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171: Backscratcher · Wine & Audacity

• 0:04
  Speaker 1: M hmm, marning facts. How you do this is a
• 0:13
  Speaker 1: witness news ship? They did that ship?
• 0:22
  Speaker 2: You know, I don't got won't won't they don't do
• 0:24
  Speaker 2: eye witnesses. No more on the news when you do,
• 0:28
  Speaker 2: like when they when they be like doing the news stories,
• 0:30
  Speaker 2: don't you don't get you don't get the people on it.
• 0:31
  Speaker 1: I seen that ship. I'm not saying that ship. I
• 0:34
  Speaker 1: sent it. Lord Jesus is a far.
• 0:37
  Speaker 3: I went downstairs to get me a cold pop, old pop.
• 0:40
  Speaker 3: I thought somebody was bo pecuting.
• 0:44
  Speaker 1: You can't go, you talk for my life.
• 0:49
  Speaker 3: I saw a smoke. Somebody was bobecuting. I ran outside.
• 0:54
  Speaker 1: I ain't had no shoes or nothing, you know, Jesus,
• 0:57
  Speaker 1: I ran for my life. I got broadcast. Nobody got
• 1:00
  Speaker 1: time for that. Oh sweet Brown is doing well? Whatever? Having?
• 1:08
  Speaker 1: What the boy? What the boy name? Where? Where? How
• 1:14
  Speaker 1: your kids?
• 1:15
  Speaker 4: How'd your wife? Because they raped everybody? Brown here, because
• 1:19
  Speaker 4: you look real dumb.
• 1:20
  Speaker 1: Like you look real dull, real dull.
• 1:27
  Speaker 2: I like, I ain't like how the lot White Buddy
• 1:29
  Speaker 2: turned that into a song and they had this nigga
• 1:30
  Speaker 2: performing at the BET Awards like.
• 1:32
  Speaker 1: That ship was funny. I'm sorry, get it. How you live, baby,
• 1:35
  Speaker 1: am mad at you make me a hit?
• 1:40
  Speaker 4: I can perform at the BT experience before the show.
• 1:43
  Speaker 4: They might not let me inside, but I'll be on
• 1:45
  Speaker 4: the outside stage with the rest of them.
• 1:47
  Speaker 1: Phone on the stage. What turns g and them by
• 1:56
  Speaker 1: showing it's free and a j Why this is not
• 2:02
  Speaker 1: the one on six o'clock I grew up on, not
• 2:04
  Speaker 1: at all?
• 2:05
  Speaker 3: But welcome to this which episode of Wine and Audacity
• 2:08
  Speaker 3: the podcast? I'm your host, brands Car and I'm talking
• 2:11
  Speaker 3: about too my favorite people in the world. How y'a
• 2:12
  Speaker 3: feeling this week?
• 2:15
  Speaker 1: Same? You know, can't we can't can't complain about ship?
• 2:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 2:22
  Speaker 1: You're right. Yeah that banang, that bangang baby used to
• 2:33
  Speaker 1: keep me a mean Nare's bangangp I did too.
• 2:37
  Speaker 3: It was called a ball fade though, but apart right here,
• 2:39
  Speaker 3: that part was deeper ship hold back when I when
• 2:44
  Speaker 3: I had when my moon groop was closed and that
• 2:46
  Speaker 3: was permanently open.
• 2:47
  Speaker 1: He pulled up to the scene with the seilingness. Damn
• 2:49
  Speaker 1: sure did It's okay, just fine, He's still fine. You're right,
• 2:55
  Speaker 1: mm hmmm, you're right.
• 2:58
  Speaker 4: Yes, they're still they still be They still trying to
• 3:06
  Speaker 4: get a little taste.
• 3:07
  Speaker 3: They was trying when I went out up, but I
• 3:08
  Speaker 3: went out last weekend, I was I was shocked.
• 3:11
  Speaker 1: That was quite entertaining.
• 3:14
  Speaker 3: You shot bro, not shot, just just introverted. I wasn't
• 3:18
  Speaker 3: talking nobody. They was talking to Abnuey asked me who
• 3:21
  Speaker 3: I was instead of just walking up and saying hello.
• 3:23
  Speaker 1: Because you're a bad bitch. I mean you know, I
• 3:26
  Speaker 1: mean you said, I mean, you see it.
• 3:29
  Speaker 3: But there was one dude that came up and tried
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  Speaker 3: to talk to talk to abnue first to try to
• 3:33
  Speaker 3: talk to me, and I was like, oh hi next
• 3:35
  Speaker 3: to me.
• 3:36
  Speaker 1: Next to me, he said, you don't do switches.
• 3:39
  Speaker 3: I am a switch. Actually, yeah, I'll be whatever you
• 3:44
  Speaker 3: need me to be. I call your name that kind
• 3:49
  Speaker 3: of switch beauty, sim quiz. Okay, I'm a boy and
• 3:56
  Speaker 3: I'm a switch.
• 3:57
  Speaker 1: We are lying here. I like to watch for the
• 4:00
  Speaker 1: first time. You're not a brat too, apparently about yourself
• 4:05
  Speaker 1: doing quizzes. Sure what you do for me? That's too
• 4:13
  Speaker 1: much like we But yeah, yeah, yeah, bond it's not Nah,
• 4:24
  Speaker 1: that's too much. I don't think I have a praise,
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  Speaker 1: can't or humiliation.
• 4:28
  Speaker 3: That was kind of a little bit switch for your
• 4:31
  Speaker 3: brat was kind of high up on this episode, like
• 4:34
  Speaker 3: the nineties ninety percent.
• 4:38
  Speaker 2: I can't see your big ass is no goddamn braad
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  Speaker 2: bro be.
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  Speaker 1: Up bad No like lie live about what's my angel?
• 5:06
  Speaker 2: Saying multitude son out here sounds like an autistic Kim.
• 5:14
  Speaker 1: And I don't know why.
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  Speaker 3: That's the only episode I think about.
• 5:24
  Speaker 1: I can't start loving you back back him. I think
• 5:27
  Speaker 1: about hate like your Kim song and Kim song un
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  Speaker 1: lets you.
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  Speaker 5: Yours like ten Yeah, I believe birthday.
• 5:49
  Speaker 1: Got they come home straight from the studio. I love
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  Speaker 1: me some, Kim.
• 6:00
  Speaker 3: We are at the age where we can appreciate adult
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  Speaker 3: contemptor red music stuff that I practice to listen to
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  Speaker 3: on ninety five point nine Magic Yu.
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  Speaker 2: Don't get me, don't get me started on ninety five
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  Speaker 2: point nine Yea, let me be on the way we're going,
• 6:12
  Speaker 2: don't piss me up.
• 6:14
  Speaker 1: It's a lot of ship that was out when we
• 6:16
  Speaker 1: was younger. That was that, Ain't that? Ain't there no more?
• 6:19
  Speaker 1: Like Yo.
• 6:19
  Speaker 2: We strived and we wanted so badly to have a
• 6:23
  Speaker 2: thirty and over club card and got.
• 6:26
  Speaker 3: That ship before we turn thirty. Your son's a bit
• 6:28
  Speaker 3: thirty five point nine. Why did y'all stop making them
• 6:31
  Speaker 3: thirty and over club costs? Is when we turned thirty
• 6:34
  Speaker 3: back and twenty sixteen about in nineteen eighty six, that's
• 6:37
  Speaker 3: when he was born. Twenty sixteen, y'all stop making a
• 6:41
  Speaker 3: thirty thirty o a club card?
• 6:42
  Speaker 1: Yea, Kat Hughes called me.
• 6:44
  Speaker 4: We need to talk because what's going on now?
• 6:48
  Speaker 1: How would it all my flights to get me a
• 6:49
  Speaker 1: thirty in over club For those of y'all who know
• 6:51
  Speaker 1: who aren't from Baltimore, we go to Silver Shadows were
• 6:54
  Speaker 1: talking about the next volcano for those now from Baltimore.
• 6:59
  Speaker 3: In the d N Magic ninety five point nine is
• 7:02
  Speaker 3: although adulted timper Bary station right, and it used to
• 7:05
  Speaker 3: have something when we was little little kids back in
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  Speaker 3: the nineties called the thirty and over club card that
• 7:10
  Speaker 3: give you all sorts of discounts and cash back rebad
• 7:13
  Speaker 3: a certain party in the party events and events clubs.
• 7:18
  Speaker 2: They did Sweepstiaks on the radio. She had to come
• 7:22
  Speaker 2: to have a card?
• 7:23
  Speaker 1: What you car night when the thirty over club card number?
• 7:28
  Speaker 1: And it's like I ain't got one.
• 7:31
  Speaker 3: Also it closed by the time we were able to go.
• 7:35
  Speaker 3: But back in the day, It used to be a
• 7:36
  Speaker 3: club in Columbia, Maryland call Silver Shadows and it was
• 7:41
  Speaker 3: thirty and oh.
• 7:43
  Speaker 1: I was waiting all my life to go to Silver Shadows.
• 7:45
  Speaker 1: Time we hit about twenty seven, twenty eight, they closed
• 7:47
  Speaker 1: that bitch that. I think we were younger than that.
• 7:54
  Speaker 1: Look that up. We used to win Silver Shadows. We
• 7:56
  Speaker 1: used to hear ball all all the old clubs old.
• 8:00
  Speaker 3: Know that we were Nigga Odell's closed.
• 8:05
  Speaker 4: Minnie was mine was telling me about something closing number
• 8:09
  Speaker 4: club Choices. Yep, kid got the club choicest because Choices
• 8:17
  Speaker 4: wasn't thirty and over.
• 8:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was about choice had to be eighteen again enough,
• 8:21
  Speaker 2: Choices was twenty one and over.
• 8:23
  Speaker 3: I thought Choices closed in like in the late nineties.
• 8:27
  Speaker 3: We had some ship, but we missed all of it.
• 8:29
  Speaker 3: By the time we got grown, got gold enough, grown
• 8:31
  Speaker 3: enough to winter to go, the ship's closed.
• 8:33
  Speaker 1: Yep.
• 8:35
  Speaker 4: When I was at the Momos in twenty ten, that
• 8:38
  Speaker 4: was after.
• 8:38
  Speaker 1: The kids was born. Damn. Yeah, we wasn't old enough.
• 8:42
  Speaker 1: We was like twenty four. Yeah, I was twenty three.
• 8:46
  Speaker 4: Silver Shadows club and I feel it some type of word.
• 8:50
  Speaker 1: Remember as a kid and they had.
• 8:51
  Speaker 4: The Silver Shadows re union in twenty twenty and twenty
• 8:53
  Speaker 4: twenty three, and I want to know why I wasn't
• 8:56
  Speaker 4: invited because I was old enough then.
• 8:58
  Speaker 1: But nigga, you wouldn't have been there. But what's like
• 9:01
  Speaker 1: you go to the reunion for ol nigga closing? Maybe one,
• 9:04
  Speaker 1: I don't care. They were to play some good music
• 9:06
  Speaker 1: and the bitch, like I heard you say, I heard.
• 9:09
  Speaker 3: You Sean would have been that person right there in
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  Speaker 3: the front taking the picture on the wall with the biggest,
• 9:14
  Speaker 3: the biggest champagne for you in the wicked chair.
• 9:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, with my friends rolled and my finger was easy.
• 9:22
  Speaker 3: How many of you are seeing those old school club
• 9:25
  Speaker 3: back in the day. My mama got the eighties and
• 9:28
  Speaker 3: nineties with that wicked shed all the homegirls of homeboys
• 9:31
  Speaker 3: posed up mother more.
• 9:33
  Speaker 6: Uncut where they showed the pictures Filson type of way.
• 9:37
  Speaker 6: Because I went all my life metric head my mama
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  Speaker 6: had came on.
• 9:47
  Speaker 4: And the shoes and the speakers maybe and the go
• 9:51
  Speaker 4: to going to the club. It was the thing back
• 9:53
  Speaker 4: in the day. They used to dress, to get dressed,
• 9:55
  Speaker 4: to dress.
• 9:55
  Speaker 1: Honey. My mother had bird. My mother had burder paying
• 9:58
  Speaker 1: away so my cousins. But my cousins. They definitely had
• 10:03
  Speaker 1: to have them from.
• 10:07
  Speaker 4: You, and they Mama used to wear the leggings with
• 10:10
  Speaker 4: the with the with the pedal pushion, with the with
• 10:14
  Speaker 4: the hook on the bottom, so they would stay talked
• 10:17
  Speaker 4: into your pains, some of them with the.
• 10:21
  Speaker 6: With the.
• 10:23
  Speaker 1: You gotta do the pose they get the whole picture.
• 10:27
  Speaker 3: I gotta picture my mother like that, or you gotta
• 10:30
  Speaker 3: turn around, have your back to the camera, pose it
• 10:31
  Speaker 3: up on the.
• 10:32
  Speaker 1: Wall like that.
• 10:34
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry, you're telling them about your business. Sorry, mommy.
• 10:38
  Speaker 4: My mama was that bitch back in the day. Baby
• 10:40
  Speaker 4: with that them their finger waves and the big tuck.
• 10:43
  Speaker 1: Hey mommy, read them.
• 10:44
  Speaker 3: I know you're gonna see this was you down at
• 10:46
  Speaker 3: the club?
• 10:47
  Speaker 1: Was back in the day. Yep. I think she made
• 10:51
  Speaker 1: do you know who? We know what's down there? Along
• 10:53
  Speaker 1: with with with you now robbing? You know Robin was outside,
• 10:57
  Speaker 1: you know robins outside. I don't be telling your business.
• 10:59
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
• 11:00
  Speaker 3: Now.
• 11:02
  Speaker 1: Growing up it was like now said like where you
• 11:06
  Speaker 1: going out the street? Business? Yeah, she used to talk.
• 11:10
  Speaker 2: She used to talk about volcanoes, silver shadows, volcanoes.
• 11:15
  Speaker 4: Was hold on, I'm about to find out because mine
• 11:19
  Speaker 4: was saying something about that, and it was another place
• 11:21
  Speaker 4: she talked me about that.
• 11:22
  Speaker 1: Oh, let me get ruff Lane on the phone, honey.
• 11:25
  Speaker 1: So she so she could tell us thirty second Street,
• 11:28
  Speaker 1: thirty that's what it was, thirty second Street, PLO, No, already. No.
• 11:31
  Speaker 4: We would go to the club, and then they had
• 11:33
  Speaker 4: something called the Breakfast Club. We would go there after
• 11:36
  Speaker 4: the club close from two to six. We've had breakfast
• 11:39
  Speaker 4: people go home, take a shower, nothing, and get ready
• 11:42
  Speaker 4: for work and go right back to work. I said, man,
• 11:46
  Speaker 4: that was a whole lot, a whole lot. I'm you know,
• 11:49
  Speaker 4: we getting old. I can't do no after that babyout
• 11:52
  Speaker 4: about twelve o'clock. My damn, especially I've been drinking.
• 11:55
  Speaker 1: I'm ship, yo, that's crazy.
• 11:59
  Speaker 2: I mean it's crazy because it's like all the clubs
• 12:01
  Speaker 2: that you heard about when you was a kid, you know,
• 12:04
  Speaker 2: when he was a kid. He was like, yeah, I
• 12:05
  Speaker 2: can't wait. I can't wait to get old enough to
• 12:06
  Speaker 2: go there. And it's like we stuck with Melbos and
• 12:09
  Speaker 2: our social nigga.
• 12:10
  Speaker 3: I've been buying Melbourne Shout out to foss Braids because
• 12:21
  Speaker 3: I'll be on her page.
• 12:23
  Speaker 1: Boy.
• 12:23
  Speaker 3: She she playing all the characters, playing about twelve people
• 12:28
  Speaker 3: rest in peace. Big says love you, love you.
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: Here s what you want to I can't make that
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: joke that camel niggas going bright the house? What you
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: want to? Shut up? I can't make that. Josess watch
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: Welcome to the Question to We segment of the show't.
• 13:05
  Speaker 2: The question of the show scout Web because of Brandon.
• 13:09
  Speaker 2: I can't listen to Amy one hold yow wow. I
• 13:14
  Speaker 2: can be in oh yo here yo, the phone go
• 13:18
  Speaker 2: off and your head. I tried myself rehab. I said,
• 13:22
  Speaker 2: I'm like, you bet yeah, this nigga, you fucked up.
• 13:27
  Speaker 1: My tens crying on their row. My sister.
• 13:33
  Speaker 3: Years ago that I would be an annoying little brother
• 13:36
  Speaker 3: until after she's dead and gone. And I was at
• 13:43
  Speaker 3: the hospital talking cold Cash ship two months ago, and
• 13:49
  Speaker 3: I walked in the roomors like, mm hmm, look at you.
• 13:56
  Speaker 3: You look you fucked up?
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: Ain't you now? Mind you?
• 14:00
  Speaker 3: My sister was in bed on a not on a respirator,
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: but she you know, was laid up, you know, hooper
• 14:06
  Speaker 3: because she had cancer. So she literally was I was like,
• 14:09
  Speaker 3: look at you fucked up. Huh. They can't kill you
• 14:11
  Speaker 3: and even burst in the roaches. You done had a
• 14:14
  Speaker 3: heart attack and passed. I came back and died and
• 14:17
  Speaker 3: came back again. You hard to kill, aren't you? And
• 14:20
  Speaker 3: if she's in the bed like this and all you
• 14:22
  Speaker 3: say is.
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: No, she's gonna get that last middle thing? She was
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: and I said, look at you. I told her, I was,
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: I look at you when you do we look at you?
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: See is a damn DD Now.
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: So when I'm saying on the when I'm saying on
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: the bus going home, yo, she called yo, she miud
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: soide squad, I'm like, yo, fuck you.
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: That my sister's nickname for Aaron, Like fuck you. I
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: was just and Kee was keen un knew news like,
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: all right, that's cool, I see you.
• 15:07
  Speaker 3: I had to tell her that I couldn't. She tried
• 15:11
  Speaker 3: to have a conversation when I was driving on the bows,
• 15:13
  Speaker 3: shown you, I can't read your lips and watch traffian
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: that's what I love you.
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: But I can't. I'm trying to drive like this, nigga
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: pick up and straight. I said, wait till we get
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: to a light. And I didn't make these jokes.
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: God damn it, nigga, and she got mad, But I said,
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: gonna pick up, gonna pick up like oh, here's your
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: padn'tive macam.
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: I tried that she didn't want to use it, and
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: one of the questions sat trying my TikTok fy p
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: because when the hells when I look like you disrespectful bench.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: Saying five videos, whole lot, say man. I checked up
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: on the note. She ain't gonna be sitting on the
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: side of my beade to night.
• 16:06
  Speaker 7: She's not for the damn dry race board. I said, surely,
• 16:14
  Speaker 7: I can't make what the fuck you said. I'm like
• 16:27
  Speaker 7: fucking bits.
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: Ship, mm hmmm.
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: I can make Joseph about my sister passing, because this
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: is the relationship we had. There was a nineteen year
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: age gap between me and my sister, my mother's younger.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: She's my mother's oldest. Okay, I ain't gonna hold you, miss.
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: And I was talking cold cash to her, cold caship
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: to her face, and she bust out laughing and say, oh,
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: I just love I'm walking with.
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: Him me too, I said, damn said, damn bitch, you
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: had to drink over doors, you had a heart attack,
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: you fell up, show you're still living. Huh you determined
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: to not go nowhere?
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: H m hm, Ship. That was funny. She's fucking funny, bro.
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: I told him gonna be I'm gonna be that knowing
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: little brother to you. Gone ain't even afterwards mm hmmm.
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: So saying shy anyway, mother this morning find a letter,
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: as she wrote. My brother in law for the first
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: one used to sing that to her. Win. I was like,
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: guys looking at that, like nigga, real nigga, should yuh
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: come on to me? Shine? Really be all right, let's
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: getting the question the week Oh my god, at this point,
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: he don't need to be trying. I don't. He don't
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: what what what the fun was that? I don't know?
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: Oh my god? Okay, okay, I mean you you know
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: you you was outside of the weekend skies out thighs.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I don't sucking public. I didn't
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: say you did you might have seen you some good
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: I can't even was like, I don't drew over these niggas.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: They don't know how to act. All go ahead, then
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: I see you this niggas. I don't drew over these
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: niggas drew over me, bitch. I don't know that. L
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: B d T. Let me find let me find a
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: let me find the mows God City boys too.
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: Of course, are you thinks me? How much the sing
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: on their forties and fifties, We're still nigga at the
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: end of the day. They don't know how to fucking act.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: That all it was. It was something sitting next to
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: us and we was out for pride. Don't get each
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: other by die. We was like they was white, all right,
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: that's how you get money.
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: Ain't taking anybody randstruct bron.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: I'll be saying that ship. I'll be saying that ship
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: will work when I talk like because you know the case.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: You know they I don't know what.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: Gen z and I've been looking at him. I'm like, yo,
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: you know you can't kiss them. You ellipses for your parents,
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: passed men and giants and ship.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: Bro, I'm gonna do that, not your passing giants. Hell today,
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: look at that brain steam inflammation all right.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: So it's getting the question in the week what are
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: some adult problems that nobody warned you about?
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: Bells managians, the mine Oligosa ship.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: Because and the doubt Charlie horses.
• 19:57
  Speaker 4: My mama was damn nay and tis last weekend because
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: she hit one so bad and it would not loosen up.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: And I kept saying that you have to stretch your
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: leg out.
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: You had I went online, was looking like all they said.
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: I said, put some comp you want to go, get
• 20:08
  Speaker 4: you a compress or something like.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: It was bad. It was the bottom of her leg. Okay,
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: it was real bad, like she damn names and resident
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: massage therapis here.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: When you have a Charlie horse or any kind of crap,
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: you have to shorten them short got back hold my back.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: You must not that nigga, praise that nigga, praise len
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: b But for my people, for my uh, for my people.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: You have a cram and or you know, you don't
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: know when your back just start ringing. Damn trying to
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: put this. I wasn't smoothing to put the tail back,
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: but I couldn't reach back a long back. Oh girl.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: But sometimes when you at home, I got a backscratch,
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: but brach back scratch.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: Up this episode tight backscratch backscratch them.
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: But you know, sometimes you just gotta find like a
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: corner of wounds, just go up and there. Just yeah,
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: what are some of the problems that nobody wants you
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: about being important of a good mattress? The cost of
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: said matches.
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, facts plus take if you want, if you want,
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: it's disrespectful.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: I need a new mattress right now, baby, and I've
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: been fight. They say you only keep your mattress sixteen years.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: I thought it was ten years either way. Ship.
• 21:38
  Speaker 4: I'm on my tenth year. Dam I'm coming up. I
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: don't even have mine ten years. I haven't had mine
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: for teen.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: I had got my dad paid. Yeah, were about to
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: do Yeah notiney one this year. It needs me a
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: new mattress. I want one like brand as I can
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: just sink and de.
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: Hammer back again this back, this back girls back, Oh,
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: go on, go on a speck about to be.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: Ship. These nails, Look, these nails can come along. That's
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: what she said. Shout that in the whole. Now, I
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: got to build this niggatary. Damn. I got the sentiment invoice.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: It made my damn backage. What are you back at you? Chad, Chad, Chad,
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: uh huh? Look that leg leg and then it's that
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: and the boat and boone goes to dynamite.
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: I et a cigarette after that, God damn kiss. Yeah,
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: that's better than laying beer with your person.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: They get that spote in your back. You man, I
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: told you that.
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: Just kicking, Just Ship, I said, Chase, understand that when
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: she being at damn be you get to going.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: We really talk the past twenty five minutes. I like
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: it all right?
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: What are some adult problems that nobody wants you decided?
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: What to eat every day? Blows me?
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: Yep, true, Ship, Yeah, you get tired of the same thing.
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: There's on me so many different ways I eat chickens.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you the truth. I think I think
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: I get on kid the nerves because he'll be like,
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: what you want to eat?
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know. Whatever you fix, like whatever
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: you fix some of it? So is that?
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: What are some adult problems that nobody wants you about?
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: Anticipatory grief keeps me up at night sometimes.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. Yeah, true, yeap.
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: When you gotta have a conversation and you know and
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: then you and then you replay the whole conversation that
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: ain't your head, but you don't you know how the
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: conversation about.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: Going to happen?
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: That too, But also, and more so in terms of
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: watching your parents get older right in your face, watching
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: your parents and your grandparents, yeah, and uncles, you get
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: as you watch them, They're moving a little bit slower
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: here and there, and may take them a little bit
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: longer to respond to something or to figure out an
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: answer to something.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Where you remember you were kid, they would get shot
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: shop at the tack.
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: Ship, as they said about my grandmother. And it's like
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: over over the next five years, and I'm sitting there like, yo,
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: that's ship coming, that shit coming.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: Anticipatory grief I have there was I have that whole time.
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: I try I find, especially if I can't sleep, I
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: find myself like I will try to put something on
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: them to distract myself. Like you know, I love story
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: times and stuff, so I'll try to find one of
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: the story times I followed see if they got anything new.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: And that helps me.
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: Because I talked to shout up to missus Howard and
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: talked to her in a while. But I still use
• 25:06
  Speaker 4: a lot of her excuse me techniques that she taught
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: me in therapy. And I used to tell her that
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: that's why she said I got anxiety and due depression
• 25:14
  Speaker 4: because my mind starts to raise some one day and
• 25:16
  Speaker 4: I'm like.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: Abou damn, it's about it.
• 25:18
  Speaker 4: But I find myself picturing scenarios you ever had that
• 25:21
  Speaker 4: happened some ship that they never happened, Like, what if.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: This was to happen, if that was the head, what
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: if something happened to that person.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: So that's what I mean when they say you gotta
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: have you know when you're gonna have, when you know,
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: you gotta have a conversation like that work and some ship,
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: and then you you you put the whole like you
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: scenarios in your head and then you you're anticipating, like
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: you know, the worst ship, and then you be like
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: then then it's like then you actually had the coms
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: you like, oh ship, but yeah, nah, yeah that ship?
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that ship? Do you eat you?
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: Mm hmm?
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: Among the other Thanks, No, nobody wanted to be a third.
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: Next one got the dog? What are some adult problems
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: that nobody wants you about? Why does laundry never end?
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: That's a good damn question.
• 26:10
  Speaker 4: I have tried to force myself now that when I
• 26:13
  Speaker 4: wash clothes to go ahead and fold them as they
• 26:15
  Speaker 4: coming out. You know what I'm saying, Like when one
• 26:17
  Speaker 4: load will come out instead of just I'm like, all right,
• 26:19
  Speaker 4: I'm just fold everything at one time, and then that
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: last load come out and everything sitting in the basket
• 26:23
  Speaker 4: for four to five business days.
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: And then I'm just.
• 26:26
  Speaker 4: Pulling clothes out the day, and you be like, oh yeah,
• 26:30
  Speaker 4: I try to make myself. So now I try to
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: make myself. Like my sheet and stuff, I usually fold
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: them right away, my sheets, my toils and stuff.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: I go ahead and put them away. I will leave
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: towns and the drive for a week or two. Be like.
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: More so became trade's task, cause I'll tell him to
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: wash the towers and stuff and put him away. Now
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: when he do his clothes. But when I do do them,
• 26:54
  Speaker 4: I usually put those away first. Well, for some reason,
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: we're clothes. I'm like, I'm gonna hold this stuff later.
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: Or well, one time I was like, all right, I'm
• 26:59
  Speaker 4: gonna phod and stuff uneds to come out. So I
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: folded it, left in the basket. Next low came out forward,
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: the left in the basket, the basket upstairs and mountain
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: the clean clothes and everything is.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: In the basket. I put the way. Yet I have
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: to get rid of a lot of stuff, a lot
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: of ship. I can't fit no more I need to do.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: I need to clean the closet in my room and
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: the closet hell. I need to clean the clothes and
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Brian room to because I never took my stuff out
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: of there when he moved there. That's there's a whole
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: bunch of ship in their clothes you can't see. But
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: Brian got a whole wardrobe. He just the wall.
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: What are some adult problems that nobody wanted you about?
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: Still not feeling like a growing up even though your
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: age of responsibility said you are. Yeah, because I swear
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: I was just watching mad TV yesterday eating chips. I
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: gotta go to work and pay bills like an actual career,
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: an adult like I have to pick up and be
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: the work on time.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: I know we got money and sure every day grocery
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: text B G and E mortgage.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: This is get up enough to vote. Actually, he's not
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: attention to just the vote.
• 28:03
  Speaker 4: I'm like, oh damn, lord, ad, what you mean is
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: something wrong with the call? I gotta put it in
• 28:08
  Speaker 4: the shop and it's gonna cost me twenty five Oh,
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: I say, I might need to talk to my Oh lord,
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: I need to.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: Write what I do. But going to the market. Yo,
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: I love looks listen.
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: O love.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: I love me that little self. Now I'm gonna put
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: back this too.
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna put back this chicken that's thirteen o five
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: and get that one that's twelve eighty.
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: No, I can't go too crazy in the store because
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: I'll be like, well, I know I want this bag
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: of ship, saying these funnings and these cookies, and.
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: I'm not getting holmess this week. Y'all getting shopping's value brand.
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: Mayonnais No, it's saying, y'all don't know the damn different.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: I might have to say, But you realized, But you realized,
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: like you realize that your mom and them used to
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: do when they get them, when they get that ship,
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: like the like the store brand, like the store branch
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: end wrong store brand, the same, the same story.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: I'm paying to. I'm paying like to twelve for some months,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: you're not like getting cold.
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: But like like I said on the previous episode, that
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: was bougie about comments, ween hang, d ain't bring nothing
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: us in the house. My mother is like that we
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: had name brand. My mother is like helmets and he
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: and hides the frenches mustards.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: I done got great value. My mom like put that back,
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: get that, get that damn up friend taste mustard, get.
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: That, get that, get them and ship and parents worcesters
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: your sauce.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: I need this stuff to con wrap that billion parents.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: Put that in the cot. I could get my hot sauce.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: I try to Stamps brand toilet, get that, nigga.
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: But oh my, with the giant and god, they got
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: the big the big box that they're tall.
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: I got three of them, Chris, don't or I might
• 29:51
  Speaker 4: still one of those kind of damn't got there were
• 29:54
  Speaker 4: like six seven dollars.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: But it's the tall bottles because weapons on theselves, a
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: little teeny brand that's gonna let you alone time. That's
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: a lot of fun. Like barbecue. I love how so
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: it's just really good. That's a lot of you knowing.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: Get me in jest and I'm eating and god, damn
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: better get me infully out handle food shoes. Niggas, we're
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: still jam That's why I got a short episode. Dam
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: he is the only one with the crown. What you forgot, bitch?
• 30:29
  Speaker 7: That was good, But I was good.
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: What are some of the problems that nobody wants you about?
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: Eranting your damn parents?
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: Oh God, yeah, yeah, she coming to the horn.
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: If I could tell you a million times, I told
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: my mother COVID COVID lockdowns happened, and my mother had
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: healthy shoes.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: I said, stay your ass in the house. I will
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: bring you your groceries. Stay. I caught it in the
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: market with the with the with the mask on. Ain't
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: in her nose with the.
• 31:01
  Speaker 4: Mask on top of it, with the oxygen and god
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: damned caught with Charlene what I said, my while you,
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: where is my grandson?
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Don't try to tell you the subject that broke? I
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: got right in the car. It was like, Brandon, your
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: mama was just in Harvestville. When I called her, awer
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: off the phone with she was like Brandon. I was
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: out of breath. Maybe I should have did that. I said, yes, yes,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: you think something.
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: I had to come in here and get my paths.
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: He's Brandy was taking to you, I said time. I
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: was fairly very close to her, probably not even ten minutes.
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: You didn't think they called me. I would have went
• 31:42
  Speaker 4: and got him and brought him to I just wanted
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: to see what.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Was happening, because I've been in the house. I said,
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: you could get some air on the poet. You got
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: a porch, said on him, I said, my lord, She said,
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: it took me a while to walk to the door.
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: I just I was out of breath. I said, that's
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: why I told you asked to stay home. That's why
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: I bring your groceries every week.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: That was my girl, though.
• 32:03
  Speaker 4: She just needed to get out the house. She was
• 32:05
  Speaker 4: going to start crazy. Look after I snitched on him,
• 32:07
  Speaker 4: she was going to stare crazy. Yeah, parents, and your
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: parents is ghetto, especially because they stuck in their way.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: We're doing it now.
• 32:17
  Speaker 4: They don't want to listen. My mother's probably gonna see
• 32:20
  Speaker 4: this and kick my ass.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: But they know every thing. Since you got to know
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: every fucking thing. I lost my parents. Damn. I promise you, Lord, no, sir,
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: would have been Brendan shook the fuck up. My favorite
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: thing is telling them they think they've grown, especially my
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: boness mother.
• 32:42
  Speaker 4: She said she was doing something. I said, you just
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: think you're grown, don't you. I called the by government
• 32:46
  Speaker 4: and then she forgot how hard she hit. Probably about
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: to whoop your tam.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: I was like, I was just playing, I'm about to
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: whoop you, she said.
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: My hind poets adult that nobody warns you about good
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: character is not always rewarding.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: Corporate The corporate world will teach you that very quick man. Listen,
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: because they don't give a.
• 33:10
  Speaker 4: Life and you can be the night. That's why that
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: used to always be one of my biggest fears when
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: it came to Tray. He's so kind, harder than so sweet,
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: and people like to take advantage of people like that.
• 33:20
  Speaker 4: So I try to instill as much of him as
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: I can about being very careful who you friend and
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: who you hang out with and stuff, because other people
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: shit can get you wrapped up in some ship, just.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you. So it's just scary. That's my
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: biggest fear about him going away to school. Don't don't don't.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: Don't you worry about that ship he'll go. Don't you
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: worry about that ship? I mean he's an asshole. Your
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: level of asshole.
• 33:46
  Speaker 4: Experience to reach your level life experience, some bitch like
• 33:50
  Speaker 4: you got me fucked up?
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: But no, but that's what I'm saying. As you over
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: he gonna over analyze it. I mean, I watch him.
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: Now, when will start turning like, yeah, my mama said
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: one plus one equal to you, not eleven.
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: You got me fucked up? But no he is, he
• 34:12
  Speaker 4: told people. Just that's my big That's always been my
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: biggest fear. So I just pray over him. There's been
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: times I'm witness room hand. Don't take no ship because
• 34:22
  Speaker 4: people take advantage of people in this world. And you
• 34:24
  Speaker 4: ain't about to play my son for no sucker.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: Take You're good. He's gonna learn.
• 34:29
  Speaker 4: And I told him you never make a person try
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: to like you. You never make a person want you.
• 34:32
  Speaker 4: You never make a person try to stay with you.
• 34:34
  Speaker 4: Life want to leave and let them go.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: Let them kids, let them go out there and experience
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: your heartbreak and come on going buy your business. That's
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: the only only get another. All it takes is explosure. Right,
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: that's one. What are some adult problems that nobody wants
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: you about? Paperwork?
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: All the motherfucking paperwork, life assurance policies, these birth certificates,
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: and not to mention, I have a whole bind to
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: them just for my parents.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: Yep. Yeah, it's so tired of filling out stuff. Next one,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: how many eximptions I need? What you need this paper? Well,
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: it's it's not the house. I think it's in the book.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: I keep in it. I got box and got a
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: bunch of ship. Let me look at the paper.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: Workers are lost art though, like like filling out this
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: ship because now now yeah.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: Everything is digital now yeah, yeah, I ain't never got
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: a stack up. They go to stack and somebody to
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: do that.
• 35:27
  Speaker 4: There's like a modification on my mortgage and some ship.
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: And I was sitting there like she was like, you
• 35:31
  Speaker 4: gotta sign it exactly how it was printed.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: I know, bitch.
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: Let's go to the next one. What are some adult
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: problems that nobody wants you about? Lower back pain?
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: Baby, less than I I'm glad and stuff to lower
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: back pain. Your shoes ain't right.
• 35:52
  Speaker 4: You ain't got no artion, you got damn foot You
• 35:54
  Speaker 4: can't wear them super flat ass fucking rainbow hills and
• 35:57
  Speaker 4: walk around the rainway. Oh god, con versus one of
• 36:01
  Speaker 4: some of the most uncomfortable fucking shoes in the world.
• 36:03
  Speaker 4: They look cute at your outfice, but baby, when they
• 36:05
  Speaker 4: get the pinchin that baby told.
• 36:07
  Speaker 3: That painting, they're gonna paint you. What are some adult
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: problems that nobody warned you about? Trash can prices blew
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: my mind because why they're not all under twenty dollars.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: Questions, because bitch, you do you they all come with
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: different different gallons, motherfuckers, Like.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: Especially if you gotta keep it, if you gotta replace
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: it because you don't lost your fucking top because you
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: can trash.
• 36:28
  Speaker 4: People don't give it, damn, and they just dump your ship,
• 36:30
  Speaker 4: just fling it then and god damn where and you
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: gotta hope it ain't winded that day and your trades
• 36:34
  Speaker 4: can ain't down on the other side of the fucking
• 36:35
  Speaker 4: the alley.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Fuck you bought them on the county, damn, damn,
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: damn make me sick.
• 36:42
  Speaker 4: Then when you ain't got no trades can top and
• 36:44
  Speaker 4: your trains sticking up the top, they want to try
• 36:45
  Speaker 4: to find you.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: Well, maybe if your people will stop losing my damn
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: tops he missus Scott top ship that's got them on
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: city damn. Mm hmm.
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: Next one all problems nobody want to give though. Furnishing
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: your home, Why is a good rug? One thousand dollars.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: That's that's a good fucking question. I went the prices
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: when I first.
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: This outfit because you wanted to fit your whole fucking round.
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: You wanted to fit the whole guy damn living room,
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: and not just at one part.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: No, that's a whole. Because because you don't because you
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: don't want to pay for just to get the carpet done.
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: Why is quality furniture so expensive? Spending eighteen hundred dollars
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: on I was.
• 37:25
  Speaker 4: So fuck I actually managed to find some nice rugs
• 37:29
  Speaker 4: for a reasonable price in Ali's.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: Don't sleep on Ali's, y'all.
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: Next, what are some adult problems that nobody wants you about?
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: The daily washing of damn dishes?
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: She enjoy washing dishes. I do love that for you
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: because I will shut and put it right in the
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: dish on wranch it off.
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, my and my defense is like
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: we don't we don't got a dish washing the apartment.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: But it's like, yeah, I mean that's that's my thing,
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: key to cook. I washed the dishes. I'll take the
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: trash off.
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: I looved that for you because you know that's marry folks,
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: that's team working. It's not.
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: Leave. It's gonna be to sink instead of just going
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: ahead and ship.
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: That's not that's not saying, that's just me, Like I
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: don't think. I don't think no woman should take the
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: trash shoulder on, get her hands and get his hands dirty.
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: That's right, Like you already cooked. You're a real one.
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: You're a real one because I'm the man and the
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: woman that I could clean take Like, so.
• 38:22
  Speaker 4: Ain't nobody see the trash in the bathroom was running
• 38:25
  Speaker 4: over three hours?
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: It's three hours running over that bathroom. Hold up because
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: I got I got tossed up about that ship too.
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: But when I'll be taking out the track, when I'm
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: taking out the trashow, I'll be thinking about the kitchen,
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: I'll be thinking about the kitchen and ship and probably bedroom.
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: I don't never go in the bathroom and be like,
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: oh ship bad from trash until he to say, oh,
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: don't forget the bathroom, Like, oh.
• 38:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that all the time. I said, so you didn't
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: see the trains running over adults?
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: And next one, what are some adult problems that nobody
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: wants you about? No one can convince me that vacuums
• 38:59
  Speaker 3: need to be expensive as they are.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: Man, listen, everything's expensive. Is it really expensive?
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: Or is it that you grew up and your parents
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: bought everything and then it's like, now that is your turn.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: You'll be like, damn, y'all spent that. Y'all said, I'm
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: like this how much?
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: That's why that's that's why you would hear the Big
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: Mama's bissel from back in nineteen seventy three.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, thirty five months. Some died got to
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: beg you to come, doing, to do or something you
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: for years and they be the best, fucking clean all
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: the good.
• 39:43
  Speaker 4: Lines in your hopes and your dreams too. Yes, and
• 39:45
  Speaker 4: the baby gonna suck everything. It's gonna be shooting their coffee.
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: Did they know what?
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: It's still their baby. They curbly gonna get it.
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: Let's still a couple more. What are some adult problems?
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: And nobody wanted you about the loneliness of healing? Sometimes
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: it is in fact that serious.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah.
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: Then the next one, what is some what the final one?
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: What are some adult problems? Nobody wants you about? Seeing
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: the morality of your elders in real time? Like you
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: real fucked up, ain't you?
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah? You really think like that? Yeah yeah yeah, yeah,
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: yeah yeah yeah, when.
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: Yo, when you think about that, like when you hear
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: them and just some wow ship, when you learn, when
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: you learn, when you learn family secrets and this, like
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: like my grandma home uncle found out he was he
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: his daddy wasn't his daddy?
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: And my Grandma's like, what you want me to tell you?
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying like and it's like it's like, damn,
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: what I want you to tell me? Don't you think
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: you need to let me know what's going on?
• 40:54
  Speaker 6: Well?
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: And I mean, yeah, that now that dad, that should
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: be crazy, yo. Like when you like when you learn
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: the royal family, see when you learn the world, you
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: you able to sit at that table with them, and
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: that's when you learn like all the real ship and
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: you be sitting there like, yo, what.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: You did that ship on purpose? Or you you did
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: that and thought it was a good decision to.
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: The right and then give up and gat up looking
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: at you like blow your mind, don't it. You're like, yeah, nigga, really,
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: what the fuck is.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: You surprised the way that.
• 41:30
  Speaker 4: Some of some people think, like Terry was a good
• 41:33
  Speaker 4: man mindset, you will be surprised that how many of
• 41:38
  Speaker 4: the women in the family are male centered, how much
• 41:41
  Speaker 4: the ones that protected the the pedals and oh he
• 41:46
  Speaker 4: ain't mean no harm.
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: He said he was sorry or didn't believe when to them,
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: and they like that didn't happen.
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: To What goes on in my house stays in my house.
• 42:01
  Speaker 4: That's the one there, that's the one there that so
• 42:04
  Speaker 4: many people walking around with trauma.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: Because of that, so many people.
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: Found I found myself saying I found myself saying that
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: line yesterday. But that's because the little girl had hurt,
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: had cursed, and they the other teacher asked her, like,
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: what did she say? I mean, where does she learn
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: that from? She said, my house? And like, you know what,
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: that's that stays in your house. I'm bringing it here
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: like whatever, like with that and that, and I was like,
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: and she looked at it. I was like, no, in
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: that aspect, like that, you can't say that around here
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: because then everybody else to start saying it and then
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: there but then it's like, you know, then the parents
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: start blaming you know, everybody else or.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: Where like where it happened. Yeah, yeah, I don't like
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: that line. I mean I didn't like. I don't like.
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: I don't like using that line. But yesterday, I mean
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: it made sense.
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: As as as millennials, that is one thing I can't
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: say a lot of us have taken the.
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: Charge on trying to break that cycle. Cycle talks about
• 42:56
  Speaker 4: that all the time, about breaking cycles.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: She talks about it and.
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: Getting married and trying to do stuff right. You know,
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: some people say together because they had to but it
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: is jarring to realize that some of your elders, your parents,
• 43:10
  Speaker 3: your grandparents are horrible. We're toxic as fuck, and they
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: love being toxic as fuck because that's all.
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: And it's like you you really chose this, You actually
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: keep choosing this.
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: Why But I think I think that's what That's what
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: makes the but that's what gives or that's what breeds
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: to disconnect with the newer with the newer generation. And
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: when they're not, they're not going to accept them what
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: they're not going to tolerate because for us it's like,
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: you know, that was life, you know that was life,
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: and for them it's like I'm not I don't have
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: to tolerate that. And then we then, you know, us
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: as older millennials look at them like you know some
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: some of us look at them like you saw because.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: You know this was this was like this is what
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: it was. We ain't like the ship. We got to
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: tell them this is a new day and new time.
• 43:54
  Speaker 4: Something that's hurt me. I'm gonna get helpful. I'm not
• 43:57
  Speaker 4: staying with them, man, because I got my own bank account.
• 44:00
  Speaker 4: I'm allowed to have my own bank account now, and this.
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: Ship is is my ship you can go or stay
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: with a man because because he loves.
• 44:08
  Speaker 4: You, cheated you and treat you and knock you out,
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: saying I ain't got having a man for the sake
• 44:15
  Speaker 4: of having a man. Men being with women because they
• 44:18
  Speaker 4: feel like that's what they're supposed to do, or or
• 44:21
  Speaker 4: or they oh my dad, this is my daddy, handled
• 44:23
  Speaker 4: my mom, or I ain't your many, I'm about to
• 44:25
  Speaker 4: fuck you up, not your mother.
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And people still to this day used an excuse,
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know how to be a father because I
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: at never had no father. I hate that. Go to therapy. No,
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: it ain't it. Don't all that you wanted to have
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: what I'm.
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: Saying it don't it don't have nothing to be like
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: do with therapy. But I don't know how to be
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: with because I never had a father. Then it's like,
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: how would you how would you get how do you
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: want to treat your child?
• 44:51
  Speaker 3: Don't bring you wish you were treated as a child
• 44:54
  Speaker 3: your father was?
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: Is that? Is that not motivation for you to like
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: for you to be that like be that for your kid?
• 45:00
  Speaker 3: Some people actually believe it or not. Can't see past
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: They can't see the forest for the trees. They may
• 45:06
  Speaker 3: be able to identify issues. You know, with some people,
• 45:08
  Speaker 3: they can say, this is an issue. I'm gonna keep
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: throwing something six or the fixed six.
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: It's an issue.
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: And I don't know what to do with having babies.
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you that wa ain't boiler needles, bitch. Stop
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: throwing the ship against the wall. Figure that ship the
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: funk out, like you gotta figure that ship the funk
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: out because you.
• 45:26
  Speaker 3: And we've talked about this before and on on the podcast,
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: and I'm gonna say it again when it comes to
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: dealing with your elders. You're not gonna talk to me crazy.
• 45:33
  Speaker 3: I don't give a damn what your mother did, do you.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: I think that's also I think that's a disconnect ones.
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: But you're not gonna table I'm a poor child to me,
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: I'm growing to.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: Pay my own bill. You're not gonna talk to me crazy.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: I don't give a damn who you are. I'm growing.
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: I got more side up, bitch.
• 45:49
  Speaker 4: You're not gonna talk to me crazy or not, because
• 45:52
  Speaker 4: both of us gonna be in here limping. Yeah, but
• 45:54
  Speaker 4: you might accidentally trip something.
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: Don't keep talking to me or talking to you. Ain't
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: talk to me crazy or reality check. That's the reality.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: They can't yo. When you say some ship. My mom
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: was like, no, she not. She said, what the fuck?
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: She said sooner nigga yo yo.
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: Once on Twitter was popping like when it first, like
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: when they first started, and you know, niggas was just
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: talking ship and it's like, I didn't know Aaron had
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: I didn't know Aaron said that. Mom was like, the
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: aren't grown as hell?
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: Like we we we we grown? My mother One of
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: my mother brother Tims, tried that one time.
• 46:33
  Speaker 4: My mother got into it with her biological sister on
• 46:35
  Speaker 4: Facebook one time and I jumped in and to find
• 46:37
  Speaker 4: my mother because you're not gonna be talking to my
• 46:38
  Speaker 4: mother crazy.
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: Don't give them who you are. You're not going to
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: talk to my mother crazy. They're not gonna do it.
• 46:43
  Speaker 4: And she came backing me sideways and I got in
• 46:46
  Speaker 4: her as it took he speak to her for years
• 46:49
  Speaker 4: and my my mother brother Tives, one of the cousins,
• 46:51
  Speaker 4: called her and it's like, your daughter should have stayed
• 46:53
  Speaker 4: out of that divers between you and your sister. My
• 46:55
  Speaker 4: mother said, my daughter is grown and I can't tell
• 46:58
  Speaker 4: my grown daughter what to do any She felt the
• 47:00
  Speaker 4: need to jump in and and defend her mother.
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: That was her right, that's always sweet great. And I
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: said if she.
• 47:06
  Speaker 4: Looking and I told my mother and I said, if
• 47:08
  Speaker 4: she got a problem with it, she can get it too,
• 47:10
  Speaker 4: because I don't even know here.
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, ye, that'd be the school ship. Wet that table.
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: Once you got that table, like, no, nigga, Yeah, you
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: let me in here. I'm gonna say what the I'm
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: gonna say.
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: And I'm gonna be But respect begets respect. Yeah, agreed.
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: It's certain things I'm not gonna say around my grandmother offense.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: We got tired of taking the disrespect as kids.
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and so once we sit, shut up, always
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: make And she she was to you, yeah like nah, nigga,
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: Like noah, nigga. I'm I can come out and defend myself.
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: I waiting to say, yes, it's not disrespect when I'm
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: responding to ship you say to me for one of them,
• 47:51
  Speaker 3: I'm not your child, so talk to me crazy, my
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: own mother, don't talk to me like that.
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: What makes you think I'm gonna let you talk to me?
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: That's another thing. That's another thing. You're my mother, don't
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: talk to me like that because I got her, But
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: she did that one time.
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: But it's it's that it's that we're we were we
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: were demanded, you demanded respect from us, but then our
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: parents tell us that you're in order to get respect,
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: you have to earn respect like you got to get
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: again because of your age or your your your association
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: with my shit. Oh shit, baby, I don't give a
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: fuck how I don't give how old you are? Crazy
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: at that point. At this point, baby, listen, I don't.
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: I'd have been through I'd have been through some shit.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck how old you are.
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: I had a co worker one time that's old enough
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: to be my mother. She tried to get slick. I
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: got slicker. Man. Don't don't don't, don't do me.
• 48:39
  Speaker 3: That's one thing I learned growing up working at that hospital,
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: dealing with you know, people are the coworkers who worked there,
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: who were older and were setting their ways from different places,
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: socio economic, different neighborhoods, whatever else. And I learned quick.
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: Of course you grew up respect your elders, do this,
• 48:54
  Speaker 3: do that. But at eighteen nineteen, people would talk to
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: you crazy and say stuff.
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: And it hit me real, something like they say, you're
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: talking to you, Pamela niggas walking aroun nigga walking around
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: like this.
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: I don't know you and you don't know me, but
• 49:09
  Speaker 3: Donna talk to me like that.
• 49:11
  Speaker 4: My supervising and I said, guys should have a conversation
• 49:14
  Speaker 4: with her because clearly she got an issue with me,
• 49:15
  Speaker 4: and I don't know what the issue is, so she
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: better figure it out.
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: She say, oh no, I don't have no problem with Seana.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: I love Seana around. They were like the.
• 49:26
  Speaker 4: Bit, I can't you can keep it the way she
• 49:30
  Speaker 4: was kind of coming me sideways, knock all this ship over.
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: Now it's looking around like who you look? What you're
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: looking for?
• 49:39
  Speaker 3: It goes back into the conversation or the boy you
• 49:42
  Speaker 3: were talking about just a few moments ago, where it
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: was like, you see the toxic patterns in the ways
• 49:47
  Speaker 3: that our grandparents spoke to our parents or to you know,
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: aunts and uncles and stuff, and they try to keep
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: that going with their kids and grandkids, and it's like no, no, no, no.
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: No, no no, no, I'm not talking about me. I
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: see it all the time.
• 50:01
  Speaker 4: I see even when you see some of the older
• 50:04
  Speaker 4: married people in your in your family, and you see
• 50:06
  Speaker 4: how they talk to each other and all this other
• 50:09
  Speaker 4: stuff for how she knew what he was out there
• 50:11
  Speaker 4: doing and all, and you just nah, no, no, no,
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: you don't have this.
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: It's twenty twenty six. My mother was respect not I'm not.
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: My mom was respectful. My mother ate that ship. I'm not.
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: There's only so much eating I'm gonna do. I'm already
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna do that or that moment. When you
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: was a kid, you saw, like your grandmother, somebody had
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: to say something to your mother and you wanted to
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: step in the fuck you're talking to you, because it
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: was a couple of times that me and my little
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: brother was looking at each other like it was a
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: couple of times where the nigga my mother was dealing
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: with the time. I don't fuck with that man.
• 50:47
  Speaker 3: Now. My mother been gone almost six years, and the
• 50:50
  Speaker 3: way he treated my mother on the kid, she she
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: put up with that ship.
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: But that's a nigga. You're not gonna do that while
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: I'm sitting here. What you do around that's what turn
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: you and my mom.
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: But in my pre od, like how old we was,
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: we was in tenth grade, was like like fifteen, like
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: fifteen or so, son, I heard Robbin and Rodney arguing
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: one day and I don't know, y'all punched, y'all punched
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: through her door.
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: Because it's like you're not going like you're.
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: Not going to double happened before with my mother and
• 51:23
  Speaker 4: when I hid exes way back in the day, so
• 51:25
  Speaker 4: I did, like reason, my brother ran down sayings so
• 51:28
  Speaker 4: goddamn faced.
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: Because it's like it was in the fighting. But I
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: think my mother might have been whooping his head.
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: So but the next the next morning back upstairs, amologized
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: and he was like yo, he was like you know,
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: he said, he was like I would never like I know,
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: like I never put my hands on you, like I
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: will never put my hands working mother or nothing like that.
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: And you know, but the line said, I was like, yo,
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: but because you're not stupid, like we were, the dog
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: powered on your dumb ass and I lived around corner.
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: But then it was like yo, end of that day,
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: it's like my whole, like my whole, like my whole
• 52:07
  Speaker 2: dynamic with him changed like like that right there, Like
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: I ain't never been that mad before, because especially boys, yea,
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: I've never been that mad at all.
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: I've never been that mad before. And it's like yo,
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know what i'd have did about it.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: Actually got.
• 52:25
  Speaker 4: I said, baby, I will take you from the top
• 52:27
  Speaker 4: of here and take you from the bottle. Don't play
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: with us. We will beat your ass in his house.
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: There was a situation that happened with the dude my
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: mother was dealing with My mother. They told me this
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: years after it happened, of course, but I was living.
• 52:40
  Speaker 3: I had moved out and was living in d C
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: at this point, and he kept her in his apartment
• 52:46
  Speaker 3: and would not let her leave to where She called
• 52:48
  Speaker 3: my sister and said, this nigga won't let me leave.
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: You need to come get me from this apartment. And
• 52:53
  Speaker 3: I said, why didn't you call me? She said, no,
• 52:56
  Speaker 3: gonna call you.
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, because we kicked in the door wave in
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: the full four No more. I'm laid back until I
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: sit up more time. I don't like that ship. I
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: don't like I don't like that. And I had to
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: I said, why do you keep putting up with this
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: nigga and stepped out on you. He done this, He
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: done that.
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: Y'all have gone through all these changes over the course
• 53:22
  Speaker 3: of ten fifteen years, and you keep going back to
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: this nigga, why with that ding ding ding ding ding ding?
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: This ship didn't work according to her, Oh ship, but
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: you know, but but but you know what what it
• 53:37
  Speaker 3: was people just want And it was kind of kind
• 53:41
  Speaker 3: of sad when I when she had this. She was like,
• 53:44
  Speaker 3: sometimes the devil you know is better than the devil
• 53:46
  Speaker 3: you don't.
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: I've heard that question.
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: And I looked at her, like, what, yeah, I know,
• 53:51
  Speaker 3: you just figure it out with the one you learn
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: in peace and learning how to be by your goddamn
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: self and being comfortable and being alone.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: I had to have this this.
• 54:01
  Speaker 3: I had this realization about my mother as I grew
• 54:04
  Speaker 3: up and moved out. My mother was the oldest girl
• 54:06
  Speaker 3: of seven kids. She has an older brother as her
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: and then she has five younger siblings, so she was
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: responsible for raising all six of her siblings, including her
• 54:14
  Speaker 3: older brother. She had her my sister at seventeen, so
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: she went from being at my grandmother's house having to
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: raised all her kids, to then having children on her
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: own at seventeen. All of my aunts and uncles started
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: having kids as teenagers and in the early twenties, so
• 54:30
  Speaker 3: you went from being at your mother's house to being
• 54:32
  Speaker 3: in your own house with your children and helping raise
• 54:34
  Speaker 3: your nieces and nephews. And then I came along twenty
• 54:37
  Speaker 3: years later, and then my eldest niece is six us
• 54:39
  Speaker 3: younger than me. She basically spent her entire life in
• 54:43
  Speaker 3: service and caring for other people. So when all of us,
• 54:49
  Speaker 3: me and then my nieces and nephews all moved out,
• 54:52
  Speaker 3: she was on her own for the first.
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: Time in maybe sixty sixty sixty five years.
• 54:58
  Speaker 3: Then her brain could not compute cooking smaller meals just
• 55:03
  Speaker 3: for her, because she was used to having a whole
• 55:05
  Speaker 3: house of people. She said, well, I be cooking, but
• 55:07
  Speaker 3: the food be going bet I said, well, mam, why
• 55:08
  Speaker 3: are you cooking these huge meals? She said, well, I
• 55:10
  Speaker 3: don't know how to cook small portions.
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: I mean, I remember you remember Robin said that ship.
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: Raybind said that ship.
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: When she moved on, when she moved to Georgia in
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: two eleven, it was that was the That was the
• 55:21
  Speaker 2: first time in her life where we weren't a part
• 55:25
  Speaker 2: of that.
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: First time where we weren't a part of it.
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: And she she had to deal, you know, she had
• 55:32
  Speaker 2: to deal with being like, deal with being alone and
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: living alone and not hearing whatever in the room, and
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: and you know in the house, no noises, no noise,
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: and like no branding is fighting, no meat, like no
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: me blasting, you know, blasting music and ship and I like,
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: you know, that's when she started, when she when she
• 55:53
  Speaker 2: was able to be by herself, that's when you know,
• 55:55
  Speaker 2: that's when you see the world, you know, the new Robbins.
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: And and can't make that transition. They can't. They struggle.
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: It's like what do I what do I?
• 56:05
  Speaker 3: Who am I if I'm not a mother, auntie, a grandmother,
• 56:09
  Speaker 3: a sister, a daughter who's responsible for taking care of everybody,
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: making decisions for everybody else?
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: Who the hell am I as a person? To be honest,
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: That's why I'm worried. I'm less.
• 56:17
  Speaker 2: That's one of the things that I'm grateful for that
• 56:19
  Speaker 2: I'm worrateful for. I'm worrateful for money for like she
• 56:22
  Speaker 2: called my mom, asked my mom to come work and
• 56:24
  Speaker 2: come work for her, and that was it, you know.
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: And like I said twenty eleven, when she moved, when
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: she moved, and then she left us, like she left
• 56:32
  Speaker 2: us head for us to fan for, you know, for.
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: Uster fand for ourselves yep.
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: I mean we made it work, you know, we made
• 56:39
  Speaker 2: it work. But for for me, Brandon Gerard, it was more,
• 56:41
  Speaker 2: it was more so we want you to be happy.
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: We want we want you to do you know, we
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: want you to do whatever it is that you know,
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: whatever it is that that makes you happy because you
• 56:51
  Speaker 2: put everything aside to raise us, and you put everything
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: aside to make sure we was good. You put everything
• 56:55
  Speaker 2: aside to make sure your husband was good, like she
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: did everything she good in her marriage. Yeah, everything they
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: try to do, therapy and all that ship and that's
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: it still ain't working.
• 57:05
  Speaker 3: But that's because that nigga wasn't he he didn't want
• 57:08
  Speaker 3: to grow. Yeah, I think it's ultimately just the raptorselfs.
• 57:12
  Speaker 3: So we can go into the Q and A segment.
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: It's so we as kids.
• 57:18
  Speaker 3: Of course, like most kids, especially if you're if their
• 57:20
  Speaker 3: parents aren't aren't mistreating you.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: Your parents are on pedestals.
• 57:23
  Speaker 3: We talked about this before, but those moments you realize
• 57:27
  Speaker 3: and it's sober as fun to realize that your parents
• 57:30
  Speaker 3: are just as human as you are, and they had
• 57:32
  Speaker 3: their flaws, they have their imperfections, They make fucked up decisions.
• 57:36
  Speaker 3: Sometimes they do that ship willingly, and it's all a
• 57:39
  Speaker 3: part of growth, and you realize that growth is not linear.
• 57:41
  Speaker 3: But growth also doesn't stop when you get older. It's
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: a lifelong process. Yeah yeah, cool shit, Need I need
• 57:48
  Speaker 3: a drink.
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: After this head, Let's letten, let's listen, let's get to
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: this Q. And that was powerful right there. But that
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: was a yeah, we gonna take a lot of the choke.
• 58:01
  Speaker 4: Stop let people on your face, elder's younger, same age,
• 58:05
  Speaker 4: out of good fun through none of it.
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: Don't let people play in y'all. Shit, come in. If
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: somebody don't bring you peace, they don't deserve a piece
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: of you. All right, But but add to But that
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: was a world I mean, but that's a really but
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: that's a real statement that nobody a hard learn, But
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: it's a lesson.
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: Nonetheless, nobody tells you that you that you gotta deal
• 58:29
  Speaker 2: with that ship when you get once you get older, old,
• 58:31
  Speaker 2: they you know, we looking were from the outside looking in,
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: like I can't wait. I can't wait to get older
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: and I'll be able to do whatever the fun I want.
• 58:38
  Speaker 2: But nobody tells you that you you can do what
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: you want. But what you doing what you want to
• 58:42
  Speaker 2: come of consequences every day.
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: Have the choice good.
• 58:46
  Speaker 3: You're gonna have to make some hard decisions. Everything comes
• 58:48
  Speaker 3: with every choice comes with outcome. Be good, better and different,
• 58:52
  Speaker 3: and you roll with the punches, my niggah.
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, all right, before we.
• 58:58
  Speaker 4: Get started, if y'all got any question is comments, topic ideas,
• 59:02
  Speaker 4: some more ship y'all want us to deep dive into, uh,
• 59:06
  Speaker 4: some movies y'all want us to review. Send us some
• 59:10
  Speaker 4: true crime. It's been a while since we did some
• 59:11
  Speaker 4: true crime.
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: Uh. And you don't have to be to the movie y'all,
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: although we enjoy doing those because they are quite entertaining.
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: We prefer black true crimestore. I ain't gonna hold you. Yeah,
• 59:21
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• 59:24
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• 59:28
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  Speaker 4: them blocks out. Baby, he gonna back to jigger, was
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  Speaker 4: to what has become one of my favorite threads. Shout
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  Speaker 2: Uh.
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  Speaker 4: She posts some truly diabolical content and she had some
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  Speaker 2: Uh.
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  Speaker 1: I saved this from a few days ago.
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  Speaker 4: Child.
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  Speaker 1: When I seen it, I figured I come share it
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  Speaker 1: with y'all because.
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 4: Her name, the flags are flagging and this bitch it's
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 4: either a colorblind or she just choosing to be willfully ignorant.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: Let's come the title. W is is the family Jealous?
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 4: On Saturday, I went with my new man of a
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 4: month to his family's house for an event. He and
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 4: I just started dating, but he loved me so much
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 4: he wanted me to meet his family and even had
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 4: me bring my seven year old daughter. When we got there,
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 4: I noticed how some of his family members were treating him.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 4: His mother and sister pulled me aside and asked me
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 4: some questions, then proceeded to tell me to leave him alone.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: His sister told me that he touched her when they
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: were children.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 4: Then he has been accused of touching a fifteen year
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 4: old when he was in his twenties, but the case
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 4: fell apart. He saw them talking to me immediately came over,
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 4: cursing at them.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: It was a mess.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 4: Other family members were visibly upset, saying that he's a
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 4: jailbird and they don't know who invited him on the
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 4: Dreid and drop us off. He started crying and asking
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 4: me not to leave him, and that his family is
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 4: jealous of him.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: Should I stay, ron, bitch run because what the fuck?
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: A month? But he really loves you.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 4: First of all, Baby, you a few you sound a
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 4: few fries, shoulder and happy meal, and I'm scared for
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 4: your daughter right now.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: Hold on.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 3: Me.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you that, mom ship, Yo, you got two
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: people telling you. You got two people telling you that
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 2: you old. You got you got the one girl telling
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 2: you that he that he touched her, that he touched
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 2: her and when she was on when she was younger,
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 2: and then he touched it. Then he touched another fifteen
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 2: year old fifteen year old girl. So now you got
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 2: two people saying like you gotta hear something. You were
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 2: two occasions where he was a fucked up individual and
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 2: then the rest of the family saying the same ship
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 2: and you're talking about and he says that the family
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 2: is jealous.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: What does the family asks you jealous of? Ma'am? His
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: call smell like all your sheets and towels over there.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: It's not like they did or that's kerosene.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 2: And I'm not saying I'm talking about that yo, that
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 2: nigga puss in the bed like two plus two man like,
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: come on, yo, like a month everybody. I also feel
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 2: like I also feel like.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 3: Even if they even if they are lying on him,
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 3: the fact that they would go through these these types
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 3: of limps to dissuade you from dealing with him shows
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 3: a level of craziness that you wouldn't even want to
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 3: get involved in the first because there is a chance
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 3: they may not be jealous. But some people come from
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 3: fucked up families that may try to sabotage that. You
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 3: do not say that this is the case here, but
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 3: some people come from fucked up families where they try
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 3: to sabotage their lines.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: You know, he did this the meal, this person did
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: so on and so forth. But show just said she's
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: not the only one. Yeah.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 3: But in that case, if they even if they are
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 3: being honest, would you want to subject yourself to getting
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 3: involved with this person and or their family because somebody
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 3: is lining in the situation? And after a month, I'm sorry,
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 3: it's not like y'all were together.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: Seven eight years and this came out thirty days.
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 3: It's been thirty days. You don't know this man from
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 3: a hole in the wall at the bottom of a web.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: This is your first time in this family and you've
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: only know him for thirty days. You don't you barely
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: know him as a person. You got a seven year
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: old baby. You need to run, I would say, if
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: you want to delay it, do a background check on
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: that man. Yeah. I mean, this website stay easy to
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: find out, especially if you're in the state of Maryland.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 3: If it's a court case, even if it was thrown
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 3: out a fell apart show us, it's still a matter
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 3: of public record.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: To my Homegirl and Private Eye. Everybody got on them
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: in the friend groups.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 3: But even even if you don't want to get to
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 3: that point, the fact that there is so much confusion
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 3: and the uncertainty around this person you know, for only
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 3: thirty days, cut your losses and move.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: That first thing he said so much first to me.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: The first thing he signed, what do you do by you? Jealous?
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: They jealous of me, they're jealous of us. You know
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: who are flowers? Which mad dog? Which mad dog? Both flowers? Wow?
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: And he was crazy, y'all. Don't get that, y'all. Don't
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: get that reference the watch Jason's lair. Mm hmm. That
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: was back and forth with it. I was kind of straight. No, baby,
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: it was the movie too. Yeah, Run for the Hill says, yeah,
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: that's that's that us. Show me nothing else. Please get
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: away from me today right now. The sys immediately, first
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: of all, okay, cheeks fun the wig.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 3: Fellow, He's like, he just see cheap, I see it there.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 3: That's like that's like a mega thone separating all the
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 3: right places.
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: Out. All right. That was my three seconds of lesbianism
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: for the month of whatever month. It is no nigga,
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: you know, loss either way? That right, he sucked up
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: over his family. Dad. Either way, it's been thirty days.
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: Somebody is sucked up, and you don't need to figure
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: out stay around, like.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 4: Don't put your daughter in their position. So don't give
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 4: her something she would need to hear exactly. You love
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 4: you in thirty days, short but shorty.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 2: Like that.
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: But you know her, you love her and before the
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: first week and meet No, no, that's bullshit. Sorry, you
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: was in lust. We was like three months. It was
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: like three months in. But even if you did feel
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: that way, wasn't coming about you within that first month. Yeah,
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: true ship, But I was also wasn't gonna say that's
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: your first this nigga in the next.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 4: Child, We're gonna stay right here with our own girl,
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 4: Miss und school Parker for real baby, because again she posts.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: Some some some wood Chamas Parker wood chair.
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  Speaker 4: You're going on over another person claiming that somebody's trying
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  Speaker 4: to ruin their life, and this one says she's trying
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  Speaker 4: to ruin my son's life. My son is a good kid, green,
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  Speaker 4: but he's a good kid. He's been dating this young
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  Speaker 4: lady since the beginning of the school year. She and
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  Speaker 4: her parents come to my house and told me and
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  Speaker 4: my husband that she is pregnant by my son. I
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  Speaker 4: have some concerns as my son is only sixteen years
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  Speaker 4: old and it's not experienced with girls. She is my
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  Speaker 4: son's first real girlfriend. My son is into action figures
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  Speaker 4: and comic books. During the sit down, my son expressed
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  Speaker 4: that she pressured him to take the condom off.
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  Speaker 1: She told him.
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  Speaker 4: She told him it would feel better, so he believed
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  Speaker 4: her made this type. Brad never find my son made,
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  Speaker 4: so he believes her. Now she is pregnant and wants
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  Speaker 4: to keep the baby. My son is a church boy.
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  Speaker 4: He doesn't know anything about sex.
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  Speaker 1: Well, clearly he did. He leaves her.
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  Speaker 4: Me and her father and my husband are all in
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  Speaker 4: all on the same page that she needs to have
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  Speaker 4: a small sh They are young and they have their
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  Speaker 4: futures ahead of them. The mother feels that because she's
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  Speaker 4: had a subsmosion in the past, but who had one?
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  Speaker 4: The mothers had one in the past, she said in
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  Speaker 4: the past. She does not want her daughter to experience that.
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  Speaker 4: I explained to her that if she keeps the baby,
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  Speaker 4: my son will have no involvement with the child because
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  Speaker 4: she is pressuring him to have a baby that he
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  Speaker 4: does not want. My son has a bright future as
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  Speaker 4: an engineer and I don't want nothing to know one
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  Speaker 4: to mess up his life. This little girl is messing
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  Speaker 4: with my son's generational wealth. The girl's mother thinks that
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  Speaker 4: we are about to help, but we are not. What
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  Speaker 4: can we do to convince her and not to have
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  Speaker 4: this baby. I'm willing to pay for the abord mortion,
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  Speaker 4: help her get therapy, or give her five thousand dollars?
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  Speaker 1: What can I do? Hold on? Not nothing? Fuck you
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  Speaker 1: what he said?
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  Speaker 3: Not? First of all, before you decide to do anything,
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  Speaker 3: paternity tests that established fraternity up front. The decision of
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  Speaker 3: what now she has that baby. I'm sorry, man, it's
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  Speaker 3: like your phone down. But the decision on whether or
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  Speaker 3: not to keep the baby, have the babies ultimately up
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  Speaker 3: to that girl, and by the way it sends her parents,
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 3: you can't force her to do ship. Yep, your son
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  Speaker 3: nothing wanted to slide some cheeks or something. He wanted
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 3: to get some yams. Now we all have been there
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 3: as young men, Okay, But at the same time you
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  Speaker 3: make grown man decisions, you gotta be ready for grown
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  Speaker 3: man consequences.
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  Speaker 4: Facts you're talking about her church sex. He knew enough,
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  Speaker 4: he knew enough to start hunching. She didn't force Sam,
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 4: she ain't raven, and he chose to take that damn
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  Speaker 4: can So this time his future will feel he.
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: Can have his future and be brady to make generational wealth.
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  Speaker 1: But you're gonna do it with a baby on your head.
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  Speaker 2: Other people do it, no real, it's it's this go
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 2: This goes to the movies on what we're saying about,
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  Speaker 2: how like the parents make the fucked up decisions and
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 2: it's like, Yo, you're making a fucked up decision because
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 2: you don't want that. You don't want that for him,
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 2: Like you don't want that for him. But clearly this
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  Speaker 2: nigga made the decision to start fucking this nigga made
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  Speaker 2: the decision to take the condom off. He had he
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 2: could have you know, he could have been like, now
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  Speaker 2: we're not doing that. You know, like, now we're not
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 2: doing that. I'm not taking this off.
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  Speaker 1: Yo. He took it over, he took it off, He
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  Speaker 1: busted and he shot the club up. My daughter, my baby,
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  Speaker 1: Like you gotta let that ship roight. Grown man decisions
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  Speaker 1: from grown man consequences.
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  Speaker 2: And then it comes with then then it's also my body,
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 2: my that that whole my body, my choice thing, Like Yo,
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  Speaker 2: she wants to keep the baby. It's nothing that you
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 2: can say that's gonna make her, that's gonna change that
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 2: can change her. Mind, you're trying to throw money at
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 2: the situation and you're saying that you're saying and also
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 2: you're saying that it's messing with his generational wealth.
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  Speaker 1: That has got nothing to do with you girlbu again
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: like Brandon saying, get it.
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  Speaker 4: If that girl don't want to get have have the
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  Speaker 4: procedure done or whatever, then you don't have a choice.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 4: And you're gonna help one way or another. You're gonna
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 4: go get a paternity test. They're gonna find out that's
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 4: his baby, and because you saying you don't want to help,
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 4: they're gonna put his going on child sport. So yeah, understand,
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 4: because he's under age. I think you're going to response
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 4: for the support because your son is selling mouse.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, most definitely, most definitely.
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  Speaker 2: If he's not up, he isn't working, get that, that
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  Speaker 2: becomes your responsibility that Yeah, But my thing is just
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 2: like yeah, yo, like he green, you should have did
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: better while you minded his business. That sounded does look
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 2: it is what it is.
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  Speaker 3: Baby, my baby, I'm thirty nine, My baby, my baby,
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  Speaker 3: my baby, I'm thirty nine. I don't handle kids because
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 3: when I was fucking as a young lad, a young skipper,
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 3: a young sir.
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  Speaker 1: I had a sister wrap that ship up and not
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: letting nobody tell me take nothing because if because I do.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: But I need a lad. You gotta be ready for them. God.
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 3: But I knew at fifteen and sixteen and seventeen better
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 3: mean lucky, I knew I wanted more than what I
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 3: saw for me and fucker Paul Heights. Yeah, I wasn't
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 3: letting nobody, no baby or no nothing trap my ass
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 3: because again, I'm about to God and had put it before.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: It was It was I, It was I, It was I.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: It was I and I but.
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  Speaker 3: Around now, but I knew better and well enough to
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 3: know that I wasn't willing to jeopardize my future or
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 3: to put pressure onto my future. But having another mouth
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 3: to take care of as a young sir, a young
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  Speaker 3: woopen snapper.
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  Speaker 1: Young lad, I did it. And I was twenty one
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  Speaker 1: when my son was born. Baby, and it still was
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: a struggle. You wasn't teen. It's still a guy, damn struggle.
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: Good this damn Dad ain't gonna hold. Yeah, I understand
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: there's a whole lot, whole lot.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 3: You gotta be ready for grown man consequences, grown man,
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 3: the ship to come after that and if you want
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 3: to be out here fucking raw, babies come from fucking raw.
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: So he could be a church for he could be
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: a little nerd, he could be whatever.
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 3: They be the main ones, fucking, fucking, fucking, fucking that's why.
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: That's why niggas want after girls. I ain't gonna hold you.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: That's why I like nerds. Now you hear they can
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: put me through the man I forgot what it was.
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: What else is that? It take me through that? Take
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: me through that loves They took me through that ship.
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: They hit me with that.
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• 1:14:49
  Speaker 3: it's called a couple of times.
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  Speaker 1: Anything else that come?
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  Speaker 3: Whatever they be doing on Dragon Bomb, I hate, I
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 3: don't miss you. Ain't done know her duka in before.
• 1:15:17
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• 1:15:23
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• 1:15:28
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• 1:15:31
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• 1:15:34
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  Speaker 1: my fucking I saw you. You young. You're not a
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  Speaker 3: Boy, you funk around, you'd be having a out of
• 1:16:27
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  Speaker 1: Great, I've had I've had had out of body experience
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  Speaker 1: bro too. Boy look kill Yeah, well.
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  Speaker 3: We ain't go talk about that. That's that's a conversation
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 3: with off. But what that man said, we love you
• 1:16:41
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• 1:16:44
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  Speaker 2: We holle come mad teddies boy.
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: Ye again, get shut your ass up? Yeah, not too
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: much on my son, bitch. Yeah, who's talking about anime orgasms?
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  Speaker 1: All right bye