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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to stuff.
- 0:07Speaker 1: I ever told your protection of I Heart Radio and
- 0:18Speaker 1: today we're doing sort of a welcome back to school episode. Sure,
- 0:27Speaker 1: yeah about student debt. So not the happiest look at
- 0:35Speaker 1: at student debt or going back to school, but you know,
- 0:38Speaker 1: we thought we would talk about it. And as part
- 0:41Speaker 1: of this, I wanted to ask you because I went
- 0:44Speaker 1: to Georgia Tech Georgia Technical Institute because I could pay
- 0:52Speaker 1: for it because of Georgia has the Hope Scholarship, and
- 0:56Speaker 1: so it was a very financial decision for me. And
- 1:01Speaker 1: I have never had student debt, but I know that
- 1:06Speaker 1: you have, Samantha, if you'd be willing to talk to
- 1:09Speaker 1: us right out that so I'm interested that you did.
- 1:13Speaker 1: Was your housing and such covered? I had to pay
- 1:16Speaker 1: for the housing, which was about a thousand, eight hundred dollars,
- 1:21Speaker 1: and I had to pay for books. But uh, I
- 1:25Speaker 1: think I've talked about it before. I was very I
- 1:29Speaker 1: saved a lot of money as a kid. Uh so
- 1:31Speaker 1: I was able to pay for it out of my pocket. Yeah, okay, Yeah,
- 1:37Speaker 1: so because I was able to get Hope as well,
- 1:39Speaker 1: which is a local program in the in Georgia, and
- 1:42Speaker 1: I know it's nationwide, but it's a program that is
- 1:46Speaker 1: taken out of the Georgia Lottery or the lottery system
- 1:49Speaker 1: UM for schools. And when I was getting in, and I
- 1:52Speaker 1: I guess you are too, at that point, it was
- 1:55Speaker 1: fairly new. UM. I think came out from my sister
- 1:58Speaker 1: when she went to school. And it provides a scholarship
- 2:03Speaker 1: tuition for any state schools UM and will do so
- 2:08Speaker 1: for those with three point oh g p a s.
- 2:11Speaker 1: And I think it's changed now to three point two. Yes,
- 2:14Speaker 1: they changed it for specifically technical uh kinda pursues maybe
- 2:23Speaker 1: maybe for everything, but I know for Georgia Tech they
- 2:25Speaker 1: were like, oh god, it's so hard, let's give them
- 2:29Speaker 1: a bigger a bigger rate of success. Yeah, okay, so
- 2:35Speaker 1: it got it went the qualifications, it went higher, So
- 2:39Speaker 1: if you don't hit three point two, you couldn't receive
- 2:42Speaker 1: it because too many people were getting in. It was
- 2:43Speaker 1: getting drained very very quickly, not surprisingly. But also we
- 2:47Speaker 1: know that pre K and such has also been paid
- 2:51Speaker 1: out by the lottery system as well, although it takes
- 2:54Speaker 1: a lot to qualify to get into pre K for
- 2:58Speaker 1: a lot of these children, and I had to take
- 3:00Speaker 1: out student loans because I did not have money, uh
- 3:04Speaker 1: for housing or transportation or for um books which yeah,
- 3:11Speaker 1: hope scholarship covered tuition and about one book two books.
- 3:17Speaker 1: And I had to try to have a job, and
- 3:21Speaker 1: I did. I had a job, but it was really
- 3:23Speaker 1: hard to do jobs in trying to do college at
- 3:25Speaker 1: the same time. Maybe I'm not intelligent enough that I
- 3:28Speaker 1: could keep up with both um, especially with a car payment,
- 3:32Speaker 1: especially with so I from the age six, Like I've
- 3:34Speaker 1: told the story that I've started working at the age
- 3:36Speaker 1: of thirteen at a dairy queen um and it has
- 3:39Speaker 1: been working, have been working since then because it's not
- 3:43Speaker 1: something that has ever been important in my family. They
- 3:45Speaker 1: love education, they value it, but it's not something that
- 3:48Speaker 1: you have to have essentially, which is kind of funny
- 3:50Speaker 1: because we did by the time our age group came around,
- 3:53Speaker 1: Like you know, we had to because that's the minimal qualifications.
- 3:56Speaker 1: UM way back when you didn't have to that was
- 3:59Speaker 1: amazing if you had a call education. But in our generation,
- 4:03Speaker 1: of course that's what we had to have, and trying
- 4:06Speaker 1: to do that. If I could have gone to a
- 4:08Speaker 1: local school, but I had been very miserable trying to
- 4:11Speaker 1: go back and forth. I could have done, you know,
- 4:13Speaker 1: all these things. So part of that was getting loans
- 4:16Speaker 1: for living situations. By the time I got into my
- 4:19Speaker 1: core curriculum, which is past the core curriculum into my major,
- 4:23Speaker 1: which was social work, I had to do a practicum.
- 4:26Speaker 1: And what that means is I literally spent thirty hours
- 4:28Speaker 1: a week to your minimum of twenty hours a week
- 4:32Speaker 1: two intern for free. I was told by the person
- 4:36Speaker 1: who was my I guess supervisor or person who was
- 4:39Speaker 1: giving me my grade that the minimum was not enough
- 4:44Speaker 1: and I should be able to do more. I found
- 4:46Speaker 1: out later she was a very rich girl who had
- 4:47Speaker 1: a lot of money and didn't need to have another job,
- 4:51Speaker 1: and she was going through a divorce, so it took
- 4:53Speaker 1: it out on me fun times um. But that has
- 4:57Speaker 1: nothing to do with any of this. But because of that,
- 4:59Speaker 1: I had to take the loans or I could not
- 5:01Speaker 1: do job in term practical and all of that. I
- 5:05Speaker 1: went to de facts for a year, the most miserable
- 5:09Speaker 1: year of my life. I quit abruptly because I was
- 5:12Speaker 1: having panic attacks in the middle of driving um and
- 5:15Speaker 1: not sleeping at all at having nightmares, and so therefore
- 5:19Speaker 1: I quit. I went on unemployment for a little while,
- 5:22Speaker 1: UH deferred on my loans and those times and then
- 5:26Speaker 1: also another time I had to I got I got
- 5:30Speaker 1: laid off from a job, I had to defer my
- 5:32Speaker 1: loans that in that process my balance went from less
- 5:38Speaker 1: than ten thousand to more than twenty five thousand because
- 5:42Speaker 1: of the interests. So this is what I'm talking about,
- 5:45Speaker 1: and this is a scam. I owe more in interest,
- 5:48Speaker 1: three times more in interest than I do what I
- 5:51Speaker 1: originally owed. UM, and I, even with a college degree
- 5:56Speaker 1: I made, I started out very less than thirty thousand
- 5:59Speaker 1: I got. I think later on. I worked for ten
- 6:01Speaker 1: years and then again after I left to go to
- 6:04Speaker 1: UH be a nanny, and I still made less than
- 6:08Speaker 1: thirty five thousand with three different promotions. So that was
- 6:13Speaker 1: kind of the field that I was on, and it
- 6:15Speaker 1: was impossible to actually pay that off. So I would
- 6:19Speaker 1: do the minimum, which does not pay anything but the interest.
- 6:22Speaker 1: So the principle remains, and it keeps accruing that interest
- 6:25Speaker 1: because all you're doing is paying off interest. And that's
- 6:28Speaker 1: how I got stuck. And even to this day, I
- 6:30Speaker 1: still have some debt left. UM and I'm watching this
- 6:34Speaker 1: whole debt relief I'm paying a little more. I could
- 6:36Speaker 1: pay a little more, but now I don't qualify for
- 6:39Speaker 1: what we'll talk about in a minute, which is income
- 6:42Speaker 1: um based repayment. Uh. And that I was able to
- 6:46Speaker 1: pay the minimum amount, which is why I also I
- 6:48Speaker 1: am still in debt. So that's my story. Yeah, and
- 6:54Speaker 1: I hope you'll because we have a section at the
- 6:57Speaker 1: end about mental tolle, I will talk Okay, perfect, I
- 7:03Speaker 1: mean it makes me sad, but yes, I hope you
- 7:06Speaker 1: will talk about it. I yeah, I was very fortunate
- 7:10Speaker 1: that I haven't had this situation, but I have a
- 7:13Speaker 1: lot of friends who have and just hearing them talk
- 7:19Speaker 1: about the the stress, like everyday stress of it, the
- 7:24Speaker 1: toll of it. Ah. And I've had friends cry when
- 7:30Speaker 1: they paid off their debt, like just celebrate, we celebrate. Yeah,
- 7:36Speaker 1: for sure, I will celebrate. M Yeah. Yeah. And I
- 7:40Speaker 1: think we're not going to get into this too much
- 7:44Speaker 1: in this episode. But one of the things that stuck
- 7:48Speaker 1: out to me and doing this research was times have
- 7:54Speaker 1: just changed. I feel like we're basing things on like
- 7:57Speaker 1: the fifties and right now there's this promise of oh,
- 8:03Speaker 1: if you go to college, you're gonna make money and
- 8:06Speaker 1: you're gonna be fine. And it's not necessarily true. It's
- 8:09Speaker 1: not necessarily true anymore, not at all. You're growing more
- 8:14Speaker 1: debt for something that's not valuable anymore. Yeah, and it's
- 8:20Speaker 1: it's the expense of getting that education has gone up
- 8:24Speaker 1: when the salary associated with it has not gone up
- 8:29Speaker 1: at all. So we're going to talk about that more. Um.
- 8:32Speaker 1: And I did want to mention, uh And two thousand
- 8:36Speaker 1: and ten, I was contacted by I come from a
- 8:39Speaker 1: small town. I was contacted by our local newspaper writer
- 8:47Speaker 1: when I was working at what was then how Stuff Works,
- 8:51Speaker 1: essentially the same company I work for now. Um. And
- 8:55Speaker 1: it was the recession, because two eight was the big recession.
- 9:00Speaker 1: That's when I was in college and graduated. Uh. And
- 9:05Speaker 1: he was like, tell tell the young folks how to
- 9:08Speaker 1: get a job. And I just remember thinking, like, I can't.
- 9:14Speaker 1: I don't know, like it's changing, it's changing. I'm lucky
- 9:19Speaker 1: and what happened to me is lucky, and not that
- 9:22Speaker 1: I worked for it, but I was in a very
- 9:24Speaker 1: fortunate position. I can't give you. It's a recession. It's bad, Like,
- 9:31Speaker 1: don't come to me for that kind of advice because
- 9:35Speaker 1: I don't have it right, I don't have it, um. Okay,
- 9:40Speaker 1: So let's get into what we're talking about, and specifically
- 9:46Speaker 1: some numbers because they are pretty sobering when it comes
- 9:50Speaker 1: to student debt. So to start, one of five Americans
- 9:55Speaker 1: has student debt. And from Investipia quote, student loaned at
- 10:00Speaker 1: is what's owed to a lender that provides funding for
- 10:03Speaker 1: higher education. This money is often primarily used to pay tuition,
- 10:08Speaker 1: but also can be used for school supplies, basic necessities,
- 10:12Speaker 1: and anything else that a borrower purchases during their academic career.
- 10:16Speaker 1: Most students will be unable to pay for college without
- 10:20Speaker 1: financial aid, even if they received funding from parents and
- 10:24Speaker 1: or scholarships, due to how the price of higher education
- 10:28Speaker 1: has escalated over time. And yeah, that's something like I
- 10:34Speaker 1: remember filling out FAFSA and being such a huge deal
- 10:39Speaker 1: and just hoping like, oh, I need I need this
- 10:42Speaker 1: support from the government, and it's going to determine what
- 10:46Speaker 1: school I go to or if I go to school
- 10:48Speaker 1: at all. Yeah, I got into all. And that was
- 10:51Speaker 1: the other part to that is I was doing I
- 10:53Speaker 1: was working after school at a daycare, and then I
- 10:56Speaker 1: was doing clubs that gave me like a file the
- 11:00Speaker 1: dollar check and in order to go to college. It's like, great,
- 11:02Speaker 1: that's going to be the first month's rent or whatever
- 11:04Speaker 1: what not, because it was so significant, and yeah, like
- 11:08Speaker 1: I don't know about you. Actually I do know, like
- 11:11Speaker 1: things that accumulate in those costs, including we're talking about
- 11:15Speaker 1: ward and but food and parking is some of the
- 11:19Speaker 1: most significant costs in there. And I know for Georgia
- 11:24Speaker 1: State because my niece just graduated, they would not allow
- 11:28Speaker 1: freshman's to have cars there, which I was like, Okay,
- 11:31Speaker 1: I get it to a certain extent, but she's in Atlanta.
- 11:33Speaker 1: Like at least when I was in Athens, the community
- 11:37Speaker 1: was short enough that I could walk pretty easily, but
- 11:39Speaker 1: Atlanta asked, it's not very walkable, as we have talked
- 11:42Speaker 1: about before. Yeah, that parking, that parking fee was serious,
- 11:47Speaker 1: and they're just some things you look back on and
- 11:49Speaker 1: you're like, wow, I was really making kind of a
- 11:52Speaker 1: devil's deal with Yeah, I guess I'll eat this very
- 11:56Speaker 1: low gallery frozen meal that I can get on my
- 12:00Speaker 1: meal plan and that's my one meal for the day, um,
- 12:05Speaker 1: which is taking that zip luck back to the dorms
- 12:07Speaker 1: to the food hall. Yes, So here's a quote we
- 12:26Speaker 1: wanted to include from the Institution for Women's Policy Research.
- 12:30Speaker 1: Following the promise of economic mobility, Americans turn to loans
- 12:34Speaker 1: to finance the skyrocketing cost of higher education. By twenty nineteen,
- 12:39Speaker 1: the average price tag was twenty three thousand, fifty one
- 12:42Speaker 1: dollars for public four year institutions and forty nine thousand,
- 12:46Speaker 1: nine one dollars for private four year institutions, up from
- 12:51Speaker 1: ten thousand, fifty one dollars and twenty four thousand, thirty
- 12:55Speaker 1: six dollars, respectively in and this is all in twenty
- 13:01Speaker 1: twenty two dollars. Between two thousand and twenty eighteen, the
- 13:06Speaker 1: median student debt for white borrowers doubled but quadrupled for
- 13:10Speaker 1: black borrowers. Black women have the highest average student loan
- 13:14Speaker 1: debt at thirty seven thousand, five hundred and fifty eight dollars,
- 13:17Speaker 1: followed by black men at thirty five thousand, six hundred
- 13:21Speaker 1: sixty five dollars. White women OH about thirty one thousand,
- 13:25Speaker 1: three hundred forty six dollars on average, and white men
- 13:28Speaker 1: twenty nine thousand, eight hundred and sixty two dollars. Hispanic
- 13:32Speaker 1: slash Latino women OH twenty seven thousand, twenty nine dollars
- 13:36Speaker 1: on average, slightly less than Hispanic Latino men at twenty
- 13:40Speaker 1: seven thousand, four hundred and fifty two dollars. So those
- 13:44Speaker 1: are some pretty stark numbers. UM. And here's another one.
- 13:49Speaker 1: Women hold about two thirds of America's one point six
- 13:53Speaker 1: trillion student loan debt. UH. This is more than the
- 13:58Speaker 1: gross domestic product pretty much every country, and it's the
- 14:03Speaker 1: second highest source of US household debts after housing itself.
- 14:08Speaker 1: For women, that equals out to about eight hundred and
- 14:12Speaker 1: thirty three billion dollars as of six UM. Some other
- 14:17Speaker 1: numbers are higher in the mid like nine hundred billion
- 14:21Speaker 1: dollar range, So it's high, it's high. Whatever you whatever
- 14:25Speaker 1: number you find, that is huge, and it disproportionately hits
- 14:30Speaker 1: women of color and especially Black women. As of black
- 14:35Speaker 1: women held the highest average student loan debt. And we
- 14:40Speaker 1: have a couple of quotes about that quote. Black women
- 14:44Speaker 1: hold the highest amount of student loan debt of any
- 14:46Speaker 1: racial or gender group. A a u W reports that
- 14:50Speaker 1: one year after graduation, black women oh ten thousand dollars
- 14:54Speaker 1: more than any other women borrowers. And then further, due
- 15:00Speaker 1: to systemic racial discrimination, black families have far less wealth
- 15:04Speaker 1: to draw from for college tuition. This means black students
- 15:08Speaker 1: must borrow more, have increased difficulties paying back those debts,
- 15:13Speaker 1: and hold loan debts that take up a larger proportion
- 15:16Speaker 1: of their financial resources. And from a CNBC report, the
- 15:22Speaker 1: Brookings Institute estimates that on average, black college graduates OH
- 15:26Speaker 1: fifty two thousand, seven twenty six dollars in student debt,
- 15:30Speaker 1: while white college grads oh closer to twenty eight thousand
- 15:34Speaker 1: and six dollars. And the Urban Institute reports that among
- 15:38Speaker 1: borrowers between the ages of twenty five and fifty five
- 15:41Speaker 1: who took on college debt to finance their own undergraduate degree,
- 15:45Speaker 1: black borrowers oh thirty two thousand, forty seven dollars on average,
- 15:49Speaker 1: while white and Hispanic borrowers are roughly eighteen thousand, six
- 15:54Speaker 1: hundred eighty five dollars and fifteen thousand, eight hundred and
- 15:57Speaker 1: fifty three dollars, respectively. So that's quite a big difference.
- 16:02Speaker 1: Is quite a big difference from the Washington Former quote.
- 16:06Speaker 1: According to the Institute on Assets and Social Policy, after
- 16:10Speaker 1: twenty years in repayment, the typical black borrowers still owes
- 16:15Speaker 1: of their cumulative borrowing total, while similarly situated white burrowers
- 16:20Speaker 1: have reduced their debt by with nearly half of white
- 16:25Speaker 1: borrowers holding no student debt at all. And from the
- 16:29Speaker 1: desk of Congresswoman Ayana Pressley quote, the student debt crisis
- 16:35Speaker 1: is one that uniquely affects Black women, who are the
- 16:38Speaker 1: most educated and indebted democraphic group in our country. Generations
- 16:43Speaker 1: of policy violence and discriminatory policies like redlining and predatory
- 16:48Speaker 1: lending have denied our families the opportunity to build wealth
- 16:53Speaker 1: and have forced us to take on crushing amounts of
- 16:55Speaker 1: debt that have severely limited our economic futures. Black women
- 17:00Speaker 1: oh twenty two percent more than the average student debtload
- 17:04Speaker 1: of white women, and are the most systematically underpaid, earning
- 17:09Speaker 1: just sixty four cents to every dollar earned by white men.
- 17:13Speaker 1: The disparate impact of the pandemic has only exacerbated these inequities,
- 17:19Speaker 1: which yes, we have talked about. We cannot separate the
- 17:24Speaker 1: gender wage gap and then all the intersectionalities within that.
- 17:28Speaker 1: In this conversation from American Progress dot org, students attending
- 17:33Speaker 1: private for profit colleges how the worst default rates across
- 17:37Speaker 1: all institution types one third of all borrowers defaulted within
- 17:41Speaker 1: six years of starting at a private for profit institution,
- 17:45Speaker 1: including forty two percent of Black or African American borrowers.
- 17:49Speaker 1: While the default rates for private for profit institutions are alarming,
- 17:54Speaker 1: there are also concerning gaps by race at public and
- 17:58Speaker 1: private nonprofit four year inst tuitions. At these schools, black
- 18:02Speaker 1: are African American borrowers at a default rate nearly four
- 18:06Speaker 1: times greater than white borrowers and more than double that
- 18:11Speaker 1: of Hispanic or Latino borrowers. And more women are completing
- 18:16Speaker 1: degrees as compared to men, and they are more likely
- 18:20Speaker 1: to pursue higher education as compared to men right now,
- 18:24Speaker 1: but that all comes out of cost. According to the
- 18:28Speaker 1: American Association of University Women the a a u W,
- 18:32Speaker 1: which we've mentioned earlier, the average American woman holds about
- 18:35Speaker 1: thirty one thousand, two hundred and seventy six dollars in
- 18:39Speaker 1: student debt. This translates to an average monthly bill of
- 18:43Speaker 1: three hundred and seven dollars beginning the month after graduation.
- 18:48Speaker 1: At the same time, a woman exiting college with a
- 18:52Speaker 1: bachelor's degree, they are nuring a job force where their
- 18:56Speaker 1: average salaries around thirty five thousand, three thirty eight dollars,
- 19:01Speaker 1: so already this is not good um, which is about
- 19:06Speaker 1: of what men are expected to earn. By the way,
- 19:09Speaker 1: they also found that forty one percent of female undergraduates
- 19:13Speaker 1: took on debt in the latest figures available, compared to
- 19:19Speaker 1: thirty five percent of male undergraduates upon completion of a
- 19:23Speaker 1: bachelor's degree. Women's average student debt is about two thousand,
- 19:26Speaker 1: seven hundred dollars greater than men's, and Black women take
- 19:29Speaker 1: on more student debt on average than do members of
- 19:32Speaker 1: any other group, So obviously this is a financial burden
- 19:39Speaker 1: and is on top of housing, car payments, children um
- 19:43Speaker 1: if if children are in the mix, and after women graduate,
- 19:47Speaker 1: they face a gender wage gap, one that is worse
- 19:52Speaker 1: for women of color and lgbt Q plus folks, and this,
- 19:56Speaker 1: among other things, means it will take them at least
- 20:01Speaker 1: two years more to pay their student debt compared to men.
- 20:06Speaker 1: And all of this compounds into women not having as
- 20:10Speaker 1: much to go into retirement or savings, which is a
- 20:14Speaker 1: huge deal. And as we've discussed during our many episodes
- 20:19Speaker 1: on how the pandemic hit women harder and women of
- 20:23Speaker 1: color harder in the early months of the pandemic, Women
- 20:26Speaker 1: accounted for almost sixty of unemployment claims, often because of
- 20:30Speaker 1: the types of professions they were in and or having
- 20:34Speaker 1: to stay home to school their children. And on top
- 20:38Speaker 1: of that, while more women are attending college than ever before,
- 20:42Speaker 1: the cost has risen exponentially, doubling over the past generation.
- 20:46Speaker 1: And this while incomes have remained stagnant. Uh and the
- 20:52Speaker 1: expectations of women around cleaning, childering, and basic domesticity are
- 20:57Speaker 1: still far higher than what they are from men and
- 21:00Speaker 1: who That's not the only layer to the conversation, according
- 21:04Speaker 1: to ernest dot com. While this might not be the
- 21:07Speaker 1: case in every household, a seventeen survey by t ro
- 21:10Speaker 1: Price showed that the parents of all boys were saving
- 21:14Speaker 1: more and willing to spend more on their kids college
- 21:18Speaker 1: education than parents of all girls. Of parents with only
- 21:23Speaker 1: boys has started to save money for their college education
- 21:26Speaker 1: compared with thirty nine of parents who had only girls
- 21:32Speaker 1: and from Investipedia quote. In fact, female bars typically require
- 21:38Speaker 1: more education to earn a wage equal to less educated men.
- 21:42Speaker 1: To exceed the lifetime earnings of a male graduate with
- 21:46Speaker 1: just an associate degree, a woman may need to earn
- 21:49Speaker 1: at least a master's degree. Those who receive a graduate
- 21:54Speaker 1: education to counter at pay gaps will ultimately take on
- 21:57Speaker 1: even more debt and pay more or in the long run.
- 22:02Speaker 1: And further, according to the Center for Responsible Lending, approximately
- 22:06Speaker 1: tw of all college students in twent eighteen were parents
- 22:11Speaker 1: with dependent children, more than of parents were single mothers
- 22:18Speaker 1: who oh gosh. And further, of all enrolled college students
- 22:24Speaker 1: work while studying right uh and honestly, specific needs or
- 22:30Speaker 1: higher education for a lot of the fields that we
- 22:34Speaker 1: see women, especially black women, marginalist people go into more
- 22:38Speaker 1: oftentimes pay less, but require a higher degree UM. Like
- 22:43Speaker 1: the agency that I worked with, masters often was required,
- 22:46Speaker 1: but the cap of the salaries fifty thousand for a
- 22:50Speaker 1: master's um. And that's maybe if you've been in there
- 22:53Speaker 1: for a while and you've got some incentives like being
- 22:56Speaker 1: a part of the military or something previously, and the
- 22:58Speaker 1: fact that it takes that level to get to there,
- 23:01Speaker 1: like I was saying, in that same agency, I started
- 23:04Speaker 1: off with seven with a college with a requirement for
- 23:06Speaker 1: a college degree. You move up and it went up
- 23:09Speaker 1: to twenty nine to thirty three to thirty six, so
- 23:13Speaker 1: it's phenomenally less. And if you were trying to actually
- 23:16Speaker 1: get a degree at the same time, it was almost
- 23:19Speaker 1: impossible because it would take you six years with lots
- 23:22Speaker 1: of debt because most likely you're gonna do it online.
- 23:24Speaker 1: And for a long time, it was only privatized for
- 23:27Speaker 1: profit colleges that were offering those type of degrees UM,
- 23:31Speaker 1: So therefore you were taking advantage of extremely because that's
- 23:34Speaker 1: the only ones that really offered to people who have
- 23:36Speaker 1: full time job, of family, any of those things. UM
- 23:39Speaker 1: and hopefully you have access to the computer, because if
- 23:41Speaker 1: you don't, that's a whole different conversation. In my lifetime,
- 23:45Speaker 1: when I was trying to figure out if I wanted
- 23:46Speaker 1: to go back for my master's because I wanted to
- 23:50Speaker 1: go into a deeper field. But at the same time,
- 23:52Speaker 1: you know, it wasn't about the money. I knew I
- 23:54Speaker 1: would have to go into even more debt because I
- 23:56Speaker 1: would not qualify for the same UH scholars ships that
- 24:00Speaker 1: you as you do UM. And then master's program costs
- 24:03Speaker 1: about twice or three times to four times as the
- 24:06Speaker 1: undergraduate programs do, so it's significantly more. At the same time,
- 24:10Speaker 1: trying to do homework and as I talked about in
- 24:13Speaker 1: social work, and I'm sure many other films. You have
- 24:15Speaker 1: to do a practicum or an internship that takes up
- 24:18Speaker 1: twenty hours of your week as well. There's a lot
- 24:20Speaker 1: it is. It is such a lot, and I it
- 24:26Speaker 1: kind of sounds trite, but I'm just reminded of when
- 24:28Speaker 1: we played Life together, Samantha, the game of Life, and
- 24:33Speaker 1: so much of it felt like a pay to play,
- 24:35Speaker 1: and this that this feels like that to me, Like
- 24:38Speaker 1: you have to pay, you have to go into debt. Two,
- 24:43Speaker 1: get this degree that will supposedly get you the job,
- 24:46Speaker 1: but it doesn't really get you the job anymore like
- 24:49Speaker 1: it might, but it's not a guarantee at all. And yeah,
- 24:54Speaker 1: so if you aren't able to find a well paying
- 24:58Speaker 1: job after graduating, as many are not, and you can't
- 25:02Speaker 1: pay your student loans, a person can be labeled as
- 25:05Speaker 1: such a linquent, which can in turn lead to their
- 25:09Speaker 1: loans defaulting, which in turn can put a major dint
- 25:13Speaker 1: in their credit report, which I still think is nonsense,
- 25:16Speaker 1: but that's a future episode. Whether or not it's nonsense,
- 25:21Speaker 1: it can be a huge deal and it can affect
- 25:24Speaker 1: a lot of what you want to buy or accomplish.
- 25:28Speaker 1: Um and the type of college matters too. Here's another
- 25:32Speaker 1: quote from Investipedia. Although all of these amounts are high,
- 25:36Speaker 1: the difference between the cost of public for your institutions
- 25:39Speaker 1: and for profit for your ones is stark. They may
- 25:42Speaker 1: not enroll as many students as public universities, but for
- 25:46Speaker 1: profit institutions disproportionately enroll women, particularly Black women and ors
- 25:50Speaker 1: single mothers. And they also report from one to four
- 25:55Speaker 1: years falling graduation, women have paid off thirty one percent
- 25:59Speaker 1: of their out standing debt, compared to the thirty eight
- 26:02Speaker 1: percent that men paid off. Black and Hispanic women were
- 26:06Speaker 1: significantly further behind during the same time period, at twelve
- 26:09Speaker 1: percent to eighteen percent, respectively. Additionally, the A A u
- 26:14Speaker 1: W found that fifty seven percent of Black female borrowers
- 26:18Speaker 1: and two thousand and eight to two thousand twelve faced
- 26:21Speaker 1: financial difficulties while paying down their debt, compared to forty
- 26:26Speaker 1: and for Hispanic, White, and Asian women respectively. And when
- 26:33Speaker 1: it comes to the l G B, t Q plus community,
- 26:36Speaker 1: numbers are lacking, but one study from the Williams Institute
- 26:41Speaker 1: out of u c. L A School of Law found
- 26:43Speaker 1: that fifty one percent of trans adults have taken out
- 26:47Speaker 1: federal educational loans in comparison to thirty five point nine
- 26:50Speaker 1: percent of l b q CIS gendered women and twenty
- 26:54Speaker 1: seven point nine percent of g b q CIS gendered men.
- 26:59Speaker 1: On top of that, trans people are more likely to
- 27:01Speaker 1: go through credit rejection. People who identify as LGBTQ plus
- 27:07Speaker 1: oh an average sixteen thousand dollars more as compared to
- 27:11Speaker 1: those who do not identify that way. And here's another
- 27:15Speaker 1: quote from INVESTIPDIA. Additionally, a seventeen survey conducted by the
- 27:21Speaker 1: Center for the Study of Student Life at the Ohio
- 27:24Speaker 1: State University found that the two d forty four participants
- 27:28Speaker 1: who identified as either transgender men are gender non conforming
- 27:32Speaker 1: were more likely to take out a loan to pay
- 27:35Speaker 1: for college eight two somewhat more likely to have student
- 27:39Speaker 1: loan debt three point nine percent, and slightly more likely
- 27:43Speaker 1: to rely on financial assistance from family members to pay
- 27:46Speaker 1: for college expenses to percent than their CIS gender counterparts.
- 27:51Speaker 1: The report also detailed how trans folks were more likely
- 27:55Speaker 1: to face discrimination, rejection, and bullying, leading them to drop
- 27:59Speaker 1: out of school or for their grades or suffer, and
- 28:03Speaker 1: perhaps prolonging their schooling and increasing their debt um So
- 28:09Speaker 1: there's that and then all of the sticks around from
- 28:14Speaker 1: go banking. About fourteen percent of women in that age
- 28:18Speaker 1: range have ten thousand to thirty thousand in student loan debts,
- 28:21Speaker 1: and another fourteen percent have thirty thousand and one dollars
- 28:26Speaker 1: to fifty thousand. That means that at the age when
- 28:30Speaker 1: they should be scrambling to max out, there four o
- 28:32Speaker 1: one ks and I raise more than one woman in
- 28:36Speaker 1: four is approaching retirement with ten thousand to fifty thousand
- 28:40Speaker 1: dollars in student loan debt. About seven percent have fifty
- 28:45Speaker 1: thousand and one dollar to seventy thousand in college debt,
- 28:50Speaker 1: and four percent to have between seventy thousand and one
- 28:52Speaker 1: dollar and one hundred thousand dollars, and another four percent
- 28:57Speaker 1: have more than one hundred thousand dollars. And so this
- 29:01Speaker 1: has been a very quote heavy and number heavy episode.
- 29:04Speaker 1: But I just want to reiterate the mental toll, the
- 29:10Speaker 1: emotional toll that this has um which I've seen in
- 29:14Speaker 1: my friends. Like I said, I've seen them cry when
- 29:17Speaker 1: they finally paid off their loans. I've seen them cry
- 29:20Speaker 1: when they realized they wouldn't be paying off their loans
- 29:23Speaker 1: as quickly as they thought they would, and just this
- 29:27Speaker 1: thing that hovers over you, UM that you know. I
- 29:38Speaker 1: don't want to speak for everybody, but from personal experience,
- 29:40Speaker 1: like sometimes you go to school and you don't know
- 29:42Speaker 1: what you want UM, you don't know what you really
- 29:46Speaker 1: want to do, and then to be in debt for
- 29:50Speaker 1: something that maybe is not going to serve you, whether
- 29:55Speaker 1: it's because times have changed and the college degree to
- 30:00Speaker 1: doesn't mean as much as it once did, or because
- 30:03Speaker 1: you were young when you decided to do this thing
- 30:05Speaker 1: and then you change your mind, like have this just
- 30:11Speaker 1: bill like always coming, you owe this much money. It
- 30:15Speaker 1: takes an emotional toll. I mean definitely. When you talk
- 30:18Speaker 1: about people who don't know what they want to do,
- 30:20Speaker 1: they often don't use the degree that they get UM
- 30:23Speaker 1: because they had no idea what it would involve and
- 30:25Speaker 1: it doesn't have real worlds applications UM when you leave,
- 30:29Speaker 1: and I'm thinking about both my my field and like
- 30:32Speaker 1: I did know what I wanted when I left, Obviously
- 30:35Speaker 1: I couldn't sustain it because it wasn't enough for me
- 30:38Speaker 1: to live on UM in that field. And I know
- 30:41Speaker 1: people who do it, but I also know people who
- 30:43Speaker 1: do it are in like a couple of theom that
- 30:45Speaker 1: are able to have dual income, and they still that's
- 30:47Speaker 1: still a stretch. That's still a stretch. And even those
- 30:50Speaker 1: people go into what I've done to when I had
- 30:53Speaker 1: two or three jobs at a time, um, trying to
- 30:55Speaker 1: do so. I have a friend who she got her
- 30:59Speaker 1: masters and she works in the same field, but she's
- 31:02Speaker 1: having to do another job on top of that because
- 31:04Speaker 1: she's still paying off not only her debt but just
- 31:07Speaker 1: trying to live day by day. Um. And what is
- 31:11Speaker 1: increasingly become unfair for those who we would look put
- 31:14Speaker 1: in the lower economic status, uh, just having struggles in
- 31:18Speaker 1: society because we cannot pay rent, we cannot pay uh
- 31:22Speaker 1: car payments, we cannot pay with inflation all those things
- 31:26Speaker 1: that this cost of just getting food has gotten high,
- 31:30Speaker 1: and it's always gone high, and then we don't have
- 31:32Speaker 1: an increase on what was the minimum wage. So therefore,
- 31:36Speaker 1: if the bottom, if the person who is getting paid
- 31:38Speaker 1: the bare minimum is not enough for a living wage
- 31:41Speaker 1: from even ten years ago, there's no up ladder for
- 31:44Speaker 1: anybody else either, because that's still the president that it holds.
- 31:49Speaker 1: Unless it's a nonprofit, which maybe you can get into,
- 31:52Speaker 1: you better hope you can get into, but you better.
- 31:54Speaker 1: Hope you've had experience to get into that. There's so
- 31:56Speaker 1: many things that causes so many issues with these conversations,
- 32:01Speaker 1: because we also know that the credit system that gets
- 32:03Speaker 1: set up to nineteen nine and the same people who
- 32:06Speaker 1: are whining about the fact that we need to just
- 32:07Speaker 1: get over and pay for it are the pa people
- 32:09Speaker 1: who never had to deal with the same level of
- 32:12Speaker 1: scrutiny that we have to. We know that these practices
- 32:15Speaker 1: were placed to give capitalist ideas a step above and
- 32:19Speaker 1: putting and this was a racist tactic in what is
- 32:23Speaker 1: being placed on who is being economically who has had
- 32:27Speaker 1: given the economic advantage. And I say this as a
- 32:30Speaker 1: person that is uh, I guess my debt is like
- 32:33Speaker 1: a white person, even though Asian people have done a
- 32:36Speaker 1: little better, because that's a whole different conversation, you know,
- 32:40Speaker 1: like there's this a whole level um. But when it
- 32:43Speaker 1: comes down to it, it's so I I gave up
- 32:47Speaker 1: at one point time when I went into when I
- 32:49Speaker 1: lost my job, trying to figure out what I want
- 32:50Speaker 1: to do, not trying not to lose my mind or
- 32:54Speaker 1: maybe my saying my health. Um, I gave up and
- 32:58Speaker 1: it really really was I'll never be able to be
- 33:00Speaker 1: free of this. So therefore I'll just pay the MINIMU
- 33:03Speaker 1: until I die and hope that it just disappears after
- 33:06Speaker 1: that because I think my parents will be dead. I'm
- 33:08Speaker 1: not gonna have kids, so they're not gonna take it.
- 33:10Speaker 1: So let's just cross our fingers that's what's gonna happen.
- 33:15Speaker 1: Because there's so much to that that I'm like, I
- 33:18Speaker 1: can never do a job that's so stressful, but I
- 33:22Speaker 1: feel like I was supposed to do and pay off.
- 33:25Speaker 1: So if I was getting, like, if you think about mathematically,
- 33:28Speaker 1: my actual salary before taxes was twenty seven nineties something
- 33:34Speaker 1: n something. Takeaway taxes, we know that's like a third
- 33:37Speaker 1: of it is gone. So now we're putting it down
- 33:39Speaker 1: to sixteen thousand a year and then trying to live
- 33:42Speaker 1: on my own, having my own car payments, paying bills,
- 33:45Speaker 1: having the student low that is not helping me whatsoever.
- 33:49Speaker 1: And if I may maybe can do extracurricular stuff, then yeah.
- 33:55Speaker 1: But I literally was getting I think at that point,
- 33:58Speaker 1: eight hundred and seven dollars per paycheck, which was like
- 34:02Speaker 1: right for a new person who never had money outside
- 34:04Speaker 1: of the minimum wage, and that was below minimum wage
- 34:08Speaker 1: for the hours that I was working. It was almost
- 34:10Speaker 1: impossible to keep up with too high. Maybe it was
- 34:15Speaker 1: like seven yeah, I think it was seven something because
- 34:18Speaker 1: I was trying to figure it out. And this includes
- 34:20Speaker 1: hopefully I'm being healthy and I don't have to go
- 34:23Speaker 1: see a doctor, because all of that is a part
- 34:25Speaker 1: of this. Um. I just literally it was. I would
- 34:30Speaker 1: sit I remember sitting crying at my friends trying to
- 34:33Speaker 1: figure out how to do this, how to pay my
- 34:36Speaker 1: bills because what I was doing was getting credit cards
- 34:39Speaker 1: with high interest rate and paying it with that, so
- 34:41Speaker 1: that was not helpful either because I was trying to
- 34:43Speaker 1: obtain so I just finally gave up on everything, on everything.
- 34:47Speaker 1: You know. I actually got a dog, which was amazing
- 34:50Speaker 1: for my mental health, but I had always had to
- 34:52Speaker 1: pay four thousand dollars for his health bills, so on
- 34:56Speaker 1: top of that, it was it was impossible. I never
- 35:00Speaker 1: felt so defeated, and I still kind of feel that
- 35:04Speaker 1: way today, like I've got I'm in a better place. Obviously,
- 35:06Speaker 1: I've been able to buy a house, and I'm not gloating,
- 35:08Speaker 1: but honestly it's because it was paused and the way
- 35:12Speaker 1: everything worked out, it got bought out by different companies,
- 35:15Speaker 1: so it looked like it got paid off. So I
- 35:17Speaker 1: hit the sweet spot. I'm saying, I'm very very personal
- 35:20Speaker 1: about my finances about this, but I had a sweet
- 35:22Speaker 1: spot where it didn't show up on my credit so
- 35:25Speaker 1: I was able to have more borrowing power, which I
- 35:28Speaker 1: didn't go. I didn't go outside of my scale. I
- 35:31Speaker 1: was like, nope, I've I've I've learned at this point,
- 35:35Speaker 1: I've learned better. Um. But yeah, it's a hard thing
- 35:38Speaker 1: coming back into this reality and checking it and trying
- 35:40Speaker 1: to figure out how to do best do this and
- 35:42Speaker 1: knowing that I'm in a better place than I was before,
- 35:45Speaker 1: but also filled this whole like I cannot believe I'm
- 35:47Speaker 1: still dealing with this twenty years later, Um, for a
- 35:51Speaker 1: degree that literally got me paid nothing, and then being
- 35:56Speaker 1: told it's so important. I think that's the one of
- 36:00Speaker 1: the biggest things that's frustrated me about this whole conversation
- 36:07Speaker 1: is that the idea is you go to college, you'll
- 36:10Speaker 1: get a well paying job, and that's not true. It
- 36:15Speaker 1: might be, but generally that is not something you can
- 36:18Speaker 1: trust anymore, if it ever was something you can trust. Ever,
- 36:38Speaker 1: we do have some I don't know possible solutions things
- 36:43Speaker 1: people are talking about, right, Samantha, So I guess we
- 36:47Speaker 1: do have some new conversations because it's become part of
- 36:50Speaker 1: the limeline have been a big controversy, but we know
- 36:53Speaker 1: doing the pandemic, there's been a pause on the federal
- 36:56Speaker 1: sort of loan payments. Again, like I said, it's helped
- 36:58Speaker 1: me out um and through these talks of extensions, and
- 37:03Speaker 1: there may be more. There's more talks of it coming through,
- 37:05Speaker 1: possibly until at least three who knows, because it's supposed
- 37:09Speaker 1: to end this month. But the end is nigh as
- 37:12Speaker 1: as we would like to say, because we know this
- 37:14Speaker 1: can't be forever. Just like how little stimulus they gave us,
- 37:17Speaker 1: this is very little that they will give us as well.
- 37:20Speaker 1: But the discussion has been ongoing, um and so we
- 37:23Speaker 1: thought we would take a moment to talk about what
- 37:26Speaker 1: some of these solutions that have been proposed by different organizations,
- 37:29Speaker 1: maybe our federal representatives, whatever, and even individuals, about best
- 37:34Speaker 1: possible solutions. Of course, the big one which I've been
- 37:38Speaker 1: really crossing my fingers for it and a lot of
- 37:39Speaker 1: us have, is just canceling all of the student debt,
- 37:42Speaker 1: just point blake, canceling it now um. Of course this
- 37:45Speaker 1: would be too close to having a free education and
- 37:49Speaker 1: to socialists, I'm sure for so many people, So the
- 37:52Speaker 1: likelihood of this is very, very low. We also know
- 37:55Speaker 1: when it comes to UH capitalism, federal loans, educational loans
- 38:00Speaker 1: have been privatized Thanks Day, it was priortized before. Don't
- 38:05Speaker 1: get me started. But as well as the fact that yes,
- 38:09Speaker 1: people have a lot of money in this to get
- 38:12Speaker 1: those interest rates, to get that payment, because that's how
- 38:14Speaker 1: they trickle into the economy, is taking it from people
- 38:18Speaker 1: at the bottom of the wrong We know this, UM.
- 38:21Speaker 1: But another idea, and the one that seems to be
- 38:24Speaker 1: kind of the most likely today. You know, I'll say
- 38:27Speaker 1: that today because it changes a lot, is for giving
- 38:30Speaker 1: up to somewhere in the ten thousand to fifty thousand range.
- 38:34Speaker 1: So the conversation has thrown out all these different numbers. UH.
- 38:38Speaker 1: One has been the ten thousand, and there's another twenty
- 38:40Speaker 1: five thousand, there's another fifty thousand, and ideas run from
- 38:43Speaker 1: having the Secretary of Education to move forward with legislation
- 38:48Speaker 1: to get in that to Biden. President Biden actually signing
- 38:52Speaker 1: an executive order, which was actually one of the things
- 38:55Speaker 1: that Elizabeth Warren. Representative Warren has put her platform against
- 39:00Speaker 1: say our cancel student loans, and she has been a
- 39:02Speaker 1: big voice in this, as well as several other representatives
- 39:05Speaker 1: as well. But she's talking about doing an executive order
- 39:09Speaker 1: in order to do that. But currently White House Press
- 39:12Speaker 1: Secretary has alluded to the fact that Biden will more
- 39:15Speaker 1: more likely signed for a ten tho dollar forgiveness for everyone,
- 39:19Speaker 1: which I've seen comments of like, that's great and all,
- 39:21Speaker 1: but how does that really help for an eighty thousand
- 39:23Speaker 1: dollar a loan that I have? And again, when we
- 39:26Speaker 1: talk about what it looks like with interest rates and
- 39:28Speaker 1: what you're paying off, and I know this happens with houses.
- 39:31Speaker 1: To this, this whole system is corrupt. And of course
- 39:35Speaker 1: there has been suggestions that there should be no interest loans,
- 39:39Speaker 1: as in zero interests, which has been a pain in
- 39:43Speaker 1: the butt for many of people. This interest rate. Again,
- 39:45Speaker 1: I say this, even though the interest rates is low,
- 39:48Speaker 1: when it completely spirals out, it's like a never ending hole. Um.
- 39:53Speaker 1: But then there's another possibility, which is to offer zero
- 39:56Speaker 1: percent interests until twenty four which sounds like a really
- 40:01Speaker 1: big cop out to me. Um. But yeah, one of
- 40:05Speaker 1: the short term ideas UM, and then there's a conversation,
- 40:08Speaker 1: what about the bigger picture, what about the long term fixes? UM,
- 40:11Speaker 1: and some have had suggested the usage of the public
- 40:14Speaker 1: service alone forgiveness. As a person who was in public service,
- 40:18Speaker 1: it is so difficult to get this type of loan,
- 40:21Speaker 1: and by the way, you have to be there for
- 40:23Speaker 1: ten years uninterrupted with perfect credit almost and perfect payment
- 40:29Speaker 1: repayment records, as well as you must get documentation from
- 40:33Speaker 1: each employee that the the level of requirements that you
- 40:38Speaker 1: have to meet is hard y'all, and that's why so
- 40:41Speaker 1: many people were denied and people trying to use this
- 40:43Speaker 1: as I see, we're doing something different. We're helping, we're
- 40:46Speaker 1: helping our teachers and our people. They're not they're not,
- 40:50Speaker 1: they're not. This was introduced, by the way, in two
- 40:52Speaker 1: thousand seven UM, but has not been usable until this
- 40:55Speaker 1: year really with previous restrictions being changed as well as
- 40:59Speaker 1: some are ineligible payments to be counted, so there's a
- 41:03Speaker 1: type of loan that you can count this for. But
- 41:05Speaker 1: now you can chaunt these UM. So the waiver has changed,
- 41:08Speaker 1: but that has a time limit right now. So if
- 41:10Speaker 1: you don't do it, I think before December, you cannot
- 41:13Speaker 1: qualify it. But that that is that conversation about trying
- 41:16Speaker 1: to extend uh these waivers um. And I would say
- 41:20Speaker 1: I don't qualify because I'm not there. Still I really
- 41:23Speaker 1: want because at least you just take it off for
- 41:25Speaker 1: the ten years out worth there um. So Uh. There's
- 41:29Speaker 1: also the conversation of making the income driven payments, which
- 41:32Speaker 1: I talked about earlier, which has always been an option
- 41:35Speaker 1: but not necessarily helpful when it comes to paying off
- 41:38Speaker 1: again the principle I have to keep talking about that
- 41:41Speaker 1: more accessible, as well as capping the monthly payments to
- 41:44Speaker 1: ten percent or less of the discretionary income, so that
- 41:47Speaker 1: would make it significant. But again, if they don't change
- 41:49Speaker 1: what kind of interest rates they are getting, it doesn't matter.
- 41:53Speaker 1: They're just paying off the interest rates. Uh. Again, at
- 41:55Speaker 1: the very least putting people who have defaulted on the
- 41:58Speaker 1: loans to go to good staying in their credit reports,
- 42:01Speaker 1: which would be significantly helpful for those who have defaulted. Again,
- 42:05Speaker 1: this is a minor solution for a huge problem that
- 42:09Speaker 1: doesn't seem like it's going to elevate much at all. Um. Again.
- 42:12Speaker 1: But even with all of these ideas, outside of outright
- 42:15Speaker 1: again canceling out right all of the student debt, the
- 42:19Speaker 1: overall debt can still be a deterrent for so many
- 42:21Speaker 1: people trying to get debt free, uh and trying to
- 42:23Speaker 1: move forward in their lives, whether includes trying to buy
- 42:26Speaker 1: large purchases is like a home or trying to start
- 42:30Speaker 1: the next phase in their family planning. This is a
- 42:33Speaker 1: huge impact and what is happening. It carries on for
- 42:36Speaker 1: a long long time. And again there's also this whole
- 42:39Speaker 1: level of buying out which I mentioned earlier, that causes
- 42:43Speaker 1: so much confusion and can cause a lot of chaos. Yeah,
- 42:47Speaker 1: it is a very confusing conversation in a lot of ways.
- 42:50Speaker 1: And it's one of those things that the more I
- 42:53Speaker 1: read about it, the more I was like, Yeah, this
- 42:56Speaker 1: is this is messed up that we're essentially expecting people
- 43:00Speaker 1: to go into debts so they can make money maybe
- 43:03Speaker 1: and they probably won't um and this will be haunting
- 43:07Speaker 1: them for the rest of their lives. It does have
- 43:09Speaker 1: a huge emotional mental toll. It does have a huge
- 43:13Speaker 1: impact on family planning, on like buying, how anything, any
- 43:17Speaker 1: of your future decisions. It just seems like another way
- 43:23Speaker 1: we're set up to fail. Yeah, indeed, indeed, And I
- 43:29Speaker 1: just want to say this has been uh kind of
- 43:32Speaker 1: a negative I guess the downer, which we we don't
- 43:35Speaker 1: shy away from ever. But I do want to say
- 43:38Speaker 1: I really enjoyed my college experience. I feel like I
- 43:42Speaker 1: learned a lot that wasn't even the subjects I study,
- 43:46Speaker 1: but also just had to argue and formulate points. And
- 43:50Speaker 1: you know, the college experience can vary for people. I
- 43:53Speaker 1: made friendships and memories that have lasted my life. My
- 43:56Speaker 1: dad was a college professor and he was adamant and
- 44:02Speaker 1: um just really really it was so important to him.
- 44:08Speaker 1: It was so important to him, and he loved doing that.
- 44:10Speaker 1: UM So, I don't want it to sound like we're
- 44:15Speaker 1: saying I never go to college, but there's something wrong here,
- 44:18Speaker 1: Like this is this is not set up in a
- 44:22Speaker 1: way that is working. I hope that we can find
- 44:25Speaker 1: a way so that it is accessible for everybody and
- 44:29Speaker 1: it does not come with a massive debt. Well, you know,
- 44:33Speaker 1: welcome back to school, as we said, and as always,
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- 44:41Speaker 1: into further about this, or personal stories you'd like to
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