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- 0:00She totally went blank.
- 0:01Did you forget your name?
- 0:01Yeah.
- 0:03I'm Stefanie.
- 0:04I'm Meredith.
- 0:05And welcome to This is My Circus.
- 0:07Very good.
- 0:08What's up girl?
- 0:08Hey! You know, I just love coming and, and, you know, Like I speak to him before I speak to you.
- 0:14I speak to Rex first.
- 0:15Most everybody does.
- 0:16I apologize, but it's going to happen every time.
- 0:19You know that, right?
- 0:20He just wants to be in the mix.
- 0:21Of course.
- 0:22He's excited.
- 0:23Um, and thank you for letting me lay in your human sized dog bed.
- 0:26Is it not the best?
- 0:28So my sister, thank goodness, thank you, Kari, tagged me in a post where it was 50 percent off or like, like 40 or 50%.
- 0:36Yeah.
- 0:36So, I got it on Amazon and It is like the best.
- 0:40He's a huge dog.
- 0:42Yes.
- 0:42and so I get to cuddle with him.
- 0:45He likes to spoon.
- 0:46He likes to be the little spoon.
- 0:49It was so funny.
- 0:50So I, y'all, I literally went and got in the dog bed, but, um, so I was like, sorry.
- 0:55So if I just laid in your bed, but I.
- 0:58Was so comfortable in there.
- 0:59It's like got a nice minky feel.
- 1:02And then like you were saying, it feels like egg crate.
- 1:04So it doesn't feel like it's going to go flat.
- 1:05Like the mattress toppers.
- 1:07Yes.
- 1:08Yes.
- 1:08It was very nice.
- 1:10And then he just got right in with me and just laid down like, okay, I'm ready to cuddle.
- 1:14It was adorable.
- 1:15Oh, and now he wants to play.
- 1:16Does have this dino.
- 1:20Um, how was your week?
- 1:22it's pretty good.
- 1:23So Jackson got out of school last week.
- 1:26And, they didn't have football practice last week or this week.
- 1:30And it's just been kind of, um, just boring.
- 1:33But, you know, when they don't have stuff to go to, it's like You feel like you're Yeah, yeah, so yeah, so I've been doing just a lot of yard work just always tell Brian I'm just gonna go piddle in my garden and I just like to kind of pull it.
- 1:44I don't know I love to work in the yard.
- 1:46So, that's been like where I've just been escaping to lately I'm just uh, and I told Brian yesterday.
- 1:53He was like, where are you going?
- 1:54I was like, I'm going outside like I just need Some space from the boys because Jackson's have like friends over this this whole couple weeks and I was like I just need some space.
- 2:03I just need to get some fresh air.
- 2:05I just And I love and I love having them over but sometimes, you know, you just need to decompress.
- 2:12Yeah, absolutely.
- 2:13But it's been good.
- 2:14They start next week getting super busy with he's got football and basketball starts next week.
- 2:18So gosh I didn't know if he would do basketball this year, but he's wanting to.
- 2:24So, how about you?
- 2:25What you been up to?
- 2:26not a whole lot.
- 2:27buying a dog bed.
- 2:28Yes.
- 2:29no, really like there's really not been a lot going on.
- 2:32It's been a very quiet week.
- 2:33Thank goodness.
- 2:33I appreciate weeks like that.
- 2:35Yeah.
- 2:35Dylan.
- 2:36I think today was his last day.
- 2:38Yay! So he's a junior.
- 2:39Oh, let's not talk about it.
- 2:40Okay.
- 2:42We don't count that until Okay.
- 2:44First day of school.
- 2:44Yeah.
- 2:45but, you know, he's just working through the summer.
- 2:48He wants to go to a couple of concerts.
- 2:49So we're going to Wait, so Jackson told me that he wanted to go to some Who is Dylan?
- 2:53Kevin Gates.
- 2:54Okay.
- 2:54And, um I don't know who that is, but So he wanted to go see Zach Bryan, but we did not go because it was in Greenville and I was like, I'm not driving there.
- 3:02I want to go, to the Morgan Wallen concert.
- 3:05Oh yeah, I thought that looks good too.
- 3:07but the tickets are so crazy here.
- 3:08It would have been cheaper to get a hotel in Nashville and to go to the Nashville concert because the tickets were so much cheaper there.
- 3:16I wonder why they're so expensive.
- 3:17I don't know.
- 3:18It's crazy here.
- 3:18So, I don't know if we're going to do Morgan Wallen, but he definitely wants to go to the Kevin Gates concert and I told him that we could do that.
- 3:25Nice.
- 3:25Um, and there was one or two other people.
- 3:27Okay.
- 3:28He wanted to go.
- 3:28So, Are these at the outside pavilion that Charlotte has or?
- 3:32Um, well, I'm not really sure if it was at the pavilion or not.
- 3:35I just, he sent me a link to buy tickets.
- 3:38Hi mom, buy these.
- 3:40Well, I had sent him the link to the 25 summer tickets.
- 3:43Yeah.
- 3:43Where it's like, there's like the, is it the country thing?
- 3:46It's the lawn seats there.
- 3:47Yeah.
- 3:48All the different, um, concerts and the lawn seats for 25 each.
- 3:53And so I sent him the link and he didn't like really seem super interested in anything there.
- 3:58I was like, you don't want to go to these.
- 4:00Yeah.
- 4:00Yeah.
- 4:01Are you sure?
- 4:02Is that the one that like Tim McGraw was in?
- 4:04Do you remember?
- 4:05Okay.
- 4:05Yeah.
- 4:05A friend was telling me about that.
- 4:07Yeah.
- 4:07so he wasn't like super crazy, but we are going to go to, the PLL, the premier lacrosse league.
- 4:13It's like the professional lacrosse league.
- 4:15Actually now have home cities.
- 4:18Oh, which this is the first year that they're doing that.
- 4:21So Charlotte has their own.
- 4:22We have our own.
- 4:23What is it called?
- 4:24Do you know?
- 4:24Charlotte Chaos, I think.
- 4:26Um, appropriate.
- 4:29They will be here June 7th and 8th.
- 4:31So, we're gonna go to see that.
- 4:34So that will be exciting.
- 4:36We've done that the past couple of years.
- 4:38Good.
- 4:38Yeah.
- 4:39He's excited about that.
- 4:40Well, you've got some fun stuff planned this summer.
- 4:42Well, let's just go day by day.
- 4:45Yeah.
- 4:46Yeah.
- 4:46I don't jinx it.
- 4:47Well, you know, if you need somebody to hang at the pool with you, you just gotta call.
- 4:50Girl, you can come over anytime.
- 4:53Don't tempt me.
- 4:54I was actually thinking we needed to have like a mom's Afternoon, that'd be fun.
- 4:58I mean, of course the kids can come on a different day with us But for just like to just chill, uh huh, or we can do our after dark show That's what we should do.
- 5:08I was on.
- 5:09Yeah We're just by the pool.
- 5:12I got one of those big round like those giant Loungey things the big circles.
- 5:16Oh, yeah.
- 5:17Yeah, I can do it from there.
- 5:19That would be fun Yeah, y'all let us know if you want us to do an after dark Ep, I think it would be I think it'd be great but I don't want to put it out there if people won't care So yeah, Let us know.
- 5:33What did you think of the book this week?
- 5:34What did we read first?
- 5:35We, okay, we read The Clinic.
- 5:37Yes.
- 5:37By Kate Quinn.
- 5:38Yes.
- 5:39And, it was okay.
- 5:41I'll let you read the blurb.
- 5:43Okay.
- 5:43Meg works for a casino in L.
- 5:45A., catching cheaters and popping a few too many pills to cope, following a far different path than her sister Haley, a famous actress, but suddenly reports surface of Haley dying at.
- 5:56The remote rehab facility where she had been forced to go get her addictions under control.
- 6:02There are whispers of suicide, but Meg can't believe it.
- 6:04She decides the best way to find out what happened to her sister is to check herself in, to investigate what really happened from the inside.
- 6:12Battling her own addictions and figuring out the truth will be much more difficult than she imagined, far away from friends, family, and anyone who could help her.
- 6:22So that's the description on Amazon.
- 6:24Yes.
- 6:25I liked it so much, you know, I had such a bad experience last week.
- 6:30Was anything just going to be better than that one?
- 6:31It was.
- 6:32but I immediately thought of Britney Spears, like of like this super bougie, rehab facility.
- 6:37Oh yeah.
- 6:39Yep.
- 6:39Then like the darker side of it.
- 6:40Yes.
- 6:41So that is kind of where my mind went.
- 6:43Yep.
- 6:44from the start.
- 6:44Yep.
- 6:45And I guess we should probably throw some trigger warnings in here for substance abuse self inflicted self harm, physical abuse, a lot of, a lot of different and a lot of addictions.
- 6:57Yes.
- 6:57A lot of it was like all over the place.
- 6:59Yeah.
- 7:00Yeah.
- 7:00and then also, I think, I don't know if there's like an actual term for it, but like medical abuse, like doctors advantage kind of abuse.
- 7:08Yeah.
- 7:09Um, Is that libel?
- 7:11I don't really know.
- 7:12I don't know either.
- 7:13so it's not that I didn't like it.
- 7:15To me, it's kind of forgettable.
- 7:18Okay.
- 7:18Does that make sense?
- 7:19Like in the moment I was like Oh, okay.
- 7:22This is cool.
- 7:23I want to find out this information and I want to know this and, and the ending was, was really cool.
- 7:28But it was when you were asking me about it, like I had to think about it.
- 7:33It wasn't like bam in my head.
- 7:35So not a bad book, just not like one that I'm like really gung ho for.
- 7:41Right.
- 7:41so the doctor, I think he wanted to portray this like hippie vibe is how I kind of felt like it.
- 7:47Right.
- 7:48Um, but he was more like cult leader.
- 7:50Yes vibe.
- 7:52I think like, yeah, so the contrast and I'm sure that's what the author was going for well, with it being like a super bougie rehab.
- 7:59So they, I think there were like five or six patients in this rehab and, they were like eating venison for dinner.
- 8:07Like all the fan, it was fancy and bougie and very expensive.
- 8:11so it was, it was a little out there, but it was still fascinating to hear, Some of the things that happened in the Rehab facility.
- 8:21So I felt like it went on a little bit too long.
- 8:24I felt like it could have been wrapped up sooner.
- 8:25And there was a lot of chapters, but because the chapters were short or very short, it wasn't like terrible, terrible.
- 8:34yeah.
- 8:35Where you were like, Oh my God, droning on.
- 8:37Right.
- 8:38I agree the chapters.
- 8:39So I'm assuming you listened to it.
- 8:41Yeah.
- 8:41Like the five minute chapters.
- 8:43there was a lot of information in there that wasn't really relevant.
- 8:47And I know that you have to have a little bit of that, but it just felt like a little bit too much.
- 8:52I'd agree.
- 8:52Yeah.
- 8:53And maybe that's why, like I said, it was just, yeah, I, I, I would give it probably like a seven.
- 8:58Yeah.
- 8:58but I felt like it went on too long.
- 9:00Yeah.
- 9:01But I, it kept me interested the whole time because I thought I knew what was going to happen.
- 9:06I did not predict the ending at all.
- 9:08I did not know what was going to happen.
- 9:09And that happened to me two or three times.
- 9:11Yeah.
- 9:11So, yeah, I It's definitely not like anything I've ever read.
- 9:16Right.
- 9:16I'll say that.
- 9:17Like, it's not a predictable, where you, you know this, that, and the other.
- 9:22Nothing that I've read has had these twists to it that this one had.
- 9:27which was It was cool.
- 9:28Yeah.
- 9:29But, I don't know what it was about it that just didn't jive for you.
- 9:33I mean, I enjoyed it.
- 9:34Yeah.
- 9:35I, and it's probably like fresh on my mind because I just finished it this morning.
- 9:38Yeah.
- 9:39Yeah.
- 9:39But I have like listened to books like when I'm going to sleep.
- 9:43Yeah.
- 9:43So it was nice that I didn't have to wait two hours for a chapter to be over.
- 9:47Yeah.
- 9:48Do you have a little bookmarks in case you fall asleep?
- 9:50Yeah.
- 9:50and I also put the timer on.
- 9:52Yeah.
- 9:52so I know I'll, it'll cut off eventually.
- 9:54Yeah.
- 9:55They'll go back 30 minutes or whatever.
- 9:56Yeah.
- 9:56The timer was on for if I fall asleep really quick.
- 9:58I definitely did not see the ending.
- 10:01Mm-Hmm.
- 10:02There was two or three twists at the end that there were.
- 10:04Caught me off guard.
- 10:05What did you think about?
- 10:07Well, I don't really want to give spoilers.
- 10:08Well, here's a spoiler alert, guys.
- 10:10Okay.
- 10:10If you haven't read it yet, skip like a minute.
- 10:13Yeah.
- 10:14Hit that forward button a few times.
- 10:16Yeah.
- 10:16So at the end of the book, we find out that her sister was one of the patients.
- 10:22Yes.
- 10:23And so the sister kept looking at the, the undercover girl and I don't know how to explain it.
- 10:31Help me out here.
- 10:32You don't know what I'm trying to say either.
- 10:33So she was like, I recognize you.
- 10:35I recognize you.
- 10:36Right.
- 10:36But she never like put it with the fact that it was her sister.
- 10:41So the sister was reported as dead.
- 10:44Yes.
- 10:45And she got plastic surgery and stuff to make herself look different and was still a patient in this facility.
- 10:51Yes.
- 10:52Working with the, the doctor.
- 10:54Right.
- 10:54Also, people had seen her body and she had also, they had cremated her.
- 11:00Right.
- 11:00She had taken medicine to like lower her heart rate and, and slow all that down.
- 11:05So she did appear to be dead.
- 11:08yeah, like I said, that was just a different twist for me and appreciated it.
- 11:14Right.
- 11:14But, did not see it coming at all.
- 11:16No, me either.
- 11:17That was probably the biggest twist for me, is it?
- 11:19Cause I thought that she was, If she was in there, she was going to end up being like, I don't know, somebody other than the one that it was.
- 11:26I thought she was being like held captive in the basment.
- 11:28Oh, did you?
- 11:29Okay.
- 11:29I thought that they were, you know, doing something, some kind of experiment.
- 11:33I, I didn't know what they were doing, but I did not see that happening.
- 11:38It made me also just really think about addiction, you know, and we all have our addictions, whether they're big or small or whatever, you know, I like cookies.
- 11:46So, but I mean, and not to not to make light of what addiction is.
- 11:52But just hearing some of the stories that they shared through the book and, you know, when they come to the, facility, the way that they would hide medications in certain places and the things, that was really sad.
- 12:05That was really sad to me to hear that.
- 12:07So, what's our book next week?
- 12:09Our book next week is called, what lies in the woods by Kate Alice Marshall.
- 12:14and we did.
- 12:15release our book lists.
- 12:18And, ooh, I love the video graphic you made.
- 12:20That was really cool.
- 12:21Yeah.
- 12:21That list has got a lot of things random.
- 12:25I wanted to do some stuff with different cultures.
- 12:27So I pulled some of that stuff in there too, from, just different backgrounds just to try to, you know, See what's out there.
- 12:34Yeah.
- 12:35when you sent me that list, I was like, Oh, this is random.
- 12:37Yes.
- 12:38Yes.
- 12:38All sorts of random.
- 12:39It is.
- 12:40It is.
- 12:41So I just wanted some different, there's some Hispanic books on there and I think there's a couple of, African American books on there.
- 12:47I did the tattooist of Auschwitz.
- 12:50I did see that.
- 12:50And I think I've read that before, but like I said, just to pull in some different demographics, I thought it would be Good for us and our brains.
- 12:58Yes.
- 12:59so we had read the kind worth killing several weeks ago and you're like, I want like an update on what happened.
- 13:05Is there one?
- 13:06So the same, so the author obviously wrote the kind worth saving shut up and it's not like super spinoff, but He brings in the first book.
- 13:19Can we, is it out?
- 13:20Yeah, it's on Hoopla.
- 13:22Do you want to do that next?
- 13:23Okay.
- 13:24I mean, I listened to it.
- 13:25It was awesome.
- 13:26So yeah, if you want to, yeah.
- 13:27Okay.
- 13:28So we'll push, we're going to, yeah, push everything down.
- 13:31Yeah.
- 13:31Well, next week we'll do the kind worth saving.
- 13:33Yeah.
- 13:33So this book was, I think almost better than the last book.
- 13:38Really?
- 13:38Yeah.
- 13:39So the kind worth killing was the one that we talked about that like the last two minutes is just like, bam, bam, bam.
- 13:44Yeah.
- 13:45And you're like, what happened?
- 13:47So when I saw that, I was like, Oh my gosh, we said that we wanted the extension.
- 13:52You know, the world listens to us.
- 13:55We just manifest it.
- 13:56Yes, that's true.
- 13:58That's true.
- 13:59Thanks, Nicole.
- 13:59Even though this has been out for a long time, I just searched his name.
- 14:03I was like, Oh my gosh.
- 14:05I saw the character, Lily in the description.
- 14:10when I was reading it, I'm like, no way.
- 14:11Yeah.
- 14:12Okay.
- 14:13Yeah.
- 14:13So, okay.
- 14:14The kind we're saving.
- 14:14Yes.
- 14:15Okay.
- 14:15And, that is by Peter Swanson.
- 14:17Okay.
- 14:18So that will be next week.
- 14:19And then everything on our book list, we will push down one week.
- 14:21Yes.
- 14:21Okay.
- 14:22Perfect.
- 14:23Do you watch Bridgerton?
- 14:25No, I watched the first two seasons.
- 14:26I have not watched this last season.
- 14:28Oh my gosh.
- 14:29It is so fun.
- 14:30I love it.
- 14:32Well, I actually just finished.
- 14:34I like binge watched, because it's like true crimey.
- 14:36Yeah.
- 14:37it is called Under the Bridge.
- 14:39Okay.
- 14:40And I've watched it on Hulu.
- 14:41It might be on other platforms.
- 14:44But it is based off the murder of Reena Verk, and this is a true story.
- 14:49and I didn't realize that when I started watching it.
- 14:51I was just like, Oh, there's a new show on.
- 14:53Right.
- 14:54Let me start watching it.
- 14:55And afterwards, I realized that it was based off of.
- 14:58This true story.
- 14:59Okay.
- 15:00And this author who wrote the book on the whole situation, which the author is part of the show.
- 15:06It's her writing the book.
- 15:08It's really cool.
- 15:09It's only eight episodes for the series.
- 15:12so the book is called Under the Bridge by Rebecca Godfrey.
- 15:16Okay.
- 15:17I didn't realize it took place in Canada.
- 15:19Okay.
- 15:19Until, and I'm sure that they, I, did they say oi a lot?
- 15:22Well, but I'm sure they had said it at some point and I just missed it, but they were in, in the courtroom and like, I was like, why are they all dressed so funny?
- 15:31Like, do they have wigs on?
- 15:33No, it's like the, the, like the roughly like, oh yeah, you know, the, all the attorneys.
- 15:37Yeah.
- 15:37It's not like suits and ties.
- 15:39It was like their gowns or whatever.
- 15:41Yeah.
- 15:41Robes.
- 15:41Yes.
- 15:42and I'm like, well, that's weird.
- 15:43And then I was like, oh, it's Canada.
- 15:45Um, I forget that they do that in Canada.
- 15:47Yeah.
- 15:48But it's still a.
- 15:50Yeah.
- 15:51But it was like, so crazy to me.
- 15:53it's this teenage girl that gets beaten to death by her friends, beaten and then like drowned.
- 15:59Okay.
- 16:00And it's the whole story.
- 16:01Um, Ooh, all these different points of views.
- 16:05And then the author who's writing this book and like a little bit of her background, she grew up in that town, came back from New York to do this book.
- 16:12And like, I mean, like it was, Oh, okay.
- 16:14It was, So interesting to me.
- 16:17Okay.
- 16:17And then you've got Like the kids that are from low income or no income, like there are some of the kids live in like a foster home.
- 16:27and then you've got like the super rich girl.
- 16:30And this is all supposedly like pretty accurate.
- 16:33Like the whole premise of it was It was interesting to me to begin with because it's true crime.
- 16:38Yeah.
- 16:38Yeah.
- 16:38But then you realize that it's a true story.
- 16:41And then realizing our kids are the same age as these kids doing these things.
- 16:44Oh yeah.
- 16:45It just blew my mind.
- 16:46Yeah, absolutely.
- 16:47So, if you guys are looking for a new series to watch, it's only again, eight episodes.
- 16:52Okay.
- 16:53Where was it?
- 16:53Netflix?
- 16:54Um, Hulu.
- 16:55Hulu.
- 16:55Okay.
- 16:56That, okay.
- 16:56That sounds interesting.
- 16:58Yeah.
- 16:59So I was, you know, they're interviewing these kids, you know, the police.
- 17:03Have you ever been interviewed by the police?
- 17:06Mm-Hmm.
- 17:07No.
- 17:08Mm-Hmm.
- 17:09Have you?
- 17:09Yes.
- 17:13I, um, I don't, I mean, I think I would remember that if I had been.
- 17:17I was 16.
- 17:20a horrible thing happened the night of, not at my sweet 16, but the night of my sweet 16 with people that we did know.
- 17:27Okay.
- 17:27Um, and they were supposed to come to my sweet 16 party and they did not show up.
- 17:31Okay.
- 17:31So I guess the police had.
- 17:35Heard of the party and came and came to my school pulled me out of class.
- 17:40Oh questioned me at school So my father was livid.
- 17:44Yeah.
- 17:44Um, Yeah, like beyond mad.
- 17:48Yeah, uh that they questioned me one without an adult that the school allowed them to just pull me out of class and Yeah, it was like super like weird.
- 17:58Yeah.
- 17:59But yeah, that was my only time I've ever been questioned.
- 18:03Were you terrified?
- 18:04But just like when I pass a cop car or when they're stopped and the blue lights are going, I get nervous even though I know that somebody else has pulled.
- 18:13I was scared cause at first, cause I thought something horrible had happened to your family or something.
- 18:18and then.
- 18:19Yeah, they gotten into this other stuff and I was like, whoa.
- 18:22They weren't even there.
- 18:23Yeah.
- 18:23When they were questioning you, did they tell you that something had happened to the other people or whatever the situation was?
- 18:29They, they were asking, well, they were like, were they there?
- 18:32Right.
- 18:32Okay.
- 18:33And it was a couple days, I think, a couple days after my party.
- 18:35It wasn't like, so I, so we all knew this thing had occurred.
- 18:39Okay.
- 18:39Already.
- 18:40Okay.
- 18:40Um, and I don't really wanna say it'cause it was horrible.
- 18:44Yeah.
- 18:44Horrible.
- 18:45Yeah.
- 18:45Horrible thing.
- 18:46Okay.
- 18:47Um, but.
- 18:48Yeah.
- 18:48Um, so, but people already knew.
- 18:50So once they started talking, it's not like you were floored by the, what had to happen.
- 18:56Right.
- 18:56No, no, no.
- 18:57But they were like, you know, were they at your party?
- 18:59Were these people at your party?
- 19:00Who was at your party?
- 19:01And it was super weird.
- 19:05Yeah.
- 19:05I could see, I could see that would be traumatic.
- 19:08so I, but watching these kids getting interviewed, I'm like, Oh, well, that's like the, Damien Eccles, and the, what's it called?
- 19:16The Mississippi three, where they were, I think they're a little bit older.
- 19:21Him and two other kids that were accused of assaulting the, the kids and killing them.
- 19:27And, they were high school 17 or so.
- 19:30And I mean, Dylan will be 17 this year.
- 19:32I know.
- 19:33Can you imagine the, our kids in these situations?
- 19:37It's, it's, it's a lot.
- 19:39Yeah, no, I, thank God.
- 19:41You know, the things that I was doing at Dylan's age.
- 19:46Yeah.
- 19:47Like I'm so.
- 19:48Glad that they have such a different, I don't want to say friend group because my friends were like awesome, but like, I mean, like they, they just aren't out there doing the bad things that I feel like kids now almost, so they're smarter and dumber.
- 20:05I have like all of the, I don't even know how to like say it.
- 20:10Like, I just, I think that they grew up in such like a, on the phone and like a digital age that.
- 20:16The stuff that we were doing, isn't even a thought.
- 20:19Yeah.
- 20:20Yeah.
- 20:20It's not even in their scope because they're, yeah.
- 20:25Do you know what I realized the other day?
- 20:26So Jackson and I had some friends over and we were talking and I was like, does anybody smoke?
- 20:30That's what I said.
- 20:31And I'm thinking cigarettes.
- 20:33Cause when we grew up, it was, you know, cigarettes.
- 20:36that's what you say when you smoke.
- 20:37And then if they smoked marijuana, you said smoke weed.
- 20:41And I was and they were like, Yeah, a lot of people smoke.
- 20:45I was like, where do they even buy the cigarettes anymore?
- 20:47And they were like, no, no.
- 20:49And I was like, oh, so that's what they say now.
- 20:52Like, they don't even have to, I guess so many, a few people smoke cigarettes, but that's not even a thing.
- 20:57Yeah.
- 20:57it is.
- 20:58So I was like, well, I'm officially older than I thought I was.
- 21:03Well, Dylan said when he was still going to Clover that, people were like smoking the vape.
- 21:10Mm hmm, but it was we you know, yeah, we vape or whatever it is.
- 21:13I don't know.
- 21:14I don't I don't know a lot about So I don't really know all the terms but all the time in the bathrooms.
- 21:20Oh, i'm sure one kid, I don't know what he was on or if it was laced with something But like got taken out on a stretcher in the lunchroom one day From whenever he had smoked.
- 21:34So Jackson was called a few weeks ago.
- 21:37well I guess probably about a month ago now to do a drug test because, being an athlete, they do random drug tests.
- 21:42And I had forgotten cause there was big stinks on some of the social media posts about my kid was called and they can't, can't they ask me?
- 21:52Well, it's when I went back and look, it's in the paperwork that says this might happen.
- 21:56This is the thing.
- 21:57And, Yeah, he was he was called and juicy his other friend was called as well.
- 22:04So They were kind of nervous because and Right, we're like Jackson said he wasn't too bad.
- 22:14He just didn't know like really what to do.
- 22:16I was like you He was like, but then I didn't know where to put it and what it was like But um, I can see that though.
- 22:24Yeah, I could see like yeah Not necessarily being nervous about the results, but just the process.
- 22:30Right.
- 22:30And, Juicy was like, he was texting his mom and he was like, I'm chewing gum.
- 22:35Is that okay?
- 22:36And she was like, you realize like your, you pee, right?
- 22:39Like that has nothing to do with it.
- 22:44She was like, you'll be fine.
- 22:45Just do what they tell you to do.
- 22:47A conversation like I've ever had with Dylan.
- 22:49Of how, if you get called in to do this random drug test.
- 22:51This is how you, yeah.
- 22:53This is what you need to expect.
- 22:54I wouldn't, it's just not a conversation.
- 22:56Yeah.
- 22:56I've had many conversations.
- 22:59I You know why as a parent wasn't quite ready for yeah, that was just never one right, right So I can understand why they would be like nervous to to go through that process.
- 23:09What am I supposed to be doing?
- 23:10Yep.
- 23:11Um, so that was that was Interesting hearing their feedback on that I remember when I had a drug test, when I was starting a new job a couple years ago and They took my phone and everything, my purse, and they had a locker and you put everything in your locker and they give you the key and, you go and use the restroom and there was no sink in there and they tell you not to flush it.
- 23:36Like they had the handle, like all taped up and stuff, I guess, so they can check and see what, yeah.
- 23:43Um, yeah.
- 23:44So I asked Jax, I was like, did you, were you allowed to take your phone and stuff in there?
- 23:48And he was like, yeah, it wasn't a big deal.
- 23:50I was like, did they watch you?
- 23:51And he was like, No, so Brandon, when he, got hired at his job in Tennessee, he was training in Michigan, but he had to go through, you know, the job.
- 24:02Yeah.
- 24:02So they actually did a hair test.
- 24:05Oh, and so, He said, well, what happens like when somebody comes into your face like shaved?
- 24:11Yeah, the lady.
- 24:13She said they always miss one spot.
- 24:16We always tell them to bend over and spread.
- 24:18Oh, no, no.
- 24:23I just was like, Oh my, Oh, that's not a job I would want.
- 24:29No, no.
- 24:31Because like, I guess if you're really afraid you're going to fail, I guess that's not the place that they think that it would be taken from.
- 24:38And she said that they've come in like entire bodies shaved.
- 24:41And there's always that one spot that they couldn't quite reach.
- 24:46So if you're trying to dodge your, your hair test, wax your crack.
- 24:50Yeah.
- 24:53That'll be our new tagline.
- 24:56Um, yeah, that's crazy.
- 24:59Yeah.
- 24:59So I don't know what hurts so bad.
- 25:04Have you ever gotten a Brazilian wax?
- 25:06No, I've not, not, not the Brazilian, but, um, more, yeah.
- 25:13But I've been waxed in that area.
- 25:15Mm-Hmm.
- 25:15And that's, I mean, it's not pleasant, but it's not miserable.
- 25:19Have you?
- 25:20Yes.
- 25:23terrible.
- 25:23No, but I, I think.
- 25:25I like your body just gets, I have a, I think I have a very high pain tolerance.
- 25:30Yeah.
- 25:30it doesn't hurt as bad as I thought it was going to.
- 25:33Or maybe my expectation was like, Oh my God, this is gonna kill me.
- 25:37Um, and I, I, It wasn't as bad as yeah, but then I take a little bit of wax and put it on Jackson or Brian's unibrow and take it off and you would think that there was death in their life.
- 25:48Boys just don't.
- 25:49Mm mm.
- 25:50You know, everything's a big deal.
- 25:51It is.
- 25:52Like the man flu.
- 25:53Yes.
- 25:54Yes.
- 25:55Yeah.
- 25:56Um, okay.
- 25:57We're going to go off the rails again today.
- 25:59Sure.
- 26:01Yeah.
- 26:01Um, well, you know, I watched Jaguar rights because I just, it's like fascinating.
- 26:06It is.
- 26:07so she has since, since we've talked and I started following her, I get some, some of her, yeah.
- 26:12Her notifications.
- 26:13I get, I'm just, I don't know.
- 26:15I'm just so amazed that.
- 26:18I'm sure she's got like a hit out on her.
- 26:20Oh, gosh.
- 26:20Yeah, but I don't know how she's staying safe.
- 26:22I don't either.
- 26:23but I just saw a clip of an interview she did where she called out Tyrese and said, Tyrese, you know, this is not a direct quote, but, what happened to Paul Walker?
- 26:36You know what happened to Paul Walker?
- 26:37Paul Walker's dead, you're alive.
- 26:39And she said that he, Paul Walker, was about to do a documentary on human trafficking.
- 26:46And then, oh my gosh, shortly after, his car crashed.
- 26:51Really?
- 26:52Yeah.
- 26:52So, I don't know how true it is, but yeah, she called out Tyrese and said, What happened to Paul?
- 26:58Oh my gosh.
- 26:59Yeah.
- 27:00So, that was one I was not expecting.
- 27:03Right.
- 27:03That threw me for a loop.
- 27:05I have started watching, and I didn't get finished with it, the, TMZ documentary on P.
- 27:11Diddy.
- 27:11Oh, I have not watched it yet.
- 27:13I need to finish it, but it's, you know, it's got some stuff in there, too.
- 27:16I, and I don't know, like, because I didn't watch it.
- 27:19Is it, like, more in support of him?
- 27:22No, I didn't feel like it was.
- 27:24Now, again, I'm, I'm maybe a third of the way through.
- 27:28So who knows how it'll, but no, I feel like it's very unbiased, which I appreciate.
- 27:36TMZ usually does a pretty good job though.
- 27:38Did you go on Tubi to watch it?
- 27:40Isn't that where?
- 27:40I might be there.
- 27:41I might be there.
- 27:42I don't know.
- 27:43But it popped up in my, like on my home screen of my smart TV, you know, it shows you what you might be interested in.
- 27:48It showed me that too.
- 27:49And I was like, Oh, I just don't have time to, I was, yeah, I want it to finish under the bridge.
- 27:53Maybe tomorrow.
- 27:54Well, um, I had time and so I, yeah, it must've been Tubi.
- 27:59I downloaded it and started watching it, but why not?
- 28:02I had space.
- 28:03I had storage on my.
- 28:05Well, a new documentary just came out about Nick Carter and Aaron Carter.
- 28:09Really?
- 28:10And it is supposed to be like, pretty intense.
- 28:13Um, so that is the next thing that I would, because I, I loved the Backstreet Boys back in the day.
- 28:19Yes, I, that's another one that's just got my attention.
- 28:24I'll have to watch that one.
- 28:25Yeah.
- 28:25And like a bunch of women came out.
- 28:28Against Nick.
- 28:29Oh, and then I guess because this, documentary came out, I keep getting all these Aaron Carter clips that pop up on my page now, with him saying how horrible Nick was to him growing up.
- 28:43Wow.
- 28:44so this, like all these.
- 28:47Documentaries coming out are just ruining my whole childhood.
- 28:50I know.
- 28:51I know.
- 28:52I saw a video clip.
- 28:54I think it was on TikTok and it was new kids on the block.
- 29:00on Dance party USA and the first of all the clothes that they're wearing Did you see it?
- 29:09The clothes they're wearing is terrible and they're doing like the the party dance line thing where it's a guy on one side and a girl And they like walk down and they dance together and the dances Are ridiculous.
- 29:22And the, it, it's just everything about the, the early nineties, late late eighties.
- 29:29Yeah.
- 29:30The, the clothes.
- 29:31Yeah.
- 29:32Everything.
- 29:32Yeah., there's certain things that I pray never come back.
- 29:35Yeah.
- 29:36Um, you know what shoes I saw were coming back.
- 29:39Do you remember the ones.
- 29:40I remember wearing them to a club.
- 29:42They were black and like they had like one wide strap.
- 29:46They're like flip side Across the you know exactly what i'm talking about.
- 29:50I saw the thing that those are coming back No, I can hear them.
- 29:54Yeah, I can hear them.
- 29:55I can remember from Falling in them a couple times.
- 29:57Yes, things like that.
- 30:00I don't understand why they come back.
- 30:02No Like the mullet.
- 30:04Why did the mullet ever come back?
- 30:05I don't know.
- 30:06Why?
- 30:07I don't know.
- 30:07Every time we see somebody with a mullet I think of Billy Ray Cyrus.
- 30:10Yeah 100%.
- 30:12Well, and as soon as I think it's like phasing back out again, I see more kids with it and I'm like, ah, yes.
- 30:18No, there's yeah, those like those jelly shoes when the jelly shoes came back.
- 30:24Yeah, those things were Painful.
- 30:28They were terrible the first round.
- 30:30My mom spanked us with them.
- 30:33Don't turn her in.
- 30:34She's not with us anymore.
- 30:35Anyway, so we were at, uh, Walmart, Uhhuh a couple years ago, and Dylan was just being a smart Alec, and we were with, a couple of his friends, and I'm like, Dylan, if you don't quit, I'm gonna take off my flip flop and I'm going to get you with my flip flops, And we were in Walmart, so, you know.
- 30:52Yeah, you do, you do.
- 30:54Yeah.
- 30:54You do Walmart things.
- 30:55You, you were fitness.
- 30:57It's like you walk in and all of a sudden you just, you're living in the back woods, Alabama.
- 31:01So he wouldn't, he was just like being a smart, like, and I mean, this is me coming back to me.
- 31:07Yeah.
- 31:08And so I took off my flip flop and he went to run and I threw it at him.
- 31:13Oh my gosh, that's so funny.
- 31:14His friends were laughing so hard.
- 31:16That is great.
- 31:17That's great.
- 31:18Did you get spanked as a child though?
- 31:20Was that, I mean, I, I was the good one.
- 31:24Yeah.
- 31:25Yeah.
- 31:25We, I didn't get spanked a lot, but my sister and I fought all the time.
- 31:31Yeah.
- 31:31We all, we definitely did that, but I, I, I think I got spanked like once or twice.
- 31:37Yeah.
- 31:37I think that for my mom to kind of separate us, she started fighting with us too.
- 31:43My mom did, um, the wash your mouth out with soap.
- 31:46Yeah.
- 31:48That was not good.
- 31:49And I remember they were at a bar.
- 31:52So, and my mommy's dish soap talking back, I'm assuming.
- 31:58Yeah.
- 31:59Yeah.
- 31:59Um, but we did get that in the bar.
- 32:02So it was awful.
- 32:03Cause then it would like scrape your teeth and it was like there.
- 32:06Yeah.
- 32:07Uh, yeah.
- 32:07So, we did get that, but, I didn't, I was, I was, yeah, pretty well behaved as far as they knew.
- 32:15We were, we were both good kids, but it was, we would just fight.
- 32:20By the time they got to me, cause I was the fourth, You know, each kid gets a little more lenient.
- 32:26I say I'm the good one, but I think that the, their expectations were, the bar was pretty low by that point.
- 32:32Right.
- 32:32And so, yeah, I was perceived.
- 32:36I remember my sister and I just having like, you know, girls scratch and fight and bite like scratch marks up and down each other's arms where we would just.
- 32:45So mean to each other.
- 32:46Yeah, I was definitely did you get into like fights at school or anything?
- 32:50No, never but you did I felt like we're a lot of like yet so different I never have gotten in a fight.
- 32:58Oh Want to go right now just so I could say I haven't Did you get into a lot of fights at school well a couple in school and then like God, I can't believe I'm putting this out there.
- 33:11Bar fights.
- 33:12Oh, okay.
- 33:13Okay.
- 33:14Like, it wasn't like I was starting them.
- 33:16If, if you're going to pull my hair or push me, I don't like scratch.
- 33:21Brandon was like, you are, he said that like the one girl, pulled my hair, I think.
- 33:27And he's like, you just became like a spider monkey.
- 33:32He's like, you just jumped in on the ground.
- 33:35You know, he said it, he was like pulling me off.
- 33:38like pulling you off and your legs and arms are still going.
- 33:41Yeah.
- 33:41but yeah, I've been in my fair share, like escorted out of the bar club.
- 33:47Um, we knew a lot of the bouncers and the bartenders.
- 33:50Oh my goodness.
- 33:51Yeah.
- 33:51I was, uh.
- 33:52Yeah, that was feisty in my younger days.
- 33:55That's funny.
- 33:56Have you, so did you ever see the movie Roadhouse with Patrick Swayze?
- 34:00There's a new one, same concept, but it's just new.
- 34:03And Brian and I watched it and we looked at each other like, this is terrible.
- 34:08This is just terrible.
- 34:10Yeah, those are my younger days though.
- 34:13But I'm yeah So he I would still I'm sure if it came to it because I run my mouth a lot So I probably That probably won't be my last fight, but I try not to but sometimes you know, the worst is basketball I don't know why I think it's just because it's inside and it's loud and there's so many people and the fans don't really separate That's the one that gets me.
- 34:37I don't feel like both Sets of parents like the team.
- 34:41I do think that they should be separate.
- 34:42Yes separated Well, and a lot of times like it's obvious we've all got on clover Our clover shirts or whatever and then you see this this family that has on the other Come sit right in the middle like why yeah So Brian almost got in a fight at a soccer game one time.
- 35:00No.
- 35:00Yep So Jackson was playing and he was probably eight years old If that and he was playing goalie and we were in a tournament and we were way out of our league Like these kids were so good and we just kind of like had a little rec team thrown together that we had taken and Jackson was playing, you know Great.
- 35:21He was doing as good as he could.
- 35:23Well, they took him out of the goal, and he was running around on the field.
- 35:27He's always been one of the bigger kids.
- 35:28Yeah, and he knocked some kid down.
- 35:32I mean, it's whatever.
- 35:34Brian had a broken foot at this time.
- 35:39So he's already looking kind of pitiful.
- 35:41Well, you know, every sport, the parents have like a different vibe, right?
- 35:48So soccer families, for the most part, are a little more put together kind of, we are more of a football family or we're going to yell and holler and, you know, hit somebody kind of thing.
- 36:02Well, this dude, I'll never forget what he looked like.
- 36:05He had on his little like.
- 36:07Vineyard vines had he had a sweater like tied around his shoulders and his little not my people at all and he was like holding a drink in his hand like a like a Starbucks or Dunkin cup and his pinky was up like he was just The opposite of everything that we are and he was talking junk about Jackson and just like he doesn't need to be on the field He's too big to be running around or whatever Brian Get was and I was like, babe.
- 36:39You've got one foot like you and he's Brian doesn't get riled up.
- 36:44No Yeah, he doesn't get right up really easy.
- 36:47Well, there was this other dude.
- 36:49That was his son was on our team, too and he's Not like small, but, you know, Brian's a big guy and this guy was just wiry.
- 36:58And he looked up at that dude and he said, Come on, bro.
- 37:01You ain't that big.
- 37:02Like he was having Brian's back.
- 37:04And I was like, this is why we can't have nice things.
- 37:08But the other guy just like Walton went and went to the other side of the field and didn't say anything else.
- 37:13Well, that was probably smart of him.
- 37:15Right.
- 37:16That's when we say adults ruin you sports.
- 37:18Yeah, that is.
- 37:19That's why.
- 37:19Yeah.
- 37:21Um, yeah.
- 37:22Um, so Do you want to do it?
- 37:25Am I the a hole?
- 37:26Absolutely.
- 37:27I have proved that I am the a hole We can judge other people but yeah, let's let's judge some people All right.
- 37:36You wanna read?
- 37:37Sure.
- 37:38Am I the, a-hole for having my kid pulled over by a police officer?
- 37:41I'm gonna go ahead and say, no Okay.
- 37:45Here we go.
- 37:46My work has me interacting with cops often, and a few of them are my friends.
- 37:50My daughter got her license through the school and she's not a good driver.
- 37:54I will never go through this driving school again.
- 37:57Instead, the rest of the kids need to pass through the DMV.
- 37:59Wait, okay.
- 38:01I will never go through the school again.
- 38:02And instead the rest of the kids need to pass through the DMV.
- 38:06So I guess she has additional children.
- 38:08Okay.
- 38:09Is what I would assume.
- 38:10Okay.
- 38:11Yeah.
- 38:11So we're not going to use the school again.
- 38:14We're going through official channels.
- 38:15I'm with us now.
- 38:16Okay.
- 38:17I noticed she doesn't use her turn signal and has a bad habit of speeding.
- 38:21I've sat her down multiple times, but she doesn't think it's a big deal.
- 38:25I have grounded her.
- 38:27Also, when I catch her, I'm very close to taking her car privileges away.
- 38:31I was venting about this to one of my cop friends.
- 38:34He told me he's willing to hang out one day by our place.
- 38:37That seeing cops in the area could deter people.
- 38:40Thought it would be a good idea.
- 38:42He pulled my daughter over last night.
- 38:44She was speeding in a 15 mile area.
- 38:47I guess 15 miles per hour area.
- 38:49She got a warning and lectured by him.
- 38:51My daughter told us the name and my wife recognized it as my friend's.
- 38:55She asked if I had anything to do about it and told her that he offered to be around our area.
- 39:01We got into a huge argument and she thinks I'm a huge jerk.
- 39:04My daughter's blaming me for getting pulled over.
- 39:06I pointed out if she wasn't speeding, this wouldn't have been an issue.
- 39:09Am I the a hole?
- 39:11I don't believe so.
- 39:12I think it's a good lesson.
- 39:14Uh huh.
- 39:14But I don't know.
- 39:16Well, I feel like, I feel like this parent has tried, like, sat them down, tried to have some conversations.
- 39:24Now, who knows what the conversations have been like, you know?
- 39:26Sometimes it's hard communicating to teenagers.
- 39:29Right.
- 39:30I, I honestly, I think that's a good lesson for her.
- 39:33and yeah, if it's a family friend or like the cops, a friend of the dad, like at least it wasn't one of these cops that go like bananas.
- 39:43hopefully she was respectful to run the stop.
- 39:46Yeah.
- 39:47Yeah, absolutely.
- 39:48But we have cops that sit in our neighborhood and look for people that are either one speeding because it's 25 miles an hour or running stop signs and they'll sit hiding yeah at the turn because a lot of people run the stop sign like going out of the neighborhood And I'm like, oh my gosh.
- 40:04Yeah Yeah, there's me right, but you see a police officer.
- 40:07Do you immediately?
- 40:08I am I don't know if you do I immediately feel guilty like you're like, I'm doing well even if I'm not speeding a slam on the brakes Yeah, and I'm like, yeah, I'm I'm not speeding at this moment.
- 40:18So But yeah, I know it's just it's nerve wracking so hopefully this would be a good lesson to teach her to not speed.
- 40:26Yeah.
- 40:27And do, and to make sure she uses her signal and all that kind of stuff.
- 40:31See Dylan, when he got, he did get, um, his license through the driving school and the driver, the teacher at the driver school was actually the football coach at Clover high school.
- 40:41Yeah.
- 40:42So that was like, he was very good with Dylan, like super, super good.
- 40:45Good.
- 40:46And Dylan felt so comfortable for his driver's test at the school versus going to the DMV.
- 40:53So he had, he had done the course a million times.
- 40:56he was ready.
- 40:58I don't know the course that the DMV takes.
- 41:01And so I'm glad that we had the option to do it through the school.
- 41:05Obviously their school was not as good as the school we went to.
- 41:07Yeah.
- 41:08Yeah.
- 41:09Or the girl, you know, a lot of kids just don't care.
- 41:11I worry now about the phones.
- 41:13Like, uh, that's my thing.
- 41:15And, you know, as much as Jackson's not driving yet.
- 41:17Um, but we just, you know, don't play with your phone.
- 41:19Don't have your phone.
- 41:20Don't have your phone.
- 41:22So, I know, but I don't think, back to this, I don't think that the parent is an a hole.
- 41:27No, not at all.
- 41:27And I don't think the cop's an a hole for helping.
- 41:29No, I don't either.
- 41:30Um, I would rather have this situation than the person continue to speed and have poor driving habits and get a call from a coroner.
- 41:39Amen.
- 41:40Yep.
- 41:40100%.
- 41:41Yep.
- 41:42There is one more.
- 41:44Okay.
- 41:44I'll read this one too, because I did a bad job and I need to redeem myself.
- 41:47Okay.
- 41:48Am I the a hole for not giving my cat away, even though my neighbor's kids are allergic to him?
- 41:54I got a little cat, LOL, I got a little cat almost a year ago now.
- 41:59We live in a house decided to two apartments.
- 42:04I think you're not reading that.
- 42:05I think that the people type that.
- 42:07Okay.
- 42:08We live in a house that's divided.
- 42:10Divided.
- 42:11Yeah.
- 42:11Into two apartments.
- 42:13My neighbors.
- 42:13See, this is what I mean.
- 42:14I'm black and white.
- 42:15This is what I see.
- 42:16So this is what I say.
- 42:17Okay.
- 42:17My neighbors live upstairs and didn't have an issue with their cat.
- 42:21Recently, I allowed my cat to go downstairs where the basement is.
- 42:25He likes it there because there are a lot of spiders and I think he likes to hunt.
- 42:29I don't know He's scared of going outside.
- 42:31So that's what he does and went up two times because he was curious Which was wrong.
- 42:37I know two weeks ago.
- 42:39Okay, so he went up two times to the neighbors areas Two weeks ago the neighbor knocked on our door and was like my kids have really bad allergies of hair from animals.
- 42:49So then I said, fine, we're not going to let him go out again.
- 42:52My cat always meows now and annoys us because he want to go downstairs, but we don't let him go anymore.
- 43:00Now someone was like, why don't you give him away or bring him to an animal shelter?
- 43:05Because I think, why should I change my life for someone else?
- 43:10I already try my best to keep the hair away.
- 43:12I clean a lot and don't let him go downstairs.
- 43:15Am I the a hole?
- 43:16No, but you're very ignorant.
- 43:18I'm just kidding.
- 43:19I love the reading, the inflection.
- 43:25Um, I, you know, I have like a serious, cat people don't like come for me, but I'm one not a cat person, but I'm not I cannot stand people having outdoor cat pets.
- 43:39Like they're not your pets.
- 43:40There's strays.
- 43:41They go all over.
- 43:42I cannot stand it.
- 43:44It is, we have so many in our neighborhood and they're like, if you see my cat, I'm like, keep your freaking cat.
- 43:52Contained.
- 43:52Yeah.
- 43:53Like I will be walking and like, I'll just like pop out of the gutters.
- 43:58And they're people's like pets.
- 44:00Like they're not like just stray strays.
- 44:02Yeah.
- 44:02Oh, I can't stand people that just don't take care of their animals.
- 44:07Yes.
- 44:08Well, this one likes to go hunt the spiders in the basement.
- 44:11But if your apartment is just like this area?
- 44:16Yeah.
- 44:16Your cat should be in this area.
- 44:19Agreed.
- 44:20Is the basement like a shared place?
- 44:22Right.
- 44:23I feel like it's a shared space with like laundry and stuff.
- 44:26Right.
- 44:26So like I, so the cat shouldn't be, I don't feel like the cat should be in a shared place, but I don't think you should give it away.
- 44:32I think you should just.
- 44:33I don't think that makes him an a hole though.
- 44:35No, I think he should contain his evil in his own space.
- 44:40Yes.
- 44:41And, and meowing or whatever it's doing now.
- 44:46He always meows and annoys us because he want to go downstairs, but we don't let him go anymore.
- 44:51Also get the dang thing some toys or Right, one of those little tower things cats jump on.
- 44:57I don't know, like I'm just not Yeah, I do, I don't, maybe, maybe he is or she, whoever.
- 45:04An a hole because that is disrespectful, especially if they're allergic and you're well, so they didn't know it Until the cat went up to the other apartment, which is wrong.
- 45:14Definitely.
- 45:14And I know yeah they didn't have a problem with it.
- 45:17I guess going in the basement.
- 45:18I don't know but either way like Your apartment is where your little cat's home is to me.
- 45:24It's what I feel like.
- 45:25Yeah.
- 45:26So I'm sorry.
- 45:26He's meowing a lot.
- 45:28I was in an apartment that allowed animals and somebody was allergic to dogs.
- 45:33Not that I have Rex going, but he wouldn't be like roaming.
- 45:37Right.
- 45:37But I mean, he would still have to go in the hallways and stuff.
- 45:39I would tell the person to go kick rocks.
- 45:41Yeah.
- 45:42Yeah.
- 45:43Well, my thing is, is you're in an apartment Apparently there's no rule on it, but you know you're allergic.
- 45:49That's some of that's your fault.
- 45:51Yeah, because you'd need to be in a specific place Right where I just think there's a lot of bad choices here.
- 45:57And one of them is in his grammar I'm not gonna change my live Lively for someone else.
- 46:06I already try my best Yeah.
- 46:11I mean, that's just, that's not very respectful.
- 46:13So I kind of do feel like I, like, I don't think you should give them away, but I think he's being an L for not being respectful of the other person.
- 46:20Yeah.
- 46:21Yeah.
- 46:21Well, I, I can't stand straight or not straight cats like outdoor pets.
- 46:25Yeah.
- 46:27And then I feel more, that's not just for cats.
- 46:29Like people have dogs that are like, yeah.
- 46:32I don't know.
- 46:33Yeah, I think Rex gets pampered.
- 46:35So I can't really I don't know I know I get it like you see the dogs that are on the run and they have like the all day But they don't ever go inside.
- 46:42They don't ever go inside and they have like the the dirt where they run is I know I know it's so terrible makes me so sad There was um, so, you know how they say like in the winter time if you're cold, they're cold What didn't Mike Houston put something the other day on Facebook?
- 46:58Oh, it was that alligator I posted and he was like, if you're hot, they're hot, hot.
- 47:02They need to be inside.
- 47:04I was like, like, no.
- 47:07Oh, yeah, no.
- 47:08I, well, we did have a husky growing up.
- 47:11Yeah.
- 47:11Refused to go inside.
- 47:12It hated being inside.
- 47:13Yeah.
- 47:14Even in the summer.
- 47:15I hated it.
- 47:16Not go inside.
- 47:17Yeah.
- 47:17Um, and so we did have an outside dog, but, It literally refused to go inside the house.
- 47:23Yeah.
- 47:23we had a beagle like that That we rescued and went and come inside and when it would storm like really really bad I'd almost force him to come in and just like let him have the laundry room but yeah, we would bring him inside and he would like scratch and try to anxious.
- 47:36Yeah Although we had my sister brought home a stupid cat evil thing and the cat would sit at the sliding glass door and just like taunt the dog.
- 47:46Oh my gosh, and You the screen door was just closed like not the glass door and the dog oh right through through it yeah broke the lead and i mean like chased the cat up i mean threw out the whole house oh my gosh yeah sounds like a cartoon yeah my life oh all right i still like this uh segment though so we're definitely keeping this in here and it seems like people like it yes yes And the clips that you've posted, um, are, are really funny, which is so, so keep posting them.
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