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Ditching Perfection: The Real Secret to Iconic Entertaining with expert Lora Peterson · The Iconic Midlife with Roxy Manning

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  Oh,
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  my
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  God,
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  it's.
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  That
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  is
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  a
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  sexy
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  Friday
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  night,
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  right?
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  A
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  container
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  store
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  is
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  sexy
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  and
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  I
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  think
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  salt
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  and
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  pepper
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  is
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  sexy.
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  Right.
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  I
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  mean,
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  I'm
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  telling
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  my
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  age,
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  right?
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  You're
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  probably
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  people
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  being
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  overserved
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  maybe,
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  right?
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  That
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  is,
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  That's
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  a
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  big
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  thing
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  that
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  happens,
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  right?
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  That's
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  a
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  big
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  one.
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  That's
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  true.
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  I
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  love
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  that
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  you
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  brought
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  that
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  up
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  because
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  I
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  think,
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  as
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  you
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  know,
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  sometimes
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  we
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  can
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  become
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  so
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  self
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  conscious
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  about
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  it.
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  You
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  know,
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  we
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  tell
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  ourselves
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  all
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  these
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  things,
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  I'm
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  not
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  good
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  at
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  this
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  or
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  my
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  house
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  isn't
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  perfect,
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  or
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  I'm
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  not
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  ready
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  to
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  do
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  this.
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  And
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  it's
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  really
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  about
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  letting
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  go
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  of
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  all
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  of
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  that
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  and
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  not
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  being
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  so
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  hard
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  on
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  ourselves.
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  Would
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  you
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  agree?
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  Paint
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  your
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  front
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  door
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  a
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  color.
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  That's
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  what
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  I
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  would
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  do.
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  Like,
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  let
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  people
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  know.
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  And
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  that's
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  what
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  I
• 0:37
  really
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  want
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  to
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  do
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  here
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  on
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  the
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  iconic
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  Midlife.
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  I
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  want
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  people
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  to
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  be
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  open
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  about
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  this
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  because
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  nobody
• 0:43
  ever
• 0:43
  gave
• 0:43
  us
• 0:43
  a
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  handbook
• 0:44
  about
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  midlife
• 0:45
  and
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  like
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  all
• 0:46
  the
• 0:46
  changes
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  in
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  our
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  bodies
• 0:47
  and
• 0:47
  you
• 0:47
  know,
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  men
• 0:48
  are
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  not
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  going
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  through
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  the
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  same
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  things
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  that
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  we're
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  going
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  through.
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  So
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  it's.
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  It's
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  hard.
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  I
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  can't
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  really
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  talk
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  to
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  my
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  husband
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  about
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  that.
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  But
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  I
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  think
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  that
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  if
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  you
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  just
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  get
• 0:57
  it
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  into
• 0:58
  something
• 0:58
  you
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  understand
• 0:58
  and
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  comprehend
• 0:59
  and
• 0:59
  things
• 1:00
  that
• 1:00
  you
• 1:00
  use
• 1:00
  and
• 1:01
  get
• 1:01
  rid
• 1:01
  of
• 1:01
  the
• 1:01
  rest,
• 1:02
  the
• 1:02
  dust
• 1:02
  collectors,
• 1:03
  you're
• 1:03
  going
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  to
• 1:04
  feel
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  great
• 1:04
  and
• 1:04
  you're
• 1:04
  going
• 1:04
  to
• 1:04
  be
• 1:05
  more
• 1:05
  organized
• 1:05
  than
• 1:05
  you
• 1:05
  think.
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  Okay,
• 1:08
  midlife
• 1:09
  icons,
• 1:10
  if
• 1:10
  your
• 1:10
  idea
• 1:10
  of
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  hosting
• 1:11
  a
• 1:11
  party
• 1:11
  is
• 1:12
  panic,
• 1:12
  washing
• 1:12
  dishes
• 1:13
  and
• 1:13
  hiding
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  the
• 1:14
  chaos
• 1:14
  in
• 1:14
  a
• 1:14
  laundry
• 1:15
  basket,
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  then
• 1:16
  this
• 1:16
  episode
• 1:17
  is
• 1:17
  for
• 1:17
  you.
• 1:18
  Today
• 1:18
  I'm
• 1:19
  joined
• 1:19
  by
• 1:19
  the
• 1:19
  fabulous
• 1:20
  Laura
• 1:20
  Peterson,
• 1:21
  entertaining
• 1:22
  expert,
• 1:22
  lifestyle
• 1:23
  genius,
• 1:23
  genius,
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  and
• 1:24
  the
• 1:24
  woman
• 1:25
  who
• 1:25
  can
• 1:25
  even
• 1:25
  turn
• 1:26
  a
• 1:26
  chaotic
• 1:26
  Tuesday
• 1:27
  into
• 1:28
  a
• 1:28
  champagne
• 1:29
  moment.
• 1:30
  We're
• 1:30
  talking
• 1:30
  stress
• 1:31
  free
• 1:31
  hosting,
• 1:32
  creating
• 1:33
  spaces
• 1:33
  that
• 1:33
  feel
• 1:34
  like
• 1:34
  you,
• 1:35
  and
• 1:35
  why
• 1:35
  Midlife
• 1:36
  is
• 1:36
  the
• 1:36
  perfect
• 1:37
  time
• 1:37
  to
• 1:37
  ditch
• 1:37
  perfection
• 1:38
  and
• 1:39
  throw
• 1:39
  parties
• 1:39
  that
• 1:40
  are
• 1:40
  full
• 1:40
  of
• 1:40
  soul,
• 1:41
  not
• 1:41
  just
• 1:42
  centerpieces.
• 1:43
  And
• 1:43
  don't
• 1:44
  forget,
• 1:44
  follow
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  the
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  iconic
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  midlife
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  on
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• 1:49
  wherever
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  you
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  get
• 1:50
  your
• 1:50
  shows.
• 1:51
  And
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  catch
• 1:51
  the
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  tomorrow.
• 1:55
  Oh,
• 1:55
  and
• 1:56
  follow
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  us
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  on
• 1:57
  social
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• 1:58
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  And
• 2:00
  you
• 2:00
  can
• 2:00
  also
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  follow
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  me
• 2:01
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• 2:03
  for
• 2:03
  more
• 2:03
  unapologetic
• 2:04
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  goodness.
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  So
• 2:06
  grab
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  your
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  mocktail
• 2:08
  cocktail
• 2:09
  or
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  whatever
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  helps
• 2:10
  you
• 2:10
  survive
• 2:10
  guests,
• 2:11
  and
• 2:12
  let's
• 2:12
  get
• 2:12
  into
• 2:12
  it.
• 2:13
  Welcome
• 2:14
  to
• 2:14
  the
• 2:14
  iconic
• 2:14
  Midlife
• 2:15
  Laura.
• 2:16
  All
• 2:16
  about
• 2:16
  it.
• 2:16
  Look
• 2:16
  at
• 2:16
  your
• 2:16
  shoes.
• 2:17
  Oh,
• 2:17
  my
• 2:17
  gosh.
• 2:17
  Thank
• 2:18
  you.
• 2:18
  How
• 2:18
  lucky
• 2:19
  is
• 2:19
  your
• 2:19
  husband
• 2:19
  you're
• 2:20
  still
• 2:20
  wearing
• 2:20
  shoes
• 2:20
  like
• 2:20
  that.
• 2:21
  I
• 2:21
  mean,
• 2:21
  you
• 2:21
  know
• 2:21
  the
• 2:22
  only
• 2:22
  reason
• 2:22
  why
• 2:23
  wear
• 2:23
  these,
• 2:23
  they're
• 2:23
  actually
• 2:24
  comfortable
• 2:24
  There
• 2:25
  is,
• 2:25
  like,
• 2:25
  padding
• 2:26
  in
• 2:26
  there.
• 2:26
  You
• 2:26
  have
• 2:26
  good
• 2:26
  shoes,
• 2:27
  too.
• 2:28
  So
• 2:28
  much.
• 2:28
  Oh,
• 2:29
  my
• 2:29
  gosh.
• 2:29
  You're
• 2:29
  very
• 2:30
  model
• 2:30
  feet.
• 2:30
  Oh,
• 2:30
  my
• 2:30
  gosh.
• 2:31
  No,
• 2:31
  not
• 2:31
  even.
• 2:32
  Look
• 2:32
  at
• 2:32
  yours.
• 2:32
  You're
• 2:33
  like
• 2:33
  bunion.
• 2:34
  Little
• 2:35
  tiny
• 2:35
  feet.
• 2:36
  Oh,
• 2:36
  my
• 2:36
  gosh.
• 2:37
  My
• 2:37
  feet
• 2:37
  were
• 2:37
  not
• 2:37
  that
• 2:38
  size
• 2:38
  in
• 2:38
  fifth
• 2:38
  grade.
• 2:40
  They
• 2:40
  were
• 2:40
  bigger
• 2:40
  than
• 2:40
  that
• 2:41
  in
• 2:41
  fifth
• 2:41
  grade.
• 2:41
  I
• 2:41
  love
• 2:42
  it.
• 2:42
  But
• 2:42
  look,
• 2:42
  you
• 2:42
  get
• 2:43
  all
• 2:43
  that
• 2:43
  great
• 2:43
  height,
• 2:44
  like,
• 2:44
  which
• 2:44
  I'm
• 2:44
  so
• 2:44
  jealous
• 2:45
  of
• 2:45
  because
• 2:45
  everything
• 2:45
  looks
• 2:46
  like
• 2:46
  a
• 2:46
  clothes.
• 2:46
  Like
• 2:46
  a
• 2:47
  clothes
• 2:47
  hanger
• 2:47
  on
• 2:47
  you.
• 2:48
  Oh,
• 2:49
  my
• 2:49
  gosh.
• 2:49
  You
• 2:49
  can
• 2:49
  wear
• 2:49
  anything.
• 2:50
  Anything.
• 2:50
  Yet
• 2:51
  I
• 2:51
  have
• 2:51
  no
• 2:51
  clothes.
• 2:53
  Which
• 2:53
  sweater
• 2:53
  today,
• 2:53
  China?
• 2:54
  The
• 2:54
  blue
• 2:54
  one
• 2:54
  or
• 2:54
  the
• 2:54
  purple
• 2:55
  one?
• 2:57
  You're
• 2:57
  not
• 2:57
  here
• 2:57
  for
• 2:58
  the
• 2:58
  fashion
• 2:58
  I
• 2:58
  love.
• 2:59
  That's
• 3:00
  a
• 3:00
  different.
• 3:00
  That's
• 3:00
  a
• 3:01
  different
• 3:01
  influencer.
• 3:02
  Not
• 3:02
  at
• 3:03
  all.
• 3:03
  Oh,
• 3:03
  my
• 3:03
  gosh.
• 3:03
  No,
• 3:03
  you
• 3:04
  look
• 3:04
  great.
• 3:04
  And
• 3:05
  I
• 3:05
  love
• 3:05
  that.
• 3:05
  When
• 3:06
  you
• 3:06
  walked
• 3:06
  in,
• 3:06
  we
• 3:06
  were
• 3:07
  immediately.
• 3:07
  It
• 3:08
  was
• 3:08
  like
• 3:08
  girlfriends,
• 3:09
  you
• 3:09
  know,
• 3:09
  just.
• 3:09
  Yes.
• 3:10
  Totally
• 3:10
  hitting
• 3:11
  it
• 3:11
  off.
• 3:11
  We
• 3:11
  have
• 3:11
  so
• 3:12
  many
• 3:12
  things
• 3:12
  in
• 3:12
  common.
• 3:12
  We've
• 3:13
  got
• 3:13
  kids,
• 3:14
  dogs,
• 3:14
  and
• 3:15
  husbands,
• 3:15
  which
• 3:16
  are
• 3:16
  like
• 3:16
  big
• 3:17
  babies
• 3:17
  that
• 3:17
  have
• 3:17
  just
• 3:18
  are
• 3:18
  tall,
• 3:19
  you
• 3:19
  know?
• 3:19
  Kid
• 3:20
  number
• 3:20
  four.
• 3:20
  Kid
• 3:20
  number
• 3:20
  four.
• 3:21
  Well,
• 3:21
  in
• 3:21
  my
• 3:21
  case,
• 3:21
  Scooter's
• 3:22
  a
• 3:22
  little
• 3:22
  shorter
• 3:22
  than
• 3:22
  me,
• 3:24
  which
• 3:24
  is
• 3:24
  fine.
• 3:25
  Which
• 3:25
  is
• 3:25
  so
• 3:26
  funny
• 3:26
  because
• 3:26
  I
• 3:26
  don't
• 3:26
  see
• 3:27
  him
• 3:27
  like
• 3:27
  that.
• 3:27
  But
• 3:27
  people
• 3:28
  often
• 3:28
  mention
• 3:28
  that
• 3:29
  they're
• 3:29
  like,
• 3:29
  how
• 3:29
  tall
• 3:30
  are
• 3:30
  you?
• 3:30
  Because,
• 3:31
  I
• 3:31
  mean,
• 3:31
  they're
• 3:31
  assuming
• 3:32
  Scooter's
• 3:32
  like
• 3:32
  six
• 3:33
  six
• 3:33
  one,
• 3:33
  and
• 3:34
  I'm
• 3:34
  six
• 3:34
  four.
• 3:34
  Right.
• 3:35
  They're
• 3:35
  envisioning
• 3:36
  the
• 3:36
  alien
• 3:36
  from,
• 3:37
  you
• 3:37
  know,
• 3:37
  Sigourney
• 3:38
  Weaver
• 3:38
  and
• 3:38
  the
• 3:38
  alien.
• 3:39
  Because
• 3:39
  they're
• 3:39
  like,
• 3:39
  well,
• 3:39
  you're
• 3:39
  really
• 3:40
  big.
• 3:40
  It's
• 3:40
  like,
• 3:40
  oh,
• 3:42
  no,
• 3:42
  you've
• 3:42
  got
• 3:42
  the
• 3:42
  height.
• 3:43
  Like.
• 3:43
  I'm
• 3:43
  actually
• 3:43
  very
• 3:44
  jealous
• 3:44
  because
• 3:45
  clothes
• 3:45
  look
• 3:46
  amazing
• 3:46
  on
• 3:46
  you,
• 3:47
  you
• 3:47
  know?
• 3:48
  Absolutely.
• 3:49
  Can
• 3:49
  I
• 3:49
  just
• 3:49
  have
• 3:49
  some
• 3:49
  of
• 3:50
  your.
• 3:50
  Like,
• 3:50
  give
• 3:50
  me
• 3:51
  some
• 3:51
  of
• 3:51
  your
• 3:51
  legs.
• 3:51
  Yes.
• 3:52
  I
• 3:52
  think
• 3:52
  this
• 3:53
  is.
• 3:53
  This
• 3:53
  is
• 3:53
  it
• 3:53
  for
• 3:54
  me.
• 3:54
  The
• 3:54
  5
• 3:54
  10,
• 3:55
  which
• 3:55
  I
• 3:55
  know
• 3:55
  sounds
• 3:56
  aspirational.
• 3:57
  It's
• 3:58
  really
• 3:58
  not.
• 3:58
  Because
• 3:59
  when
• 3:59
  you're
• 3:59
  shopping
• 4:00
  for
• 4:00
  clothes,
• 4:00
  I
• 4:00
  just.
• 4:01
  That's
• 4:01
  why
• 4:01
  you're
• 4:01
  not
• 4:01
  here
• 4:01
  for
• 4:01
  the
• 4:02
  fashion.
• 4:02
  Because
• 4:03
  it's
• 4:03
  not
• 4:03
  easy.
• 4:04
  It's
• 4:04
  just.
• 4:04
  It's
• 4:04
  not.
• 4:04
  I
• 4:04
  know
• 4:05
  that
• 4:05
  sounds
• 4:05
  crazy.
• 4:05
  The
• 4:05
  world
• 4:06
  was
• 4:06
  not
• 4:06
  made
• 4:06
  for
• 4:06
  my
• 4:07
  feet
• 4:07
  size,
• 4:07
  my
• 4:08
  foot
• 4:08
  size,
• 4:08
  or
• 4:09
  my,
• 4:09
  you
• 4:09
  know,
• 4:10
  my
• 4:10
  height,
• 4:10
  so.
• 4:10
  But
• 4:11
  grateful
• 4:11
  for
• 4:11
  it.
• 4:12
  It's
• 4:12
  like,
• 4:12
  I'll
• 4:12
  take
• 4:12
  it.
• 4:13
  Too
• 4:13
  tall
• 4:13
  to
• 4:13
  be
• 4:13
  a
• 4:13
  Rockette,
• 4:14
  I
• 4:14
  think.
• 4:14
  Are
• 4:15
  the
• 4:15
  Rockettes
• 4:16
  five,
• 4:16
  eight
• 4:16
  and
• 4:16
  a
• 4:16
  half
• 4:16
  or
• 4:16
  something?
• 4:17
  Actually,
• 4:17
  I
• 4:17
  think
• 4:17
  you
• 4:17
  could
• 4:18
  be
• 4:18
  a
• 4:18
  Rockette.
• 4:19
  Yeah.
• 4:19
  I
• 4:19
  did
• 4:19
  make
• 4:20
  the
• 4:20
  cutoff
• 4:20
  for
• 4:20
  a
• 4:20
  flight
• 4:20
  attendant,
• 4:21
  so
• 4:21
  that
• 4:21
  was
• 4:21
  good.
• 4:21
  Oh,
• 4:22
  good.
• 4:22
  Because
• 4:22
  I
• 4:22
  wasn't
• 4:22
  too
• 4:23
  tall
• 4:23
  to
• 4:23
  be
• 4:23
  a
• 4:23
  flight
• 4:23
  attendant.
• 4:24
  But
• 4:24
  the
• 4:24
  Rockettes,
• 4:24
  I
• 4:24
  think
• 4:25
  I'm
• 4:25
  a
• 4:25
  think
• 4:25
  I'm
• 4:26
  a
• 4:26
  no
• 4:26
  go
• 4:26
  on
• 4:26
  that.
• 4:26
  Oh,
• 4:27
  my
• 4:27
  gosh,
• 4:27
  that's
• 4:27
  so
• 4:28
  funny.
• 4:28
  Well,
• 4:28
  you
• 4:29
  know,
• 4:29
  I've
• 4:29
  been
• 4:29
  like
• 4:29
  deep
• 4:30
  diving
• 4:30
  on
• 4:30
  your
• 4:30
  Instagram.
• 4:31
  I'm
• 4:31
  obsessed
• 4:32
  by
• 4:32
  the
• 4:32
  way.
• 4:33
  Guys,
• 4:33
  you
• 4:33
  need
• 4:33
  to
• 4:33
  follow
• 4:34
  her
• 4:34
  at
• 4:34
  Laura
• 4:35
  Fied.
• 4:35
  It's
• 4:36
  so
• 4:36
  good.
• 4:37
  I
• 4:37
  was
• 4:37
  like
• 4:37
  going
• 4:37
  through
• 4:38
  all
• 4:38
  of
• 4:38
  your
• 4:38
  hacks.
• 4:39
  Like
• 4:39
  you've
• 4:39
  got
• 4:39
  a
• 4:39
  hack
• 4:40
  for
• 4:40
  everything
• 4:40
  from
• 4:41
  travel
• 4:42
  to
• 4:42
  entertaining
• 4:43
  to
• 4:43
  lifestyle.
• 4:44
  So
• 4:45
  what
• 4:45
  do
• 4:45
  you.
• 4:45
  Where
• 4:45
  do
• 4:46
  you
• 4:46
  get
• 4:46
  all
• 4:46
  your
• 4:46
  inspiration
• 4:47
  from?
• 4:47
  1,
• 4:48
  the
• 4:48
  baby
• 4:48
  of
• 4:48
  nine.
• 4:50
  My
• 4:50
  mom
• 4:50
  was
• 4:50
  the
• 4:50
  baby
• 4:51
  of
• 4:51
  10.
• 4:52
  So
• 4:53
  I
• 4:53
  think
• 4:53
  there's
• 4:53
  just
• 4:53
  a
• 4:53
  lot
• 4:54
  of
• 4:54
  generational.
• 4:55
  When
• 4:55
  you're
• 4:55
  in
• 4:56
  that
• 4:56
  position
• 4:56
  in
• 4:56
  a
• 4:57
  family,
• 4:57
  there's
• 4:57
  a
• 4:57
  lot
• 4:58
  of
• 4:58
  watching
• 4:59
  the
• 4:59
  rest
• 4:59
  of
• 4:59
  life
• 5:00
  happens.
• 5:00
  So
• 5:00
  she
• 5:00
  had
• 5:01
  the
• 5:01
  position
• 5:01
  to
• 5:01
  watch
• 5:02
  her
• 5:02
  mom
• 5:02
  raise
• 5:02
  all
• 5:03
  those
• 5:03
  kids.
• 5:03
  She
• 5:04
  brings
• 5:04
  that
• 5:04
  to
• 5:04
  the
• 5:04
  mix.
• 5:05
  I
• 5:05
  watch
• 5:05
  my
• 5:06
  mom
• 5:06
  spinning
• 5:07
  all
• 5:07
  the
• 5:07
  plates,
• 5:07
  doing
• 5:07
  all
• 5:08
  the
• 5:08
  things.
• 5:08
  Career
• 5:08
  woman,
• 5:09
  all
• 5:09
  these
• 5:09
  kids,
• 5:10
  husband,
• 5:10
  da,
• 5:10
  da,
• 5:10
  da,
• 5:11
  da.
• 5:11
  And
• 5:11
  so.
• 5:11
  And
• 5:12
  then
• 5:12
  bring
• 5:12
  it
• 5:12
  into
• 5:12
  the
• 5:13
  modern
• 5:13
  world
• 5:13
  where
• 5:14
  raising
• 5:14
  kids,
• 5:15
  I
• 5:15
  think
• 5:15
  is
• 5:15
  a
• 5:16
  little
• 5:16
  bit
• 5:16
  more
• 5:16
  difficult.
• 5:17
  With
• 5:17
  all
• 5:18
  the
• 5:18
  pulls
• 5:18
  at
• 5:19
  them
• 5:19
  these
• 5:19
  days,
• 5:19
  it
• 5:20
  just
• 5:20
  wasn't
• 5:20
  possible
• 5:20
  to
• 5:21
  make
• 5:21
  it
• 5:21
  happen.
• 5:21
  It's
• 5:22
  like
• 5:22
  you
• 5:22
  have
• 5:22
  to
• 5:22
  hack
• 5:23
  it
• 5:23
  some
• 5:23
  way
• 5:24
  to.
• 5:24
  You
• 5:24
  can't
• 5:25
  do
• 5:25
  everything
• 5:26
  grandiose.
• 5:26
  You
• 5:27
  gotta
• 5:27
  dial
• 5:27
  it
• 5:27
  down
• 5:27
  to
• 5:28
  simplicity.
• 5:28
  How
• 5:29
  do
• 5:29
  we
• 5:29
  still
• 5:29
  feed
• 5:29
  these
• 5:30
  guys?
• 5:30
  How
• 5:30
  do
• 5:30
  we
• 5:31
  get
• 5:31
  laundry
• 5:31
  done?
• 5:31
  How
• 5:32
  do
• 5:32
  we
• 5:32
  get
• 5:32
  this
• 5:32
  done
• 5:33
  and
• 5:33
  still
• 5:33
  have
• 5:34
  time
• 5:34
  for
• 5:34
  ourselves?
• 5:35
  But
• 5:35
  not
• 5:35
  doing
• 5:36
  a
• 5:36
  great
• 5:36
  job
• 5:36
  at
• 5:36
  that.
• 5:36
  I'm
• 5:36
  gonna
• 5:37
  be
• 5:37
  honest.
• 5:37
  I'll
• 5:37
  be
• 5:37
  the
• 5:37
  first
• 5:37
  to
• 5:37
  admit
• 5:38
  it.
• 5:38
  Something
• 5:38
  is
• 5:39
  not
• 5:39
  getting
• 5:39
  my
• 5:39
  attention.
• 5:40
  Right.
• 5:40
  If
• 5:40
  you
• 5:40
  see
• 5:40
  me
• 5:41
  excelling
• 5:41
  at
• 5:41
  something
• 5:42
  that
• 5:42
  means
• 5:42
  something
• 5:43
  else
• 5:43
  isn't
• 5:43
  getting
• 5:44
  the
• 5:44
  attention
• 5:45
  it
• 5:45
  probably
• 5:45
  should.
• 5:46
  But
• 5:46
  I
• 5:46
  find
• 5:46
  these
• 5:46
  little
• 5:47
  hacks
• 5:47
  help
• 5:47
  you
• 5:47
  do
• 5:48
  things
• 5:48
  a
• 5:48
  little
• 5:48
  bit
• 5:48
  quicker.
• 5:49
  So.
• 5:50
  Used
• 5:50
  to
• 5:51
  be
• 5:51
  a
• 5:51
  correspondent
• 5:51
  for
• 5:51
  CBS
• 5:52
  News.
• 5:53
  So
• 5:53
  really
• 5:53
  good
• 5:54
  at
• 5:54
  research.
• 5:54
  I'm
• 5:55
  an
• 5:55
  excellent
• 5:55
  researcher,
• 5:56
  so
• 5:57
  I
• 5:57
  can
• 5:57
  find
• 5:57
  that
• 5:57
  recipe
• 5:58
  that
• 5:58
  was
• 5:58
  Handy
• 5:58
  in
• 5:59
  the
• 5:59
  1920s.
• 6:00
  Let's
• 6:00
  try
• 6:00
  it
• 6:00
  again.
• 6:01
  Maybe
• 6:01
  it's
• 6:01
  applicable
• 6:02
  today.
• 6:03
  And
• 6:03
  so
• 6:04
  it's
• 6:04
  just
• 6:04
  kind
• 6:04
  of
• 6:04
  like
• 6:04
  that
• 6:04
  trial
• 6:05
  and
• 6:05
  error.
• 6:05
  And
• 6:05
  I
• 6:05
  didn't
• 6:06
  really
• 6:06
  realize
• 6:06
  I
• 6:07
  doing
• 6:07
  this,
• 6:08
  but
• 6:08
  my
• 6:08
  oldest
• 6:09
  daughter,
• 6:09
  who's
• 6:09
  now
• 6:09
  32.
• 6:10
  So
• 6:11
  keep
• 6:11
  in
• 6:11
  mind,
• 6:11
  I've
• 6:11
  been
• 6:11
  raising
• 6:11
  kids
• 6:12
  for
• 6:12
  32
• 6:12
  years
• 6:13
  and
• 6:13
  my
• 6:13
  youngest
• 6:14
  is
• 6:14
  15.
• 6:15
  By
• 6:15
  the
• 6:16
  time
• 6:16
  it's
• 6:16
  said
• 6:16
  and
• 6:16
  done,
• 6:17
  I
• 6:18
  will
• 6:18
  have
• 6:18
  been
• 6:18
  raising
• 6:18
  kids
• 6:19
  for
• 6:19
  38
• 6:19
  years,
• 6:20
  which
• 6:20
  I'm
• 6:21
  here
• 6:21
  to
• 6:21
  tell
• 6:21
  you
• 6:21
  right
• 6:21
  now.
• 6:22
  I
• 6:22
  don't
• 6:22
  think
• 6:22
  God
• 6:23
  intended
• 6:23
  any
• 6:23
  of
• 6:23
  us
• 6:24
  to
• 6:24
  have
• 6:25
  kids
• 6:25
  in
• 6:25
  the
• 6:25
  house
• 6:25
  for
• 6:26
  32
• 6:26
  years
• 6:26
  straight.
• 6:27
  I'm
• 6:27
  just
• 6:27
  gonna
• 6:27
  put
• 6:27
  it
• 6:27
  out
• 6:27
  there.
• 6:27
  Right,
• 6:28
  right.
• 6:28
  I
• 6:28
  think
• 6:28
  18
• 6:29
  was
• 6:29
  probably
• 6:29
  a
• 6:30
  good
• 6:30
  number.
• 6:31
  So
• 6:32
  she's
• 6:32
  really?
• 6:32
  The
• 6:32
  one
• 6:33
  during
• 6:33
  COVID
• 6:33
  who
• 6:34
  said,
• 6:35
  I
• 6:35
  think
• 6:35
  you
• 6:36
  should
• 6:36
  hop
• 6:37
  on
• 6:37
  social
• 6:37
  media
• 6:38
  and
• 6:39
  start
• 6:39
  doing
• 6:39
  the
• 6:39
  weird
• 6:40
  stuff
• 6:40
  you
• 6:40
  do
• 6:40
  around
• 6:40
  the
• 6:41
  house.
• 6:42
  I
• 6:42
  was
• 6:42
  like,
• 6:42
  what
• 6:42
  are
• 6:42
  you
• 6:42
  talking
• 6:43
  about?
• 6:43
  And
• 6:44
  I
• 6:44
  didn't
• 6:44
  realize
• 6:45
  I
• 6:45
  was
• 6:45
  doing
• 6:45
  anything
• 6:46
  different
• 6:46
  or
• 6:46
  weird.
• 6:47
  But
• 6:47
  she
• 6:48
  hadn't
• 6:48
  had
• 6:48
  Home
• 6:48
  ec.
• 6:49
  Her
• 6:49
  generation
• 6:50
  was
• 6:50
  that
• 6:51
  no
• 6:51
  Home
• 6:51
  ec,
• 6:52
  really.
• 6:52
  No
• 6:52
  skills
• 6:53
  at
• 6:53
  all
• 6:53
  in
• 6:53
  the
• 6:53
  home
• 6:54
  front.
• 6:54
  Like,
• 6:54
  how
• 6:55
  do
• 6:55
  we
• 6:55
  even
• 6:55
  get
• 6:55
  the
• 6:55
  lights
• 6:56
  on
• 6:56
  on
• 6:56
  an
• 6:56
  apartment?
• 6:57
  They
• 6:57
  don't
• 6:57
  know,
• 6:57
  Right?
• 6:58
  Our
• 6:58
  generation
• 6:59
  and
• 6:59
  I
• 6:59
  have
• 6:59
  a
• 6:59
  couple
• 6:59
  semesters
• 7:00
  ahead
• 7:00
  of
• 7:00
  you,
• 7:00
  sister.
• 7:00
  I
• 7:01
  know
• 7:01
  you
• 7:01
  are.
• 7:02
  Yeah,
• 7:02
  I'm
• 7:02
  a
• 7:02
  lot
• 7:02
  of
• 7:03
  semesters
• 7:03
  ahead
• 7:03
  of
• 7:03
  you.
• 7:04
  I
• 7:04
  am
• 7:04
  right
• 7:05
  there,
• 7:05
  though.
• 7:05
  I
• 7:05
  am
• 7:05
  right.
• 7:07
  We
• 7:07
  had
• 7:07
  Home
• 7:07
  ec.
• 7:08
  We
• 7:08
  had
• 7:08
  some
• 7:09
  life
• 7:09
  skills
• 7:09
  coming
• 7:09
  out
• 7:10
  of
• 7:10
  school.
• 7:11
  She
• 7:11
  and
• 7:11
  her
• 7:11
  contemporaries
• 7:12
  didn't.
• 7:13
  So
• 7:13
  her
• 7:13
  name's
• 7:14
  Betsy.
• 7:14
  I
• 7:14
  call
• 7:14
  her
• 7:14
  Kid
• 7:15
  one.
• 7:15
  And
• 7:15
  her
• 7:15
  best
• 7:15
  friend
• 7:16
  Anita
• 7:17
  said,
• 7:19
  we
• 7:19
  need
• 7:19
  you
• 7:19
  to
• 7:19
  show
• 7:20
  us
• 7:20
  how
• 7:20
  to
• 7:20
  do
• 7:20
  stuff.
• 7:21
  And
• 7:21
  I'm
• 7:22
  like,
• 7:22
  what
• 7:22
  are
• 7:22
  you
• 7:22
  talking
• 7:23
  about?
• 7:23
  Like,
• 7:23
  you
• 7:23
  know,
• 7:24
  boil
• 7:24
  an
• 7:24
  egg.
• 7:24
  And
• 7:24
  I'm
• 7:25
  like,
• 7:25
  everyone
• 7:25
  knows
• 7:25
  how
• 7:25
  to
• 7:25
  boil
• 7:25
  an
• 7:26
  egg.
• 7:26
  They're
• 7:26
  like,
• 7:26
  we
• 7:26
  don't
• 7:26
  know
• 7:26
  how
• 7:27
  to
• 7:27
  boil
• 7:27
  an
• 7:27
  egg.
• 7:27
  And
• 7:28
  I'm
• 7:28
  being
• 7:28
  a
• 7:28
  little
• 7:28
  bit
• 7:29
  right.
• 7:29
  That's
• 7:30
  probably.
• 7:31
  I'm
• 7:31
  sure
• 7:31
  they
• 7:31
  knew
• 7:32
  how
• 7:32
  to
• 7:32
  boil
• 7:32
  an
• 7:32
  egg.
• 7:32
  But
• 7:33
  pretty
• 7:33
  close.
• 7:34
  Pretty
• 7:34
  close
• 7:34
  life
• 7:35
  skills.
• 7:35
  And
• 7:36
  that's
• 7:36
  kind
• 7:36
  of
• 7:36
  how
• 7:36
  it
• 7:36
  started.
• 7:37
  I
• 7:37
  kind
• 7:37
  of
• 7:37
  started
• 7:37
  doing
• 7:37
  it
• 7:38
  for
• 7:38
  Kid
• 7:38
  1
• 7:38
  and
• 7:39
  her
• 7:39
  friends
• 7:39
  to
• 7:40
  get
• 7:40
  those
• 7:40
  tips,
• 7:40
  like
• 7:40
  Home
• 7:41
  Ec
• 7:41
  on
• 7:41
  the
• 7:41
  Internet.
• 7:42
  And
• 7:42
  I
• 7:43
  was
• 7:43
  like,
• 7:43
  nobody's
• 7:43
  gonna
• 7:43
  watch.
• 7:44
  She
• 7:44
  said,
• 7:44
  mom,
• 7:45
  people
• 7:45
  are
• 7:45
  gonna
• 7:45
  watch.
• 7:45
  Cause
• 7:46
  people
• 7:46
  need
• 7:46
  to
• 7:46
  know
• 7:46
  how
• 7:46
  to
• 7:46
  do
• 7:47
  this.
• 7:47
  And
• 7:47
  I
• 7:47
  was
• 7:47
  like,
• 7:47
  really?
• 7:48
  Do
• 7:48
  they
• 7:48
  really?
• 7:49
  And
• 7:49
  she's
• 7:50
  yeah,
• 7:50
  she's
• 7:50
  like,
• 7:50
  I
• 7:50
  think
• 7:51
  people.
• 7:51
  She
• 7:51
  goes,
• 7:51
  I
• 7:51
  need
• 7:52
  it.
• 7:52
  And
• 7:52
  so
• 7:52
  I
• 7:52
  put,
• 7:53
  like,
• 7:53
  little
• 7:53
  cookbooks
• 7:54
  together
• 7:54
  for
• 7:54
  them,
• 7:55
  like,
• 7:55
  just
• 7:55
  lifing.
• 7:56
  Like,
• 7:56
  how
• 7:56
  do
• 7:56
  you
• 7:56
  make
• 7:56
  a
• 7:56
  smoothie?
• 7:58
  Like,
• 7:58
  little
• 7:58
  things
• 7:58
  that
• 7:59
  you
• 7:59
  and
• 7:59
  I
• 7:59
  totally
• 8:00
  take
• 8:00
  for
• 8:00
  granted
• 8:00
  because
• 8:01
  we've
• 8:01
  been
• 8:01
  raising
• 8:01
  kids.
• 8:02
  But
• 8:02
  if
• 8:02
  you
• 8:02
  haven't
• 8:03
  raised
• 8:03
  kids
• 8:03
  and
• 8:03
  you're
• 8:04
  trying
• 8:04
  to
• 8:04
  adult,
• 8:05
  you
• 8:05
  do
• 8:05
  wonder,
• 8:06
  what
• 8:06
  do
• 8:06
  I
• 8:06
  buy
• 8:07
  at
• 8:07
  the
• 8:07
  grocery
• 8:07
  store?
• 8:08
  When
• 8:08
  do
• 8:08
  I
• 8:08
  buy
• 8:08
  it?
• 8:09
  What
• 8:09
  do
• 8:10
  I
• 8:10
  stock
• 8:10
  up
• 8:10
  on?
• 8:11
  What
• 8:11
  can
• 8:11
  I
• 8:12
  freeze?
• 8:12
  What
• 8:12
  can
• 8:12
  I
• 8:12
  leave
• 8:12
  in
• 8:13
  the
• 8:13
  pantry?
• 8:13
  So
• 8:14
  that's
• 8:14
  kind
• 8:14
  of.
• 8:14
  That's
• 8:14
  a
• 8:14
  long
• 8:15
  winded
• 8:15
  answer.
• 8:15
  But,
• 8:16
  yeah,
• 8:16
  kind
• 8:16
  of
• 8:16
  started
• 8:17
  because
• 8:17
  a
• 8:17
  kid
• 8:17
  wanted
• 8:17
  her
• 8:18
  girlfriend,
• 8:18
  and
• 8:18
  they
• 8:18
  were
• 8:18
  like,
• 8:19
  I
• 8:19
  remember
• 8:20
  doing
• 8:20
  gingerbread
• 8:20
  houses
• 8:21
  one
• 8:21
  Christmas,
• 8:21
  and
• 8:22
  we'd
• 8:22
  each
• 8:22
  done
• 8:22
  our
• 8:22
  own
• 8:23
  gingerbread
• 8:23
  house.
• 8:24
  And
• 8:24
  Anita
• 8:25
  is
• 8:25
  at
• 8:25
  our
• 8:25
  house
• 8:25
  all
• 8:25
  the
• 8:26
  time.
• 8:26
  We
• 8:26
  call
• 8:26
  her
• 8:26
  Kid
• 8:26
  one
• 8:27
  and
• 8:27
  a
• 8:27
  half.
• 8:27
  One
• 8:27
  point
• 8:27
  five.
• 8:28
  One
• 8:29
  point
• 8:29
  five,
• 8:29
  Kid.
• 8:29
  One
• 8:30
  point
• 8:30
  five.
• 8:30
  And
• 8:31
  we
• 8:31
  did
• 8:31
  gingerbread
• 8:32
  houses.
• 8:33
  And
• 8:33
  they
• 8:33
  all
• 8:34
  did
• 8:34
  these
• 8:34
  houses.
• 8:34
  And
• 8:34
  then
• 8:35
  my
• 8:35
  gingerbread
• 8:35
  House
• 8:35
  was
• 8:36
  the
• 8:36
  Barbie
• 8:36
  Dream
• 8:36
  House
• 8:36
  House.
• 8:38
  And
• 8:38
  they
• 8:38
  were
• 8:38
  like,
• 8:40
  of
• 8:41
  course
• 8:41
  it
• 8:41
  is.
• 8:42
  It's
• 8:42
  been
• 8:42
  glorified.
• 8:45
  I'm
• 8:45
  like,
• 8:45
  what?
• 8:46
  And
• 8:47
  so
• 8:47
  they
• 8:47
  started
• 8:47
  calling
• 8:48
  things
• 8:48
  that
• 8:48
  I
• 8:48
  did
• 8:49
  glorified.
• 8:50
  And
• 8:50
  that's
• 8:50
  how
• 8:50
  it
• 8:50
  happened.
• 8:51
  That's
• 8:51
  where
• 8:51
  the
• 8:51
  name
• 8:52
  came
• 8:52
  from.
• 8:52
  That's
• 8:52
  where
• 8:52
  it
• 8:52
  came
• 8:52
  from.
• 8:53
  From
• 8:53
  those
• 8:53
  two.
• 8:53
  Okay,
• 8:54
  well,
• 8:54
  you
• 8:54
  sound
• 8:54
  very
• 8:55
  organized
• 8:55
  on
• 8:56
  top
• 8:56
  of
• 8:56
  it.
• 8:56
  Do
• 8:56
  you
• 8:57
  think
• 8:57
  that
• 8:57
  if
• 8:57
  you
• 8:57
  want
• 8:58
  to
• 8:58
  be
• 8:58
  able
• 8:58
  to,
• 8:58
  like,
• 8:59
  kind
• 8:59
  of
• 8:59
  master
• 9:00
  the
• 9:00
  home
• 9:00
  domain
• 9:01
  and
• 9:01
  like,
• 9:01
  be
• 9:02
  a
• 9:02
  great
• 9:02
  entertainer,
• 9:03
  that
• 9:03
  you
• 9:03
  have
• 9:03
  to
• 9:04
  be
• 9:04
  really
• 9:04
  organized?
• 9:06
  I
• 9:06
  think
• 9:06
  organizing
• 9:07
  helps
• 9:08
  in
• 9:08
  the
• 9:08
  sense
• 9:08
  of
• 9:09
  make
• 9:09
  sure
• 9:10
  you
• 9:10
  have
• 9:10
  things
• 9:10
  you're
• 9:10
  using.
• 9:11
  I
• 9:11
  think
• 9:11
  when
• 9:12
  you
• 9:12
  bring
• 9:12
  in
• 9:12
  a
• 9:12
  lot
• 9:13
  of
• 9:13
  clutter
• 9:14
  and
• 9:14
  your
• 9:14
  space
• 9:14
  isn't
• 9:15
  organized,
• 9:16
  that's
• 9:16
  where
• 9:16
  the
• 9:17
  conundrum
• 9:17
  of
• 9:17
  choice
• 9:17
  comes
• 9:18
  in.
• 9:18
  I'm
• 9:19
  a
• 9:19
  big
• 9:19
  believer
• 9:20
  in
• 9:20
  the
• 9:20
  conundrum
• 9:20
  of
• 9:21
  choice.
• 9:22
  I
• 9:22
  think
• 9:23
  that's
• 9:23
  why
• 9:23
  home
• 9:24
  designers
• 9:24
  have
• 9:24
  such
• 9:25
  a
• 9:25
  great
• 9:25
  business
• 9:25
  going.
• 9:26
  Because
• 9:26
  you
• 9:26
  go
• 9:26
  in
• 9:26
  to
• 9:26
  get
• 9:27
  a
• 9:27
  faucet
• 9:27
  and
• 9:27
  you've
• 9:27
  got
• 9:27
  2,000,
• 9:28
  they
• 9:29
  come
• 9:29
  to
• 9:29
  you
• 9:29
  and
• 9:29
  go,
• 9:29
  here
• 9:30
  are
• 9:30
  your
• 9:30
  three,
• 9:30
  right?
• 9:31
  So
• 9:31
  I
• 9:31
  think
• 9:31
  if
• 9:31
  you
• 9:32
  can
• 9:32
  make
• 9:32
  your
• 9:32
  home
• 9:32
  like
• 9:33
  that,
• 9:33
  like,
• 9:33
  bring
• 9:33
  it
• 9:33
  down
• 9:34
  to
• 9:34
  those
• 9:34
  choices,
• 9:35
  you'll
• 9:35
  be
• 9:35
  a
• 9:35
  better
• 9:36
  entertainer
• 9:36
  whether
• 9:37
  you
• 9:37
  know
• 9:37
  how
• 9:37
  to
• 9:37
  cook
• 9:37
  or
• 9:38
  not.
• 9:38
  You
• 9:38
  know,
• 9:38
  just
• 9:39
  dial
• 9:39
  down.
• 9:40
  I
• 9:40
  call
• 9:40
  it
• 9:40
  the
• 9:40
  curated
• 9:41
  kitchen.
• 9:41
  Okay.
• 9:41
  I
• 9:42
  have
• 9:42
  curated
• 9:42
  my
• 9:42
  kitchen
• 9:43
  down
• 9:44
  a
• 9:44
  lot.
• 9:45
  I
• 9:45
  don't
• 9:45
  have
• 9:45
  every
• 9:46
  trinket
• 9:46
  out
• 9:46
  there.
• 9:47
  That's
• 9:47
  why
• 9:47
  when
• 9:47
  you're
• 9:47
  watching
• 9:48
  my
• 9:48
  videos,
• 9:48
  you
• 9:48
  don't
• 9:49
  see
• 9:49
  me
• 9:49
  using
• 9:50
  a
• 9:50
  ton
• 9:50
  of
• 9:51
  tools,
• 9:52
  of
• 9:52
  random
• 9:52
  one
• 9:52
  off
• 9:53
  tools.
• 9:53
  Let's
• 9:54
  take
• 9:54
  that.
• 9:54
  Let's
• 9:54
  take
• 9:54
  that
• 9:55
  baking
• 9:55
  rack
• 9:55
  and
• 9:56
  do
• 9:56
  something
• 9:56
  with
• 9:57
  that
• 9:57
  baking
• 9:57
  rack
• 9:57
  other
• 9:57
  than
• 9:58
  just
• 9:58
  cool
• 9:58
  cookies
• 9:58
  and
• 9:59
  cakes
• 9:59
  on
• 9:59
  it.
• 9:59
  Let's
• 10:00
  see.
• 10:00
  So
• 10:00
  that
• 10:01
  one
• 10:01
  item
• 10:01
  can
• 10:02
  serve
• 10:02
  a
• 10:02
  lot
• 10:02
  of
• 10:02
  purposes.
• 10:03
  So
• 10:03
  I
• 10:03
  think
• 10:03
  when
• 10:03
  you
• 10:04
  start
• 10:04
  doing
• 10:04
  it
• 10:04
  that
• 10:04
  way,
• 10:05
  it's
• 10:05
  kind
• 10:05
  of
• 10:05
  like
• 10:05
  your
• 10:05
  wardrobe.
• 10:06
  And
• 10:06
  I'm
• 10:06
  not.
• 10:07
  Trust
• 10:07
  me,
• 10:07
  as
• 10:07
  we've
• 10:08
  established,
• 10:08
  I'm
• 10:08
  not
• 10:08
  here
• 10:09
  to
• 10:09
  give
• 10:09
  fashion
• 10:10
  advice,
• 10:11
  but
• 10:12
  I
• 10:12
  find
• 10:12
  that
• 10:12
  I
• 10:13
  wear
• 10:13
  the
• 10:13
  same
• 10:13
  items
• 10:13
  over
• 10:14
  and
• 10:14
  over,
• 10:15
  over
• 10:15
  and
• 10:15
  over,
• 10:15
  and
• 10:15
  I
• 10:15
  think
• 10:16
  most
• 10:16
  people
• 10:16
  do
• 10:16
  too.
• 10:16
  You're
• 10:17
  going
• 10:17
  to
• 10:17
  grab
• 10:17
  those
• 10:17
  workhorses,
• 10:18
  you
• 10:18
  know,
• 10:18
  they
• 10:18
  work
• 10:19
  well.
• 10:19
  Kind
• 10:20
  of
• 10:20
  the
• 10:20
  same
• 10:20
  for
• 10:20
  your
• 10:20
  kitchen.
• 10:21
  When
• 10:21
  you're
• 10:21
  going
• 10:21
  to
• 10:21
  entertain.
• 10:22
  Don't
• 10:22
  have
• 10:23
  six
• 10:23
  options
• 10:24
  on
• 10:24
  your
• 10:24
  cheese
• 10:24
  platters.
• 10:25
  Get
• 10:25
  a
• 10:25
  couple
• 10:26
  cheese
• 10:26
  boards
• 10:26
  that
• 10:26
  you
• 10:26
  like.
• 10:27
  You
• 10:27
  know
• 10:27
  how
• 10:27
  the
• 10:27
  cheese
• 10:28
  goes
• 10:28
  on
• 10:28
  those.
• 10:28
  Make
• 10:28
  it
• 10:28
  easy,
• 10:29
  right?
• 10:30
  So
• 10:30
  I
• 10:30
  think
• 10:31
  that's
• 10:31
  where
• 10:31
  the
• 10:32
  organizational
• 10:32
  part
• 10:33
  comes
• 10:33
  in.
• 10:34
  The
• 10:34
  more
• 10:34
  you
• 10:35
  have,
• 10:35
  the
• 10:35
  more
• 10:35
  difficult
• 10:36
  it's
• 10:36
  gonna
• 10:36
  be.
• 10:37
  The
• 10:38
  fewer
• 10:38
  choices,
• 10:39
  the
• 10:39
  more
• 10:40
  you're
• 10:40
  gonna
• 10:40
  feel
• 10:40
  more
• 10:41
  in
• 10:41
  flow,
• 10:42
  if
• 10:42
  you
• 10:42
  will.
• 10:42
  That
• 10:42
  sounds
• 10:42
  a
• 10:43
  little
• 10:43
  strange,
• 10:44
  but
• 10:44
  I
• 10:44
  mean,
• 10:45
  you're
• 10:46
  gonna
• 10:46
  feel
• 10:46
  less
• 10:46
  stressed.
• 10:47
  You're
• 10:47
  gonna
• 10:47
  be
• 10:47
  better
• 10:47
  as
• 10:47
  a
• 10:48
  hostess.
• 10:48
  You're
• 10:49
  gonna
• 10:49
  feel
• 10:49
  like,
• 10:49
  I
• 10:49
  can
• 10:49
  do
• 10:50
  this,
• 10:50
  right?
• 10:50
  Absolutely.
• 10:51
  So
• 10:51
  I
• 10:52
  would
• 10:52
  say
• 10:52
  bring
• 10:52
  it
• 10:52
  down.
• 10:54
  You
• 10:54
  don't
• 10:54
  have
• 10:54
  to
• 10:54
  be
• 10:54
  organized
• 10:55
  as
• 10:55
  much
• 10:55
  as
• 10:55
  you
• 10:56
  need
• 10:56
  to
• 10:56
  know.
• 10:57
  I'm
• 10:57
  trying
• 10:58
  to
• 10:58
  figure
• 10:58
  out
• 10:58
  a
• 10:58
  way
• 10:58
  to
• 10:59
  say
• 10:59
  this,
• 10:59
  because
• 10:59
  that's
• 11:00
  a
• 11:00
  great
• 11:00
  question.
• 11:00
  I've
• 11:00
  never
• 11:00
  been
• 11:01
  asked
• 11:01
  that
• 11:01
  question.
• 11:02
  The
• 11:02
  difference
• 11:02
  between
• 11:02
  clutter
• 11:04
  and
• 11:04
  organization.
• 11:05
  Okay,
• 11:06
  so
• 11:07
  if
• 11:07
  you
• 11:07
  like
• 11:07
  things.
• 11:08
  My
• 11:08
  mom
• 11:08
  loves
• 11:09
  things.
• 11:09
  Norma
• 11:10
  Jean,
• 11:10
  94
• 11:11
  and
• 11:11
  a
• 11:11
  half,
• 11:11
  going
• 11:11
  strong,
• 11:12
  lives
• 11:12
  alone,
• 11:13
  drives
• 11:13
  bridge,
• 11:13
  mahjong,
• 11:14
  all
• 11:14
  the
• 11:14
  things.
• 11:15
  She
• 11:15
  loves
• 11:15
  things.
• 11:16
  I
• 11:16
  call
• 11:16
  them
• 11:17
  Dustables.
• 11:17
  She
• 11:18
  loves
• 11:18
  dustables.
• 11:19
  I
• 11:19
  am
• 11:19
  not
• 11:19
  a
• 11:19
  Dustable
• 11:20
  fan.
• 11:21
  But
• 11:21
  she
• 11:21
  knows
• 11:22
  where
• 11:22
  they
• 11:22
  are
• 11:22
  and
• 11:22
  she
• 11:23
  knows
• 11:23
  how
• 11:23
  to
• 11:23
  use
• 11:23
  them.
• 11:23
  But
• 11:24
  she's
• 11:24
  good
• 11:24
  at
• 11:24
  that.
• 11:25
  I
• 11:25
  would
• 11:25
  go
• 11:26
  bananas
• 11:27
  in
• 11:27
  her
• 11:27
  house.
• 11:27
  I
• 11:28
  would
• 11:28
  never
• 11:28
  pull
• 11:28
  out
• 11:28
  the
• 11:29
  willow
• 11:29
  blue
• 11:29
  and
• 11:29
  white
• 11:30
  plates.
• 11:30
  I
• 11:31
  would
• 11:31
  never.
• 11:32
  She
• 11:32
  does.
• 11:33
  So
• 11:33
  if
• 11:33
  you're
• 11:33
  good
• 11:33
  at
• 11:33
  that,
• 11:33
  then
• 11:34
  have
• 11:34
  all
• 11:34
  the
• 11:34
  things.
• 11:35
  If
• 11:35
  you're
• 11:35
  more
• 11:35
  like
• 11:36
  me
• 11:36
  and
• 11:36
  you
• 11:36
  do
• 11:36
  better
• 11:37
  in
• 11:37
  a
• 11:37
  calm,
• 11:38
  clean,
• 11:40
  tailored
• 11:40
  down
• 11:40
  environment,
• 11:41
  I
• 11:41
  think
• 11:41
  that's
• 11:42
  where
• 11:42
  the
• 11:42
  decision
• 11:42
  comes
• 11:43
  in.
• 11:43
  So
• 11:44
  organize
• 11:44
  what
• 11:45
  you're
• 11:45
  comfortable
• 11:45
  organizing.
• 11:46
  So
• 11:46
  I
• 11:46
  don't
• 11:46
  want
• 11:46
  to
• 11:46
  tell
• 11:47
  anyone
• 11:47
  you
• 11:47
  got
• 11:47
  to
• 11:47
  go
• 11:47
  buy
• 11:48
  the
• 11:48
  kit.
• 11:48
  You
• 11:48
  got
• 11:49
  to
• 11:49
  go
• 11:49
  buy
• 11:49
  because
• 11:49
  you
• 11:49
  see
• 11:49
  it,
• 11:50
  right?
• 11:50
  You
• 11:50
  drive
• 11:50
  by
• 11:50
  the
• 11:50
  Container
• 11:51
  Store,
• 11:51
  and,
• 11:51
  boy,
• 11:51
  that's
• 11:51
  addictive.
• 11:52
  At
• 11:52
  my
• 11:52
  age,
• 11:53
  that
• 11:53
  is
• 11:53
  sexy.
• 11:54
  That
• 11:54
  is
• 11:54
  a
• 11:54
  sexy
• 11:55
  Friday
• 11:55
  night,
• 11:56
  right?
• 11:56
  A
• 11:56
  Container
• 11:57
  Store
• 11:57
  is
• 11:57
  sexy.
• 11:59
  And
• 11:59
  I
• 11:59
  think
• 11:59
  salt
• 11:59
  and
• 11:59
  pepper
• 12:00
  is
• 12:00
  sexy,
• 12:00
  right?
• 12:00
  I
• 12:01
  mean,
• 12:01
  I'm
• 12:01
  telling
• 12:01
  my
• 12:01
  age,
• 12:02
  right?
• 12:02
  But
• 12:02
  I
• 12:03
  think
• 12:03
  that
• 12:03
  if
• 12:04
  you
• 12:05
  just
• 12:05
  get
• 12:05
  it
• 12:06
  into
• 12:06
  something
• 12:06
  you
• 12:06
  understand
• 12:07
  and
• 12:07
  comprehend
• 12:08
  and
• 12:08
  things
• 12:08
  that
• 12:08
  you
• 12:08
  use
• 12:09
  and
• 12:09
  get
• 12:09
  rid
• 12:09
  of
• 12:10
  the
• 12:10
  rest,
• 12:10
  the
• 12:10
  dust
• 12:11
  collectors,
• 12:11
  you're
• 12:12
  gonna
• 12:12
  feel
• 12:12
  great,
• 12:12
  and
• 12:12
  you're
• 12:13
  gonna
• 12:13
  be
• 12:13
  more
• 12:13
  organized
• 12:13
  than
• 12:14
  you
• 12:14
  think.
• 12:14
  Okay?
• 12:15
  Here's
• 12:15
  the
• 12:15
  thing,
• 12:16
  though.
• 12:16
  When
• 12:16
  we
• 12:16
  have
• 12:17
  all
• 12:17
  these
• 12:17
  things
• 12:17
  we've
• 12:18
  collected
• 12:19
  over
• 12:19
  time,
• 12:20
  let's
• 12:20
  say
• 12:20
  they
• 12:20
  stack
• 12:20
  up.
• 12:21
  We
• 12:21
  have
• 12:21
  kids.
• 12:21
  You
• 12:22
  know
• 12:22
  how
• 12:22
  things
• 12:22
  multiply
• 12:22
  when
• 12:23
  you've
• 12:23
  got
• 12:23
  kids,
• 12:24
  where
• 12:24
  do
• 12:24
  you
• 12:25
  even
• 12:25
  start
• 12:25
  to
• 12:26
  declutter
• 12:26
  to
• 12:27
  get
• 12:27
  to
• 12:27
  that
• 12:28
  place?
• 12:28
  Like,
• 12:28
  do
• 12:28
  you
• 12:28
  have,
• 12:29
  like,
• 12:29
  three
• 12:29
  tips?
• 12:29
  Like,
• 12:30
  where
• 12:30
  you
• 12:30
  should
• 12:30
  start
• 12:30
  to
• 12:31
  be
• 12:31
  like,
• 12:31
  okay,
• 12:31
  I'm
• 12:32
  gonna
• 12:32
  tackle
• 12:32
  1,
• 12:33
  2,
• 12:33
  3,
• 12:34
  and
• 12:34
  get
• 12:34
  my
• 12:34
  home
• 12:35
  ready
• 12:35
  for,
• 12:35
  like,
• 12:35
  doing
• 12:36
  entertaining
• 12:36
  and
• 12:37
  all
• 12:37
  the
• 12:37
  great
• 12:37
  things.
• 12:38
  Well,
• 12:38
  first
• 12:38
  of
• 12:38
  all,
• 12:39
  let
• 12:39
  me
• 12:39
  just
• 12:39
  say
• 12:39
  Scooter
• 12:42
  would.
• 12:42
  And
• 12:42
  I
• 12:42
  feel
• 12:43
  strongly
• 12:43
  about
• 12:43
  this,
• 12:44
  and
• 12:44
  he's
• 12:44
  gonna
• 12:44
  shoot
• 12:45
  me
• 12:45
  when
• 12:45
  I
• 12:45
  say
• 12:45
  this
• 12:46
  would
• 12:47
  be
• 12:47
  on
• 12:47
  the
• 12:47
  show
• 12:48
  Hoarders
• 12:50
  had
• 12:50
  he
• 12:50
  not
• 12:50
  married
• 12:51
  me,
• 12:51
  had
• 12:52
  he
• 12:52
  not
• 12:52
  found
• 12:52
  me.
• 12:52
  Okay?
• 12:53
  He
• 12:54
  loves.
• 12:54
  He
• 12:54
  just
• 12:55
  doesn't
• 12:55
  want
• 12:55
  to
• 12:55
  part
• 12:55
  with
• 12:56
  anything
• 12:57
  at
• 12:57
  all,
• 12:57
  ever,
• 12:58
  ever,
• 12:58
  ever.
• 12:59
  Like,
• 12:59
  he
• 12:59
  is
• 12:59
  attached,
• 13:00
  attached
• 13:02
  kid
• 13:02
  Two
• 13:03
  is
• 13:03
  like
• 13:03
  that.
• 13:04
  She's
• 13:05
  very
• 13:05
  much
• 13:05
  like
• 13:05
  that
• 13:05
  as
• 13:05
  well.
• 13:06
  They
• 13:06
  get
• 13:06
  very
• 13:06
  attached
• 13:07
  to
• 13:07
  things.
• 13:08
  My
• 13:08
  other
• 13:08
  two
• 13:09
  kids
• 13:09
  aren't.
• 13:09
  They're
• 13:09
  more
• 13:09
  like
• 13:10
  me.
• 13:10
  I'll
• 13:10
  give
• 13:10
  you
• 13:10
  anything.
• 13:11
  So
• 13:12
  it's
• 13:12
  interesting
• 13:13
  because
• 13:13
  the
• 13:13
  universe
• 13:14
  kind
• 13:14
  of
• 13:14
  brings
• 13:14
  you
• 13:15
  what
• 13:15
  you
• 13:15
  need,
• 13:16
  right?
• 13:16
  I
• 13:17
  was
• 13:17
  probably
• 13:17
  a
• 13:17
  little
• 13:17
  too
• 13:18
  streamlined,
• 13:19
  right?
• 13:19
  Scooter's
• 13:20
  like,
• 13:20
  the
• 13:20
  problem
• 13:20
  with
• 13:20
  you
• 13:21
  is
• 13:21
  you
• 13:21
  organize.
• 13:21
  And
• 13:22
  then
• 13:22
  once
• 13:22
  we
• 13:22
  figure
• 13:22
  out
• 13:22
  where
• 13:22
  it
• 13:22
  is,
• 13:23
  you
• 13:23
  organize
• 13:23
  again.
• 13:24
  He
• 13:24
  goes,
• 13:24
  you
• 13:24
  can't
• 13:25
  stop
• 13:25
  organizing.
• 13:27
  But
• 13:27
  he
• 13:27
  doesn't
• 13:27
  have
• 13:28
  any
• 13:28
  organization,
• 13:29
  so
• 13:29
  how
• 13:30
  do
• 13:30
  you
• 13:30
  make
• 13:30
  all
• 13:30
  that
• 13:30
  work?
• 13:31
  Right?
• 13:33
  I'm
• 13:33
  lucky.
• 13:34
  Cause
• 13:34
  I'll
• 13:34
  give
• 13:34
  you.
• 13:35
  If
• 13:35
  you
• 13:35
  said
• 13:35
  you
• 13:35
  like
• 13:35
  this
• 13:35
  sweater,
• 13:36
  I'd
• 13:36
  be
• 13:36
  like,
• 13:36
  you
• 13:36
  know
• 13:36
  what?
• 13:36
  If
• 13:36
  it's
• 13:37
  your
• 13:37
  size?
• 13:37
  Let's
• 13:37
  figure
• 13:37
  this
• 13:37
  out
• 13:38
  after
• 13:38
  the
• 13:39
  taping,
• 13:39
  right?
• 13:39
  I'll
• 13:39
  give
• 13:39
  it.
• 13:40
  It's
• 13:40
  like.
• 13:40
  Cause
• 13:40
  I'm
• 13:41
  not
• 13:41
  attached
• 13:41
  to
• 13:41
  things,
• 13:42
  but
• 13:42
  some
• 13:43
  people
• 13:43
  are.
• 13:43
  And
• 13:43
  I
• 13:44
  understand
• 13:44
  that.
• 13:44
  I'm
• 13:44
  married
• 13:45
  to
• 13:45
  someone
• 13:45
  who's
• 13:45
  very
• 13:46
  attached
• 13:46
  to
• 13:47
  things,
• 13:47
  I
• 13:47
  guess,
• 13:47
  which
• 13:47
  is
• 13:47
  good
• 13:48
  for
• 13:48
  marriage,
• 13:48
  right?
• 13:50
  He's
• 13:50
  probably
• 13:50
  not
• 13:50
  getting
• 13:51
  rid
• 13:51
  of
• 13:51
  me.
• 13:52
  He
• 13:52
  doesn't
• 13:52
  like
• 13:52
  getting
• 13:52
  rid
• 13:52
  of
• 13:53
  anything.
• 13:53
  So,
• 13:53
  honestly,
• 13:54
  I
• 13:54
  mean,
• 13:54
  you
• 13:54
  might
• 13:54
  want
• 13:55
  to
• 13:55
  marry
• 13:55
  someone
• 13:55
  who's
• 13:55
  attached
• 13:56
  to
• 13:56
  things
• 13:56
  because
• 13:57
  they
• 13:57
  get
• 13:57
  attached
• 13:57
  to
• 13:57
  you
• 13:58
  too.
• 13:58
  So
• 13:58
  my
• 13:59
  number
• 13:59
  one
• 13:59
  thing
• 13:59
  is
• 13:59
  white
• 14:00
  plates.
• 14:01
  Number
• 14:01
  one
• 14:01
  takeaway,
• 14:02
  get
• 14:02
  rid
• 14:02
  of
• 14:02
  all
• 14:03
  the
• 14:03
  fancy
• 14:03
  plates.
• 14:04
  I
• 14:04
  mean,
• 14:04
  we
• 14:04
  all
• 14:04
  have
• 14:04
  them,
• 14:05
  right?
• 14:05
  Because
• 14:05
  you
• 14:05
  and
• 14:05
  I,
• 14:06
  or
• 14:06
  at
• 14:06
  least
• 14:07
  me,
• 14:07
  again,
• 14:09
  much
• 14:09
  older
• 14:09
  than
• 14:09
  you,
• 14:09
  but
• 14:10
  would
• 14:10
  register
• 14:11
  for
• 14:11
  plates.
• 14:12
  The
• 14:12
  wedding
• 14:12
  china,
• 14:13
  we
• 14:13
  had
• 14:13
  to
• 14:13
  have
• 14:13
  it,
• 14:14
  right?
• 14:14
  Had
• 14:15
  to
• 14:15
  have
• 14:15
  it.
• 14:15
  Had
• 14:15
  to
• 14:15
  have
• 14:15
  the
• 14:16
  silverware,
• 14:16
  the
• 14:16
  china,
• 14:17
  the
• 14:17
  glassware.
• 14:18
  One
• 14:18
  big
• 14:18
  earthquake
• 14:19
  and
• 14:19
  boom,
• 14:20
  right
• 14:20
  here
• 14:21
  in
• 14:21
  where
• 14:22
  we
• 14:22
  live.
• 14:22
  So
• 14:22
  it's
• 14:22
  kind
• 14:22
  of
• 14:22
  like
• 14:23
  you
• 14:23
  learn
• 14:23
  very
• 14:23
  quickly,
• 14:24
  those
• 14:24
  things
• 14:24
  are
• 14:25
  very
• 14:25
  replaceable.
• 14:26
  White
• 14:26
  plates
• 14:26
  are
• 14:26
  the
• 14:26
  best
• 14:27
  thing
• 14:27
  you
• 14:27
  can
• 14:27
  do
• 14:27
  in
• 14:27
  your
• 14:27
  kitchen.
• 14:28
  Go
• 14:28
  get
• 14:28
  yourself
• 14:29
  some
• 14:29
  white
• 14:29
  plates,
• 14:29
  and
• 14:29
  you
• 14:29
  can
• 14:30
  get
• 14:30
  them
• 14:30
  anywhere.
• 14:30
  Amazon,
• 14:31
  Target,
• 14:31
  Walmart,
• 14:32
  they
• 14:32
  are
• 14:32
  not
• 14:32
  a
• 14:32
  heavy
• 14:32
  lift.
• 14:33
  Get
• 14:33
  a
• 14:33
  bunch
• 14:34
  of
• 14:34
  white
• 14:34
  plates
• 14:34
  and
• 14:35
  start
• 14:35
  using
• 14:35
  those.
• 14:36
  If
• 14:36
  you
• 14:36
  are
• 14:36
  bringing
• 14:37
  home
• 14:37
  takeout,
• 14:37
  if
• 14:37
  you
• 14:38
  are
• 14:38
  bringing
• 14:38
  home
• 14:38
  McDonald's,
• 14:39
  stick
• 14:39
  that
• 14:39
  on
• 14:39
  a
• 14:39
  plate
• 14:40
  before
• 14:40
  you
• 14:41
  sit
• 14:41
  down
• 14:41
  at
• 14:41
  the
• 14:41
  table
• 14:41
  with
• 14:42
  your
• 14:42
  kids.
• 14:42
  I
• 14:42
  don't
• 14:42
  even
• 14:43
  care
• 14:43
  what
• 14:43
  you're
• 14:43
  eating.
• 14:43
  I'm
• 14:43
  not
• 14:44
  here
• 14:44
  to
• 14:44
  tell
• 14:44
  you
• 14:44
  you've
• 14:44
  got
• 14:44
  to
• 14:45
  buy
• 14:45
  organic
• 14:45
  and
• 14:45
  you've
• 14:45
  got
• 14:45
  to
• 14:46
  cook
• 14:46
  from
• 14:46
  scratch.
• 14:47
  That
• 14:47
  is
• 14:47
  not
• 14:48
  the
• 14:48
  world
• 14:49
  I
• 14:49
  get
• 14:49
  to
• 14:49
  live
• 14:49
  in,
• 14:49
  right?
• 14:50
  I
• 14:50
  don't
• 14:50
  know
• 14:50
  if
• 14:50
  I'll
• 14:50
  ever
• 14:50
  be
• 14:51
  living
• 14:51
  in
• 14:51
  that
• 14:51
  world
• 14:51
  with
• 14:51
  the
• 14:52
  kids
• 14:52
  and
• 14:52
  dogs
• 14:52
  and
• 14:52
  traveling
• 14:53
  husband,
• 14:53
  but
• 14:53
  I
• 14:54
  think
• 14:54
  white
• 14:54
  plates
• 14:55
  automatically
• 14:55
  make
• 14:56
  you
• 14:56
  feel
• 14:57
  like
• 14:58
  something
• 14:58
  special
• 14:58
  is
• 14:58
  happening.
• 14:59
  Like
• 14:59
  elevated
• 15:00
  a
• 15:00
  bit,
• 15:00
  right?
• 15:00
  You're
• 15:01
  sitting
• 15:01
  down
• 15:01
  at
• 15:01
  the
• 15:01
  table
• 15:02
  on
• 15:02
  a
• 15:02
  plate
• 15:03
  that
• 15:03
  has
• 15:03
  some
• 15:04
  substance,
• 15:05
  right?
• 15:05
  So
• 15:05
  it's
• 15:05
  about
• 15:05
  the
• 15:05
  energy
• 15:06
  you're
• 15:06
  bringing
• 15:06
  to
• 15:06
  that
• 15:06
  table.
• 15:07
  So
• 15:07
  you
• 15:07
  can
• 15:07
  serve
• 15:08
  whatever
• 15:08
  you
• 15:08
  want
• 15:08
  to
• 15:08
  your
• 15:08
  guests
• 15:09
  when
• 15:09
  they
• 15:09
  come
• 15:09
  over.
• 15:09
  Just
• 15:09
  pull
• 15:10
  out
• 15:10
  your
• 15:10
  white
• 15:10
  plates.
• 15:11
  No
• 15:11
  paper
• 15:11
  napkins,
• 15:14
  cloth
• 15:14
  only.
• 15:15
  I
• 15:15
  invested
• 15:15
  in
• 15:16
  a
• 15:16
  ton,
• 15:16
  and
• 15:16
  I'm
• 15:16
  not.
• 15:17
  And
• 15:17
  it
• 15:17
  is
• 15:17
  good
• 15:17
  for
• 15:18
  the
• 15:18
  environment
• 15:18
  to
• 15:18
  not.
• 15:18
  But
• 15:19
  I'm
• 15:19
  not
• 15:19
  saying
• 15:19
  it
• 15:19
  because
• 15:20
  of
• 15:20
  that.
• 15:20
  That
• 15:21
  also,
• 15:21
  to
• 15:21
  me,
• 15:22
  elevates
• 15:22
  the
• 15:22
  meal.
• 15:23
  So
• 15:23
  I
• 15:24
  went.
• 15:24
  When
• 15:24
  we
• 15:24
  were
• 15:25
  on
• 15:25
  a
• 15:26
  trip
• 15:26
  abroad,
• 15:27
  I
• 15:27
  ran
• 15:27
  into
• 15:27
  these
• 15:28
  French
• 15:28
  kitchen
• 15:29
  towels
• 15:30
  that
• 15:30
  the
• 15:30
  lady
• 15:31
  was
• 15:31
  basically
• 15:31
  giving
• 15:31
  away,
• 15:32
  like
• 15:32
  in
• 15:32
  a
• 15:32
  street
• 15:32
  market.
• 15:33
  And
• 15:34
  I
• 15:34
  look
• 15:34
  at
• 15:34
  Scooter
• 15:34
  and
• 15:34
  I
• 15:35
  go,
• 15:35
  I'm
• 15:35
  just
• 15:35
  gonna
• 15:35
  buy
• 15:35
  a
• 15:35
  bunch
• 15:35
  of
• 15:35
  these.
• 15:36
  And
• 15:36
  we're
• 15:36
  getting
• 15:36
  rid
• 15:37
  of
• 15:38
  our
• 15:38
  napkins
• 15:39
  and
• 15:39
  our
• 15:39
  paper
• 15:39
  towel
• 15:40
  napkin
• 15:40
  things.
• 15:40
  And
• 15:40
  he
• 15:40
  goes,
• 15:42
  wait,
• 15:42
  what?
• 15:43
  These
• 15:43
  are
• 15:43
  kitchen
• 15:43
  towels.
• 15:44
  I
• 15:44
  go,
• 15:44
  yeah,
• 15:45
  but
• 15:45
  we're
• 15:45
  gonna
• 15:45
  use
• 15:45
  them
• 15:45
  as
• 15:45
  napkins.
• 15:46
  And
• 15:46
  they're
• 15:47
  pretty.
• 15:47
  And
• 15:48
  boy,
• 15:48
  I
• 15:48
  gotta
• 15:48
  tell
• 15:48
  you
• 15:48
  what,
• 15:49
  you
• 15:49
  stick
• 15:49
  one
• 15:49
  of
• 15:49
  those
• 15:50
  down
• 15:50
  at
• 15:50
  the
• 15:50
  plate
• 15:51
  with
• 15:51
  your
• 15:51
  white
• 15:51
  plate,
• 15:53
  all
• 15:53
  of
• 15:53
  a
• 15:53
  sudden
• 15:54
  you're
• 15:54
  feeling
• 15:54
  pretty
• 15:55
  fancy.
• 15:55
  But
• 15:55
  you
• 15:55
  can
• 15:55
  get
• 15:55
  whatever
• 15:56
  you
• 15:56
  want
• 15:56
  anywhere.
• 15:56
  Again,
• 15:57
  just
• 15:57
  buy
• 15:57
  yourself
• 15:58
  some
• 15:59
  cotton
• 15:59
  napkins
• 16:00
  and
• 16:00
  do
• 16:00
  a
• 16:00
  load
• 16:00
  every.
• 16:01
  You
• 16:01
  know,
• 16:02
  when
• 16:02
  you're
• 16:02
  doing
• 16:02
  laundry.
• 16:03
  I
• 16:03
  buy
• 16:03
  enough
• 16:03
  to
• 16:03
  where
• 16:04
  I'll
• 16:04
  just
• 16:04
  do
• 16:05
  them
• 16:05
  in
• 16:05
  batch,
• 16:06
  in
• 16:06
  bulk,
• 16:06
  so
• 16:06
  that
• 16:07
  you're
• 16:07
  not
• 16:07
  driving
• 16:07
  yourself
• 16:08
  crazy.
• 16:08
  But
• 16:08
  it
• 16:08
  doesn't
• 16:09
  have
• 16:09
  to
• 16:09
  be
• 16:09
  like
• 16:09
  a
• 16:10
  formal,
• 16:10
  expensive
• 16:11
  linen
• 16:11
  that
• 16:12
  you're
• 16:12
  ironing.
• 16:13
  These
• 16:13
  are
• 16:13
  wash
• 16:14
  and
• 16:14
  dry,
• 16:14
  fold
• 16:14
  and
• 16:15
  done.
• 16:15
  There's
• 16:16
  no
• 16:16
  ironing
• 16:16
  going
• 16:16
  on.
• 16:17
  But
• 16:17
  I'm
• 16:17
  telling
• 16:17
  you,
• 16:18
  the
• 16:19
  energy
• 16:19
  you
• 16:19
  get
• 16:20
  from
• 16:21
  a
• 16:21
  real
• 16:21
  plate
• 16:21
  and
• 16:22
  a
• 16:22
  real
• 16:22
  napkin,
• 16:23
  you
• 16:23
  even
• 16:23
  see
• 16:23
  it
• 16:24
  in
• 16:24
  the
• 16:24
  kids
• 16:24
  a
• 16:24
  little
• 16:24
  bit.
• 16:25
  Like,
• 16:25
  this
• 16:25
  is
• 16:25
  a
• 16:25
  moment.
• 16:26
  So
• 16:26
  those
• 16:26
  are
• 16:27
  two
• 16:27
  big
• 16:27
  takeaways
• 16:28
  when
• 16:28
  you're
• 16:28
  entertaining,
• 16:28
  I
• 16:29
  think
• 16:29
  that
• 16:29
  are
• 16:29
  kind
• 16:30
  of
• 16:30
  huge.
• 16:31
  I
• 16:31
  like
• 16:31
  those
• 16:31
  a
• 16:31
  lot.
• 16:31
  Those
• 16:32
  are
• 16:32
  easy
• 16:32
  to
• 16:33
  do,
• 16:34
  obviously,
• 16:34
  you
• 16:34
  know,
• 16:34
  nice
• 16:35
  glasses.
• 16:36
  I
• 16:36
  invested
• 16:36
  in
• 16:36
  some
• 16:37
  nice
• 16:37
  coffee
• 16:37
  cups.
• 16:38
  All
• 16:39
  my
• 16:39
  other
• 16:39
  coffee
• 16:39
  cups
• 16:40
  are
• 16:40
  the
• 16:40
  photos
• 16:40
  you
• 16:40
  get
• 16:40
  at
• 16:41
  Walgreens
• 16:41
  and
• 16:42
  you
• 16:42
  give
• 16:43
  them
• 16:43
  to
• 16:43
  your
• 16:43
  spouse
• 16:43
  at
• 16:43
  Christmas,
• 16:44
  right?
• 16:44
  So
• 16:44
  we've
• 16:44
  got
• 16:44
  like
• 16:45
  50
• 16:45
  of
• 16:45
  those.
• 16:45
  But
• 16:46
  I
• 16:46
  invested
• 16:46
  in,
• 16:47
  like,
• 16:47
  six
• 16:47
  really
• 16:48
  beautiful,
• 16:48
  nice
• 16:49
  coffee
• 16:49
  cups.
• 16:49
  So
• 16:50
  if
• 16:50
  I'm
• 16:50
  serving
• 16:50
  coffee,
• 16:50
  it
• 16:51
  just
• 16:51
  feels.
• 16:52
  It
• 16:53
  feels
• 16:53
  better.
• 16:53
  So
• 16:54
  figure
• 16:54
  out
• 16:54
  what
• 16:54
  feels
• 16:54
  good
• 16:54
  to
• 16:55
  you.
• 16:55
  Not
• 16:55
  everybody
• 16:56
  needs
• 16:56
  a
• 16:56
  fancy
• 16:56
  coffee
• 16:57
  cup,
• 16:57
  but
• 16:57
  maybe
• 16:57
  your
• 16:57
  thing
• 16:58
  is
• 16:58
  an
• 16:58
  iced
• 16:58
  latte.
• 16:59
  Go
• 16:59
  buy
• 16:59
  yourself
• 17:00
  some
• 17:00
  really
• 17:00
  nice
• 17:00
  glasses
• 17:01
  for
• 17:01
  that.
• 17:02
  You
• 17:02
  can
• 17:02
  get
• 17:02
  this
• 17:02
  stuff
• 17:02
  at
• 17:03
  Ikea.
• 17:03
  These
• 17:04
  are
• 17:04
  not
• 17:04
  expensive.
• 17:05
  Don't
• 17:05
  be
• 17:06
  tied
• 17:06
  to
• 17:06
  those,
• 17:06
  because
• 17:07
  we
• 17:07
  all
• 17:07
  have
• 17:07
  this
• 17:07
  in
• 17:08
  our
• 17:08
  head.
• 17:08
  Well,
• 17:08
  if
• 17:08
  I'm
• 17:08
  not
• 17:08
  pulling
• 17:09
  the
• 17:09
  china
• 17:09
  out,
• 17:09
  it's
• 17:10
  not
• 17:10
  really
• 17:10
  an
• 17:10
  event.
• 17:11
  Just
• 17:11
  remove
• 17:12
  that.
• 17:12
  Remove
• 17:12
  that
• 17:13
  pressure
• 17:13
  from
• 17:13
  yourself.
• 17:14
  Just
• 17:15
  get
• 17:15
  rid
• 17:15
  of
• 17:15
  the
• 17:15
  paper
• 17:15
  plates
• 17:16
  and
• 17:16
  the
• 17:16
  paper
• 17:16
  napkins.
• 17:17
  I
• 17:17
  mean,
• 17:17
  you'll
• 17:17
  be
• 17:17
  shocked
• 17:18
  at
• 17:18
  how
• 17:19
  that
• 17:19
  feels
• 17:19
  in
• 17:20
  your
• 17:20
  kitchen,
• 17:21
  right?
• 17:21
  Absolutely.
• 17:22
  So
• 17:22
  what
• 17:23
  do
• 17:23
  you
• 17:23
  think
• 17:23
  is
• 17:23
  the
• 17:23
  most
• 17:24
  underestimated?
• 17:25
  Whether
• 17:26
  it
• 17:26
  be
• 17:26
  like
• 17:26
  a
• 17:27
  scent
• 17:27
  or
• 17:28
  furniture
• 17:29
  or
• 17:30
  flowers.
• 17:31
  Flowers.
• 17:31
  What
• 17:32
  is
• 17:32
  the
• 17:32
  most
• 17:32
  underestimated
• 17:33
  thing
• 17:33
  that
• 17:33
  you
• 17:34
  think
• 17:34
  can
• 17:34
  create
• 17:35
  such
• 17:35
  a
• 17:35
  great
• 17:36
  vibe
• 17:36
  in
• 17:36
  your
• 17:36
  home?
• 17:37
  Well,
• 17:37
  it's.
• 17:38
  It's
• 17:38
  gonna
• 17:39
  be
• 17:39
  different
• 17:39
  for
• 17:39
  everyone.
• 17:40
  But
• 17:40
  I
• 17:40
  would
• 17:40
  have
• 17:40
  to
• 17:41
  say
• 17:43
  scent
• 17:43
  is
• 17:43
  a
• 17:43
  big
• 17:44
  deal,
• 17:44
  so.
• 17:45
  But
• 17:45
  I
• 17:45
  don't.
• 17:45
  And
• 17:45
  I'm
• 17:45
  not
• 17:45
  a
• 17:46
  candle
• 17:46
  person,
• 17:47
  so
• 17:47
  I
• 17:47
  do
• 17:47
  a
• 17:47
  lot
• 17:47
  of
• 17:47
  simmer
• 17:48
  pots.
• 17:48
  Oh,
• 17:49
  so
• 17:49
  you're
• 17:49
  letting
• 17:50
  it
• 17:50
  go
• 17:50
  on
• 17:50
  the
• 17:50
  stove
• 17:50
  or.
• 17:51
  I
• 17:51
  put.
• 17:51
  I
• 17:51
  have
• 17:51
  a
• 17:51
  little
• 17:51
  mini
• 17:52
  crock
• 17:52
  pot,
• 17:52
  which
• 17:52
  is
• 17:53
  even
• 17:53
  easier.
• 17:53
  You
• 17:53
  don't
• 17:53
  have
• 17:53
  to
• 17:54
  worry
• 17:54
  about
• 17:54
  it
• 17:54
  catching
• 17:54
  on
• 17:54
  fire
• 17:54
  or
• 17:55
  burning
• 17:55
  away.
• 17:55
  Yeah,
• 17:56
  so
• 17:56
  I
• 17:56
  just
• 17:57
  stick
• 17:57
  the
• 17:57
  old
• 17:58
  fruit
• 17:58
  in
• 17:58
  that.
• 17:59
  You
• 17:59
  know,
• 17:59
  oranges
• 18:00
  that
• 18:00
  are
• 18:00
  going
• 18:00
  bad,
• 18:00
  half
• 18:01
  eaten
• 18:01
  apples,
• 18:01
  whatever.
• 18:02
  You
• 18:02
  can
• 18:03
  stick
• 18:03
  it
• 18:03
  all
• 18:03
  in.
• 18:03
  There
• 18:03
  was
• 18:04
  a
• 18:04
  little
• 18:04
  bit
• 18:04
  of
• 18:04
  vanilla.
• 18:05
  So
• 18:05
  scent
• 18:05
  is
• 18:06
  huge.
• 18:06
  I
• 18:06
  think
• 18:06
  scent
• 18:07
  is
• 18:07
  a
• 18:07
  really
• 18:07
  big
• 18:07
  one.
• 18:07
  I
• 18:08
  love
• 18:08
  flowers.
• 18:09
  I'm
• 18:09
  a
• 18:09
  big
• 18:09
  fan
• 18:09
  of
• 18:10
  one
• 18:10
  color
• 18:10
  at
• 18:10
  a
• 18:10
  time
• 18:10
  on
• 18:11
  the
• 18:11
  flowers.
• 18:12
  Go
• 18:12
  to
• 18:12
  Trader
• 18:13
  Joe's.
• 18:13
  That's
• 18:13
  like
• 18:13
  if
• 18:14
  you
• 18:14
  go
• 18:14
  into
• 18:14
  any
• 18:14
  fancy
• 18:15
  hotel
• 18:15
  anywhere
• 18:16
  in
• 18:16
  the
• 18:16
  world.
• 18:16
  Four
• 18:17
  Seasons
• 18:17
  in
• 18:17
  Paris.
• 18:18
  Let's
• 18:18
  just
• 18:19
  start
• 18:19
  there.
• 18:19
  This
• 18:20
  is
• 18:20
  where
• 18:20
  it
• 18:20
  dawned
• 18:20
  on
• 18:20
  me.
• 18:21
  Every
• 18:22
  flower
• 18:22
  in
• 18:22
  the
• 18:22
  lobby
• 18:23
  matched
• 18:24
  different
• 18:24
  flowers,
• 18:25
  but
• 18:25
  same
• 18:25
  color.
• 18:26
  And
• 18:26
  I
• 18:26
  was
• 18:27
  like,
• 18:27
  wait,
• 18:28
  something's
• 18:29
  happening
• 18:29
  here.
• 18:29
  So
• 18:29
  then
• 18:30
  I
• 18:30
  started
• 18:30
  paying
• 18:30
  attention
• 18:31
  to
• 18:31
  that
• 18:31
  everywhere
• 18:31
  we
• 18:32
  went.
• 18:32
  Like,
• 18:32
  if
• 18:32
  you
• 18:32
  go
• 18:32
  someplace
• 18:33
  to
• 18:33
  have
• 18:33
  tea,
• 18:33
  you're
• 18:34
  like,
• 18:34
  okay,
• 18:35
  all
• 18:36
  the
• 18:36
  flowers
• 18:36
  are
• 18:36
  matching.
• 18:37
  So
• 18:38
  one
• 18:38
  color
• 18:38
  flowers,
• 18:39
  whatever
• 18:39
  that
• 18:39
  is.
• 18:40
  Roxy,
• 18:40
  if
• 18:40
  you
• 18:41
  like
• 18:41
  pink,
• 18:41
  white,
• 18:42
  red,
• 18:42
  green,
• 18:43
  buy
• 18:43
  a
• 18:43
  whole
• 18:43
  bunch
• 18:44
  of
• 18:44
  different
• 18:44
  ones
• 18:44
  in
• 18:44
  that
• 18:45
  colorway
• 18:45
  and
• 18:45
  make
• 18:45
  yourself
• 18:46
  a
• 18:46
  bouquet.
• 18:47
  It's
• 18:47
  gonna
• 18:47
  feel
• 18:47
  fancy
• 18:48
  and
• 18:48
  elevated
• 18:48
  and
• 18:48
  very
• 18:49
  affordable.
• 18:50
  No,
• 18:50
  you
• 18:50
  could.
• 18:50
  Yeah,
• 18:51
  easy.
• 18:52
  It's
• 18:52
  easy,
• 18:52
  right?
• 18:52
  It's
• 18:53
  just
• 18:53
  one
• 18:53
  color.
• 18:54
  You
• 18:54
  walk
• 18:54
  in
• 18:54
  there
• 18:54
  and
• 18:55
  they
• 18:55
  have
• 18:55
  these
• 18:55
  pre
• 18:55
  made
• 18:56
  bouquets,
• 18:57
  and
• 18:57
  there's
• 18:57
  so
• 18:57
  much
• 18:58
  happening.
• 18:59
  And
• 18:59
  they
• 18:59
  never
• 18:59
  look
• 19:00
  right
• 19:00
  when
• 19:00
  I
• 19:00
  get
• 19:00
  them
• 19:00
  home.
• 19:01
  And
• 19:01
  I
• 19:01
  trim
• 19:02
  them
• 19:02
  down
• 19:02
  and
• 19:02
  put
• 19:02
  them
• 19:02
  in
• 19:02
  the
• 19:02
  vase.
• 19:03
  Right.
• 19:03
  Don't
• 19:04
  you
• 19:04
  struggle.
• 19:04
  You're
• 19:04
  like,
• 19:05
  why
• 19:05
  did
• 19:05
  those
• 19:06
  look
• 19:06
  so
• 19:06
  good?
• 19:06
  Right,
• 19:07
  right.
• 19:07
  And
• 19:07
  you're
• 19:08
  like,
• 19:08
  what's
• 19:08
  happening?
• 19:09
  Yeah,
• 19:09
  it's
• 19:09
  like
• 19:10
  they
• 19:10
  look
• 19:10
  jinky
• 19:11
  now
• 19:11
  in
• 19:11
  my
• 19:11
  house.
• 19:12
  So
• 19:12
  I
• 19:12
  found
• 19:12
  if
• 19:13
  I
• 19:13
  pick
• 19:13
  up
• 19:13
  three
• 19:13
  different
• 19:14
  varieties
• 19:14
  of
• 19:14
  all
• 19:14
  white,
• 19:15
  I
• 19:15
  tend
• 19:15
  to
• 19:15
  do
• 19:15
  a
• 19:15
  lot
• 19:15
  of
• 19:16
  white,
• 19:16
  stick
• 19:17
  them
• 19:17
  together,
• 19:18
  they
• 19:18
  look
• 19:19
  fantastic.
• 19:19
  I
• 19:20
  know
• 19:20
  that
• 19:20
  sounds
• 19:21
  crazy.
• 19:22
  So
• 19:23
  you've
• 19:23
  got
• 19:23
  the
• 19:23
  silver
• 19:23
  pot
• 19:23
  going
• 19:24
  and
• 19:24
  all
• 19:24
  white,
• 19:25
  you
• 19:25
  know,
• 19:25
  all
• 19:26
  pink,
• 19:26
  all
• 19:26
  whatever
• 19:26
  bouquet
• 19:27
  or
• 19:27
  whatever.
• 19:28
  I
• 19:28
  think
• 19:28
  those
• 19:28
  things
• 19:29
  are
• 19:29
  huge.
• 19:29
  And
• 19:30
  don't
• 19:30
  underestimate
• 19:31
  a
• 19:31
  clean
• 19:31
  sink.
• 19:33
  A
• 19:33
  sink
• 19:33
  without
• 19:33
  any
• 19:34
  dishes
• 19:34
  at
• 19:34
  all.
• 19:35
  If
• 19:35
  we
• 19:35
  have
• 19:35
  guests
• 19:35
  coming
• 19:36
  over,
• 19:36
  I
• 19:36
  stick
• 19:36
  stuff
• 19:37
  in
• 19:37
  the
• 19:37
  dishwasher
• 19:37
  that
• 19:38
  probably
• 19:38
  doesn't
• 19:38
  even
• 19:38
  belong
• 19:39
  in
• 19:39
  the
• 19:39
  dishwasher.
• 19:40
  Knowing
• 19:40
  I'm
• 19:40
  not
• 19:41
  going
• 19:41
  to
• 19:41
  be
• 19:41
  running
• 19:42
  the
• 19:42
  dishwasher.
• 19:42
  I
• 19:42
  will
• 19:43
  be
• 19:43
  opening
• 19:43
  it
• 19:43
  and
• 19:43
  I
• 19:44
  will
• 19:44
  be
• 19:44
  pulling
• 19:44
  that
• 19:44
  out.
• 19:45
  But
• 19:45
  like,
• 19:46
  I
• 19:46
  might
• 19:46
  even,
• 19:46
  like
• 19:46
  the
• 19:47
  last
• 19:47
  minute,
• 19:47
  there's
• 19:47
  a
• 19:47
  wooden
• 19:48
  cutting
• 19:48
  board
• 19:48
  that
• 19:48
  you're
• 19:49
  not
• 19:49
  going
• 19:49
  to
• 19:49
  put
• 19:49
  in
• 19:49
  there.
• 19:49
  I'll
• 19:49
  stick
• 19:50
  it
• 19:50
  in
• 19:50
  the
• 19:50
  dishwasher
• 19:50
  just
• 19:50
  to
• 19:51
  get
• 19:51
  it
• 19:51
  out
• 19:51
  of
• 19:51
  the
• 19:51
  way.
• 19:52
  Clean
• 19:52
  your
• 19:52
  sink.
• 19:53
  It's
• 19:53
  amazing
• 19:54
  what
• 19:54
  kind
• 19:55
  of
• 19:55
  energy
• 19:56
  you
• 19:56
  can
• 19:56
  get
• 19:56
  from
• 19:56
  a
• 19:56
  clean
• 19:56
  sink.
• 19:57
  Wow,
• 19:57
  that's
• 19:58
  a
• 19:58
  great.
• 19:58
  That's
• 19:58
  a
• 19:59
  great
• 19:59
  tip.
• 19:59
  Yes.
• 19:59
  A
• 19:59
  clean
• 19:59
  sink.
• 20:00
  And
• 20:00
  then
• 20:00
  music
• 20:01
  wise,
• 20:01
  I
• 20:01
  used
• 20:01
  to
• 20:02
  struggle
• 20:02
  with
• 20:02
  this.
• 20:02
  Like,
• 20:02
  what
• 20:03
  do
• 20:03
  we
• 20:03
  listen
• 20:03
  to?
• 20:03
  What
• 20:04
  works
• 20:04
  for
• 20:04
  everyone.
• 20:05
  And
• 20:05
  I
• 20:06
  always
• 20:07
  put
• 20:07
  on
• 20:07
  whether
• 20:07
  you
• 20:07
  listen
• 20:08
  at
• 20:08
  Amazon,
• 20:08
  Spotify
• 20:09
  doesn't
• 20:09
  really
• 20:09
  matter.
• 20:10
  Everyone's
• 20:10
  going
• 20:10
  to
• 20:10
  have
• 20:10
  an
• 20:10
  option
• 20:11
  called
• 20:11
  Pink
• 20:11
  Martini.
• 20:12
  Are
• 20:13
  you
• 20:13
  familiar
• 20:13
  with
• 20:13
  those
• 20:13
  guys?
• 20:13
  No.
• 20:14
  Okay,
• 20:15
  Pink
• 20:15
  Martini.
• 20:16
  But
• 20:16
  it's
• 20:16
  a
• 20:16
  genre,
• 20:17
  it's
• 20:18
  a
• 20:18
  group.
• 20:18
  But
• 20:18
  if
• 20:18
  you
• 20:18
  search
• 20:19
  Pink
• 20:19
  Martini
• 20:20
  radio,
• 20:20
  that's
• 20:21
  fantastic
• 20:21
  for
• 20:21
  entertaining,
• 20:22
  turn
• 20:23
  on
• 20:23
  Pink
• 20:23
  Martini
• 20:24
  in
• 20:24
  the
• 20:24
  background.
• 20:26
  Very
• 20:26
  simple,
• 20:27
  right?
• 20:27
  I
• 20:27
  mean,
• 20:27
  it's
• 20:28
  super
• 20:28
  simple.
• 20:28
  I've
• 20:29
  not
• 20:29
  done
• 20:29
  any
• 20:29
  heavy
• 20:30
  lifting.
• 20:30
  I
• 20:30
  have
• 20:30
  not
• 20:30
  gone
• 20:30
  out
• 20:31
  and
• 20:31
  bought
• 20:31
  a
• 20:31
  special
• 20:31
  tablecloth.
• 20:32
  Nothing.
• 20:33
  And
• 20:34
  it's
• 20:34
  just
• 20:34
  what
• 20:35
  was
• 20:35
  there
• 20:35
  already.
• 20:36
  What
• 20:36
  was
• 20:36
  there
• 20:36
  other
• 20:36
  than
• 20:36
  the
• 20:37
  flowers,
• 20:37
  which
• 20:37
  are
• 20:37
  your
• 20:38
  would
• 20:38
  probably
• 20:38
  want
• 20:39
  to
• 20:39
  buy
• 20:39
  anyway,
• 20:40
  Right?
• 20:40
  So
• 20:41
  that's
• 20:41
  an
• 20:41
  easy
• 20:41
  way
• 20:41
  to
• 20:41
  make
• 20:42
  up
• 20:42
  space.
• 20:42
  Look
• 20:42
  special.
• 20:43
  Super
• 20:44
  quick.
• 20:44
  Okay,
• 20:45
  so
• 20:45
  how
• 20:45
  do
• 20:45
  you
• 20:45
  create
• 20:46
  once,
• 20:47
  like
• 20:47
  the
• 20:47
  guests
• 20:47
  have
• 20:47
  arrived
• 20:48
  and
• 20:48
  everyone's
• 20:49
  sitting
• 20:50
  for
• 20:50
  the
• 20:50
  dinner
• 20:50
  party,
• 20:51
  how
• 20:51
  do
• 20:51
  you
• 20:51
  create
• 20:52
  warmth,
• 20:52
  like,
• 20:53
  and
• 20:53
  conversation
• 20:54
  and
• 20:54
  kind
• 20:55
  of,
• 20:55
  you
• 20:55
  know,
• 20:55
  that
• 20:56
  vibe,
• 20:56
  so
• 20:56
  they're
• 20:56
  really
• 20:57
  at
• 20:57
  ease.
• 20:58
  Oh,
• 20:59
  another
• 20:59
  thing,
• 20:59
  when
• 20:59
  you're
• 21:00
  talking
• 21:00
  about
• 21:00
  the
• 21:00
  guests,
• 21:01
  make
• 21:01
  place
• 21:02
  cards.
• 21:03
  I
• 21:03
  don't
• 21:03
  know
• 21:03
  why.
• 21:04
  Place
• 21:04
  cards
• 21:04
  make
• 21:05
  things
• 21:05
  feel
• 21:05
  fancy,
• 21:05
  don't
• 21:06
  they?
• 21:06
  They
• 21:06
  do.
• 21:06
  When
• 21:06
  you
• 21:07
  go
• 21:07
  to
• 21:07
  an
• 21:07
  event
• 21:07
  and
• 21:07
  there's
• 21:07
  a
• 21:08
  place
• 21:08
  card,
• 21:08
  you're
• 21:08
  like,
• 21:08
  oh,
• 21:09
  well,
• 21:10
  there's
• 21:10
  a
• 21:10
  place
• 21:10
  card.
• 21:11
  Like,
• 21:11
  they've
• 21:11
  given
• 21:11
  this
• 21:11
  thought,
• 21:12
  right?
• 21:13
  It's
• 21:13
  thoughtful.
• 21:13
  So
• 21:14
  here's
• 21:14
  another
• 21:14
  little
• 21:15
  tip.
• 21:15
  You
• 21:15
  can
• 21:15
  go
• 21:15
  on
• 21:16
  Amazon
• 21:16
  or
• 21:16
  you
• 21:17
  go
• 21:17
  to
• 21:17
  Staples,
• 21:18
  you
• 21:18
  can
• 21:18
  buy
• 21:18
  place
• 21:19
  cards.
• 21:19
  Actually,
• 21:19
  Michael's
• 21:20
  has
• 21:20
  this
• 21:20
  in
• 21:21
  the
• 21:21
  bridal
• 21:21
  section
• 21:22
  at
• 21:22
  the
• 21:22
  craft
• 21:22
  store.
• 21:23
  You
• 21:23
  can
• 21:23
  print
• 21:23
  your
• 21:23
  own
• 21:24
  place
• 21:24
  cards.
• 21:25
  You
• 21:25
  can
• 21:25
  get
• 21:25
  a
• 21:25
  whole
• 21:26
  packet
• 21:27
  for,
• 21:27
  like,
• 21:27
  nothing.
• 21:29
  It's
• 21:29
  going
• 21:29
  to
• 21:29
  be
• 21:29
  place
• 21:29
  cards
• 21:30
  for,
• 21:30
  like,
• 21:30
  many,
• 21:30
  many
• 21:31
  dinner
• 21:31
  parties.
• 21:32
  Get
• 21:32
  on
• 21:32
  your
• 21:32
  computer,
• 21:33
  download
• 21:34
  the
• 21:34
  little
• 21:34
  template
• 21:35
  and
• 21:35
  print
• 21:35
  these
• 21:36
  place
• 21:36
  cards.
• 21:37
  Do
• 21:37
  a
• 21:37
  really
• 21:38
  pretty
• 21:38
  font.
• 21:39
  Took
• 21:39
  you
• 21:39
  two
• 21:39
  seconds.
• 21:40
  And
• 21:40
  people
• 21:40
  show
• 21:41
  up
• 21:41
  and
• 21:41
  go
• 21:42
  well,
• 21:42
  look
• 21:42
  at
• 21:42
  those
• 21:42
  place
• 21:43
  cards.
• 21:43
  I
• 21:43
  mean,
• 21:43
  these
• 21:44
  are
• 21:44
  all
• 21:44
  low
• 21:44
  lift,
• 21:45
  easy.
• 21:46
  You
• 21:46
  can
• 21:46
  do
• 21:46
  them
• 21:46
  today
• 21:47
  and
• 21:48
  everyone
• 21:48
  feels
• 21:49
  just
• 21:50
  better.
• 21:50
  So
• 21:50
  just
• 21:51
  before
• 21:51
  you
• 21:51
  worry
• 21:51
  about
• 21:52
  setting
• 21:52
  the
• 21:52
  mood
• 21:52
  or
• 21:53
  the
• 21:53
  conversation,
• 21:53
  who
• 21:54
  do
• 21:54
  you
• 21:54
  have
• 21:54
  sitting
• 21:54
  next
• 21:55
  to
• 21:55
  who?
• 21:55
  Yes,
• 21:56
  that's
• 21:56
  a
• 21:56
  big
• 21:56
  thing.
• 21:56
  And
• 21:57
  what
• 21:57
  about
• 21:57
  significant
• 21:58
  others
• 21:58
  or
• 21:59
  spouses?
• 21:59
  Do
• 21:59
  you
• 21:59
  usually
• 22:00
  separate
• 22:00
  them?
• 22:00
  I
• 22:01
  do
• 22:01
  boy,
• 22:01
  girl.
• 22:02
  Oh,
• 22:02
  okay.
• 22:02
  I
• 22:02
  do
• 22:03
  boy,
• 22:03
  girl.
• 22:03
  I
• 22:03
  know,
• 22:03
  I
• 22:04
  know.
• 22:04
  All
• 22:04
  girls,
• 22:04
  all
• 22:05
  guys
• 22:06
  are
• 22:06
  a
• 22:06
  big
• 22:06
  deal.
• 22:07
  I
• 22:07
  usually
• 22:07
  do
• 22:08
  boy,
• 22:08
  girl.
• 22:08
  That
• 22:08
  way
• 22:08
  the
• 22:09
  whole
• 22:09
  table's
• 22:09
  talking
• 22:09
  to
• 22:10
  each
• 22:10
  other.
• 22:10
  Now,
• 22:10
  if
• 22:10
  it's
• 22:11
  massive,
• 22:11
  which
• 22:12
  I
• 22:12
  don't
• 22:12
  know
• 22:12
  how
• 22:12
  many
• 22:12
  people
• 22:12
  were
• 22:13
  holding
• 22:13
  massive
• 22:13
  sit
• 22:13
  down
• 22:14
  events
• 22:14
  at
• 22:14
  their
• 22:14
  house,
• 22:15
  then
• 22:15
  you
• 22:15
  might
• 22:16
  consider
• 22:16
  doing
• 22:16
  the
• 22:17
  separation
• 22:17
  because
• 22:17
  nobody
• 22:18
  can
• 22:18
  really
• 22:18
  talk
• 22:18
  over
• 22:19
  each
• 22:19
  other.
• 22:19
  But
• 22:19
  if
• 22:19
  we're
• 22:19
  talking
• 22:19
  six
• 22:20
  people,
• 22:20
  six,
• 22:21
  eight
• 22:21
  people.
• 22:21
  I
• 22:21
  do
• 22:22
  boy,
• 22:22
  girl.
• 22:23
  To
• 22:23
  get
• 22:23
  everybody
• 22:23
  included,
• 22:24
  we
• 22:24
  do
• 22:24
  a
• 22:24
  lot
• 22:24
  of
• 22:24
  trivia.
• 22:25
  Do
• 22:25
  you
• 22:25
  do
• 22:26
  a
• 22:26
  lot
• 22:26
  of
• 22:26
  trivia.
• 22:26
  Because
• 22:27
  you
• 22:27
  believe
• 22:27
  in
• 22:27
  the
• 22:27
  game?
• 22:28
  I
• 22:28
  love
• 22:28
  it.
• 22:28
  I
• 22:29
  love
• 22:29
  it.
• 22:29
  And
• 22:29
  we
• 22:29
  also
• 22:30
  do
• 22:30
  a
• 22:30
  lot
• 22:30
  of
• 22:31
  the
• 22:31
  holiday
• 22:32
  crackers.
• 22:32
  You
• 22:32
  know,
• 22:33
  the
• 22:33
  English
• 22:33
  crackers
• 22:34
  out
• 22:34
  of
• 22:34
  season.
• 22:35
  Turns
• 22:35
  out
• 22:35
  you
• 22:35
  can
• 22:35
  get
• 22:36
  those
• 22:36
  all
• 22:36
  year
• 22:37
  round
• 22:37
  in
• 22:38
  different
• 22:38
  colorways
• 22:39
  and
• 22:39
  everything
• 22:40
  because
• 22:40
  those
• 22:40
  are
• 22:40
  fantastic.
• 22:41
  You
• 22:41
  pop.
• 22:42
  You've
• 22:42
  had
• 22:42
  those,
• 22:42
  right?
• 22:42
  You
• 22:43
  pop
• 22:43
  those
• 22:43
  open,
• 22:44
  girl.
• 22:44
  They
• 22:44
  come
• 22:44
  with
• 22:44
  a
• 22:44
  trivia
• 22:45
  question.
• 22:45
  They
• 22:45
  come
• 22:45
  with
• 22:46
  charades.
• 22:46
  They
• 22:46
  come
• 22:46
  with
• 22:47
  whatever.
• 22:47
  And
• 22:48
  whether
• 22:48
  you
• 22:48
  make
• 22:48
  it
• 22:48
  to
• 22:48
  the
• 22:49
  charades
• 22:49
  and
• 22:49
  the
• 22:49
  singing
• 22:50
  or
• 22:50
  whatever
• 22:50
  or
• 22:50
  humming
• 22:51
  the
• 22:51
  song,
• 22:51
  everyone's
• 22:52
  got
• 22:52
  a
• 22:52
  trivia
• 22:52
  question.
• 22:53
  Oh,
• 22:53
  that's
• 22:54
  so
• 22:54
  great.
• 22:54
  That
• 22:54
  really
• 22:54
  gets,
• 22:55
  like,
• 22:55
  everyone
• 22:55
  excited
• 22:56
  and.
• 22:56
  Having
• 22:56
  fun
• 22:57
  and
• 22:57
  you're
• 22:58
  not
• 22:58
  sitting
• 22:58
  there
• 22:58
  going
• 22:58
  as
• 22:58
  a
• 22:58
  hostess,
• 22:59
  like,
• 22:59
  I'm.
• 22:59
  What
• 22:59
  am
• 22:59
  I
• 22:59
  supposed
• 23:00
  to
• 23:00
  be
• 23:00
  doing?
• 23:00
  And
• 23:01
  it's
• 23:01
  wild.
• 23:01
  People
• 23:02
  will
• 23:02
  end
• 23:02
  up
• 23:02
  being
• 23:02
  like,
• 23:03
  oh,
• 23:03
  my
• 23:03
  gosh,
• 23:03
  you
• 23:03
  know,
• 23:03
  I'll
• 23:03
  charade
• 23:04
  that
• 23:04
  with
• 23:04
  you.
• 23:04
  Like
• 23:04
  people
• 23:05
  that
• 23:05
  don't
• 23:05
  even
• 23:05
  know
• 23:05
  each
• 23:05
  other.
• 23:06
  So
• 23:06
  I
• 23:06
  do
• 23:07
  a
• 23:07
  lot
• 23:07
  of
• 23:07
  holiday
• 23:07
  crackers
• 23:08
  out
• 23:08
  of
• 23:08
  season.
• 23:08
  I
• 23:09
  know.
• 23:09
  Little.
• 23:10
  Little
• 23:10
  crazy.
• 23:10
  Yeah,
• 23:11
  yeah.
• 23:11
  Place
• 23:11
  cards
• 23:11
  and
• 23:11
  holiday
• 23:12
  crackers
• 23:12
  and
• 23:12
  you
• 23:12
  got
• 23:13
  yourself
• 23:13
  a
• 23:13
  party.
• 23:13
  Oh,
• 23:14
  see,
• 23:14
  that's
• 23:14
  so
• 23:14
  good.
• 23:14
  Okay,
• 23:15
  what
• 23:15
  is
• 23:15
  the
• 23:15
  craziest
• 23:16
  thing
• 23:16
  that's
• 23:16
  ever
• 23:17
  happened
• 23:17
  at
• 23:17
  one
• 23:17
  of
• 23:18
  your
• 23:18
  parties
• 23:18
  that
• 23:18
  you've
• 23:18
  hosted?
• 23:21
  That's
• 23:21
  a
• 23:21
  good
• 23:22
  question.
• 23:25
  The
• 23:25
  craziest
• 23:26
  thing.
• 23:27
  You
• 23:27
  know,
• 23:27
  I.
• 23:28
  I
• 23:28
  would
• 23:29
  love
• 23:29
  to
• 23:29
  tell
• 23:29
  you.
• 23:29
  I
• 23:30
  have
• 23:30
  some
• 23:30
  really
• 23:30
  good
• 23:30
  stories
• 23:31
  and
• 23:31
  I
• 23:31
  don't.
• 23:33
  I
• 23:33
  don't
• 23:33
  have
• 23:34
  a.
• 23:35
  I
• 23:35
  don't
• 23:35
  have
• 23:35
  one
• 23:36
  where
• 23:36
  anyone.
• 23:37
  You
• 23:38
  probably.
• 23:38
  People
• 23:39
  being
• 23:39
  overserved,
• 23:40
  maybe,
• 23:41
  right?
• 23:41
  That
• 23:42
  is,
• 23:42
  That's
• 23:42
  a
• 23:42
  big
• 23:42
  thing
• 23:42
  that
• 23:43
  happens.
• 23:43
  That's
• 23:43
  a
• 23:44
  big
• 23:44
  one.
• 23:44
  Yeah.
• 23:44
  You're
• 23:44
  having
• 23:45
  a
• 23:45
  good
• 23:45
  time
• 23:45
  and
• 23:45
  you're.
• 23:45
  Having
• 23:46
  a
• 23:46
  good
• 23:46
  time,
• 23:47
  Right?
• 23:47
  And
• 23:48
  I,
• 23:49
  you
• 23:49
  know,
• 23:49
  is
• 23:49
  it.
• 23:50
  Are
• 23:50
  they
• 23:50
  overserved?
• 23:51
  Are
• 23:51
  they
• 23:51
  having
• 23:51
  a
• 23:51
  good
• 23:51
  time?
• 23:52
  Fraser
• 23:52
  was
• 23:52
  like,
• 23:53
  I
• 23:53
  don't.
• 23:54
  I
• 23:54
  don't
• 23:54
  find
• 23:55
  lines.
• 23:55
  So
• 23:55
  I
• 23:55
  don't
• 23:55
  know.
• 23:56
  Right.
• 23:56
  I
• 23:56
  don't
• 23:56
  know.
• 23:57
  We
• 23:57
  did
• 23:57
  have
• 23:57
  a
• 23:57
  husband
• 23:58
  and
• 23:58
  wife
• 23:58
  get
• 23:58
  into
• 23:58
  a
• 23:58
  fight
• 23:59
  once
• 23:59
  at
• 23:59
  the
• 23:59
  table.
• 24:00
  Really?
• 24:00
  Yeah,
• 24:01
  a
• 24:01
  little,
• 24:01
  you
• 24:01
  know.
• 24:01
  Oh,
• 24:02
  wow.
• 24:02
  Yeah,
• 24:02
  a
• 24:02
  little
• 24:02
  row.
• 24:03
  They
• 24:03
  didn't
• 24:03
  make
• 24:04
  it.
• 24:04
  They
• 24:04
  didn't
• 24:05
  make
• 24:05
  it.
• 24:05
  So
• 24:05
  the
• 24:05
  little
• 24:06
  moments
• 24:06
  like
• 24:06
  that.
• 24:06
  But
• 24:06
  really,
• 24:07
  honestly,
• 24:07
  pretty,
• 24:08
  you
• 24:08
  know,
• 24:09
  maybe
• 24:09
  our
• 24:09
  friends
• 24:10
  are
• 24:10
  just
• 24:10
  not
• 24:10
  that.
• 24:10
  That
• 24:11
  exciting,
• 24:11
  but.
• 24:11
  Yeah,
• 24:12
  but
• 24:13
  nothing.
• 24:13
  Nothing
• 24:13
  too
• 24:13
  crazy.
• 24:14
  Nothing
• 24:14
  too
• 24:14
  crazy.
• 24:14
  Nothing
• 24:15
  too
• 24:15
  crazy.
• 24:15
  I
• 24:15
  mean,
• 24:15
  we
• 24:16
  had
• 24:16
  a
• 24:16
  gal
• 24:16
  help
• 24:16
  us
• 24:16
  loading
• 24:17
  the
• 24:17
  dishwasher
• 24:17
  once.
• 24:18
  This
• 24:18
  is
• 24:18
  back
• 24:18
  when
• 24:19
  the
• 24:19
  stemmed
• 24:19
  wine
• 24:20
  glasses
• 24:20
  are
• 24:20
  in
• 24:20
  vogue
• 24:21
  and
• 24:22
  she
• 24:22
  put
• 24:22
  them
• 24:22
  in
• 24:22
  the
• 24:22
  top
• 24:22
  and
• 24:23
  she
• 24:23
  shut
• 24:23
  it
• 24:23
  and
• 24:23
  all
• 24:23
  the
• 24:24
  stems
• 24:24
  just
• 24:24
  sheared
• 24:24
  off
• 24:25
  the
• 24:27
  table.
• 24:28
  But
• 24:28
  it's
• 24:28
  like,
• 24:28
  honestly,
• 24:28
  you
• 24:29
  learn
• 24:29
  at
• 24:29
  that
• 24:29
  moment.
• 24:30
  Okay,
• 24:30
  note
• 24:30
  to
• 24:30
  self.
• 24:31
  The
• 24:31
  stemless
• 24:31
  wine
• 24:32
  glasses,
• 24:32
  again,
• 24:32
  you
• 24:32
  can
• 24:32
  get
• 24:33
  them
• 24:33
  at
• 24:33
  Walmart.
• 24:33
  Right.
• 24:34
  And
• 24:34
  so.
• 24:35
  But
• 24:36
  yeah,
• 24:36
  so
• 24:36
  nothing
• 24:36
  too
• 24:37
  crazy.
• 24:37
  What
• 24:37
  about
• 24:37
  you?
• 24:38
  So
• 24:38
  I
• 24:38
  think
• 24:38
  for
• 24:38
  me,
• 24:39
  probably
• 24:39
  people
• 24:40
  being
• 24:40
  overserved
• 24:41
  and,
• 24:41
  like,
• 24:41
  dancing
• 24:42
  on
• 24:42
  the
• 24:42
  tabletop.
• 24:43
  No,
• 24:43
  it's
• 24:44
  always,
• 24:44
  yeah,
• 24:44
  yeah,
• 24:45
  girl,
• 24:45
  I
• 24:45
  gotta
• 24:46
  come
• 24:46
  to
• 24:46
  your
• 24:46
  party.
• 24:46
  I
• 24:46
  know.
• 24:47
  Come
• 24:47
  on
• 24:47
  over
• 24:48
  maybe.
• 24:49
  Yeah,
• 24:49
  yeah,
• 24:49
  yeah.
• 24:50
  You're
• 24:50
  setting
• 24:50
  a
• 24:50
  different.
• 24:51
  Different
• 24:51
  vibe.
• 24:51
  I
• 24:52
  like
• 24:52
  it.
• 24:52
  I'm
• 24:53
  here
• 24:53
  for
• 24:53
  it.
• 24:53
  I
• 24:54
  am
• 24:54
  here
• 24:54
  for
• 24:54
  the
• 24:54
  dancing
• 24:55
  on
• 24:55
  the
• 24:55
  table.
• 24:55
  Right,
• 24:56
  right.
• 24:56
  I
• 24:57
  know
• 24:57
  it's.
• 24:57
  It
• 24:57
  might
• 24:57
  have
• 24:58
  been
• 24:58
  me.
• 24:58
  I
• 24:58
  don't
• 24:58
  know.
• 24:59
  Maybe.
• 24:59
  I
• 25:00
  think
• 25:00
  the
• 25:00
  other
• 25:00
  thing
• 25:00
  is
• 25:00
  there's
• 25:01
  so
• 25:01
  many
• 25:01
  cell
• 25:01
  phones
• 25:01
  now.
• 25:02
  Right?
• 25:02
  That's
• 25:03
  true.
• 25:03
  I
• 25:03
  think
• 25:03
  things
• 25:03
  have
• 25:04
  changed
• 25:04
  a
• 25:04
  little
• 25:04
  bit.
• 25:04
  I
• 25:05
  think
• 25:05
  the.
• 25:05
  I
• 25:05
  think
• 25:05
  our
• 25:06
  kids
• 25:06
  tell
• 25:06
  great
• 25:06
  stories
• 25:07
  about
• 25:07
  the
• 25:07
  parties
• 25:07
  we've
• 25:08
  held.
• 25:08
  If
• 25:08
  I
• 25:08
  had
• 25:08
  pulled
• 25:08
  the
• 25:09
  kids
• 25:09
  in,
• 25:09
  I
• 25:10
  think
• 25:10
  they
• 25:10
  have
• 25:10
  it
• 25:10
  from
• 25:11
  a
• 25:11
  different
• 25:11
  lens
• 25:11
  because
• 25:12
  they're
• 25:12
  in
• 25:12
  the
• 25:12
  background,
• 25:12
  like,
• 25:12
  looking
• 25:13
  around
• 25:13
  the
• 25:13
  corner,
• 25:13
  watching
• 25:14
  the
• 25:14
  party.
• 25:14
  It's
• 25:14
  like
• 25:15
  we
• 25:15
  did
• 25:15
  with
• 25:15
  our
• 25:15
  parents.
• 25:16
  Right,
• 25:16
  right.
• 25:16
  Like
• 25:16
  we
• 25:17
  did
• 25:17
  with
• 25:17
  our
• 25:17
  parents
• 25:17
  where
• 25:18
  they
• 25:18
  had
• 25:18
  the
• 25:18
  martini
• 25:18
  glasses
• 25:19
  and
• 25:19
  the
• 25:19
  cigs
• 25:19
  back
• 25:20
  when
• 25:20
  cigs
• 25:20
  were
• 25:20
  a
• 25:20
  thing.
• 25:21
  Right.
• 25:22
  And
• 25:22
  so
• 25:23
  I.
• 25:23
  But
• 25:23
  I
• 25:24
  do
• 25:24
  think
• 25:24
  the
• 25:24
  cell
• 25:24
  phone
• 25:24
  has
• 25:25
  been
• 25:25
  an
• 25:25
  equalizer.
• 25:26
  Yes.
• 25:26
  People
• 25:27
  are
• 25:27
  on
• 25:27
  better
• 25:27
  behavior
• 25:28
  most
• 25:28
  of
• 25:28
  the
• 25:29
  time.
• 25:29
  You
• 25:29
  know,
• 25:29
  they're
• 25:29
  like,
• 25:30
  okay,
• 25:30
  we
• 25:30
  have
• 25:30
  to
• 25:30
  behave.
• 25:31
  They
• 25:31
  are.
• 25:31
  Because
• 25:32
  we
• 25:32
  don't
• 25:32
  know
• 25:32
  where
• 25:32
  this
• 25:32
  is
• 25:32
  going
• 25:33
  to
• 25:33
  end
• 25:33
  up.
• 25:33
  Right.
• 25:33
  Exactly.
• 25:34
  Exactly.
• 25:35
  You
• 25:35
  know,
• 25:36
  it's
• 25:36
  so
• 25:36
  interesting,
• 25:36
  too,
• 25:37
  at
• 25:37
  this
• 25:37
  time
• 25:37
  of
• 25:37
  life.
• 25:38
  It's
• 25:38
  like
• 25:38
  midlife
• 25:38
  is
• 25:39
  a
• 25:39
  lot
• 25:39
  of
• 25:39
  times
• 25:39
  about
• 25:40
  a
• 25:40
  reinvention
• 25:41
  and
• 25:41
  kind
• 25:41
  of,
• 25:42
  you
• 25:42
  know,
• 25:42
  letting
• 25:43
  go
• 25:43
  of
• 25:43
  the
• 25:43
  things
• 25:43
  that
• 25:44
  we
• 25:44
  thought
• 25:44
  we
• 25:44
  were
• 25:44
  supposed
• 25:45
  to
• 25:45
  be.
• 25:45
  Right.
• 25:46
  And
• 25:46
  being
• 25:47
  truly
• 25:47
  who
• 25:47
  we
• 25:47
  are.
• 25:48
  So
• 25:48
  how
• 25:49
  do
• 25:49
  we
• 25:49
  reflect
• 25:50
  that
• 25:51
  in
• 25:51
  our
• 25:51
  homes
• 25:52
  and
• 25:52
  when
• 25:52
  we
• 25:52
  entertain?
• 25:54
  Well,
• 25:54
  I
• 25:54
  think
• 25:54
  again,
• 25:55
  this
• 25:55
  Pressure
• 25:56
  to
• 25:56
  be
• 25:56
  perfect.
• 25:57
  I'm
• 25:58
  just
• 25:58
  not
• 25:58
  on
• 25:58
  that
• 25:58
  bandwagon.
• 25:59
  I
• 25:59
  think
• 26:00
  Martha
• 26:01
  Stewart
• 26:01
  is
• 26:01
  super
• 26:01
  fun
• 26:02
  to
• 26:02
  watch.
• 26:03
  I
• 26:03
  do.
• 26:03
  It's
• 26:04
  not
• 26:04
  attainable
• 26:04
  for
• 26:04
  me.
• 26:05
  I'm
• 26:05
  not
• 26:05
  planting
• 26:06
  spring
• 26:06
  peas.
• 26:07
  I'm
• 26:07
  not.
• 26:07
  I'm
• 26:07
  not
• 26:07
  molding
• 26:08
  my
• 26:08
  own
• 26:08
  rabbit
• 26:09
  at
• 26:09
  Easter
• 26:09
  out
• 26:10
  of
• 26:10
  chocolate.
• 26:10
  That's
• 26:10
  not
• 26:10
  happening.
• 26:11
  So
• 26:12
  I
• 26:12
  think
• 26:12
  if
• 26:12
  we
• 26:12
  give
• 26:12
  ourselves
• 26:13
  permission
• 26:14
  to
• 26:14
  have
• 26:14
  the
• 26:15
  party,
• 26:15
  even
• 26:15
  when
• 26:15
  we
• 26:16
  think
• 26:16
  we're
• 26:16
  not
• 26:16
  prepared,
• 26:17
  I
• 26:17
  think
• 26:18
  that's
• 26:18
  huge.
• 26:19
  Have
• 26:19
  it.
• 26:20
  When
• 26:20
  it's
• 26:20
  not
• 26:20
  perfect,
• 26:21
  everyone's
• 26:21
  gonna
• 26:22
  love
• 26:22
  it.
• 26:22
  You
• 26:22
  know
• 26:22
  why?
• 26:23
  Because
• 26:23
  they're
• 26:23
  not
• 26:23
  doing
• 26:23
  it.
• 26:25
  I
• 26:25
  think
• 26:25
  people
• 26:26
  are
• 26:26
  more
• 26:26
  grateful
• 26:27
  and
• 26:27
  gracious
• 26:28
  to
• 26:28
  host
• 26:28
  than
• 26:29
  they
• 26:29
  think.
• 26:30
  People
• 26:30
  are
• 26:30
  grateful
• 26:30
  someone
• 26:31
  else
• 26:31
  is
• 26:31
  doing
• 26:31
  it.
• 26:32
  Someone
• 26:32
  else
• 26:32
  has
• 26:32
  volunteered
• 26:33
  their
• 26:33
  house.
• 26:34
  Someone
• 26:34
  else
• 26:34
  is
• 26:34
  doing
• 26:34
  the
• 26:35
  heavy
• 26:35
  lifting.
• 26:36
  Prom
• 26:36
  pictures
• 26:37
  is
• 26:37
  a
• 26:37
  great
• 26:37
  example.
• 26:38
  A
• 26:38
  couple
• 26:39
  weeks
• 26:39
  ago,
• 26:39
  kid
• 26:39
  number
• 26:40
  two
• 26:40
  went
• 26:40
  to
• 26:40
  prom.
• 26:41
  I
• 26:41
  don't
• 26:42
  know
• 26:42
  how
• 26:42
  this
• 26:42
  really
• 26:43
  came
• 26:43
  together,
• 26:43
  but
• 26:43
  we
• 26:43
  had
• 26:44
  48
• 26:44
  hours
• 26:44
  to
• 26:44
  throw
• 26:45
  prom
• 26:45
  pictures
• 26:45
  for
• 26:46
  400
• 26:46
  people
• 26:46
  at
• 26:46
  the
• 26:47
  house.
• 26:48
  So
• 26:48
  we
• 26:48
  end
• 26:49
  up
• 26:49
  doing
• 26:49
  it.
• 26:50
  And
• 26:50
  I'm
• 26:50
  here
• 26:50
  to
• 26:50
  tell
• 26:51
  you,
• 26:51
  it
• 26:51
  was
• 26:51
  a
• 26:51
  big
• 26:51
  mix
• 26:52
  of
• 26:52
  Costco
• 26:52
  and
• 26:52
  Dollar
• 26:52
  Tree.
• 26:54
  It
• 26:54
  just
• 26:54
  was.
• 26:55
  You've
• 26:55
  got
• 26:55
  48
• 26:56
  hours
• 26:56
  to
• 26:56
  figure
• 26:56
  this
• 26:57
  out.
• 26:57
  Domino's
• 26:58
  Pizza,
• 26:58
  out
• 26:58
  the
• 26:58
  yin
• 26:59
  yang
• 26:59
  for
• 26:59
  these
• 26:59
  kids.
• 27:00
  We
• 27:00
  had
• 27:00
  400
• 27:00
  people
• 27:00
  at
• 27:01
  our
• 27:01
  house,
• 27:02
  and
• 27:03
  everyone
• 27:03
  loved
• 27:03
  it.
• 27:04
  And
• 27:04
  people
• 27:04
  were
• 27:04
  like,
• 27:05
  well,
• 27:05
  this
• 27:05
  is
• 27:05
  fantastic.
• 27:06
  I
• 27:06
  go,
• 27:06
  thank
• 27:06
  you.
• 27:07
  There's
• 27:07
  a
• 27:07
  lot
• 27:07
  of
• 27:07
  Dollar
• 27:07
  Tree
• 27:08
  and
• 27:08
  Costco
• 27:08
  happening
• 27:09
  here.
• 27:09
  And
• 27:09
  they're
• 27:09
  like,
• 27:09
  oh,
• 27:10
  that's
• 27:10
  so
• 27:10
  funny.
• 27:10
  No,
• 27:10
  there's
• 27:11
  not.
• 27:12
  Yeah,
• 27:12
  there
• 27:12
  was.
• 27:13
  Yeah,
• 27:13
  there
• 27:14
  was.
• 27:14
  I
• 27:15
  mean,
• 27:15
  if
• 27:16
  you
• 27:16
  follow
• 27:16
  along
• 27:16
  in
• 27:16
  stories,
• 27:17
  you
• 27:17
  know,
• 27:17
  there
• 27:17
  was.
• 27:17
  Because
• 27:18
  you
• 27:18
  were
• 27:18
  with
• 27:18
  me
• 27:18
  at
• 27:18
  the
• 27:18
  Dollar
• 27:18
  Tree
• 27:19
  buying
• 27:19
  the
• 27:19
  gold
• 27:19
  napkins,
• 27:20
  which
• 27:20
  are
• 27:20
  one
• 27:20
  of
• 27:20
  their
• 27:20
  class
• 27:20
  colors.
• 27:21
  And
• 27:21
  so
• 27:22
  I
• 27:22
  just
• 27:22
  think
• 27:23
  people
• 27:23
  don't
• 27:23
  see
• 27:24
  it
• 27:24
  that
• 27:24
  way.
• 27:24
  You
• 27:24
  see
• 27:25
  it
• 27:25
  that
• 27:25
  way.
• 27:25
  And
• 27:25
  you're
• 27:25
  so
• 27:26
  judgy
• 27:26
  on
• 27:26
  yourself.
• 27:27
  We're
• 27:27
  so
• 27:27
  hard
• 27:28
  on
• 27:28
  ourselves.
• 27:28
  I'm
• 27:29
  so
• 27:29
  grateful
• 27:30
  when
• 27:30
  someone
• 27:30
  else
• 27:30
  raises
• 27:31
  their
• 27:31
  hands
• 27:32
  to
• 27:32
  do
• 27:32
  something,
• 27:33
  and
• 27:33
  the
• 27:33
  older
• 27:33
  you
• 27:34
  get,
• 27:34
  don't
• 27:34
  you
• 27:34
  find
• 27:34
  that,
• 27:34
  Roxy,
• 27:35
  that
• 27:35
  you're
• 27:35
  more
• 27:36
  grateful
• 27:36
  someone's
• 27:36
  willing
• 27:37
  to
• 27:37
  do
• 27:37
  it?
• 27:37
  And
• 27:38
  so
• 27:38
  you're
• 27:38
  just
• 27:38
  not.
• 27:39
  People
• 27:39
  are
• 27:39
  not
• 27:40
  looking
• 27:40
  at
• 27:40
  you
• 27:40
  the
• 27:40
  same
• 27:41
  way
• 27:41
  you
• 27:41
  are.
• 27:42
  Right.
• 27:42
  They
• 27:43
  come,
• 27:43
  they
• 27:43
  have
• 27:43
  a
• 27:43
  great
• 27:43
  time.
• 27:44
  They
• 27:44
  really
• 27:45
  don't
• 27:45
  care
• 27:45
  what
• 27:46
  was
• 27:46
  served.
• 27:46
  No
• 27:46
  one's
• 27:47
  gonna
• 27:47
  be
• 27:47
  upset
• 27:47
  you
• 27:47
  didn't
• 27:48
  do
• 27:48
  the
• 27:48
  bananas
• 27:48
  Foster.
• 27:49
  No
• 27:49
  one's
• 27:50
  gonna
• 27:50
  be
• 27:50
  upset
• 27:50
  that
• 27:51
  you
• 27:51
  pulled
• 27:51
  out
• 27:51
  the
• 27:51
  Costco
• 27:52
  cupcakes.
• 27:52
  In
• 27:52
  fact,
• 27:53
  everyone
• 27:53
  might
• 27:53
  go
• 27:53
  home
• 27:53
  and
• 27:53
  go,
• 27:54
  that
• 27:54
  was
• 27:54
  brilliant.
• 27:55
  Those
• 27:55
  were
• 27:55
  delicious.
• 27:56
  Right?
• 27:56
  So
• 27:57
  that's
• 27:58
  true.
• 27:58
  I
• 27:58
  love
• 27:58
  that
• 27:59
  you
• 27:59
  brought
• 27:59
  that
• 27:59
  up,
• 27:59
  because
• 28:00
  I
• 28:00
  think,
• 28:00
  as
• 28:00
  you
• 28:00
  know,
• 28:01
  sometimes
• 28:01
  we
• 28:01
  can
• 28:01
  become
• 28:02
  so
• 28:02
  self
• 28:02
  conscious.
• 28:04
  You
• 28:04
  know,
• 28:04
  we
• 28:04
  tell
• 28:04
  ourselves
• 28:04
  all
• 28:05
  these
• 28:05
  things.
• 28:05
  I'm
• 28:05
  not
• 28:06
  good
• 28:06
  at
• 28:06
  this,
• 28:06
  or
• 28:06
  my
• 28:07
  house
• 28:07
  isn't
• 28:07
  perfect,
• 28:08
  or
• 28:08
  I'm
• 28:08
  not
• 28:09
  ready
• 28:09
  to
• 28:09
  do
• 28:09
  this.
• 28:10
  And
• 28:10
  it's
• 28:10
  really
• 28:10
  about
• 28:11
  letting
• 28:11
  go
• 28:11
  of
• 28:11
  all
• 28:12
  of
• 28:12
  that
• 28:12
  and
• 28:13
  not
• 28:13
  being
• 28:13
  so
• 28:14
  hard
• 28:14
  on
• 28:14
  ourselves.
• 28:14
  Would
• 28:15
  you
• 28:15
  agree?
• 28:15
  Yeah.
• 28:16
  I
• 28:16
  think
• 28:16
  the.
• 28:18
  The
• 28:18
  voice
• 28:19
  inside
• 28:19
  your
• 28:19
  head
• 28:20
  that's
• 28:20
  telling
• 28:20
  you
• 28:20
  what
• 28:21
  you
• 28:21
  think
• 28:21
  people
• 28:22
  expect
• 28:22
  when
• 28:22
  they
• 28:22
  walk
• 28:22
  in
• 28:23
  the
• 28:23
  door,
• 28:23
  I
• 28:23
  think
• 28:24
  you
• 28:24
  just
• 28:24
  don't
• 28:24
  need
• 28:24
  to
• 28:24
  listen
• 28:25
  to
• 28:25
  that.
• 28:25
  Right.
• 28:26
  I
• 28:26
  just
• 28:27
  honestly
• 28:27
  do
• 28:27
  think
• 28:28
  people
• 28:28
  are
• 28:29
  happy
• 28:29
  to
• 28:29
  get
• 28:29
  together.
• 28:30
  And
• 28:30
  in
• 28:30
  the
• 28:30
  world
• 28:31
  of
• 28:31
  social
• 28:31
  media
• 28:32
  where
• 28:32
  we're
• 28:32
  all
• 28:32
  on
• 28:33
  our
• 28:33
  phones
• 28:33
  now
• 28:33
  and
• 28:34
  there's
• 28:34
  less
• 28:34
  and
• 28:34
  less
• 28:34
  getting
• 28:35
  together,
• 28:36
  I
• 28:36
  think
• 28:36
  people
• 28:36
  love
• 28:37
  it.
• 28:37
  Especially,
• 28:37
  you
• 28:37
  know,
• 28:37
  coming
• 28:37
  through
• 28:38
  the
• 28:38
  pandemic.
• 28:38
  Right.
• 28:38
  We
• 28:39
  went
• 28:39
  without
• 28:39
  seeing
• 28:39
  friends
• 28:40
  and
• 28:40
  we
• 28:40
  kind
• 28:40
  of
• 28:40
  all
• 28:40
  fell
• 28:41
  out,
• 28:41
  remember,
• 28:42
  for
• 28:42
  the
• 28:42
  longest
• 28:42
  time
• 28:43
  following
• 28:43
  Covid
• 28:44
  for
• 28:44
  lots
• 28:44
  of
• 28:44
  reasons.
• 28:45
  It's
• 28:46
  just.
• 28:46
  It's
• 28:46
  taken
• 28:46
  a
• 28:47
  while
• 28:47
  to
• 28:47
  get
• 28:48
  back
• 28:48
  into
• 28:48
  that
• 28:48
  entertaining
• 28:49
  vibe,
• 28:49
  hasn't
• 28:50
  it?
• 28:50
  Have
• 28:50
  you
• 28:50
  noticed
• 28:50
  that?
• 28:50
  A
• 28:51
  little
• 28:51
  bit.
• 28:51
  Absolutely.
• 28:52
  And
• 28:53
  I
• 28:53
  just
• 28:53
  think
• 28:54
  that
• 28:55
  the
• 28:55
  expectations
• 28:55
  before
• 28:56
  COVID
• 28:57
  and
• 28:57
  the
• 28:57
  expectations
• 28:57
  after
• 28:58
  Covid
• 28:58
  are
• 28:58
  vastly
• 28:59
  different.
• 29:00
  And
• 29:01
  I
• 29:01
  think
• 29:01
  it's
• 29:01
  easier
• 29:01
  now
• 29:02
  to
• 29:02
  throw
• 29:02
  something
• 29:03
  at
• 29:03
  the
• 29:03
  last
• 29:03
  minute
• 29:04
  and
• 29:05
  people
• 29:05
  show
• 29:05
  up
• 29:05
  and
• 29:06
  are
• 29:06
  happy
• 29:06
  before.
• 29:07
  There
• 29:07
  might
• 29:07
  have
• 29:07
  been
• 29:08
  more
• 29:08
  pressure,
• 29:08
  but
• 29:09
  it's
• 29:09
  just.
• 29:10
  Just
• 29:10
  do
• 29:10
  it.
• 29:11
  Just.
• 29:11
  Just
• 29:11
  have
• 29:11
  it.
• 29:11
  Even
• 29:12
  if
• 29:12
  you're
• 29:12
  not
• 29:12
  ready,
• 29:13
  just
• 29:13
  go
• 29:13
  ahead
• 29:13
  and
• 29:13
  have
• 29:13
  it.
• 29:14
  People
• 29:14
  are
• 29:14
  gonna
• 29:15
  be
• 29:15
  way
• 29:15
  more
• 29:15
  gracious
• 29:15
  than
• 29:16
  you
• 29:16
  think.
• 29:16
  Absolutely.
• 29:18
  Yeah.
• 29:18
  For
• 29:18
  sure.
• 29:19
  And
• 29:19
  especially
• 29:20
  at
• 29:20
  this
• 29:20
  point
• 29:21
  in
• 29:21
  our
• 29:21
  lives
• 29:21
  when
• 29:21
  we're
• 29:21
  trying
• 29:22
  to
• 29:22
  kind
• 29:22
  of
• 29:22
  redecorate
• 29:23
  and
• 29:23
  change
• 29:23
  things
• 29:23
  up
• 29:24
  a
• 29:24
  bit,
• 29:24
  what
• 29:25
  is
• 29:25
  a
• 29:25
  common
• 29:25
  mistake
• 29:26
  mistake
• 29:26
  that
• 29:26
  you
• 29:26
  see
• 29:27
  people
• 29:27
  make
• 29:27
  and
• 29:27
  how
• 29:27
  can
• 29:28
  they
• 29:28
  change
• 29:28
  that?
• 29:29
  Especially
• 29:30
  in
• 29:30
  midlife,
• 29:30
  you
• 29:31
  know,
• 29:31
  it's
• 29:31
  like
• 29:31
  there's
• 29:32
  a
• 29:32
  lot
• 29:32
  of
• 29:32
  changes
• 29:32
  going
• 29:33
  on,
• 29:33
  and
• 29:33
  it's
• 29:33
  kind
• 29:33
  of
• 29:34
  like,
• 29:34
  you
• 29:34
  know,
• 29:34
  maybe
• 29:35
  you
• 29:35
  want
• 29:35
  to
• 29:35
  change
• 29:36
  this
• 29:36
  room
• 29:36
  up
• 29:36
  or,
• 29:37
  you
• 29:37
  know,
• 29:37
  do
• 29:37
  this
• 29:37
  and
• 29:37
  that.
• 29:38
  And
• 29:38
  what
• 29:38
  are
• 29:38
  some
• 29:38
  mistakes
• 29:39
  that
• 29:39
  you
• 29:39
  see
• 29:39
  people
• 29:39
  make
• 29:40
  that
• 29:40
  you
• 29:40
  think
• 29:40
  you
• 29:41
  have
• 29:41
  a
• 29:41
  better
• 29:41
  solution
• 29:42
  to?
• 29:43
  Well,
• 29:43
  that's
• 29:43
  funny.
• 29:44
  My
• 29:44
  husband
• 29:45
  would
• 29:45
  say,
• 29:45
  don't.
• 29:45
  Don't
• 29:45
  listen
• 29:46
  to
• 29:46
  her.
• 29:47
  They
• 29:47
  always
• 29:47
  do,
• 29:48
  don't
• 29:48
  they?
• 29:48
  Right?
• 29:48
  They
• 29:48
  do.
• 29:49
  Don't
• 29:49
  spend
• 29:49
  any
• 29:49
  money.
• 29:50
  Right.
• 29:50
  Pencils
• 29:51
  down.
• 29:51
  Oh,
• 29:51
  good.
• 29:51
  I'm
• 29:52
  glad
• 29:52
  you
• 29:52
  hear
• 29:52
  that
• 29:52
  on
• 29:52
  the
• 29:53
  daily.
• 29:53
  Okay,
• 29:53
  good.
• 29:54
  And
• 29:54
  he's
• 29:54
  pretty
• 29:54
  lucky
• 29:55
  because
• 29:55
  I
• 29:55
  don't
• 29:55
  spend
• 29:55
  a
• 29:55
  lot
• 29:55
  of
• 29:55
  money.
• 29:56
  And
• 29:56
  where
• 29:56
  I
• 29:57
  am
• 29:57
  shopping,
• 29:57
  he's
• 29:57
  even
• 29:58
  luckier.
• 29:58
  He
• 29:58
  just
• 29:58
  doesn't
• 29:59
  know.
• 29:59
  Right.
• 29:59
  He
• 30:00
  doesn't
• 30:00
  know
• 30:00
  what
• 30:00
  he
• 30:00
  doesn't
• 30:00
  know.
• 30:02
  I
• 30:02
  think
• 30:03
  that
• 30:04
  I'm
• 30:05
  still
• 30:05
  a
• 30:05
  fan
• 30:05
  of
• 30:05
  the
• 30:05
  basics.
• 30:06
  I'm
• 30:07
  still
• 30:07
  a
• 30:07
  fan
• 30:07
  of
• 30:08
  clean
• 30:08
  Lines.
• 30:09
  But
• 30:09
  this
• 30:10
  is
• 30:10
  such
• 30:10
  a.
• 30:11
  If
• 30:11
  you
• 30:11
  ask
• 30:12
  my
• 30:12
  mom,
• 30:12
  if
• 30:12
  she
• 30:12
  was
• 30:12
  sitting
• 30:13
  here,
• 30:13
  she'd
• 30:13
  give
• 30:13
  you
• 30:13
  a
• 30:13
  different
• 30:13
  answer.
• 30:15
  I
• 30:15
  am
• 30:15
  somebody
• 30:16
  who
• 30:16
  doesn't,
• 30:16
  like
• 30:16
  I
• 30:17
  mentioned
• 30:17
  before,
• 30:17
  I
• 30:17
  don't
• 30:17
  like
• 30:18
  cluttering,
• 30:19
  so
• 30:19
  I
• 30:19
  like
• 30:19
  clean
• 30:19
  colors.
• 30:21
  Almost
• 30:21
  every
• 30:22
  wall
• 30:22
  in
• 30:22
  my
• 30:22
  house
• 30:22
  is
• 30:22
  white.
• 30:23
  Right.
• 30:24
  Because
• 30:24
  that
• 30:24
  gives
• 30:24
  you
• 30:24
  a
• 30:24
  nice
• 30:25
  palette.
• 30:25
  In
• 30:25
  my
• 30:25
  mind.
• 30:26
  In
• 30:26
  my
• 30:26
  mind,
• 30:27
  that
• 30:27
  feels
• 30:27
  good.
• 30:28
  In
• 30:28
  my
• 30:28
  mind,
• 30:28
  I
• 30:29
  prioritize
• 30:30
  clean
• 30:30
  and
• 30:30
  calm
• 30:31
  with
• 30:32
  peace
• 30:32
  versus
• 30:33
  lots
• 30:33
  going
• 30:34
  on.
• 30:34
  But
• 30:35
  whatever.
• 30:35
  In
• 30:36
  the
• 30:36
  older
• 30:36
  I've
• 30:36
  gotten,
• 30:37
  the
• 30:37
  better
• 30:37
  I've
• 30:37
  gotten
• 30:38
  about
• 30:38
  just
• 30:38
  being
• 30:39
  okay
• 30:39
  with
• 30:39
  that.
• 30:40
  Before,
• 30:40
  I
• 30:40
  used
• 30:41
  to
• 30:41
  be
• 30:41
  like,
• 30:41
  gosh,
• 30:41
  why
• 30:41
  don't
• 30:41
  I
• 30:41
  have
• 30:42
  a
• 30:42
  cute
• 30:42
  little
• 30:42
  vignette
• 30:42
  over
• 30:43
  here?
• 30:43
  Why
• 30:43
  don't
• 30:43
  I
• 30:44
  have
• 30:44
  this
• 30:44
  all
• 30:44
  decorated
• 30:44
  with
• 30:45
  tchotchkes?
• 30:45
  And
• 30:45
  why
• 30:45
  isn't
• 30:46
  this
• 30:46
  looking
• 30:46
  like
• 30:46
  it
• 30:46
  did?
• 30:46
  It's
• 30:47
  Blanky
• 30:47
  Doo
• 30:47
  Dah's
• 30:48
  house.
• 30:49
  Because
• 30:50
  I
• 30:50
  don't
• 30:50
  like
• 30:50
  it.
• 30:50
  It
• 30:51
  looks
• 30:51
  great
• 30:51
  at
• 30:51
  her
• 30:51
  house,
• 30:52
  and
• 30:52
  it
• 30:52
  feels
• 30:52
  good
• 30:53
  at
• 30:53
  her
• 30:53
  house,
• 30:53
  and
• 30:54
  it
• 30:54
  felt
• 30:54
  great
• 30:54
  at
• 30:54
  my
• 30:55
  mom's
• 30:55
  house
• 30:55
  or
• 30:55
  whatever.
• 30:56
  But
• 30:56
  I
• 30:56
  like
• 30:56
  things
• 30:57
  cleaner.
• 30:57
  I
• 30:58
  think
• 30:58
  if
• 30:58
  you
• 30:58
  just
• 30:58
  bring
• 30:58
  it
• 30:59
  down
• 30:59
  to
• 30:59
  clean,
• 31:00
  and
• 31:01
  I
• 31:01
  would
• 31:01
  strip
• 31:02
  everything
• 31:02
  out
• 31:03
  of
• 31:03
  a
• 31:03
  room
• 31:03
  that
• 31:03
  you
• 31:03
  want
• 31:04
  to
• 31:04
  improve,
• 31:04
  strip
• 31:05
  it
• 31:05
  out,
• 31:05
  and
• 31:06
  then
• 31:06
  start
• 31:06
  adding
• 31:06
  things
• 31:07
  back
• 31:07
  in
• 31:07
  before
• 31:08
  you
• 31:08
  go
• 31:08
  out
• 31:08
  and
• 31:08
  buy
• 31:10
  more
• 31:10
  things.
• 32:18
  I
• 32:18
  think
• 32:18
  people
• 32:18
  are
• 32:19
  overwhelmed
• 32:19
  with
• 32:19
  things,
• 32:20
  to
• 32:20
  be
• 32:20
  honest.
• 32:21
  I
• 32:21
  think
• 32:22
  there
• 32:22
  can
• 32:22
  be.
• 32:22
  And
• 32:23
  the
• 32:23
  older
• 32:23
  we
• 32:23
  get.
• 32:24
  Now,
• 32:24
  I
• 32:24
  understand
• 32:25
  people
• 32:25
  giving
• 32:25
  stuff
• 32:26
  away.
• 32:26
  The
• 32:26
  older
• 32:27
  they
• 32:27
  get,
• 32:27
  they
• 32:27
  don't
• 32:27
  care.
• 32:28
  You
• 32:28
  know,
• 32:28
  this
• 32:28
  the
• 32:29
  way
• 32:29
  you
• 32:29
  and
• 32:29
  I
• 32:29
  used
• 32:29
  to
• 32:29
  shop
• 32:30
  20
• 32:30
  years
• 32:30
  ago.
• 32:31
  I
• 32:31
  guarantee
• 32:31
  we're
• 32:32
  shopping
• 32:32
  different
• 32:32
  now,
• 32:33
  right?
• 32:33
  Well,
• 32:34
  first
• 32:34
  of
• 32:34
  all,
• 32:34
  we
• 32:34
  used
• 32:34
  to
• 32:34
  have
• 32:34
  time,
• 32:35
  right?
• 32:36
  We
• 32:36
  used
• 32:36
  to
• 32:36
  have
• 32:36
  life
• 32:37
  minutes
• 32:37
  to
• 32:37
  be
• 32:37
  cute
• 32:37
  and
• 32:38
  do
• 32:38
  all
• 32:38
  the
• 32:38
  things.
• 32:38
  I
• 32:38
  mean,
• 32:39
  girl,
• 32:39
  you're
• 32:39
  still
• 32:39
  wearing
• 32:39
  the
• 32:39
  shoes.
• 32:40
  Oh,
• 32:40
  my
• 32:40
  gosh.
• 32:40
  You're
• 32:41
  still
• 32:41
  wearing
• 32:41
  the
• 32:41
  shoes.
• 32:41
  And
• 32:42
  your
• 32:42
  husband
• 32:42
  is
• 32:42
  super
• 32:43
  lucky.
• 32:43
  Yeah,
• 32:43
  I
• 32:44
  mean,
• 32:44
  your
• 32:44
  husband's
• 32:44
  super
• 32:44
  lucky.
• 32:46
  But
• 32:47
  I
• 32:47
  think
• 32:47
  that.
• 32:48
  I
• 32:48
  think
• 32:49
  the
• 32:49
  pressure
• 32:49
  on
• 32:50
  all
• 32:50
  of
• 32:50
  that,
• 32:50
  like,
• 32:51
  your
• 32:51
  space
• 32:51
  here
• 32:51
  is
• 32:51
  beautiful.
• 32:52
  I
• 32:53
  love
• 32:53
  what
• 32:53
  you've
• 32:53
  done
• 32:53
  here.
• 32:54
  This
• 32:54
  is
• 32:54
  amazing.
• 32:55
  But
• 32:55
  you
• 32:56
  came
• 32:56
  in
• 32:56
  with
• 32:56
  a
• 32:56
  clean
• 32:56
  slate.
• 32:57
  Only
• 32:58
  bring
• 32:58
  in
• 32:58
  what
• 32:58
  you
• 32:58
  love.
• 32:59
  That's
• 33:00
  really
• 33:00
  the
• 33:00
  answer.
• 33:01
  Bring
• 33:01
  in
• 33:01
  what
• 33:02
  you
• 33:02
  love.
• 33:02
  And
• 33:02
  I'm
• 33:02
  not
• 33:02
  trying
• 33:02
  to
• 33:02
  go
• 33:02
  Marie
• 33:03
  Kwondo
• 33:03
  on
• 33:03
  you
• 33:03
  and
• 33:03
  make
• 33:04
  you
• 33:04
  hold
• 33:04
  it.
• 33:04
  And
• 33:04
  do
• 33:04
  you
• 33:04
  feel
• 33:05
  all
• 33:05
  the
• 33:05
  things?
• 33:06
  I
• 33:06
  don't
• 33:06
  know.
• 33:06
  I
• 33:06
  tried.
• 33:06
  I
• 33:07
  tried.
• 33:07
  I'm
• 33:07
  like,
• 33:08
  girl,
• 33:08
  what
• 33:08
  am
• 33:08
  I
• 33:08
  supposed
• 33:08
  to
• 33:08
  feel?
• 33:09
  I
• 33:09
  don't
• 33:09
  know
• 33:09
  what
• 33:10
  I'm
• 33:10
  supposed
• 33:10
  to
• 33:10
  feel.
• 33:11
  And
• 33:11
  so
• 33:12
  that
• 33:12
  was
• 33:12
  not
• 33:12
  working
• 33:12
  for
• 33:12
  me.
• 33:13
  Although
• 33:13
  I
• 33:13
  think
• 33:13
  she's
• 33:13
  darling.
• 33:14
  And
• 33:14
  that
• 33:14
  would
• 33:14
  actually
• 33:15
  be
• 33:15
  very
• 33:15
  fun
• 33:15
  to
• 33:15
  meet
• 33:16
  her
• 33:16
  and
• 33:16
  have
• 33:16
  her
• 33:16
  explain
• 33:17
  it
• 33:17
  a
• 33:17
  little
• 33:17
  bit.
• 33:17
  Better.
• 33:18
  I'm
• 33:18
  not
• 33:18
  that
• 33:18
  in
• 33:19
  touch
• 33:19
  with,
• 33:19
  you
• 33:20
  know,
• 33:20
  my
• 33:20
  house
• 33:20
  plants,
• 33:20
  but
• 33:22
  I
• 33:22
  think
• 33:22
  that
• 33:22
  if
• 33:22
  you
• 33:23
  love
• 33:23
  it
• 33:23
  and
• 33:23
  it
• 33:24
  brings
• 33:24
  you
• 33:24
  joy,
• 33:24
  then
• 33:24
  let's
• 33:25
  keep
• 33:25
  it.
• 33:26
  But
• 33:26
  I
• 33:27
  would
• 33:27
  get
• 33:27
  rid
• 33:27
  of
• 33:27
  most
• 33:27
  of
• 33:28
  it.
• 33:28
  I
• 33:28
  would
• 33:29
  dial
• 33:29
  it
• 33:29
  back
• 33:29
  instead
• 33:29
  of
• 33:30
  bringing
• 33:30
  it
• 33:30
  in
• 33:30
  and
• 33:30
  changing
• 33:31
  that
• 33:31
  space,
• 33:31
  instead
• 33:32
  of
• 33:32
  bringing
• 33:32
  more
• 33:32
  pillows,
• 33:33
  instead
• 33:33
  of
• 33:33
  bringing
• 33:33
  another
• 33:34
  throw,
• 33:35
  you
• 33:35
  know?
• 33:35
  And
• 33:36
  who
• 33:36
  doesn't
• 33:36
  like
• 33:36
  walking
• 33:36
  through
• 33:37
  home
• 33:37
  goods
• 33:37
  with
• 33:37
  a
• 33:37
  latte?
• 33:38
  I'm
• 33:38
  here
• 33:38
  for
• 33:38
  it.
• 33:38
  I
• 33:39
  love
• 33:39
  it.
• 33:39
  I
• 33:39
  know
• 33:40
  it's
• 33:40
  true.
• 33:40
  I
• 33:41
  love
• 33:41
  it.
• 33:41
  It's
• 33:42
  true,
• 33:42
  and
• 33:42
  it's
• 33:42
  fun.
• 33:43
  Boy,
• 33:43
  you
• 33:44
  leave
• 33:44
  there
• 33:44
  and
• 33:44
  you're
• 33:44
  like,
• 33:45
  oh,
• 33:45
  did
• 33:46
  I
• 33:46
  need
• 33:46
  the
• 33:47
  hundred
• 33:47
  hair
• 33:47
  ties
• 33:47
  in
• 33:48
  the
• 33:48
  glass
• 33:48
  thing
• 33:49
  that
• 33:49
  I
• 33:49
  really
• 33:50
  shouldn't
• 33:50
  display
• 33:50
  in
• 33:51
  the
• 33:51
  bathroom.
• 33:52
  I
• 33:52
  should
• 33:52
  not.
• 33:53
  But
• 33:53
  it's
• 33:53
  the
• 33:53
  same
• 33:54
  thing
• 33:54
  when
• 33:54
  you
• 33:54
  go
• 33:54
  to
• 33:54
  Target,
• 33:54
  too.
• 33:55
  Same
• 33:55
  thing
• 33:55
  it
• 33:56
  is.
• 33:56
  You
• 33:56
  just
• 33:57
  walk
• 33:57
  out
• 33:57
  of
• 33:57
  there
• 33:57
  and
• 33:57
  you're
• 33:58
  like,
• 33:58
  why
• 33:58
  did
• 33:58
  I
• 33:58
  do
• 33:58
  this?
• 33:59
  Like,
• 33:59
  why?
• 34:00
  Yeah,
• 34:00
  yeah.
• 34:00
  You
• 34:00
  know,
• 34:01
  and
• 34:01
  so
• 34:01
  I've
• 34:01
  gotten
• 34:01
  much
• 34:02
  better
• 34:02
  about
• 34:02
  that.
• 34:03
  Much
• 34:03
  better.
• 34:03
  So
• 34:03
  I
• 34:03
  think
• 34:04
  remove
• 34:04
  versus
• 34:05
  add
• 34:05
  and
• 34:05
  see
• 34:06
  how
• 34:06
  you
• 34:06
  feel.
• 34:07
  Because
• 34:07
  I
• 34:07
  do
• 34:08
  think
• 34:08
  things
• 34:09
  don't
• 34:09
  let
• 34:10
  you
• 34:10
  think
• 34:10
  clearly.
• 34:11
  The
• 34:11
  more
• 34:11
  you
• 34:11
  have
• 34:11
  around
• 34:12
  you,
• 34:12
  I
• 34:12
  think
• 34:12
  it
• 34:12
  just
• 34:12
  makes
• 34:12
  it
• 34:13
  more
• 34:13
  cluttered.
• 34:13
  And
• 34:14
  I
• 34:14
  feel
• 34:14
  like
• 34:14
  in
• 34:14
  midlife,
• 34:15
  I
• 34:15
  want
• 34:15
  more
• 34:15
  calm.
• 34:17
  I
• 34:17
  don't
• 34:17
  know
• 34:17
  about
• 34:17
  you,
• 34:17
  but
• 34:17
  I'm
• 34:17
  done.
• 34:18
  I
• 34:18
  love
• 34:18
  my
• 34:18
  kids,
• 34:19
  but
• 34:19
  I'm
• 34:19
  just
• 34:19
  done.
• 34:20
  Totally.
• 34:21
  I
• 34:21
  love
• 34:21
  them.
• 34:21
  Bye.
• 34:21
  Bye.
• 34:22
  I
• 34:22
  love
• 34:22
  them.
• 34:23
  I
• 34:23
  love
• 34:23
  them.
• 34:24
  And
• 34:24
  I
• 34:24
  don't
• 34:24
  know
• 34:25
  what.
• 34:25
  I
• 34:25
  don't
• 34:25
  know
• 34:25
  as
• 34:25
  an
• 34:26
  adult
• 34:26
  because
• 34:26
  I
• 34:26
  had
• 34:26
  Betsy
• 34:27
  at
• 34:27
  22.
• 34:28
  I
• 34:28
  don't
• 34:28
  know
• 34:28
  what
• 34:28
  it's
• 34:29
  like
• 34:29
  to
• 34:29
  have
• 34:29
  free
• 34:30
  will.
• 34:31
  I've
• 34:31
  been
• 34:31
  raising
• 34:31
  kids
• 34:32
  that
• 34:32
  long.
• 34:32
  And
• 34:33
  you're
• 34:33
  probably
• 34:33
  at
• 34:33
  the
• 34:33
  point
• 34:34
  where
• 34:34
  you
• 34:34
  don't
• 34:34
  remember
• 34:35
  free
• 34:35
  will,
• 34:36
  right?
• 34:36
  Because
• 34:37
  really,
• 34:37
  our
• 34:37
  lives
• 34:37
  and
• 34:38
  jobs
• 34:38
  right
• 34:38
  now
• 34:38
  are
• 34:38
  to
• 34:38
  keep
• 34:39
  people
• 34:39
  alive,
• 34:40
  right?
• 34:40
  Keep
• 34:41
  them
• 34:41
  alive,
• 34:42
  get
• 34:42
  them
• 34:42
  to
• 34:42
  18.
• 34:43
  I
• 34:43
  mean,
• 34:43
  it's
• 34:44
  the
• 34:44
  right.
• 34:44
  Age
• 34:44
  is
• 34:45
  probably
• 34:45
  higher
• 34:45
  now,
• 34:45
  right?
• 34:45
  We
• 34:46
  got
• 34:46
  to
• 34:46
  get
• 34:46
  them
• 34:46
  higher
• 34:46
  now
• 34:46
  than
• 34:47
  18.
• 34:47
  But
• 34:47
  our
• 34:48
  parents
• 34:48
  only
• 34:48
  had
• 34:48
  till
• 34:48
  18.
• 34:49
  They
• 34:49
  lucked
• 34:50
  out,
• 34:50
  right?
• 34:50
  They
• 34:50
  were
• 34:51
  like,
• 34:51
  oh,
• 34:51
  gosh,
• 34:52
  we
• 34:52
  got
• 34:52
  you
• 34:52
  to
• 34:52
  college.
• 34:53
  See
• 34:53
  you.
• 34:54
  Right
• 34:55
  now
• 34:55
  we're
• 34:55
  tethered
• 34:56
  electronically.
• 34:57
  Hey,
• 34:57
  what
• 34:57
  did
• 34:57
  I
• 34:57
  order
• 34:58
  at
• 34:58
  cpk,
• 34:59
  you
• 34:59
  know,
• 34:59
  or
• 34:59
  kid,
• 34:59
  too
• 34:59
  will
• 35:00
  be
• 35:00
  like,
• 35:00
  hey,
• 35:00
  I'm
• 35:01
  here,
• 35:01
  here.
• 35:01
  What
• 35:01
  do
• 35:01
  I
• 35:02
  eat
• 35:02
  here?
• 35:02
  You're
• 35:02
  like,
• 35:03
  okay,
• 35:03
  sis,
• 35:04
  you
• 35:04
  eat,
• 35:04
  right?
• 35:05
  If
• 35:06
  I
• 35:06
  never
• 35:06
  got.
• 35:06
  We
• 35:07
  never
• 35:07
  get
• 35:07
  to
• 35:07
  give
• 35:07
  to
• 35:07
  our
• 35:08
  parents,
• 35:08
  right?
• 35:08
  So
• 35:09
  I'm
• 35:09
  looking
• 35:09
  for
• 35:09
  calm.
• 35:10
  And
• 35:10
  I
• 35:10
  think
• 35:10
  if
• 35:10
  your
• 35:11
  house
• 35:11
  is
• 35:11
  calm,
• 35:11
  your
• 35:11
  space
• 35:12
  is
• 35:12
  calm,
• 35:12
  your
• 35:12
  kitchen
• 35:13
  counters
• 35:13
  are
• 35:13
  clear.
• 35:14
  Like,
• 35:14
  what
• 35:14
  do
• 35:14
  you
• 35:14
  have
• 35:14
  on
• 35:14
  those
• 35:15
  kitchen
• 35:15
  counters?
• 35:15
  Right?
• 35:16
  All
• 35:16
  the
• 35:17
  chotchkes
• 35:17
  from
• 35:18
  HomeGoods.
• 35:18
  I
• 35:18
  mean,
• 35:19
  why
• 35:19
  why?
• 35:20
  And
• 35:20
  are
• 35:20
  we
• 35:21
  using
• 35:21
  them?
• 35:21
  No.
• 35:22
  And
• 35:22
  then
• 35:22
  you
• 35:22
  have
• 35:22
  to
• 35:22
  dust
• 35:23
  them,
• 35:23
  right?
• 35:24
  The
• 35:24
  cleaning,
• 35:25
  the
• 35:25
  cleaning.
• 35:26
  Cleaning
• 35:26
  is
• 35:27
  rid
• 35:27
  of
• 35:27
  stuff
• 35:27
  you
• 35:28
  don't
• 35:28
  have
• 35:28
  to
• 35:28
  clean.
• 35:28
  It
• 35:28
  says.
• 35:29
  That's
• 35:29
  the
• 35:29
  other
• 35:29
  thing
• 35:29
  I
• 35:29
  got
• 35:29
  down
• 35:30
  to.
• 35:30
  I
• 35:30
  was
• 35:30
  like,
• 35:30
  these
• 35:31
  counters
• 35:31
  are
• 35:31
  way
• 35:31
  easier
• 35:32
  to
• 35:32
  wipe
• 35:32
  down
• 35:32
  when
• 35:32
  I
• 35:32
  got
• 35:32
  nothing
• 35:33
  on
• 35:33
  them.
• 35:33
  It's
• 35:34
  such
• 35:34
  a
• 35:34
  quick
• 35:34
  wipe.
• 35:34
  It's
• 35:35
  easy.
• 35:35
  I
• 35:35
  know.
• 35:35
  And
• 35:35
  my
• 35:36
  kids
• 35:36
  will
• 35:36
  say,
• 35:36
  why
• 35:37
  don't
• 35:37
  we
• 35:37
  have
• 35:37
  more
• 35:37
  things?
• 35:38
  Do
• 35:39
  they
• 35:39
  say
• 35:39
  that?
• 35:39
  Yes,
• 35:39
  because
• 35:40
  we
• 35:41
  saved
• 35:41
  the
• 35:41
  house
• 35:41
  we're
• 35:42
  in
• 35:42
  now.
• 35:42
  It
• 35:43
  went
• 35:43
  through
• 35:43
  a
• 35:43
  huge
• 35:43
  remodel.
• 35:44
  We
• 35:44
  now
• 35:44
  know
• 35:45
  why
• 35:45
  it
• 35:45
  was
• 35:45
  on
• 35:45
  the
• 35:45
  market
• 35:45
  and
• 35:46
  didn't
• 35:46
  sell
• 35:46
  for
• 35:46
  four
• 35:46
  years.
• 35:47
  But
• 35:47
  we
• 35:47
  saved
• 35:48
  it.
• 35:48
  We're
• 35:48
  good.
• 35:49
  And
• 35:49
  literally,
• 35:50
  kid
• 35:50
  two
• 35:50
  gonna
• 35:51
  bring
• 35:51
  her
• 35:51
  up
• 35:51
  again.
• 35:52
  God
• 35:52
  bless
• 35:52
  her.
• 35:53
  She's
• 35:54
  like,
• 35:55
  when
• 35:56
  are
• 35:56
  we
• 35:56
  gonna
• 35:56
  finish
• 35:56
  decorating?
• 35:58
  It's
• 35:58
  like,
• 35:59
  oh,
• 35:59
  girl,
• 35:59
  I
• 35:59
  think
• 36:00
  we're
• 36:00
  done.
• 36:01
  What
• 36:01
  do
• 36:01
  you
• 36:02
  mean?
• 36:02
  She's
• 36:03
  like,
• 36:03
  we're
• 36:04
  done.
• 36:04
  And
• 36:04
  I
• 36:04
  was
• 36:05
  like,
• 36:05
  she's
• 36:06
  like,
• 36:06
  scooter,
• 36:07
  they
• 36:07
  like
• 36:07
  things,
• 36:08
  right?
• 36:08
  And
• 36:09
  she's
• 36:09
  like,
• 36:09
  what
• 36:09
  do
• 36:09
  you
• 36:10
  mean?
• 36:10
  I
• 36:10
  go
• 36:11
  to
• 36:11
  other
• 36:11
  people's
• 36:11
  houses.
• 36:12
  They
• 36:12
  have
• 36:12
  way
• 36:12
  more
• 36:12
  stuff.
• 36:13
  Where's
• 36:13
  all
• 36:13
  of
• 36:14
  our
• 36:14
  stuff?
• 36:14
  I
• 36:15
  said,
• 36:15
  well,
• 36:15
  when
• 36:15
  we
• 36:15
  moved
• 36:16
  out
• 36:16
  to
• 36:16
  remodel,
• 36:16
  I
• 36:16
  just
• 36:17
  got
• 36:18
  rid
• 36:18
  of
• 36:18
  a
• 36:18
  lot
• 36:18
  of
• 36:18
  it,
• 36:19
  and
• 36:19
  I
• 36:20
  decided
• 36:20
  not
• 36:20
  to
• 36:20
  bring
• 36:20
  it
• 36:21
  back
• 36:22
  because
• 36:22
  guess
• 36:22
  who
• 36:22
  was
• 36:22
  cleaning
• 36:23
  it?
• 36:23
  Right?
• 36:24
  You're
• 36:24
  looking
• 36:24
  at
• 36:24
  her,
• 36:25
  right?
• 36:25
  It's
• 36:25
  like,
• 36:25
  who
• 36:25
  was
• 36:26
  keeping
• 36:26
  track
• 36:26
  of
• 36:26
  this
• 36:26
  stuff?
• 36:27
  Right?
• 36:28
  And
• 36:28
  so
• 36:29
  I
• 36:29
  think
• 36:30
  it
• 36:30
  just
• 36:30
  felt
• 36:30
  better.
• 36:31
  It
• 36:31
  felt
• 36:32
  better.
• 36:32
  And
• 36:32
  I
• 36:32
  was
• 36:32
  like,
• 36:33
  you've
• 36:33
  got
• 36:33
  your
• 36:33
  room.
• 36:34
  And
• 36:34
  her
• 36:34
  room
• 36:34
  looks
• 36:35
  vastly
• 36:35
  different
• 36:35
  than
• 36:36
  the
• 36:36
  rest
• 36:36
  of
• 36:36
  the
• 36:36
  house.
• 36:37
  She's
• 36:37
  got
• 36:37
  her
• 36:37
  things,
• 36:38
  and
• 36:38
  she
• 36:39
  can
• 36:39
  have
• 36:39
  them
• 36:39
  in
• 36:39
  that
• 36:39
  room.
• 36:40
  Yeah.
• 36:41
  But
• 36:41
  it's
• 36:41
  like,
• 36:42
  I
• 36:42
  just.
• 36:42
  I
• 36:42
  think
• 36:42
  clean.
• 36:43
  My
• 36:43
  biggest
• 36:44
  decorating
• 36:44
  tip
• 36:44
  is
• 36:45
  get
• 36:45
  rid
• 36:45
  of
• 36:45
  something.
• 36:46
  And
• 36:46
  I'm
• 36:46
  not
• 36:46
  a
• 36:46
  decorator.
• 36:47
  Right.
• 36:48
  But
• 36:48
  I
• 36:48
  think
• 36:48
  that
• 36:48
  that
• 36:49
  feels
• 36:49
  better.
• 36:49
  That
• 36:49
  feels
• 36:50
  better.
• 36:50
  Right?
• 36:50
  What
• 36:50
  about
• 36:51
  you?
• 36:51
  So
• 36:52
  I
• 36:52
  do
• 36:52
  feel
• 36:53
  a
• 36:53
  good
• 36:53
  sense
• 36:54
  when
• 36:54
  I
• 36:54
  let
• 36:54
  go
• 36:54
  of
• 36:54
  things
• 36:55
  that
• 36:55
  are
• 36:55
  not,
• 36:55
  like,
• 36:56
  you
• 36:56
  know,
• 36:56
  necessary
• 36:57
  or
• 36:57
  not
• 36:57
  serving
• 36:58
  us
• 36:58
  in
• 36:58
  some
• 36:58
  way.
• 36:59
  I
• 36:59
  do
• 37:00
  feel
• 37:00
  so
• 37:00
  much
• 37:00
  better.
• 37:00
  I
• 37:01
  do
• 37:01
  feel
• 37:01
  like,
• 37:01
  you
• 37:01
  know,
• 37:02
  the
• 37:02
  house
• 37:02
  is
• 37:02
  more
• 37:03
  simplified.
• 37:03
  And
• 37:04
  I
• 37:04
  think,
• 37:04
  too,
• 37:04
  especially
• 37:05
  with,
• 37:05
  like,
• 37:05
  perimenopause
• 37:06
  and
• 37:07
  all
• 37:07
  the
• 37:07
  things,
• 37:07
  my
• 37:08
  nerves
• 37:08
  are
• 37:08
  already
• 37:09
  more
• 37:09
  heightened
• 37:10
  than
• 37:10
  they
• 37:11
  ever
• 37:11
  were
• 37:12
  and
• 37:12
  the
• 37:12
  anxiety.
• 37:13
  So
• 37:13
  when
• 37:13
  I
• 37:13
  look
• 37:13
  around
• 37:14
  and
• 37:14
  I
• 37:14
  see
• 37:14
  things
• 37:14
  that
• 37:15
  are
• 37:15
  really
• 37:16
  out
• 37:16
  of
• 37:16
  place
• 37:16
  or
• 37:17
  messy,
• 37:17
  you
• 37:17
  know,
• 37:17
  it
• 37:17
  gives
• 37:18
  me
• 37:18
  stress.
• 37:19
  So
• 37:19
  I
• 37:19
  would
• 37:19
  agree
• 37:20
  with
• 37:20
  that.
• 37:20
  I
• 37:20
  would
• 37:20
  say
• 37:21
  letting
• 37:21
  go
• 37:21
  of,
• 37:21
  like,
• 37:22
  you
• 37:22
  know,
• 37:22
  just
• 37:22
  things
• 37:23
  that
• 37:23
  are
• 37:23
  hanging
• 37:23
  around
• 37:24
  that
• 37:24
  are.
• 37:24
  That
• 37:24
  are
• 37:25
  unnecessary,
• 37:26
  but
• 37:26
  also,
• 37:26
  like,
• 37:26
  making
• 37:27
  this
• 37:27
  space
• 37:27
  comfortable,
• 37:28
  too,
• 37:28
  you
• 37:29
  know,
• 37:29
  with
• 37:29
  our
• 37:29
  dogs
• 37:30
  and
• 37:30
  our
• 37:30
  kids
• 37:31
  and,
• 37:31
  you
• 37:31
  Know,
• 37:32
  just
• 37:32
  making
• 37:32
  it
• 37:32
  feel
• 37:33
  like
• 37:33
  home,
• 37:33
  like
• 37:34
  a
• 37:34
  place.
• 37:34
  Like
• 37:34
  you're
• 37:34
  saying
• 37:34
  to,
• 37:35
  like,
• 37:35
  go
• 37:35
  and
• 37:35
  de
• 37:35
  stress,
• 37:36
  not
• 37:37
  add
• 37:37
  to
• 37:37
  the
• 37:38
  chaos,
• 37:39
  you
• 37:39
  know,
• 37:40
  I
• 37:40
  think
• 37:40
  the
• 37:41
  house,
• 37:41
  the.
• 37:42
  Little
• 37:42
  plants,
• 37:42
  the
• 37:42
  herb
• 37:43
  plants
• 37:43
  from
• 37:43
  Trader
• 37:43
  Joe's
• 37:44
  are
• 37:44
  incredibly
• 37:45
  underestimated.
• 37:46
  Oh,
• 37:46
  buy
• 37:47
  yourself.
• 37:47
  This
• 37:47
  one's
• 37:47
  right
• 37:47
  at
• 37:47
  the
• 37:48
  front,
• 37:48
  right.
• 37:48
  Buy
• 37:48
  yourself
• 37:48
  two
• 37:49
  or
• 37:49
  three
• 37:49
  of
• 37:49
  those
• 37:49
  in
• 37:49
  the
• 37:49
  produce
• 37:50
  section.
• 37:50
  So
• 37:51
  I've
• 37:51
  always
• 37:51
  usually
• 37:51
  got
• 37:51
  basil
• 37:52
  going.
• 37:52
  Definitely
• 37:53
  basil,
• 37:53
  mint
• 37:54
  and
• 37:54
  rosemary
• 37:54
  or
• 37:55
  whatever.
• 37:55
  You
• 37:56
  can
• 37:56
  pick
• 37:56
  up
• 37:56
  whatever
• 37:56
  you
• 37:57
  want,
• 37:57
  whatever
• 37:57
  your
• 37:57
  combo
• 37:58
  is.
• 37:58
  They're
• 37:58
  sitting
• 37:59
  right
• 37:59
  there
• 37:59
  by
• 37:59
  the
• 37:59
  sink.
• 38:00
  And
• 38:00
  I'm
• 38:00
  so
• 38:01
  happy
• 38:02
  with
• 38:02
  those
• 38:02
  three
• 38:02
  little
• 38:03
  plants.
• 38:03
  I
• 38:03
  know
• 38:03
  that
• 38:04
  sounds
• 38:04
  crazy,
• 38:04
  but
• 38:04
  you
• 38:04
  got
• 38:05
  something
• 38:05
  living,
• 38:06
  right,
• 38:06
  and
• 38:06
  you're
• 38:06
  using
• 38:07
  them.
• 38:07
  You
• 38:07
  know,
• 38:08
  stick
• 38:08
  some
• 38:08
  of
• 38:08
  that
• 38:08
  on
• 38:09
  top
• 38:09
  of
• 38:09
  your
• 38:09
  dinner,
• 38:09
  and
• 38:09
  it
• 38:09
  looks
• 38:10
  so
• 38:10
  fancy.
• 38:10
  So
• 38:11
  fancy.
• 38:11
  Even
• 38:11
  if
• 38:11
  you're
• 38:11
  bringing
• 38:12
  a
• 38:12
  takeout,
• 38:12
  right?
• 38:13
  Yes.
• 38:14
  You
• 38:15
  cut
• 38:15
  up
• 38:15
  a
• 38:15
  little
• 38:15
  basil,
• 38:16
  and
• 38:16
  all
• 38:16
  of
• 38:16
  a
• 38:16
  sudden
• 38:16
  it
• 38:17
  looks
• 38:17
  like
• 38:17
  you
• 38:17
  did
• 38:17
  something
• 38:17
  right
• 38:18
  with
• 38:18
  a
• 38:18
  little
• 38:18
  flaky
• 38:18
  sea
• 38:19
  salt
• 38:19
  and
• 38:19
  balsamic
• 38:20
  vinegar.
• 38:20
  And
• 38:20
  all
• 38:20
  of
• 38:21
  a
• 38:21
  sudden,
• 38:21
  everyone's
• 38:21
  like,
• 38:21
  oh,
• 38:21
  my
• 38:21
  God,
• 38:22
  what
• 38:22
  is
• 38:22
  happening?
• 38:23
  And
• 38:23
  you're
• 38:24
  like,
• 38:24
  well,
• 38:24
  just
• 38:24
  pizza,
• 38:25
  right?
• 38:25
  Pizza
• 38:26
  from
• 38:26
  down
• 38:26
  the
• 38:26
  street.
• 38:27
  But
• 38:27
  I
• 38:27
  think
• 38:27
  things
• 38:27
  like
• 38:28
  that,
• 38:28
  those
• 38:28
  are
• 38:28
  useful.
• 38:29
  I
• 38:29
  am
• 38:29
  about
• 38:30
  having
• 38:30
  useful
• 38:30
  things
• 38:31
  in
• 38:31
  your
• 38:31
  kitchen.
• 38:32
  Anything
• 38:32
  that
• 38:32
  can
• 38:32
  help
• 38:33
  you,
• 38:34
  that
• 38:34
  makes
• 38:34
  you
• 38:34
  feel
• 38:34
  good.
• 38:35
  Let's
• 38:35
  do
• 38:35
  both.
• 38:36
  But
• 38:36
  I
• 38:36
  don't
• 38:36
  want
• 38:37
  something
• 38:37
  to
• 38:37
  dust.
• 38:38
  I
• 38:38
  don't
• 38:38
  want
• 38:39
  just
• 38:39
  an
• 38:39
  object
• 38:39
  sitting
• 38:39
  there
• 38:40
  just
• 38:40
  for
• 38:40
  fun,
• 38:41
  just
• 38:41
  collecting
• 38:41
  dust.
• 38:42
  I
• 38:42
  mean,
• 38:43
  now
• 38:43
  what.
• 38:43
  What
• 38:44
  do
• 38:44
  you
• 38:44
  say
• 38:44
  to
• 38:44
  the
• 38:44
  folks
• 38:45
  that
• 38:45
  are,
• 38:45
  you
• 38:45
  know,
• 38:46
  like,
• 38:46
  going
• 38:46
  through
• 38:46
  midlife?
• 38:47
  But
• 38:47
  maybe
• 38:48
  it's
• 38:48
  the
• 38:48
  sandwich
• 38:49
  generation,
• 38:49
  so
• 38:49
  they're
• 38:50
  taking
• 38:50
  care
• 38:50
  of
• 38:50
  elderly,
• 38:51
  aging
• 38:51
  parents.
• 38:52
  Maybe
• 38:52
  the
• 38:52
  parents
• 38:53
  live
• 38:53
  with
• 38:53
  them
• 38:54
  in
• 38:54
  the
• 38:54
  house,
• 38:54
  and
• 38:55
  maybe
• 38:55
  they're
• 38:55
  also
• 38:55
  taking
• 38:56
  care
• 38:56
  of
• 38:56
  their
• 38:56
  kids.
• 38:56
  So
• 38:57
  they're
• 38:57
  kind
• 38:57
  of
• 38:57
  caught
• 38:57
  in
• 38:57
  the
• 38:58
  middle,
• 38:58
  but
• 38:59
  want
• 38:59
  to
• 38:59
  create
• 38:59
  a
• 39:00
  special,
• 39:00
  you
• 39:00
  know,
• 39:01
  space
• 39:01
  in
• 39:01
  the
• 39:01
  house
• 39:02
  for
• 39:02
  themselves.
• 39:03
  What
• 39:03
  do
• 39:04
  you
• 39:04
  say
• 39:04
  to
• 39:04
  them?
• 39:04
  Like,
• 39:05
  how
• 39:05
  do
• 39:05
  they
• 39:05
  still
• 39:05
  kind
• 39:06
  of
• 39:06
  have
• 39:07
  their
• 39:07
  own
• 39:07
  identity
• 39:08
  in
• 39:08
  the
• 39:08
  house
• 39:08
  with
• 39:08
  all
• 39:09
  of
• 39:09
  these
• 39:09
  other
• 39:09
  people
• 39:09
  around?
• 39:11
  First
• 39:11
  of
• 39:11
  all,
• 39:11
  I
• 39:11
  think
• 39:11
  that's
• 39:12
  incredibly
• 39:12
  hard.
• 39:13
  So
• 39:13
  let's
• 39:13
  just
• 39:13
  start
• 39:13
  there
• 39:14
  as
• 39:14
  someone
• 39:14
  who
• 39:14
  hasn't
• 39:15
  been
• 39:15
  able
• 39:15
  to
• 39:15
  live
• 39:15
  alone
• 39:16
  for
• 39:17
  32
• 39:17
  years
• 39:17
  and
• 39:18
  counting.
• 39:18
  Not
• 39:19
  that
• 39:19
  I'm
• 39:19
  looking
• 39:19
  to
• 39:19
  live
• 39:19
  alone.
• 39:21
  Scooter,
• 39:21
  don't.
• 39:21
  Don't
• 39:22
  get
• 39:22
  stressed.
• 39:23
  I'm
• 39:23
  not
• 39:24
  looking
• 39:24
  to
• 39:24
  live
• 39:24
  alone
• 39:25
  when
• 39:25
  kid
• 39:25
  three's
• 39:26
  gone
• 39:26
  to
• 39:26
  college.
• 39:26
  But
• 39:27
  I
• 39:27
  think
• 39:29
  my
• 39:29
  family
• 39:29
  hears
• 39:30
  me
• 39:30
  say
• 39:30
  this
• 39:30
  all
• 39:30
  the
• 39:30
  time,
• 39:30
  and
• 39:30
  they
• 39:31
  can't
• 39:31
  stand
• 39:31
  it.
• 39:33
  But
• 39:33
  I
• 39:33
  tell
• 39:33
  them,
• 39:33
  the
• 39:33
  kitchen's
• 39:34
  my
• 39:34
  office,
• 39:35
  the
• 39:36
  kitchen's
• 39:36
  my
• 39:36
  office.
• 39:37
  So
• 39:38
  you're
• 39:38
  in
• 39:38
  my
• 39:38
  office
• 39:39
  right
• 39:39
  now.
• 39:39
  I
• 39:39
  don't
• 39:40
  come
• 39:40
  into
• 39:40
  yours.
• 39:41
  I
• 39:41
  don't
• 39:41
  go
• 39:41
  to
• 39:41
  Scooter's
• 39:42
  office
• 39:42
  and
• 39:43
  run
• 39:43
  around
• 39:44
  and
• 39:44
  leave
• 39:44
  messes.
• 39:45
  So
• 39:46
  I
• 39:46
  think
• 39:46
  pick
• 39:47
  that
• 39:47
  space
• 39:47
  in
• 39:47
  the
• 39:47
  house
• 39:47
  where
• 39:48
  you
• 39:48
  can
• 39:48
  do
• 39:48
  that.
• 39:48
  So
• 39:49
  if
• 39:49
  it
• 39:49
  isn't
• 39:49
  the
• 39:49
  kitchen
• 39:49
  for
• 39:49
  you,
• 39:50
  where
• 39:50
  is
• 39:50
  your
• 39:50
  office?
• 39:51
  Is
• 39:51
  it
• 39:51
  your
• 39:52
  bedroom?
• 39:52
  Is
• 39:52
  it
• 39:53
  your
• 39:53
  bathroom?
• 39:53
  And
• 39:53
  like,
• 39:54
  make
• 39:54
  that
• 39:54
  your
• 39:54
  space.
• 39:55
  Now
• 39:55
  we're
• 39:55
  obviously
• 39:56
  my.
• 39:56
  Unfortunately,
• 39:57
  my
• 39:57
  space
• 39:58
  is
• 39:58
  incredibly
• 39:58
  shared,
• 39:59
  the
• 39:59
  most
• 40:00
  trafficked
• 40:00
  part
• 40:00
  of
• 40:00
  the
• 40:00
  house,
• 40:01
  period.
• 40:02
  But
• 40:02
  they
• 40:02
  understand
• 40:03
  it's
• 40:03
  mine
• 40:04
  and
• 40:04
  they
• 40:04
  understand
• 40:05
  there
• 40:05
  needs
• 40:05
  to
• 40:05
  be
• 40:06
  something
• 40:06
  different
• 40:06
  happening
• 40:07
  there.
• 40:07
  So
• 40:07
  when
• 40:07
  I
• 40:07
  started
• 40:07
  calling
• 40:08
  that
• 40:08
  space
• 40:08
  my
• 40:08
  office,
• 40:09
  it
• 40:09
  took
• 40:10
  on
• 40:10
  a
• 40:10
  different
• 40:11
  tone
• 40:11
  for
• 40:11
  everybody.
• 40:12
  They
• 40:13
  just
• 40:13
  got
• 40:13
  it
• 40:14
  right.
• 40:15
  Yeah.
• 40:15
  You
• 40:15
  know,
• 40:16
  the
• 40:16
  kids
• 40:16
  have
• 40:16
  their
• 40:16
  bedrooms,
• 40:17
  so
• 40:17
  they've
• 40:18
  got
• 40:18
  their
• 40:18
  zone.
• 40:19
  I
• 40:19
  don't
• 40:19
  have
• 40:19
  any
• 40:19
  other
• 40:20
  place
• 40:20
  that
• 40:21
  I
• 40:21
  can
• 40:21
  go
• 40:21
  and
• 40:21
  be
• 40:21
  alone.
• 40:22
  So
• 40:22
  it's
• 40:23
  kind
• 40:23
  of
• 40:23
  like,
• 40:23
  this
• 40:23
  is
• 40:24
  it
• 40:24
  and
• 40:24
  you're
• 40:25
  in
• 40:25
  it
• 40:26
  causing
• 40:26
  problems.
• 40:27
  Right.
• 40:27
  Especially
• 40:27
  since
• 40:28
  I
• 40:28
  shoot
• 40:29
  in
• 40:29
  the
• 40:29
  kitchen
• 40:29
  all
• 40:29
  the
• 40:30
  time.
• 40:30
  It
• 40:30
  literally
• 40:30
  is
• 40:31
  my
• 40:31
  office.
• 40:31
  And
• 40:31
  so
• 40:32
  can
• 40:32
  you
• 40:32
  imagine?
• 40:33
  They
• 40:33
  come
• 40:33
  down,
• 40:33
  they're
• 40:34
  like,
• 40:34
  oh,
• 40:34
  time
• 40:34
  for
• 40:34
  a
• 40:34
  sandwich.
• 40:35
  I'm
• 40:35
  like,
• 40:35
  I
• 40:35
  am
• 40:35
  so
• 40:36
  sorry.
• 40:37
  I
• 40:38
  have
• 40:39
  butter
• 40:39
  swim
• 40:39
  biscuits
• 40:40
  in
• 40:40
  the
• 40:40
  oven
• 40:40
  and
• 40:41
  the
• 40:41
  timer's
• 40:41
  going
• 40:41
  off
• 40:42
  in
• 40:42
  two
• 40:42
  minutes.
• 40:43
  So
• 40:43
  if
• 40:43
  you
• 40:43
  want
• 40:43
  to
• 40:43
  be
• 40:43
  in
• 40:43
  the
• 40:44
  background
• 40:44
  in
• 40:44
  your
• 40:44
  boxers.
• 40:45
  Kid
• 40:45
  3
• 40:46
  Then
• 40:46
  welcome.
• 40:47
  That
• 40:47
  might
• 40:48
  help
• 40:48
  the
• 40:48
  views,
• 40:49
  but
• 40:49
  I
• 40:49
  go
• 40:50
  again,
• 40:50
  this
• 40:51
  is
• 40:51
  my
• 40:51
  office.
• 40:51
  You
• 40:51
  guys
• 40:52
  need
• 40:52
  to
• 40:52
  kind
• 40:52
  of
• 40:52
  respect
• 40:52
  that.
• 40:53
  So
• 40:53
  I
• 40:53
  say
• 40:53
  pick
• 40:53
  a
• 40:54
  spot
• 40:54
  where
• 40:55
  you
• 40:55
  can
• 40:55
  call
• 40:55
  that
• 40:56
  your
• 40:56
  space.
• 40:56
  And
• 40:57
  once
• 40:57
  you
• 40:57
  kind
• 40:57
  of
• 40:57
  set
• 40:57
  the
• 40:58
  tone
• 40:58
  and
• 40:58
  call
• 40:58
  it
• 40:58
  whatever
• 40:58
  you
• 40:58
  want,
• 40:59
  doesn't
• 40:59
  have
• 40:59
  to
• 40:59
  be
• 40:59
  office,
• 40:59
  you
• 41:00
  can
• 41:00
  call
• 41:00
  it
• 41:00
  whatever
• 41:00
  you
• 41:00
  want,
• 41:01
  they'll
• 41:01
  see
• 41:02
  it
• 41:02
  differently.
• 41:02
  They'll
• 41:03
  see
• 41:03
  it
• 41:03
  as
• 41:03
  your
• 41:03
  space.
• 41:03
  And
• 41:04
  I
• 41:04
  think
• 41:04
  it's
• 41:04
  kind
• 41:04
  of
• 41:04
  important
• 41:04
  to
• 41:05
  give
• 41:05
  everybody
• 41:06
  and
• 41:06
  the
• 41:06
  house
• 41:06
  their
• 41:07
  space.
• 41:07
  I
• 41:07
  think
• 41:07
  it's
• 41:07
  important.
• 41:08
  So
• 41:08
  when
• 41:09
  my
• 41:09
  mother
• 41:09
  comes
• 41:09
  or
• 41:10
  my
• 41:10
  father
• 41:10
  in
• 41:10
  law
• 41:10
  comes,
• 41:12
  for
• 41:12
  them
• 41:12
  to
• 41:12
  have
• 41:12
  their
• 41:12
  own
• 41:13
  space,
• 41:13
  to
• 41:14
  know
• 41:14
  that
• 41:14
  they
• 41:14
  can
• 41:14
  keep
• 41:14
  their
• 41:15
  stuff.
• 41:16
  Like
• 41:17
  Pops,
• 41:17
  we
• 41:18
  joke.
• 41:18
  Pops
• 41:18
  on
• 41:18
  the
• 41:18
  perch
• 41:19
  in
• 41:19
  the
• 41:19
  kitchen
• 41:19
  at
• 41:19
  the
• 41:19
  island.
• 41:21
  He's
• 41:21
  got
• 41:21
  his
• 41:21
  space.
• 41:22
  I'm
• 41:22
  like,
• 41:22
  okay,
• 41:22
  pops,
• 41:23
  your
• 41:23
  stuff
• 41:23
  is
• 41:23
  here.
• 41:24
  You
• 41:25
  know,
• 41:25
  I
• 41:25
  still,
• 41:25
  I've
• 41:26
  got
• 41:26
  kids
• 41:26
  and
• 41:26
  dogs.
• 41:27
  It's
• 41:27
  like,
• 41:28
  welcome,
• 41:28
  this
• 41:29
  is
• 41:29
  your
• 41:29
  spot.
• 41:29
  When
• 41:30
  people
• 41:30
  are
• 41:30
  given
• 41:30
  spots,
• 41:31
  the
• 41:31
  kids
• 41:31
  have
• 41:31
  cubbies,
• 41:32
  right?
• 41:33
  I
• 41:34
  don't
• 41:34
  have
• 41:34
  a
• 41:34
  cubby
• 41:34
  because
• 41:34
  we
• 41:34
  don't
• 41:35
  have
• 41:35
  enough
• 41:35
  cubbies.
• 41:35
  But
• 41:35
  it
• 41:36
  was
• 41:36
  more
• 41:36
  important
• 41:36
  for
• 41:36
  them
• 41:37
  to
• 41:37
  have
• 41:37
  that,
• 41:38
  right.
• 41:38
  I
• 41:38
  think
• 41:38
  when
• 41:38
  people
• 41:39
  have
• 41:39
  a
• 41:39
  space
• 41:39
  and
• 41:39
  they
• 41:40
  know
• 41:40
  they
• 41:40
  have
• 41:40
  a
• 41:40
  space
• 41:40
  and
• 41:41
  it
• 41:41
  doesn't
• 41:41
  have
• 41:41
  to
• 41:41
  be
• 41:41
  a
• 41:41
  whole
• 41:42
  room,
• 41:43
  they
• 41:43
  feel
• 41:44
  more
• 41:44
  settled
• 41:44
  and
• 41:44
  welcome.
• 41:45
  Like,
• 41:45
  I
• 41:45
  can
• 41:46
  leave
• 41:46
  my
• 41:46
  things
• 41:46
  here.
• 41:48
  That's
• 41:48
  a
• 41:48
  great
• 41:49
  point.
• 41:49
  That's
• 41:49
  a
• 41:50
  odd
• 41:51
  Little
• 41:51
  tip.
• 41:51
  But
• 41:52
  I
• 41:52
  do
• 41:52
  feel
• 41:52
  like
• 41:53
  if
• 41:53
  you
• 41:53
  can
• 41:53
  let
• 41:53
  people
• 41:54
  know
• 41:54
  this
• 41:54
  is
• 41:54
  all
• 41:54
  theirs.
• 41:55
  Do
• 41:56
  what
• 41:56
  you
• 41:56
  want
• 41:56
  with
• 41:57
  this.
• 41:57
  They
• 41:58
  feel
• 41:58
  better
• 41:58
  and
• 41:58
  they're
• 41:59
  comfortable.
• 41:59
  They're
• 41:59
  comfortable.
• 42:00
  And
• 42:00
  they
• 42:00
  don't
• 42:00
  feel
• 42:00
  like.
• 42:01
  They're,
• 42:01
  like,
• 42:01
  you
• 42:01
  know,
• 42:01
  constantly,
• 42:02
  how
• 42:02
  do
• 42:02
  you
• 42:02
  do
• 42:02
  this?
• 42:02
  How
• 42:02
  did
• 42:03
  you
• 42:03
  do
• 42:03
  that?
• 42:03
  How
• 42:03
  did
• 42:03
  you
• 42:03
  want
• 42:04
  this?
• 42:04
  How
• 42:04
  did
• 42:04
  you.
• 42:04
  It's
• 42:05
  like,
• 42:05
  doesn't
• 42:05
  matter,
• 42:05
  Pops.
• 42:06
  Just
• 42:06
  leave
• 42:06
  your
• 42:06
  stuff
• 42:06
  here.
• 42:07
  Right,
• 42:07
  right.
• 42:08
  That's
• 42:08
  a
• 42:08
  good
• 42:08
  point,
• 42:08
  too.
• 42:08
  Yeah,
• 42:09
  you're
• 42:09
  right.
• 42:09
  Because
• 42:09
  when
• 42:09
  people
• 42:09
  come
• 42:10
  over,
• 42:10
  they're
• 42:10
  like,
• 42:10
  should
• 42:11
  I
• 42:11
  do
• 42:11
  this
• 42:11
  or
• 42:11
  should
• 42:11
  I
• 42:12
  do?
• 42:12
  And
• 42:12
  it's
• 42:12
  like
• 42:12
  you're
• 42:13
  half
• 42:13
  the
• 42:13
  time
• 42:13
  answering
• 42:14
  questions.
• 42:14
  Well,
• 42:14
  the
• 42:14
  minute
• 42:15
  someone
• 42:15
  walks
• 42:16
  in
• 42:16
  your
• 42:16
  door,
• 42:16
  right.
• 42:17
  Shoes
• 42:17
  on
• 42:17
  or
• 42:17
  off?
• 42:18
  Where
• 42:18
  do
• 42:18
  I
• 42:19
  leave
• 42:19
  my
• 42:19
  purse?
• 42:19
  Do
• 42:19
  you
• 42:20
  have
• 42:20
  a
• 42:20
  coaster?
• 42:20
  Do
• 42:20
  you
• 42:20
  use
• 42:21
  coasters?
• 42:21
  Are
• 42:21
  they
• 42:22
  still
• 42:22
  a
• 42:22
  thing?
• 42:22
  Like,
• 42:23
  it's
• 42:23
  like,
• 42:23
  right.
• 42:23
  You've
• 42:23
  got
• 42:24
  all
• 42:24
  these
• 42:24
  iterations
• 42:25
  of
• 42:26
  what
• 42:26
  you're
• 42:28
  trying
• 42:28
  to
• 42:28
  be
• 42:28
  to
• 42:28
  them
• 42:29
  because
• 42:29
  you're
• 42:29
  trying
• 42:29
  to
• 42:29
  be
• 42:29
  a
• 42:29
  good
• 42:30
  guest.
• 42:30
  And
• 42:30
  it
• 42:30
  just
• 42:30
  isn't
• 42:31
  super
• 42:31
  comfortable
• 42:31
  if
• 42:32
  you're
• 42:32
  staying
• 42:32
  for
• 42:32
  many
• 42:32
  days
• 42:33
  or
• 42:33
  you
• 42:33
  live
• 42:33
  there.
• 42:34
  Right.
• 42:34
  So
• 42:35
  it
• 42:35
  may
• 42:35
  be
• 42:35
  your
• 42:35
  house,
• 42:36
  but
• 42:36
  they're
• 42:36
  your
• 42:36
  family.
• 42:37
  They're
• 42:37
  your
• 42:37
  family.
• 42:37
  Right.
• 42:38
  It's
• 42:38
  like
• 42:38
  the
• 42:38
  dogs.
• 42:39
  Yes,
• 42:39
  yes,
• 42:39
  I
• 42:40
  know
• 42:40
  the
• 42:40
  dog.
• 42:40
  That's
• 42:41
  the
• 42:41
  thing.
• 42:41
  How
• 42:41
  do
• 42:41
  you
• 42:41
  keep
• 42:41
  organized
• 42:42
  with
• 42:42
  dogs?
• 42:42
  Because
• 42:43
  we
• 42:43
  have
• 42:43
  two
• 42:44
  and,
• 42:44
  you
• 42:44
  know,
• 42:45
  they
• 42:45
  kind
• 42:45
  of
• 42:45
  have.
• 42:45
  Right.
• 42:46
  And
• 42:46
  they
• 42:46
  kind
• 42:46
  of
• 42:46
  have
• 42:47
  free
• 42:47
  rein
• 42:47
  a
• 42:48
  bit.
• 42:48
  You
• 42:48
  know,
• 42:48
  they
• 42:49
  do
• 42:49
  what
• 42:49
  they
• 42:49
  do.
• 42:49
  So
• 42:50
  what
• 42:50
  about
• 42:50
  for
• 42:50
  pet.
• 42:51
  For
• 42:51
  pet
• 42:51
  owners
• 42:52
  and
• 42:52
  pet
• 42:52
  parents?
• 42:52
  Well,
• 42:53
  I
• 42:53
  mean,
• 42:53
  that's
• 42:53
  a
• 42:53
  good
• 42:53
  one.
• 42:55
  Their
• 42:55
  toys
• 42:55
  are
• 42:55
  everywhere.
• 42:56
  I'm
• 42:56
  not
• 42:56
  gonna
• 42:56
  lie
• 42:56
  to
• 42:56
  you.
• 42:57
  And
• 42:57
  as
• 42:57
  much
• 42:57
  as
• 42:57
  I
• 42:58
  wanna
• 42:58
  pick
• 42:58
  them
• 42:58
  up,
• 42:58
  I've
• 42:58
  got
• 42:58
  one
• 42:59
  that
• 42:59
  works
• 42:59
  all
• 42:59
  day.
• 42:59
  Tiger
• 43:00
  works
• 43:00
  all
• 43:01
  day.
• 43:01
  He's
• 43:01
  working
• 43:02
  all
• 43:02
  day.
• 43:02
  Tippy
• 43:02
  lounges.
• 43:04
  And
• 43:04
  so
• 43:04
  she
• 43:05
  doesn't
• 43:05
  really
• 43:05
  have
• 43:05
  a
• 43:05
  job.
• 43:06
  Tiger
• 43:07
  has
• 43:07
  a
• 43:07
  job.
• 43:07
  And
• 43:08
  Tiger
• 43:08
  does
• 43:09
  believe
• 43:10
  his
• 43:10
  job
• 43:11
  is
• 43:11
  moving
• 43:11
  the
• 43:11
  toys
• 43:12
  around
• 43:13
  the
• 43:13
  kitchen,
• 43:13
  the
• 43:14
  family
• 43:14
  room,
• 43:14
  everywhere.
• 43:15
  It's
• 43:15
  really
• 43:16
  funny.
• 43:16
  We
• 43:16
  joke.
• 43:17
  Tiger's
• 43:17
  going
• 43:17
  to
• 43:17
  work.
• 43:18
  And
• 43:18
  by
• 43:18
  the
• 43:18
  way,
• 43:18
  he
• 43:19
  is
• 43:19
  smaller
• 43:19
  than
• 43:19
  her.
• 43:19
  And
• 43:20
  they
• 43:20
  eat
• 43:20
  the
• 43:20
  same
• 43:21
  amount
• 43:21
  and
• 43:21
  they're
• 43:21
  the
• 43:21
  same
• 43:21
  size,
• 43:22
  but
• 43:22
  he's
• 43:22
  thinner.
• 43:23
  He's
• 43:23
  thinner
• 43:23
  because
• 43:23
  he's
• 43:24
  always
• 43:24
  working.
• 43:25
  He's
• 43:25
  like,
• 43:25
  on
• 43:25
  it,
• 43:26
  always
• 43:26
  the
• 43:26
  time.
• 43:27
  Yeah,
• 43:27
  it's
• 43:27
  really
• 43:27
  funny.
• 43:28
  And
• 43:29
  so
• 43:29
  I
• 43:29
  will
• 43:29
  pick
• 43:29
  it
• 43:30
  up.
• 43:30
  And
• 43:30
  he's
• 43:30
  got,
• 43:30
  you
• 43:30
  know,
• 43:31
  he's
• 43:31
  got
• 43:31
  the
• 43:31
  cuddle
• 43:31
  cups.
• 43:32
  So
• 43:32
  we
• 43:32
  do
• 43:32
  our
• 43:33
  best
• 43:33
  there.
• 43:33
  And
• 43:33
  then
• 43:33
  you
• 43:33
  stick
• 43:34
  them
• 43:34
  all
• 43:34
  in
• 43:34
  the
• 43:34
  cuddle
• 43:34
  cups.
• 43:35
  The
• 43:35
  dogs
• 43:35
  are
• 43:35
  like,
• 43:35
  I
• 43:36
  don't
• 43:36
  know
• 43:36
  why,
• 43:36
  but
• 43:36
  our
• 43:37
  pets
• 43:37
  just
• 43:37
  get
• 43:37
  a
• 43:37
  hall
• 43:37
  pass.
• 43:38
  Yes,
• 43:38
  they
• 43:38
  just
• 43:39
  get
• 43:39
  a
• 43:39
  hall
• 43:39
  pass.
• 43:39
  The
• 43:40
  best
• 43:40
  you
• 43:40
  can
• 43:40
  do.
• 43:40
  Is
• 43:40
  a
• 43:40
  bend
• 43:41
  for
• 43:41
  them
• 43:41
  the
• 43:42
  best
• 43:42
  you
• 43:42
  can
• 43:42
  do?
• 43:42
  Right.
• 43:43
  There's
• 43:44
  nothing.
• 43:44
  I
• 43:44
  mean,
• 43:44
  there's
• 43:44
  nothing
• 43:45
  you
• 43:45
  can
• 43:45
  do
• 43:45
  there.
• 43:45
  They
• 43:45
  just
• 43:45
  bring
• 43:46
  so
• 43:46
  much
• 43:46
  joy.
• 43:46
  They
• 43:47
  do.
• 43:47
  They
• 43:47
  do.
• 43:47
  You're
• 43:48
  right.
• 43:48
  They
• 43:48
  get
• 43:48
  a
• 43:48
  hall
• 43:48
  pass.
• 43:48
  They
• 43:49
  get
• 43:49
  a
• 43:49
  whole
• 43:49
  pass.
• 43:50
  The
• 43:50
  dogs
• 43:50
  are
• 43:50
  different.
• 43:51
  Right.
• 43:51
  Because
• 43:51
  they're
• 43:52
  there
• 43:52
  for
• 43:52
  you
• 43:52
  when
• 43:52
  you
• 43:52
  need
• 43:53
  them.
• 43:53
  You
• 43:53
  know,
• 43:54
  they'll
• 43:54
  let
• 43:54
  you
• 43:54
  hold
• 43:54
  them.
• 43:55
  They'll
• 43:55
  come
• 43:55
  up
• 43:56
  to
• 43:56
  you.
• 43:57
  They're
• 43:57
  not
• 43:57
  treating
• 43:57
  you
• 43:57
  like
• 43:57
  everyone
• 43:58
  else
• 43:58
  in
• 43:58
  the
• 43:58
  house.
• 43:58
  Right,
• 43:59
  Right,
• 43:59
  exactly.
• 43:59
  All
• 44:00
  different.
• 44:01
  They
• 44:01
  can
• 44:01
  talk
• 44:02
  back
• 44:02
  all
• 44:02
  they
• 44:02
  want.
• 44:02
  They
• 44:02
  get
• 44:03
  to
• 44:03
  know
• 44:03
  what
• 44:03
  they
• 44:03
  want.
• 44:03
  Right.
• 44:04
  And
• 44:04
  they're
• 44:04
  such
• 44:04
  great
• 44:05
  little
• 44:05
  vacuums.
• 44:05
  Yes,
• 44:06
  they
• 44:06
  are.
• 44:07
  I
• 44:07
  mean,
• 44:07
  drop
• 44:07
  a
• 44:08
  piece
• 44:08
  of
• 44:08
  food,
• 44:08
  they're
• 44:09
  gone
• 44:09
  in
• 44:09
  half
• 44:09
  a
• 44:09
  second.
• 44:10
  You
• 44:10
  know,
• 44:10
  it's
• 44:10
  like
• 44:10
  they're
• 44:10
  so
• 44:11
  handy.
• 44:11
  Yes,
• 44:11
  they're
• 44:12
  so
• 44:12
  handy.
• 44:12
  They're
• 44:12
  the
• 44:13
  best.
• 44:13
  They're
• 44:13
  the
• 44:13
  best.
• 44:15
  So
• 44:15
  also,
• 44:16
  you
• 44:16
  know,
• 44:17
  like,
• 44:17
  for
• 44:17
  a
• 44:17
  woman
• 44:17
  who's
• 44:18
  trying
• 44:19
  to
• 44:19
  get
• 44:19
  her
• 44:19
  spark
• 44:19
  back
• 44:20
  in
• 44:20
  the
• 44:20
  house,
• 44:21
  you
• 44:21
  know,
• 44:21
  especially
• 44:21
  at
• 44:21
  this
• 44:22
  time,
• 44:22
  what.
• 44:23
  What
• 44:23
  is
• 44:23
  like
• 44:23
  a
• 44:24
  playful,
• 44:24
  fun
• 44:25
  tip
• 44:25
  that
• 44:25
  you
• 44:25
  can
• 44:25
  recommend?
• 44:26
  Like,
• 44:27
  she
• 44:27
  wants
• 44:27
  to
• 44:27
  kind
• 44:27
  of
• 44:28
  get,
• 44:28
  like,
• 44:28
  maybe
• 44:28
  settle
• 44:29
  her
• 44:29
  identity
• 44:30
  and.
• 44:30
  And
• 44:30
  really
• 44:30
  kind
• 44:31
  of,
• 44:31
  like,
• 44:31
  you
• 44:31
  know,
• 44:32
  change
• 44:32
  things
• 44:32
  up
• 44:32
  and.
• 44:33
  And.
• 44:33
  And
• 44:33
  kind
• 44:33
  of
• 44:34
  just
• 44:34
  put
• 44:35
  a
• 44:35
  stamp
• 44:35
  on
• 44:35
  her
• 44:35
  own
• 44:36
  house.
• 44:36
  Like,
• 44:36
  what
• 44:36
  is
• 44:37
  like
• 44:37
  a
• 44:37
  playful
• 44:37
  way
• 44:37
  that
• 44:37
  she
• 44:38
  can
• 44:38
  kind
• 44:38
  of
• 44:38
  figure
• 44:39
  out
• 44:39
  what
• 44:39
  that
• 44:39
  is
• 44:39
  if
• 44:39
  she
• 44:40
  doesn't
• 44:40
  know
• 44:40
  what
• 44:40
  it
• 44:40
  is.
• 44:41
  Are
• 44:42
  you
• 44:42
  talking
• 44:42
  from
• 44:42
  an
• 44:43
  aesthetic
• 44:43
  or
• 44:43
  from
• 44:43
  a
• 44:44
  personal.
• 44:44
  Like,
• 44:45
  from
• 44:45
  an
• 44:45
  aesthetic.
• 44:47
  Paint
• 44:47
  your
• 44:47
  front
• 44:47
  door
• 44:47
  a
• 44:48
  color.
• 44:50
  Okay.
• 44:50
  That's
• 44:51
  what
• 44:51
  I
• 44:51
  would
• 44:51
  do.
• 44:51
  Okay.
• 44:52
  Like,
• 44:52
  let
• 44:52
  people
• 44:52
  know,
• 44:53
  like,
• 44:53
  okay,
• 44:53
  I'm
• 44:54
  here.
• 44:54
  Yeah.
• 44:55
  I
• 44:55
  love
• 44:56
  painted
• 44:56
  front
• 44:56
  doors.
• 44:57
  Do
• 44:57
  you.
• 44:57
  Do
• 44:58
  you
• 44:58
  have
• 44:58
  a
• 44:58
  painted
• 44:58
  front
• 44:58
  door
• 44:58
  right
• 44:59
  now?
• 44:59
  It's
• 44:59
  black.
• 44:59
  Okay.
• 45:00
  Yeah,
• 45:00
  it's
• 45:00
  black.
• 45:01
  Love
• 45:01
  that.
• 45:02
  But
• 45:02
  I
• 45:02
  mean,
• 45:02
  it's.
• 45:02
  I've
• 45:03
  had
• 45:03
  red
• 45:04
  over
• 45:04
  the
• 45:04
  years.
• 45:05
  I've
• 45:05
  had
• 45:05
  gray
• 45:07
  painting
• 45:07
  your
• 45:07
  front
• 45:07
  door
• 45:08
  a
• 45:08
  color.
• 45:08
  I
• 45:08
  think
• 45:08
  red
• 45:09
  was
• 45:09
  my
• 45:09
  favorite.
• 45:11
  Our
• 45:11
  neighbors
• 45:11
  wouldn't
• 45:11
  be
• 45:11
  happy
• 45:12
  now
• 45:12
  if
• 45:12
  we
• 45:12
  did
• 45:12
  that.
• 45:13
  But
• 45:13
  our
• 45:13
  house
• 45:14
  before,
• 45:14
  we
• 45:14
  were
• 45:14
  able
• 45:14
  to
• 45:15
  paint
• 45:15
  the
• 45:15
  front
• 45:15
  door
• 45:15
  without
• 45:15
  neighbors
• 45:16
  weighing
• 45:16
  in,
• 45:16
  which
• 45:16
  is
• 45:17
  wild.
• 45:17
  Right?
• 45:18
  Which
• 45:18
  is
• 45:18
  wild.
• 45:18
  I
• 45:19
  can't
• 45:19
  believe
• 45:19
  neighbors
• 45:19
  get
• 45:19
  a
• 45:20
  say
• 45:20
  and
• 45:21
  things
• 45:21
  like
• 45:21
  that.
• 45:21
  It's
• 45:21
  like,
• 45:22
  it's
• 45:22
  your
• 45:22
  house,
• 45:23
  but
• 45:23
  we
• 45:23
  live
• 45:23
  in
• 45:23
  la,
• 45:23
  sister,
• 45:24
  so,
• 45:24
  you
• 45:24
  know,
• 45:24
  people
• 45:25
  get
• 45:25
  to
• 45:25
  chime
• 45:25
  in
• 45:25
  a
• 45:25
  lot
• 45:26
  on
• 45:26
  things.
• 45:26
  I
• 45:27
  say
• 45:27
  paint
• 45:27
  that
• 45:27
  front
• 45:28
  door.
• 45:29
  That's
• 45:29
  a
• 45:29
  great
• 45:29
  statement.
• 45:30
  Isn't
• 45:30
  that
• 45:30
  crazy?
• 45:30
  Because
• 45:31
  it's
• 45:31
  kind
• 45:31
  of
• 45:31
  like
• 45:32
  you're
• 45:32
  making
• 45:32
  your
• 45:33
  statement
• 45:33
  on
• 45:34
  your
• 45:34
  house
• 45:34
  from
• 45:34
  the
• 45:34
  very
• 45:35
  beginning.
• 45:35
  Like
• 45:36
  a
• 45:36
  red
• 45:36
  front
• 45:36
  door.
• 45:37
  Pink.
• 45:37
  I've
• 45:37
  seen
• 45:38
  the
• 45:38
  most
• 45:39
  darling
• 45:40
  pink
• 45:40
  front
• 45:40
  doors.
• 45:41
  But
• 45:41
  whatever
• 45:42
  you
• 45:42
  want,
• 45:42
  whatever
• 45:42
  you're,
• 45:43
  you
• 45:43
  know,
• 45:43
  if
• 45:43
  you're
• 45:43
  if
• 45:44
  your
• 45:45
  partner,
• 45:46
  spouse
• 45:46
  is
• 45:46
  okay
• 45:47
  with
• 45:47
  it.
• 45:47
  Scooter
• 45:48
  doesn't
• 45:48
  care.
• 45:48
  I
• 45:49
  could
• 45:49
  paint
• 45:49
  our
• 45:49
  entire
• 45:50
  house
• 45:50
  inside,
• 45:50
  outside,
• 45:51
  pink.
• 45:51
  He
• 45:51
  wouldn't
• 45:51
  know
• 45:52
  till
• 45:52
  the
• 45:52
  bill
• 45:52
  came.
• 45:53
  He
• 45:53
  does
• 45:53
  not
• 45:54
  care.
• 45:54
  He's.
• 45:55
  I'm
• 45:55
  very,
• 45:55
  very
• 45:56
  lucky.
• 45:57
  He
• 45:57
  just
• 45:57
  cares
• 45:57
  about
• 45:57
  the
• 45:58
  bottom
• 45:58
  line.
• 45:58
  He
• 45:58
  just
• 45:59
  cares
• 45:59
  about
• 45:59
  the
• 45:59
  bottom
• 45:59
  line.
• 46:00
  So
• 46:00
  I
• 46:01
  would
• 46:01
  say
• 46:01
  that's.
• 46:01
  That's
• 46:02
  a.
• 46:02
  That's
• 46:02
  a
• 46:02
  good
• 46:03
  one.
• 46:03
  And
• 46:03
  if
• 46:03
  you
• 46:03
  can.
• 46:04
  Light
• 46:05
  fixtures
• 46:05
  are
• 46:05
  underestimated.
• 46:06
  Get
• 46:07
  online.
• 46:07
  Look
• 46:08
  at
• 46:08
  Home
• 46:08
  Depot.
• 46:08
  The
• 46:09
  light.
• 46:09
  I
• 46:09
  mean,
• 46:09
  these
• 46:09
  do
• 46:10
  not
• 46:10
  have
• 46:10
  to
• 46:10
  be
• 46:10
  expensive.
• 46:11
  There's
• 46:11
  some
• 46:11
  amazing
• 46:12
  lighting
• 46:12
  fixtures.
• 46:13
  If
• 46:13
  you
• 46:13
  want
• 46:13
  to
• 46:13
  update
• 46:14
  your
• 46:14
  space,
• 46:14
  change
• 46:15
  out
• 46:15
  your
• 46:15
  lighting
• 46:15
  fixtures.
• 46:16
  That's
• 46:17
  a
• 46:17
  good
• 46:17
  point.
• 46:17
  Yeah.
• 46:18
  Because
• 46:18
  that
• 46:18
  easy
• 46:19
  is
• 46:19
  an
• 46:19
  easy,
• 46:20
  quick
• 46:20
  fix.
• 46:21
  Get
• 46:21
  an
• 46:21
  electrician
• 46:22
  over
• 46:22
  there,
• 46:23
  you
• 46:23
  know,
• 46:23
  get
• 46:23
  on
• 46:23
  TaskRabbit
• 46:24
  or
• 46:24
  whatever.
• 46:25
  Get
• 46:25
  someone
• 46:25
  come
• 46:25
  over
• 46:25
  license.
• 46:26
  Change
• 46:26
  out
• 46:26
  those
• 46:27
  light
• 46:27
  fixtures.
• 46:27
  I
• 46:28
  found
• 46:28
  the
• 46:28
  cutest
• 46:29
  light
• 46:29
  fixtures
• 46:30
  at
• 46:30
  Ikea.
• 46:31
  I
• 46:31
  know,
• 46:32
  I
• 46:32
  know.
• 46:32
  People
• 46:32
  walk
• 46:33
  in
• 46:33
  and
• 46:33
  go,
• 46:33
  where's
• 46:33
  that
• 46:33
  from?
• 46:34
  Right?
• 46:34
  It
• 46:34
  looks
• 46:35
  so
• 46:35
  nice.
• 46:36
  You
• 46:36
  know
• 46:36
  what
• 46:36
  I
• 46:36
  mean?
• 46:37
  But
• 46:37
  you're
• 46:37
  like,
• 46:38
  it
• 46:38
  should
• 46:38
  be
• 46:38
  like,
• 46:38
  it's
• 46:39
  from
• 46:39
  Ikea
• 46:39
  girl.
• 46:40
  And
• 46:40
  they're
• 46:40
  like,
• 46:40
  what?
• 46:41
  Yeah,
• 46:41
  yeah.
• 46:42
  So
• 46:42
  light
• 46:42
  fixtures
• 46:42
  are
• 46:43
  huge.
• 46:43
  Paint
• 46:43
  your
• 46:43
  front
• 46:43
  door,
• 46:44
  stick
• 46:44
  a
• 46:44
  fun
• 46:44
  little
• 46:45
  light
• 46:45
  fixture
• 46:45
  over
• 46:46
  your
• 46:46
  kitchen
• 46:46
  table
• 46:47
  or
• 46:47
  in
• 46:47
  your,
• 46:47
  you
• 46:48
  know,
• 46:48
  entryway,
• 46:48
  and.
• 46:49
  You'Re
• 46:49
  not
• 46:49
  breaking
• 46:49
  the
• 46:49
  bank
• 46:50
  on
• 46:50
  that,
• 46:50
  which
• 46:50
  is
• 46:50
  nice.
• 46:51
  These
• 46:51
  are
• 46:51
  nothing.
• 46:51
  Nothing
• 46:52
  I
• 46:52
  do
• 46:52
  breaks
• 46:52
  the
• 46:52
  bank.
• 46:52
  Okay.
• 46:53
  The
• 46:53
  scooter
• 46:53
  wouldn't
• 46:53
  be
• 46:54
  married
• 46:54
  to
• 46:54
  me
• 46:54
  if
• 46:54
  it
• 46:54
  did.
• 46:55
  Yeah,
• 46:55
  he's
• 46:55
  alligator
• 46:56
  arms.
• 46:56
  Think
• 46:57
  about
• 46:57
  that.
• 46:57
  He's
• 46:57
  like,
• 46:58
  I
• 46:58
  can't
• 46:58
  reach
• 46:59
  my
• 46:59
  pocket
• 47:00
  to
• 47:00
  get
• 47:00
  to
• 47:00
  the
• 47:00
  checkbook.
• 47:01
  You
• 47:02
  know?
• 47:02
  And
• 47:03
  so
• 47:03
  we
• 47:03
  call
• 47:03
  them
• 47:03
  T
• 47:03
  Rex
• 47:04
  arms.
• 47:04
  Oh,
• 47:04
  my
• 47:05
  God.
• 47:05
  And
• 47:05
  so.
• 47:05
  Yeah,
• 47:06
  but.
• 47:06
  But
• 47:06
  it's
• 47:06
  great
• 47:07
  because
• 47:07
  I
• 47:07
  think
• 47:07
  we're
• 47:07
  a
• 47:07
  good
• 47:07
  match
• 47:08
  in
• 47:08
  that
• 47:08
  sense
• 47:08
  because
• 47:08
  I'm.
• 47:09
  I'm
• 47:09
  very
• 47:09
  budget.
• 47:10
  Yeah.
• 47:11
  I
• 47:11
  love
• 47:11
  a
• 47:11
  good
• 47:11
  dupe.
• 47:12
  I
• 47:12
  mean,
• 47:13
  I
• 47:13
  do.
• 47:14
  I
• 47:14
  do.
• 47:14
  I
• 47:14
  love.
• 47:15
  As
• 47:15
  you
• 47:15
  know,
• 47:15
  I
• 47:15
  love
• 47:15
  a
• 47:15
  good
• 47:16
  copycat.
• 47:16
  Yes.
• 47:17
  Big
• 47:17
  fan.
• 47:18
  So
• 47:18
  all
• 47:18
  of
• 47:19
  these
• 47:19
  amazing
• 47:19
  hacks
• 47:20
  and
• 47:20
  dupes,
• 47:20
  you
• 47:20
  know,
• 47:20
  we're
• 47:21
  in
• 47:21
  the
• 47:21
  summer
• 47:21
  travel
• 47:22
  season
• 47:22
  right
• 47:22
  now.
• 47:23
  We're,
• 47:23
  like,
• 47:24
  at
• 47:24
  the
• 47:24
  height
• 47:24
  of
• 47:24
  it.
• 47:24
  So
• 47:25
  what
• 47:25
  are
• 47:25
  three
• 47:26
  great
• 47:26
  travel
• 47:27
  hacks
• 47:27
  you
• 47:27
  have
• 47:27
  for
• 47:28
  people
• 47:28
  that
• 47:28
  are,
• 47:28
  you
• 47:29
  know,
• 47:29
  traveling
• 47:29
  this
• 47:30
  summer?
• 47:30
  I
• 47:30
  would
• 47:31
  say
• 47:32
  ask
• 47:32
  for
• 47:32
  a
• 47:32
  corner
• 47:33
  room.
• 47:34
  That
• 47:34
  is
• 47:34
  the.
• 47:35
  As
• 47:35
  far
• 47:35
  as
• 47:35
  hotels
• 47:36
  go,
• 47:36
  whether
• 47:36
  you're
• 47:36
  driving
• 47:36
  or
• 47:37
  flying,
• 47:37
  do
• 47:37
  you
• 47:37
  want
• 47:37
  a
• 47:37
  corner
• 47:37
  room
• 47:38
  that's.
• 47:38
  Does
• 47:38
  it
• 47:38
  cost
• 47:39
  anything
• 47:39
  to
• 47:39
  do
• 47:39
  that?
• 47:40
  No.
• 47:40
  Okay.
• 47:40
  No
• 47:40
  more.
• 47:40
  To
• 47:41
  get
• 47:41
  a
• 47:41
  corner
• 47:41
  room,
• 47:41
  just
• 47:41
  call
• 47:42
  ahead.
• 47:42
  Call
• 47:42
  ahead
• 47:43
  and
• 47:43
  make
• 47:43
  friends
• 47:43
  with
• 47:43
  that
• 47:43
  friend,
• 47:44
  the
• 47:44
  person
• 47:44
  at
• 47:44
  the
• 47:44
  front
• 47:44
  desk.
• 47:45
  So
• 47:45
  when
• 47:45
  you
• 47:45
  call,
• 47:46
  you
• 47:46
  usually
• 47:46
  go
• 47:46
  to
• 47:47
  a
• 47:47
  reservation
• 47:47
  bank,
• 47:48
  right?
• 47:48
  And
• 47:49
  it
• 47:49
  could
• 47:49
  be
• 47:49
  somebody
• 47:49
  anywhere.
• 47:50
  Get
• 47:50
  to
• 47:51
  that
• 47:51
  hotel,
• 47:51
  look
• 47:52
  up
• 47:52
  that
• 47:52
  hotel's
• 47:52
  number
• 47:53
  directly
• 47:53
  and
• 47:53
  call
• 47:53
  the
• 47:54
  front
• 47:54
  desk
• 47:54
  direct.
• 47:55
  Make
• 47:55
  friends
• 47:55
  with
• 47:55
  someone.
• 47:56
  Email
• 47:56
  the
• 47:56
  concierge
• 47:57
  if
• 47:57
  they've
• 47:57
  got
• 47:58
  one.
• 47:58
  Make
• 47:59
  friends
• 47:59
  with
• 47:59
  somebody
• 48:00
  on
• 48:00
  the
• 48:00
  ground.
• 48:01
  They're
• 48:01
  going
• 48:01
  to
• 48:01
  help
• 48:01
  you.
• 48:02
  They're
• 48:02
  going
• 48:02
  to
• 48:02
  help
• 48:02
  you
• 48:03
  get
• 48:03
  stuff
• 48:03
  for
• 48:03
  free
• 48:03
  and
• 48:04
  you
• 48:04
  don't
• 48:04
  even
• 48:04
  know
• 48:04
  it.
• 48:05
  Yeah.
• 48:05
  And
• 48:06
  then
• 48:06
  give
• 48:06
  them
• 48:06
  a
• 48:06
  little
• 48:06
  tip
• 48:06
  when
• 48:07
  you
• 48:07
  get
• 48:07
  there.
• 48:07
  Right.
• 48:08
  It's
• 48:08
  amazing
• 48:08
  what
• 48:09
  just
• 48:09
  a
• 48:10
  little
• 48:10
  tip
• 48:10
  will
• 48:10
  get
• 48:11
  you.
• 48:11
  I
• 48:11
  think
• 48:11
  that's
• 48:12
  massive.
• 48:12
  When
• 48:12
  you
• 48:13
  are
• 48:13
  traveling
• 48:13
  and
• 48:14
  ask
• 48:14
  for
• 48:14
  a
• 48:14
  corner
• 48:14
  room
• 48:15
  and
• 48:15
  they
• 48:15
  may
• 48:15
  upgrade
• 48:16
  you
• 48:16
  anyway,
• 48:17
  but
• 48:17
  that
• 48:17
  corner
• 48:17
  room
• 48:18
  is
• 48:18
  big
• 48:18
  because
• 48:18
  it's
• 48:18
  going
• 48:18
  to
• 48:18
  give
• 48:19
  you
• 48:19
  more
• 48:19
  space.
• 48:19
  Doesn't
• 48:20
  cost
• 48:20
  them
• 48:20
  any
• 48:20
  more.
• 48:21
  Right.
• 48:22
  So
• 48:22
  I
• 48:22
  just
• 48:23
  think
• 48:23
  that's
• 48:23
  a
• 48:23
  fantastic
• 48:24
  one.
• 48:25
  My
• 48:25
  packing
• 48:25
  hack.
• 48:26
  I'd
• 48:26
  be
• 48:26
  crazy
• 48:26
  if
• 48:27
  I
• 48:27
  didn't
• 48:27
  tell
• 48:27
  you
• 48:27
  about
• 48:27
  that.
• 48:27
  Where
• 48:28
  I
• 48:28
  take
• 48:28
  the
• 48:28
  sweater
• 48:28
  hanger.
• 48:29
  Yeah.
• 48:29
  Big
• 48:30
  fan.
• 48:30
  I
• 48:30
  know.
• 48:31
  Since
• 48:31
  I.
• 48:31
  Since
• 48:32
  that's
• 48:32
  been
• 48:32
  out.
• 48:33
  There's
• 48:33
  a
• 48:33
  lot
• 48:33
  of
• 48:33
  suitcases
• 48:34
  out
• 48:34
  there.
• 48:35
  You
• 48:36
  know
• 48:36
  the
• 48:36
  problem
• 48:36
  with
• 48:36
  those?
• 48:37
  You
• 48:37
  can't.
• 48:37
  They
• 48:38
  are
• 48:38
  stuck
• 48:38
  in
• 48:38
  place
• 48:39
  and
• 48:39
  you
• 48:39
  can't.
• 48:39
  That's
• 48:40
  not
• 48:40
  amenable
• 48:40
  to
• 48:40
  moving
• 48:41
  it
• 48:41
  around.
• 48:41
  You
• 48:41
  know,
• 48:41
  my
• 48:42
  sweater
• 48:42
  hanger
• 48:42
  is
• 48:42
  what,
• 48:42
  $12,
• 48:43
  15
• 48:44
  bucks
• 48:44
  and
• 48:44
  it
• 48:44
  fits
• 48:45
  in
• 48:45
  any
• 48:45
  suitcase
• 48:45
  I
• 48:46
  own.
• 48:46
  It's
• 48:46
  not
• 48:46
  a
• 48:46
  special
• 48:47
  suitcase.
• 48:47
  I
• 48:48
  can
• 48:48
  put
• 48:48
  it
• 48:48
  in
• 48:48
  the
• 48:48
  carry
• 48:48
  on.
• 48:49
  I
• 48:49
  can
• 48:49
  put
• 48:49
  it
• 48:49
  in
• 48:49
  the
• 48:49
  checked
• 48:50
  bag.
• 48:50
  I
• 48:50
  think
• 48:50
  it's
• 48:50
  great.
• 48:51
  Better
• 48:51
  than
• 48:51
  packing
• 48:51
  cubes.
• 48:52
  Very
• 48:53
  easy.
• 48:53
  I
• 48:53
  just
• 48:53
  used
• 48:54
  it
• 48:54
  last
• 48:54
  week
• 48:54
  when
• 48:54
  we
• 48:54
  were
• 48:54
  on
• 48:54
  spring
• 48:55
  break.
• 48:55
  Sweater
• 48:56
  hangers.
• 48:56
  I've
• 48:56
  got
• 48:57
  underwear,
• 48:57
  workout
• 48:58
  gear.
• 48:58
  Da
• 48:58
  da
• 48:58
  da
• 48:59
  da
• 48:59
  ding.
• 48:59
  Put
• 48:59
  it
• 49:00
  in
• 49:00
  the
• 49:00
  suitcase,
• 49:01
  get
• 49:01
  to
• 49:01
  the
• 49:01
  hotel,
• 49:02
  hang
• 49:02
  it
• 49:02
  up.
• 49:02
  That
• 49:02
  gave
• 49:02
  Scooter
• 49:03
  all
• 49:04
  of
• 49:04
  the
• 49:04
  drawers.
• 49:05
  Oh,
• 49:05
  that's
• 49:06
  a
• 49:06
  great
• 49:06
  tip.
• 49:06
  Because
• 49:06
  you
• 49:06
  don't
• 49:07
  need
• 49:07
  the
• 49:07
  drawers
• 49:08
  after
• 49:08
  that.
• 49:08
  Well,
• 49:08
  you
• 49:08
  don't
• 49:09
  have
• 49:09
  those
• 49:09
  drawers.
• 49:09
  And
• 49:09
  you
• 49:10
  know,
• 49:10
  I'm
• 49:10
  a
• 49:10
  germ
• 49:10
  phobe.
• 49:10
  Oh,
• 49:11
  yeah.
• 49:11
  You
• 49:11
  never
• 49:11
  know
• 49:12
  what's
• 49:12
  going
• 49:12
  on
• 49:12
  in
• 49:12
  there.
• 49:12
  I'm
• 49:13
  like,
• 49:13
  you
• 49:13
  know,
• 49:13
  we
• 49:14
  were
• 49:14
  at
• 49:14
  a
• 49:14
  hotel
• 49:14
  once
• 49:15
  and
• 49:15
  I
• 49:15
  opened
• 49:15
  the
• 49:15
  drawers
• 49:16
  and
• 49:16
  there
• 49:17
  were
• 49:17
  dirty
• 49:17
  sheets
• 49:17
  in
• 49:18
  the
• 49:18
  drawers.
• 49:19
  It
• 49:19
  was
• 49:19
  like
• 49:20
  a
• 49:20
  party
• 49:20
  had
• 49:20
  just
• 49:20
  been
• 49:20
  thrown.
• 49:21
  And
• 49:22
  I
• 49:22
  was
• 49:22
  like,
• 49:23
  wow,
• 49:24
  wow.
• 49:24
  Okay,
• 49:25
  where's
• 49:26
  the
• 49:26
  next
• 49:26
  nearest
• 49:26
  dollar
• 49:27
  tree?
• 49:27
  Where
• 49:27
  can
• 49:27
  I
• 49:27
  go
• 49:27
  get
• 49:27
  some
• 49:28
  cleaning
• 49:28
  supplies?
• 49:28
  And
• 49:29
  I'm
• 49:29
  like,
• 49:29
  this
• 49:29
  is
• 49:29
  crazy.
• 49:30
  I'm
• 49:30
  at
• 49:30
  a
• 49:30
  hotel
• 49:30
  and
• 49:31
  I'm
• 49:31
  about
• 49:31
  to
• 49:31
  clean
• 49:31
  a
• 49:31
  hotel
• 49:32
  and
• 49:32
  we've
• 49:32
  all
• 49:33
  seen
• 49:33
  the
• 49:33
  gals
• 49:33
  cleaning
• 49:34
  the
• 49:34
  rooms.
• 49:34
  Right
• 49:35
  on.
• 49:35
  When
• 49:35
  they
• 49:35
  get
• 49:36
  there,
• 49:36
  it's
• 49:36
  like,
• 49:37
  I
• 49:37
  get
• 49:37
  it,
• 49:37
  I
• 49:37
  get
• 49:38
  it.
• 49:38
  So
• 49:38
  it's
• 49:38
  like,
• 49:38
  keep
• 49:38
  your
• 49:38
  stuff
• 49:39
  nice
• 49:39
  and
• 49:39
  neat
• 49:40
  and
• 49:40
  germ
• 49:40
  free.
• 49:40
  Keep
• 49:41
  it
• 49:41
  in
• 49:41
  your
• 49:41
  Own
• 49:41
  little
• 49:41
  device.
• 49:42
  So
• 49:42
  I
• 49:42
  would
• 49:42
  say
• 49:42
  that's
• 49:42
  another
• 49:43
  great
• 49:43
  little
• 49:43
  tip.
• 49:44
  And
• 49:44
  I
• 49:45
  think
• 49:46
  when
• 49:46
  you
• 49:47
  are
• 49:48
  at
• 49:48
  the
• 49:48
  airport,
• 49:49
  I'm
• 49:50
  a
• 49:50
  big
• 49:50
  fan
• 49:50
  of
• 49:50
  getting
• 49:50
  there
• 49:51
  a
• 49:51
  little
• 49:51
  early.
• 49:52
  I
• 49:53
  know
• 49:53
  people
• 49:54
  aren't
• 49:54
  like,
• 49:55
  how
• 49:55
  much.
• 49:56
  That's
• 49:56
  not
• 49:56
  really
• 49:57
  a
• 49:57
  great
• 49:57
  hack.
• 49:58
  But
• 49:58
  I
• 49:58
  think
• 49:58
  it's
• 49:58
  underestimated
• 49:59
  because
• 50:00
  airports
• 50:01
  are
• 50:01
  a
• 50:02
  mess
• 50:02
  these
• 50:02
  days.
• 50:02
  In
• 50:03
  the
• 50:03
  summer,
• 50:03
  they're
• 50:04
  horrible.
• 50:04
  And
• 50:05
  nobody's
• 50:05
  on
• 50:05
  their
• 50:05
  best
• 50:06
  behavior.
• 50:07
  Nobody
• 50:07
  likes
• 50:07
  going
• 50:07
  through
• 50:08
  tsa,
• 50:08
  God
• 50:08
  bless
• 50:09
  them.
• 50:09
  They
• 50:10
  honestly,
• 50:10
  they're
• 50:10
  the
• 50:11
  most
• 50:11
  patient
• 50:11
  people
• 50:11
  in
• 50:11
  the
• 50:12
  world
• 50:13
  because
• 50:13
  they've
• 50:13
  had
• 50:14
  people
• 50:14
  screaming
• 50:14
  at
• 50:14
  them
• 50:15
  all
• 50:15
  day.
• 50:15
  But
• 50:15
  when
• 50:15
  you're
• 50:16
  traveling
• 50:16
  with
• 50:16
  a
• 50:16
  bunch
• 50:17
  of
• 50:17
  kids,
• 50:17
  like
• 50:17
  we
• 50:17
  do,
• 50:18
  it's
• 50:18
  a
• 50:19
  lot.
• 50:19
  And
• 50:20
  I
• 50:20
  just.
• 50:20
  The
• 50:20
  stress
• 50:21
  of
• 50:21
  that
• 50:21
  last
• 50:22
  minute
• 50:22
  getting
• 50:22
  there
• 50:23
  and
• 50:23
  things.
• 50:24
  If
• 50:24
  you
• 50:24
  don't
• 50:24
  give
• 50:24
  yourself
• 50:25
  time
• 50:25
  and
• 50:25
  things
• 50:25
  don't
• 50:25
  go
• 50:26
  right,
• 50:26
  you're
• 50:26
  going
• 50:26
  to
• 50:26
  start
• 50:26
  that
• 50:27
  trip
• 50:27
  off
• 50:28
  on
• 50:28
  a
• 50:28
  really
• 50:28
  bad
• 50:29
  foot.
• 50:31
  Who
• 50:31
  hasn't
• 50:31
  stepped
• 50:31
  on
• 50:31
  airplane
• 50:32
  fighting,
• 50:34
  right?
• 50:35
  It
• 50:35
  is
• 50:35
  the
• 50:35
  absolute
• 50:36
  worst,
• 50:36
  right?
• 50:37
  Because
• 50:37
  travel
• 50:37
  brings
• 50:38
  out.
• 50:39
  They
• 50:39
  always
• 50:39
  say,
• 50:39
  if
• 50:39
  you're
• 50:39
  in
• 50:39
  a
• 50:39
  new
• 50:40
  relationship,
• 50:40
  travel
• 50:40
  with
• 50:41
  someone,
• 50:41
  right?
• 50:42
  Or
• 50:42
  you've
• 50:42
  even
• 50:42
  got
• 50:42
  girlfriends
• 50:43
  you
• 50:43
  know
• 50:43
  you
• 50:43
  can
• 50:44
  travel
• 50:44
  with
• 50:44
  and
• 50:44
  girlfriends
• 50:45
  you
• 50:45
  know
• 50:46
  you
• 50:46
  can't
• 50:46
  travel
• 50:47
  with.
• 50:47
  It's
• 50:47
  the
• 50:47
  same
• 50:48
  thing.
• 50:48
  So
• 50:48
  just
• 50:48
  give
• 50:48
  your.
• 50:48
  There's
• 50:49
  nothing.
• 50:49
  That
• 50:50
  is
• 50:50
  one
• 50:50
  of
• 50:50
  the
• 50:50
  greatest
• 50:50
  luxuries
• 50:51
  out
• 50:51
  there.
• 50:51
  Time.
• 50:52
  Time
• 50:53
  is
• 50:53
  the
• 50:53
  most
• 50:54
  coveted
• 50:55
  luxury
• 50:55
  period
• 50:56
  of
• 50:56
  our
• 50:56
  day
• 50:57
  and
• 50:57
  age.
• 50:57
  It
• 50:57
  isn't
• 50:58
  money.
• 50:58
  People
• 50:58
  think
• 50:59
  it's
• 50:59
  money.
• 50:59
  It's
• 51:00
  really
• 51:00
  time.
• 51:01
  So
• 51:01
  if
• 51:01
  you
• 51:01
  give
• 51:01
  yourself
• 51:02
  that
• 51:02
  when
• 51:02
  you're
• 51:02
  traveling,
• 51:03
  that'll
• 51:03
  set
• 51:03
  the
• 51:03
  tone
• 51:03
  for
• 51:03
  your
• 51:04
  trip.
• 51:04
  And
• 51:04
  I
• 51:04
  think
• 51:04
  that's
• 51:04
  hugely
• 51:05
  helpful.
• 51:05
  Another
• 51:06
  huge.
• 51:06
  I
• 51:06
  mean,
• 51:06
  I've
• 51:07
  got
• 51:07
  so
• 51:07
  many
• 51:07
  tips
• 51:07
  that
• 51:07
  would
• 51:07
  bore
• 51:08
  you
• 51:08
  tears.
• 51:08
  Please.
• 51:08
  Like
• 51:08
  putting
• 51:09
  your
• 51:09
  shoes
• 51:09
  in
• 51:09
  shower
• 51:09
  caps.
• 51:11
  Go
• 51:11
  get
• 51:11
  a
• 51:12
  bunch
• 51:12
  of
• 51:12
  shower
• 51:12
  caps.
• 51:13
  Get
• 51:13
  on
• 51:13
  Amazon
• 51:13
  or
• 51:14
  go
• 51:14
  to
• 51:14
  the
• 51:14
  Dollar
• 51:14
  Tree
• 51:15
  and
• 51:15
  put
• 51:15
  them
• 51:15
  on
• 51:15
  the
• 51:16
  bottom
• 51:16
  of
• 51:16
  your
• 51:16
  shoes.
• 51:17
  That
• 51:17
  way
• 51:17
  you
• 51:17
  can
• 51:17
  see
• 51:17
  what
• 51:17
  shoes
• 51:18
  are.
• 51:18
  What?
• 51:19
  I
• 51:19
  know
• 51:19
  there's
• 51:19
  a
• 51:19
  lot
• 51:19
  of
• 51:20
  fancy
• 51:20
  linen
• 51:20
  bags
• 51:21
  out
• 51:21
  there,
• 51:21
  but
• 51:21
  I
• 51:21
  don't
• 51:21
  know
• 51:22
  what
• 51:22
  that
• 51:22
  is.
• 51:23
  I
• 51:23
  don't
• 51:23
  know
• 51:23
  what
• 51:23
  that
• 51:23
  shoe
• 51:24
  is
• 51:24
  in
• 51:24
  that
• 51:24
  bag.
• 51:24
  And
• 51:24
  then
• 51:24
  you
• 51:25
  gotta
• 51:25
  open
• 51:25
  them
• 51:25
  all
• 51:25
  up,
• 51:25
  the
• 51:26
  clear
• 51:26
  ones.
• 51:26
  It's
• 51:26
  so
• 51:27
  much
• 51:27
  easier.
• 51:27
  So
• 51:28
  stick
• 51:28
  a
• 51:28
  shower
• 51:29
  cap
• 51:29
  and
• 51:29
  they're
• 51:30
  reusable.
• 51:30
  You
• 51:30
  can
• 51:30
  use
• 51:30
  them
• 51:31
  again.
• 51:31
  They're
• 51:31
  reusable.
• 51:32
  Use
• 51:32
  a
• 51:32
  little
• 51:32
  pill
• 51:33
  holder
• 51:33
  for
• 51:33
  your
• 51:34
  earrings
• 51:35
  and
• 51:35
  necklaces.
• 51:36
  Oh,
• 51:36
  wait,
• 51:36
  for
• 51:36
  necklaces.
• 51:37
  Okay,
• 51:37
  so
• 51:37
  for
• 51:37
  necklaces,
• 51:38
  so
• 51:38
  they.
• 51:38
  Straw,
• 51:38
  I
• 51:39
  put.
• 51:39
  If
• 51:39
  it's
• 51:39
  a
• 51:39
  long
• 51:40
  one,
• 51:40
  I'll
• 51:40
  put
• 51:40
  it
• 51:40
  through
• 51:40
  a
• 51:40
  straw
• 51:41
  and
• 51:41
  clasp
• 51:41
  it
• 51:41
  so
• 51:41
  it
• 51:42
  doesn't
• 51:42
  get
• 51:42
  all
• 51:42
  tangled.
• 51:43
  But
• 51:43
  like,
• 51:43
  for
• 51:43
  earrings,
• 51:44
  like
• 51:44
  the
• 51:44
  earrings
• 51:44
  you've
• 51:44
  got
• 51:44
  on
• 51:45
  just
• 51:45
  stick
• 51:46
  them
• 51:46
  in
• 51:46
  a
• 51:46
  pill
• 51:47
  container
• 51:47
  again.
• 51:48
  You
• 51:48
  can
• 51:48
  pick
• 51:48
  that
• 51:48
  up
• 51:48
  at
• 51:48
  the
• 51:49
  Dollar
• 51:49
  Tree,
• 51:50
  Walmart,
• 51:50
  Target,
• 51:50
  whatever,
• 51:51
  and
• 51:51
  use
• 51:52
  that
• 51:52
  because
• 51:52
  it's
• 51:52
  way
• 51:52
  easier.
• 51:53
  Some
• 51:53
  of
• 51:53
  these
• 51:53
  jewelry
• 51:54
  things
• 51:54
  are
• 51:54
  a
• 51:55
  little
• 51:55
  complicated,
• 51:56
  right.
• 51:56
  They're
• 51:56
  big,
• 51:57
  they're
• 51:57
  big,
• 51:57
  they're
• 51:58
  cumbersome.
• 51:58
  You
• 51:58
  want
• 51:58
  to
• 51:58
  just
• 51:59
  get
• 51:59
  it
• 51:59
  down
• 51:59
  to
• 51:59
  like
• 52:00
  just
• 52:00
  really,
• 52:01
  you
• 52:01
  know,
• 52:01
  streamlining
• 52:02
  it
• 52:02
  so
• 52:02
  you're
• 52:02
  not
• 52:03
  packing
• 52:03
  so
• 52:03
  much
• 52:03
  and
• 52:03
  it's
• 52:04
  not
• 52:04
  so
• 52:04
  heavy.
• 52:04
  If
• 52:05
  you've
• 52:05
  got
• 52:05
  any
• 52:05
  sort
• 52:05
  of
• 52:06
  opened
• 52:06
  container,
• 52:07
  open
• 52:07
  it
• 52:07
  and
• 52:07
  stick
• 52:08
  a
• 52:08
  piece
• 52:08
  of
• 52:09
  plastic
• 52:09
  on
• 52:09
  top
• 52:09
  and
• 52:09
  then
• 52:10
  close
• 52:10
  it
• 52:10
  again.
• 52:11
  That
• 52:12
  way
• 52:12
  it's
• 52:12
  not
• 52:12
  going
• 52:12
  to
• 52:12
  pop
• 52:12
  open.
• 52:13
  Obviously
• 52:13
  stick
• 52:13
  in
• 52:13
  a
• 52:14
  plastic
• 52:14
  baggie.
• 52:14
  But
• 52:15
  if
• 52:15
  you
• 52:15
  do
• 52:15
  that
• 52:15
  extra
• 52:16
  layer
• 52:17
  and
• 52:17
  if
• 52:17
  you
• 52:17
  have
• 52:17
  like
• 52:17
  toiletries
• 52:18
  like
• 52:18
  you
• 52:18
  and
• 52:18
  I
• 52:18
  probably
• 52:18
  travel
• 52:19
  with
• 52:19
  the
• 52:19
  same
• 52:19
  patters.
• 52:20
  That
• 52:20
  round
• 52:21
  cotton
• 52:21
  swab
• 52:22
  on
• 52:22
  top
• 52:22
  of
• 52:22
  that
• 52:23
  compact
• 52:23
  to
• 52:24
  keep
• 52:24
  it
• 52:24
  in
• 52:24
  place.
• 52:24
  So
• 52:25
  if
• 52:25
  you
• 52:25
  drop
• 52:25
  it,
• 52:25
  that'll
• 52:25
  keep
• 52:25
  it
• 52:26
  from
• 52:26
  busting.
• 52:27
  Oh,
• 52:27
  that's
• 52:27
  a
• 52:28
  good
• 52:28
  one
• 52:28
  too.
• 52:28
  Cause
• 52:28
  I
• 52:28
  feel
• 52:29
  like
• 52:29
  I
• 52:29
  open
• 52:29
  up
• 52:29
  my
• 52:29
  makeup
• 52:30
  bag
• 52:30
  and
• 52:30
  things
• 52:30
  have
• 52:31
  exploded.
• 52:31
  Things
• 52:31
  are
• 52:31
  broken.
• 52:32
  It's
• 52:32
  all
• 52:33
  the
• 52:33
  things.
• 52:33
  Yeah.
• 52:33
  And
• 52:34
  then
• 52:34
  I
• 52:34
  would
• 52:34
  do
• 52:34
  these
• 52:35
  little
• 52:35
  travel
• 52:35
  washcloths.
• 52:36
  They
• 52:36
  look
• 52:36
  like
• 52:37
  candies.
• 52:37
  I
• 52:38
  love
• 52:38
  them.
• 52:38
  I
• 52:38
  can't
• 52:38
  live
• 52:38
  without
• 52:39
  them.
• 52:39
  They
• 52:39
  are
• 52:39
  biodegradable,
• 52:40
  so
• 52:41
  don't
• 52:41
  worry
• 52:41
  about
• 52:41
  it.
• 52:41
  For
• 52:41
  the
• 52:41
  environment.
• 52:42
  They
• 52:42
  are
• 52:42
  100%
• 52:43
  cotton.
• 52:44
  Get
• 52:44
  them
• 52:44
  on
• 52:44
  Amazon.
• 52:45
  They're
• 52:46
  micro.
• 52:46
  And
• 52:47
  that
• 52:47
  way
• 52:47
  you
• 52:47
  go
• 52:47
  to
• 52:47
  the
• 52:48
  hotel
• 52:48
  you're
• 52:48
  at.
• 52:49
  Because
• 52:49
  don't
• 52:49
  you
• 52:49
  feel
• 52:49
  bad
• 52:50
  about
• 52:50
  taking
• 52:50
  your
• 52:50
  makeup
• 52:51
  off
• 52:51
  on
• 52:51
  a
• 52:51
  white
• 52:52
  washcloth?
• 52:52
  Right?
• 52:53
  I
• 52:53
  don't
• 52:53
  even
• 52:53
  use
• 52:53
  a
• 52:53
  white
• 52:53
  washcloth
• 52:54
  to
• 52:54
  take
• 52:54
  my
• 52:54
  makeup
• 52:54
  off
• 52:55
  at
• 52:55
  home.
• 52:55
  Right.
• 52:55
  So
• 52:56
  I
• 52:56
  use
• 52:56
  these
• 52:56
  little
• 52:56
  guys,
• 52:56
  the
• 52:57
  little
• 52:57
  travel
• 52:57
  ones.
• 52:57
  They're
• 52:58
  fantastic.
• 52:58
  Oh,
• 52:59
  that's
• 52:59
  great.
• 52:59
  I
• 52:59
  could
• 53:00
  go
• 53:00
  on
• 53:00
  and
• 53:00
  on
• 53:00
  and
• 53:00
  on.
• 53:00
  Sis.
• 53:01
  Yes.
• 53:01
  No.
• 53:01
  I've
• 53:01
  got
• 53:01
  a
• 53:02
  whole
• 53:02
  section
• 53:02
  on
• 53:02
  my
• 53:03
  website
• 53:03
  for
• 53:03
  travel
• 53:04
  hacks
• 53:04
  and
• 53:04
  tips.
• 53:04
  I
• 53:05
  just
• 53:05
  feel
• 53:05
  bad
• 53:05
  because
• 53:05
  I
• 53:05
  could
• 53:06
  be
• 53:06
  here
• 53:06
  all
• 53:06
  day,
• 53:06
  so
• 53:07
  you're
• 53:07
  gonna
• 53:07
  have
• 53:07
  to
• 53:07
  stop
• 53:07
  me.
• 53:07
  No,
• 53:07
  no,
• 53:08
  no.
• 53:08
  This
• 53:08
  is
• 53:08
  great.
• 53:08
  Now,
• 53:08
  are
• 53:08
  you
• 53:09
  a
• 53:09
  fan
• 53:09
  of
• 53:09
  DO
• 53:09
  Because
• 53:10
  I
• 53:10
  know
• 53:10
  some
• 53:10
  people,
• 53:11
  they
• 53:11
  only
• 53:11
  take
• 53:12
  a
• 53:12
  carry
• 53:13
  on
• 53:13
  bag
• 53:13
  when
• 53:14
  they
• 53:14
  travel.
• 53:14
  Now,
• 53:14
  do
• 53:14
  you
• 53:15
  do
• 53:15
  checked
• 53:15
  and
• 53:15
  carry
• 53:16
  on
• 53:16
  or
• 53:16
  can
• 53:16
  you
• 53:17
  fit
• 53:17
  everything
• 53:17
  into
• 53:18
  your
• 53:18
  carry
• 53:18
  on?
• 53:18
  It
• 53:18
  depends
• 53:19
  on
• 53:19
  the
• 53:19
  length
• 53:19
  of
• 53:19
  the
• 53:19
  trip
• 53:20
  and
• 53:20
  what's
• 53:20
  happening.
• 53:21
  So
• 53:21
  if
• 53:21
  it's
• 53:22
  three
• 53:22
  days
• 53:22
  and
• 53:22
  under,
• 53:22
  I
• 53:23
  can
• 53:23
  do
• 53:23
  a
• 53:23
  carry
• 53:23
  on.
• 53:23
  If
• 53:24
  it's
• 53:24
  over
• 53:24
  than
• 53:24
  that,
• 53:24
  I'm
• 53:24
  checking.
• 53:25
  Yeah.
• 53:26
  And
• 53:26
  I
• 53:26
  hope,
• 53:26
  hoping
• 53:26
  for
• 53:26
  the
• 53:27
  best.
• 53:27
  I
• 53:28
  stick
• 53:28
  the
• 53:28
  airtag
• 53:28
  in
• 53:28
  it
• 53:29
  and
• 53:29
  I
• 53:30
  track
• 53:30
  my
• 53:30
  luggage.
• 53:31
  Oh,
• 53:31
  that's
• 53:31
  good
• 53:31
  to
• 53:31
  have
• 53:31
  the
• 53:32
  air
• 53:32
  tag.
• 53:32
  Yes,
• 53:32
  just
• 53:32
  have
• 53:32
  the
• 53:32
  air
• 53:32
  tag.
• 53:33
  And
• 53:33
  it's
• 53:33
  so
• 53:33
  handy.
• 53:33
  It's
• 53:34
  so.
• 53:34
  And
• 53:34
  it's
• 53:34
  actually
• 53:34
  kind
• 53:35
  of
• 53:35
  fun.
• 53:36
  And
• 53:36
  the
• 53:36
  kids
• 53:36
  like
• 53:36
  keeping
• 53:37
  track.
• 53:37
  They're
• 53:37
  like,
• 53:38
  wow,
• 53:38
  we
• 53:38
  made
• 53:38
  it
• 53:38
  all
• 53:39
  the
• 53:39
  way
• 53:39
  home
• 53:39
  once.
• 53:39
  And
• 53:39
  they're
• 53:39
  like,
• 53:39
  oh,
• 53:40
  your
• 53:40
  bag
• 53:40
  is
• 53:40
  still
• 53:40
  in
• 53:40
  Maui.
• 53:42
  We
• 53:42
  made
• 53:42
  it
• 53:43
  all
• 53:43
  the
• 53:43
  way
• 53:43
  home
• 53:43
  and
• 53:43
  the
• 53:44
  bag
• 53:44
  was
• 53:44
  still
• 53:44
  in
• 53:44
  Maui.
• 53:45
  But
• 53:45
  there's
• 53:45
  some
• 53:46
  comfort
• 53:46
  knowing
• 53:46
  where
• 53:47
  your
• 53:47
  bag
• 53:47
  is.
• 53:47
  So
• 53:48
  even
• 53:48
  if
• 53:48
  it's
• 53:48
  lost,
• 53:49
  you
• 53:49
  kind
• 53:50
  of
• 53:50
  have
• 53:50
  your,
• 53:50
  like,
• 53:50
  you
• 53:50
  still.
• 53:51
  You
• 53:51
  feel
• 53:51
  like
• 53:51
  you
• 53:51
  have
• 53:51
  some
• 53:51
  control.
• 53:52
  Big
• 53:52
  fan
• 53:53
  of
• 53:53
  the
• 53:53
  airtags.
• 53:53
  And
• 53:53
  they're
• 53:54
  a
• 53:54
  low
• 53:54
  lift.
• 53:54
  I
• 53:54
  mean,
• 53:54
  they're
• 53:55
  like,
• 53:55
  what,
• 53:55
  25
• 53:55
  bucks
• 53:56
  if
• 53:56
  you
• 53:56
  buy
• 53:56
  them
• 53:56
  in
• 53:56
  a
• 53:56
  pack,
• 53:57
  it
• 53:57
  seems
• 53:58
  like
• 53:58
  a
• 53:58
  lot,
• 53:58
  but
• 53:58
  boy,
• 53:59
  it's
• 53:59
  worth
• 53:59
  it
• 53:59
  if
• 54:00
  your
• 54:00
  bag
• 54:00
  is
• 54:00
  lost.
• 54:01
  You
• 54:02
  know,
• 54:02
  that's
• 54:02
  a
• 54:02
  good
• 54:02
  thing
• 54:03
  too.
• 54:03
  I
• 54:03
  heard
• 54:03
  people
• 54:03
  also
• 54:04
  take
• 54:04
  those
• 54:04
  same
• 54:04
  airtags.
• 54:05
  Of
• 54:05
  course
• 54:05
  you
• 54:05
  can
• 54:05
  reuse
• 54:06
  them.
• 54:06
  They
• 54:06
  stick
• 54:06
  them
• 54:07
  in
• 54:07
  their
• 54:07
  kids
• 54:07
  shoes
• 54:07
  when
• 54:07
  they
• 54:07
  go
• 54:08
  to
• 54:08
  Disneyland.
• 54:09
  So
• 54:09
  in
• 54:09
  case
• 54:09
  the
• 54:09
  kids
• 54:10
  wander
• 54:10
  off,
• 54:11
  you
• 54:11
  can
• 54:11
  immediately
• 54:12
  train
• 54:13
  your
• 54:13
  child
• 54:13
  too.
• 54:13
  You
• 54:13
  know,
• 54:14
  put
• 54:14
  them
• 54:14
  in
• 54:14
  your
• 54:14
  purse,
• 54:14
  right?
• 54:15
  Yes.
• 54:15
  Put
• 54:15
  them
• 54:15
  everywhere.
• 54:16
  I
• 54:16
  love
• 54:16
  them.
• 54:16
  They're
• 54:16
  fantastic.
• 54:17
  So
• 54:18
  that's
• 54:18
  a
• 54:18
  low
• 54:18
  lift
• 54:19
  thing.
• 54:20
  That
• 54:20
  makes
• 54:20
  a
• 54:20
  huge
• 54:20
  difference
• 54:21
  because
• 54:21
  you
• 54:21
  know
• 54:22
  what?
• 54:22
  For
• 54:22
  that
• 54:22
  one
• 54:22
  in
• 54:22
  a
• 54:22
  million
• 54:23
  time,
• 54:23
  your
• 54:23
  bag
• 54:23
  is
• 54:23
  lost.
• 54:24
  Honestly,
• 54:24
  we
• 54:25
  hear
• 54:25
  this
• 54:25
  all
• 54:25
  the
• 54:25
  time,
• 54:25
  but
• 54:26
  bags
• 54:26
  aren't
• 54:26
  really
• 54:27
  lost
• 54:27
  that
• 54:27
  often
• 54:28
  when
• 54:28
  you
• 54:28
  think
• 54:28
  about
• 54:28
  the
• 54:28
  volume.
• 54:30
  But
• 54:30
  when
• 54:30
  it's
• 54:30
  yours,
• 54:31
  it
• 54:31
  matters.
• 54:31
  It
• 54:31
  matters.
• 54:32
  Yes.
• 54:32
  It
• 54:32
  matters
• 54:33
  a
• 54:33
  lot.
• 54:33
  You
• 54:33
  were
• 54:33
  on
• 54:33
  that
• 54:33
  phone
• 54:34
  with
• 54:34
  the
• 54:34
  airline.
• 54:34
  You
• 54:34
  were
• 54:35
  like,
• 54:35
  where
• 54:35
  is
• 54:35
  my
• 54:35
  bag?
• 54:35
  Where's
• 54:36
  my
• 54:36
  bag?
• 54:37
  And
• 54:37
  so
• 54:37
  I
• 54:37
  just
• 54:38
  think
• 54:38
  that's
• 54:38
  a
• 54:38
  nice.
• 54:38
  It
• 54:38
  was
• 54:38
  nice
• 54:39
  knowing
• 54:39
  the
• 54:39
  only
• 54:39
  time
• 54:40
  it's
• 54:40
  been
• 54:40
  lost
• 54:40
  and
• 54:40
  we
• 54:41
  travel
• 54:41
  a
• 54:41
  lot.
• 54:42
  I
• 54:42
  knew
• 54:42
  where
• 54:42
  it
• 54:42
  was
• 54:43
  and
• 54:43
  I
• 54:44
  could
• 54:44
  help
• 54:44
  them
• 54:44
  and
• 54:44
  you
• 54:44
  could
• 54:44
  help.
• 54:45
  And
• 54:45
  I
• 54:45
  was
• 54:45
  like,
• 54:45
  well,
• 54:45
  still
• 54:46
  at
• 54:46
  the
• 54:46
  airport.
• 54:46
  They're
• 54:46
  like,
• 54:46
  really?
• 54:46
  How
• 54:47
  do
• 54:47
  you.
• 54:47
  How
• 54:47
  do
• 54:47
  you
• 54:47
  know
• 54:47
  it's
• 54:47
  saying
• 54:48
  it
• 54:48
  was
• 54:48
  on
• 54:48
  the
• 54:48
  plane?
• 54:48
  You're
• 54:48
  like,
• 54:48
  no,
• 54:49
  it's
• 54:49
  at
• 54:49
  the
• 54:49
  airport,
• 54:49
  girl.
• 54:50
  Yeah.
• 54:51
  So
• 54:51
  how
• 54:52
  are
• 54:52
  you
• 54:52
  living
• 54:53
  life
• 54:53
  iconically
• 54:54
  right
• 54:54
  now?
• 54:55
  Oh,
• 54:55
  my
• 54:55
  gosh,
• 54:55
  you're
• 54:55
  so
• 54:56
  funny,
• 54:56
  sis.
• 54:56
  I
• 54:56
  don't
• 54:56
  have
• 54:56
  time
• 54:57
  for
• 54:57
  living
• 54:58
  life
• 54:58
  iconically.
• 54:58
  I
• 54:59
  just.
• 54:59
  If
• 54:59
  I
• 54:59
  can
• 54:59
  get
• 54:59
  my
• 55:00
  hair
• 55:00
  washed
• 55:00
  that
• 55:00
  I
• 55:01
  know.
• 55:01
  Like
• 55:01
  if
• 55:01
  I
• 55:02
  shave
• 55:02
  my
• 55:02
  legs
• 55:02
  and
• 55:02
  wash
• 55:03
  my
• 55:03
  hair
• 55:03
  in
• 55:03
  the
• 55:03
  same
• 55:03
  day,
• 55:04
  that's
• 55:04
  huge.
• 55:05
  That's
• 55:05
  an
• 55:05
  iconic
• 55:06
  day.
• 55:06
  And
• 55:07
  that
• 55:07
  never
• 55:07
  happens.
• 55:07
  Like,
• 55:08
  if
• 55:08
  that's
• 55:08
  a
• 55:08
  same
• 55:08
  day
• 55:09
  situation
• 55:09
  for
• 55:10
  the
• 55:10
  zone
• 55:10
  I'm
• 55:10
  in
• 55:10
  in
• 55:11
  life,
• 55:11
  I
• 55:11
  call
• 55:11
  it
• 55:11
  the
• 55:12
  frantic
• 55:12
  years.
• 55:13
  I'm
• 55:13
  in
• 55:13
  the
• 55:13
  frantic
• 55:14
  years
• 55:15
  and
• 55:15
  I
• 55:16
  won't
• 55:16
  always
• 55:16
  be
• 55:16
  in
• 55:16
  them.
• 55:17
  But
• 55:17
  once
• 55:17
  I
• 55:17
  kind
• 55:18
  of
• 55:18
  re.
• 55:19
  Rejiggered
• 55:20
  that
• 55:20
  in
• 55:20
  my
• 55:20
  mind,
• 55:21
  it
• 55:22
  took
• 55:22
  pressure
• 55:22
  off
• 55:22
  and
• 55:23
  it
• 55:23
  made
• 55:23
  me
• 55:23
  Feel
• 55:24
  a
• 55:24
  lot
• 55:25
  better
• 55:25
  and
• 55:26
  less
• 55:26
  hard
• 55:27
  on
• 55:27
  myself.
• 55:27
  I
• 55:28
  am
• 55:28
  in
• 55:28
  the
• 55:28
  frantic
• 55:29
  years.
• 55:29
  That's
• 55:29
  just
• 55:30
  where
• 55:30
  I'm
• 55:30
  at.
• 55:30
  My
• 55:31
  kids
• 55:31
  are
• 55:31
  teens.
• 55:33
  My
• 55:33
  kids
• 55:33
  are
• 55:33
  teens.
• 55:35
  My
• 55:36
  husband
• 55:36
  travels
• 55:36
  like
• 55:36
  he's
• 55:37
  not
• 55:37
  even
• 55:37
  home
• 55:37
  right
• 55:37
  now.
• 55:38
  Dogs
• 55:39
  are
• 55:39
  aging.
• 55:39
  It's
• 55:39
  like,
• 55:40
  it's
• 55:40
  just
• 55:40
  all
• 55:40
  of
• 55:41
  the
• 55:41
  things.
• 55:41
  And
• 55:42
  once
• 55:42
  you
• 55:42
  realize,
• 55:42
  wow,
• 55:43
  that's
• 55:43
  just
• 55:43
  where
• 55:43
  I'm
• 55:43
  at,
• 55:44
  I'm
• 55:44
  not
• 55:44
  always
• 55:44
  going
• 55:45
  to
• 55:45
  be
• 55:45
  here.
• 55:45
  I
• 55:46
  think
• 55:46
  that's.
• 55:47
  If
• 55:47
  you
• 55:47
  can
• 55:47
  do
• 55:48
  that.
• 55:48
  To
• 55:48
  me,
• 55:48
  that's
• 55:49
  kind
• 55:49
  of
• 55:49
  iconic
• 55:49
  because
• 55:50
  it
• 55:50
  took
• 55:50
  me
• 55:50
  a
• 55:50
  long
• 55:50
  time
• 55:50
  to
• 55:50
  get
• 55:51
  there.
• 55:51
  Took
• 55:51
  me
• 55:51
  a
• 55:52
  long
• 55:52
  time
• 55:52
  to
• 55:52
  just
• 55:53
  finally
• 55:53
  be
• 55:53
  okay
• 55:53
  with
• 55:54
  being
• 55:54
  okay,
• 55:56
  if
• 55:56
  that
• 55:56
  makes
• 55:56
  sense.
• 55:57
  Accepting
• 55:58
  where
• 55:58
  I'm
• 55:58
  at
• 55:58
  right
• 55:59
  now
• 55:59
  is
• 55:59
  the
• 56:00
  best
• 56:00
  advice
• 56:01
  I
• 56:01
  can
• 56:01
  give
• 56:01
  someone.
• 56:01
  Except
• 56:02
  where
• 56:02
  you
• 56:02
  are
• 56:02
  right
• 56:02
  now,
• 56:03
  you're
• 56:03
  not
• 56:04
  always
• 56:04
  going
• 56:04
  to
• 56:04
  be
• 56:04
  there.
• 56:04
  You
• 56:05
  can
• 56:05
  switch
• 56:05
  it
• 56:05
  up.
• 56:06
  I
• 56:06
  can
• 56:06
  do
• 56:07
  something
• 56:07
  different
• 56:07
  when
• 56:07
  the
• 56:07
  kids
• 56:08
  leave
• 56:08
  the
• 56:08
  house,
• 56:08
  they're
• 56:09
  not
• 56:09
  always
• 56:09
  going
• 56:09
  to
• 56:09
  be
• 56:09
  here.
• 56:09
  It
• 56:10
  feels
• 56:10
  like
• 56:10
  it
• 56:10
  doesn't.
• 56:11
  It
• 56:11
  feels
• 56:12
  like
• 56:12
  the
• 56:12
  kids
• 56:12
  are
• 56:12
  always
• 56:12
  going
• 56:13
  to
• 56:13
  be
• 56:13
  here.
• 56:13
  But
• 56:14
  I
• 56:14
  think
• 56:15
  that's
• 56:15
  probably
• 56:15
  the
• 56:16
  best
• 56:16
  advice.
• 56:16
  I
• 56:16
  mean,
• 56:17
  I'm
• 56:17
  the
• 56:17
  worst
• 56:17
  at
• 56:18
  making
• 56:18
  time
• 56:18
  for
• 56:18
  myself.
• 56:19
  I
• 56:19
  wish
• 56:19
  I
• 56:19
  had
• 56:20
  some
• 56:20
  great
• 56:20
  tips
• 56:20
  to
• 56:21
  tell
• 56:21
  you,
• 56:21
  but
• 56:21
  I
• 56:21
  feel
• 56:21
  like
• 56:22
  I
• 56:22
  work
• 56:22
  full
• 56:22
  time
• 56:22
  like
• 56:23
  you
• 56:23
  do.
• 56:23
  It's
• 56:23
  like
• 56:24
  if
• 56:24
  you're
• 56:24
  working
• 56:24
  full
• 56:25
  time
• 56:25
  time
• 56:25
  and
• 56:25
  you've
• 56:26
  got
• 56:26
  kids
• 56:26
  and
• 56:27
  things
• 56:27
  to
• 56:27
  keep
• 56:28
  alive,
• 56:28
  it's
• 56:29
  really
• 56:29
  hard
• 56:30
  to
• 56:30
  find
• 56:30
  that
• 56:31
  time
• 56:31
  for
• 56:31
  yourself.
• 56:32
  Absolutely.
• 56:33
  It
• 56:33
  is.
• 56:34
  It's
• 56:34
  so
• 56:34
  hard.
• 56:35
  Time
• 56:35
  management,
• 56:35
  even
• 56:36
  time
• 56:36
  time
• 56:37
  management
• 56:37
  is
• 56:38
  ridiculous.
• 56:39
  And,
• 56:40
  you
• 56:40
  know,
• 56:40
  used
• 56:41
  to
• 56:41
  be
• 56:41
  the
• 56:41
  answer
• 56:41
  was,
• 56:41
  I'll
• 56:42
  just
• 56:42
  sleep
• 56:42
  less.
• 56:43
  And
• 56:43
  then
• 56:44
  you
• 56:44
  hit
• 56:44
  midlife
• 56:44
  and
• 56:44
  you're.
• 56:45
  Like,
• 56:45
  whoa,
• 56:45
  wait,
• 56:45
  oh,
• 56:45
  no,
• 56:46
  I
• 56:46
  need
• 56:46
  that.
• 56:46
  Well,
• 56:46
  I
• 56:47
  can't
• 56:47
  sleep
• 56:47
  less.
• 56:48
  Wow.
• 56:48
  Okay.
• 56:49
  That
• 56:49
  sign
• 56:49
  of.
• 56:49
  That
• 56:50
  sign.
• 56:50
  Remember
• 56:50
  that
• 56:50
  billboard,
• 56:51
  you
• 56:51
  can
• 56:51
  sleep
• 56:51
  when
• 56:52
  you're
• 56:52
  dead?
• 56:52
  Yeah.
• 56:53
  What
• 56:53
  was
• 56:53
  that
• 56:53
  around
• 56:53
  here,
• 56:54
  like,
• 56:54
  15
• 56:55
  years
• 56:55
  ago
• 56:55
  for,
• 56:55
  like,
• 56:56
  some
• 56:56
  gym
• 56:56
  company?
• 56:57
  You
• 56:57
  can
• 56:57
  sleep
• 56:57
  when
• 56:57
  you're
• 56:58
  dead.
• 56:58
  Wow.
• 56:59
  No,
• 56:59
  you
• 56:59
  can't.
• 56:59
  It's
• 57:00
  like,
• 57:00
  no.
• 57:00
  As
• 57:00
  you
• 57:00
  get
• 57:00
  older,
• 57:01
  you
• 57:01
  have
• 57:01
  to
• 57:01
  have
• 57:01
  sleep.
• 57:03
  I
• 57:03
  think
• 57:03
  something
• 57:03
  that
• 57:03
  helped
• 57:04
  me,
• 57:04
  and
• 57:04
  I
• 57:04
  know
• 57:04
  this
• 57:04
  isn't
• 57:04
  what.
• 57:05
  What
• 57:05
  I'm
• 57:05
  here
• 57:05
  for,
• 57:06
  have
• 57:06
  many
• 57:07
  other
• 57:07
  people
• 57:07
  that
• 57:07
  can
• 57:07
  speak
• 57:08
  on
• 57:08
  this.
• 57:08
  But
• 57:09
  I
• 57:09
  think
• 57:09
  figuring
• 57:10
  out,
• 57:10
  you
• 57:10
  know,
• 57:11
  going
• 57:11
  through
• 57:11
  perimenopause
• 57:12
  and
• 57:12
  now
• 57:12
  menopause,
• 57:13
  the
• 57:14
  bioidentical
• 57:14
  hormones,
• 57:15
  for
• 57:15
  me,
• 57:16
  changed
• 57:16
  my
• 57:17
  life.
• 57:18
  Change
• 57:18
  my
• 57:18
  life.
• 57:19
  Game
• 57:19
  changer.
• 57:20
  Total
• 57:20
  game
• 57:21
  changer.
• 57:21
  I'm
• 57:21
  here
• 57:22
  for
• 57:22
  it,
• 57:22
  if
• 57:22
  that's
• 57:22
  what
• 57:22
  you
• 57:23
  need.
• 57:24
  Boy,
• 57:24
  they're
• 57:24
  helpful,
• 57:25
  you
• 57:25
  know,
• 57:25
  and
• 57:26
  I
• 57:26
  don't.
• 57:26
  I'm
• 57:26
  not
• 57:26
  a
• 57:26
  doctor.
• 57:26
  I
• 57:27
  don't
• 57:27
  know
• 57:27
  who
• 57:27
  needs
• 57:27
  them
• 57:27
  and
• 57:27
  who
• 57:28
  doesn't
• 57:28
  need
• 57:28
  them.
• 57:28
  But
• 57:29
  for
• 57:29
  me,
• 57:30
  wow.
• 57:31
  When
• 57:31
  my
• 57:31
  doctor
• 57:33
  figured
• 57:33
  that
• 57:34
  out,
• 57:34
  well,
• 57:34
  he.
• 57:35
  He
• 57:35
  knew.
• 57:35
  I
• 57:36
  mean,
• 57:36
  when
• 57:36
  he
• 57:36
  suggested
• 57:37
  it,
• 57:38
  did
• 57:38
  the
• 57:38
  blood
• 57:38
  work
• 57:38
  and
• 57:39
  dialed
• 57:39
  me
• 57:39
  in,
• 57:41
  it's
• 57:41
  amazing.
• 57:42
  Like,
• 57:42
  okay,
• 57:43
  now
• 57:43
  I'm
• 57:43
  okay.
• 57:43
  Being
• 57:43
  in
• 57:44
  the
• 57:44
  frantic
• 57:44
  years
• 57:45
  before
• 57:45
  those
• 57:46
  bioidentical
• 57:47
  hormones,
• 57:48
  I
• 57:48
  probably
• 57:48
  wasn't,
• 57:49
  because
• 57:49
  I
• 57:49
  wasn't
• 57:49
  feeling,
• 57:50
  you
• 57:51
  know,
• 57:51
  I
• 57:51
  wasn't
• 57:51
  feeling
• 57:51
  like
• 57:52
  I
• 57:52
  was
• 57:52
  in
• 57:52
  control.
• 57:53
  But,
• 57:53
  you
• 57:54
  know,
• 57:54
  super
• 57:54
  cute
• 57:54
  Dr.
• 57:54
  Lycos.
• 57:55
  Oh,
• 57:55
  we
• 57:56
  love
• 57:56
  him.
• 57:56
  Love
• 57:57
  him.
• 57:57
  Right
• 57:57
  over
• 57:58
  there
• 57:58
  in
• 57:58
  Santa
• 57:58
  Monica.
• 57:59
  Dialing
• 57:59
  that
• 57:59
  in.
• 58:00
  It's
• 58:01
  like,
• 58:02
  yeah,
• 58:02
  no,
• 58:02
  it's
• 58:03
  true.
• 58:03
  Because
• 58:03
  it's
• 58:03
  like,
• 58:03
  you
• 58:04
  know,
• 58:04
  everything
• 58:04
  changes.
• 58:05
  And
• 58:05
  your
• 58:05
  sleep
• 58:06
  is
• 58:06
  better.
• 58:06
  Your
• 58:07
  sense
• 58:07
  of
• 58:07
  peace,
• 58:08
  probably
• 58:08
  even.
• 58:09
  I
• 58:09
  mean,
• 58:09
  just
• 58:09
  feeling
• 58:10
  in
• 58:10
  your
• 58:10
  own
• 58:11
  body
• 58:11
  again,
• 58:11
  because
• 58:12
  I
• 58:12
  think
• 58:12
  that's
• 58:12
  a
• 58:12
  big
• 58:13
  part
• 58:13
  of
• 58:13
  it
• 58:13
  is
• 58:13
  like,
• 58:14
  sometimes
• 58:14
  I
• 58:14
  feel
• 58:15
  like
• 58:15
  I'm
• 58:15
  not
• 58:15
  even
• 58:15
  in
• 58:15
  my
• 58:16
  body.
• 58:16
  I'm
• 58:16
  like,
• 58:16
  what
• 58:16
  body
• 58:17
  is
• 58:17
  this?
• 58:17
  What's
• 58:18
  happening?
• 58:18
  And
• 58:19
  I
• 58:19
  think
• 58:19
  that
• 58:20
  the
• 58:20
  thing
• 58:20
  for
• 58:21
  me
• 58:21
  with
• 58:21
  the
• 58:21
  hormone
• 58:23
  replacement
• 58:23
  has
• 58:23
  been
• 58:24
  I'm
• 58:25
  able
• 58:25
  to
• 58:25
  sleep.
• 58:26
  Okay.
• 58:27
  That's
• 58:27
  huge.
• 58:28
  That's
• 58:28
  huge.
• 58:28
  Yes.
• 58:29
  There
• 58:29
  are
• 58:29
  no
• 58:30
  night
• 58:30
  hot
• 58:30
  flashes.
• 58:31
  Right?
• 58:32
  It's
• 58:32
  like,
• 58:32
  so
• 58:32
  little
• 58:33
  things
• 58:33
  like
• 58:33
  that.
• 58:34
  It's
• 58:34
  amazing
• 58:35
  how
• 58:35
  that
• 58:35
  moves
• 58:35
  the
• 58:35
  needle,
• 58:36
  really.
• 58:37
  And
• 58:38
  I'm
• 58:38
  like,
• 58:38
  why
• 58:38
  are
• 58:38
  we
• 58:38
  suffering
• 58:39
  through
• 58:39
  this?
• 58:41
  Why
• 58:41
  are
• 58:41
  we?
• 58:42
  Luckily,
• 58:42
  again,
• 58:42
  as
• 58:43
  the
• 58:43
  baby,
• 58:43
  I've
• 58:43
  got
• 58:43
  sisters
• 58:44
  who've
• 58:44
  come
• 58:44
  before
• 58:44
  me.
• 58:45
  And
• 58:45
  luckily,
• 58:46
  one
• 58:46
  of
• 58:46
  my
• 58:46
  sisters
• 58:47
  go,
• 58:47
  oh,
• 58:47
  my
• 58:47
  God,
• 58:48
  Game
• 58:48
  changer
• 58:48
  for
• 58:48
  me.
• 58:49
  Bioidentical
• 58:50
  hormones.
• 58:51
  She
• 58:51
  goes,
• 58:52
  I
• 58:52
  truly
• 58:52
  believe
• 58:52
  they've
• 58:53
  saved
• 58:53
  my
• 58:53
  mind
• 58:53
  type
• 58:54
  of
• 58:54
  thing.
• 58:54
  And
• 58:55
  I'm
• 58:55
  like,
• 58:55
  why
• 58:55
  are
• 58:55
  we
• 58:55
  not
• 58:56
  talking
• 58:56
  about
• 58:56
  this?
• 58:57
  Why
• 58:58
  didn't
• 58:58
  you
• 58:58
  tell
• 58:58
  me
• 59:00
  you're
• 59:00
  on
• 59:00
  bioidentical
• 59:01
  hormones?
• 59:02
  We
• 59:02
  are
• 59:03
  not
• 59:03
  talking
• 59:03
  about
• 59:03
  it
• 59:04
  enough.
• 59:04
  And
• 59:04
  I
• 59:04
  think
• 59:05
  now
• 59:05
  it's
• 59:05
  more
• 59:05
  in
• 59:06
  vogue
• 59:07
  to
• 59:07
  talk
• 59:07
  about
• 59:07
  these
• 59:08
  things
• 59:08
  and
• 59:08
  let
• 59:08
  people
• 59:08
  know,
• 59:09
  you
• 59:09
  know,
• 59:10
  they're
• 59:10
  like,
• 59:10
  oh,
• 59:10
  how
• 59:10
  are
• 59:10
  you
• 59:10
  making
• 59:11
  all
• 59:11
  this
• 59:11
  happen?
• 59:11
  You
• 59:11
  know,
• 59:12
  you're
• 59:12
  going
• 59:12
  through
• 59:12
  menopause
• 59:12
  like
• 59:13
  the
• 59:13
  rest
• 59:13
  of
• 59:13
  us.
• 59:13
  And
• 59:13
  it's
• 59:13
  like,
• 59:14
  girl,
• 59:14
  I'm
• 59:14
  through
• 59:14
  menopause.
• 59:15
  But,
• 59:16
  you
• 59:16
  know,
• 59:16
  I've
• 59:16
  got
• 59:16
  help.
• 59:17
  I'm
• 59:17
  supporting
• 59:18
  this.
• 59:18
  I
• 59:18
  didn't
• 59:18
  suffer
• 59:19
  through
• 59:19
  it.
• 59:19
  I
• 59:19
  wasn't
• 59:20
  like,
• 59:20
  give
• 59:20
  me
• 59:20
  a
• 59:20
  leather
• 59:20
  strap
• 59:21
  and
• 59:21
  let's
• 59:21
  just
• 59:21
  do
• 59:21
  this.
• 59:21
  Right,
• 59:22
  right.
• 59:22
  Totally.
• 59:23
  I
• 59:23
  mean,
• 59:23
  how
• 59:23
  about
• 59:24
  you?
• 59:24
  I
• 59:24
  mean,
• 59:25
  yeah,
• 59:25
  No,
• 59:25
  I
• 59:25
  think
• 59:26
  it's
• 59:26
  so
• 59:26
  important,
• 59:26
  like
• 59:26
  you're
• 59:27
  saying,
• 59:27
  to
• 59:27
  talk
• 59:27
  about
• 59:27
  it.
• 59:28
  And
• 59:28
  that's
• 59:28
  what
• 59:28
  I
• 59:29
  really
• 59:29
  want
• 59:29
  to
• 59:29
  do
• 59:30
  here
• 59:30
  on
• 59:30
  the
• 59:30
  iconic
• 59:31
  midlife.
• 59:31
  I
• 59:32
  want
• 59:32
  people
• 59:32
  to
• 59:32
  be
• 59:32
  open
• 59:33
  about
• 59:33
  this
• 59:33
  because
• 59:34
  nobody
• 59:34
  ever
• 59:34
  gave
• 59:35
  us
• 59:35
  a
• 59:35
  handbook
• 59:35
  about
• 59:36
  midlife
• 59:36
  and,
• 59:37
  like,
• 59:37
  all
• 59:37
  the
• 59:37
  changes
• 59:38
  in
• 59:38
  our
• 59:38
  bodies
• 59:38
  and,
• 59:39
  you
• 59:39
  know,
• 59:39
  men
• 59:39
  are
• 59:40
  not
• 59:40
  going
• 59:40
  through
• 59:41
  the
• 59:41
  same
• 59:41
  things
• 59:41
  that
• 59:42
  we're
• 59:42
  going
• 59:42
  through.
• 59:42
  So
• 59:43
  it's.
• 59:43
  It's
• 59:43
  hard.
• 59:43
  I
• 59:43
  can't
• 59:44
  really
• 59:44
  talk
• 59:44
  to
• 59:44
  my
• 59:44
  husband
• 59:45
  about
• 59:45
  this.
• 59:45
  You
• 59:46
  know,
• 59:46
  it's
• 59:46
  other
• 59:46
  women.
• 59:47
  So
• 59:47
  I
• 59:47
  think
• 59:48
  that,
• 59:48
  you
• 59:48
  know,
• 59:48
  I
• 59:49
  think
• 59:49
  I
• 59:49
  am
• 59:49
  right
• 59:50
  on
• 59:50
  that
• 59:50
  cusp
• 59:50
  of
• 59:52
  investigating
• 59:52
  myself,
• 59:53
  like
• 59:53
  bioidentical
• 59:54
  hormones
• 59:54
  and
• 59:55
  things
• 59:55
  like
• 59:55
  that,
• 59:55
  you
• 59:55
  know,
• 59:56
  But
• 59:56
  I
• 59:56
  do
• 59:56
  think
• 59:57
  my
• 59:57
  sleep
• 59:57
  is
• 59:57
  affected
• 59:58
  and
• 59:58
  just,
• 59:58
  you
• 59:59
  know,
• 59:59
  feeling
• 59:59
  in
• 1:00:00
  my
• 1:00:00
  body
• 1:00:00
  and
• 1:00:01
  trying
• 1:00:01
  to
• 1:00:01
  figure
• 1:00:02
  out
• 1:00:02
  what
• 1:00:02
  is
• 1:00:02
  going
• 1:00:03
  on.
• 1:00:03
  But
• 1:00:03
  it's
• 1:00:03
  interesting,
• 1:00:04
  when
• 1:00:04
  I
• 1:00:05
  test
• 1:00:05
  for
• 1:00:05
  the
• 1:00:05
  hormones,
• 1:00:06
  the
• 1:00:06
  hormone
• 1:00:07
  levels
• 1:00:07
  say
• 1:00:07
  they're,
• 1:00:07
  quote,
• 1:00:08
  unquote,
• 1:00:08
  within
• 1:00:08
  normal
• 1:00:09
  range,
• 1:00:10
  which,
• 1:00:10
  you
• 1:00:10
  know,
• 1:00:10
  could
• 1:00:11
  mean,
• 1:00:11
  you
• 1:00:11
  know,
• 1:00:11
  many
• 1:00:12
  different
• 1:00:12
  things.
• 1:00:12
  But.
• 1:00:13
  But.
• 1:00:14
  So,
• 1:00:14
  yeah,
• 1:00:14
  I
• 1:00:14
  think
• 1:00:14
  I'm
• 1:00:15
  really
• 1:00:16
  about
• 1:00:16
  to
• 1:00:17
  really
• 1:00:17
  start,
• 1:00:17
  you
• 1:00:18
  know,
• 1:00:18
  jumping
• 1:00:18
  into
• 1:00:18
  that
• 1:00:19
  pond
• 1:00:19
  because,
• 1:00:20
  you
• 1:00:20
  know,
• 1:00:20
  I
• 1:00:20
  don't
• 1:00:21
  like
• 1:00:21
  to
• 1:00:21
  not
• 1:00:21
  sleep.
• 1:00:21
  I
• 1:00:22
  don't
• 1:00:22
  like
• 1:00:22
  to
• 1:00:22
  feel
• 1:00:22
  tired
• 1:00:23
  when
• 1:00:23
  I
• 1:00:23
  wake
• 1:00:23
  up
• 1:00:23
  in
• 1:00:24
  the
• 1:00:24
  morning.
• 1:00:24
  You
• 1:00:24
  know,
• 1:00:25
  I
• 1:00:25
  don't
• 1:00:25
  like
• 1:00:25
  to
• 1:00:26
  have,
• 1:00:26
  like,
• 1:00:26
  the
• 1:00:26
  night
• 1:00:26
  sweats
• 1:00:27
  and
• 1:00:27
  all
• 1:00:28
  that
• 1:00:28
  kind
• 1:00:28
  of
• 1:00:28
  stuff.
• 1:00:28
  So
• 1:00:28
  I
• 1:00:29
  feel
• 1:00:29
  like
• 1:00:29
  that's
• 1:00:29
  right
• 1:00:29
  there,
• 1:00:30
  like
• 1:00:30
  I'm
• 1:00:31
  jumping
• 1:00:31
  into
• 1:00:31
  the
• 1:00:32
  pond,
• 1:00:32
  you
• 1:00:32
  know?
• 1:00:33
  Well,
• 1:00:33
  and
• 1:00:33
  I
• 1:00:33
  think
• 1:00:33
  I
• 1:00:34
  saw
• 1:00:34
  something
• 1:00:34
  the
• 1:00:34
  other
• 1:00:35
  day
• 1:00:35
  along
• 1:00:35
  these
• 1:00:36
  lines
• 1:00:36
  that
• 1:00:37
  isn't
• 1:00:37
  just
• 1:00:38
  the
• 1:00:38
  physical
• 1:00:39
  changes
• 1:00:39
  that
• 1:00:39
  are
• 1:00:40
  happening,
• 1:00:40
  but
• 1:00:41
  mentally.
• 1:00:41
  And
• 1:00:41
  again,
• 1:00:41
  I'm
• 1:00:42
  not
• 1:00:42
  a
• 1:00:42
  doctor.
• 1:00:42
  Need
• 1:00:42
  to
• 1:00:43
  keep
• 1:00:43
  saying
• 1:00:43
  that.
• 1:00:45
  But,
• 1:00:45
  you
• 1:00:45
  know,
• 1:00:45
  you
• 1:00:45
  watch,
• 1:00:46
  you
• 1:00:46
  listen
• 1:00:47
  to
• 1:00:47
  something
• 1:00:47
  or
• 1:00:48
  you
• 1:00:48
  read
• 1:00:48
  something,
• 1:00:48
  you're
• 1:00:48
  like,
• 1:00:49
  oh,
• 1:00:49
  I
• 1:00:49
  figured
• 1:00:49
  it
• 1:00:49
  all
• 1:00:49
  out.
• 1:00:50
  But
• 1:00:50
  this
• 1:00:51
  really
• 1:00:51
  resonated
• 1:00:51
  with
• 1:00:51
  me,
• 1:00:51
  and
• 1:00:52
  I
• 1:00:52
  actually
• 1:00:52
  shared
• 1:00:52
  it.
• 1:00:52
  Stories
• 1:00:53
  that
• 1:00:53
  there
• 1:00:54
  was
• 1:00:54
  this
• 1:00:54
  doctor
• 1:00:54
  talking
• 1:00:55
  about
• 1:00:55
  how
• 1:00:56
  as
• 1:00:56
  women
• 1:00:56
  get
• 1:00:56
  older,
• 1:00:57
  their
• 1:00:57
  mental
• 1:00:58
  capacity
• 1:00:59
  for
• 1:00:59
  flex
• 1:01:00
  changes.
• 1:01:02
  You're
• 1:01:02
  younger,
• 1:01:03
  you're
• 1:01:03
  more
• 1:01:03
  pliable.
• 1:01:04
  And
• 1:01:04
  I'm
• 1:01:04
  bringing
• 1:01:04
  this
• 1:01:05
  down
• 1:01:05
  to
• 1:01:05
  brass
• 1:01:05
  tacks.
• 1:01:05
  I'm
• 1:01:06
  probably
• 1:01:06
  butchering
• 1:01:06
  this,
• 1:01:06
  but
• 1:01:06
  I'm
• 1:01:06
  just
• 1:01:07
  going
• 1:01:07
  to
• 1:01:07
  give
• 1:01:07
  you
• 1:01:07
  the
• 1:01:07
  idea
• 1:01:08
  because
• 1:01:08
  I
• 1:01:08
  thought
• 1:01:08
  it
• 1:01:08
  was
• 1:01:08
  fascinating
• 1:01:09
  and
• 1:01:09
  it
• 1:01:09
  made
• 1:01:10
  tons
• 1:01:10
  of
• 1:01:10
  sense.
• 1:01:11
  We
• 1:01:11
  get
• 1:01:11
  married,
• 1:01:12
  we
• 1:01:12
  have
• 1:01:12
  those
• 1:01:12
  kids,
• 1:01:13
  lots
• 1:01:13
  of
• 1:01:14
  flexibility.
• 1:01:14
  We're
• 1:01:15
  just
• 1:01:15
  more
• 1:01:15
  amenable.
• 1:01:16
  We're
• 1:01:16
  more
• 1:01:16
  amenable.
• 1:01:17
  The
• 1:01:17
  older
• 1:01:18
  we
• 1:01:18
  get,
• 1:01:19
  the
• 1:01:19
  less
• 1:01:19
  amenable
• 1:01:19
  we
• 1:01:20
  are,
• 1:01:20
  the
• 1:01:21
  more
• 1:01:21
  we're
• 1:01:21
  like,
• 1:01:21
  no,
• 1:01:22
  I'm
• 1:01:22
  important.
• 1:01:23
  What
• 1:01:23
  are
• 1:01:23
  my
• 1:01:23
  needs?
• 1:01:25
  What
• 1:01:25
  do
• 1:01:25
  I
• 1:01:25
  want
• 1:01:25
  right
• 1:01:26
  now?
• 1:01:26
  Divorce
• 1:01:27
  rates
• 1:01:27
  start
• 1:01:27
  climbing
• 1:01:29
  because
• 1:01:29
  guess
• 1:01:29
  what?
• 1:01:30
  You're
• 1:01:30
  like,
• 1:01:30
  wait.
• 1:01:30
  The
• 1:01:31
  husband's
• 1:01:31
  like,
• 1:01:31
  wait.
• 1:01:31
  Well,
• 1:01:32
  how
• 1:01:32
  come
• 1:01:32
  you're
• 1:01:32
  not
• 1:01:32
  so,
• 1:01:33
  you
• 1:01:33
  know,
• 1:01:33
  amenable
• 1:01:34
  anymore?
• 1:01:35
  Why
• 1:01:35
  aren't
• 1:01:35
  we
• 1:01:35
  doing
• 1:01:36
  everything
• 1:01:36
  I
• 1:01:36
  want
• 1:01:36
  to
• 1:01:36
  do?
• 1:01:37
  Wait.
• 1:01:37
  What?
• 1:01:37
  You've
• 1:01:38
  got
• 1:01:38
  a
• 1:01:38
  voice
• 1:01:38
  now.
• 1:01:38
  You're
• 1:01:39
  right.
• 1:01:39
  And
• 1:01:40
  so
• 1:01:40
  I
• 1:01:40
  am
• 1:01:41
  definitely.
• 1:01:42
  I'll
• 1:01:42
  raise
• 1:01:43
  my
• 1:01:43
  hand
• 1:01:43
  and
• 1:01:43
  tell
• 1:01:43
  you
• 1:01:43
  I'm
• 1:01:43
  the
• 1:01:44
  first
• 1:01:44
  one
• 1:01:44
  to
• 1:01:44
  be
• 1:01:44
  there.
• 1:01:45
  I
• 1:01:45
  am
• 1:01:45
  the
• 1:01:45
  first
• 1:01:45
  one
• 1:01:45
  to
• 1:01:45
  be
• 1:01:45
  there.
• 1:01:46
  I
• 1:01:46
  used
• 1:01:46
  to
• 1:01:46
  have
• 1:01:46
  way
• 1:01:46
  more
• 1:01:46
  patients.
• 1:01:47
  I
• 1:01:47
  have
• 1:01:47
  none
• 1:01:47
  now.
• 1:01:47
  Roxy,
• 1:01:48
  I'm
• 1:01:48
  Going
• 1:01:48
  to
• 1:01:48
  be
• 1:01:48
  honest,
• 1:01:48
  I
• 1:01:49
  have
• 1:01:49
  no
• 1:01:49
  patience.
• 1:01:49
  I
• 1:01:49
  feel
• 1:01:50
  it.
• 1:01:50
  I
• 1:01:50
  feel
• 1:01:50
  it.
• 1:01:51
  All
• 1:01:51
  my
• 1:01:51
  years
• 1:01:51
  of
• 1:01:51
  news
• 1:01:51
  didn't
• 1:01:52
  help
• 1:01:52
  because
• 1:01:52
  there's
• 1:01:52
  nothing.
• 1:01:53
  It's
• 1:01:53
  nothing
• 1:01:53
  like
• 1:01:53
  a
• 1:01:53
  deadline,
• 1:01:54
  right?
• 1:01:55
  So
• 1:01:55
  I
• 1:01:55
  just.
• 1:01:56
  I
• 1:01:56
  don't
• 1:01:56
  have
• 1:01:56
  any
• 1:01:57
  patients
• 1:01:57
  anymore.
• 1:01:58
  And
• 1:01:58
  I
• 1:01:58
  thought
• 1:01:58
  that
• 1:01:58
  was
• 1:01:59
  really
• 1:01:59
  good
• 1:01:59
  to
• 1:01:59
  know
• 1:01:59
  and
• 1:02:00
  understand
• 1:02:00
  about
• 1:02:00
  ourselves,
• 1:02:01
  that
• 1:02:01
  as
• 1:02:02
  we
• 1:02:02
  are
• 1:02:02
  getting
• 1:02:02
  older
• 1:02:03
  and
• 1:02:03
  again,
• 1:02:03
  there's
• 1:02:03
  a
• 1:02:03
  bell
• 1:02:04
  curve
• 1:02:04
  and
• 1:02:04
  maybe
• 1:02:04
  someone
• 1:02:05
  will
• 1:02:05
  always
• 1:02:05
  be
• 1:02:05
  amenable.
• 1:02:07
  But
• 1:02:07
  I
• 1:02:07
  do
• 1:02:08
  think,
• 1:02:08
  knowing
• 1:02:09
  that
• 1:02:09
  about
• 1:02:10
  ourselves,
• 1:02:10
  that
• 1:02:10
  we
• 1:02:10
  have
• 1:02:10
  to
• 1:02:11
  figure
• 1:02:11
  out
• 1:02:11
  a
• 1:02:11
  way
• 1:02:12
  again.
• 1:02:12
  Going
• 1:02:12
  back
• 1:02:12
  to
• 1:02:12
  calling
• 1:02:13
  the
• 1:02:13
  kitchen
• 1:02:13
  in
• 1:02:13
  my
• 1:02:13
  office,
• 1:02:14
  I
• 1:02:14
  wouldn't
• 1:02:14
  have
• 1:02:15
  had
• 1:02:15
  the
• 1:02:15
  courage
• 1:02:15
  to
• 1:02:15
  do
• 1:02:15
  that
• 1:02:16
  15
• 1:02:16
  years
• 1:02:17
  ago.
• 1:02:18
  I'd
• 1:02:18
  have
• 1:02:18
  been
• 1:02:18
  like,
• 1:02:18
  oh,
• 1:02:19
  no,
• 1:02:19
  no,
• 1:02:19
  please.
• 1:02:19
  You
• 1:02:19
  know,
• 1:02:20
  the
• 1:02:20
  people
• 1:02:20
  pleaser.
• 1:02:20
  How
• 1:02:21
  do
• 1:02:21
  I
• 1:02:21
  let
• 1:02:22
  you
• 1:02:22
  guys
• 1:02:22
  all
• 1:02:22
  come
• 1:02:22
  in
• 1:02:22
  here
• 1:02:23
  and
• 1:02:23
  make
• 1:02:23
  my
• 1:02:23
  place
• 1:02:24
  a
• 1:02:24
  mess,
• 1:02:24
  even
• 1:02:24
  though
• 1:02:25
  I'm
• 1:02:25
  trying
• 1:02:25
  to
• 1:02:25
  work
• 1:02:25
  in
• 1:02:25
  here?
• 1:02:25
  It's
• 1:02:26
  like
• 1:02:26
  the
• 1:02:26
  older
• 1:02:26
  you
• 1:02:26
  get,
• 1:02:27
  you're
• 1:02:27
  finding
• 1:02:27
  your
• 1:02:27
  voice.
• 1:02:28
  And
• 1:02:28
  that's
• 1:02:28
  what's
• 1:02:28
  happening
• 1:02:29
  right
• 1:02:29
  now,
• 1:02:29
  right?
• 1:02:30
  We're
• 1:02:30
  finding
• 1:02:30
  our
• 1:02:30
  voice.
• 1:02:31
  We're
• 1:02:31
  finding
• 1:02:31
  our
• 1:02:31
  second
• 1:02:32
  act,
• 1:02:32
  our
• 1:02:32
  third
• 1:02:32
  act,
• 1:02:33
  whatever
• 1:02:33
  that
• 1:02:33
  is,
• 1:02:34
  whatever
• 1:02:35
  that
• 1:02:35
  act
• 1:02:35
  is.
• 1:02:35
  It
• 1:02:35
  doesn't
• 1:02:36
  mean
• 1:02:36
  that
• 1:02:36
  you're
• 1:02:36
  taking
• 1:02:36
  on
• 1:02:36
  a
• 1:02:36
  career,
• 1:02:38
  right?
• 1:02:38
  Your
• 1:02:38
  act
• 1:02:38
  can
• 1:02:38
  be
• 1:02:38
  something
• 1:02:39
  completely
• 1:02:39
  different,
• 1:02:40
  whatever
• 1:02:40
  that
• 1:02:40
  is
• 1:02:41
  to
• 1:02:41
  you.
• 1:02:41
  But
• 1:02:41
  it's
• 1:02:41
  a
• 1:02:41
  fun
• 1:02:42
  time
• 1:02:43
  because
• 1:02:43
  we're
• 1:02:43
  finally
• 1:02:43
  almost
• 1:02:44
  free
• 1:02:44
  in
• 1:02:44
  a
• 1:02:44
  way.
• 1:02:45
  I
• 1:02:46
  don't
• 1:02:46
  know
• 1:02:46
  how
• 1:02:46
  to
• 1:02:46
  explain
• 1:02:47
  that.
• 1:02:47
  It
• 1:02:47
  is
• 1:02:47
  a
• 1:02:48
  very
• 1:02:48
  freeing
• 1:02:49
  thing
• 1:02:49
  where
• 1:02:50
  you
• 1:02:50
  realize,
• 1:02:51
  I
• 1:02:51
  think,
• 1:02:51
  free
• 1:02:52
  will,
• 1:02:52
  when
• 1:02:53
  someone
• 1:02:53
  said,
• 1:02:54
  you
• 1:02:54
  know,
• 1:02:54
  then
• 1:02:55
  free
• 1:02:55
  will
• 1:02:55
  comes
• 1:02:55
  into
• 1:02:55
  play,
• 1:02:56
  it
• 1:02:56
  was
• 1:02:56
  like
• 1:02:56
  a
• 1:02:56
  light
• 1:02:57
  bulb
• 1:02:57
  went
• 1:02:57
  off
• 1:02:57
  in
• 1:02:57
  my
• 1:02:57
  head.
• 1:02:58
  I
• 1:02:58
  haven't
• 1:02:59
  had
• 1:02:59
  free
• 1:02:59
  will.
• 1:02:59
  And
• 1:02:59
  if
• 1:03:00
  you're
• 1:03:00
  raising
• 1:03:00
  kids
• 1:03:01
  and
• 1:03:01
  you've
• 1:03:02
  got
• 1:03:02
  a
• 1:03:02
  husband
• 1:03:03
  who's
• 1:03:03
  from
• 1:03:03
  the
• 1:03:03
  1950s,
• 1:03:05
  the
• 1:03:05
  Leave
• 1:03:05
  it
• 1:03:05
  to
• 1:03:05
  Beaver
• 1:03:06
  era,
• 1:03:06
  it's
• 1:03:06
  like,
• 1:03:06
  you
• 1:03:07
  haven't
• 1:03:07
  had
• 1:03:07
  free
• 1:03:07
  will,
• 1:03:08
  girl.
• 1:03:08
  It's
• 1:03:09
  coming,
• 1:03:09
  sis.
• 1:03:10
  You
• 1:03:10
  are
• 1:03:10
  about
• 1:03:10
  to
• 1:03:10
  have
• 1:03:11
  free
• 1:03:11
  will,
• 1:03:11
  and
• 1:03:12
  it's
• 1:03:12
  so
• 1:03:12
  exciting.
• 1:03:13
  And
• 1:03:13
  then
• 1:03:13
  you
• 1:03:13
  top
• 1:03:13
  that
• 1:03:14
  with
• 1:03:14
  some
• 1:03:14
  bioidentical
• 1:03:15
  hormones,
• 1:03:15
  and
• 1:03:15
  you're
• 1:03:16
  like,
• 1:03:16
  what
• 1:03:16
  in.
• 1:03:16
  God's
• 1:03:17
  great
• 1:03:17
  earth
• 1:03:17
  recipe
• 1:03:18
  for
• 1:03:18
  success.
• 1:03:20
  Right?
• 1:03:20
  So
• 1:03:20
  I
• 1:03:21
  think
• 1:03:21
  that
• 1:03:21
  that's.
• 1:03:22
  I
• 1:03:22
  think
• 1:03:22
  there's
• 1:03:22
  a
• 1:03:23
  lot
• 1:03:23
  of
• 1:03:23
  fun
• 1:03:23
  things
• 1:03:23
  to
• 1:03:24
  look
• 1:03:24
  forward
• 1:03:24
  to
• 1:03:24
  right
• 1:03:24
  now.
• 1:03:25
  And
• 1:03:25
  I
• 1:03:25
  wish
• 1:03:25
  I
• 1:03:25
  had
• 1:03:26
  something
• 1:03:26
  Madonna
• 1:03:27
  iconic
• 1:03:27
  y
• 1:03:28
  to
• 1:03:28
  share
• 1:03:28
  with
• 1:03:28
  you,
• 1:03:29
  but
• 1:03:29
  I
• 1:03:29
  just
• 1:03:29
  think
• 1:03:30
  that
• 1:03:30
  is
• 1:03:30
  really
• 1:03:32
  the
• 1:03:32
  most
• 1:03:32
  exciting
• 1:03:32
  thing
• 1:03:33
  that's
• 1:03:34
  happening.
• 1:03:34
  You
• 1:03:34
  do
• 1:03:35
  feel
• 1:03:36
  less
• 1:03:36
  importance
• 1:03:37
  on
• 1:03:37
  things,
• 1:03:37
  less
• 1:03:38
  importance
• 1:03:38
  on
• 1:03:38
  looks,
• 1:03:39
  less
• 1:03:39
  importance
• 1:03:39
  on
• 1:03:39
  the
• 1:03:40
  things
• 1:03:40
  that
• 1:03:40
  we
• 1:03:40
  thought
• 1:03:40
  mattered.
• 1:03:41
  And
• 1:03:41
  they
• 1:03:42
  did
• 1:03:42
  matter
• 1:03:42
  when
• 1:03:42
  you're
• 1:03:42
  trying
• 1:03:43
  to
• 1:03:43
  get
• 1:03:43
  a
• 1:03:43
  mate,
• 1:03:43
  right?
• 1:03:44
  They
• 1:03:44
  did
• 1:03:44
  matter
• 1:03:44
  when
• 1:03:44
  you
• 1:03:45
  were
• 1:03:45
  in
• 1:03:45
  those
• 1:03:45
  years.
• 1:03:46
  They
• 1:03:46
  don't
• 1:03:47
  matter
• 1:03:47
  now,
• 1:03:48
  right?
• 1:03:48
  They
• 1:03:49
  matter
• 1:03:49
  less
• 1:03:49
  and
• 1:03:49
  less.
• 1:03:50
  I'm
• 1:03:50
  not
• 1:03:50
  saying
• 1:03:50
  let
• 1:03:51
  yourself
• 1:03:51
  go
• 1:03:51
  and
• 1:03:51
  don't
• 1:03:52
  Ever
• 1:03:52
  look
• 1:03:52
  good
• 1:03:52
  for
• 1:03:52
  your
• 1:03:52
  husband
• 1:03:53
  and
• 1:03:53
  shave
• 1:03:53
  your
• 1:03:53
  legs?
• 1:03:53
  I'm
• 1:03:54
  still
• 1:03:54
  shaving
• 1:03:54
  my
• 1:03:54
  legs.
• 1:03:55
  Right.
• 1:03:56
  We're
• 1:03:56
  all
• 1:03:56
  shaving
• 1:03:56
  our
• 1:03:57
  legs.
• 1:03:58
  But
• 1:03:58
  I
• 1:03:59
  think
• 1:03:59
  that
• 1:04:00
  is
• 1:04:00
  probably
• 1:04:01
  the
• 1:04:02
  best,
• 1:04:03
  the
• 1:04:03
  best
• 1:04:03
  moment
• 1:04:04
  about
• 1:04:04
  these
• 1:04:04
  years.
• 1:04:05
  Right?
• 1:04:05
  Do
• 1:04:05
  you,
• 1:04:06
  Are
• 1:04:06
  you
• 1:04:06
  feeling
• 1:04:06
  that
• 1:04:06
  a
• 1:04:07
  little
• 1:04:07
  bit?
• 1:04:07
  I
• 1:04:07
  mean,
• 1:04:07
  obviously
• 1:04:08
  with
• 1:04:08
  this
• 1:04:08
  podcast,
• 1:04:08
  you're
• 1:04:09
  onto
• 1:04:09
  something,
• 1:04:09
  sis.
• 1:04:09
  Oh,
• 1:04:10
  my
• 1:04:10
  gosh.
• 1:04:10
  You're
• 1:04:10
  ahead
• 1:04:10
  of
• 1:04:10
  the
• 1:04:10
  curve
• 1:04:11
  here.
• 1:04:11
  Thank
• 1:04:11
  you.
• 1:04:12
  Thank
• 1:04:12
  you.
• 1:04:12
  Yes.
• 1:04:12
  I
• 1:04:13
  mean,
• 1:04:13
  I
• 1:04:13
  definitely
• 1:04:13
  feel
• 1:04:14
  like
• 1:04:14
  I'm
• 1:04:14
  giving
• 1:04:15
  fewer
• 1:04:16
  fucks,
• 1:04:17
  basically.
• 1:04:17
  Yeah.
• 1:04:18
  You
• 1:04:18
  know,
• 1:04:18
  really?
• 1:04:18
  That's
• 1:04:19
  actually
• 1:04:19
  good
• 1:04:19
  bumper
• 1:04:19
  sticker,
• 1:04:20
  right,
• 1:04:20
  isn't
• 1:04:20
  it?
• 1:04:20
  Giving
• 1:04:21
  fewer
• 1:04:21
  fucks,
• 1:04:21
  actually.
• 1:04:22
  Let's
• 1:04:22
  get
• 1:04:22
  some
• 1:04:22
  shirts
• 1:04:23
  right.
• 1:04:23
  You
• 1:04:23
  need
• 1:04:23
  to
• 1:04:23
  sell
• 1:04:24
  that
• 1:04:24
  merchant.
• 1:04:24
  That
• 1:04:25
  is.
• 1:04:25
  That's
• 1:04:25
  honestly
• 1:04:26
  what
• 1:04:26
  I
• 1:04:26
  can't
• 1:04:26
  wait.
• 1:04:27
  We've
• 1:04:27
  got
• 1:04:27
  coffee
• 1:04:27
  cups
• 1:04:28
  and
• 1:04:28
  shirts
• 1:04:28
  and
• 1:04:28
  sweatshirts
• 1:04:29
  happening.
• 1:04:29
  I'll
• 1:04:29
  take
• 1:04:30
  a
• 1:04:30
  crew
• 1:04:30
  next.
• 1:04:31
  Okay.
• 1:04:31
  Okay,
• 1:04:31
  I'll
• 1:04:31
  send
• 1:04:32
  it
• 1:04:32
  to
• 1:04:32
  you.
• 1:04:32
  I
• 1:04:32
  got
• 1:04:32
  you
• 1:04:32
  covered,
• 1:04:33
  girl.
• 1:04:33
  But
• 1:04:34
  yeah,
• 1:04:34
  no,
• 1:04:34
  I
• 1:04:34
  think
• 1:04:34
  it
• 1:04:35
  is.
• 1:04:35
  It's
• 1:04:35
  really
• 1:04:35
  finding
• 1:04:36
  your
• 1:04:36
  voice
• 1:04:36
  and
• 1:04:36
  stepping
• 1:04:37
  into
• 1:04:37
  your
• 1:04:37
  power,
• 1:04:38
  you
• 1:04:38
  know,
• 1:04:39
  and
• 1:04:39
  just
• 1:04:39
  really
• 1:04:39
  being
• 1:04:40
  comfortable
• 1:04:40
  in
• 1:04:40
  who
• 1:04:41
  you
• 1:04:41
  are.
• 1:04:41
  And
• 1:04:41
  it's,
• 1:04:42
  it's,
• 1:04:42
  it
• 1:04:42
  is
• 1:04:43
  such
• 1:04:43
  a
• 1:04:43
  wonderful
• 1:04:43
  time
• 1:04:43
  and
• 1:04:44
  I
• 1:04:44
  think
• 1:04:44
  there
• 1:04:44
  is
• 1:04:44
  still
• 1:04:45
  a
• 1:04:45
  lot
• 1:04:45
  of
• 1:04:46
  life
• 1:04:46
  to
• 1:04:46
  live,
• 1:04:46
  you
• 1:04:47
  know,
• 1:04:47
  at
• 1:04:47
  this
• 1:04:47
  point
• 1:04:48
  and
• 1:04:48
  going
• 1:04:48
  forward,
• 1:04:48
  you
• 1:04:49
  know.
• 1:04:49
  But
• 1:04:49
  I'm
• 1:04:50
  curious,
• 1:04:50
  what
• 1:04:50
  kind
• 1:04:51
  of
• 1:04:51
  advice
• 1:04:51
  would
• 1:04:51
  you
• 1:04:52
  give
• 1:04:52
  to
• 1:04:52
  your
• 1:04:52
  25
• 1:04:53
  year
• 1:04:53
  old
• 1:04:53
  self?
• 1:04:55
  I
• 1:04:55
  think,
• 1:04:55
  you
• 1:04:56
  know,
• 1:04:56
  and
• 1:04:56
  if.
• 1:04:57
  For
• 1:04:58
  those
• 1:04:58
  that
• 1:04:58
  have
• 1:04:58
  followed
• 1:04:59
  along
• 1:04:59
  in
• 1:04:59
  my
• 1:04:59
  stories,
• 1:05:01
  you
• 1:05:01
  know,
• 1:05:01
  at
• 1:05:01
  25,
• 1:05:02
  we
• 1:05:03
  were
• 1:05:03
  all
• 1:05:03
  lining
• 1:05:03
  up
• 1:05:03
  in
• 1:05:04
  LA
• 1:05:04
  to
• 1:05:04
  get
• 1:05:04
  implants.
• 1:05:06
  There
• 1:05:07
  was
• 1:05:07
  a
• 1:05:07
  time
• 1:05:07
  when
• 1:05:08
  that
• 1:05:08
  was
• 1:05:08
  a
• 1:05:08
  thing
• 1:05:09
  and
• 1:05:09
  I
• 1:05:10
  think
• 1:05:10
  baywatch
• 1:05:10
  was
• 1:05:10
  popular.
• 1:05:12
  90210,
• 1:05:13
  the
• 1:05:13
  pressures
• 1:05:14
  of
• 1:05:14
  looking
• 1:05:15
  good
• 1:05:15
  and
• 1:05:15
  the
• 1:05:15
  whole
• 1:05:16
  thing.
• 1:05:16
  So
• 1:05:16
  I
• 1:05:16
  signed
• 1:05:17
  up,
• 1:05:17
  I
• 1:05:17
  did
• 1:05:17
  it,
• 1:05:18
  you
• 1:05:19
  know,
• 1:05:19
  gave
• 1:05:19
  into
• 1:05:19
  a
• 1:05:19
  lot
• 1:05:19
  of
• 1:05:20
  those
• 1:05:20
  things
• 1:05:20
  that
• 1:05:20
  we
• 1:05:21
  thought
• 1:05:21
  we
• 1:05:21
  had
• 1:05:21
  to.
• 1:05:22
  And
• 1:05:22
  you
• 1:05:23
  know,
• 1:05:23
  a
• 1:05:23
  couple
• 1:05:23
  of
• 1:05:23
  years
• 1:05:23
  ago
• 1:05:23
  I
• 1:05:24
  had
• 1:05:24
  to
• 1:05:24
  have
• 1:05:24
  the
• 1:05:24
  implants
• 1:05:24
  out,
• 1:05:25
  you
• 1:05:26
  know,
• 1:05:26
  so
• 1:05:26
  that
• 1:05:26
  was
• 1:05:26
  a
• 1:05:26
  journey.
• 1:05:27
  And
• 1:05:28
  I
• 1:05:28
  do
• 1:05:29
  wish
• 1:05:29
  I
• 1:05:30
  had
• 1:05:30
  known
• 1:05:31
  that
• 1:05:31
  I
• 1:05:31
  was
• 1:05:31
  enough.
• 1:05:34
  I
• 1:05:34
  didn't
• 1:05:34
  feel
• 1:05:34
  that.
• 1:05:35
  I
• 1:05:35
  absolutely
• 1:05:36
  did
• 1:05:36
  not
• 1:05:36
  feel
• 1:05:36
  it.
• 1:05:36
  I
• 1:05:37
  gave
• 1:05:37
  in
• 1:05:37
  to
• 1:05:37
  all
• 1:05:37
  of
• 1:05:37
  it.
• 1:05:37
  I
• 1:05:38
  gave
• 1:05:38
  into
• 1:05:38
  all
• 1:05:38
  of
• 1:05:38
  society.
• 1:05:39
  I
• 1:05:39
  gave
• 1:05:40
  in
• 1:05:40
  to
• 1:05:41
  the
• 1:05:41
  Baywatch
• 1:05:42
  effect.
• 1:05:42
  I
• 1:05:42
  gave
• 1:05:42
  into
• 1:05:43
  all
• 1:05:43
  of
• 1:05:43
  that.
• 1:05:43
  That
• 1:05:44
  we
• 1:05:44
  had
• 1:05:45
  to
• 1:05:45
  be
• 1:05:45
  in
• 1:05:45
  this
• 1:05:45
  box
• 1:05:46
  to
• 1:05:46
  be
• 1:05:47
  accepted.
• 1:05:49
  Turns
• 1:05:49
  out
• 1:05:49
  you
• 1:05:49
  don't.
• 1:05:50
  Turns
• 1:05:50
  out
• 1:05:50
  you
• 1:05:50
  don't.
• 1:05:51
  And
• 1:05:51
  I
• 1:05:51
  think
• 1:05:52
  that
• 1:05:52
  would
• 1:05:52
  be
• 1:05:52
  my
• 1:05:52
  best
• 1:05:52
  advice.
• 1:05:53
  Don't,
• 1:05:54
  don't
• 1:05:54
  do
• 1:05:54
  it.
• 1:05:54
  You
• 1:05:54
  don't
• 1:05:55
  need
• 1:05:55
  the
• 1:05:55
  implants.
• 1:05:55
  You
• 1:05:56
  don't
• 1:05:56
  need
• 1:05:56
  this,
• 1:05:56
  you
• 1:05:57
  don't
• 1:05:57
  need
• 1:05:57
  that.
• 1:05:57
  Still
• 1:05:58
  need
• 1:05:58
  the
• 1:05:58
  hair
• 1:05:58
  color,
• 1:05:59
  right?
• 1:06:00
  Not
• 1:06:00
  crazy.
• 1:06:01
  I'm
• 1:06:01
  not
• 1:06:02
  crazy.
• 1:06:03
  You
• 1:06:04
  know,
• 1:06:04
  I'm
• 1:06:04
  not
• 1:06:04
  gonna.
• 1:06:04
  But
• 1:06:05
  I
• 1:06:05
  mean.
• 1:06:05
  And
• 1:06:05
  it's
• 1:06:05
  fine
• 1:06:05
  if
• 1:06:05
  you
• 1:06:06
  don't
• 1:06:06
  color
• 1:06:06
  your
• 1:06:06
  hair.
• 1:06:06
  I'm
• 1:06:06
  not
• 1:06:07
  saying
• 1:06:07
  you're
• 1:06:07
  crazy.
• 1:06:07
  Me,
• 1:06:08
  personally,
• 1:06:08
  it's
• 1:06:09
  like,
• 1:06:09
  so.
• 1:06:09
  It's
• 1:06:09
  like,
• 1:06:10
  I
• 1:06:10
  think
• 1:06:11
  just
• 1:06:11
  knowing
• 1:06:12
  that
• 1:06:12
  whoever
• 1:06:12
  you
• 1:06:12
  are,
• 1:06:13
  you
• 1:06:13
  are
• 1:06:13
  fine.
• 1:06:14
  You're
• 1:06:14
  fine
• 1:06:15
  where
• 1:06:15
  you
• 1:06:15
  are.
• 1:06:15
  The
• 1:06:15
  universe
• 1:06:16
  has
• 1:06:16
  a
• 1:06:16
  plan.
• 1:06:17
  It's
• 1:06:17
  gonna
• 1:06:17
  work
• 1:06:17
  it
• 1:06:18
  out.
• 1:06:19
  You
• 1:06:19
  know,
• 1:06:20
  I've
• 1:06:20
  been
• 1:06:20
  basically
• 1:06:21
  left
• 1:06:21
  at
• 1:06:21
  the
• 1:06:21
  altar
• 1:06:21
  at
• 1:06:22
  one
• 1:06:22
  time
• 1:06:22
  in
• 1:06:22
  my
• 1:06:22
  life.
• 1:06:22
  You
• 1:06:23
  know,
• 1:06:23
  a
• 1:06:23
  couple
• 1:06:23
  weeks
• 1:06:23
  before
• 1:06:24
  the
• 1:06:24
  wedding,
• 1:06:24
  huge
• 1:06:24
  wedding,
• 1:06:25
  canceled.
• 1:06:25
  It's
• 1:06:25
  like.
• 1:06:26
  And
• 1:06:26
  guess
• 1:06:27
  what?
• 1:06:27
  I'm
• 1:06:27
  fine.
• 1:06:28
  I'm
• 1:06:29
  fine.
• 1:06:29
  It
• 1:06:29
  all
• 1:06:29
  comes
• 1:06:29
  in.
• 1:06:30
  It
• 1:06:30
  all
• 1:06:30
  comes
• 1:06:30
  into
• 1:06:30
  play.
• 1:06:31
  Single
• 1:06:32
  working
• 1:06:32
  mom
• 1:06:32
  for
• 1:06:33
  a
• 1:06:33
  decade.
• 1:06:33
  Guess
• 1:06:33
  what?
• 1:06:34
  I'm
• 1:06:34
  fine.
• 1:06:34
  She's
• 1:06:35
  fine.
• 1:06:35
  At
• 1:06:36
  the
• 1:06:36
  time.
• 1:06:36
  You
• 1:06:36
  don't
• 1:06:36
  think
• 1:06:36
  you're
• 1:06:37
  fine
• 1:06:37
  at
• 1:06:37
  the
• 1:06:37
  time,
• 1:06:38
  you're
• 1:06:38
  like,
• 1:06:38
  oh,
• 1:06:38
  my
• 1:06:38
  gosh,
• 1:06:39
  what
• 1:06:39
  am
• 1:06:39
  I?
• 1:06:39
  You
• 1:06:39
  know,
• 1:06:39
  by
• 1:06:40
  the
• 1:06:40
  time
• 1:06:40
  I
• 1:06:40
  was
• 1:06:40
  25,
• 1:06:41
  I
• 1:06:41
  was
• 1:06:42
  getting
• 1:06:42
  implants
• 1:06:42
  and
• 1:06:42
  I
• 1:06:42
  was
• 1:06:43
  a
• 1:06:43
  divorced,
• 1:06:43
  single,
• 1:06:43
  working
• 1:06:43
  mom.
• 1:06:44
  I'd
• 1:06:44
  already
• 1:06:45
  been
• 1:06:45
  married,
• 1:06:45
  divorced,
• 1:06:46
  getting
• 1:06:46
  implants.
• 1:06:47
  Because
• 1:06:47
  I
• 1:06:47
  thought,
• 1:06:47
  well,
• 1:06:47
  maybe
• 1:06:48
  that
• 1:06:48
  will
• 1:06:48
  be
• 1:06:48
  the.
• 1:06:49
  Maybe
• 1:06:49
  that'll
• 1:06:50
  be
• 1:06:50
  the
• 1:06:50
  thing.
• 1:06:50
  Maybe
• 1:06:50
  that'll
• 1:06:51
  do.
• 1:06:51
  It
• 1:06:51
  turns
• 1:06:52
  out
• 1:06:52
  none
• 1:06:52
  of
• 1:06:52
  that
• 1:06:52
  matters.
• 1:06:53
  None
• 1:06:53
  of
• 1:06:53
  that
• 1:06:54
  matters.
• 1:06:55
  So
• 1:06:55
  I
• 1:06:55
  think
• 1:06:55
  just
• 1:06:55
  knowing,
• 1:06:56
  and
• 1:06:56
  I
• 1:06:56
  know
• 1:06:56
  it
• 1:06:57
  sounds
• 1:06:57
  so
• 1:06:57
  trite.
• 1:06:57
  You
• 1:06:58
  are
• 1:06:58
  enough.
• 1:06:58
  We
• 1:06:58
  see
• 1:06:58
  that
• 1:06:58
  everywhere,
• 1:06:59
  right?
• 1:06:59
  It's
• 1:06:59
  everywhere.
• 1:07:00
  It's
• 1:07:00
  in
• 1:07:00
  the
• 1:07:00
  coffee
• 1:07:00
  shop
• 1:07:00
  below
• 1:07:01
  you,
• 1:07:01
  right
• 1:07:01
  on
• 1:07:02
  their
• 1:07:02
  mirror.
• 1:07:02
  You
• 1:07:02
  are
• 1:07:02
  enough.
• 1:07:04
  And
• 1:07:04
  you
• 1:07:05
  really
• 1:07:05
  don't
• 1:07:05
  care
• 1:07:05
  or
• 1:07:05
  know
• 1:07:06
  what
• 1:07:06
  that
• 1:07:06
  means
• 1:07:06
  till
• 1:07:06
  you.
• 1:07:06
  You're
• 1:07:07
  older,
• 1:07:08
  right?
• 1:07:09
  But
• 1:07:10
  you
• 1:07:10
  are
• 1:07:10
  exactly
• 1:07:11
  the
• 1:07:11
  way
• 1:07:11
  you're
• 1:07:11
  supposed
• 1:07:11
  to
• 1:07:11
  be.
• 1:07:12
  You
• 1:07:12
  are
• 1:07:12
  exactly
• 1:07:13
  the
• 1:07:14
  way,
• 1:07:15
  you
• 1:07:15
  know,
• 1:07:16
  God
• 1:07:16
  planned
• 1:07:16
  it,
• 1:07:17
  the
• 1:07:17
  universe
• 1:07:17
  planned
• 1:07:18
  it.
• 1:07:18
  Whatever
• 1:07:18
  your
• 1:07:18
  belief
• 1:07:19
  system
• 1:07:19
  is,
• 1:07:20
  you're
• 1:07:20
  here
• 1:07:20
  the
• 1:07:20
  way
• 1:07:20
  you're
• 1:07:20
  supposed
• 1:07:21
  to
• 1:07:21
  be
• 1:07:21
  here,
• 1:07:22
  having
• 1:07:22
  the
• 1:07:22
  experience
• 1:07:22
  you're
• 1:07:23
  supposed
• 1:07:23
  to
• 1:07:23
  have.
• 1:07:24
  I
• 1:07:24
  got
• 1:07:24
  that
• 1:07:24
  memo
• 1:07:25
  super
• 1:07:25
  late.
• 1:07:25
  I
• 1:07:26
  got
• 1:07:26
  that
• 1:07:26
  memo
• 1:07:26
  super
• 1:07:27
  late.
• 1:07:28
  But
• 1:07:28
  you
• 1:07:28
  got
• 1:07:28
  it.
• 1:07:29
  You
• 1:07:29
  got
• 1:07:29
  it.
• 1:07:29
  Finally
• 1:07:30
  got
• 1:07:30
  it.
• 1:07:30
  You
• 1:07:30
  got
• 1:07:30
  it.
• 1:07:30
  Grateful
• 1:07:31
  for
• 1:07:31
  it.
• 1:07:31
  And
• 1:07:32
  I
• 1:07:32
  just
• 1:07:32
  think
• 1:07:32
  if
• 1:07:32
  we
• 1:07:32
  could
• 1:07:32
  get
• 1:07:33
  that
• 1:07:33
  younger.
• 1:07:34
  And
• 1:07:34
  I
• 1:07:34
  do
• 1:07:34
  feel
• 1:07:34
  like
• 1:07:34
  the
• 1:07:35
  younger
• 1:07:35
  generations
• 1:07:35
  get
• 1:07:36
  it.
• 1:07:36
  I
• 1:07:36
  see
• 1:07:36
  them
• 1:07:36
  differently.
• 1:07:37
  I
• 1:07:37
  see
• 1:07:37
  them
• 1:07:37
  looking
• 1:07:38
  at
• 1:07:38
  themselves
• 1:07:38
  differently.
• 1:07:39
  I
• 1:07:39
  love
• 1:07:39
  it.
• 1:07:39
  I
• 1:07:40
  love
• 1:07:40
  them
• 1:07:40
  accepting
• 1:07:41
  themselves
• 1:07:41
  where
• 1:07:41
  they
• 1:07:42
  are.
• 1:07:42
  I
• 1:07:42
  think
• 1:07:42
  that's
• 1:07:43
  fantastic.
• 1:07:43
  You
• 1:07:44
  and
• 1:07:44
  I
• 1:07:44
  didn't
• 1:07:44
  have
• 1:07:44
  that.
• 1:07:45
  And
• 1:07:45
  I
• 1:07:45
  think
• 1:07:45
  unless
• 1:07:45
  you
• 1:07:46
  live
• 1:07:46
  it,
• 1:07:46
  you
• 1:07:46
  don't
• 1:07:47
  know,
• 1:07:48
  right?
• 1:07:48
  You
• 1:07:48
  don't
• 1:07:49
  know
• 1:07:49
  what
• 1:07:49
  that
• 1:07:49
  pressure
• 1:07:50
  was
• 1:07:50
  like.
• 1:07:50
  No,
• 1:07:51
  you
• 1:07:51
  don't.
• 1:07:51
  Back
• 1:07:52
  in
• 1:07:52
  the
• 1:07:52
  day,
• 1:07:52
  it
• 1:07:52
  was
• 1:07:53
  huge.
• 1:07:53
  Was
• 1:07:53
  it
• 1:07:54
  not
• 1:07:54
  huge?
• 1:07:54
  It
• 1:07:54
  was
• 1:07:54
  huge.
• 1:07:55
  It
• 1:07:55
  was
• 1:07:55
  huge
• 1:07:55
  because
• 1:07:56
  we
• 1:07:56
  were
• 1:07:56
  right
• 1:07:56
  on
• 1:07:56
  that.
• 1:07:57
  Like,
• 1:07:57
  we
• 1:07:58
  were
• 1:07:58
  right
• 1:07:58
  before
• 1:07:58
  the
• 1:07:59
  social
• 1:07:59
  media
• 1:07:59
  explosion
• 1:08:00
  and
• 1:08:00
  all
• 1:08:01
  the
• 1:08:01
  things.
• 1:08:01
  And,
• 1:08:02
  you
• 1:08:02
  know,
• 1:08:02
  we
• 1:08:02
  didn't
• 1:08:02
  have
• 1:08:03
  places
• 1:08:03
  to
• 1:08:03
  look
• 1:08:03
  to
• 1:08:04
  find
• 1:08:04
  inspirational,
• 1:08:05
  you
• 1:08:06
  know,
• 1:08:06
  helpful,
• 1:08:07
  even.
• 1:08:07
  Like
• 1:08:08
  a
• 1:08:08
  meme
• 1:08:08
  that
• 1:08:08
  you
• 1:08:09
  come
• 1:08:09
  across
• 1:08:09
  on
• 1:08:09
  Instagram
• 1:08:10
  or
• 1:08:10
  what
• 1:08:10
  have
• 1:08:11
  you,
• 1:08:11
  or,
• 1:08:11
  like,
• 1:08:11
  one
• 1:08:12
  of
• 1:08:12
  your
• 1:08:12
  videos.
• 1:08:12
  One
• 1:08:13
  of
• 1:08:13
  Your
• 1:08:13
  posts
• 1:08:13
  or,
• 1:08:14
  you
• 1:08:14
  know,
• 1:08:14
  all
• 1:08:15
  these
• 1:08:15
  different
• 1:08:15
  tools
• 1:08:15
  that
• 1:08:16
  this
• 1:08:16
  younger
• 1:08:16
  generation
• 1:08:17
  has.
• 1:08:17
  We
• 1:08:17
  were
• 1:08:17
  kind
• 1:08:18
  of
• 1:08:18
  left
• 1:08:18
  to
• 1:08:18
  fend
• 1:08:18
  for
• 1:08:18
  ourselves
• 1:08:19
  and
• 1:08:20
  listen
• 1:08:20
  to
• 1:08:20
  what
• 1:08:21
  you
• 1:08:21
  know
• 1:08:21
  or
• 1:08:21
  know
• 1:08:21
  what
• 1:08:21
  we
• 1:08:22
  already
• 1:08:22
  knew.
• 1:08:22
  And
• 1:08:23
  it's
• 1:08:23
  just
• 1:08:23
  kind
• 1:08:23
  of
• 1:08:23
  like,
• 1:08:24
  you
• 1:08:24
  know,
• 1:08:24
  that
• 1:08:25
  that
• 1:08:25
  is
• 1:08:25
  exciting
• 1:08:25
  for
• 1:08:26
  this
• 1:08:26
  new
• 1:08:26
  generation.
• 1:08:27
  And
• 1:08:27
  we
• 1:08:27
  didn't
• 1:08:27
  see
• 1:08:27
  anybody
• 1:08:28
  like
• 1:08:28
  us.
• 1:08:29
  We
• 1:08:29
  only
• 1:08:29
  saw
• 1:08:30
  the
• 1:08:30
  stars
• 1:08:31
  and
• 1:08:31
  the
• 1:08:32
  supermodels.
• 1:08:32
  There
• 1:08:33
  were
• 1:08:33
  no
• 1:08:33
  regular
• 1:08:34
  people
• 1:08:34
  on
• 1:08:34
  magazines.
• 1:08:35
  And
• 1:08:35
  when
• 1:08:35
  I
• 1:08:35
  say
• 1:08:35
  regular
• 1:08:36
  people,
• 1:08:37
  people
• 1:08:37
  that
• 1:08:38
  remember
• 1:08:38
  we
• 1:08:38
  had
• 1:08:39
  Christie
• 1:08:39
  Brinkley
• 1:08:40
  and
• 1:08:41
  Cheryl
• 1:08:41
  Tiggs.
• 1:08:41
  Again,
• 1:08:41
  I'm
• 1:08:42
  older
• 1:08:42
  than
• 1:08:42
  you.
• 1:08:42
  No,
• 1:08:42
  but
• 1:08:42
  it's
• 1:08:43
  true.
• 1:08:44
  We
• 1:08:44
  had.
• 1:08:44
  Everyone
• 1:08:45
  was
• 1:08:45
  perfection
• 1:08:45
  all
• 1:08:46
  the
• 1:08:46
  time.
• 1:08:46
  Anything
• 1:08:47
  we
• 1:08:47
  saw
• 1:08:47
  was
• 1:08:47
  perfection.
• 1:08:49
  And
• 1:08:49
  it
• 1:08:50
  was
• 1:08:50
  very
• 1:08:50
  difficult.
• 1:08:51
  And
• 1:08:51
  I
• 1:08:51
  do
• 1:08:51
  love
• 1:08:52
  that
• 1:08:53
  all
• 1:08:53
  of
• 1:08:53
  my
• 1:08:53
  kids
• 1:08:54
  are
• 1:08:54
  not
• 1:08:54
  getting
• 1:08:54
  fed
• 1:08:55
  that.
• 1:08:56
  So
• 1:08:56
  I
• 1:08:56
  will
• 1:08:56
  say
• 1:08:56
  I'm
• 1:08:57
  here
• 1:08:57
  to
• 1:08:57
  back
• 1:08:58
  social
• 1:08:58
  media
• 1:08:58
  on
• 1:08:58
  the
• 1:08:59
  fact
• 1:08:59
  that
• 1:08:59
  there's
• 1:08:59
  a
• 1:09:00
  lot
• 1:09:00
  of
• 1:09:00
  everyone
• 1:09:00
  on
• 1:09:00
  there.
• 1:09:01
  And
• 1:09:01
  I
• 1:09:01
  love
• 1:09:01
  it.
• 1:09:02
  I
• 1:09:02
  love
• 1:09:02
  it.
• 1:09:03
  I
• 1:09:03
  love
• 1:09:03
  all
• 1:09:03
  the
• 1:09:03
  colors
• 1:09:04
  and
• 1:09:04
  shapes
• 1:09:04
  and
• 1:09:04
  sizes
• 1:09:05
  of
• 1:09:05
  absolutely
• 1:09:06
  everything.
• 1:09:06
  Wear
• 1:09:07
  whatever
• 1:09:07
  you
• 1:09:07
  want.
• 1:09:07
  Be
• 1:09:08
  whoever
• 1:09:08
  you
• 1:09:08
  want
• 1:09:08
  to
• 1:09:09
  be.
• 1:09:09
  Just
• 1:09:09
  be
• 1:09:09
  you.
• 1:09:10
  Just
• 1:09:10
  be
• 1:09:11
  you.
• 1:09:11
  Whatever
• 1:09:12
  that
• 1:09:12
  looks
• 1:09:12
  like.
• 1:09:13
  You
• 1:09:13
  know,
• 1:09:14
  when
• 1:09:14
  you
• 1:09:14
  and
• 1:09:14
  I
• 1:09:14
  were
• 1:09:14
  growing
• 1:09:15
  up,
• 1:09:15
  there
• 1:09:15
  was
• 1:09:15
  a
• 1:09:15
  conformity
• 1:09:16
  going
• 1:09:16
  on.
• 1:09:17
  And
• 1:09:17
  if
• 1:09:17
  you
• 1:09:17
  weren't
• 1:09:17
  conforming
• 1:09:18
  to
• 1:09:18
  it,
• 1:09:18
  well,
• 1:09:19
  what
• 1:09:19
  was
• 1:09:19
  the
• 1:09:19
  message?
• 1:09:20
  Well,
• 1:09:20
  I'm
• 1:09:21
  not
• 1:09:21
  worthy,
• 1:09:21
  I'm
• 1:09:21
  not
• 1:09:22
  enough.
• 1:09:22
  I'm
• 1:09:23
  definitely
• 1:09:23
  not
• 1:09:23
  getting
• 1:09:23
  married.
• 1:09:24
  Who
• 1:09:24
  would
• 1:09:25
  want
• 1:09:25
  that?
• 1:09:25
  I'm
• 1:09:26
  out
• 1:09:26
  here
• 1:09:26
  being
• 1:09:26
  myself.
• 1:09:27
  What
• 1:09:27
  nobody
• 1:09:27
  wants
• 1:09:28
  a
• 1:09:28
  quirky
• 1:09:28
  chick
• 1:09:28
  running
• 1:09:29
  through
• 1:09:29
  Target,
• 1:09:29
  right?
• 1:09:29
  Who's
• 1:09:30
  gonna
• 1:09:30
  marry
• 1:09:30
  that
• 1:09:30
  girl,
• 1:09:31
  right?
• 1:09:31
  I
• 1:09:31
  mean,
• 1:09:32
  even
• 1:09:32
  now
• 1:09:32
  Scooter,
• 1:09:33
  God
• 1:09:33
  bless
• 1:09:34
  him
• 1:09:34
  and
• 1:09:34
  I
• 1:09:34
  do
• 1:09:34
  love
• 1:09:35
  him.
• 1:09:36
  Even
• 1:09:36
  now
• 1:09:36
  Scooter
• 1:09:37
  will
• 1:09:37
  be
• 1:09:37
  like,
• 1:09:39
  you
• 1:09:39
  know,
• 1:09:39
  I
• 1:09:39
  saw
• 1:09:40
  your
• 1:09:40
  story.
• 1:09:40
  You
• 1:09:40
  know,
• 1:09:40
  you
• 1:09:41
  were
• 1:09:41
  on
• 1:09:41
  there
• 1:09:41
  like
• 1:09:41
  that,
• 1:09:41
  right?
• 1:09:43
  I'm
• 1:09:44
  like,
• 1:09:44
  dude,
• 1:09:44
  yes,
• 1:09:45
  I
• 1:09:45
  do
• 1:09:45
  know.
• 1:09:46
  And
• 1:09:46
  guess
• 1:09:46
  what?
• 1:09:46
  Everyone
• 1:09:47
  else
• 1:09:47
  was
• 1:09:47
  too,
• 1:09:47
  right?
• 1:09:48
  When
• 1:09:49
  I
• 1:09:49
  called
• 1:09:49
  her,
• 1:09:49
  she
• 1:09:49
  had
• 1:09:50
  the
• 1:09:50
  same
• 1:09:50
  thing
• 1:09:50
  going
• 1:09:50
  on.
• 1:09:51
  She
• 1:09:51
  was
• 1:09:51
  in
• 1:09:51
  her
• 1:09:51
  pajamas
• 1:09:52
  too.
• 1:09:52
  But
• 1:09:53
  it's
• 1:09:53
  funny,
• 1:09:53
  he
• 1:09:53
  still
• 1:09:54
  has
• 1:09:54
  that,
• 1:09:54
  right.
• 1:09:55
  See,
• 1:09:56
  you
• 1:09:56
  know,
• 1:09:56
  because
• 1:09:56
  it's
• 1:09:57
  so
• 1:09:57
  ingrained
• 1:09:57
  in
• 1:09:57
  us.
• 1:09:58
  It's
• 1:09:58
  so
• 1:09:58
  ingrained.
• 1:09:58
  And
• 1:09:59
  we
• 1:09:59
  do
• 1:09:59
  it
• 1:09:59
  to
• 1:09:59
  our
• 1:09:59
  daughters
• 1:10:00
  too,
• 1:10:00
  right?
• 1:10:00
  We
• 1:10:00
  do
• 1:10:00
  it
• 1:10:00
  to
• 1:10:01
  our
• 1:10:01
  daughters
• 1:10:01
  too,
• 1:10:01
  right?
• 1:10:01
  We
• 1:10:02
  still
• 1:10:02
  do.
• 1:10:02
  Are
• 1:10:02
  you
• 1:10:03
  wearing
• 1:10:03
  that?
• 1:10:03
  Is
• 1:10:03
  that
• 1:10:03
  what
• 1:10:04
  you're
• 1:10:04
  wearing?
• 1:10:04
  Right?
• 1:10:04
  I
• 1:10:05
  did
• 1:10:05
  it
• 1:10:05
  to
• 1:10:05
  Jack
• 1:10:05
  last
• 1:10:06
  week.
• 1:10:06
  Are
• 1:10:06
  you
• 1:10:06
  wearing
• 1:10:06
  that
• 1:10:06
  on
• 1:10:07
  the
• 1:10:07
  plane?
• 1:10:08
  He
• 1:10:08
  goes,
• 1:10:09
  have
• 1:10:09
  you
• 1:10:09
  seen
• 1:10:09
  what
• 1:10:09
  people
• 1:10:10
  wear
• 1:10:10
  on
• 1:10:10
  the
• 1:10:10
  plane?
• 1:10:11
  I
• 1:10:11
  go,
• 1:10:11
  oh,
• 1:10:12
  I
• 1:10:13
  guess.
• 1:10:14
  He
• 1:10:14
  goes,
• 1:10:14
  I
• 1:10:15
  don't
• 1:10:15
  have
• 1:10:15
  pajamas
• 1:10:15
  on.
• 1:10:16
  There
• 1:10:16
  will
• 1:10:16
  be
• 1:10:16
  people
• 1:10:16
  on
• 1:10:17
  our
• 1:10:17
  flight
• 1:10:17
  in
• 1:10:17
  pajamas.
• 1:10:18
  And
• 1:10:18
  I
• 1:10:19
  was
• 1:10:19
  like,
• 1:10:20
  that's
• 1:10:20
  a
• 1:10:20
  good
• 1:10:20
  point.
• 1:10:21
  Carry
• 1:10:22
  on.
• 1:10:22
  You
• 1:10:23
  don't
• 1:10:23
  have
• 1:10:23
  pajamas
• 1:10:24
  on.
• 1:10:24
  Excellent.
• 1:10:25
  But
• 1:10:26
  there
• 1:10:26
  it
• 1:10:26
  was,
• 1:10:26
  there
• 1:10:26
  was
• 1:10:26
  94
• 1:10:27
  year
• 1:10:27
  old
• 1:10:27
  Norma
• 1:10:27
  Jean.
• 1:10:28
  Why
• 1:10:28
  isn't
• 1:10:28
  your
• 1:10:28
  lipstick
• 1:10:29
  on
• 1:10:29
  there?
• 1:10:29
  She
• 1:10:29
  was.
• 1:10:30
  And
• 1:10:30
  I
• 1:10:30
  love
• 1:10:30
  my
• 1:10:31
  mom,
• 1:10:31
  but
• 1:10:32
  born
• 1:10:32
  in
• 1:10:32
  1930,
• 1:10:33
  the
• 1:10:34
  world
• 1:10:34
  was
• 1:10:34
  vastly
• 1:10:34
  different
• 1:10:35
  to
• 1:10:35
  her.
• 1:10:35
  Totally
• 1:10:36
  different.
• 1:10:36
  Right?
• 1:10:36
  Yeah.
• 1:10:37
  And
• 1:10:37
  so
• 1:10:37
  I
• 1:10:37
  just
• 1:10:37
  think,
• 1:10:38
  you
• 1:10:38
  know,
• 1:10:38
  being
• 1:10:39
  able
• 1:10:39
  to
• 1:10:39
  pass
• 1:10:39
  that
• 1:10:39
  on
• 1:10:39
  to
• 1:10:40
  the
• 1:10:40
  kids
• 1:10:40
  is
• 1:10:40
  a
• 1:10:40
  gift.
• 1:10:40
  It's
• 1:10:41
  a
• 1:10:41
  gift.
• 1:10:41
  Be.
• 1:10:41
  Be
• 1:10:41
  you.
• 1:10:42
  Yes.
• 1:10:42
  25
• 1:10:42
  year
• 1:10:43
  old
• 1:10:43
  Roxy
• 1:10:44
  and
• 1:10:44
  Laura.
• 1:10:44
  Yes.
• 1:10:45
  Just
• 1:10:45
  be
• 1:10:45
  who
• 1:10:45
  you
• 1:10:46
  are.
• 1:10:46
  Who
• 1:10:46
  cares?
• 1:10:46
  Your
• 1:10:47
  people
• 1:10:47
  are
• 1:10:47
  going
• 1:10:47
  to
• 1:10:47
  find
• 1:10:47
  you.
• 1:10:48
  And
• 1:10:48
  we
• 1:10:48
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• 1:10:49
  enough.
• 1:10:49
  Yes.
• 1:10:49
  We
• 1:10:49
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• 1:10:49
  enough,
• 1:10:50
  right?
• 1:10:50
  Yes.
• 1:10:50
  As
• 1:10:51
  we
• 1:10:51
  are.
• 1:10:51
  And
• 1:10:52
  the
• 1:10:52
  universe
• 1:10:52
  is
• 1:10:52
  going
• 1:10:52
  to
• 1:10:53
  bring
• 1:10:53
  you
• 1:10:53
  together.
• 1:10:53
  Like
• 1:10:53
  you
• 1:10:53
  and
• 1:10:53
  I
• 1:10:54
  here
• 1:10:54
  today.
• 1:10:54
  We
• 1:10:55
  met
• 1:10:55
  for
• 1:10:55
  the
• 1:10:55
  first
• 1:10:55
  time
• 1:10:55
  today.
• 1:10:56
  It's
• 1:10:56
  like
• 1:10:56
  this
• 1:10:56
  is
• 1:10:57
  supposed
• 1:10:57
  to
• 1:10:57
  be
• 1:10:58
  right.
• 1:10:58
  We're
• 1:10:58
  just
• 1:10:58
  being
• 1:10:59
  ourselves
• 1:10:59
  and
• 1:11:00
  we
• 1:11:00
  found
• 1:11:00
  each
• 1:11:00
  other.
• 1:11:00
  It's
• 1:11:00
  like,
• 1:11:01
  oh,
• 1:11:01
  my
• 1:11:01
  gosh,
• 1:11:01
  we
• 1:11:01
  are
• 1:11:01
  friends.
• 1:11:02
  Like,
• 1:11:02
  you
• 1:11:02
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• 1:11:02
  tell.
• 1:11:03
  Like,
• 1:11:03
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• 1:11:03
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• 1:11:03
  you
• 1:11:03
  when
• 1:11:04
  I.
• 1:11:04
  When
• 1:11:04
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• 1:11:04
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• 1:11:04
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• 1:11:04
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• 1:11:04
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• 1:11:04
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• 1:11:05
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• 1:11:05
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• 1:11:05
  God,
• 1:11:05
  we're
• 1:11:05
  going
• 1:11:05
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• 1:11:05
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• 1:11:05
  friends.
• 1:11:05
  Oh,
• 1:11:06
  my
• 1:11:06
  gosh.
• 1:11:06
  No,
• 1:11:06
  we're
• 1:11:07
  100%
• 1:11:07
  going
• 1:11:08
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• 1:11:08
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• 1:11:08
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• 1:11:08
  You're
• 1:11:09
  like
• 1:11:09
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• 1:11:09
  new
• 1:11:09
  favorite.
• 1:11:10
  I'm
• 1:11:10
  like,
• 1:11:10
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• 1:11:10
  my
• 1:11:10
  gosh.
• 1:11:11
  So
• 1:11:11
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• 1:11:11
  You
• 1:11:12
  know,
• 1:11:12
  so
• 1:11:13
  I
• 1:11:13
  think.
• 1:11:13
  I
• 1:11:13
  love
• 1:11:13
  that.
• 1:11:14
  But
• 1:11:15
  before
• 1:11:15
  you
• 1:11:15
  leave,
• 1:11:15
  I
• 1:11:16
  would
• 1:11:16
  love
• 1:11:16
  to
• 1:11:16
  play
• 1:11:16
  a
• 1:11:16
  little
• 1:11:17
  game
• 1:11:17
  with
• 1:11:17
  you.
• 1:11:17
  Love
• 1:11:18
  games.
• 1:11:18
  Okay,
• 1:11:19
  good.
• 1:11:19
  Love
• 1:11:19
  games.
• 1:11:19
  Good,
• 1:11:20
  good.
• 1:11:20
  I'm
• 1:11:20
  a
• 1:11:20
  gamer.
• 1:11:21
  Okay.
• 1:11:21
  It's
• 1:11:22
  called
• 1:11:22
  would
• 1:11:22
  you
• 1:11:22
  host
• 1:11:23
  it
• 1:11:23
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• 1:11:23
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• 1:11:24
  it?
• 1:11:24
  Okay,
• 1:11:24
  okay.
• 1:11:25
  Okay,
• 1:11:25
  I'm
• 1:11:25
  ready.
• 1:11:25
  Gosh,
• 1:11:25
  I
• 1:11:26
  love
• 1:11:26
  this.
• 1:11:26
  Okay,
• 1:11:26
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• 1:11:27
  we
• 1:11:27
  go.
• 1:11:27
  Number
• 1:11:27
  one.
• 1:11:28
  A
• 1:11:28
  six
• 1:11:29
  course
• 1:11:29
  dinner
• 1:11:30
  party
• 1:11:30
  for
• 1:11:30
  picky
• 1:11:31
  eaters.
• 1:11:32
  One's
• 1:11:32
  keto,
• 1:11:33
  one's
• 1:11:33
  raw
• 1:11:33
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• 1:11:34
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• 1:11:34
  the
• 1:11:34
  other
• 1:11:34
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• 1:11:34
  doesn't
• 1:11:35
  do
• 1:11:35
  spices.
• 1:11:36
  Host
• 1:11:36
  it
• 1:11:36
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• 1:11:37
  ghost
• 1:11:37
  it?
• 1:11:37
  That's
• 1:11:37
  my
• 1:11:38
  family.
• 1:11:38
  I'm
• 1:11:38
  hosting.
• 1:11:39
  Are
• 1:11:39
  they
• 1:11:39
  really?
• 1:11:40
  Are
• 1:11:40
  they?
• 1:11:40
  I
• 1:11:40
  don't
• 1:11:41
  do
• 1:11:41
  spice.
• 1:11:41
  Kid
• 1:11:42
  1.
• 1:11:43
  Every
• 1:11:44
  other
• 1:11:44
  Thanksgiving
• 1:11:44
  will
• 1:11:45
  be
• 1:11:45
  vegan.
• 1:11:45
  Yep,
• 1:11:45
  I'm
• 1:11:46
  hosting.
• 1:11:46
  Hosting
• 1:11:47
  it.
• 1:11:47
  Okay,
• 1:11:47
  nice.
• 1:11:48
  A
• 1:11:48
  vision
• 1:11:49
  board
• 1:11:49
  brunch
• 1:11:50
  where
• 1:11:50
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• 1:11:50
  ends
• 1:11:51
  up
• 1:11:51
  crying
• 1:11:51
  over
• 1:11:52
  sharing
• 1:11:52
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• 1:11:52
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• 1:11:53
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• 1:11:53
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• 1:11:53
  sticks
• 1:11:54
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• 1:11:55
  Host
• 1:11:55
  it
• 1:11:55
  or
• 1:11:55
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• 1:11:56
  it?
• 1:11:56
  Ghost
• 1:11:56
  it.
• 1:11:57
  Not
• 1:11:57
  your
• 1:11:57
  thing?
• 1:11:58
  No.
• 1:11:58
  And
• 1:11:58
  I
• 1:11:58
  love
• 1:11:58
  people
• 1:11:59
  being
• 1:11:59
  themselves.
• 1:11:59
  I
• 1:12:00
  do.
• 1:12:01
  Unless
• 1:12:01
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• 1:12:02
  a
• 1:12:02
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• 1:12:02
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• 1:12:03
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• 1:12:03
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• 1:12:04
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• 1:12:04
  know,
• 1:12:04
  I
• 1:12:04
  just
• 1:12:05
  always
• 1:12:05
  feel
• 1:12:05
  bad.
• 1:12:06
  I
• 1:12:06
  don't
• 1:12:06
  want
• 1:12:06
  anyone
• 1:12:06
  to
• 1:12:06
  leave
• 1:12:07
  something.
• 1:12:08
  I
• 1:12:08
  want
• 1:12:08
  people
• 1:12:08
  to
• 1:12:09
  leave
• 1:12:09
  things
• 1:12:09
  being
• 1:12:09
  happy.
• 1:12:10
  You
• 1:12:10
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• 1:12:10
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• 1:12:11
  my.
• 1:12:11
  You
• 1:12:11
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• 1:12:11
  to
• 1:12:12
  Lorified.
• 1:12:12
  We're
• 1:12:13
  having
• 1:12:13
  fun.
• 1:12:13
  I'm
• 1:12:14
  here.
• 1:12:14
  You're
• 1:12:14
  giving
• 1:12:14
  me
• 1:12:15
  40
• 1:12:15
  seconds
• 1:12:16
  to
• 1:12:16
  a
• 1:12:16
  minute
• 1:12:16
  of
• 1:12:16
  your
• 1:12:16
  life.
• 1:12:17
  I
• 1:12:17
  want
• 1:12:17
  you
• 1:12:17
  to
• 1:12:17
  walk
• 1:12:18
  away
• 1:12:18
  smiling
• 1:12:18
  and
• 1:12:18
  learning
• 1:12:19
  something.
• 1:12:20
  That's
• 1:12:20
  me,
• 1:12:20
  though.
• 1:12:20
  There's
• 1:12:21
  plenty
• 1:12:21
  of
• 1:12:21
  other
• 1:12:22
  outlets
• 1:12:23
  out
• 1:12:23
  there
• 1:12:23
  for
• 1:12:23
  other
• 1:12:23
  feelings.
• 1:12:24
  I
• 1:12:25
  want
• 1:12:25
  to
• 1:12:25
  be
• 1:12:25
  a
• 1:12:25
  place
• 1:12:25
  of
• 1:12:25
  happy.
• 1:12:26
  I
• 1:12:26
  want
• 1:12:26
  to
• 1:12:26
  be
• 1:12:26
  the
• 1:12:27
  happy
• 1:12:27
  zone.
• 1:12:27
  So
• 1:12:27
  that
• 1:12:27
  would.
• 1:12:28
  That.
• 1:12:28
  That
• 1:12:28
  scares.
• 1:12:29
  Yeah,
• 1:12:29
  that's
• 1:12:30
  me.
• 1:12:31
  If
• 1:12:31
  I'm
• 1:12:31
  being
• 1:12:31
  honest.
• 1:12:32
  If
• 1:12:32
  I'm
• 1:12:32
  being
• 1:12:32
  honest
• 1:12:33
  and
• 1:12:33
  I'm
• 1:12:33
  okay
• 1:12:33
  with
• 1:12:33
  tears,
• 1:12:34
  I
• 1:12:34
  am
• 1:12:34
  But
• 1:12:34
  I
• 1:12:34
  just.
• 1:12:35
  Just
• 1:12:35
  think,
• 1:12:35
  oh,
• 1:12:35
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• 1:12:36
  just
• 1:12:36
  a
• 1:12:36
  tough.
• 1:12:37
  I
• 1:12:37
  think
• 1:12:37
  again,
• 1:12:38
  yes.
• 1:12:38
  I
• 1:12:38
  just
• 1:12:38
  said
• 1:12:39
  you
• 1:12:39
  should
• 1:12:39
  be
• 1:12:39
  who
• 1:12:39
  you
• 1:12:39
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• 1:12:39
  be.
• 1:12:40
  I
• 1:12:40
  don't
• 1:12:40
  want
• 1:12:40
  to
• 1:12:41
  host
• 1:12:41
  that.
• 1:12:41
  I
• 1:12:41
  want
• 1:12:42
  to,
• 1:12:42
  you
• 1:12:42
  know.
• 1:12:42
  Yeah.
• 1:12:43
  Have
• 1:12:43
  it
• 1:12:43
  be
• 1:12:43
  a
• 1:12:43
  happy
• 1:12:44
  one
• 1:12:44
  on
• 1:12:44
  one.
• 1:12:44
  I
• 1:12:44
  want
• 1:12:45
  to
• 1:12:45
  do
• 1:12:45
  that
• 1:12:45
  one
• 1:12:45
  on
• 1:12:45
  one
• 1:12:45
  with
• 1:12:46
  people.
• 1:12:46
  Right.
• 1:12:46
  I
• 1:12:46
  feel
• 1:12:47
  bad
• 1:12:47
  when
• 1:12:47
  that.
• 1:12:47
  It's
• 1:12:48
  hard
• 1:12:48
  to
• 1:12:48
  watch
• 1:12:48
  some
• 1:12:48
  of
• 1:12:48
  those
• 1:12:48
  reality
• 1:12:49
  shows.
• 1:12:49
  Yes.
• 1:12:50
  I
• 1:12:50
  feel
• 1:12:50
  it's
• 1:12:50
  so
• 1:12:51
  hard.
• 1:12:51
  It's
• 1:12:52
  really
• 1:12:52
  hard.
• 1:12:52
  And
• 1:12:52
  you're
• 1:12:52
  just
• 1:12:52
  like.
• 1:12:53
  You're.
• 1:12:53
  Your
• 1:12:53
  heart's
• 1:12:54
  breaking.
• 1:12:54
  Yes.
• 1:12:55
  For
• 1:12:55
  these
• 1:12:55
  younger
• 1:12:55
  girls.
• 1:12:56
  Right.
• 1:12:56
  You're
• 1:12:56
  just
• 1:12:56
  like,
• 1:12:57
  oh,
• 1:12:57
  God
• 1:12:57
  bless
• 1:12:57
  them.
• 1:12:58
  You
• 1:12:58
  just
• 1:12:58
  want
• 1:12:58
  to
• 1:12:58
  hug
• 1:12:58
  them.
• 1:12:59
  You
• 1:12:59
  want
• 1:12:59
  to
• 1:12:59
  hug
• 1:12:59
  them.
• 1:12:59
  So
• 1:12:59
  I'd
• 1:13:00
  be
• 1:13:00
  hugging
• 1:13:00
  everybody.
• 1:13:00
  Yeah.
• 1:13:01
  Yeah.
• 1:13:01
  And
• 1:13:01
  making
• 1:13:01
  him
• 1:13:02
  feel
• 1:13:02
  bad.
• 1:13:02
  And
• 1:13:03
  I'm
• 1:13:03
  here
• 1:13:03
  for
• 1:13:03
  you
• 1:13:03
  after,
• 1:13:04
  for
• 1:13:04
  sure.
• 1:13:05
  Is
• 1:13:05
  that
• 1:13:05
  awful?
• 1:13:05
  Would
• 1:13:06
  you
• 1:13:06
  host
• 1:13:06
  it
• 1:13:06
  or
• 1:13:06
  ghost
• 1:13:06
  that
• 1:13:07
  one?
• 1:13:07
  I
• 1:13:07
  would.
• 1:13:09
  I
• 1:13:09
  would
• 1:13:09
  probably
• 1:13:10
  host
• 1:13:11
  it,
• 1:13:11
  but
• 1:13:11
  I
• 1:13:12
  would
• 1:13:12
  be.
• 1:13:14
  I
• 1:13:14
  think
• 1:13:14
  I
• 1:13:14
  would
• 1:13:14
  be
• 1:13:15
  affected.
• 1:13:15
  Like,
• 1:13:15
  it.
• 1:13:16
  It
• 1:13:16
  would
• 1:13:16
  make
• 1:13:16
  me
• 1:13:17
  sad,
• 1:13:17
  you
• 1:13:17
  know?
• 1:13:18
  But
• 1:13:18
  I
• 1:13:19
  mean,
• 1:13:19
  it's.
• 1:13:19
  It's
• 1:13:20
  really
• 1:13:20
  hard,
• 1:13:20
  right?
• 1:13:21
  It's
• 1:13:21
  so
• 1:13:21
  hard
• 1:13:22
  because
• 1:13:22
  it's
• 1:13:22
  like.
• 1:13:22
  That's
• 1:13:22
  a.
• 1:13:23
  That's
• 1:13:23
  a
• 1:13:23
  good
• 1:13:23
  question.
• 1:13:24
  Right?
• 1:13:24
  Okay.
• 1:13:24
  Okay.
• 1:13:25
  I
• 1:13:25
  can't
• 1:13:25
  wait
• 1:13:25
  to
• 1:13:25
  hear
• 1:13:25
  what
• 1:13:26
  everyone
• 1:13:26
  else
• 1:13:26
  says.
• 1:13:27
  I
• 1:13:27
  know
• 1:13:27
  we'll
• 1:13:27
  have
• 1:13:27
  to
• 1:13:27
  make
• 1:13:27
  a
• 1:13:28
  party.
• 1:13:28
  Wants
• 1:13:28
  to
• 1:13:28
  host
• 1:13:29
  it,
• 1:13:29
  but
• 1:13:30
  if
• 1:13:30
  I'm
• 1:13:30
  being
• 1:13:30
  honest,
• 1:13:31
  I've
• 1:13:31
  already
• 1:13:31
  got
• 1:13:32
  enough
• 1:13:32
  crying
• 1:13:32
  in
• 1:13:32
  my
• 1:13:32
  own
• 1:13:32
  eyes.
• 1:13:33
  Totally.
• 1:13:34
  Enough
• 1:13:34
  glue
• 1:13:35
  sticks,
• 1:13:35
  being
• 1:13:35
  left
• 1:13:35
  behind.
• 1:13:36
  Right.
• 1:13:37
  Hosting
• 1:13:38
  Thanksgiving
• 1:13:39
  and
• 1:13:39
  being
• 1:13:40
  emotionally
• 1:13:40
  available
• 1:13:41
  to
• 1:13:41
  your
• 1:13:42
  relatives
• 1:13:42
  and
• 1:13:42
  in
• 1:13:43
  laws.
• 1:13:43
  Host
• 1:13:44
  it
• 1:13:44
  or
• 1:13:44
  ghost
• 1:13:44
  it?
• 1:13:45
  Host
• 1:13:45
  it
• 1:13:45
  every
• 1:13:45
  year.
• 1:13:46
  I
• 1:13:47
  host
• 1:13:47
  it
• 1:13:47
  every
• 1:13:47
  year.
• 1:13:47
  Okay.
• 1:13:48
  So
• 1:13:48
  in
• 1:13:49
  laws
• 1:13:49
  are
• 1:13:49
  great.
• 1:13:49
  All
• 1:13:50
  the
• 1:13:50
  relatives,
• 1:13:50
  like,
• 1:13:51
  everyone's
• 1:13:51
  cool.
• 1:13:52
  I
• 1:13:52
  thought
• 1:13:52
  you
• 1:13:53
  just
• 1:13:53
  asked
• 1:13:53
  if
• 1:13:53
  I
• 1:13:53
  was
• 1:13:53
  emotionally
• 1:13:54
  available
• 1:13:54
  to
• 1:13:54
  everybody.
• 1:13:55
  Totally.
• 1:13:56
  I
• 1:13:56
  think
• 1:13:56
  that's
• 1:13:57
  a
• 1:13:57
  different
• 1:13:57
  question.
• 1:13:57
  That's
• 1:13:58
  a
• 1:13:58
  different
• 1:13:58
  question.
• 1:13:59
  That's
• 1:13:59
  a
• 1:13:59
  different.
• 1:14:00
  Do
• 1:14:00
  we
• 1:14:00
  want
• 1:14:00
  to
• 1:14:00
  back
• 1:14:00
  up
• 1:14:00
  and
• 1:14:01
  say
• 1:14:02
  no?
• 1:14:02
  No,
• 1:14:02
  no.
• 1:14:03
  Yeah.
• 1:14:04
  You
• 1:14:04
  know,
• 1:14:04
  families
• 1:14:04
  are
• 1:14:04
  family.
• 1:14:05
  And
• 1:14:06
  it's
• 1:14:06
  so
• 1:14:06
  funny
• 1:14:07
  to
• 1:14:07
  me
• 1:14:07
  because
• 1:14:08
  it
• 1:14:09
  turns
• 1:14:09
  out
• 1:14:09
  the
• 1:14:09
  older
• 1:14:10
  you
• 1:14:10
  get,
• 1:14:10
  the
• 1:14:10
  more
• 1:14:10
  you
• 1:14:10
  realize
• 1:14:11
  everyone's
• 1:14:11
  got
• 1:14:11
  the
• 1:14:11
  same
• 1:14:11
  crazy
• 1:14:12
  family.
• 1:14:13
  We
• 1:14:13
  all
• 1:14:13
  do.
• 1:14:14
  We
• 1:14:14
  all
• 1:14:14
  think
• 1:14:15
  every
• 1:14:15
  family's
• 1:14:16
  got
• 1:14:16
  it
• 1:14:16
  figured
• 1:14:16
  out.
• 1:14:17
  All
• 1:14:17
  my
• 1:14:17
  kids
• 1:14:17
  do.
• 1:14:18
  All
• 1:14:18
  my
• 1:14:18
  kids
• 1:14:18
  are
• 1:14:18
  always
• 1:14:18
  looking
• 1:14:19
  to
• 1:14:19
  upgrade.
• 1:14:19
  All
• 1:14:20
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• 1:14:20
  kids
• 1:14:20
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• 1:14:20
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• 1:14:20
  to
• 1:14:20
  upgrade
• 1:14:21
  to
• 1:14:21
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• 1:14:21
  different
• 1:14:21
  family.
• 1:14:21
  Right.
• 1:14:22
  They
• 1:14:22
  don't.
• 1:14:23
  The
• 1:14:23
  older
• 1:14:23
  they
• 1:14:23
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• 1:14:24
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• 1:14:24
  going
• 1:14:24
  to
• 1:14:24
  be
• 1:14:24
  like,
• 1:14:25
  oh,
• 1:14:25
  you
• 1:14:25
  know
• 1:14:26
  what?
• 1:14:26
  We're
• 1:14:27
  just
• 1:14:27
  like
• 1:14:27
  everyone
• 1:14:27
  else.
• 1:14:28
  We're
• 1:14:29
  our
• 1:14:29
  own
• 1:14:29
  wacky.
• 1:14:30
  Right.
• 1:14:30
  We
• 1:14:30
  talk
• 1:14:30
  the
• 1:14:30
  same
• 1:14:31
  wackiness.
• 1:14:31
  Right.
• 1:14:32
  It's
• 1:14:32
  just.
• 1:14:32
  It's
• 1:14:32
  whatever
• 1:14:33
  your
• 1:14:33
  language
• 1:14:33
  is
• 1:14:33
  in
• 1:14:33
  your
• 1:14:34
  family.
• 1:14:34
  I
• 1:14:34
  host
• 1:14:35
  it.
• 1:14:35
  I'm
• 1:14:35
  here
• 1:14:35
  for
• 1:14:35
  it.
• 1:14:35
  Okay.
• 1:14:36
  I'm
• 1:14:36
  here
• 1:14:36
  for
• 1:14:36
  it.
• 1:14:37
  Okay.
• 1:14:37
  Throwing
• 1:14:38
  a.
• 1:14:38
  Let's
• 1:14:39
  celebrate.
• 1:14:39
  Nothing
• 1:14:40
  Party
• 1:14:40
  on
• 1:14:40
  a
• 1:14:40
  random
• 1:14:41
  Tuesday
• 1:14:42
  with
• 1:14:42
  a
• 1:14:42
  full
• 1:14:42
  grazing
• 1:14:43
  table
• 1:14:43
  and
• 1:14:44
  themed
• 1:14:44
  cocktails
• 1:14:45
  and
• 1:14:45
  playlists.
• 1:14:47
  Oh,
• 1:14:47
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• 1:14:47
  host
• 1:14:48
  it.
• 1:14:48
  Oh,
• 1:14:48
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• 1:14:49
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• 1:14:49
  host
• 1:14:49
  it.
• 1:14:50
  I
• 1:14:50
  love
• 1:14:50
  a
• 1:14:50
  good
• 1:14:50
  party.
• 1:14:50
  Okay.
• 1:14:51
  I'm
• 1:14:51
  from
• 1:14:51
  a
• 1:14:51
  small
• 1:14:51
  town
• 1:14:52
  in
• 1:14:52
  Kansas.
• 1:14:52
  I'm
• 1:14:52
  from
• 1:14:53
  a
• 1:14:53
  college
• 1:14:53
  town
• 1:14:53
  in
• 1:14:53
  Kansas.
• 1:14:54
  Nothing
• 1:14:54
  really
• 1:14:55
  was
• 1:14:55
  going
• 1:14:55
  on,
• 1:14:55
  so
• 1:14:55
  we
• 1:14:56
  celebrated
• 1:14:56
  everything.
• 1:14:57
  Okay,
• 1:14:57
  that's
• 1:14:57
  cool.
• 1:14:57
  We
• 1:14:58
  celebrated
• 1:14:58
  May
• 1:14:58
  Day.
• 1:14:59
  Okay,
• 1:14:59
  so
• 1:14:59
  like
• 1:14:59
  Tuesday,
• 1:15:00
  Wednesday,
• 1:15:01
  whenever.
• 1:15:01
  Yes.
• 1:15:02
  Saturday.
• 1:15:02
  Doesn't
• 1:15:02
  matter.
• 1:15:02
  I
• 1:15:03
  love
• 1:15:03
  it.
• 1:15:03
  There's
• 1:15:03
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• 1:15:03
  else
• 1:15:03
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• 1:15:04
  on.
• 1:15:04
  Okay.
• 1:15:05
  Okay.
• 1:15:05
  I
• 1:15:05
  love
• 1:15:05
  that.
• 1:15:05
  Okay.
• 1:15:06
  And
• 1:15:06
  last
• 1:15:07
  one,
• 1:15:08
  Volunteering
• 1:15:09
  to
• 1:15:09
  host
• 1:15:09
  your
• 1:15:09
  kids
• 1:15:10
  school
• 1:15:10
  fundraiser
• 1:15:11
  with
• 1:15:13
  all
• 1:15:13
  of
• 1:15:13
  the
• 1:15:13
  things,
• 1:15:14
  spreadsheets,
• 1:15:16
  wine
• 1:15:16
  and
• 1:15:17
  some
• 1:15:18
  difficult
• 1:15:18
  other
• 1:15:19
  parents
• 1:15:19
  host
• 1:15:19
  it
• 1:15:20
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• 1:15:20
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• 1:15:20
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• 1:15:20
  Ghosting.
• 1:15:21
  Okay,
• 1:15:22
  that's
• 1:15:22
  the
• 1:15:22
  one.
• 1:15:23
  That's
• 1:15:23
  the
• 1:15:24
  one.
• 1:15:24
  You're
• 1:15:24
  like.
• 1:15:25
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• 1:15:25
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• 1:15:25
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• 1:15:26
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• 1:15:26
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• 1:15:26
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• 1:15:27
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• 1:15:27
  roped
• 1:15:27
  into
• 1:15:27
  all
• 1:15:28
  of
• 1:15:28
  that.
• 1:15:28
  Right.
• 1:15:28
  Yeah.
• 1:15:29
  No,
• 1:15:29
  no
• 1:15:30
  time
• 1:15:31
  has
• 1:15:31
  been
• 1:15:31
  served.
• 1:15:32
  Okay.
• 1:15:32
  Time
• 1:15:32
  has
• 1:15:33
  been
• 1:15:33
  served
• 1:15:33
  there
• 1:15:33
  and
• 1:15:33
  I
• 1:15:34
  don't
• 1:15:34
  feel
• 1:15:34
  guilty
• 1:15:34
  about
• 1:15:34
  saying
• 1:15:35
  no
• 1:15:36
  after
• 1:15:36
  32
• 1:15:36
  years.
• 1:15:37
  There's
• 1:15:37
  been
• 1:15:37
  a
• 1:15:37
  lot
• 1:15:37
  of.
• 1:15:38
  Yeah.
• 1:15:38
  So
• 1:15:38
  I'm
• 1:15:39
  good.
• 1:15:39
  You
• 1:15:39
  have
• 1:15:39
  put
• 1:15:39
  your
• 1:15:40
  time
• 1:15:40
  in,
• 1:15:40
  lady.
• 1:15:40
  I
• 1:15:40
  know
• 1:15:41
  my
• 1:15:41
  strengths,
• 1:15:41
  sister.
• 1:15:41
  Yes.
• 1:15:42
  I
• 1:15:42
  know
• 1:15:42
  my
• 1:15:42
  strengths
• 1:15:43
  and
• 1:15:43
  I
• 1:15:43
  love
• 1:15:43
  other
• 1:15:43
  people.
• 1:15:44
  Wonderful.
• 1:15:45
  Wonderful.
• 1:15:45
  Well,
• 1:15:46
  Laura,
• 1:15:46
  I
• 1:15:46
  am
• 1:15:47
  so
• 1:15:47
  excited
• 1:15:48
  that
• 1:15:48
  you
• 1:15:48
  came
• 1:15:48
  here
• 1:15:48
  at
• 1:15:49
  the
• 1:15:49
  iconic
• 1:15:50
  midlife.
• 1:15:50
  I
• 1:15:50
  cannot
• 1:15:51
  wait
• 1:15:51
  to
• 1:15:52
  share
• 1:15:52
  with
• 1:15:52
  the
• 1:15:52
  world
• 1:15:53
  all
• 1:15:53
  the
• 1:15:53
  amazing
• 1:15:54
  tips
• 1:15:54
  and
• 1:15:54
  hacks
• 1:15:54
  and
• 1:15:55
  tricks
• 1:15:55
  and
• 1:15:55
  all
• 1:15:56
  of
• 1:15:56
  your
• 1:15:56
  insight
• 1:15:56
  from
• 1:15:57
  today.
• 1:15:58
  I
• 1:15:58
  wanted
• 1:15:58
  to
• 1:15:58
  also
• 1:15:59
  let
• 1:15:59
  everybody
• 1:15:59
  know
• 1:16:00
  where
• 1:16:00
  they
• 1:16:00
  can
• 1:16:00
  find
• 1:16:00
  you.
• 1:16:01
  So
• 1:16:02
  where
• 1:16:02
  is
• 1:16:02
  the
• 1:16:03
  best
• 1:16:03
  place
• 1:16:03
  to
• 1:16:03
  find
• 1:16:03
  you?
• 1:16:04
  It's
• 1:16:04
  Lorified,
• 1:16:05
  period,
• 1:16:06
  wherever
• 1:16:06
  you
• 1:16:06
  are.
• 1:16:06
  So
• 1:16:07
  L
• 1:16:07
  O
• 1:16:07
  R
• 1:16:08
  A.
• 1:16:09
  Parents
• 1:16:09
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• 1:16:09
  me
• 1:16:09
  that
• 1:16:10
  spelling.
• 1:16:10
  It
• 1:16:10
  turns
• 1:16:10
  out
• 1:16:11
  it's
• 1:16:11
  an
• 1:16:11
  old
• 1:16:11
  school
• 1:16:11
  spelling.
• 1:16:12
  Like
• 1:16:12
  when
• 1:16:12
  I
• 1:16:12
  was
• 1:16:13
  little.
• 1:16:13
  If
• 1:16:13
  you
• 1:16:13
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• 1:16:13
  into
• 1:16:13
  an
• 1:16:14
  85
• 1:16:14
  year
• 1:16:14
  old
• 1:16:14
  Laura,
• 1:16:14
  it
• 1:16:15
  was
• 1:16:15
  spelled
• 1:16:15
  like
• 1:16:15
  this.
• 1:16:16
  So
• 1:16:16
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• 1:16:16
  I
• 1:16:16
  am.
• 1:16:17
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• 1:16:17
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• 1:16:18
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• 1:16:18
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• 1:16:18
  D.
• 1:16:18
  And
• 1:16:19
  we're
• 1:16:19
  everywhere.
• 1:16:19
  I
• 1:16:19
  have
• 1:16:19
  a
• 1:16:20
  website,
• 1:16:20
  lorified.com
• 1:16:21
  but
• 1:16:21
  we're
• 1:16:22
  Instagram,
• 1:16:23
  TikTok,
• 1:16:23
  Facebook,
• 1:16:24
  Pinterest.
• 1:16:26
  What's
• 1:16:27
  Threads?
• 1:16:27
  Threads
• 1:16:28
  is
• 1:16:28
  the
• 1:16:28
  latest
• 1:16:29
  one.
• 1:16:30
  Yeah.
• 1:16:30
  Wherever
• 1:16:30
  you
• 1:16:30
  are,
• 1:16:31
  we
• 1:16:31
  are.
• 1:16:31
  So
• 1:16:31
  whatever
• 1:16:31
  is
• 1:16:32
  most
• 1:16:32
  convenient.
• 1:16:32
  YouTube.
• 1:16:33
  We
• 1:16:33
  have
• 1:16:33
  a
• 1:16:33
  YouTube
• 1:16:33
  channel.
• 1:16:34
  So
• 1:16:34
  whatever
• 1:16:34
  is
• 1:16:34
  most
• 1:16:34
  convenient
• 1:16:35
  for
• 1:16:35
  you.
• 1:16:35
  Glorified.
• 1:16:36
  Glorified
• 1:16:36
  dot
• 1:16:37
  com.
• 1:16:37
  That
• 1:16:37
  is
• 1:16:37
  wonderful.
• 1:16:38
  You
• 1:16:38
  guys
• 1:16:39
  definitely
• 1:16:39
  follow
• 1:16:39
  her.
• 1:16:40
  You'll
• 1:16:40
  get
• 1:16:40
  the
• 1:16:40
  best
• 1:16:40
  tips,
• 1:16:41
  tricks,
• 1:16:41
  hacks
• 1:16:42
  for
• 1:16:42
  entertaining,
• 1:16:43
  home,
• 1:16:43
  travel,
• 1:16:44
  lifestyle,
• 1:16:44
  all
• 1:16:44
  the.
• 1:16:45
  Things
• 1:16:45
  you
• 1:16:45
  are
• 1:16:45
  the
• 1:16:46
  cutest,
• 1:16:46
  Roxy.
• 1:16:46
  Thank
• 1:16:47
  you
• 1:16:47
  so
• 1:16:47
  much.
• 1:16:48
  Laura,
• 1:16:48
  you're
• 1:16:48
  the
• 1:16:48
  best.
• 1:16:48
  Thank
• 1:16:49
  you
• 1:16:49
  for
• 1:16:49
  coming
• 1:16:49
  on
• 1:16:49
  the
• 1:16:49
  iconic
• 1:16:50
  middle.
• 1:16:50
  Thanks
• 1:16:50
  for
• 1:16:50
  having
• 1:16:50
  me.
• 1:16:51
  This
• 1:16:51
  was
• 1:16:51
  a
• 1:16:51
  blast,
• 1:16:51
  sister.
• 1:16:52
  I
• 1:16:52
  can't
• 1:16:52
  wait
• 1:16:52
  to
• 1:16:52
  go
• 1:16:52
  to
• 1:16:53
  lunch
• 1:16:53
  with
• 1:16:53
  you.
• 1:16:53
  Yes.
• 1:16:54
  Oh
• 1:16:54
  my
• 1:16:54
  gosh.
• 1:16:54
  We're
• 1:16:55
  going
• 1:16:55
  to
• 1:16:55
  have
• 1:16:55
  all
• 1:16:55
  the
• 1:16:55
  things.
• 1:16:56
  We
• 1:16:56
  have
• 1:16:56
  so
• 1:16:56
  many
• 1:16:56
  plans.
• 1:16:57
  Love
• 1:16:57
  it.
• 1:16:57
  Love
• 1:16:58
  it.
• 1:16:58
  Thank
• 1:16:58
  you.
• 1:16:58
  If
• 1:16:59
  you
• 1:16:59
  needed
• 1:16:59
  permission
• 1:17:00
  to
• 1:17:00
  stop
• 1:17:00
  over
• 1:17:01
  hosting,
• 1:17:01
  overthinking,
• 1:17:02
  and
• 1:17:03
  over
• 1:17:03
  apologizing
• 1:17:04
  for
• 1:17:04
  your
• 1:17:04
  throw
• 1:17:05
  pillows,
• 1:17:06
  consider
• 1:17:06
  this
• 1:17:07
  your
• 1:17:07
  sign.
• 1:17:08
  Laura
• 1:17:08
  just
• 1:17:09
  reminded
• 1:17:09
  us
• 1:17:09
  that
• 1:17:10
  great
• 1:17:10
  entertaining
• 1:17:11
  isn't
• 1:17:11
  about
• 1:17:11
  impressing
• 1:17:12
  people,
• 1:17:13
  it's
• 1:17:13
  about
• 1:17:13
  connecting
• 1:17:14
  with
• 1:17:14
  them
• 1:17:15
  and
• 1:17:15
  midlife.
• 1:17:16
  That's
• 1:17:17
  our
• 1:17:17
  magic
• 1:17:17
  zone.
• 1:17:18
  Make
• 1:17:18
  sure
• 1:17:19
  you
• 1:17:19
  follow
• 1:17:19
  the
• 1:17:20
  iconic
• 1:17:20
  midlife
• 1:17:21
  wherever
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  tomorrow
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  episode.
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  And
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  hey,
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  let's
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  keep
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  the
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  RedCorporoxy
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  media
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  behind
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  the
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  scenes
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  laughs
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  and
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  midlife
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  fire.
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  next
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  time,
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  bold,
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  keep
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  it
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  iconic.
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  Thanks.