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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. I'm welcome to.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Stefan never told you a protection of iHeart Radio, and
- 0:18Speaker 2: welcome to another sub sub sub subsegment, Fictional Women around
- 0:23Speaker 2: the World, the first of twenty twenty four, and we
- 0:25Speaker 2: are coming out the gate strong with this one.
- 0:28Speaker 1: Samantha, I'm a little intimidated, but we're gonna do it. Today.
- 0:32Speaker 2: We are talking about nineties feminist icon Xena Warrior Princess. Yes.
- 0:38Speaker 1: I couldn't believe. We never talked about it, like in
- 0:40Speaker 1: all of the hosts.
- 0:42Speaker 3: Never really no host talked about her.
- 0:44Speaker 1: No, not that I could find. I know. I was shocked.
- 0:48Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, she was one of if there was
- 0:50Speaker 3: a like mother that term, she would have been mother.
- 0:56Speaker 1: I know.
- 0:56Speaker 2: And I think some of you are probably mad that
- 0:58Speaker 2: this is a stub sechment your whole episode, but this
- 1:01Speaker 2: is what we're doing.
- 1:02Speaker 3: Maybe we should come back, Maybe we should watch a
- 1:05Speaker 3: few episodes and come back because we need to talk
- 1:07Speaker 3: about so many things in there.
- 1:09Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well, I guess I should come up. Friends,
- 1:11Speaker 2: I've never seen an episode, I know.
- 1:15Speaker 1: That's why I've intimidated. I never saw it. But my
- 1:18Speaker 1: friend Katie, who's been on this show. She loved it.
- 1:22Speaker 1: I loved it.
- 1:24Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, loved it as well. It's been a
- 1:27Speaker 3: lot long time, but it was something that I watched
- 1:29Speaker 3: a lot of.
- 1:31Speaker 2: Yes, well see, I was in so deep with young
- 1:33Speaker 2: Hercules was by the way, I think I've I think
- 1:36Speaker 2: I found a way to purchase it yesterday.
- 1:39Speaker 1: That came after.
- 1:41Speaker 2: Yes, it was nineteen ninety nine, I think, yeah, and
- 1:44Speaker 2: this was this was during that time. But yeah, anyway,
- 1:48Speaker 2: I did not see any of it. I feel terrible
- 1:50Speaker 2: about myself. I am shamed, but I.
- 1:53Speaker 3: Feel like, yeah, we need to remedy that, because I
- 1:55Speaker 3: mean I definitely liked Hercules. Of course now I would
- 1:59Speaker 3: never but but then when Zena came through and she
- 2:02Speaker 3: was kind of the antagonist to Hercules and then got
- 2:06Speaker 3: her own show, I was.
- 2:07Speaker 4: Like, yes, obviously I must watch all of it. But
- 2:11Speaker 4: you were not alone, and you were not alone. Okay,
- 2:14Speaker 4: I'm ready to keep going. I'm ready for all right, Yes, okay, cool.
- 2:17Speaker 4: I hope you can step in and correct you if you.
- 2:19Speaker 1: A long time, I don't think I can. Okay, Cool, Well,
- 2:21Speaker 1: here we go.
- 2:23Speaker 2: This character was yes, played by Lucy Lawless and had
- 2:27Speaker 2: a huge following and there are so many essays, books,
- 2:30Speaker 2: blog posts, what have you that have been written about her.
- 2:33Speaker 2: That was another thing that was kind of daunting for
- 2:35Speaker 2: this one. But I love early fan conventions centered around Zene.
- 2:39Speaker 2: I believe there are two that happened every year. One
- 2:41Speaker 2: is in la and one is in London. I did
- 2:43Speaker 2: a lot to popularize genre bending, experimental episodes, like having
- 2:46Speaker 2: a musical episode. There was going to be a reboot,
- 2:49Speaker 2: but it has been indefinitely chived. But yes, the show,
- 2:54Speaker 2: this character had a really huge impact and I just
- 2:57Speaker 2: want to do the opening narration.
- 3:00Speaker 1: Okay.
- 3:01Speaker 2: In a time of ancient gods, war lords, and kings,
- 3:04Speaker 2: a land in turmoil cried out for a hero. She
- 3:07Speaker 2: was Xena, a mighty princess forged in the heat of battle.
- 3:11Speaker 2: The power, the passion of the danger, her courage will
- 3:15Speaker 2: change the world.
- 3:18Speaker 1: Love it, I love it?
- 3:19Speaker 3: It?
- 3:19Speaker 1: Did it did? Oh? Definitely? Yeah.
- 3:22Speaker 2: So Zena first appeared in the nineteen ninety five to
- 3:24Speaker 2: nineteen ninety nine series Hercules Legendary Journeys, where she was
- 3:29Speaker 2: popular enough of a character that the producer decided to
- 3:31Speaker 2: give her her own spin off show. So she went
- 3:34Speaker 2: on to appear in Robert E. Tappert's nineteen ninety five
- 3:37Speaker 2: to two thousand and one series. Sam Raimi was also
- 3:39Speaker 2: involved in their Zena Warrior Princess and then later the
- 3:43Speaker 2: comic book but the same name. She's also appeared in
- 3:46Speaker 2: an animated movie called The Battle from Mount Olympus, and
- 3:50Speaker 2: she's been in a bunch of non cannon confirmed stuff
- 3:52Speaker 2: from games to books. At one point during its run,
- 3:56Speaker 2: this show was the most popular show in the world,
- 3:58Speaker 2: more than Baywatch. Like This was a big hit Tue Joy.
- 4:02Speaker 2: The show focuses on Zena and her quest for redemption
- 4:06Speaker 2: after spending time as a violent warlord. Her parents were
- 4:09Speaker 2: Atreus and Syene, but at least one episode suggests Aries,
- 4:13Speaker 2: the god of war, may be her biological father, which
- 4:16Speaker 2: is interesting. We'll talk about that more in a second.
- 4:18Speaker 2: When the character was first introduced in Hercules, she was yeah,
- 4:21Speaker 2: like you said, kind of an antagonist, kind of an outlaw.
- 4:25Speaker 2: She'd spent like a decade looting and doing general rogue stuff.
- 4:28Speaker 2: She tried to kill Hercules the first time they met,
- 4:31Speaker 2: drawing him out after seducing his friend. So what happened
- 4:35Speaker 2: was her army had turned against her, believing her week
- 4:38Speaker 2: for saving a child from their lieutenant, so she had
- 4:42Speaker 2: originally tried to regain their trust and display her strength
- 4:45Speaker 2: by killing Hercules and presenting them with his head, but
- 4:48Speaker 2: thanks to some outside help, Hercules defeat Zena but refuses
- 4:53Speaker 2: to kill her, saying killing isn't the only way approving
- 4:56Speaker 2: you're a warrior, and that message really resonates with zene
- 5:00Speaker 2: and she decides to join up with him to defeat
- 5:02Speaker 2: her old army. In a later episode, they have a
- 5:05Speaker 2: brief romantic moment, Hercules telling her she's got good in her,
- 5:10Speaker 2: but Zena decides to break it off and go work
- 5:13Speaker 2: on redeeming herself for her past actions, which is the
- 5:17Speaker 2: main driving plot of her show. Zena quickly discovers redemption
- 5:23Speaker 2: and her dark past are painful to take on, to
- 5:26Speaker 2: the point she almost gives up on being a warrior completely.
- 5:28Speaker 2: She's taking off her armor and weapons and bearing it,
- 5:32Speaker 2: but she sees a group of children being attacked by
- 5:34Speaker 2: warriors and she can't help herself from intervening. This is
- 5:37Speaker 2: where she meets Gabrielle, a traveling bard who is incredibly
- 5:40Speaker 2: inspired by Zena's strength and convinces Zena to let her
- 5:44Speaker 2: travel with her in part to document Zena's adventures. The
- 5:48Speaker 2: two eventually become very close friends and depending on who
- 5:51Speaker 2: you're talking to, more than that.
- 5:53Speaker 3: That is the one thing I remember people being upset
- 5:57Speaker 3: about the show while I was watching it.
- 5:59Speaker 1: They were very close. They were We will talk about
- 6:02Speaker 1: that for a second.
- 6:04Speaker 2: Or Gabrielle helps Zena make up with her mother and
- 6:09Speaker 2: is there when she encounters Aries, who Xena rebuffs when
- 6:13Speaker 2: he asked her to join him as warrior queen, which
- 6:15Speaker 2: again m She also runs into a warrior whose family
- 6:19Speaker 2: she had killed, named Callisto, and Callisto helps Hope, who
- 6:23Speaker 2: is the demon child of Gabrielle, kills Zina's son Solon,
- 6:28Speaker 2: who did not know Xino was his mother.
- 6:31Speaker 1: Wo Drama.
- 6:32Speaker 2: A friend of Zena's name Marcus, died during his first
- 6:35Speaker 2: good deed that Zena had convinced him like we need
- 6:39Speaker 2: to give up the sole violent killing way, Let's do
- 6:41Speaker 2: a good deed, and he died during the first good deed,
- 6:45Speaker 2: and another son of hers tortures her mentor Laom to death.
- 6:50Speaker 2: Later after their ally, Caesar is betrayed by Brutus and killed.
- 6:54Speaker 2: Xena and Gabrielle were crucified during the IDEs of March
- 6:58Speaker 2: and then, of course, they were later to part with
- 7:00Speaker 2: the help of Callisto, who became an angel after Zena
- 7:04Speaker 2: killed her. Then, Xina gets pregnant with its so called
- 7:08Speaker 2: miracle child, prophesied to basically usher out the Olympian gods
- 7:11Speaker 2: and usher in Christianity. In order to escape what they
- 7:16Speaker 2: view as certain death, Gabrielle and Zena fake their own death,
- 7:20Speaker 2: but Ari's mocks everything up and he trapped them in
- 7:23Speaker 2: a cave of ice, where they hibernate for twenty five years. Meanwhile,
- 7:27Speaker 2: Xena's daughter Eve was taken in by Roman Emperor Octavius,
- 7:31Speaker 2: and she's now known as Libya, the Champion of Rome.
- 7:34Speaker 2: She's very active in persecuting the followers of Eli Eli
- 7:39Speaker 2: was key in Zena's resurrection. Eventually, Xena secures Olivia's forgiveness
- 7:45Speaker 2: and Livia retakes the name Eve and takes on the
- 7:48Speaker 2: mantle of the Messenger of Eli. Eve is baptized and
- 7:52Speaker 2: Zena is gifted with the ability to kill god's as
- 7:55Speaker 2: long as Eve is alive. As it turns out, Zena
- 7:58Speaker 2: brings on the prophesized Twilight of the gods after she
- 8:01Speaker 2: kills a bunch of them to protect her daughter. Oh,
- 8:03Speaker 2: and she does this with the help of God and
- 8:05Speaker 2: the Archaice Joel Michael. A lot of interesting things going
- 8:08Speaker 2: on religiously here. Aris also helps sacrificing his immortality so
- 8:13Speaker 2: that a badly hurt Eve and Gabrielle can live. Zena
- 8:19Speaker 2: would go on to help him get his godhood back. Later,
- 8:24Speaker 2: she ends up giving her life to defeat a gladier
- 8:28Speaker 2: named Yotashi, and ultimately chooses to stay dead so that
- 8:32Speaker 2: the souls of the forty thousand people she killed as
- 8:34Speaker 2: a warlord can find peace. Her spirit is later seen
- 8:39Speaker 2: with the spirit of Gabrielle, and this is only one
- 8:43Speaker 2: of many lives Xena will lead with Gabrielle her soulmate
- 8:48Speaker 2: in the two of them fighting evil together.
- 8:49Speaker 1: That's what they're sort of told.
- 9:01Speaker 2: So the series finale, which that's what that was, wasn't
- 9:05Speaker 2: the mo as well received. Even some of the showrunners
- 9:08Speaker 2: admitted that they think they flubbed it. But this idea
- 9:12Speaker 2: that they had the death as redemption thing that we've
- 9:15Speaker 2: talked about before, that was there since the very beginning.
- 9:18Speaker 2: One of the writers said, wait a minute, ultimate redemption
- 9:21Speaker 2: may be here. She's not brought back to life, So
- 9:23Speaker 2: I think they were always kind of thinking that she
- 9:26Speaker 2: was supposed to die in the Hercules show originally, so
- 9:30Speaker 2: it sounds like they just never gave up on that idea.
- 9:33Speaker 2: But okay, that's the pot, just very broad strokes. So
- 9:39Speaker 2: Zena was groundbreaking and important in a lot of ways.
- 9:43Speaker 2: She was portrayed as the hero, the warrior, which was
- 9:46Speaker 2: role typically held by men, but she was still feminine,
- 9:49Speaker 2: and she also still looked physically capable. Here's a quote
- 9:53Speaker 2: I found from Wiley. She can be vulnerable as well
- 9:57Speaker 2: as moody or cynical, but mostly she is happily. Also,
- 10:01Speaker 2: no matter what her plight, she always retains her dignity.
- 10:04Speaker 2: For example, she effectively deals with sexual harassment in the
- 10:07Speaker 2: teaser of the early episode The Path Not Taken Quasi
- 10:11Speaker 2: casually beating off one dirty young fellow after the other.
- 10:14Speaker 2: After that, personal remarks and lewde gestures quickly diminish and
- 10:17Speaker 2: almost disappear from the series. And even the most macho
- 10:20Speaker 2: type opponents respect her as a warrior and a woman.
- 10:23Speaker 2: Zena is as much a woman's fantasy as she is
- 10:25Speaker 2: a man's, and that is her charm as well as
- 10:28Speaker 2: her power. Yes, here's a quote from Woosh which I
- 10:33Speaker 2: think is a whole Zena fan site that's been around
- 10:35Speaker 2: for a while. In context of this paper, the character
- 10:38Speaker 2: Zena certainly appeals to the pleasure in looking, yet she
- 10:41Speaker 2: is hardly a passive object. Mulvey argues that for a
- 10:44Speaker 2: male spectator, a male movie stars glamorous characteristics or thus
- 10:49Speaker 2: not those of the erotic object of the gaze, but
- 10:52Speaker 2: those of the more perfect, more complete ideal ego, because
- 10:55Speaker 2: the character can make things happen and control events better
- 10:58Speaker 2: than the subject slow spectator. Why cannot a female hero
- 11:03Speaker 2: serve such a function for a female spectator? Polograham posits
- 11:07Speaker 2: a quote lesbian subjective space in which the female warrior
- 11:10Speaker 2: is sexually objectified but also identified with as phallic desiring object.
- 11:15Speaker 2: There is thus an identification with and desire for the
- 11:19Speaker 2: masculinized female body, a space in which both protagonists and
- 11:23Speaker 2: spectator occupy phallic positions. In the relay, listen when I'm
- 11:27Speaker 2: telling you there are essays and books created about this.
- 11:30Speaker 1: This is just a taste like there's.
- 11:33Speaker 3: She was a different type of character, woman like Lucy Lawless,
- 11:37Speaker 3: broke some boundaries because her even her outfit mm hmm.
- 11:42Speaker 3: Even though it was like skirred and Nordic, but at
- 11:44Speaker 3: the same type it was still like heavily like geared,
- 11:47Speaker 3: so it looked masculine, though it was still fimilar to
- 11:51Speaker 3: it everything about it.
- 11:52Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's very functional, even brought up.
- 11:55Speaker 2: There's like a lot of examples they gave of, Like
- 11:57Speaker 2: there's an episode where she has to pretend to be
- 11:59Speaker 2: like kind of like a sex object and they ask
- 12:04Speaker 2: her to dance, but then she like does it, but
- 12:06Speaker 2: is still clearly.
- 12:07Speaker 1: In control of the situation. You know, she's gonna like
- 12:09Speaker 1: whoop them. It's really good.
- 12:12Speaker 2: But yeah, this does bring us to I guess you'd
- 12:15Speaker 2: pronounce it Zabrielle. Oh yeah, Xena and Gabrielle.
- 12:21Speaker 1: That's what it was called. Okay.
- 12:24Speaker 2: So, Zena had a lot of romances, including with Caesar,
- 12:28Speaker 2: who betrayed her, but many many of.
- 12:31Speaker 1: Them were heavily hinted.
- 12:33Speaker 2: Even the showrunners have been like, no, we we wanted
- 12:36Speaker 2: you to think that with women. So with Caesar, a
- 12:41Speaker 2: lot of people think she was more into Melila, who
- 12:44Speaker 2: Caesar killed, and that's one of the big things that
- 12:47Speaker 2: ruined their relationship. Her relationship with lum is often viewed
- 12:51Speaker 2: through a romantic lens, Akini too, and yeah, these are
- 12:57Speaker 2: all women, but also Marcus, yes, Hercules, yes, but so
- 13:04Speaker 2: so so so many people were shipping Xena and Gabrielle,
- 13:10Speaker 2: and I was looking at pictures of them together from
- 13:14Speaker 2: the show and I was like, well, damn yeah.
- 13:18Speaker 3: Like I just clipped onto a YouTube of them and
- 13:21Speaker 3: a Commas on there. The way she looks at her
- 13:23Speaker 3: so softly, like those commas all the way down, kind
- 13:27Speaker 3: of like your response to Luke and Hahn in that
- 13:30Speaker 3: one scene. There's so many of those in Zena, Gabrielle and.
- 13:35Speaker 2: Her Yes, it I mean, but even in passing, I
- 13:40Speaker 2: was like, oh, I can see it.
- 13:41Speaker 1: I can see why people thought this.
- 13:44Speaker 2: They have looks, and I have a few examples of
- 13:48Speaker 2: why people thought this that I'll share it in a
- 13:50Speaker 2: secular specific examples. But first I also I didn't know
- 13:54Speaker 2: this supero geared and add towards a lesbian audience at
- 14:00Speaker 2: one time, and it featured a license plate that read
- 14:02Speaker 2: Zeno Lover.
- 14:03Speaker 1: So this was like people knew about it.
- 14:05Speaker 2: People knew about it, and this was coming out during
- 14:11Speaker 2: third wave feminism. We've talked to a bunch of other
- 14:14Speaker 2: about a bunch of other characters from this time, especially
- 14:16Speaker 2: like around witches, because of course we have. But there
- 14:19Speaker 2: was a lot of this going on, and it was
- 14:20Speaker 2: progressive in a lot of ways. It was mostly white show,
- 14:26Speaker 2: but now there's a lot of things people were writing
- 14:28Speaker 2: about and I was like, oh, that's not that's sort
- 14:31Speaker 2: of become more than norm But at the time it
- 14:32Speaker 2: was pretty progressive. And one of the things people pointed
- 14:35Speaker 2: out was she did have a black man as a
- 14:37Speaker 2: love interest. Helen of Troy was played by a black woman.
- 14:41Speaker 2: Cleopatra was played by Gina Tarres, which I didn't know.
- 14:44Speaker 2: And yeah, there was just there were a lot of
- 14:46Speaker 2: Asian characters.
- 14:47Speaker 1: All of this. I cannot say how well they were represented.
- 14:50Speaker 2: I haven't seen it, but unfortunately, at the time that
- 14:54Speaker 2: was pretty like, oh, okay, of course I have to
- 15:07Speaker 2: talk about. This came out in the early days of
- 15:10Speaker 2: internet fan fiction, and because people were shipping Gabrielle and
- 15:16Speaker 2: Zena so much, left an impact that is still there today.
- 15:20Speaker 2: So fans of Xena popularized alt fic, all or alternative
- 15:27Speaker 2: fiction for same sex romantic fiction. The term uber or
- 15:31Speaker 2: uber fick originated with Xena fan fiction, referring to when
- 15:35Speaker 2: characters are written or depicted in alternate universes, but are
- 15:38Speaker 2: still basically their canon selves, so like reincarnations or past
- 15:41Speaker 2: selves things like that, which, by the way, that's how
- 15:43Speaker 2: the show pretty much ended. They were like, this is
- 15:45Speaker 2: your soul mate. You're gonna have many lives together in
- 15:49Speaker 2: different forms, but you're always going to be fighting together.
- 15:51Speaker 2: It also kind of popularized, which is now sort of
- 15:54Speaker 2: a joke. But the sex and subtext, So yes, a
- 16:01Speaker 2: lot of this relationship was subtext, as in your reading
- 16:04Speaker 2: between the text, you're reading between the lines, You're looking
- 16:06Speaker 2: at the.
- 16:07Speaker 1: Looks that they share. You know, so many looks.
- 16:10Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. But some of it was pretty in
- 16:12Speaker 2: your face. I was reading about it. I was like, okay, okay.
- 16:15Speaker 2: So here's a quote from sci fi. Gabrielle finds herself
- 16:18Speaker 2: trapped in a ring of fire, and only her true
- 16:21Speaker 2: soulmate can brave the flames to free her, even without
- 16:25Speaker 2: her memories. Xena gravitates toward Gabrielle and awakens her with
- 16:29Speaker 2: a kiss. This is right around the place in this
- 16:31Speaker 2: series where the word subtext no longer applies. It doesn't
- 16:34Speaker 2: get much more openly gay than this, folks. The flirting
- 16:38Speaker 2: between Xena and Gabrielle is blatant. References to Sappho as
- 16:42Speaker 2: Gabrielle's all time favorite poet abound, and there is a
- 16:45Speaker 2: lot of friendship baths and the fish puns are plentiful,
- 16:49Speaker 2: to say the least. Xena dresses in drag Aphrodite appears
- 16:52Speaker 2: in all of her godly glory, and Xena goes through
- 16:55Speaker 2: Heck just to gift Gabrielle with a love poem. If
- 16:59Speaker 2: that weren't enough, she pops on the helmet of Hermes
- 17:02Speaker 2: and flies around holding Gabrielle in her arms. Truly one
- 17:05Speaker 2: of the queerest episodes of television we have ever seen,
- 17:08Speaker 2: and a nice almost end to the love story between
- 17:11Speaker 2: Xena and Gabrielle.
- 17:14Speaker 1: I had to like really cut down on all these coats.
- 17:17Speaker 2: Because I was like, this helps a basic They want
- 17:20Speaker 2: to be buried together, the fates agree they cannot be separated.
- 17:24Speaker 2: They kissed, though it was like the spirit of Xena
- 17:27Speaker 2: in a man's body, but it still showed them kissing,
- 17:30Speaker 2: which could still, you know, at that time, get you
- 17:32Speaker 2: in trouble with censorship, and so that they a lot
- 17:36Speaker 2: of the creators have said, like we were trying to
- 17:38Speaker 2: be as obvious as we could without getting censored, so
- 17:43Speaker 2: they knew about it. They were in on it, apparently,
- 17:47Speaker 2: and the most recent comic run that was largely helmed
- 17:49Speaker 2: by women, the pair's romance was made official. Lucy Lawless
- 17:54Speaker 2: called their relationship definitely gay and said there was always
- 17:59Speaker 2: a wealth she might be or she might not be.
- 18:01Speaker 2: But when there was that drip of water passing between
- 18:04Speaker 2: their lips in the very final scene, that's a menda
- 18:07Speaker 2: dip for me. Now, it wasn't just that Xena was
- 18:09Speaker 2: bisexual and kind of like her galpal and they kind
- 18:12Speaker 2: of fooled around.
- 18:13Speaker 1: Sometimes it was Nope, they're married, man.
- 18:17Speaker 3: I will say, Lucy Lawless has always been all one
- 18:19Speaker 3: hundred and twenty thousand percent playing into that. And I
- 18:22Speaker 3: don't think it was like token, especially during that point,
- 18:25Speaker 3: because that wasn't something that was lawed as being heroic,
- 18:29Speaker 3: you know what I mean, like people trying to find
- 18:31Speaker 3: that diversity, like you were't taking a risk.
- 18:34Speaker 1: Yeahs show yes.
- 18:37Speaker 2: And she has a quote about that I wanted to
- 18:39Speaker 2: read because she has embraced the queer reading of it.
- 18:42Speaker 2: So she this is from Collider. The fact that they
- 18:46Speaker 2: should be judged unequal writ large is disgraceful and unacceptable
- 18:49Speaker 2: good good souls. I hate that kind of injustice against children.
- 18:53Speaker 2: People are queer or straight or whatever they are from
- 18:55Speaker 2: before the time they're born, So to be educating them
- 18:58Speaker 2: as less than getting those messages implicitly or explicitly from
- 19:01Speaker 2: such an early age. It's a violence. To me, it's
- 19:04Speaker 2: violence against children, and that just goes throughout their lives.
- 19:07Speaker 2: So we want to eradicate that, stopping violence to children
- 19:10Speaker 2: telling them that they don't belong.
- 19:11Speaker 1: It's so upsetting. So yeah, she has been out spoken
- 19:14Speaker 1: about it.
- 19:16Speaker 2: I did want to note you can have a I'm
- 19:19Speaker 2: a big believer of platonic soul mate. It doesn't have
- 19:22Speaker 2: the soulmate thing could be platonic. It's with all this
- 19:24Speaker 2: other stuff that you're kind of like, huh. But you
- 19:27Speaker 2: and I have talked about this before, like I feel
- 19:29Speaker 2: like you totally can have just like your friend, that's
- 19:32Speaker 2: right or die there for you.
- 19:34Speaker 1: But given a lot of the other things changing.
- 19:41Speaker 3: Like that, and if we start like yeah.
- 19:48Speaker 1: Never again.
- 19:51Speaker 2: But yes, this was a show that featured a lot
- 19:53Speaker 2: of women, strong women, complicated women, relationships between women. Were
- 20:00Speaker 2: there problematic things in episodes? Yes, I read about one
- 20:02Speaker 2: that apparently scarred a bunch of people. That was like
- 20:04Speaker 2: some dream sequence where Gabrielle was a mermaid. I was
- 20:10Speaker 2: reading about like whoa remember, But well, it's probably for
- 20:14Speaker 2: the best. It sounds like it was really really ground
- 20:17Speaker 2: baking and the impact of it is still felt today
- 20:20Speaker 2: in our culture on the internet.
- 20:22Speaker 1: I love it.
- 20:22Speaker 2: In two thousand and six, Lawless donated her personal costume.
- 20:26Speaker 2: She's a National Museum of American History, so it's like
- 20:28Speaker 2: in a museum, that's so.
- 20:29Speaker 1: Cool as it should be. That is so cool. Yes,
- 20:32Speaker 1: I think we should come back and dig into this world.
- 20:35Speaker 3: You opened up a whole door that needs to be crossed,
- 20:39Speaker 3: and we need to have this conversation because I need
- 20:41Speaker 3: to remember those because I just remember thinking, even my
- 20:46Speaker 3: very conservative I think I've kind of shied away from
- 20:48Speaker 3: it because I was getting conservative.
- 20:49Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know if I can watch
- 20:51Speaker 1: this ray. I still loved it.
- 20:54Speaker 2: I mean the fact that they put it in a
- 20:56Speaker 2: commercial shows how much people were thinking this is pretty
- 21:00Speaker 2: queer show.
- 21:01Speaker 3: I also like that super just went all the way
- 21:03Speaker 3: and they already have this reputation anyway, and I'll love it,
- 21:06Speaker 3: you do you? But was like they're like, let me go,
- 21:09Speaker 3: let me go ahead.
- 21:10Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my, I love it too.
- 21:14Speaker 2: I had such fun researching this and I definitely had
- 21:16Speaker 2: to cut myself off because I was like, oh gosh,
- 21:18Speaker 2: I can't read a whole book about this right now.
- 21:20Speaker 2: But listeners, if you have thoughts about the show, Oh,
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