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Olivia Caridi - Unveiling Behind-the-Scenes Of The Bachelor · Cats & Pudding with Jennifer Dilandro

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  Speaker 1: Good afternoon everyone, and today hold on, that's because the
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  Speaker 1: pudding up. Wait, let me have a little taste.
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  Speaker 2: Like moisten it up in there. Give it gives some
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  Speaker 2: moisture in there, a.
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  Speaker 1: Little moist I need to get my throat a little
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  Speaker 1: morshed a little for Clemsia. This is the Cats in
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  Speaker 1: Putting podcast.
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  Speaker 2: A melting pot.
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  Speaker 1: And now here's Jen. Welcome everybody to our episode of
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  Speaker 1: Cats and Pudding. And today I have one of my
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  Speaker 1: favorite people on the show, Olivia Coriti. She is one
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  Speaker 1: of my favorite people. And I'm so glad that you
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  Speaker 1: see it today and eating pudding with me. She cheers.
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  Speaker 2: She has to put it and put it in years.
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  Speaker 1: Isn't putting the best? This is? You know? I do
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  Speaker 1: like the one that putting off the stars pudding rules.
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  Speaker 1: It's so good. I love it.
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  Speaker 2: I love this concept.
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  Speaker 1: I like it too. It's it's all me. It's totally me, right,
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  Speaker 1: just knowing me. You know that this is just you.
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  Speaker 1: I know, I love I have to get a picture
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  Speaker 1: of my cat Pollie on here. He's going to start
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  Speaker 1: coming on the show too. Yes, he's going to start
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  Speaker 1: asking very screwed up questions.
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  Speaker 2: I love it.
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  Speaker 1: He's going to want to get in deep and ask
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  Speaker 1: a lot of good questions. So I guess I.
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  Speaker 2: Mean probably think a better talker than me.
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  Speaker 1: He's going to be. He's going to be a better
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  Speaker 1: talker than me, and that's really hard to be a
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  Speaker 1: good talker. So tell me. I want to hear all
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  Speaker 1: about what's going on. Well, first of all, tell everybody
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  Speaker 1: you know what your She was on an excellent show.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people know this show. This is probably
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  Speaker 1: the the the crown jewel of reality shows. It you
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  Speaker 1: would be at least I think it kind of still is.
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  Speaker 2: Kind of still is.
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  Speaker 1: I think it kind of still is because people people
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  Speaker 1: of all ages watched the show.
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  Speaker 3: They do. She was on the Bachelor Bachelor, Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: That was so long ago?
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  Speaker 1: How long ago was it?
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  Speaker 2: So?
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  Speaker 3: I filmed in twenty fifteen and it aired in twenty sixteen,
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  Speaker 3: so that's wow. And I've never shown my face since
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  Speaker 3: then outside of one brief stint.
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  Speaker 2: Really yeah?
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  Speaker 1: How long we w on the sholf floor? Well?
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  Speaker 2: I was number five?
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  Speaker 1: Wow? So at you made it to the almost to
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  Speaker 1: the end?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: So how many how many episodes is that? With the Bolop?
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  Speaker 1: I haven't watched it in years, honestly, it's terrible that
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  Speaker 1: I said.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I actually, well, what's funny? I didn't watch my season,
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  Speaker 3: so I I was.
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  Speaker 1: The did you ever watch your season?
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  Speaker 3: I watched the first episode because I knew that the
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  Speaker 3: first episode was pretty good, like I got the first
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  Speaker 3: impression Rose and I. People didn't hate me at that point,
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  Speaker 3: so I was like, okay, this this episode.
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  Speaker 1: Are you saying that people hated you many?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow, So you were the villain or the bitch?
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  Speaker 2: Well I was the villain.
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  Speaker 3: I would say I was a combin I would say
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  Speaker 3: people would think I was overconfident.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, which maybe it was bitchy.
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  Speaker 1: Why because he.
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  Speaker 3: Really liked me, Like he liked me for a long time,
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  Speaker 3: and then when he didn't anymore, I just.
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  Speaker 1: How does that work? How do you like somebody for? So? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: How many? How long does it really take place? Like
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  Speaker 1: how long is the sure process?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: So I was on for I filmed for a month.
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  Speaker 3: The winner will probably film for like six weeks if
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  Speaker 3: I had to guess, So, yeah, whatever, I mean, it
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  Speaker 3: felt like the shortest and the longest thing in the
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  Speaker 3: entire world at the same time, like obviously so short
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  Speaker 3: because like I don't even know this person, but also
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  Speaker 3: you're just so exhausted, so tired, like.
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  Speaker 1: The person all day long.
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  Speaker 2: No, you're never with him, you're never with him.
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  Speaker 3: I mean I never got a one on one, so
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  Speaker 3: I can't speak to what it's like to happen.
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  Speaker 1: It's a little fucked up. Yeah, the whole the whole thing,
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  Speaker 1: like the whole process of it is very weird, and
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  Speaker 1: it could be very like I would say, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: I say say damaging, but like, well, yeah, ego up
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  Speaker 1: a little.
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  Speaker 2: Bit, Yeah well I was mentally I was bad.
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  Speaker 1: The fact they tried to basically screw your ego up.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well yeah I was.
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  Speaker 3: I was messed up for years afterward, debatably still am.
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  Speaker 3: But in the moment, it's just weird because like you
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  Speaker 3: maybe get like two minutes with him every other day,
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  Speaker 3: and then that two minutes that you get, it's so
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  Speaker 3: inauthentic because all you're thinking of is like, I have
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  Speaker 3: two minutes. Here's what I have to talk about a person,
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  Speaker 3: like I have to talk about.
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  Speaker 1: What was the first thing that popped in? You had
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  Speaker 1: to talk about like the first minute, the first two
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  Speaker 1: minutes that you actually got.
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  Speaker 3: I remember, like when I first met him, I actually
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  Speaker 3: got a good amount of time the first night they actually.
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  Speaker 1: Did he did he get married to the person? That's nothing?
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  Speaker 1: Is he still a famous.
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  Speaker 3: Man married to a normal girl, very nice girl. Ironically,
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  Speaker 3: we are i'd say, like him and I are friends
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  Speaker 3: more so than anyone else from the season, which is
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  Speaker 3: always funny because sorry, but yeah, I think I think
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  Speaker 3: it took years of me being like angry about how
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  Speaker 3: everything went, and then him and I talked and he
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  Speaker 3: apologized for everything, and it was like, okay, we're we're
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  Speaker 3: at peace with this now, like he's cool.
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  Speaker 2: Fine, Yeah, we were never romantically supposed to be.
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  Speaker 1: Do you never kissed them? Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I mean we we kissed. That's all.
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  Speaker 3: Like people always say, you know, was there any hookups? Like, personally,
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  Speaker 3: I could not see where that would happen.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe it did for me.
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  Speaker 3: I couldn't have even gotten close if I tried so,
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  Speaker 3: but maybe it happens.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. So the first two minutes, what was
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  Speaker 1: the first thing?
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  Speaker 3: Well, I remember I got lucky the first night because
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  Speaker 3: producers came to me and said, hey, we're going to
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  Speaker 3: take you to him, which is different because the first
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  Speaker 3: night with thirty women, you're just like chomping at the
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  Speaker 3: bit to where is he and when can I grab him?
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  Speaker 3: And so I thought that that was going to be
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  Speaker 3: my situation. And then all of a sudden, you know,
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  Speaker 3: production brought me to her, and kind of when I
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  Speaker 3: knew I was already in trouble was we finished our
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  Speaker 3: conversation and some of the girls were like, the producers
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  Speaker 3: were cock blocking us, like we were trying to go
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  Speaker 3: interrupt your conversation and they were saying no, which made
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  Speaker 3: me think that in their mind they wanted this us
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  Speaker 3: to have like a great scene together. I'm not saying
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  Speaker 3: they knew I was going to get the first impression Rose,
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  Speaker 3: but maybe they just wanted to build up the potential.
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  Speaker 3: So but oh my god, I was. I think all
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  Speaker 3: we talked about was just being nervous. And I told
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  Speaker 3: him at the time, I was a news anchor, so
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  Speaker 3: I talked a little bit about you know, being a
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  Speaker 3: news anchor and YadA YadA, but.
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  Speaker 2: Like the whole thing.
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  Speaker 3: Also, I feel like I was I was sober on
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  Speaker 3: the show, but I say that I was like blacked
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  Speaker 3: out the entire time.
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  Speaker 2: I could not tell you what I say.
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  Speaker 1: You guys drink on the show or not that shot.
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  Speaker 1: They don't.
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  Speaker 3: I always say it's not forced, but it was always available. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: Like if you wanted to drink all day, you could
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  Speaker 3: times ten, but I did not drink. I had one
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  Speaker 3: shot the entire time. I wish I had drank, honestly,
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  Speaker 3: maybe that's like with courage. I just could have been
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  Speaker 3: a little I was so like up tight.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like like old. I was twenty three.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so you were a baby. I mean you were
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  Speaker 1: a baby?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Have you did you ever have a long relationship before that?
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  Speaker 1: Like like I.
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  Speaker 3: Had a college boyfriend, but I wouldn't. It was like
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  Speaker 3: a year and a half or something like that, very
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  Speaker 3: nice boy.
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't even really like it.
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  Speaker 3: Was serious in that like I thought I was in
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  Speaker 3: love kind of thing, but it wasn't.
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  Speaker 2: It was college. So no, I mean Ben was like
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  Speaker 2: my first shot at.
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  Speaker 1: Did you Did you feel like you could fall in
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  Speaker 1: love with him? When? Did you? Like when you first
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  Speaker 1: when you first got there, were like really going there?
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  Speaker 1: I felt like, I did you want to go there
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  Speaker 1: to be on TV? No?
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  Speaker 2: I went I I'm from Texas.
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  Speaker 3: Everyone like not the expectation, but getting married at twenty
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  Speaker 3: three is not shocking when you're from there, so.
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  Speaker 1: Well I'm Italian, so so it's the same thing. So
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  Speaker 1: it's like, Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: The idea was my parents were married on Good Morning America,
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  Speaker 3: and it was always fun to have footage of them,
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  Speaker 3: like getting married and walking down the aisle and planning
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  Speaker 3: the wedding and all this stuff.
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  Speaker 1: So My Morning America back in the.
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  Speaker 3: Day when you could just walk into a TV news
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  Speaker 3: broadcast center and just say hi.
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  Speaker 2: My mom had seen a.
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  Speaker 3: Commercial from GMA just saying we're looking for couples to
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  Speaker 3: follow down the aisle, and this was when my mom
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  Speaker 3: could just.
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  Speaker 2: Walk in and sack us. They had a really unique dynamic.
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  Speaker 3: My mom was so excited to get married and my
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  Speaker 3: dad is just very like okay, you know, so even
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  Speaker 3: back then, production's dream and so yeah, they got picked
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  Speaker 3: and the cameras followed them.
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  Speaker 2: And then my mom got pregnant.
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  Speaker 3: With me so quickly that there's little baby Olivia getting
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  Speaker 3: her diaper changed.
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  Speaker 2: There's footage really GMA.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Wow, it's amazing.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm like a hopeless romantic. I think my mom
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  Speaker 3: is too. She thought how cool would it be if
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  Speaker 3: this worked? And then we had, you know, ABC could
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  Speaker 3: reuse our marriage footage, and it was like this whole
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  Speaker 3: kind of dreamy thing, right, and I felt like I
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  Speaker 3: was falling in love with him. But then I remember
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  Speaker 3: like when he sent me home, I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: like I don't even know this man, anything about this person?
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  Speaker 1: How did you How could you feel like you will
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  Speaker 1: fall in love with them? How many literally how many
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  Speaker 1: minutes did you actually spend with him that whole time
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  Speaker 1: in a month, Like how would you say the.
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  Speaker 3: Mouth of maybe like forty five minutes total just me
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  Speaker 3: and him.
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  Speaker 1: And you thought you could fall in love with somebody
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  Speaker 1: after forty five minutes or you it was just because
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  Speaker 1: they were It's just.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like every interview that you do, it's like
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  Speaker 3: how amazing is he?
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  Speaker 2: And wouldn't he be the best husband?
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  Speaker 3: And every waking moment you're just thinking about like how
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  Speaker 3: to get time with him and what to talk to
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  Speaker 3: him about.
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  Speaker 2: He's so gorgeous, and you just get.
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  Speaker 3: Really and I and the date the dates are not
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  Speaker 3: walking through Central Park, it's taking a helicopter above Central
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  Speaker 3: Park and you know, and then having dinner on top
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  Speaker 3: of the Eiffel Tower, like you know, it's just it's
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  Speaker 3: not normal dates.
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  Speaker 1: So you get really How many dates did you go
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  Speaker 1: on with him?
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  Speaker 3: I was only on group dates and I had one, two, three.
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  Speaker 2: I had three group dates.
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  Speaker 3: And I was on the two on one date as well,
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  Speaker 3: which is the terrible one, just you and one other girl,
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  Speaker 3: and the one other girl hated me and that, yeah that.
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  Speaker 1: Was not what did they So? So you were in there,
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  Speaker 1: so you were kind of in the in the running
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  Speaker 1: because you were pretty. You were fifth early early on,
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  Speaker 1: I was right, yeah, so what so what changed? What happened?
• 11:03
  Speaker 2: He found?
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  Speaker 3: He found the girl he picked and then, like I'll
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  Speaker 3: argue with anyone from my season who says, oh, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I was hopeful. No, we knew who he was going
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  Speaker 3: to pick. He couldn't take his eyes off of her. She's,
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  Speaker 3: you know, beautiful, and I knew the whole time. I
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  Speaker 3: mean once it wasn't me, and I just felt that click.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, it's it's Lauren R.
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  Speaker 1: And he was with her for a while after that.
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  Speaker 2: I think they were together for I might be wrong,
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  Speaker 2: like eight months.
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  Speaker 3: They did a TV show right afterwards, which I always
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  Speaker 3: think is a dangerous game. Yes, uh, but yeah, I mean,
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  Speaker 3: like I think they it's really easy to get wrapped.
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  Speaker 3: You don't know, you don't know each other. Like there
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  Speaker 3: there have been success stories for sure, but it's just
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  Speaker 3: you have to like, it's against all oddsship basically with
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  Speaker 3: this person.
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  Speaker 1: How I mean not that long. It's first of all,
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  Speaker 1: a month is not long at all, just even on
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  Speaker 1: a regular beast is even if you are spending time
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  Speaker 1: with somebody, because it looks in the beginning of relationship
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  Speaker 1: you with that person all the time you're talking on
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  Speaker 1: the phone with them.
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  Speaker 2: You are I don't even have them, I didn't have
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  Speaker 2: his number. So you have to.
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  Speaker 1: Basis on maybe like five minutes, you're not even being.
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  Speaker 3: With some if you're getting engaged, you're basically agreeing to
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  Speaker 3: like date with a ring on your.
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  Speaker 1: Face, basically, right, you had to get to know somebody's.
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  Speaker 2: Like a rail wind.
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  Speaker 3: It's very exciting, it's a cool It's definitely was an
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  Speaker 3: amazing opportunity in terms of like, there are thousands of
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  Speaker 3: people that apply and I still to this day can't
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  Speaker 3: believe that it happened to me, right, and it's it
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  Speaker 3: is still something cool to tell my kids one day,
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, what what a whirlwind.
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  Speaker 1: You would never do that again, No, you would never
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  Speaker 1: go on that show. Did you go on any other
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  Speaker 1: shows after that or not? No?
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  Speaker 3: I during COVID, actually they couldn't film, so they did
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  Speaker 3: a greatest seasons ever where they kind of did where
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  Speaker 3: are they now? And so Ben's season was one of them,
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  Speaker 3: and they interviewed me and they built it up as
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  Speaker 3: like the first time we've heard from her in five years,
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  Speaker 3: and they really the commercials, they really went for it.
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  Speaker 3: But that episode went really well for me. My Bachelor
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  Speaker 3: came on and apologized to me to the public and
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  Speaker 3: Chris Harrison, the host at the time, apologized and all.
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  Speaker 3: You know. But but that was the only other thing
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  Speaker 3: I did was that. Oh and I did I did
• 13:35
  Speaker 3: family Feud. Yeah, it was Bachelor's versus Bachelorettes. So there
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  Speaker 3: was like I don't know how many five or six
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  Speaker 3: guys versus five girls, and we have so fun.
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  Speaker 1: Did you no?
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  Speaker 3: We were winning? This is why the fun we were wasted?
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  Speaker 3: We did I didn't. I don't know how to play
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  Speaker 3: the game still, And when we lost, it was like
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  Speaker 3: we were winning the entire time and we missed one
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  Speaker 3: and it went back to the guys and I got
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  Speaker 3: it right, and all of a sudden, it was like
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: the boys win, and I was like, how because but
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  Speaker 3: I also didn't understand the.
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  Speaker 2: Scoring, Like I was like, oh darn, but that was
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  Speaker 2: probably the coolest TV thing I've ever done. It's a
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  Speaker 2: family Yeah. I would do that over Bachelor all day.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I've been watching that show since I'm a kid.
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  Speaker 1: So would you What do you think about the news
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: show that's on rate?
• 14:25
  Speaker 2: I love it? Golden Bachelor? Yeah, I love it?
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  Speaker 1: Can I get a Golden Bachelor?
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  Speaker 2: I think I don't think you're old enough.
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  Speaker 1: I know I'm not golden yet. And I'm like, I'm like, tan,
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  Speaker 1: I'm very I haven't seen it. I haven't. I thought
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  Speaker 1: it was cute. I love it, and I thought it's
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  Speaker 1: actually something that is needed. But I also think they
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: should do something for women and men in my age group, Like.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I think it's just like a test, right, this
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  Speaker 3: was like we'll see how this goes, and I I
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: think the ratings from when I last checked were really good. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: so maybe you know this is the thing that they start. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: maybe let's get some people in their fifth their sixties,
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  Speaker 3: you know.
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  Speaker 1: But I mean, if you think about adults, most of
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  Speaker 1: the people who are still who were home watching TV
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  Speaker 1: for the most part they are. I mean they're going
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: to be because it's on you know, it's on a
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  Speaker 1: major network, because they don't it's right, it's on the time.
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  Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's eight oct I.
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  Speaker 1: Mean most people, I mean most people aren't home at
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  Speaker 1: that time. Young people aren't going to be watching primetime network.
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  Speaker 3: Everyone's watching on Hulu right now, right, you know, anyone
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  Speaker 3: our just is doing the Hulu. I feel like there's
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: so much stuff that even has cable anymore.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not I do ive cable, and I do.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not going to do I'm not.
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: Gonna still do, but but I do. I haven't watched
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: a primetime show in yeah, probably I watched ten years TV.
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: It's embarrassing. Yeah, No, I watch a lot of you know,
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: what do I want to I'm into YouTube a lot lately.
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: YouTube.
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I watch a lot of stuff. Yeah, I watch
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: a lot of different so like document documentary, you know,
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: conspiracy I love. Yeah, it's like these you know, scary stuff.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: It's like, you know, like these these mind creepy, creepy pastas.
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: And stuff like that, which is fun. Can't do creepy
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: then I.
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: Can't and I can't sleep. But my and I'm thinking,
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: like there's there's gonna be a double staring at me.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't open my eyes being able to
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: do that. No, I'm scared shitless. No, I'm scared shitless
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: if I try to. It's like it's like something that
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: you don't want to something you want to watch, but
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: you don't want to watch, like a car crash. You're
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: not supposed to like like watching it, but.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: I feel about you watch it. I'm like, I'm literally
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: watching people getting yeah.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: Me too. I love that. I don't know why I
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: love to watch.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: I like to listen to it too, anything you know.
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: And then it one is why I can't sleep a
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: night and I wake up in the morning like because
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: I'm listening to this while I'm sleeping, I'm listening to
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: murders like I was watching the ID Network. Yeah, like
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: like I do. I was so hooked on ID network
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: and I just wake up like what do I feel
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: like such crap in the morning? I said, well maybe
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: because all I'm hearing is.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: About people getting yeah.
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: And then at one point my husband goes to me,
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: why do you keep watching this? I said, because I'm
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: trying to take notes because I'm gonna do it right
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: and not get caught me like I was gonna know him.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: So yeah, let me try to figure out how to
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: do it the right way. Yeah, but yeah, I mean
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: I watched that, But what else do I watch? I like,
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: I do you like the True Crimes? You got? You
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: have to watch the one about what's his name? Romero? Uh?
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: He was? Yeah, what's his Uh? What the heck is
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: his first name? He was? He was Ramirez. Oh wait,
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: he was like hon at Spring in California in the eighties.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: It was so many students feelings.
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: I'm just waiting for the true crime doc about the
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: Long Island guy.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, you know they thought he was a
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: cop for a long time. That was a big thing.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: Fascinating.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: It was a very fascinating.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: I can't that'll come. I'm saying Netflix is on it.
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're totally and now to be is a big
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: deal now yeah, yeah, all of them. You know, it's
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: like you don't even know what to watch anymore. It's
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: somebody you know what show I do love. I love
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: the Guilded Age. I've been watching that. That that right now.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: I love those time pieces. I like them.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: I think it's trash TV for me always.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: You like just trash TV. You like reality a lot
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: watch it. I don't know, I don't want. I mean,
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: I'll get into it on occasion. I just don't get
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: I just don't get into it anymore.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: I just like I have to watch it from home
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: and I have to have TV on in the background,
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: so I'm like kind of half watching everything.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: But I just I feel like I'm you know.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: I watch the TV on, but I have and I
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: that that you know what I rewatched. We watched the Sopranos.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: Honestly, when I go to your office.
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: I love it because there's always like Bravo.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: On and there's always probably lou And I'm like, it's
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: perfect because I have cable in my office so I
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: have on.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: You love your office. I love watching TV at your office, and.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: I love when you come to my life. You always
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: make my day.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: No, I know, but yeah, Golden Bachelor's really good. I'm
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: obsessed with it.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so we have to see if I
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: could get on it. But I think I might be
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: too young. I mean say that.
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: There's I'm sure a lot of the producers that were
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: on the Bachelor when I was on it back then.
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: Maybe there's like two or three left, but I don't know.
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: So there's probably a whole bunch of new faces that
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: I would have no pull.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: Unfortunately, I would probably, but you would be you would
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: be amazing. Yeah, but I said, I don't think. I
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: don't think I'm there yet. Like I said, I think
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: I'm still like Tan, I'm not golden yet. I'm not there.
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: I don't want to admit it when I'm like sad,
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: I'm not that close to seventy. I mean, I am
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: close to seventy than I am.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: Twenty about day over forty.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love you. God, bless you.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: God bless you.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: God love your child. God love you. I love your child.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: So tell me what else is going on in your
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: life now?
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: Oh gosh, yeah, I mean kind of. I graduated with
• 19:59
  Speaker 3: my masters last year.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: That's amazing, thank you. Yeah.
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: So I'm just work. I work all day.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: What do you What do you do? I work.
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: I'm the assistant brand manager on John Frida.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, that's amazing.
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: Sometimes I say John Frida and people are like, oh
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: my god, or they're like, what's that. John Frida was
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: huge in the nineties early two thousands, but but yeah,
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: so I work full time in the beauty industry and
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: I played pickleball.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: What that's all I do?
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: It's the new It's the new rage. It's like it's
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: kind of like tennis but smaller. I actually I was
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: always wondering.
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: What why pickleball?
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: And someone told me recently it's a guy created the sport.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: Was it like Washington or something, and he had a
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: dog named Pickles or something, and.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: It's so weird.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's it's like this sport has just took
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: over in New York this summer and I got the
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: I got, I got bit by the bug and I pick.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: I mean over the summer.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: I was playing like they parks and stuff. Yeah, so
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: like Central Park, the Woman Arena area where that ice
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: rink is, they turned it into pickleball.
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: It was like twenty of them.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: And of course, I mean New York is like, can
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: we monetize this?
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: So it's like one hundred and freaking twenty dollars an
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: hour to play pickleball.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: They're just making a killing on this sport.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: I will tell how this works.
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: It's just like it's very similar to tennis. It's not
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: like a string racket it's like a kind of it's
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: not plastic, but so it's like it's like it looks
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: like a paddle right thing, and you know, there's it's
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: basically it's like tennis but with a little light ball
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: with holes in it.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: Anyone who plays pickleball and listens.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: So it's kind of like the ball that the dogs
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: play with.
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: Me on and plastic.
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: And like my sister was a college athlete and anytime
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: she watches pickleball because it is a professional sport now, and.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: It was.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: Because I never heard it's been like it took.
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: Off this summer, like New York went wild for pickleball.
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: I think it's been around for a few years. But
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: people like it because, like you know, people like elderly
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: peopople can play pickleball like any It's it's lighter on
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: the body, but you're still getting out and exercising, like
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: I play pitty.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: So basically you don't have to be this overwhelming.
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: Big no, I mean, like playing exactly, and like I'm
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: pretty competitive at this point, and I have my little
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: group of competitive people, but there's on court. I literally
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: I call them my pickle people. That's what I did
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: all summer and I'm obsessed. I'm actually injured right now,
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: so I'm you can't.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: It's really hard get injured playing pickleball.
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: I need to get I have got my third stress
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: fracture in my life. I have a stress fracture and
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: my left hip in the same spot. I've had two
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: in my lower back my l five on one on
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: each side. So now now every morning I pour like
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: as if I can somehow reverse the damage that I've
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: done with orange juice. I'll have like a big thing
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: of OJ and all these multi vitamins. Now I'm just
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: trying to do anything i can to get back. Yeah,
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: well I got an MRI.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: I've I've been told to.
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: Stay boring, is what my doctor says, because I was
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: also addicted to Berry's boot camp and running pretty intensely
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: a few days and so yeah, I'm I'm I'm out
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: right now.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: I'm boring.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: So you can't play pickle no pickleball to watch it though.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: I can't even do that. It's too depressing because then.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: You want to go play. Well, you'll be about this soon.
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: Will I have another X ray just for Thanksgiving? So
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: hopefully my doctor said.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: I don't feel that bit in my age of that.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: I don't even have stretch.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: No, that's that's.
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: Why I'm not amazing if I need to get like
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: a bone density scan or something, because I'm like.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: We do.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: I'm thirty two years old. I'm relatively healthy.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: Look.
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, So I'm like, that's going on. Am I discovering
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: that I have a problem here?
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: No, it's always something that you could fix.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: So yeah, and there I think there is osteoporosis.
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: And my family a little bit. I think I said,
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: that's the penia. My mom has the penia or whatever.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: The industry, that's what you that's what you need to do.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: You need to get yourself some calcium and castleton.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: We're working on it.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: You look great.
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: Thank you. You do too. I do that, you really do.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: Skin looks fantastic.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: I think you keep it coming. Keep telling me how
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: want not a.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: Single ZiT or nothing on your face?
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: Girl? Well, I hope.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: Meanwhile, I don't know.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: I've been getting its lately, and what's going on in
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: my fifties. I'm never I never ever suffered from acting
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: in my life ever, jell, and now I get sometimes
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: I get these zits on my face, like these big ones.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: I'm like hormonal ones I don't have on I have
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: no I don't have hormon me. I have nothing to
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: create zero. I have zero. Like when where they I
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: don't know where the hell are coming from. I don't know,
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: but I get one on my chin. I'll get one
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: on my phone. It's always somewhere.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: Stress.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: Probably stress. It could be definitely stress because I have
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: a lot of stress.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: Well, and you're running run a huge, huge company at
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: this point, and you got the broadcast and you got
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: all these people coming through the door every day saying,
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: make me look pity.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: I know, it's a lot.
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: It's I just realized, like my forehead is starting to
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: come in.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: I was plug place, New York. Everybody come in to
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: see me.
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: I was panicking a little bit. I was on FaceTime
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: and I was like, oh my god.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, everybody that's forehead. People start coming. When
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: people come in like oh my god, I was, oh, yeah,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: like crap, I need to come in.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: It's so bad.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: I know. Thank God for Zoom people.
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: Really, look, I know I live on My entire life
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: is just on Zoom constantly.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: I work from Is that you work from home? How
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: is it working from home?
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: I don't it has its advantages.
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: And I know that if and when I get a
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: job in New York, I'm gonna eat my words for sure,
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: because I'm gonna be like, what the heck is this
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: going into the office thing? But uh no, I think
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: it's more just I'm single. It's sometimes I don't even
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: leave my apartment.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: So what do you do get old dressed up from me?
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: I mean I don't even I wouldn't even say dressed up.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: I wear like pants, like their pants down. On one
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: of the news there was.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: There was a hilarious store. All I know is I
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: saw this great picture over COVID when everyone was on
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: zoom of this guy on like a big work meeting,
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: a bunch of faces on the screen, and he's just
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: button naked, like full dick out. I wasn't realized if
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: a god, you know that they camp, but that's so
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: easy to do, or like I I'll be on calls
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: and I think I'm muted and I'm not, and I'll
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: just be like, oh, this ship's so annoying.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: What I used to do that when during COVID, especially
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: when the kids were on, Like there's the calls with school,
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: and I would be like in the background like cars,
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: and it's like shut the phone out and all of
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: a sudden, ye with school, everybody's.
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: Cars, Like we have just become like animals on the screen.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: But I didn't then, we didn't realize it would take
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: in the classes, you know what I mean. And I'm like,
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: oh my god, the whole class armies cars. So I'm like, oh,
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: the teacher's an asshole. Like I think I said the
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: teacher wasn't I've probably.
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: Been caught saying so much worse. But yeah, so yeah,
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: it's it has its positive. It's definitely like socially not great.
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: My my sister met her husband at work, and so
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: I always am like, I like.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: The fact to go to work. That's what that's what
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: I think that that you guys are missing by doing that.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: It's getting dress, going to work, going when I used
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: to get up and go to work, when I used
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: to work in the city. The love I mean, I
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: love getting up at six o'clock in the morning to
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: get back.
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: I would do it if it meant like happening.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: I loved it. I love being out, I love being
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: in that environment. I love being around other people, Like
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: that's so much fun, Like that's part you need.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm gonna find it. It'll, it'll happen. I'm
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: looking around.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, nobody's gonna stop, gonna gonna get off therefore.
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: Or even I'm trying to convince my company to give
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: me like a little stipend for like a we work
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: space or something, just so you know, I'm at least
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: seeing other humans human beings, right, Yeah, because outside of
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: walking my dogs, sometimes you don't see anything all that
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: time around other people. Yeah, And like I feel like
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: as we get older, it's it's so much harder to
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: like even people that I used to hang out with,
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: friends that I used to see all the time. It
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: just becomes harder and harder to see people regularly. What
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: you know, what we were like once we're like, oh,
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: you know, going out to dinner in New York is
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: so expensive and whatever, and I'm just like, oh my god.
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: So I even if it's so.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: Tiring, like yeah, go home, I'm like, oh my god,
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: I have to go to dinner. I have to get Yeah,
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: I got to do that.
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: I gotta make so I need an excuse to leave
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: because sometimes once.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: I'm out of math, though, I'm good, I'm happy when
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: i'm out, but it's like just to get that. It's
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: like it is a lot. Yes, I can imagine my
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: age and I'm a lot older, and.
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: You're an extrovert and I'm not so so I'm already surprised.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: A lot of times when I when I when it's funny,
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: when I go home after a day is well, I
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: want to be left alone. I wanted nobody to talk
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: to me.
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: I cannot picture that.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: Why, Like I have to really I need I need
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: quiet when I go home. I need to relax. I
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: don't want to be. Yeah, I want to be because
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: after old day I'm talking to people all day long,
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: I don't want to talk to him. I can confirm, yeah,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: I just can't after after being with people all day long,
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: I need to just And it's got it's got worse
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: as I gotten old. When I was younger, I didn't care.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: But now in the last few years, I'm like, oh no,
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: I have to.
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: Shut the TV.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: Or yeah, we're getting old. Well you're not getting old.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: I'm getting old. I'm getting older. That's all right, it's
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: all right, right, fifties and new forty forties, thirty thirty
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: and so on and so forth.
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: This is so good.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: You want another one. I want to give you another
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: one out this is my lunch and how but now
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: you're seeing anybody?
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: I'm I keep finding myself in long distance situations. I
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: have a boy that I really like who doesn't live here,
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: and that's a bummer. But yeah, I'm single because like
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: we don't live in the same place. Okay, but I
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: we the sex is very good.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: It's hard.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: It's hard to give it up. It's hard to give
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: it up.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: I'm very I'm very.
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: Single, and I complain body basically. Yeah, I mean, right,
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: how old are you again? I'm almost I turned thirty two.
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: And oh jeez, I got shoes older.
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: Than Yeah, I mean, I'm not It's funny. I'm actually
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: not that worried about it though, Like I'm not someone
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: that's like, oh my god, I'm seeing you want to
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: have kids. I do want to have kids, but I
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: don't know. I'm warming up to the idea that like
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: I could do it just myself.
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: I could do it, you know, I mean freezing my eggs.
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't know. Dating is just like not
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: something that keeps me up at night, you.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Know, what about going on on the apps? I'm on
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: hinge my daughter just found a really nice boyfriendly. Yeah,
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: I mean like for me, I don't know if I
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: would ever do it. But now when I'm seeing all
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: these people like they've been finding people, I don't know.
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: Can I This is gonna sound so I say this
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: very humbly. But my issue that I run into in
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: the apps is that I feel like Jeff is gonna
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: laugh at this is like everyone likes me and meaning
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: like I have like two hundred hearts or whatever. And
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: then I'm I'm just like so overwhelmed because no one's
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: actually like reading my responses. I feel like it's all
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: just very like boooop, yes, yes, yes, And.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: So I'm like, where do I even start?
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: I would rather have two libels, right, and then I
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: can focus on the two.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: Wells because you're beautiful girls.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, it's like, oh, it's overwhelming.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: Can't you narrow? Can't you narrow it down? Like I
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: already have?
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: Like I'm a hype girl.
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: How would you just put an ugly picture of your off?
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: And then so many use.
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: From trust me? I? Yeah, I I have like height
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: is tight tight. I'm just one of those girlies I
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: can't I can't date someone.
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I couldn't date. Well, I'm not pretty. I'm not
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: a medium height, but I could never date.
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: Somebody I'm pretty tall, so that's like a yeah.
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: And then like age, I've got that narrow down a
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: little bit. So I'm trying to.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: What's the old issue? Would date?
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: I have an ex that's twelve years old older than me.
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: It didn't feel like he There was definitely moments of
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: he would make a reference to a movie that I
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: was like.
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: And you have no idea what it was, Like, what
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: are you talking about?
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: So I have it at forty?
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: Okay, well this is not bad.
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: That's yeah, my sweet I thought would be like thirty six,
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: thirty seven.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: I think would you wouldn't do like fifties or sixties?
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: I would if I was like a sugar.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: See. You know what I think to me when I
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: look at it like that, I'm like, I think that
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: you're limiting yourself with somebody that much older. Like you said,
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: how what?
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: What what do you want kids? If you want? Like,
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: it's yeah, why are.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: You really talking about your pretty much dating your father?
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: It's hard.
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: It's hard to I mean, like, yeah, it's like twelve
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: years older. Didn't There were times that there were little things,
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: but like music, like his favorite bands. I was like, what, Yeah,
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: what is that? It's just like little things that I
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: don't know. When I if and when I meet someone,
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: it's like I want them to be my best friend.
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: And that sometimes just can mean shooting the ship about
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: things that.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: Are happening now right now, and if you're not in this,
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: in this, think about the same thing, right.
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: So yeah, forty and then I think my low is
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: is thirty just.
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: Still lower than I would like, But I did I
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: put it there.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: I think that that's okay. Yeah, I think that even
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: I think that forty is a good I think that
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: I think that. I mean, if you're going out with
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: somebody eight to ten years older than you, that's fine. Yeah,
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: I think that's fine. I think once you stop passing
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: that it becomes like awkward and then it becomes like
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: just yeah, like you said, sugar, if you have no problem, listen, hey,
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: an want to date me.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: And pay me an allowance and.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: Give me an allowance, just let me hang out in there,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: yacht ole day.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: I remember my fat as.
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: I remember when I was younger, and that seeking arrangement
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: stuff and all that I could never get off the ground.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: It was like I was like, you know what, I
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: don't even know if I wouldn't even want something like that.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: I'm a little respected.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: I'm mad respected, Like I.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: Said, I would add and to call it too for
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: a little while.
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: Much easier it would be to live as a single
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: person in New York if I had an extra.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: If you had a little sugar down should be helping you.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: But you know what, people don't think it does there.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: It comes with it comes with attachments, it comes with.
• 35:22
  Speaker 3: You know, I'm like a very no attachment. I would
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: be like, I can dump you whenever I want. I
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: cannot see you if I don't want to.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: That doesn't really work for them. So but yeah, I
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: thought about it for a minute.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: Never happened, So it didn't happen. So no sugar, no, okay,
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: all right, so now you'll find Now you're gonna find true,
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: So you will, I think you will. Yeah, listen, I
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: don't help myself, like I'm from like this, this level
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: of the Bachelor. So now you already have some of
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: the tools, so you could figure out you have a
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: lot of the tools.
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: Now, Yeah, no, I mean, uh, I think the Bachelor
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: only helped in terms of like opening doors to meeting
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: very cool people people, and.
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: I'm a big bully. I don't know.
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: I always think like the meeting someone through a friend
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: is great, and I have met so many cool people
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: through the show and then by extension, and so someone's.
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: Gonna be like, hey, I have this friend. It's gonna
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: have Jim Bob, and it's gonna work. I'm not worried about.
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: Or I get a job at a bank and I'm like,
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: I don't know what I do every day, but I'm
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: here to meet mentending is a good way to meet Ben.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: That's a good point.
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: That's a good If all I had to do is
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: like flip a top on a beer, then that's great.
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: But I don't know if I can make cocktails, they
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: would all.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: Be so bad. So you would learn, I would learn terrible, terrible.
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: Tell me what you so. I want you to tell
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: everybody where they could find you. On social media, I'm
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: not the most fun follow but I'm Olivia Coreedi on Instagram.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: I haven't posted in like a year, but get some
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: cool stories up.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: Sometimes you do put some good and then I'm on TikTok.
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: How's your TikTok week?
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: I tried to two weeks. I like gave it my all.
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: I was trying to do all these fun transitions and
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: then these people, these stingy TikTok peeps, never made me viral.
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: Whoever runs the algorithm? I was like, I put weight
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: because those take hours, they do, they take a lot.
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: I don't know how people content all the time, Like
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: that was an hour.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: It's a lot.
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: Like, yeah, so it's a lot. I haven't really posted
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: on that either. I'm really y'all follow me. I think
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: that one's Olivia Underscore Kariti. I'm on good Reads. It's
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: probably where I'm most active, big reader. I think that
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: one's Olivia.
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: No, I'm a book I'm a bookie.
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: I'm a big bookie.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: What you have to find, you have to find somebody.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: Why'd you go hang out on bookstores?
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: I trust me, I know I know what I have
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: to do. It's just that I don't help myself. Well
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: Actually, you gotta get yourself out there a little bit more,
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: just a little bit, a little bit more. Put yourself
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: out there. You're gonna find You're gonna find that right person. Yeah,
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: I know, I'm gonna chease your cheers to finding Jim
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: Bob for Olivia and if I know anybody, I wanna
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: because like I mean, the bar, like I don't even
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: have any prerequisites anymore. You just have to be like mammy.
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: You can you have to be a mammal. You have
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: to have a heartbeat, but other than that.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: And it has to be a little bit twelve but otherwise.
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like height, and like a decent sized dick. At
• 38:39
  Speaker 3: this point, I don't even care. It doesn't even have
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: to decent.
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: It could be decent. It doesn't have to You could
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: work with it.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: The bar is below ground.
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: Okay, we got it all right, so we're gonna have
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: to love it. It's so funny. Well, I'm so glad
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: that you came here today and gave me some of
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: your time. Yeah, I hope you could go put pickle balls.
• 38:59
  Speaker 3: I hope after maybe you'll find my doctor is actually
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: kind of cute.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: Well, you know what, maybe you should.
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: You know, you.
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: Tell me when you want to lick your click, your
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: lick your fracture. You fixed me up, Can you fix
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: me up and give me a little massage on by
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: Fracture's cute?
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: Maybe maybe he wants maybe he wants to ask me
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: out but he's like, I gotta wait till she's not
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: my patient.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: Maybe you could, you know, you could always do that.
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: You can always thank him after he fixes your fraction
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: and say, hey, you want to.
• 39:32
  Speaker 3: Go out for I got my appendix removed in October,
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: and you had sex.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: With the guy who took out.
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: But I had three.
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: I wish I had three of the hottest doctor surgeons
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: or whatever, one of which, like my mom has, needs
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: a hobby. And so I was like, this doctor, I
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: can't remember his name anymore. And she literally takes me
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: back an hour later and she's like, here's his wedding registry.
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: But I was like, she was a slummer. Yeah, so
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: just send it to my mom and she'll be part
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: of the FBI and she'll figure it out.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: And yeah, maybe.
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: Women are very good at that. I have to say,
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: there's nothing, there's nothing. Listen, there's no women are better
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: than any FBI, c any three. It should all be
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: run just by just by women who especially with the scores. Yes,
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: that's it. We can find that women's scorn. You hire
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: them for the FBI. They'll find out anywhere, they'll find
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: out anything.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: That's something for a woman's scorn. I can't remember the saying.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Oh hell hells, no fury like a woman scorns and
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: that is so true.
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: I know so scorned all the time.
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: Well, we know what. We're not going to make you,
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: let you be scorned anymore. We're gonna find you that doctor.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: We're gonna get you with your author, the pedic surgeon.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: We're gonna tell them to lick your fraction, go play
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: pickleball with you, and we'll be okay. All right, everybody
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: for a wonderful day, and remember to watch me on YouTube,
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: Spotify and Apple. Please please, not only the shorts, the
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: whole the whole show. Have a great tell them the
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: whole show, the whole show. Damn it, no shorts, no shorts,
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: the whole shot. Watch the shorts. Everybody, have a great day.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: Thanks bye. That was great. That was so much fun.
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: Perfect