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#14825 - 9 Things That Can Bring Weariness - Galatians 6:9 · Calvary Church with Ed Taylor Podcast

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Welcome to the study of God's Word with pastor and author Ed
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Here's Pastor Ed to take us into our study.
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Amen, Amen. Open your Bibles Galatians
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chapter 6 Today we're only going to look at verse 9, although you
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if you're a note taker, be ready for different verses as we'll
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look at different verses throughout to build this topic
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in Galatians Chapter 9, in a Bible study that I've entitled 9
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things that can bring weariness. 9 things that can bring
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weariness because we are taught here in Galatians chapter 6 we
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looked at briefly in our study last time but we pause and stop
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here. Verse 9 just jumps off the page
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where Paul says and let us not grow weary while doing good for
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in due season, just like we read in Psalm one, in due season we
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shall reap if we don't lose heart.
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Now the enemy of our souls, when he shoots his flaming arrows at
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us, he is aiming at the bull's eye of a target.
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I think a singular bull's eye using all these different
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angles, all these different, all these different weapons against
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us. I believe he is shooting his
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arrows at us to hit the bull's eye of this target and the
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bull's eye. Is this you ready?
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The enemy wants you and me to lose heart.
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He wants us to lose heart. The idea of that word means to
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become deeply weary. It means to be exhausted, to
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faint, ultimately to quit and walk away from what God has
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called us to do. Deuteronomy chapter 20 verse 3
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says, And he shall say to them, Hear, O Israel, today you are on
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the verge of battle with your enemies.
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Do not let your heart faint, do not be afraid, and do not
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tremble or be terrified because of them.
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For the Lord your God is he who goes with you to fight for you
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against your enemies, to save you.
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This has been a an attack of the enemy from the very beginning to
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get you to get me to lose heart in the battle.
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Jesus would put it this way in Luke chapter 18 verse one.
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Then he spoke a parable to them that men always ought to pray
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and what not lose heart. And we're all familiar with
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trials, losing heart and going through difficult things.
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They go together. We all familiar with trials.
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We have them big trials, small trials, short trials, long
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trials. That's to be expected.
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And the fact that we see many people lose heart because of
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difficult times doesn't surprise us.
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We know by now that being born again doesn't stop the pain.
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Being born again doesn't make us immune to the hardships of life.
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We've learned by now that being born again makes regular trials
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sometimes even harder because of the spiritual warfare that
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surrounds them. We know that trials cause us to
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lose heart. There are those times in life
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like we learn in Hebrews chapter 10 verse 36.
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For you have need of of endurance.
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We spent a lot of time on that word in that section of Hebrews.
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There are times in life where you just need to endure that
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season. The word endurance sometimes is
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translated perseverance. It's the Greek word that you
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have learned. I'm sure if you haven't, you can
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circle it. When you get to Hebrews 10,
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circle it and right next to it hoopoe Monet.
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That's the Greek word hoopo Monet Hu, P0M, 0NE.
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There are definitely times where you just got to bear up under
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the weight of the pressure or the circumstance or the
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difficulty. Hoopa Monet almost always refers
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to situations, not people. So it's not like you're you're
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dealing with Hoopa Monet with other people.
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That's a different type of endurance.
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But but the times where things come against you and you have
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you have dealing with a battle, sometimes external, sometimes
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internal. Hoopaimone speaks of bearing up
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under having a deep patience and endurance toward things or
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circumstances. This endurance speaks of a
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constancy under suffering and it raises up faith and duty.
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It speaks of waiting on God, clinging to God, and taking a
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strong stand as we're learning Ephesians, standing fast against
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the onslaught of the difficulties that you're facing.
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Losing hard and growing weary with trials is no surprise that
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that's not new news to most everyone listening to me near
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and far. Weariness comes through trials.
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It does. But today we learn about another
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type of weariness and that is the weariness that comes from
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doing good. Now we don't think of it doesn't
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seem to match our thought is if we do good, then only goodwill
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come. But doing good, especially in
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the Kingdom of God, can bring its own weariness.
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And right at the beginning of verse 9, we are told that there
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is some control of this that we have.
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There's some control toward weariness that we have.
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When it says verse 9, let us not grow weary.
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So we learned that there's a weariness that grows over time
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if we don't pay attention to it. It's a weariness that grows over
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time if we don't pay attention to it in doing good.
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Now the context here. Paul's writing to believers who
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started out their walk so strong and so good, they were born
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again by the grace of God. Their family was changed, their
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marriage was changed, their life was changed, and they're
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enjoying the newness of life in Christ.
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Until the false teachers came and said, Oh no, that's not
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enough. Faith isn't enough.
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You have to follow the law. You've got to offer all these
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good works. And before you know it, they're
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all burdened down. And some of them actually
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believe that false teaching and ruin themselves, ruin their
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families, messed up their kids. Paul learned about it, wrote the
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letters, and he's telling them, look, you've been ripped off and
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you need to get back to grace. You need to reject these false
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teachers. You fought the good fight, but
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now you got to continue to press on, go back to doing good, which
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is what the summary of chapter 6 has been looking at others more
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highly than ourselves. Peter would put it this way in
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first Peter chapter 3 verse 17. For it is better if it is the
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will of God to suffer for doing good than for doing evil.
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There is a weariness that comes from trials and difficulties,
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and there is also a weariness from doing the right thing and
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doing good. There is a tiredness that comes
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from doing what is good, right, and wholesome, and it happens
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over time. This weariness that grows over
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time only leads to one place. And you say, well, pastor, what
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is that place? It's at the end of verse 9.
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You'll lose heart if you don't pay attention to this part of
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your life. You and I will lose heart.
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We have some control not allowing good things to make us
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weary. Let us not.
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Paul would put it this way to another in another letter to
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another church, Second Corinthians chapter 4, verse
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one. Therefore, since we have this
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ministry, we have received mercy and we do not lose heart.
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That's the place you want to be. You want to be on that.
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Hey, I know what ministry I could make call to.
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I know what I'm involved in. I know what family I'm in.
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I know where I work because everything in life is ministry.
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I know where I'm at. And I'm telling you, God has
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given me the mercy that I need. He's given me the grace.
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I and I do not lose heart. I might be tired, but I'm not
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losing heart. And in context, Paul is
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encouraging the believers, perhaps even encouraging
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himself, that there is a weariness that comes in
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faithfulness to the Lord. There's a weariness that comes
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in serving. There's a weariness and comes
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when you are doing the right thing in your own personal walk.
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I think of the room is filled with men and women right now
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that are making wise choices at great personal cost because it
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would be easier to do this, but the Lord wants you to do that.
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And so like, OK, I'm not going to take the easy route.
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I'm going to do what God has called me to do.
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I read this scripture or this wisdom from the Bible.
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I'm going to raise my family this way.
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I'm going to honor my wife this way.
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I'm going to respect my husband this way.
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I'm going to live as a pure single this way.
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I can think of all this that we could go on and on of the
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powerful spiritual decisions you're being, you're making
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right now at much personal cost. And the Bible says don't go
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weary, don't give up, don't lose heart.
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The enemy loves to tempt us to lose heart.
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He loves to get us to want to give up and throw in the towel.
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And it doesn't happen overnight. Supporting other believers,
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helping restore the broken, helping others with their
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burdens, seeing our own lives in order.
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They're all good. But they also can make us very
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weary. There's a weariness that comes
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through trials and there's a weariness that comes through
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doing good. I want to share with you 9
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things today, 9 good things or things in our lives where we're
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wanting to follow the Lord that I want you to watch out for.
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There are far more than 9. And you may have at the end of
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the list, you may have something to add to the list.
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If you have something to add to the list, I want you to e-mail
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me that. I would love to hear your
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perspective and I'll add I'll keep a list of it and maybe if I
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develop this message to travel with and I do A2 parter or
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something, maybe I'll add what you have to offer.
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But don't write me a book about it.
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I, I don't have time to read it, but just give me the points like
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I give them to you and then give me a brief description and maybe
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a scripture that the God that the Lord has given you.
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So I would love to hear your feedback, if you have it, on
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something good that God has brought into your life that has
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caused you to be weary or even think about giving up along the
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way. It's been a temptation from the
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enemy, but you're persevering and you're pressing on.
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So I'm going to share nine of them with you today.
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But before I do, I think it's important to pause and speak to
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the weariness that comes because you are at a place where you
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just don't want to serve anymore.
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You just don't want to serve anymore.
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It happens a lot. You don't want to do good
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anymore. And that, that's just where you
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are. It's something that I hear often
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with words like, and sometimes the team here can get that.
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The staff and the leaders can get that where I'll hear it.
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There's a, a hum that goes on and it's usually voiced this
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way. It's so hard, Ed.
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It's so hard. You don't understand how hard it
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is. It's so hard.
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Can I just affirm you in that, that if you do ministry right,
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it's going to be hard. It is hard.
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I I agree with you, It's hard, but I've also developed a phrase
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that it's important you understand this.
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You ready? Are you guys ready?
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I want you to. This might even be something you
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tattoo right here so you can read it like you want.
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Just you can do it temporary if you want, but you just get an
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idiot for the season, right? It's hard, but it's not that
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hard. It's hard, but it like sometimes
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it sounds like, well, you know, it's so hard.
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Like you're out there building the railroad or something, like
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you got that big steel thing on your bag or nobody's helping.
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It's hard, but you're not building the railroad here.
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You know, you're not up on a skyscraper with no net, you
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know, doing rivets and a high rise.
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And that's not your job. And then OK, you, you're an
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exception to that. But like you're afraid you're
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going to fall off 30 stories like in the back in the day.
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Like it's, it's hard, but stop making your identity how hard it
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is in ministry. That's not your identity.
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You're, you have been enlisted in the calling of God upon your
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life. You have been enlisted to serve
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him. It's hard, but it's not that
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hard. So get back to the place where,
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hey, you're being tempted right now through the weariness,
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you're being tempted through the difficulty.
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You're being tempted because a hard person or a hard situation
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and it's hard, but it's not that hard.
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The enemy wants you to lose heart and I'm asking you to get
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back to the Lord, get your eyes back on the Lord looking unto
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Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith.
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So it's hard. I agree.
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I mean, I, I think of those of you that might want to serve.
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We got to take it and we got to put it in the context of our
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little church here. So, so just say you want to
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start serving in this church. You go on to online, start the
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application process and everything and you just there,
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it's so excited, so excited. You can't wait, you can't wait,
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you can't wait. Then you start serving.
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Oh, it's so hard. Go back to how you really wanted
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to do this. As a matter of fact, we could
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say you said you wanted to do this.
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You responded to the Holy Spirit.
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You feel took all the time to fill that out.
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You watched all the videos you you answered all the questions
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and now today you don't want to do it anymore.
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You have to ask yourself, why could it be that you have let
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yourself grow weary in well doing?
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You've forgotten that there's a harvest in due season?
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There's a harvest in due season. And this is not something that
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we do in our own strength, not something ministry didn't.
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God didn't design ministry to destroy you or to wreck you,
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although sometimes serving the Lord will destroy your flesh.
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Maybe it's better to say, this is so hard, pastor, so hard
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because my flesh. Yeah, I guess, you know, the
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spirit lust against the flesh, The lust flesh, the lust against
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the spirit. So you don't do what what you
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really wanted. Yeah.
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The flesh is a formidable foe, but God is showing you that he
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is your strength and he'll get you through this because you're
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advancing the Kingdom. OK.
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If you're taking notes, taking notes #1 number one, if we I
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want to apply this verse. It's easy to become weary when
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#1 you help restore a fallen brother or sister.
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That's a good thing. Chapter 6, verse one.
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Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are
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spiritual, restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness,
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considering yourself, lest you also be tempted.
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This is good and it can also weary you.
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This can be super challenging to step into someone's life that
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has back slid or walked away or wandered away very mad at God
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right now, very upset. You know, when you step into
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their life, it can be very, very taxing and challenging.
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It's a good thing, but it can weary you as you help to repair
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what's been destroyed and walk with them.
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It takes time, it takes effort, it takes energy.
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This is something you need to watch out for #2 you can become
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weary when you help bear one another's burdens.
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Again, Galatians chapter 6, verse 2 bear one another's
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burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ.
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Life can get so heavy and hard. We're already all carrying our
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own pack. We're already have our own
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lives. We already have our own issues.
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And certainly, if we look at it as a backpack, and we all have
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our own backpack of life's issues, some of our backpacks
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are filled with heavy trials. And so you're kind of walking
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around bent over because it's so heavy.
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And then with that, as you're carrying your own pack, you're
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stepping into someone else's life to help them with their
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heavy burden. Yeah, this can be very wearying,
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helping people. Life gets so heavy and hard, and
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those around us are carrying such heavy, hard burdens,
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emotional, physical, spiritual, the whole revelation of these
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mental health challenges. And you're the one that's
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helping them. Yeah, it could tire you out for
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sure. Helping someone get their mind
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back on the Lord, or minister to them, or help them or encourage
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them or think of them or pray for them.
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This is something you need to watch out for as you're doing
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good and helping others bear their burdens.
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It's a weariness that can come, that if you don't check it, it
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could lead to losing heart #3 this is an interesting one, and
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this is a good thing. You can, you and I can become
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weary when you carry your own load, which we learned in verse
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5. For each one shall bear his own
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load. You'll notice right away, as I'm
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starting with these doing good, I'm using the context of the
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passage. This is where Paul wrote it.
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And these are the things he's just said that I'm want to bring
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you back just for the sake of. Whenever you're reading the
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Bible, you always want to hold that verse in context.
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So he's really talking about these things in particular.
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Hey you, I'm telling you in grace, go out and help people
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that are broken. It's tiring, I know.
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And help people with heavy loads.
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It's tiring, I know. And by the way, while you're
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doing that, take care of your own thing.
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It's tiring, I know, and it can weary you if you're not careful.
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Our own lives come with their own challenges, their own
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twists, their own turns, their own ups and downs, challenges,
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surprises. Living the Christian life and
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facing our own lots in life can also weary us.
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But it's good. It's good that you take care of
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your own house. It's good that you lead your
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family. It's good that you are turning
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your whole life and oriented toward the things of God, living
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in grace. It's good, but be careful.
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Let us not grow weary when you're carrying your own load.
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Let us not grow weary when you're helping restore a
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brother. Let us not grow weary when
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you're bearing one another's burdens #4 this is an
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interesting one. Also comes from the context.
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You can become weary when you're waiting on God, waiting,
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waiting. You go, Ed.
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Where do you get that? Well, right here in verse 7.
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Do not be deceived. God is not mocked for whatever a
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man sows that he will also reap. So I want you to think of it
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this way. Sowing a seed doesn't have an
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immediate harvest, it takes time.
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So the time between sowing and reaping in between, you can call
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that waiting, waiting, doing good.
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You, you did something good, but you don't see the immediate
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benefits of it. Or you're waiting like the Bible
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says, some people plant, some people water, but you're waiting
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for God to give the increase. I, I think of the people you're
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praying for right now that might get saved.
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And you've been praying for how many years now?
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You don't have to say it, but how many years have you been
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praying, waiting, not just on the bad things, not just on the
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trials. You might be waiting for a trial
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to end. OK, that's a good thing.
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Waiting, not taking things into your own hands.
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You know, if you really want to grasp this in its totality, when
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when I talked through the book of First Samuel and Second
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Samuel, especially the second-half of First Samuel and
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all of Second Samuel, we're looking at the life of David
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going into King, David going into Solomon in Kings.
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Like, like when you read those books, you'll see David waiting
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on the Lord and encouraging and receiving the benefits, and then
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you'll see him take things into his own hands and suffering the
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consequences. Waiting on the Lord is a good
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thing, but it's a good thing. But it's a good thing.
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But it could weary you. I think of how many believers
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over the years have just given up waiting on the Lord and they
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just lost heart, concluding that God is not faithful.
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But we see it's due season. It's due season.
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That's the key here. We don't control the season and
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as much as we control the snow or the wind, it's God.
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It's due season. While you're waiting on the
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Lord, you can get tired. This is such a lie from the
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enemy. It's just a big lie.
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By the way, this is a big one. I want you to think of these in
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terms of how the enemy tempts you through lies, because losing
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heart while you're waiting is the exact opposite of what God
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says waiting does in a person's life.
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It's the exact opposite. Now I know you have your
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feelings and I know you have your life experience and I know
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that you are living with circumstances, but we have to
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cling to God's word no matter what we're feeling.
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This is the exact opposite of what God says happens for the
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man and the woman that waits on God.
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Isaiah chapter 40, verse 31. It says those who wait on the
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Lord shall quit, walk away and never come back.
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No, you guys know your Bibles. That's not what it says.
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Here's the promise. Those who wait on the Lord shall
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renew their strength. They shall mount up with wings
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like eagles. They shall run and not be weary,
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and they shall walk and not faint.
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That's the promise. The promise is then replaced
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with temptation, and then we come back to the new covenant.
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Let us not grow weary. Let us not grow weary.
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Waiting on God is the exact opposite of weary #5 now #5
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another thing that's so important.
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It's easy to become weary when you do good, but you're
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surrounded by so much bad. This is an obvious one, but it's
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a real one. It can become very tiring when
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you do good, but you're surrounded by so many that do
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bad, especially if you have a high value for justice and
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equity and righteousness. And as believers, that's always
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growing in our lives, valuing justice and equity and and
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looking out for those that can't look out for themselves.
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And you're doing good, but so many people seem to be do
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getting away with doing bad. And it can weary you.
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It can weary you if that's all you pay attention to, if all you
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pay attention to is everybody doing bad.
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Well, you know David went through this Psalm 22.
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In Psalm 22, verse 12, he says many bulls have surrounded me.
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Strong bulls of Bashan have encircled me.
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They gape at me with their mouths like a raging and roaring
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lion. He keeps writing about this over
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and over and over again in the Psalms.
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He basically says, God, don't you see I'm doing good?
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Why do you let them get away with it?
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Don't you see I'm doing good? Why do you let them get away
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with it? It's just those seasons in life
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where you're so caught up in what you're doing and so caught
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up what the world's doing, you forget God.
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You forget God. This is a big one.
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This is a big one. It's a classics example.
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This is a classic example. I think all of them are, but
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this one's in particular where you need to get your eyes back
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on the Lord like it says in Romans chapter 12, looking unto
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Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith.
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If you haven't already, later on today you can go to Romans
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chapter 12 and that word looking, you just circle it
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right next to it staring. You are obviously not seeing the
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Lord in your life circumstances and it's wrecking you.
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You're doing good, but so many are doing bad and it can
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discourage us. We just got to get our eyes back
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on the Lord. Here's number six.
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Number six, as we wind down, we could we become weary and even
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on the direction of losing heart.
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When you rely on your flesh instead of the Spirit, this is
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an accelerant. You know, if you try to do God's
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work your way, you are going to be tired and weary and you will
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lose heart. You're going to crash and burn.
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When we're in the flesh. Nothing good comes from our
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flesh. Nothing good.
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Back in Galatians chapter 5 verse 16, it says walk in the
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spirit. You won't fulfill the lust of
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the flesh because there's a battle between the spirit and
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the flesh. This reminds us that we can do
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the right things the wrong way. If you do the right things the
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wrong way, you're going to get weary.
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You're going to allow the circumstances of life just to
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bum you out. And then you look back, you go,
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I'm doing good. I'm doing.
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Yeah. But are we doing good the right
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way in the spirit and not in our own strength and our own flesh?
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Our strength is so limited. We're so weak.
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We compared, especially compared to God.
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What do we have compared to? God says, well, you know, I'll
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offer this and I'll get like I think of you restoring the
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broken person. So you have a coffee with them
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and you're going to sit down, you have a meeting there and
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they're sharing their heart with you and, and you're really not
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listening to them because you already got the answer for them
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because you already know you heard it.
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You go, I already know what happened.
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I already know what happened. And now you really don't know
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what happened because you're not listening to them because you're
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only thinking about how you're going to answer to them.
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And that is you're wanting to help them, but you're totally in
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the flesh. If you're going to meet with
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someone for coffee, listen to them, listen to them.
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That's the whole. And then listen to the Holy
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Spirit. Listen to them, listen to the
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Holy Spirit. It's that verse that God gave me
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early on in my life. Probably given it to you as
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well. Proverbs chapter 3, verses 5 and
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six. Trust in the Lord with all your
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heart. Lean not on your own
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understanding. Your own understanding is your
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flesh. It's your humanity.
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It's because you already did this, because somehow you're the
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expert. You're the expert in this
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problem. Everybody comes to you because
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you're the expert. Can I just say out loud for
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everyone here and anyone listening to me, wherever you
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might be, you're not an expert. You're not an expert because you
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really don't know what you're dealing with yet.
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The only expert spiritually is our God.
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He knows everything. He knows the UPS and the downs.
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Yeah, you might have a little bit more experience and you
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might have done some things more than others, I grant you that.
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But you're not an expert, and if you step into something as the
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expert, you may find yourself wearied and tired because you're
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not leaning on the Lord. And it'll just make us more
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helpful as we remember to rely upon the spirit and not the
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flesh #7 This is a big one. I mean, they're all kind of big
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ones. Maybe you got a big one you want
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to share with me. This is a big one.
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You ready #7? We can become weary when others
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disappoint us. Wow, listen to this Second
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Timothy chapter 4 verse 9. Paul writes to Timothy, Be
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diligent to come to me quickly, for Demas has forsaken me,
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having loved, having loved this present world, and has departed
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for Thessalonica. Disappointment is always
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connected to our expectations, and when we have expectations of
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someone and they let us down, it can make us really tired.
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We get weary of it. People don't keep their word or
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they don't, whatever, whatever it might be for Paul Dimas, look
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at how he writes it. He doesn't say Dimas left the
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Lord. He doesn't say Dimas walked away
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from the church. He doesn't say Dimas didn't show
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up for an appointment that he made.
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He says Dimas forsook me. That must have been hard to
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write. He loves the world more than he
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loves me. You know, he's mentioned Demas 3
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times. The first time, they're serving
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strong together. Second time kind of winding
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down. Third time, Demas is gone.
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He doesn't love me anymore. He'd rather love the world, that
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partnership. And really, toward the end of
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Paul's life, much like his Savior, most everyone left him
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as he sat alone. Our expectations can be so
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skewed in doing good. People will fail us.
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People will misunderstand our hearts.
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People will get upset with us. They'll write nasty things,
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they'll say bad things, they'll gossip, they'll slander.
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But we must remember our motive is to please the Lord and serve
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Him by doing good to those around us and readjust our
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expectations so that we just trust the Lord with these
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relationships. Because ultimately, Paul
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wouldn't be effective if he didn't get over Demas.
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He just needs to move on, pray for Demas, hope he comes back,
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But Paul has to keep going. Just like you don't lose heart
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because you've lost some friends or don't lose heart because
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somebody used to worship with doesn't love the Lord anymore.
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It does get weary. It's like, man, I just can't my
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friends. The longer I walk with the Lord,
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the less friends I seem to have. Part of that is very normal.
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And it could weary you. You just got to reorient
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yourself back to the Lord #8 almost done.
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This is a big one as well. Did I already say that they're
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all big ones? This wasn't.
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This one's too #8 you can grow weary when you live counter
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culturally. That's good to live against the
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culture. That's a good thing, but you can
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also get very tired. Remember what Jesus said in John
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17 verse 15. I do not pray that you should
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take them out of the world, but that you should keep them from
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the evil one. God's will for you is not to
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take you out of this world, but God's will for you is also that
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you don't live like the world. You're in this world, but you're
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not of this world. And so living not of this world
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can be very tiring. Going against the flow wearies
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us. That's why the world's
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temptations can be so attractive, because you know
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you're going to choose that route of obeying the Lord.
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But there's an easier way. Just go with the flow.
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Just jump on the bandwagon. Just go with the way the world's
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going, and then you won't have to fight that anymore.
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But then you have bigger problems, won't you?
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So going against the culture is very important for the believer,
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but it also is very tiring. And let me just add this, the
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church has its own little culture too.
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And the church, sometimes you have to go against the, the
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Christian culture because the Christians are always jumping on
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some bandwagon. I've been around long enough and
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I've seen things come and go throughout the history of the
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church that believers jump on and then find out wasn't that
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big a deal after all. They jump on and they, they jump
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on it. They, they think it's the next
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new thing, but it's actually, there is no new thing.
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The gospel is the new thing every day, all day.
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The gospel is going to get you through.
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And I've been around long enough where I've seen things come and
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go. I remember there was a time when
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every church was doing the same thing in town and I have people
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coming in and are we going to do that?
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And I go, no, we're not going to do that, people.
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Why aren't we going to do it? Every church in town?
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And I said that's why we're not going to do it.
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Every church in town is doing it.
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I mean, if you really want to do that, go to that church.
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But here we're going to point you to the Lord and teach you
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the Bible. That's what we're going to do
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that. That's how we're going to
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approach it, and we're going to approach whatever is going on
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and take the Word of God. And that's what you're going to
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get every day, all day. That's where you're going to get
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here. Even if there's something
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popular and there's always something popular, you know
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that, right? There's always something
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popular. Some of you are probably caught
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up in some popular things right now.
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I'm telling you, going against the culture is going to weary
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you. Going against Christian culture
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is going to weary you. But it's the right thing to do.
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God's not going to take you out of this world until it's time.
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But you can't be like the world. You can't live like the world.
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You can't. You're not.
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You're a believer. You live for a different
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Kingdom. You're a citizen of heaven.
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And so you get your marching orders first from God, not from
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the world, not from the culture. This flow in the church world,
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you have to go against it because just because something's
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popular doesn't mean it's biblical.
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Just because you're on YouTube and they got 5 million views
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doesn't mean it's good for you. It just means five other million
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other people got poisoned just like you're about to.
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I mean, if I put a glass of water in front of you and said
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poison, you will die. Nobody's drinking that here.
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Go ahead. I love you so good.
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I did a little video. If you do this, you will die.
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You got click. But there's so much poison that
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believers are just taking in like it's no big deal.
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It's no big deal. It's no big deal.
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It's no big deal. It's a big deal because it's
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diluting your effectiveness. You may not be dying physically,
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but spiritually you're dying one click at a time or one bad
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decision at a time. And this is a big deal when you
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are living counter culturally. It can weary you #9 #9 should I
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say it? I won't say it.
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No, it's a big deal. Here's a big one.
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Number nine, you can grow weary when you love your neighbor.
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Isn't this what God tells us? Love the Lord God with all your
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heart, soul, mind, and love your neighbor as yourself.
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The doing good of loving the lost, the doing good of loving
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the marginalized, those that get labeled, those that the world
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loves to isolate and make fun of those that sometimes even the
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church will create categories for them and then all of a
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sudden they they live under the category.
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So you don't have to love them. You don't need to love them
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because they're this, you know, the Bible says you're to love
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your neighbor. I think of the Good Samaritan.
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Jesus taught us about the Good Samaritan.
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The hero of the story was the unexpected and he had great
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personal cost help. That man that was wounded, he
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not only helped him in the moment, but he said here, I'll
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open up a tab and I want you to take care of him and I'll deal
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with him when I get back. And he not only helped him, but
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he helped him. He didn't even know what it was
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going to cost him. That's the kind of love that he
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showed, and as a church, if we don't learn how to love our
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neighbor through the weariness, we're going to lose heart.
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And then we'll just jump on the whatever new bandwagon it is to
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deal with what we don't need to love them that's come out of
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people's mouths. And Christian, it's come from
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pulpits before where there'll be pastors up here using labels and
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making fun of people teaching the church like they don't need
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to be loved. I'm not saying it's not
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challenging or wearying, but I'm telling you that if you don't
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learn to love your neighbor the right way, then you'll be
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completely off God's will for your life.
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And of course it's going to be challenging as you sit down.
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Of course it's going to be challenging.
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You reach out. Of course it's going to be
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challenging. You learn how to answer.
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Of course it is. It's going to weary you.
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You might even want to lose heart.
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But it's worth it because somebody reached out to you,
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didn't they? Somebody talked to you about the
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issues in your life. Somebody answered your
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questions. Somebody taught you the Bible.
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Yes, and there's a whole world waiting to be reached.
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The Holy Spirit wants to do that work.
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Let me give you a bonus one. We got time #10 #10 you and I
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doing good. We can grow weary when we forget
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the eternal. When we forget the eternal.
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Second Corinthians chapter 5, verse 14 For the love of Christ
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compels us because we judged us. If one died for all, then all
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died when we forget that. All that you're doing for the
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Lord is not in vain. You get weary.
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You just like this isn't worth it.
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This isn't worth it. I don't see any fruit.
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I don't see any fruit. You might be in the middle of
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sowing and reaping, right? Well, you're not going to see
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any fruit during the time you're waiting for the harvest.
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That doesn't mean you're not being effective.
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It doesn't mean you're not being faithful.
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It just means you're being attacked.
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It means you're doing good and you're becoming weary, and now
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you're getting more tired and more tired.
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And if you're not careful, you forget there's a due season.
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And some of the due seasons in our lives will be eternity.
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Some things that we're involved in right now, we won't even know
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how God used them until we're in His presence.
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It's worth it. It's worth it then, and it's
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also worth it now when we use our money and our time and our
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energy and our talents and our gifts and our bodies and our
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minds and our spirits, investing them in the things of the
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Kingdom of God, contributing to the work of the Lord.
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It's always worth it. Always.
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And if you forget the eternal while you're doing good, you'll
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get weary in light of the reality of eternity.
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It's God's desire for his church to be busy about the Father's
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business. That's the place.
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Doing good is being busy about the Father's business.
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So much of what we do doesn't seem, it doesn't seem to be all
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that important, but we're told, I think it was in Zechariah.
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We're asked the question for who has despised the days of small
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things? I think we all have, because
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sometimes we think things are not so significant.
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But in the Kingdom of God, small or large, everything matters.
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Everything matters. Don't forget there's an eternal
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reward, not just a temporary one.
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Amen, ma'am. Lord, thank you for your word
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today. And the reality of this, this
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sense of how easy it is to let ourselves grow weary and doing
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good. And there is that responsibility
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that we that we take for letting ourselves grow weary.
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So our hearts are to be reoriented with you today Lord,
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to be captured by your grace and your goodness, and truly that
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you would pour out your Holy Spirit on your church today in
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Jesus name, Amen. We pray that you've been
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