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- 0:00In this lessons episode, discover why traditional sales methods like BAND fail to uncover real buyer
- 0:05needs. Learn how reframing questions create deeper conversations, understand the role of
- 0:09tonality in building trust, and explore why connecting to human motivations shorten sales cycles
- 0:13and drives meaningful results.
- 0:22If you think about everyone you're selling to at the end of the day, they're all humans,
- 0:26they're all worried about keeping their job and pressing their boss, getting a bonus,
- 0:30getting a raise, getting a promotion, and anything they're buying from you in theory can
- 0:36accomplish that to some degree. So how do you tie back into what they care about? And also
- 0:42it's interesting. When I was in sales, we were kind of at a surface level knew that if
- 0:49you actually solved the person problems, they would champion you to solve the company problems.
- 0:56But to shorten the sales cycle, it was always about finding intent. So it was always about finding
- 1:02somebody that was already looking for your solution as opposed to going in cold. I've never heard
- 1:07of using like a human connection to shorten the sales cycle, which makes it makes a ton of sense
- 1:13when you think about it like that because we were always told just like if you focus on
- 1:18properly qualifying the leads. But you're laughing. Don't tell me that you're BAND. Yes. Oh God.
- 1:25So here's my problem because they try to teach me BAND when I got into B2B and I'm like,
- 1:30I guess so so many holes through that. I'm like, you're asking them what their budget is in the
- 1:35first five minutes of a conversation before they even know what the real problems are. How they
- 1:39know what their budget is for some things they don't even know what needs to be solved. Like you're
- 1:44you're really suggesting that these prospects understand what their real problems are when you
- 1:48first start talking to them. Unlikely nobody does. They might understand that they have like one
- 1:53problem and that's the problem with with with most sales training is they'll teach you like the
- 1:58prospect tells you a problem and then they start selling to that problem. But the thing is is I
- 2:05prospects don't don't know what they need, right? It's like it's like an analogy of you know you
- 2:10have this like crazy ass headache one morning, bad migraine and you're like, I need some
- 2:15medication. I have a headache and you go to the urgent care and they're like, you know, they
- 2:20don't ask any questions like here just go take this, right? How do you know that it's actually
- 2:27solving anything? But instead you go to a different doctor and she starts asking you some questions
- 2:31about the pain and where you feel the pain and and how long you felt the pain and what the pain
- 2:36is preventing you from being able to do. And suddenly her questions start to get you to internalize
- 2:41it. You might have a much bigger problem than the originally thought you had. The headache
- 2:46and then she suggests you might want to do a CAT scan and it comes back here but a tumor
- 2:50and it's terminal and you got two weeks to live. So see now you start to understand what your real
- 2:54problems are. Okay, but most sales people, I'll give you an example, there's one of our new
- 3:00clients that I went and did a workshop for them, a couple weeks ago in California. They're a big
- 3:05got precious metals dealer like gold and silver and their sales people like a prospect would
- 3:12would come in and most of their prospects are usually a little bit older, you know, 50, 60s,
- 3:16they're like Armageddon, you know, the skies, you know, they end the world is ending maybe it is
- 3:21those people. I know I need to protect everything with gold. And so their big thing is they would come
- 3:27in and they said, well, hey, what's causing you to look at precious metals? That was their first
- 3:30question and like, well, I want to hedge against inflation and then like, well, let me show you how
- 3:35we do that. So they give them a problem and they sell that problem. I'm like, well, what happens though
- 3:41if they go home that night and they turn on Fox News and Fox is like, inflation's going down,
- 3:47the new presidents doing a really good job, the new administrations getting everything down,
- 3:51well, now they're like, well, maybe I don't need gold because inflation's going down and then you
- 3:56lost the deal because you tried to sell to one problem, but I want to build a huge gap. I don't
- 4:01want to help them find just this one problem they think they have. I want to help them find two or
- 4:06three or four or five other problems they didn't realize they had. Now the gap's so big that even
- 4:12if they go in and turn on the TV and it says inflation's going down, there's five other reasons
- 4:17why they want to change. They're still buying. That's a difference. What would be the strategy for
- 4:23B2B or B2C to start to uncover those things outside of building true report, not like surface
- 4:29levels. It's not just how you it's how you frame the questions and it's how you ask them your
- 4:36tone. That's going to determine if you see doubt or not in the process because if I'm like what's
- 4:41some some surface level consultative questions. Can you tell me some of your challenges Mr.
- 4:46Prospect? Can you tell me two problems that keep you awake at night? Can you can you tell me some
- 4:51issues you're having? Your prospects know where those questions lead, right? Every especially
- 4:58in B2B, every company asks like the same generic surface level questions, right? And so that's
- 5:05why most of them give you vague generalized surface level answers back. So I just need to refrain
- 5:11that question and I might say so you've been with XYZ company the last four years. I mean
- 5:19what's causing you to feel like you might want to look at someone else? See rather than me saying
- 5:26what are your challenges? See how I refrained. I'm basically asked that same question but I refrained
- 5:31it a different way and the prospect doesn't recognize that pattern. See our brains as human beings
- 5:36we recognize patterns and so if you ask the same type of questions that most salespeople are asking
- 5:42them, they recognize the pattern and that's why they stay surface level. But with the way I frame
- 5:48that question and I would probably make it more specific depending on who I'm talking to what I'm
- 5:52selling. That's a generic version. So you've been with XYZ company the last five years. I mean
- 5:56they're fairly decent. I mean what's causing you to feel like you might want to look at something else?
- 6:03Well you know we like them but and now they start to tell me what they don't like because of
- 6:08how I frame that question. They're nice to the pattern. That makes sense. It makes it a ton of
- 6:13sense but you're also very purposeful with your tonality and your inflection and your pauses.
- 6:17So and in a real sales situation it's going to be a little bit different there. I'm kind of
- 6:23telling everybody what to do and exaggerating that but your tone is there to see doubt
- 6:28with what they have or don't have that triggers their nervous system to be like oh maybe we
- 6:34don't maybe we do have a problem with that but I can see that with my doubt. There's five
- 6:39types of tonalities you have to master. If you want to be top 1% in sales influence persuasion
- 6:44you get to master the curious tone. Let's say if I market agency. So walk me through. What do
- 6:50you guys do to generate new leads and clients now? That's a curious tone. There's a confused tone.
- 6:57Now why would I use a confused tone? I'm not saying you've got dementia confused. I don't know
- 7:02how this thing works but let's say if a prospect says something like oh gosh I'm feeling so much
- 7:08pressure with this XYZ problem pressure or oh how how do you mean by pressure?
- 7:14So I'm confused. Now what that does subconsciously is their brain immediately says to them oh he
- 7:20didn't understand what I meant by that. I need to explain that better and you see how they now
- 7:25they start to open up. Well what I mean by pressure is and that they start to tell you. See the
- 7:31the two biggest emotional drivers that causes a human being to want to change are pain
- 7:37and the fear of future pain. Pleasure is a distant third. Most people don't just change because
- 7:42they want something cool. It's pain of their current state or past history and then getting
- 7:49them to feel a fear that this pain is going to keep going or could happen in the future and that
- 7:55causes them to feel urgency to want to do something about it and change. That's how I could
- 8:00speed up my sales cycles right. Then you have like a challenging tone you know I'm not going to
- 8:05do that in the first part of the conversation because I don't have much trust or credibility but
- 8:09later on I can challenge them or something. What happens if this doesn't actually get solved?
- 8:14Okay that's generic and then I have a concerned tone and tone that shows empathy. What's really
- 8:20holding you back? What's really holding you back John you know if they're not moving forward
- 8:25and then have a playful tone right. Let's say if I sold life insurance and you know that's
- 8:32an industry where the male will be like oh I don't know I'll just you know I'll just let my wife
- 8:36you know she'll have to deal with that with her new husband that she marries you know and they kind
- 8:40of blow off like it's like an objection. So how am I going to get that prospect to lower their
- 8:45guard. I might lean in like well what's going on man she already looking to replace you what's
- 8:50going on over there man. Oh no she's not looking to replace me. Well I don't want you to sleep
- 8:54but on the couch tonight if she heard you say that and I was serious since though how many
- 8:58months would she be able to pay for the house without your income to the tone shift. Yeah so
- 9:04but you make a real tone and then I go into like that serious like I'm concerned for your tone
- 9:09because I am. Remember I'm doing it for them not to them but the playful tone that gets in the
- 9:15laugh I'm doing that for I'm doing that to disarm them because it releases dopamine in their brain
- 9:21it's a disar it just disarms them they their guard comes down right and remember I'm not doing
- 9:25that to them I'm doing it for them because if I can't get them to let their guard down they don't
- 9:30become open to what I'm offering and I'm the one that's there to solve their problems you know
- 9:35when I think about sort of your methodology you combine the behavioral with the very very
- 9:40tactical but if you look at other you mentioned Tony Robbins I know you've spoken about NLP before
- 9:46you're talking about tonality and pausing what other behavioral components or psychological
- 9:52components are valid and is there any validity in NLP or any of these other yeah for sure but what
- 9:59is a lot of that is used more for more stage selling but it's it's see a lot of people like they
- 10:05get this concept that if I say the words it should work but it's not necessarily how you say it's
- 10:11how you say the words the tonality so any pq is my methodology the N stands for neuro which
- 10:19stands for nervous system okay so if I if I triggered the prospects you know into fight
- 10:27or flight mode their nervous system is up their guard is up so the N stands for nervous system E
- 10:33emotional connection okay if I can't connect with them emotionally where they feel like I
- 10:40understand them more than their best friend you know I'm at a disadvantage so how do I do that
- 10:47okay it's it's the tonality it's my body language it's even my facial expressions because your
- 10:54facial expressions I always say they're remote control to your the same call to your tone try
- 10:59having a confused tone with the straight face you're really hard to do that right so you can't
- 11:06do that so even if I'm on the phone and they can't see me does my body language affect this
- 11:12yeah it does because if I'm just sitting there in the chair I'm standing up like motionless when
- 11:17I'm talking I'm gonna say I'm more like a monotone robot I always say monotone body language
- 11:22equals monotone tonality and so many salespeople do that especially they call call because they just
- 11:27set there it's like they sound like telemarketers you know the p stands for persuasion and the q stands
- 11:33for questioning so any methodology that has to do with the emotional connection the nervous system
- 11:41like NLP Tony Robbins teaches a lot about this I don't I can't remember his methodology what is
- 11:46called those type of things are going to influence the prospects and get them into an emotional
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