Latest / Wicked and Grim: A True Crime Podcast / Bobbie Jo Stinnett - The Pregnant Massacre
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Before we start today's episode, we want to extend our
- 0:03Speaker 1: thoughts to those being affected in the Ukrainian invasion. Russia
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- 1:17Speaker 3: Hey, what's up.
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- 1:42Speaker 1: Do we ever?
- 1:43Speaker 3: I know what the title of this is. I know
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- 1:50Speaker 1: Uh? I think I did, But I don't want to
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- 2:28Speaker 1: Yeah, and and end this month, a really cool thing
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- 3:36Speaker 1: So that being said, we have two new patrons this
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- 3:57Speaker 1: Your last name is throwing me for a major loop.
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- 4:10Speaker 3: Was the one, which name that you struggled with?
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- 4:19Speaker 1: and the second one is Madison Grandclair. Thank you to
- 4:23Speaker 1: both of you for being awesome, And can you tell
- 4:26Speaker 1: which one of you I had such a hard time
- 4:28Speaker 1: with them pronouncing your name.
- 4:30Speaker 3: You delivered that very well. That you confidence, I like.
- 4:35Speaker 1: I think that was the key there. I'm like, I'm
- 4:37Speaker 1: just gonna do it well.
- 4:38Speaker 3: Yeah, that honestly. Okay. It's so funny because a lot
- 4:40Speaker 3: of podcasts, like I'll be listening to and like I
- 4:43Speaker 3: have already looked up to how to pronounce something, and
- 4:45Speaker 3: they're like pronouncing it wrong, but they just deliver it.
- 4:47Speaker 3: It's like that they know, so then you don't even
- 4:50Speaker 3: really notice. It's like we announced sometimes we don't know
- 4:52Speaker 3: how to pronounce something and we shouldn't.
- 4:53Speaker 1: We should just it's our self confidence.
- 4:56Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, I'm working on my self confidence.
- 4:59Speaker 1: Okay, confidence is big, and you know it really helps
- 5:02Speaker 1: self confidence.
- 5:04Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, seriously, yes, what a stein felt? Okay,
- 5:08Speaker 3: what did you say it was? It's a stin of wine,
- 5:11Speaker 3: stin of wine.
- 5:13Speaker 1: I literally have a stin full of wine, right.
- 5:15Speaker 3: Rose Rose all day.
- 5:18Speaker 1: I am totally gonna shout this out because this is
- 5:20Speaker 1: my favorite one ever. If anyone is in the Okanagan
- 5:23Speaker 1: area particularly, I think it's Oliver.
- 5:26Speaker 3: It's Oliver. I was just thinking, Yeah.
- 5:28Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure there is a winery called Rust.
- 5:32Speaker 3: Were obsessed with it, fucking love it. They treated us
- 5:35Speaker 3: sobering and well when we were there, though, Like they
- 5:37Speaker 3: were incredible, and.
- 5:38Speaker 1: The rose is delicious, so much so that when I
- 5:42Speaker 1: was at our local liquor store the other day, I
- 5:45Speaker 1: found six Rose bottles that were in stock. I bought
- 5:48Speaker 1: them all, So there we go.
- 5:51Speaker 3: I do love their road, I love their wine. I
- 5:53Speaker 3: don't know if I would say it's like my favorite winery,
- 5:55Speaker 3: but they're They're definitely one of the tops, that's for sure.
- 5:59Speaker 1: Really.
- 6:00Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, I love sand Hill, Oh that's Rantail, and
- 6:03Speaker 3: Cologna has my heart, yeah, but Rust is definitely up
- 6:07Speaker 3: there too.
- 6:08Speaker 1: We do a lot of wine drinks. Well, you do,
- 6:09Speaker 1: you drag me along, not that you dragged me along.
- 6:11Speaker 3: I don't drag you along anymore because you actually really
- 6:14Speaker 3: it's freaking fun. Like if you don't think windering is fun, like,
- 6:18Speaker 3: oh my goodness, I guess if you don't like wine,
- 6:20Speaker 3: maybe it's not very fun.
- 6:21Speaker 1: It's not like it's not like I think it's fun.
- 6:24Speaker 1: I enjoy it, but it's like I'm also like, I'm
- 6:27Speaker 1: not into being a wine connoisseur.
- 6:29Speaker 3: I'm like, this one's good, this one's That's basically how
- 6:32Speaker 3: I am too, though.
- 6:33Speaker 1: Yeah, but some people are like this one's acidic and
- 6:36Speaker 1: high notes of the emberg.
- 6:39Speaker 3: Actually, what are you supposed to do? Like almost gargle
- 6:43Speaker 3: the wine in or some shit. I don't do that.
- 6:46Speaker 1: I get it. It's just not for me, you know
- 6:48Speaker 1: what I mean.
- 6:49Speaker 3: No, I'm like, okay, I definitely believe in like take
- 6:51Speaker 3: a sip and then take another sip, and then you
- 6:53Speaker 3: get like the true case the second sip, So I'll
- 6:57Speaker 3: like do that much. But then it's just a matter
- 6:59Speaker 3: of like do I like, like, can I see myself
- 7:01Speaker 3: drinking this? We have gone to? I think it's only
- 7:03Speaker 3: actually one winery where we didn't buy anything because we're like, holy,
- 7:07Speaker 3: like this is disgusting.
- 7:08Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure they didn't update anything since like the eighties,
- 7:13Speaker 1: including their like everything they used back there for making
- 7:19Speaker 1: the wine didn't.
- 7:20Speaker 3: Okay, I think this shop and the wine potpourri right, Yeah,
- 7:25Speaker 3: it was popourry. Yeah, there was no popery tastes.
- 7:28Speaker 1: There was plastic grapes hanging everywhere in a winery.
- 7:31Speaker 3: It was we're saw real grapes coming in.
- 7:34Speaker 1: We don't need to see plastic ones.
- 7:35Speaker 3: It almost felt like we went back in time.
- 7:37Speaker 1: Oh, definitely. And Chumanji that shit, that's just let's just say.
- 7:40Speaker 3: That we do like wine, but I don't. I don't
- 7:42Speaker 3: think I would say like that I'm like a wine
- 7:44Speaker 3: snob or anything. I don't know.
- 7:47Speaker 1: I never said you're a snob. I said connoise sewer.
- 7:50Speaker 1: That's completely different.
- 7:51Speaker 3: I don't know. Wine turing is super fun. I just
- 7:54Speaker 3: love it.
- 7:54Speaker 1: So anyways, this is how I cope and I get confidence.
- 7:58Speaker 3: Alkama hole, alkamohole. I'm drinking water. Can can water give
- 8:03Speaker 3: you confidence? I need to drink more water because my
- 8:05Speaker 3: skin so dress.
- 8:06Speaker 1: If you pretend it's vodka, maybe.
- 8:10Speaker 3: Yeah, there you go I'll do it.
- 8:13Speaker 1: I'm not an alcoholic, but I am a casual drinker
- 8:15Speaker 1: and I do like drinks.
- 8:17Speaker 3: So yeah, I think. I think having a drink once
- 8:20Speaker 3: in a while is okay.
- 8:21Speaker 1: I do too.
- 8:22Speaker 3: It's all good.
- 8:23Speaker 1: Okay, are you ready to move on? We talked to me.
- 8:26Speaker 3: Yeah, we talked a lot about at wine. We're gonna
- 8:29Speaker 3: make people want to have a glass of wine. Listening.
- 8:31Speaker 1: Well, if you want a glass of wine, feel free
- 8:33Speaker 1: to join us. I definitely have a glass. Nicoles got
- 8:35Speaker 1: a glass of wine or water, but I've got wine.
- 8:37Speaker 1: So you can have a.
- 8:38Speaker 3: Glass of water or a glass of wine. Do your thing,
- 8:40Speaker 3: do you or.
- 8:41Speaker 1: Whatever you want? You want to make. Kool Aid make
- 8:43Speaker 1: that fucking.
- 8:43Speaker 3: Cool God having a coolid forever.
- 8:45Speaker 1: Kool Aid's the ship. Although it's so much sugar.
- 8:48Speaker 3: I know, I don't actually know if I'd even like
- 8:50Speaker 3: it anymore.
- 8:50Speaker 1: Oh, I love it. I'm obsessed from try it.
- 8:53Speaker 3: Okay, let's go look at us moving on.
- 8:58Speaker 1: Okay, So this is the story of Bobby Joe Stinnett.
- 9:04Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, that's the Ring and Nobels. This.
- 9:07Speaker 1: I am going to go in a limb here and
- 9:09Speaker 1: give you guys a warning, a trigger warning. We have
- 9:14Speaker 1: had some very brutal cases on this show so far.
- 9:18Speaker 1: This one, I would not say is our most brutal
- 9:22Speaker 1: case by any means. Some of them top it, but
- 9:25Speaker 1: this one has a very particular thing that is very graphic. Okay, okay,
- 9:35Speaker 1: regarding mothers, so fore warned.
- 9:39Speaker 3: Oh shit, Okay, I know what.
- 9:41Speaker 1: This is very graphic. If you're a mother, you're probably
- 9:45Speaker 1: going to particularly be susceptible to this.
- 9:50Speaker 3: Okay. Okay, you did tell me about.
- 9:53Speaker 1: This, I did. I gave you a brief description.
- 9:55Speaker 3: You did, and I'm just completely forgot about it.
- 9:57Speaker 1: Yea, And I think I told you like a maybe
- 10:00Speaker 1: a fifteen twenty second description. It wasn't a lot, so okay.
- 10:05Speaker 1: Bobby Joe Stinnett was born on December fourth, nineteen eighty one,
- 10:09Speaker 1: and she graduated from noahday Holt High School Ingraham, Missouri,
- 10:13Speaker 1: in two thousand, so she's six years older than us.
- 10:16Speaker 3: Okay.
- 10:17Speaker 1: By the time she was twenty three, she lived in
- 10:19Speaker 1: northwest Missouri in a town called Skidmore, and she had
- 10:23Speaker 1: married her new husband, zeb which is awesome name, by
- 10:26Speaker 1: the way. Don't hear something like that very often? So
- 10:29Speaker 1: total cool name. And after a year into their marriage,
- 10:32Speaker 1: they were expecting their first child together. Right on the
- 10:36Speaker 1: couple both had steady jobs making daily income, but together
- 10:40Speaker 1: they had a side hustle as well a dog as
- 10:43Speaker 1: dog breeders. They were breeding rat terriers, so like fairly
- 10:48Speaker 1: small kind of like Chihuahua ish like kind of sized dogs.
- 10:52Speaker 3: Not for me, I know, I was going to say
- 10:54Speaker 3: something that not for me, but well, obviously we like
- 10:57Speaker 3: big dogs.
- 10:58Speaker 1: We have two huskies there we go. So my dogs
- 11:01Speaker 1: are dogs. You got to have the commandership. I get that.
- 11:03Speaker 3: Love dogs.
- 11:04Speaker 1: Uh. So they're breeding the dogs at their home in Missouri.
- 11:08Speaker 1: It was a great mix for their love of dogs
- 11:11Speaker 1: and earning extra income for their newly expected child on
- 11:14Speaker 1: the way. Like everyone knows, kids take a lot of
- 11:16Speaker 1: money out of your walleme. So it was a good
- 11:20Speaker 1: way for the new happy couple to be, you know,
- 11:21Speaker 1: as prepared as possible.
- 11:23Speaker 3: Sometimes I wonder if we should breed dogs, but then
- 11:25Speaker 3: I also feel like I keep every single one of
- 11:27Speaker 3: them so it might not go on.
- 11:28Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a disaster waiting day.
- 11:31Speaker 3: I would with every single.
- 11:33Speaker 1: Every single one, we would have our first batch of
- 11:36Speaker 1: puppies and you would name them all. You would reject
- 11:40Speaker 1: anyone to come look at them, and then that's the
- 11:43Speaker 1: only batch we would ever have, because we would understand.
- 11:46Speaker 3: A bad idea have ten dogs or six dogs, and.
- 11:50Speaker 1: We would be bob sledding to work even in the summer.
- 11:52Speaker 1: So amazing, No, it doesn't. That sounds like a disaster,
- 11:56Speaker 1: especially with our dogs. Anyways, moving on, so Bobby even
- 12:01Speaker 1: attended some dog shows she met other breeders, one of
- 12:05Speaker 1: which was a woman named Lisa Montgomery. Lisa and other
- 12:08Speaker 1: breeders at the show and talked to her about, you know,
- 12:11Speaker 1: the whole dog loving thing, the whole community and everything,
- 12:14Speaker 1: and introduced hers to some more popular forms online where
- 12:17Speaker 1: she could meet many more like minded individuals and where
- 12:21Speaker 1: they could continue to keep in touch. So she spent
- 12:25Speaker 1: a lot of her free time chatting online in those
- 12:27Speaker 1: newfound forums. One form that she was very active in
- 12:31Speaker 1: was on a form called rad Chatter, and this is
- 12:35Speaker 1: where she encountered another form user named Darlene Fisher, who
- 12:39Speaker 1: lived in Kansas, about four hundred and fifty miles away.
- 12:43Speaker 1: The two women began chatting a lot, sending messages back
- 12:46Speaker 1: and forth regarding their dogs, but also sharing in their
- 12:50Speaker 1: experience as soon to be mothers as Darlene was also expecting.
- 12:54Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, so it's like, you know, two things in
- 12:57Speaker 3: common right there.
- 12:58Speaker 1: Exactly, So it's a good reason to start chatting with
- 13:02Speaker 1: someone like that, right It's I mean, honestly, it's easy
- 13:06Speaker 1: for expecting mothers to get caught up in like the
- 13:08Speaker 1: conversation of your child. It's something that literally takes over
- 13:11Speaker 1: your life and your body by this point. So finding
- 13:14Speaker 1: someone to like listen about all the hardships it can
- 13:17Speaker 1: be a relief. But honestly, finding someone who is currently
- 13:21Speaker 1: living through the exact same thing that you and can
- 13:24Speaker 1: relate to you, it's like far beyond So I can
- 13:28Speaker 1: one hundred percent understand her wanting to chat with someone
- 13:32Speaker 1: just like that.
- 13:33Speaker 3: Absolutely, Yeah, it makes total sense.
- 13:35Speaker 1: So Bobby talked to her about her pregnancy whenever she could,
- 13:38Speaker 1: and do the excitement on her with her new online friend.
- 13:42Speaker 1: Everything it just lined up right. Sorry, I kind of
- 13:45Speaker 1: word that weird. With the excitement of her online friend.
- 13:48Speaker 1: It's just everything lined up right, and it was just
- 13:50Speaker 1: perfect for her. It's exactly what she needed. That's what
- 13:52Speaker 1: I'm trying to say. Sorry, I'm a little distracted, So
- 13:55Speaker 1: like taking off my sweat.
- 13:56Speaker 3: I was distracted, why, I thought, because I was like,
- 13:58Speaker 3: well done, how are you doing that?
- 14:00Speaker 1: Sorry? I fumbled at the end. So Darlene loved children,
- 14:07Speaker 1: and she would happily open up and listen to Bobby,
- 14:09Speaker 1: all while engaging in her experience with her current pregnancy
- 14:12Speaker 1: as well. But the conversations didn't stay restricted to their
- 14:16Speaker 1: pregnancy experiences. Both shared love for the same breed of
- 14:19Speaker 1: dog as I already mentioned, and Bobby was happy to
- 14:22Speaker 1: advertise her dog breeding business whenever she was granted the opportunity.
- 14:28Speaker 1: Their business was called Happy Haven rat Terriers, That's what
- 14:31Speaker 1: they called it. So she told Darlene all about how
- 14:34Speaker 1: they had spend so much time breeding and caring for
- 14:36Speaker 1: the dogs. They would find homes for dogs every week,
- 14:39Speaker 1: and plenty of people came and went, bringing their own
- 14:42Speaker 1: new family edition home with them, which is kind of
- 14:45Speaker 1: cool because it kind of coincides with the whole pregnancy thing,
- 14:48Speaker 1: Like she's watching dogs give birth all the time like that,
- 14:50Speaker 1: and having the rights and families bring their their new
- 14:53Speaker 1: puppies home. Now she's got her own new addition on
- 14:56Speaker 1: the way.
- 14:57Speaker 3: Sort of families with a dog or a pet, you're
- 14:59Speaker 3: also out of in addition to your family. Absolutely.
- 15:01Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's it's kind of a neat little parallel there,
- 15:05Speaker 1: And honestly, that's why on the day of December sixteenth,
- 15:10Speaker 1: two thousand and four, she was happily happy to open
- 15:12Speaker 1: the door and welcome her online friend into her home
- 15:15Speaker 1: to pick up a puppy of her own, like the
- 15:18Speaker 1: new person she just met, Yes, Darlene. Okay, However, Darlene
- 15:22Speaker 1: wasn't there for a puppy.
- 15:23Speaker 3: Though, Well, yeah, because didn't Darlene breed her own supposedly, No,
- 15:28Speaker 3: she was just interested in the breed.
- 15:31Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, but Darlene was definitely not there for
- 15:35Speaker 1: a puppy. In fact, that person's name wasn't even Darlene
- 15:38Speaker 1: Fisher at all.
- 15:39Speaker 3: Oh shit.
- 15:40Speaker 1: That person's name was Lisa, the very same person she
- 15:43Speaker 1: had met at that dog conventioner Montgomery. Yes, okay Montgomery.
- 15:49Speaker 3: When you said that name, I was like, holy, that
- 15:51Speaker 3: is like rings a bell that name to me, because
- 15:54Speaker 3: you think I've looked at this case a little bit.
- 15:56Speaker 1: Well, we're about to talk all about Lisa Montgomery.
- 16:01Speaker 3: I don't want to.
- 16:03Speaker 1: You see the conversations Bobby was actually having online though
- 16:05Speaker 1: with Durline weren't exactly true because clearly it's Lisa, right. Yeah,
- 16:10Speaker 1: but most like most of it wasn't true. Not that
- 16:14Speaker 1: like some of it wasn't true, Like damn near all
- 16:16Speaker 1: of it wasn't true at all.
- 16:17Speaker 3: So you're just making up all this this stuff.
- 16:19Speaker 1: Oh yes, Holy heck, because she.
- 16:22Speaker 3: Knew from mating her probably.
- 16:23Speaker 1: What she want did yep. Now Lisa all along wasn't
- 16:27Speaker 1: even pregnant. She had been pregnant before, so she knew
- 16:31Speaker 1: all about the experiences of it and could you know,
- 16:33Speaker 1: carry the conversation just fine, and she wasn't even interested
- 16:37Speaker 1: in in a puppy. Lisa was interested in something else.
- 16:42Speaker 3: Keep it would sorry, would she have recognized Lisa she.
- 16:45Speaker 1: Did not know? Oh, okay, so it could have been.
- 16:48Speaker 1: I don't know how their interactions were at that. I
- 16:51Speaker 1: keep wanting to call it a convention. I don't know
- 16:52Speaker 1: if it was a convention or like an expo or
- 16:54Speaker 1: whatever I mentioned it earlier, the exact terminology. But yeah,
- 16:58Speaker 1: I don't know to what extent their interactions were, and
- 17:02Speaker 1: I don't know the time period from then to now.
- 17:05Speaker 3: Well, yeah, and Lisa might have just been like hone
- 17:07Speaker 3: in on her and more interested right.
- 17:09Speaker 1: Yeah, so regardless of Once Lisa made the long drive
- 17:14Speaker 1: to Bobby's house, she walked up to the door and
- 17:17Speaker 1: was greeted happily by Bobby. She let her in and
- 17:20Speaker 1: began a conversation about the puppies, but as Bobby turned
- 17:24Speaker 1: her back to guide her guests through the house and
- 17:26Speaker 1: towards the dogs, that's when Lisa struck.
- 17:31Speaker 2: No.
- 17:32Speaker 1: Inside her coat, she carried with her a nylon rope
- 17:37Speaker 1: and a knife. She waited until Bobby was distracted, and
- 17:42Speaker 1: then wrapped the rope around Bobby's neck and hold tight totally.
- 17:49Speaker 1: The struggle to save her and her child's life began,
- 17:54Speaker 1: but Lisa was on her back and wasn't giving her
- 17:56Speaker 1: any ground. Bobby struggled as they fell to the ground,
- 18:00Speaker 1: but ultimately she couldn't defend herself and was strangled to
- 18:03Speaker 1: death by Lisa Montgomery.
- 18:06Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, okay, I actually don't think I knew
- 18:09Speaker 3: that she killed her.
- 18:12Speaker 1: Holy shit, I'm gonna touch on that here in a second.
- 18:16Speaker 1: Just just hold that thought. This is literally the only beginning, though,
- 18:21Speaker 1: because some of you just said the horrendous acts Lisa
- 18:25Speaker 1: would commit, though, like, yeah, it gets worse. She was
- 18:30Speaker 1: there for another reason. Let's say that she had recently
- 18:33Speaker 1: been online watching and studying c sections and how they
- 18:38Speaker 1: were performed, so she quickly repositioned Bobby so she could
- 18:43Speaker 1: get to work on the reason she was there, her child. Now,
- 18:50Speaker 1: to touch on what you just mentioned, this is a
- 18:53Speaker 1: part up for contention. I couldn't find any solid facts
- 18:57Speaker 1: on it, but the time frame between Bobby being strangled
- 19:02Speaker 1: and being cut open, there is a very real possibility
- 19:07Speaker 1: that she wasn't yet deceased, and Lisa performed her next
- 19:10Speaker 1: actions on a live victim.
- 19:14Speaker 3: Okay, well, I mean I almost think it would have
- 19:17Speaker 3: almost had to be because like if she's dead right away,
- 19:20Speaker 3: like the baby, doesn't the baby die? I mean, I
- 19:22Speaker 3: have no idea, but well, that's the thing. I'm not
- 19:24Speaker 3: getting aucyen either then exactly.
- 19:26Speaker 1: So she hasked to perform that sea section very quickly. Yes,
- 19:29Speaker 1: if the baby isn't.
- 19:30Speaker 3: Getting oxygen, Oh my gosh, this is just okay.
- 19:33Speaker 1: And Lisa is no surgeon. For the record, Oh.
- 19:36Speaker 3: Shit, this is just like why I literally never want
- 19:39Speaker 3: anyone to come to my house.
- 19:42Speaker 1: Oh yes, people are fucked. People are fucked. Because Lisa
- 19:47Speaker 1: then took the knife that she had in her jacket,
- 19:49Speaker 1: and she began to cut the pregnant woman's belly, first
- 19:52Speaker 1: through the skin, then the muscle and tissue, and eventually
- 19:55Speaker 1: through the unborn child's womb.
- 19:57Speaker 3: Holy heck, yeah yeah yeah.
- 20:03Speaker 1: So that's why I said a trigger warning at the
- 20:07Speaker 1: beginning of this episode, because it may not be the
- 20:10Speaker 1: most horrendous thing we've discussed, but oh my god, that
- 20:13Speaker 1: is horrendous. It's a lot, and it is graphic.
- 20:16Speaker 3: It stressed me out.
- 20:18Speaker 1: I was stress eating Reese's pieces about cups all day today.
- 20:22Speaker 3: Yea laughed because of you.
- 20:24Speaker 1: We had a giant bag of many ones. I ate
- 20:25Speaker 1: half of it researching this case. I can't I need
- 20:29Speaker 1: I did need it. And now you know why I
- 20:32Speaker 1: have a giant stin full of wine right now.
- 20:34Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I'm sweating, okay, and now.
- 20:37Speaker 1: You know why I took off my sweater. I feel
- 20:40Speaker 1: you trust me. This is brutal, so soaked in blood,
- 20:46Speaker 1: and I mean soaked in blood. Lisa pulled the child
- 20:51Speaker 1: from Bobby's stomach. She pinched off the umbilical cord, severed it.
- 20:57Speaker 1: Held the child close to her, and she felt the
- 20:59Speaker 1: heart beating as it began to breathe. It survived, which
- 21:06Speaker 1: I love.
- 21:07Speaker 3: But okay, I love, but I also like, dang, I
- 21:12Speaker 3: mean the baby has to survive, yes, like the mom
- 21:16Speaker 3: is not surviving right, Like there's no like miracle that
- 21:21Speaker 3: happens there.
- 21:23Speaker 1: Or I'll tell you in a second. I'll tell you
- 21:25Speaker 1: in a second. I got a couple more things to
- 21:27Speaker 1: get through here, just very brief. So Lisa got to
- 21:31Speaker 1: her feet, pressed the against her chest and hit it
- 21:35Speaker 1: under a jacket, the jacket she was wearing, and abandoned
- 21:39Speaker 1: Bobby laying on the floor of her own house, cut
- 21:41Speaker 1: open in a pool of her own blood, while Lisa
- 21:45Speaker 1: just escaped and began her long drive back home with
- 21:48Speaker 1: Bobby's child.
- 21:50Speaker 3: That is just mind blowing.
- 21:54Speaker 1: It's disgusting.
- 21:56Speaker 3: It is so disgusting.
- 22:00Speaker 1: So a few hours later, Bobby's body was found by
- 22:05Speaker 1: her mother. Bobby was supposed to pick her mother up
- 22:09Speaker 1: after work that afternoon, but failed to show up, so
- 22:13Speaker 1: when she called Bobby but was unable to reach her
- 22:16Speaker 1: after multiple attempts, she got worried and decided she would
- 22:19Speaker 1: stop by her house. Oh my gosh, that's where she
- 22:23Speaker 1: walked into the horrific scene of her daughter laying dead
- 22:26Speaker 1: on the floor of her house covered and I'm highlighting
- 22:30Speaker 1: the word covered in blood and her grandchild missing.
- 22:35Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that is too much. So she's dead, yes, dang.
- 22:43Speaker 1: Bobby's mother, Becky Harper, quickly called nine one one in shambles,
- 22:47Speaker 1: explaining how it looks as if Bobby's quote unquote from
- 22:52Speaker 1: the nine one one call, Bobby's stomach exploded and there
- 22:57Speaker 1: was blood everywhere.
- 23:00Speaker 3: Okay, so well, because I bet the mother could not
- 23:02Speaker 3: even fathom what the freak actually happened.
- 23:04Speaker 1: Because this is absolutely horrific, Like, who the.
- 23:07Speaker 3: Fuck would ever do something like this?
- 23:09Speaker 1: There's so many firsts in this episode that I it's
- 23:14Speaker 1: it makes my head spin. Even when we get later
- 23:17Speaker 1: on into like the investigators and stuff, it's like they're
- 23:20Speaker 1: just like, we don't have shit to deal with this,
- 23:23Speaker 1: Like what we'll touch on that? Oh yeah, it really is.
- 23:28Speaker 1: We've said unfathomable a few times already, and it's because
- 23:31Speaker 1: it is. How the fuck can you do?
- 23:34Speaker 3: How else?
- 23:35Speaker 2: This?
- 23:37Speaker 1: So during all of this though, Bobby's husband, zeb was
- 23:40Speaker 1: at work, and during the call that he got, he
- 23:45Speaker 1: quote unquote broke down rightfully, so when he was told
- 23:49Speaker 1: what happened. Now, when emergency responders arrived. Bobby was of
- 23:55Speaker 1: course pronounced dead on the scene. And now in finding
- 23:59Speaker 1: Bobby's baby, there was a small technical issue that they
- 24:02Speaker 1: ran into because, like I said, it's unfathomable. There's so
- 24:05Speaker 1: many firsts in this. At the time of this, I
- 24:09Speaker 1: literally have the next word to hear. At the time
- 24:12Speaker 1: of the unfathomable crime, Amber alerts could only be issued
- 24:18Speaker 1: if identifiable information could be provided about the child to
- 24:22Speaker 1: law enforcement, and as it currently stood, no Amber alert
- 24:27Speaker 1: had ever been issued for a fetus, which by definition
- 24:31Speaker 1: is exactly what they were searching for. A fetus is
- 24:35Speaker 1: an unborn child. Oh my gosh, this yeah, technically an
- 24:41Speaker 1: unborn child.
- 24:43Speaker 2: Mm hm.
- 24:45Speaker 3: Like okay, And was she almost ready to have the baby?
- 24:49Speaker 1: She was eight months pregnant at this time, Okay, so
- 24:53Speaker 1: she wasn't too far.
- 24:54Speaker 3: Out, so the baby, Like, yeah, the baby would have
- 24:56Speaker 3: been able to survive hopefully. Well, I don't know, just
- 25:01Speaker 3: the ugh, okay, sorry, you're literally rubbing I know. I
- 25:06Speaker 3: just like can't. I can't even.
- 25:08Speaker 1: I can't on a scale of one to ten, I can't.
- 25:11Speaker 1: In the scale of one to even, I just can't.
- 25:13Speaker 1: That's how it goes.
- 25:14Speaker 3: Oh, Like I'm just saying the baby is of age
- 25:17Speaker 3: that it could survive, but the fact that of how
- 25:20Speaker 3: it got delivered maybe not so much.
- 25:23Speaker 1: Yes, there's a lot of questionable things within that situation.
- 25:27Speaker 1: It could survive, but we don't know just yet. I mean,
- 25:31Speaker 1: of course I'll talk about that, but we don't know
- 25:33Speaker 1: just as yet if it survives. So first off on
- 25:38Speaker 1: the investigators. The investigators in the case fought hard to
- 25:42Speaker 1: have an exception made in the case for the amber alert,
- 25:46Speaker 1: and it was actually in fact issued for baby Stennett
- 25:51Speaker 1: because that's the only name it had at this time,
- 25:53Speaker 1: the last name. The last name. Yes. All the while
- 25:58Speaker 1: Least was making the long dry back home to her
- 26:01Speaker 1: husband with a very much so a live baby. The
- 26:08Speaker 1: sudden existence of a baby, though, would generally be difficult
- 26:11Speaker 1: to explain when you show up at home with her
- 26:13Speaker 1: significant other, just being like, yo, I got a kid here.
- 26:18Speaker 3: You got a child probably covered in blood and stuff
- 26:21Speaker 3: yourself like, holy yeah, Lisa, person can't be well.
- 26:27Speaker 1: We'll touch on that too, okay. Lisa, though, had already
- 26:31Speaker 1: thought of this for months. Months. She had been lying
- 26:37Speaker 1: to her husband and everyone in her small town. She
- 26:40Speaker 1: told everyone and anyone that she could that she was pregnant.
- 26:43Speaker 1: She was pregnant, even if she didn't look it.
- 26:47Speaker 3: Interesting.
- 26:48Speaker 1: Hey, yes, she even went as far as to going
- 26:53Speaker 1: online and printing out an ultrasound and total it around town,
- 26:56Speaker 1: claiming it as her own.
- 26:57Speaker 3: Holy so did she even actually have her.
- 27:01Speaker 1: She did?
- 27:02Speaker 3: Really?
- 27:03Speaker 1: Okay, So when Lisa got close to home, she called
- 27:07Speaker 1: her husband, Kevin explained, while she was out in the
- 27:09Speaker 1: nearby town, she went into premature labor and gave birth
- 27:12Speaker 1: to their new child, their new, beautiful baby girl, and
- 27:18Speaker 1: so she wasn't able to drive home because you know,
- 27:22Speaker 1: she just had a kid, so he needed to come
- 27:24Speaker 1: pick her up.
- 27:25Speaker 2: So he did.
- 27:26Speaker 1: Him and Lisa's other children that they were living with,
- 27:31Speaker 1: went and picked her and the newborn child up.
- 27:35Speaker 3: From where the hospital I'm assuming for this to make sense, Well, she.
- 27:40Speaker 1: Claimed that she gave birth to the child at a
- 27:43Speaker 1: birthing clinic, but they I didn't write this down because
- 27:47Speaker 1: it couldn't confirm it. But what I read what I
- 27:49Speaker 1: did find was they picked her up at a fast
- 27:52Speaker 1: food place.
- 27:53Speaker 3: Okay, because that makes like so much sense.
- 27:56Speaker 1: So much sense. Uh so yeah.
- 27:58Speaker 3: Interesting.
- 28:00Speaker 1: Meanwhile, investigators were desperately trying to figure out what the
- 28:04Speaker 1: fuck was happening and who the fuck is responsible for this?
- 28:08Speaker 1: They contacted the FBI, hoping that the baby could be
- 28:10Speaker 1: found alive, and they were worried that, of course, you know,
- 28:13Speaker 1: the baby had been taken across state lines out of
- 28:16Speaker 1: their jurisdiction, hence why FBI would need to take over
- 28:20Speaker 1: right now. It didn't take long though, before investigators began
- 28:23Speaker 1: to receive tips on the incident.
- 28:26Speaker 3: Okay, good, good.
- 28:27Speaker 1: One phone call came in from a woman who is
- 28:30Speaker 1: part of the rater Chatter online forum. She heard about
- 28:34Speaker 1: this because the Amber alert and the news was blowing
- 28:38Speaker 1: up about this.
- 28:39Speaker 3: Well, yeah, this would spread like wildfire really and it did,
- 28:42Speaker 3: so just what is going on?
- 28:45Speaker 1: Yeah? So this woman explained that she knew a woman
- 28:48Speaker 1: by the name of Darlene Fisher who was supposed to
- 28:51Speaker 1: meet with Bobby that same day. Now, according to the
- 28:57Speaker 1: online persona of Darlene, she was apparently from Missouri, but
- 29:02Speaker 1: investigators quickly found out that locating Darlene would prove to
- 29:05Speaker 1: be very difficult, as they couldn't even find evidence that
- 29:08Speaker 1: she existed. And this is, of course because she didn't.
- 29:14Speaker 1: Another tip came out of Georgia in which a woman
- 29:17Speaker 1: reported knowing a woman who had just brought home a
- 29:20Speaker 1: newborn child, and there were serious doubts of her pregnancy
- 29:24Speaker 1: regarding those who knew her, so the fact that she
- 29:27Speaker 1: actually brought home a child was extremely alarming. That woman's
- 29:31Speaker 1: name was Lisa Montgomery.
- 29:34Speaker 3: Oh wow, Okay, so they were getting some good tips
- 29:37Speaker 3: right off the.
- 29:37Speaker 1: Back, they were, I like that. All while this was
- 29:41Speaker 1: being uncovered, investigators were scouring through Bobby's messages which they
- 29:46Speaker 1: found on online forums, and they took information from chat
- 29:51Speaker 1: logs that Bobby had with a woman named Darlene and
- 29:55Speaker 1: processed her IP address. It all matched with Lisa Montgomery
- 30:01Speaker 1: and they knew exactly where she lived.
- 30:03Speaker 3: Boom. So she'd been doing her research for months, but
- 30:09Speaker 3: she wasn't smart enough for them.
- 30:11Speaker 1: Mate, not near.
- 30:13Speaker 2: I like it.
- 30:13Speaker 3: That's good, let's get this baby home.
- 30:17Speaker 1: So it was December eighteenth, two thousand and four, only
- 30:22Speaker 1: two days after Bobby's death, when police rolled up outside
- 30:26Speaker 1: Lisa's house warrant in hand. They went into the residence.
- 30:31Speaker 1: Lisa's sitting there holding their newborn baby in her arms,
- 30:37Speaker 1: watching the news coverage about the murder and kidnapping in Skidmore, Missouri.
- 30:42Speaker 3: Okay, and sorry did you say this was two days
- 30:45Speaker 3: since the incident.
- 30:46Speaker 1: Two days later, oh.
- 30:48Speaker 3: Wow, just sitting there with the baby watching this on
- 30:51Speaker 3: the news, like are you kidding me?
- 30:53Speaker 1: Yep? And I mean meanwhile, like her husband was stunned
- 30:56Speaker 1: with what's going on, Like why are police here? Why
- 30:58Speaker 1: are people barging in her door? As far as he knew,
- 31:00Speaker 1: he had just become a first time father. I mean,
- 31:03Speaker 1: clearly he was wrong, but that's as far as he knew.
- 31:07Speaker 3: Wow.
- 31:08Speaker 1: Yeah, So the child was taken to a hospital and
- 31:12Speaker 1: then placed in a neonatal care where DNA testing would
- 31:18Speaker 1: be performed and confirm the baby's identity, and then the
- 31:22Speaker 1: car the cops charged Lisa Montgomery.
- 31:26Speaker 3: Okay, Like I just feel like I have to say this,
- 31:28Speaker 3: and I don't mean to be rude or anything, but
- 31:31Speaker 3: like you would a hundred percent know that I was
- 31:35Speaker 3: full of bullshit?
- 31:37Speaker 1: Yes?
- 31:37Speaker 3: Would you not?
- 31:39Speaker 2: Yes?
- 31:39Speaker 3: There is absolutely no way that I could get away
- 31:41Speaker 3: with something like that. There's zero percent, yes, yes, zero yes.
- 31:48Speaker 3: So I just I don't get it. I don't even
- 31:51Speaker 3: get how that that happened.
- 31:53Speaker 1: I mean, I don't want to sit here and say
- 31:56Speaker 1: that Lisa's husband was not smart. I don't want to
- 32:00Speaker 1: say that because I don't know. However, it could be.
- 32:04Speaker 3: That or he was manipulated by Elisa.
- 32:06Speaker 1: He was manipulated, or maybe he was just very trusting
- 32:09Speaker 1: of her.
- 32:10Speaker 3: I don't know, or he wanted a baby that bad too,
- 32:13Speaker 3: and just exaquestionate.
- 32:14Speaker 1: There are several reasons why he could be fooled into
- 32:17Speaker 1: believing it. So the obvious answer is just saying, oh,
- 32:21Speaker 1: he's stupid. I don't know if that is the case,
- 32:24Speaker 1: and I don't want to throw that out there. There
- 32:26Speaker 1: are multiple reasons, and I, who knows.
- 32:29Speaker 3: Almost feel bad for him too. I do, because, like
- 32:32Speaker 3: he is, I think, innocent in this, and you know,
- 32:37Speaker 3: and he's going to get this baby that he thinks
- 32:39Speaker 3: is his baby just taken away from him too, yep,
- 32:42Speaker 3: which is a bit sad.
- 32:43Speaker 2: Yep.
- 32:46Speaker 1: So, once in custody and under interrogation, Lisa, who at
- 32:51Speaker 1: this time was like, I think she was aged thirty six,
- 32:54Speaker 1: that is what it was. Sorry, I gotta look at
- 32:56Speaker 1: my notes. Yeah, age thirty six, she broke down and
- 32:59Speaker 1: she admitted that the baby was not hers. She admitted
- 33:02Speaker 1: to strangling Bobby Joe and cutting the baby from her womb.
- 33:08Speaker 3: Wow.
- 33:10Speaker 1: Lisa was then charged on a federal level with kidnapping
- 33:13Speaker 1: resulting in death, which makes her eligible for the death penalty.
- 33:19Speaker 3: It should be like murder, almost first degree.
- 33:25Speaker 1: Well, she was charged with kidnapping resulting in death, so
- 33:30Speaker 1: I mean, I guess there is that.
- 33:33Speaker 3: Yeah, she planned to murder her, I assume.
- 33:39Speaker 1: I think it's just the aftermath. It's just the footnote
- 33:42Speaker 1: sort of situation in her plan. She she didn't want
- 33:47Speaker 1: to kill Bobby Joe. She just wanted a baby, So,
- 33:53Speaker 1: I mean, that's arguable. It's hard to say, but anyways,
- 33:58Speaker 1: the United States federal government had only executed two other
- 34:03Speaker 1: women throughout history, both occurring in nineteen fifty three. One
- 34:08Speaker 1: was Ethel Rosenberg, who was executed for espionage in June
- 34:12Speaker 1: of nineteen fifty three, and followed by Bonnie Brown Heady
- 34:17Speaker 1: in December of nineteen fifty three for kidnapping and murdering
- 34:20Speaker 1: a six year old boy. Holy heck, so she was
- 34:24Speaker 1: the third added to that list. On October twenty second,
- 34:29Speaker 1: two thousand and seven, the jury found her guilty and
- 34:31Speaker 1: a few days later she was sentenced to death. Getting
- 34:35Speaker 1: that that what's the word I'm looking for?
- 34:41Speaker 3: Sentence y, there we go, thank you.
- 34:43Speaker 1: That's it.
- 34:43Speaker 3: Okay, I was thinking that.
- 34:46Speaker 1: Nope, brain fart. Sorry. So her execution date was originally
- 34:51Speaker 1: set for December eighth of twenty twenty. However, it was
- 34:56Speaker 1: moved to January twelfth, twenty twenty one, after Lloy contracted
- 35:00Speaker 1: corona virus, now just hours before she was due to
- 35:04Speaker 1: be given a lethal injection. James Judge James Patrick Hamlin
- 35:10Speaker 1: blocked the execution on the grounds of mental health, and
- 35:13Speaker 1: we're going to touch on those mental health issues here. Shortly, however,
- 35:18Speaker 1: the Supreme Court overturned the stay of execution and upheld
- 35:22Speaker 1: Lisa's original sentence. Lisa, at this time was fifty two
- 35:27Speaker 1: and was moved to tarot Hout Prison in Indiana, where
- 35:32Speaker 1: she received the lethal injection on January thirteenth of twenty
- 35:35Speaker 1: twenty one and was pronounced dead at one thirty one.
- 35:39Speaker 3: Am really yes, okay, I'm almost shocked by that.
- 35:44Speaker 2: Why is that?
- 35:46Speaker 3: I don't know, Because a lot of people are sentenced
- 35:48Speaker 3: to the death penalty and never get it.
- 35:51Speaker 1: Amazing, Yeah, that's true.
- 35:53Speaker 3: My answer In.
- 35:54Speaker 1: Short, well, I mean generally a lot of people who
- 35:56Speaker 1: are sentenced to death penalty, they they sit on death
- 35:59Speaker 1: row forever and they generally die of old age exactly.
- 36:04Speaker 1: She's been sitting there for what sixteen years, and she
- 36:07Speaker 1: was only fifty two at the time.
- 36:08Speaker 2: But I.
- 36:10Speaker 3: Know I've had other cases where it's been longer though.
- 36:13Speaker 1: But I mean, people do see the death penalty. They do,
- 36:16Speaker 1: like I believe, under Trump's presidency it was the highest
- 36:21Speaker 1: rate of death penalty execution given out really, so I
- 36:26Speaker 1: don't want to say death penalty execution, but death penalties
- 36:29Speaker 1: execute it. Yeah, that makes sense, And it was actually
- 36:35Speaker 1: there was a lot of people petitioning this death penalty
- 36:39Speaker 1: because of the mental health thing, and we're going to
- 36:40Speaker 1: get on that here in a bit. But he didn't
- 36:45Speaker 1: overturn it. He didn't let it happen, and it happened.
- 36:48Speaker 1: The death penalty was sentenced to her, and it was
- 36:51Speaker 1: given to her and it stayed there.
- 36:53Speaker 2: Oh. Boy.
- 36:54Speaker 1: Part of it, people argue, is because of the election
- 36:58Speaker 1: that was going on. This is very much so a
- 37:01Speaker 1: conservative area. A lot of people in this area wanted
- 37:05Speaker 1: to see the sentence carried out. If Trump overturned it
- 37:10Speaker 1: or whoever had the power and Trump approved it, he
- 37:15Speaker 1: might not have gotten those votes. And he was looking
- 37:17Speaker 1: for votes. So that's an argument people are saying I'm
- 37:20Speaker 1: not saying it's fact, but I'm saying that's what some
- 37:22Speaker 1: people are talking about and that some people are using
- 37:25Speaker 1: as their argument. So may that not have been the case.
- 37:30Speaker 1: Potentially she may not have seen the death penalty, but
- 37:35Speaker 1: that's a little bit more.
- 37:37Speaker 3: But what she did in that state or whatever justified
- 37:42Speaker 3: the death penalty.
- 37:45Speaker 1: Yes, what she her actions justified the death penalty. And
- 37:49Speaker 1: that's pretty cut and dry, the story of a monster
- 37:52Speaker 1: who you know, in a brutal fashion, killed a defenseless
- 37:57Speaker 1: mother and took the child in the process. But some
- 38:00Speaker 1: argue that Lisa was not necessarily a monster but also
- 38:02Speaker 1: a victim.
- 38:03Speaker 3: So I mean, I can see that depending on her
- 38:06Speaker 3: history and stuff. But oh boy, what she did, like,
- 38:10Speaker 3: holy heck.
- 38:11Speaker 1: Well, we're about to start talking on Lisa's history right now,
- 38:15Speaker 1: and just like many other cases we talked about on
- 38:17Speaker 1: this podcast, Lisa had a very dark and disturbing past
- 38:22Speaker 1: and childhood.
- 38:23Speaker 3: Well, I'm very much thinking so when I feel like
- 38:26Speaker 3: she may be struggled with having a baby or conceiving
- 38:29Speaker 3: a baby, or losing a baby or something.
- 38:32Speaker 1: No, she didn't she I believe she. I didn't actually
- 38:35Speaker 1: get into her previous children here, but I believe she
- 38:37Speaker 1: had four other children and she they were with her
- 38:41Speaker 1: at the time. Oh okay, But there is contention on
- 38:46Speaker 1: that alone. Some people say that because her ex husband
- 38:51Speaker 1: who had the children with her, she had custody over
- 38:55Speaker 1: the children, and he was bringing forward a lawsuit claiming
- 38:59Speaker 1: that she was a compulsive liar. Now her saying she's
- 39:05Speaker 1: pregnant was something he was bringing her to court for saying, See,
- 39:09Speaker 1: she's not pregnant, she's a compulsive liar. So some say
- 39:13Speaker 1: she went out and sought out a baby to prove
- 39:17Speaker 1: she's not a compulsive liar to keep her other children
- 39:20Speaker 1: in this court case.
- 39:22Speaker 3: Because the person that she was with at the time,
- 39:25Speaker 3: I think you had said that he was a new father,
- 39:28Speaker 3: like this was his first name.
- 39:29Speaker 1: Yes, the one she was with at the time, that
- 39:31Speaker 1: was a completely different guy, and yes, this was his
- 39:33Speaker 1: first child. However, they were living with her other children,
- 39:36Speaker 1: but this was his first child.
- 39:37Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, okay.
- 39:40Speaker 1: Now touching on Lisa's history, her backstory. As a kid,
- 39:44Speaker 1: Lisa lived with her half sister Diane, and they at
- 39:48Speaker 1: the time Lisa was four and Diane was eight. Sexual
- 39:53Speaker 1: abuse at the hands of Lisa's mother, Judy and her
- 39:56Speaker 1: boyfriend was routine. In one documentary, Diane went on like
- 40:04Speaker 1: she's talking directly to the camera to describe a situation.
- 40:09Speaker 1: Good on her for being able to speak so strongly
- 40:11Speaker 1: on this. I just want to say that. But she
- 40:13Speaker 1: was describing a situation where a man was let into
- 40:16Speaker 1: their shared bedroom one night, walked into the dark room
- 40:21Speaker 1: undressed and crawled into the bed with Diane and began
- 40:24Speaker 1: to rape her.
- 40:25Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
- 40:27Speaker 1: Now I don't know how old she was at the time.
- 40:29Speaker 1: She never said that, but she would have been at
- 40:34Speaker 1: most eight.
- 40:36Speaker 3: That is so disgusting. Yeah, so disgusting. Yeah, and it's
- 40:42Speaker 3: the sister.
- 40:43Speaker 1: Sorry, yes, it's her half sister. Sorry I should say that.
- 40:46Speaker 1: I forgot so as as she was actually reliving like
- 40:49Speaker 1: these fucking disgusting moments, she said how in the moment,
- 40:55Speaker 1: she was telling herself she had to keep quiet while
- 40:57Speaker 1: it was happening because if Lisa woke up, it was
- 41:00Speaker 1: gonna happen to her too.
- 41:02Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, are you kidding me?
- 41:07Speaker 1: That's what she said.
- 41:08Speaker 3: Oh wow, my heart just sank to the ground.
- 41:12Speaker 1: So right there, I just want to say, Diane is
- 41:18Speaker 1: our badass of the day for that alone.
- 41:22Speaker 3: So Wow. Brutal. Now.
- 41:26Speaker 1: Diane was eventually taken away to foster care when their
- 41:31Speaker 1: father left, but Lisa was left behind to live with
- 41:34Speaker 1: her mother, and the abuse never stopped. Beating was not abnormal,
- 41:40Speaker 1: and Judy would even go on to tape her daughter's
- 41:43Speaker 1: mouth shut many times simply because she just didn't want
- 41:46Speaker 1: to hear her daughter talk anymore.
- 41:48Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, Yeah, I hate this case. I'm not
- 41:55Speaker 3: enjoying this.
- 41:56Speaker 1: Lisa claims she was trafficked by her mother and stepped
- 42:00Speaker 1: growing up to men who would come to the house frequently.
- 42:03Speaker 3: Wow.
- 42:05Speaker 1: In her adolescence, plumbers or electricians would come to do
- 42:08Speaker 1: work on the house, and Lisa would be their way
- 42:11Speaker 1: of payment. A small room was built as an addition
- 42:16Speaker 1: onto the place where they lived, and in that room
- 42:18Speaker 1: is where she would be sent to earn her keep.
- 42:24Speaker 1: These men would beat her, rape her, and humiliate her
- 42:28Speaker 1: for hours on end.
- 42:31Speaker 3: Holy shit, this is too much.
- 42:35Speaker 1: Now, this is where it gets a little bit controversial,
- 42:39Speaker 1: not controversial as in this is crazy shit and holy
- 42:42Speaker 1: fuck controversial? On did this happen? Is it true? Much
- 42:47Speaker 1: of this information on rape came out only during Lisa's
- 42:51Speaker 1: trial in the later years after she committed the crime
- 42:55Speaker 1: against Bobby, not saying that the abuse as a child
- 42:59Speaker 1: didn't come out. That is very much so corroborated with
- 43:03Speaker 1: her half sister and stuff. But the severe rape in
- 43:05Speaker 1: her adolescence is what came out later on in the trial.
- 43:10Speaker 1: So many seriously believe it was a last ditch effort
- 43:13Speaker 1: for a plea of insanity or some other plea deal.
- 43:16Speaker 1: But others disagree. Some who are close to Lisa, like
- 43:19Speaker 1: I said, like her half sister, you know, knew of
- 43:22Speaker 1: the struggles she had already gone through. One another one
- 43:26Speaker 1: being a friend she actually made in prison. Her name
- 43:29Speaker 1: was Toby, and she recalls the story that Lisa had
- 43:31Speaker 1: told her and her stepfather, Sorry told her about her stepfather.
- 43:38Speaker 1: That sentence didn't make me sendse of it. So her
- 43:42Speaker 1: stepfather grabbed her by the hair and began beating her
- 43:46Speaker 1: head against the concrete in the driveway. And because of this,
- 43:50Speaker 1: Lisa was convinced she received brain damage.
- 43:54Speaker 3: Well, yeah, that wouldn't be surprising. Mm hmm, that's pretty horrific.
- 43:59Speaker 1: Yeah. Now, this is also corroborated by experts who examined
- 44:05Speaker 1: Lisa after her conviction. They concluded that she had long
- 44:09Speaker 1: been living with psychosis, bipolar disorder, and post traumatic stress disorder.
- 44:15Speaker 1: So brain damage not so much, but definitely mental issues.
- 44:21Speaker 1: You know, mental health was not the greatest. Many of
- 44:26Speaker 1: her lawyers on her legal team argued her mental health
- 44:30Speaker 1: problems began before she was even born. According to an
- 44:34Speaker 1: interview with her father, her mother, Judy, drank heavily during
- 44:38Speaker 1: pregnancy and that their daughter, Lisa was born with fetal
- 44:41Speaker 1: alcohol syndrome, a statement that multiple medical experts have gone
- 44:46Speaker 1: on record and given statements on agreeing with that diagnosis.
- 44:50Speaker 1: So you have someone with fetal alcohol syndrome, psychosis, bipolar disorder,
- 44:56Speaker 1: and post traumatic stress disorder.
- 45:00Speaker 3: The death penalty, oh boy, Okay, before you said all
- 45:07Speaker 3: this last thing, these things, I was like, okay, I
- 45:10Speaker 3: mean her child, it is her terrible.
- 45:14Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 45:14Speaker 3: Then I was like, I don't understand how that makes
- 45:18Speaker 3: her go to like cutting out a baby. But then, okay,
- 45:22Speaker 3: this is making a bit more sense, I suppose. Well.
- 45:24Speaker 1: A lot of people argue that the death penalty for
- 45:26Speaker 1: Lisa was just far too much. They literally are saying,
- 45:29Speaker 1: you're condemning someone who can't even fully grasp what they
- 45:32Speaker 1: have done. She needed help, yeah, or they can't even
- 45:35Speaker 1: grasp the consequences of what they're presented with. Like she
- 45:39Speaker 1: Their argument is she can't even understand she is getting
- 45:43Speaker 1: the death penalty, Like she almost has the mind of
- 45:48Speaker 1: a child at this point, is what people are saying.
- 45:50Speaker 1: I don't know if that is fact or fiction, but
- 45:53Speaker 1: that is what many people are talking about.
- 45:56Speaker 3: Well, I mean I can see that, but it's like
- 45:59Speaker 3: she still is like living her life and a mom
- 46:01Speaker 3: to four kids, and like had partners and stuff. So
- 46:05Speaker 3: was she really.
- 46:07Speaker 1: At that level, Like I don't know, you know, to
- 46:12Speaker 1: this day though, like it's it's a topic up for
- 46:14Speaker 1: debate for a lot of people. Did she commit a crime, yes,
- 46:18Speaker 1: and very horrific crime, And like those who fought against
- 46:22Speaker 1: the death penalty believe that she shouldn't be sentenced to death,
- 46:26Speaker 1: but maybe at least sentence to life because yes, she
- 46:29Speaker 1: committed a crime. Yeah, she just doesn't quite grasp the severity.
- 46:35Speaker 1: But others see a difference or differently, and that the
- 46:39Speaker 1: sentence was just that is tough. There's one officer in
- 46:43Speaker 1: the documentary that a statement he gave was saying that
- 46:49Speaker 1: he believes the mental health the or sorry not the
- 46:53Speaker 1: mental health the sexual assault card that they're trying to
- 46:57Speaker 1: play in the later parts of the trial, he thinks
- 47:00Speaker 1: it's actually demeaning to those who have survived sexual assault,
- 47:06Speaker 1: because just because you've been sexually assaulted doesn't mean you're
- 47:09Speaker 1: going to turn into a monster like this. I'm not
- 47:12Speaker 1: quoting him directly, just for that record out there, but
- 47:16Speaker 1: he is saying, like, you know, people who survive sexual
- 47:18Speaker 1: assault can live normally. They can be great and amazing people.
- 47:23Speaker 1: Just because you're a sexual assault survivor doesn't mean you're
- 47:26Speaker 1: a monster like Lisa.
- 47:28Speaker 3: Well, and that's exactly what I was thinking before you
- 47:31Speaker 3: hadn't said all like the mental health issues that she
- 47:35Speaker 3: did have, Because I was like, how does that make
- 47:38Speaker 3: like you go do this like cut out a baby
- 47:42Speaker 3: from someone. I was not understanding it at all. I
- 47:45Speaker 3: almost said something, but I was just waiting, so, yeah,
- 47:47Speaker 3: that makes sense. Oh my gosh.
- 47:50Speaker 1: Well, and Lisa in interrogation or I don't know exactly
- 47:55Speaker 1: where it was, but in conversation with authorities, at one
- 47:59Speaker 1: point she said I'm.
- 48:00Speaker 3: A monster, huh, which is like her realizing what she's done. Yes, which, oh, okay,
- 48:13Speaker 3: this okay. I think I had this case on my
- 48:16Speaker 3: list too. At one point, I'm like, glad that you
- 48:20Speaker 3: did this.
- 48:21Speaker 2: Well.
- 48:22Speaker 1: I I thought this was a cut and dry case.
- 48:25Speaker 1: I thought this was a person who went after someone
- 48:30Speaker 1: took their child, got caught and was sentenced to death
- 48:33Speaker 1: and that was it. And then I learned of Lisa's history.
- 48:40Speaker 1: I thought it was just a woman who just wanted
- 48:43Speaker 1: a child.
- 48:44Speaker 3: That person thought, yeah, initially too, but there is.
- 48:47Speaker 1: Clearly much more than that.
- 48:51Speaker 3: It goes deep.
- 48:52Speaker 1: It goes very deep at Lisa. Aside as for the
- 48:57Speaker 1: baby who Lisa took from Bobby Joe, she did survive.
- 49:02Speaker 1: Her name is Victoria, Victoria Joe Stinnett. She was placed
- 49:07Speaker 1: back in custody of her father, Zeb Stinnett, after being
- 49:10Speaker 1: given a clear bill of health from the hospital. It's
- 49:14Speaker 1: been emotional, I said, deb had said in a statement,
- 49:18Speaker 1: and he also said this, but I just look at her,
- 49:22Speaker 1: pick her up, and that usually does it. He goes
- 49:26Speaker 1: on and he continues and he calls his daughter a miracle. Now,
- 49:34Speaker 1: a final thing I want to add to this episode.
- 49:37Speaker 3: As we're all crying, okay, I'm.
- 49:40Speaker 1: Going to make you maybe cry in another way. Whether
- 49:43Speaker 1: you agree that Lisa's sentence was just or not, the
- 49:47Speaker 1: fact remains she killed Bobby Joe stinit And every time
- 49:52Speaker 1: Victoria celebrates her birthday, it will also be the anniversary
- 49:57Speaker 1: of her mom's death, the slaughter of her mother, every
- 50:02Speaker 1: single year for the rest of her life. And that
- 50:06Speaker 1: is because of the actions of Lisa.
- 50:11Speaker 3: Wow.
- 50:13Speaker 1: Okay, you went there, and that is the story of
- 50:17Speaker 1: Bobby Joe Stinnett. Holy brig, I'm literally sweating from this one.
- 50:25Speaker 3: Well yeah, I'm very uncomfortable right now because that's so sad. Okay,
- 50:31Speaker 3: So what when year did that happen? Like, how old?
- 50:35Speaker 1: Two thousand and four? Okay, so we would have been
- 50:40Speaker 1: like grade ten in high school?
- 50:44Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, yeah, hmm. Interesting in two thousand and four, okay,
- 50:50Speaker 3: so that's like teen or so that's how old she
- 50:54Speaker 3: is the little girl about that? Yes, yeah, wow, oh
- 51:01Speaker 3: my gosh.
- 51:02Speaker 1: I would imagine that surprise birthday parties are not something
- 51:05Speaker 1: that she wants in her life, and rightfully so, yeah,
- 51:10Speaker 1: but I also.
- 51:11Speaker 3: Feel like, I don't know, there could be joy in
- 51:14Speaker 3: her birthday still, yes, but.
- 51:18Speaker 1: If there's not, I can completely understand it, you know
- 51:20Speaker 1: what I mean?
- 51:21Speaker 2: M hm.
- 51:23Speaker 1: So that's that's a heavy fucking case. If you made
- 51:26Speaker 1: it all the way through. Good on you wow, because
- 51:31Speaker 1: that was brutal. I spent a lot of time pacing
- 51:35Speaker 1: while researching this episode.
- 51:36Speaker 3: Okay, I can okay today you were so uncomfortable. Yes,
- 51:41Speaker 3: And there was even a time actually where you'res like
- 51:42Speaker 3: came up and needed a hug.
- 51:44Speaker 1: Yes?
- 51:45Speaker 3: Is that because of this?
- 51:46Speaker 1: Yes?
- 51:46Speaker 3: Okay, it's a fucked up episode.
- 51:49Speaker 1: I can't, like, I totally understand going through being like, yes,
- 51:55Speaker 1: you should be given the death penalty and sort of stuff,
- 51:57Speaker 1: if you believe in it or not. But I'm just saying, like,
- 52:01Speaker 1: those actions under that law, she should be given the
- 52:05Speaker 1: death penalty. That is a domino effect that you did
- 52:09Speaker 1: what the loss says you can't do, and if you
- 52:11Speaker 1: do that, you get this. That's straightforward in black and white.
- 52:14Speaker 1: That's what I mean by saying that. So, yes, she
- 52:17Speaker 1: should be given what the law says. Then all of
- 52:20Speaker 1: a sudden, this whole undertow of her backstory. I was like,
- 52:24Speaker 1: what the fuck? Because I know people in my personal
- 52:30Speaker 1: life with fetal alcohol syndrome, and I can see how
- 52:35Speaker 1: it's like they don't understand things, they don't grasp things,
- 52:42Speaker 1: and I can't imagine them understanding the actions and consequences
- 52:48Speaker 1: of such a severe situation.
- 52:52Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, I am like so on the fence. I'm
- 52:55Speaker 3: still processing all of this.
- 52:56Speaker 1: Yeah, so, I honestly don't know, but I'm the same.
- 53:00Speaker 1: I don't know. It's it's so difficult, and it's very difficult.
- 53:05Speaker 1: Her sentencing and her death is very much so up
- 53:08Speaker 1: for debates.
- 53:09Speaker 3: And it just happened last year, last year, barely a
- 53:12Speaker 3: year ago, which is wow. I don't even remember that.
- 53:18Speaker 3: I don't remember that being in the news or anything.
- 53:20Speaker 3: It must have been.
- 53:21Speaker 1: I think it was overshadowed by elections and such, but
- 53:25Speaker 1: I would imagine it was in the news a bit.
- 53:27Speaker 3: Yes, huh, Okay, well well done, I think in presenting that.
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