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- 1:00Speaker 2: I'm Rachel. You could tell.
- 1:02Speaker 1: So I could not be more excited to share today's
- 1:05Speaker 1: episode with you. It was simply an honor to get
- 1:08Speaker 1: to chat with Kimball Musk. The list of his accomplishments
- 1:11Speaker 1: are just too many to name, but I'm going to
- 1:13Speaker 1: give it a try. Have you ever heard of Google Maps?
- 1:16Speaker 1: He had a company that was called Zip2. It was
- 1:20Speaker 1: basically MapQuest before MapQuest, which was basically Google Maps before
- 1:25Speaker 1: Google Maps. He's a tech entrepreneur who, along with his brother,
- 1:29Speaker 1: Elon Musk, you may have heard his name, created this. And,
- 1:33Speaker 1: you know, before we even understood how powerful the World
- 1:36Speaker 1: Wide Web was going to be, their minds are just
- 1:39Speaker 1: beyond what we can comprehend. And although Kimball and Elon
- 1:43Speaker 1: had huge successes in the tech world, He decided to
- 1:46Speaker 1: follow his passion to New York City and attend the
- 1:49Speaker 1: French Culinary Institute, something he found as a passion as
- 1:53Speaker 1: a child. So not only is he an extraordinary businessman,
- 1:57Speaker 1: he's also a chef and an accomplished restaurateur. I've eaten
- 1:59Speaker 1: at his restaurant. It's called The Kitchen. In a couple
- 2:02Speaker 1: different states, I've eaten at the one in Chicago, and
- 2:05Speaker 1: it is absolutely delicious. And with his new cookbook coming out,
- 2:08Speaker 1: The Kitchen Cookbook, Cooking for Your Community, everyone will get
- 2:12Speaker 1: a chance to try some of his great recipes at home.
- 2:15Speaker 1: He raves about the tomato soup recipe, so that's going
- 2:18Speaker 1: to be the first thing that I try. He also
- 2:20Speaker 1: has a philanthropic initiative called The Big Green, which educates
- 2:24Speaker 1: individuals and communities across the country about the importance of
- 2:27Speaker 1: growing their own food. Honestly, I could have talked to
- 2:30Speaker 1: him for hours. So without further ado, please enjoy my
- 2:34Speaker 1: conversation with the one and only Kimball Musk. Kimball Musk,
- 3:09Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining me on Misunderstood. It's
- 3:12Speaker 1: such an honor to have you here.
- 3:14Speaker 3: Rachel, thank you. Thank you for having me.
- 3:16Speaker 1: So the first question I have for you is, are
- 3:18Speaker 1: you ever seen without a cowboy hat?
- 3:21Speaker 3: You know, it's funny. I started wearing this cowboy hat
- 3:24Speaker 3: in 2015. I work a lot of farms and work
- 3:27Speaker 3: with food. And it was a funny thing where I
- 3:33Speaker 3: would borrow people's hats and put them I had this
- 3:38Speaker 3: amazing conversation with a very, very, very conservative farmer who
- 3:41Speaker 3: was very nice. But he said, you know, it's actually
- 3:44Speaker 3: not cool to borrow people's hats. And I was like,
- 3:47Speaker 3: what do you mean? Well, a cowboy hat is about
- 3:51Speaker 3: as close to someone's pet like you have a love
- 3:53Speaker 3: for it. And so they took me to go get
- 3:56Speaker 3: a cowboy hat. And I didn't really think I was
- 3:59Speaker 3: that kind of person that could wear a cowboy hat.
- 4:02Speaker 3: And I bought the hat. And then for a few months,
- 4:06Speaker 3: I mean, obviously, if I was on a farm, I'd
- 4:08Speaker 3: wear the hat. But for a few months, I would
- 4:10Speaker 3: watch the hat as I would leave my house. And
- 4:14Speaker 3: Edward would literally would like talk to me. You don't
- 4:17Speaker 3: have the courage to wear this hat. And I'd be like, man, okay.
- 4:22Speaker 3: And I would have this strange sort of psychological conversation
- 4:25Speaker 3: with this hat. And after a while, I was like,
- 4:26Speaker 3: you know what? I do. And so I just have
- 4:31Speaker 3: worn the hat ever since. And now it gets to
- 4:35Speaker 3: a point where if I don't wear the hat, I
- 4:36Speaker 3: feel a little naked.
- 4:39Speaker 1: Right, right. So it's not like you're hiding that you've
- 4:41Speaker 1: gone bald.
- 4:43Speaker 3: No, I'm pretty good, actually.
- 4:45Speaker 1: Oh, great head of hair there.
- 4:47Speaker 3: Okay, I love it. All right.
- 4:49Speaker 1: Well, so I wanted to start with you, like I
- 4:52Speaker 1: do with a lot of guests, discussing your childhood. You
- 4:55Speaker 1: were born in South Africa, and I want to know
- 4:58Speaker 1: what it was like growing up there.
- 5:00Speaker 3: Well, we grew up in Pretoria, which is, to give
- 5:06Speaker 3: people maybe the best analogy, which is not going to
- 5:08Speaker 3: sound great, is we were essentially in the Third Reich,
- 5:12Speaker 3: the headquarters of the Third Reich of South Africa. So
- 5:14Speaker 3: the apartheid government uh, was, was, you know, a half
- 5:19Speaker 3: a mile from maybe, maybe a mile away from where
- 5:22Speaker 3: I grew up. And, um, it was, it was about
- 5:26Speaker 3: as psychologically intense as you can imagine. The, the, the
- 5:31Speaker 3: violence in the community, the white on white, white on
- 5:34Speaker 3: white violence, which people don't really grasp was, was the
- 5:38Speaker 3: most intense that, that I experienced. Um, the Afrikaana apartheid
- 5:42Speaker 3: government was very, very, um, aggressively against the English-speaking community
- 5:54Speaker 3: and also the Jewish community. It was a very tense upbringing. Wow.
- 6:03Speaker 1: And you grew up with, so you had two parents,
- 6:06Speaker 1: you had a brother and a sister. Your parents divorced
- 6:11Speaker 1: when you were young, correct?
- 6:11Speaker 3: They divorced when I was young. My mom I'm still
- 6:14Speaker 3: very close with, but my dad I don't really, I'm
- 6:17Speaker 3: not connected with. Okay.
- 6:18Speaker 1: So what was that like? Did you feel like you
- 6:20Speaker 1: were growing up in a single parent household or was
- 6:23Speaker 1: your dad part of your life when you were younger?
- 6:25Speaker 3: So I was with my mom until I was 13
- 6:27Speaker 3: and then, or 12 or 13, and then my brother
- 6:30Speaker 3: had moved in with my dad. And so I felt...
- 6:33Speaker 3: My dad is a very troubled human, so I just
- 6:36Speaker 3: felt like my brother being by himself there was not right.
- 6:38Speaker 3: And so I went to move in with him, and
- 6:42Speaker 3: we ended up, you know, sort of dealing with our
- 6:45Speaker 3: dad for our teenage years, who really is a mentally
- 6:50Speaker 3: unstable human. But, you know, on the positive side of that,
- 6:55Speaker 3: I always say my father taught me a lot. He
- 6:58Speaker 3: taught me what not to do. Yeah. Yeah.
- 7:01Speaker 1: Well, that's true. I mean, I have a lot of
- 7:02Speaker 1: people on here that talk a lot about who there
- 7:06Speaker 1: is a person now and how your childhood affected, you know,
- 7:10Speaker 1: who you became. And, you know, I'm talking about psychologists
- 7:13Speaker 1: and parenting experts and all this stuff. So obviously, you know,
- 7:16Speaker 1: you get really good traits and really bad traits from,
- 7:19Speaker 1: you know, who you're with and you either learn from
- 7:21Speaker 1: them or you replicate from them. And I think I really.
- 7:25Speaker 3: Have, I really have turned it into a positive learning experience.
- 7:28Speaker 3: I think that, many people come out of situations, whether
- 7:32Speaker 3: it's growing up in a part of South Africa or
- 7:34Speaker 3: growing up in a difficult home can, can, can turn
- 7:38Speaker 3: it into a victim story. And instead I, I, I
- 7:42Speaker 3: turned it more into, well, what did I learn? And
- 7:46Speaker 3: my cookbook that, that is, is now available, uh, wherever
- 7:49Speaker 3: cookbooks are sold is it's really about community and it's
- 7:53Speaker 3: cooking for your community. And what I found was, uh,
- 7:58Speaker 3: For me, an incredible therapy growing up was if I cooked,
- 8:02Speaker 3: my father would kind of leave me alone. He really
- 8:04Speaker 3: respected that. And then when I would cook and serve dinner,
- 8:09Speaker 3: it was one of those things where we would all
- 8:12Speaker 3: sit down and connect. And in that household, there was
- 8:16Speaker 3: none of that at all. And unless I unless I
- 8:19Speaker 3: did that. Right. And so it was something that if
- 8:23Speaker 3: I was ever with my mom, it was always just
- 8:25Speaker 3: kind of a wonderful energy where cooking was. Let's all
- 8:28Speaker 3: get down and sit down and have a have a
- 8:30Speaker 3: joint communication. But it was also a protective mechanism when
- 8:34Speaker 3: I was with my father where I could cook and
- 8:37Speaker 3: have my space protected. And then also when I would
- 8:42Speaker 3: sit down and we would eat the dinner, we would
- 8:46Speaker 3: actually have a connected conversation. It was probably the only
- 8:49Speaker 3: time that I was able to figure that out. But again,
- 8:52Speaker 3: learning from that, I learned to cook for my community
- 8:55Speaker 3: versus find other ways, maybe less healthy ways to deal
- 9:02Speaker 3: with it. Right.
- 9:04Speaker 4: Okay.
- 9:04Speaker 1: So at a young age, it wasn't necessarily just about
- 9:08Speaker 1: the fact that you like to cook. It was more
- 9:09Speaker 1: about it really gave you the chance to create sort
- 9:12Speaker 1: of a stability in what sounds like a little bit
- 9:15Speaker 1: of an unstable environment.
- 9:17Speaker 3: That's right. I think it continues to be a very
- 9:23Speaker 3: meditative experience for me. So even when I cook breakfast
- 9:27Speaker 3: every morning with either my kids or if it was
- 9:29Speaker 3: just me, I'll do it myself. And it's very meditative
- 9:32Speaker 3: to get your scrambled eggs right, even though I've done
- 9:35Speaker 3: it thousands of times. Every morning, I'm like, oh, I
- 9:39Speaker 3: could have done it a little differently there, a little
- 9:41Speaker 3: differently there. And that meditation or meditative state, I think,
- 9:47Speaker 3: is something I grew up learning how to do. And
- 9:50Speaker 3: if people don't have that experience with food, I really
- 9:54Speaker 3: encourage them to try it. And it's always with the
- 9:57Speaker 3: simplest dishes you get meditative. It's not ones where you're
- 10:00Speaker 3: really trying to tackle a complicated recipe. Right.
- 10:04Speaker 1: So I've heard you talk about the fact that you
- 10:05Speaker 1: started cooking more so around when you were 11 because
- 10:09Speaker 1: your mom really was horrible at cooking, right?
- 10:13Speaker 3: Right.
- 10:13Speaker 1: Before I met.
- 10:14Speaker 3: My dad, my mom was a dietician. She is a wonderful,
- 10:21Speaker 3: wonderful mom. But it was either the food I cooked
- 10:25Speaker 3: was brown bread and plain yogurt. I'm not kidding. And
- 10:29Speaker 3: fend for yourself on food that tasted better. But it
- 10:34Speaker 3: was also a gift. You know, she was kind of
- 10:37Speaker 3: getting me to go shopping and picking really any ingredient
- 10:41Speaker 3: that I wanted. I remember shopping with her once. I
- 10:45Speaker 3: think I was 11 and picking up the peppers. And
- 10:50Speaker 3: just smelling them, just, you know, I wonder how this
- 10:53Speaker 3: one smells compared to the next one. And she still
- 10:56Speaker 3: remarks about that to this day where she just can't
- 10:59Speaker 3: believe that that's her son because her mind doesn't work
- 11:03Speaker 3: that way. It's very much a science-based, nutrition-based, very healthy,
- 11:08Speaker 3: but not as joyful as it relates to food as
- 11:12Speaker 3: I've always found it.
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- 13:58Speaker 1: I think there is a misconception about what is healthy.
- 14:00Speaker 1: And I was going to get into this later, but
- 14:01Speaker 1: let's actually talk about it because some people think healthy
- 14:04Speaker 1: has to do with calories or picking a specific diet
- 14:06Speaker 1: like keto, protein only, you know, carbs only, whatever it
- 14:10Speaker 1: is for them. But that doesn't necessarily mean healthy, at
- 14:14Speaker 1: least in your book, right? I mean, it's more about, well,
- 14:16Speaker 1: tell me what you think, you know, healthy.
- 14:18Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, my mom, who spent 40 years as
- 14:21Speaker 3: a consulting dietitian with a focus on diabetes, so very
- 14:25Speaker 3: intense diet, practice, working to helping people save their lives,
- 14:30Speaker 3: you know, by dieting. What she taught me was think
- 14:35Speaker 3: about color on your plate. So if you have a
- 14:37Speaker 3: lot of meat and potatoes, that's not giving you the
- 14:40Speaker 3: nutrition you want. So if you want some greenery, you
- 14:43Speaker 3: want some orange, you want some color. And then the
- 14:46Speaker 3: other one, which is something I've kept with me, is
- 14:50Speaker 3: really get into a routine with your food. So in
- 14:52Speaker 3: my case, I have breakfast, lunch, and dinner. In her case,
- 14:56Speaker 3: she has lunch. A small breakfast, a small snack at 11,
- 15:00Speaker 3: small lunch, small snack at 3, and a small dinner.
- 15:03Speaker 3: That's her. But it's the routine that gives you this
- 15:08Speaker 3: healthy relationship with food and your body. And what happens
- 15:14Speaker 3: with most people when they lose a healthy relationship with
- 15:17Speaker 3: food is they're not even conscious when they're eating. They're
- 15:21Speaker 3: eating out of either stress or anxiety. some other thing
- 15:27Speaker 3: that food gives them.
- 15:28Speaker 1: Loneliness, anxiety.
- 15:29Speaker 3: Loneliness, or they want a sugar high, or there's these
- 15:32Speaker 3: things that are unconscious. And her practice for 40 years was,
- 15:39Speaker 3: and she does this for many people that I knew
- 15:42Speaker 3: personally as well, is simply write down what you're eating.
- 15:45Speaker 3: Just write it down. And don't forget to write down everything.
- 15:50Speaker 3: So if you want to eat at 2 in the morning,
- 15:54Speaker 3: write it down. And it turns it from an unconscious
- 15:57Speaker 3: experience to a conscious experience. And that's how she really
- 16:00Speaker 3: was able to save many people's lives. Because when you
- 16:02Speaker 3: have diabetes, it's life or death. And that turning it
- 16:08Speaker 3: from unconscious to conscious eating was one of her great lessons.
- 16:12Speaker 1: Yeah, that's really important. And I think the feelings that
- 16:16Speaker 1: are associated with it, once you start to write that down,
- 16:18Speaker 1: obviously makes more sense of why you're feeling the need
- 16:21Speaker 1: to eat at, say, 2 o'clock in the morning.
- 16:23Speaker 3: Right, exactly.
- 16:24Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, so you guys, as you're talking about your
- 16:28Speaker 1: childhood being 11, 12 in there, all of you have
- 16:31Speaker 1: turned out to be someone that we all know, including
- 16:34Speaker 1: your mother, which I think is fantastic. But at some point,
- 16:37Speaker 1: you guys all went your separate ways. I mean, you
- 16:40Speaker 1: guys came to Canada, I think was the first stop, right?
- 16:43Speaker 1: Is that where you guys went?
- 16:44Speaker 3: Yeah, Yvonne came out in Canada when she was 17.
- 16:47Speaker 3: He and I are one year apart, so I was 16.
- 16:50Speaker 3: He graduated, he was two years ahead of me in school.
- 16:53Speaker 3: And so he actually, was able to leave two years
- 16:56Speaker 3: before me, or a year and a half. And then
- 16:58Speaker 3: in between that, my mom and my sister moved out.
- 17:00Speaker 3: My sister was so determined to move that, this is
- 17:05Speaker 3: a funny story, my mom went to visit Canada to
- 17:08Speaker 3: check it out, to see where they might live or wherever.
- 17:12Speaker 3: And my sister, who was 16 at the time, sold
- 17:15Speaker 3: the house. Sold it without my mom's permission.
- 17:20Speaker 4: What?
- 17:22Speaker 3: So it was, she engaged a real estate agent, she
- 17:26Speaker 3: sold the house, and my mom, of course, had to
- 17:29Speaker 3: sign the agreement. Right, right.
- 17:30Speaker 1: I was going to say, can you do that in
- 17:32Speaker 1: South Africa?
- 17:33Speaker 3: But my sister had found the buyer, had agreed to
- 17:36Speaker 3: a price, negotiated a price, and even set up the
- 17:39Speaker 3: movers to take the furniture out. But so when my
- 17:43Speaker 3: mom came back, she really didn't have much, much of
- 17:45Speaker 3: a choice.
- 17:46Speaker 1: Much choice.
- 17:47Speaker 3: Right.
- 17:47Speaker 1: So I'm curious, why Canada? Like, why not L.A.? So actually,
- 17:51Speaker 1: my mom was born in Canada.
- 17:52Speaker 3: So my mom, my mom has a Canadian passport and
- 17:55Speaker 3: we worked hard with her for us to get our
- 17:58Speaker 3: passports before we were 16. And so we all had
- 18:02Speaker 3: the freedom to immigrate. It was not a country you
- 18:05Speaker 3: wanted to stay in.
- 18:05Speaker 2: Right.
- 18:07Speaker 3: It didn't really matter what skin color you were in.
- 18:10Speaker 3: It still is a very, very difficult country to live
- 18:12Speaker 3: in today. And so we knew that she was born there.
- 18:18Speaker 3: We knew she had a right to a passport. And
- 18:20Speaker 3: so we all kind of worked with her to reestablish
- 18:25Speaker 3: her citizenship and then pass it on to her kids.
- 18:30Speaker 4: Right.
- 18:31Speaker 1: So tell me some of the first jobs you had
- 18:34Speaker 1: when you moved to Canada.
- 18:36Speaker 3: Oh, my first job. So I, man, it's amazing how
- 18:41Speaker 3: life just sends you in such different places. I was
- 18:43Speaker 3: obsessed with Wall Street. So I went to a top
- 18:49Speaker 3: business school in Canada called Queen's University in Ontario. I
- 18:53Speaker 3: worked very hard. I would cold call these CEOs of
- 18:58Speaker 3: major banks to get a, I got a job on
- 19:00Speaker 3: Toronto's version of Wall Street. And I had gotten everything
- 19:04Speaker 3: that I had wished for. I had this intensity and determination,
- 19:09Speaker 3: and I fought my way to get this job. I
- 19:10Speaker 3: got it. And it was the absolute worst fit for
- 19:14Speaker 3: me you can imagine. I hated it. For the finance
- 19:20Speaker 3: community that I was around, they were, at the end
- 19:24Speaker 3: of the day, really bureaucrats. They were.
- 19:29Speaker 3: Not entrepreneurial. I mean, I don't know what I was thinking.
- 19:34Speaker 3: My vision of Wall Street was very, very entrepreneurial class.
- 19:38Speaker 3: And I'm sure there are many people who are like that,
- 19:40Speaker 3: but I just didn't get to get exposed to them.
- 19:43Speaker 3: And so I got back from my summer job, dropped
- 19:47Speaker 3: all of my finance courses, started to work, you know,
- 19:50Speaker 3: do physics electives and philosophy and engineering. And I then
- 19:56Speaker 3: did a house painting business and I did a franchise
- 20:00Speaker 3: in my community. And that's really where I found my
- 20:03Speaker 3: passion to be an entrepreneur, where it's very hard. You're
- 20:06Speaker 3: You're do or die. There is no guaranteed salary or compensation.
- 20:15Speaker 3: You get what you work for. And you're knocking on doors.
- 20:19Speaker 3: You're dealing with rejection all the time. And I was
- 20:23Speaker 3: an entrepreneur. And actually, I was pretty good at it.
- 20:26Speaker 3: So I thrived. And it was a complete U-turn from
- 20:30Speaker 3: what I had told myself I would love to And
- 20:34Speaker 3: then I found out actually what I loved was the
- 20:37Speaker 3: energy of being an entrepreneur. Yeah.
- 20:40Speaker 1: Being an entrepreneur, I think it's so interesting because there's
- 20:43Speaker 1: like two modes. It's like, Namaste, or it's like, I'll
- 20:47Speaker 1: cut your throat to get one of the other. And
- 20:51Speaker 1: then also, you know, a big part of learning and
- 20:54Speaker 1: being an entrepreneur is you have to know when to fail.
- 20:56Speaker 1: Like people always say failure isn't an option, but it
- 20:58Speaker 1: totally is. I think that's a huge part of being
- 21:00Speaker 1: an entrepreneur.
- 21:08Speaker 3: But failure is a different term. Failure would be shutting
- 21:11Speaker 3: a business down. And I haven't done that very often.
- 21:13Speaker 3: I've done that once or twice in my life. It's
- 21:15Speaker 3: really awful, really sad. But the lesson that I've learned
- 21:20Speaker 3: of getting used to losing, which is not to take
- 21:23Speaker 3: it so personally, whether it's simply you go and knock
- 21:26Speaker 3: on a door and you get a no or a
- 21:28Speaker 3: mean response all the way to you did a strategy
- 21:33Speaker 3: and it didn't work. OK, pick yourself up again and
- 21:37Speaker 3: keep going. And the alternative is not really there's no alternative.
- 21:43Speaker 3: It's simply that's what it is to be an entrepreneur.
- 21:47Speaker 3: And that has been that sort of concept of getting
- 21:50Speaker 3: used to losing has really helped me be a better
- 21:53Speaker 3: entrepreneur over my life.
- 21:55Speaker 1: Right. So I know at some point you decided to
- 21:58Speaker 1: sell your painting company and start, I think you talked
- 22:03Speaker 1: about taking a road trip with your brother, but is
- 22:05Speaker 1: that also when you.
- 22:06Speaker 3: Started to work with your brother? Yeah. So my brother
- 22:08Speaker 3: and I worked, we did a road trip in 1994
- 22:12Speaker 3: and we, we had not worked together at that point.
- 22:15Speaker 3: And he's very much an engineering physics genius, as I'm
- 22:18Speaker 3: sure you guys, the audience would know that already. But,
- 22:22Speaker 3: but for me, I was more of an, on the, sales,
- 22:25Speaker 3: business side of things and love getting out there more extroverted.
- 22:30Speaker 3: And we love each other. We're like, let's give it
- 22:33Speaker 3: a try. Let's see what it's like to work together.
- 22:35Speaker 3: And he had an idea to do yellow pages for
- 22:39Speaker 3: the internet. And I was very good at product, so
- 22:47Speaker 3: I could really help design the interface for the end user.
- 22:52Speaker 3: It was pretty cool. My brother and I were the
- 22:53Speaker 3: first literally the first humans to see door-to-door directions and
- 22:58Speaker 3: dynamic mapping on the internet. And we released it to
- 23:02Speaker 3: the world in 1995. And it was, we were sleeping
- 23:10Speaker 3: on the floor of our office. We didn't have any
- 23:12Speaker 3: money for even a home to stay in. We were
- 23:17Speaker 3: just kind of hoping for the best, you know, as
- 23:20Speaker 3: any entrepreneur does. I had a tiny little cooktop, stove
- 23:24Speaker 3: top in the office, but for the most part, we
- 23:26Speaker 3: ate a jack in the box. And I did everything
- 23:29Speaker 3: I could to do something as simple as pasta in
- 23:33Speaker 3: our office. But then that food smell would come up
- 23:36Speaker 3: and our employees didn't know we were sleeping in the office.
- 23:39Speaker 3: So it was like a, it was a, I mean,
- 23:44Speaker 3: it was a very fun time and very romantic, nostalgic
- 23:47Speaker 3: time for us. And we were also in Silicon Valley
- 23:52Speaker 3: where I remember walking to Jack in the Box at
- 23:56Speaker 3: I think maybe four in the morning. I'm not kidding.
- 23:58Speaker 3: Like that late, you're just working that hard. And I
- 24:01Speaker 3: passed by another office and there was someone else sleeping
- 24:05Speaker 3: in their office but had their laptop on or their
- 24:09Speaker 3: computer on. And I actually went and knocked on the
- 24:12Speaker 3: door and I asked if he wanted to come to
- 24:14Speaker 3: Jack in the Box with me. And he became a friend.
- 24:18Speaker 1: Oh, wow. So cool. So now this company was called Zip2, right?
- 24:23Speaker 1: And ended up, you know, what, four or five years
- 24:26Speaker 1: later selling for something like $ 307 million?
- 24:28Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a hell of a ride. You know,
- 24:32Speaker 3: we were building things during the internet days. There was
- 24:35Speaker 3: no revenue model to speak of. People didn't understand how
- 24:39Speaker 3: to make money in this space. So it was also
- 24:41Speaker 3: very hard because you're constantly just trying to survive. Yeah.
- 24:45Speaker 3: But What we built was actually very valuable. This is
- 24:48Speaker 3: obviously something that people use five to ten times a
- 24:51Speaker 3: day now with Google Maps and Yahoo Maps. So we
- 24:54Speaker 3: were acquired by Compaq, which owned AltaVista and then got
- 24:57Speaker 3: sold to Yahoo and kind of integrated into what became
- 24:59Speaker 3: Yahoo Maps. And very proud of that, having that sort
- 25:05Speaker 3: of fingerprint on the Internet.
- 25:07Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, that's such an interesting story you tell
- 25:09Speaker 1: because you started just years before and you guys are
- 25:11Speaker 1: basically sleeping on the floor and then you sell this company.
- 25:15Speaker 1: I mean, that must have felt amazing. And the same
- 25:18Speaker 1: thing of like this story that I've heard about you
- 25:20Speaker 1: guys taking this month long road trip together where the
- 25:23Speaker 1: car kept breaking down because you didn't have, you know.
- 25:26Speaker 2: The car is beautiful. Where did you end up going
- 25:29Speaker 2: for it?
- 25:29Speaker 4: This exclusive place that Dada's connections with. they've more cars
- 25:33Speaker 4: for more dealerships than like anywhere else.
- 25:35Speaker 2: You have to put me in touch what's it called.
- 25:37Speaker 4: It's dune adl where dune adl there's an accent on
- 25:43Speaker 4: the e do you mean yes i got it on
- 25:46Speaker 4: done deal cars.
- 25:47Speaker 2: Lift please you're going past oh kimmage.
- 25:51Speaker 4: No done deal cars you couldn't possibly go anywhere else.
- 25:56Speaker 1: An expensive car. In those days, did you ever think
- 26:00Speaker 1: that Tesla was coming around the corner?
- 26:03Speaker 3: Not at all. I didn't even think, honestly, that I
- 26:06Speaker 3: would stay in technology. When we sold the company, I
- 26:13Speaker 3: moved to New York. My passion was food, and I
- 26:19Speaker 3: loved the The connection it gave me, I didn't think
- 26:22Speaker 3: I would open a restaurant. What I thought I would
- 26:24Speaker 3: do is I would go to cooking school and I
- 26:27Speaker 3: would learn because I just thought, why not? I'm financially
- 26:31Speaker 3: free to be able to do that. And I kind
- 26:34Speaker 3: of have this approach to life, which is if you
- 26:39Speaker 3: really want to do something, the only thing stopping you
- 26:41Speaker 3: is you. And if I had talked out loud to
- 26:46Speaker 3: my family and friends, I'd love to go to cooking
- 26:49Speaker 3: school at some point. all right, here's my chance. So
- 26:52Speaker 3: I signed up for the French Culinary Institute in New York,
- 26:58Speaker 3: one of the top schools in the world. It cost
- 27:02Speaker 3: more than go to Harvard. It was such an expensive school.
- 27:05Speaker 3: I couldn't believe it. I was like, wait a minute,
- 27:07Speaker 3: I thought this was just a cooking school. But it
- 27:09Speaker 3: was truly one of the top schools, very French, of course,
- 27:13Speaker 3: with the legends of New York, my teachers. And It
- 27:21Speaker 3: was a very humbling experience. I'd come from riding this
- 27:25Speaker 3: very high wave of selling a very successful company in
- 27:28Speaker 3: Silicon Valley, and all of a sudden, I was no
- 27:34Speaker 3: better than the gum on the shoe of my chef.
- 27:36Speaker 3: I mean, I remember just being screamed at for hours
- 27:40Speaker 3: by this little French chef. I'm six foot five, and
- 27:42Speaker 3: this French chef was maybe five foot five, and the
- 27:45Speaker 3: spittle would still land on my face. It was like,
- 27:48Speaker 3: it was unbelievable. And I just had to, had to
- 27:51Speaker 3: take it. And if I, at any point I could
- 27:54Speaker 3: leave and I wouldn't get my money back. And that
- 27:57Speaker 3: was kind of their business model was you come in,
- 28:00Speaker 3: you pay full price. If you survive through this, through this,
- 28:05Speaker 3: it was like almost like bootcamp. If you survive through it,
- 28:08Speaker 3: they will consider you a French chef. And the, the,
- 28:15Speaker 3: Out of a class of 25, only six people made
- 28:18Speaker 3: it through to the end.
- 28:19Speaker 2: Wow.
- 28:20Speaker 3: It was so intense. And I remember having this conversation
- 28:26Speaker 3: with Alam Salhak, who's now passed away. But I say
- 28:33Speaker 3: to him, do you guys really have to be that intense?
- 28:36Speaker 3: I mean, I know that I'm learning a lot here.
- 28:39Speaker 3: And he would say... I don't even understand. What do
- 28:43Speaker 3: you mean? I don't think we're that intense. And it's
- 28:46Speaker 3: just a culture of this old school approach that I
- 28:51Speaker 3: just was, wow, I think I just need to change
- 28:53Speaker 3: my attitude. I actually am learning here. I may not
- 28:56Speaker 3: choose to be that way, but clearly when I left there,
- 29:00Speaker 3: I knew what I was doing and I was, you know,
- 29:03Speaker 3: broken down and then reshaped into their mold. You know,
- 29:08Speaker 3: funny when it comes to the kitchen, our restaurant in, in,
- 29:11Speaker 3: In Colorado, I don't really use what I learned from
- 29:16Speaker 3: that school. I found this incredible partnership with Hugo Matheson,
- 29:22Speaker 3: who's a chef trained. He's English, but he's trained in
- 29:25Speaker 3: the Italian style and found that to be there's so
- 29:30Speaker 3: much more joy. And it's much more similar to what
- 29:31Speaker 3: I grew up with, where you cook with joy, you
- 29:35Speaker 3: cook with a sense of ease. And and when I'm
- 29:39Speaker 3: when I met him, I cooked under him as a
- 29:43Speaker 3: line cook for about a year. And he taught me
- 29:47Speaker 3: so much about how to respect the ingredients, respect the process.
- 29:52Speaker 3: And so after that time, Jen Lewin, my wife at
- 29:56Speaker 3: the time, She and I asked him to join us
- 29:59Speaker 3: as a co-founder in the restaurant, and we created the kitchen.
- 30:05Speaker 1: I'm curious about, you know, I want to talk about
- 30:07Speaker 1: taking risks for one second, because you had come from
- 30:10Speaker 1: this place where you sold this tech business, and you
- 30:12Speaker 1: had this money, and you've done some things in your
- 30:15Speaker 1: past that you realized were not your passion, did not
- 30:17Speaker 1: make you happy, and then you went to culinary school
- 30:20Speaker 1: because you knew that that was something that gave you happiness.
- 30:23Speaker 1: Do you think without the money sort of as a
- 30:26Speaker 1: safety net that you would have been able to take
- 30:28Speaker 1: a risk like that and just say, you know what,
- 30:29Speaker 1: I'm going to go for something that might not have
- 30:31Speaker 1: a lot of money in it. I don't know where
- 30:33Speaker 1: it's going. You didn't think you were going to start,
- 30:35Speaker 1: you know, restaurants that opened all over the place. Like,
- 30:37Speaker 1: do you think that for people it's harder to take
- 30:40Speaker 1: a risk when they don't have a safety net? Or
- 30:43Speaker 1: do you think that that's irrelevant that people should just
- 30:45Speaker 1: take the risk?
- 30:47Speaker 3: You know, I think it's a hard question to answer.
- 30:50Speaker 3: You know, I would say that The first business that
- 30:53Speaker 3: I did, which was the first business after school, which
- 30:57Speaker 3: was the Zip2 mapping door-to-door directions, we didn't think it
- 31:02Speaker 3: would be worth what it would be worth. That wasn't
- 31:05Speaker 3: why we got into it. I also didn't realize much
- 31:11Speaker 3: about the restaurant business either, so I didn't really know how.
- 31:15Speaker 3: It's a different financial calculation. If you go to a
- 31:19Speaker 3: technology company in Silicon Valley, There's a decent percent chance
- 31:24Speaker 3: that it's worth a lot, like an outsized amount. And
- 31:27Speaker 3: that's where much of the wealth creation has been in
- 31:30Speaker 3: America over the past few decades. And that's not the
- 31:33Speaker 3: case in the restaurant world. It's not to say you
- 31:36Speaker 3: can't do well. You can make a good living. So
- 31:39Speaker 3: I would say that I really didn't have enough information
- 31:41Speaker 3: to know what it even meant to have a safety
- 31:45Speaker 3: net or what it meant to have a business that...
- 31:50Speaker 3: I think the truth of the fact is my Internet
- 31:54Speaker 3: business did not make money, and the restaurant business did
- 31:57Speaker 3: make money. It's just that you can sell the Internet
- 32:01Speaker 3: business for an outsized amount, and you can't sell the
- 32:04Speaker 3: restaurant business. So it's kind of a– I actually really
- 32:08Speaker 3: enjoyed the fact that you made a good product, very tangible,
- 32:13Speaker 3: and you checked your finances at the end of the month.
- 32:16Speaker 3: Your bank balance either went up or it went down.
- 32:19Speaker 3: that was actually pretty calming. It was a calming feeling.
- 32:22Speaker 3: Whereas in the internet world, you just, you're constantly fighting,
- 32:26Speaker 3: you know, losing it, running out of money.
- 32:29Speaker 1: Right.
- 32:29Speaker 3: Right.
- 32:31Speaker 1: And then just back to that for one second, Elon
- 32:32Speaker 1: had said it was a time that he looked back
- 32:35Speaker 1: on with disappointment and frustration, even though it did well
- 32:38Speaker 1: and sold.
- 32:39Speaker 3: Right.
- 32:39Speaker 1: So did you feel that same way or did you feel?
- 32:42Speaker 3: No, I think so. The, the, We were young, and
- 32:48Speaker 3: I think we learned a lot from Silicon Valley around
- 32:52Speaker 3: how to run a business. I think some of the
- 32:55Speaker 3: best training you can imagine. But we were both very
- 33:00Speaker 3: capable entrepreneurs, and I think the potential during those years
- 33:05Speaker 3: of making a much bigger impact on the Internet was
- 33:10Speaker 3: so great. And we were... We were young and we
- 33:15Speaker 3: didn't have control of the company and we were essentially
- 33:19Speaker 3: required to work with executives that, you know, that's a
- 33:25Speaker 3: sort of classic phrase, you know, the venture capitalists, we're
- 33:26Speaker 3: going to bring in some professionals to help you guys
- 33:29Speaker 3: make this work. And they actually weren't that good. You know,
- 33:33Speaker 3: it wasn't like they weren't bad. They were not bad people.
- 33:35Speaker 3: But when it comes to innovating and figuring out what
- 33:41Speaker 3: this business should be, I think that both my brother
- 33:45Speaker 3: and I have proven over the years that we're pretty
- 33:47Speaker 3: good at that. And so I would say it was disappointing.
- 33:53Speaker 3: I don't think either of us could argue with the outcome,
- 33:56Speaker 3: but it was a very, very frustrating few years. I
- 34:01Speaker 3: think that with some different stroke of luck, and, you know,
- 34:06Speaker 3: there's a classic phrase, would you rather be lucky or good?
- 34:08Speaker 3: I think... There was a lot of luck and there
- 34:12Speaker 3: was a lot of unluck that we got. I would
- 34:16Speaker 3: say I also don't have the dwelling on the past
- 34:22Speaker 3: issue that some people have. I simply don't. I just, hey, okay,
- 34:28Speaker 3: now that the company was sold, now what do we do?
- 34:30Speaker 3: For me, that's why cooking school called me. And And
- 34:36Speaker 3: I've had several exits since then that have taught me
- 34:41Speaker 3: to not dwell on, just to really have more optimism,
- 34:47Speaker 3: focus more on the present and the future.
- 34:49Speaker 1: Right, right. Okay. So you go through the French Culinary
- 34:53Speaker 1: Institute that you talked to us about. You graduate in 2001, correct?
- 34:57Speaker 3: Yeah, I graduated just before 9-11. It was just a crazy,
- 35:03Speaker 3: I know you have your own 9-11 story and So
- 35:08Speaker 3: I had this incredible training. I was trained as a
- 35:11Speaker 3: French chef. I was very good at culinary, very bad
- 35:14Speaker 3: at pastry, but I knew what I was good or
- 35:16Speaker 3: bad at. So there's that. I also learned I was
- 35:19Speaker 3: very good at bread. It was like these sort of
- 35:21Speaker 3: things you learn about. And I left there thinking, I
- 35:25Speaker 3: wonder what I will do next. I didn't think I
- 35:27Speaker 3: would open a restaurant. And it was 18 months, very intense.
- 35:31Speaker 3: I was very happy to be out of it. And
- 35:34Speaker 3: then September 11th of 2001, I live very close. I
- 35:39Speaker 3: used to live right close to the World Trade Centers.
- 35:41Speaker 3: I woke up to the sound of the first plane
- 35:44Speaker 3: hitting the building. It was like, what was that? And
- 35:48Speaker 3: then the doorman rang the bell and said, you know,
- 35:51Speaker 3: a plane is at the building, a plane is at
- 35:52Speaker 3: the building. You know, when you're a New Yorker, you think.
- 35:56Speaker 3: some idiot has taken a small plane and crashed into
- 35:59Speaker 3: a building, you do not think in any way, shape
- 36:02Speaker 3: or form that that's what happened. So in true New
- 36:05Speaker 3: York form, I go take a shower and I say
- 36:10Speaker 3: to my wife, hey, let me go get a coffee.
- 36:12Speaker 3: And I go down the elevator, I walk out the door.
- 36:15Speaker 3: And as I'm walking out the door, the doorman says,
- 36:19Speaker 3: a second plane is at the building. And I'm like, oh, okay.
- 36:22Speaker 3: I'm just still trying to catch up with what's going on.
- 36:25Speaker 3: Go across the road to the deli and there's many
- 36:31Speaker 3: more people in line than usual. So it's like 30
- 36:33Speaker 3: people in line at the deli. People are clearly not
- 36:36Speaker 3: sure what's going on. Everyone maybe just decided to go
- 36:41Speaker 3: to the deli. It was the strangest feeling. But there
- 36:43Speaker 3: was a radio playing and no one was panicking. It
- 36:48Speaker 3: was just more of a frozen feeling in the room.
- 36:52Speaker 3: I knew the deli well. They were my neighbor. So
- 36:55Speaker 3: I just grabbed some coffee and left a couple of
- 36:57Speaker 3: dollars on the cash register. And as I was doing
- 37:01Speaker 3: that over the radio, I heard, we all heard that
- 37:05Speaker 3: the Pentagon was hit. And that's when you could feel
- 37:11Speaker 3: everyone panic and just start running. And I had to
- 37:15Speaker 3: go upstairs, grab my wife. We started running. We got
- 37:20Speaker 3: to Canal Street by the time the first building fell.
- 37:24Speaker 3: And it was this white smoke coming to Canal Street,
- 37:30Speaker 3: stopped just before us. Anyone who was in that white
- 37:33Speaker 3: cloud of smoke would have lifelong issues. We were both
- 37:39Speaker 3: on this list of... We were required by law to
- 37:43Speaker 3: have an annual checkup to see if we were... We
- 37:46Speaker 3: were affected physically by 9-11. Thankfully, we were not. But
- 37:54Speaker 3: anyone who was in that cloud of dust... The.
- 37:56Speaker 2: Car is beautiful. Where did you end up going for it?
- 37:59Speaker 4: This exclusive place that Dad has connections with. They have
- 38:02Speaker 4: more cars for more dealerships than like anywhere else.
- 38:05Speaker 2: You have to put me in touch. What's it called?
- 38:07Speaker 5: It's Dunaidial.
- 38:09Speaker 2: Where?
- 38:11Speaker 4: Dunaidial.
- 38:12Speaker 5: There's an accent on the E.
- 38:15Speaker 2: Do you mean.
- 38:16Speaker 5: Yes, I got it on done deal cars.
- 38:17Speaker 4: Lift, please.
- 38:19Speaker 2: You're going past Kimmage? Oh, Kimmage.
- 38:21Speaker 1: No.
- 38:23Speaker 5: Done deal cars.
- 38:23Speaker 6: You couldn't possibly go anywhere else.
- 38:25Speaker 3: I remember cars driving out of it at high speed,
- 38:29Speaker 3: people holding onto the outsides of the cars, covered, caked
- 38:33Speaker 3: in this white dust. And we got to Union Square,
- 38:38Speaker 3: saw the second one fall. And, I mean, it was
- 38:42Speaker 3: like reality breaking. It was just so, so intense. We
- 38:49Speaker 3: ended up staying at my mom's place on 22nd Street
- 38:51Speaker 3: in Gramercy Park area. And my mom, who's a well-known dietician,
- 38:58Speaker 3: got a call to be offered a volunteer spot to
- 39:02Speaker 3: cook for the firefighters. And she, with a laugh, said,
- 39:05Speaker 3: you know, I don't really cook, but my son does.
- 39:09Speaker 3: And then they asked a few more questions, and I
- 39:12Speaker 3: had a security pass because my home was close to
- 39:15Speaker 3: the World Trade Center. So I had both a diploma
- 39:18Speaker 3: and a security pass. So in the middle of millions
- 39:20Speaker 3: of people trying to volunteer to help, literally from all
- 39:25Speaker 3: over the world, yeah I was I had this pass
- 39:29Speaker 3: and and so they said well we'd love his help
- 39:32Speaker 3: no promises but come down and peel potatoes and see
- 39:36Speaker 3: see what happens so I was so honored to go
- 39:40Speaker 3: there and spent six weeks 16 hours a day Uh,
- 39:45Speaker 3: we were cooked out of the back of a restaurant called,
- 39:47Speaker 3: which was a fine dining restaurant. But completely destroyed on
- 39:51Speaker 3: the front, but the back of house, and there was
- 39:53Speaker 3: this underground area was was was in good shape. So, we,
- 39:57Speaker 3: we cook for the firefighters. We would drive a TVs
- 40:00Speaker 3: with coolers of food to this gymnasium. It was remade
- 40:04Speaker 3: into a to a cafeteria and. These firefighters would come
- 40:09Speaker 3: from these giant piles of melting metal. I know your experience,
- 40:13Speaker 3: you probably remember these piles of melting metal. They were awful.
- 40:17Speaker 3: I mean, it smelled like the dentist. It was just
- 40:20Speaker 3: truly people were, it was just such a difficult thing
- 40:25Speaker 3: to experience. And these firefighters would come out of these
- 40:29Speaker 3: giant piles of melting metal. They would be covered in
- 40:32Speaker 3: their shells. They'd have this gray look on their faces.
- 40:36Speaker 3: And we would feed them. And during a 45-minute period,
- 40:40Speaker 3: they would eat food and they would start to come
- 40:43Speaker 3: back to life. And you'd see light in their eyes
- 40:46Speaker 3: and they'd start talking to each other. And then they
- 40:50Speaker 3: would put their shells back on and go back out
- 40:54Speaker 3: into these melting metal piles to save American lives. It
- 40:59Speaker 3: was just one of the most beautiful things I ever experienced.
- 41:05Speaker 3: I kind of told myself at that point, I just...
- 41:08Speaker 3: I just want to experience this for the rest of
- 41:10Speaker 3: my life. And for me, that meant opening a restaurant.
- 41:15Speaker 3: And that's really what gave me the bravery to open
- 41:17Speaker 3: a restaurant. It wasn't so much the financial stability, because
- 41:21Speaker 3: when you're an entrepreneur, you really are wearing your heart
- 41:23Speaker 3: on your sleeve. Yeah, sure, there's a financial risk. There's
- 41:26Speaker 3: also a financial upside. But the failure is right there
- 41:35Speaker 3: for everyone to see, especially in the restaurant world. And
- 41:40Speaker 3: it really gave me this conviction. It wasn't just conviction.
- 41:44Speaker 3: It was like I just did not have a choice.
- 41:46Speaker 3: I knew I had to do it.
- 41:51Speaker 1: Well, number one, I just want to say thank you
- 41:53Speaker 1: for sharing that story. So many people, you know, have
- 41:56Speaker 1: heard stories of people who lost their lives and they've
- 41:59Speaker 1: heard families describing those people to keep their memory alive
- 42:04Speaker 1: all these years. But you rarely hear about the volunteers
- 42:08Speaker 1: from down there. And I just wanted to share with
- 42:10Speaker 1: you that, you know, when Andy, so I was 26,
- 42:13Speaker 1: Andy was 32. He was in the second building to
- 42:16Speaker 1: get hit by the first building that fell. And, um,
- 42:20Speaker 1: I was working at Bloomberg news that day and it's
- 42:23Speaker 1: so funny, like you're saying, um, when the first plane hit,
- 42:27Speaker 1: we all thought, you know, we're on a newsroom floor
- 42:29Speaker 1: and we're watching it. And we immediately, like you assumed
- 42:32Speaker 1: it was some idiot that it was in a private plane, um,
- 42:36Speaker 1: that had made a mistake. And, um, In true New
- 42:39Speaker 1: York fashion, like you're talking about, you know, you don't
- 42:41Speaker 1: have any anxiety about it. You know, I just went
- 42:43Speaker 1: back to work. I was calling airlines. I was calling
- 42:46Speaker 1: analysts to find out how this was going to affect
- 42:48Speaker 1: the stock market open. You know, and I had Andy
- 42:51Speaker 1: on the phone with me telling me what he saw
- 42:54Speaker 1: in the building across the way. Which, you know, of course,
- 42:57Speaker 1: was terrible to hear and so upsetting. And I remember
- 43:02Speaker 1: he described it as seeing papers flying by his window
- 43:05Speaker 1: like butterflies. He said it was just so much. And
- 43:08Speaker 1: the first time that there was a sense of anxiety
- 43:11Speaker 1: was when he said, Rachel, I just watched somebody jump
- 43:13Speaker 1: out of the window.
- 43:14Speaker 3: Right.
- 43:16Speaker 1: Whatever they are going through and witnessing inside for it
- 43:19Speaker 1: to be a better option to jump. He's like, I, I,
- 43:23Speaker 1: I don't, I can't, I gotta get out of here. So, um,
- 43:26Speaker 1: at that point we were hanging up to have him
- 43:29Speaker 1: go down the stairs, even though I could hear on
- 43:32Speaker 1: the loudspeaker, they said, do not move, stay in place. Um,
- 43:36Speaker 1: and before I hung up my phone, um, the second
- 43:39Speaker 1: plane had hit, um, his, um, So I knew he
- 43:42Speaker 1: was still in there. And, you know, I was a
- 43:44Speaker 1: news reporter at the time. I was very good about facts.
- 43:47Speaker 1: I knew that the plane hit underneath him and I
- 43:49Speaker 1: still wasn't worried. You know, I thought, OK, he'll go
- 43:51Speaker 1: to the roof because we didn't have this like creativity.
- 43:54Speaker 1: It's a horrible word to use it, but I use
- 43:56Speaker 1: it all the time to think. that the buildings would
- 43:59Speaker 1: have fallen. No one thought that that could even be possible.
- 44:05Speaker 1: So I still wasn't nervous. And then when it did fall,
- 44:09Speaker 1: it was the most incredible feeling to watch him die really.
- 44:15Speaker 3: I mean, it's hard.
- 44:17Speaker 1: And then have my whole newsroom floor, the whole newsroom
- 44:19Speaker 1: floor got quiet and they all knew Andy and they
- 44:21Speaker 1: knew that he was reporting, you know, through me and
- 44:24Speaker 1: I was the one talking to the anchor stuck on
- 44:26Speaker 1: the news and we all knew the reality of it,
- 44:29Speaker 1: but you just hold out this hope that seems so ridiculous,
- 44:32Speaker 1: you know? So the streets, I was on 59th and
- 44:35Speaker 1: park at Bloomberg news and I went downstairs finally after
- 44:38Speaker 1: 12 o'clock and I Looked up the street and it's silent,
- 44:42Speaker 1: but all these people are walking up Park Avenue covered
- 44:45Speaker 1: in that white soot that you're talking about. And I
- 44:48Speaker 1: went home. I stayed at work till 5 o'clock that day,
- 44:50Speaker 1: just still not grasping what had just happened, really.
- 44:55Speaker 3: I mean.
- 44:56Speaker 1: And going back home and having every TV in my
- 44:59Speaker 1: apartment on and waiting for him to walk through the door,
- 45:01Speaker 1: knowing that he wouldn't. And, you know, I kept those
- 45:05Speaker 1: TVs on for a month. I didn't you know, I
- 45:07Speaker 1: just anyway. So I want to get to the point
- 45:09Speaker 1: that a couple of days later I had seen on a. um,
- 45:13Speaker 1: you know, on the internet or whatever, that his name
- 45:15Speaker 1: was found at one of the hospitals, which kind of,
- 45:17Speaker 1: that was a weird thing that everybody kept seeing random names.
- 45:20Speaker 1: So I went down to Belleville and, um, you know,
- 45:24Speaker 1: we all made those flyers for people that were missing,
- 45:26Speaker 1: which I don't know where that came from, but we
- 45:28Speaker 1: all just went to Kinko's made a flyer. So I
- 45:30Speaker 1: wrote what he was wearing that morning, what he was like, sorry.
- 45:35Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I'm.
- 45:37Speaker 1: And I went to Bellevue and he wasn't on the list, obviously.
- 45:41Speaker 1: But the reason why I tell you this is because
- 45:43Speaker 1: there was like a food truck, kind of. There were
- 45:45Speaker 1: these people that all they wanted to do was help
- 45:47Speaker 1: us and wanted to hear the stories and wanted to
- 45:51Speaker 1: hear about those people. And it was people like you.
- 45:54Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. It was people like you that made
- 46:00Speaker 1: such a difference. And it's obviously in my bones still today.
- 46:04Speaker 1: And I think it's in yours that obviously changed the
- 46:06Speaker 1: course of your life, helping people like me. But I
- 46:10Speaker 1: just want to say thank you. Because those were all
- 46:13Speaker 1: nameless people to me at the time. And I didn't
- 46:15Speaker 1: know who they were. And I know you were helping
- 46:17Speaker 1: the firefighters. But it was a moment of just having
- 46:21Speaker 1: something normal. Because we were forgetting to eat, right? We
- 46:23Speaker 1: hadn't eaten for days. Anyway, still thank you.
- 46:27Speaker 3: It took me like 10 years before I could even
- 46:30Speaker 3: speak about it. Yeah.
- 46:33Speaker 4: All right.
- 46:34Speaker 1: So sorry, let's move on. So you go from there
- 46:37Speaker 1: to Denver, right? You leave town eventually.
- 46:40Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 46:42Speaker 1: Tell me how you started your restaurant.
- 46:44Speaker 3: Yeah, I had, I think, a subconscious desire or need
- 46:51Speaker 3: to not be in New York, I'm sure because of 9-11. Yeah.
- 46:54Speaker 3: And looked for a place. We did a road trip
- 46:59Speaker 3: from New York to Chicago and Chicago West. So I
- 47:04Speaker 3: looked and drove through cities in Wyoming, Jackson Hole, Boulder, Denver,
- 47:11Speaker 3: Santa Fe, and then up the West Coast from San
- 47:15Speaker 3: Diego to Seattle. And the idea was to have a
- 47:19Speaker 3: place where we could have a family, where we could
- 47:21Speaker 3: have a restaurant. And I just loved the New York vibe.
- 47:26Speaker 3: world-class neighborhood restaurant. I mean, you just, New York has
- 47:29Speaker 3: a lot of great restaurants, but the real magic of
- 47:32Speaker 3: New York are these little neighborhood restaurants you've never heard of,
- 47:35Speaker 3: unless you live there, that, uh, they know you, they
- 47:38Speaker 3: connect with you. They, they're, they put love into their food.
- 47:42Speaker 3: And I wanted to recreate that in a, in a city, uh,
- 47:46Speaker 3: or a town with that, where we could also raise
- 47:47Speaker 3: a family. So one second. Um, We found Boulder. Boulder
- 47:59Speaker 3: is a wonderful town. If anyone has not been to Boulder,
- 48:02Speaker 3: it's worth checking out. It also has seasons. I grew
- 48:06Speaker 3: up in South Africa where I actually did have seasons.
- 48:08Speaker 3: We had winter and summer and fall and spring. I
- 48:12Speaker 3: didn't like California in that it just didn't have seasons.
- 48:16Speaker 3: I didn't like New York in that the winter was brutal.
- 48:18Speaker 3: I was like, okay, let's go find a place that
- 48:21Speaker 3: I resonated with and Boulder has a similar, I think
- 48:24Speaker 3: there's some conscious thing of wherever you grew up, but
- 48:27Speaker 3: it has a similar altitude to where I grew up.
- 48:29Speaker 3: It's a little higher, but it's similar. And at these
- 48:32Speaker 3: four seasons, it had a walkable town, kind of had
- 48:35Speaker 3: what I wanted. And my wife and I decided to
- 48:39Speaker 3: do our restaurant there. Well, first of all, I would
- 48:42Speaker 3: say we decided to spend a month there to just
- 48:44Speaker 3: get a feel for the town. But within a few days,
- 48:47Speaker 3: we were walking down the street, the main street in Boulder,
- 48:50Speaker 3: Pearl Street. My dog comes off the leash. It's a
- 48:53Speaker 3: black lab. It goes up to this person at a bakery,
- 48:57Speaker 3: just outside a bakery. And his name is Hugo Matheson.
- 49:01Speaker 3: And he's this English guy who said he was a chef.
- 49:04Speaker 3: And I said, I was a chef as well. And
- 49:05Speaker 3: looking to start a restaurant. He was the chef. the
- 49:08Speaker 3: head chef at a nearby restaurant. And he invited us
- 49:13Speaker 3: over for dinner and just out of the blue. And
- 49:17Speaker 3: I was like, well, when you're in New York, that's
- 49:20Speaker 3: an immediate no. Like if someone randomly says come over
- 49:23Speaker 3: for dinner, that's a no. And I was like, well,
- 49:25Speaker 3: wait a minute, we're not in New York. And I'm
- 49:29Speaker 3: pretty much a yes person, but still, this was a
- 49:31Speaker 3: big one. It's like, you know what, let's say yes
- 49:33Speaker 3: to this. I think this feels right. And we went
- 49:36Speaker 3: over to his home and kind of like I said earlier,
- 49:38Speaker 3: his Italian style of cooking, he did grilled sea bass
- 49:42Speaker 3: with some poached eggplants with some salsa verde, the recipes
- 49:47Speaker 3: in the cookbook. And the simplest meal you can imagine,
- 49:52Speaker 3: which is not something that I was trained on. I
- 49:54Speaker 3: was trained if it doesn't take you six hours to
- 49:56Speaker 3: cook the meal, it's not really, you know, really, you know,
- 49:59Speaker 3: putting the effort in. And he was able to do
- 50:01Speaker 3: it with the sort of touch of an Italian grandmother
- 50:03Speaker 3: who And I said, you know, I'd love to learn
- 50:06Speaker 3: from you. And I'm not 100% sure if Boulder was
- 50:11Speaker 3: a fit, but it felt good. And I have a
- 50:14Speaker 3: desire to open a restaurant. But until then, would it
- 50:17Speaker 3: be okay for me to work for you? And so
- 50:18Speaker 3: I worked as a line cook for him, $ 10 an hour.
- 50:22Speaker 3: Didn't need the money, but I also feel like... The.
- 50:25Speaker 2: Car is beautiful. Where did you end up going for it?
- 50:29Speaker 4: This exclusive place that Dad has connections with? they have
- 50:31Speaker 4: more cars for more dealerships than like anywhere else.
- 50:34Speaker 2: You have to put me in touch. What's it called?
- 50:36Speaker 5: It's Dunaidial.
- 50:38Speaker 2: Where? Dunaidial.
- 50:41Speaker 5: There's an accent on the E.
- 50:44Speaker 2: Do you mean.
- 50:45Speaker 5: Yes, I got it on Dundale Cars.
- 50:46Speaker 3: Lift? Please.
- 50:48Speaker 2: You going past Kimmage?
- 50:49Speaker 5: Oh, Kimmage.
- 50:50Speaker 3: No.
- 50:52Speaker 5: Dundale Cars.
- 50:53Speaker 6: You couldn't possibly go anywhere else.
- 50:55Speaker 3: Everyone should be paid for good hours of work. And
- 50:58Speaker 3: so I did that for about a year. And during
- 51:05Speaker 3: that time, I got to know him as a good friend.
- 51:07Speaker 3: And we talked about doing a restaurant together. And Jen, Hugo,
- 51:13Speaker 3: and I opened the kitchen in March of 2004.
- 51:16Speaker 1: And what was the concept for that that made it
- 51:22Speaker 1: different or you thought it would stand out?
- 51:24Speaker 3: Well, we came up with the name The Kitchen because
- 51:28Speaker 3: that's where everyone hangs out at a party. The pretense
- 51:32Speaker 3: is dropped. You know, you can throw a party, you
- 51:34Speaker 3: can put some great decorations everywhere, but actually everyone just
- 51:38Speaker 3: ends up at the kitchen. And so we love that
- 51:41Speaker 3: sort of communal reference. We love.
- 51:48Speaker 3: We are a pretty high-end restaurant, but if you go
- 51:51Speaker 3: to the restaurant, there's no tablecloths. At the time, it
- 51:55Speaker 3: wasn't very common for this concept of an upscale casual restaurant.
- 52:00Speaker 3: It's now much more common, but back in those days,
- 52:04Speaker 3: if you didn't have white tablecloths, you might as well
- 52:07Speaker 3: be Chili's or Applebee's. Right. Right. And we just didn't
- 52:12Speaker 3: have that attitude. And in New York, if you went
- 52:14Speaker 3: to your local neighborhood restaurant, the food was fantastic and
- 52:17Speaker 3: it was no tablecloths, right? So it was something that
- 52:21Speaker 3: was done, but it wasn't well-known outside of New York.
- 52:24Speaker 3: And so we had this vision of a world-class neighborhood
- 52:27Speaker 3: restaurant for Boulder. Hugo had this vision to work with
- 52:31Speaker 3: local farmers, which sounds weird to say this because we
- 52:36Speaker 3: became one of the founders of the Farm to Table
- 52:38Speaker 3: movement But the weird thing to say is I spent
- 52:42Speaker 3: years in New York training. No one ever talked about
- 52:45Speaker 3: where they got their ingredients. It just wasn't a thing.
- 52:49Speaker 3: And here was this English guy who had this Italian
- 52:53Speaker 3: training where it was actually all about the ingredients. And
- 52:57Speaker 3: I loved his style of cooking. And I said, okay, well,
- 53:00Speaker 3: why don't you work on getting the farmers on board
- 53:02Speaker 3: and I'll work on the business side of the restaurant.
- 53:04Speaker 3: We'll both be the chefs. And he had this wonderful
- 53:08Speaker 3: energy about him to recruit farmers into the restaurant world.
- 53:12Speaker 3: At the time, they were very skeptical about working with
- 53:14Speaker 3: restaurants and really were discouraged with working with them. There
- 53:19Speaker 3: was no technology at the time. Everyone used paper chits.
- 53:21Speaker 3: It wasn't like you could email your orders back and forth.
- 53:25Speaker 3: And that also was– it was 2004, so it was
- 53:29Speaker 3: an interesting time where I went after they agreed to
- 53:33Speaker 3: work with us, and I said– would you be open
- 53:35Speaker 3: to using a computer? Would you be open to using email?
- 53:39Speaker 3: And I remember taking one farmer to go to Best
- 53:42Speaker 3: Buy to buy them a computer. They paid for it,
- 53:45Speaker 3: but I was like, you're going to need help. And
- 53:48Speaker 3: I set them up with a computer, set them up
- 53:50Speaker 3: with a modem. Now what you do is when you
- 53:52Speaker 3: wake up in the morning, just email us what you've
- 53:54Speaker 3: got and we'll email you back what we want to order.
- 53:59Speaker 3: And I know it's so, like today it's so commonplace,
- 54:02Speaker 3: but in those days it was like, an epiphany for
- 54:06Speaker 3: these farmers who, who, um, they work on a different
- 54:09Speaker 3: schedule to the restaurant. So the restaurant, the farmers wake
- 54:12Speaker 3: up at 6 AM and their day is mostly done
- 54:15Speaker 3: by night. Right. And the restaurant world, you're, you're working
- 54:19Speaker 3: till midnight and your, your, your day doesn't start till
- 54:21Speaker 3: 11 AM. So you have this kind of disconnect. And
- 54:23Speaker 3: so with email, you were, we were able to, to communicate. And, uh,
- 54:29Speaker 3: and that's maybe one of our great gifts to the
- 54:32Speaker 3: movement was, uh, saying to farmers, giving them courage that
- 54:36Speaker 3: they could add these exciting technological platforms that now are
- 54:42Speaker 3: commonplace and still do their business. You know, they don't
- 54:46Speaker 3: have to be a different person.
- 54:47Speaker 1: Right. So now how many of the kitchens exist?
- 54:52Speaker 3: So we have three. We have Boulder, which is now
- 54:54Speaker 3: almost 20 years old. And actually the motivation for the
- 54:57Speaker 3: cookbook is 20 years. We thought it was time. And
- 55:00Speaker 3: then Denver, we opened in 2012. And Chicago, we opened
- 55:05Speaker 3: in 2014. And we're going to open Austin, Texas in
- 55:09Speaker 3: 2024 next summer.
- 55:11Speaker 1: Amazing. I've been to the one in Chicago a couple times.
- 55:14Speaker 1: Every time I go to Chicago, I go, and I
- 55:15Speaker 1: love it.
- 55:16Speaker 3: Oh, that's great.
- 55:17Speaker 1: Yeah, one of my favorites. All right, so you obviously
- 55:20Speaker 1: were doing some very revolutionary things with the kitchen when
- 55:22Speaker 1: it started, like you said, using local farmers to change
- 55:25Speaker 1: your menu every day, depending on what they had. Zero waste,
- 55:28Speaker 1: minimizing waste and composting. First wind-powered business in Colorado. Your nonprofit,
- 55:34Speaker 1: Big Green, that was founded in 2011, right?
- 55:38Speaker 2: Right.
- 55:39Speaker 1: It seems to be the perfect extension of this.
- 55:41Speaker 4: Right.
- 55:42Speaker 1: How did that get started?
- 55:43Speaker 3: Well, I think that actually came from us being a
- 55:46Speaker 3: world class neighborhood restaurant. We said to ourselves, how can
- 55:50Speaker 3: we be a good member of the community? And we
- 55:54Speaker 3: had an employee. His name is Bryce Brown, who was
- 55:57Speaker 3: one of our first employees who had a very strong
- 56:01Speaker 3: philanthropic ethos to him. And he said. he would love
- 56:06Speaker 3: to help us give back to the community. And we
- 56:09Speaker 3: were very open to it. We love Boulder. And he
- 56:13Speaker 3: started with, we were like, let's try and teach teenagers
- 56:17Speaker 3: cooking skills. And we thought, oh, that would be a
- 56:18Speaker 3: natural extension of it. What we learned was actually we're
- 56:22Speaker 3: a restaurant. We were super busy, very hard to give
- 56:26Speaker 3: people proper training. And then we started this idea of, well,
- 56:29Speaker 3: what if we took kids to farms because we have
- 56:32Speaker 3: all these farms we work with. That was beautiful, but
- 56:35Speaker 3: the farmers also could only do it on a certain cadence. Again,
- 56:39Speaker 3: they're also busy. And then Bryce, his name, he said,
- 56:44Speaker 3: you know, his grandfather did this thing in New Zealand
- 56:46Speaker 3: where they would put gardens in schools. And what about
- 56:52Speaker 3: if we tried that? And that's really where we sort
- 56:55Speaker 3: of hit our stride. And that was actually 2005, 2006.
- 56:56Speaker 3: But it was not us. We were supporting him as
- 56:59Speaker 3: a philanthropy. Like, you know, writing the check, but also
- 57:06Speaker 3: giving him some support, you know, people support, volunteers, so forth.
- 57:11Speaker 3: And then it wasn't until I had a very serious
- 57:14Speaker 3: accident in 2010. I went down a ski hill on
- 57:22Speaker 3: an inner tube, which is one of those children's runs.
- 57:24Speaker 3: It doesn't sound like a bad idea, but I'm six
- 57:27Speaker 3: foot five. It was a bad idea for going on
- 57:29Speaker 3: these tiny little tubes. The tube flipped, landed on my
- 57:33Speaker 3: head going 35 miles an hour.
- 57:34Speaker 6: Oh, wow.
- 57:36Speaker 3: My chest, my face was pushed down on my chest,
- 57:40Speaker 3: ruptured my spine open. I had C6, C7, paralyzed for
- 57:45Speaker 3: three days. And I really had, you know, I'm spiritual,
- 57:54Speaker 3: but I'm not religious, but I really had this voice
- 57:56Speaker 3: of God just speaking to me, saying that I need
- 58:01Speaker 3: to dedicate my life to kids and food. And I
- 58:04Speaker 3: was just, you're reading from it, you're really in a,
- 58:08Speaker 3: you're paralyzed. So the doctors were also saying to me,
- 58:12Speaker 3: the way I broke my neck is very rare, but
- 58:14Speaker 3: they can actually repair the spine, get the blood out
- 58:18Speaker 3: of the spine, which is apparently causing the paralysis. And,
- 58:21Speaker 3: you know, at the same time, I can't even think straight.
- 58:25Speaker 3: I'm hearing them say this and You know, the rational
- 58:28Speaker 3: part of me is like, oh, the doctor says I'm
- 58:29Speaker 3: going to be okay. But then I just look and
- 58:32Speaker 3: I realize I'm just tears were streaming down the side
- 58:35Speaker 3: of my face. I just really don't know what is
- 58:37Speaker 3: going on. But I had this very clear message. And
- 58:41Speaker 3: I had a successful surgery. I was horizontal for two months.
- 58:46Speaker 3: I had two years of rehab. And the message didn't
- 58:51Speaker 3: go away. And so Bryce, who was working in Boulder...
- 58:56Speaker 3: He and I talked about it and I said, you're
- 58:58Speaker 3: going to keep doing what you're doing in Boulder. We'll
- 59:00Speaker 3: keep supporting you. I'm going to take a lot of
- 59:02Speaker 3: what you're doing and replicate it around the country. And
- 59:06Speaker 3: so we started working in Denver and we started working,
- 59:08Speaker 3: this is 2011. in Chicago, and we started working in Memphis,
- 59:15Speaker 3: and each city we'd go to would be, we'd learn more,
- 59:19Speaker 3: and we, Jen, who's no longer my wife, but we
- 59:23Speaker 3: were separating at the time, we were still very close friends,
- 59:26Speaker 3: she designed the Learning Garden, which now became We were
- 59:30Speaker 3: deploying 100 schools at a time where we'd go build
- 59:33Speaker 3: these outdoor classrooms. And I was really able to take
- 59:36Speaker 3: my Silicon Valley learning around scale and apply it to
- 59:40Speaker 3: something as simple as school gardens. And it was this
- 59:46Speaker 3: beautiful journey of going out. By the time COVID hit,
- 59:51Speaker 3: We were in 650 schools. Wow. We had 200 schools
- 59:56Speaker 3: in Chicago, 140 in Memphis, 50 in Indianapolis, 80 in Denver,
- 1:00:00Speaker 3: 80 in L.A., and just working with 10,000 teachers, it
- 1:00:05Speaker 3: was phenomenal. And what was so sad about COVID was
- 1:00:11Speaker 3: obviously schools shut down, so you couldn't really work in
- 1:00:14Speaker 3: schools anymore. You can't do school gardens anymore. But even
- 1:00:19Speaker 3: after COVID was, well, they reopened schools, they wouldn't allow
- 1:00:23Speaker 3: outsiders onto the school grounds to just produce any COVID spread.
- 1:00:27Speaker 3: And so for about two years, we couldn't do the
- 1:00:30Speaker 3: work we were doing. And so we did a huge pivot.
- 1:00:34Speaker 3: We said, what if we take the trust we have
- 1:00:38Speaker 3: with our donors, the trust we have with the 10
- 1:00:41Speaker 3: years of experience, and we become a funder. So we
- 1:00:46Speaker 3: started to say, what about funding nonprofits that are in
- 1:00:48Speaker 3: Chicago or are in Memphis? They could take over the
- 1:00:51Speaker 3: work we're doing because getting on a plane, dangerous in
- 1:00:56Speaker 3: the pandemic, the schools didn't really want outsiders in. But
- 1:00:59Speaker 3: if you were a local nonprofit, they might be more
- 1:01:02Speaker 3: likely to skirt the rules because they're part of the neighborhood.
- 1:01:06Speaker 3: And it actually worked really well. So over the past
- 1:01:09Speaker 3: couple of years, we have 150 nonprofits that we support financially.
- 1:01:15Speaker 3: We bring them together as a community once a year
- 1:01:17Speaker 3: in Denver. When I say we, it's kind of like
- 1:01:23Speaker 3: this beautiful community. So they take the leadership themselves as well.
- 1:01:28Speaker 3: We were part of it as well. But we as
- 1:01:31Speaker 3: a community, we learn from each other. We share knowledge,
- 1:01:37Speaker 3: whether it's something as basic as accounting skills all the
- 1:01:39Speaker 3: way up to Here's a foundation that we think could
- 1:01:42Speaker 3: really work with more than one of our nonprofits together.
- 1:01:45Speaker 3: And so this mission of connecting kids to food has
- 1:01:54Speaker 3: been a journey. And where we are today is, I think,
- 1:01:56Speaker 3: maybe our most beautiful place ever.
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: Where do you guys see yourself going in the year 2024?
- 1:02:04Speaker 3: Well, I think what we've learned with this community of
- 1:02:06Speaker 3: nonprofits is we started out with this idea of, We're
- 1:02:11Speaker 3: going to fund folks almost like an investor, like an
- 1:02:14Speaker 3: angel investor model to nonprofits. And what we've learned is
- 1:02:18Speaker 3: actually the community itself is so powerful that where we
- 1:02:23Speaker 3: see it going is really building more engagement of the
- 1:02:28Speaker 3: community so that as a nonprofit, you don't feel so lonely. Yeah.
- 1:02:32Speaker 3: You may be the only one we're working with in Atlanta,
- 1:02:35Speaker 3: but actually there's plenty. There's another one in Savannah and
- 1:02:38Speaker 3: there's another one in Memphis, another one in Nashville. And
- 1:02:42Speaker 3: so bringing folks together, whether you're just doing it for
- 1:02:46Speaker 3: pure bonding purposes or you're actually learning really powerful things
- 1:02:49Speaker 3: from each other, that has become a beautiful end in
- 1:02:56Speaker 3: and of itself. Yeah. Yeah.
- 1:02:58Speaker 4: Right.
- 1:02:59Speaker 3: Okay.
- 1:02:59Speaker 1: Let's get to the kitchen cookbook. Cause you said you
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: started the kitchen 20 years ago. And now this is a,
- 1:03:05Speaker 1: first of all, the book is gorgeous. The photos, the
- 1:03:09Speaker 1: recipes are amazing. I was saying that I cannot wait
- 1:03:13Speaker 1: to be, you know, attempting this in my own kitchen. Incidentally,
- 1:03:17Speaker 1: I have a quick question for you. What are your
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: thoughts on these for people that cannot cook like me?
- 1:03:23Speaker 1: But like I'm I'm, My show is supported by a
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: lot of different food companies, you know, HelloFresh, you know,
- 1:03:31Speaker 1: all these different companies that deliver food to you already
- 1:03:34Speaker 1: somewhat prepped, you know, and cut up so that you
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: can make dinner or lunch, whatever, easier. Do you believe
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: in that kind of thing?
- 1:03:42Speaker 3: Do you see yourself going into that? A good friend
- 1:03:44Speaker 3: of mine is one of the co-founders of HelloFresh.
- 1:03:46Speaker 4: Oh, okay.
- 1:03:47Speaker 3: Patrick Drake. Hi, Patrick. I think cooking is wonderful. I
- 1:03:51Speaker 3: think cooking at home with your family is wonderful. I
- 1:03:53Speaker 3: think that you should do it in different ways. One
- 1:03:56Speaker 3: of the ways could be through HelloFresh. And one of
- 1:04:00Speaker 3: the ways could be as simple as one of the
- 1:04:02Speaker 3: recipes we've ever had in our cookbook is the best
- 1:04:05Speaker 3: tomato soup you've ever made, ever had, ever tasted. And
- 1:04:09Speaker 3: it's got four ingredients. And it takes a couple of
- 1:04:13Speaker 3: hours to do it correctly, but it's the easiest recipe
- 1:04:17Speaker 3: you can imagine. Or roasting a chicken. It's just the
- 1:04:20Speaker 3: easiest recipe you can imagine. Those kinds of recipes, I
- 1:04:26Speaker 3: really believe it's easy for people to have in their
- 1:04:28Speaker 3: back pocket that they can say, look, sure, I'm going
- 1:04:31Speaker 3: to get some help sometimes. I'm going to use a
- 1:04:34Speaker 3: cookbook or I'm going to use a service like HelloFresh.
- 1:04:38Speaker 3: And I have this in my back pocket. I know
- 1:04:40Speaker 3: how to pull a meal together pretty easily. So what
- 1:04:44Speaker 3: I did in the cookbook was at the kitchen, we
- 1:04:46Speaker 3: do seasonal American shared plates. We work with farmers or
- 1:04:52Speaker 3: I would say the suppliers of ingredients, the best quality
- 1:04:55Speaker 3: you can imagine. But many of our recipes are fairly complex.
- 1:05:00Speaker 3: But what that gives us over 20 years, I was
- 1:05:04Speaker 3: able to choose 100 recipes that that are meant for
- 1:05:08Speaker 3: the home cook. You can cook these absolutely delightful, wonderful
- 1:05:14Speaker 3: dishes that you can get at the kitchen as well,
- 1:05:19Speaker 3: but are well within the realm of a home cook.
- 1:05:24Speaker 3: Some that my 11-year-old daughter could cook and some that
- 1:05:30Speaker 3: would require a little bit more skill, but always with
- 1:05:33Speaker 3: the intention of cooking for your community at home.
- 1:05:36Speaker 1: Right. And I love that because, you know, when we've
- 1:05:38Speaker 1: gotten my daughter, who is 11 also, and I have
- 1:05:41Speaker 1: gotten those boxes from HelloFresh, she thinks it's really fun
- 1:05:44Speaker 1: to cook. And it's something that she can do with
- 1:05:46Speaker 1: me besides, you know, because otherwise she's in a room
- 1:05:48Speaker 1: on TikTok or something. So to me, that's like, but
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: it's definitely what you think.
- 1:05:53Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:05:53Speaker 1: So what you're saying is, is true though, because that is,
- 1:05:56Speaker 1: you know, whether it's 30 minutes from HelloFresh or something
- 1:05:59Speaker 1: that could take hours with you, but like, especially when
- 1:06:01Speaker 1: you put those pictures in there, that's so important because
- 1:06:03Speaker 1: you're like, this is what it could look like. And
- 1:06:07Speaker 1: I think that's, that's really important because, you know, when
- 1:06:09Speaker 1: I grew up, I was looking at like the Julia
- 1:06:11Speaker 1: Child's book or whatever, and it was a little boring
- 1:06:13Speaker 1: and all pages and pages of ingredients. And you were
- 1:06:16Speaker 1: just like, forget it. That's never going to happen.
- 1:06:17Speaker 3: But I have a pet peeve with cookbooks. They don't
- 1:06:23Speaker 3: give me a picture of the dish. I'm a chef.
- 1:06:27Speaker 3: I'm a trained chef. I know what I'm doing. I
- 1:06:30Speaker 3: find so much information that my eyes get from the picture.
- 1:06:35Speaker 3: They tell me how... I also can tell without even...
- 1:06:41Speaker 3: I personally have a lot of experience. I can tell
- 1:06:44Speaker 3: from a picture mostly how that dish was made. But
- 1:06:49Speaker 3: a regular home cook, if they have a picture, they
- 1:06:53Speaker 3: get excited. They go, oh, I want that. And I
- 1:06:57Speaker 3: made a point of every single dish in that every
- 1:07:02Speaker 3: single recipe, there is a photo of that dish. Some
- 1:07:06Speaker 3: of the photos are group photos where we have like
- 1:07:08Speaker 3: a group of people sharing food over a table, which
- 1:07:12Speaker 3: I love, which is really how people eat at the kitchen. Right.
- 1:07:16Speaker 3: sharing food and you know grabbing across the table and
- 1:07:19Speaker 3: kind of breaking bread with each other but every single
- 1:07:22Speaker 3: day every single recipe has a photo and as the
- 1:07:25Speaker 3: cook you could say oh yeah i i think i want.
- 1:07:27Speaker 1: That right so do you have a favorite.
- 1:07:32Speaker 3: Uh sure i mean i i would say um the
- 1:07:36Speaker 3: this is going to sound very simple but the uh
- 1:07:39Speaker 3: the bolognese bolognese sauce I'm so proud to say that
- 1:07:43Speaker 3: I think it's the best one in the world, and
- 1:07:46Speaker 3: I've tried all of them because I'm such a huge fan.
- 1:07:49Speaker 3: I would say the tomato soup is the best one
- 1:07:54Speaker 3: in the world that I know of, and I have
- 1:07:55Speaker 3: tried all of them. So I think that my favorites
- 1:07:58Speaker 3: are really the simple food. Okay. And then we have
- 1:08:01Speaker 3: a more complicated dish in there, which is the slow-roast
- 1:08:05Speaker 3: pork chop, which is a double-cut pork chop with spaetzle,
- 1:08:08Speaker 3: which is a German pasta dish. and roasted onions.
- 1:08:14Speaker 1: Wow, sounds delicious.
- 1:08:15Speaker 3: It's so good.
- 1:08:17Speaker 1: But all of these you could get in the restaurant
- 1:08:19Speaker 1: so you could see how it's supposed to taste, correct?
- 1:08:22Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. The kitchen does change the recipe. Our recipes
- 1:08:25Speaker 3: are seasonal, so depending on the season, you'll get it
- 1:08:29Speaker 3: or not. But bolognese will never go off the menu.
- 1:08:32Speaker 3: The tomato soup will never go off the menu.
- 1:08:34Speaker 1: Got it, okay.
- 1:08:34Speaker 3: There are some dishes that we might change around. But, yeah,
- 1:08:37Speaker 3: so I think for the most part, you'll be able
- 1:08:38Speaker 3: to experience it in the restaurant and then go home
- 1:08:40Speaker 3: and cook it at home. And our goal is for
- 1:08:44Speaker 3: it to be a joyful community experience. Okay.
- 1:08:47Speaker 1: Awesome. I love it.
- 1:08:48Speaker 3: All right.
- 1:08:48Speaker 1: Before we're done here, just very quickly, I have a
- 1:08:50Speaker 1: few rapid-fire questions for you. Is that okay?
- 1:08:53Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:08:58Speaker 1: How many cowboy hats do you now own?
- 1:09:02Speaker 3: Great question. So I've been at it now for nine years.
- 1:09:06Speaker 3: I have one hat per year. So I hang up
- 1:09:08Speaker 3: my hats at the end of each year and they
- 1:09:11Speaker 3: are really completely destroyed by the end of the year.
- 1:09:16Speaker 3: But they're kind of crumpled up and each one has
- 1:09:18Speaker 3: a different hat band. So I have seven of them
- 1:09:21Speaker 3: hanging up in my house. I'm wearing my eighth one.
- 1:09:25Speaker 3: And I believe this one will last through probably next
- 1:09:30Speaker 3: summer is my hope. And I'll get to hang up
- 1:09:35Speaker 3: the next one.
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: Do you have an area in your house, like you
- 1:09:37Speaker 1: know how some men have a closet that's just dedicated
- 1:09:40Speaker 1: to their sneakers? Are you going to have a closet
- 1:09:42Speaker 1: just dedicated to your hats eventually?
- 1:09:44Speaker 3: I have a wall in my office dedicated to my hats. Okay.
- 1:09:47Speaker 3: All right.
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: Perfect. What kind of a car do you drive?
- 1:09:52Speaker 3: I drive a Tesla. I drive a Model S. I
- 1:09:55Speaker 3: have loved that car since we brought it out in 2012.
- 1:10:01Speaker 3: I will say I am excited to switch it to
- 1:10:04Speaker 3: a Cybertruck. So I'm getting my Cybertruck really soon, and
- 1:10:09Speaker 3: I've never been a truck person, and all of a
- 1:10:13Speaker 3: sudden I am. I'm very excited about it.
- 1:10:15Speaker 4: Okay.
- 1:10:16Speaker 1: And if someone wants to get the Cybertruck, what color
- 1:10:18Speaker 1: is the best one? We only give it in one color. Oh,
- 1:10:22Speaker 1: is it black?
- 1:10:23Speaker 3: No, stainless steel. Oh, okay. Then it's up to you
- 1:10:27Speaker 3: to wrap it any way you want.
- 1:10:29Speaker 1: Amazing. Okay. I didn't know that. If you were on
- 1:10:32Speaker 1: a deserted island, what would be the one food you
- 1:10:36Speaker 1: could bring with you?
- 1:10:38Speaker 3: Roast chicken all day long. Okay.
- 1:10:41Speaker 1: Who is the most famous person in your phone?
- 1:10:44Speaker 3: In my phone. Well, my brother's a pretty well-known guy,
- 1:10:46Speaker 3: but if I... Oh, right.
- 1:10:47Speaker 6: I forgot.
- 1:10:47Speaker 3: That answers that. Other than my brother's my mom, so
- 1:10:52Speaker 3: I really have to go down the family. Right, exactly.
- 1:10:54Speaker 1: Oh, that's a great answer. Okay. What is the last
- 1:10:57Speaker 1: show you binged?
- 1:11:00Speaker 3: Oh, great question. At Winning Time. It's a basketball show
- 1:11:06Speaker 3: about the rise of the LA Lakers, and it's a
- 1:11:10Speaker 3: total binge-worthy show.
- 1:11:12Speaker 1: Okay. If you have one day full of freedom, like
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: free of responsibilities, how would you spend it?
- 1:11:22Speaker 3: You know, that's a great question. I love cooking. So
- 1:11:27Speaker 3: I would cook for my family and I would love
- 1:11:29Speaker 3: every moment of it.
- 1:11:31Speaker 1: Okay. Do you have plans to go up into space?
- 1:11:36Speaker 3: I think that I probably will at some point. It's...
- 1:11:40Speaker 3: Very exciting. I think my switchboard would be going for
- 1:11:45Speaker 3: a trip around the moon. Okay. Isn't that crazy to
- 1:11:49Speaker 3: even think we can say that out loud?
- 1:11:50Speaker 1: Yeah, completely crazy. Is it crazy that your brother is
- 1:11:53Speaker 1: the one making that a reality?
- 1:11:55Speaker 3: It's crazy. It's surreal.
- 1:11:57Speaker 1: I mean, surreal.
- 1:12:00Speaker 2: Okay.
- 1:12:00Speaker 1: I'm assuming you know how to pronounce Elon and Grimes'
- 1:12:04Speaker 1: children's names, but can you pronounce them for us? And
- 1:12:06Speaker 1: do you have a nickname for them?
- 1:12:09Speaker 3: Um, I, uh, I do, I do, uh, I will
- 1:12:13Speaker 3: say that it's all nicknames. And so for me, it's, uh, uh,
- 1:12:19Speaker 3: I will leave the names out of it because I'd
- 1:12:21Speaker 3: rather keep our family names out of it. But, uh,
- 1:12:22Speaker 3: but yeah. Okay. Okay.
- 1:12:24Speaker 1: So they are pronounceable within the family.
- 1:12:27Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.
- 1:12:30Speaker 1: Okay. Um, who was your first childhood crush?
- 1:12:34Speaker 3: Oh, cool. Um, Yeah, I, there was a wonderful, I mean,
- 1:12:42Speaker 3: I was quite young, actually. I was probably eight or
- 1:12:44Speaker 3: nine years old. And it was another girl named Kim.
- 1:12:48Speaker 3: And we were in school together. And it was obviously
- 1:12:51Speaker 3: the most platonic thing you can imagine at nine years old.
- 1:12:53Speaker 3: But it was actually something I'll never forget. It was very,
- 1:12:56Speaker 3: very beautiful.
- 1:12:57Speaker 1: Childhood crushes are the best. Okay, last question. What is
- 1:13:00Speaker 1: on your bucket list that you haven't done that you
- 1:13:02Speaker 1: really would like to do? Besides the things you're talking
- 1:13:04Speaker 1: about going into space, stuff like that.
- 1:13:06Speaker 3: You know, actually, I'm one of those humans that I
- 1:13:10Speaker 3: find something on my bucket list and I check it off.
- 1:13:12Speaker 3: So I just actually wanted to learn how to be
- 1:13:14Speaker 3: a skydiver. So I got my A license this past
- 1:13:18Speaker 3: year and got the courage to jump out of an
- 1:13:22Speaker 3: airplane 28 times, over 25 times to get a license.
- 1:13:27Speaker 3: So I'm still working on my next bucket list, but
- 1:13:30Speaker 3: just finished the last one.
- 1:13:32Speaker 2: Amazing.
- 1:13:32Speaker 1: Okay. Tell us where we can find the kitchen cookbook
- 1:13:36Speaker 1: and when it will be officially released.
- 1:13:38Speaker 3: Yeah, so please go to your local bookstore and order it.
- 1:13:42Speaker 3: You can order it ahead there. It comes out in March.
- 1:13:45Speaker 3: It'll come out in time for you to get some
- 1:13:47Speaker 3: for your mom for Mother's Day. It's also something you
- 1:13:49Speaker 3: can get now for a gift for Christmas. It'll come
- 1:13:52Speaker 3: out in March, but you can get the gift ahead
- 1:13:54Speaker 3: of time. And, of course, it's available on Amazon, Barnes
- 1:13:56Speaker 3: & Noble, and wherever books are sold.
- 1:13:58Speaker 1: And if you guys want to sample any of the
- 1:14:01Speaker 1: dishes like we've been talking about, please check out one
- 1:14:04Speaker 1: of the restaurants, the kitchen, in the places that we discussed.
- 1:14:08Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Kimball. I really appreciate you being
- 1:14:10Speaker 1: on the show.
- 1:14:11Speaker 3: Absolutely. My pleasure.
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- 1:14:49Speaker 3: Misunderstood. Misunderstood.
- 1:14:54Speaker 2: The car is beautiful. Where did you end up going
- 1:14:57Speaker 2: for it?
- 1:14:57Speaker 4: This exclusive place that Dad has connections with. They have
- 1:15:00Speaker 4: more cars for more dealerships than like anywhere else.
- 1:15:03Speaker 2: You have to put me in touch. What's it called?
- 1:15:05Speaker 5: It's Dunaidial.
- 1:15:07Speaker 3: Where?
- 1:15:09Speaker 1: Dunaidial.
- 1:15:10Speaker 5: There's an accent on the E.
- 1:15:13Speaker 2: Do you mean.
- 1:15:14Speaker 5: Yes, I got it on Dundale Cars.
- 1:15:15Speaker 4: Lift?
- 1:15:16Speaker 3: Please.
- 1:15:16Speaker 2: Are you going past Kimmage?
- 1:15:18Speaker 5: Oh, Kimmage.
- 1:15:19Speaker 3: No.
- 1:15:21Speaker 6: Dundale Cars. You couldn't possibly go anywhere else.