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68. Career Success Q&A Pod Exclusive Part 3 · Power Talk with Katelin Power

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  [SPEAKER_00]: Welcome to Power Talk with Caitlyn Power.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm Caitlyn, a certified clinical hypnotherapist who helps you clear out the BS of conscious beliefs that have been keeping you from reaching your goals.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And I show you how to upgrade your identity into the most confident, the filled you that you were always meant to be.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So if you're ready to stop playing small and joint transformative conversations around mindset, manifestation, business, wellness, and here from the eighth girls that are out there living their dream lives, I'm so excited to have you here.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Let's get started.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, and then the rest of these are a bit faster, I think for me to answer, because a lot of these, you'll see you have that through line.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: How can communication skills be honed to cultivate a leadership role, AKA, get people to do what, allow this again, would be something that, look at how you can increase your communication skills and what you perceive to be small ways.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: but small and big are the same in our fields.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: We only perceive them to be not as important, but the small things are what make the big things.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So how can you communicate with people that you already feel comfortable with, like a family or friends?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Better.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: How can you...
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  [SPEAKER_00]: increase that skill there and then start using it where you feel a little bit more uncomfortable, whether that's on a date or with your boss or somewhere that you would not feel as comfortable, how can you start using those skills there because you've already practiced where you feel pretty comfortable.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It could even be practicing with yourself.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It's funny you ask this as well.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, of course, because higher selfs are always working together and it feels like when things happen in my life, it all just matches up with vocation all the time because I was just talking to a friend who is an incredible intuitive herself.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And she was really nervous about having a conversation.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And mind you, I have a lot of friends who are very intuitive.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So this could be anyone.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And she was really nervous about a conversation that she needed to have that, to her was a very big conversation.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And so I was just sharing with how I would go about it, just like a few of the starting points.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And she responded to me like, I think you have a communications mastery in this lifetime,
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  [SPEAKER_00]: when which, again, huge compliment and I was like, huh, I never thought about that because when I would say things it was just like it clicked for her in a way that she thought, oh, yeah, that would be a really great way to go about it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And this was kind of like, oh, duh, like when we talked about it because if you've been in agroactivation, you can see I have been, again, very intuitively curious about certain skills and about what makes up someone who is magnetic and makes up the agro.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And what makes people be the type of people that have that it factor that people wanna be around, what builds up confidence, what builds up these,
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  [SPEAKER_00]: elements in our fields that are what get the things that you want to create in this life, it helps you get them easier and have way more fun doing it, right?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It feels playful and fun instead of feeling like your nervous system is freaking out.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: A lot of agroactivation is about really strengthening your relationships with women and men and they're very different.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I find I've studied this.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: we act and react extremely differently.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I have studied communication with men and with women and I feel that they're very different and I feel in my life I've obviously been very blessed and it's something I've really worked out.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm so grateful but I've really worked at making the friendships and romantic relationship and everything else.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: in my life, in family relationships, the best that they can be by really learning people, like really understanding what makes us react certain ways and how can we go about difficult conversations and fun times and the way that is going to be in everyone's highest good and also and the way that, again, feels like life is fun and playful.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, we grow,
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I have found a lot of clients that I've worked with, either have what I'm going to call it this, and I don't really like this word, but what people call it online is like a woman wound or like what's the other, I guess people more say just like issues with men.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think they really say like men wounds, but I find that people have a lot of trauma around
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  [SPEAKER_00]: either or or both, but they do call it a woman wound of feeling and like sisterhood wounds and stuff.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: A feeling like they just can't connect with women in a deep way because of traumatic things that they've taken on in their life of difficult relationships with women, whether it was a sister or mom or an aunt or cousin or friendships when you're a little and we take this on and again, I've worked with women that have
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  [SPEAKER_00]: these issues with women and with men or with men either one or both.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And it's because the brain often catalogs, oh, this happened.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: This was devastating for me, especially when you're a little and you have this little body, but these big big emotions.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And what your brain does is kind of classify that that especially with prominent like masculine figures or feminine figures in your life,
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  [SPEAKER_00]: masculinity or femininity or that father figure or the mother figure.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So even though it was specific to that relationship, when we're a little, our brain is like a sponge and it has it go like one plus one equals two.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So it's like, okay, if I had this really difficult relationship or even abuse ever, whatever it is, relationship with my father, this means this about all father figures
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  [SPEAKER_00]: and vice versa with women I was just using a man as an example but I've seen it both ways.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So the first thing I was saying to answer this is to work on your relationships first and feel again you don't have like this wound and it feels like if the way it's worded makes it seem like you're never going to get over this and I just don't ever I've never seen that to be the case.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Every client I've ever worked with.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: has made leaps and bounds healed things that they never thought would heal.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So everything is changeable and malleable in the brain.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Even if you are unfamiliar, I just had PTSD surface.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And mine was actually mostly about career of things that happen in my career.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So anything can be changed and healed and everything is malleable.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It's not something that I just don't like the word of it, but I want to let you know what I'm talking about.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: That it's like, oh, well, I have this and so I just have this for the rest of my life.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It's like, that's just not the case.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: We have neuroplasticity, which means that the brain is malleable, changeable.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So in the same way that you took that on to believe that at that age, we get to actually program in, like, heal what that was.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And program in the opposite of that you have really wonderful relationships.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: with men or with women whichever when you were struggling with and now you actually have really incredible relationships with women in which you feel totally safe and supported and then you know with men as well of not feeling like all men are trash and actually singing and credible man that protects you and and leads if you if that's the type of relationship that you want
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  [SPEAKER_00]: loves you in the way that you didn't believe is possible for you.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: This is all possible.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So the first answer that came up for you intuitively is just if there's anything that you feel,
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  [SPEAKER_00]: that needs to be worked on within your relationships, that's where I would start with communication and that's where I did start.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I started by studying men and women and then learning how to communicate to either one because they're different.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: They're very different.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Even the wording that I use with my male and female relationships in my life are different because
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  [SPEAKER_00]: they respond differently to different words.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I have studied and have practiced it in my life with the masculine relationships that I have in my life and the same thing goes for the feminine that I know what words to use that are better.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And again, it's not about
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  [SPEAKER_00]: manipulating anything like that's really just not what it is.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It's just like if we speak in English as women men speak in French.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So it's just learning French and we get to meet in the middle and be understood by each other so that it's in the highest good for everyone involved because if we're only using ways of communication that only women use we're not going to be able to have the best
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  [SPEAKER_00]: relationship with each other because, again, we're just not meeting each other where we feel completely seen and understood and be able to love each other in the way that we can both receive if that makes sense.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And that's all in agroactivation, if you were ever interested in that, the whole situation about healing envy and jealousy with women that's something I've seen come up time and time again as well is also in there and is in the agrohypnosis.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: There's an EFT
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So if you ever wanted to dive deeper into that, that is there for you as a resource to finish answering this question, though, with communication, again, always work with the relationships around you first, hone in the communication there first, and that will not fully develop into you being able to lead being that leadership role with excellent communication.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: That is where I would start because that's where I did start.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: and I saw that in the companies that I worked at.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I've been looking at this for a very long time and it's really fun to start practicing with the people in your life of what you learn.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And then I know that so much comes back to self image.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: But
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It does and self-love of are you leading yourself or are you a leader in your own life?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Are you leading yourself and trusting that you follow through on the things that you say you're going to do?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So everything with communication in order to be an incredible leader, which there are leadership ingredients.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: and that's something that maybe we can explore sometime, but this is where it all starts, is would you follow your own self, be the leader in your own life for you, and the people around you, and like your closer circle, and then you can expand out and really practice in the workplace more, and practice in people that you're meeting for the first time.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And it's really fun to see that you can kind of crack this code.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Do we get it right every time?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: No, we're human and obviously that's where emotional mastery comes in as well.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Of learning with things that would make us highly emotional, obviously communicating well through that is also a skill.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: But I would definitely look at building confidence.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: within yourself for sure because if you're confident in yourself, if you're walking with confidence, talking with confidence, taking action with confidence, you're going to be confident in how you communicate.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It's going to transfer there too.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So that's definitely definitely where I would start and everything builds up from there.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: That is the foundation for everything.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: that self image of how you're moving, like do like the way that you move throughout your life, like actually how you physically move through life and also like your career moves, like do trust in those.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And also there is an option to buy a she's a success hip noces that I'm currently listening to and loving every second of it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And this is all in there of walking with confidence, taking action with confidence, talking with confidence of being a leader,
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  [SPEAKER_00]: and loving your career moves of really backing yourself and trusting your career moves.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So all these things that you would need for the foundations to be a success, plus all of the ingredients that are inside of she's a success, the course are in that hypnosis.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: that you can buy as an add-on if you wanted to that you'll see when you go to check out Jesus Success if you wanted to grab that and it's funny because as I'm speaking out like I'm channeling and I'm like everything I'm saying is in that hypnosis and I promised I did not play on that but there it is.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Another question here is when you get work reflections, but you're not in your soul pool, what area of life is this?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Social question mark and this is a great question.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It's not a super easy answer.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: This is something that I was really curious about when I started really crafting and honing in my intuition skills.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And what I found with this is for the most part, it's physical.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So physical activities obviously going to work and doing that to these that you do in your career.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Whatever activities those are in your nine to five or if you have a part-time job.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: She's asking if you're not doing what you might call your sole pull career, which again is a whole another episode for another day because you're often doing things for your sole pull in that nine to five or in your part-time.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Like when I was in my nine to five, I was always
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  [SPEAKER_00]: building my soul pole, but just to like generalize it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: If we're generalizing it that way, she's asking what your other job that you're doing right now to make money before you can go full time and what you want to do, if that's what you're wanting in this situation, which this is a one on one client.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I know that that's what she's talking about.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: In this scenario, this would be mainly physical I have and she's also right because she said social question mark I have seen it be social and then the one other thing it can be as well is it can be vocation a little bit if again your
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  [SPEAKER_00]: job that you're doing that nine to five for the part time has multiple factors of your sole pull-up like your building multiple skills for that sole pull career if you will in it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So it's confusing because it could be social, physical and vocation, depending I typically see it being mostly physical unless it has to do like if the reflection has to do with
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  [SPEAKER_00]: a reflection that occurred with a colleague or your boss, that might tend to be more towards the social area of life.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: But I know this might be really confusing for people listening, that are not professional and tutives.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: You might be going, what are we talking about?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And we're talking about the eight areas of life.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So when something happens, I reflection.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: which if you're completely new to reflections I talk about it a lot in this podcast here so you'll find out more in other episodes there's also an intro to decoding reflections model inside of the membership manifest from power of the membership and when you have a reflection so it's something popping up that you're not enjoying so you get an argument or you got a
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  [SPEAKER_00]: or you have a headache.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It can be any sort of thing that pops up that you're not looking at.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: There's a message there that you're able to decode from higher self to actually give you an upgrade.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It's where you've actually been limiting yourself and higher self does not want you to ever feel limited.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: You are a limitless.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So it will show you where you're limiting yourself and get that message that is through kind of like higher self language, if you will, like we're talking about English or French or whatever.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It's telling you something there that you actually can get the gold from there and then completely upgrade your life.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: When it happens, and so say it happen in your workplace of your nine to five or a part-time job and say you're building like a soul-pull career of what you, your soul most would want you doing in this lifetime for money.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So maybe you want to be an author in your soul-pull.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: and you're working at a newspaper right now.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So if it happened in that job, the reflection, so maybe your boss recommended you, that in that scenario is probably going to lean more social because of where the reflection reflected, but not where originated.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So she knows this, where the reflection is reflecting, is almost always not where it's originating.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: In that instance, it's probably more social because it's that social aspect of the job of where it is reflecting so then you would know you're probably not originating in your social area of life if you had a scenario where
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  [SPEAKER_00]: you turn something in and you missed something on your Excel sheet and you made a mistake.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: That reflection is probably going to be in your physical area of life.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So that's when I'm saying it's typically physical unless it feels like a it's very social and the reflection it might be social and then it also could be vocation, say you were doing your presentation and you're working on your communication skills and front of
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  [SPEAKER_00]: your whole team and you communicate something that you feel like was poorly done or there was a question that you couldn't answer.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: That might be vocation.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I hope that clears it up quite a bit but what I would do personally and what I do do in this scenario, I used to look like oh where is this actually because I was so curious but I would just look where the reflection is originating.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So where
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And yes, it helps you to know where it's not because of where it's reflecting, but I would just look to see which area or areas of life are most responsible for that reflection.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And then that way, you know, for sure, of where it's actually happening.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And to anyone listening that's confused, if it was happening and say it was happening in your physical area of life,
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  [SPEAKER_00]: in your job of you made a mistake on your Excel sheet and you made an error and you're really worried about that error now and it's in that physical error life is worth reflecting.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: The root cause of the error might be in a financial where you feel like you made an error financially with like a decision you made financially and so that's reflecting in your physical area of life in the 95 but it's actually financial so if
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  [SPEAKER_00]: you're going to solve the reflection by seeing where you feel like you made an error financially and showing yourself that you didn't make an error there, getting whatever tool you need to resolve this and then that will resolve that reflection so that reflections like that of you making the error in your nine to five don't need to keep happening to get your attention.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: These two questions I feel like were answered mostly in the first part.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So go to part one to listen to that one.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It's how do you do what you love from your heart every day instead of survival slash the grind?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And then another person wrote, how do you prioritize your business while also being tired at a different job?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like I did answer those in part one.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I would just add here.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: use the universal law of focus in your favorite.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: If we're always focused on not getting the results that we wanted and being tired and not seeing the rewards, which is where I go into Part 1, we're often so tired because we're not rewarding ourselves enough with small rewards, of like rewarding your human self of doing the thing, of showing up being brave like day after day when you feel like you're not getting the results.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: we're not giving ourselves enough praise and reward along the way.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So go to part one for that and then what I would add about doing what you love from your heart is really focusing on what is it that we're doing and like why are we doing it?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Like I'm doing it because I knew I was here to help people in this way and I knew from starting to study this and practice it and then getting results back.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I knew I was really good at this.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I knew in the very beginning that I had an untapped skill, when I was so curious about it, then I was starting to have this poll, like the soul poll, of like, wait a minute, I think I could do this too.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Of, I could be a hypnot therapist too, and I think I could be really good at this.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And then when I started training and I was in my first certification, I got certified and did a whole another year study after my first one.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: But as we started practicing, like you have to practice and pass all these tests where you practice with other people and then you practice with the teacher watching your sessions as well.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And they have to sign off and you have to do certain amount and you have to do a written test and do all these things.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And every time I was doing it, I was so confident even when I was scared.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So like I was gonna use the the opposite the poop word when I was scared out of my mind You'll say that I was scared out of my mind so nervous of doing this because I'd never fully done it before Even when I was scared I did really well where
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  [SPEAKER_00]: the people in my practice groups were saying you have this natural skill about you with this and I felt it too and I'm not trying to sound like a total dehead just saying like oh how great I am but I have programmed in my field to be great at what I do and I highly recommend that you do the same because
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  [SPEAKER_00]: how are you ever going to have a business doing what you do and do well at it if you don't actually believe that you do well at it so we need to believe this I never want to hire someone that's not confident in what they do but you'll also see you will get these markers from the universe and the people around you and yourself of going like even I probably made so many mistakes and the first few times that I did it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: But I knew that there was something untapped there.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And I was just starting to tap into it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So focus on why do you do this?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Like some part of you has to love it where you're on your way to loving it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Like there's an interest there.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: There's a curiosity there.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: There's a pole there.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: For me, I started to go, what if I could do this as my day-to-day life, where even when I really love doing things like the makeup company, I had so much fun creating those makeup palettes.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I did all this custom art for the palettes.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: The colors, I thought were so cool.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: The makeup was great quality, and I had never seen anything like the thing that I made.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And so I woke up excited every day to work on it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And I knew that creating my own business was something that I definitely needed to walk towards.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And as we can see, I barely wear makeup now.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I still think it's so fun to play with, but it was only a part of what I was being led to do.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: that never let me up in the way that doing something that I know transforms lives does and not to say what so ever that creating makeup or anything to do with makeup or artistry doesn't change lives because it does.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And just for me specifically, I couldn't see the end of vision the way that I could when I started.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: getting my certification and hypnotherapy of seeing the results and the transformation I was having on people By obviously rewiring their subconscious and then having things that they were so insecure about or had been such a big thing for them to overcome Seeing them overcoming nothing hit like that but like anything I had done before had never hit like that So I knew and could see the vision of like what if I get really really really good at this
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And what if I get to do this all the time?
• 24:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: And that's just how it built from there.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And then obviously, in tuition came in, I had had people throughout my life saying, I was really psychic.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Like people that were psychic.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And I'd prefer the word intuitive.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: But they had said kind of like, why would you ever talk to me like you have this skill?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm going, you are off your rocker.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And then obviously fast word, train my intuition and I felt the same way about that and then learning how to be a healer.
• 24:34
  [SPEAKER_00]: The same way about being an intuitive and being a healer, I felt about being a hypotherpist and then learning how I could intertwine all of them.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: In a way that
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  [SPEAKER_00]: You was uniquely special to me, and I've never seen anyone doing that the way that I do it, I could see the vision and I was just pulled toward every day.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So on the days that it was tired on the day that I felt like I'm just having to survive and it's like grinding grinding grinding.
• 25:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: I just had to take human breaks and again, in part one, I talk about this, take human breaks when you need to take them.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Make sure you're enjoying your life.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Make sure you're filling up your own cup first.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Make sure you're sleeping.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Make sure you're eating well.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Make sure you're having a fun time with your girlfriends.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Go dance your booty off on your at your local dance floor.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: make sure you're living your life.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Make sure you're having time for your family and your passions and your hobbies outside of work.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Take those breaks when you need them and make sure that those things are a part of your your consistent schedule that you're fitting them in and then
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Make sure that you can have a schedule that you can stick to and then you can always build it up later.
• 25:43
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like if you can commit to one email or one brainstorming session or one session or one product brainstorming of like creating your business or of one tick talk or whatever it is, so you can commit to it once a week do that until you've done it for three months straight.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Then if you can bump up to two times a week, then do that.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: We often just take on way too much and over, while myself and then quit.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So do what you can take on, build it up, step by step.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And I've done this before two.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, oh, I'm gonna work out.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: four times a week when I only work out one time a week now and every time I miss them or I might do it for two weeks of working out maybe three times and not even hit the four and then I'm back to my one time a week so we have to build it up, we have to work with our brain with our subconscious instead of against it and then like I talk about in part one
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Remind yourself when you're tired, when your other job is driving you nuts and you're just so annoyed, remind yourself, yeah, but one day I'm going to look back, my future self is going to think me and I think my my past self every freaking day, like I'm not even kidding, I think about it often, maybe not every day, but I think of it often of
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  [SPEAKER_00]: how brave I was when everyone, at least how it felt that everyone thought what I was doing was like silly and they didn't really get it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: How driven I was on the days that I was tired and I still committed to that schedule.
• 27:21
  [SPEAKER_00]: Again, like I'm saying, take the breaks when you need to, but also make sure you get in the rhythm of that schedule and push
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  [SPEAKER_00]: push past the the original resistance of getting into the rhythm.
• 27:34
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then when you're in the rhythm, if you need to take a break, take a break and honor yourself, use your intuition of when you need to take a break.
• 27:40
  [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, this is my last question, letting things unfold.
• 27:43
  [SPEAKER_00]: This is a membership and mentorship client.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And I believe knowing her, she's asking, how can you trust and letting things unfold?
• 27:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: When everything is obviously still walking itself out in your physical reality, and again, I just go back to feminine magnetism, your crust in God and your higher self of knowing that you're not doing this alone.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: You were not doing this alone.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: You never for one second did this alone.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: unless you continually put into your field that you have to do everything yourself and you do everything alone.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It's going to make it really hard.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: You're still not alone, but it's going to make it really hard for you to see that support and that magic come in.
• 28:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: And also like the masculine support that comes in to help you and allows you to be in your feminine more.
• 28:30
  [SPEAKER_00]: And this is why I'm so obsessed with feminine magnetism, but this is how we let things unfold.
• 28:35
  [SPEAKER_00]: Is I know that I show up each day.
• 28:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: And sometimes my best looks different each day, but I always show up at my best.
• 28:43
  [SPEAKER_00]: So sometimes my best, I think it's going to be like, how it was yesterday.
• 28:46
  [SPEAKER_00]: When I got way more done than I thought I would, and I was like, whoa,
• 28:50
  [SPEAKER_00]: Caitlin, look at what he did today.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: The next day, I might get like one thing done, but that was my best for that day.
• 28:58
  [SPEAKER_00]: And also that day of rest allows me to have days where I'm able to pop off and be like, whoa, look what I did.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So we see how this all works together.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: We see how it all.
• 29:10
  [SPEAKER_00]: helps like the days that we don't do as much allow us to do the days that we do so much.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I know I'm never doing this alone.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I don't have to do everything myself.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I trust and God.
• 29:22
  [SPEAKER_00]: I trust in myself.
• 29:24
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I show up every day.
• 29:26
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I know damn well that I have been working on my fields.
• 29:31
  [SPEAKER_00]: I know damn well.
• 29:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: I listen to a hypnosis every day right now.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm listening to one at in the morning and one at night right now And I'm listening to Jesus success and it's fantastic.
• 29:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I know that just that alone.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I am showing up
• 29:46
  [SPEAKER_00]: To me, it's only when my brain is going to go into patterns of feeling like I didn't do enough, which is something I've worked really hard on, of knowing that I absolutely do enough.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And that my best is enough every day.
• 30:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: And that's something that's like a default thing for me now.
• 30:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: I used to that took me a while like there was so many facets facets of that one that I needed to specifically rewire and with that I now just trust that like I'm not alone.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm doing my best.
• 30:19
  [SPEAKER_00]: And the amount of work that I do on my field, which, again, doesn't feel like work, like it's like the hypnosis.
• 30:24
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm having fun putting my ingredients in.
• 30:26
  [SPEAKER_00]: I have fun doing inspired actions towards what I'm doing, like, aligned intuitive actions towards what I'm creating.
• 30:36
  [SPEAKER_00]: I know I'm doing more than like the majority of the world that just is walking through their life on autopilot of just programming that they've picked up from society and media and these contagions around us of all these limitations of what we are dreams we had all these dreams and like that has not really realistic and the grind and all the things.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I know that I'm doing so much more.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm prioritizing myself so much more than the average person.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Like that's just the case for all of us here.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: That all of us put effort in.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And we are hitting the targets.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: that most people don't even touch like most of us listening are hitting that 95% subconscious regularly if not every day.
• 31:27
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I can let things unfold because I know what I created.
• 31:31
  [SPEAKER_00]: I know what I intended with my energetically print, which again I teach you and she's a success how to do.
• 31:36
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then I know that I work on my fields consistently upgrading them all the time.
• 31:41
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I can just let things unfold while I do my thing.
• 31:45
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm doing my thing, I'm enjoying life, I show up every day at my best, sometimes my best is different each day.
• 31:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then I trust in my co-creator, God, who is the creator of all things.
• 31:58
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then my higher self, who is me, just with complete access to everything source information.
• 32:07
  [SPEAKER_00]: And doesn't have the human contingents placed on my higher self, right?
• 32:12
  [SPEAKER_00]: My higher self doesn't have those.
• 32:13
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I have direct access to both the higher self and God.
• 32:17
  [SPEAKER_00]: So what is there to not trust?
• 32:20
  [SPEAKER_00]: And when my human does that, it's just it growing my way through it, explaining myself through that and the process I just did for you.
• 32:26
  [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, this went above and beyond.
• 32:29
  [SPEAKER_00]: I might break this up into part two and part three.
• 32:31
  [SPEAKER_00]: So you might be listening to part three right now.
• 32:34
  [SPEAKER_00]: And because this is long and I don't even know if we'll let me put this file in this long.
• 32:40
  [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you for being here.
• 32:41
  [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you for your incredible questions.
• 32:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: If I did not get to your question, maybe we just need to do these more often.
• 32:46
  [SPEAKER_00]: I know I've done a membership Q&A.
• 32:48
  [SPEAKER_00]: That was so much fun.
• 32:50
  [SPEAKER_00]: So maybe we amp up the amount of times that we do these.
• 32:54
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• 33:46
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• 34:11
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• 34:25
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• 34:32
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• 34:35
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• 34:37
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• 34:40
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• 34:44
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm probably taking a quick quick break from the podcast while I'm suffering with my family.
• 34:49
  [SPEAKER_00]: We're doing a beach situation that I'm so looking forward to and then I'll come back even more revived and refreshed, ready for whatever is next for us and more podcast episodes.
• 35:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: I hope you have an incredible incredible summer and I will talk to you so soon.