Latest / The Bob Lefsetz Podcast / Ketch Secor
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Welcome, Welcome, Welcome back to the Bob Left Sets podcast.
- 0:06Speaker 1: My guest today is Catch Secor of the Old Crow
- 0:10Speaker 1: Medicine Show. Catch, you're a busy guy. What keeps you going?
- 0:13Speaker 1: What are you doing all this time?
- 0:15Speaker 2: Bob, thanks so much for having me on the show.
- 0:18Speaker 2: I am a busy guy. I've been in this band
- 0:22Speaker 2: for twenty eight years. I'm getting married in a couple
- 0:25Speaker 2: of weeks to this amazing singer. I chase after my
- 0:29Speaker 2: own children. I started a school, so I'm really involved
- 0:33Speaker 2: with nonprofits. I'm involved with politics. I'm I don't even
- 0:37Speaker 2: know where to start on what I'm not working on
- 0:39Speaker 2: right now?
- 0:39Speaker 1: Bob, how about you? Okay, well I can tell you
- 0:42Speaker 1: my story, but this is about you. So when do
- 0:44Speaker 1: you get married?
- 0:47Speaker 2: I get married on August twenty second, don't you know?
- 0:50Speaker 1: And so the second time around, how seriously do you
- 0:53Speaker 1: take it? How big a deal?
- 0:56Speaker 2: Well?
- 0:56Speaker 1: This is the big one.
- 0:57Speaker 2: This is the This is that me and Molly Tuttle.
- 1:02Speaker 2: I've been together for six years now, and we're we're
- 1:07Speaker 2: throwing quite a bash in the Redwood forest, don't you know.
- 1:12Speaker 1: We'll tell me a little more.
- 1:14Speaker 2: Well, I'll tell you that I met her well, I
- 1:18Speaker 2: first heard Molly on the radio. I'm a really avid
- 1:22Speaker 2: radio listener. First time I ever got a radio was
- 1:26Speaker 2: I was in the fourth grade. See, I had a
- 1:28Speaker 2: paper route and I had to get an alarm clock
- 1:30Speaker 2: because I had to get up at five point thirty
- 1:32Speaker 2: in the morning. And I went down to the shop
- 1:36Speaker 2: and I got an alarm clock that happened to have
- 1:38Speaker 2: an AM radio on it. So all of a sudden,
- 1:41Speaker 2: not only was I getting up early, but at night
- 1:43Speaker 2: I could listen to the stations from Cincinnati and Detroit
- 1:47Speaker 2: and Toronto and Quebec and all of these amazing ways
- 1:51Speaker 2: that I felt so connected to the rest of the
- 1:53Speaker 2: continent because of the power of this late night clear
- 1:56Speaker 2: channel AM signal. And I love talk Net. That was
- 1:59Speaker 2: a talk radio show where you had to call in
- 2:02Speaker 2: with your issues, and I dreamed that I would have
- 2:04Speaker 2: a problem so big that only talk radio could talk
- 2:08Speaker 2: me down from the cliff. Anyhow, it was no surprise
- 2:12Speaker 2: then that I would meet the love of my life
- 2:14Speaker 2: listening to the radio one night when I heard this
- 2:17Speaker 2: voice in this wonderful guitar playing, and I knew right
- 2:21Speaker 2: then I had to meet this woman, Molly Tuttle.
- 2:25Speaker 1: Okay, remember where you were in what station it was? Yeah,
- 2:30Speaker 1: sure I was. I was next door in the house
- 2:33Speaker 1: over there. I just moved in.
- 2:35Speaker 2: You know. It was like right in the middle of
- 2:37Speaker 2: getting divorced, and I had two kids upstairs asleep, you know,
- 2:41Speaker 2: about six and four, and there was no furniture in
- 2:45Speaker 2: the house, so just the radio kind of bare bones
- 2:48Speaker 2: part of life, right. And this was in the year
- 2:51Speaker 2: twenty eighteen, and the station was AM six fifty WSM
- 2:58Speaker 2: and the program was called The Grand Old Lotry.
- 3:02Speaker 1: Okay, so you hear her, you say, you have to
- 3:06Speaker 1: beat this woman. What's your next step?
- 3:10Speaker 2: Well, my next step was to leave the next day
- 3:13Speaker 2: and travel to Walpole, New Hampshire for the for the
- 3:18Speaker 2: new Ken Burns movie that they were having me advise
- 3:20Speaker 2: him on called Country Music as a sixteen hour mini series.
- 3:24Speaker 2: So I had it up there and that gave me
- 3:27Speaker 2: a whole new kind of lease on LFE. I was like,
- 3:31Speaker 2: I was thinking about Molly, this new person that I
- 3:35Speaker 2: was interested in and confused about, and all of a sudden,
- 3:38Speaker 2: I was like, Ken really sort of jogged my mind
- 3:41Speaker 2: and made me feel like, oh, well, I got this.
- 3:44Speaker 2: It's going to be fun. Not being married anymore and
- 3:47Speaker 2: raising these kids with somebody else. It'll be good, It'll
- 3:50Speaker 2: all be fine. And then back to Ms.
- 3:53Speaker 1: Tuttle.
- 3:54Speaker 2: The next move was to get Molly to work with
- 3:58Speaker 2: me an Old Crow Medicine show. So about six months
- 4:01Speaker 2: past and then Molly was opening up for Old Crow
- 4:04Speaker 2: at the Ryman. We still hadn't met before, and I
- 4:08Speaker 2: remember being there at the soundcheck we were performing, and
- 4:12Speaker 2: she came walking across the stage at the Ryman Auditorium
- 4:17Speaker 2: and I thought.
- 4:17Speaker 1: Immediately, oh my god, look at her. I've got to
- 4:21Speaker 1: break up with my girlfriends. So you were getting divorced
- 4:26Speaker 1: you already had a girlfriend?
- 4:29Speaker 2: No, No, I'd already been I was already divorced.
- 4:32Speaker 1: Okay, but you did have a girlfriend when you saw
- 4:34Speaker 1: a bother?
- 4:35Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, he had a boyfriend.
- 4:38Speaker 1: That's fine, okay. So what were the new steps involved
- 4:41Speaker 1: in getting together?
- 4:43Speaker 2: Well, we just needed to become friends.
- 4:45Speaker 1: See.
- 4:46Speaker 2: So first we started as business colleagues, I guess probably
- 4:51Speaker 2: like a lot of people with Tuttle, like I started
- 4:53Speaker 2: as a fan. You know, she got a lot of fans,
- 4:56Speaker 2: and then we became you know, colleagues, right because she's
- 4:59Speaker 2: opening up the show.
- 5:00Speaker 1: Well, then she's doing.
- 5:01Speaker 2: Five other dates with us that summer, and then at
- 5:04Speaker 2: sort of the last date of the summer, I said.
- 5:07Speaker 1: Hey, how about you and I go on a duo tour.
- 5:10Speaker 2: We'll book something around Christmas when we're both kind of off,
- 5:12Speaker 2: will just be the two of us, and we'll so
- 5:16Speaker 2: again just sort of pushing it, seeing how it is shape.
- 5:20Speaker 2: And then I determined, well, let's just be friends. I
- 5:22Speaker 2: was just going to befriend this lady. So we turned
- 5:25Speaker 2: into good friends, and then we started writing songs together.
- 5:29Speaker 2: She still had her sweetheart and I still had mine.
- 5:33Speaker 2: And then during the global pandemic, remember how that sort
- 5:37Speaker 2: of made you rethink everything you were doing, and it
- 5:41Speaker 2: made if you feel like you wanted to be really
- 5:43Speaker 2: truthful about the way that you were the choices you
- 5:46Speaker 2: were making, really brutally honest, because it seemed like if
- 5:50Speaker 2: there was ever a time to go get what you wanted, well,
- 5:54Speaker 2: this would be the time. The time when there wasn't
- 5:56Speaker 2: any job, anything to do all day except for what
- 6:00Speaker 2: you made of your day. You know, I was running
- 6:02Speaker 2: my quarantine homeschool with the kids, and I perfected this
- 6:07Speaker 2: this curriculum. We started the morning every day with a
- 6:11Speaker 2: spiritual program. We would read a passage from some holy book,
- 6:15Speaker 2: maybe the Bible, maybe the bagavad Gita, maybe Lausu poems,
- 6:21Speaker 2: maybe Gregory Corso's bomb, whatever it was. We would take
- 6:25Speaker 2: in something powerful and of a spiritual persuasion. And I
- 6:32Speaker 2: guess it was working on me too. And oh and
- 6:36Speaker 2: I got a smartphone right then, same time I got
- 6:39Speaker 2: a smartphone during the pandemic. Well that was really powerful
- 6:42Speaker 2: because suddenly I was connected to what people were doing,
- 6:46Speaker 2: you know, like I could like before when I had
- 6:50Speaker 2: a flip phone all through the other decade. Previously, you know,
- 6:54Speaker 2: i'd have to be like, what are you sending me?
- 6:56Speaker 2: Or what is described this photo that you're saying that
- 6:59Speaker 2: you sent me. Now I could just get real time,
- 7:02Speaker 2: and now I could start. Then I could follow Molly
- 7:05Speaker 2: Tuttle on social media, see what she was up to,
- 7:08Speaker 2: watch her videos and anyhow, all that sort of came together,
- 7:14Speaker 2: and that's when I wrote it, started writing funny. I
- 7:18Speaker 2: got me a smartphone, and then I started writing her
- 7:20Speaker 2: letters because I went back to my old tricks.
- 7:23Speaker 1: Bob.
- 7:24Speaker 2: See, you can't you can't teach an old dog new ones,
- 7:29Speaker 2: even if he's got a damn computer in his pocket.
- 7:31Speaker 2: I'm still just a letter writing thumb wagon hitch hiker
- 7:36Speaker 2: from the nineties. I just I can't shake how I am.
- 7:40Speaker 2: So I've tried to get updated.
- 7:43Speaker 1: Anyhow.
- 7:44Speaker 2: But when I went to declare my love to her
- 7:48Speaker 2: with all of the faculties at my disposal, with every
- 7:52Speaker 2: high speed Giga whatever, I had to do it with
- 7:56Speaker 2: a damn pencil.
- 7:58Speaker 1: So where was she during the pend? She lived about
- 8:02Speaker 1: two miles from me, okay, And so you sent her
- 8:09Speaker 1: a letter. How long until you've heard back from her
- 8:12Speaker 1: about that letter?
- 8:21Speaker 2: I think about was she she went on this road
- 8:24Speaker 2: trip with her boyfriends. And that's I knew that she
- 8:28Speaker 2: was going because, you know, like as a pandemic, so
- 8:31Speaker 2: we were all nobody had gone anywhere, and it was
- 8:34Speaker 2: so phenomenal.
- 8:35Speaker 1: How I.
- 8:37Speaker 2: Did the math, Bob, and I realized that I had
- 8:39Speaker 2: never stood this still since I was thirteen years old,
- 8:44Speaker 2: and now here I am about forty two, maybe as
- 8:48Speaker 2: how old I was during the pandemic twenty twenty. Yeah,
- 8:51Speaker 2: I was born in seventy eight, so I was forty
- 8:53Speaker 2: two years old, and in thirty five some odd years,
- 8:57Speaker 2: I had never gone six weeks without moving somewhere going,
- 9:02Speaker 2: you know, like since I had been in about the
- 9:06Speaker 2: eighth grade, that's how once, because I went away to
- 9:10Speaker 2: high school and so that high school was like a
- 9:12Speaker 2: traveling thing, you know, in a fancy New England prep
- 9:15Speaker 2: school where you would go quarterly. And I was some
- 9:18Speaker 2: point I was probably in Hampton Beach, New Hampshire. I'd
- 9:21Speaker 2: taken the bus to Boston or the Peter Pan trailways
- 9:23Speaker 2: up to Burlington, Vermont to play on the street corner
- 9:27Speaker 2: and then I you know, by then I was once,
- 9:29Speaker 2: I was eighteen, Lord knows, I was going all the time.
- 9:33Speaker 2: So it was a big deal that Molly was heading
- 9:35Speaker 2: cross country. And I wrote the letter right before she
- 9:39Speaker 2: took off so that she would have my intentions on
- 9:42Speaker 2: her way, and uh yeah. She sent me a message
- 9:45Speaker 2: on the text about about two weeks after that and
- 9:50Speaker 2: told told me that she was feeling it too. So
- 9:53Speaker 2: that's when our friendship began to take this turn. We've
- 9:57Speaker 2: been friends for about a year and a half and
- 10:00Speaker 2: then the pandemic ratcheted up the tension, and then we
- 10:04Speaker 2: started dating just a little bit, and immediately it seemed like, oh,
- 10:09Speaker 2: this is this could never work, but then it did,
- 10:12Speaker 2: and it just at every impasse, we just kept pushing
- 10:15Speaker 2: through and look at us now.
- 10:17Speaker 1: Okay, okay, A couple of questions, to what degree did
- 10:20Speaker 1: you hang it out in that letter? To what degree
- 10:22Speaker 1: did you profess your.
- 10:23Speaker 2: Love to the to the ninth degree, to the umpteenth degree,
- 10:30Speaker 2: to the to you know, shovel off to buffalo kind
- 10:34Speaker 2: of degree.
- 10:35Speaker 1: And did you think that possibly she might not feel
- 10:40Speaker 1: the same way?
- 10:41Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was the pandemic, so it was okay
- 10:44Speaker 2: if she didn't, at least I would know, and you know,
- 10:48Speaker 2: as far as like behaving honestly and openly about what
- 10:53Speaker 2: I felt. And it wasn't the only relationship that I
- 10:57Speaker 2: sought to do something about at that time. The pandemic
- 11:02Speaker 2: really helped me want to forge a new path or
- 11:06Speaker 2: you know, cut a new trail in other relationships too
- 11:09Speaker 2: that were non romantic relationships. So a lot of things
- 11:12Speaker 2: were changing. But yeah, she she didn't say no.
- 11:17Speaker 1: But now you get her. Just she's going off on
- 11:20Speaker 1: this cross country trip with her present boyfriend. What was
- 11:26Speaker 1: that like for her?
- 11:29Speaker 2: I think that's that she realized that she had wanted
- 11:34Speaker 2: to break up with him for a while. And we
- 11:38Speaker 2: were both a little our feelings were really intense, and
- 11:42Speaker 2: I hadn't felt him before, you know, like, and i'd
- 11:45Speaker 2: been married. You know, I married my high school sweetheart,
- 11:48Speaker 2: and I dated a little bit, but most of all,
- 11:51Speaker 2: and then when I got divorced, I dated a little
- 11:54Speaker 2: bit and learned a few things, but most of all,
- 11:57Speaker 2: I was just somebody, you know, like I'm a Roman
- 12:00Speaker 2: tick bob. You know, you could probably tell look what
- 12:03Speaker 2: I'm wearing. I got a pink shirt on and bright
- 12:05Speaker 2: orange pants. You know, I went sailing earlier today. I'm
- 12:10Speaker 2: a romantic guy. Like I'm my wind. The wind hits
- 12:14Speaker 2: my sails and it pushes me forward. I'm an artist,
- 12:18Speaker 2: so you know, I feel great, big feelings, and my
- 12:22Speaker 2: loves are my arms are barely wide enough to contain them.
- 12:28Speaker 2: I love people very much. I love music very much.
- 12:32Speaker 1: Okay, And from the time you send that letter, how
- 12:36Speaker 1: long until your face to face?
- 12:40Speaker 2: I think it was. Our first date was like six
- 12:43Speaker 2: weeks after that. She had gotten back from her big
- 12:46Speaker 2: road trip. The boyfriend had moved out, see they were
- 12:48Speaker 2: living together, and we had had we had a face
- 12:54Speaker 2: to face.
- 12:55Speaker 1: You know.
- 12:56Speaker 2: It was sort of like there was the face to
- 12:58Speaker 2: face and then the le It was kind of both.
- 13:03Speaker 2: So yeah, then about by about July. You know, we
- 13:07Speaker 2: went on our first date in the twenty twenty and
- 13:11Speaker 2: we went down to Shelby Park and we saw a
- 13:13Speaker 2: great music writer there, somebody that I always loved a
- 13:19Speaker 2: lot named Peter Cooper, who died just a few months
- 13:22Speaker 2: after that. Peter worked for the Tennessee in here, but
- 13:27Speaker 2: then he got this big job working at the at
- 13:31Speaker 2: the Country Music Hall of Fame. And he was somebody
- 13:34Speaker 2: who had great respect for me and great respect for Mollie.
- 13:38Speaker 2: And as you know, we live in East Nashville, so
- 13:40Speaker 2: it's like we're around each other, like I see the
- 13:42Speaker 2: same people, like I see Gilly much at the grocery store,
- 13:45Speaker 2: like it's just where we live. And I saw Peter
- 13:48Speaker 2: Cooper that day that we had our first date, and
- 13:51Speaker 2: he was dead not six months later. And we saw
- 13:54Speaker 2: him again one time when we were together, and his
- 13:57Speaker 2: decline was so rapid he started to look like a
- 14:01Speaker 2: ghost when I saw him that one time, and then
- 14:03Speaker 2: the next time, just a few months later, he looked ashen,
- 14:07Speaker 2: and then he was gone, and he died of alcoholism.
- 14:10Speaker 1: And it was a.
- 14:13Speaker 2: Really really painful for all of us who loved that guy,
- 14:19Speaker 2: and uh and half the town of Spartanburg, South Carolina.
- 14:22Speaker 1: Probably still morning. Okay, you've been married before, you had
- 14:29Speaker 1: this brief interregnum where you were single and dating. You
- 14:34Speaker 1: felt something for Mollie, did anything in the back of
- 14:38Speaker 1: your mind say, I like being involved with her, but
- 14:41Speaker 1: I didn't need to be married to her.
- 14:44Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean we started dating and then it wasn't
- 14:50Speaker 2: really like that wasn't on the table. But I knew
- 14:53Speaker 2: I wanted to marry her basically immediately, and that I
- 14:58Speaker 2: had met my person, like my the person that I
- 15:00Speaker 2: had experienced this painful divorce. You know, I felt it
- 15:05Speaker 2: so strongly that I really wanted to tell my children
- 15:10Speaker 2: and my ex wife, but I didn't.
- 15:14Speaker 1: I kept that to myself.
- 15:16Speaker 2: That.
- 15:16Speaker 1: Oh I think I understand now what this was all for.
- 15:20Speaker 1: So what caused the divorce?
- 15:23Speaker 2: Oh? I guess most of all, she just didn't want
- 15:31Speaker 2: to be married to me anymore and.
- 15:35Speaker 1: Split. Was there a third party involved? No? So how
- 15:42Speaker 1: much did that hurt? Oh? It was terrible.
- 15:47Speaker 2: Yeah. No, she just dumped me and moved on. But
- 15:50Speaker 2: that's okay. You know, she's a she's an artist too,
- 15:54Speaker 2: and people, the wind hits you in the right way.
- 15:57Speaker 2: So I only you're turn in another direction. But when
- 16:00Speaker 2: you got two kids like I did, and you know,
- 16:02Speaker 2: I had kids ages three and five, so it was
- 16:04Speaker 2: a really it was truly shocking.
- 16:08Speaker 1: That she was leaving. It was like.
- 16:13Speaker 2: I hadn't experienced an agony in my life ever like this,
- 16:19Speaker 2: you know. It was there was a level of pain
- 16:22Speaker 2: that I just and I didn't see it come in.
- 16:27Speaker 1: I had no idea.
- 16:29Speaker 2: So I was really blindsided by this huge change that
- 16:32Speaker 2: came into my life at about age forty thirty nine
- 16:36Speaker 2: or something. And at that time when she split, I
- 16:41Speaker 2: was I had just chartered this new school, So starting
- 16:46Speaker 2: as school and going through a divorce, I think, looking
- 16:50Speaker 2: back on it, I realized that this nonprofit work was
- 16:54Speaker 2: sort of like my lighthouse that was keeping me from
- 16:57Speaker 2: crashing into the rocks. I was also stone cold sober
- 17:02Speaker 2: through the whole thing, you know, so I was stealing
- 17:06Speaker 2: it all thoroughly. You know, there was no numbing of
- 17:11Speaker 2: the pain. And then starting a school meant that, like,
- 17:16Speaker 2: even though I was crying in every red light in
- 17:19Speaker 2: Nashville and every off ramp and on ramp and beating
- 17:23Speaker 2: my breast in traffic, I had to, you know, I
- 17:29Speaker 2: was the chairman of the board of a nonprofit that
- 17:32Speaker 2: had to like breathe life into this entity and like
- 17:35Speaker 2: make it a great and wonderful place for children. So
- 17:39Speaker 2: I think just having a real mission that was unrelated
- 17:42Speaker 2: to my suffering and actually became a kind of holistic
- 17:47Speaker 2: part of the healing, just to sort of distract me
- 17:50Speaker 2: with the world's most challenging thing starting a school.
- 17:54Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was crazy.
- 17:57Speaker 2: And so that was you know, that was a five
- 17:59Speaker 2: year project that happened right there, right as you know,
- 18:02Speaker 2: right as she was walking out the door.
- 18:05Speaker 1: So did she literally move on? Are you the soul?
- 18:08Speaker 1: Do you have soul custody? Or is she still the
- 18:10Speaker 1: picture with your children? What is going on there? Yeah,
- 18:13Speaker 1: it's fifty to fifty, fifty to fifty, So now there's
- 18:17Speaker 1: another party involved, Mollie. Are things friendly or is it tough? Yeah, no,
- 18:24Speaker 1: it's it's fine. I mean, we all.
- 18:28Speaker 2: It's a blended family. So I just my parents are married,
- 18:33Speaker 2: and I didn't know that many people that were divorced.
- 18:37Speaker 2: So divorce wasn't ever something that I was like wrecked
- 18:40Speaker 2: on or really knew that much about. And it certainly
- 18:44Speaker 2: wasn't like, as I mentioned some that I foresaw for
- 18:46Speaker 2: myself at any point in my life.
- 18:49Speaker 1: But then when it.
- 18:50Speaker 2: Was thrust upon me, well, then I realized that all
- 18:53Speaker 2: my kids' friends were divorced to every single damn one
- 18:56Speaker 2: of them, and that they were all, you know, and
- 19:00Speaker 2: blended family and relationships. So I mean, I say, as
- 19:04Speaker 2: a blended family like the the you know, it's amicable
- 19:08Speaker 2: between me and my ex, but she's not really come
- 19:11Speaker 2: around that much. But yeah, everybody's friendly. Most of all,
- 19:18Speaker 2: it's Molly moved in about a year and a half ago,
- 19:22Speaker 2: and you know, all the kids just love her. She's
- 19:24Speaker 2: such a wonderful person. God, she is really, really a
- 19:28Speaker 2: very special person. She's out on the road right now
- 19:31Speaker 2: in Oregon or where I'd be like, hey, come show
- 19:35Speaker 2: Bob what an amazing person you are.
- 19:38Speaker 1: And I know it may be too soon to tell,
- 19:42Speaker 1: but would you anticipate having children with Molly too?
- 19:47Speaker 2: Uh?
- 19:49Speaker 1: I reckon not.
- 19:50Speaker 3: But maybe let's go back to the school.
- 20:02Speaker 1: What inspired you to start a school?
- 20:05Speaker 2: Well, mom and dad were educators, are educators, and they're
- 20:09Speaker 2: retired now from this work. But I went to five
- 20:12Speaker 2: different elementary schools by the time I was in the
- 20:16Speaker 2: fifth grade, in five different states. And it was all
- 20:19Speaker 2: on account of my mom and dad moving around with
- 20:21Speaker 2: the work that they were doing, learning about elementary education
- 20:27Speaker 2: and ultimately getting to the point where Dad started schools
- 20:32Speaker 2: and he did this as a as a as a headmaster, principal,
- 20:36Speaker 2: school founder.
- 20:38Speaker 1: So when I was.
- 20:41Speaker 2: When I was about thirty three, my first daughter was born,
- 20:46Speaker 2: my first child was born, and my ex wife said
- 20:49Speaker 2: to me, why don't you doesn't it seem like this
- 20:54Speaker 2: could be a good neighborhood for you to do like
- 20:55Speaker 2: what your dad does, And I thought, okay, yeah, let
- 20:59Speaker 2: me put out some feelers. That's a good idea, that'd
- 21:01Speaker 2: be cool. And it just so happened that all the
- 21:06Speaker 2: feelers took, you know, like they I went to It's
- 21:12Speaker 2: an episcopal school, right, So my first move was to
- 21:14Speaker 2: go to the bishop of the Diocese of Tennessee, and
- 21:19Speaker 2: basically he gave me a punch list, and I did
- 21:22Speaker 2: everything on the punch list, and then everything that I
- 21:25Speaker 2: punched out on that list made me another list, and
- 21:28Speaker 2: I punched that out, and then.
- 21:29Speaker 1: The snowball just kept rolling and rolling.
- 21:33Speaker 2: And pretty soon we had a ledgling board and a.
- 21:38Speaker 1: Whole bunch of people on it.
- 21:39Speaker 2: And then it was time to hire a head of
- 21:42Speaker 2: school and teachers and find a location. And then they said,
- 21:48Speaker 2: we want you to lead it, and I said, okay,
- 21:50Speaker 2: I guess I will. And so you know, I did
- 21:54Speaker 2: about eighty five shows that year that I first became
- 21:57Speaker 2: the chairman of the board of this nonprofit. And I
- 22:00Speaker 2: was doing it all on Like I told you, I
- 22:02Speaker 2: had a flip phone at this time, so I just
- 22:06Speaker 2: I had like hamstrung myself with technology. I'm at the
- 22:10Speaker 2: library in Peoria, and you know, Saint Louis and Kansas City,
- 22:18Speaker 2: every town I'm traveling in, I go to the library
- 22:20Speaker 2: so I can make sure that the school is failing.
- 22:24Speaker 1: It was a wild ride from the moment your wife,
- 22:27Speaker 1: ex wife excuse me, said you should do this till
- 22:31Speaker 1: the door's opened. How long was I four years at
- 22:36Speaker 1: this point in time? How many kids? Five years? How
- 22:40Speaker 1: many kids go to that school? The school is in
- 22:43Speaker 1: its eleventh year starting in August, and there'll be one
- 22:46Speaker 1: hundred and fifty kids in it. And how did the
- 22:49Speaker 1: economics work?
- 22:53Speaker 2: I met some people by about year six of the
- 22:59Speaker 2: school who were willing to become really principal, you know,
- 23:06Speaker 2: transformational gift givers.
- 23:09Speaker 1: But in the but the first half of it.
- 23:12Speaker 2: I was the largest donor and I did it all
- 23:14Speaker 2: with my money from Darius Rucker.
- 23:18Speaker 1: Okay, so it's an Episcopal school. I know people going
- 23:24Speaker 1: to Piscopal schools where there really was not much religion involved.
- 23:28Speaker 1: What is it like at your.
- 23:29Speaker 2: School, Like you're described, it's very it's not a religious
- 23:33Speaker 2: environment at all. Really it is at the chapel, but
- 23:37Speaker 2: the rest of the time it's just not And like
- 23:40Speaker 2: a lot of Episcopal schools, the you know, the vibe
- 23:44Speaker 2: is pretty It's a school with a lot of kids
- 23:47Speaker 2: that have two moms and two dads, or a school
- 23:51Speaker 2: with biracial kids with biracial families or blended families, or
- 23:57Speaker 2: you know. And certainly there's a lot of kids that
- 24:02Speaker 2: are not Christian at all. There's Jewish kids, there's Muslim kids,
- 24:06Speaker 2: there's Bahai kids. We had a big Bahi force in
- 24:10Speaker 2: the in the infancy of the school. Kind of my
- 24:14Speaker 2: my ald the guy I often I've often needed something
- 24:19Speaker 2: to rub against, like a like a grindstone in life,
- 24:23Speaker 2: like somebody to make some sparks with as a as
- 24:27Speaker 2: a as a doer of hard things, like being in
- 24:31Speaker 2: a band for twenty eight years. I always needed something
- 24:34Speaker 2: that that I could push against. I'm a real collaborative
- 24:37Speaker 2: type of artist person. And anyway, one of my principal
- 24:43Speaker 2: uh counterpoints in the starting of the school comes from
- 24:47Speaker 2: this faith called the Bahai Faith, which is from Iran
- 24:52Speaker 2: and Persia. And so you know, I'm saying this just
- 24:58Speaker 2: to show that, you know, the religion factor of the
- 25:02Speaker 2: school was pretty wide open. And my idea, like during
- 25:05Speaker 2: the pandemic of what is what are spiritual texts kids? Well,
- 25:10Speaker 2: here's the whole name rack of them. You know, I
- 25:12Speaker 2: think you know Jack London and Jack harrowac just to
- 25:15Speaker 2: name a couple of Jacks.
- 25:18Speaker 1: Okay, Now, more than any time in my lifetime, they're
- 25:23Speaker 1: different education philosophies. You know, some people teach to the book,
- 25:28Speaker 1: some people are banning books. What is the philosophy of
- 25:31Speaker 1: the education at your school?
- 25:36Speaker 2: Well, there's a lot of hot button issues that you
- 25:39Speaker 2: that you're alluding to right there with some are teaching them,
- 25:42Speaker 2: some are banning them. And we're definitely on the teaching
- 25:45Speaker 2: side and not on the banning side. But I live
- 25:49Speaker 2: in a state that's been very has really busied itself
- 25:53Speaker 2: with making sure that these so called woke agendas are not,
- 25:59Speaker 2: you know, infiltrating the school systems, and the kids aren't
- 26:03Speaker 2: being forced to learn about tolerance or what slavery might
- 26:09Speaker 2: have felt like or whatever.
- 26:11Speaker 1: You know.
- 26:12Speaker 2: Anyway, I don't really fool with that stuff. You know,
- 26:15Speaker 2: there's plenty of schools out there for parents that want
- 26:18Speaker 2: their kids to grow up in an environment where they
- 26:23Speaker 2: don't know how richly diverse this country is, or the
- 26:28Speaker 2: city is, or even their own zip code. And that's fine,
- 26:33Speaker 2: you make those choices. But our school is certainly one
- 26:36Speaker 2: where we celebrate all of our differences. And you know,
- 26:40Speaker 2: the curriculum is really focused in a classic sense on
- 26:43Speaker 2: reading and math and some of the computering stuff. It's
- 26:48Speaker 2: a little slow. We probably need to get the tech
- 26:51Speaker 2: going a little bit better. It's a startup so startup schools.
- 26:57Speaker 2: It is different in the charter movement because sometimes charter schools,
- 27:00Speaker 2: I mean, there's a lot of brand new charter schools
- 27:02Speaker 2: in Nashville and this is not one of them. We're
- 27:06Speaker 2: just you know, this school is sort of is made
- 27:10Speaker 2: by a community, and so it really feels like a
- 27:13Speaker 2: community school. You know, the overwhelming number of families come
- 27:16Speaker 2: from this zip code now, and it wasn't that way
- 27:18Speaker 2: when we started it when we just had sixteen kids.
- 27:22Speaker 1: What grades does the school have.
- 27:25Speaker 2: It starts with three year old, so that's called three
- 27:28Speaker 2: K and that's new. Like when when I started the
- 27:31Speaker 2: school it was it was four classes, a blended pre
- 27:35Speaker 2: KK and a blended one two. So it started in
- 27:40Speaker 2: four grades, sixteen kids. Two construction trailers that I diligently
- 27:48Speaker 2: got Metro to agree to for two years in the
- 27:51Speaker 2: church parking lot over by the show Neees that burned
- 27:54Speaker 2: down by the Girst House that they demoed to build
- 27:57Speaker 2: the new Taylor Swift Swift Memorial ball Stadium that they
- 28:01Speaker 2: are putting up right now down the street from me.
- 28:04Speaker 1: So presently, where is it in? What grade?
- 28:08Speaker 2: So presently We moved to a permanent building when I
- 28:11Speaker 2: got me a lease from Metro. And this was all
- 28:15Speaker 2: when I was still running the board and working really
- 28:19Speaker 2: closely with the head of school, who was, you know,
- 28:22Speaker 2: a friend of mine. You know, we'd kind of gotten
- 28:24Speaker 2: into this together.
- 28:25Speaker 1: And we are now in a.
- 28:29Speaker 2: Historic Metro school building built in about nineteen oh six.
- 28:34Speaker 2: And it feels a little bit like Ramona Quimby being
- 28:37Speaker 2: washed across the street by her father and Jesus is there.
- 28:43Speaker 2: It's old school. It's very Beverly cleary school scene.
- 28:48Speaker 1: But what grade if I start out at age three?
- 28:52Speaker 1: How long could I go to this school?
- 28:54Speaker 2: You can go until until you're finishing the sixth grade.
- 29:00Speaker 2: For a while we had a middle school program, but
- 29:03Speaker 2: again with the beakers and the test tubes and the computers,
- 29:07Speaker 2: you know, we just didn't have the kind of program
- 29:10Speaker 2: that you know, the curb appeal like we had kids.
- 29:13Speaker 1: But when I first.
- 29:15Speaker 2: Started it, we did this study from Belmont University and
- 29:18Speaker 2: about the demographics of the neighborhood and everything said start
- 29:22Speaker 2: at middle school. But then when we had a you know,
- 29:26Speaker 2: K through six and then we are adding the seventh
- 29:29Speaker 2: and at eighth, immediately it was like, don't start in
- 29:33Speaker 2: middle school. So sometimes the numbers aren't right. I know
- 29:36Speaker 2: a lot of people in the music business loved to
- 29:38Speaker 2: go by the numbers, and I never I feel like
- 29:42Speaker 2: it's best to be led by the spirit.
- 29:46Speaker 1: Okay, this is audio only, but I saw you get
- 29:49Speaker 1: up get a cup of coffee with the mocamaster. How'd
- 29:53Speaker 1: you get turned out to the mocamaster?
- 29:55Speaker 2: Uh? My friend got me a uh, she got this
- 29:59Speaker 2: for me because she's a I don't know, works for
- 30:03Speaker 2: a huge company that maybe makes these or owns these alongside.
- 30:08Speaker 2: And she's married to the Senator Hickenlooper from Colorado. I
- 30:13Speaker 2: know these people. Yes, yeah, he ran for president. He's
- 30:16Speaker 2: a great friend of mine. And his name is John Hickenlooper,
- 30:19Speaker 2: and he's just so great. I introduced him to his wife, Robin.
- 30:23Speaker 1: She went to high school. Wait wait, wait, wait wait,
- 30:25Speaker 1: I know both these people. I heard their story. How
- 30:28Speaker 1: did you you know? I've heard their version. You tell
- 30:31Speaker 1: me how you introduced him?
- 30:33Speaker 2: Sure, I mean I was just just thinking about him
- 30:35Speaker 2: because I was where I introduced him, which was at
- 30:37Speaker 2: Red Rocks. Old Crow was there. It was twenty thirteen.
- 30:42Speaker 2: I was there with my daughter and wife and and
- 30:46Speaker 2: our good friend from high school, Robin, and John Hickenlooper
- 30:50Speaker 2: was there because he was a friend of the Avid Brothers.
- 30:53Speaker 2: You know, he's always around musicians. And we were sitting
- 30:57Speaker 2: up there in the dressing rooms and I heard, you know,
- 31:01Speaker 2: Robin and my ex wife talking about the guy down there,
- 31:04Speaker 2: and she's like, yeah, that's John Hickenlooper. He's the governor.
- 31:08Speaker 2: He used to be the mayor of Denver. I met
- 31:09Speaker 2: him at a party one time, but I don't know,
- 31:12Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna go talk to him. Well she did,
- 31:14Speaker 2: and then they started dating and then they got married
- 31:18Speaker 2: and now they got a kid, and so yeah, we're
- 31:22Speaker 2: old friends.
- 31:23Speaker 1: Now, Okay, let's jump back.
- 31:26Speaker 2: So that's why I got the Mocha Master.
- 31:29Speaker 1: Okay, the wedding is on the twenty fourth in the Redwood.
- 31:33Speaker 1: So what's the wedding going to be. What is it
- 31:39Speaker 1: going to be? How many people? Oh? Hundred and a half.
- 31:47Speaker 1: But what are you doing for entertainment? Oh?
- 31:50Speaker 2: We got a cool bands called the Hot Club of
- 31:55Speaker 2: San Francisco playing some jazz standards and Stefan Gripelly type
- 32:01Speaker 2: of stuff. I love that kind of music and django.
- 32:06Speaker 2: And then you know, a lot of my friends are
- 32:08Speaker 2: going to be there in hers too, so there'll be
- 32:10Speaker 2: lots of music. You know, her family all plays, and
- 32:15Speaker 2: my kids play.
- 32:16Speaker 1: And you know, all my pals we all make music. Bob.
- 32:20Speaker 2: It's just it's kind of like the it's sort of
- 32:25Speaker 2: a skill set that I tend to find myself around
- 32:28Speaker 2: a lot of pickers.
- 32:30Speaker 1: And who's going to marry you? My dad? So let's
- 32:35Speaker 1: go back to the beginning. You say you were in
- 32:38Speaker 1: five different states. What were those five different states? Growing up?
- 32:43Speaker 2: They were Louisiana, New Jersey, Missouri, South Carolina, and Virginia.
- 32:52Speaker 1: Now they say it's very hard on kids to travel
- 32:55Speaker 1: and make new friends. How was it for you?
- 32:59Speaker 2: I didn't mind it. I didn't know that there was
- 33:01Speaker 2: anything hard about it. But I definitely didn't make friends.
- 33:06Speaker 1: You did or did not? I did not.
- 33:08Speaker 2: The friends I had were you know, imaginary.
- 33:11Speaker 1: You know.
- 33:12Speaker 2: I thought Michael Jackson would have been a good friend.
- 33:15Speaker 2: I sang all his songs, I acted like him and
- 33:19Speaker 2: mimicked him. I thought my bicycle was a good friend.
- 33:24Speaker 1: It took me to.
- 33:26Speaker 2: Drug stores and back alleys and river fronts. And I
- 33:31Speaker 2: loved my teachers. I really connected with my teachers. But
- 33:37Speaker 2: my best friends were my sisters and mom and dad
- 33:40Speaker 2: and my grandparents, the people that were getting into that
- 33:44Speaker 2: VW micro bus and rolling on.
- 33:47Speaker 1: And I had a dog. So how many kids in
- 33:49Speaker 1: the family. I'm one of three, and were you in
- 33:53Speaker 1: the hierarchy.
- 33:54Speaker 2: I'm the middle child, so the stable, middle only son.
- 33:59Speaker 2: And Dad was ever a very you know, Dad wasn't
- 34:03Speaker 2: a rough, tough dad. You know, Dad was a dad
- 34:07Speaker 2: was mild mannered, tolerant, a classic administrator. So it was
- 34:14Speaker 2: a little bit like sometimes I get around somebody whose
- 34:17Speaker 2: father is a preacher, and I feel a similarity. Because
- 34:21Speaker 2: my dad was the head of the thing that was
- 34:25Speaker 2: and because these were all independent schools, you know, dad,
- 34:28Speaker 2: Dad's being the head of the school, there was an
- 34:31Speaker 2: approachability factor in independent elementary education that wasn't there in
- 34:35Speaker 2: the public school. Like I've had my kids in public
- 34:38Speaker 2: school in the past couple of years since they ran
- 34:40Speaker 2: out of grades at Episcopal, and I don't I never
- 34:43Speaker 2: talked to the person in charge. But at my dad's school,
- 34:48Speaker 2: you know, he called this guy all the time. He's
- 34:51Speaker 2: a little bit like a priest too, because you know,
- 34:54Speaker 2: a lot of a lot of the families that go
- 34:56Speaker 2: to an Episcopal school, they don't go to church, and
- 35:00Speaker 2: so the school kind of becomes the church. And I've
- 35:04Speaker 2: been thinking Bob about because I don't go to church anymore.
- 35:08Speaker 2: And I stopped during the pandemic, and I realized that
- 35:12Speaker 2: I felt that the school was given me everything that
- 35:15Speaker 2: the church was supposed to give me, a sense of community,
- 35:19Speaker 2: a sense of purpose, a sense of right and of
- 35:22Speaker 2: duty and action. But all I ever saw at the
- 35:25Speaker 2: church was moch a master and gossip just shitter chat,
- 35:31Speaker 2: you know, like golf scores and shit is so irritating.
- 35:36Speaker 2: I wanted to I wanted it to be fiery and
- 35:41Speaker 2: have radical empathy and compassion. And it wasn't until I
- 35:45Speaker 2: got into the school as Church that I saw an alternative.
- 35:51Speaker 1: And I still kind of believe that. So i'd you
- 35:53Speaker 1: end up going to Exeter.
- 35:56Speaker 2: I got in on a scholarship from readers Digest got
- 36:00Speaker 2: to tell that story. Well, I got a I had
- 36:06Speaker 2: really really bad test scores, like laughably bad.
- 36:11Speaker 1: So here I had, you know, a.
- 36:15Speaker 2: Whole thought about where I was going to go to school,
- 36:18Speaker 2: and then I got my test s course back and
- 36:20Speaker 2: I was like, well, I can't go to any of
- 36:21Speaker 2: those schools. I better start looking at some lousier schools.
- 36:26Speaker 2: But then lo and behold, just out of nowhere, and
- 36:28Speaker 2: like my application process to the school like this is
- 36:33Speaker 2: where Lincoln sent his kids to school, right, Like this
- 36:36Speaker 2: is a hell of a place. My classmate, you know,
- 36:40Speaker 2: I went to the same high school as Mark dam
- 36:42Speaker 2: Zuckerberg and Gore Vidal. They all went to my school.
- 36:48Speaker 2: All these great all these really great thinkers and tinkerers
- 36:52Speaker 2: did mostly people in business though, so but I got
- 36:57Speaker 2: in on a fluke. I don't know how, and I'm
- 37:00Speaker 2: very early.
- 37:01Speaker 1: Tell me about the reader's digest thing.
- 37:05Speaker 2: Well, I submitted my application. It was like mostly poetry.
- 37:10Speaker 2: I was really into poetry when I was thirteen, wrote
- 37:13Speaker 2: a lot of poems. And I submitted this poem and
- 37:19Speaker 2: then this sort of plagiarized analysis of really the only
- 37:26Speaker 2: decent book that I had read, called Animal Farm by
- 37:29Speaker 2: George Orwell. But like you know, straight out of cliff notes,
- 37:35Speaker 2: and all of a sudden, like I got the letter back,
- 37:38Speaker 2: they said you're in. And then and not only are
- 37:40Speaker 2: you in, you're you're a scholarship recipient. You know, they
- 37:43Speaker 2: cut the feet in more than half. And I've looked
- 37:49Speaker 2: looking back on it, Bob, I think I may have
- 37:51Speaker 2: represented a kind of mid nineties diversity as a person
- 37:56Speaker 2: from some place really far away from New England. I
- 37:59Speaker 2: mean that far away, but you know, Virginia, and living
- 38:03Speaker 2: in a town that was self professed to be the
- 38:05Speaker 2: poultry capital of the world, where there were feathers flying
- 38:08Speaker 2: down the road, and every other high school was named
- 38:11Speaker 2: for some part of a chicken, like our big rival
- 38:15Speaker 2: where the Gobblers.
- 38:26Speaker 1: Okay, where I went to college, forty five percent of
- 38:28Speaker 1: the people were from prep school, and they were very
- 38:32Speaker 1: well read, and they knew the game, you know, certainly
- 38:37Speaker 1: and over an Exeter the absolute elite. What was your
- 38:40Speaker 1: experience at Exeter. It was the first.
- 38:49Speaker 2: Place that I really felt like I was home.
- 38:52Speaker 1: Like it was really great. I liked it. I loved living.
- 38:58Speaker 2: I loved being fourteen and not being with my parents,
- 39:01Speaker 2: not being with my sisters, and not having my old friends,
- 39:06Speaker 2: making all new friends. I loved living in New England.
- 39:09Speaker 1: It was so rich.
- 39:12Speaker 2: Where I had lived in Virginia, you know, all there
- 39:16Speaker 2: was was what was on the radio. And when I
- 39:19Speaker 2: got to New England, people listened to all kinds of music,
- 39:23Speaker 2: so much music, you know. I listened to The Grateful Dead,
- 39:27Speaker 2: and I listened to all this wonderful folk music and
- 39:33Speaker 2: music from Equatorial Africa and the Talking Heads is so
- 39:37Speaker 2: much great stuff. And then I was learning so much.
- 39:41Speaker 1: You know.
- 39:42Speaker 2: Then my best friends back in Virginia, you know, they
- 39:45Speaker 2: were instantly. You know, I had to walk through a
- 39:48Speaker 2: metal detector to go to school. School was sort of
- 39:52Speaker 2: like a place to keep you before they would go
- 39:54Speaker 2: send you out to go work at the dollar general
- 39:56Speaker 2: or send you into the military, and you know, about
- 39:59Speaker 2: half the kid went out of college and then they
- 40:01Speaker 2: would forget entirely about their high school because it sucked.
- 40:05Speaker 2: It was supposed to be a springboard. But for me,
- 40:09Speaker 2: the whole high school experience, like, I didn't go to college.
- 40:14Speaker 2: I didn't want any more. I didn't want another serving.
- 40:19Speaker 2: I certainly didn't want to go spend four years at
- 40:21Speaker 2: Harvard like many of my classmates did. I just wanted
- 40:25Speaker 2: to go straight to playing music and getting out on
- 40:28Speaker 2: the road and learn and going to see with my
- 40:30Speaker 2: own eyes all these places that I learned about from
- 40:34Speaker 2: the books that I read up in Exeter, New Hampshire.
- 40:38Speaker 1: Okay, but there's a real difference between the actual people
- 40:44Speaker 1: who were going to Exeter and where you came from.
- 40:47Speaker 1: A lot of them are the sons and daughters of
- 40:50Speaker 1: wealthy people. They live a lifestyle involving a lot of money.
- 40:56Speaker 1: There's a social hierarchy. To what degree were you accepted.
- 41:02Speaker 2: It? It was great people were you know.
- 41:06Speaker 1: This was.
- 41:08Speaker 2: I went to Exeter in nineteen ninety two and I
- 41:11Speaker 2: graduated in nineteen ninety six, and everybody was really welcoming
- 41:15Speaker 2: kinds you know, it was the I don't know how
- 41:17Speaker 2: it is now, and I don't and I think it's
- 41:20Speaker 2: very different.
- 41:21Speaker 1: I got a really wonderful and famous musician friend who
- 41:24Speaker 1: went to Exeter named Benmont Tench. Benmont was.
- 41:28Speaker 2: The principal, a principal member of the Heartbreakers and grew
- 41:34Speaker 2: up with Tom Petty in Gainesville, Florida, but went away
- 41:37Speaker 2: to Exeter and was classed in nineteen seventy three, four
- 41:40Speaker 2: or five or something. And I think in that time
- 41:44Speaker 2: Exeter may have been different, or like we read this
- 41:46Speaker 2: book by John Knowles called a Separate Piece that is
- 41:50Speaker 2: read widely by high schoolers across the country. Well, it's
- 41:53Speaker 2: that guy went to Exeter. The you know, Phineas is
- 41:56Speaker 2: this Egxzonian character. The whole thing happens at my high school.
- 42:02Speaker 2: And so I looked at my own experience, you know,
- 42:04Speaker 2: through the lens of time, and I can see that
- 42:07Speaker 2: the window in which I arrived and departed from Exeter was,
- 42:12Speaker 2: you know.
- 42:12Speaker 1: It was it was a time in which the.
- 42:16Speaker 2: Teaching staff and the administ the the admissions team had
- 42:21Speaker 2: been really hot to trot about diversity. So I went
- 42:25Speaker 2: to school with a lot of kids who were from
- 42:27Speaker 2: Spanish Harlem, or from Brooklyn, a lot of Aramco kids
- 42:32Speaker 2: from the you know out there in the Middle East.
- 42:36Speaker 2: It was really diverse, and so what it wasn't was
- 42:41Speaker 2: solely the Boston, the Boston Brahmins.
- 42:45Speaker 1: Okay, we're in this story. Do you start to play music?
- 42:50Speaker 2: And the last town that dad started a school in
- 42:54Speaker 2: was called Verona, Virginia. Like Verona, like fair Verona where
- 42:59Speaker 2: where Palas Romeo and Juliet get together and do the uchiku.
- 43:04Speaker 1: Well, that was a town that.
- 43:09Speaker 2: Needed me to get a part in a play, and
- 43:12Speaker 2: I was at the I went to Monticello, you know,
- 43:15Speaker 2: Thomas Jefferson's place, and that's where I got my first instrument.
- 43:21Speaker 2: If I had one here, i'd play it for you,
- 43:23Speaker 2: but I guess not in this room. But I got
- 43:26Speaker 2: me a jaw harp, and that was in the fourth grade,
- 43:33Speaker 2: and then I got a harmonica in the fifth grade,
- 43:35Speaker 2: and then the sixth grade I got a penny whistle,
- 43:39Speaker 2: and then I could play all those things. But then
- 43:42Speaker 2: in the seventh grade, up in my up in the attic,
- 43:45Speaker 2: I found my mom's old guitar. Now she had, like
- 43:49Speaker 2: a lot of people my mom's age, she grew up
- 43:53Speaker 2: thinking that the Kingston Trio were just outrageously cool, and
- 43:57Speaker 2: that folk guitar was the thing to do. In nineteen
- 44:02Speaker 2: sixty seven, my mother got an acoustic guitar and she
- 44:07Speaker 2: it just stayed with us, you know. Mom never played it,
- 44:09Speaker 2: but I got it and I learned to play it
- 44:11Speaker 2: when I was twelve in the seventh grade.
- 44:15Speaker 1: How did you learn self taught? Did you take lessons? No?
- 44:19Speaker 2: I was always self taught. And then the combination was
- 44:25Speaker 2: I found my mom's guitar up there. But my uncle
- 44:28Speaker 2: had moved to Manila to be a teacher, and he
- 44:31Speaker 2: left all of his shit in our attic. And my
- 44:35Speaker 2: uncle had My uncle had lived in San Francisco in
- 44:40Speaker 2: the summer.
- 44:40Speaker 1: I love.
- 44:41Speaker 2: He had gone out there on a motorcycle.
- 44:43Speaker 1: He had.
- 44:45Speaker 2: He had gotten arrested, he had burned his draft card.
- 44:48Speaker 2: He had gone to Antioch College's San Francisco affiliate called
- 44:55Speaker 2: the College without Walls. I would I would get a
- 45:01Speaker 2: reduce to all this. When my children were born on
- 45:04Speaker 2: a hippie commune called the Farm, which was started by
- 45:08Speaker 2: this guru that had been at the same time as
- 45:12Speaker 2: my uncle had been in SF. He had come east
- 45:16Speaker 2: and this was the back to the land movement. They
- 45:19Speaker 2: started this commune down here in middle Tennessee, a place
- 45:21Speaker 2: called the Farm. It was one of the most successful
- 45:24Speaker 2: intentional communities of the era and their angle was mid Whippery. Anyway,
- 45:29Speaker 2: that's where my kids were born. My uncle left all
- 45:32Speaker 2: this crap in the attic, and so much of it
- 45:35Speaker 2: were these touchstones to his counterculture lifestyle. But what spoke
- 45:40Speaker 2: to me the most, Like there was mild pornography, which
- 45:43Speaker 2: was really a thrill to find in my own attic
- 45:46Speaker 2: at age twelve, Like whoa sweets? There was just boxes
- 45:51Speaker 2: of Zippo lighters, just arts. But the most important thing
- 45:57Speaker 2: that I found there was his record collect And that's
- 46:01Speaker 2: when I were back to the part where I got
- 46:03Speaker 2: my clock radio. I quit that job because I had
- 46:09Speaker 2: a new job shine and shoes at the at the
- 46:11Speaker 2: barber shop downtown, and and I took my money and
- 46:16Speaker 2: I bought a record player so I could play all
- 46:18Speaker 2: my uncle's records that were up in the attic. And
- 46:21Speaker 2: I put these records on it was like the most
- 46:24Speaker 2: powerful feeling nothing's ever really felt quite like hearing it
- 46:28Speaker 2: for the first time. I could, you know, I could
- 46:31Speaker 2: get emotional thinking about it. The feeling of popping this
- 46:35Speaker 2: record on by Phil Oakes singing about the murder of
- 46:41Speaker 2: Medgar Evers, and I was like, oh my god, what's
- 46:46Speaker 2: going on this? Did this just happen? Or are there
- 46:50Speaker 2: lynch mobs in this town? And god, it was so
- 46:55Speaker 2: arresting to hear the music ofighteen sixty three and listening
- 47:02Speaker 2: to Pete Seeger sing live at Carnegie Hall with this
- 47:06Speaker 2: whole group of activists singing we Shall Overcome talking about
- 47:12Speaker 2: you know how kids weren't allowed to swim in swimming
- 47:15Speaker 2: pools and public pools in Alabama and Mississippi, And it
- 47:20Speaker 2: was just so I was just it was staggering to
- 47:23Speaker 2: hear this music of the protest movement in the sixties,
- 47:26Speaker 2: and that really lit a fire for me.
- 47:29Speaker 1: Okay, so you're listening to the record, you're playing the guitar,
- 47:35Speaker 1: Are you learning the songs off the records? Are you
- 47:38Speaker 1: playing with people in high school? Oh?
- 47:41Speaker 2: Yeah, well I'm not in high school yet. I'm in
- 47:43Speaker 2: the seventh grade, and that's what I Yeah, right, and
- 47:47Speaker 2: I'm playing my first song. You know, it goes in
- 47:51Speaker 2: the state of Mississippi. Many years ago, a boy of
- 47:55Speaker 2: fourteen years got a taste of southern law, and I
- 48:00Speaker 2: can sing all these other songs that felt like like
- 48:05Speaker 2: a powerful urgency, like they like they needed to come
- 48:09Speaker 2: through me, like they needed another vocalist, they needed like
- 48:13Speaker 2: a new vessel, like they had been discovered, Like as
- 48:17Speaker 2: if my attic were some sort of like crypt or
- 48:22Speaker 2: what's it called where they catacomb. It's like it was
- 48:28Speaker 2: like they were and as it was crazy, man, it
- 48:31Speaker 2: was like I was hearing voices. It was a really
- 48:34Speaker 2: powerful time in life and I felt that and my
- 48:37Speaker 2: friends were like unsucked with kick. But then I started
- 48:43Speaker 2: writing songs, you know, and my songs were all ripoffs
- 48:46Speaker 2: of you know Mary Travers and you know Leo Kotkey,
- 48:52Speaker 2: any anything I was listening to became the songs I
- 48:55Speaker 2: was writing.
- 48:56Speaker 1: So you go to actual or do you bring your guitar? Yeah?
- 49:02Speaker 2: I brought my guitar and to Exeter And in the
- 49:05Speaker 2: freshman year I petitioned the what I went to the
- 49:10Speaker 2: music department. I said I'd like to get a banjo
- 49:14Speaker 2: teacher because I wanted because I was by then I
- 49:18Speaker 2: was listening to Bob Dylan. The thing that happened before
- 49:20Speaker 2: I went away to Exeter was that in nineteen ninety
- 49:23Speaker 2: I went to my first concert when I was twelve,
- 49:25Speaker 2: sort of write because of the records I've been listening
- 49:28Speaker 2: to and because of the talk I was hearing at
- 49:31Speaker 2: the barbershop. See, we had a new black governor, the
- 49:34Speaker 2: first in the nation, Douglas Wilder was his name. No
- 49:38Speaker 2: state had ever elected a black governor until my state,
- 49:42Speaker 2: Virginia did. And the very first thing that the House
- 49:45Speaker 2: of Burgesses put across his desk was a new state
- 49:48Speaker 2: law that was going to combine Martin Luther king Day
- 49:52Speaker 2: in January with the birthdays of Stonewall Jackson and Robert E.
- 49:58Speaker 1: Lee.
- 50:00Speaker 2: So the very first piece of bill that he's got
- 50:02Speaker 2: to take a look at is called Lee Jackson king Day.
- 50:05Speaker 2: And the barbershop is just rife with commentary about the
- 50:09Speaker 2: black governor and Lee Jackson king Day. And I'm putting
- 50:13Speaker 2: that together with the records I'm hearing, and it's like,
- 50:16Speaker 2: oh my god, it's real, it's still happening. It's happening
- 50:21Speaker 2: right now, and I'm the only twelve year old that
- 50:24Speaker 2: seems to know about it. So anyway, I heard Bob Dylan,
- 50:28Speaker 2: and Bob Dylan was so much better than Phil Oakes, like.
- 50:33Speaker 1: A lot better.
- 50:36Speaker 2: And So I went to see Bob Dylan because I
- 50:38Speaker 2: saw that he was playing in Charlottesville. My mother took
- 50:41Speaker 2: me and my best friend and dropped me off and.
- 50:45Speaker 1: We went in.
- 50:47Speaker 2: I had never I didn't know anything about Bob Dylan,
- 50:51Speaker 2: and I did it. I certainly didn't know much after
- 50:53Speaker 2: the show, because I couldn't understand a word the man said.
- 50:57Speaker 2: But I'll never forget that I heard him saying these
- 51:02Speaker 2: forwards maybe five, Hey, mister tambourine and man, hey mister
- 51:07Speaker 2: and tambourine.
- 51:08Speaker 1: Man.
- 51:09Speaker 2: I could make those out clearly in his mumbling voice.
- 51:14Speaker 2: And I was blown away by the Bob Dylan show.
- 51:20Speaker 2: So you're asking me about how I got to Exeter
- 51:25Speaker 2: and when I I petitioned the school to get me
- 51:28Speaker 2: a banjo teacher, right because I wanted to learn to
- 51:30Speaker 2: play this part by Happy Troun on a song that
- 51:34Speaker 2: goes cloud so swift the rain falling in going to
- 51:38Speaker 2: see a movie called Gunga Din Well Happy Troum, who's
- 51:42Speaker 2: a New York folks singer Banjo Picker played the part.
- 51:46Speaker 2: He played the bluegrass role on that song called You
- 51:49Speaker 2: Went Going Nowhere that Bob finally put out on his
- 51:51Speaker 2: greatest hits record and Tho a song was made more
- 51:55Speaker 2: famous by the Birds, and a bunch of other people
- 51:58Speaker 2: cut it. But anyway, they said, no, we don't have
- 52:01Speaker 2: a banjo teacher, but go through the academic you know process,
- 52:06Speaker 2: and you can.
- 52:06Speaker 1: Maybe get one.
- 52:08Speaker 2: So I had to write letters and stand up in front.
- 52:12Speaker 1: Of the you know, the.
- 52:14Speaker 2: Governing body and plead my case. Well they did. They
- 52:19Speaker 2: got me this banjo teacher. And yet he didn't play Bluegrats,
- 52:23Speaker 2: so he didn't teach me to play what Happy Troun played. Instead,
- 52:28Speaker 2: he taught me I'm looking for a banjo. He taught
- 52:30Speaker 2: me to play claw hammer. He was an old time
- 52:32Speaker 2: banjo player, and he had this guy, Ryan Thompson. And
- 52:37Speaker 2: Ryan had played in Appalachia on these field recording trips.
- 52:45Speaker 2: He had played with Tommy Jerroll who was the great
- 52:47Speaker 2: fiddler and banjo player that became a hero of mine.
- 52:51Speaker 2: So a real fork in the road happened for me
- 52:54Speaker 2: right at that freshman year high school where I was
- 52:58Speaker 2: learning to play a really really traditional form of banjo
- 53:03Speaker 2: and writing songs that were mirrored after Bob Dylan and
- 53:08Speaker 2: and uh and love and every minute of it.
- 53:11Speaker 1: So you're there at Exeter are you alone in your
- 53:14Speaker 1: room practicing and writing or are you forming bands and
- 53:19Speaker 1: performing in front of the uh populace. Yeah. I was
- 53:25Speaker 1: like a popular kid, you know.
- 53:27Speaker 2: I wore overalls and I had dreadlocks, and I got
- 53:31Speaker 2: in a lot of trouble for drugs and alcohol. But
- 53:37Speaker 2: when I when I did get busted, it was with
- 53:41Speaker 2: one of the kids with the highest GPA in the school,
- 53:44Speaker 2: so they didn't kick me.
- 53:45Speaker 1: Out, which was great.
- 53:46Speaker 2: And then once I got busted, which happened in my
- 53:49Speaker 2: sophomore year, I had to be real straight for the
- 53:52Speaker 2: rest of it. It kind of saved my life because
- 53:55Speaker 2: it kept me so focused because I couldn't get kicked out.
- 53:58Speaker 1: I had dodged the bullet.
- 54:00Speaker 2: I was the first kid who had been caught smoking
- 54:03Speaker 2: marijuana at Exeter to not be ejected. I was playing
- 54:11Speaker 2: with bands on campus a little bit, but mostly at
- 54:16Speaker 2: that time, I was really leaning into my friend group
- 54:19Speaker 2: at home, and especially my best friend, Critter Fuque, who
- 54:24Speaker 2: was back in Virginia, and we were really enjoying our
- 54:29Speaker 2: love of Bob Dylan. He would go see a Bob
- 54:32Speaker 2: concert and send me the bootleg, and then I would
- 54:35Speaker 2: go and send him one, and we were trading bootlegs
- 54:39Speaker 2: back and forth. And then every time I'd finished a
- 54:43Speaker 2: session at Exeter, I'd come back home and there was
- 54:46Speaker 2: a wonderful coffee house in my hometown of Harrisonburg, Virginia
- 54:51Speaker 2: called the Little Grill, and it was run by this
- 54:54Speaker 2: Mennonite kind of driven, you know, kind of personality, Ron Copeland,
- 55:01Speaker 2: who was like really into worker own stuff. And there
- 55:05Speaker 2: were a lot of homeless people hanging around, and we
- 55:09Speaker 2: could like pay for our coffee with dish detail. So
- 55:13Speaker 2: I lived at this restaurant and I played there whenever
- 55:17Speaker 2: they allowed me in front of the microphone.
- 55:19Speaker 1: Okay, you said that you went to Exeter and you
- 55:23Speaker 1: hear the talking heads, you hear the grateful Dead. How
- 55:27Speaker 1: do you end up staying in let's call it traditional music.
- 55:33Speaker 2: Well, I guess I felt like those were all had
- 55:38Speaker 2: a lot in common with traditional music. I think punk
- 55:41Speaker 2: rock is really related to old time music. In old
- 55:46Speaker 2: time music, like there's no solos, nobody plays a hot part,
- 55:51Speaker 2: everything is together. The fiddle plays the same melody line
- 55:56Speaker 2: as the banjo. The guitar is the only thing that's
- 55:59Speaker 2: sort of backing it up. In a traditional old times
- 56:01Speaker 2: during band, there is no damn guitar. You know, the
- 56:03Speaker 2: guitar didn't make it into country music until the nineteen
- 56:06Speaker 2: twenties because of the mail order business. But nobody saying
- 56:10Speaker 2: nobody played guitar in Appalachia until Sears and Roebucks said
- 56:14Speaker 2: you can buy one for eight bucks. So the Carter
- 56:18Speaker 2: family really were the first generation of guitar players. So
- 56:22Speaker 2: like when the Bristol Sessions hit, like there isn't a
- 56:25Speaker 2: history of guitar playing in the Hills, there's a history
- 56:28Speaker 2: of fiddling and banjo playing even you know, to trace
- 56:33Speaker 2: the course with the Blues before the nineteen twenties, what
- 56:36Speaker 2: did people in the Mississippi Delta play fiddle? You know?
- 56:41Speaker 1: Banjo?
- 56:42Speaker 2: Get Joe six string Doughbros. Start coming through in the
- 56:47Speaker 2: late teens. So anyway, for me, I drew a straight
- 56:51Speaker 2: line from the Grateful Dead, who I went to see
- 56:55Speaker 2: when I was sixteen, the summer that Jerry Garcia died.
- 57:00Speaker 2: Think that was nineteen ninety five. I think he died
- 57:02Speaker 2: in August. Don't quote me on that, but I saw
- 57:07Speaker 2: him about three weeks before that in Giant Stadium Bob
- 57:10Speaker 2: Dylan was opening, and I thought, well, that's that's what
- 57:15Speaker 2: I do you know when I sing, when I sing,
- 57:19Speaker 2: when I strum on an acoustic guitar, it really felt
- 57:21Speaker 2: like the same thing. So I just didn't really draw
- 57:25Speaker 2: the lines. And I think a punk rock is being
- 57:27Speaker 2: related to it because of the the collectivism and that
- 57:35Speaker 2: collective approach to okay, everybody all wants ready said.
- 57:39Speaker 1: Go okay, you graduate from exit ear then what.
- 57:47Speaker 2: Uh? Well? I moved to Greensboro, North Carolina. I enrolled
- 57:54Speaker 2: in a Quaker college called Guilford College in Greensboro, and
- 58:00Speaker 2: then deferred as soon as I got in.
- 58:04Speaker 1: And did never end up going to that college. Took
- 58:07Speaker 1: a job I had my.
- 58:11Speaker 2: Saw in my senior year, I had met a bunch
- 58:13Speaker 2: of musicians from Greensboro at this at this old time
- 58:18Speaker 2: music camp type of place at Davis and Elkins College
- 58:23Speaker 2: in Elkins, West Virginia, which is only a couple hours
- 58:26Speaker 2: from where I grew up. I met two people there
- 58:30Speaker 2: that really changed my life. One was one was this
- 58:33Speaker 2: group of musicians from Greensboro, and the other one was
- 58:36Speaker 2: this banjo player from Ithaca, New York named Richie Stearns.
- 58:40Speaker 2: So I followed this group of musicians to Greensboro. But
- 58:45Speaker 2: I hadn't forgotten that Ithaca, New York was also a
- 58:49Speaker 2: place where there was a ton of really good old
- 58:51Speaker 2: time music. So, having bounced around Greensboro and then I
- 58:56Speaker 2: got a job, I put a sign up at a
- 58:58Speaker 2: feed mill.
- 58:59Speaker 1: I was at this time Bob.
- 59:01Speaker 2: I was spending a lot of time trying to determine
- 59:04Speaker 2: whether I was going to be an agriculturalist or a musician.
- 59:09Speaker 2: I was really into farms. An ag I had worked
- 59:12Speaker 2: on a couple of different communes.
- 59:15Speaker 1: Had why I was.
- 59:17Speaker 2: I loved selling food at the farmers market. I was
- 59:20Speaker 2: living with this family about forty miles out of Greensboro
- 59:24Speaker 2: and raising all this produce and all that thinking a
- 59:28Speaker 2: lot about farms. So I was really interested in finding
- 59:32Speaker 2: a job that could be like he plays music on
- 59:35Speaker 2: the weekend and then he farms all a week. He
- 59:37Speaker 2: gets to ride around on trackers, he's got goats, and
- 59:41Speaker 2: I think, probably looking back on it, it was about
- 59:45Speaker 2: trying to find something to sing about. But instead of
- 59:49Speaker 2: all that, I ended up moving to Ithaca, New York
- 59:52Speaker 2: in the summer in nineteen ninety seven, having been out
- 59:58Speaker 2: having this part of life gets real squeezed in, like
- 1:00:01Speaker 2: there was a lot going on. Then I was in
- 1:00:04Speaker 2: some important bands, and I was really starting to take
- 1:00:08Speaker 2: my buskin thing another through line this time in my life,
- 1:00:13Speaker 2: as I first started playing on the street corners when
- 1:00:16Speaker 2: I was about, I know, maybe fifteen sixteen, and ahead
- 1:00:21Speaker 2: of that, when I lived in Louisiana when I was
- 1:00:24Speaker 2: a kid. My mother always tells this story. My dad
- 1:00:28Speaker 2: went into a store and he said, wait here, I'll
- 1:00:31Speaker 2: be right back. I think it might have been a
- 1:00:33Speaker 2: liquor store, because I wasn't allowed in, because why else
- 1:00:35Speaker 2: does a parent leave their kid in front of the store,
- 1:00:38Speaker 2: especially in New Orleans in nineteen eighty three, which was
- 1:00:42Speaker 2: the murder capital of America, as my mother's quick to tell. Anyhow,
- 1:00:48Speaker 2: my mom says that when they got back from the store,
- 1:00:52Speaker 2: I was out in front of the I was out
- 1:00:55Speaker 2: in front of the store, and I had money at
- 1:00:58Speaker 2: my feet, and there were like what did you do
- 1:01:01Speaker 2: to get that money? And it turned out like I
- 1:01:04Speaker 2: had danced, which is what I had seen them do
- 1:01:06Speaker 2: in the quarter. The kids, you know, they they take
- 1:01:09Speaker 2: a ballpen hammer, and they put bottle caps on their
- 1:01:12Speaker 2: bottoms of their shoes and then they get out there
- 1:01:16Speaker 2: and dance. Apparently I had done some kind of act
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: that earned me dough out in front of this liquor
- 1:01:24Speaker 2: store in Louisiana in New Orleans. So having unlocked this
- 1:01:30Speaker 2: great secret, I really saw it with my high school
- 1:01:34Speaker 2: years to go out on the curb. You know, I
- 1:01:37Speaker 2: was always a hustler and I always loved making money
- 1:01:41Speaker 2: for music. Just thought that was the greatest thing. I
- 1:01:45Speaker 2: remember reading a book, or maybe it was seeing a
- 1:01:48Speaker 2: cartoon in which a hobo steals a pie off of
- 1:01:51Speaker 2: a window sill in the depression, right, that's how I
- 1:01:55Speaker 2: felt like. I feel like a thief of pies and
- 1:01:59Speaker 2: tar like I will take things. And I always liked
- 1:02:05Speaker 2: that feeling of living by my wits and playing music
- 1:02:08Speaker 2: on the street corner really made me feel like ground
- 1:02:12Speaker 2: zero of freedom, just the sense of being liberated.
- 1:02:17Speaker 1: I don't have a job. I don't I'm not responsible.
- 1:02:20Speaker 2: For anybody except myself, and I have this trick, and
- 1:02:24Speaker 2: the trick is if I can go, they'll throw money
- 1:02:29Speaker 2: at me, and then I'll really be free, so free
- 1:02:32Speaker 2: that I can buy a case of beer and a
- 1:02:34Speaker 2: carton of cigarettes and a motel room.
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: That's how free music will set me. Okay, so you're
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: in Ithaca.
- 1:02:43Speaker 2: Yeah, so I followed my girlfriend at Ithaca. She was
- 1:02:47Speaker 2: enrolled at Cornell, and I started playing as much as
- 1:02:52Speaker 2: I could down there on the Downtown Commons it was called.
- 1:02:57Speaker 2: It was like a pedestrian mall, and that's where I
- 1:03:00Speaker 2: met the people that would populate Old Crow Medicine Show.
- 1:03:06Speaker 2: I met Richie Stearns first, the great banjo player and
- 1:03:10Speaker 2: his band, the Tompkins County horse Flies, and they were
- 1:03:14Speaker 2: so great. They were like a punk rock old time experience. Well,
- 1:03:19Speaker 2: he introduced me to Willie. Willie Watson and Critter came
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: up from Virginia to join me up there, and we
- 1:03:27Speaker 2: met the members of the band and we played everywhere
- 1:03:31Speaker 2: we could, and then my girlfriend dumped me, and I said, hey,
- 1:03:38Speaker 2: let's get out of here. Let's go across the border,
- 1:03:42Speaker 2: because I had been up there before to play on
- 1:03:44Speaker 2: the street corner in other bands. And they said okay,
- 1:03:50Speaker 2: so we hit the road. An Old Crow Medicine Show
- 1:03:52Speaker 2: was born in the fall of nineteen ninety eight. Pot
- 1:03:56Speaker 2: we pulled our money together working at a and you're
- 1:04:00Speaker 2: picking grapes and we crossed the Canadian border in October
- 1:04:06Speaker 2: of nineteen ninety eight in a black Volvo eighty two
- 1:04:12Speaker 2: station wagon, all rested out in a Dodge Coachman, and
- 1:04:16Speaker 2: the seven of us headed for the Pacific.
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: So did you ever go to school in Ithaca?
- 1:04:32Speaker 2: Yeah? For one year. I attended Ithaca College. When I
- 1:04:37Speaker 2: was up there, shacked up with my girlfriend who was
- 1:04:40Speaker 2: at Cornell.
- 1:04:41Speaker 1: It was a.
- 1:04:44Speaker 2: Weird experience. I just didn't like it. I didn't do well.
- 1:04:48Speaker 2: I didn't make friends, just felt like having a job.
- 1:04:52Speaker 1: Now this same girlfriend who dumbs you, is that the
- 1:04:55Speaker 1: woman you ultimately married? Yeah, Lydia, Okay, in this continuum?
- 1:05:01Speaker 1: Do you learn how to play the fiddle?
- 1:05:06Speaker 2: So, Bob, When I was when I was in Greensboro,
- 1:05:14Speaker 2: I was in this old times string band and they
- 1:05:16Speaker 2: were they were so good and the fiddler was incredible.
- 1:05:19Speaker 1: I was the guitar player.
- 1:05:21Speaker 2: Uh, And I took over the job for this woman
- 1:05:25Speaker 2: she had been in the band, and she got another
- 1:05:27Speaker 2: gig in a really popular band at the time called
- 1:05:29Speaker 2: the Freight Hoppers. The freight Hoppers were one of the
- 1:05:32Speaker 2: most popular old times dring bands in the nineties. They
- 1:05:34Speaker 2: played on Garrison Keeler's show and everything I listened to
- 1:05:38Speaker 2: them with with with guarded jealousy. And I think because
- 1:05:43Speaker 2: of my personality type. I knew that that somebody that
- 1:05:47Speaker 2: was gonna, like Spearhead a great big transcontinental trip needed
- 1:05:52Speaker 2: to play the apex instrument in the old times dring
- 1:05:56Speaker 2: band the fiddle. So even though I could play the
- 1:05:58Speaker 2: other instruments like I had, you know, I had taken
- 1:06:03Speaker 2: mandolin lessons and I met David Grisman, and I still
- 1:06:12Speaker 2: suck at mandolin. I'm not saying I was ever good,
- 1:06:14Speaker 2: but I could play it, and I could play the bass,
- 1:06:17Speaker 2: and I could play the piano and the guitar and
- 1:06:18Speaker 2: the banjo. But when I was eighteen, I knew that
- 1:06:23Speaker 2: the buskin bit like if I was going to I
- 1:06:25Speaker 2: saw that I could do it better with a band,
- 1:06:28Speaker 2: and the band just needed a fiddler. And it was
- 1:06:30Speaker 2: such a tedious instrument to learn that I don't think
- 1:06:35Speaker 2: anyone else was willing to put up with what it
- 1:06:37Speaker 2: was going to take to teach yourself to play the violin.
- 1:06:39Speaker 2: It's a very hard instrument to learn. But when I
- 1:06:42Speaker 2: was eighteen, I went to a pawn shop I bought
- 1:06:44Speaker 2: a fiddle, and then I went alone up to the
- 1:06:49Speaker 2: Province of New Brunswick. This was the summer of nineteen
- 1:06:54Speaker 2: ninety seven, and before I went to Ithaca College. It
- 1:07:00Speaker 2: was right after I can't remember anyway, ninety eight, right
- 1:07:06Speaker 2: before we started Old Crow, and I taught myself how
- 1:07:09Speaker 2: to play playing up there in New Brunswick and Prince
- 1:07:12Speaker 2: Edward Island and found that I could spool them uh
- 1:07:17Speaker 2: and make money on the curb. And so I then
- 1:07:19Speaker 2: I went back to the boys and like, okay, I
- 1:07:21Speaker 2: can play fiddle. Now let's go wait, wait.
- 1:07:24Speaker 1: Let's sut out. Why do you go to New Brunswick.
- 1:07:29Speaker 2: Well, we'd already played in Ontario and Quebec. You know
- 1:07:34Speaker 2: when I did all that. When I was eighteen, I
- 1:07:36Speaker 2: went to Windsor and the and the up and we
- 1:07:40Speaker 2: were trying to go around Lake Huron.
- 1:07:43Speaker 1: You know.
- 1:07:43Speaker 2: I was really into these quick sodics, sort of like
- 1:07:46Speaker 2: let's go to the farthest away place.
- 1:07:49Speaker 1: You know.
- 1:07:49Speaker 2: Some people they they you know, they read where they
- 1:07:53Speaker 2: watched those Jacques Cousteau films and then they want to go,
- 1:07:56Speaker 2: you know, to the Sargasso See and they want to
- 1:07:59Speaker 2: go to the Seychelles and swim with the dolphins. I
- 1:08:03Speaker 2: listened to Bob Dylan and Woody Guthrie, so it made
- 1:08:05Speaker 2: me want to go to the most remote places of
- 1:08:08Speaker 2: North America where I could meet people that felled timber,
- 1:08:13Speaker 2: worked in mills and factories were native people's metal. I
- 1:08:17Speaker 2: was really really focused on wanting to be around indigenous communities.
- 1:08:22Speaker 2: So that really sent me to the to the north Woods,
- 1:08:24Speaker 2: into the Great Lakes where there were just so many
- 1:08:28Speaker 2: Native people. And so one of the first things that
- 1:08:32Speaker 2: I wanted to do was also this sort of like
- 1:08:35Speaker 2: you know, Vasco to Gamma kind of bit, where like, hey,
- 1:08:40Speaker 2: let's go put our flag in a moon that's never
- 1:08:43Speaker 2: been noticed before. This is at the same time, Bob,
- 1:08:47Speaker 2: that this new Canadian territory was named and created. This
- 1:08:51Speaker 2: happened the same year the band started. It was called
- 1:08:53Speaker 2: Nuonabut our Land in Innuctetud. But I just I've never been.
- 1:08:58Speaker 2: I'm still dying to go. But it really signified for
- 1:09:03Speaker 2: me that there's this huge piece of North America that
- 1:09:07Speaker 2: you could only be really deliberate about going to see.
- 1:09:10Speaker 2: And at age nineteen, I was convinced that I had
- 1:09:13Speaker 2: been picked to go lay eyes upon and I was
- 1:09:17Speaker 2: reading that book Undaunted Courage by Stephen Ambrose, so old
- 1:09:23Speaker 2: Crowe basically did the Lewis and Clark trip.
- 1:09:29Speaker 1: Wait wait wait, wait wait, wait, I want to get
- 1:09:30Speaker 1: the timeline right. You're in Greensboro. Do you go to
- 1:09:35Speaker 1: Ithaca when you ultimately go with the seven Members across
- 1:09:40Speaker 1: the border? You went to New Brunswick before that? Correct? Yeah,
- 1:09:45Speaker 1: did you go to New Brunswick before that year? You
- 1:09:49Speaker 1: went to Ithaca College?
- 1:09:53Speaker 2: It was the It was that same year I had
- 1:09:57Speaker 2: finished my freshman year at Ithaca College and I went
- 1:10:00Speaker 2: to across the border. I'd gone up to Bar Harbor, right,
- 1:10:07Speaker 2: and I played played up there and I was solo
- 1:10:10Speaker 2: and I met this guy in front of a jewelry
- 1:10:12Speaker 2: store there and he.
- 1:10:13Speaker 1: Gave me a dollar named Kevin Hayes.
- 1:10:18Speaker 2: Later, Kevin met me in Ithaca and we and we
- 1:10:21Speaker 2: started Old Crow more or less together. He was a busker.
- 1:10:25Speaker 2: He was a little bit older than me, from Haveroll,
- 1:10:27Speaker 2: Mass Well. We part of ways. He was up there
- 1:10:30Speaker 2: to break blueberries, and that's one of the other ways.
- 1:10:32Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, people can pick fruit. That's what
- 1:10:35Speaker 2: you can do when you're a musician. You find itinerant
- 1:10:38Speaker 2: farm labor. I squirreled that idea away. It was important
- 1:10:41Speaker 2: to know it. Later when I got to Appalachia with
- 1:10:44Speaker 2: Old Crow, was oh.
- 1:10:46Speaker 1: Need money, find a job with.
- 1:10:49Speaker 2: Whatever crop is being brought in right now, you know,
- 1:10:52Speaker 2: hate work in the hayfield, tobacco, any of that stuff.
- 1:10:57Speaker 2: He was picking raking blueberries. But you know, I wanted
- 1:11:01Speaker 2: to get across the border. I'd always wanted to go
- 1:11:03Speaker 2: to New Brunswick and Pei. So I went up there
- 1:11:07Speaker 2: and played on the curb that summer. And that's where
- 1:11:10Speaker 2: I was playing fiddle for the first time.
- 1:11:13Speaker 1: Okay, how did you get from place to place?
- 1:11:17Speaker 2: I had a Volvo station Wagon that I was driving
- 1:11:22Speaker 2: at that time. You know, I had a car.
- 1:11:24Speaker 1: It was, you know, a car. And then you literally
- 1:11:28Speaker 1: took no lessons, just figured out how to play the
- 1:11:31Speaker 1: fiddle by yourself exactly.
- 1:11:33Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so that was a hard instrument.
- 1:11:36Speaker 1: Okay, so now you're in Ithaca, seven people across the border.
- 1:11:42Speaker 1: Tell me what happens then.
- 1:11:45Speaker 2: Well, we had we had made these forays. Like before
- 1:11:50Speaker 2: I went to New Brunswick, I went across the border
- 1:11:53Speaker 2: with my best friends from Harrisonburg, Virginia called the Ratt
- 1:11:56Speaker 2: eleven Boys. That was a band that was my first
- 1:11:59Speaker 2: year out of high school, out of Exeter, and we
- 1:12:02Speaker 2: crossed and we went all the way up in the
- 1:12:04Speaker 2: dead of winter and we played on the curb and
- 1:12:06Speaker 2: we were We thought.
- 1:12:08Speaker 1: This is the life.
- 1:12:10Speaker 2: So then I sort of sought to duplicate that in
- 1:12:13Speaker 2: different ways. I did it alone, I do it in
- 1:12:16Speaker 2: a duo. Now I pulled my money together. I had
- 1:12:20Speaker 2: just been dumped my girlfriend and we all worked in
- 1:12:24Speaker 2: dishrooms and everything we could do to make enough money.
- 1:12:27Speaker 2: We raised about six hundred dollars and then we left.
- 1:12:31Speaker 2: We crossed the border just to go back.
- 1:12:33Speaker 1: I'm going to stop you for one second. You're in
- 1:12:35Speaker 1: bar Harbor, you're New Brunswick. How much money can you
- 1:12:38Speaker 1: make buski? A couple hundred bucks a day? Real good money?
- 1:12:44Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was incredible. And you're performing for how
- 1:12:47Speaker 1: long for a couple of hundred bucks? Oh? Five, six,
- 1:12:51Speaker 1: seven hours? And to what did we do? Establish relationships
- 1:12:56Speaker 1: with the people in these areas who come to hear you.
- 1:13:00Speaker 2: Iediately, And that's the that's the rosetta stone of it
- 1:13:02Speaker 2: all is that you get out on the curb. Once
- 1:13:05Speaker 2: you open up your case, it's like you got a
- 1:13:07Speaker 2: damn billboard in the middle of town, particularly if you're
- 1:13:10Speaker 2: in a shitty town where there's nothing going on, or
- 1:13:12Speaker 2: in an off season moment, because then people come over
- 1:13:15Speaker 2: to you and they're like, hey, I got this bottle
- 1:13:18Speaker 2: of wine, do you want some? Or my friend runs
- 1:13:22Speaker 2: this bakery. They'll give you a bunch of sandwiches and
- 1:13:26Speaker 2: a whole you know, all this food if you'll go
- 1:13:29Speaker 2: play there or you know, you can.
- 1:13:33Speaker 1: You know, it felt like.
- 1:13:37Speaker 2: The trade was opening up a lot of doors. And yeah,
- 1:13:42Speaker 2: so that's how that.
- 1:13:43Speaker 1: Was, okay? And were there ever any issues with the
- 1:13:47Speaker 1: laws so you can't bust here? Oh yeah, yeah all
- 1:13:52Speaker 1: the time.
- 1:13:54Speaker 2: The I mean they were like in Bar Harbor, for example,
- 1:13:58Speaker 2: Like I slept in my car at that time, right,
- 1:14:02Speaker 2: and you know, they didn't let you sleep in your car.
- 1:14:05Speaker 2: That's the first time I ever learned that you're not
- 1:14:08Speaker 2: actually allowed to just park a car and sleep in it.
- 1:14:11Speaker 1: I thought you could, you know.
- 1:14:15Speaker 2: Now it's twenty twenty five or whatever, and I there's
- 1:14:18Speaker 2: like somebody's sleeping in their car three blocks from here.
- 1:14:20Speaker 1: I know that.
- 1:14:22Speaker 2: And that lady's never been out of that car. Her
- 1:14:25Speaker 2: whole life is in her car. That's all she can do.
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: But the cops will eventually move her on too, just
- 1:14:31Speaker 2: like they moved me on. They did the same thing
- 1:14:33Speaker 2: in Fredericton, New Brunswick. That was the second time, but
- 1:14:37Speaker 2: the first time was bar Harbor and the cops woke
- 1:14:40Speaker 2: me up and I had made the mistake of sleeping
- 1:14:41Speaker 2: without any clothes on. And I was naked in the
- 1:14:44Speaker 2: back of this vall though, and it was like, oh,
- 1:14:48Speaker 2: officer pardoned me, is like, you can't be here. I
- 1:14:52Speaker 2: don't think my nudity helped endear me to the share.
- 1:14:58Speaker 2: Happened again three weeks later in Fredericton, New Brunswick. That's
- 1:15:03Speaker 2: when I figured out that it was really important to
- 1:15:06Speaker 2: try and secure a place to sleep. You know, all
- 1:15:10Speaker 2: the roads were leading up to this big transcontinental trip.
- 1:15:14Speaker 1: I had taken these little for to what degree would
- 1:15:17Speaker 1: you play on a street corner and the cops say
- 1:15:20Speaker 1: you can't play here?
- 1:15:22Speaker 2: Oh it happened all the time. I mean, oh, well,
- 1:15:27Speaker 2: this flashing forward a little bit. But after we had
- 1:15:30Speaker 2: done our big cross Canadian trip, I met a girl
- 1:15:33Speaker 2: at a you know, a barmaid in Vancouver, British Columbia,
- 1:15:37Speaker 2: and I went back to see her and I did
- 1:15:40Speaker 2: some busking on the way and I was for the
- 1:15:42Speaker 2: first time I was detained, you know, for about five
- 1:15:46Speaker 2: hours and questioned in a underground building in a downtown
- 1:15:51Speaker 2: in Pioneer Square in Portland, Oregon. I'd never been to Portland,
- 1:15:54Speaker 2: Oregon before, and that nineteen ninety eight and ninety nine
- 1:15:59Speaker 2: whoa town was incredible.
- 1:16:02Speaker 1: I've never seen nothing like it.
- 1:16:04Speaker 2: But yeah, I definitely saw like where they take they
- 1:16:09Speaker 2: on me and shit.
- 1:16:10Speaker 1: So also, to what degree would you be busking and
- 1:16:12Speaker 1: people offer you places to stay almost every time? Okay,
- 1:16:18Speaker 1: so now let's go back. You got your six hundred dollars,
- 1:16:20Speaker 1: you got your Volvo, you got your seven people across
- 1:16:23Speaker 1: the border.
- 1:16:24Speaker 2: What happens, Well, they wouldn't let us in. Eight It's
- 1:16:30Speaker 2: like we had the wrong liar in riding in the
- 1:16:32Speaker 2: passenger seat court. You get up there to the to
- 1:16:35Speaker 2: the window and they're like, well, what where are you doing?
- 1:16:38Speaker 2: Where are you going? Oh, we're just gonna go see
- 1:16:41Speaker 2: some friends. Well we're not gonna let you in. So
- 1:16:43Speaker 2: we went to three border crossings before we finally figured
- 1:16:48Speaker 2: and this is all in New York State, like up
- 1:16:50Speaker 2: around Potsdam, like it sucks up there. We tried to
- 1:16:54Speaker 2: cross Agannonockway, we tried to cross at Ogdensburg, we tried
- 1:16:58Speaker 2: to cross at Messina. But then we got to the
- 1:17:02Speaker 2: Mohawk Rets on Aquasasne, and I always read the newspaper
- 1:17:06Speaker 2: up there called Akuasasni Notes. I read it at the
- 1:17:09Speaker 2: at the college library because the living in the in
- 1:17:14Speaker 2: the land of the Iroquois Confederacy, like I was from
- 1:17:17Speaker 2: the South, like you know, Andrew Jackson had a very
- 1:17:20Speaker 2: effective job to do in Indian removal. So I had
- 1:17:25Speaker 2: the like everybody from the South, unless you lived in
- 1:17:28Speaker 2: you know, near the Chalctaw res in Philadelpha, Mississippi, chances
- 1:17:31Speaker 2: were all you were going to have of Indigenous America
- 1:17:35Speaker 2: was the name of your river, the name of your state,
- 1:17:37Speaker 2: the name of your town, the name of your county, whatever.
- 1:17:40Speaker 2: But moving to New York State, which I did when
- 1:17:43Speaker 2: I was in eighteen nineteen, it was like, oh, there
- 1:17:45Speaker 2: are reservations here everywhere, like seven of them. More So,
- 1:17:51Speaker 2: once we I was like, let's go to the Mohawk reds.
- 1:17:54Speaker 2: I bet they'll let us across. We went to Aquasasne
- 1:17:57Speaker 2: and it was great, and they they were like sure,
- 1:18:00Speaker 2: come on. And then they were like, hey, can you
- 1:18:02Speaker 2: bring the suitcase with you. We're like sure, put it
- 1:18:04Speaker 2: in the back of the car.
- 1:18:07Speaker 1: It's okay. So now you're in Canada. What do you do?
- 1:18:10Speaker 2: Well, we right across the border from Aqua Sasne in
- 1:18:13Speaker 2: New York the Mohawk, the Saint Regis Mohawk reds. Right
- 1:18:17Speaker 2: across the border from that is a town called Cornwall, Ontario,
- 1:18:21Speaker 2: and it's right tucked up against Quebec, south west of Montreal,
- 1:18:25Speaker 2: about two and a half hour drive. And this town
- 1:18:29Speaker 2: was gold.
- 1:18:29Speaker 1: It was like they were.
- 1:18:30Speaker 2: Like, welcome, welcome, We're so where you been.
- 1:18:35Speaker 1: I mean, immediately like we.
- 1:18:36Speaker 2: Get we're busting in front of some shithole and then
- 1:18:40Speaker 2: like somebody pulls up. It's like, hey man, why don't
- 1:18:42Speaker 2: you looked cold out there? Why don't you come play
- 1:18:44Speaker 2: indoors tonight? So we play some because this is in
- 1:18:48Speaker 2: you know, it's cold, it's in October. So now we're
- 1:18:52Speaker 2: playing in the you know, in a in a proper pub.
- 1:18:56Speaker 2: And then they got us in the next town. They're like, oh,
- 1:18:59Speaker 2: we know a guy up there has got a place
- 1:19:00Speaker 2: we play in there.
- 1:19:02Speaker 1: Uh.
- 1:19:02Speaker 2: And then we end up at in Ottawa where they
- 1:19:06Speaker 2: got this wonderful farmers market and the Tunis and the
- 1:19:10Speaker 2: Loonies are just reining in the case.
- 1:19:13Speaker 1: And so this is when you then go cross country.
- 1:19:17Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean the plan all along was to go
- 1:19:19Speaker 2: across the country. We we booked a couple of sort
- 1:19:24Speaker 2: of we had We had a woman in our group
- 1:19:27Speaker 2: that was dating the guy I met in front of
- 1:19:29Speaker 2: that jewelry store in Bar Harbor, and she knew this
- 1:19:33Speaker 2: uh Indian guy from Pine Ridge named Brian Brewer, and
- 1:19:38Speaker 2: Brian was a was an important person in the in
- 1:19:40Speaker 2: the leadership of the Lakota people. And so we had
- 1:19:45Speaker 2: this anchor date on pine Ridge. Like eve then if
- 1:19:47Speaker 2: you draw a line from you know, Cornwall, Ontario to
- 1:19:52Speaker 2: pine Ridge, South Dakota, like that's basically almost the entire continent.
- 1:19:56Speaker 2: It's so far away, and so we try I had
- 1:20:00Speaker 2: to thread this and we did it by going just
- 1:20:04Speaker 2: sort of following our wits and wherever the wherever the
- 1:20:07Speaker 2: good curbs were. And also that feeling of the books
- 1:20:11Speaker 2: I was reading, like hey, let's go north of Lake
- 1:20:14Speaker 2: Superior and we saw the northern lights. It was just
- 1:20:19Speaker 2: incredible seeing being in this in this vast North American landscape,
- 1:20:24Speaker 2: places that I'd never even thought about, like thunder Bait,
- 1:20:28Speaker 2: who goes there when they're nineteen with their band just randomly.
- 1:20:36Speaker 1: Okay, you got seven guys there's not much money involved.
- 1:20:39Speaker 1: How do you keep the act together?
- 1:20:43Speaker 2: Well, and we're just we're successful. We just keep filling
- 1:20:46Speaker 2: the and we're living on the cheap, you know, we
- 1:20:48Speaker 2: eating ramen noodles. And you know, all you need is beer, cigarette,
- 1:20:52Speaker 2: ramens and gas. That's all it takes. So it doesn't
- 1:20:55Speaker 2: mean a whole lot too. You know, if you have
- 1:20:58Speaker 2: a shitty day on the curb, you only make it
- 1:21:00Speaker 2: fifty bucks. So that's a tank of gas right there.
- 1:21:03Speaker 2: So if you're live in collectively, you know, and you
- 1:21:05Speaker 2: could live off peanut butter crackers. And this is stuff
- 1:21:08Speaker 2: that like I look at today, like i live in Nashville, Tennessee,
- 1:21:11Speaker 2: and I'm surrounded by kids who are in bands on
- 1:21:16Speaker 2: billboards around town around the I four for Interstate Spur.
- 1:21:21Speaker 2: I see their pictures and I'm like, that kid don't
- 1:21:23Speaker 2: know nothing about living off peanut butter crackers. They probably
- 1:21:28Speaker 2: don't even know that you got enough calories in a
- 1:21:31Speaker 2: cup of coffee, in a pack of anywhere.
- 1:21:35Speaker 1: Okay, so you you go cross country, you come back,
- 1:21:39Speaker 1: you go back to see the barmade of Vancouver. Then
- 1:21:42Speaker 1: what well, then.
- 1:21:47Speaker 2: We had been on this big, crazy trip. It was
- 1:21:49Speaker 2: like ten thousand miles we traveled, and it was now
- 1:21:54Speaker 2: almost Christmas, and we decided that we would leave at
- 1:21:59Speaker 2: the c forever and we would move to either southwest Virginia,
- 1:22:04Speaker 2: North Carolina, or East Tennessee. And so a couple everybody
- 1:22:12Speaker 2: kind of scattered after the tour, and then I went
- 1:22:14Speaker 2: down and started looking for a place to live. And
- 1:22:18Speaker 2: I went to Asheville, and I went to Mars Hill,
- 1:22:21Speaker 2: and I went to Boone, and I went to ald Saltville,
- 1:22:24Speaker 2: Glade Springs, Bristol, all these places, looking for a place
- 1:22:29Speaker 2: where we could farm and play and.
- 1:22:35Speaker 1: Lo and behold.
- 1:22:36Speaker 2: We ended up in Avery County, North Carolina, renting a
- 1:22:40Speaker 2: farmhouse with one hundred acres attached to it. And by
- 1:22:45Speaker 2: the summer of nineteen ninety nine, we were we had
- 1:22:49Speaker 2: the best, you know, we had the we had the
- 1:22:52Speaker 2: best garden of anyone. The old people would come and
- 1:22:56Speaker 2: just look at the garden. They'd be like, who are
- 1:22:59Speaker 2: these boys? H But we had, you know, potatoes that
- 1:23:03Speaker 2: were just the bounty of you know, we were growing
- 1:23:07Speaker 2: so much. The pole beans were incredible. Uh and uh.
- 1:23:11Speaker 2: And that's when we started playing. And you know, we
- 1:23:14Speaker 2: met Doc Watson that that that summer.
- 1:23:17Speaker 1: Okay, is it the same seven people? Yeah? So how
- 1:23:31Speaker 1: do you beat Doc Watson?
- 1:23:34Speaker 2: Well? We uh, like I said, we were doing a
- 1:23:37Speaker 2: lot of raising food. We had rabbits and chickens, and
- 1:23:42Speaker 2: we had goats and we had a sheep and you know,
- 1:23:45Speaker 2: we had all of us and there was a no TV.
- 1:23:49Speaker 2: And so we just were so creative at that time,
- 1:23:52Speaker 2: writing all this songs and making having such a good time.
- 1:23:56Speaker 2: And we and we play on the herb and boone
- 1:24:00Speaker 2: sometimes mostly Willie would go down there and play solo.
- 1:24:04Speaker 2: We all kind of had to get jobs, right, so
- 1:24:07Speaker 2: I worked manpower. That was always my go to because
- 1:24:10Speaker 2: you can make fifty sixty bucks a day doing horrible jobs,
- 1:24:13Speaker 2: dig a ditch and then fill it in, you know
- 1:24:15Speaker 2: kind of thing lay pipe. But Reebar I did that for.
- 1:24:20Speaker 1: A while.
- 1:24:22Speaker 2: Anyway, we're playing on a curb. It's the fifth of July.
- 1:24:26Speaker 2: The fourth of July, we'd made our first run of
- 1:24:29Speaker 2: corn whiskey that wasn't on the stovetop. See this time,
- 1:24:33Speaker 2: we were like reading the fox Fire book and really
- 1:24:36Speaker 2: trying to live. The reason the garden was so good
- 1:24:39Speaker 2: is because we planted it all by the lunar signs
- 1:24:41Speaker 2: we were visiting with all these old time people. It
- 1:24:44Speaker 2: was like I had found this place where where where
- 1:24:48Speaker 2: all of the songs. This is this great book by
- 1:24:52Speaker 2: Bruce Chatwin called The Song Lines. He's an Australian musicologist,
- 1:24:56Speaker 2: and he talks about the way the indigenous people there are,
- 1:24:59Speaker 2: the Aboriginal peaceeople, believe that music has has this profound pathway.
- 1:25:05Speaker 2: I mean, people have been living there for fifty thousand years,
- 1:25:07Speaker 2: so they ought to know. I felt like this confluence
- 1:25:10Speaker 2: of all the songs that I had ever learned was
- 1:25:13Speaker 2: in this town. And so it'd be like, well that
- 1:25:18Speaker 2: song we sing about that sheep, like who's got an
- 1:25:20Speaker 2: experience with a sheep? Well, suddenly there's one running out there,
- 1:25:24Speaker 2: and now we're singing about it. And it all growing,
- 1:25:26Speaker 2: all this food and then all this history too, like
- 1:25:29Speaker 2: the war and the Civil War. There just seemed like
- 1:25:34Speaker 2: the music was growing. It sounds like I felt like
- 1:25:37Speaker 2: we were at the headwaters that you could just go
- 1:25:40Speaker 2: fill a jug. And that was right when we were
- 1:25:44Speaker 2: really participating in all of these sort of elements of
- 1:25:48Speaker 2: the music. So it wasn't enough to sing about it.
- 1:25:52Speaker 2: You had to do the things that you were singing
- 1:25:55Speaker 2: about So when we met Doc Watson, it was just
- 1:25:59Speaker 2: on a of We had made all this corn whiskey
- 1:26:02Speaker 2: and everybody was really made sick by it. But we
- 1:26:06Speaker 2: had missed the good busking and we were like, well,
- 1:26:08Speaker 2: we better go down there.
- 1:26:10Speaker 1: Like rents do.
- 1:26:11Speaker 2: It was the fifth of July. A woman walked up.
- 1:26:14Speaker 2: She said, I love this kind of music, and my
- 1:26:16Speaker 2: dad loves it even more. Are you Are you guys
- 1:26:18Speaker 2: going to be here for a while? And we said maybe.
- 1:26:22Speaker 2: She came back twenty minutes later and she walked her
- 1:26:24Speaker 2: dad across the street. It was Doc Watson.
- 1:26:28Speaker 1: So you meet Doc Watson. How does that change your life?
- 1:26:32Speaker 2: Well, Doc listened to us and he gave us a
- 1:26:34Speaker 2: gig on the spot. He said, I love what you
- 1:26:36Speaker 2: guys are doing, and I'd like you to play at
- 1:26:38Speaker 2: the festival that I have in honor of my son
- 1:26:41Speaker 2: Merle and it's about forty miles from here. I'd love
- 1:26:44Speaker 2: to have you be there. And then, you know, Doc,
- 1:26:48Speaker 2: then we started writing. Then I started writing letters to Rosalie,
- 1:26:51Speaker 2: his Doc's wife, and forging this relationship.
- 1:26:55Speaker 1: Because I was like, oh my god.
- 1:26:57Speaker 2: We had paid you know, the biggest thing you ever
- 1:27:02Speaker 2: lie into a tip jar was the were the words
- 1:27:06Speaker 2: of Doc Watson saying you got a gig.
- 1:27:11Speaker 1: Before then.
- 1:27:11Speaker 2: I was like, well, I guess we're just gonna try
- 1:27:14Speaker 2: and make it. I was still like I was taking
- 1:27:17Speaker 2: a permaculture course at the time. I was like, maybe
- 1:27:20Speaker 2: I'll get into agg instead. But Doc sealed the deal
- 1:27:26Speaker 2: and we went to the merle Fest and uh, and
- 1:27:30Speaker 2: that's where we met Sally Williams. Sue brought us to Nashville.
- 1:27:34Speaker 1: She brings you to Nashville.
- 1:27:36Speaker 2: And what happened, Well, they invited us to Well, we
- 1:27:41Speaker 2: got to Doc Watson's place to Merlefest and we played
- 1:27:45Speaker 2: this really shitty set, you know that with We never
- 1:27:48Speaker 2: really used microphones before, and we were terrible at mixing,
- 1:27:52Speaker 2: so awful ear piercing. So it was like, well, we
- 1:27:58Speaker 2: sure was sure to put a lot into this. You know,
- 1:28:01Speaker 2: we better do something. So we started busking at Merlefest.
- 1:28:06Speaker 2: We just started playing and we played. We made our
- 1:28:09Speaker 2: own stage, we called it, we gave it a name.
- 1:28:12Speaker 2: We worked it all weekend long, and by the end
- 1:28:16Speaker 2: of it, I mean, we were on the front page
- 1:28:18Speaker 2: of the Wataga County Democrat.
- 1:28:20Speaker 1: We were what you.
- 1:28:21Speaker 2: Were talking about if you were at Merlefest and the
- 1:28:23Speaker 2: year two thousand, I mean, I met Willie Nelson. It
- 1:28:27Speaker 2: was incredible.
- 1:28:28Speaker 1: It was like.
- 1:28:30Speaker 2: The universe took notice of this band of gypsies that
- 1:28:34Speaker 2: was there. And not just the universe, but this lady,
- 1:28:38Speaker 2: this person from the Grand Old Opry, Sally, and she
- 1:28:42Speaker 2: called us about three weeks later and said, hey, I'd
- 1:28:45Speaker 2: like you to do that same bit that you did
- 1:28:47Speaker 2: at Merlefest. I'd like you to do it out in
- 1:28:49Speaker 2: front of the Grand Old Lopry and you could do
- 1:28:51Speaker 2: it all summer long. And so we started working on
- 1:28:56Speaker 2: Friday nights at the Opry. I've been in Nashville before
- 1:29:00Speaker 2: and played on the street corner there I started. I
- 1:29:03Speaker 2: went there in nineteen ninety six, right out of high
- 1:29:05Speaker 2: school with that band from Greensboro. And I was like, well,
- 1:29:09Speaker 2: and I told everybody, we got to go to Nashville,
- 1:29:12Speaker 2: y'all that the Buskin is so incredible. It's five hundred
- 1:29:15Speaker 2: dollars town.
- 1:29:17Speaker 1: And it was.
- 1:29:18Speaker 2: So we started going down to Nashville on the weekends
- 1:29:21Speaker 2: from Appalachia, where we're living in Avery County, North Carolina,
- 1:29:26Speaker 2: and we you know, we'd play on the on the
- 1:29:29Speaker 2: on the curb of the Opry House on Friday, and
- 1:29:33Speaker 2: then Saturday we play all day and all night on
- 1:29:36Speaker 2: the street corner downtown on Lower Broad and then take
- 1:29:39Speaker 2: all our money and go back home.
- 1:29:40Speaker 1: To you know, to Boon more or less.
- 1:29:46Speaker 2: So keep playing the story. Okay, Well, you know, eventually
- 1:29:53Speaker 2: we were like, well, why don't we just move there,
- 1:29:57Speaker 2: you know, let's let's get out of the holler.
- 1:30:00Speaker 1: Moved down there.
- 1:30:02Speaker 2: So we first had to get rid of all the animals,
- 1:30:07Speaker 2: and a bunch of a bunch of bad ship was happening,
- 1:30:11Speaker 2: like really bad ship. You know, Willie's dad died and
- 1:30:16Speaker 2: it was super traumatic for everybody.
- 1:30:21Speaker 1: Back in Ithaca.
- 1:30:22Speaker 2: Uh. And we were all there, we're making a record
- 1:30:24Speaker 2: and Mike Watson died in a horrible accident. Uh and
- 1:30:30Speaker 2: that was really shocking. And so part of part of
- 1:30:33Speaker 2: the let's just go to Nashville was let's get away
- 1:30:36Speaker 2: from what's just happened. It was too tragic, let's not
- 1:30:39Speaker 2: talk about it, let's just go. So we found, you know,
- 1:30:44Speaker 2: we moved to Dickerson Road, which was the worst part
- 1:30:46Speaker 2: of Nashville, and you know, we gave away all our animals.
- 1:30:54Speaker 1: So now you're in Nashville, you're busking you're making records.
- 1:30:58Speaker 1: What are you doing?
- 1:31:00Speaker 2: Yeah, we're playing on the curb. And then eventually they
- 1:31:03Speaker 2: they're inviting us up to play at the station in
- 1:31:08Speaker 2: you know that was and we're playing at Bobby's idel Hour,
- 1:31:12Speaker 2: and we're meeting people, and you know, I was always
- 1:31:16Speaker 2: pretty savvy, you know, I like, I was good at
- 1:31:19Speaker 2: remembering people's names, looking people in the eye, and writing
- 1:31:25Speaker 2: a lot of letters. I was writing letters to DJ's
- 1:31:29Speaker 2: radio stations. I wrote letters to Garrison Keeler, I wrote,
- 1:31:33Speaker 2: I wrote, and you know, we got our opry debut.
- 1:31:40Speaker 2: We met Marty Stewart. I started writing letters to Marty Stewart.
- 1:31:45Speaker 1: And then and then one.
- 1:31:48Speaker 2: Day at the station inn, this couple came that had
- 1:31:54Speaker 2: hurt us on the radio, and it was Gillian Welch
- 1:31:58Speaker 2: and David Rawlings. And that was sort of the beginning
- 1:32:02Speaker 2: of really getting into living in Nashville and finding somebody
- 1:32:07Speaker 2: to help champion our cause.
- 1:32:11Speaker 1: Okay, the question becomes everybody stays together. No one says,
- 1:32:17Speaker 1: hey there's not enough money, I'm going home, or I'm
- 1:32:19Speaker 1: going to graduate school, none of that.
- 1:32:23Speaker 2: Yeah, our bass player has a kid and leaves almost
- 1:32:30Speaker 2: as soon as we arrive in Nashville. But we're playing
- 1:32:33Speaker 2: downtown and Morgan walks by on Lower Abroad and throws
- 1:32:40Speaker 2: us a dollar, and this becomes well, like I told you,
- 1:32:44Speaker 2: my friend Kevin threw me a dollar in Bar Harbor.
- 1:32:47Speaker 2: That's the first person that I became inextricably linked to
- 1:32:50Speaker 2: because of busting.
- 1:32:51Speaker 1: Morgan was the second.
- 1:32:53Speaker 2: But then Critter dropped out of the bands because he
- 1:32:56Speaker 2: was he couldn't stop drinking. And we're playing in New
- 1:33:00Speaker 2: Orleans and another guy we met on the curve there,
- 1:33:03Speaker 2: Gil Landry, became a member of the band. And at
- 1:33:07Speaker 2: some point the majority of the players in the band
- 1:33:10Speaker 2: had all met through chance encounters on street corners. It
- 1:33:14Speaker 2: was just like this divinity, you know, you just you
- 1:33:17Speaker 2: go out there and you open your case and the
- 1:33:19Speaker 2: right things seemed to happen. It was almost like, well,
- 1:33:22Speaker 2: it's like this universe needed there to be a band
- 1:33:25Speaker 2: that was going to survive, particularly in those first you know,
- 1:33:28Speaker 2: five eight years. Oh we were you know.
- 1:33:31Speaker 1: We made it.
- 1:33:31Speaker 2: Then we got a record deal, and right around then
- 1:33:37Speaker 2: is when I got married. It was the year two
- 1:33:40Speaker 2: thousand and one.
- 1:33:41Speaker 1: Okay, how'd you get a record deal?
- 1:33:46Speaker 2: We we went to south By Southwest and We had
- 1:33:55Speaker 2: been doing some shows with this band that we had
- 1:33:57Speaker 2: met when we were out in Vancouver that where they
- 1:34:00Speaker 2: were so cool. They were like us, They were gypsies.
- 1:34:03Speaker 2: They would go and do this thing called Hella logging
- 1:34:06Speaker 2: or Heila logging in which like after they go like
- 1:34:10Speaker 2: they log by helicopter up there because it's so damn
- 1:34:13Speaker 2: romon there are no roads, so that once they carry
- 1:34:16Speaker 2: all the woods out, then they bring these hippies in
- 1:34:19Speaker 2: they drop them down the middle of damn nowhere British
- 1:34:22Speaker 2: Columbia to go plant all the trees that will be
- 1:34:25Speaker 2: the next crop. And the girls in the Be Good
- 1:34:28Speaker 2: Tanias they would ride in on these them helicopters and
- 1:34:32Speaker 2: drip drop them down. Then they go plant trees for
- 1:34:34Speaker 2: a couple of weeks and then they come back. And
- 1:34:36Speaker 2: that was like us, you know. We found a band
- 1:34:38Speaker 2: that was really kindred and they were hugely popular in
- 1:34:42Speaker 2: the year two thousand and one two and three, the
- 1:34:44Speaker 2: Be Good Tanyas were. They played in Europe. We got
- 1:34:48Speaker 2: to open up for them. So anyway, their record company,
- 1:34:51Speaker 2: a Canadian label called Network, signed us, hoping that they
- 1:34:57Speaker 2: were going to duplicate the same and we had two
- 1:35:00Speaker 2: competing record deals. We could either sign with Network or
- 1:35:04Speaker 2: we could have signed with Ricky Skaggs, and we chose
- 1:35:08Speaker 2: the Canadian label And how did that work out? Well,
- 1:35:14Speaker 2: it was it was cool. I mean, they agreed to
- 1:35:17Speaker 2: fund our record and we had met this wonderful producer,
- 1:35:22Speaker 2: David Rawlings, and he was like a member of the band.
- 1:35:26Speaker 2: Once Critter left because he couldn't stop drinking, you know,
- 1:35:29Speaker 2: David came in and now David was in the band
- 1:35:32Speaker 2: and we were doing all kinds of touring together and
- 1:35:36Speaker 2: sometimes then we started open up for Gillian Welch, and
- 1:35:40Speaker 2: you know, the work just kept following and we had
- 1:35:43Speaker 2: a record deal and it was and yeah, we were working.
- 1:35:47Speaker 2: We had an agent, who is your agent, Bobby Cudd.
- 1:35:52Speaker 2: For the longest time, for forever, for until the present,
- 1:35:57Speaker 2: it's been Bobby cud and Bobby Cud nothing but because
- 1:36:01Speaker 2: we love Bobby. He was our very first music business champion.
- 1:36:06Speaker 2: We did not have a manager. I was the guy
- 1:36:09Speaker 2: doing all the books. And then we met Norm Parento
- 1:36:14Speaker 2: who cautioned us and said, don't sign that record deal.
- 1:36:17Speaker 1: Let me look at it. That was the deal with Ricky. Okay,
- 1:36:23Speaker 1: we're in this story. Does Wagon Wheel.
- 1:36:25Speaker 2: Happen at Exeter. I wrote it there. Like I was
- 1:36:31Speaker 2: telling you before, I was trading these bootlegs back and forth,
- 1:36:35Speaker 2: you know, and one day Critter sent me a bootleg
- 1:36:38Speaker 2: and I heard this song and I was like, wow,
- 1:36:40Speaker 2: that's really good. I should really finish that. I'll doctor
- 1:36:46Speaker 2: it up. So this is the fall of my senior
- 1:36:51Speaker 2: year at Exeter. Around November seventeen, I wrote the song
- 1:36:57Speaker 2: wagon Wheel, and but my band well, then I went
- 1:37:03Speaker 2: to Greensboro and I was like, hey, guys, I've written
- 1:37:06Speaker 2: this amazing song. Way do you hear it? And I
- 1:37:09Speaker 2: played it for him and they were like, catch, we
- 1:37:12Speaker 2: only do traditional material. We don't do like originals. This
- 1:37:16Speaker 2: is not what we do. So I was like, oh,
- 1:37:19Speaker 2: maybe maybe I don't either. Oh maybe I don't do originals.
- 1:37:23Speaker 2: Maybe I just do traditionals. So I shelved it. And
- 1:37:28Speaker 2: when when Old Crow was on the street corner, we
- 1:37:32Speaker 2: hardly ever played that song when you know, it just
- 1:37:34Speaker 2: sort of sat there until I got to Nashville. And
- 1:37:40Speaker 2: you know, one of our first meetings was with a
- 1:37:43Speaker 2: song plugger and they were like, well, you guys are
- 1:37:47Speaker 2: really good and you're fun and you're you're all cute
- 1:37:50Speaker 2: and whatnot. But this isn't a town where Annie Bellham
- 1:37:53Speaker 2: folk music really has a stronghold.
- 1:37:56Speaker 1: So what have you written lately? And I was like,
- 1:38:00Speaker 1: well I.
- 1:38:00Speaker 2: Got this song and I started playing it for him.
- 1:38:03Speaker 2: They're like, that's a good tune. So it really helped,
- 1:38:07Speaker 2: you know, it opened a lot of doors for us.
- 1:38:08Speaker 2: It was an immediately popular tune back in about two
- 1:38:11Speaker 2: thousand and two, and then we sought to publish the
- 1:38:15Speaker 2: song for our first for our debut album. We had
- 1:38:19Speaker 2: made records before, but they were almost all traditional recordings,
- 1:38:23Speaker 2: you know, songs, old songs. Even the new songs were
- 1:38:29Speaker 2: half borrowed and half stolen, and they sounded like old songs.
- 1:38:32Speaker 2: But when Dave Brawlings went to record us, you know,
- 1:38:35Speaker 2: that was that was one of the focus points, was
- 1:38:39Speaker 2: let's make sure we get a good version of wagon Wheel.
- 1:38:42Speaker 1: Yes, but you went to publish it and Dylan it
- 1:38:46Speaker 1: started it tell us that story.
- 1:38:50Speaker 2: Well, I didn't know anything about publishing, but I had
- 1:38:55Speaker 2: a but you just get a publisher, you know, they
- 1:38:59Speaker 2: signed I signed up for BMI because that's what they
- 1:39:02Speaker 2: said to do and that we'd make good contacts.
- 1:39:05Speaker 1: So we signed up for BMI.
- 1:39:07Speaker 2: And and then to go register your songs, you know,
- 1:39:12Speaker 2: you had to figure out who wrote them and split
- 1:39:15Speaker 2: it up. So and I was somebody that was like, well,
- 1:39:19Speaker 2: let's say we all wrote it, boys, let's everybody takes
- 1:39:22Speaker 2: a one fifth or one sixth draw.
- 1:39:25Speaker 1: Won't that be great?
- 1:39:26Speaker 2: We'll all get about fifteen twenty percent, fellas, it'll be great.
- 1:39:32Speaker 2: But then the manager was like, well, actually, it's best
- 1:39:34Speaker 2: to like, if you wrote it, you get to keep it.
- 1:39:37Speaker 2: And I had a real hard time with that idea.
- 1:39:41Speaker 2: I had already tried to give away my publishing before
- 1:39:44Speaker 2: because I really thought that collectivism was king and that
- 1:39:49Speaker 2: part of the majesty of all this was kind of
- 1:39:54Speaker 2: hobbling yourself, you know, like you're supposed to give it
- 1:39:58Speaker 2: all away, you're not. None of this is yours to
- 1:40:01Speaker 2: keep catch So that's how I felt about it. So
- 1:40:05Speaker 2: it was really odd to me when they were like, hey,
- 1:40:09Speaker 2: we need to have a lot of meetings about this song,
- 1:40:12Speaker 2: and Bob Dylan like, this can't just be like a
- 1:40:15Speaker 2: gray area. So the record had already been pressed and
- 1:40:19Speaker 2: was being released in a matter of weeks or a month,
- 1:40:23Speaker 2: and the song still wasn't published, So it was it
- 1:40:26Speaker 2: was a real nail bier, And finally Norm got Jeff
- 1:40:31Speaker 2: Rosen to pick up the phone, and Jeff Rosen said,
- 1:40:35Speaker 2: Bob has heard the track. Bob wants you to know
- 1:40:39Speaker 2: that he did not write that song, but he has
- 1:40:44Speaker 2: come across that song, or it came across it in
- 1:40:47Speaker 2: nineteen seventy three from the author of that song, Arthur
- 1:40:52Speaker 2: crut Up. But Arthur is dead, and so Bob has
- 1:40:56Speaker 2: agreed that he will split it fifty to fifty with Catch.
- 1:41:01Speaker 2: And then suddenly, like manna from Heaven, it was like, ah,
- 1:41:05Speaker 2: it's over. The negotiation is done, the song is locked in.
- 1:41:10Speaker 2: It's fifty to fifty Catch and Bob over the loss is.
- 1:41:14Speaker 1: Your reference Earlier with Darius Rutger, the song starts to
- 1:41:19Speaker 1: have its own life. It becomes a standard. Are you
- 1:41:23Speaker 1: totally surprised? Do you even know Darius is going to
- 1:41:26Speaker 1: cut it?
- 1:41:28Speaker 2: Darius didn't cut it until maybe twenty twelve or something,
- 1:41:31Speaker 2: so this was all more than a decade before that.
- 1:41:35Speaker 2: Plus I wrote it in ninety five, so I had
- 1:41:37Speaker 2: had all this other time with it, you know, And
- 1:41:41Speaker 2: I mentioned that, So we didn't play it very much.
- 1:41:45Speaker 2: I was sort of embarrassed about it. It was like
- 1:41:48Speaker 2: it's like if you showed up at you know, a
- 1:41:52Speaker 2: knife fight and you have in your possession, you know,
- 1:41:57Speaker 2: a bazooka. It was like, I don't let them see
- 1:42:00Speaker 2: that you got this gold. You're supposed to all be
- 1:42:04Speaker 2: out here hungry.
- 1:42:05Speaker 1: Right.
- 1:42:06Speaker 2: There was just something in my DNA that was like,
- 1:42:09Speaker 2: you know, I didn't want to be the kid from
- 1:42:11Speaker 2: prep school. I wanted to be like Woody got Thrie,
- 1:42:14Speaker 2: you know. I wanted to get on a box car
- 1:42:16Speaker 2: and ride, you know. I didn't want to be jet set.
- 1:42:21Speaker 1: You know.
- 1:42:22Speaker 2: I wanted to be a folk singer. So I had
- 1:42:23Speaker 2: to act it. And so some of some of the
- 1:42:28Speaker 2: thing about rock Me Mama, because that's what it was called.
- 1:42:30Speaker 2: It wasn't called wagon Wheel, It's called rock Me Mama.
- 1:42:34Speaker 2: Some of that was like me just trying to not
- 1:42:38Speaker 2: reveal that there were to do it the hard way,
- 1:42:42Speaker 2: like I wanted it to be hard. I wanted I
- 1:42:45Speaker 2: thought it was important that we experience, you know, hardship
- 1:42:51Speaker 2: to grow the band, and it's e those like it was,
- 1:42:54Speaker 2: you know, like that's why we got an ad because
- 1:42:58Speaker 2: because if it dies, it's on you.
- 1:43:01Speaker 1: And I wanted it to be hard like that.
- 1:43:05Speaker 2: But one day we were playing down in around a
- 1:43:11Speaker 2: milltown Hickory. We're in down in the Hickory, North Carolina.
- 1:43:15Speaker 2: You know, it was like a Sunday night. It was
- 1:43:17Speaker 2: like fifteen people in the room. And this this old
- 1:43:21Speaker 2: guy was who had had the tobacco allotment behind the
- 1:43:24Speaker 2: house that we were squatting in, Me and Kevin, and
- 1:43:28Speaker 2: he is a Vietnam vet and he was missing teeth
- 1:43:30Speaker 2: and he was you know, he.
- 1:43:32Speaker 1: And he you know, he sold drugs. He was like
- 1:43:34Speaker 1: an air do well.
- 1:43:35Speaker 2: But he was a deer of friends we had. We
- 1:43:39Speaker 2: brought him with him down at Hickory and he heard
- 1:43:42Speaker 2: of the show. He heard the show, he watched it.
- 1:43:44Speaker 2: He came up to me in the parking lot, Bob,
- 1:43:45Speaker 2: and he said, hey, Kitch, you just need to play
- 1:43:48Speaker 2: that wagon wheel about every night. And I turned to
- 1:43:51Speaker 2: him and I was like, what did I never heard
- 1:43:54Speaker 2: that word wagon wheel before, Like it didn't mean nothing
- 1:43:57Speaker 2: to me, and he had just that was the name
- 1:44:00Speaker 2: of the song, and he really coined it for me.
- 1:44:05Speaker 2: James Sizemore. Now James then found religion and got clean
- 1:44:09Speaker 2: and James died with you know, a nice bass boat
- 1:44:13Speaker 2: and you know he had a new car. He died
- 1:44:17Speaker 2: right after Hurricane Helene, just a couple of years ago.
- 1:44:20Speaker 2: I really miss him and I but I got to
- 1:44:22Speaker 2: reconnect with him and tell him, you know, and he
- 1:44:26Speaker 2: knew about Molly.
- 1:44:27Speaker 1: He's like, I mean, I want you know. He gave
- 1:44:31Speaker 1: me a lot.
- 1:44:32Speaker 2: Of love right there at the end before he died.
- 1:44:34Speaker 2: But he gave me this really powerful gift. He told
- 1:44:37Speaker 2: me that I should change the name from rock Me Mama,
- 1:44:40Speaker 2: So like my sisters still call it rock Me Mama
- 1:44:43Speaker 2: because they remember from before when I used to sing
- 1:44:46Speaker 2: it in the nineties at the coffeehouses and.
- 1:44:48Speaker 1: Shit, okay, this late date, is there still significant income
- 1:45:03Speaker 1: from Wagon Wheel? Oh yeah, that song's killing it.
- 1:45:09Speaker 2: One day, Bob Dylan was sitting there for the Grammys
- 1:45:13Speaker 2: and the Mumford Boys were there, and we'd just done
- 1:45:15Speaker 2: a bunch of shit with the Mumford.
- 1:45:16Speaker 1: Boys, so we knew him right.
- 1:45:19Speaker 2: And Gil Landry, who I told you about, met him
- 1:45:22Speaker 2: on a street corner in New Orleans and Critter was
- 1:45:24Speaker 2: sort of flaking out, so Gil stepped in. Anyhow, Gil
- 1:45:27Speaker 2: was there in LA for the Grammys and T Bone's
- 1:45:30Speaker 2: there and we'd just done this project with T Bone
- 1:45:33Speaker 2: about for a movie that never came out. T Bone's
- 1:45:36Speaker 2: sitting there and Gil Landry's and Bob Dylan walks in.
- 1:45:38Speaker 2: Bob Dylan sits down next to t Bone. Gil just
- 1:45:40Speaker 2: happens to be standing there, and Bob looks around like
- 1:45:43Speaker 2: you're seeing a ghost, and he's like, oh are you
- 1:45:46Speaker 2: And Gil says, oh, I'm I'm Gil from Old Crow
- 1:45:50Speaker 2: And he said, oh Crow you guys, I'm killing it,
- 1:45:56Speaker 2: says Bob Dylan. So yeah, the song is still killing it?
- 1:46:04Speaker 1: Could you live off that song alone? Sure?
- 1:46:08Speaker 2: I mean I could live off of playing a banjo
- 1:46:11Speaker 2: in Ottawa alone. I could open this door up right
- 1:46:14Speaker 2: here and go out on Shelby Avenue and live my
- 1:46:17Speaker 2: whole life with it, with whatever instruments that I can grab.
- 1:46:23Speaker 1: Okay, so you get a record deal. Twenty odd years
- 1:46:28Speaker 1: in soup, band members come, band members go, what's going
- 1:46:33Speaker 1: through your mind? Do you feel like we're going up,
- 1:46:35Speaker 1: We're having more success, we're reaching more people or do
- 1:46:38Speaker 1: you not care about that? Do you not? Just as
- 1:46:41Speaker 1: long as you can play What's going through your mind?
- 1:46:45Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a job in a career. It's been twenty
- 1:46:48Speaker 2: eight years. I think if I were to I mean,
- 1:46:52Speaker 2: the first decade was really really intense, kind of crazy,
- 1:46:57Speaker 2: so then it became kind of a lot different, you
- 1:47:04Speaker 2: know suddenly, and then we started having like bigger successes
- 1:47:09Speaker 2: in about twenty and twelve and thirteen and on, and
- 1:47:13Speaker 2: now it's kind of plateau. I think the plateau hit
- 1:47:16Speaker 2: around maybe seventeen eighteen, and now it's just like cemented
- 1:47:22Speaker 2: as this is this fan it's been around, it's still
- 1:47:25Speaker 2: doing it. But the thing that has grown is is
- 1:47:30Speaker 2: this one song wagon Wheel. You know, it's it's touched
- 1:47:35Speaker 2: so many people, and it's been part of the story
- 1:47:42Speaker 2: of so many artists who have found their own way
- 1:47:46Speaker 2: in American music. You know, multiple artists that are you know,
- 1:47:50Speaker 2: big time artists with billboards around town have told me, yeah,
- 1:47:54Speaker 2: that was my first song. So it's like it's been
- 1:47:59Speaker 2: carried beyond where I've been able to go.
- 1:48:03Speaker 1: Okay, you talked about the career, the status of Old
- 1:48:07Speaker 1: Crow being cemented. There was an upward arc, and then
- 1:48:11Speaker 1: it's for you're happy that you made it to this level.
- 1:48:15Speaker 1: Are you frustrated that you're not growing bigger? I guess so.
- 1:48:22Speaker 2: I mean it's frustrating that I don't know that I'm
- 1:48:26Speaker 2: frustrated that we're not growing bigger. I guess I feel
- 1:48:30Speaker 2: like our influence is profound and you know, undeniable, so
- 1:48:36Speaker 2: but you know, you kind of got to steal yourself
- 1:48:39Speaker 2: like anybody that's you know, like I was. I was
- 1:48:42Speaker 2: with Molly last week at Shoreline Amphitheater and Molly was
- 1:48:46Speaker 2: opening up for Chris Stapleton and I sat in on
- 1:48:48Speaker 2: a couple of tunes and played.
- 1:48:50Speaker 1: You know, it's hard not to be like.
- 1:48:52Speaker 2: Well, why aren't I selling out a twenty five thousand
- 1:48:57Speaker 2: seat coliseum or guy. I was at Red Rocks a
- 1:49:03Speaker 2: couple of days ago and we were opening up for Darius,
- 1:49:06Speaker 2: And we've headlined Red Rocks on numerous occasions, but we
- 1:49:11Speaker 2: don't anymore, and so there's a little bit like, oh, well,
- 1:49:14Speaker 2: that feels a little salty that we're not the headliners anymore.
- 1:49:20Speaker 2: But you know, at the same time, it's like there's
- 1:49:23Speaker 2: ebb and flow to it. And also it's so exciting,
- 1:49:28Speaker 2: like seeing what Molly's up to and now being so
- 1:49:32Speaker 2: involved and invested in her rise. It's almost like I
- 1:49:36Speaker 2: kind of get to do some of it over again,
- 1:49:39Speaker 2: but without nearly as much stress and anxiety as when
- 1:49:43Speaker 2: it was my own apple cart that I was trying
- 1:49:45Speaker 2: to get up the mountain and down the other side.
- 1:49:49Speaker 2: So I mean, I think at some point you just
- 1:49:53Speaker 2: have to accept what your trajectory is and has been
- 1:49:57Speaker 2: and just be like, Okay, well I got I have
- 1:50:00Speaker 2: to do a lot of really cool stuff. There's still
- 1:50:02Speaker 2: some you know, parts of the solar system I didn't
- 1:50:05Speaker 2: get to visit yet. But I mean, I'll be playing
- 1:50:08Speaker 2: Fenway next week. I'm the opener. But how many people
- 1:50:12Speaker 2: that are that bought their fiddle in a pawnshop and
- 1:50:15Speaker 2: taught himself how to play it when they were eighteen
- 1:50:18Speaker 2: can say that they're going to play where the Red
- 1:50:20Speaker 2: Sox play.
- 1:50:22Speaker 1: Okay, you have this great success with wagon Wheel, Was
- 1:50:26Speaker 1: there ever in your mind? Well this is all good?
- 1:50:29Speaker 1: Let me try to replicate it.
- 1:50:35Speaker 2: I means not really, because every year I make a
- 1:50:40Speaker 2: new record like I happen to have. You know, Old
- 1:50:43Speaker 2: Crow has the number one record in the Americana genre
- 1:50:47Speaker 2: for four weeks in a row now, But that doesn't
- 1:50:50Speaker 2: mean that we have a career song or record that's
- 1:50:54Speaker 2: gonna last the next twenty eight years. Because when I
- 1:50:58Speaker 2: got started and sold a million records of the song
- 1:51:03Speaker 2: that the album that had wagon Wheel on it. Now
- 1:51:06Speaker 2: it's twenty eight years later, and people don't sell any
- 1:51:09Speaker 2: records at all, even like the top grossing records. They
- 1:51:14Speaker 2: didn't sell any copies of the record. So it's just
- 1:51:17Speaker 2: like it's.
- 1:51:18Speaker 1: A little bit like the terminology.
- 1:51:21Speaker 2: Has changed on success and now we you know, I
- 1:51:26Speaker 2: didn't have a number one record in two thousand and
- 1:51:29Speaker 2: three when My Shit came out, and I have one
- 1:51:32Speaker 2: now in twenty twenty six. But my not number one
- 1:51:36Speaker 2: record was a lot more powerful than my number one
- 1:51:38Speaker 2: record twenty five years later. I don't I have never
- 1:51:44Speaker 2: tried to, you know, write another Rockney Mama, because well,
- 1:51:51Speaker 2: that's a magic song. I've tried to write another Your
- 1:51:57Speaker 2: Flag Decab won't get you into Heaven anymore. And I
- 1:52:00Speaker 2: tried to write another Uncle John's Band, and I tried
- 1:52:06Speaker 2: to write another Rocky Mountain High. But uh, you know,
- 1:52:14Speaker 2: I'm always in the practice. I mean, I write. I
- 1:52:16Speaker 2: was writing songs yesterday, and I approached it the same
- 1:52:21Speaker 2: way I approached trying to finish this Bob Dylan song.
- 1:52:23Speaker 2: I write it all the same way. I'm a songwriter.
- 1:52:26Speaker 2: I'll always be writing songs, and it's really up to
- 1:52:29Speaker 2: an audience and determine is it is.
- 1:52:32Speaker 1: It greater or not? Okay, when you go back, you've
- 1:52:36Speaker 1: lived long enough the pre internet era, especially in the
- 1:52:39Speaker 1: MTV v H one video era, there was there was
- 1:52:43Speaker 1: a pyramid, and if you were at the top of
- 1:52:45Speaker 1: the pyramid, everybody knew who you were. That's been aviscerting
- 1:52:50Speaker 1: blown apart. So Mollie Mollie has a huge presence amongst
- 1:52:59Speaker 1: a certain segment of the population, and then there's a
- 1:53:03Speaker 1: large segment of the population who doesn't know who she is. Conversely,
- 1:53:08Speaker 1: there are people who are listening to Balley's music who
- 1:53:11Speaker 1: couldn't even name a Taylor Swift soul. So hey, you
- 1:53:17Speaker 1: reference the America Americana chart. What is the status of
- 1:53:22Speaker 1: Americana and folk in traditional music today and how has
- 1:53:27Speaker 1: it evolved over your time in it.
- 1:53:31Speaker 2: Well, it's definitely a lot different than the apex that
- 1:53:35Speaker 2: you talk about in the nineties because in folk music
- 1:53:39Speaker 2: and in you know, what we then called alt country,
- 1:53:42Speaker 2: there certainly was the top. But now where everything is
- 1:53:49Speaker 2: in a niche, you know, there's just there's something for everybody.
- 1:53:53Speaker 2: Like I was thinking about it today because my fifteen
- 1:53:57Speaker 2: year old was playing her music in the car, and
- 1:53:59Speaker 2: I thought about somebody saying, who the hell doesn't know
- 1:54:03Speaker 2: who Dominic Fike is? You know, well I don't until now,
- 1:54:09Speaker 2: and you know, like this guy is really really popular.
- 1:54:13Speaker 2: He's like and he's like for a fifteen year old,
- 1:54:16Speaker 2: like that's the top. And I'm still like thinking about
- 1:54:22Speaker 2: you know, Bill Morrissey on the folk charts in nineteen
- 1:54:26Speaker 2: eighty nine and like, oh, maybe I'll get as big
- 1:54:29Speaker 2: as like Laura Virs someday, or you know, just trying
- 1:54:32Speaker 2: to keep up with.
- 1:54:36Speaker 1: You know, Tom Paxton. I think that.
- 1:54:40Speaker 2: Nowadays the Americana music has been a kind of alternative
- 1:54:46Speaker 2: to country music. Ever since country music, you know, moved
- 1:54:53Speaker 2: so far away from what we thought of his country
- 1:54:57Speaker 2: music that a whole bunch of other or sort of
- 1:55:00Speaker 2: niche market music's popped up and was like, okay, well
- 1:55:04Speaker 2: here are these alternatives to country. So and that's only
- 1:55:08Speaker 2: been further Like when I was when Darius cut Wagon Wheel,
- 1:55:11Speaker 2: which was like eleven, twelve, thirteen. You know, our our
- 1:55:16Speaker 2: opener at the time was the Lumineers, and I was like, well,
- 1:55:20Speaker 2: this is a good band, maybe they're really gonna go far. Well,
- 1:55:25Speaker 2: I had no idea that this was a stadium act
- 1:55:28Speaker 2: that was playing small clubs with us.
- 1:55:32Speaker 1: You know.
- 1:55:32Speaker 2: Conversely, like I remember the Cyo More record came out
- 1:55:36Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, this is a good band there.
- 1:55:37Speaker 1: They're like the water Boys. Well, I didn't realize.
- 1:55:41Speaker 2: That Mumford and Son we're going to go, you know,
- 1:55:43Speaker 2: blow the doors off of the arena and be the
- 1:55:46Speaker 2: biggest thing in the land. And then in country music
- 1:55:50Speaker 2: seemed like, you know, Sturgel, who opened shows for us,
- 1:55:56Speaker 2: was going to take it to New Heights, and you know,
- 1:56:00Speaker 2: and christ Apleton played before Old Crow at those festivals
- 1:56:05Speaker 2: we did. So I didn't realize that those that these
- 1:56:09Speaker 2: artists were really the future, and that our period together
- 1:56:14Speaker 2: was a sort of like passing of the torch onto
- 1:56:17Speaker 2: this next you know, long distance runner. So when I
- 1:56:23Speaker 2: think about it in the in the Pete Seeger sense
- 1:56:27Speaker 2: of it, like back to my uncle's record collection and
- 1:56:30Speaker 2: how this is a continuum, it's really important to pass
- 1:56:35Speaker 2: it forward. It's really important that American music traditions continue
- 1:56:42Speaker 2: to touch people's lives, whether it's the VH one era
- 1:56:46Speaker 2: or everybody's got a damn computer in their pocket. It's
- 1:56:49Speaker 2: really important that American music continue to calibrate the American
- 1:56:54Speaker 2: experience despite whatever technologies may you know, alter our consciousness
- 1:57:01Speaker 2: that that American music traditions be a through line to
- 1:57:07Speaker 2: from the past, from the present to the past, no
- 1:57:10Speaker 2: matter what our present is. So I'm really appreciative of
- 1:57:14Speaker 2: those who have carried it beyond my reaches so that
- 1:57:20Speaker 2: today's kids, like my fifteen year old daughter will grow
- 1:57:24Speaker 2: up knowing, you know, eventually she'll find her way to
- 1:57:28Speaker 2: some very rooted artist like Molly who can remind her,
- 1:57:35Speaker 2: remind her generation that that this great experiment of making
- 1:57:40Speaker 2: American music the most popular on earth is one of
- 1:57:44Speaker 2: the most humanizing art forms on earth. That it it,
- 1:57:49Speaker 2: you know, it sanctifies us, that it helps us atone
- 1:57:54Speaker 2: that it that it is a cooling salve and a balm.
- 1:57:59Speaker 2: That America music is a miraculous art form. We just
- 1:58:04Speaker 2: need to be reminded of that lest we get too
- 1:58:07Speaker 2: far afield with you know, modern technologies or whatever would
- 1:58:12Speaker 2: take us away from the source material.
- 1:58:16Speaker 1: Okay, unlike many musicians in Nashville, not only the country
- 1:58:22Speaker 1: at large, you've taken stands politically. Tell me more about that.
- 1:58:29Speaker 1: What do you decide to stand up? Do you factor
- 1:58:33Speaker 1: in any risks to your image, your career.
- 1:58:39Speaker 2: My band's been together twenty eight years. If we were
- 1:58:42Speaker 2: going to get sunk by something I said at what
- 1:58:44Speaker 2: happened a long time ago. Also, we're just not you know,
- 1:58:49Speaker 2: that household and name. You know, we're not that mainstream.
- 1:58:52Speaker 2: So I mean, I could see if Darius Rucker took
- 1:58:56Speaker 2: a stance, maybe.
- 1:58:57Speaker 1: But he's pretty established.
- 1:58:58Speaker 2: That guy's fifty five years old, the double Nickel. So
- 1:59:02Speaker 2: I could see if Molly were to be outspoken, maybe
- 1:59:05Speaker 2: she could run the risk of But really, where you
- 1:59:10Speaker 2: see people getting canceled is online, So if you don't
- 1:59:17Speaker 2: pay much attention to it, I don't know, it's not
- 1:59:21Speaker 2: really it's not really bothering me. I don't feel I
- 1:59:26Speaker 2: feel like I got kind of a safety net here
- 1:59:30Speaker 2: as an established artist who's in their middle age. And
- 1:59:35Speaker 2: where I decided to take a stance most recently was.
- 1:59:38Speaker 1: About gun violence.
- 1:59:41Speaker 2: But you know, the Covenant shooting that happened here was
- 1:59:45Speaker 2: like that shooting happened at an evangelical Christian community where
- 1:59:50Speaker 2: our very Republican governor's wife had many many close friends,
- 1:59:55Speaker 2: where you know, it almost like it happened on the right.
- 2:00:01Speaker 2: And so for me to be all like lefty guy
- 2:00:04Speaker 2: about it. You know, I'm kind of a centrist anyway,
- 2:00:07Speaker 2: but the position can be often thought of to suggest
- 2:00:12Speaker 2: that Commentsen's gun reform occur that can often be considered
- 2:00:17Speaker 2: a left side.
- 2:00:18Speaker 1: Of the aisle.
- 2:00:21Speaker 2: The shooting that happened in Nashville, that was the catalyst
- 2:00:24Speaker 2: for me to stand up and you know, get my
- 2:00:27Speaker 2: name in the New York Times and whatnot, and then
- 2:00:29Speaker 2: go make this movie that's now being shown on all
- 2:00:31Speaker 2: the PBS channels. It was really, it was a motivating
- 2:00:37Speaker 2: force that didn't just touch me. And and really the
- 2:00:42Speaker 2: coming together the left and right are are essential at
- 2:00:46Speaker 2: this impasse during the Trump years. You know, we really
- 2:00:51Speaker 2: have to figure our shit out as a society if
- 2:00:54Speaker 2: we're going to make it safe for children, or we
- 2:00:57Speaker 2: just won't. You know, but if we can't get over
- 2:01:01Speaker 2: if we can't get over each other and the you know,
- 2:01:05Speaker 2: polarization that we're facing right now, then it just won't
- 2:01:10Speaker 2: be safe. It just won't be healthy. It just you know,
- 2:01:13Speaker 2: it's not the kind of America that I want.
- 2:01:16Speaker 1: To live in.
- 2:01:17Speaker 2: And I'm really I'm really motivated by the Trump years
- 2:01:20Speaker 2: to seek community as an alternative to the ways that
- 2:01:26Speaker 2: the voices that are trumpeted in the media suggest that
- 2:01:29Speaker 2: we are wholly divided. I go out and play music
- 2:01:32Speaker 2: for a living, and I'm privy to a very purple
- 2:01:36Speaker 2: audience that is cohesively getting along, even though they might
- 2:01:41Speaker 2: feel differently about the Second Amendment or abortion, or environmentalism
- 2:01:46Speaker 2: or what war is or what the you know, defense
- 2:01:49Speaker 2: spending budget should be. When I see him in the
- 2:01:51Speaker 2: front row of my front row, I'm like, oh, look
- 2:01:55Speaker 2: at this. Look at the swath of America. Nobody gets
- 2:01:58Speaker 2: to see this. I mean, and playing country music, being
- 2:02:02Speaker 2: a fiddler and wearing a cowboy hat like I do
- 2:02:05Speaker 2: allows me to further bring the left and the right together.
- 2:02:08Speaker 2: And it's a it's a it's a really lucky vantage point.
- 2:02:12Speaker 2: So it keeps me really optimistic because I get to
- 2:02:16Speaker 2: see it every night. I get to see that when
- 2:02:19Speaker 2: you turn on Fox News or ABC. It's not what
- 2:02:22Speaker 2: they're saying at all, because I'm telling you, I look
- 2:02:28Speaker 2: out there and I see America grooving, dancing, drinking, singing along,
- 2:02:33Speaker 2: dancing together, probably getting it on after the show's over.
- 2:02:38Speaker 2: So I don't know what this shit is about how
- 2:02:40Speaker 2: we're all divided. Okay, ketch very well articulated. You're notice
- 2:02:47Speaker 2: the ambassador of country music. You're certainly that, but your
- 2:02:51Speaker 2: parapatetic life is just fascinating. How you sustained, how you've gone.
- 2:02:57Speaker 2: I want to thank you for taking this time with
- 2:02:59Speaker 2: my own well, thank you so much for sharing your
- 2:03:03Speaker 2: audience with me, Bob. And you know you are an
- 2:03:07Speaker 2: ambassador for many many artists at much higher levels than myself.
- 2:03:11Speaker 2: So thanks for slumming it with an old fiddler like me.
- 2:03:15Speaker 1: But I gotta tell you I don't find many you
- 2:03:19Speaker 1: and Benma. I mean you went to exeteror and you
- 2:03:24Speaker 1: more you left your imprint on exitor than exitor left
- 2:03:27Speaker 1: it to imprint upon you.
- 2:03:29Speaker 2: I sent on my gold record a wagon Wheel, and
- 2:03:31Speaker 2: I said, please hang this in the dorm room where
- 2:03:35Speaker 2: I wrote this song. And that was when it was gold.
- 2:03:38Speaker 2: Then it went platinum, and now they now it's gone diamond.
- 2:03:43Speaker 2: Now if you can't see me at home, I'm doing
- 2:03:45Speaker 2: air quotes here on diamonds.
- 2:03:48Speaker 1: Did they hang it? Oh? Yeah, they got it up there.
- 2:03:52Speaker 2: Every once in a while they'll call me up and
- 2:03:54Speaker 2: they'll they'll say, come on up here to Exeter and
- 2:03:57Speaker 2: give a speech to the to the graduate wait in class,
- 2:04:00Speaker 2: and then I like to keep them hanging. I'd rather
- 2:04:03Speaker 2: they I want to see the next folks singer come
- 2:04:06Speaker 2: out of that damn school.
- 2:04:09Speaker 1: Hopefully there will be one. Thanks a lot, catch till
- 2:04:13Speaker 1: next time. This is Bob left Sex