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#20230618 - What Do I Do When I’m Overwhelmed? - Psalm 61:1-2 · Calvary Church with Ed Taylor Podcast

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Welcome to the study of God's word with pastor and author.
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Now, here's Pastor Ed to take us into our study.
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Amen. Amen.
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Well, with your Bible is already open to Psalm 61.
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I want to draw your attention to verse 1.
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There it says, Hear My Cry o God and attend to my prayer from the
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end of the Earth. I'll cry to you when my heart is
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overwhelmed lead me to the rock that is higher than I and the
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title of our Bible study today is what do I do when I'm
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overwhelmed? What do I do?
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When I'm overwhelmed the word overwhelmed It means to overcome
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to be overcome, or overpowered by thoughts, or feelings, and
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that's it. It describes.
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So many of us today, overwhelmed, overcome the
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Hebrews, and the original language in the Old Testament.
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They used a word to describe overwhelmed as to turn or to
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cover or to be wrapped up and that sounds like being
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overwhelmed to be wrapped up with you.
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Emotions to have your thoughts turn you in a specific
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Direction. In the Greek language there.
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The definition has the idea of a person becoming weary worn-out
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in spirit who feels like they have nowhere to turn as the idea
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of being feeble and faint and week.
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And I know there are many times when life leaves us exasperated
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and overwhelmed, life takes its toll on us day in and day out.
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And we all have our fair share of problems.
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Pains and toils and may I say some of you would even look at
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your life and say you have more than your fair share.
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Seems like you get a double portion of pain and for that I'm
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sorry I wish it wasn't that way. The old hymn writer put it this
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way through many dangers, toils and snares.
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I have already come You add to the day-to-day issues, all sorts
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of things that happen to us. Some of you have people in your
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lives that are causing you actively right now, great harm
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and pain do their choices and decisions.
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Others Among Us face marriage challenges that are filled with
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discouragements disappointments and even loneliness.
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Still others have the pain of a divorce.
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Whether it was your marriage or it was your parents marriage.
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Others face, the daily issues of health concerns feeble bodies,
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wracked with pain and declining Health.
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Others Among Us have serious family problems issues with
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their parents or with their in-laws or even painfully.
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So issues with your children or your grandchildren.
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I mean the list could continue on and on for the remainder of
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our time today. But all this to say that being
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overwhelmed is something that's common to us all Things can
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happen so quickly, so suddenly, so sadly.
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In Psalm 119 and verse 25. It says my soul clings to the
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dust revive me according to your word and in a general way today.
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Our whole church here at Calvary Is living in the first part of
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that verse thinks forever changed last week.
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As we received the news of the passing of our beloved Pastor a
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van, They kicked in so much, grief and sorrow and pain and
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regret and anger and depression and sleeplessness it awakened.
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Other pains in your life that had gone dormant or you felt
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like they were completely healed.
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And now they're back again. It brought back memories of
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things that you thought you had forgotten and on and on.
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But these are very normal responses and you need to
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understand that you're not an abnormal person for feeling the
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way that you do. I know that some of you are more
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sensitive so that you beat yourself up.
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Like I shouldn't be feeling as I shouldn't be feeling this but
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these are normal responses for someone like you that would be
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going through a situation like this.
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Our soul clings to the Dust. Why?
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Because overwhelming events have a way of gripping us and taking
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hold of our minds and our Focus difficult circumstances are like
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driving in fog. When a heavy fog Bank comes in,
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we aren't able to see clearly anymore.
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We can't see too far ahead. Driving in fog can be very
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disorienting, very difficult. It's like driving in the snow in
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the night. You know, when you're driving in
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snow or you're driving in fog, two things you don't do.
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First of all, number one, you don't speed up.
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And secondly you don't put your high beams on because it gets
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worse, it reflects back on you and you now you can see even
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less but rather Times Like These are just like driving in the
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fogger and snow at night and that is it's time to slow down.
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We just need to slow down and take it in.
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And proceed forward little by little prayerfully and
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carefully. The difficulty that overwhelms
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us. Can blind us from the
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faithfulness of God. It's easy to forget.
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God's faithfulness in difficult times.
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We enjoy it in, Good Times, the Temptation is to forget it in
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bad times. Sudden tragedies stumble us.
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They trip us up, we get knocked off balance.
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Feels like a punch in the gut. Which, for many of us we haven't
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had since our school days. Real nonetheless.
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These are times to look to Jesus as our only hope.
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In Psalm 119 verse 49, it says, remember the word to your
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servant upon which you caused me to hope this is my comfort.
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In my Affliction, for your word has given me life, Psalm 28
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verse 17. The Lord is my strength and my
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shield. My heart trusted in him, I am
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helped therefore my heart greatly rejoices.
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And with my song I will praise him.
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Psalm 90 for 19 in the multitude of my anxieties within me your
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Comforts Delight. My soul, Jeremiah 15:16 your
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words were found and I ate them and your word was to me the joy
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and rejoicing of my heart for I am called by your name O Lord
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God of hosts. Post and wow, our soul clings to
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the dust. I want to help you with the
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second part of that verse that God might revive us, according
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to his word. When all is swirling around us,
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when we've lost our equilibrium, when we can't see the
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faithfulness of God, when our feelings are overwhelming us,
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it's God's word. And the steady, sure, truth of
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what God has shared with us. Helps us to revive us and to
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Breathe new life into us. We are overwhelmed now, what?
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What do we do when we're overwhelmed?
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Well, here in Psalm 61 David is in such a place.
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He's overwhelmed. He experienced in his in his
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life difficulties that overwhelmed him.
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He's wrapped up in pain and sorrow and sadness.
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David had a hard life, very difficult life layer upon layer,
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upon layer. It's easy to look at the men and
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women in the Bible and think somehow they're different than
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us. How they received a pass on?
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Some of the things that we experience, but David went
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through a lot layer after layer, for those of you that have
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studied David's life, you know this.
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But for those who haven't, let me let you in on a few of the
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issues that David lived with every day.
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Sees a young man, David was affirmed by God and approved by
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God and chosen by God to be the next king of Israel.
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The Bible word for that is he was anointed as a young child.
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And yet as an adult. He spent 13 years of his life at
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the very least on the run, from the present King, who is very
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jealous of him. Imagine living on the living
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your life on the run in the middle of the desert.
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In all of the haphazard difficulties that he experienced
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there. David lived with an unloving
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wife. Uncaring and unkind and he
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complicated things in this difficult.
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Marriage by choosing to marry many other wives and made life
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even harder for himself. David had.
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Really hard issues with his kids.
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He wasn't the perfect family that people think you should
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have gave him great heartache to heartache.
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David lived a compromise life at times committed adultery with a
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woman stealing her way from her husband.
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Murders her son. Her husband.
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And as a result is, child dies. He lives with those
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consequences, he lost his best friend through that as well.
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David experienced, great sadness, grief, and mourning,
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his life was filled with turmoil and strife.
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And here in Psalm 61, we have another trial that leads him
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many commentators believe that Psalm 61 was written after the
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death of his son Absalom. I agree with them.
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His relationship with his son. Absalom was a complicated
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difficult one, for sure. But it was, as the sudden death
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that led, David has finally sit down and write out his heart on
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this event. It wasn't too many years
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earlier. The David expressed, great love
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for his son, Absalom. But his son brought him great
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grief, tried to steal the throne away from him and undermine him.
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It was a very difficult thing. Crying out.
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Absalom Absalom I believe the Lord will use this psalm.
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To help us walk through our present pain sorrow and grief
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that is overwhelmed us. Notice again with me in verse 1,
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Hear My Cry o God and attend to my prayer.
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What do I do when I'm overwhelmed?
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I seek the Lord. If that's all you leave with
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today, please take it in value and treasure it.
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What do I do when I'm overwhelmed?
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I turn to God. For the comfort and the help and
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the strength that I so desperately need because, you
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know, when difficulties, come people turn to a lot of
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different things. People run.
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There's that fight or flight response and when difficulties
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come to temptation to run is ever before us and we will turn
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to someone or something. Be careful where you run.
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There's a lot of options to run away. to run to alcohol or
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drugs, some new relationship to run inward to run, run every,
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which way You could turn to a familiar coping mechanism
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although it will destroy you personally.
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Many people do that. They don't know where else to
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go. Or what else to do.
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We learn in David's life, that the problems of David always
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seem to bring him to his knees, causing him to cry out to the
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Lord. We have an example here in the
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song as he writes it down, while you, and I will not be riding
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new. Psalms The practice and the
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habit of prayer journaling is a wonderful Habit.
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To develop you too. Can write these things out here.
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Me God Hear My Cry. Don't you see where I'm at?
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Don't you understand what? I'm going through and to write
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it down and to get it out, that's where David is, he didn't
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sit down to write the Bible. He sat down to ride out his
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heart. Here he is on his knees.
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Crying out to God. I love that about my
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relationship with God. I can trade him anytime I want.
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From any place I want in any way.
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I want for error. By definition is just talking to
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God. In a very similar relationship
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that you talk with your friends and family, you can talk to God,
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we call that prayer, you can talk to them while you're
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walking around. You can talk to him with your
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hands folded in your eyes closed.
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Not when you're driving, but you can if you like, you can pray
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with them and Whisper, you can pray with him.
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In your mind, you can talk to God anywhere.
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Even in those times, when you feel like you're all alone,
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that's where David speaking here.
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He says, from the end of the Earth, I'll cry to you.
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He is not literally at the end of the Earth, he's using a
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picture here. He feels like he's at the end of
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the Earth. Like, he's all by himself.
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Pain and sorrow can make you feel that way.
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Even in a room of over a thousand people like you are
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right now, you can feel alone. Like nobody understands and
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nobody knows. Nobody cares.
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That's not true but it can feel that way.
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It's a time to turn to the Lord. To ask him for help.
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Because you see David describes himself in verse 2.
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When my heart is overwhelmed, we don't need to guess where David
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is right now. He's overwhelmed.
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He's wrapped up, he's struggling, he's hurting.
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He doesn't want to be there. But I'm overwhelmed God.
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And he has his big ask. I know many are afraid to ask
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God for big things. You can ask, God for big things.
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This is a big thing. Here I am.
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God, I am overwhelmed. And his big asked, was lead me
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to the rock. That is higher than I, Lead Me
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To The Rock. So many things that overwhelm
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us. I think of a friend you know
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when a friend or a loved one is dying and the doctors have come
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to the place where they can't do anything else. it leaves you
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helpless, when your spouse has become interested in someone
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else and you see the pain of your family being torn into you,
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think of the kids and your own loss you feel helpless When you
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come home from work and the divorce papers are on the table
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and you were hoping you were hoping and you were hoping but
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here you are. And a place of hopelessness.
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When you lost your job, you lost your job in.
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You don't know how you're going to pay their bills.
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You don't know how you're going to pay the rent.
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You don't know how you're going to feed your kids.
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How about when your children as with David or an open?
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Rebellion living again, stand apart from the Lord.
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These things don't resolve themselves so quickly.
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Do they were kind of used to experiencing pain, especially as
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new Believers. We experience pain.
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Like like you know, trials we were in a trial and then it has
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a short middle and then it's resolved and we move on and then
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it becomes a testimony things like you know, I had a flat tire
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on the way to church but then somebody pulled over and they
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fixed it. And here I am, I get to worship
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you and pray with you and we all Rejoice of how quick things get
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resolved and those. Today's I think God allows us to
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be experiencing all these things that quickly resolved quickly
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resolved but over time you learn not every trial is quickly
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resolved. and while there's a beginning and there's that
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hopeful end, there's a long middle.
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Long, there's a lot of long middles in, like, in the room
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right now. A lot of them.
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It's so overwhelming that you don't know what to do.
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And how will you make it through another day?
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Let alone another hour. you face things that you say, man how
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much can a person handle And you're actually describing your
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own life. That's David.
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And he says, when I'm overwhelmed God, I'm asking you
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to lead me to the rock. That is higher and then I God, I
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need your help. I need you to rescue me.
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I need you to help me in this difficult situation.
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Lead me to the rock. That is higher than me and how
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wonderful it is church. How wonderful it is to know that
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there is a place of comfort and there is a place of Refuge.
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There is a place of rescue and there is a place of peace that
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is higher than I and these times of pain.
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Can I get an amen on that? There is that time.
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And there is that place. It's not only a place, but a
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person, there is one who is able to take these things when I've
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come to the limits of my ability, when I'm emotionally
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drained, when I've come to that place where I've hit the wall,
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and I'm overwhelmed when I don't know what to do, when all seems
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lost when my heart is sunk, when the frustrations of my inability
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Rage Against My Flesh and I'm tempted to jump in and control
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things how wonderful it is to go to the Rock, that's high.
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Higher than I. Which leads us to a question.
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Who is this? Rock.
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The Psalms answer that very quickly notice with me in Psalm
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62. The very next Psalm David writes
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in verse 2. He only is my rock and my
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salvation. He is my defense.
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I shall not be greatly moved verse 6.
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He only is my rock and my salvation.
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He is my defense. I shall not be moved verse 7 in.
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God is my salvation and my glory.
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The rock of my strength and my refuge is in God, we run to
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Jesus, we are led to Jesus our Rock.
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Rock speaks to us of stability, it speaks to us of strength.
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It speaks to us of a place that's above our trials.
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And you can be on the Rock and be sad.
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You can be on the Rock and be hurting and you can be on the
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Rock and have a really unresolved middle of your trial.
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Somewhere along the way. this false thought of false teaching
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of when you run to the Rock, Everything goes away.
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That's simply not the case. Some of the issues in our life
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won't be resolved in C to wear it with the lure.
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And certainly the difficulty of our bodies, we won't have these
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bodies replace until we get our new bodies.
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But you can endure through anything with The Rock.
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He's faithful and reliable. We learn about this rock in the
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New Testament. In First Corinthians chapter 10
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and verse 4, talking about the Wilderness wandering Paul
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describes, they all drank and ate the saint.
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They all drank the same spiritual drink for, they drank
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of that, spiritual rock, that followed them, that rock was
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Christ in Psalm 18 verse 46, the Lord lives Blessed, Be My Rock,
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let the god of my salvation, be exalted.
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It Psalm 27, verse 54 in the time of trouble, he shall hide
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me in his Pavilion in the secret place of his Tabernacle.
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He shall hide me, he shall set me high upon a rock Psalm 62, as
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we read, he only is my rock and my salvation, second Samuel, 20,
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22. And he said, the Lord is my
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rock, and my Fortress and my deliverer when my heart is
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overwhelmed, lead me to the rock that is greater than Than I that
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is higher than I. Notice.
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We need to be led. To this rock, it doesn't come
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naturally. The natural response is to run
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away. The natural response is to get
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drunk again. The natural response is to go
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through the cabinet to where you hid those pills and pull those
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out. Again, the natural response is
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to pull away from people the natural response.
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Are many things that take us away from The Rock.
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And David says, know what I need.
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You need to lead me there lead me to that rock.
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This, my friends is the work of the holy spirit in your life.
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The Holy Spirit, leading us back to Christ.
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Leading us back to safety. The Holy Spirit.
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Does that work in your life from the inside?
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And from the outside he sends friends into your life.
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He has text messages show up. You have Impressions.
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The holy spirit will bring you back to a relationship with
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Christ so you can abide in him and he abides in you which also
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ends up. You come back to church and you
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start to worship with the Saints again, so that the room filled
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with worship will minister to your soul.
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It means you start to forsake those things that have been
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controlling, you. Those addictions, you begin to
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lay aside because you know, by now it doesn't help you.
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It only hurts, you anything apart from the rock is going to
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hurt you. It's going to make things worse
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for you because you have the pain in the problem now and it's
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going to be Complicated by these bad decisions.
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No, David says, I need to be led to the Rock.
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He's my only source of comfort. He's my strength, my defense, my
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rock of Deliverance, my help in time of need and here's the
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thing. This is the thing that's
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challenging. The thing that's challenging is
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that in order to be led, you have to be willing to follow.
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God will lead you, he's faithful.
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The Bible says, even when we are faithless God, he remains
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faithful, he won't deny himself. At the same time, parakletos the
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holy spirit is leading you to Christ leading you back.
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Your response must be a willingness to follow, which
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requires humility. It requires a lot of humility.
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I want you to be careful of a very dangerous emotion that
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comes up in these times when you're fighting the work of the
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Holy Spirit and you're fighting the leading of the Holy Spirit.
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And I want you to know I'm sharing it with you, right now,
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from a place of personal experience, I'm not speaking
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about this in the abstract because for some, this is going
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to sting when I'm about to say, this is an example of speaking,
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the truth and love, which is what we needed in this time.
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But it's also something I've experienced personally and I've
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had to overcome myself and it's simply this in difficult times,
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grief and sorrow and mourning and overwhelming feelings can
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very easily lead you to a place of self pity.
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And this is not a time for you to have a pity party for
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yourself. Bad also won't help you really.
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If you think about it, any self other than self-denial are going
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to make things worse. Self-reliance, self-pity, You
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know, the focus on self takes you away from The Rock.
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And the focus on self takes you away from the help and the
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comfort that you're so desperate for and it makes things harder
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and it delays your healing and it delays your help.
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And even today, if you're in a place of self, pity God wants to
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lead you away, it's a fine line. I don't know where it is for
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you. I know where I crossed it, but I
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don't know where it is for you. That fine line of sorrow and
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sadness and heard and I don't know how things are going.
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And they just like, all, what about me?
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Nobody cares. Nobody calls.
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Nobody, it's all about me. It's it's not going to help you.
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even though you may be feeling it, this is not the time for
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self-pity, it's the time for self-denial so that you might
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follow the leading of the Holy Spirit be willing to follow.
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Let me show you one of the places that he leads, you turn
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over to Hebrews chapter 4. Hebrews chapter 4.
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Jesus Christ is our Rock and this is the place that he leads
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us right into the throne room of Grace where we can find help in
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our time of need. Notice this in verse 15 of
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Hebrews chapter 4, Hebrews 4 verse 15.
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For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our
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weaknesses but was in all points tempted.
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As we are yet without sin, Let Us therefore come boldly to the
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throne of grace that we may obtain mercy and find Grace to
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help in time of need. This is Jesus knows you
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personally, if you haven't already in your Bible Circle the
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phrase high priest and just right next to it.
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Jesus. So you remember who he's talking
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about Jesus in his high Priestly role.
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Knows you. When you're led to the rock,
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your let to someone, who knows you God in human flesh.
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He walked in the same broken human body that you walk in.
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He won't he walked in the same broken world that you walk in.
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And he's ready to receive you. The psalmist describes the
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father. As the Lord Jehovah is like a
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father to his children tender and compassionate to those who
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fear Him for. He understands how weak we are.
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He knows that we're only dust and it's just too easy.
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To turn the focus of life back upon ourselves and our
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weaknesses, and our failures, and our doubts, and our losses,
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and our anxieties, and our fears, and our pains, and our
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hardships. When God is ready to heal and
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forgive and help you, we have a high priest who understands us,
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he knows what we're feeling. He faced Temptation himself and
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he was Victorious. He lived where we live face,
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what we Faith? He can sympathize literally, it
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means to have compassion on us. He cares for us.
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He's not some abstract, God, some constructive man-made
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religion, he's your creator, your father, the Triune God is
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involved in healing, you in difficult times.
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I know a little more now in my life than I have in previous
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years even though I don't fully understand why God allows us to
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go through such difficulties and tribulations.
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I know little more I've experienced a little more and
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I've understood a little more why God I don't fully understand
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it. That's one of our difficulties
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that we have as humans. We really believe that.
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If we understand everything it will be better.
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And all the questions that we have, all of the, why questions
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all of the things if we would just know, then we would be
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better off with this information.
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Last week when I taught the bible study on facing death, it
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was forwarded to someone. And as a result of that Bible
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study, she called and asked, if she can meet with me and I said,
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yes, come Saturday, I'll meet after service on Saturday and I
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met with her and a part of her family last night, and she came
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to share with me that on a recent trip that her husband
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took for business. A few months ago, he was
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viciously murdered She lost her husband.
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Instantly on a typical regular business trip that.
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He regularly he always took. He always always traveling for
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business and I sat across the table with her and she had a lot
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of questions. And they were good questions and
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valid questions and I had some of the answers for her and was
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able to talk her through some of her thinking.
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But also, there were many questions that I couldn't
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answer. Well, you know, I could open the
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Bible and I could give her a theological answer.
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I could take her to this verse and to, that person to this
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person to that verse and I could say, that's what the Bible says
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about what you're thinking right now.
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And on some of the questions I did just that I took her to a
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few places and explain things to her, but I also took the
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opportunity to tell her when I'm telling you right now that the
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answers that you're seeking will not give you the piece that
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you're seeking. Because peace is a gift that God
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gives a piece that gives that is beyond understanding is
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surpasses understanding be anxious for nothing.
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All things by prayer, supplication Thanksgiving, make
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your requests be made known to God.
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And the peace of God, that surpasses all understanding will
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guard your hearts and Minds through Christ Jesus.
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You see God, he wants us to live by faith and not information.
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And he wants us to live by faith and not explanations.
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Along the way he does give us understanding and he gives us
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partial understanding. The Bible says though, that now
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we live we see as in a mirror dimly but then face to face that
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we know in part and then but now but then I shall know, just as.
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I'm also known we live in partial knowledge.
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Now, There will be a day when we'll get it all, but it's not
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now. Because God, he's leading you
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not to a place of answers. He's leading you to a place of
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Peace. Lead me to the rock.
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That is higher than I. And I've learned that God allows
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us in these difficulties and trials in many ways to be able
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to see a fresh revelation of God and how good and faithful.
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He really is. Oh the circumstances they Cloud
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us from that, but God is good. He's with us going through it
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alongside of us. Seeing us through all the way.
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You see when things are easy we have a tendency to forget about
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God lose sight of his eternal purposes times of comfort and
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ease with Little Resistance, little difficulty, have a
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tendency to build up a little self pride in US.
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As if we've done everything. And it's our good life and it's
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our good deeds and it's are good.
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And then the difficulty comes and we remember that.
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It's every good and perfect. Gift comes from our father above
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And it's in the fires of life that we have revelation.
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We want and desire information. What what God has for us is
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revelation. You see God in a whole new
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light. You understand a piece of this?
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Comfort. That's also something I share
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with this dear sister last night.
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It wasn't a very long meeting but I shared with her that, you
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know, I've always believed to some degree that in my pastoral
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Ministry. I'm, I've been a caring Pastor,
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I've been compassionate, I have been able to walk with people
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and and I love what I do and it's not a job for me is what
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God has called me to do and But when my son Eddie died, I
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changed. You know, I didn't really
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understand loss to that degree before.
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I didn't really recognize the families in our church that had
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lost children before I do now. I would read through the book of
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Acts about widows and I see it for what it is.
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And I understand widowhood. And I've done memorials and I've
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cried with families. But, you know, I see the Widow's
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now. I excite can feel the pain of
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divorce. Now, And I couldn't say this in
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the first two years or so after my son passed away, but I'm 10
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years, it's been 10 years now and it's still hard crushing in
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this whole situation with Pastor Avon is opened up all kinds of
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wounds again but I'm going to tell you this.
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God has used the loss of my son to make me a better man.
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And you may not be able to see that in your own life today.
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It may still be very cloudy and very foggy.
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But God is revealing to you how he will use the tragedy in your
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life. For his glory.
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Of course, you don't want it. And of course, you wish it was
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someone else or not even that. But why me Not that you would
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want your pain for someone else, but you get what I mean, like,
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you don't want to go through it, of course.
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But that's not real life. Real life means we all go
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through things emphasized. All everyone suffers even the
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ones that think that look like they never suffer believe me.
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Sin has touched everyone. And one day you'll be able to
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look back. Maybe just a little bit, maybe
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just an angle, maybe just something new where it just like
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maybe you'll be able to embrace and go, you know?
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I'm a better woman for this. I'm a better man.
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You followed the lead of the Holy Spirit to the Rock, that's
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higher than you. And that's what you'll find
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strength, stability perspective, Revelation, help, comfort.
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The Bible is very clear. Today.
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Right now, as you're listening to me in this room downstairs,
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live on the radio, on the radio, some other time online wherever
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you're hearing my voice. When the problem is too great
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for you to handle. When you're buried under the
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weight of sorrow and grief, when you're overwhelmed by the
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situation, when you don't think you can make it another day,
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there is a rock that is higher than you.
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And your situation and difficulty is not too great for
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Jesus Christ. He has overcome sin and death
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and he can handle the situation. He is able to deliver.
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Today. Right now, as you're listening
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to my voice, if you're overwhelmed by the things in
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life, if you're overwhelmed by your present circumstances, it's
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more than you can bear. Allow me to encourage you to
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come to the rock. That is higher than you because
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Jesus Christ will help you. He will deliver you.
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He will strengthen you. He will lead you out.
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He will carry you and bear your burdens and bring you to a place
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of strength and victory and peace.
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At a Vance Memorial. I will definitely use this
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phrase but I'll use it for us today.
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If I have permission from the family and I get it ahead of
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time, I'll ask them. If I can say, if your loved one
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was here today, this is what he would say.
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And almost every family gives me permission to say that.
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So I can say this to you. If a van was here today, This is
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what he would say to you. Right now, he would say this,
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read your Bible every day. The Bible is reliable and
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trustworthy. Pray everyday frame or develop a
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prayer life prayer is your key. He would say that prayer.
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Avon is one of the examples of a man that literally prayed like
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breathing. He was always praying that was
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his go to pray and then he would say, do the Lord's work, he
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would tell you, do the Lord's work.
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No, the Bible, pray Through the Bible and do the Lord's work.
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And if you were ever here, Avon say that.
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Because he said that many times before, it would sound a lot
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like Jesus. Jesus said abide in my word.
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My word will abide in you. Jesus said, men ought also
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always to pray and not lose heart.
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And Jesus said do business till I come, do the Lord's work.
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And the echo of Jesus voice. Is heard through the voices of
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our congregation. And through the memory of Pastor
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a van, many of the men and women that died in the Lord that we
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love. So greatly that will be reunited
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with soon. Enough Church.
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Read your Bible and pray everyday and then do the Lord's
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work. God will help you through it.
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Amen. Father, thank you again for your
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word as our, our soul clings, to the dust, but your word revives
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us. And so let today be a Reviving
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moment for us in our hurt and our pain.
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And I know and recognize it many listening to me that the pain.
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They're feeling is not directly related to a vent.
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And yet, it's real pain. Nonetheless.
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Help us. God lead us to the rock.
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That is higher than us that we might find strength, safety
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security, peace, patience, kindness goodness.
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Be everything that we've ever wanted.
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Is there And we are willing to follow.
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We pray these things in Jesus name.
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Amen, we pray that you've been encouraged by this Bible.
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