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A new level of brave · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places for chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the chicken coop.
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  So today is a special day because today is going out to
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  someone that I love very much and I will not mention her name
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  but she knows who she is, and she knows how much she's loved.
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  She listens every single day and today is in honor of her bravery
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  and the fact that she is stepping up to the plate and
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  doing things for herself. So Oftentimes, we get put into
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  situations that are not great. We accept things from people
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  that are not great. We put up with lots of crap.
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  We are gas-lit. We are told certain things and
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  we just seem to find ways to take it.
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  Even though our soul tells us clearly, this is not right,
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  something is not right, but we're just not always good
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  listeners because we think we have to give the benefit of the
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  doubt. I myself have Done this
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  situation in the past where I'm like, oh well, maybe it will
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  shift, maybe this will change, maybe they will be kinder, maybe
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  it will get better. But the reality is, it does not.
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  And the reality is that because human beings have a tough time
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  with change to begin with most of us prefer not to have change.
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  We unless it's very, very happy. We don't want it at all and we
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  don't realize that you Have to go through the crap to get to
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  the good side and that is pretty standard.
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  Operating procedure. You've tip typically got to go
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  through some pain to get to the good stuff think of working out,
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  your body. Just doesn't look great.
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  Unless you go through the pain and what I find so interesting
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  about that is that, you know, we all want the outcome but we
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  don't want to make the effort. And when we make the effort,
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  everything changes, it's just like if somebody says, hey, I'm
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  going to lose an awful lot of weight.
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  And I know before I even get to the gym and start working out,
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  the thing I have to do is change my eating patterns, will guess
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  what? When you go to do that, it's
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  really hard, not to eat that half of a sandwich that your kid
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  just left, sitting on the counter because it's wasteful
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  and it conflicts, with other things.
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  And it's hard not to order the candy when you go to the movie.
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  And it's hard not to think about that chocolate chip cookie
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  that's sitting right there. And, you know, it's only We
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  calories it, should be fine, except that it's on top of all
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  the other stuff and we have to go through the pain of letting
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  it go. And sometimes our pain is huge,
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  switching jobs, switching relationships going through all
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  of this it requires a real special, special spot in
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  ourselves that says, I will not lie to myself.
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  This is not right for me. I am going to change this and
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  right now, I know that this is what Person is going through one
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  because I love her to death and two because I have seen it
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  happen over the years and I've watched how she has been able
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  to, you know, give an opportunity.
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  And I'm not saying that people should not get opportunities
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  because I've been in situations where I have had to give
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  opportunities to people, and people have had to give
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  opportunities to me. And you know what?
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  They took them, and they didn't ruin those opportunities.
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  But when somebody takes Takes the opportunity and somebody
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  ruins it and then it starts back and it goes into this hellacious
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  thing that it sometimes. Does you have to be brave for
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  yourself? You have to believe of what's on
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  the other side. You have to look and say, this
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  is just me where I am right now. This is not going to be where I
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  stay. This is just where I am right
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  now. And when you start looking at
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  this, as it's just a right now, it's not a forever.
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  Make sure you have the ability to be a little bit.
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  Braver a little bit more thoughtful about the whole
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  thing, a little bit more insightful.
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  And most importantly you start to Future Pace, what that really
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  could look like on the other side and you start to get
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  excited. And that's what I'm talking
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  about. Looking at that piece of it and
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  saying I can do this, I can I can change my work schedule, I
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  can work harder, I can think differently I can be creative.
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  I can do something for myself. I can put myself into a
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  completely different place so that I can change my world and I
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  can change my outcome. And then once you have that
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  vision of I can then you go to I will and you get excited about I
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  will and then you start to see it as if it's already done and
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  the key is seeing it as if it's already done.
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  So every day, every single day you work towards I do, I'm there
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  I am there. Now I will be there, I am there
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  and yes your brain screws with you a little bit and it is hard
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  to see it that way. It is hard because your brain
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  goes no we're not. No we're not and you have to
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  just say understood on the way. In that moment I'm going to
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  change my language and you keep testing it and testing it.
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  Testing the language. There is resistance in the
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  beginning to language, but you can move through that.
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  I promise you, you can move through it sometimes Harder than
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  others for me, you know, dr. Joseph Murphy teaches at the
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  best way is like, if you have trouble thinking about having
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  abundance and you're struggling with that third term of
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  abundance because you say, I'm not abundant, then the biggest
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  thing that you can do for yourself, is to change it in and
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  just think the word abundance don't say, I am abundant, you
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  just think the word abundance. And then eventually, it all
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  evens itself out and you start to be able to do it and think of
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  it the right way. Just take your time, be patient.
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  But in any event in this moment in this way, I wanted to use
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  this person that I adore. So much as an example for
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  everybody else out there who might be struggling with stuff
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  and who might be on that precipice of something new.
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  You know we're coming up on the end of the year we're all going
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  to be working towards cool stuff to finish up this year and then
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  getting to the next year of whatever your goal might be as a
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  as apparently, Greta wants to get in on this conversation with
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  And moving into that space, you want to be strong.
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  You want to be in the best head space that you can possibly be
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  and that requires you to see yourself and be brave.
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  Just be brave. Don't worry, just be brave.
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  You can always change direction, you can always do something.
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  But standing up for yourself means you got to stay Brave
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  every day. And just be like, I am a badass
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  Brave person. I am brave.
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  I am so brave, keep Telling yourself that keep putting
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  yourself in that space, and I promise you will have an amazing
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  transformation within your own personality within your own
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  life. Because when you show up with
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  that trait, you transform, so go out there and be brave for
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  yourself and to this person who I adore more than anything you
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  got this. I love you.
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  I hope you guys have a blessed day.
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  I'll see you tomorrow. Bye.