Submission Isn't the Goal—Alignment Is: The Relationship Shift Women Need (Ep 105)

The Secret Formula of Femininity · Jul 7, 2026 · 16m

Submission.

For many women, that word immediately brings up discomfort, fear, or even anger.

But what if we've been asking the wrong question?

In this powerful conversation, psychologist Dr. Nicole Monteiro sits down with Sabria Mills, host of The Dope Muslim Woman Podcast, to explore why healthy relationships aren't built on forced submission—they're built on alignment, emotional safety, trust, and capacity.

Together, they discuss:

• Why submission without safety feels impossible

• The difference between control and healthy leadership

• How childhood trauma impacts relationships

• Why…