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EP 488: Non-Mainogamy feat. Maino · Decisions, Decisions

• 0:01
  Speaker 1: Damn, like you don't want a woman to ask you nothing,
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  Speaker 1: like no challenge.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think that they make those.
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  Speaker 1: What?
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  Speaker 2: Women that don't ask you anything. I don't think it's
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  Speaker 2: a woman on earth that.
• 0:12
  Speaker 1: Is going through a phone forgivable?
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  Speaker 2: It depends on how much.
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  Speaker 3: It depends what they find. I date young and I
• 0:19
  Speaker 3: date old.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, I say it all the time. This is the
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  Speaker 4: best age to be a woman. You can date the
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  Speaker 4: daddy or the son.
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  Speaker 3: I was in L.A. and I saw this and he
• 0:28
  Speaker 3: looked good as fuck. I was like, oh shit.
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  Speaker 4: My homegirl was like, that's such and such. I said, fuck,
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  Speaker 4: I fucked his daddy already. This is the best age
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  Speaker 4: as a woman. You can literally date either. They play
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  Speaker 4: with girls together.
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  Speaker 3: They date women together. I like this.
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  Speaker 2: This is the right show.
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  Speaker 3: This is the show.
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  Speaker 2: This is the show. That I had needed to be on.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a member of this show.
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  Speaker 3: I'm a member. Decisions.
• 1:00
  Speaker 1: Decisions.
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  Speaker 3: Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Decisions.
• 1:05
  Speaker 1: Decisions.
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  Speaker 3: I'm your girl Mandy B. A.K.A. Peg the Stallion.
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  Speaker 2: A.K.A.
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  Speaker 3: Peggy Bundy. A.K.A. Peg and Marco. A.K.A. that bitch.
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  Speaker 1: Did you see Mandy added in some extras because she
• 1:14
  Speaker 1: wanted him to go?
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  Speaker 3: Hey, Marco. These are all my same AKAs for a year. Hey, y'all.
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  Speaker 3: I'm Wheezy. I'm actually really excited because... So.
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  Speaker 1: We've been podcasting 10 years, but I had to stop
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  Speaker 1: listening to podcasts because I feel like it's too much.
• 1:27
  Speaker 1: But you have my favorite clips on the internet right now.
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  Speaker 2: Really?
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  Speaker 3: Yes. So you're going to introduce the guests? Damn, bitch,
• 1:33
  Speaker 3: can I talk?
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  Speaker 1: This person, before you see them, has become one of
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  Speaker 1: my favorite people to doom scroll for a good 30 minutes.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: Consistently.
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  Speaker 1: We have Brooklyn rapper, actor, and co-host of the Let's
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  Speaker 1: Rap About It podcast, Maynell.
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  Speaker 3: What's happening? What's going on?
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  Speaker 2: What's the vibes?
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  Speaker 4: I will say, also, her saying that, is so real.
• 1:54
  Speaker 4: There was some rumor going around that y'all were ending
• 1:57
  Speaker 4: the show and she sent it to me and I said,
• 1:59
  Speaker 4: I literally responded, was like, why the fuck do you care?
• 2:02
  Speaker 4: She loves saying how much she doesn't listen to podcasts,
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  Speaker 4: doesn't care about podcasts because she produces them enough.
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  Speaker 3: Fuck podcasts. You've been to my studios before, the other ones.
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  Speaker 3: I work on podcasts all day every day.
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  Speaker 4: She loves to tell when I talk about these other
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  Speaker 4: pods I listen to on it.
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  Speaker 3: She's like, I don't fucking listen to POTS. So she
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  Speaker 3: literally sends me the Let's Rap. I said, why are
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  Speaker 3: you sending me this?
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  Speaker 2: She loves y'all.
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  Speaker 4: So does my other homegirl. I actually had a piece
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  Speaker 4: of my own medicine. So whenever I get ready, if
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  Speaker 4: I'm on a trip with my homegirls or they come
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  Speaker 4: to my house and we having fun, we literally pre-gamed
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  Speaker 4: a podcast. Well, my homegirl in LA, All Star Weekend,
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  Speaker 4: we fucking pre-gamed to y'all niggas.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, this is what it feels like.
• 2:42
  Speaker 3: Y'all are y'all are y'all are y'all. Y'all are y'all.
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  Speaker 3: You know why I really like your pod, actually?
• 2:48
  Speaker 2: Why?
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  Speaker 1: I can't listen to people that are really trying. That
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  Speaker 1: sounds bad, but just hear me out.
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  Speaker 3: Jesus.
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  Speaker 1: I can't listen to niggas that, like, are really trying
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  Speaker 1: to make it from their podcast. I can't fucking listen
• 3:00
  Speaker 1: to people that are, like, really trying. I became a
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  Speaker 1: podcaster because I was obsessed with Bodega Boys, Desus and Meryl.
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  Speaker 3: Them niggas don't need to try for shit. I don't
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  Speaker 3: believe y'all do either.
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  Speaker 1: I think there's just an ease in... Improving pods, which
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  Speaker 1: I know you love an outline.
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  Speaker 3: You like structure. I absolutely do.
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  Speaker 1: But I believe y'all pod has actually grown into structure,
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  Speaker 1: which is nice.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we got structure, but I think that the conversations
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  Speaker 2: we like to have with each other is going to
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  Speaker 2: always kind of be organic because it's like we have
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  Speaker 2: topics and then we'll just expound on the topics. My
• 3:33
  Speaker 2: view might be different than his view. His view may
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  Speaker 2: be different than my view. So it's going to always
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  Speaker 2: have that combustion.
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  Speaker 3: It's ridiculous.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
• 3:44
  Speaker 3: Speaking of combustion, that's another thing. You be loving these words.
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  Speaker 3: You just heard that word, didn't you?
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  Speaker 2: It's a podcast word. It's a podcast word.
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  Speaker 4: I had to come up with a podcast word. That
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  Speaker 4: is a podcast word. There's a lot of podcasts. I'm like,
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  Speaker 4: when the fuck.
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  Speaker 3: Do you use combustion?
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  Speaker 1: It'd be sick if you started saying it.
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  Speaker 3: You'd be like, oh. You talk to this man right
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  Speaker 3: here behind the camera, you don't use combustion.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, I don't. But when a nigga tell
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  Speaker 2: me he ponders.
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  Speaker 2: I might as well come up with a couple. Valid.
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  Speaker 3: Valid, valid. I do want you to help me dispel
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  Speaker 3: a rumor.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Talk to me.
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  Speaker 3: It was all over the internet.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Can you confirm that I was not the little person
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  Speaker 4: that sat on your lap?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, was she bald?
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  Speaker 2: Now I see.
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  Speaker 3: Don't do that.
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  Speaker 2: Not the now I see. I need you to confirm
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  Speaker 2: that that was not me. No, but before I confirm
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  Speaker 2: or deny... I need... Was it you?
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  Speaker 5: No.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, no, hold on, hold on. No, it wasn't you. But, boy...
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  Speaker 2: But I can understand when somebody could.
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  Speaker 3: They said, like, a little full core pump or something.
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  Speaker 2: No, I can understand when somebody can make that.
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  Speaker 3: Distinction.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like, it's like, is that you? It wasn't you, though. No,
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  Speaker 2: it wasn't me.
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  Speaker 3: You don't fit.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think you would fit.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think I would fit on your knee the
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  Speaker 3: same way either.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think I could pick you up like that. No. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: You couldn't.
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  Speaker 1: You know what question I got for you?
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  Speaker 3: Because.
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  Speaker 1: I told my man, oh, they have a live show.
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  Speaker 3: They doing it now. And I really think that, like,
• 5:16
  Speaker 3: I'm not from New York, but he is.
• 5:18
  Speaker 1: People that are from here almost are kind of like unbelievable. Like,
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  Speaker 1: it's weird to see it happen. Like, it almost seemed
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  Speaker 1: like it wouldn't become a show. I was just thinking
• 5:27
  Speaker 1: at first, like, all right, these niggas doing a little
• 5:29
  Speaker 1: season of a brand deal or something. Right.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think nobody took it seriously. But you've been
• 5:35
  Speaker 2: a potter. We took it serious. I had already had
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  Speaker 2: my own podcast. You had Kitchen Talk. And then the
• 5:42
  Speaker 2: work that I'd be doing with Angela Yee. So I
• 5:44
  Speaker 2: kind of already had the experience in that. Jim Jones
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  Speaker 2: already had experience. He was doing his thing. We did
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  Speaker 2: take it serious. We knew that if we was going
• 5:52
  Speaker 2: to do it, that we knew we had to be
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  Speaker 2: consistent and we had to keep going. But I don't
• 5:56
  Speaker 2: think the world, I don't think people... thought that we
• 5:59
  Speaker 2: was really going to continue to do that. So it
• 6:02
  Speaker 2: was like, yeah, those rappers, they ain't going to keep
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  Speaker 2: doing this.
• 6:05
  Speaker 1: Do more people come up to you about podcasting now
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  Speaker 1: than when you were like rapping back in the day?
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  Speaker 2: Not back in the day, bro. Yeah, not back in
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  Speaker 2: the day.
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  Speaker 3: Not back in the day, dog.
• 6:16
  Speaker 4: Damn, he got to like, his song was all over
• 6:18
  Speaker 4: the garden.
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  Speaker 2: We got a hot song out right now.
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  Speaker 3: I know that you're actively making music, but you're a
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  Speaker 3: rapper from the beginning.
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  Speaker 2: The podcast thing, The space that I'm in right now
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  Speaker 2: and what's going on in entertainment, it has put things
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  Speaker 2: in another perspective. Uh-huh.
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  Speaker 3: Right?
• 6:36
  Speaker 2: Because people constantly come up to me with the glasses.
• 6:41
  Speaker 2: I'm like, yo.
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  Speaker 3: You a meme now.
• 6:43
  Speaker 2: Right. That's a meme. And the reactions that people have
• 6:47
  Speaker 2: off the podcast is just like, damn, y'all really, really
• 6:50
  Speaker 2: fuck with this. Right. We really, having conversations, it's like, man,
• 6:54
  Speaker 2: I didn't know he was like that. I was like,
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  Speaker 2: you wasn't really paying attention. And the music can't, it's
• 6:59
  Speaker 2: a ceiling when it comes to your personality. You can't
• 7:02
  Speaker 2: show but so much. You know, we talking street shit.
• 7:05
  Speaker 2: We talking life. We talking about girls. But it's music.
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  Speaker 2: Only through conversation, when you're comfortable with people, did you
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  Speaker 2: really see, like, the real personality of people.
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  Speaker 1: The way y'all talk about girls is getting on my nerves,
• 7:17
  Speaker 1: by the way. The way y'all talking about women getting
• 7:19
  Speaker 1: on my nerves. The kitten heel, the selling issues. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not going to lie.
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  Speaker 4: My kitten heel is right in my bag. And I
• 7:27
  Speaker 4: was going to put it on on purpose. But then
• 7:30
  Speaker 4: I realized this is a podcast. I can wear a
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  Speaker 4: kitten heel on a podcast. Y'all was talking about the
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  Speaker 4: kitten heels in the section.
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  Speaker 3: And I was.
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  Speaker 2: Just like, okay. First of all, I never even knew
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  Speaker 2: that they called them kitten heels.
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  Speaker 3: What you thought they called them? Monica. What you thought
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  Speaker 3: they called them?
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  Speaker 2: I didn't know. I didn't know they had a name.
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  Speaker 2: I never knew that. I found out that if you
• 7:51
  Speaker 2: look at that clip, I was like, they call them
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  Speaker 2: kitten heels? I didn't ever have an issue with those.
• 7:57
  Speaker 2: I think the issue was, are those party attire? Yes.
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  Speaker 3: You know why?
• 8:02
  Speaker 2: They are.
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  Speaker 3: Because it means we could party all night in them bitches.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I think y'all would prefer seeing a kitten heel than
• 8:07
  Speaker 4: a girl walking barefoot.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't see a kitten heel in the business.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, you saw the chunky boots.
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  Speaker 2: I saw a lot of heel in the business. A
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  Speaker 2: lot of heel. A lot of feet.
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  Speaker 3: You might have been in the bottle section.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I was all over. Oh, the party section.
• 8:20
  Speaker 1: See, because there's an Ibiza crowd. You were just talking
• 8:23
  Speaker 1: about off mic how you went. You see the bitches
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  Speaker 1: in the general pop, they partying all night. The girls backstage,
• 8:29
  Speaker 1: they got D's on.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
• 8:31
  Speaker 1: Because they know a nigga going to get them in
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  Speaker 1: a car to go home. They ain't got to walk
• 8:34
  Speaker 1: to that taxi line.
• 8:35
  Speaker 2: I seen a lot of feet, like girls with their
• 8:41
  Speaker 2: shoes off.
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  Speaker 3: See, barefoot. And it's because they wasn't in kitten heels.
• 8:46
  Speaker 2: And they wanted to party. I mean, when you're on drugs.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't know. Yeah.
• 8:52
  Speaker 3: I don't know what that's like, yeah.
• 8:53
  Speaker 2: Lose everything.
• 8:55
  Speaker 1: We've seen this clip. I'm sure you've seen it, too,
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  Speaker 1: where it says, yo, that hip-hop, that trap shit, once you're.
• 8:59
  Speaker 3: Out of the country, it's over.
• 9:00
  Speaker 1: How done? Were you fucking with the music?
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  Speaker 2: I was already familiar. I've been booked for parties and
• 9:07
  Speaker 2: shows that was like EDM. I've been there. to EDM parties.
• 9:12
  Speaker 2: I've been to San Diego with EDM parties that lasted
• 9:15
  Speaker 2: from night to fucking daytime to the next afternoon. So
• 9:19
  Speaker 2: I was already accustomed to that. The people I was
• 9:22
  Speaker 2: with was like, what the hell is this? But I
• 9:24
  Speaker 2: already knew.
• 9:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's where the money at. Lil Jon figured it out.
• 9:27
  Speaker 4: Now, she says she hates how you talk about women.
• 9:29
  Speaker 4: Before we start, I want to know, are your rap
• 9:32
  Speaker 4: lyrics more cap or are you more cap on the pot?
• 9:35
  Speaker 2: What?
• 9:35
  Speaker 3: Like, I think you, there's no way all these stories
• 9:38
  Speaker 3: you be saying is real.
• 9:39
  Speaker 2: Let's talk about it.
• 9:40
  Speaker 1: The girl that was pregnant that you fucked.
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  Speaker 2: What girl? Which one?
• 9:45
  Speaker 3: You fucked multiple married women?
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  Speaker 1: Hold on.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, pregnant?
• 9:48
  Speaker 2: I said what?
• 9:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I know there's like, you talked about A pregnant
• 9:53
  Speaker 4: woman you was fucking on, one that.
• 9:55
  Speaker 2: Had a boyfriend, and I think- Hold on, let's go slow.
• 9:57
  Speaker 2: I actually don't.
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  Speaker 1: Think married and boyfriend is as wild as another nigga's.
• 10:02
  Speaker 3: Fetus in there.
• 10:05
  Speaker 2: We can take our time with this. Let's do it.
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  Speaker 2: All right. What's the first issue? The pregnant woman?
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  Speaker 3: That's the big issue, yes.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: And you think that that was Kat?
• 10:13
  Speaker 3: Was she showing?
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  Speaker 4: Or did you just find out she had a baby
• 10:17
  Speaker 4: on the social medias nine months later?
• 10:19
  Speaker 3: Did it look like a pudge?
• 10:20
  Speaker 1: Or was it like baby shower time?
• 10:23
  Speaker 2: You asking me what? Did I lay down?
• 10:25
  Speaker 3: You said you laid down.
• 10:26
  Speaker 2: So you asking me, just be clear. Yes. Have I ever? Yes.
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  Speaker 2: In my lifetime?
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  Speaker 3: In your whole life.
• 10:33
  Speaker 2: Laid down with a pregnant woman? Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: That wasn't your baby.
• 10:36
  Speaker 2: Right. Yes. Yes. What?
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  Speaker 3: The baby wasn't yours in the belly, Mayno.
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  Speaker 5: Right.
• 10:43
  Speaker 3: Did you do that?
• 10:45
  Speaker 2: Absolutely. That has happened before.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so we're asking.
• 10:49
  Speaker 2: And that was a good thing that I did. Let
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  Speaker 2: me tell you why. Because from my understanding, right, the
• 10:58
  Speaker 2: doctors tell the women. What? Go ahead.
• 11:03
  Speaker 1: So how pregnant was she?
• 11:05
  Speaker 3: How pregnant was she? No fucking way.
• 11:08
  Speaker 2: Pregnant, pregnant.
• 11:09
  Speaker 3: Wait, like the baby shower gender reveal already happened?
• 11:13
  Speaker 2: Not seven, eight months, but maybe let's say there was,
• 11:17
  Speaker 2: you know.
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  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 11:19
  Speaker 3: There was a belly.
• 11:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it has happened.
• 11:21
  Speaker 3: Had you already fucked her before?
• 11:23
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 11:25
  Speaker 3: Okay, look at the details. It kind of gets better. Okay,
• 11:27
  Speaker 3: but so she wasn't with the baby daddy. You don't know.
• 11:32
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 11:34
  Speaker 2: Maybe she was.
• 11:36
  Speaker 5: Oh. Wow.
• 11:39
  Speaker 4: Wow.
• 11:40
  Speaker 2: Context, right? You understand? It wasn't somebody I just met.
• 11:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was going to say.
• 11:43
  Speaker 3: That's a little better.
• 11:44
  Speaker 1: I'm just imagining you broke up with your baby daddy
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  Speaker 1: and you're like, let me fuck off.
• 11:48
  Speaker 2: Think about it.
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  Speaker 3: Don't worry, I just went from judging him to her.
• 11:51
  Speaker 2: Right, so think about it. Think about it.
• 11:53
  Speaker 3: Here's the thing.
• 11:54
  Speaker 2: You already know me. You may be on and off
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  Speaker 2: with your baby daddy. Me and you already.
• 11:59
  Speaker 3: It's a safe... Right, it's a safe... It's a safe
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  Speaker 3: double back.
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  Speaker 2: I'm safety. No, I'm safety.
• 12:05
  Speaker 3: No, I'm judging her. No, because you can't go out
• 12:07
  Speaker 3: and get new dick.
• 12:08
  Speaker 2: Right. But you need.
• 12:10
  Speaker 3: You shouldn't be getting no dick.
• 12:12
  Speaker 2: No, that's not true.
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  Speaker 3: That's not the nigga that just impregnated you.
• 12:14
  Speaker 2: That's not true.
• 12:15
  Speaker 3: But you're sitting there. It's wet. You horny.
• 12:17
  Speaker 1: You're just like.
• 12:18
  Speaker 2: Here you go. No, okay.
• 12:19
  Speaker 3: All right. Not the there you go.
• 12:22
  Speaker 2: No, but your mic.
• 12:25
  Speaker 3: Your mic what?
• 12:26
  Speaker 2: Cut her mic off.
• 12:27
  Speaker 3: What?
• 12:28
  Speaker 2: Cut her mic off. Okay. She's telling the truth.
• 12:30
  Speaker 3: No, I just understand a little bit.
• 12:32
  Speaker 2: Think about what I'm saying. She needs that. Because it
• 12:37
  Speaker 2: has to be a certain, what was it, diameter?
• 12:42
  Speaker 3: A certain- I ain't got no baby. I'm actually curious.
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: Because you know how you could maybe have sex with
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: somebody in dip? I feel like with a pregnant girl,
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: you gotta do extras. You're gonna be like, call me
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: if you need anything. I feel like there's gotta be
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: some follow-up.
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  Speaker 3: Please tell me you got her a baby shower gift.
• 12:57
  Speaker 2: I think I did.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, good.
• 12:59
  Speaker 2: I think I did. We had to understand that we
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: were cool. She was on and off again with her guy.
• 13:07
  Speaker 1: Wasn't the pregnant part of it, especially someone you'd fucked before,
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  Speaker 1: actually like sexy?
• 13:13
  Speaker 3: Do you find pregnant women like sexy?
• 13:16
  Speaker 2: Oh, I think women are beautiful. I think women are
• 13:19
  Speaker 2: beautiful when they're pregnant.
• 13:20
  Speaker 3: Me too. So that's why I'm curiously.
• 13:22
  Speaker 2: I adore women. I think women, you know, a fly
• 13:26
  Speaker 2: pregnant mom. I mean, I'm not trying to run down
• 13:29
  Speaker 2: and holler at a pregnant woman. You understand? I'm not
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: like actively seeking out pregnant women.
• 13:33
  Speaker 3: It's not the kink.
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: It's not my kink.
• 13:35
  Speaker 3: I was going to say, ladies, if you're pregnant and
• 13:37
  Speaker 3: ain't talking to your baby daddy, it ain't no deal.
• 13:39
  Speaker 2: I'm not hollering like, oh shit, you see the pregnant
• 13:41
  Speaker 2: girl over there? Let me holler. No, what I'm saying
• 13:43
  Speaker 2: is this was a situation with somebody I knew.
• 13:46
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 13:46
  Speaker 2: Right? That I already had dealings with. She ended up
• 13:49
  Speaker 2: pregnant by her guy or whatever. But we still dealt
• 13:55
  Speaker 2: with each other. After that.
• 13:56
  Speaker 3: Context matters, I will say.
• 13:58
  Speaker 2: That's it.
• 13:58
  Speaker 3: We have a thing called We Listen and We Judge.
• 14:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 14:00
  Speaker 4: If any of my homegirls did that hood booger nasty
• 14:03
  Speaker 4: ass shit, I'm like- So you.
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: Think that's wrong?
• 14:05
  Speaker 3: I think that is just- You don't think that's- I
• 14:07
  Speaker 3: think that's wrong as fuck.
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: I think it's wrong, but- So for me, I think
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: the womb is a sacred space. I don't want a
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: lot of energy in. If I got money to make,
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: I'm not even taking a phone call from a bitch
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: that's too messy. I need my head right. So- I'm
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: just saying, if I'm already on, off with a nigga,
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: I ain't going to allow that in.
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: So who's going? Me or her?
• 14:27
  Speaker 3: If I'm horny, I would rather call.
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: If I was single, someone I used to fuck that
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: I felt like was a safe place, rather than go swiping.
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: While you were pregnant?
• 14:37
  Speaker 3: If I had to.
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: If you had to. They say women that's pregnant, they
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: be horny.
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: I've never been there, so I feel like I can't
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: do it.
• 14:42
  Speaker 3: Okay, there's toys and porn.
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: But I have those that have done worse.
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: She's more nasty, but you both are wrong.
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: How am I wrong?
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: Did the baby daddy know?
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: It's no telling what who knows what.
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: Man, he giggling at them clips right now.
• 14:53
  Speaker 3: Damn.
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: All right, so we're going to get into some choice.
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: She made a choice, and this is our would you rather.
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: This was our classic question back when we were called
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions. If you had to pick, eating ass or
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: sucking toes?
• 15:06
  Speaker 3: Not the face.
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, why'd you just, like those weren't options in life?
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: That is a hell of an option. I don't really like,
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: I don't, I, What was it?
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: Eat an ass or suck a toe.
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd probably go with the toes.
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: Damn, really? I feel like the booty's cleaner.
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: Like, look at these shoes.
• 15:30
  Speaker 3: Like, I'm up sweating these later.
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: If I had to pick shower ass or shower toes,
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: I'm still going ass.
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: I do both.
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: Both can be done.
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: Both can be done, but you prefer. Have both been done?
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: Okay. How old are you? What? How old are you?
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: I'm, I'm, I'm.
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: Okay, you done had the feet told in.
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: Okay, would you rather have a woman that's checked your
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: phone from time to time or someone who's never asking questions?
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like you going to my phone. Yeah.
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: It's a horror show in there.
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: Wait, what? Pregnant bitches and all.
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not.
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: But when someone never asks anything, like, have you ever
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: felt like you've dated a woman?
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: And I'm actually very curious.
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: I feel like I have some homeboys that I'm like, damn, like,
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: you don't want a woman to ask you nothing? Like,
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: no challenge?
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: I don't think that they make those. What? Women that
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: don't ask you anything. I don't think it's a woman
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: on earth.
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: That I think asking questions is different than violating someone's
• 16:38
  Speaker 4: privacy and going through their phone.
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: Because, like, I ask questions, but I'm not going through
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: no nigga phone.
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: Is going through a phone forgivable?
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: It depends on how much you care about that woman
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: and how much she means to you. Because it's like,
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: I don't even know you. What are you touching my
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: phone for?
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: I don't even know you.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's crazy. I don't know you like that. I
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: don't know you like that. You got no right to
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: be touching my phone.
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: Has a woman gone through your phone and what was
• 17:04
  Speaker 4: the worst thing she saw?
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: You go through my phone.
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: Is it just that you're getting a lot of pictures?
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: You don't want to be on my phone. Let me
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: tell you. That's not where you want to be. I
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: tell you, it's a horror show. Can I ask you
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: a question?
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: Only because I realized the other day I was looking
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: for videos to make a reel and I noticed the
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: videos in my phone. I was like, why do I
• 17:27
  Speaker 4: still have videos with this nigga from eight years ago?
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: Really?
• 17:31
  Speaker 4: And I was like, Is that something that men, like,
• 17:34
  Speaker 4: because I have a lot of older partners that literally
• 17:37
  Speaker 4: even send me pixelated shit.
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: I know it was made on a Blackberry. Why the
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: fuck do you still have these videos?
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: So you're asking, do we keep videos?
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: Do y'all keep videos?
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: Of course. It's collateral.
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: Collateral? I feel like.
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: No, that's why I don't even let niggas.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: Film me anymore.
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: Bro, I'm so lucky.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: I got my titties done 10 years ago.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: No more.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: Those are the videos they got.
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: But even that collateral, like.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: Nobody got a video of that little Ceasar. Not in
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: my season. Shut up.
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: Well, even when I send what I got, I send
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: it on Snapchat.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: Wait, really?
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: A nigga don't have? Right now, probably my ex.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: So nobody got a video of that.
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: My ex and boyfriend number two. Shut the fuck up.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: Actually, you know what?
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: This is a new cut. So no. No one has this. Oh, wait.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: I want to ask y'all something. Have y'all ever been
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: fucking or not even fucking, just been in somebody's house
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: and you heard the like the record sound?
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: No.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: Have you ever had sex and heard a sound? Someone
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: pull out their phone. Or even you being in a
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: bitch house. I feel like I could see a girl
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: being like, if we love you.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. Not during sex, but just, you know, somewhere.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: It could be anywhere. In a hotel. It could be anywhere.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: Somebody pull out a phone or something like that. Yeah,
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: that's happened. Or have you pulled out your phone and
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: that sound came on and then somebody was like, put
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: your phone down.
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: I've made the sound. Oh. But it really ain't.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: Like, I'm not trying to trap a nigga. Like, I'm
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: not doing no shit like that.
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: You just used the word collateral. I don't know. I
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: said I think men do that for collateral.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: So you want us to get rid of the videos? Yeah.
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: I literally have said deleted. That's what I'm saying.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: Don't go on the nigga phone.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: Bro, I got one video I just want gone. And
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: it's not even because I'm naked. I'm about to be married.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: And I just feel like if this nigga drops this
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: video where I was talking crazy.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: You might.
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: I remember being drunk.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: And while I was drunk, I was telling this dude, oh,
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: I love you. He's like, you love me. And I
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: was like, I really think I do. And I'm like, yo,
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: if that ever comes out like this.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: That is not bad.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: No, me confessing my love to a nigga that ain't
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: saying it back.
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: I'd literally rather all.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: Of my nudes drop.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: Ugh.
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: Oh, my gosh.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: But you got. I.
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: Just recorded eating ass and I was like, I can't
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: believe my- You.
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: Was eating somebody's ass.
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, my man's ass.
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: I like the way you think. Yeah.
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: Wait. I did show you.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: We were sharing videos.
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: I did show you. No, I'm not going to lie.
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: I had to show my friend because I was on
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: Molly and my eyes was like.
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: I didn't know they talked this crazy. Wait.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: Did you need to sign you up or something?
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: First off, do you know how crazy you talk? I
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: don't think it's that crazy.
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: That is insane that you do not think that. Okay,
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: final one for you. When we get off air, I'm.
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: Also going to tell you how this was set up
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: because it was quite funny, just so you know.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was embarrassing for one of your girls. Okay,
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: would you rather a woman have A male best friend,
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: just one, or all her close homegirls is hoes.
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: Ooh. That's easy as fuck. You should have asked me
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: that first.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: Really?
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: I like them when they're all hoes.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: So you, they friends are actively in the streets. They
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: got the selling it shoes.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah. All of it. She probably a hoe too.
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: I hated how y'all had the selling it shoe conversation.
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: What was the selling it shoe? The goddamn Louboutin is
• 20:59
  Speaker 4: not a goddamn.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: Selling it shoe. I'm not saying it's a, no, I'm
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: not saying it's a selling it shoe. They asked me,
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: what shoe that women commonly may have.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: When they selling it. A horse?
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: When they may be women of the night. Okay. And
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: a common shoe is Is it a Louboutin pump or
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: something like that?
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: This is the weird thing about the Louboutin.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: When I was working corporate and made my first dollar,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: I was like, I'm going to buy this shoe. And
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: I was so excited. But also when I was a bird,
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: I was.
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: Like, oh, I'm going to add these on and I'm
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: going to be, uh-uh. It's like two things about it.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: It's like wearing a big watch.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: Either you have a very beautiful, subtle, someone's going to
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: know who knows watch, or you got that shit off
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: the street. Like, I feel like the Louboutin is that
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: shoe that you could be trying too hard or you
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: could also have money.
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: It's one of those. I mean, they're uncomfortable either fucking way.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: Holes don't get cold and holes don't be worried about them.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: That's right. You heard what she said.
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: I don't know what y'all talking about. Why are you
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: pointing to me like that?
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Holes don't get cold. You see what I mean?
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: I get cold. I be freezing bird. I do too.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: It never made sense to me.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: When that clip came out.
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: I was like, what is she talking about? All right.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: I want to show you a clip and I want
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: to get your opinion on it. Please.
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: Because when I saw the clip, I was like, I'm
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: curious as to this.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: This is a hot take that I've actually seen a
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: few friends talk about.
• 22:18
  Speaker 5: Okay, gentlemen, it is up to you to be the
• 22:22
  Speaker 5: one to confirm the date, to send that person, hey,
• 22:25
  Speaker 5: we're going to meet at this and this time, made
• 22:27
  Speaker 5: us a reservation at 730. Great. Looking forward to seeing
• 22:30
  Speaker 5: you next Tuesday. And then it is up to you,
• 22:32
  Speaker 5: the man, to lead and be the alpha and to
• 22:34
  Speaker 5: text her the day before to confirm or the morning of.
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: If you don't do that and a girl cancels and says, hey,
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: I'm going to have to reschedule.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: I didn't know that we were still on.
• 22:45
  Speaker 5: That's on you.
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: So I went on.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: Instagram to see when we actually have a friend in
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: common that sparked this up for me.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: We said, Oh yeah. But basically she was like, if
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: a man doesn't text me by 12, I'm off it
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: and cancel the date on a dude. And I was like, well,
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: what if he has a job?
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: Like I was very surprised.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: So women said, uh, this is 1800 people. If they
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: don't text by 12 PM or by 3 PM, they're done.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: And I said, all right, if they don't, what would
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: you do? cancel or text him? 60% of women said
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: they would text him. Now, you ain't going to get
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: that out of me, but I'm curious. Do you text
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: the day before? Are you texting that day? Is it
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: the hour before?
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: If I want to go on a date with her
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: and I'm already.
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: You've already planned the date.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: I'm already planned it. Yeah, I'm going to more... I'm
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: into her. I like her. I want her. I'm going
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: to hit her in the morning anyway.
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 23:44
  Speaker 4: And so, do you then agree that if a man doesn't,
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: He's probably not that interested or not that up to date.
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: But I don't see a nigga even going through all that. Oh,
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: they do. Planning all that. They do.
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they do.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: And then not being interested. Because I'm not going to
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: plan some shit. I might say, yo, we'll get up tomorrow.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: But I'm not going to plan nothing. You understand what
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: I'm saying? I might say, look, we'll figure it out tomorrow.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: So if you're saying, if you told somebody, we're going
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: to meet Saturday night around 8.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if I'm setting plans, I'm saying we're going to
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: go to this restaurant, you like this type of food,
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: you know, I'm going to make reservations, you know, if
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: I do all that.
• 24:19
  Speaker 4: See, if you say a place and a time, that's
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: different than let's get up Tuesday and it's a Friday.
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 24:26
  Speaker 4: That's vague, though. And then there's guys that will literally
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: not hit a girl all weekend and then just assume
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: that on Tuesday, he's like, well, I told you.
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: So I'm not going to lie.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: If it's a first date and I don't know you
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: like that, I actually don't mind not speaking. I prefer
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: genuinely not doing all the chit-chat until we vibe in person.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: For me, sometimes it feels redundant. I don't need you
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: to keep up with me. I'm doing my own shit
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: on the weekend. Once we go on a date and
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: I'm feeling you, then I'm cool with more texting. But
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: I remember you and I had that conversation once.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: But I don't really be dating.
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: I'm very big on if you don't send me a
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: calendar lock or don't talk to.
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: Me, it doesn't exist. What do you mean?
• 25:07
  Speaker 4: Literally, my friend just had his birthday at Cheetah's. I
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: literally put it in the calendar that we was going
• 25:14
  Speaker 4: to Cheetah on Wednesday at 8. And then I went
• 25:18
  Speaker 4: a little early because they got happy I already cheated
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: now because it's about to close.
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: I love me a strip club.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: I said, ooh, 50% off.
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: I like Cheetah too.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: 50% off.
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: But I sent a calendar lock for his birthday.
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: Just because if it's not in my calendar, it doesn't happen.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 25:30
  Speaker 4: And so if I'm also not talking to you, oh, nigga,
• 25:33
  Speaker 4: I done made plans with another nigga by then. Like,
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: and me and my friends talk about it all the time. Like,
• 25:38
  Speaker 4: I could have been with another nigga. Don't waste my
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: time and make plans with me and then don't communicate
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: with me. Because now if I'm waiting, thinking we're going
• 25:45
  Speaker 4: to do something, and you don't talk to me, another
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: nigga could have stepped in.
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: How many niggas you got?
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: Right now, two and a half.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: You got a half a nigga?
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: Yes, because he's over the pond.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: What does that mean? He's in Europe. Okay, he's in Europe.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: He's in Europe.
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: So like.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: She's a half a nigga.
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: Half a nigga. How many do you have? Yeah, how
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: many women do you have? None.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: None? Oh, do you have a favorite?
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: Do you have a favorite?
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm, I'm, I'm cooling, man.
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: Like, yeah, it's a podcast. I get it.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I'm, I'm cooling, you know?
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: So you don't, you don't have any, any, I do
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: what I want.
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: Okay. When I feel.
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: So I'm curious. You didn't tell us your age.
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: And now we can just sound a little problematic here.
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: You're a man of a certain age. And when I
• 26:36
  Speaker 4: talk to women who are dating men of your age,
• 26:39
  Speaker 4: they're very nonchalant.
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: Are we saying 40s or 50s?
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: 40s.
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: Somewhere around that.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: And so.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: Stop counting up to something. Yeah.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: But a lot of men your age are just noncommittal.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: Don't really like not. And you would think.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: Is that a problem though?
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: So to me, I feel like yes. To me, you
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: should be the age where, okay, you got your shit together.
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: You should at least know whether you want kids or not.
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: A lot of women do want to be married.
• 27:08
  Speaker 4: So a lot of women, when they're dating at a
• 27:10
  Speaker 4: certain age, are dating with intention. But there's a lot
• 27:13
  Speaker 4: of men like you in your age group that are
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: still just so nonchalant, kind of moving like 20-year-olds.
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: I get it. But here's the flip side to that.
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: What's the flip side?
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: What's wrong with knowing exactly who you are and who
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: you're not?
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: Who are you not?
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: I'm not the person that's going to overcommit to something
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: and not be super serious about it because the problem
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: with that is men pander, right? They tell you that
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: they want the same thing that you want. They want this.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: They tell you all of the things that you want
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: to hear, and then they get you, and then a
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: lot of times they don't live up to what they
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: were selling you. So what I'm saying is I've been
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: that guy before that oversold myself and tried to portray
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: myself to be something that I knew in my heart
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: that I wasn't.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: But doesn't that mean then that it wasn't the person
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: for you? If you aren't able to commit, if you
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: aren't able to follow through in a relationship and expectations
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: with somebody, that means that it's her. No offense, I'm
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: sure you've dated amazing women, but isn't there eventually going
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: to be somebody that will make you say, yeah, fuck
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: all of this?
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: I don't know. And here's the thing about that. If
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: it was just that simple, we wouldn't have these examples
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: that we see every single day for the last 2,000
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: years of men and their wives, girlfriends, and other women, right?
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: So there's something about a man that he may have
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: a wife, he may have a home and everything, but
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: he's still is attracted to other women, he still acts
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: on that attraction as well. No matter how good his
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: home is, no matter how great his wife is, he
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: can be committed to his wife in one area, right?
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: He can be loyal to her, but is he absolutely 1,000%
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: unequivocally faithful? That's the thing.
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: In terms of sex?
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: Right, in terms of sex. And that's the thing that
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: men struggle with, but we don't always... um you're not
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: always honest about so we get in front of our
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: women we go i want to be with you i
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: don't want nobody else and.
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: What you're saying you're non-committal is also as i hear
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: you explain you're non-monogamous so like would you be in
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: a dynamic where you're poly because there are women that
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: will accept that like me and her are both non-monogamous
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: like my partners, we talk about our other partners.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: We, like....
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: Don't do this.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, bring it back. No, no, no, you
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: better bring it back. Because you're saying shit right now.
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: You're saying shit right now. And what did you just say?
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: That we are non-monogamous.
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: You're non-monogamous.
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: Which is what you just explained.
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: So you got a man.
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: She's engaged. They play with girls together. They date women together.
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: I like this.
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: This is the right show. This was the show that
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: I had needed to be on. I'm a member of
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: this show.
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: I'm a member.
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: I need a membership.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: But that's why I'm actually confused. If you're non-monogamous, it's
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: actually not. That hard, actually.
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: Like, I met men that I know are non-monogamous when we.
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: Talk about it.
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: How have you not met a woman that's non-monogamous?
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: Actually, this is kind of fucked up to say, but
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: this is genuinely what I think.
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: I got to bring you to the sex club so
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: you can meet a whole bunch of non-monogamous women.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you what I didn't know.
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: Can I tell you what I didn't know? What didn't
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: you know?
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: I did not know that I was going to get up,
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: come here, and become friends with you. With these ladies. Like,
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: we are in a friend group. We got to start
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: our group chat. No, let's do it.
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: We got to get a group chat going on.
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: I want you to also meet women that would enjoy
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: watching other women suck your dick.
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: That would like you to share a date with other women. Like,
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: that's a thing.
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay.
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: Not threesome talk.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: This is insane.
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: Where am I?
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: What universe is this? It's a whole universe.
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: I like it. Our whore hive.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: I like it. Okay, but, okay, so let me tell you, right?
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: So you're saying like, why haven't I run into these things?
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: I think I have, but I think I run into more.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: There's a difference between what y'all saying and then like
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: threesomes or like.
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: Yes, there's a difference.
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: You know, the girl saying, yo, let's have some fun tonight.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: But that girl, She would probably allow me to have
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: fun with her and other women. But she would like
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: for me to be with her alone. You understand? She
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: still would want the commitment of a more monogamous sort
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: of a relationship. And then on some nights and days,
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: like maybe we can do this sometimes.
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: But you don't always have to do it together. You know,
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: the reason I was thinking it would be easy for you.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: most of the men in my life that have money
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: or fame and maybe they're just complicit and they complain
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: about it later, but it almost seems like it's easier. Like,
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: and that was one of my questions for you, the
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: accessibility you have to women. Like I'm sure you have
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: homeboys that don't have as much as you like, is it.
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: Is it as much volume?
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: It's a lot of value, right? It's so much value
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: and it's, having to navigate through what we feel like
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: we want to do and what we don't want to do.
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: But I will say this, though. I can't remember in
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: a recent time have I ever heard the way y'all talking.
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: Non-monogamy.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if I've ever heard that word.
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: You've never heard that word?
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: You've heard that, God.
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: You've never told anyone what monogamy is?
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: I don't know if I've ever heard a woman say
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: to me she's non-monogamous. Ah. I don't know if I've
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: heard that.
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: And I went before I got back to my partner.
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: Maybe she doesn't have the language.
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I was dating, and I was leaning into that. Like,
• 33:12
  Speaker 4: on first date, and this doesn't mean, like, we're going
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: to have threesomes, but I want you to know and
• 33:16
  Speaker 4: accept that.
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: But, like, I also don't want marriage and don't want kids. So, like,
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: there's a lot that comes with what I want.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: Most women I meet want or have, or they have
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: this idea of monogamy. They have this. The idea of it.
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: This thing where, oh. why are you not settling down? Like,
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: you had a certain age, you should settle down. Like,
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: why you didn't grow out of that? Like, all the
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: things that.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: I don't know what the settling down has to do
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: with that, though.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: I like it.
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: Okay, wait, wait, wait.
• 33:47
  Speaker 4: So, you would be okay, then, if you got with
• 33:49
  Speaker 4: a woman who accepted you, and then would you be
• 33:52
  Speaker 4: okay as a man with them also doing their thing?
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: You know, I've had these conversations, like, when I said, listen,
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: I'm going to be who I'm going to be, right?
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: I don't want to oversell myself or present myself to
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: be this idea of something that I'm not. And then
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: this expectation for me to live up to something, and
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: I fall short of that. I've done that. So when
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: the women say, well, would you want me to do
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: the same thing? Would you respect it? I'm like, listen,
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: I'm not here to own nobody. If that's your choice,
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: that's your choice, that's your decision, that's what you want
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: to do, it is what it is. I think we
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: get into this ownership The state of mind where it's like,
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: that's mine. That person is mine. That woman is mine
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: and stuff like that. And I don't know if we
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: were actually designed that way.
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: I actually have that ownership mentality, but it doesn't.
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: But you still going to fuck something up.
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: But it doesn't go past sex.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: It don't go past sex. That's what you join your
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: line at, sex. You going to get you some other sex.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: She not going to connect. She not going to connect.
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: But that's the thing. Men, we kind of wired like that.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: We can have a connection. I can have my connection
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: with you. Right? But I could knock your head off later.
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: No, for sure.
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: And we don't have no connection.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: But that's also a boundary. Like, what you're talking about,
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: and we've been doing this a long time, so we
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: have a lot of language around it, but if a
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: man told me, like, I'm going to be who I am,
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: I'm going to do what I do, that's actually a
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: red flag for me because I just feel like it's boundless. Like,
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: I could tell you just may have not have had
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: boundaries with women. For example, like, conversations I've had with
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: my partner, We do check-ins every month. But one particular
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: small thing that we didn't realize until we did premarital
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: counseling was like, he's like, yo, one thing we never
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: talked about is what if I slept with more than
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: one or two women a month? Like, how would you feel?
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: I'm like, well, how many bitches do you want to fuck?
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: He's like, I'm not even saying I want a lot.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, I don't know if there is
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: something that would upset you. Like, we haven't talked about
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: it in that much depth. Is there a place I
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: could take her for drinks, a party? something you like
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: to do that I could go out with or even
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: meet a woman that would piss you off. It's so
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: much communication to talk about what would make each other
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: feel good.
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: But that's the thing.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: You probably just don't make women feel secure or safe
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: in that. If I feel like I'm a losing nigga,
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: I'm going to be, no, I don't want you doing anything.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: I wanted to ask you, you can, with the sex,
• 36:16
  Speaker 4: what then qualities of a woman actually draw you to connect?
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: Hold on, I'm going to answer that. Okay. You do realize,
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: and you have to realize, that there's a large... a
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: large population of women that do not think like you.
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: Oh, we know that.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: I'm aware, but I think that it's because they're not
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: meeting men that have the language. Now, I was lucky
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: enough and he was lucky enough, the people we dated
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: before each other, we already tried it with, right?
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: I fucked up, he's fucked up.
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: Like, I'm sure we broke a boundary with someone else,
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: but our first date three years ago, we both talked
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: about being ethically non-monogamous.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if the women that I encounter
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: most times... are at that state of mind. This is
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: a quite different conversation to the point where, like I
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: told you, I've never even heard a woman say the
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: word non-nog. Wow.
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: And I actually think many women, we have so many
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: conversations with our friends. You know, it's the first thing
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: every double date, people are like, okay, so wait, so
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: y'all bring the girl home together and he's allowed to
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: text her?
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: Like, what's going on, right?
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: If you even engaged with a woman and said, like, look,
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: the way you say it now is what?
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: I be doing me. I'm always be me.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: If you were like, hey, I'm looking for a relationship,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: but I know that I may want to get numbers,
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: have sex with other women. I can make sure to
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: prioritize us. I can make sure that our holidays are
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: spent together. I can make sure that no one else
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: is feeling like they're my girlfriend.
• 37:42
  Speaker 4: And I don't want to embarrass you. You going to
• 37:44
  Speaker 4: know what I'm doing out here.
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: Right. I was in a relationship with a woman. And
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: we would. She liked women, too. And we would bring
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: women home. You know, one woman, two women, three women. Like,
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: we would often. Wait.
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm looking. You brought home three? You did four
• 38:06
  Speaker 3: at one time?
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah. How much dick you got to go around?
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: That's a lot of dick to go around. They were
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: all like, they had to be more gay than straight.
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: I mean, you know what?
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: I do think that was my Mexico trip.
• 38:18
  Speaker 4: But you were with a dyke and you were with
• 38:21
  Speaker 4: two lesbians.
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: Two of the girls was lesbians.
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: This is crazy.
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: That's true.
• 38:25
  Speaker 4: Two of the girls was lesbians. That's why I said
• 38:27
  Speaker 4: they couldn't have all won a dick. That's a lot
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: of dick to go around.
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: Everybody got dick. Everybody got dick.
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: It wasn't a lesbian couple?
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: No, it's dick to go around.
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: Dick to go around.
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: 100%. Four women.
• 38:39
  Speaker 3: God damn.
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: There's been more than that. But what I'm saying, my
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: point is.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: What you're talking about is a little different than what
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: I was involved in. She allowed situations that happened where
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: we brought women around sometimes.
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: That's called monogamish. So y'all have sex with people together.
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: Right, together. But at the same time, I think the
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: dynamic or the idea was that we were in a
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: monogamous relationship, right?
• 39:13
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: What you're talking about is a whole nother level that
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: I don't think I've encountered. And I'm just being a
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: thousand percent honest. I don't think I've encountered a woman
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: that's there. That's there.
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: But that's the thing, right?
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: I remember when I was growing up, I'm 35. It
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: was always like, main bitch side bitch most women like
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: to almost like show off that they somebody's main bitch
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: right the reality of that conversation is that's someone that
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: just feels important enough so if there is a woman
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: that's important enough it's actually just having deeper conversation like
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you I love threesomes.
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: I get it.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: But that's kind of exhausting to me. Like, there's days
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: where I'm just like, go tell me.
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: Go fuck that bitch on your own.
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean. Oh, I'll leave a threesome in the
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: middle when I'm tired.
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: Girl.
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: Like, y'all have fun.
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: I like this.
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but like. But you know what?
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: That also comes with the thing of like, I really,
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: really trust the person I'm with. I know that he
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: likes to get other pussies sometimes, but if we're out somewhere,
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: if I turn around, I ain't worried about that nigga
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: talking to another bitch. I know he respects me. I
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: believe that what we're doing is respectful and honest. So
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: most times when men are sleeping with other women, they're
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: lying to us. Right.
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: That's what I said in the beginning. And that's because
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: the idea of this monogamy or this me and you
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: relationship is that I'm going to be a faithful man
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: and I'm going to only be with you. And that's
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: expected because we feel like that's what the woman is wanting.
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: Well, a lot of women want it and then also
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: don't lean up to it.
• 40:44
  Speaker 4: Like I tell my friend all the time, bitch, you're
• 40:46
  Speaker 4: non-monogamous because you've cheated on every nigga you've been with.
• 40:49
  Speaker 4: So there's women out here that are cheaters, that are
• 40:51
  Speaker 4: accepting being the side role, that are dealing with married men,
• 40:54
  Speaker 4: that are okay dealing with a man who's still fucking
• 40:57
  Speaker 4: their baby mama. And what that is, is you're not
• 41:00
  Speaker 4: really monogamous because you're also including yourself into a man
• 41:04
  Speaker 4: that has other partners that you're aware of.
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: You know what I think a good sign for you
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: would be? Which is when I knew.
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: That I was becoming non-monogamous. And it's been about 10
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: years of my life like this.
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: So you didn't start off this way. You had to
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: grow into it.
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: It was only like I would have sex with women
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: with somebody. And then it started growing to where it's
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: called compersion, where you can enjoy someone else being with
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: someone else. Not on like a cuckolding thing, but like
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: just like, cool, they having fun. I was on the
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: phone with somebody and it was a guy I was
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: dating at the time. And he was like, telling me
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: I left for girl house. I was like, who? So
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: we talking, we chatting shit. He was like, yo, this
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: bitch talking about do this.
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: Oh, let me cook. And I'm just like, bitch, I
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: gotta go. And we're laughing.
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: And I realized like, oh, you really have to be
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: the homie, the best friend and the lover.
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: And what I have now is like, we like that.
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: Sometimes I'm too tired.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: I don't want to talk. And other times I'll.
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: Be like, what she look like?
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: Like, I think you actually really need that dynamic because
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: that is the safest place for a man to talk.
• 42:06
  Speaker 3: Because we always tell you, tell me the truth, and
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: then we get mad at you after.
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: That's the thing.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: If someone is tolerating you having sex with other women.
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: That's not cool.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: If someone is genuinely enjoying you being happy, having fun.
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: That's not always easy to find is what I'm trying
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: to say.
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: No, but it's possible.
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: Trust me, it's not that, it's not, I don't run
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: into that a lot, right? But the thing is, is this.
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: I think men lie because they don't feel like women
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: want to accept it or can't accept the truth. Of course.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: So I got into the point where I'm not lying
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: about who I am. I'm not going to just try
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: to persuade you to believe that I'm this ultra faithful guy.
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: I don't even want you to believe that, right? Because
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: if I present myself to be that way, then you
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: expect me to live up to that. And this is
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: why you see most men falling short.
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: I'm not like.
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: Even you saying that, though, that's probably what it is, ladies.
• 43:03
  Speaker 4: The men in their 40s have tried.
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: Men period, though.
• 43:07
  Speaker 4: Well, no, because I still think that there's people that
• 43:10
  Speaker 4: are still stuck with the idea of what traditional things
• 43:12
  Speaker 4: are and that being the right way for things. But
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: when you've done it so many times, when you feel
• 43:17
  Speaker 4: like a failure, when you realize, like, okay, I've gone
• 43:19
  Speaker 4: through therapy, I have this, I don't want.
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: This, and you're able to just sit in your.
• 43:24
  Speaker 4: Maybe not your delivery and saying, this is who I am,
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: take it or leave it, but being able to communicate,
• 43:29
  Speaker 4: this is, I'm not changing this, and you either accept
• 43:33
  Speaker 4: it or you don't. And I think women still have
• 43:35
  Speaker 4: the idea that if they're good enough, they can change
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: your mind to be faithful, to be the guy that
• 43:40
  Speaker 4: they want you to be when you're saying.
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: I ain't that.
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: Because you see that I'm saying that? You see that
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: I'm saying, I want to be honest with you, baby.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you the truth. I ain't shit.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm not saying that. No, but I'm saying, like,
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: I'm having my way. Like, I'm not even going to
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: play with your intelligence to let you believe that I'm not, right?
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: It's either that or I'm saying, yeah, baby, I want
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: what you want. Like, I want to. Yeah. I'm tired.
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: But I think you can want that. I think what
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: I learned as I got older was men that I
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: met that were non-monogamous, because we got the language for
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: it now.
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: Back then, we didn't, right? I was like, oh.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: They're not really lying to me. They do want to
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: get married. They do want family. They do want companionship.
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: But we want all the pussy too.
• 44:25
  Speaker 3: So you want all those things and all the pussy too?
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: That's what most men want.
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: So you want marriage? What percentage of men do you
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: think want that? That's what I'm saying. Do you want
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: to be married?
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: I don't think I want to be married.
• 44:36
  Speaker 3: Do you have kids?
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: Yes, I got two kids.
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: Do you want more?
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: I don't think so.
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: Okay, so see, those are the other two things. That's
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: a big one.
• 44:43
  Speaker 4: When dating women, there's a lot of women that want
• 44:46
  Speaker 4: to be moms and want to be wives. And so
• 44:48
  Speaker 4: even you like expressing that out the gate. So no,
• 44:52
  Speaker 4: the women that you might be talking to actually don't
• 44:55
  Speaker 4: want what you want because you don't want those two things,
• 44:58
  Speaker 4: but they do want companionship. Like I tell people all
• 45:00
  Speaker 4: the time, I'm a woman who doesn't want to be
• 45:03
  Speaker 4: married and I don't want kids, but I want to
• 45:06
  Speaker 4: create happy memories and partnership with somebody. I want to
• 45:09
  Speaker 4: experience life with somebody. And that's what it should be like.
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: I want something healthy. I want something fun. And as
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: soon as we disturb each other's peace, let them out
• 45:18
  Speaker 4: into the wild.
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: So the flip side to that coin is a guy
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: expressing that he wants marriage, kids, and all those other things, right?
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: He tells a woman that in the beginning, yeah, I
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: want all those things, but may not live up to that.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: You understand what I'm saying?
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah. As someone that's, like, sought after, and I just
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: say that because you're an entertainer, so I feel like
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: you have, you know, women, like, really wanting you, especially.
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: Because it's competitive.
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: Have you ever lost a woman to somebody that did
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: want those things back, to a man that was?
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: I've been in a situation where I've had some organic,
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: good vibes with a woman, right? And she wanted me.
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: she wanted so much reassurance. Like, what are we doing? Like,
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: I want to know if this is going to really be.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, yo, we around each other every day.
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: Relax.
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: We cool. We bobbing. We cool. And like, we let
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: it grow. But she needed me to verbally reassure her.
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: And I would not. And you know what happened? She
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: went out into the world. And the nigga did verbally
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: confirm all of the things that she wanted. But she
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: found out later on that He had a wife.
• 46:33
  Speaker 3: Oh, shit.
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: Or a girl or whatever. So this is what I'm saying.
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: Nigga tell you whatever you.
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: Want to hear.
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: When was the last time you had a girlfriend?
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: Say what?
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: Like the last time you had a girlfriend, like everybody
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: knows who it is. I remember you had a public
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: girlfriend years ago.
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that was some time ago. That was a few
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: years ago.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: So it's been a while since you had.
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: It's been a while.
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: It's been a while. But did you understand what I'm saying?
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: This girl... We had a great vibe.
• 46:59
  Speaker 3: Yep. You were doing all that she needs to hear, though.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: All of the things that, because I believe in action
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: over this.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: But that's why I was asking, like, so what time frame?
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: Because as women, I'm going to be totally honest. I
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: don't know if you could speak the same, but as
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: someone that was looking for a partnership, I would have
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: them saying things with a nigga. And then three months later,
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: he's like, well, I'm not ready for that. What the
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: fuck are you talking about? Like, how many trips have
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: we been on here at my mom's house?
• 47:21
  Speaker 3: Not ready for what is different.
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: Okay, cool. So is that or go over here to
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: this guy and he'll tell you all the things. That
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: you want to hear, but then you find out a
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: couple months later that you really the side bitch. Is
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: that a better alternative?
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: What are signs for you that let you know someone's
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: getting close to being a girlfriend or someone important in
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: your life?
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: I feel like the energy is not going to lie, right?
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: I feel like it organically growing to that. I feel
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: like you're going to know. And I'm not going to
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: fight it neither. If it's that, it's that. Yeah. If
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: it's that, it's that. I want you around. When you
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: genuinely want somebody around, you enjoy the company. Where you at?
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: What you doing? Let's do this today. Those are all
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: of the signs to me that I'm being stuck on
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: this woman and I like it. And that grows and
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: flourishes into a relationship. That to me is better.
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: So is asking then, as a woman, wanting to reassure ourselves,
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: make sure we're doing the right thing, a turnoff? Because
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: how do we advocate for ourselves and making sure we're
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: doing the right thing?
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: No, it's not a turnoff, but I'm saying, like, baby,
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: it's been three, four months already, like, we, you already.
• 48:39
  Speaker 3: Three, four months?
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: To me, that's a short time.
• 48:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: That's a short time to now asking for, like, this
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: higher level of commitment. We don't even gotta, like, can
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: we just exist in this space of, We spending every
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: other day together, right? I'm doing things that you like.
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: You're doing things that I like. We communicate well. We
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: spend a lot of time together. Can we just let
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: this grow?
• 49:07
  Speaker 3: And if a man answers like this and you need
• 49:09
  Speaker 3: an answer, you got to leave him.
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: You do.
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: I think women, we got to listen to him.
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: You got to leave him?
• 49:12
  Speaker 3: You got to leave him. I think so. And that's
• 49:15
  Speaker 3: all I say, like, all the time. As a woman.
• 49:17
  Speaker 2: Why are you leaving me?
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: Because.
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: Because.
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: Did you understand what I just said? She left me.
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: It was worse.
• 49:25
  Speaker 3: But that was the one.
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: But it was worse. And it's been worse ever since.
• 49:28
  Speaker 3: But you.
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: It's been worse.
• 49:30
  Speaker 3: You sound good as bullshit.
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: But how? It sounds bullshit.
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: If a woman is coming in. Who wants like, I
• 49:36
  Speaker 3: want marriage. I want this commitment. I want a baby.
• 49:39
  Speaker 3: I want whatever.
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: In a woman's mind, she also has a timeline of that.
• 49:43
  Speaker 4: The same way you're like three, four months is little.
• 49:46
  Speaker 4: She might feel like she deserves.
• 49:47
  Speaker 3: To be moved in by my six.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: Okay, no problem. No problem.
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: So she should stop talking.
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: To your uncommittedness. She did. But when I'm saying. Hold on.
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: Hold on though. But listen, this is the point that
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: y'all not getting.
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: Getting here in the point.
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: She left. And it went and got into a situation
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: that was worse.
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: Hold on.
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: She picks terrible niggas.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: She picks a nigga that don't want her.
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: She picks the nigga that tells her. Everything she wants
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: to hear.
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: Where is she today?
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: Is this the pregnant girl?
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: No, it's not the pregnant girl.
• 50:23
  Speaker 3: Oh, Lord.
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: Do you understand what I'm saying? So then she just
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: picked two bad niggas. No.
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: You want a greater nigga than the other nigga.
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: No, no. I was a greater nigga.
• 50:32
  Speaker 3: I'm a greater nigga.
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: Understand that. I'm a greater nigga.
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: But you were uncommittal.
• 50:35
  Speaker 4: No.
• 50:35
  Speaker 3: You didn't give her what she really wanted.
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: Commitment comes with time.
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not going to lie.
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: Hold on.
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: You said four months wasn't enough to be like, nah,
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: I rock with you.
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: Commitment. I was rocking with you.
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: But you weren't saying.
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: Commitment. Fuck words.
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: Action.
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: Action is everything. It's crazy. Action is everything. What are
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: we talking about?
• 50:55
  Speaker 3: What?
• 50:56
  Speaker 5: No.
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: What do you expect? And this is the other thing.
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: It's been bad ever since.
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: So she just don't take it.
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: I was the greatest.
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: You were the greatest?
• 51:04
  Speaker 2: You know why? Because I was the greatest. I'm not
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: going to say in her whole entire lifespan, but I'm
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: saying in that portion of time. I'm saying everything been bad.
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: If I was your homegirl, and I was telling you
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: about a rapper I was dating, I'm just saying it's
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: the archetype.
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: He's picking me up every day. He's doing nicks.
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: We fucking.
• 51:23
  Speaker 3: It's great.
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: Is this a gay rapper? Wait, what? No, because we
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: got to make sure. I don't know. What's up with
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: these niggas, man? I don't know what's up with these niggas. Wait.
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: He's a rapper that likes to fuck me straight. Okay.
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: I like contacts.
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: And I'm saying, Mano, you know I want to have kids.
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: I'm telling him I'm looking for something. He's saying he's
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: into me, but he's not trying to confirm a relationship
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: with me.
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: Am I wasting my time?
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: No.
• 51:47
  Speaker 3: And you're my friend.
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: And I say, what is his activity like? What is
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: his actions like? What is his actions saying? Well, I'm
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: in the house with him sleeping. Six out of seven days.
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: You know what, though?
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: I'm going to be honest with you.
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: We're doing activities together.
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: This is just like a bitch around. I really believe that.
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: Are y'all doing things together?
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: I believe men rotate.
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: Are y'all doing things? Hold on. Are y'all doing things together?
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: Are you doing activities together? Yes. Y'all going out? Y'all
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: going places together? Yes. You know, how was Valentine's Day? Oh,
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: Valentine's Day. He did something really nice.
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: Okay, then I'll take it up on that.
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: How was your birthday? He did something nice.
• 52:24
  Speaker 3: How much longer do I wait?
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: Wait for what? You already living it. Okay, fuck it.
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: Don't wait and go get the nigga that got a girl.
• 52:31
  Speaker 3: Oh, you mad about this?
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: Go get it. Go. What's better? What's better? The nigga,
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: go get the nigga.
• 52:39
  Speaker 4: This is ladies hockey. Choose the lesser of two evils.
• 52:43
  Speaker 4: He just confirmed all niggas.
• 52:44
  Speaker 3: Listen, you want me? I'm going to fuck other bitches
• 52:46
  Speaker 3: and not wipe you? Or you want the nigga who
• 52:48
  Speaker 3: say he going to do it? Good luck.
• 52:50
  Speaker 4: You not going to get the nigga you want ever.
• 52:52
  Speaker 3: Think about it.
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: I'm dealing with science right now.
• 52:56
  Speaker 3: We have to stop fucking Brooklyn niggas.
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: We have to.
• 52:58
  Speaker 3: No, I'm dealing with science. This is the problem. I
• 53:01
  Speaker 3: never fucked Brooklyn niggas. Like, never.
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: That's where you went wrong at. Oh, no, it's not.
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: Let me explain something to you. I am a specialist
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: in relations.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: I have two friends that have been on dates with you,
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: and they all say very nice things about you.
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: This is what I'm saying.
• 53:20
  Speaker 3: I'm actually not going to lie. Oh, I'm not going
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: to lie. I want to hook you up with a friend. Like,
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: I think, like, y'all would be so great. Like, I
• 53:29
  Speaker 3: actually want to know. You remember one of my years. Like,
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: Oh my God, he used to pick me up.
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: He was so much fun.
• 53:33
  Speaker 4: I've been around you a couple times. But even just
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: talking like this, I'm a friend for you.
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 53:39
  Speaker 3: I got a friend for you.
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: Put it in the group chat. I really like this guy. Okay, wait.
• 53:43
  Speaker 3: Now I got another question about dating a mano. Dating
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: a mano?
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: A mano, a guy that's out there doing shit everybody
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: knows and whatever. A nigga with money. Do you think
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: dating a woman that has a 9 to 5 isn't
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: conducive for a man who is wealthy or an entertainer?
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: And I ask you this because one of my homegirls
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: was in finance and recently quit her job because her
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: man went on tour this summer.
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: I was like, when are you going to pick it
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: back up?
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: She's like, I don't think I can have a regular
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: job again and survive this relationship because if I can't
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: move with him and do the things he wants me
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: to do, somebody else will take my place. I thought
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: that was a terrible thing, but understandably so, she's completely available.
• 54:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just think that that is their personal dynamic.
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: I don't see that. I love women that have ambition,
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: you know, that got shit going on. And if it's
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: a nine to five, that's cool too. I don't like
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: the ones that are just... Hand out? Right, the ones
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: that just destitute.
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: Now the pod word.
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: Hold on, bad bitches be destitute?
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: No, you don't understand. And I had a conversation with
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: a good friend of mine yesterday, and she really made
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: me understand. She was like, yo, niggas is out here
• 55:05
  Speaker 2: really doing the most for broke bitches. Mm-hmm. Right? So
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: I got to have all this money. I got to
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: do all these things, and I got to spend. I
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: got to get you an Uber. I got to get
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: your nails done, your hairs done. I got to do
• 55:21
  Speaker 2: all these things as soon as I meet you. And
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: it's not because... I like you is because you don't,
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: you can't do it for yourself.
• 55:33
  Speaker 3: Or is it kind of what they're used to?
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: For example, the last athlete I like went on a
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: few dates with was maybe around 2021. And I told
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: him I was at the Braider. We had a date
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: the next day. He asked me how much it was
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: and sent me the money. And I was laughing to myself.
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I already know what type.
• 55:50
  Speaker 3: Of bitches this nigga date.
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: Like not no shade to it. Like I'm, All my
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: homegirls are getting money out of niggas.
• 55:55
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: I love the stories.
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: You're not destitute, though.
• 55:58
  Speaker 3: You're not living in a tenement building.
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: But just the thought that he had to send it. Granted,
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: some of my friends are talking to me and they're like, oh, bitch,
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: that's lit. And I'm like, bro, he really be talking
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: to bitches that.
• 56:08
  Speaker 3: Be saying, send me this, da-da-da. Like, I thought he
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: was cool.
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: We met at a random spot.
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: I wasn't, like, on the prowl.
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: And I wonder if you're meeting women out or you're
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: meeting on Instagram and things like that, is this just
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: how it goes?
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: Um... I meet women that I've fortunately attracted to women
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: that got motion. I love a woman that got a business, restaurants,
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: got shit going on. Got shit going on. I'm attracted
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: to that. Some men are unattracted to that because it
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: may be intimidating to a powerful woman. I'm attracted to that.
• 56:50
  Speaker 2: So I like that.
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: Is making more money than you cool?
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: Cool with me. For some reason, that attracts me, right?
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: Because it's like, yeah, she's a boss. She running shit.
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: I want her. I want the boss bitch.
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: Now, do you spend more on those women than the
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: quote-unquote broke bitches? Or do you kind of pace yourself
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: because you know, like, I'm not going to lie, I
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: was a little insulted when he sent me the fucking
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: braider and nail money. I'm like, what the fuck?
• 57:16
  Speaker 2: I liked it.
• 57:17
  Speaker 3: I kept it.
• 57:18
  Speaker 2: I don't think the dynamic is about When it comes
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: to a woman like that, what you spending on her,
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: it's more about the thoughtfulness of what you do, right?
• 57:29
  Speaker 2: It's more or less about being thoughtful to her. She
• 57:32
  Speaker 2: got everything, right? She got things. She got her own, right?
• 57:36
  Speaker 2: I think it becomes different when you're dealing with women
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: that's dealing with... They loving off of survival. They just
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: trying to figure out who can do something for them
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: to help their situation.
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: Is it harder to date those women that are getting
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: their own because they kind of... maybe are requiring more,
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: even the woman you're talking about. Like, I feel my
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: homegirls that are still bottle girls and no shade to
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: them or anything like that, they are operating different when dating,
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: and my friends that are not, they really don't play
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: that shit. You know, if a nigga's trying to.
• 58:04
  Speaker 3: Well, you're dating a man for his character, not what
• 58:07
  Speaker 3: he can do for you.
• 58:07
  Speaker 2: Right, and that's where the line is blurred at right there. Like,
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: if I meet this girl right there.
• 58:11
  Speaker 3: What's the blurred line?
• 58:13
  Speaker 2: That I don't know if you're with me for my character.
• 58:16
  Speaker 2: I don't know if you're fucking with me for my character,
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: or is it just about, you know... what you think
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: you can get out of me or, you know, whether
• 58:24
  Speaker 2: that could just be a good time. That could just
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: be a meal. Hey, I want to come. I want
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: to come. I'm going to meet you over there. Yeah.
• 58:31
  Speaker 2: Can I bring my friend? Sure. Oh, I didn't tell you.
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: I brought my other friend too. You know, so.
• 58:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we love some free food. We do.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: So, you know, can you, can you, can you chip
• 58:43
  Speaker 2: in and get my hair done? It's like, okay, cool. Whatever. Like,
• 58:47
  Speaker 2: so I don't know what it is. Is it about
• 58:48
  Speaker 2: the character? Is it about you? trying to get the
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: most for your situation because you might not be in
• 58:54
  Speaker 2: a greater situation.
• 58:55
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 58:57
  Speaker 3: Look at you. Okay. You really, you know, those pause clips.
• 59:03
  Speaker 2: I don't play pause. Fuck pause. Boy.
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: When you said, I'm on the front lines, I was
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: fucking dying, dude. That shit was so funny.
• 59:09
  Speaker 2: I am.
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: Cause see my man is from the Bronx and every
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: time we talk I'm like tired of the pause.
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: Game He be like, yo, how much you going to cook?
• 59:18
  Speaker 3: You be trying to have me stuff.
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: Pause.
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: Like, nigga, no niggas are here.
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: It's just me, bro.
• 59:23
  Speaker 3: What the fuck?
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: It's just me, bro.
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: Like, goddamn.
• 59:28
  Speaker 2: How much pause?
• 59:29
  Speaker 3: I feel like he going to pause on a fucking
• 59:30
  Speaker 3: wedding day. He going to be like, yeah, slide it
• 59:32
  Speaker 3: on my finger. Pause.
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: Like, something's going to pause.
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, man. Yeah, we going to do it big for
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: our wedding. Okay.
• 59:39
  Speaker 3: All right. All right. Okay. A few more questions. We
• 59:43
  Speaker 3: want you to finish these sentences.
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: I want to know, men really want blank.
• 59:51
  Speaker 3: What comes to your mind?
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: Pussy. Pussy.
• 59:53
  Speaker 3: Women really don't understand.
• 59:55
  Speaker 2: Men.
• 59:56
  Speaker 3: The biggest lie men tell women is?
• 59:58
  Speaker 2: I'm faithful.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 3: The biggest lie women tell men is?
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: I'm faithful.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 3: Oh, I was going to say this. I never do this. Oh, bitch,
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 3: that's my favorite lie. No, no, no.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: I haven't had sex in three months.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 3: I don't know why that's the lie.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 2: Three months?
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 3: I'm not going to lie to you. What the fuck is.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 2: Up with this? Why do y'all do that? Y'all.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: Even if it's been two months, three months sounds better.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 2: Right, like you sound like it's just 90 days ago.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 2: I'm going to get a bit of jealous. It's just
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: 90 days. You got to open it back up. Right.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 2: That's not a long time ago. That's not a long
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 2: time ago. Why y'all act like three months, four months
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: is a long time? I spent more time in a
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 2: fucking box. Okay?
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 3: Like in a fucking little. To be fair, to be fair.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 3: Come on, man.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 4: A woman says I ain't had dick in three months.
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 4: On average, how much pussy are you getting in three months?
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: Say what?
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 3: You heard me.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: I didn't hear you.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 4: You said that's not a long time. How much pussy
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 4: are you getting in 90 days?
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: Pussy? Uh-huh.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 3: You getting in pussy. Meaning?
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 4: How much pussy is you getting in 90 days?
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 3: Oh, oh, oh.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 2: Pussy. Pussy. Pussy. On average.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 3: On average.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: A lot. Okay.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 3: Okay. So a woman saying I ain't had not one
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 3: dick in 90 days, that's good.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 2: No, but it's heavy emphasis on the 90. Like, it's
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 2: a long time. That's all I'm saying.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: No, I feel like it is every time I've lied
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: about it.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 2: Why is that a long time? Nigga, when you waiting
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 2: on money that 90 days. How much dick you need, though?
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 3: That 90 is a long time.
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: I think you know what it is. You be wanting
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: them to feel like, I was a dating app person.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: And we know that dating apps is so like... So
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: I feel like I would say it just to be like, no,
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: you're a special one. I know I've been eating out
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: with niggas every single Tuesday, but this is something different.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: I hate it.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 3: I feel alive.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: I have a question for you. I saw Paul Pierce
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: and Azar talking about spots you can't cheat at. In
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: New York City, what do you think the spots you
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: can't cheat at?
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 3: Where do everybody go?
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 3: Easy.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: That's easy. Say less.
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 3: Say less for sure.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: Stay out of say less. Stay out of mirror.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 3: Mirror's the new one. Oh, that's the hookah place. The
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 3: hookah spot. Yeah, I had to go.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: If you have a wife at home, a woman at home,
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 2: a baby mother that you live with, stay out of
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: those places. Stay out of Aura. Cargola. Stay out of... Yeah, Cargola. Definitely. What?
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 3: Don't do it.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 2: Pergola.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 5: Like.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 2: My God. Going in there and why you cheating and
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 2: then getting caught and then not understanding how you got caught.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 2: That is the most insane thought. It's like, I was
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 2: in Pergola. I don't understand. Nigga, why you might as
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 2: well put a sign.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 2: On you said, yo, I'm outside tonight with my other bitch.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: Now, what are some deep cuts that people think they
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: wouldn't be caught at, but they would?
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 2: Oh, no. It's some places that you can be. I
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 2: don't want to throw all my spots out there.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: Just give us one fun main spot.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 3: Well, you're not cheating because you're single.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 2: I'm not cheating, but I don't want these niggas all
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 2: up in my shit, man.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: I feel you.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 3: It's because they be talking. But these are the ones
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 3: you wouldn't be at. These are the ones you wouldn't
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 3: be at.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: These are the places I'd be at. But I don't
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 2: want niggas coming in there because it's spots that the
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 2: crowd don't go to. It's diverse things downtown where you ain't,
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 2: it's rooftops and hotels.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 3: I'm thinking about what you said to me the other day.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 5: What?
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: When Mandy was talking about how we go to different places.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh yeah, it was Soul Summit this weekend.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: She said, no, it was Maino Day this weekend. I said, oh, okay,
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: we going to do, we're going to. I feel like
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: depending on the type of guy I was dating back
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: in the day, I would take them to different shit. Like,
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: cause I, I live downtown Manhattan.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 3: I ain't going down there. I ain't going up there. Diggy,
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 3: you coming by me. That's it.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 2: So you take guys to different things. Like, If you
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 2: dating the guy, you know, you're like, let me put
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 2: you on to something. Let me put you on to this.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 3: Oh, I love putting a nigga on. Me too.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 2: I like girls like that.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 3: I love.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: Because I like showing men that, like, I don't know.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: I have a very diverse eclectic taste in music. Like,
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: we're going to listen to some vinyl. I'm into a
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: party called Cue the Record.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: We get to sit, listen to Erykah Badu or Future
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: for an hour and a half and then discuss the album.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: I think that shit is fly. And honestly, when I
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: was dating hood niggas, That's how they was falling in
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: love with me, bitch.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 3: They be like, you ain't never did no shit like that.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: See, I like that. I think a lot of women, well,
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 2: we all talk about social circles. So a lot of
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 2: social circles I find myself in, I don't always run
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: into women that are that worldly, meaning like, put me
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: on to something sometimes, like, you know, a different restaurant,
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 2: a different sound, a different, Fuck a different artist.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 2: Right? Just something different, you know? I know, yeah, I'm
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 2: going to take the lead and, you know, I'm going
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: to set up this and I'm going to make sure
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 2: that everything is situated. But, you know, have you ever
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: been to such and such restaurant? Nah. We can go there.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 2: It's dope. I like that.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: The first date, I think women should not.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 3: I think it's a little too pushy. No, of course not.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: But I absolutely think it's dope. And I know some
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: women have told me, but I don't really believe this shit.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: I think a lot of women have tried to get
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: in my head about who I should be with men.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: And that's the worst mistake I've ever made in my
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: dating life, is women telling me how I shouldn't send
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: a message about something, shouldn't be too forward. Like, I
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: don't give a fuck. If I had mad fun with
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: you and you driving off, I'm going to be like, yeah,
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: so what are we doing next weekend?
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what is all this what you're supposed to do
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 2: and what you're not supposed to do? Blame Steve Harvey.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 2: This is my thing, though.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: That's true.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 2: If we got real organic energy, I don't feel like
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 2: we need to live to a script.
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 3: No, I agree.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 2: If you fuck with me, fuck with me.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 3: No blueprint to this shit.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, just fuck with me. I know I shouldn't be
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 2: saying this. I know I shouldn't be telling you how
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 2: I feel. If you feel that way, tell me how
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 2: you feel.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 4: But that's what I'm saying to you and just to
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 4: full circle it. there's going to be a woman that
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 4: accepts you for you.
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 3: I agree.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 4: There's going to be someone that allows you to be
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 4: yourself and it's going to be the best.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 2: No, it happens though. She may not be at a
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 2: point where she's feeling like she's non-monogamous. Okay. But they
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 2: accept me. Oh, they accept me.
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 3: You don't want to tolerate.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 2: I'm acceptable.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 3: Because the tolerate is the problem.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: You want to make sure that That woman is feeling
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: good enough to where, and I think any man should
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: feel like this. No bitch should want you that bad
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: to where they just going to do whatever you want.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 3: Right? Like, that's not what we want.
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: We want people that are actually like, okay, yeah, like,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: I know my man is this way. He likes to
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: do this, but hey, he loves me. He does this
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: for me, et cetera. He cherishes me. He loves my friends,
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: my family. He makes me feel, he elevates me.
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 2: Do you get jealous?
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 3: Of course.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 2: Of course.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 3: I got jealous more in monogamous relationships.
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 2: Not me too much. Not you too much.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 3: I think jealousy is completely natural. It can be.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 2: You fucking all your two and a half niggas? One
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 2: of them is funny.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 4: I think he likes just like, we have fun virtually
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 4: a lot.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 2: You have a virtual relationship with him?
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 3: No, no, no.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 4: I see him, but not as often. So all of
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 4: them live in different states than I live, which I like.
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 4: I need my space.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 2: Got it.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 4: But the one right now, we're having this thing that's
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 4: really fun. where he FaceTimes me while he's with another woman,
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 4: and I tell the woman what to do, and I tell.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 2: Him what to do. See, this is— It's fun. You
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 2: know what? Don't ever shut their mics off. Don't you
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 2: ever shut their— Who would have thought?
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 4: I think for me, there's just pleasure in I finally
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 4: am with people who see me and I get to
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 4: be myself.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: I love this.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 4: And so for me, I want them to know that
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 4: I enjoy everything about them. Them being with other women,
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 4: them navigating life, their accomplishments, them learning and wanting to
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 4: see different things too. And we share those moments a lot.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 4: Even the other night, I was with my main partner,
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 4: my primary, and he told me a lot that I
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 4: don't think he's ever shared with anyone. And the next
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 4: day he wrote me. He said, whoa, we shared a
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 4: lot last night. That felt really good.
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 3: Thank you.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 4: Because I know, like, and mind you, it was a
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 4: trip that he took a year ago. And he sprinkled
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 4: little things. And I know he took the trip. The
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 4: trip was way more than I thought the trip was.
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 4: And you could just tell he was, like, so happy
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 4: to just, I share it with him. And I didn't
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 4: judge him for it. And I wanted more. His storytelling
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 4: sucks a little bit. I was like, where's the fucking climax?
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: I want to hear more.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 3: And he was like, thank you. Like, that makes me
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 3: feel like I can even share more.
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 2: Because you know what? That's the key. A man want
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 2: to feel like. He can be honest, right? Yeah. If
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 2: you get into a space with a man and you
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 2: allow him to be his true self where he don't
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: feel like he got to hide. Hide. Got to have
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 2: the other phone and leave it in the trunk and,
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 2: you know, store numbers on the rapper's names. Peoplehood.
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So that is a higher level of what y'all talking about.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 2: about of a real relationship. This is real relationship, Shahid,
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 2: where two people can ultimately be themselves. That is the key.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 2: I don't want to be in a situation where I
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 2: cannot be myself.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: And that's who we are with our friends.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 2: And that is the fear. And this with men, though.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 2: Struggle with because they fight with that. They do. Because
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 2: I got this woman I love. I don't want to
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 2: lose her, but I can't show her my true self.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 3: You know what? You're going to hook him up with somebody,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 3: and I'm going to hook him up with somebody. Well,
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 3: he clearly says he's non-monogamous. Yeah.
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 2: And then me and them going on.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 3: And then we could all do double dates.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: Now.
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 3: Triple dates.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 2: All the things.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean? We could just go have fun.
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 2: And I date them at the same time, though, like,
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 2: on the same day, in the same restaurant.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: Speaking of double date, I know the one question my
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: fiance would have for you. It was a minute ago,
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: he watched an interview with you, and I remember he said, yo,
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: did you hear that thing with Maino coming downstairs and
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: the sun was fucking?
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah. That was horrible.
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 3: Have you had women try to, like... They flirt with
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 3: him or they flirt with you or y'all be out.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 3: They just.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's getting bad. My son is... I don't know if.
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 3: It's... How old is he?
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 2: He's 23. Okay. And it's getting very dangerous.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: So the women are in the same.
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah. It's starting now. That's my... I date young and
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 3: I date old. I say it all the time.
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 4: This is the best age to be a woman. You
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 4: can date the daddy or the son. I literally say like,
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 4: you might want to not give the pussy up till
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 4: you meet the other one in case you want to
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 4: talk to the other one.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 3: I was in L.A. and I saw this nigga. He
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 3: look good as fuck. I was like, oh shit. My
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 3: homegirl was like, that's such and such. I said, fuck,
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 3: I fucked his daddy already.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 4: But I was looking at him, I swear to God.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 4: This is the best age as a woman. You could
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 4: literally date either. So ladies, the advice is wait till
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 4: you meet the daddy or wait till you meet the
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 4: son because you might choose the wrong one.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: Now, what age of women? I feel like about 28, 30.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: I try to keep it.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: I like my women realistically. This is what I like.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 2: 30 plus.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 3: Because I'm thinking younger than them. My young niggas say
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 3: that same thing.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 4: They like their women 30 plus.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 3: That's good.
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 2: I don't really like women. Not saying I dislike them,
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 2: but 28 might be the where I may draw the line.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 2: Because it's about the conversation. Yeah. I mean, I need
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 2: to be able to.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 3: To be stimulating.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 3: I'm not going to lie.
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 4: Well, we get more of this on your new show. Like,
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 4: let the people know where they can listen to you now.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 2: My new show.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 3: Do they get more of this?
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 2: Yes, because I'm a love doctor.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 3: You're what?
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 2: Love doctor.
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 3: Oh, my God.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 2: Relationship specialist. I am a relationship specialist.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 3: Is that what the new show is about?
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 2: Oh, you've got to have us on.
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 2: It's called 1-800-MANO.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 3: And you're the love doctor.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 2: Well.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 3: You're giving advice to people?
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 2: I'm a guru, yes.
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 3: Oh, my God. This is going to be so bad anyway.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 2: Here's the thing. The conversation that we're having right now
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 2: is the type of conversation that we're having.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 3: I can't wait to hear your advice.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 2: People need help, though.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 3: And you're going to help them. You too. You're going
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 3: to help them.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 2: Who else? To give them the greatest advice.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: Before we get into that show, I want to know
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: out of your co-hosts real quick, because most of podcasters
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: today that are just finding you are finding you from us.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 3: Rap about it. Out of all your co-hosts, who would
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 3: you trust with your biggest secrets?
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 2: Man, all of them. I think we got some secrets. No,
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: we got secrets. I don't think nobody's, Jim Jones ain't
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 2: telling nobody my secrets.
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: Who would you trust to lie for you if your
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: girl called and was like, Mano's over there.
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 3: Where's your man? Who's going to lie to them?
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 2: They all going to lie for me. They're my dogs.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 2: They're going to lie for me. Fab's going to lie
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 2: for me.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: Who would you never let date one.
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 3: Of your sisters?
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 2: They wouldn't let me date their sisters. That's the real issue. Yeah,
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 2: that's the real issue.
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 3: Wait, you're the worst one of the bunch?
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't say the worst one.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 3: Okay. I feel like if I had to guess.
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 2: What would you guess?
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 3: Maybe Dave.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 2: Is the worst one?
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 3: I'm going to guess.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: Dave is a good man.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying he's a bad man.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 2: He's a good man. He has a woman and kids.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 2: He's a good man.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 3: Okay. All of y'all are good men.
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 2: No, he's a good man. He called me the other day.
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 2: He's like, I'm with wifey, man. I'm about to go out.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, nigga. Yes. Yes. Okay.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 3: Well, I'll take a break then.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: Who would you, if out of all of them, I
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: guess would be the best to date one of your
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: sisters in? If you say none of them could be. Granted,
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: they were single.
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 2: But, see, that's not a fair question because two of
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 2: them already in a relationship. Same relationship.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, granted, they were single, but out of these men,
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: who do you think would be, like, someone you'd trust around,
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: someone you don't think is too wild? Like, who do
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: you think is the one where you're like, this would
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: be a good.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 2: So, that's what I'm saying. Like, Jim Jones and them
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 2: is good. They're in healthy relationships.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 2: So, I would have to choose one of the guys
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 2: that's in a healthy relationship because they actually doing it. Okay.
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 2: I'm not in a healthy relationship. We know. See what?
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 2: Love doctor. But it's true. I'm a scientist. Like, I
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 2: deal with science.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: You know, in the first beginning of the show, I
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: will say, we was giving some fucked up advice. We
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: had a whole mail section.
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 3: I don't know what the fuck these are. I don't
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 3: think so.
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 2: No, we weren't. The advice, people need help out there.
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 2: People don't know what to do.
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 3: And that's the thing, though.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 4: Even the advice, there's no roadmap to it. We can
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 4: say what we think you should do and then take
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 4: it or leave it.
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 3: There we go. 1-800- It's coming soon. It's coming soon.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 4: You can listen to Maino on the Let's Rap About
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 4: It podcast. He got another podcast coming out. You can
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 4: hear him on All the Way Up with Angela Yee.
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 4: And he still makes music, guys. So stream his music.
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 3: Buy his music, do all the things. Maino, thank you.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 3: Let us know when you want us on your show.
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 3: You are amazing.
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: Ethical non-monogamy group chat.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 4: I'm literally going to hook you up with a friend.
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 2: What are we going to name our group chat? What
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 2: you want to name it, Mano? It's either going to
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 2: be sex club or non-monogamy.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 3: We got to do non-monogamy.
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, non-monogamy.
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 3: With the non-monogamy gang. Non-monogamy-ish.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 2: The crew.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 3: You know what?
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: You could jump in it every few weeks and be like, okay,
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: so you're going to screenshot a message from a girl
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: and be like, what do I say?
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 3: Then we're going to coach you.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 2: You remember when we.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 3: Coached Sexy Red? When she was like, how I talk
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 3: to the nigga?
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 2: It's just, I needed a new crew.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 3: Listen, we got you. I found a new crew. You
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 3: know what?
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: Because your fucking homegirls are probably sick of you.
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 3: That's why.
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, probably. Probably tired of my shit.
• 1:15:59
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• 1:16:01
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• 1:16:06
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• 1:16:15
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