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- 0:00Speaker 1: Oh my fucking explained Trump.
- 0:02Speaker 2: Denire, Hello, femin scores.
- 0:19Speaker 1: Yes, I was the one who devised the term Trump denial,
- 0:22Speaker 1: which I don't even know what it means. So guys
- 0:25Speaker 1: can start speculating it is the existence, like who knows,
- 0:31Speaker 1: does he really exist? Perhaps he is the greatest ai
- 0:34Speaker 1: fake of human history. I don't know, Like obviously that's
- 0:38Speaker 1: that's bullshit. But you guys can you guys can start
- 0:40Speaker 1: your conspiracy engines and we can can get a definition
- 0:43Speaker 1: for this term. But yeah, so since really there was
- 0:46Speaker 1: a kerfuffle, I would say for costs, but I don't
- 0:49Speaker 1: know if anybody knows how to pronounce that fracas. But so,
- 0:52Speaker 1: and actually it was Brian who brought this to my attention.
- 0:54Speaker 1: I think this this is what you brought me, brought
- 0:56Speaker 1: to my attention? Or did I just zero in on
- 0:58Speaker 1: this like an on.
- 0:59Speaker 3: Tip you you know what, I'll give you the backstory.
- 1:02Speaker 3: I was literally just you were asking about doing something
- 1:06Speaker 3: about this, like a pro life YouTube PSA thing, the sketch,
- 1:10Speaker 3: and I just happened to say, hey, I'm listening in
- 1:13Speaker 3: on an X space that involves Andrew Wilson and a
- 1:17Speaker 3: bunch of feminists and they're like debating him on X,
- 1:20Speaker 3: like in an X space, which is a live space
- 1:23Speaker 3: on X, and then you grabbed this random X tweet
- 1:27Speaker 3: and said is this it? And it's completely not it.
- 1:29Speaker 3: It was something else, but it we ended up going
- 1:31Speaker 3: down this rabbit hole. So this is not at all
- 1:34Speaker 3: what I was talking about. But the thing I was
- 1:37Speaker 3: talking about what would have been, you know, the X
- 1:39Speaker 3: spaces they can go for hours, so I, well, you
- 1:43Speaker 3: really want to make that the topic?
- 1:44Speaker 1: Whether it was apparently so can whatever podcast?
- 1:47Speaker 4: Yes?
- 1:48Speaker 5: So whatever podcast? A six hour stream? Yes, a six.
- 1:53Speaker 1: Hour stream that this is from that, this was cherry
- 1:55Speaker 1: pick from. So the drama that I saw when Brian
- 2:01Speaker 1: directed me towards this stream was not I guess it
- 2:04Speaker 1: was somewhat related to the stream because it seems like
- 2:07Speaker 1: there's I don't know everything right, I'm coming into this
- 2:11Speaker 1: a little blind. So I look at the timeline, I'm like, oh, okay,
- 2:15Speaker 1: So this is a situation where Andrew Wilson was taken
- 2:20Speaker 1: out of context by a feminist who then created a clip.
- 2:24Speaker 1: I don't know if the clip. Did the clip go viral?
- 2:26Speaker 5: This one? Yeah, like maybe we should not, it doesn't. Yeah,
- 2:31Speaker 5: I have it right here.
- 2:32Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, maybe we should let's back up for a second. Okay,
- 2:37Speaker 3: all right, So the X space was just something I
- 2:41Speaker 3: happened to come across and it was called is Andrew
- 2:45Speaker 3: Wilson a net positive or negative?
- 2:47Speaker 5: That was it, and I was like, I wonder what
- 2:50Speaker 5: this is.
- 2:50Speaker 3: I think I'll listen to it anonymously, and it turned
- 2:53Speaker 3: out to be a shit show. This clip is just
- 2:55Speaker 3: one of many that are floating around. And the reason
- 2:58Speaker 3: for that, in case you guys don't know, is that
- 3:00Speaker 3: Andrew Wilson has become something of a notorious figure in
- 3:04Speaker 3: feminist spaces. They hate him because he's right. They hate
- 3:07Speaker 3: him because he demolishes their arguments. They hate him because
- 3:10Speaker 3: he goes on the Whatever podcast as a regular He's
- 3:13Speaker 3: basically the second host after Brian Atlas and demolishes people
- 3:17Speaker 3: in debates.
- 3:18Speaker 5: This is just the reality, okay.
- 3:20Speaker 3: And so because of that, they despise him because he's
- 3:23Speaker 3: exposing them, and they will take whatever they can to
- 3:26Speaker 3: make him look bad. Like, for example, not long ago,
- 3:29Speaker 3: he was debating a feminist that I guess was a
- 3:31Speaker 3: regular has regularly appears on Jubilee, and he was you know,
- 3:36Speaker 3: I didn't watch the whole thing so because I don't
- 3:38Speaker 3: really watch a lot of Andrew Wilson stuff because I
- 3:40Speaker 3: know what the most of the arguments are, but my
- 3:42Speaker 3: wife Lindsey watches a lot of them. And in this
- 3:46Speaker 3: debate he ended up, for whatever reason, there was a
- 3:49Speaker 3: challenge to open a jar of olives, and he struggled
- 3:52Speaker 3: to open it because it, according to him, was greased up,
- 3:55Speaker 3: and that became the whole show. Now everybody's like, oh,
- 3:57Speaker 3: you couldn't even open a jar of olives. You are
- 3:59Speaker 3: a failed man. As an example of how weak the
- 4:02Speaker 3: arguments are because they don't have any anything that that
- 4:05Speaker 3: feminists can use, and their enablers they will use.
- 4:09Speaker 5: That's basically what it is.
- 4:10Speaker 3: It's complete weak sauce. So this person, their account is well,
- 4:14Speaker 3: the not the person made the video. The person made
- 4:16Speaker 3: the video is named potty mouth Pollyanna. And then this
- 4:20Speaker 3: was shared by somebody named Maga cult Slayer. Okay, and
- 4:24Speaker 3: it says this, yeah, and then this, and it says
- 4:27Speaker 3: this man should be locked up for even attempting to
- 4:30Speaker 3: make this argument.
- 4:31Speaker 5: It should be considered hate speech, of which, okay.
- 4:35Speaker 3: Just as an Assida gotta this gives me a little
- 4:37Speaker 3: bit of a chuckle you have the absolute nerve to
- 4:40Speaker 3: put an American flag in your bio, and you believe
- 4:43Speaker 3: in the concept of hate speech, you deserve to be
- 4:46Speaker 3: slapped in the face. But anyway it should be considered
- 4:48Speaker 3: hate speech. I agree with her. Drop your pants and
- 4:51Speaker 3: let's find out. And now we will listen to the
- 4:53Speaker 3: video that potty mouth Pollyanna shared and she is basically
- 4:58Speaker 3: telling us what Andrew Wilson actually means with this caption
- 5:03Speaker 3: that says, this is why we chose the bear Andrew
- 5:05Speaker 3: Wilson quote. Grape isn't always bad end quote. So let's
- 5:09Speaker 3: give this a listen, because you guys got to hear this.
- 5:11Speaker 4: Grape is bad for certain people, for certain people, it's
- 5:14Speaker 4: bad for every No, it's all hearing. Essay, Yeah, what
- 5:16Speaker 4: does it have to do with anything? Well, bro, if
- 5:18Speaker 4: that's the case, right, then it was it bad for them?
- 5:21Speaker 6: What the fuck did you just say?
- 5:22Speaker 7: Let finish, there's no carve out, there's no examples of
- 5:27Speaker 7: women where it's not Assault is always fucking bad. But
- 5:30Speaker 7: since you seem so keen on this little theory, how
- 5:32Speaker 7: about you bend over, drop trial and let some guys
- 5:34Speaker 7: test it out on you. See, Well, what don't you
- 5:36Speaker 7: fucking enjoy it. Imagine being the kind of despicable person
- 5:40Speaker 7: who's defending essay, who's suggesting that women could enjoy it.
- 5:44Speaker 7: Therefore it's not bad. Assault is always bad, and only
- 5:49Speaker 7: predators would make the argument you're fucking making.
- 5:52Speaker 1: Before we get into this drama, can we just pull
- 5:55Speaker 1: up those that information that I sent about Marry cost like,
- 6:00Speaker 1: because because she's she's making some she's laying down some
- 6:02Speaker 1: pretty strong talk here that.
- 6:07Speaker 5: Okay, where is the Merry cost thing? Because I don't
- 6:10Speaker 5: see it? Did you? Was it the you sent?
- 6:14Speaker 1: It's it's all in there. It's a little bit lower down.
- 6:18Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I see it. I see it. Let me
- 6:21Speaker 5: just let this load up. Yeah, okay, go ahead.
- 6:24Speaker 1: All right, so well let me see where it is.
- 6:27Speaker 5: Okay, So yeah, go ahead.
- 6:29Speaker 1: This is my sort of facetious response to this. I'm
- 6:32Speaker 1: not sure why the feminists are up in arms. He's
- 6:34Speaker 1: just quoting feminist Merry Costs, originator of the one and
- 6:37Speaker 1: four myth. Also, I would might I might add she
- 6:40Speaker 1: is a feminist in good standing. She still gets jobs
- 6:45Speaker 1: as a consultant on sexual assault, and she has not
- 6:49Speaker 1: been excommunicated from the sisterhood like Camail Paglia or Christina
- 6:55Speaker 1: hoff Summers. So this is this is this is a
- 6:57Speaker 1: feminists feminist, and she who also said, and she was
- 7:01Speaker 1: the originator of the one infemouth which feminists use consistently
- 7:04Speaker 1: and constantly, who also said that rape can't be considered
- 7:08Speaker 1: rape when a man is a victim of a woman.
- 7:11Speaker 1: It's just ambivalent consent. And it's because she says that,
- 7:16Speaker 1: you know, this is something, this is a pleasure that
- 7:18Speaker 1: women that men get from women, and so you know,
- 7:21Speaker 1: it can't be taken from men. And this is this
- 7:24Speaker 1: is why I find it so interesting that she didn't use,
- 7:27Speaker 1: like when she was talking about this, this feminist who
- 7:30Speaker 1: was putting Andrew Wilson on blast, she didn't use the
- 7:34Speaker 1: obvious reversal, which would be, well, why don't you let
- 7:38Speaker 1: a woman rape you, Andrew, you know, and see if
- 7:40Speaker 1: you like that, because she buys into the same framework
- 7:44Speaker 1: as Mary Cosse, who incidentally not only argues that it
- 7:48Speaker 1: isn't rape when men when women use force like weapons
- 7:52Speaker 1: to have sex with men, she argues that it shouldn't
- 7:56Speaker 1: even be like it's it should be its own thing.
- 7:59Speaker 1: She called it made penetrate because presumably maybe the researchers
- 8:03Speaker 1: at the Center of Disease Control push back against surprised
- 8:07Speaker 1: totally enjoyed and wanted sex. But anyway, I just find
- 8:11Speaker 1: it really richly entertained. Could could you just go back
- 8:14Speaker 1: to that previous tweet and let's listen to what she
- 8:16Speaker 1: says about people who say that others can enjoy rape again.
- 8:21Speaker 5: Go to his clip or her response right here.
- 8:25Speaker 1: Yeah, her response, let's listen to it again.
- 8:27Speaker 5: Okay, this thing to load up?
- 8:29Speaker 1: Yeah, we need loading music.
- 8:32Speaker 6: What the fuck did you just say?
- 8:34Speaker 7: It's always bad?
- 8:35Speaker 1: Period?
- 8:36Speaker 7: Full stop. There's no carve out, there's no examples of
- 8:40Speaker 7: women where it's not assault is always fucking bad. But
- 8:43Speaker 7: since you seem so keen on this little theory, how
- 8:45Speaker 7: about you bend over drop trial and let some guys
- 8:47Speaker 7: test it out on you see if at any point
- 8:49Speaker 7: you fucking enjoy it.
- 8:51Speaker 1: Again, she didn't use a woman, she used a man,
- 8:53Speaker 1: so she didn't do the reversal. And that's because she
- 8:56Speaker 1: believes that it isn't rape when women do it to men,
- 8:59Speaker 1: and probably believes it isn't rape when women do it
- 9:02Speaker 1: to men, because of course men enjoy it. Funny how
- 9:04Speaker 1: that works, and it's funny how we allow feminists to
- 9:08Speaker 1: use this argument when again, feminist feminist Marry Costs used
- 9:13Speaker 1: exactly that argument to completely discredit male victims of sexual
- 9:17Speaker 1: assault and also hide them in the statistics that and
- 9:21Speaker 1: eventually inform policy in terms of how we treat male
- 9:25Speaker 1: and female victims of sexual assault. And for those of
- 9:27Speaker 1: you who are like, oh, but she's right, you know
- 9:29Speaker 1: that's it's not. When we look at the outcomes for
- 9:33Speaker 1: victims of sexual assault, men also have and when you
- 9:37Speaker 1: don't ask them, because if you ask men, you know,
- 9:40Speaker 1: was this a terrible event, they'll probably say no. So
- 9:43Speaker 1: what you need to track is work lost, so days
- 9:46Speaker 1: of work lost, education law like days and education lost, unemployment,
- 9:52Speaker 1: drug use, suicidal ideation, homelessness. So these kind of adverse outcomes.
- 9:57Speaker 1: And when you track the adverse outcomes, yes, we find
- 10:00Speaker 1: out that men are indeed quite harmed by sexual assault
- 10:05Speaker 1: against them male, whether or not the perpetrators male or female.
- 10:08Speaker 1: I know this is a surprise to everyone, but strangely enough,
- 10:12Speaker 1: in our para bonding species, men also develop feelings when
- 10:17Speaker 1: they have sex. I know there's a lot of argument
- 10:20Speaker 1: against that, but to be honest, it doesn't seem like
- 10:24Speaker 1: it's completely holds out, so you can actually use the
- 10:30Speaker 1: forcing sex in order to harm men. And again, this
- 10:34Speaker 1: woman obviously buys into the rhetoric that if a grape
- 10:39Speaker 1: victim enjoys the grape rape, then it's not rape because
- 10:44Speaker 1: she didn't even use the reversal. Yeah, did you want
- 10:47Speaker 1: to say something, Brian?
- 10:48Speaker 5: Just you know.
- 10:49Speaker 3: The thing that's also interesting about this is that, Okay,
- 10:54Speaker 3: I think it's safe to assume this woman is a feminist.
- 10:56Speaker 3: What shocking is is that she can take this which
- 11:00Speaker 3: is out of context, and we're gonna show you what
- 11:02Speaker 3: was actually, like what the full context of this clip is,
- 11:06Speaker 3: and then show it and then then immediately go what
- 11:10Speaker 3: the fuck did you just say, acting extremely shocked and appalled,
- 11:14Speaker 3: as though that alone is going to influence everybody around
- 11:18Speaker 3: her to side with her, while also simultaneously claiming that
- 11:21Speaker 3: we live in a society where she would be should
- 11:24Speaker 3: she should have been dismissed in And what's even the
- 11:27Speaker 3: best part about this is that she actually should be
- 11:30Speaker 3: dismissed because she is lying right to our faces.
- 11:34Speaker 5: So like just her reaction her what the fuck.
- 11:37Speaker 3: Like this whole like, no, you didn't in a world
- 11:41Speaker 3: where we're we supposedly don't give a shit about what
- 11:44Speaker 3: women say. She presumes that we're supposed to give a
- 11:46Speaker 3: shit about what she's saying, even though she's lying, and
- 11:49Speaker 3: so we shouldn't actually give a shit about what she's saying.
- 11:53Speaker 3: So let me play it again and look look at her,
- 11:55Speaker 3: because this is the way these people work. Her appalled reaction,
- 12:00Speaker 3: which is a lie because she knows it's a lie
- 12:03Speaker 3: because she found this clip.
- 12:04Speaker 5: But she is acting like absolutely shocked.
- 12:07Speaker 3: That this even exists on the internet, which again is
- 12:11Speaker 3: counter to the narrative that this should be common and
- 12:14Speaker 3: men shouldn't find it at all insulting in the made
- 12:17Speaker 3: up context that she created.
- 12:18Speaker 5: Do you guys, you see what I'm saying.
- 12:20Speaker 3: She's made up a fiction, use this clip to stand
- 12:23Speaker 3: by that fiction, and then acted shocked at the fiction
- 12:28Speaker 3: and the shock that she's presenting. We, as the people
- 12:32Speaker 3: who oppress her, are supposed to give a shit about
- 12:34Speaker 3: but we don't because she's lying.
- 12:36Speaker 5: Let me play it again so you can see this.
- 12:38Speaker 1: What the fuck did you just say?
- 12:41Speaker 3: See how she see how she does that you're supposed
- 12:44Speaker 3: to be appalled because she's appalled.
- 12:46Speaker 5: That's what this is.
- 12:47Speaker 3: What women do, they can like get you to feel
- 12:50Speaker 3: the way they're feeling. This is why we've said this
- 12:52Speaker 3: in entertainment, right when you want to tell the audience
- 12:56Speaker 3: that they should be shocked or depressed or afraid or
- 12:59Speaker 3: some thing, some kind of emotional reaction, they cut to
- 13:02Speaker 3: a woman reacting. That's how you know, oh, this is
- 13:05Speaker 3: a bad thing because the woman is upset. So she's
- 13:08Speaker 3: doing this. It's the same, it's the same tactic. So anyway,
- 13:14Speaker 3: is what he said not appalling? No, you don't have
- 13:17Speaker 3: the context, dude, it's a lie, and we're gonna show
- 13:20Speaker 3: you it's a lie. So yeah, And that's the thing,
- 13:23Speaker 3: like if you like, a woman who acts appalled and
- 13:27Speaker 3: she's lying, can get a man thrown in jail or murdered, lynched,
- 13:32Speaker 3: And we're supposed to sympathize with her without being aware
- 13:35Speaker 3: of the fact that she is weaponizing her like our
- 13:38Speaker 3: desire to protect women against people, and that's what this
- 13:41Speaker 3: woman is doing. I mean, it's really plain like it's
- 13:44Speaker 3: not like it's it just it just is like we
- 13:46Speaker 3: have to understand that there women have this power and
- 13:50Speaker 3: sometimes they use it for evil, and that's what this
- 13:52Speaker 3: woman is doing. We'll get to the context in a second,
- 13:55Speaker 3: but go ahead out.
- 13:56Speaker 5: Yeah, we'll get.
- 13:56Speaker 1: To the context. Maybe not in a second, because I
- 13:58Speaker 1: want to go through some stuff that's some context here,
- 14:02Speaker 1: especially feminist context, because again feminists, feminist Marry cost has
- 14:07Speaker 1: essentially said that men can't be raped because they enjoy it.
- 14:09Speaker 1: It just can't be considered the same as rape. And
- 14:12Speaker 1: we can go through the actual evidence of this. Do
- 14:14Speaker 1: you have the ability to sign into signdcloud a SoundCloud,
- 14:18Speaker 1: because I'm trying, and it's want to listen to what
- 14:23Speaker 1: Mary Costs has to say about male victims of sexual assault.
- 14:27Speaker 5: I don't have a SoundCloud. I don't think.
- 14:29Speaker 1: I don't know if that matters, but yeah, I mean
- 14:31Speaker 1: I can try to log into it. It's just that
- 14:33Speaker 1: I found this clip and I think it's really critical.
- 14:36Speaker 1: I mean, I'm doing research as we go through. But
- 14:38Speaker 1: I'll give you the exact link to it and you
- 14:41Speaker 1: see if you are able to do anything with it. Sorry, guys,
- 14:45Speaker 1: but until we do, we could look at this, which
- 14:48Speaker 1: is my link in that thread. I'll send it to
- 14:50Speaker 1: you as well. This is Taman Taman's writings. He's a
- 14:54Speaker 1: he's a researcher into this kind of stuff, or at
- 14:57Speaker 1: least an interested layperson. And he's been at it for
- 15:01Speaker 1: as well known. I've known about his writings for ten
- 15:05Speaker 1: years more or more. He was at it when I
- 15:08Speaker 1: was back in like Feminist the Feminist Critics blog, like
- 15:11Speaker 1: fifteen years ago. But he's been sort of got it.
- 15:14Speaker 3: I got the SoundCloud thing to open, but it's don't
- 15:17Speaker 3: to play the whole thing because I don't know how
- 15:19Speaker 3: long it is mm hmm, like ten minutes long, Like
- 15:23Speaker 3: how much of it do you want me to play?
- 15:25Speaker 1: Well, let's just we can. Let's play it and we'll
- 15:27Speaker 1: skip forward if necessary. I don't think we're gonna hit
- 15:30Speaker 1: be hit with a copyright strike.
- 15:32Speaker 8: In a woman rape a man, It's a subject we
- 15:34Speaker 8: don't hear in the news very often we're anywhere at all.
- 15:38Speaker 8: Rape in any situation is hard to talk about. But
- 15:41Speaker 8: female on male rape faces its own brand of trials
- 15:44Speaker 8: and hardships epticism. For one, Today we look at the
- 15:48Speaker 8: problems of male survivors with female perpetrators. How do they
- 15:52Speaker 8: deal with the aftermath of a trauma that some don't
- 15:54Speaker 8: even recognize as possible?
- 15:56Speaker 5: Reporter Teresa Fung story jump ahead.
- 16:00Speaker 1: I think, yeah, not that far here.
- 16:03Speaker 6: Two thousand and seven, Charlie met a woman on a
- 16:05Speaker 6: dating site.
- 16:06Speaker 1: I actually think this context is good. I think if
- 16:08Speaker 1: we listened to the whole thing, it'll be fine. Brian,
- 16:11Speaker 1: it'll be fine. We'll get back to it. I think
- 16:13Speaker 1: it's next.
- 16:14Speaker 9: I think this contract.
- 16:15Speaker 6: It didn't take long for Charlie to realize Diane had
- 16:18Speaker 6: her handful of problems. She was going through a rough
- 16:21Speaker 6: divorce with her second husband, and her first husband had
- 16:25Speaker 6: died in a car accident. All this and more would
- 16:28Speaker 6: lead to an unforgettable New Year's night in a way
- 16:32Speaker 6: Charlie said he never saw coming.
- 16:35Speaker 10: It'd been a long day for me. So I said
- 16:37Speaker 10: I'm going to take a little nap and went to
- 16:38Speaker 10: the kitchen, got minesota and I drank it. Next Say
- 16:42Speaker 10: was lying on the coaching She felt like a light
- 16:44Speaker 10: and she's on top of me.
- 16:46Speaker 6: It's a familiar scenario, date night, a spike to drink,
- 16:49Speaker 6: and waking up from what could only be described as
- 16:53Speaker 6: a nightmare, except in this dream really isn't playing the
- 16:56Speaker 6: part of the boogeyman. He's the victim.
- 17:00Speaker 10: It was gone and I said, what are you doing?
- 17:01Speaker 10: What are you just just slide that I need this.
- 17:04Speaker 10: So she had her fun and then she put it
- 17:07Speaker 10: hair on my chest and she goes, now you can
- 17:08Speaker 10: take and.
- 17:09Speaker 5: I said, whoa.
- 17:09Speaker 10: Well I was able to push her up. I got
- 17:12Speaker 10: up and said, what are you doing? She's just licking
- 17:14Speaker 10: just what you want, not like this. Doesn't have to
- 17:17Speaker 10: be like this.
- 17:18Speaker 9: And I just stood up.
- 17:18Speaker 10: I dressed and I left.
- 17:20Speaker 5: And that was it.
- 17:21Speaker 6: After he left that apartment really drove home, he says
- 17:25Speaker 6: he felt embarrassed, elated, and confused. He says, before that night,
- 17:31Speaker 6: this was a reality he never imagined possible for himself.
- 17:36Speaker 9: My wildest dreams, would I even imagine it, not only
- 17:39Speaker 9: from her, they would even happen to me with aunt.
- 17:42Speaker 9: Never in my wildest dreams, never even never envisioned it,
- 17:47Speaker 9: never this happening.
- 17:47Speaker 6: The struggle which male rape survivors face is not greater
- 17:52Speaker 6: or lesser than that of female survivors, but it is different.
- 17:56Speaker 6: For one, men are asked if it's even possible for
- 18:00Speaker 6: them to be raped by women. Being Esme, the managing
- 18:04Speaker 6: editor of Males Last Plus for Men, he was once
- 18:08Speaker 6: a skeptic himself. Esme works on a regular basis with
- 18:12Speaker 6: other male survivors. He says, female on male rape. Survivors
- 18:17Speaker 6: face skepticism which often seems harmless but is far from it.
- 18:21Speaker 11: And we teach guys to laugh about those things, we
- 18:24Speaker 11: teach women to laugh about it. Oh come on, you
- 18:27Speaker 11: like this? Oh come on? You know boys are looking
- 18:30Speaker 11: for are always asking for it. So what this amounts
- 18:32Speaker 11: to the gross cheapening of male sexuality?
- 18:35Speaker 6: Es May says these ideas on male behavior are not
- 18:39Speaker 6: just in our conversations, It's on our TV and computer
- 18:43Speaker 6: screens too. Reactions like these are common, making male survivors
- 18:48Speaker 6: feel like they aren't legitimate survivors. Sharon Imperato is a
- 18:53Speaker 6: male trauma specialist at the Boston Area Rape Crisis Center.
- 18:57Speaker 6: She says the way society views gender it hurts male survivors.
- 19:01Speaker 12: I think the idea that if a woman approaches a
- 19:03Speaker 12: man and wants sex, that he's supposed to want it,
- 19:05Speaker 12: and if he doesn't, then there's something wrong with him.
- 19:08Speaker 12: Women will sometimes use that and say to them, you're
- 19:10Speaker 12: less of a man. If you were a man, you
- 19:11Speaker 12: would have sex.
- 19:12Speaker 6: Imperado, who works with men and women, says there's a
- 19:16Speaker 6: key difference between how male and female survivors react. The
- 19:20Speaker 6: men who come to see her at the Rape Crisis Center,
- 19:24Speaker 6: have a hard time calling what happened to them rape,
- 19:27Speaker 6: even if they were molested as children.
- 19:30Speaker 12: They will say things like, well, when I was younger,
- 19:33Speaker 12: I had sex with this woman. So you have to
- 19:35Speaker 12: ask questions like, well, how old were you? I was
- 19:37Speaker 12: eight and she was sixteen. We would already know that
- 19:39Speaker 12: that's statutory. Men don't necessarily see it that way, because again,
- 19:42Speaker 12: they're taught and supposed to always want sex no matter how
- 19:44Speaker 12: old I am. They're going to think that it's quote
- 19:45Speaker 12: unquote having sex when you and I recognize it's actually rape.
- 19:48Speaker 6: Can a woman rape a man? For Charlie Dean Esmey
- 19:52Speaker 6: and even Sharon Imperado, the answer isn't overwhelming. Yes, not
- 19:57Speaker 6: only is it possible, but these people every day. But
- 20:01Speaker 6: it's American heads on TV or people behind keyboards on
- 20:05Speaker 6: the internet. There's one powerful voice that says no, the law,
- 20:11Speaker 6: the definition of rape by the FBI reads rape him.
- 20:15Speaker 6: It could be considered sexual assault, but not rape.
- 20:19Speaker 13: My heart, He's stopping dishes just so you know. I'm
- 20:22Speaker 13: not a man hater overall. I can get dislike it
- 20:25Speaker 13: when dishes.
- 20:26Speaker 6: When you're on the radio, doctor Mary Koss is a
- 20:29Speaker 6: highly influential researcher in the field of sexual assault. In
- 20:32Speaker 6: nineteen eighty seven, she published the first national rape study,
- 20:37Speaker 6: which said one in four women are raped in college today.
- 20:41Speaker 6: Bitter cost is held single handedly responsible by her critics
- 20:45Speaker 6: for excluding male survivors with female perps under the FBI's
- 20:50Speaker 6: definition of rape. Man hater is exactly what they call her.
- 20:54Speaker 11: I know you didn't come here to do a debate
- 20:56Speaker 11: about doctor Costs, but people who speak like her are
- 21:01Speaker 11: the problem. She believes hateful things about men may is one.
- 21:04Speaker 6: Of Costs many critics who has a big problem with
- 21:08Speaker 6: the current legal definition of rape. Costs says one of
- 21:11Speaker 6: the main reasons the definition does not include men being
- 21:15Speaker 6: forced to penetrate women is because of emotional trauma or
- 21:19Speaker 6: lack thereof.
- 21:20Speaker 13: How do they react to rape? If you look at
- 21:23Speaker 13: this group of men who identify themselves as rape victims
- 21:28Speaker 13: raped by women, you'll find that their shame is not
- 21:31Speaker 13: similar to women, their level of a similar to women,
- 21:35Speaker 13: and their penetration experience is not similar to what women
- 21:39Speaker 13: are reporting.
- 21:40Speaker 6: But for men like Charlie, this isn't true. It's been
- 21:43Speaker 6: eight years since he got off that couch and out
- 21:46Speaker 6: of that apartment. But he says he never forgets what
- 21:50Speaker 6: was it like to have like the first night of
- 21:53Speaker 6: the year.
- 21:53Speaker 1: Okay, I think that we pretty much thought so. Literally literally,
- 21:59Speaker 1: we have a feminist saying it's not rape if you
- 22:02Speaker 1: enjoyed it and you're a man, so it just can't
- 22:05Speaker 1: be considered the same thing. And this feminist, she's not
- 22:08Speaker 1: just a random on the internet. She's not a person
- 22:11Speaker 1: who goes on the whatever podcast. She influenced the government
- 22:15Speaker 1: to change how it actually tabulated statistics on sexual assault. Now,
- 22:20Speaker 1: I'm tired of feminists looking at this and using the
- 22:25Speaker 1: outrage around grape rape in order to make these arguments,
- 22:30Speaker 1: Like she's saying, how dare you, like you pointed out, Brian,
- 22:34Speaker 1: how dare you? How dare they they? Until they clean house?
- 22:39Speaker 1: I don't want to hear this ever again until they
- 22:41Speaker 1: clean house. And this is a big problem. Mary Coss
- 22:45Speaker 1: has huge influence over the statistics and the policy and
- 22:48Speaker 1: potentially the laws going forward, and she has literally said
- 22:53Speaker 1: men can't be raped because they enjoy it. That's her logic.
- 22:58Speaker 1: And we are supposed to care about a hypothetical, A
- 23:01Speaker 1: hypothetical made by Andrew Wilson off the fly on a podcast,
- 23:07Speaker 1: and this is supposed to Oh, it's this great offense. Well,
- 23:10Speaker 1: what the cost then should we have for this woman?
- 23:12Speaker 1: And again, this is a misinterpretation of what Andrew Wilson said.
- 23:16Speaker 1: But they're using a misinterpretation of what he said, and
- 23:19Speaker 1: they are being utter hypocrites about it, because all things
- 23:24Speaker 1: held equal, I think it's a hell of a lot
- 23:26Speaker 1: more damaging what Merry Costs did than any potential negative
- 23:31Speaker 1: consequences of this hypothetical. Do you get what I'm saying?
- 23:35Speaker 3: Like out, Well, they didn't just they didn't. Just they
- 23:38Speaker 3: didn't misinterpret They lied. This is not like an accident.
- 23:42Speaker 3: They're not They're not stupid. I don't want to insult them.
- 23:46Speaker 5: What they're doing is evil. That that's all it is.
- 23:48Speaker 5: They lied.
- 23:49Speaker 3: It is a lie about what somebody said in order
- 23:52Speaker 3: to drive home a narrative which essentially is, at the
- 23:56Speaker 3: end of the day, it's ultimately about silencing people who
- 23:59Speaker 3: are making good progress.
- 24:02Speaker 5: And you know, like that's it, and that's it.
- 24:05Speaker 3: And she's acting appalled because she wants her simps and
- 24:09Speaker 3: white Knights to come out because obviously, like feminists, they
- 24:13Speaker 3: don't do anything themselves. They appeal to men, and then
- 24:15Speaker 3: men do stuff. They appeal to the patriarchy, and the
- 24:18Speaker 3: patriarchy acts on their behalf. So that's what she's doing.
- 24:21Speaker 3: When she says, how dare you? Oh my god, you
- 24:23Speaker 3: have no idea, it's almost like she's calling for her
- 24:26Speaker 3: simps to anally rape Andrew Wilson to make a point like,
- 24:29Speaker 3: that's kind of what's in her video. I know it
- 24:31Speaker 3: sounds really disgusting, but that's what I think she's doing.
- 24:34Speaker 1: Yes, and again, she is lying about this. But even
- 24:38Speaker 1: in the context, what possible platform could feminists have to
- 24:44Speaker 1: make these to gather outrage over rape? When they do this,
- 24:50Speaker 1: it's sort of like watching someone engage in like mass
- 24:54Speaker 1: murder and then you have a steak and they're like,
- 24:58Speaker 1: look at you killing things, Like, really, you've just shot
- 25:02Speaker 1: like a couple hundred people. Ooh, I wonder in minecraft,
- 25:06Speaker 1: you know, you've just unalived a whole bunch, an entire
- 25:10Speaker 1: village worth of people, and you're you are after me
- 25:13Speaker 1: because I had a steak dinner and that's Meeta's murder.
- 25:17Speaker 1: It's like this level of hypocrisy that they bring to bear,
- 25:20Speaker 1: nobody should listen to them. And they untill they clean
- 25:23Speaker 1: up merry costs when it comes to great, because literally
- 25:27Speaker 1: she's decided an entire gender can't be great. What is
- 25:30Speaker 1: one of the things that she said. I know, I'm
- 25:32Speaker 1: using this as a bit of a platform for this.
- 25:34Speaker 1: Although men may sometimes sexually penetrate a women when ambivalent
- 25:39Speaker 1: about their own desires, ambivalent to these these acts fail
- 25:43Speaker 1: to meet legal definitions of grape that are based on penetration,
- 25:47Speaker 1: and the legal definition has now changed, But she continues
- 25:51Speaker 1: in policy, in the collection of stats, she continues to
- 25:54Speaker 1: promote hiding male victims. And we have an ideology feminism
- 26:00Speaker 1: that is trying to prove that men use grape and
- 26:03Speaker 1: domestic violence. You know, I fucking hate using grape, rape
- 26:06Speaker 1: and domestic violence. That men use rape and domestics of
- 26:09Speaker 1: violence to uphold patriarchy.
- 26:11Speaker 5: Yea, the worst?
- 26:13Speaker 1: Who cares YouTube? Do your worst? Men use grape, rape,
- 26:16Speaker 1: and domestic violence to uphold patriarchy. That is the feminist ideology. Okay,
- 26:22Speaker 1: that's what they're trying to prove when they get in
- 26:25Speaker 1: the statistics and start messing around with crap. And yet
- 26:28Speaker 1: now we've started to find out with the big population
- 26:32Speaker 1: studies and smaller studies focusing on just trying to figure
- 26:35Speaker 1: out how to get men to reveal what's going on.
- 26:38Speaker 1: We're starting to find out that the picture is a
- 26:40Speaker 1: lot different and actually women may be equally likely to
- 26:47Speaker 1: rape as men equally likely to make rape men. And
- 26:49Speaker 1: don't get me started on women rape and women. They're
- 26:52Speaker 1: doing a lot of that. This is, this is, this,
- 26:55Speaker 1: this is But feminists, because they want to prove that
- 26:58Speaker 1: men use rape to uphold patriarchy, they're hiding this behind
- 27:04Speaker 1: definition games. And Myrikoss is one of the biggest offenders
- 27:09Speaker 1: of this. So when she gets out there and she
- 27:11Speaker 1: starts pontificating, this woman magas Layer starts pontificating about a
- 27:17Speaker 1: man using a hypothetical that references rape, and she says, oh,
- 27:22Speaker 1: how dare Like literally your ideology is trying to use
- 27:27Speaker 1: trying to manipulate rape statistics to prove that men use
- 27:31Speaker 1: rape to uphold patriarchy, which is itself as a horrifying
- 27:36Speaker 1: Like I'm like reading this stuff. I'm reading the stuff
- 27:39Speaker 1: that feminists are trying to push using the statistics, and
- 27:42Speaker 1: it's like turning my stomach. Who wants to who wants who?
- 27:47Speaker 1: And I don't get it like all of the academics
- 27:49Speaker 1: surrounding this cancer just were like, don't don't you think
- 27:52Speaker 1: you need to substantiate your allegations here, feminists, you really
- 27:57Speaker 1: are going to assert that men use rape to uphold paietriarchy. Huh?
- 28:01Speaker 1: And then you're gonna go into the statistics and hide
- 28:03Speaker 1: the rate which women rape men behind euphemisms like may
- 28:08Speaker 1: to penetrate, surprise sex. Oh, he didn't know he wanted it,
- 28:12Speaker 1: but he really did, ambivalent consent.
- 28:15Speaker 10: All of this crap.
- 28:16Speaker 1: You're gonna make up all this crap to hide actual
- 28:18Speaker 1: rape victims. Turn around and start yammering at at at
- 28:23Speaker 1: a guy who just makes a hypothetical like you you
- 28:27Speaker 1: have you have lost the plot, Like you fix that,
- 28:30Speaker 1: even you fix that, Do penance and tend back all
- 28:33Speaker 1: of the money that you falsely got as supposed advocates
- 28:37Speaker 1: for sexual assault victims. Then we'll talk until that moment.
- 28:42Speaker 1: Get back into your moral hole, your moral pit that
- 28:45Speaker 1: you dug for yourself, and shut the fuck up. Okay,
- 28:48Speaker 1: there you go, there's my rant.
- 28:51Speaker 3: So should we look at the context now of look
- 28:55Speaker 3: at the context?
- 28:56Speaker 5: Okay, so the video again.
- 29:00Speaker 3: Is Andrew Wilson saying, well, Let's let's listen again, because
- 29:03Speaker 3: you rant.
- 29:03Speaker 5: It a lot, and I think people are going to forget.
- 29:05Speaker 5: So let's look at this again.
- 29:06Speaker 4: Grape is bad for certain people, for certain people. Every No,
- 29:10Speaker 4: it's only bad for certain people here, like there's women
- 29:12Speaker 4: you agree, jeering.
- 29:14Speaker 8: Essay that has nothing to do with essay, Brosten.
- 29:18Speaker 5: Let's just.
- 29:20Speaker 1: When you listen to this in that context, he could
- 29:23Speaker 1: one hundred percent be calling out this feminist for making
- 29:26Speaker 1: an argument that it's different for men because he has
- 29:29Speaker 1: erect A man has an erection. I know he isn't,
- 29:31Speaker 1: but it could be that seemed that way, but anyway, continue.
- 29:34Speaker 3: Yeah, but you're changing the conversation completely too though. I mean, yes,
- 29:39Speaker 3: it could be that, but that's not what they're conversing.
- 29:41Speaker 3: That's also not the context of this clip. It's not
- 29:44Speaker 3: about whether a man Okay, okay, I'm just saying because
- 29:47Speaker 3: it's adding confusion, people.
- 29:49Speaker 5: Like, what is this about?
- 29:51Speaker 12: All right?
- 29:51Speaker 1: Keep going?
- 29:52Speaker 5: All right, let me let me go back again.
- 29:53Speaker 4: No, it's only bad for certain people. Heres like there's
- 29:55Speaker 4: women you agree, you jeering essay that has nothing to
- 29:58Speaker 4: do with their not essays.
- 29:59Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait, but ambivalent concent Okay.
- 30:03Speaker 4: Bro, if that's the case, right, it wasn't that for them?
- 30:06Speaker 1: What the fuck did you just say?
- 30:07Speaker 5: All right, So that's the clip and that's all she plays.
- 30:10Speaker 3: And then of course she asks me talked in a
- 30:12Speaker 3: Paul in the VI Klemp and just says, oh my.
- 30:14Speaker 5: God, but what if this happened to you?
- 30:16Speaker 3: Essays say, I hate to say that sexual assault and
- 30:19Speaker 3: rape are very serious all the time, no matter what.
- 30:21Speaker 3: Obviously she doesn't really mean when it happens to men,
- 30:24Speaker 3: because she cheers on the possibility that it happens to Yeah,
- 30:26Speaker 3: Andrew Wilson to make.
- 30:27Speaker 5: A point, can't believe.
- 30:28Speaker 1: Okay, one more thing that just this is this is
- 30:31Speaker 1: my you know that this is my This is my thing.
- 30:34Speaker 1: This is what got me into this is I just
- 30:36Speaker 1: wanted male victims of sexual assault to be recognized proportionate
- 30:41Speaker 1: to you know, how often it happens. And then I
- 30:43Speaker 1: found out, oh crap, it happens half as often. And
- 30:46Speaker 1: then I got into it a feminists, and then feminists were like, no,
- 30:49Speaker 1: you can't say this, and they made debunking feminism a
- 30:53Speaker 1: condition of recognizing male victims of sexual assault. So it's
- 30:56Speaker 1: my thing. The thing is that she is advocating sexual assault,
- 31:01Speaker 1: and nobody sees that. Nobody says, wait a second, you're
- 31:04Speaker 1: calling him out for a hypothetical while advocating that someone
- 31:09Speaker 1: be sexually assaulted, like are you No.
- 31:12Speaker 3: She just thinks it's a clever zinger, like it scores
- 31:15Speaker 3: her points. And if you look in the comments, like
- 31:17Speaker 3: a lot of people agree with it. I mean I
- 31:20Speaker 3: think she got well, no, she got two and a
- 31:21Speaker 3: half thousand likes and two hundred comments.
- 31:25Speaker 5: I don't know if that's a ratio. I don't know
- 31:27Speaker 5: how that works.
- 31:27Speaker 3: But there are some people saying I am missing something.
- 31:31Speaker 3: So when my wife wakes me up writing my dick,
- 31:33Speaker 3: that's bad. So obviously you have some of these, like
- 31:35Speaker 3: you know, these male feminist types.
- 31:37Speaker 5: Oh shure, what's wrong? What are you gay? What are
- 31:39Speaker 5: you gay? What are you low tee? Or she's right, dude,
- 31:43Speaker 5: it's a fucking Weirdoh.
- 31:44Speaker 3: So, like they're all going along with it because like again,
- 31:46Speaker 3: it just exposes how little sympathy or you know, compassion
- 31:50Speaker 3: we have for men when they're victims, especially if we
- 31:53Speaker 3: just decided we don't like them, And how do we
- 31:55Speaker 3: decide it we don't like them?
- 31:56Speaker 5: If a woman acts appalled by them. That's it. She
- 31:59Speaker 5: acts appauled.
- 32:00Speaker 3: Well, that guy is not a man anymore. He's not
- 32:02Speaker 3: the enemy, right because the upset women, and you can't
- 32:05Speaker 3: do that, you know.
- 32:07Speaker 5: So anyway, it's.
- 32:08Speaker 1: Like she is so covered in shit and mud and
- 32:11Speaker 1: she's she's saying, oh, but you're filthy. Yeah, no, lady,
- 32:15Speaker 1: you're wallowing at this point. You have absolutely no moral
- 32:18Speaker 1: basis to condemn Andrew Wilson, no moral basis whatsoever, certainly
- 32:24Speaker 1: not from a feminist standpoint. I just I think it's
- 32:27Speaker 1: sometimes really difficult to recognize the horror of this. This
- 32:31Speaker 1: is a government funded ideology that is erasing male victims
- 32:37Speaker 1: from the statistics. This is horrifying. Okay, but let's let's
- 32:42Speaker 1: keep going.
- 32:42Speaker 3: You're right, all right, So here's the context where they're
- 32:46Speaker 3: discussing hypotheticals.
- 32:47Speaker 4: You could never make a case why that would be bad.
- 32:49Speaker 8: I think so how because I don't think that people
- 32:52Speaker 8: should be choosing who other people's partners are.
- 32:55Speaker 4: If that led to the best outcomes, you would have
- 32:56Speaker 4: no argument for that.
- 32:57Speaker 8: So wait, then, can I just make the same argument
- 33:00Speaker 8: towards you about you were talking about the whole incest
- 33:02Speaker 8: and brother case, what about it. Then you're saying that
- 33:05Speaker 8: there is a better reason.
- 33:06Speaker 4: Why If it were the case, then and I and
- 33:09Speaker 4: you said I had the best outcomes, but you were
- 33:11Speaker 4: still against it based on intuition. That's where you would
- 33:13Speaker 4: have the inconsistence. I wasn't against it, we said intuitively. Additionally,
- 33:17Speaker 4: you're intuitively against.
- 33:19Speaker 5: It because I literally told you, hold on.
- 33:22Speaker 8: I think for these cases, no, I think for these cases,
- 33:24Speaker 8: our intuitions are responding to the very factors that we
- 33:27Speaker 8: tried to stipulate out.
- 33:29Speaker 4: Oh that's not always the case.
- 33:30Speaker 8: I think for this case it absolutely Let me talk
- 33:34Speaker 8: to you about Andrew. Then let then let me go
- 33:37Speaker 8: back on my previous statement and say that if that
- 33:40Speaker 8: situation that you provided, then yeah, then yes.
- 33:43Speaker 4: Of course, because now you have to be consistent because
- 33:45Speaker 4: I point out yet another inconsistency. So of course I don't.
- 33:47Speaker 8: Remember saying that. I remember what I was doing.
- 33:51Speaker 5: Who's being autistic?
- 33:52Speaker 1: Okay, maybe I am, Well, I mean you think.
- 33:55Speaker 5: You are, Andrew.
- 33:56Speaker 3: Look, Andrew is trying to expose this guy's logical in
- 34:00Speaker 3: insistency because he's trying to pick and choose when something
- 34:03Speaker 3: is okay and when it's not. Because he's going off
- 34:06Speaker 3: of like, oh, it's just like he's essentially saying that,
- 34:09Speaker 3: like you know, whether or not something is right or
- 34:11Speaker 3: wrong is purely based on preferences. And Andrew was challenging
- 34:15Speaker 3: that by saying, well, what about incest.
- 34:17Speaker 5: Between two twin brothers? And then he's like, oh, well, well, you.
- 34:20Speaker 3: Know, we societally understand that that's that's not what if
- 34:24Speaker 3: they want it. Well, he's not advocating anything. He's saying,
- 34:27Speaker 3: this is your your logical thread. I'm taking it to
- 34:31Speaker 3: a place where you know, you would be challenged to
- 34:34Speaker 3: figure out are you going to stay on principle or
- 34:37Speaker 3: are you going to go off the rails.
- 34:39Speaker 5: And that's what he's doing. He's just holding a.
- 34:41Speaker 3: Mirror up to this guy's standards, and so that's how
- 34:43Speaker 3: they get to this subject.
- 34:45Speaker 8: So let's play some more of your hypothetical and seeing that.
- 34:48Speaker 3: I mean, look, when you're dealing with these people that
- 34:51Speaker 3: like essentially the guy on the right, the male feminists, Okay,
- 34:54Speaker 3: they all they have, and this is something that I've
- 34:56Speaker 3: been talking about for a long time.
- 34:57Speaker 5: All they have is rhetoric. It's all ratort, it's all juggling.
- 35:01Speaker 3: And magic tricks and word games and bullshit. And if
- 35:05Speaker 3: you basically just boil it down and say, no, what's
- 35:07Speaker 3: going on here? Let me make you look at this.
- 35:09Speaker 3: Now you have to answer for this, then you expose them.
- 35:12Speaker 3: And that's what he's doing. That's what that's what we
- 35:14Speaker 3: did with, you know, like so many other fucking feminist
- 35:17Speaker 3: comedies that come on our show, and they try to
- 35:19Speaker 3: play these fucking shell games like oh.
- 35:21Speaker 5: Well, what does this word mean and what is that?
- 35:23Speaker 3: It's like, no, you're full of shit, and I'm gonna
- 35:25Speaker 3: show you, and that's what's happening. And yeah, maybe it's autistic,
- 35:28Speaker 3: but maybe it has to be. Maybe that's the only
- 35:31Speaker 3: way you're gonna be able to demolish these fucking people.
- 35:34Speaker 5: But anyway, I don't.
- 35:35Speaker 8: Think that would be born I don't think that would
- 35:37Speaker 8: be born out in reality. I don't think that incest No,
- 35:40Speaker 8: that it would be good.
- 35:41Speaker 4: How well, wait, what do you mean?
- 35:42Speaker 8: You're saying that if the satisfaction rates were in those
- 35:45Speaker 8: incestuous relationships were through the roof, then would you want
- 35:49Speaker 8: would you think that would be a fine thing? I
- 35:51Speaker 8: was contesting that I don't think that would ever be
- 35:54Speaker 8: born out in reality. So in the.
- 35:56Speaker 1: Hypothetic Okay, So what he's doing is he's using these
- 36:01Speaker 1: extreme analogies to things that are very undesirable in order
- 36:07Speaker 1: to ask him, is you know, if if this creates
- 36:10Speaker 1: a like if they enjoy themselves, how do you argue
- 36:14Speaker 1: against it? If your if your argument is that enjoying
- 36:18Speaker 1: yourself is the only metric? Is that what I'm getting
- 36:21Speaker 1: is that, yeah, something like that.
- 36:22Speaker 3: And then and the feminist guy is saying, yeah, but
- 36:24Speaker 3: I mean, like nobody does it. Like he's basically saying
- 36:27Speaker 3: it's an extreme case therefore, and it's like no, but
- 36:29Speaker 3: but your logic, it's like that you can't just say
- 36:33Speaker 3: this doesn't happen enough. What you have to say is
- 36:36Speaker 3: this is either good or bad?
- 36:38Speaker 5: And why right?
- 36:40Speaker 3: And so like a lot of these people, they don't
- 36:41Speaker 3: want to, you know, make a qualitative statement about it.
- 36:47Speaker 8: Hypothetical why reality? Do you think that incestuous couples there
- 36:54Speaker 8: would be children who would be happy with that?
- 36:58Speaker 4: Well, by I think by your metric, yes, there would
- 37:00Speaker 4: be no.
- 37:01Speaker 8: Well, I mean we can look at that, we can
- 37:02Speaker 8: look at the already yeah presented data, okay, of of
- 37:06Speaker 8: heterosexual clumsy and I think.
- 37:07Speaker 4: If you had, by the way, an incestuous lobby. They say, way,
- 37:10Speaker 4: you have a gay lobby who paid for all the
- 37:12Speaker 4: same fucking studies that showed the outcomes that I can
- 37:15Speaker 4: have a massive publishing bias as well for basically any
- 37:18Speaker 4: data that I wanted.
- 37:20Speaker 8: Making an unfalsifiable claim that we're.
- 37:23Speaker 3: No, He's right. This is the same thing with the feminists.
- 37:26Speaker 3: They quote themselves and then they say it's writ and
- 37:29Speaker 3: and that's how they make their arguments. And now you
- 37:32Speaker 3: have to be like, well, well, yeah, because your people
- 37:35Speaker 3: made the studies, Your people come up with the data,
- 37:37Speaker 3: and it just so happens to support what you believe. Oh, Congress,
- 37:41Speaker 3: what a what a shocker. The feminist academics, they all
- 37:45Speaker 3: came up. It's a merry cost study.
- 37:46Speaker 5: Where it does?
- 37:47Speaker 3: Why is it mainstream? Why is it in the military,
- 37:50Speaker 3: Why is it being used in our in our university campuses.
- 37:53Speaker 3: Well because it came out of academia. Well what's academia? Well,
- 37:57Speaker 3: it's all run by feminists and they all agree. How
- 37:59Speaker 3: about that peer reviewed, the consensus, et cetera. This is
- 38:03Speaker 3: exactly what he's saying. You could basically form a lobby
- 38:06Speaker 3: around anything and justify it, right, yep, So like this
- 38:10Speaker 3: is like, yeah, go ahead.
- 38:12Speaker 1: Okay, I'm interrupting your aunt a bit, but I want
- 38:15Speaker 1: to go.
- 38:15Speaker 3: And I basically made my point is essentially that this
- 38:18Speaker 3: guy hasn't a leg to stand on because he's going. Well,
- 38:20Speaker 3: if you look at studies, yeah, studies conducted by people
- 38:23Speaker 3: who support this, these conclusions of narrative.
- 38:26Speaker 1: Yeah, these conclusions, Like you look at merry costs. She
- 38:29Speaker 1: literally says, we we shouldn't consider it grape rape because
- 38:33Speaker 1: the law doesn't consider it rape. Well, how about she
- 38:35Speaker 1: changed the law?
- 38:37Speaker 3: Right, they appeal to the thing that they've created, Like
- 38:40Speaker 3: I changed the laws. Oh, we have to. It looks
- 38:43Speaker 3: like we have to follow the law. Sorry, guys, it's
- 38:45Speaker 3: out of my hands. I'm not a lawyer. I just
- 38:47Speaker 3: changed it through academia over period of time.
- 38:51Speaker 1: I just changed it through policy. But I mean, and
- 38:54Speaker 1: and here's the other thing, Like feminists certainly could change
- 38:57Speaker 1: the law when it came to recognizing, for example, other
- 39:02Speaker 1: forms of coercion as rape for when it happened, when
- 39:06Speaker 1: it happens to women, you know, like having a drink
- 39:08Speaker 1: at dinner that's rape, you know that kind of thing.
- 39:11Speaker 1: The mystery method, Oh, you weren't there for that when
- 39:14Speaker 1: we me and I think, Hannah and Karen went through
- 39:16Speaker 1: the Mystery Method. Mystery Method. Mystery was a pickup artist.
- 39:21Speaker 1: He invented things like or suggested things like peacocking. And
- 39:26Speaker 1: one of the methods that he used in when men are,
- 39:29Speaker 1: you know, in a sexual relationship with women is to
- 39:33Speaker 1: if she gives you a no or if it's what's
- 39:35Speaker 1: called last minute resistance. He advocated for the man to
- 39:39Speaker 1: de escalate completely. So if she gives you last minute resistance,
- 39:44Speaker 1: get off, off, get off the couch, Go make a sandwich,
- 39:47Speaker 1: get off the couch, strama guitar, get off the couch,
- 39:50Speaker 1: put on some new music, do anything, but continue with
- 39:54Speaker 1: what you're doing that like the sexual activity that you're
- 39:56Speaker 1: engaging in. And we read a feminist paper that this
- 40:00Speaker 1: is problematic, and it's problematic because he could be using
- 40:05Speaker 1: women's biology against them because when he does this, he's
- 40:10Speaker 1: encouraging women to desire him, and by desiring him, he's
- 40:15Speaker 1: manipulating them into sex.
- 40:17Speaker 5: I shit you not, I believe it.
- 40:21Speaker 1: There was a feminist paper arguing that men making themselves
- 40:25Speaker 1: desirable to women, and my camera just screwed the hell up.
- 40:30Speaker 3: Oh you got a requestion let me let me play
- 40:33Speaker 3: some more of the video while you're fixing that.
- 40:35Speaker 1: Oh, that's it.
- 40:36Speaker 5: I'll give you account.
- 40:37Speaker 4: Of here's here's the claim. The claim is most LGBTQ
- 40:42Speaker 4: and trance studies are funded by gay groups and gay
- 40:44Speaker 4: adjacent groups, and that's who they're funded by. That is
- 40:47Speaker 4: the truth.
- 40:47Speaker 8: Sure, And I look, I don't I have not looked
- 40:49Speaker 8: into who funds every single but I mean, that's that's
- 40:52Speaker 8: so much publishing past fine conditional.
- 40:54Speaker 4: In fact, one of the big conditional points for the
- 40:56Speaker 4: left is that that's okay though, especially in the trans community,
- 40:59Speaker 4: it's okay that mostly it's trans advocate organizations who are
- 41:03Speaker 4: paying for these studies. Well, nobody, I just want to get.
- 41:07Speaker 1: Rid of that. That awful. Still, okay, there we go,
- 41:12Speaker 1: all right, all right.
- 41:12Speaker 4: They didn't And it's like it totally ignores the bias
- 41:16Speaker 4: which would go into people who wanted those results.
- 41:19Speaker 8: Andrew what I think instead you should do instead of
- 41:21Speaker 8: merely saying that these studies are bs because of the
- 41:24Speaker 8: organization that are funding them, just point out what's wrong
- 41:27Speaker 8: with the research.
- 41:28Speaker 4: Yet, well, the other thing I do often so then
- 41:30Speaker 4: the first part, like trans research, when we're talking about
- 41:32Speaker 4: brain studies. I can point all of that out. Okay,
- 41:34Speaker 4: when we're talking about incest studies though, this isn't even
- 41:37Speaker 4: a thing which is willing to be studied, right, mostly
- 41:41Speaker 4: because men like me are like, fuck, no, no way,
- 41:43Speaker 4: it's unbelievably fucking disgusting, right, we intuitively are against it.
- 41:47Speaker 4: But for you the outcomes guy, Right, you shouldn't really
- 41:50Speaker 4: have any issues whatsoever. If there actually is an outcome
- 41:53Speaker 4: which is preferable.
- 41:54Speaker 8: Well, Andrew, you would be, for one, you have to
- 41:56Speaker 8: be putting people directly in harm's way and saying you
- 41:59Speaker 8: have to have like an incestuous relationship.
- 42:01Speaker 4: There just already existing, if it already.
- 42:03Speaker 8: Exists, yeah, you should study I mean, if they already exist.
- 42:05Speaker 4: Yes, exactly. So if the evidence shows that it is
- 42:09Speaker 4: the case that incestuous relationships by two willing partners, and
- 42:13Speaker 4: by the way, incests, there are incest groups which do
- 42:17Speaker 4: advocate for these fucking things, not kidding, right, and make
- 42:20Speaker 4: the affirmative claim that they're happy. It's an unfalsifiable I
- 42:24Speaker 4: think they're wrong. You think they're wrong that they're happy.
- 42:27Speaker 8: I think they're wrong that generally in these types of
- 42:30Speaker 8: relationships that it does lead to the best outcome for
- 42:33Speaker 8: the family.
- 42:33Speaker 3: So this is important. That's why I'm playing all this preamble.
- 42:36Speaker 3: So you see how we got here. So this is
- 42:38Speaker 3: a discussion about the outcomes. Guy who says, well, look,
- 42:41Speaker 3: if people are happy, then let him do whatever and that,
- 42:44Speaker 3: and so he is going to use sexual assaults to
- 42:48Speaker 3: make the case. Well, if there are enough people who
- 42:50Speaker 3: enjoy it, then there could be a lobby group for it, right,
- 42:52Speaker 3: And that's the thing that this feminist is so upset about,
- 42:56Speaker 3: or the feminists online.
- 42:57Speaker 8: So that's all I'm saying.
- 42:58Speaker 4: Okay, well, let me ask you this. If they just
- 43:00Speaker 4: wanted to have that relationship and they just wanted to.
- 43:02Speaker 8: Have it without without without children or something like that,
- 43:05Speaker 8: I think there's I mean, the ethics of incest is
- 43:07Speaker 8: an interesting.
- 43:08Speaker 4: Philosophy, or what's the problem.
- 43:10Speaker 8: What's the problem with it? If they want to engage
- 43:12Speaker 8: in consensual actiom, I think it is strange and strange.
- 43:17Speaker 8: Here's the thing though, Andrew, Well I don't it's strange, and.
- 43:22Speaker 5: Andrew.
- 43:22Speaker 8: Here's the problem is if we go through for example,
- 43:25Speaker 8: I just took a bioethics course and we were talking
- 43:28Speaker 8: about the ethics of incest and the fact that It
- 43:30Speaker 8: is really hard to pin down the exact wrong of
- 43:33Speaker 8: incest when looking at it directly. If you remove the
- 43:36Speaker 8: genetic factors, if you remove a lot of the familial factors.
- 43:40Speaker 8: The problem is, I'm not going to get into an
- 43:41Speaker 8: argument where I'm defending incest on multiple times. No, I
- 43:45Speaker 8: didn't defend multiple I did not defend incest because I said,
- 43:48Speaker 8: that's not the case. It will not be good for
- 43:52Speaker 8: these people.
- 43:52Speaker 4: So to the reason, we sidelined, and I'm not going
- 43:55Speaker 4: to let you kind of like evade the point back
- 43:58Speaker 4: to the idea of samples size. This is what we're
- 44:01Speaker 4: actually talking about, which led to this, Why is it
- 44:04Speaker 4: again that you think that if it is the case
- 44:07Speaker 4: that when people get married virgins, right, they report that
- 44:11Speaker 4: largest amount of happiness and their relationship stay together basically
- 44:14Speaker 4: more than almost any other demographic. By the way, it's
- 44:16Speaker 4: fucking insane. Why is it that you would not want
- 44:19Speaker 4: to advocate for that in society even if you didn't
- 44:21Speaker 4: make laws, but you just made social advocation towards it.
- 44:24Speaker 8: I'm also not advocating in favor of like insane hookup culture.
- 44:28Speaker 4: What's my question?
- 44:28Speaker 8: Do I think it's fine absolutely advocate so.
- 44:32Speaker 4: So what if what if we had government policy different?
- 44:35Speaker 4: Hang on, continue, Well, I don't understand. Don't you want
- 44:37Speaker 4: government policy which says that being LGBTQ is okay.
- 44:41Speaker 8: Government policy which permits people.
- 44:43Speaker 4: To exercut flags in the White House?
- 44:45Speaker 8: I don't really care about that. I think that's I think.
- 44:47Speaker 8: I think I don't really care what the flags?
- 44:50Speaker 5: How about this?
- 44:51Speaker 1: How about this? Don't you want feminist government policy? Don't
- 44:55Speaker 1: you want merry costs defining great rape in order to
- 44:58Speaker 1: promote feminist conjecture about reality? Like I'm sure that this
- 45:02Speaker 1: guy is a feminist, right, don't you want to keep that?
- 45:05Speaker 1: Don't you want that? I mean you probably if I
- 45:07Speaker 1: asked you, would.
- 45:08Speaker 5: You say no marriage?
- 45:09Speaker 3: He probably he would probably say it was like foregne,
- 45:12Speaker 3: Well we are like like it's sort of like.
- 45:14Speaker 5: A no brainer. Yeah, but but yeah, I take what you're.
- 45:17Speaker 8: Saying, Ryle A bunch of people.
- 45:18Speaker 4: What would actually be the problem. There's no law which
- 45:21Speaker 4: is restricting anything but the government right in state organizations
- 45:26Speaker 4: in the top down right promoted instead that people with
- 45:30Speaker 4: low body counts and who are not promiscuous tended to
- 45:33Speaker 4: report much higher happiness levels and their marriages stay together better.
- 45:37Speaker 4: And for the health of the nation, they'd prefer to
- 45:39Speaker 4: move a population towards that. What would be wrong with that?
- 45:41Speaker 8: I don't think there would necessarily be anything wrong. That's
- 45:43Speaker 8: what I advocate for it, And I'm not fully against that.
- 45:46Speaker 4: I'm just who is feminists?
- 45:48Speaker 8: They're not, yes, entirely against it.
- 45:50Speaker 4: Which which feminist organization?
- 45:53Speaker 8: The problem with this?
- 45:54Speaker 5: What?
- 45:55Speaker 1: Well, so he is defending he is defending feminism.
- 45:59Speaker 5: Here, the feminist guy. Yeah, yeah, course, yeah yeah.
- 46:03Speaker 3: So basically what he's saying, this is the this is
- 46:06Speaker 3: the the male feminist uses like what he says, like
- 46:10Speaker 3: prep like outcomes, like statistical outcomes to.
- 46:14Speaker 5: Validate his position.
- 46:16Speaker 3: And Andrew is saying, well, if we have data that shows
- 46:19Speaker 3: that people who you know, have are not sexually promiscuous,
- 46:23Speaker 3: have the highest rates of staying together in a family
- 46:26Speaker 3: and all that, why wouldn't they promote that. He's basically saying, well,
- 46:30Speaker 3: you know, I think it's okay, but you know who
- 46:32Speaker 3: does oppose it is feminists, right, so now they're getting
- 46:35Speaker 3: into it.
- 46:35Speaker 8: They're saying that individuals advocating for that as a good
- 46:38Speaker 8: lifestyle because it works for them and working for that.
- 46:42Speaker 4: What did I say, you say, my position.
- 46:44Speaker 8: Your position is that there should be government funded proper
- 46:47Speaker 8: individuals hold on government individuals. Wait, I was talking about
- 46:51Speaker 8: the reason that feminist organizations would be against that government
- 46:54Speaker 8: style of push. Why it is prescribing onto everyone a
- 46:59Speaker 8: type of life style prescription that doesn't work for everyone's
- 47:02Speaker 8: saying that you should do this.
- 47:03Speaker 4: Wait, what's the prescription?
- 47:05Speaker 8: The prescription is you should wait until sex to have
- 47:07Speaker 8: meriage or until you.
- 47:09Speaker 4: Til marriage to have sex, and the outcomes are better.
- 47:11Speaker 8: The outcomes can be better for it.
- 47:13Speaker 4: And well, no, for for most everybody, the outcomes are better,
- 47:16Speaker 4: at least from the reported dat When you say like
- 47:18Speaker 4: certain people, it's like, okay, dude, yeah, I guess you
- 47:22Speaker 4: could make the case that, like, grape is bad for
- 47:24Speaker 4: certain people for certain people. No, it's only bad for
- 47:29Speaker 4: certain people.
- 47:30Speaker 5: Here like to see that. See this is this is
- 47:32Speaker 5: the clip you see. This is why I built up
- 47:35Speaker 5: to this.
- 47:35Speaker 3: This is where the context for the clip that feminists
- 47:38Speaker 3: are freaking out over comes from. He's exposing this guy's
- 47:43Speaker 3: framework right by changing it to sexual assault, to expose
- 47:48Speaker 3: how basically absurd it is to say, oh, it's for
- 47:52Speaker 3: certain people when the data shows it's not right.
- 47:54Speaker 5: The data shows something else.
- 47:56Speaker 4: There's women you agree you have orgasmed.
- 47:59Speaker 8: Essay that has nothing to do with the essay. Bro,
- 48:02Speaker 8: that is nothing essay. Are you kidding?
- 48:04Speaker 12: Bro?
- 48:04Speaker 4: I didn't say whether or not its essay. I said
- 48:06Speaker 4: doing essay.
- 48:07Speaker 8: Yeah, what does it have to do with anything?
- 48:08Speaker 4: Well, Bro, if that's the case, right, then was it
- 48:12Speaker 4: bad for them? Yes? Why?
- 48:13Speaker 8: Absolutely? Because there are overriding harms and just orgasm. I'm
- 48:18Speaker 8: not saying that's not the case.
- 48:19Speaker 3: You see this guy getting triggered because he's using.
- 48:22Speaker 5: Rape or sexual assault to make a point. He's not
- 48:25Speaker 5: advocating it. He's not advocating it. Do you see Do
- 48:28Speaker 5: you guys follow what's happened here? Yeah? You see what
- 48:31Speaker 5: he did and this guy's reaction.
- 48:33Speaker 1: Why can't he simply use this, this conjecture, this hypothetical
- 48:38Speaker 1: that women hypothetically, there could be a situation hypothetically where
- 48:45Speaker 1: women enjoy sexual assault hypothetically, And we have a feminist
- 48:51Speaker 1: in the government arguing that male victims should not be
- 48:56Speaker 1: in government statistics because men enjoy sexual ass So this
- 49:00Speaker 1: guy can't even use a hypothetical around sexual assault. But
- 49:04Speaker 1: a feminist can go into the government and make that
- 49:08Speaker 1: reality that men enjoy sexual assault, Therefore they don't, they
- 49:12Speaker 1: aren't great, they aren't raped by women. This is my
- 49:15Speaker 1: this is my overall point. I know what your point is, Brian.
- 49:17Speaker 1: You're clarifying that this was always a hypothetical. It was
- 49:20Speaker 1: a hypothetical on the same line as the Incest Twins,
- 49:23Speaker 1: except sort of with the incest Twins. He was talking
- 49:26Speaker 1: about if they and if they ultimately enjoy it, who's
- 49:30Speaker 1: who's to tell them not to do it?
- 49:32Speaker 11: Right?
- 49:32Speaker 1: If you're if you're if you're living by the pleasure principle,
- 49:36Speaker 1: and if you're living by the pleasure principle, and there's
- 49:38Speaker 1: there's a small subset of people who enjoy sexual assault,
- 49:43Speaker 1: who's to say, you know who, why should we make
- 49:46Speaker 1: laws against it? Hypothetically? I think that's where he's I
- 49:51Speaker 1: this is like dynamite. I don't know if I would
- 49:52Speaker 1: have gone there, but you know that I think you're
- 49:55Speaker 1: right that this is this is like I said, it's
- 49:57Speaker 1: a hypothetical. If you're not going to let this guy
- 49:59Speaker 1: use hypothetical around potentially like one Woman ever, like the
- 50:05Speaker 1: romance novel narrative One Woman Ever, then how can you
- 50:09Speaker 1: possibly defend what Mary cost did and that's that's just
- 50:12Speaker 1: the context I want to bring.
- 50:13Speaker 3: But you go ahead, Brian, No, I just say, ultimately,
- 50:16Speaker 3: what though the original post shared by this woman is
- 50:21Speaker 3: that Andrew Wilson is advocating that women don't mind.
- 50:26Speaker 5: When they're sexually assaulted. And that's not like, no, no,
- 50:29Speaker 5: not at all what he's saying.
- 50:30Speaker 3: But that's what this woman is presenting because she's a
- 50:35Speaker 3: lying liar, liar face.
- 50:37Speaker 5: She's lying because she.
- 50:38Speaker 3: Wants to destroy Andrew Wilson's reputation, so she's misrepresenting him
- 50:43Speaker 3: on purpose to make him look like a bad person.
- 50:45Speaker 3: Either that or she's a moron that reacts emotionally to
- 50:49Speaker 3: his hypothetical, which is really just him exposing the other
- 50:53Speaker 3: guy's arguments, which is essentially to say the other guy
- 50:56Speaker 3: that what they're arguing about is is something. Should something
- 51:00Speaker 3: be promoted if there is a group of people who
- 51:03Speaker 3: say they enjoy it without looking at so basically, if
- 51:06Speaker 3: it's all like you said, the pleasure principle, like if
- 51:09Speaker 3: if people like, if you get like a group of
- 51:11Speaker 3: people and they're all like, dude, incests is totally cool.
- 51:14Speaker 5: I have incest or whatever. It is.
- 51:16Speaker 3: Pedophilia, which is a thing that people advocate for maps
- 51:19Speaker 3: are a thing whatever. Okay, And if this the male
- 51:23Speaker 3: feminist side of this is as long as everybody's having fun,
- 51:26Speaker 3: then there's no problem, right, and Andrew is saying, well,
- 51:29Speaker 3: then by that logic, you can find a group of women,
- 51:34Speaker 3: because I think he uses women in this specific example
- 51:36Speaker 3: that enjoy sexual assault. Therefore, we can make the argument
- 51:41Speaker 3: that sexual assault is okay because it only effect it
- 51:43Speaker 3: only harms some women, or there are some women who
- 51:46Speaker 3: like it, and this.
- 51:48Speaker 1: Is and you can you can't.
- 51:52Speaker 3: Actually that doesn't mean that, yeah, but that but like,
- 51:55Speaker 3: of course you can.
- 51:57Speaker 5: It is possible. But what I'm saying is is that
- 52:00Speaker 5: this is taken.
- 52:01Speaker 3: It's his way of exposing this guy's poor argumentation, is
- 52:05Speaker 3: poor logic, and that's what the what the feminist woman
- 52:08Speaker 3: is doing is running with it like Andrew's the one
- 52:11Speaker 3: that's saying it. What's actually happening is that Andrew's exposing
- 52:15Speaker 3: this guy's standards of logical inconsistencies.
- 52:19Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, because he's he's he's gittering, he's he's
- 52:25Speaker 1: advocating based on a pleasure principle. So if more people
- 52:29Speaker 1: enjoy their lives, if they stay virgins until marriage, and
- 52:32Speaker 1: that's men and women, not just women. Then why not
- 52:35Speaker 1: advocate that as a lifestyle choice? No, why not throw
- 52:39Speaker 1: virgin pride per heades? Why not set aside days to
- 52:42Speaker 1: celebrate virginity? Why not use municipal funds to do virgin
- 52:47Speaker 1: stripes on like crosswalks. I don't know what that would
- 52:50Speaker 1: look like. You know, why not do that kind of thing?
- 52:54Speaker 1: You don't have to like mandate it in law, but
- 52:57Speaker 1: you could celebrate it. You could make it in a
- 52:59Speaker 1: attractive proposition. You could romanticize it.
- 53:03Speaker 5: You know, Yeah, I don't. I don't think he's actually.
- 53:08Speaker 1: Of people merely holding hands ludely. You know, the kissing
- 53:14Speaker 1: is only for marriage. I'm being a little bit facetious.
- 53:17Speaker 1: But you know, there's more than just like policy like saying, okay,
- 53:21Speaker 1: we're not going to actively persecute people who are gay, right,
- 53:25Speaker 1: There's more going on. There is a lot of celebration
- 53:28Speaker 1: and promotion going on, right, and a lot of determining
- 53:33Speaker 1: the narrative, like saying that people who are LGBT get
- 53:37Speaker 1: special protections that they can they have words and and
- 53:42Speaker 1: people can't say those words to them, even if they
- 53:44Speaker 1: do have their own slurs. Like brainer for people who
- 53:48Speaker 1: are not LGBT. You know, it's it's like there is
- 53:51Speaker 1: advocacy on a policy level, there is advocacy potentially on
- 53:55Speaker 1: a legal level, and maybe just extend it to the
- 53:59Speaker 1: the Maybe LGBT needs a V at the end, you know, lesbian, gay, bisexual,
- 54:05Speaker 1: trans and virgins.
- 54:06Speaker 3: I don't think people want that, Like I don't think
- 54:09Speaker 3: people want special treatment in that way. I got a
- 54:11Speaker 3: super chat. I should look and see if there was
- 54:13Speaker 3: any super childs. I feel like I did not open
- 54:16Speaker 3: discord in my browsers.
- 54:18Speaker 5: So I wasn't even to look and see if this
- 54:19Speaker 5: is super Child's here. Just give me a second, Dan.
- 54:22Speaker 1: De Philippo Philippo five dollars and he is not nearly
- 54:25Speaker 1: as smart as he thinks, but he's been doing it.
- 54:28Speaker 1: He's a decent champion for us. Also, Brian, my Christmas
- 54:31Speaker 1: time offer of brisket still stands.
- 54:33Speaker 5: Oh yeah, thanks for that.
- 54:35Speaker 1: Okay, not good. Bob thirteen says, you guys are exposing
- 54:38Speaker 1: him so well by taking seven freaking minutes to explain
- 54:41Speaker 1: Andrew's weird comment comparing policies discouraging hooking up with laws
- 54:45Speaker 1: against sexual assault. No, because you are missing that he
- 54:48Speaker 1: is talking to somebody who is looking at things in
- 54:51Speaker 1: terms of a pleasure principle, and he's saying, we shouldn't
- 54:54Speaker 1: make laws against something as if a group of people
- 54:58Speaker 1: enjoys it, and we shouldn't make laws for something even
- 55:01Speaker 1: if most people would enjoy or shouldn't have policies promoting it.
- 55:05Speaker 1: If most people enjoy it, we shouldn't have policies against it.
- 55:09Speaker 1: If there's a there's a sub section of people who
- 55:11Speaker 1: enjoy it. This this is the principle, and this is
- 55:14Speaker 1: this is sort of like this. He's he's exposing the
- 55:17Speaker 1: pleasure principle for its inconsistencies when this man applies it.
- 55:22Speaker 1: Because if you applied the pleasure principle to staying a
- 55:26Speaker 1: virgin until marriage, then that's what the government should promote
- 55:30Speaker 1: and should get rid of all of the subsidies for
- 55:34Speaker 1: not doing that. Let's start there, right, that's what you wanted.
- 55:37Speaker 1: If that's where you're taking, like you're saying, I'm going
- 55:40Speaker 1: to follow the pleasure principle, then you follow it consistently
- 55:44Speaker 1: to utilitarian generate the most pleasure. In this case, it's
- 55:48Speaker 1: everybody stays virgin until marriage, then everybody has the most
- 55:52Speaker 1: the most satisfaction with their life, and that's what the
- 55:55Speaker 1: government should promote. But then he says, but you know,
- 55:58Speaker 1: there's people who that doesn't help, who don't want that
- 56:03Speaker 1: that that actually that's not what they want. And he's saying, well,
- 56:07Speaker 1: some people want things that are not very good for them.
- 56:10Speaker 1: Do we make it do we make it a policy
- 56:12Speaker 1: to allow to take away any kind of condemnation of
- 56:17Speaker 1: things that just because a subset of people wants them.
- 56:21Speaker 1: You know, some people want to be amputated. Should we
- 56:24Speaker 1: take have their legs amputated? Should we take away the
- 56:27Speaker 1: laws against gross bodily harm if people amputate other people's legs?
- 56:30Speaker 5: No?
- 56:31Speaker 1: And I mean this is like slightly facetious. Yes, I
- 56:34Speaker 1: think that's the point. He's making these really extreme edge
- 56:38Speaker 1: cases to try to prove a point about the pleasure
- 56:41Speaker 1: principle and it being applied inconsistently here. So no, I
- 56:45Speaker 1: don't think you're right, not good Bob. I think you
- 56:47Speaker 1: are not a good bob. All right, let's continue.
- 56:50Speaker 3: Oh that's it, I mean, that's I mean, I don't
- 56:52Speaker 3: know if you want to listen to more of this,
- 56:53Speaker 3: but that's basically the clip in context. So you know,
- 56:57Speaker 3: we know that this Maga cult slayer per Did you
- 57:00Speaker 3: want to look at some of the clips that he
- 57:02Speaker 3: sent us himself?
- 57:03Speaker 5: Sure, we could do that.
- 57:05Speaker 3: I don't know if I want to go because it's
- 57:08Speaker 3: in your messages, your dms, and i'd have to display
- 57:11Speaker 3: the dms.
- 57:12Speaker 1: I don't think that, do you, because the should only
- 57:15Speaker 1: be Oh, I see what you're saying. Hmmm, do you
- 57:18Speaker 1: want me to open it up?
- 57:19Speaker 3: No, it wouldn't matter, Alison, because we'd have to see
- 57:22Speaker 3: it on the screen, you know, unless like you want
- 57:25Speaker 3: me to put something on top of it in obs,
- 57:27Speaker 3: which would be like a few minutes because I have
- 57:30Speaker 3: to get something and do that.
- 57:31Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
- 57:32Speaker 1: Or yeah, I know what you mean. My video is
- 57:34Speaker 1: disabled again. I had to fix it another really shitty
- 57:37Speaker 1: still sorry, like it's yeah, sorry, I don't know what's
- 57:40Speaker 1: going on in this case. I think there's might be
- 57:41Speaker 1: a fault in either the socket or in the line,
- 57:46Speaker 1: but sometimes the OSMO just freezes up. So yeah, no,
- 57:49Speaker 1: I think we've pretty much covered this. I really wanted
- 57:53Speaker 1: to go into the that pro choice thing, but we
- 57:56Speaker 1: might be at.
- 57:57Speaker 3: The hour, So yeah, I mean, yeah, I know, I
- 58:02Speaker 3: know the price, I know that's yeah, that would be
- 58:05Speaker 3: like another that could be another show I think.
- 58:08Speaker 1: Anyway, guys, I'll just give you a preview. There's a
- 58:11Speaker 1: bunch of there's a there's a group of pro choice,
- 58:14Speaker 1: like a pro choice organization that put out of what
- 58:16Speaker 1: I would call a really male negative ad and I
- 58:20Speaker 1: wanted to go through it, but we probably don't have
- 58:22Speaker 1: enough time today. So yeah, I could look at those clips.
- 58:27Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure you can just like the messages are
- 58:30Speaker 1: just in the corner and you can just open up
- 58:32Speaker 1: that one. Like, my messages are pretty weird. I maybe
- 58:36Speaker 1: that's a good reason not to do it. I mean,
- 58:39Speaker 1: not not weird, it's just people send me they're crazy
- 58:42Speaker 1: Twitter arguments. Yeah, I don't want to get involved in
- 58:46Speaker 1: this crazy Twitter. I do get involved in a lot
- 58:48Speaker 1: of crazy Twitter arguments, but not this one. Shocker, all right, I.
- 58:51Speaker 5: Mean, I just I don't know. It just seems private,
- 58:54Speaker 5: That's all I'm just saying.
- 58:56Speaker 1: Says you could have used any argument. That was a
- 58:58Speaker 1: strange choice. Yes, I agree. I think it was a
- 59:01Speaker 1: strange choice.
- 59:02Speaker 5: Was to make a point. Though.
- 59:03Speaker 3: I mean here's another thing too, Like if a woman
- 59:06Speaker 3: had made a similar argument, would you also consider that
- 59:08Speaker 3: a strange choice, because it seems like when men make
- 59:10Speaker 3: arguments like this, people get like really weird about you know,
- 59:14Speaker 3: men talking about anything that's remotely sexual, even if it's
- 59:18Speaker 3: completely hypothetical. And it's just like a logic based thing,
- 59:21Speaker 3: essentially saying, here's your here's your worldview. I'm gonna take
- 59:26Speaker 3: this and i'm gonna apply it over here and see
- 59:28Speaker 3: how you react, and see if you're consistent, see if
- 59:31Speaker 3: you have principles, and they don't because they're like, well,
- 59:33Speaker 3: I don't think that's cool. Well, but according to your worldview,
- 59:37Speaker 3: yes it is if enough people support it. That's the
- 59:40Speaker 3: purpose of this. It's a it's a thought experiment. If
- 59:42Speaker 3: that's all it is, you know, and he failed the thought.
- 59:45Speaker 5: Experiment, that's all it is.
- 59:47Speaker 3: And so like the point is is that, I think
- 59:49Speaker 3: ultimately what we're talking about here is I think Andrew's
- 59:54Speaker 3: trying to make the case that, you know, there is
- 59:58Speaker 3: a an.
- 59:59Speaker 5: Ethical frame that should be applied, and.
- 1:00:01Speaker 3: It's not purely based on harm, because if you only place,
- 1:00:05Speaker 3: you know, place it on harm, then you can permit
- 1:00:08Speaker 3: all kinds of things based on a metric that's difficult
- 1:00:11Speaker 3: to measure.
- 1:00:12Speaker 1: I think, well, let's just assume it's a bad argument. Yeah,
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: does it deserve being tarred with this brush?
- 1:00:18Speaker 5: No?
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: Does it deserve being lied about?
- 1:00:21Speaker 5: No.
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: He can make as many bad arguments as he can.
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: I mean, if it was illegal to make bad arguments,
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: everybody I argue with would be going to jail because
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: they make terrible arguments. And like, I see how this
- 1:00:32Speaker 1: argument can lead to a lot of confusion. But again,
- 1:00:35Speaker 1: he has every right to make a bad argument without
- 1:00:37Speaker 1: being accused of being a rape apologist by somebody who's
- 1:00:40Speaker 1: part of an ideology that literally blanket refused to recognize
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: the rape of an entire sex. Yeah, like, that's that's
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: just ridiculous. That's that's insanity. You know, get the log
- 1:00:52Speaker 1: out of your own eye. Feminists kick kick merry costs
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: to the curb, and don't don't don't point fingers at
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: this guy making maybe a clunk hypothetical. But even if
- 1:01:02Speaker 1: it's a bad argument, don't lie about him. Don't make
- 1:01:05Speaker 1: false accusations about what he actually said. Don't do that.
- 1:01:11Speaker 3: If you're able to just make a better argument, there's
- 1:01:14Speaker 3: no need to like tar people and try to hie.
- 1:01:18Speaker 1: Them overly emotional Like I was talking to Karen yesterday
- 1:01:22Speaker 1: or coupled yesterday. Oh my god, was it yesterday? It
- 1:01:24Speaker 1: was yesterday. Time is getting really strange. But yeah, I
- 1:01:30Speaker 1: was talking to Karen yesterday about everything is becoming these
- 1:01:33Speaker 1: incredibly emotionally and emotionally judgmental arguments, which in which no
- 1:01:37Speaker 1: actual communication happens. If you think it's a bad argument, fine,
- 1:01:43Speaker 1: you know, maybe it is a bad argument, but it's not.
- 1:01:46Speaker 1: It's not like he's not a bad person. There you go,
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: and she's saying this isn't She isn't saying this is
- 1:01:52Speaker 1: a bad argument. She's saying this is a bad person.
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: Well again, and she's saying it from the platform that
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: Mary casses plat. Okay, all right, so that's a I
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: think we covered this. Oh wait, h not good Bob thirteen.
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: My advice to men, build your relationships on mutual respect.
- 1:02:11Speaker 1: Don't get caught up in political social theater. Just follow
- 1:02:14Speaker 1: the golden rule. My advice to men, make sure she
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: follows the golden rule. Like, if you're both gonna follow
- 1:02:22Speaker 1: the you know, if you're the one, make sure it's
- 1:02:24Speaker 1: not one sided. Make sure that it's not you know,
- 1:02:27Speaker 1: expectations for the but not expectations for me. Right, that's
- 1:02:31Speaker 1: that's something that I've seen that actually, strangely enough, it's
- 1:02:35Speaker 1: something that I think actually works, at least what I've
- 1:02:38Speaker 1: seen in our community. The only thing, like we again
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: I mentioned this a few times, we have had, you know,
- 1:02:45Speaker 1: lots and lots, but a fair amount of relationship formation
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: now seven children in the last five years in our community,
- 1:02:52Speaker 1: which is not that big. And and all I do
- 1:02:55Speaker 1: is say, you know, guys, just set boundaries with women,
- 1:02:59Speaker 1: right If if you're gonna hold yourself to certain moral standards,
- 1:03:03Speaker 1: hold her to moral standards too, right, and recognize that
- 1:03:07Speaker 1: women are moral monsters every bit as much as men,
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: and their choices matter when it comes to their morals.
- 1:03:14Speaker 1: They need to choose not to be monstrous. Okay, all right, yeah,
- 1:03:18Speaker 1: all right, So oh I forgot to do the things. Damn.
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- 1:03:52Speaker 5: Talk about, No, we're good. We can wrap it up
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- 1:04:18Speaker 14: Men's Right activists are machines, dude. Okay, they are literal machines.
- 1:04:24Speaker 14: They are talking point machines. They are impossible to fucking
- 1:04:27Speaker 14: deal with, especially if you have like especially if you
- 1:04:29Speaker 14: have like a couple of dudes who have good memory.
- 1:04:32Speaker 14: On top of that too, holy shit, you're fucked