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- Truth + Reconciliation Reconciliation is usually approached as an attempt to put something back together: getting back together, trying again, making a fresh start. But what if that approach is the very thing that prevents something genuinely new from becoming possible? In this episode, Gary challenges the conventional idea of reconciliation and explores why the past so easily becomes the blueprint for the future. Using the image of a broken vase, he examines what happens when we try to rebuild relationships from the pieces of what was—keeping what worked, rejecting what didn't, while remaining tied to the very history we're supposedly moving beyond. The conversation also exposes a distinction many of us would rather avoid: **ending a relationship is not the same as completing one**. Distance, time and cutting someone out of your life can look like moving on while leaving the relationship remarkably intact in your experience. And sometimes what remains incomplete isn't with the other person at all, but something about ourselves that the relationship has exposed. Ultimately, reconciliation gives way to a much bigger possibility: **creation**. Not repairing what was, not building a better version of it, but creating a relationship whose agreements are generated by what you're committed to creating rather than what you're trying to prevent from happening again. This is the first of a three-part series exploring **reconciliation, completion, and what it takes to create relationships that actually work**.