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90 Day Fiancé 1214 “On Borrowed Time” · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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Speaker 1: Hi, baby Booze, Welcome back to Vanity. Farah. My name
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Speaker 1: is Chris Farah and I am.
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Speaker 2: Still on the road. However, I am bringing you ninety
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Speaker 2: Day Fiance. This is season twelve, episode fourteen on Borrowed Time,
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Speaker 2: which is exactly what's happening for me right now.
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Speaker 1: This will be a one.
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Speaker 2: Part episode as I am going to breeze through a
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Speaker 2: lot get this done. And just because I am in
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Speaker 2: New York and I have a very packed schedule, however,
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Speaker 2: I have had a lot of fun. If you guys know,
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Speaker 2: I went to New Orleans last week, I will tell
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Speaker 2: you right now that just so happens. When I was
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Speaker 2: in New Orleans, I thought maybe I would see Medo
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Speaker 2: and Debbie. Now, however, the ninety Day Universe does give,
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Speaker 2: and what they gave was at the same time I
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Speaker 2: was there, they're filming the Florida Couple spin off all
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Speaker 2: the people that live in Florida, like they're having their
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Speaker 2: own show.
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Speaker 1: Now as you know. So it's like Elise is there.
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Speaker 1: I think it's like Lauren.
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Speaker 2: I think it's like, you know, y'are like all the
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Speaker 2: Florida peeps. So, having said that, while I was there,
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Speaker 2: I went vintage shopping and I'm in like a vintage
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Speaker 2: boutique off of Royale and I fully see Andrea and Lauren.
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Speaker 2: They walk right by me, and Lauren was like in
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Speaker 2: a heaven kind of situation because there's a bunch of
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Speaker 2: like Chanel and Lanvon there, so she's like looking at
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Speaker 2: all of that, and she looks up at me like
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Speaker 2: smiling because she's looking at the jewelry, and I'm like,
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Speaker 2: oh my god, that's hilarious.
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Speaker 1: And when he looked at me, there's a moment where
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Speaker 1: I'm like, do people know who I am?
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Speaker 2: I don't talk about Laurena and Andre a lot on
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Speaker 2: this on this podcast. There are people are people, and
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Speaker 2: no one's completely evil and no one's completely great, but
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Speaker 2: they're just not for me for a variety of reasons.
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Speaker 2: Sometimes I wonder, though, if all of the ninety day universe,
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Speaker 2: people that want to be in the world, like know
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Speaker 2: the podcasters, like, do.
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Speaker 1: They know my face?
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Speaker 2: Because there was a moment where I'm like, I think
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Speaker 2: he knows who I am. However, maybe he doesn't. Maybe
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Speaker 2: he was just like this girl's shopping. However, having said that,
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Speaker 2: I did have that moment, so I didn't say hi,
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Speaker 2: to them because I didn't want to, you know.
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Speaker 1: Just it didn't.
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Speaker 2: It's not for me, like I have to be in
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Speaker 2: a certain situation to a want to talk to someone
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Speaker 2: who doesn't I don't know very well, like my own socialness,
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Speaker 2: and also be I want to be able to I
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Speaker 2: want to talk to you, and that wasn't what was
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Speaker 2: happening there. However, I'm in now in New York, and
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Speaker 2: maybe I'll see someone here too, wouldn't it be great? Maybe,
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Speaker 2: like every time I go somewhere I see like a
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Speaker 2: Nine Day cast member, I will talk to someone if.
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Speaker 1: I see them in New York, I've decided. But New
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Speaker 1: Orleans was fun. New York is great.
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Speaker 2: I saw my friend Brian's softie show. If you are
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Speaker 2: a podcast listener, if you ever listen to a podcast
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Speaker 2: called Growing Shade and now it's called Attitudes. Brian hosts
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Speaker 2: that with my friend Aaron Well, Aaron Gibson, and they're great.
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Speaker 2: They're very funny. They have that podcast. Ye also I
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Speaker 2: think co hosts Ask Corona. So in the podcast space
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Speaker 2: you might know Brian. He has a show off Broadway.
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Speaker 2: If you're listening to this, there's one week more. Definitely
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Speaker 2: go see it.
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Speaker 1: It's great.
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Speaker 2: So all right, here we are, honeys, let's talk about
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Speaker 2: on borrow time.
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Speaker 1: We aren't we all are? I mean, who's not?
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Speaker 2: Just because I wish that time wasn't borrowed, but it's
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Speaker 2: like we definitely don't have control over it. Okay, Marissa
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Speaker 2: and Edward, So I am happy about the scene. She
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Speaker 2: is taking him to a bar class. She loves that bar, honey,
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Speaker 2: and he is in fact always sort of having to
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Speaker 2: infiltrate her like highly fem spaces like going to Kleinfeld's,
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Speaker 2: going to this bar class, like going you know, power
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Speaker 2: walking around in the neighborhood. She's always sort of like
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Speaker 2: making him, you know, forcefully enter her world. And I
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Speaker 2: would love to see her do something for him, like
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Speaker 2: enter his world or space or have to like allow
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Speaker 2: him to lead in an experience that he knows and
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Speaker 2: she's a visitor of, if that makes sense, Because I
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Speaker 2: think that there's something so interesting about seeing both people
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Speaker 2: of different cultures experience the otherness that they feel in
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Speaker 2: a space that the that their beloved beholds, if that
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Speaker 2: makes sense. So instance, right, she's teaching this bar class,
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Speaker 2: so obviously Edward's a fish out of water, right, and
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Speaker 2: so he's there and she's like, we get to see
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Speaker 2: a lot of what she's already done, controlling training, telling
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Speaker 2: him what to do, telling what to do. Don't use
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Speaker 2: these weights, don't use those weights. Oh you want to
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Speaker 2: use those weights. Those are stupid. You're making a stupid decision.
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Speaker 1: You don't know. Listen to me. Which here and now
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Speaker 1: we can say if you've ever taken a plates or
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Speaker 1: bar class, that she's right. Of course, you know, there
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Speaker 1: is longer reps and it is very hard. You know.
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Speaker 2: I love I miss bar classes. I love polates. Matt
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Speaker 2: really loved that kind of thing. It's funny because bar
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Speaker 2: classes were such a hot commodity with all of the
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Speaker 2: like cardio barn, the bar method and everything, and then
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Speaker 2: it's felt like it stopped. But we're sort of at
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Speaker 2: the tail end of the boutique fitness craze. I mean,
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Speaker 2: it feels like there's still a lot of people doing
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Speaker 2: heated classes. Like now that's the thing, like a heated class,
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Speaker 2: heated pilates, heated bar honey, heated yoga. But I mean,
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Speaker 2: as someone who like soul cycled her way into like
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Speaker 2: the mid auts, it is a different space.
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Speaker 1: So she thinks that everything is going well for them.
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Speaker 2: Obviously they had a hard week last week and now
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Speaker 2: everything is going swimming late. That is like, what kind
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Speaker 2: of what's happening for a lot of couples. A lot
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Speaker 2: of the drama that we've been seeing suddenly, like the
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Speaker 2: past two weeks have been just great.
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Speaker 1: So they've been living their lives. Honey. She's like, we
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Speaker 1: even got a dog. I'm thinking that.
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Speaker 2: The dog will help improve the relationship. I'm like, oh
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Speaker 2: my god, that never works. What is that a baby?
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Speaker 1: Honey? Is that a band aid baby? Is that what
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Speaker 1: that dog is? A band aid baby?
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Speaker 2: When people say stuff like that and you hear it,
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Speaker 2: aren't you just like, did you hear that too? You
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Speaker 2: think that this you think this animal is gonna improve
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Speaker 2: your relationship because like, what your relationship needs is this animal,
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Speaker 2: and the magic in love with this animal is not
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Speaker 2: gonna rub off and I'm sorry, it's not gonna run
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Speaker 2: out and you're just going to be stuck with the.
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Speaker 1: Person you don't already like.
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Speaker 2: So you know, he gets a long hug from her,
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Speaker 2: so he's excited. He does his class. She's been teaching
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Speaker 2: for like twelve years.
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Speaker 1: Honey.
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Speaker 2: There's just a lot of white ladies, a lot of
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Speaker 2: like middle aged ladies, you know.
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Speaker 1: What I'm saying. And he's just you know, at home.
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Speaker 1: So let's move on to Katie and Josh.
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Speaker 2: So, I mean, I'm gonna say about that bar class
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Speaker 2: he you know, it's hard for him.
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Speaker 1: She's like, you're I told you'd be hard.
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Speaker 2: Dustly ends, okay, So because it's kind of like what else,
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Speaker 2: Like what's interesting that happens other than that? Is like
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Speaker 2: he was like I was gonna leave, and then they
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Speaker 2: have like a horrible date and then she gets mad
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Speaker 2: at the date.
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Speaker 1: Like that's why.
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Speaker 2: It's like, oh, she's just like I'll be annoying on
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Speaker 2: this date, like, don't bring up bad things, and he
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Speaker 2: just wants to talk about his feelings and she's like,
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Speaker 2: I told you have to do something. And then then
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Speaker 2: she gets patty because he didn't believe he didn't do
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Speaker 2: what she wanted.
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Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm like all over the place. It's just that
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Speaker 1: she can't just enjoy her life.
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Speaker 2: She can't just like I would love an episode where
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Speaker 2: they like knowingly get her super stoned, like I need
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Speaker 2: to see this person fucking let go, Like what is
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Speaker 2: this person like when she isn't hyper controlling or isn't
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Speaker 2: trying to like make everyone do what she wants them
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Speaker 2: to do at all times. Can we get this person
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Speaker 2: like a Xanax bar for an episode and see what
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Speaker 2: it's like talk about xanx. Oh my god, guys, sorry,
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Speaker 2: this is ADHD ready for this in the ninety day world,
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Speaker 2: I was gonna bring this up. Well, okay, I'm gonna
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Speaker 2: bring Okay, I know what I'll do. I'll bring this
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Speaker 2: up in transition. So there are two guys in the
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Speaker 2: ninety day universe that are going on TikTok lives and
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Speaker 2: they are ruining whatever faith we had in them. What
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Speaker 2: am I talking talking about? I'll tell you so. Rashid,
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Speaker 2: who we have grown to love, who we think is hilarious, great, fun, interesting, sweet, nice,
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Speaker 2: cannot get off. TikTok cannot do it. Is on honey
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Speaker 2: TikTok all day long. And he is like vulgar ref
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Speaker 2: He loves like mimicking moral sex or talking about pussy,
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Speaker 2: which God bless, I mean, so do I. But come on,
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Speaker 2: you know I'm saying like a lot. He's always like listening.
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Speaker 2: He's just he's not the person that we thought he was.
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Speaker 2: On the show, and he's been slipping in to people's dms.
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Speaker 2: What kind of people, female people? What is he doing
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Speaker 2: asking for pictures? So that's one thing where it's like
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Speaker 2: and the reason why I actually had brought this up,
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Speaker 2: and I should have brought up this moment first and
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Speaker 2: then moved on to Rashid. But you know, God Bless
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Speaker 2: is that Andrea of Libyan Andrea has also been on
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Speaker 2: TikTok Live basically begging for money. And what he looks
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Speaker 2: like is someone who has definitely done all the.
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Speaker 1: Xanax bars in Florida. Like he looks.
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Speaker 2: Definitely zoned out, zonkeed out. You know what I'm saying,
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Speaker 2: I'm like, give Marissa some of that. So that's what
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Speaker 2: I was gonna transition is that he needs to take Xanax.
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, she needs to take Xanax.
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Speaker 2: Andre has some Andre has been like weird on TikTok
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Speaker 2: and they are obviously grifter losers who just want to
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Speaker 2: ask for money, and you are just relying on for.
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Speaker 1: Some reason enough.
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Speaker 2: Online fans to give them like three dollars to like
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Speaker 2: a mass enough money for the month, which is God Bless.
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Speaker 2: I'm trying to guess I guess. I guess I'm trying
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Speaker 2: to do the same thing, ha ha ha, but in
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Speaker 2: a different way. So and then of course Rash being
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Speaker 2: gross online. So those are the two dudes ruining our lives. However,
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Speaker 2: let's move on to you know, to our peeps. Did
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Speaker 2: Mal write rash sheet? We are they on this episode?
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Speaker 2: Oh no, they weren't. That's why I'm not going to
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Speaker 2: transition to them. They're not on this episode. Okay, sorry,
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Speaker 2: my loves. However, you know who is Katie and Josh.
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Speaker 2: So we start with the GoPro of them bicycle riding.
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Speaker 1: She looks cute.
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Speaker 2: She's wearing like a black leather jacket and like a
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Speaker 2: straight laid, straight leg jean, which you.
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Speaker 1: Know is in and I wish I could also run.
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Speaker 1: I just feel like it's so hard for me to go.
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Speaker 2: Jean shopping, Like, is there anything worse than having to
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Speaker 2: get jeans or a bathing suit?
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Speaker 1: For some reason?
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Speaker 2: Why is like that so much harder than a dress
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Speaker 2: for me or shoes or like it's just knowing I
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Speaker 2: have to either buy a bathing suit or jeans means
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Speaker 2: that I'm gonna have to like take one or two
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Speaker 2: days and I have to like prep in such a
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Speaker 2: way where I'm wearing certain things and I you know,
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Speaker 2: have you know, like for some reason an in shopping
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Speaker 2: experience in store which almost never happens in twenty twenty six,
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Speaker 2: to really get something done with a lot of patience
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Speaker 2: and a lot of compassion for myself, and really do
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Speaker 2: I have that?
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Speaker 1: I need jeans?
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Speaker 2: However, you know Katie, I want to give her a
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Speaker 2: grace when she has it.
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Speaker 1: She looks cute. They set up a picnic, so this
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Speaker 1: is adorable, a Portland picnic.
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Speaker 2: And you know, we know what she wants to do.
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Speaker 2: She wants to come in hot with her want of
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Speaker 2: the day, and that is to be in an open relationship.
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Speaker 2: And she's proud of herself and she feels like she
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Speaker 2: can ask for this because she has had one night,
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Speaker 2: one good moment.
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Speaker 1: Where she has.
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Speaker 2: Done what she should always be doing, which is respecting
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Speaker 2: his boundaries.
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Speaker 1: So she's like, guess what for my bachelorette party that
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Speaker 1: which was a funeral.
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Speaker 2: I didn't make out with anyone. I didn't even ask to.
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Speaker 2: I didn't get black out drunk, so anyway I would.
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Speaker 2: And he actually did get drunk, and he got drunk
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Speaker 2: because he was watching the news and then sort of
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Speaker 2: like internalizing.
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Speaker 1: I'm sure time when this was happening.
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Speaker 2: I think I'm assuming it's the height of ice and
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Speaker 2: all that stuff, which is still happening, But you know
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Speaker 2: what I'm saying, when there was, I don't know. It
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Speaker 2: seems like maybe this was at that time where he
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Speaker 2: started to internalize a lot of like anxiety and fear,
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Speaker 2: which I understand as an immigrant and not knowing if
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Speaker 2: he's welcome or wanted here in America. And she listens
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Speaker 2: to this with what feels like the empathy of a shoehorn.
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Speaker 2: None of this is what she wants to hear because
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Speaker 2: she wants him to be in a great mood.
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Speaker 1: She wants him to.
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Speaker 2: Congratulate her on her excellent behavior so she can come
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Speaker 2: and strong with what she wants to do. But instead
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Speaker 2: she sets up this picnic and he's like, wah, wah,
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Speaker 2: America hates me. And so she knows it's going to
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Speaker 2: be like, uh oh, well, unrelated. I don't want to
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Speaker 2: be like always fucking.
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Speaker 1: Just you, you know.
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Speaker 2: So she really has a lot of awkward, like fun
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Speaker 2: face moments where she listens to him and she's like,
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Speaker 2: I'm sorry you feel that way.
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Speaker 1: Because she doesn't want to have to. It doesn't.
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Speaker 2: She is a selfish person. She's she's in her mind
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Speaker 2: in such a way that she's focused on herself. It's
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Speaker 2: very difficult for her to feel empathy or put herself
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Speaker 2: in another person's shoes. So for her to really sit
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Speaker 2: in Josh's like pain is not something that I feel
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Speaker 2: like she's probably ever done. It feels like she just
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Speaker 2: acknowledges it, sees it from her like vantage point, and
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Speaker 2: then like makes whatever kind of awkward you know, methodical comment.
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Speaker 2: She can say that like bridges her understanding of her
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Speaker 2: experience with whatever he said, and then move on so
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Speaker 2: that she doesn't have to like enjoy the awkwardness much longer,
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Speaker 2: if that makes sense.
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Speaker 1: You know.
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Speaker 2: And again she's on cloud nine, just like you know,
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Speaker 2: fun night, She's like, I had such a blast writing
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Speaker 2: around a limma with my girls, and he's like, yeah,
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Speaker 2: you know, I literally thought that you were gonna call
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Speaker 2: me and say, HOPI fell on someone's face.
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Speaker 1: He does like an impression of.
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Speaker 2: Her, which is always like my favorite thing to hear
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Speaker 2: someone who has an accent, specifically do an impression of
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Speaker 2: someone else. Always so great, right anytime, you know, I
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Speaker 2: love accents, but if I find someone with an accent
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Speaker 2: that I feel like I have some sort of camaraderie with,
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Speaker 2: at some point I'll be like, can you do me?
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Speaker 2: Like I can do you or not, but like, you know,
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Speaker 2: specifically with a British person or whatever. I'll just be like,
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Speaker 2: this is what you sound like, and I'll do whatever
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Speaker 2: best I can be like, now you do me. It's
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Speaker 2: so fun. It's so fun to hear someone with an
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Speaker 2: accent do a version of whatever you who you are
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Speaker 2: in this case, and I'm American, right, so I was like,
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Speaker 2: oh okay, and it was almost like a brief moment
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Speaker 2: of humor from him.
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Speaker 1: Made me happy.
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Speaker 2: He feels like trust has been rebuilt because of her
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Speaker 2: one night, and I think that's why. She's like, great,
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Speaker 2: that sounds great, she says. When he talks about his
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Speaker 2: like sort of feelings about what's happening in America, she says,
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Speaker 2: what can I do to make you feel more welcome?
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Speaker 2: And then he says, thank you so much, thank you
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Speaker 2: for asking, And I love that I can be vulnerable
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Speaker 2: around you.
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Speaker 1: She says, oh, yeah, that's great. Do you know what
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Speaker 1: the thing is? Though? I wish I could be vulnerable
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Speaker 1: around you.
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Speaker 2: I love that you feel like the way around me,
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Speaker 2: and I love that I've made that.
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Speaker 1: Space really comfortable and open for you.
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Speaker 2: But I'll tell you what, I don't feel that from
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Speaker 2: you because I want to be able to tell you
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Speaker 2: something and I don't want you.
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Speaker 1: To get upset. He's like, oh no, he's literally in
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Speaker 1: a land minefield.
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Speaker 2: He realizes that he thought he was sitting down for
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Speaker 2: a picnic, but he stepped upon a motherfucking landmine. He's like, Ah,
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Speaker 2: what the fuck is or something you want to say
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Speaker 2: to me that you feel awkward or uncomfortable about that?
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Speaker 2: Somehow it's my fault about is that what you're saying?
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry? So I picking up?
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Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying you need to express something
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Speaker 2: that you don't want to talk about. That is somehow
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Speaker 2: my fault for making you feel bad about what is?
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Speaker 1: It? Can't wait? So she like lays it out.
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Speaker 2: She's like, you know how we're getting married and you
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Speaker 2: know how that thing where it's like, oh my god,
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Speaker 2: because I can't imagine limiting my experiences in life.
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Speaker 1: He's like what. She's like, you know, it's just like
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Speaker 1: I want to get married to you. Love you so much.
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Speaker 2: It's just that in the future, I can't imagine always
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Speaker 2: saying no to like every pair of lips that crosses
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Speaker 2: my way.
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Speaker 1: For the rest of my life. You know what I'm saying.
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Speaker 2: He's like, yeah, I mean, I know what you're saying.
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Speaker 2: That's like we're getting married. It's like, here's the thing.
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Speaker 2: I want to get married because I want to settle
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Speaker 2: down and have them kids, have a family, have a home,
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Speaker 2: do the things that, like, you know, what will make
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Speaker 2: me feel quote unquote normal or part of the world,
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Speaker 2: or feel like I did it. I feel a little
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Speaker 2: less than humankind. Sometimes my name is Josh, and so
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Speaker 2: I allow things that I feel like, you know, other
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Speaker 2: people wouldn't. But it's because I'm trying to get to
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Speaker 2: the end. And the end is like some sort of
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Speaker 2: life where I have a wife and a house and
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Speaker 2: a child, and so I've done it, Like that's what
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Speaker 2: makes me feel like a winner.
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Speaker 1: I'm Josh. And she's like, you know what makes me
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Speaker 1: feel like a winner.
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Speaker 2: I'm Katie, like making out with whoever I want to
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Speaker 2: make out life And he's like, those feel incongruent. But
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Speaker 2: he met her doing the thing that she wanted to do,
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Speaker 2: and I don't remember hearing from her lips ever, anything
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Speaker 2: about can't like wanting to settle, why to have a home,
17:43
Speaker 2: why to have kids. It's like, yeah, he just he
17:48
Speaker 2: put on her all the things that he wants. I
17:50
Speaker 2: don't feel like she wants it, and I feel like
17:52
Speaker 2: he knows she doesn't want it, which makes me feel
17:54
Speaker 2: weird about that he is.
17:58
Speaker 1: Not picking up those cues.
18:01
Speaker 2: It's funny because every time he's in a confessional, Josh
18:04
Speaker 2: will like be very direct. He'll be like, Katie starts
18:08
Speaker 2: telling me that she wants to be in an open
18:10
Speaker 2: relationship and that's never what it's been like, and I'll
18:13
Speaker 2: never be in an open relationship. That's crazy. And then
18:17
Speaker 2: we get a shot of Josh, like at the picnic
18:19
Speaker 2: with her being like, so, what you're saying is you
18:22
Speaker 2: don't know if you want to commit monogamously. I thought
18:28
Speaker 2: this was monogamous and she's like, well, I don't know,
18:30
Speaker 2: you know, it's Katie blinking like that. It's like he
18:34
Speaker 2: he can have the propensity to be direct. I don't
18:37
Speaker 2: know if it's just the twenty twenty hindsight after he
18:40
Speaker 2: processes what happens in the moment and he realizes that
18:43
Speaker 2: his point of view is valid to him enough that
18:45
Speaker 2: he feels like he can put ten toes down, but
18:48
Speaker 2: in the moment.
18:48
Speaker 1: He doesn't know if he's right.
18:50
Speaker 2: Like, it's such an interesting change from the Josh And again,
18:53
Speaker 2: it's not that he's like super demanding in the confessionals,
18:56
Speaker 2: but there's a marketed change in how direct and assertive
18:59
Speaker 2: he is for him boundaries in the confessional afterward than
19:02
Speaker 2: when we ever see him talk to Katie. Right, I
19:08
Speaker 2: just wonder to give you guys pick up on that too. Okay,
19:11
Speaker 2: Meto and Debbie, I am so said. I didn't run
19:13
Speaker 2: into Meto and Debbie Honey and New Orleans. And at
19:15
Speaker 2: the same time, I do feel like I walked by
19:17
Speaker 2: this cooking class school. So that's what's happening. Their fun
19:20
Speaker 2: thing is now we're supposed to believe, Honey that they're
19:22
Speaker 2: also doing great. Don't worry, they're great.
19:26
Speaker 1: They're going to this cooking class.
19:28
Speaker 2: And she's like, we're gonna make Marcone and I have
19:32
Speaker 2: For a moment, I'm like, oh my god. She's like
19:35
Speaker 2: marcroo and pasta spaghetti, and so I was like, oh
19:38
Speaker 2: my god, they're going to an.
19:39
Speaker 1: Egyptian cooking class in New Orleans, and.
19:42
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, how interesting, because that is the
19:44
Speaker 2: thing that I kind of want sometimes for ninety day
19:47
Speaker 2: fiancee to do, which is also involved the American in
19:50
Speaker 2: doing something that's culturally representative of the of the foreigner,
19:54
Speaker 2: so that we see both sides of the fish out
19:56
Speaker 2: of water. That's kind of what I was saying with
19:58
Speaker 2: Edward and Marissa, right, like, we have an experience Marissa
20:00
Speaker 2: in an Edward space, and obviously you know you have
20:03
Speaker 2: to find one and whatever means that is now. For
20:06
Speaker 2: a moment, I was like, oh, yeah, they.
20:07
Speaker 1: Found an Egyptian space where they're going to make Egyptian food.
20:10
Speaker 1: But that's not the case.
20:11
Speaker 2: So once I realize that, I'm like, oh, she just
20:13
Speaker 2: said that there is an Egyptian dish called Marconi bechamel
20:16
Speaker 2: or something like that.
20:18
Speaker 1: It's literally pasta.
20:20
Speaker 2: It's elbow macaroni and like lentils and like a tomato sauce.
20:25
Speaker 1: It's interesting.
20:26
Speaker 2: Sometimes Arabs do like a version of Arab kind of
20:30
Speaker 2: Mediterranean kind of pasta e or like pizza e food.
20:32
Speaker 2: It's always the pizzas are different, but lapasta is always
20:35
Speaker 2: kind of interesting. I'm not a big fan of like
20:38
Speaker 2: levinine or Arab pasta dishes.
20:40
Speaker 1: That's just me anyway. So he is doing him. You know,
20:46
Speaker 1: one thing that Meto loves to do is like his
20:49
Speaker 1: very like hard fast, dismissive Arab hand gestures.
20:53
Speaker 2: It usually is like a hand that is palm out
20:57
Speaker 2: straight and then it has this beat where the hits
21:00
Speaker 2: a bottom and then comes back up like a little
21:04
Speaker 2: trampoline jump. If that makes sense. I'm doing it right now.
21:07
Speaker 2: If you're watching on YouTube, and he does it a lot,
21:09
Speaker 2: he tries to make his point almost it's like a
21:11
Speaker 2: hand gabble and it feels yeat, like I've said what
21:16
Speaker 2: I said, this is what it is.
21:17
Speaker 1: It feels dismissive in his weight. It's not just Mito.
21:21
Speaker 2: It feels like this very specific hand gesture that a
21:25
Speaker 2: lot of Arabs do.
21:27
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, hullous. I would call it the Hullis hand gesture.
21:32
Speaker 2: But you know you do you So he's doing that
21:35
Speaker 2: talking about you know, her being you know, whatever cook
21:37
Speaker 2: she is and him doing whatever he is.
21:40
Speaker 1: She wants him to cook more because she comes home
21:42
Speaker 1: at five thirty.
21:43
Speaker 2: So she's breaking into this class being like we'll both
21:45
Speaker 2: learn how to cook, but also you pull your weight.
21:47
Speaker 2: I work till five thirty. He's like, okay, so they
21:51
Speaker 2: have to like get in there and first things. First
21:54
Speaker 2: is like butcher the shit out of some shrimp and
21:56
Speaker 2: it grosses her out. It grosses me out, but I
21:59
Speaker 2: know that kind of stuff. It is always interesting. We
22:04
Speaker 2: don't watch hands work with meat, any kind of meat.
22:08
Speaker 2: It's not fun for me to like really butcher or
22:11
Speaker 2: get into animal protein of any kind.
22:15
Speaker 1: It's underneath those nails, honey.
22:17
Speaker 2: I mean, nothing's worse than like food just underneath nails,
22:24
Speaker 2: embedded in nail bed because your hand has just been in.
22:30
Speaker 1: Carnage. So she's like, you know, I make things. He's like,
22:35
Speaker 1: what do you make? She's like, I make my specialties
22:38
Speaker 1: tuna with eggs. I'm sorry, what what do you mean?
22:46
Speaker 1: All right? This is where I'm gonna be honest with you.
22:48
Speaker 2: I obviously I don't like fish, so I don't know
22:51
Speaker 2: what's real and what's not real in my life though,
22:56
Speaker 2: And is this a California thing? I have never heard
22:58
Speaker 2: of tuna with eggs never. I've heard of blocks on
23:03
Speaker 2: a bagel.
23:04
Speaker 1: I has just never heard of tuna in the morning,
23:08
Speaker 1: never tuna and eggs like, is it a scramble?
23:15
Speaker 2: Oh my god. When she said that, I was like,
23:16
Speaker 2: I'm on his side. She's like, he's like, that's not cooking.
23:19
Speaker 2: I'm like, it's travesty. It's a tragedy. It's a nightmare
23:23
Speaker 2: if it is.
23:26
Speaker 1: So, yeah, he just has to listen to her.
23:32
Speaker 2: And the funniest thing he does the whole season, and
23:34
Speaker 2: I think this is true, is that she says, you know, like, yes,
23:36
Speaker 2: it's cooking, and he takes a beat, looks at her
23:40
Speaker 2: and just very dryly is like, no, it was.
23:45
Speaker 1: His best work to me all season.
23:49
Speaker 2: So then the chef that's like, you know, forced to
23:51
Speaker 2: be here on camera and hopefully getting some appearance fees,
23:55
Speaker 2: has to sit there while she's like, let me tell
23:56
Speaker 2: you what o' sor ry, let me get it.
23:58
Speaker 1: She's like, she's like, let me tell you the fun
23:59
Speaker 1: thing that he did.
24:01
Speaker 2: Yeah, when he proposed to me, he actually pretended he
24:03
Speaker 2: was going to leave me and go back to his country.
24:06
Speaker 1: So funny, it's not funny.
24:10
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I know, I know.
24:13
Speaker 1: I loved it. I'll tell you he's such a.
24:18
Speaker 2: That's who I'm married, you know, Like the chef has
24:20
Speaker 2: to be like it's wow, what a romantic story. I
24:25
Speaker 2: really think you're going to like work. She's like, yeah,
24:29
Speaker 2: you know, he shows love differently than American men.
24:34
Speaker 1: And I'll be honest in that when I'm.
24:38
Speaker 2: Dated Arab men, that's true, but not in the way
24:41
Speaker 2: in which he's showing it.
24:44
Speaker 1: Anyway.
24:45
Speaker 2: They do sit down to eat. It's been there since
24:49
Speaker 2: their first date, since they got engaged. He says that
24:52
Speaker 2: he's happy, and she says, I love you, and he
24:55
Speaker 2: takes a beat and then says I love you too
24:57
Speaker 2: and kisses her hand. She's like, that was the first
24:58
Speaker 2: time he's ever resented. Next day, they're making juice. He's
25:03
Speaker 2: making juice in a Hamilton Beach.
25:05
Speaker 1: I don't know if you know. I don't know if
25:06
Speaker 1: you care about brand names like I do.
25:09
Speaker 2: I don't mean to do that, but Hamilton Beach is
25:11
Speaker 2: such an interesting brand because I swear to God, at
25:14
Speaker 2: least ninety two percent of Hamilton Beach products just don't work.
25:18
Speaker 2: Some of the Hamilton Beach products that I have are
25:21
Speaker 2: like weird ones that I've won at like a David Busters.
25:24
Speaker 2: One time, my friend want one one of those Hamilton
25:26
Speaker 2: Beach like breakfast sandwich makers. Remember that where like it
25:29
Speaker 2: didn't actually toast the bread or whatever. It was a
25:31
Speaker 2: weird thing where I'd just spin around at like, yeah,
25:33
Speaker 2: a David Busters And I was like, Hamilton Beach, what
25:36
Speaker 2: so he's making a juice? And I looked at this
25:38
Speaker 2: juicer and I'm like, that can't possibly be like a
25:40
Speaker 2: good quality juicer.
25:42
Speaker 1: And then I see the.
25:42
Speaker 2: Juice he makes and it's a fucking smoothie, like the
25:48
Speaker 2: kind of juicers where you push something down with a
25:50
Speaker 2: black lever, isn't gonna like come out creamy white like
25:53
Speaker 2: that look like fucking Annabelle was in the corner with
25:56
Speaker 2: the nutribule.
25:57
Speaker 1: At being like sh I made him a smoothie I
25:59
Speaker 1: put in the glass. He doesn't know. I was like
26:03
Speaker 1: that what you just are you juicing strawberries? Like are
26:06
Speaker 1: what are you pretending this is? It was so confusing
26:09
Speaker 1: was this coconut? So anyway, he's like I cooked this
26:13
Speaker 1: and find out because.
26:14
Speaker 2: She's like are you ready that tomorrow is the wedding
26:17
Speaker 2: day and she hasn't picked.
26:19
Speaker 1: Out her dress or gotten the flowers.
26:25
Speaker 2: And then suddenly she's also like yeah, and guess what,
26:28
Speaker 2: it's really only my son Kayden, and you know my daughter.
26:31
Speaker 2: You've met her, Devin, that's the only people that are
26:33
Speaker 2: going to be there, And we're like, your friends are
26:35
Speaker 2: going to be there, and she's like, now the ones
26:37
Speaker 2: that you've been including this whole season. Also, has Kayden
26:40
Speaker 2: met Meado? Is Kayden like in New Orleans? Just hasn't
26:45
Speaker 2: met Medo? You haven't hung out with him once. I
26:49
Speaker 2: have a situation in my life where, you know, I
26:53
Speaker 2: have a weird relationship with one of my parents who
26:55
Speaker 2: got married once. Uh, and I didn't really know the
26:57
Speaker 2: person that she was marrying ha ha. It's my mom.
27:00
Speaker 2: And so I have a certain like PTSD for people
27:03
Speaker 2: that are like, I'm so close to my child, I'm
27:07
Speaker 2: going to get married to someone that my child does
27:09
Speaker 2: not know and I certainly don't care about them having
27:12
Speaker 2: any sort of relationship. So every time I say that,
27:16
Speaker 2: I'm like, hih clockett and you know what, my mom's
27:19
Speaker 2: that marriage didn't last anyway, nor did my relationship with
27:22
Speaker 2: her ha ha ha anyway.
27:23
Speaker 1: So just saying so.
27:25
Speaker 2: She meets up with her friends, this is unrealistic. It's
27:27
Speaker 2: not realistic that she wouldn't find her dress. Yet, it's
27:29
Speaker 2: not realistic that she is going to suddenly be like,
27:31
Speaker 2: I care so much about my son Kayden. There's so
27:33
Speaker 2: much about Kayden that I care about. We haven't even
27:35
Speaker 2: seen him meet me. Know truly, she doesn't have for flowers.
27:39
Speaker 2: None of that makes sense. And also this doesn't make sense.
27:41
Speaker 2: Now she's gonna meet up with her friends and think
27:44
Speaker 2: about this. She's like, hey, come meet me for lunch
27:48
Speaker 2: at the flower shop in town.
27:51
Speaker 1: They're like, that's weird.
27:52
Speaker 2: Why why wouldn't we go to a restaurant. She's like, no,
27:55
Speaker 2: I'll meet you there and then I'll tell you why.
27:57
Speaker 2: I mean, think about what has to happen. So then
27:59
Speaker 2: her friends come, has had a full hair makeover. Now
28:02
Speaker 2: it's purple, now it's straight. You're like, where'd you go?
28:04
Speaker 1: It looks good.
28:06
Speaker 2: And she's like, hi, guys, clock the ring. He did it,
28:10
Speaker 2: he proposed and now we're getting married tomorrow.
28:12
Speaker 1: They're like what. She's like yeah. They're like, does he
28:14
Speaker 1: treat you right?
28:15
Speaker 2: She's like mm. And then they're like okay, so why
28:19
Speaker 2: are we here. She's like, well, I'll tell you why
28:20
Speaker 2: you're here. You're not invited to the wedding. I don't
28:22
Speaker 2: want it to.
28:23
Speaker 1: Deal with your hope law. They're like, what did you
28:26
Speaker 1: to say?
28:27
Speaker 2: She's like, I don't want to have to deal with
28:30
Speaker 2: all the hope law that might come if you guys
28:32
Speaker 2: come to the wedding. They're like, did you say hope law?
28:35
Speaker 2: Did you to say hope law? She did, But they
28:38
Speaker 2: can't really give her so much time with that because
28:41
Speaker 2: they have to deal with the fact that she, you know,
28:42
Speaker 2: is gonna marry me too. Now they're instead of being like,
28:47
Speaker 2: that's fucking crazy, Debbie, You're lost.
28:52
Speaker 1: We don't want it to deal with you. We have
28:53
Speaker 1: time and energy that we're going.
28:54
Speaker 2: To take back for our lives because you don't have
28:57
Speaker 2: like any semblance of reality and you don't care about yourself,
29:00
Speaker 2: so why are we going to care about you? Instead
29:02
Speaker 2: of doing that, they're like, Okay, well, we'll go into
29:04
Speaker 2: this flower shop and just look at you weird, which
29:07
Speaker 2: is what happens. They go in the flower shop. This
29:11
Speaker 2: flower shop is like, oh, you have a wedding tomorrow, Okay,
29:14
Speaker 2: don't worry, we'll do it all for you, which is
29:17
Speaker 2: do you know how expensive that would be? Is she
29:21
Speaker 2: gonna like sell that Louie to put on this last
29:23
Speaker 2: minute wedding?
29:30
Speaker 1: I just like it doesn't make sense.
29:32
Speaker 2: So then she's like, yeah, so even though you guys
29:35
Speaker 2: aren't coming, it's really important that Cayden, my son's coming.
29:37
Speaker 1: So he's coming. I'm so happy. I can't get married
29:39
Speaker 1: without Kyden. I get a text. Guess what.
29:41
Speaker 2: It's a text from Cayden who's like, hey, Mom, they
29:44
Speaker 2: want me to work tomorrow.
29:47
Speaker 1: I don't know if I can come to your wedding.
29:48
Speaker 2: No, my god, Kayden might have to work. Astra's like,
29:52
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. Can he what's the word call out?
29:57
Speaker 1: Say? No, it's a college job. What is he doing?
30:02
Speaker 1: Is he a barista? A baristo because he's a guy.
30:06
Speaker 1: They never say that. How come we always say the
30:08
Speaker 1: word barista?
30:09
Speaker 2: And it's because you know, I'm just wondering if you're
30:12
Speaker 2: supposed to, for a gentleman call him a baristo, or
30:17
Speaker 2: is every person a barista? Is it not like a
30:20
Speaker 2: gender thing. I don't mean to put a gender on it.
30:22
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, you know, like in Italian, is that
30:27
Speaker 2: what barista is? Coffee maker in Italian? But arista? But
30:31
Speaker 2: a usta that sounds right, right, especially if I give
30:35
Speaker 2: it that accent flair that sounds right. But no one
30:37
Speaker 2: ever says like, I got coffee met from my barristo. Anyway,
30:42
Speaker 2: please tell me if I'm right, or just tell me
30:45
Speaker 2: I'm right. So they're like, that sounds crazy that he
30:48
Speaker 2: wouldn't just be like, uh no, I can't work.
30:50
Speaker 1: It's my mother's wedding and it is.
30:56
Speaker 2: And then they're like, it seems like if he didn't
30:58
Speaker 2: want to do that, there's a reason why, and he
31:00
Speaker 2: maybe he just doesn't want to go to this wedding,
31:02
Speaker 2: and that is one.
31:03
Speaker 1: Debbie's like, well, I can't get married with Adam.
31:05
Speaker 2: And then it's like, well, if that's true, then you
31:06
Speaker 2: would have absolutely made sure that he likes Mito and
31:09
Speaker 2: is like hanging out this whole time.
31:11
Speaker 1: I mean, absolute lazy Halloween happened. It's not. I mean, Debbie,
31:18
Speaker 1: you don't give a shit about that.
31:22
Speaker 2: So basically we're like, Debbie's a horrible mom who is like,
31:27
Speaker 2: you know, sad and insecure and doesn't care about anything
31:33
Speaker 2: but like her sort of like emotionally immature moment to
31:37
Speaker 2: moment feelings and is cringey like that.
31:42
Speaker 1: All of that is true.
31:44
Speaker 2: Therefore she makes her like really a perfect ninety day
31:47
Speaker 2: fiance lady and whatever her mental situations are they're not
31:51
Speaker 2: so crazy or toxic enough where it's like a leasa
31:54
Speaker 2: thing that it almost is like overwhelming. She is the
31:58
Speaker 2: straight man to him being the crazy one. It's nice
32:02
Speaker 2: of her. Okay, So Pala and Thomas, so you know,
32:06
Speaker 2: they're fighting over the apartment space, as we know, and
32:09
Speaker 2: she calls him selfish and he wants her parents to
32:12
Speaker 2: sleep like in some sort of chair.
32:14
Speaker 1: This is before they get there, and she's upset. She
32:16
Speaker 1: like that sounds crazy, and he then is like, don't worry.
32:20
Speaker 2: I'm also gonna turn my gaming office table into the
32:23
Speaker 2: dining room table with the magic of a you know, tablecloth.
32:28
Speaker 2: She's like mad at him all the time over this
32:32
Speaker 2: situation with the apartment and we don't understand why, like
32:37
Speaker 2: she doesn't try and remedy it, and through some other means.
32:45
Speaker 2: He is stubborn about his space. He's like, oh, yeah,
32:48
Speaker 2: you know, that's where I do yoga.
32:49
Speaker 1: So that's where the yoga space is.
32:51
Speaker 2: And it is hard when you move in with someone
32:53
Speaker 2: who inhabits a smaller space, or just inhabits a space
32:57
Speaker 2: that they have for a long time, or everything in
33:00
Speaker 2: their mind is already set up a certain way and
33:02
Speaker 2: it's hard to like change that that space could be
33:05
Speaker 2: used for something else, because you have to acquiesce and
33:08
Speaker 2: compromise space for someone else's wants and needs. It's much
33:11
Speaker 2: easier to go into a space that's brand new with
33:14
Speaker 2: someone and then be like, Okay, together, we inhabit this
33:17
Speaker 2: space and that's yours, that's you know, like you do
33:19
Speaker 2: this here, you do this there, And so that part
33:22
Speaker 2: I find, you know, like, uh, I have compassion for him.
33:27
Speaker 1: I just yeah, Like there's just a like I don't
33:31
Speaker 1: want to I don't know.
33:32
Speaker 2: I just he seems to kind of do the Katie
33:36
Speaker 2: thing where it's like their lives are chaotic and messy
33:41
Speaker 2: and like not enviable or aspirational, but they are ten
33:46
Speaker 2: toes down on.
33:47
Speaker 1: Why they won't change any of it.
33:52
Speaker 2: For someone else's comfort that they should care about.
33:59
Speaker 1: That's what I want to say.
34:03
Speaker 2: I like, I am constantly surprised that Katie, knowing that
34:07
Speaker 2: her way and mythology of life isn't sustainable across the board,
34:11
Speaker 2: that there are some issues there, wouldn't try and like
34:15
Speaker 2: change the way she does things to make someone else
34:19
Speaker 2: who she should care about happy. And the same thing
34:24
Speaker 2: with him, It's like he is really hard fast in
34:28
Speaker 2: his ways, and from the smell to everything, he really
34:31
Speaker 2: feels like the world should change around him for his benefit.
34:39
Speaker 1: And I, yeah, that's crazy to me.
34:43
Speaker 2: So her family comes though, and really happy to see
34:48
Speaker 2: that he's playing with the switchblade.
34:49
Speaker 1: Before we're like where that's coming from.
34:51
Speaker 2: She's wearing like one of those like ninety outfit ninety
34:54
Speaker 2: style outfits.
34:54
Speaker 1: I really like it.
34:55
Speaker 2: It feels very tie from Clueless, which is this like
34:58
Speaker 2: number in the gym scene, like when they're and pe
35:00
Speaker 2: where it's like a white kind of like short sleeve
35:04
Speaker 2: shirt underneath a black strappie either dress or jumpsuit.
35:08
Speaker 1: You're like, oh my god, that is so specifically nineties.
35:11
Speaker 2: I don't know if they've talked about this before, but
35:12
Speaker 2: it makes me happy that he speaks fluent Portuguese or
35:15
Speaker 2: seemingly pretty good. When her family comes, he's all over
35:18
Speaker 2: her nieces and it's cute. Now he very quickly is like,
35:23
Speaker 2: I need to lay down the law of the land. I,
35:26
Speaker 2: Sir Thomas, bequeathed that none of you people living in
35:30
Speaker 2: this small apartment.
35:31
Speaker 1: Shall wear shoes.
35:34
Speaker 2: Or use smells smells like in soaps or smells and deodorant.
35:38
Speaker 2: Smells and smells like smells and perfumes, and the mom's like,
35:41
Speaker 2: that's crazy, and someone else was like, I got baby soap?
35:43
Speaker 1: Is that okay? He's like, yeah, baby soap is usually okay.
35:46
Speaker 2: So Powell's brother is like, you know what, I was
35:50
Speaker 2: friends with this guy, but I'm starting to like be
35:52
Speaker 2: a little sus of his quirks.
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Speaker 1: I don't know, he's a little eccentric.
35:59
Speaker 2: And that comes when he, like Thomas doesn't have a
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Speaker 2: TV and it's interesting, I don't care.
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Speaker 1: Like not having a.
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Speaker 2: TV isn't a big deal to some people, and then
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Speaker 2: some people find it crazy.
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Speaker 1: I don't have a microwave. Actually I do. It's like
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Speaker 1: my landlord's microwave, but I don't use it. Like I
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Speaker 1: don't like microwaves, think they ruin the foods.
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Speaker 2: And I also feel like with toaster rep and they
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Speaker 2: get they get things get hot. So it's not a
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Speaker 2: big deal. But like, yeah, with screens and everything, the
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Speaker 2: man doesn't have a fucking TV, but he has three
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Speaker 2: huge ass screens that are usually on the dining room
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Speaker 2: table in his corner that he games on. So it's like,
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Speaker 2: what's a monitor or screen? What's the big difference? So
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Speaker 2: that's why I thought that's interesting, Like there's he has
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Speaker 2: those huge Jess screens. He does watches TV on his screens.
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Speaker 2: We be talking about he doesn't walk TV. He plays
36:46
Speaker 2: video games. So we also get an interesting moment they
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Speaker 2: start to all the family goes out and tours long beaches,
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Speaker 2: see the Queen Mary.
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Speaker 1: Bro's talking with the Cysts, and she's like, you.
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Speaker 2: Know, I just have always fantasized and loved American culture.
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Speaker 2: I love speaking English. I'm so happy to be here.
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Speaker 2: It's been always in my dream for all you guys
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Speaker 2: to be here with me. And so we start to
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Speaker 2: be like, yeah, there's something about Pala that's like, I
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Speaker 2: have an end.
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Speaker 1: The end is to be in America.
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Speaker 2: Thomas is the Weans, and so I'm allowing or having
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Speaker 2: to deal with him whatever I need to do to
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Speaker 2: get to the end. Like she doesn't feel like she
37:19
Speaker 2: necessary is in love with him. I feel like she's
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Speaker 2: like he's nice enough, and we get along and I
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Speaker 2: like that weird cuddle thing we do when we.
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Speaker 1: Put our legs around each other.
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Speaker 2: But he's not like super hot, and he's kind of
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Speaker 2: just like boring and a little weird. But I do
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Speaker 2: want to live in America and he is, I guess
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Speaker 2: a gringo.
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Speaker 1: So he checks the boxes. But Thomas isn't my whole universe.
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Speaker 1: Miniatures are.
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Speaker 2: Manifestation through miniatures, for the universe is my universe. He
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Speaker 2: doesn't even believe in God. He doesn't like the universe.
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Speaker 2: So how is someone who doesn't even like the universe
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Speaker 2: my universe? Anyway, So let's move on Asha and Malcolm. Honey,
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Speaker 2: she wants to look fit for that wedding, so they
38:11
Speaker 2: go fabric shopping shop shopping with his sister Blaze. Now
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Speaker 2: she both of them are like designer esque people like
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Speaker 2: we get Asia being like I actually wanted to be
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Speaker 2: a designer. That was like, honestly my first calling besides
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Speaker 2: being a prophet. God was like, don't be a designer,
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Speaker 2: be a prophet. And that's when I was like, okay, God.
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Speaker 2: But also Blaze is a designer, Sir, I helmet at
38:31
Speaker 2: a prophet.
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Speaker 1: Blaze is like, no, I do this shit. I have
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Speaker 1: like a seamstress.
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Speaker 2: Whatever the seamstress I hire is going to do this
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Speaker 2: dress in twenty four hours. It's always like a twenty
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Speaker 2: four hour turnaround. I swear to God, I think it's
38:40
Speaker 2: only for like stakes, and I'm like, I actually would
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Speaker 2: find it more interesting if you showed us wedding planning
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Speaker 2: and then showed us like organic disagreements between the couples,
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Speaker 2: like through that process. Okay, But I like what Asha's wearing.
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Speaker 2: It's like a crute, cute like white crochet, you know.
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Speaker 1: Situation.
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Speaker 2: We realize that they're wood in colors are coffee brown
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Speaker 2: and white.
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Speaker 1: They go to like a traditional place to buy like,
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Speaker 1: you know, gorgeous fabrics.
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Speaker 2: The fabrics are gorgeous, and I'm just like that's why
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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, coffee brown and white.
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Speaker 1: There's so many like beautiful pinks and reds now.
39:21
Speaker 2: Blaze is like, I you know, I worry about my
39:24
Speaker 2: brother and like you because you have a tendency to
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Speaker 2: put upon him things that you want and.
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Speaker 1: Then he says yes to that because he wants to
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Speaker 1: make you happy.
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Speaker 2: It's the opposite of Katie and the opposite of Thomas,
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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. And She's like, don't you
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Speaker 2: realize that he's saying and doing things just to make
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Speaker 2: you happy?
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Speaker 1: And a'ss like, yeah, what's the problem.
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Speaker 2: You know what, Blaze remember that part in the Bible
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Speaker 2: where Jesus, represented in the story by me, has that
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Speaker 2: fucking conversation with Peter, and Peter's like, Jesus, don't don't
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Speaker 2: do the thing that you need to do, don't fulfill
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Speaker 2: your destiny, and Jesus is like, Peter, you're my block. Well, bitch,
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Speaker 2: I'm Jesus and you're my block fucking blaze. You're a
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Speaker 2: block blazon blocking up my life, and the devil's in
40:24
Speaker 2: the blocks. Asia having to always use God in her
40:33
Speaker 2: arguments is like actually kind of like redembdiculous, but also
40:40
Speaker 2: unfortunately works for her in certain circles. I would love
40:47
Speaker 2: to watch her try.
40:48
Speaker 1: And use one of these in a circle where people
40:49
Speaker 1: be like, no, bitch, you're not God, You're not Jesus. Okay.
40:57
Speaker 2: So then she meets with Rod, who you know, is
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Speaker 2: like not into this situation at all.
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Speaker 1: And.
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Speaker 2: He's like, what are your plans You're She's like, well,
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Speaker 2: im gonna get married tomorrow, you're gonna be there, ha
41:10
Speaker 2: ha ha.
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Speaker 1: And then you know, we're gonna come to America and
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Speaker 1: he's gonna work. He's like, well, how is he gonna work?
41:14
Speaker 1: Just how?
41:15
Speaker 2: Like how? And she's like, well, they're my connects. He's like,
41:19
Speaker 2: you're connects. What are your connects? She's like, you, you're
41:24
Speaker 2: gonna get him a job? And that's when Rod's like, no,
41:34
Speaker 2: it's funny because.
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Speaker 1: It is.
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Speaker 2: It is fun to watch someone tell her no. Like
41:42
Speaker 2: I just said, I wanted someone to tell her no,
41:43
Speaker 2: and he does. He's like, no, I'm not. She seems
41:47
Speaker 2: really demanding, and I wonder if, like how many times
41:54
Speaker 2: she has been like shown a level of reality by someone.
42:02
Speaker 2: He's like, what skills does she does he have? He's like,
42:05
Speaker 2: She's like, well, I'm skills mills. It's about who you know,
42:08
Speaker 2: and I know you, so anyway that's not going to
42:12
Speaker 2: work out turns out.
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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it's hard. It's really hard out there.
42:19
Speaker 1: It's hard to get a job.
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Speaker 2: And you really do have to have, like, you know,
42:23
Speaker 2: many different facets. You have to be able to pivot
42:25
Speaker 2: all those things. And it doesn't really.
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Speaker 1: Truly feel like she is taking into account how difficult
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Speaker 1: it'll be.
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Speaker 2: But at the same time, she lives in a big
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Speaker 2: ass mansion, so she probably you know, I wonder if
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Speaker 2: her mind. And this is also interesting, is he going
42:40
Speaker 2: to live in her parents' home with them?
42:44
Speaker 1: Also, what is her da where.
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Speaker 2: Is her dad and how does her dad feel about this?
42:49
Speaker 2: And is Juliet ever talk to her husband? What is
42:52
Speaker 2: Juliet doing right now? I need like every I mean,
42:55
Speaker 2: I feel like Juliette is so funny, like I love
42:58
Speaker 2: her very much, I just like need to see more
43:00
Speaker 2: of her, like she is she hanging out with that
43:04
Speaker 2: young ass friend?
43:05
Speaker 1: Now are they all drinking?
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