or binge eat, binge spend when you kind of am like, oh, well, I'm so over it kind of doesn't matter anyway, right?
- 14:14You need to like feel more in control.
- 14:16You're more likely to make better choices.
- 14:19I think I've never been one to have like a sit down, full budget.
- 14:22I find it quite like restrictive, et cetera.
- 14:25And I think if you just start to use some simple tools and kind of, you know, you don't have to say, I'm going to spend exactly $42 on this this month, but kind of in the Revolut you can
- 14:34have categories, okay.
- 14:35On restaurants, I'm going to roughly spend $300.
- 14:38And so therefore you can kind of see where you are with that as you go.
- 14:43And so it's not like overly convincing because I think if you've got to sit to a situation which is once a month, I've got to sit down with an Excel spreadsheet that's potentially again going to put you off.
- 14:51Right.
- 14:51It's just about making it super simple, easy, quick ones that are kind of like in your everyday kind of life that you don't have to, I guess wait till the end of the month to figure out, oh God,
- 15:00I've overspent or spent that it's kind of like in life kind of management.
- 15:04Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
- 15:06Bless my husband.
- 15:07Love him to bits.
- 15:08But he is an absolute spreadsheet man.
- 15:10And at the very beginning, before I'd gotten into personal finance journalism.
- 15:15So we've been together a wee while now.
- 15:18And he once made me an Excel spreadsheet.
- 15:20Every dollar was allocated and I was like, thank you so much.
- 15:24And I never once opened that Excel spreadsheet a second time.
- 15:27I opened it to say thank you, and then that was it.
- 15:29What's worked for me is very much what you're describing is chunking it.
- 15:33Where I'm like, here is my main bills, everything is in there.
- 15:37And then here is my fun money, and everything is in there.
- 15:40And then here's my savings, here's my investments, and just really quite big chunks that I can be quite loosey goosey with.
- 15:46But it's chunked and it's there and it makes sense to me.
- 15:48And having them in different places really works.
- 15:51Yeah.
- 15:52And I think with, like, things like what we have in, like the Revolut app and having pockets and having multiple pockets, you can kind of chunk it out.
- 15:58How?
- 15:59It's not like you have to have a whole separate suffix and separate account and you can link cards to each of the different pockets.
- 16:04So it's very easy to be like, okay, right, I want to spend from my beauty pocket.
- 16:09And therefore you're kind of like, this is my beauty card and this is what I'm spending.
- 16:11So you can kind of track it in a very simple, easy way.
- 16:15Finding a system that works for you to give you that sense of control is really important.
- 16:19She's panicking about the situation and I.
- 16:22Guess and labeling herself.
- 16:24Labeling herself bad with money.
- 16:25You don't need to do that.
- 16:26Exactly.
- 16:27And I think that she's not bad with money and she needs to stop thinking that just spending too much money on her beats doesn't make you bad with money.
- 16:33Like, none of us were taught this in school.
- 16:36Like, I left university with a finance degree and I didn't know how to manage my money.
- 16:39When I came out of it, I was like, surely, like, now I'm rich, right?
- 16:42I've got a job, so I can just spend everywhere, right?
- 16:44Round of drinks on me.
- 16:45But that's not reality.
- 16:46And I guess until you actually sit down and start, as you say, doing this and learning kind of on the spot, right?
- 16:53Like, she's 24, she's got time, she's.
- 16:55Going to nail it.
- 16:56She's already thinking about this stuff.
- 16:57I feel like that's often the biggest thing.
- 16:59If there's one thing that you think most people could do to feel more in control, to feel like they're Being good with their money.
- 17:08What do you think is one big win most people could put in place?
- 17:11Well, I think in addition to the kind of separating out your money, I think she mentioned that she wanted to buy a house eventually.
- 17:18And I think a lot of people put off saving for a house because they feel like they've got to have these big lump sums or it's kind of too hard to start or things are very expensive right now.
- 17:26I'll do it in a few years.
- 17:27I think doing something like setting up spare change roundups so that every time she's buying her flat y or her grocery shop, the spare change is rounding up and being put in a separate pocket.
- 17:37It just basically builds that saving momentum to kind of give her a bit of confidence that she has a bit more control and it will gradually, surprisingly, kind of accumulate really fast.
- 17:47Yes.
- 17:47I mean, we've seen this with KiwiSaver, right?
- 17:49A little bit often grows way faster than you think.
- 17:53So if you have something like the roundup, then it's just making it part of your daily life and that's really key.
- 17:59And you don't have to do anything, right?
- 18:00You turn it on and it's kind of just happening in the background.
- 18:02You don't see it and it kind of just, you know, if you look in every kind of month or so, it just gives you that bit of confidence.
- 18:08Thank you so much.
- 18:09Jess o' Hare coming in from Revolut and answering all our questions.
- 18:12Now, if you have more questions on this.
- 18:14I've had heaps of questions along these lines.
- 18:17Send them to me.
- 18:18We can deep dive your specific situation.
- 18:20Ask at Francesco Cook co nz until next time, have a great day.
- 18:27This podcast can only give you general information about how things work in most situations.
- 18:32It's not individual financial advice.
- 18:34If you're after that, a financial advisor is always the best bet.