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- 0:00Speaker 1: I am all in again.
- 0:09Speaker 2: Oh that's just you. Y'll More Girls Gazette with Amy
- 0:19Speaker 2: Sugarman and Danielle Romo, an iHeartRadio podcast. It is the
- 0:25Speaker 2: season finale, Baby, season three, episode eighteen, My brother's wedding.
- 0:30Speaker 3: It was It's a good one.
- 0:33Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a really good one. Oh my god.
- 0:36Speaker 2: I watched this last night and I just getting ready
- 0:40Speaker 2: this morning. I just put it back on again because
- 0:42Speaker 2: I was like.
- 0:42Speaker 1: It was so good.
- 0:43Speaker 2: I'm gonna watch it twice.
- 0:44Speaker 3: I was laughing so hard at the opening when they
- 0:47Speaker 3: got in the fight, yes, and the salsa was flying.
- 0:52Speaker 3: It's not even them, that's the best part of it.
- 0:54Speaker 3: It's the rest of the family kind of like what what?
- 0:58Speaker 3: And then later Max he's like, are you gonna get
- 1:00Speaker 3: a consequence? And He's like, if you two are gonna fight,
- 1:03Speaker 3: I can get some salsa. It's so good.
- 1:06Speaker 1: It's so good.
- 1:08Speaker 3: It was good right from good.
- 1:10Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, what do we Okay, should we? Like?
- 1:14Speaker 1: I don't even know where to start doing.
- 1:16Speaker 3: First, Let's start with this, Okay, Sarah Braverman, Lauren Graham,
- 1:20Speaker 3: and Jason Ridder, Okay, what do you do in that situation?
- 1:24Speaker 2: I know, I thought they were breaking up. Well, they did, right,
- 1:27Speaker 2: But I thought that was it. I thought like, oh,
- 1:29Speaker 2: he's this is it. We're done, Like bye bye, Jason
- 1:32Speaker 2: Ridder will never see you again? On the screen, I
- 1:34Speaker 2: thought it was chapter closed, and then the freaking zinger
- 1:38Speaker 2: at the end, will you marry me?
- 1:40Speaker 3: I know I would feel nervous for them though if.
- 1:44Speaker 2: Yeah, I do feel nervous for them, because it's like,
- 1:46Speaker 2: you're having those feelings for a reason. And and this
- 1:49Speaker 2: is not a I want a purple house. I want
- 1:52Speaker 2: a blue house. Likes are like fundamental.
- 1:56Speaker 3: That being said, I also am like life hands you
- 1:59Speaker 3: what it hands you, right, so like he could marry
- 2:02Speaker 3: some twenty year old and not be about kids. It's like,
- 2:07Speaker 3: and I think he gets that. I think he's getting
- 2:09Speaker 3: that more than she is, per se.
- 2:11Speaker 2: But I don't even think it's about that, because she
- 2:13Speaker 2: even said it wasn't so much about I don't know
- 2:16Speaker 2: if I can. She said, I don't know if I
- 2:20Speaker 2: want to. That's that's correct, But.
- 2:25Speaker 3: He's sort of saying that's okay. She's saying, well, I
- 2:30Speaker 3: don't want to take that from you. I think they
- 2:32Speaker 3: all need to, like really try to do some soul searching.
- 2:36Speaker 3: But I think what he's saying is like we can't
- 2:38Speaker 3: know everything.
- 2:39Speaker 2: Right right, which I do commend him for having that response.
- 2:47Speaker 2: I do just feel that he is going to it's
- 2:50Speaker 2: something like that. It's like it's hard. It's hard to
- 2:54Speaker 2: navigate either you navigate it beautifully and it's great. I
- 2:57Speaker 2: feel like the same way about religion or even like politics,
- 3:00Speaker 2: Like when you are as agree so fundamentally.
- 3:03Speaker 3: On things, it can be tough.
- 3:04Speaker 2: It can be tough. Some people navigated great and it's.
- 3:07Speaker 3: Well and at least they're having a conversation ahead of time.
- 3:10Speaker 2: Right right, right, right. But I did find it a
- 3:13Speaker 2: little impulsive that he was just like, will you marry me?
- 3:16Speaker 2: And it's like I get why he's doing it because
- 3:18Speaker 2: he wants to prove that it's It doesn't not that
- 3:22Speaker 2: it doesn't matter, it's just that being with her is
- 3:25Speaker 2: the number one priority to him amongst all the other things.
- 3:29Speaker 2: But I do feel for Sarah because she's in the
- 3:31Speaker 2: sticky situation were obviously she wants to be with him,
- 3:35Speaker 2: but she.
- 3:36Speaker 4: You know, she has kids and she knows that he's
- 3:39Speaker 4: grown too, which is like a little bit even tougher
- 3:42Speaker 4: because it's one thing if you maybe like she had
- 3:44Speaker 4: young kids and he got to like jump in there.
- 3:48Speaker 1: Yeah, but her kids are fully out of the house.
- 3:51Speaker 2: Basically, I know my sister in law is in this
- 3:54Speaker 2: exact situation where her son is nineteen and she's about
- 4:00Speaker 2: to get married. But they both fully want, fully fully
- 4:05Speaker 2: want children, so they're gonna like really try, you know,
- 4:08Speaker 2: try hard. But it's it's it's interesting. I'm like, what
- 4:12Speaker 2: if what if you guys can't get pregnant.
- 4:14Speaker 3: Well, at least if they were on the same page,
- 4:15Speaker 3: Like I think about your sister in law, Right, they're
- 4:18Speaker 3: both in it together, so they can explore like every
- 4:21Speaker 3: option and it will suck if they can't, but they're
- 4:23Speaker 3: in it together. They both are on the same page exactly.
- 4:26Speaker 3: This one's a little trickier because you know that he
- 4:29Speaker 3: wants kids, but he's willing to sacrifice that for her.
- 4:32Speaker 3: She doesn't want him to do. It's a little bit messier.
- 4:34Speaker 3: It is mess That's why I was like, oh the proposal,
- 4:37Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's very seasoned finale.
- 4:40Speaker 2: But it's like, oh, very finale, you'll see. Yeah. I
- 4:45Speaker 2: do not feel good about them too. I mean, I
- 4:47Speaker 2: love them two together, but I do not think that
- 4:49Speaker 2: it's gonna last a while, speaking of which Julian and
- 4:54Speaker 2: Jewel we should talk about.
- 4:55Speaker 3: I was literally literally so okay, let's just jump to
- 4:59Speaker 3: the end. We're you stunned when Victor got out of
- 5:02Speaker 3: the car.
- 5:03Speaker 2: You know, I literally knew it was gonna not be
- 5:07Speaker 2: a baby. Ye I knew it was gonna be an
- 5:08Speaker 2: older child. He's not old, but like, you know, like
- 5:11Speaker 2: a he's not a baby though, he's like he's probably
- 5:14Speaker 2: like six seven.
- 5:15Speaker 3: No, I think he was like even older because he's old.
- 5:17Speaker 3: It's all one of the complex thing that's coming is
- 5:20Speaker 3: he's older than Sydney. Yeah, and so it's like it's
- 5:25Speaker 3: all messes up the order, right, complicated.
- 5:29Speaker 2: Okay, And this is where I get like a little
- 5:31Speaker 2: stressed because, like I understand that they want like another
- 5:36Speaker 2: kid so badly, there's something about this that does not
- 5:40Speaker 2: sit well and I don't know what it is yet.
- 5:43Speaker 2: Like I'm so happy that they you know that they
- 5:46Speaker 2: are that they have Victor, and this is what they want.
- 5:49Speaker 2: They want another addition to their family. But there's just
- 5:51Speaker 2: something about it that feels like Julia is super hesitant.
- 5:56Speaker 2: She's she's not sure, Joel's not sure. Oh, I feel
- 6:00Speaker 2: like they're sure, Oh I don't know, and I like
- 6:03Speaker 2: feel like they're like, we just went through something tragic.
- 6:07Speaker 3: I feel like they did good acting because they're like,
- 6:09Speaker 3: we're sure that's their kids.
- 6:11Speaker 2: Oh my god, I don't I don't feel don't say their.
- 6:14Speaker 3: Face acting at the end there they're like, this is
- 6:16Speaker 3: our kid.
- 6:17Speaker 2: No, I know that, but like there was something in
- 6:20Speaker 2: that in their faces that made I don't know that
- 6:24Speaker 2: was I wasn't. I wasn't sold on it so.
- 6:28Speaker 3: Interesting because it's like I saw it so differently, but
- 6:30Speaker 3: I also know what happens, so I wonder if I'm
- 6:33Speaker 3: seeing something in their faces. I don't know. It gets
- 6:37Speaker 3: really complicated, like I know I'm giving a little bit
- 6:39Speaker 3: of telling what's coming.
- 6:41Speaker 2: But like because the lady, the adoption lady, she was like, oh, well,
- 6:45Speaker 2: you know, like I need a verbal that you're into this,
- 6:48Speaker 2: and you know, like, well, that's because she's.
- 6:49Speaker 1: Going to hand over a kid.
- 6:51Speaker 2: No.
- 6:51Speaker 1: I understand that.
- 6:52Speaker 2: Yeah, but there's just something there that I'm like.
- 6:55Speaker 1: This might not work out, and I.
- 6:59Speaker 2: Don't think you have. It has to work out, right,
- 7:01Speaker 2: Like it has to work out yes, oh no oh
- 7:05Speaker 2: no oh no oh no, no.
- 7:11Speaker 1: Good Though it's a good little like change up.
- 7:14Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 7:14Speaker 2: I mean, look, I hope, I so badly hope that
- 7:18Speaker 2: it's like perfect and everyone's happy and Victor is happy
- 7:22Speaker 2: and Zoe is happy. We do have to talk about that.
- 7:25Speaker 2: When Zoe pulls up in the.
- 7:27Speaker 3: Text she gave the watch back.
- 7:29Speaker 2: She gave the watch back and her mom was there,
- 7:32Speaker 2: and Julie was like, Oh, your mom's helping. That's good.
- 7:36Speaker 2: That's good. And then she asked about the baby and
- 7:40Speaker 2: Zoe was like, he's beautiful. I was like, oh my god.
- 7:44Speaker 3: Yeah, it was very real though. I mean that was
- 7:46Speaker 3: like the thing that I liked about this episode, this
- 7:48Speaker 3: is like a pivot, is that we didn't have to
- 7:51Speaker 3: listen to the breakups between the doctor and Jasmine and
- 7:56Speaker 3: the cellist.
- 7:57Speaker 1: And we just saw it.
- 7:58Speaker 3: We just I like how we saw but I didn't
- 8:00Speaker 3: have to like listen to it. And I also like
- 8:03Speaker 3: how the cellist was so mad but the doctor was like,
- 8:08Speaker 3: I don't hate you.
- 8:09Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a good guy.
- 8:15Speaker 3: She's doing it right. No, that guy that house was
- 8:18Speaker 3: amazing too. I was like, right, right, sure, Crosby is great.
- 8:22Speaker 3: But like the other thing that I literally went through
- 8:24Speaker 3: my mind is I was like that guy's gonna have
- 8:26Speaker 3: a wife in five seconds, like it doesn't see.
- 8:28Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like, you know what, bye, Jasmine. I'm good,
- 8:32Speaker 2: he's all.
- 8:33Speaker 3: I got a line of them up there.
- 8:34Speaker 2: I'm good. I got a pool.
- 8:36Speaker 3: I was glad we didn't have to hear the breakups
- 8:38Speaker 3: for some reason. I just was like, I don't want
- 8:40Speaker 3: to listen.
- 8:40Speaker 2: To that, right right, right, right right, And yeah, I
- 8:44Speaker 2: agree with that.
- 8:45Speaker 3: How about Christina always jumping in? So like when Crosby
- 8:50Speaker 3: and Peter kraus Adam are like having their fight and
- 8:54Speaker 3: I think Crosby might have brought he up, but she
- 8:55Speaker 3: always like jumps in. Sometimes I'm like, sit down, Christina.
- 8:59Speaker 2: This is between the boys. Let the brothers hash it out,
- 9:02Speaker 2: let them duke it out. You just let them. Let
- 9:05Speaker 2: them be. I did think that Jasmine gave Crosby really
- 9:11Speaker 2: good advice.
- 9:12Speaker 3: Yeah, She's like, this is business.
- 9:13Speaker 2: Yeah, this is business, so you have to like separate
- 9:17Speaker 2: that I did. I was like, you know what, Jasmine,
- 9:20Speaker 2: I'm going to give jas star of this episode was
- 9:24Speaker 2: pretty cool.
- 9:25Speaker 1: She's been cool all along, like other than.
- 9:28Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, other than not having her child meet their.
- 9:31Speaker 3: Dad for fights. It was rough. Yeah, that's hard to
- 9:33Speaker 3: get past It's like, why did we do that separately? Amber? Yeah?
- 9:38Speaker 2: Can I can I ask a question about this? And
- 9:42Speaker 2: and forgive me if I didn't see this. Did she
- 9:46Speaker 2: not go to Crosby's wedding?
- 9:47Speaker 3: I'm sure she was there in the beginning because she
- 9:49Speaker 3: was all dressed up for it, and then she left
- 9:52Speaker 3: to go to see Bob Little Little.
- 9:53Speaker 1: She was all dressed right right.
- 9:56Speaker 2: I was just like, did she.
- 9:57Speaker 3: Not she was at the wedding? I think she just
- 9:58Speaker 3: failed early like she does. Which choice would you have made?
- 10:01Speaker 3: Date Bob Little or work for Bob Little or both?
- 10:05Speaker 2: I would have just want my job.
- 10:06Speaker 3: I would have just been like, I think we can
- 10:08Speaker 3: make this work.
- 10:08Speaker 1: Let's just do both. We'll make out and answer your
- 10:14Speaker 1: phone calls.
- 10:15Speaker 3: Why don't you just like work for him through the
- 10:16Speaker 3: election and then be like, and then if you win,
- 10:19Speaker 3: we'll date.
- 10:19Speaker 2: And that's that's what I would have done. I would
- 10:21Speaker 2: have been like, right now, we are fully, I need
- 10:23Speaker 2: to focus on work. This is going to be work
- 10:26Speaker 2: in December when this election's over.
- 10:29Speaker 1: Right, Let's let's unless she's going to be consistent forever.
- 10:32Speaker 3: But like, why don't she? Yeah, I feel like there's
- 10:34Speaker 3: a way.
- 10:35Speaker 2: To make that work, right, right, I think it is nice.
- 10:38Speaker 1: I like him and he's great. He's great.
- 10:41Speaker 3: He's not crazy.
- 10:42Speaker 2: Creepy, he's good. He's like, you know what, he's definitely
- 10:45Speaker 2: following her lead, which I like, he's not forcing her
- 10:47Speaker 2: into anything.
- 10:48Speaker 3: He's just like the one he was annoying Christina. Although
- 10:51Speaker 3: I love Monica Potter, Christina, it's like, chill out, girl,
- 10:56Speaker 3: you're getting your nose in this.
- 10:58Speaker 2: Yeah, But like you have to realize there's so much
- 11:02Speaker 2: on the line for her in this in the sense
- 11:05Speaker 2: that like she's the one that recommended She's like if
- 11:08Speaker 2: you think about people that you've recommended for jobs, if
- 11:11Speaker 2: they like if you hear something come back about that person,
- 11:16Speaker 2: and you're like, oh god, and I'm the one that
- 11:19Speaker 2: recommended it for them.
- 11:20Speaker 1: You know, all the time, like no, sorry, I gave
- 11:23Speaker 1: you bad apple.
- 11:24Speaker 2: Oop. Yeah.
- 11:25Speaker 3: But also he's the boss, right, so it's like she
- 11:29Speaker 3: should just be like, look, this is uncomfortable, but let's
- 11:31Speaker 3: get I don't know. I just think it was like
- 11:33Speaker 3: that conversation should have happened.
- 11:34Speaker 1: Way before, right.
- 11:36Speaker 3: And also she was just way too like reprimandy of him,
- 11:39Speaker 3: like she needed to try.
- 11:40Speaker 1: She was treating him like a chat and yeah, that
- 11:42Speaker 1: was weird.
- 11:43Speaker 2: I was like, that is weird.
- 11:44Speaker 3: Uncomfortable.
- 11:55Speaker 2: Should talk about a little bit more about Crosby and
- 11:57Speaker 2: Jasmine in the sense that, like, I feel like we're
- 11:59Speaker 2: kind of down playing it.
- 12:00Speaker 3: So Billy Gardner, the toolish best man, Billy Billy Billy?
- 12:06Speaker 3: Who is that guy who played that guy? He was
- 12:09Speaker 3: so familiar to me? And I don't know why.
- 12:11Speaker 1: He's played by Derek Phillips.
- 12:13Speaker 2: And you also may recognize him from Friday Night Lights.
- 12:17Speaker 3: Yes, he's Riggins's brother. That makes sense because it's the
- 12:20Speaker 3: same guy. This guy that did this show is the
- 12:24Speaker 3: same guy that did Friday Night Lights. So he's using it.
- 12:26Speaker 3: That's why Minka Kel he's just people. That's why Michael B.
- 12:29Speaker 3: Jordan he uses his people in this show too. Ah.
- 12:33Speaker 3: That guy was a terrible best man, but funny, it
- 12:36Speaker 3: was like some fodder. How about when Lauren Graham's like,
- 12:39Speaker 3: I'll go that way, you go that way, don't meet
- 12:40Speaker 3: you there, and she's like, come out. And then that
- 12:43Speaker 3: was when Jason Ritter came in, so all in, how
- 12:46Speaker 3: do you rate this finale?
- 12:48Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're already just cutting this off. There's
- 12:50Speaker 2: just something I thought we talked about everything, jumped in
- 12:54Speaker 2: to do the best man speech.
- 12:56Speaker 3: And isn't selling the luncheonette and isn't selling the lunch
- 12:59Speaker 3: guy from a different world because he gets to go
- 13:01Speaker 3: to his gets to say two point five million.
- 13:05Speaker 2: Yeah, it had the offer on it.
- 13:07Speaker 1: I don't know why they didn't do this. This is
- 13:08Speaker 1: what I don't understand.
- 13:10Speaker 3: Sell these guys a portion of the luncheonet and work
- 13:15Speaker 3: for them, with them, and keep a piece of Like
- 13:18Speaker 3: it's like, you guys are good businessmen, right right? Are
- 13:22Speaker 3: doing sell it for this insane price so that you're
- 13:25Speaker 3: working with these people and not their competition.
- 13:28Speaker 2: They might want to just own the whole whole thing.
- 13:30Speaker 1: Right, but like they'll never there was a way to
- 13:34Speaker 1: work that out.
- 13:35Speaker 2: You're also missing one massive Storylion, and that is Amy
- 13:39Speaker 2: Andrew losing the.
- 13:41Speaker 3: I got that.
- 13:41Speaker 1: I looked away.
- 13:43Speaker 3: I thought that was uncomfortable. What I don't want to
- 13:46Speaker 3: watch that?
- 13:46Speaker 1: No, I did.
- 13:47Speaker 3: I was like, I actually started folding my laundry and
- 13:49Speaker 3: I looked. I turned my back because I was like,
- 13:50Speaker 3: I don't want to watch this.
- 13:53Speaker 2: I thought it was very sweet, and I thought it
- 13:55Speaker 2: was cute.
- 13:56Speaker 3: Yes, and it was funny when they were talking to
- 13:59Speaker 3: Sarah after right and she's like, you're so sweaty. But
- 14:03Speaker 3: I didn't want to watch that scene.
- 14:05Speaker 2: I was like, that's okay, fair enough. One thing about
- 14:07Speaker 2: their Crosby and Justin's wedding, which I just I loved everything.
- 14:11Speaker 1: I love the way that I love a back at it.
- 14:12Speaker 2: I love all of it. Yeah, their song that.
- 14:16Speaker 1: She Oh my God with the choir I call.
- 14:19Speaker 2: That was my first dance song, and I have not
- 14:21Speaker 2: heard that.
- 14:21Speaker 3: I know that song, but give it to me again.
- 14:23Speaker 2: It's make you Feel My Love, which in your notes
- 14:25Speaker 2: it's a Bob Dylan song. Did not know that. I
- 14:28Speaker 2: always thought it was an Adel song, but she obviously
- 14:30Speaker 2: just covered it.
- 14:32Speaker 3: But like so many people have have done that song.
- 14:36Speaker 2: Yeah, our song was the Adele version of it.
- 14:38Speaker 1: But I have not heard that.
- 14:39Speaker 3: Do you Feel Much? That's a bad version of it.
- 14:43Speaker 1: And the one is blong win New and that one yes,
- 14:48Speaker 1: and it's.
- 14:48Speaker 2: Literally I was eight years old when I found out
- 14:51Speaker 2: it was not an Adel song.
- 14:55Speaker 3: And a warm embrace that one, Yeah, that's a good song.
- 15:00Speaker 1: Ever was not Adel.
- 15:01Speaker 3: No, that is hilarious, but that was literally the choir
- 15:03Speaker 3: was iconic, and I had a moment where I was like,
- 15:05Speaker 3: how they get a choir, and then I was like,
- 15:07Speaker 3: of course, Jasmine's mom, it's the church choir, exactly, definitely.
- 15:11Speaker 1: Xactly, and everyone was crying.
- 15:14Speaker 2: Oh.
- 15:14Speaker 1: I loved the wedding. I loved it.
- 15:16Speaker 2: I loved it, loved it, and they were so happy.
- 15:18Speaker 2: I loved Jabbar and Sydney running after the.
- 15:21Speaker 1: Car with the roses.
- 15:22Speaker 3: Oh. The car driving away was good. Although I was like,
- 15:24Speaker 3: is that not Dax? I did not think that was Dax.
- 15:26Speaker 2: Oh, it probably wasn't. Probably wasn't.
- 15:29Speaker 3: Look at it again, Oh wait I will. I'm like
- 15:31Speaker 3: his fat hair was way too perfect, and I think
- 15:35Speaker 3: they had to have him not driving it because they
- 15:38Speaker 3: had to have like a stunt professional driver because they're
- 15:41Speaker 3: filming and she asked to turn, so somebody pulled that up.
- 15:45Speaker 3: Because I don't think that was Dax.
- 15:46Speaker 1: That is a good call.
- 15:49Speaker 3: Not his hair. It looked like, I don't know, some
- 15:53Speaker 3: stand in model's hair stunt driver. In my opinion, I
- 15:57Speaker 3: don't know. It could be wrong. Just thrown it out there.
- 15:59Speaker 3: Everybody go that and maybe we can put it on
- 16:01Speaker 3: a picture of it and say, yes, Dax's head.
- 16:04Speaker 2: Yeah I like that, but yeah, I love this episode.
- 16:06Speaker 3: Give it a nine point nine.
- 16:08Speaker 2: I'm going to give it a nine to nine to two.
- 16:10Speaker 3: Yeah, nine nine, because it's like it's hard to give
- 16:11Speaker 3: a ten, but it's a nine to nine for sure.
- 16:13Speaker 2: It was a really good season finale, really really good,
- 16:16Speaker 2: and I'm excited for season four. I really am.
- 16:19Speaker 3: I mean too. You know, season four is a short season,
- 16:21Speaker 3: fifteen episodes, okay, I don't remember why. I think they
- 16:24Speaker 3: got like it didn't quite get a full pickup. Then
- 16:26Speaker 3: season five is a full season, and then season six
- 16:29Speaker 3: is short again. We basically have one more year Togo
- 16:32Speaker 3: of you.
- 16:34Speaker 1: Because there's about fifty two episodes, So.
- 16:37Speaker 3: Next fourth of July we'll be dead. That seems long.
- 16:42Speaker 2: Yeah, this seems a while away, twenty twenty seven. Dang,
- 16:47Speaker 2: but this isn't great. I love this episode. So yeah,
- 16:50Speaker 2: until next time. Season three we're out.
- 16:54Speaker 3: Braverman's out.
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