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- 0:05Speaker 1: Crime Stories with Nancy Grace.
- 0:11Speaker 2: A heart breaking final photo shows a new bride and
- 0:17Speaker 2: groom beaming just moments after their wedding as they take
- 0:25Speaker 2: off in a golf cart, just before a drunk driver
- 0:31Speaker 2: plows into the neelyweds, killing the bride. I'm Nancy Grace.
- 0:40Speaker 2: This is Crime Stories. Thank you for being with us
- 0:42Speaker 2: here at Fox Nation in series XM one eleven. First
- 0:47Speaker 2: of all, I'll take a listen to our friends at
- 0:49Speaker 2: wc IV.
- 0:50Speaker 3: Sam Miller and her fiance Eric Hutchinson had been together
- 0:53Speaker 3: for three years.
- 0:55Speaker 4: I've never seen the light in her eyes shine as
- 0:59Speaker 4: bright as that.
- 1:00Speaker 3: April twenty eighth, Samantha Miller and Eric Hutchinson vowed to
- 1:03Speaker 3: spend the rest of their lives together.
- 1:05Speaker 5: It was the best day of her life.
- 1:06Speaker 3: A beach ceremony, dancing and drinks to follow.
- 1:09Speaker 6: And now it's a surprise dance for the most important
- 1:11Speaker 6: person in Sam's life, which was me, and we danced
- 1:15Speaker 6: to Bruno Mars Just the Way you Are, That's our song.
- 1:20Speaker 3: The happy couple left the reception under a canopy of sparklers.
- 1:23Speaker 6: On the beginning of the golf cart ride, she said,
- 1:27Speaker 6: I wish this s Nike could go on forever.
- 1:29Speaker 7: It's the best matter for life.
- 1:31Speaker 2: You were hearing the voice when you heard someone say
- 1:35Speaker 2: it was the best day of her life. They announced
- 1:39Speaker 2: a surprise dance for the most important person in Sam's life.
- 1:44Speaker 2: You're hearing the voice of Sam Samantha mother Lisa Miller,
- 1:51Speaker 2: and joining us right now is Lisa Miller, mother of
- 1:56Speaker 2: the bride, Samantha Miller. Miss Miller. First of all, we
- 2:03Speaker 2: are so sorry, deeply, profoundly sorry for what you and
- 2:10Speaker 2: your family in the groom are living through right now.
- 2:17Speaker 2: It's really hard to put words to it. It's not
- 2:20Speaker 2: just a passing, it's the end of a whole future.
- 2:26Speaker 8: Together.
- 2:28Speaker 2: Describe Miss Miller that night, the reception, the dance. You
- 2:33Speaker 2: are describing Bruno Mars.
- 2:37Speaker 7: So the night was incredible. She typical Sam. I don't
- 2:44Speaker 7: know if you guys have seen the picture, but she
- 2:47Speaker 7: got to the wedding and of course it's a beach venue,
- 2:49Speaker 7: so there's nowhere for her to hide, you know, in
- 2:53Speaker 7: her dress. So she literally when I knew they were here,
- 2:57Speaker 7: her dad brought her in his Forerunner and she was
- 3:01Speaker 7: laying in the back of the Forerunner on her stomach
- 3:03Speaker 7: with her legs up in the air, smiling so big,
- 3:07Speaker 7: so happy, rewriting her vowels because they were messy. She
- 3:11Speaker 7: didn't want him to be messy.
- 3:12Speaker 2: So let me understand. Sam was lying on her tummy
- 3:16Speaker 2: in her wedding dress in the back of da Forerunner
- 3:19Speaker 2: with her feet up in the air to fit on
- 3:21Speaker 2: the seat, rewrite her vows.
- 3:25Speaker 7: It was the funniest sight ever. But that's Sam like
- 3:28Speaker 7: she she doesn't care about you know, she just quirky
- 3:33Speaker 7: maybe is the word. I don't know.
- 3:35Speaker 2: A free spirit, yes, a free spirit for sure.
- 3:39Speaker 7: And away moving forward, the wedding started. Their vows ended
- 3:45Speaker 7: up being almost exactly alike, which is pretty cool. And
- 3:49Speaker 7: they did not write them together. And then the energy,
- 3:56Speaker 7: I mean there was food and drinks and all that,
- 3:58Speaker 7: but the and the dance floor upstairs.
- 4:00Speaker 8: She did her.
- 4:03Speaker 7: Father daughter dance. They did their first dance to John Legend.
- 4:07Speaker 7: I think it's called you Move, I Move. Sammy's never
- 4:10Speaker 7: been a dancer, her sister's dancer, like she used to
- 4:13Speaker 7: dance like a lane on Seinfield. And all of a
- 4:17Speaker 7: sudden she was up there dancing with her husband to
- 4:20Speaker 7: that John Legend song and she's swaying like to the
- 4:24Speaker 7: music and just beautiful. It's a beautiful video. Sorry, but anyway,
- 4:36Speaker 7: so she danced with her her both her dads after that,
- 4:40Speaker 7: and then the DJ comes on and says, I was
- 4:45Speaker 7: surprised dance for the most important person in Sam's life.
- 4:50Speaker 7: And that moment right there tell us a lot about Sam.
- 4:55Speaker 7: She loved like no other person. She that I might
- 5:01Speaker 7: just feel a little bit weird not having a dance
- 5:03Speaker 7: with my daughter, you know, even though it's not traditional,
- 5:06Speaker 7: but we're not traditional people for sure. And her and
- 5:10Speaker 7: I just from the moment she was born, her whole life.
- 5:13Speaker 7: I mean, she's just my best friend. And then I
- 5:20Speaker 7: keep thinking of these interjections like.
- 5:23Speaker 2: So that dance was for you.
- 5:24Speaker 7: That dance was for me.
- 5:25Speaker 8: The yeah, and at the end when he's saying you're
- 5:31Speaker 8: amazing just the way you are, and that we're just
- 5:33Speaker 8: pointing at each other when at your base, you.
- 5:36Speaker 7: Know, and because we both felt the same about each other,
- 5:39Speaker 7: that was our our song and it was a moment
- 5:45Speaker 7: that I'm so thankful for and that just tells it
- 5:49Speaker 7: who Sam is, I mean. And then after that, oh,
- 5:57Speaker 7: it was time for the DJ and dancing and the
- 6:01Speaker 7: energy in that pavilion and all these different groups of
- 6:06Speaker 7: people because there was people from Charlotte, and there's people
- 6:08Speaker 7: from Utah where Eric came from, and people from Folly Beach,
- 6:11Speaker 7: and you know, so a lot of people didn't know.
- 6:14Speaker 7: It wasn't like everybody knew everybody, but it was like
- 6:17Speaker 7: everybody was one and everybody was celebrating Sam. Sam.
- 6:24Speaker 2: Then what happened? Did they do the traditional They cut
- 6:27Speaker 2: the cake, They ate the cake, They danced the night away.
- 6:30Speaker 7: Her sister made her cake for her, and she didn't
- 6:33Speaker 7: want like a wedding cake, wedding cake. She just wanted
- 6:36Speaker 7: so Eric loved pineapple. So that's another moment. They were
- 6:39Speaker 7: doing the cake on their own. It was just for them.
- 6:41Speaker 7: It wasn't for anybody else, So they just did that
- 6:43Speaker 7: on their own.
- 6:44Speaker 2: You are hearing the voice of Sam's mom, Lisa Miller.
- 6:48Speaker 2: How could something so wonderful go so wrong? Take a
- 6:55Speaker 2: listen to our friends a crime online.
- 6:57Speaker 9: The Pelican Watch Pavilion is a public beach from in
- 7:00Speaker 9: Folly Beach. The twelve hundred square foot facility is a
- 7:03Speaker 9: popular wedding spot. After their five PM wedding, Eric Hitchinson
- 7:07Speaker 9: and Samantha Miller enjoy their reception and about nine to
- 7:09Speaker 9: forty five pm. The couple is ready to leave. The
- 7:12Speaker 9: couple gets into the backseat of a fully equipped golf
- 7:15Speaker 9: cart being driven by the bride's brother in law and nephew.
- 7:18Speaker 9: The vehicle has lights and is legal to drive on
- 7:21Speaker 9: the road. The golf cart pulls out along East Ashley Avenue,
- 7:25Speaker 9: a two lane road that runs parallel to the ocean.
- 7:28Speaker 9: The speed limit is just twenty five miles an hour.
- 7:31Speaker 9: It should have taken them just minutes to travel the
- 7:34Speaker 9: two blocks to their rental house.
- 7:35Speaker 2: Miss Miller, when your daughter left, they had a very
- 7:41Speaker 2: short distance to go from the ceremony from the reception. Yes,
- 7:48Speaker 2: what happened, So they did.
- 7:51Speaker 7: Their Sparkler exit.
- 7:52Speaker 2: Was the Sparkler exit.
- 7:53Speaker 7: Where everybody lines up in lights sparklers and they go underneath.
- 7:57Speaker 7: It was beautiful, the happiest I've ever seen her in
- 8:01Speaker 7: her life. They got on the golf cart. They left
- 8:07Speaker 7: ten minutes later. We went to our airbnb, which was
- 8:11Speaker 7: before there, so they were still traveling. I started hearing sirens.
- 8:17Speaker 7: We were on the porch at the airbnb. I started
- 8:20Speaker 7: hearing sirens, and literally I looked at my daughter and
- 8:24Speaker 7: I said, something happened to Sam. I knew something that
- 8:28Speaker 7: happened to Sam.
- 8:29Speaker 2: What do you mean you looked at your daughter? What
- 8:32Speaker 2: do you mean?
- 8:33Speaker 7: I just knew that that's what happened, like my intuition
- 8:36Speaker 7: with her, like we feel each other.
- 8:38Speaker 2: Your other You looked at your other daughter and you said,
- 8:41Speaker 2: something has happened to Sam.
- 8:43Speaker 7: You knew something happened to Sam. I knew that the
- 8:45Speaker 7: sirens meant that Sam. It was Sam. I knew it
- 8:51Speaker 7: was something happened to Sam while they were on the
- 8:53Speaker 7: way home, but just for the sirens, I just like
- 8:55Speaker 7: I knew it. It's the weirdest thing. Ever, what did
- 8:59Speaker 7: you do? Right after that happened? Eric's sister in law
- 9:06Speaker 7: team drove by and she said, have you heard? And
- 9:08Speaker 7: I'm like, no, I haven't heard, But I just said,
- 9:11Speaker 7: I know something happened to Sam, and I'm sorry. Before that,
- 9:16Speaker 7: I called Sam and told her apologized calling her on
- 9:20Speaker 7: her wedding night, but that she called me back and
- 9:22Speaker 7: let me know she was okay. And then the family
- 9:24Speaker 7: member came by and they said get in the truck,
- 9:27Speaker 7: and so me and my daughter got in the truck
- 9:29Speaker 7: and she took us to the scene, which was maybe
- 9:32Speaker 7: a mile away, not even two blocks from where they
- 9:35Speaker 7: were going to stay, and me and my daughter got
- 9:38Speaker 7: out of the truck and just started running hand in
- 9:41Speaker 7: hand towards the scene and just screaming Sam, Sam. Sam
- 9:47Speaker 7: was like had a really bad movie. Anyway, my ex husband,
- 9:53Speaker 7: her dad was there, and my son waiting at the
- 9:55Speaker 7: scene and trying to figure out what was going on.
- 9:57Speaker 7: And we were told by somebody I don't know who
- 10:00Speaker 7: that everybody had been taken to the hospital, and so
- 10:04Speaker 7: my daughter and I went to the hospital and because
- 10:07Speaker 7: I guess, we were told that because they didn't have
- 10:11Speaker 7: ID that for now everybody was Jane Doe and they
- 10:13Speaker 7: couldn't say anything or whether Sam was there or Eric
- 10:16Speaker 7: or anything. So that was a really long wait. And
- 10:19Speaker 7: then finally Sam's dad called and told me that Samantha
- 10:27Speaker 7: wasn't at the hospital, that he had just identified her
- 10:32Speaker 7: by her tattoo and she was still at the scene,
- 10:42Speaker 7: and that she had been killed. And like the daughter
- 10:49Speaker 7: gets plowed down by a drunk driver on her wedding
- 10:54Speaker 7: night in her wedding dress. I don't think anything can
- 10:57Speaker 7: be any worse.
- 10:58Speaker 2: No, I don't know that anything can be any worse.
- 11:02Speaker 2: Wristmas Miller. So you get to the scene. You're told
- 11:06Speaker 2: everybody who's taking to the hospital. You go to the
- 11:08Speaker 2: hospital and wait and wait and wait. Nobody can be
- 11:12Speaker 2: identified yet. And then you get a call from your
- 11:16Speaker 2: husband that says he's at the scene and your daughter
- 11:21Speaker 2: Sam is still at the scene.
- 11:24Speaker 7: Yeah, and that I mean he literally his words, where
- 11:27Speaker 7: she's been killed. One of those phone calls. I won't
- 11:33Speaker 7: ever forget either.
- 11:35Speaker 2: Did you leave the hospital and go to the scene.
- 11:40Speaker 7: Well, I was at the hospital for a while, just outside,
- 11:45Speaker 7: just crying and screaming, and I don't think we left
- 11:47Speaker 7: the hospital till like three o'clock in the morning, and
- 11:49Speaker 7: at that point I did not go to the scene.
- 11:52Speaker 7: He told me not to go to the scene. I
- 11:58Speaker 7: know that there was a person. There was some people
- 12:01Speaker 7: on Folly four ladies that when the accident happened, they
- 12:07Speaker 7: each took one of the people on the golf cart
- 12:09Speaker 7: so that they wouldn't be alone suffering and sat with them.
- 12:14Speaker 7: And the lady that sat with Sam was an r
- 12:16Speaker 7: N and she said she was already gone. So silver
- 12:21Speaker 7: lining if theory of any she didn't suffer.
- 12:24Speaker 2: Guys, you're hearing the voice of Samantha's mom. Samantha's mother
- 12:28Speaker 2: Lisa Miller, the mother of the bride, telling one of
- 12:34Speaker 2: the most heartbreaking stories I've ever heard in my life.
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- 14:12Speaker 1: Time stories with me, It's a grace.
- 14:15Speaker 2: Let me go to doctor Sherry Schwartz, joining us forensic psychologist.
- 14:19Speaker 2: Having doctor Schwartz is not just a death. It's not
- 14:22Speaker 2: just a sudden death or unexpected death. It's not just
- 14:26Speaker 2: the death of someone young and vibrant and full of life.
- 14:29Speaker 2: All of those things are in themselves insurmountable. But having
- 14:37Speaker 2: lost my fiance to murder just before our wedding, it's
- 14:42Speaker 2: the end of what you believe is your future. Everything
- 14:46Speaker 2: you had hoped and dreamed and planned and mapped out
- 14:49Speaker 2: is gone just like that. And it almost seems unreal.
- 14:55Speaker 5: It absolutely will seem unreal because it is unreal. It's
- 14:58Speaker 5: something that we don't planned for. It's something that we
- 15:01Speaker 5: cannot imagine. And the shock it takes a while to
- 15:06Speaker 5: really your brain to catch up and process what has
- 15:10Speaker 5: happened and really what the implications of what has happened
- 15:15Speaker 5: really are. It's a terrible terrible trauma.
- 15:18Speaker 2: Joining us. In addition to Ms. Miller is Samantha's mom
- 15:23Speaker 2: is Sydney Heiberger with the Queen City News in Charlotte. Sidney,
- 15:28Speaker 2: thank you so much for being with us who plowed
- 15:34Speaker 2: into a golf cart? Because hold on, hold on, Sidney.
- 15:39Speaker 2: Steven Eisenberg is with us. Expert in golf and golf
- 15:43Speaker 2: cart related accidents and president and founder of Golf Concepts. Steven,
- 15:49Speaker 2: thanks for being with us. I don't think a golf
- 15:51Speaker 2: cart can't even go that fast, even if you floored it.
- 15:54Speaker 10: No, this type of You're right, Nancy, This type of
- 15:56Speaker 10: a vehicle, a low speed vehicle is the term, and
- 16:01Speaker 10: it would go at a maximum twenty miles per hour.
- 16:05Speaker 2: So what I'm saying, Sidney Heiberger, and I'm going to
- 16:08Speaker 2: circle back to Jason Jensen, who's PI with Jenson Investigations,
- 16:13Speaker 2: to try to figure out how you put this back
- 16:14Speaker 2: together again. Sidney Heiberger with the Queen City News. How
- 16:20Speaker 2: does someone plow in to a vehicle that cannot go
- 16:25Speaker 2: over about twenty miles an hour. It's inching along, it's
- 16:30Speaker 2: barely going. For obvious reasons, you don't want a golf
- 16:34Speaker 2: cart speeding on a golf course where there are a
- 16:37Speaker 2: lot of pedestrians, so it's incapable of speeding. This couldn't
- 16:41Speaker 2: possibly have been Samantha's fault.
- 16:44Speaker 11: Yeah, NNTY, You're absolutely right, and for that very reason,
- 16:47Speaker 11: because that there are so many golf cars and low
- 16:50Speaker 11: speed vehicles off Folly Beach. The speed limit on the
- 16:54Speaker 11: roads throughout the island are twenty five miles per hour,
- 16:58Speaker 11: so for this driver to be going sixty five miles
- 17:02Speaker 11: per hour in a twenty five mile per hour zone,
- 17:05Speaker 11: of course, and law enforcement on Folly Beach have said
- 17:09Speaker 11: that this really was not Samantha's fault or anyone in
- 17:12Speaker 11: that golf cart's fault. Of course, they were allowed to
- 17:15Speaker 11: be driving that low speed vehicle on these roads at night,
- 17:18Speaker 11: they had their lights on. They were going, of course,
- 17:21Speaker 11: under the speed limit because that golf cart could not
- 17:23Speaker 11: go over the speed limit, and this driver was going
- 17:27Speaker 11: unreasonably fast in a twenty five mile per hour zone.
- 17:31Speaker 2: Trying to figure out where everyone is seated, take ust
- 17:33Speaker 2: an hour cut to w CBD.
- 17:35Speaker 12: The couple lived on James Island. On Friday night, friends
- 17:38Speaker 12: and family from all over came to Foley Beach to
- 17:41Speaker 12: watch Miller and Hutchinson exchange their vowels. Jenkins says she's
- 17:45Speaker 12: never seen her sister so excited. The couple wed at
- 17:48Speaker 12: five o'clock then celebrated into the night.
- 17:51Speaker 7: Jenkins says.
- 17:51Speaker 12: The newly weeds left the venue around nine forty five
- 17:54Speaker 12: to go back to their airbnb on a golf cart.
- 17:57Speaker 12: The bride's brother in law and nephew were in the front,
- 18:00Speaker 12: a couple in the back.
- 18:01Speaker 2: So let me circle back to you, Sidney Heiberger joining
- 18:05Speaker 2: us Queen City News. The bride was in the back
- 18:08Speaker 2: and brother and net, brother in law and nephew were
- 18:11Speaker 2: in the front driving.
- 18:12Speaker 11: That's my understanding, Yes, and I understand that the groom
- 18:15Speaker 11: was also in the back with Samantha.
- 18:17Speaker 2: Yeah, miss Miller, is that you? Yes, that's tell me
- 18:21Speaker 2: what you understand happened, miss miss Miller.
- 18:23Speaker 7: The eric's brother in law offered to drive them back
- 18:27Speaker 7: to the airbnb. That golf cart, by the way, was
- 18:31Speaker 7: lent to stand by her very nice boss, and he
- 18:35Speaker 7: let her use it for the departure of the wedding.
- 18:40Speaker 7: And my understanding of what happens this person was intoxicated,
- 18:47Speaker 7: had had some kind of confrontation or belligerent behavior at
- 18:52Speaker 7: the establishment where she was and I'm not going to
- 18:54Speaker 7: say anything about where, It's not my business to say.
- 18:56Speaker 13: That, and.
- 19:00Speaker 7: Left intoxicated or on drugs or something, and just was
- 19:06Speaker 7: I guess she was angry, would be my guess if
- 19:09Speaker 7: she was being belligerent and just got in her car,
- 19:11Speaker 7: and we don't know where in the world she was gone,
- 19:14Speaker 7: because she lived on James Island as well, and this
- 19:18Speaker 7: on Folly was going the opposite direction from her going home.
- 19:21Speaker 7: If that's where she was going, there's nothing really down
- 19:24Speaker 7: that way except house for her to go to.
- 19:26Speaker 2: Take a listen to our cut ten from Wcivy.
- 19:29Speaker 3: According to Fowley Beach Public Safety, twenty five year old
- 19:32Speaker 3: Jamie Lee Comoroski hit the LSVS, charged with three counts
- 19:36Speaker 3: of felony duy resulting in great bodily harm or death
- 19:39Speaker 3: and one count of reckless homicide.
- 19:42Speaker 6: She literally ran into my daughter going sixty five miles
- 19:44Speaker 6: an hour because Sam and Eric were on the back
- 19:46Speaker 6: of the golf cart and so she basically just ran
- 19:51Speaker 6: my child.
- 19:52Speaker 3: The groom's mom. Gofund Me says the hit forced the
- 19:55Speaker 3: LSB to travel over one hundred yards and enrolls several times,
- 19:59Speaker 3: and I ever.
- 20:00Speaker 7: Thought it would happen to us.
- 20:03Speaker 1: And to my beautiful sister, your beautiful.
- 20:06Speaker 4: Daughter, at all the one hundred and fifty people that
- 20:08Speaker 4: were there and.
- 20:10Speaker 2: Our cut nine.
- 20:11Speaker 3: Sam and Eric were two blocks away from their home
- 20:13Speaker 3: when their low speed vehicle was hit.
- 20:16Speaker 4: Got in our pajamas, sitting on the balcony beside Berts
- 20:21Speaker 4: at our place where we're staying, and started to hear
- 20:25Speaker 4: the sirens, and the sirens kept going.
- 20:29Speaker 3: They texted Sam but got no response.
- 20:32Speaker 6: And we just got out of the truck and just
- 20:33Speaker 6: were running, no shoes, screaming Sam.
- 20:36Speaker 3: Sam, a real life nightmare caution tape.
- 20:40Speaker 12: So many lights, Yeah it was dark, but there's so
- 20:43Speaker 12: many lights.
- 20:46Speaker 2: Sam, I want to go straight back to Sydney. Heiburger
- 20:49Speaker 2: with Queen City News. I'm just trying to figure out, Sydney.
- 20:54Speaker 2: Who is this person who slammed in to Sam just
- 21:01Speaker 2: moments after her wedding. Who is this person?
- 21:04Speaker 11: Well, Anthey, she's a twenty five year old who has
- 21:08Speaker 11: previous DUI charges. At the scene, she admitted to officers
- 21:14Speaker 11: that she had had at least two drinks before getting
- 21:17Speaker 11: in the car, a beer and a tequila drink, and
- 21:20Speaker 11: when officers on the scene asked her, on a scale
- 21:24Speaker 11: of one to ten, how intoxicuted are you? She answered an.
- 21:28Speaker 2: Ate joining me right now is Stacey D. Stewart, CEO
- 21:31Speaker 2: of Mothers Against Drunk Driving, known as MAD. Stacy, thank
- 21:36Speaker 2: you for being with us in every HV habitual violator
- 21:41Speaker 2: case or vehicular homicide DUI case I have ever investigated
- 21:47Speaker 2: or prosecuted, which are many. If the perp admits to
- 21:53Speaker 2: x amount, then you can double that by at least
- 21:56Speaker 2: two or three. So she said, I had a beer
- 21:58Speaker 2: in a tequila. Translation, five beers and five tequilas are
- 22:01Speaker 2: something along those lines. But what tails the tale is
- 22:06Speaker 2: the BAC blood alcohol exactly.
- 22:08Speaker 14: And thank you, Nancy.
- 22:10Speaker 15: And first let me just say this, Milla.
- 22:12Speaker 14: We are so deeply sorry for your loss. This is
- 22:15Speaker 14: you know, the issue drunk and drug driving is a
- 22:18Speaker 14: completely one hundred percent formidable tragedy. It never had to happen,
- 22:21Speaker 14: This never should have happened. And you know, MAD is
- 22:24Speaker 14: a part of having passed laws to make sure that
- 22:27Speaker 14: the point zero eight blood alcohol concentration level is a
- 22:30Speaker 14: part of our laws now and unfortunately today still too
- 22:35Speaker 14: many people get behind the wheel and drive drunk, and
- 22:37Speaker 14: it's unfortunate, and it leads to crashes, it leads to.
- 22:41Speaker 7: Death and injury.
- 22:42Speaker 14: Unfortunately the way we've lost sam and it's so sad
- 22:46Speaker 14: and heartbreaking.
- 22:47Speaker 2: I want to go to doctor Tim Gallagher, joining US
- 22:49Speaker 2: medical examiner for the State of Florida at pathcaremed dot com,
- 22:54Speaker 2: lecturer University Florida Medical School and Forensic Medicine, and the
- 22:58Speaker 2: founder and host of the International Forensic Medicine Death Investigation Conference.
- 23:05Speaker 2: Doctor Gallagher, thank you for being with us. It's my
- 23:08Speaker 2: understanding and Miss Miller correct me if I'm wrong that
- 23:12Speaker 2: when Samantha's golf cart was hit, it caused a rollover
- 23:18Speaker 2: that went at least one hundred yards. It's my belief
- 23:23Speaker 2: and my hope that Samantha died instantly, as Miss Miller
- 23:29Speaker 2: suggested that a nurse told her what happened.
- 23:34Speaker 16: So my understanding is this was a rollover accident. But
- 23:37Speaker 16: before we talk about that, I just want to extend
- 23:38Speaker 16: my sympathies to the Miller family for their loss of Samantha.
- 23:42Speaker 16: This is just an.
- 23:43Speaker 10: Awful, terrible story.
- 23:44Speaker 16: I don't know how it could be worse. Nancy. What
- 23:48Speaker 16: we have here is a rollover type accident. And typically
- 23:52Speaker 16: what we find in rollover type accidents, especially when the
- 23:57Speaker 16: occupants are not belted in with with the seatbelt, is
- 24:01Speaker 16: that they are ejected from the vehicle. So when you're
- 24:06Speaker 16: rejected from the vehicle that's going about sixty five miles
- 24:09Speaker 16: per hour, the landing or the secondary impact is generally
- 24:15Speaker 16: what is the fatal impact. And then typically what we
- 24:18Speaker 16: find in these victims are skull fractures, our brain damage,
- 24:25Speaker 16: are a severe internal organ damage to the point where
- 24:30Speaker 16: sometimes the heart is actually ripped from the body, the
- 24:35Speaker 16: ribs are fractured, and there's a massive, massive internal bleeding.
- 24:40Speaker 16: Many of the times you also find the spinal cord
- 24:44Speaker 16: has been severed. And typically these patients or these decedents,
- 24:49Speaker 16: these victims die instantaneously. They have no recollection, no feeling
- 24:58Speaker 16: that they're doing. It's just an instantaneous death.
- 25:01Speaker 2: So you're await one moment and the next moment you're
- 25:05Speaker 2: in heaven.
- 25:06Speaker 16: Absolutely, so there is no suffering in this type of
- 25:09Speaker 16: a high impact rollover type accident.
- 25:12Speaker 2: Sidney Heiberger, did you tell me that this woman, this
- 25:17Speaker 2: driver who, by the way, refused a breathalyzer. Although when
- 25:22Speaker 2: you refuse a breathalyzer you're taking straight to get a
- 25:26Speaker 2: blood vile drawn, So refusing a breathalyzer doesn't help anybody
- 25:31Speaker 2: at all. Did you tell me, Sidney Heiberger she had priors?
- 25:35Speaker 11: Yes, Nancy, that is my understanding she had a prior.
- 25:39Speaker 11: At least we've seen a prior mumpshot for another DUI incident.
- 25:44Speaker 11: And you're absolutely right in that she didn't refuse a breathalyzer,
- 25:48Speaker 11: and they did take vials of blood to send off
- 25:51Speaker 11: to the South Carolina Law Enforcement Division to get her
- 25:54Speaker 11: BAC that was per a court order, and that those results,
- 25:58Speaker 11: as far as we know, have not been released yet.
- 26:01Speaker 2: Joining me right now. In addition to miss Miller, Sam's
- 26:04Speaker 2: mom is Jason Jensen, renowned private investigator, joining us, cold
- 26:09Speaker 2: case expert, co founder of the Cold Case Coalition. Jason,
- 26:13Speaker 2: thank you for being with us. According to reports, the
- 26:18Speaker 2: driver the defendant in this case, Jamie Lee Kamarowski, was
- 26:23Speaker 2: quote reeking of alcohol, reaking of alcohol when she's slammed
- 26:31Speaker 2: into the bride and the groom in an unprotected golf cart.
- 26:36Speaker 2: It's not like you hit a car where you've got
- 26:39Speaker 2: a door protecting you and a top. This is a
- 26:43Speaker 2: golf cart. I mean, hold on, Steven Eisenberg to golf
- 26:45Speaker 2: carts even have seat belts.
- 26:47Speaker 10: A low speed vehicle typically would have either the option,
- 26:51Speaker 10: but to be street legal, it should have seatbelts.
- 26:53Speaker 2: Yesna, So I think you're saying in a nice way
- 26:56Speaker 2: it may or may not have had seat belts correct,
- 26:58Speaker 2: because I've never seen seatbelt in a golf cart or
- 27:02Speaker 2: on a school bus, which I also don't understand, but
- 27:05Speaker 2: I've never for today, I've never seen them on a
- 27:08Speaker 2: golf car.
- 27:08Speaker 10: Ever, Well, this type of vehicle is not really for
- 27:13Speaker 10: a golf course. It's not technically a golf car. By
- 27:17Speaker 10: definitional low speed vehicle is for use on roads or
- 27:21Speaker 10: for use in gated communities, but it isn't typically used
- 27:25Speaker 10: on a golf for self, especially being a four seater,
- 27:29Speaker 10: so it really wouldn't be a golf car.
- 27:31Speaker 2: So you're saying it may have had a seat belt correct.
- 27:34Speaker 2: Made Jason Jensen, private investigator Jason If she reeked of
- 27:40Speaker 2: alcohol the suspect Jamie Lee Komarowski, there is no way
- 27:45Speaker 2: she had one beer and one drink with tequila in it.
- 27:49Speaker 2: If you are king, you've had a lot more than that.
- 27:53Speaker 13: I would agree with the nancy. I mean typically, what
- 27:56Speaker 13: we see here is the pattern of evolution of where
- 27:59Speaker 13: the this type of offender you referred to her earlier
- 28:03Speaker 13: as potentially a habitual offender. What we see here is
- 28:07Speaker 13: the progression of a worsening violator. Where typically, if it's
- 28:12Speaker 13: your first DUI, you're pulled over, you're apologetic. You know
- 28:17Speaker 13: everyone would expect you to learn your lesson and not.
- 28:20Speaker 10: Do it again.
- 28:21Speaker 13: But here she's progressed to where now she's refusing breathalyzer,
- 28:26Speaker 13: she's not cooperating, she's clearly left in an agitated state,
- 28:33Speaker 13: well beyond her alcohol levels that are permissible by most dates.
- 28:38Speaker 13: So you know, she didn't learn anything from.
- 28:40Speaker 7: Her prior offense.
- 28:42Speaker 13: Here she is. Now she's gone to the extreme of
- 28:45Speaker 13: killing people in the process. So it is a motor
- 28:48Speaker 13: vehicle accident in the context that vehicles were involved, but
- 28:53Speaker 13: there's criminal elements because she was reckless.
- 28:55Speaker 2: I don't think it's an accident. I may be parsing
- 28:58Speaker 2: words with you, Jason Jenson, all this a crash because
- 29:02Speaker 2: and I guarantee you Stacy D. Stewart is going to
- 29:04Speaker 2: agree with me. CEO of Mad Mother's against drunk driving
- 29:07Speaker 2: because it's a decision to go to a bar and drink.
- 29:11Speaker 2: Officers noted, and I quote, Komorowski was quote a very
- 29:16Speaker 2: unsteading on her feet and almost fell down. They asked
- 29:20Speaker 2: her to rate her level of impairment one to ten.
- 29:22Speaker 2: She said in eight. The officer states, and I quote,
- 29:26Speaker 2: I smelled an odor of alcohol coming from her breath
- 29:29Speaker 2: and person. So this woman was literally stinking drunk. Stacy Stewart.
- 29:38Speaker 2: For her to admit to drinks means she's had a
- 29:41Speaker 2: whole lot more. But she knows enough, Stacy not to
- 29:46Speaker 2: take the breathalyzer. I mean, one night, I was coming
- 29:49Speaker 2: home from an investigation on an arson murder, and I
- 29:53Speaker 2: stayed with the victim's friend, a piano teacher, till eleven
- 29:57Speaker 2: thirty at night, and was just talking, looking at pictures,
- 30:01Speaker 2: talking about their friendship and about the victim. I was
- 30:04Speaker 2: driving home now is about a quarter of twelve. I
- 30:07Speaker 2: got pulled over. The officer actually asked me to do
- 30:10Speaker 2: a breathalyzer. And I know better than to argue. I'm like, sure,
- 30:14Speaker 2: I'll do a breath lizer. You have to know better,
- 30:18Speaker 2: or know why you should tell a cop who's giving
- 30:21Speaker 2: you a directive to say no, I'm telling you this
- 30:25Speaker 2: ain't her first time at the rodeo.
- 30:28Speaker 14: Stacy Stewart, Well, this is a crash that, again could
- 30:32Speaker 14: have been preventable. One of the things that we're working
- 30:33Speaker 14: on at MAD in South Carolina in particular, because the
- 30:37Speaker 14: past two years, Nancy, we have seen an extraordinary increase
- 30:40Speaker 14: in drunk driving fatalities in the country and especially in
- 30:43Speaker 14: South Carolina. You know, the past two years, we've seen
- 30:46Speaker 14: double digit increases in drunk driving fatalities in by fourteen
- 30:51Speaker 14: percent each year in twenty twenty, twenty twenty one, and
- 30:55Speaker 14: then even more in South Carolina. The laws in South
- 30:57Speaker 14: Carolina has.
- 30:58Speaker 17: To be changed.
- 30:59Speaker 7: Right now, if you're if you.
- 31:02Speaker 14: Are found that your BAC level is above one point
- 31:08Speaker 14: eight or even above one point one five, which is
- 31:11Speaker 14: even higher than legally allowed, that's that is the trigger
- 31:16Speaker 14: for what we call ignition interlock, the kind of technology
- 31:18Speaker 14: that would disable your car if you are if you
- 31:23Speaker 14: are intoxicated. Right now, you can be below one point five,
- 31:27Speaker 14: still get in the car, drawing, and your car will
- 31:29Speaker 14: still go. And that is part of the laws that
- 31:31Speaker 14: we need to change we're working on in South Carolina.
- 31:34Speaker 14: It possibly could have prevented this from happening.
- 31:36Speaker 2: This occurred in Folly Bait, South Carolina, where I believe
- 31:40Speaker 2: the legal leminus point zero eight. If that's wrong, somebody
- 31:44Speaker 2: correct me.
- 31:45Speaker 17: It is.
- 32:00Speaker 1: Time Stories with Nancy Grease.
- 32:07Speaker 2: Joining us now is Sarah Ford, Legal director of South
- 32:11Speaker 2: Carolina Victims Assistance Network. Sarah, this is your neck of
- 32:16Speaker 2: the woods. This is Foley Beach, South Carolina. Isn't the
- 32:20Speaker 2: legal limit point zero eight?
- 32:22Speaker 13: Yes?
- 32:22Speaker 2: No, that's correct, Sarah Ford. We heard someone earlier state
- 32:26Speaker 2: that this was an accident. That's total bs. This is
- 32:29Speaker 2: no accident. This is a crash. And I frankly believe
- 32:33Speaker 2: and have advocated cases just like this. One should not
- 32:36Speaker 2: be a vehicular homicide. This should be a murder, and
- 32:40Speaker 2: I'll tell you why, because it takes intent, Sarah. It
- 32:43Speaker 2: takes intent for you to belly up to a bar
- 32:46Speaker 2: and not have one, but two, and we believe many
- 32:50Speaker 2: more drinks. Then you get the key to your car,
- 32:53Speaker 2: You walk to your car, get into your car, crank
- 32:57Speaker 2: it up, knowing you've been dreaming, put it in reverse,
- 33:02Speaker 2: and start driving. She knew perfectly well that she was
- 33:06Speaker 2: driving drunk. And as you know, under the law, we
- 33:11Speaker 2: are to infer that the defendant intends the natural consequence
- 33:18Speaker 2: of their act. Those are not my words. That's the
- 33:21Speaker 2: black and white letter of the law. The law presumes
- 33:25Speaker 2: you intend the natural consequence of your act. When you
- 33:28Speaker 2: are driving drunk to the point that you literally stink
- 33:33Speaker 2: a booze, the natural consequence is a wreck. That means intent.
- 33:40Speaker 2: You don't have to get in the car and say, oh,
- 33:42Speaker 2: I intend to mow down Sam on the night of
- 33:47Speaker 2: her wedding. No, that's not what intent is under the law.
- 33:53Speaker 2: I believe this should be a flat out murder thoughts.
- 33:57Speaker 15: Yeah, I think you're absolutely right if you were choices
- 34:00Speaker 15: that were made by this defendant, in these choices that
- 34:02Speaker 15: tried to consequences, you know, for for these people, for
- 34:06Speaker 15: these families. It's absolutely horrific. And being a you know,
- 34:11Speaker 15: a South Carolina residents going to Colley Beach is incomprehensible
- 34:16Speaker 15: traveling sixty five miles per hour on that road. You know,
- 34:21Speaker 15: it's it's absolutely horrific. Absolutely try to and I agree,
- 34:25Speaker 15: I do believe they should should increase the charges against
- 34:29Speaker 15: this suspect and charge her with felony d UI with death.
- 34:34Speaker 15: That's a mandatory minimum of one year to twenty five years.
- 34:37Speaker 2: That's a good way to approach it, Sarah, that's a
- 34:40Speaker 2: very good that's a brilliant legal thought. Actually, felony murder,
- 34:45Speaker 2: which means a death occurred during the commission of a felony.
- 34:52Speaker 2: Miss Miller joining us and Miss Miller. If if I
- 34:57Speaker 2: hear the facts again, I think I will break down
- 35:00Speaker 2: and cry right along with you. Tell me how is Eric.
- 35:08Speaker 7: He physically is improving every day. I had a reconstruction
- 35:17Speaker 7: on his face surgery yesterday. He's had a couple surgeries
- 35:23Speaker 7: on his feet and legs. But he will be okay
- 35:30Speaker 7: physically eventually. He's got a long, long, long word. Emotionally,
- 35:36Speaker 7: I'm very close with Eric, and he's like Sam's twin
- 35:41Speaker 7: basically where it comes to their heart and how they feel.
- 35:46Speaker 7: We always kind of used to laugh and call him
- 35:48Speaker 7: and cry baby, but just choke log. He just he
- 35:51Speaker 7: feels so deep. So that's a good thing when things
- 35:55Speaker 7: are good, and it's a really bad thing, especially now
- 35:58Speaker 7: because he's gonna have a really hard road emotionally moving forward.
- 36:05Speaker 7: And our plan is my plan is to try to
- 36:08Speaker 7: get here on James Island or in South Carolina permanently
- 36:14Speaker 7: so that I can be there for him because he
- 36:16Speaker 7: doesn't want to leave.
- 36:18Speaker 2: I got to tell you, just from my own experience,
- 36:20Speaker 2: it it changes the rest of your life.
- 36:24Speaker 7: Oh yeah, you're.
- 36:25Speaker 2: Never the same. How did Eric learn that Sam had
- 36:31Speaker 2: actually passed away?
- 36:33Speaker 7: When he first was in the hospital, he was kind
- 36:36Speaker 7: of in and out of consciousness for a while, and honestly,
- 36:41Speaker 7: that day, the timeline is kind of blurry to me,
- 36:46Speaker 7: but his brother was with him, and eventually when he
- 36:49Speaker 7: kind of came back to conscious he told him. So
- 36:55Speaker 7: he was. Yeah, he was made aware as soon as
- 36:58Speaker 7: he came to So it wasn't was it right that?
- 37:01Speaker 7: I don't know if it was that night or the
- 37:03Speaker 7: next morning.
- 37:03Speaker 2: Honestly, Eric has been tiedled as being in serious condition.
- 37:08Speaker 2: He has had so far one of two reconstruction surgeries,
- 37:13Speaker 2: numerous broken bones, and a brain injury. To doctor Tim Gallagher.
- 37:20Speaker 2: When this woman, Jamie Lee Komarowski, plowed into Sam and Eric,
- 37:28Speaker 2: it pushed the golf cart one hundred yards rollover, rollover, rollover.
- 37:38Speaker 2: What would have caused the brain injury on the young groom?
- 37:43Speaker 7: Well, it's a good question.
- 37:44Speaker 16: Typically what we see and I'm looking at the picture
- 37:47Speaker 16: of him laying in the hospital bed and if you
- 37:49Speaker 16: look at his eyes, you can see that his eyes
- 37:52Speaker 16: underneath his eyes are black and blue with something we
- 37:55Speaker 16: would call raccoon eyes. Typically, what thames is that the skull,
- 38:03Speaker 16: the skull and the bones of the face have been fractured.
- 38:06Speaker 16: And when the face and the are fractured, the shards
- 38:12Speaker 16: of the bone of the fractured bone actually penetrate into
- 38:17Speaker 16: the brain itself, and that's what causes a lot of
- 38:21Speaker 16: the injury.
- 38:22Speaker 2: You know, I'm looking at a lot of the posts
- 38:25Speaker 2: to doctor Sherry Schwartz, forensic psychologist of Kamarowski, and in
- 38:30Speaker 2: almost every post I see she's holding alcohol. This is
- 38:35Speaker 2: the woman who refused to take a field sobriety test
- 38:37Speaker 2: after the fatal crash not accident crash.
- 38:42Speaker 13: Uh.
- 38:43Speaker 2: Here she is standing on a deck outside drinking alcohol.
- 38:48Speaker 2: Here she is, and this is what she's posting off herself.
- 38:52Speaker 2: Here she is just as bud light ear and a
- 38:55Speaker 2: pair of hotpants. Here she is drinking. I mean, every
- 39:00Speaker 2: one is related to alcohol. Every one of these pictures
- 39:04Speaker 2: explain that.
- 39:05Speaker 5: Well, here's what we know about drivers who drive well intoxicated.
- 39:12Speaker 5: Two thirds, more than two thirds, tend to have alcoholism problems.
- 39:16Speaker 7: Or drug abuse. Problems.
- 39:18Speaker 5: They tend to have more than one d UI.
- 39:21Speaker 2: Let me add something, doctor Schwartz, you need to know
- 39:23Speaker 2: this fact too. She posts a photo of herself just
- 39:26Speaker 2: as bud light Year, a play on the toy story character,
- 39:31Speaker 2: in tight shorts, crop top with bud light boxes wrapped
- 39:37Speaker 2: around her legs and ankles and the caption raised to
- 39:43Speaker 2: infinity and be ranged. In other words, just drunk out
- 39:48Speaker 2: of your mind.
- 39:49Speaker 5: Well, the other thing that we know is that these
- 39:52Speaker 5: are individuals who are low in conscientiousness and high and
- 39:55Speaker 5: antisocial characteristics such that they are unconcerned about content sequences
- 40:00Speaker 5: of their behavior. And hearing about that particular post right
- 40:05Speaker 5: with bud light Year, what this tells me is this
- 40:08Speaker 5: is someone who has incorporated as part of her identity
- 40:11Speaker 5: the humor in being having this relationship with alcohol and unhealthy,
- 40:17Speaker 5: clearly unhealthy relationship. And as someone who has previously been
- 40:22Speaker 5: in legal trouble with a DUI, she's savvy enough to
- 40:26Speaker 5: say I'm not going to blow into a breathalyzer, which
- 40:30Speaker 5: tells me that she had consciousness of mine to know
- 40:32Speaker 5: that she shouldn't be driving.
- 40:35Speaker 11: And this is Sydney Heiberger again with Queen City News
- 40:38Speaker 11: let me jump in here. I just was going through
- 40:42Speaker 11: her record, and I do see at least three different
- 40:47Speaker 11: speeding violations previously, or two different speeding violations, and one
- 40:53Speaker 11: failure to use a turn or stop signal. She pled
- 40:57Speaker 11: guilty to all of those, but I do not see
- 41:00Speaker 11: prior to UI.
- 41:01Speaker 7: I think it was because she was under age. It
- 41:04Speaker 7: was twenty eighteen.
- 41:05Speaker 2: Yes, who is speaking right now? Is that Miss Miller? Yes,
- 41:09Speaker 2: Miss Miller. On her adult record, we see a lot
- 41:12Speaker 2: of speeding and other traffic violations, but there seems to
- 41:18Speaker 2: be evidence that there may be a prior duy when
- 41:23Speaker 2: she was a minor.
- 41:25Speaker 7: Yes, we saw another mug shut. I'm a drug and
- 41:28Speaker 7: alcohol counselor, so it's kind of crazy, but I think
- 41:34Speaker 7: that what we have here is a young lady that
- 41:37Speaker 7: has been bailed out because she her family has money
- 41:42Speaker 7: and is not been held accountable for any of her
- 41:48Speaker 7: poor choices that she's made. And when you continue to
- 41:52Speaker 7: bail somebody out, they're never going to learn, and she
- 41:55Speaker 7: has not suffered any consequences, so she continues the same behavior,
- 42:00Speaker 7: and unfortunately it happens a lot and a lot of
- 42:03Speaker 7: my patients that I deal with, they've been enabled, and
- 42:07Speaker 7: their parents take care of everything and fix it and
- 42:10Speaker 7: trying to protect them, but they're not really protecting them.
- 42:13Speaker 7: Because now my daughter's dead.
- 42:14Speaker 2: You can find out about they GoFundMe that's been put together.
- 42:20Speaker 2: It's go fund me. Samattha Miller Dash gone too soon,
- 42:24Speaker 2: Miss Miller. When you are alone, when you're back at
- 42:31Speaker 2: your place, when you put your head to your pillow,
- 42:34Speaker 2: do you feel Sam is with you? What is your
- 42:39Speaker 2: state of mind right now?
- 42:41Speaker 7: I haven't been home yet, and I haven't been alone yet,
- 42:45Speaker 7: and I can't even think of that. I'm not going
- 42:50Speaker 7: to be okay if I'm home alone. So my daughter
- 42:54Speaker 7: is here from Florida and going with me to Charlotte
- 42:58Speaker 7: and then we'll coming back here and sticking right by
- 43:01Speaker 7: me because I can't be alone. I always said, anything
- 43:07Speaker 7: happens to one of my kids, I'm done. And my
- 43:10Speaker 7: daughter Mandy made me promise the other day that that
- 43:14Speaker 7: would not happen because she needs me.
- 43:17Speaker 2: She does She needs you so much, and around the world,
- 43:22Speaker 2: across our country, people need to hear your voice. They
- 43:28Speaker 2: need to hear your voice speaking out about what happened
- 43:32Speaker 2: to Sam and that somehow, some way you may be
- 43:37Speaker 2: able to stop it from happening, even just one more time.
- 43:42Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 43:42Speaker 2: I can't thank you enough for being with us today
- 43:46Speaker 2: and representing Sam in such an incredible way. Your story
- 43:52Speaker 2: has really touched all of our hearts. Thank you if
- 43:56Speaker 2: you have any information that can help the Folly Beach
- 44:00Speaker 2: Police Doll eight four three five eight eight twenty four
- 44:04Speaker 2: thirty three Repeat eight four three, five eight eight twenty
- 44:08Speaker 2: four thirty three. Our prayers go on for Sam's family
- 44:14Speaker 2: and groom. Goodbye friend,